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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for telling my son that

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Speaker 4: I think I think you should have banked them aware

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Speaker 2: You shouldn't have got there for her. Yeah, she's taking.

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Speaker 4: But if any other scenario in a loving way, we

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Speaker 2: And that context comes from son's pregnant girlfriend has some context,

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Speaker 2: Son's pregnant.

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Speaker 2: That's a lot of context. That is a that's a

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Speaker 1: Actually she doesn't read it.

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Speaker 2: Grow away relationship advice. That's what it was. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: thank you everyone in the comments who told me what

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Speaker 2: that meant. All right, let's get into it. My son,

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Speaker 2: Lucas nineteen, has been dating Maya nineteen for just a year,

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Speaker 2: Lucas has a job at his dad's company, making close

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Speaker 1: What do you do with what? How do you wait?

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Speaker 1: Nineteen working twenty hours a week. Oh my gosh, come.

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Speaker 2: On, how much you have to wait?

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Speaker 2: Two hundred and eight dollars per hour a lot?

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Speaker 2: Being nineteen dollars nineteen nineteen dollars nineteen years old.

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Speaker 2: Well, anyway, let's keep going. Maya is not for mobile

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Speaker 2: She's depressed. She lost her baby. That okay. Also, I

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Speaker 1: Oh, okay, this is stop.

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Speaker 4: This is tough because she went through a very similar

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Speaker 2: First of all, we I don't like I feel like

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Speaker 2: We don't know if this really you know, Lucas's rich

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Speaker 2: There are some relevant comments sound new Zach says, Maya

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Speaker 2: I obviously never had a miscarriage, but that is that

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Speaker 1: At the beginning, Maya didn't like she like, yeah, she

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Speaker 4: Yeah, literally, that's crazy and bro's making two hundred k

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Speaker 2: Two hundred k, and he can't spare a little bit

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Speaker 4: I really want to know more about their relationship, like

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Speaker 2: Seems like it's I don't know. We don't know because

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Speaker 2: A lot has changed in the past three months. First,

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Speaker 2: You haven't talked to them in three months. Shortly after

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Speaker 1: Let's go. We love to see it.

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Speaker 2: Maya just started a small business and they got two

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Speaker 2: Maya and Lucas posted a pregnancy announcement today. Maya is

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Speaker 4: Yike, that's really awful. But like you should have saw

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Speaker 2: Make those comments, especially after from what it seems like

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Speaker 1: This is very sad. She seems to be like, oh,

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Speaker 2: It seems like it seems like she like looked, you know,

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Speaker 2: So I'm hoping that she's grown, because she definitely did

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Speaker 1: So happened in November twenty fourth or twenty twenty three.

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Speaker 2: I really hope that they're able to you know, she's

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Speaker 4: You know what you can give back to us though

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Speaker 4: this next story, we're killing all these transitions.

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Speaker 2: She tuk my mother, mum, I am I the ahole

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Speaker 2: for being upset about debt. My girlfriend took on to

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Speaker 2: help her family. This is okayop Home to the craziest

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Speaker 4: Thoughts, Hey, you gotta help your family out here and

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Speaker 4: there you know, so you don't need to be mad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, give it's two hundred k, let them help her.

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Speaker 1: If it's a million dollars, let her helper. You can

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Speaker 2: I do think it depends on how much and if

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Speaker 4: This is the best way to thank the parents that

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Speaker 1: But they are in their thirties.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it depends on a hole that she's not

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Speaker 2: There is twenty two years left on the mortgage, and

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Speaker 2: My girlfriend had no other debts aside from this mortgage,

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Speaker 4: I mean, I feel like you need to have a conversation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that sounds like the brothers are gonna take off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna have to have a conversation.

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Speaker 4: She's not going to be paying He's looking at it

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Speaker 4: and he's like, hey, she's going to be working this

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: that's gonna be tough. Yeah, he's looking at his eye.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna be a tough deck gate ahead of me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I think it would. It definitely would make

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna take them back. I don't think there's any

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Speaker 1: Sounds like a conversation.

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Speaker 2: I think it's a conversation. I think it is a

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Speaker 2: relevant comments. Okay, Maddie's my dog says. Look, if you

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Speaker 2: comes and goes. You both can make more to cover

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Speaker 2: trying to help her parents. Her intentions are good. She's

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Speaker 2: a keeper, that's true, OPI replied, I know, but I

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Speaker 2: also wanted an expensive house, and I don't think I

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Speaker 2: can get that with her, So why shouldn't I get

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Speaker 2: my million dollar home? Woo?

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Speaker 3: That was.

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Speaker 2: I wanted an expensive home.

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Speaker 1: And I what So where did that come from?

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Speaker 2: It doesn't really sound like you actually love this person.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, unless you live in California, then a millienaire a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's a million dollar home.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, assuming you're not in California.

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Speaker 1: You're the hole.

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Speaker 4: You're the a hole if you are in California, then

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're on the ice because she's trying to help

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Speaker 1: Why do you say that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, that's so weird. That's such a weird

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Speaker 2: Thank you for your help. My girlfriend is a very

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Speaker 2: of the opposite mind when it comes to these things.

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Speaker 2: I think it's something she highly values. Appreciate your perspective.

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Speaker 1: Her family.

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Speaker 4: Her mom is like disabled to yeah, exactly like your dad.

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Speaker 4: Seems probably all your mother's.

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Speaker 2: Dealing with the disability, and like she's trying to help them,

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Speaker 2: And I think he needs to, like, he needs to

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Speaker 2: some There's two last comments from Ope in response to

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Speaker 2: that million dollar comment. No, I'm not a sociopath. I

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Speaker 2: I sacrifice that? If I leave, I might find another

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Speaker 2: get the million dollar home I've always wanted. If I

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Speaker 2: a partner to help you buy a house? Buddy, it

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Speaker 2: sounds like you don't actually care who the girl is. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: as long as you have someone who can afford to

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Speaker 2: buy a house. That's such a wild thing to say.

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Speaker 1: This is a very wild thing to say, And like,

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Speaker 1: who says you can't do it? Later? I guess he

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Speaker 2: He's like, I want to now.

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Speaker 1: You should have probably pursued another career if you really

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I think you should break up with her because

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Speaker 2: you don't. It doesn't seem like you really like her.

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Speaker 1: She should break up with you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, actually sorry, yeah, yeah, so I just.

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Speaker 1: Read a post to her. Yeah she's going to break

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Speaker 2: Yeah? No, no, no, I meant that in that way. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he's this is such an ale. You're tak about the ahole,

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Speaker 2: You're the a whole. I took quick I know a

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Speaker 2: Is this an update?

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Speaker 1: Yo? This is from the girlfriend Oh.

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Speaker 2: My god, drama drama, drama, drama. Okay, okay. This is

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Speaker 2: my boyfriend posted about wanting to dump me for taking

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Speaker 2: on a mortgage to help my family. As you can tell,

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Speaker 2: I found his post and I have broken things off

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Speaker 2: with him. Good she found it. Yes, I am so

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Speaker 2: grateful for all your comments and for everyone who provided

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Speaker 2: their thoughts. Reading the post was one of the hardest

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Speaker 2: things I've ever had to go through, and this situation

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Speaker 2: has caused me a lot of anxiety and worry. But

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Speaker 2: I'm glad I found it. I'm worry that I may

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Speaker 2: not ever find a partner willing to stick it out

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Speaker 2: have to keep going. I'll keep working hard and hoping

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Speaker 2: that I'll find someone who won't ask me to compromise

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Speaker 2: my values to make him happy. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate you. Ope, he did not deserve her. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: she like again, I understand being hesitant to take like

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Speaker 2: could pay for a house. Give me my house, like,

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Speaker 2: give me my realily not house. Such a whiner, Like I'm.

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Speaker 1: So glad you found this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like she's trying to help her parents out and

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Speaker 2: he is just whining about this. Yeah no, like not

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Speaker 2: even not even not even talking to her, like just

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Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, she's a hard worker, family oriented, and she's

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Speaker 4: just like.

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Speaker 2: You said before, she offered to pick up like a

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Speaker 2: for the money that you can bring in that for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you found out.

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Speaker 6: My shortking fiance won't let me wear heels to my wedding.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god goodness, oh wow.

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Speaker 6: My fiance Mail thirty one is short. He has always

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Speaker 6: been a source of insecurity for him, and he takes

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Speaker 3: Seriously, what comments like yo, high five?

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Speaker 5: Sorry my bad you're short.

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Speaker 3: Hey, don't get short with me, buddy.

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Speaker 6: Come on, I'm sure it's got to be like the like,

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Speaker 6: wow your short comments. You know, like you guys are

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Speaker 3: We are so tall, you know, we're both like six eight.

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Speaker 6: I can't thought you were seven feet.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: People get that mixed up all the time, the short people.

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Speaker 6: You guys were taller than I thought you would be.

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Speaker 6: I was like, oh they tall.

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Speaker 6: With their wedding approaching, he asked if I'd consider wearing

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Speaker 6: and he kept calling me selfish and ink consider it

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00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:03,600
Speaker 6: and said that I prioritized a pair of high heels

445
00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:06,320
Speaker 6: over his comfort and happiness for the big dip.

446
00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:08,920
Speaker 3: There's an easy solution to this. Wear high heels, man.

447
00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:13,639
Speaker 3: Now we're and they could be tasteful too, Like you

448
00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:16,080
Speaker 3: can wear you know, like those rock like shoes where

449
00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:18,040
Speaker 3: they're like, you know, well, obviously we know about rock

450
00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:20,479
Speaker 3: shoes because yeah, it's a rock convention.

451
00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:22,080
Speaker 6: Platform shoes.

452
00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:25,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, platform shoes. Bro, you can wear like platform

453
00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:27,400
Speaker 3: dress shoes. Imagine how hard this are.

454
00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:30,159
Speaker 7: Or just or maybe we just fully commit and then

455
00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:32,560
Speaker 7: it's like those like creeper boots where it's like this

456
00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:35,520
Speaker 7: tall yeah, go dudeper boots. But then he also has

457
00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:38,560
Speaker 7: to wear a spiked collar and get yes, it becomes

458
00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:40,240
Speaker 7: a gothway. He has to commit.

459
00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:42,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, so what you would have to do is do

460
00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,480
Speaker 6: that on Halloween because you could totally get away with

461
00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:44,800
Speaker 6: it on.

462
00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:49,120
Speaker 7: Halloween Halloween wedding. See, we are giving you solutions, just listen.

463
00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:49,760
Speaker 5: Sorry.

464
00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,240
Speaker 3: I also saw there was a Reddit post where it

465
00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:55,399
Speaker 3: was like it was a picture of everyone Halloween costumes

466
00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:58,679
Speaker 3: and it was like my mom and dad invited everyone

467
00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:02,400
Speaker 3: to a Halloween party. When they got there, everyone found

468
00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,600
Speaker 3: out it was their wedding and they just got married

469
00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:05,440
Speaker 3: in front of all their friasts.

470
00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:07,080
Speaker 6: That's iconic genius.

471
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:11,000
Speaker 3: They weren't wearing any costumes. They were just like the

472
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Speaker 3: bridal gown.

473
00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:12,760
Speaker 5: Oh no, you have to.

474
00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:17,240
Speaker 7: If you can do a surprise Halloween wedding.

475
00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,400
Speaker 6: Then that's where you dress up like the couple from

476
00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:19,080
Speaker 6: the Corpse Bride.

477
00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:22,600
Speaker 3: You know, smart smart? Oh that Actually, I've.

478
00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:24,879
Speaker 6: Thought about it this a lot, and I considered a

479
00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:25,639
Speaker 6: Halloween wedding.

480
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Speaker 7: Really, so can you commit on this podcast that you

481
00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:31,040
Speaker 7: will have you will have that wedding.

482
00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, we already have our venue booked.

483
00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:35,160
Speaker 5: I don't I don't want to hear excuses.

484
00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:38,440
Speaker 3: I only want to hear you commit to this. And also,

485
00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,199
Speaker 3: just because you have your wedding book doesn't mean you

486
00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,879
Speaker 3: can't get some spooky lanterns and like uh and some

487
00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:44,720
Speaker 3: like cobwebs. There's still time.

488
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Speaker 6: There is still time, yes, and it's it's like October

489
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,360
Speaker 6: right now, so I could definitely find it.

490
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Speaker 5: It's a spooky season.

491
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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know. My mom really wants me to

492
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:55,480
Speaker 6: do be dazzled convers at my wedding.

493
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Speaker 3: I love that.

494
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Speaker 6: I don't we're getting married. I actually don't even think

495
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,880
Speaker 6: it could use babby heels anyways, because.

496
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:02,920
Speaker 5: Grass dabby heels.

497
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 6: Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah, like silettos, like I could

498
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:07,880
Speaker 6: probably do like a wedge that's like a block, but

499
00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 6: I don't like wearing heels anyways, And every wedding I've

500
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,040
Speaker 6: been to, I do not come off the dance floor

501
00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 6: the whole time. So like comfortable shoes is the plan.

502
00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:19,440
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm down with it.

503
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 6: I'm like we'd have to like figure out a way

504
00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:23,200
Speaker 6: to make them look classy.

505
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, what do you.

506
00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:27,600
Speaker 3: Mean, but dazzled converse aren't instantly classy. What are you

507
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:32,160
Speaker 3: talking about the dazzled track now, but dazzle everything?

508
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:32,480
Speaker 5: Yeah?

509
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:34,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, had is mom involved, and she's pushing me to

510
00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:37,159
Speaker 6: reconsider when I refuse to discuss it. She said that

511
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 6: my unwillingness cooberate is a huge indicator of my level

512
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 6: of maturity. She then went on a long rant about

513
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 6: what links real wives are willing to go to help

514
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:49,480
Speaker 6: out their husbands and said that I'm apparently too immature

515
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 6: and shallow to be committed in a marriage if I

516
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 6: make such an issue out of it, and obviously.

517
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 3: Too tall too.

518
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 5: You know, I it just impresses me.

519
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 7: It just impresses me sometimes, the words that people will

520
00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 7: speak from their elves. Yeah, I am like, I just

521
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 7: can't imagine saying something so mind numbingly insane to someone like, yeah,

522
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 7: how do you do that?

523
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,400
Speaker 6: It's super weird for me because I'm in the same shoes.

524
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,880
Speaker 6: I am engaged, I'm planning a wedding and my fiance

525
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 6: is shorter, and I'm like, I just I'm like, why

526
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 6: does everyone care so much.

527
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,120
Speaker 3: I mean, isn't it enough that like she's like marrying

528
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,239
Speaker 3: the guy, Like she's like, I chose you in all

529
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 3: of your uh stature of glory.

530
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,960
Speaker 7: The lesson here is love is not enough. Yeah, that's

531
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 7: the lesson of the day.

532
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Speaker 5: Yo.

533
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Speaker 3: If you're not six foot, I guess you're you're fucked.

534
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 2: Uh. Yeah.

535
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Speaker 6: I always make the joke because people know, ohe short,

536
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,679
Speaker 6: graandm is and I'm like, I'm like, I don't get it.

537
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 6: It'll be like Graham's so short. I'm like and it's

538
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 6: like I used to. I'm like genetically like a quarter

539
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 6: ALLIANTI tan really well out in the sun. When I

540
00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 6: just sting long distantuntings up in the sun all the time,

541
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 6: people look and be like, you're so tan, and I'm

542
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 6: like a funny.

543
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 3: Way saying you're Italian, I'm genetically a quarter Italian.

544
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 6: Because because then I'm like, oh, I'm it, be like

545
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,639
Speaker 6: what part of Italy are you from? Like no, no, no,

546
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 6: just like yeah, it's just like side yeah, yeah, I

547
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:15,919
Speaker 6: respect it.

548
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 5: I can respect it accuracy.

549
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 6: I've gotten very sensitive to it because I say that

550
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:24,199
Speaker 6: online and people like, you're not Italian, You're American, You're

551
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:27,120
Speaker 6: stupid American. I'm like, I know we're stupid, but I'm

552
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:28,640
Speaker 6: just trying to explain something.

553
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 1: How dare you explain?

554
00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 3: Some people get mad at you for saying you're a

555
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 3: quarter Italian.

556
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 6: Uh yeah, I've had actual like yeah, I've had that

557
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 6: before in person. It's been so awkward where they're like,

558
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 6: you're an American and you're like, stop trying to claim

559
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,159
Speaker 6: like whatever, I'm like, what I'm not. I just like

560
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 6: I'm trying to explain why why I can tan and

561
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 6: why like I can look really pale but also look

562
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,120
Speaker 6: a lot darker than how I look now?

563
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:54,640
Speaker 7: Didn't you know that explaining your tanning is unacceptable?

564
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 6: Apparently?

565
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't want to hear where you came from.

566
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 5: I don't want to hear about your story. Not interested.

567
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, just kidding the other people like, I actually don't

568
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 3: want to hear anything. Please stop telling me about it.

569
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, to pull back to GRAM so people will be like, oh,

570
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 6: he's so sure, and his mom mentioned like oh, you

571
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 6: get people mentioning that. I'm like, yeah, usually what I

572
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 6: say is that he would have been too powerful if

573
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,159
Speaker 6: he was tall, you know, and have like that's my

574
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 6: PG answer, my non PG answer is that the universe

575
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:33,159
Speaker 6: took a few heights from one spoty.

576
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Speaker 5: And that's what we're talking about.

577
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 6: No one ever makes that comment again.

578
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 5: The door shut.

579
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's funny when also people ask you like when

580
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 6: are you having kids? And be like, I don't know,

581
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 6: when do you think I'm having kids? I like just

582
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,680
Speaker 6: like answer tomorrow and they're like, oh, when are you

583
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 6: having kids? Tomorrow? And then what you're like tomorrow.

584
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,119
Speaker 3: The optimum time? When do people start asking you that, Like, once.

585
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Speaker 6: You're second you get engaged. I mean I've alway he's

586
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,360
Speaker 6: gotten that because it's Graham, and then people are thirty too.

587
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:07,360
Speaker 6: I'm like, difference for guys. I'm twenty four. No, but yeah,

588
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 6: the second we got engaged. Oh, so when are you

589
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 6: guys having kids?

590
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:13,880
Speaker 7: Like, yeah, goddamn unacceptable. You cannot enjoy your life make

591
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 7: babies now.

592
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 5: To say for yourself, that's what I thought.

593
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 6: Am I being selfish? It's not just about what I want,

594
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 6: but the high heels help make the wedding dress look better,

595
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 6: and I feel I deserve to look my best at

596
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 6: my own wedding, just like every bride stream. His insecurity

597
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 6: is preventing me from getting that. Am I the asshole again.

598
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 7: I just I'm floored humans first think these words then

599
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 7: have the audacity to speak.

600
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Speaker 1: Them out loud.

601
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 5: It just blows me away. I shouldn't be surprised this.

602
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's definitely like like a little I mean,

603
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,400
Speaker 3: he's just insecure. I don't think she's an a hole,

604
00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 3: but like, there.

605
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:52,879
Speaker 6: Might be some edits on this that make some of

606
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 6: this make more sense. So to clarify, I'm slightly taller,

607
00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 6: but he said he doesn't want me to look any

608
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,719
Speaker 6: taller than that, So apparently it's just a slight thing.

609
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 6: But she puts on a few more inches, it'll look

610
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 6: really big. Okay. The guests he was talking about are

611
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,679
Speaker 6: his male friends and the men in the family. They

612
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 6: comment on his height all the time, calling him names

613
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 6: from Shorty, Kuala, little d what and hobbit, and the

614
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 6: list is long. They even have a list of jokes

615
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 6: about him, Like I said, I'm slightly taller and he

616
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 6: doesn't want me to be any taller. We had similar

617
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 6: arguments about this height issue before, but this is the

618
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 6: first time he asked me not to wear heels. Other

619
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 6: times he lets me wear them. Sometimes he refuses to

620
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 6: attend events with me, I'm twenty seven. For those who

621
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 6: were asking about my age, I was so happy that

622
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 6: update wasn't there because I'm like, this literally sounds like.

623
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Speaker 3: Ah, man, he won't attend events. Why it feels like

624
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,399
Speaker 3: it's less to do with like his wife or his

625
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 3: fiance and more than you. Just like all the men

626
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 3: and his family are just clowning on him.

627
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 6: Because it sounds like that insecurity most people like have

628
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 6: an insecurity, Like we aren't born with insecurities. It's usually given.

629
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 6: But like, yeah, I get where You're like, these people

630
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 6: are gonna make fun of me and they're going to

631
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 6: be at the wedding. I mean one like is wrong

632
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 6: with them.

633
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 3: We fight people that actively make fun of you on

634
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 3: your special day. No, if your wedding, you can like

635
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 3: in fight whoever you want.

636
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, I literally So I was asking because I found

637
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,679
Speaker 6: this story. I was asking my fiance Graham about this

638
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 6: and he was like, I was like, does it bother you?

639
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 6: And he's like, no, I like it when you wear heels.

640
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 6: It makes it look like such a power move. He's like,

641
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,199
Speaker 6: because he's like, then you look like, you know, like

642
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 6: some girls model height next to me. Yeah, Like, as

643
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 6: I'm walking around like, yeah, now it's a power move.

644
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 6: I love it when you wear heels and we're out

645
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 6: in public and I'm like it, and you know, sometimes

646
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,199
Speaker 6: it can put them an optimal hype to be at

647
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 6: certain levels certain parts of my anatomy. So he's fine.

648
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 5: That is what a.

649
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 7: Short king sounds like, ladies, Yeah, it's let it be

650
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 7: known that Graham Stephen is a.

651
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 3: Secure short king.

652
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

653
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 5: Yeah.

654
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 3: It's looking at all the positives and not be like,

655
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:55,160
Speaker 3: oh this is what I don't have.

656
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,719
Speaker 6: Yeah, a lot of people like you must be insecure.

657
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 6: I'm like or like, I've gotten a few like on

658
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 6: social like why are you wearing at heels? You're out

659
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:02,120
Speaker 6: with him?

660
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 7: Like he's doing what what are you talking about?

661
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 3: Your people can be secure in themselves.

662
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 1: Incredible.

663
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 5: I don't know.

664
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Speaker 3: I feel like I think like if it, if it

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Speaker 3: bothers him that much, like like what sacrifice is bigger?

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Speaker 3: I guess it's like is it gonna ru Is it

667
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Speaker 3: gonna ruin the wedding?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's kind of a hard thing because there's like

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Speaker 6: no in between. It's either you wear something that makes

670
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Speaker 6: the height difference there or not, and then she's not

671
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Speaker 6: gonna feel as pretty but he's not gonna feel good.

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Speaker 6: She's wearing heels, So it's kind of like a I

673
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Speaker 6: don't know.

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Speaker 3: Like I guess like that, I think the question is

675
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Speaker 3: who will feel worse.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I just like I just cannot imagine like my future

678
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Speaker 7: fiance being like, Okay, this is my this is what

679
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Speaker 7: I've which probably she's probably pictured, you know, what she

680
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Speaker 7: what she wants and like thought about this a lot

681
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Speaker 7: and being like no, I just I can't. I can't

682
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Speaker 7: fathom that.

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Speaker 3: It's just like but I feel like I think, like

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Speaker 3: I want and I kind of see this as red

685
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 3: flag and big a little bit, like this is something

686
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Speaker 3: that he's going to be like he's marrying someone taller

687
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 3: than him if he's not secure in this, like this

688
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Speaker 3: is this is not gonna his mom.

689
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Speaker 6: Yeah, Like I think his mom was just trying to

690
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Speaker 6: protect him, if I had to guess with those updates,

691
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Speaker 6: because I it's probably because his male friends and the

692
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Speaker 6: men and their family, and I feel like she's just

693
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Speaker 6: trying to help protect him a little bit because if

694
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Speaker 6: she understands she's watched this happen to him for years,

695
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Speaker 6: she might have a little bit of a different understanding.

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Speaker 3: I think she should still wear high heels, but she

697
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 3: should have a sit down conversation where it's like, hey,

698
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Speaker 3: like you have to be comfortable with me being taller

699
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Speaker 3: than you because like like if we're going to get married,

700
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Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not you know, gonna get any shorter.

701
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Speaker 3: I think she needs to have a sit down conversation

702
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 3: be like hey, like absolutely nothing like this height is

703
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 3: going to change. We need to accept this like right now,

704
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 3: because if not, like he's still he's gonna be a

705
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 3: big just like he will be made fun of and

706
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 3: then he'll I don't know, like.

707
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Speaker 7: So it works a friend gives give her some like

708
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Speaker 7: really nice high heels and.

709
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Speaker 5: Think he's like, oh, like, I don't know.

710
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Speaker 7: I feel like there's so many scenarios where it would

711
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Speaker 7: like come up.

712
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Speaker 3: And yeah it's definitely just like bes of hare or

713
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 3: you know, divorce or or I have a third option yeah, yeah,

714
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Speaker 3: like surgery. Oh yeah, dude, is six inches you can

715
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 3: get you can get six inches?

716
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Speaker 6: Yes, that's cool. Uh think you have another option? Maybe

717
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 6: she could if she was because I feel like most

718
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 6: brides do about like three inch heels. She could see

719
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 6: she can go down to like a one and a

720
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Speaker 6: half to two, So that way it still kind of

721
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 6: gives her those nice lines, right, but then it's only

722
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Speaker 6: if he if she's like an inch or two taller,

723
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Speaker 6: it's only making her about three inches taller. I wonder

724
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Speaker 6: if that would be like a good.

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Speaker 3: Happy I think that combination with him and like yeah, rocks, like.

726
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Speaker 5: Hey, I'll give some And you're saying you were saying

727
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 5: a joke.

728
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Speaker 3: One No, no, no, not actual shoes, like I mean

729
00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 3: there's like dress shoes where you can add like three

730
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Speaker 3: four inches for guys.

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Speaker 6: Right, yeah, so there are these things. I love how

732
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Speaker 6: you guys look at me. So I don't I don't

733
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Speaker 6: the answers. I know Graham doesn't have any of these,

734
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Speaker 6: but he does know some other men that are very

735
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Speaker 6: short that sometimes her red carpet events will wear it

736
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Speaker 6: lifts in their shoes and you can't tell and tell

737
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 6: the shoes. So he gets all their down clothes and

738
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 6: they'll put them on and be like whoa, what the heck,

739
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 6: I'm up higher? Yeah, So there are lifts that could

740
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Speaker 6: help with that. So honestly, you could get like a

741
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Speaker 6: two inch lift and it would be the same and

742
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Speaker 6: she could still.

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Speaker 3: Wear her interesting So what if you got two inch

744
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Speaker 3: lifts with a heeled shoe already, right, yeah, like three

745
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Speaker 3: four inches you go.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because that could keep the you put a lift

747
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Speaker 6: in there and then she just wore slightly shorter heel,

748
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 6: it would keep them the same distance. But that might

749
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Speaker 6: be the happy medium.

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Speaker 3: Well, I think we've solved that. We've come to us

751
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Speaker 3: for marriage counseling because we got maybe ye, yeah.

752
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Speaker 5: I think is a certified expert.

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Speaker 6: Yes, certified, I guess us.

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Speaker 5: Right, that's right.

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Speaker 6: Wait, are either of you guys married?

756
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Speaker 5: No?

757
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Speaker 6: No, so the three of us are going to be

758
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Speaker 6: marriage counselors. Yes, and none of us have been married.

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763
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Speaker 3: was built for, is just like people who have no

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