Speaker 1: This is he said Ayaziho with Eric Winter and Rosalind Fantas.
Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Peace. Ayatio, thank you for
Speaker 2: being with us as always. You know, we had that
Speaker 2: producer Roz when You're out of town. We had a
Speaker 2: producer episode where Eastern of our producers asked a bunch
Speaker 2: of questions and I got to answer some things for
Speaker 2: the rookie fans and people that just follow us. But
Speaker 2: now Christy's gonna give us some questions to throw around
Speaker 2: and we're gonna see what we do with them. Other producers.
Speaker 3: Well, my first question is because I'm a Latina as well,
Speaker 3: so I've been watching Rosalind for a long time. So
Speaker 3: I want to know Roz because there must be a
Speaker 3: pressure being a role model as a as a woman,
Speaker 3: especially a Latina woman in the community. That must Do
Speaker 3: you feel a pressure or an obligation to be a
Speaker 3: certain way or do you just welcome it?
Speaker 4: I think I welcome it, you know, I don't. I
Speaker 4: don't see it as as pressure.
Speaker 5: You know, I've been very lucky and blessed. I live
Speaker 5: my life.
Speaker 4: In a very specific, clean way, so I don't feel
Speaker 4: like I have to hide behind anything or act a
Speaker 4: certain way for people to see me as a role model,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: I think I just I'm comfortable with myself.
Speaker 4: And I and I and I do.
Speaker 5: And speak and walk alive thinking or doing what I
Speaker 5: think is right, you know.
Speaker 4: And I don't see it as a responsibility.
Speaker 5: I don't see it.
Speaker 4: As a as a chore, you know, or or any
Speaker 4: any kind of pressure. I actually welcome the opportunity to
Speaker 4: inspire and hopefully help, you know, and allow little girls
Speaker 4: and teenagers and women to look at me and say,
Speaker 4: you know what, she.
Speaker 5: Made it? Then I believe it's possible for as well.
Speaker 5: That's that's the main thing.
Speaker 4: That I love about having a platform. It's having the
Speaker 4: opportunity to make other women dream, you know, because the
Speaker 4: reality is nothing was It's been handed to me on
Speaker 4: a gold pattern. B means, you know, I'm a simple
Speaker 4: girl from Puerto Rico that grew up in a family
Speaker 4: that nobody was involved in this business. I was just
Speaker 4: simply a dreamer and somebody that was very good at accomplishing.
Speaker 4: And I want to be able to to educate girls
Speaker 4: that way. You know that you can become what you
Speaker 4: can't see. You know, you have to you have when
Speaker 4: you see something, that's when you believe that it's possible.
Speaker 4: And for little girls just doing things by faith. It
Speaker 4: takes a mature woman to understand that that having faith
Speaker 4: can move mountains. But for a little girl, they have
Speaker 4: to see it. So if I can be that thing
Speaker 4: that they see to take that extra step, I think
Speaker 4: is amazing.
Speaker 5: I welcome it. And especially for a.
Speaker 4: Latino community, you know, for this, for the women that
Speaker 4: see me and they go, oh my god, I want
Speaker 4: to be able to come what she did. I think
Speaker 4: it's awesome. I think it's awesome.
Speaker 5: It's awesome.
Speaker 3: Do you think that your daughter like, your daughter sees that,
Speaker 3: and do you put like other strong female influences and
Speaker 3: show her different women or something like that as well,
Speaker 3: because she does tennis, so I'm sure she has some
Speaker 3: like very strong women tennis. And how important is that
Speaker 3: for you guys?
Speaker 4: I mean, we try and Eric, I mean with Sabella,
Speaker 4: it's really tricky, mean because I think Sabera is the
Speaker 4: type of girl like and it's very common.
Speaker 5: I was just saying, you know.
Speaker 4: It for a daughter to follow at this age when
Speaker 4: I'm talking about the eleven, twelve, thirteen, when they think
Speaker 4: that they know it all. It's so difficult for them
Speaker 4: to follow advice from mom. But if she watches a
Speaker 4: video of some random person saying something, that's the law.
Speaker 4: But if Mommy says, I told you, you.
Speaker 5: Don't know anything.
Speaker 4: So it's a very very slippery it's a very difficult path,
Speaker 4: you know, with your own daughter. All I can do,
Speaker 4: to be honest with you, Chrissy, is just leave by example,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. It's like, I'm hoping that
Speaker 4: by seeing the way I operate and how hard I
Speaker 4: work and how I organize things in the house, and
Speaker 4: I like how specific I am about things, even though
Speaker 4: she doesn't say anything, even though she doesn't want me
Speaker 4: saying anything, I'm hoping that at some point she's absorbing,
Speaker 4: and they do.
Speaker 5: There's sponges, you know.
Speaker 4: I'm hoping that at some point she when she leaves
Speaker 4: the house and she starts living her own life, that
Speaker 4: somehow I was able to live by example.
Speaker 2: And she's absorbing that. For sure, she's gotten much more
Speaker 2: into the fact that like what mom is doing and
Speaker 2: following and keeping an eye on and trying to emulate.
Speaker 2: For sure.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys think it's important to spend time because
Speaker 3: this actually was a question that came in on Instagram.
Speaker 5: But I thought it was a cool one.
Speaker 3: The difference between spending time together with your kids and
Speaker 3: the importance of spending times with them one on one.
Speaker 3: So like, you know, taking you know, Dylan or Sabella
Speaker 3: to like each individually with you because you go do
Speaker 3: something with just that one child as opposed to doing
Speaker 3: stuff with them together all the time.
Speaker 2: I know we both think it's super important, and we
Speaker 2: have tried to do that. It's not hasn't hasn't lined
Speaker 2: up to be as easy as we had hoped. You know,
Speaker 2: I used to take Sabella on a daddy daughter date
Speaker 2: and Roz would do it too, And I think now
Speaker 2: inadvertently it's happening in some ways because maybe Sebbe has
Speaker 2: tennis and one of us is with her all day
Speaker 2: and one of us is with Dylan all day and
Speaker 2: we swap and we're spending that quality time. But I
Speaker 2: do think it's important to try to really give sort
Speaker 2: of that one on one I don't call it event,
Speaker 2: but like moment where it's a dinner, a date of that,
Speaker 2: of that sort a sporting event, something that might interest
Speaker 2: that kid, where we're going just the two of us
Speaker 2: to enjoy something that you want to do to the
Speaker 2: to the kid. And I wish we would do it,
Speaker 2: probably more and well thought out, but we that's something
Speaker 2: for the new year we should focus on for sure.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, just no more.
Speaker 5: Olivia Rodrigo.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I did that. That's right, I did, Olvery Rodrigo.
Speaker 3: There.
Speaker 5: I mean there was a frime, but you did that. Yeah,
Speaker 5: I believe you know. I have a friend of mine,
Speaker 5: it's a good friend of mine from Miami. But it's easier.
Speaker 5: She only has one daughter.
Speaker 4: It's like just one kid. And when she.
Speaker 5: Turned Garriela turned ten, I believe she was ten.
Speaker 4: Now she's a woman. She's in her twenties, mid twenties.
Speaker 4: Probably they will take a mommy and me, my mommy
Speaker 4: and daughter trip every single year, once a year. I
Speaker 4: think it was every June. Every June, they've been flying
Speaker 4: together without the husband, just the two of them, and
Speaker 4: they go I'm talking about everywhere. They go to La,
Speaker 4: they go to New York, they go to Paris. I mean,
Speaker 4: they go everywhere and it's just the two of them.
Speaker 4: And I always thought, and I know this because sometimes
Speaker 4: they will come to LA and I see them for lunch,
Speaker 4: and then that week of every year is absolutely sacred
Speaker 4: and they're planning on their they plan on doing it forever.
Speaker 4: And I thought, and I still believe, it is so amazing,
Speaker 4: you know.
Speaker 5: And I have talked to Isabella about it.
Speaker 4: It'sabella, We're going to do We're going to take a
Speaker 4: mommy and daughter trip, you and me every single year,
Speaker 4: and we haven't done it.
Speaker 2: It's just that it's been so hard.
Speaker 4: But that shouldn't be an excuse. That's when you talk
Speaker 4: about priorities, you know what I mean, I.
Speaker 5: Should I know.
Speaker 2: The problem is with our schedules. It's like nothing can
Speaker 2: be planned. You could set it aside that week and
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, it's like you got to take
Speaker 2: a job and then you got to move it. It's
Speaker 2: it's always tough.
Speaker 5: But the main problem is that I'm going to plan
Speaker 5: something the last ten.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Next question.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wanted to know because we never talked about
Speaker 3: after we had her on the show, and I really
Speaker 3: enjoyed Doctor b. If you guys ever did the ten
Speaker 3: minute makeout challenge that she gave you.
Speaker 2: Dail fail, that should be a New Year's resolution too. Listen,
Speaker 2: I'm down, like I'm into it. I probably get rise
Speaker 2: into a good three four minute makeout session, maybe five,
Speaker 2: but ten minutes. I don't know if I can get
Speaker 2: it to go that long. It's can you go that
Speaker 2: long to make out?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: New Year's resolution that we should per the doctor.
Speaker 3: The doctor requests that the prescription is there. Have you
Speaker 3: ever done anything that you just like don't want your
Speaker 3: kids to know about? Because I was watching like I
Speaker 3: was watching another they come and they were like freaking out.
Speaker 3: It was Rebud. I was watching Rebud and they were
Speaker 3: freaking out about whether or not the kids would ever
Speaker 3: find out like they smoked a joint or something. So
Speaker 3: I thought that that was kind of a funny question
Speaker 3: for you.
Speaker 2: Half my life. I don't want my kids to find
Speaker 2: out I was just not great as a as a
Speaker 2: young Eric.
Speaker 5: Always does that.
Speaker 4: I trips me out because I don't see it. I
Speaker 4: don't see anyone believe it.
Speaker 2: I was not great. My mom would turn if I
Speaker 2: want to talk about in the POKT, my mom would turn.
Speaker 5: Your mom your mom days you were saying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no I I uh, and she'll hear this and go, no,
Speaker 2: it's not true. Yeah. Look, I was very smart in
Speaker 2: not getting myself into major trouble. But there are plenty
Speaker 2: of things that God forbid, I don't want my kids to,
Speaker 2: you know, get involved with.
Speaker 5: Give you an example.
Speaker 2: No, just like sex too early, trying different things, drinking
Speaker 2: wise too early, trying this stuff you shouldn't be doing.
Speaker 2: Like just no, I don't want them to do any
Speaker 2: of that. So I don't want them to find out
Speaker 2: bros was a saint.
Speaker 5: No, I was a good kid. I don't think I
Speaker 5: ever did anything. I mean I did a couple of times,
Speaker 5: which is horrific.
Speaker 4: I'll die like I will just have sleepovers with my
Speaker 4: friends and I will go to my friend's house and
Speaker 4: we will sneak out, but it will sneak out. But
Speaker 4: it wasn't like we're gonna sneak out and go to
Speaker 4: the club. It was that we're gonna we're gonna sneak
Speaker 4: out and go to the little like and I walk up,
Speaker 4: walk up a block and with that even think it was.
Speaker 2: Like I would sneak out and roll my car down
Speaker 2: the street to go pick up a girlfriend late at night,
Speaker 2: like dumb things. But no way are my kids doing that.
Speaker 5: Nope, I don't know.
Speaker 4: I'm amazed about the amount of sleepovers. I mean my
Speaker 4: entire life. I had sleepovers on a weekly basis at
Speaker 4: my friend's house. They'll come to my house or I
Speaker 4: will go to many Caroline Magali, like all of my
Speaker 4: good friends, Isabel, I will have sleepovers. And they had
Speaker 4: brothers and sisters and older and it was never a problem.
Speaker 4: And thank god I never had an issue. But it
Speaker 4: was never a problem with my dad's I will I
Speaker 4: will never allow Isabella to do something like that. That's
Speaker 4: crazy to me. I'm going, how is it possible that
Speaker 4: my mom, being so strict, she would just allow me
Speaker 4: to just have sleepovers on a weekly basis.
Speaker 2: But that was what it was like back then.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I did crazy.
Speaker 3: My other question was we asked Eric this. He gave
Speaker 3: up like a really quick answer. But would you ever
Speaker 3: date as Ross? Ever date Tim Bradford.
Speaker 5: I don't know enough about Tim Bradford to be honest
Speaker 5: with you. I did a coup that is like super
Speaker 5: up tied ride.
Speaker 4: But he's a softy inside and I hopeless romantic but
Speaker 4: bad as for a badass.
Speaker 2: I actually think would maybe I actually think she would.
Speaker 5: As possible, it's possible.
Speaker 3: Eric said that he didn't think you would at the
Speaker 3: beginning of the show, and he think that he thinks
Speaker 3: that you would within his character develop.
Speaker 2: Now in the pilot, like the very beginning of the show,
Speaker 2: Rood be like, this guy's an ass. No way. As
Speaker 2: he got tools out the right word, he was an ass.
Speaker 2: But as it got on and the characters evolved, he
Speaker 2: could still be an ass but also still be a
Speaker 2: very caring individual. I think for sure that version she would.
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe which one of like Roz's characters, would you date?
Speaker 2: Probably from rush Hour looking, banging, smoking hot. Also, the
Speaker 2: ballet teacher was fun. Ballet teacher was fun.
Speaker 4: Game plan Yes, he's cute, just cute. You do Rourke
Speaker 4: Fantasy Elands, it was a badass.
Speaker 2: I think Rok might have been a little too stuffy
Speaker 2: for my taste. Stuffy there laying from uh without Trace. Yeah,
Speaker 2: there's a few characters I probably would hook.
Speaker 4: Up with every single one of them.
Speaker 3: Eric, that's a good one too, because you play a
Speaker 3: lot of badasses underclassmen.
Speaker 2: Didn't what't you like the teacher? That's exactly that's like,
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 5: Look the teacher.
Speaker 3: Look.
Speaker 4: Oh my god. Okay, I've done Lawyer, I've done Idea,
Speaker 4: I've done teacher, a teacher.
Speaker 5: I've done FBI, I've done doctor of done them all.
Speaker 3: Were you always looking for strong characters like that? Or
Speaker 3: do you turn them into strong characters?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 4: They they they I always get them to be honest
Speaker 4: with you. I don't think everything that I've done, I
Speaker 4: don't think I've ever done a girl that is wounded damaged,
Speaker 4: you know what I mean, like like with a lot
Speaker 4: of baggage, the sensitive soul. I don't think I I
Speaker 4: have like good girls. You know that they can be emotional,
Speaker 4: But for the most part, what I get is, Yeah,
Speaker 4: they have a really really strong backglown.
Speaker 5: That's awesome.
Speaker 3: Eric. Do you ever want to jump behind the camera
Speaker 3: like Roz to direct?
Speaker 2: No, I like the producing side behind the camera. I
Speaker 2: don't know the thing about directing. I have a lot
Speaker 2: of respect for what directing is and what directors do.
Speaker 2: It's just it's a lot of time. It's a lot
Speaker 2: of hours. You don't come home, you don't get to
Speaker 2: see your family during that period of time. It's brutal.
Speaker 2: It's a grind. Not that it's easier as a producer.
Speaker 2: You still have a lot of work, but I feel
Speaker 2: like you could shake free and you can hand off
Speaker 2: and you could still you could break out of it
Speaker 2: and have a little bit more make family time balance
Speaker 2: a little easier. But when when you're directing full time
Speaker 2: on stuff, it's it's a tough grind. You got to
Speaker 2: have those breaks. So for me, I think that's the
Speaker 2: only reason why I wouldn't fully pursue it. I'm not
Speaker 2: sure I have the full eye for it. But Roslin, definitely,
Speaker 2: I think it's great.
Speaker 4: I actually love it with a passion. I have no
Speaker 4: idea that I was gonna love it this much, but
Speaker 4: I love it, love it, love it, and I can't
Speaker 4: wait to do it again. But it is it is
Speaker 4: very time consuming. I'm talking about directing time consuming. Is
Speaker 4: is a whole year of your life. It's it's a lot,
Speaker 4: but it's it's pretty incredible. So my answer is, SI,
Speaker 4: all right.
Speaker 3: Well, hander with what's the biggest lesson you guys have
Speaker 3: learned from each other And what's the biggest lesson you've
Speaker 3: learned from your kids?
Speaker 2: Patience again with the kids, but I'm always trying to
Speaker 2: learn this lesson. Patience can go a long way. I
Speaker 2: think even with us as a as a couple, I
Speaker 2: would say patience and I always say, this is laughter.
Speaker 2: I think it heals most.
Speaker 4: Things I think With me and Eric, I think besides laughter,
Speaker 4: I think I have we discovered that with humor we
Speaker 4: can pretty much make this relationship lesson work. But I
Speaker 4: have also developed a lot of patients with Derek two
Speaker 4: no use, I think you said patients about the kids.
Speaker 5: Oh, yes, the same thing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think, sorry, yeah, I left for patients. What
Speaker 4: else have I learned from Eric?
Speaker 5: A compromise.
Speaker 2: The compromise is good.
Speaker 4: I have learned how to compromise, and I have learned
Speaker 4: how to I guess that.
Speaker 5: Comes with compromise.
Speaker 2: Family.
Speaker 5: First, I used to be very impulsive.
Speaker 4: You know, I'm the type of person that I just
Speaker 4: go I'm over it, and I'm over it right, and
Speaker 4: I just walk away. And with this relationship, I've been
Speaker 4: able to be like, uh, okay, before you've become impulsive impulsive,
Speaker 4: let's just put things on a balance and just just
Speaker 4: do your pros and cons right and then just just
Speaker 4: be just make the right decisions, don't just don't lead with.
Speaker 5: The rush behavior or impulsive behavior. Just be very smart.
Speaker 4: And I think that comes with maturity, and it's something
Speaker 4: that he taught me because he's a pretty amazing man
Speaker 4: and pretty level headed, so it was able to facil
Speaker 4: He facilitated that for me and with the kids same
Speaker 4: I think, yeah, for sure patients as well, because it's
Speaker 4: the hardest. If marriage is hard work, parenting is that,
Speaker 4: but magnified because you don't know. You don't know if
Speaker 4: what you're doing is correct or not correct. You don't
Speaker 4: know how you're going to affect them. It's really and
Speaker 4: they come with their own DNA personalities, temperaments, and there's
Speaker 4: absolutely not much you can do. You get what you get,
Speaker 4: and it's brutal. Sometimes it's bru it's glorious, but it
Speaker 4: could be brutal, you know. And also laughter, I don't
Speaker 4: think I have ever laughed so hard I have. Both
Speaker 4: kids are pretty funny, but with Dylan, even though he
Speaker 4: doesn't mean to be funny, I find myself and join
Speaker 4: him again.
Speaker 5: Both but with Dylan, he's unexpected.
Speaker 4: Like Sabella, we alwaysknew she was cuckoo and crazy and
Speaker 4: more care free, and she's just funny, you know, and
Speaker 4: she's very, very sarcastic and smart. With Dylan, because you're
Speaker 4: so unexpected, it's just adorably funny.
Speaker 2: Well that was a fun one of our final episodes
Speaker 2: of the year. That was great, Christy, thank you for
Speaker 2: doing that and we hope to come back in the
Speaker 2: new year with some awesome guests for everybody, and thanks
Speaker 2: again for listening.
Speaker 5: Love you, love you bye.
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