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<v Speaker 1>This is he said Ayaziho with Eric Winter and Rosalind Fantas.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Peace. Ayatio, thank you for

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<v Speaker 2>being with us as always. You know, we had that

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<v Speaker 2>producer Roz when You're out of town. We had a

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<v Speaker 2>producer episode where Eastern of our producers asked a bunch

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<v Speaker 2>of questions and I got to answer some things for

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<v Speaker 2>the rookie fans and people that just follow us. But

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<v Speaker 2>now Christy's gonna give us some questions to throw around

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<v Speaker 2>and we're gonna see what we do with them. Other producers.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, my first question is because I'm a Latina as well,

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<v Speaker 3>so I've been watching Rosalind for a long time. So

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<v Speaker 3>I want to know Roz because there must be a

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<v Speaker 3>pressure being a role model as a as a woman,

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<v Speaker 3>especially a Latina woman in the community. That must Do

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<v Speaker 3>you feel a pressure or an obligation to be a

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<v Speaker 3>certain way or do you just welcome it?

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<v Speaker 4>I think I welcome it, you know, I don't. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't see it as as pressure.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I've been very lucky and blessed. I live

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<v Speaker 5>my life.

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<v Speaker 4>In a very specific, clean way, so I don't feel

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<v Speaker 4>like I have to hide behind anything or act a

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<v Speaker 4>certain way for people to see me as a role model,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I just I'm comfortable with myself.

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<v Speaker 4>And I and I and I do.

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<v Speaker 5>And speak and walk alive thinking or doing what I

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<v Speaker 5>think is right, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>And I don't see it as a responsibility.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't see it.

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<v Speaker 4>As a as a chore, you know, or or any

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<v Speaker 4>any kind of pressure. I actually welcome the opportunity to

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<v Speaker 4>inspire and hopefully help, you know, and allow little girls

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<v Speaker 4>and teenagers and women to look at me and say,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what, she.

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<v Speaker 5>Made it? Then I believe it's possible for as well.

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<v Speaker 5>That's that's the main thing.

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<v Speaker 4>That I love about having a platform. It's having the

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<v Speaker 4>opportunity to make other women dream, you know, because the

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<v Speaker 4>reality is nothing was It's been handed to me on

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<v Speaker 4>a gold pattern. B means, you know, I'm a simple

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<v Speaker 4>girl from Puerto Rico that grew up in a family

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<v Speaker 4>that nobody was involved in this business. I was just

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<v Speaker 4>simply a dreamer and somebody that was very good at accomplishing.

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<v Speaker 4>And I want to be able to to educate girls

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<v Speaker 4>that way. You know that you can become what you

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<v Speaker 4>can't see. You know, you have to you have when

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<v Speaker 4>you see something, that's when you believe that it's possible.

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<v Speaker 4>And for little girls just doing things by faith. It

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<v Speaker 4>takes a mature woman to understand that that having faith

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<v Speaker 4>can move mountains. But for a little girl, they have

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<v Speaker 4>to see it. So if I can be that thing

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<v Speaker 4>that they see to take that extra step, I think

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<v Speaker 4>is amazing.

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<v Speaker 5>I welcome it. And especially for a.

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<v Speaker 4>Latino community, you know, for this, for the women that

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<v Speaker 4>see me and they go, oh my god, I want

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<v Speaker 4>to be able to come what she did. I think

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<v Speaker 4>it's awesome. I think it's awesome.

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<v Speaker 5>It's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think that your daughter like, your daughter sees that,

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<v Speaker 3>and do you put like other strong female influences and

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<v Speaker 3>show her different women or something like that as well,

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<v Speaker 3>because she does tennis, so I'm sure she has some

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<v Speaker 3>like very strong women tennis. And how important is that

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<v Speaker 3>for you guys?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, we try and Eric, I mean with Sabella,

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<v Speaker 4>it's really tricky, mean because I think Sabera is the

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<v Speaker 4>type of girl like and it's very common.

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<v Speaker 5>I was just saying, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>It for a daughter to follow at this age when

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<v Speaker 4>I'm talking about the eleven, twelve, thirteen, when they think

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<v Speaker 4>that they know it all. It's so difficult for them

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<v Speaker 4>to follow advice from mom. But if she watches a

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<v Speaker 4>video of some random person saying something, that's the law.

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<v Speaker 4>But if Mommy says, I told you, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't know anything.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's a very very slippery it's a very difficult path,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, with your own daughter. All I can do,

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<v Speaker 4>to be honest with you, Chrissy, is just leave by example,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean. It's like, I'm hoping that

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<v Speaker 4>by seeing the way I operate and how hard I

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<v Speaker 4>work and how I organize things in the house, and

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<v Speaker 4>I like how specific I am about things, even though

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<v Speaker 4>she doesn't say anything, even though she doesn't want me

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<v Speaker 4>saying anything, I'm hoping that at some point she's absorbing,

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<v Speaker 4>and they do.

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<v Speaker 5>There's sponges, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm hoping that at some point she when she leaves

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<v Speaker 4>the house and she starts living her own life, that

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<v Speaker 4>somehow I was able to live by example.

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<v Speaker 2>And she's absorbing that. For sure, she's gotten much more

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<v Speaker 2>into the fact that like what mom is doing and

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<v Speaker 2>following and keeping an eye on and trying to emulate.

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<v Speaker 2>For sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you guys think it's important to spend time because

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<v Speaker 3>this actually was a question that came in on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 5>But I thought it was a cool one.

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<v Speaker 3>The difference between spending time together with your kids and

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<v Speaker 3>the importance of spending times with them one on one.

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<v Speaker 3>So like, you know, taking you know, Dylan or Sabella

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<v Speaker 3>to like each individually with you because you go do

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<v Speaker 3>something with just that one child as opposed to doing

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<v Speaker 3>stuff with them together all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I know we both think it's super important, and we

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<v Speaker 2>have tried to do that. It's not hasn't hasn't lined

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<v Speaker 2>up to be as easy as we had hoped. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I used to take Sabella on a daddy daughter date

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<v Speaker 2>and Roz would do it too, And I think now

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<v Speaker 2>inadvertently it's happening in some ways because maybe Sebbe has

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<v Speaker 2>tennis and one of us is with her all day

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<v Speaker 2>and one of us is with Dylan all day and

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<v Speaker 2>we swap and we're spending that quality time. But I

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<v Speaker 2>do think it's important to try to really give sort

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<v Speaker 2>of that one on one I don't call it event,

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<v Speaker 2>but like moment where it's a dinner, a date of that,

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<v Speaker 2>of that sort a sporting event, something that might interest

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<v Speaker 2>that kid, where we're going just the two of us

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<v Speaker 2>to enjoy something that you want to do to the

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<v Speaker 2>to the kid. And I wish we would do it,

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<v Speaker 2>probably more and well thought out, but we that's something

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<v Speaker 2>for the new year we should focus on for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, just no more.

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<v Speaker 5>Olivia Rodrigo.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I did that. That's right, I did, Olvery Rodrigo.

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<v Speaker 3>There.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean there was a frime, but you did that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I believe you know. I have a friend of mine,

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<v Speaker 5>it's a good friend of mine from Miami. But it's easier.

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<v Speaker 5>She only has one daughter.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like just one kid. And when she.

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<v Speaker 5>Turned Garriela turned ten, I believe she was ten.

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<v Speaker 4>Now she's a woman. She's in her twenties, mid twenties.

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<v Speaker 4>Probably they will take a mommy and me, my mommy

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<v Speaker 4>and daughter trip every single year, once a year. I

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<v Speaker 4>think it was every June. Every June, they've been flying

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<v Speaker 4>together without the husband, just the two of them, and

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<v Speaker 4>they go I'm talking about everywhere. They go to La,

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<v Speaker 4>they go to New York, they go to Paris. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>they go everywhere and it's just the two of them.

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<v Speaker 4>And I always thought, and I know this because sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>they will come to LA and I see them for lunch,

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<v Speaker 4>and then that week of every year is absolutely sacred

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<v Speaker 4>and they're planning on their they plan on doing it forever.

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<v Speaker 4>And I thought, and I still believe, it is so amazing,

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<v Speaker 4>you know.

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<v Speaker 5>And I have talked to Isabella about it.

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<v Speaker 4>It'sabella, We're going to do We're going to take a

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<v Speaker 4>mommy and daughter trip, you and me every single year,

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<v Speaker 4>and we haven't done it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just that it's been so hard.

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<v Speaker 4>But that shouldn't be an excuse. That's when you talk

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<v Speaker 4>about priorities, you know what I mean, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Should I know.

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<v Speaker 2>The problem is with our schedules. It's like nothing can

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<v Speaker 2>be planned. You could set it aside that week and

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<v Speaker 2>all of a sudden, it's like you got to take

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<v Speaker 2>a job and then you got to move it. It's

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<v Speaker 2>it's always tough.

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<v Speaker 5>But the main problem is that I'm going to plan

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<v Speaker 5>something the last ten.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. Next question.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I wanted to know because we never talked about

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<v Speaker 3>after we had her on the show, and I really

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<v Speaker 3>enjoyed Doctor b. If you guys ever did the ten

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<v Speaker 3>minute makeout challenge that she gave you.

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<v Speaker 2>Dail fail, that should be a New Year's resolution too. Listen,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm down, like I'm into it. I probably get rise

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<v Speaker 2>into a good three four minute makeout session, maybe five,

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<v Speaker 2>but ten minutes. I don't know if I can get

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<v Speaker 2>it to go that long. It's can you go that

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<v Speaker 2>long to make out?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>New Year's resolution that we should per the doctor.

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<v Speaker 3>The doctor requests that the prescription is there. Have you

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<v Speaker 3>ever done anything that you just like don't want your

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<v Speaker 3>kids to know about? Because I was watching like I

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<v Speaker 3>was watching another they come and they were like freaking out.

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<v Speaker 3>It was Rebud. I was watching Rebud and they were

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<v Speaker 3>freaking out about whether or not the kids would ever

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<v Speaker 3>find out like they smoked a joint or something. So

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<v Speaker 3>I thought that that was kind of a funny question

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<v Speaker 3>for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Half my life. I don't want my kids to find

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<v Speaker 2>out I was just not great as a as a

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<v Speaker 2>young Eric.

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<v Speaker 5>Always does that.

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<v Speaker 4>I trips me out because I don't see it. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't see anyone believe it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was not great. My mom would turn if I

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<v Speaker 2>want to talk about in the POKT, my mom would turn.

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<v Speaker 5>Your mom your mom days you were saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no I I uh, and she'll hear this and go, no,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not true. Yeah. Look, I was very smart in

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<v Speaker 2>not getting myself into major trouble. But there are plenty

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<v Speaker 2>of things that God forbid, I don't want my kids to,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, get involved with.

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<v Speaker 5>Give you an example.

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<v Speaker 2>No, just like sex too early, trying different things, drinking

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<v Speaker 2>wise too early, trying this stuff you shouldn't be doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Like just no, I don't want them to do any

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<v Speaker 2>of that. So I don't want them to find out

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<v Speaker 2>bros was a saint.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I was a good kid. I don't think I

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<v Speaker 5>ever did anything. I mean I did a couple of times,

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<v Speaker 5>which is horrific.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll die like I will just have sleepovers with my

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<v Speaker 4>friends and I will go to my friend's house and

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<v Speaker 4>we will sneak out, but it will sneak out. But

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<v Speaker 4>it wasn't like we're gonna sneak out and go to

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<v Speaker 4>the club. It was that we're gonna we're gonna sneak

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<v Speaker 4>out and go to the little like and I walk up,

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<v Speaker 4>walk up a block and with that even think it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I would sneak out and roll my car down

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<v Speaker 2>the street to go pick up a girlfriend late at night,

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<v Speaker 2>like dumb things. But no way are my kids doing that.

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<v Speaker 5>Nope, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm amazed about the amount of sleepovers. I mean my

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<v Speaker 4>entire life. I had sleepovers on a weekly basis at

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<v Speaker 4>my friend's house. They'll come to my house or I

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<v Speaker 4>will go to many Caroline Magali, like all of my

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<v Speaker 4>good friends, Isabel, I will have sleepovers. And they had

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<v Speaker 4>brothers and sisters and older and it was never a problem.

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<v Speaker 4>And thank god I never had an issue. But it

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<v Speaker 4>was never a problem with my dad's I will I

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<v Speaker 4>will never allow Isabella to do something like that. That's

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<v Speaker 4>crazy to me. I'm going, how is it possible that

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<v Speaker 4>my mom, being so strict, she would just allow me

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<v Speaker 4>to just have sleepovers on a weekly basis.

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<v Speaker 2>But that was what it was like back then.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I did crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>My other question was we asked Eric this. He gave

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<v Speaker 3>up like a really quick answer. But would you ever

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<v Speaker 3>date as Ross? Ever date Tim Bradford.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know enough about Tim Bradford to be honest

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<v Speaker 5>with you. I did a coup that is like super

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<v Speaker 5>up tied ride.

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<v Speaker 4>But he's a softy inside and I hopeless romantic but

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<v Speaker 4>bad as for a badass.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually think would maybe I actually think she would.

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<v Speaker 5>As possible, it's possible.

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<v Speaker 3>Eric said that he didn't think you would at the

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<v Speaker 3>beginning of the show, and he think that he thinks

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<v Speaker 3>that you would within his character develop.

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<v Speaker 2>Now in the pilot, like the very beginning of the show,

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<v Speaker 2>Rood be like, this guy's an ass. No way. As

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<v Speaker 2>he got tools out the right word, he was an ass.

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<v Speaker 2>But as it got on and the characters evolved, he

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<v Speaker 2>could still be an ass but also still be a

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<v Speaker 2>very caring individual. I think for sure that version she would.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe which one of like Roz's characters, would you date?

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<v Speaker 2>Probably from rush Hour looking, banging, smoking hot. Also, the

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<v Speaker 2>ballet teacher was fun. Ballet teacher was fun.

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<v Speaker 4>Game plan Yes, he's cute, just cute. You do Rourke

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<v Speaker 4>Fantasy Elands, it was a badass.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Rok might have been a little too stuffy

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<v Speaker 2>for my taste. Stuffy there laying from uh without Trace. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a few characters I probably would hook.

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<v Speaker 4>Up with every single one of them.

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<v Speaker 3>Eric, that's a good one too, because you play a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of badasses underclassmen.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't what't you like the teacher? That's exactly that's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I love that.

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<v Speaker 5>Look the teacher.

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<v Speaker 3>Look.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god. Okay, I've done Lawyer, I've done Idea,

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<v Speaker 4>I've done teacher, a teacher.

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<v Speaker 5>I've done FBI, I've done doctor of done them all.

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<v Speaker 3>Were you always looking for strong characters like that? Or

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<v Speaker 3>do you turn them into strong characters?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 4>They they they I always get them to be honest

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<v Speaker 4>with you. I don't think everything that I've done, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't think I've ever done a girl that is wounded damaged,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean, like like with a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of baggage, the sensitive soul. I don't think I I

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<v Speaker 4>have like good girls. You know that they can be emotional,

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<v Speaker 4>But for the most part, what I get is, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>they have a really really strong backglown.

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<v Speaker 5>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Eric. Do you ever want to jump behind the camera

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<v Speaker 3>like Roz to direct?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I like the producing side behind the camera. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know the thing about directing. I have a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of respect for what directing is and what directors do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just it's a lot of time. It's a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of hours. You don't come home, you don't get to

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<v Speaker 2>see your family during that period of time. It's brutal.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a grind. Not that it's easier as a producer.

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<v Speaker 2>You still have a lot of work, but I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like you could shake free and you can hand off

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<v Speaker 2>and you could still you could break out of it

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<v Speaker 2>and have a little bit more make family time balance

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<v Speaker 2>a little easier. But when when you're directing full time

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<v Speaker 2>on stuff, it's it's a tough grind. You got to

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<v Speaker 2>have those breaks. So for me, I think that's the

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<v Speaker 2>only reason why I wouldn't fully pursue it. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>sure I have the full eye for it. But Roslin, definitely,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's great.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually love it with a passion. I have no

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<v Speaker 4>idea that I was gonna love it this much, but

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<v Speaker 4>I love it, love it, love it, and I can't

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<v Speaker 4>wait to do it again. But it is it is

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<v Speaker 4>very time consuming. I'm talking about directing time consuming. Is

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<v Speaker 4>is a whole year of your life. It's it's a lot,

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<v Speaker 4>but it's it's pretty incredible. So my answer is, SI,

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<v Speaker 4>all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, hander with what's the biggest lesson you guys have

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<v Speaker 3>learned from each other And what's the biggest lesson you've

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<v Speaker 3>learned from your kids?

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<v Speaker 2>Patience again with the kids, but I'm always trying to

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<v Speaker 2>learn this lesson. Patience can go a long way. I

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<v Speaker 2>think even with us as a as a couple, I

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<v Speaker 2>would say patience and I always say, this is laughter.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it heals most.

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<v Speaker 4>Things I think With me and Eric, I think besides laughter,

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<v Speaker 4>I think I have we discovered that with humor we

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<v Speaker 4>can pretty much make this relationship lesson work. But I

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<v Speaker 4>have also developed a lot of patients with Derek two

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<v Speaker 4>no use, I think you said patients about the kids.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, yes, the same thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think, sorry, yeah, I left for patients. What

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<v Speaker 4>else have I learned from Eric?

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<v Speaker 5>A compromise.

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<v Speaker 2>The compromise is good.

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<v Speaker 4>I have learned how to compromise, and I have learned

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<v Speaker 4>how to I guess that.

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<v Speaker 5>Comes with compromise.

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<v Speaker 2>Family.

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<v Speaker 5>First, I used to be very impulsive.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I'm the type of person that I just

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<v Speaker 4>go I'm over it, and I'm over it right, and

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<v Speaker 4>I just walk away. And with this relationship, I've been

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<v Speaker 4>able to be like, uh, okay, before you've become impulsive impulsive,

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<v Speaker 4>let's just put things on a balance and just just

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<v Speaker 4>do your pros and cons right and then just just

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<v Speaker 4>be just make the right decisions, don't just don't lead with.

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<v Speaker 5>The rush behavior or impulsive behavior. Just be very smart.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that comes with maturity, and it's something

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<v Speaker 4>that he taught me because he's a pretty amazing man

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<v Speaker 4>and pretty level headed, so it was able to facil

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<v Speaker 4>He facilitated that for me and with the kids same

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<v Speaker 4>I think, yeah, for sure patients as well, because it's

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<v Speaker 4>the hardest. If marriage is hard work, parenting is that,

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<v Speaker 4>but magnified because you don't know. You don't know if

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<v Speaker 4>what you're doing is correct or not correct. You don't

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<v Speaker 4>know how you're going to affect them. It's really and

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<v Speaker 4>they come with their own DNA personalities, temperaments, and there's

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<v Speaker 4>absolutely not much you can do. You get what you get,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's brutal. Sometimes it's bru it's glorious, but it

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<v Speaker 4>could be brutal, you know. And also laughter, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think I have ever laughed so hard I have. Both

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<v Speaker 4>kids are pretty funny, but with Dylan, even though he

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't mean to be funny, I find myself and join

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<v Speaker 4>him again.

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<v Speaker 5>Both but with Dylan, he's unexpected.

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<v Speaker 4>Like Sabella, we alwaysknew she was cuckoo and crazy and

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<v Speaker 4>more care free, and she's just funny, you know, and

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<v Speaker 4>she's very, very sarcastic and smart. With Dylan, because you're

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<v Speaker 4>so unexpected, it's just adorably funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that was a fun one of our final episodes

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<v Speaker 2>of the year. That was great, Christy, thank you for

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<v Speaker 2>doing that and we hope to come back in the

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<v Speaker 2>new year with some awesome guests for everybody, and thanks

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<v Speaker 2>again for listening.

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<v Speaker 5>Love you, love you bye.

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