1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 1: Forever. Look mad oh, I see you? Why why and 2 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: look over there? How is that culture? Yes? Goodness ding 3 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 1: dong last culture? Rita's calling. Well, I'm staying across from 4 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 1: my greatest friend, my greatest enemy. How could you? I 5 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 1: knew you? Turn? I don't know what's happening. You know 6 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: we just with the energy in here is very thick 7 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: and gay. It's warm. And I'll say why because the 8 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: food for thought boys were just the food for thought. 9 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 1: Boys were just in here, love them. They were talking 10 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: to the author of boy or Race. Could you even 11 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:42,240 Speaker 1: of the imagine he wrote the book Boy Race, and 12 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:44,319 Speaker 1: it was very gay in here because the moment boy 13 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: a Race came up. You know that Nicole Nicole Kidman's 14 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: wig was not far behind Nicole Kidman's wig, which is 15 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: basically Troy Savant's hair. Wow. In many ways, that is 16 00:00:54,520 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: rule of culture, Nicole Kidman's wig and hair in ways 17 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: choice Evon's hair down when it's like when he's just 18 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 1: blown it out himself and it's and he did one 19 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 1: of these like he shepherded it down like a fall, 20 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: like a waterfall. Did you know that his song from 21 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: the movie Boy Race is getting Oscar buzz and it's 22 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: unfair that he also did a cover of some Somebody 23 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: to Love for Bohemian Rhapsody. It's not fair someone someone 24 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: who's not fair. And I'm going to see Bohemian Rhapsody 25 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 1: this evening. Yes you are. Now. When I say this evening, 26 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 1: I mean and literally this will have happened a month ago. 27 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 1: We have backlogging, honey, we're podcasting terms, so we're recording 28 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: this November four. We don't so yeah, I mean, this 29 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: is a real time capsule, pre election, pre mid terms. 30 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,320 Speaker 1: And here's the thing. It's not even like I have 31 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: to find out if Bohemian Rhapsody is bad when I 32 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: see it tonight, I literally know it's bad. Have you 33 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 1: seen this video of Ramy Malich just with I mean, listen, 34 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: celebrities get poked and proud of all the time. But 35 00:01:57,880 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: there's this is done, I know it. But there's this thing. 36 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: There's this thing of um this this video on Twitter 37 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: of this sweet person being like just taking a little 38 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: selfie video with Romie and then she goes, can you 39 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: say hi to my friend Jill? And he goes, no, 40 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna no, I'm not going to you said 41 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: we'd take a picture now like just is I can't 42 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: recreate it, but like I don't know what he's like, 43 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: but I'm going to say something crazy seems on the 44 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 1: spectrum to me. Oh okay, interesting, I think it's I 45 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: think it's wonderful. Yes, it's wonderful. He um his his 46 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 1: whole thing within these press junkets about but he obviously 47 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: when he's being confronted. I think them, you know who 48 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 1: confronted him into the Ladies of the View, the Ladies 49 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: of the View. He was on the vie this this 50 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: last week, and what do they say? And they said 51 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: Booby Goldberg herself asked the question at she rarely asked questions. 52 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: It's true of culture number rarely asked questions on the View. Um, 53 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: but she literally was like, you know he was homosexual 54 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: and this it was glazed over in the film, and 55 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: you know he's amously died of AIDS. Was like, you know, 56 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 1: it's not glazed over. Actually no one knows this, but 57 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:08,359 Speaker 1: his longest relationship, um was with a woman. And you know, 58 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 1: she find out that he was bisexual or you know, gay, 59 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: And I was like, honey, you are making every real 60 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 1: mistake by now. Yeah, he's who knows but on the 61 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: spectrum maybe which is which is beautiful love, that love, 62 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,399 Speaker 1: that embrace, that embrace that you know who else we embraced. 63 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 1: I embrace our guests with two arms of love, both 64 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 1: arms that I have, both arms that you have. I 65 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 1: think she is like a true icon both communically aesthetically lifestyle. 66 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: I was gonna say lifestyle if there's a person in 67 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: my life who will have a brand that is like 68 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: women everywhere and end gay men, but truly, like I mean, 69 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: just all encompassing, holistic lifestyle. This is this is our guest, 70 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 1: you know whose life she changed, and this person is 71 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: her life does not off changed? Sudi Suti, Like, really, well, 72 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: she's a Greta lover. Many people are Greta lovers. I'm 73 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: a Greta lover. Changes grati changes lives. Okay, let's bring 74 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: her and mean, what are the credits? I mean? She 75 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: is one of the co hosts of Lady Levin, popular 76 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:21,280 Speaker 1: podcast with Low Bosworth and jil Jillian Hendrix Um and 77 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: she might mendure off and do her own problems. Watch 78 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 1: this space, as they say, watch the Space, um and 79 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 1: she is just hosts incredible shows coast to coast. Truly 80 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: truly like just one of the most visible people out 81 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 1: there and prolific, prolific. That's what I meant to say, 82 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: and you better follow on Insto Gertie Gertie Bird and 83 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 1: oh my god, she she's just the light in this 84 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 1: world that we love. My um greatest joy is when 85 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: she texts me and tells me she's going to be 86 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: in town. That's great. I just I throw down everything 87 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 1: that's in my hands and I say, that's fucking great. 88 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 1: And I guess I'll just wait for her to come out, 89 00:04:56,920 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 1: Come out, Come on by, walk on back, welcome sign 90 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: a start of the song, Let's please welcome our guests. 91 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 1: Grant titleman, No nicer things have ever been said about 92 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: me ever in my life. I'm being serious, beautiful thing. 93 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: You carry the light. I carry the light. Carry the light. 94 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: You know how I learned that expression. Oprah Winfrey said 95 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 1: to Andy Cohen, you carry the light, and he was like, 96 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: thank you. I can die now, know you really, you 97 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 1: guys really said such beautiful things about me, you know, 98 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 1: as well as like performers and people, you know, you 99 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 1: get so insecure and anxious about like what other people 100 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: think of you, and like I'm constantly looking at instagramming 101 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: like this person hates me, this person things I'm dub person. 102 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: It's just like so constant. So when you hear that 103 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:51,479 Speaker 1: from because I love and admire both of you so much, 104 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 1: so hearing you guys say those things that I think, 105 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 1: no I do, you know, but you know what I mean, 106 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 1: it's like we're also in our heads also thinking about ourselves, 107 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: and we're so like narcissistic that like every single time 108 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: I look at something, I'm like, well, they don't like me, 109 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 1: nothing to do with me. It's like a baby and 110 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not baby. That baby will have no 111 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: idea who I am because their owner won't talk about 112 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 1: It's been the way that social media gets all in 113 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,039 Speaker 1: our heads. It's been a strong theme on the pod. 114 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 1: It's um, yeah, I mean it's I think I think 115 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: we were We have this fun generation of like homegrown 116 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 1: narcissism where it's just like, oh, like we may might 117 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: not have been this like self absorbed with our like 118 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: just if if it weren't for just these horrible like 119 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 1: these like what what a crazy notion to look at 120 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: someone and be like, well they hate me. Yeah, no, 121 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 1: it's crazy, but see I feel like that has existed forever, 122 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: you know. And there are ways that our parents generation 123 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 1: were so narcissistic too, in ways you know, Oh yeah, 124 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: they would spit shine their mustangs and drive out to 125 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 1: the drive, drive through theater, honey and greatly and degree 126 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: jacking off from the car. And they all had something 127 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: to prove. They're all lawyers, they're all doctors. They're all 128 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: doing something to get that American dreams. And who's gonna 129 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: get there first? And now lawyers and doctors are obsolete 130 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 1: and never nowhere to be. Keep on looking for one, 131 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: And I'm like, hello, hello lawyer, And then I'm just 132 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: on Instagram saying who here is a doctor? You just 133 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: quote Taylor spect get a good lawyer. You didn't hear 134 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: about this when she did her questions? Oh yeah, what's 135 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 1: her advice for a singer coming up? She turns back 136 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: and throws a cold look over her shoulders and goes, 137 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: get a good lawyer? Can we talk about Taylor quickly? 138 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 1: Quickly for a long time? Whatever? Has she turned a 139 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: leaf in your book? Like? How are your feeling? Positive? 140 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: And good? Guys talked about this. Well here we have 141 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: a history with Taylor. We have a history with Taylor, 142 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 1: um mine is a little bit more like up and down, 143 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: up and down. But I think with this recent turn, um, 144 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 1: I just spent like that the whole week after she 145 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: posted that endorsement Instagram, which was crazy. It was it 146 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: was it was insane, the fact that two sixty five 147 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 1: thousand people just started across the country in a day 148 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 1: or something. And we should say we are recording this 149 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 1: two days before the midterm, so we do not know 150 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 1: how everything turned out, but right now it looks like 151 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: Tennessee is still competitive. Ish yes, Phil president um, but 152 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: it's just it's it's great and like I so then 153 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,679 Speaker 1: I spent that whole week afterwards just like being like, 154 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 1: finally I can listen to her, because I like really 155 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:37,959 Speaker 1: really didn't. I swore her off for a while. I 156 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: swore her off for a very long time. And I 157 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:43,959 Speaker 1: loved Taylor Swift's first album. Our song is one of 158 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: my favorite song god and like half of them, which 159 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 1: is crazy. She Yeah, that last song on her first 160 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: time was like sing halleluyah. She's like now she's like 161 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 1: I am the Queen of snakes, the dominating demon. She's 162 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:18,679 Speaker 1: giving me very Sabrina, Sabrina, Yes, it is Sabrina. Wow, 163 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:21,559 Speaker 1: she really snatched New Sabrina's thunder. I find that a 164 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: lot like something happens with pop stars where I feel 165 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 1: like they all need to go through a spooky face 166 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:28,760 Speaker 1: where they're like, I am done being this good girl. 167 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 1: Now I need to be spooky. So like Christina was 168 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: spooky with Dirty, Brittany was spooky with Blackout, which is 169 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: my favorite album. Kelly had a exactly you bought to 170 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 1: get spooky after you know what it is. It's after 171 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:46,319 Speaker 1: you hit your top imperial face. That's when you because 172 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 1: that's when you're the most unhappy. Yeah, that's true. I 173 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 1: think it is. But there's some pop stars. I think 174 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:54,199 Speaker 1: Gaga had her spooky face during her imperiod. She was 175 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 1: always spooky. She was she was the capitalized on spooky. 176 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: She did spooky and immortal avant guard attempt of spooky. 177 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: They're just angsty spooky. You know, there are different kinds 178 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: of spook. See, none of these girls lived inside spooky, 179 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: so they were able to visit temperary spooky came from 180 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:18,839 Speaker 1: the spook. What would you say is Beyonce's spooky. I 181 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 1: think Beyonce's Sasha Fierce is the spooky side of Beyonce. 182 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 1: I also think when she was going through like the 183 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 1: whole Um Diva, I think was a spooky moment for her. 184 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:34,559 Speaker 1: Well wait, now that I'm thinking about it, though, I 185 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 1: feel lemonaded her A lot of a lot of Beyonce 186 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:40,839 Speaker 1: and a lot of Lemonade is scary. Or maybe I 187 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 1: was just too high. No, I was scary. The visuals 188 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 1: were scary. They were when when it's like slowly going 189 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 1: down that hallway before um, before that, before a six inch, 190 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: It's like slowly going down the hallway, and I'm like, Okay, 191 00:10:56,000 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: something's popping out. But like we should all want to 192 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:02,599 Speaker 1: go through a spooky phase because that's when you know 193 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: you've made it. I think we have you been through? 194 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 1: Have we all been through? Spooky face? Okay, Matt, Matt, 195 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: just okay, huge news everyone. Matt just changed his hair 196 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: color from this Robert Redford blonde back to a dark, 197 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 1: dark brown. It's been since I love college. Thank you. 198 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:22,839 Speaker 1: I really like it to see. I think that the 199 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 1: blonde was a spooky phase for you. That was it was. 200 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 1: It was what three weeks. It washed me out like 201 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 1: a ghost. It also gave me real Riverdale like Tina horror. 202 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,559 Speaker 1: Everyone kept telling me. I like app and I was like, 203 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 1: I mean, god, bless you, Like I created a story 204 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,839 Speaker 1: you did, Wait tell the storyline that you created. I 205 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: was DM man, I was like this hair, he like 206 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 1: he goes back to Riverdale. He comes back. Yes, and 207 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: he's like, I'm here. And then that was like, oh, 208 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 1: and you're my sister. And I'm like, yeah, there's a 209 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 1: sexual and we have a weird sexual thing. Isn't incestuous? 210 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 1: We don't know, very cruel intentions type thing. And then 211 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 1: we started do we started druggring, we start some kind 212 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: of illegal Yeah, we definitely have like some illegal dealings. 213 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: Maybe we just like sell bags illegally or something like that. 214 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: I said, I think both of our characters only one season. 215 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:23,319 Speaker 1: How we go? You two are the Alfree Wodard of 216 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 1: of the Verde world. I think little spec script for that. 217 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 1: I want to write the spec script. Yeah, Alfree Wardard 218 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 1: was the spooky face of Desperate Housewives, sorry spooky face. 219 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 1: You know who was on my plane? Victoria what's her 220 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: face from? From No fucking Wish? From Real House's Orange County? Yes, 221 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 1: Vicky from from Yes and I saw her and Vicky 222 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 1: Galvinson Vinson yeah, right right. And I was expecting her 223 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:57,839 Speaker 1: face to look very spooky, because it does in the 224 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 1: show look psychotic. And I will admit I am not 225 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:06,719 Speaker 1: a real Housewives watcher myself, but I know because she 226 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 1: is that she is the first, she has the original 227 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: house and she right right, like I was sort of 228 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 1: sorry to describe this way long face. Yes she was. 229 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: She was one who's crying when we were watching an upstate. Yes, yes, 230 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: she went out constantly, constantly, and it was like unclear 231 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:25,319 Speaker 1: as to everyone else to watch, like, why is Vicky crying? Yes? 232 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:28,079 Speaker 1: I know exactly. We're talking. Great, she does have like 233 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 1: a down she looks normal. Dare I say? She looked 234 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: not spooky turned out? And you think they're going to 235 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 1: be a spook They're not the spookiest person I've ever seen. 236 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: Oh I've seen? Are you kidding me? In New York 237 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 1: you see like nine spooky people. Well maybe that's because 238 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:45,679 Speaker 1: I'm desensitized. Um. I feel like Queen of Spooky is 239 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:48,719 Speaker 1: like in our scene in New York, at least in 240 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:53,599 Speaker 1: Brooklyn is like what like Laurela a little bit the 241 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 1: queen of horror spook? Yes, had you been through a 242 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: spooky pa? Oh, my whole high school time was this 243 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 1: spooky face. You know, I'll tell you what I was 244 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:08,599 Speaker 1: in high school. I will I was. I had a 245 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: very like bad home life. So I was just like 246 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:17,080 Speaker 1: constantly just like high and fucking boys in high school 247 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 1: and not doing well in class at all. I see, 248 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 1: I feel like my narrative that I create for you 249 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: in my brain is doesn't try. I honestly love that, 250 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 1: thank you that that's the energy that I give off. Now. 251 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 1: In high school I had a very chinnet can ask 252 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 1: Patrick Foley, a fellow class together, Yes, yes, and maybe 253 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 1: his preppy phase was his. But and again high school, 254 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: I was just like, you know, I was just like 255 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: confused and just like wanted to just I don't know. 256 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 1: I wasn't even like who the funk am? I actually 257 00:14:57,840 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 1: think a lot of people have in high school were 258 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 1: scared and can fused by me, like because I went 259 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: to boarding school and I dropped out of boarding school 260 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: in my freshman year already spooky, yes, And then I 261 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 1: transferred into a high school in d C where I 262 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 1: grew up my school. No, I went to private school 263 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 1: in d C. And when I transferred in there, because 264 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 1: no one did that ever, this is such. This is 265 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: a very like O C story. Yes, yeah, I went 266 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 1: to Choke the Choy Hall, this boarding school in Connecticut 267 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 1: where like Vanka Trump went and k went to talk 268 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 1: about Spook. One of them is literally a ghost. And 269 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 1: I hated it and it was literal hell. It was 270 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 1: like the worst place on the planet. And I left. 271 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 1: And then when I transferred to my high school, there 272 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 1: was a rumor that went around that I was dealing ecstasy, 273 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 1: which was like hilarious in hindsight, and at this fair 274 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 1: was I was not dead, but I went like at 275 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 1: that time, I was into like wearing tight eye and 276 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 1: I had the kind of this like shaggy like brown 277 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 1: hair to look very like led Zeppelin, cream black Sabbath 278 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 1: kind of girl where I was just like I love 279 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: rock and like you at I did. But a lot 280 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: of it was informed by my you know, blood thirst 281 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 1: for dick. So a lot of my music taste has 282 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 1: always been informed by the thirst. Four days you would 283 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 1: blood is a front runner for a title because you 284 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: don't want you're not thirsty for the dick. You're thirsty 285 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 1: for the dick. Blood. Yes, I need the blood of 286 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 1: the dick. You can find you can find Greta by 287 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 1: the men's restroom and she goes, yeah, that's where they're 288 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 1: hiding with the men. But yeah, all of my musical 289 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: tastes all through high school were informed by whatever guy 290 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 1: I wanted to have sex, because in my sophomore year 291 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 1: I became obsessed with this gorgeous guy who didn't go 292 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 1: to my school, but he loved listening to Rags and 293 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 1: Machine and the Flaming Lips, And I literally wasted a 294 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 1: year of my life listening to the Flaming Lips. I 295 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:06,159 Speaker 1: mean trash, trash, but at the time it felt right. 296 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:11,159 Speaker 1: At the time, it felt very quick, like everything, like 297 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: if you weren't listening to it, like did you listen 298 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 1: to music? You know what I mean? If you we're 299 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 1: listening to Flaming Lips and Stevens yes, and oh my god, 300 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 1: can we talk about how with my girlfriends? Sufian wrecked 301 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 1: me and I couldn't even listen to it because I 302 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 1: was like, this is emotionally tormenting and like the orchestra 303 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 1: and the masks, I was like, that's crazy. What's crazy 304 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 1: is that he got bigger after that? Yeah, I would 305 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 1: say so, I mean, he did the score of me, 306 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 1: not the score, but the song. He did a lot 307 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: of songs for call Me by Your Name. He yeah, 308 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:44,879 Speaker 1: he got big, But say, I actually think that is 309 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 1: the right platform for him for that kind of an artist, 310 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: Like because he's working with orchestras and things like that. 311 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 1: He's not just like I'm just good my drunk, my guitar. Yeah, 312 00:17:57,040 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 1: he was always going to be something. He Yeah, it 313 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 1: really was like, yeah, he he became the artist. Became 314 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:09,920 Speaker 1: the artist. Um, okay, but okay, so walk us through 315 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 1: this high school life a little bit more. Oh yeah, 316 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 1: so then, I mean my hair was also like nine 317 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 1: things in high school. It was crazy. It was like 318 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 1: jet black and like deep purply black. Was a lot 319 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 1: of shades of black and a lot of different haircuts 320 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 1: at my senior year of high school. Honestly, I don't 321 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 1: know what the fuck I was thinking. I had. My 322 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: hair was up to here half fight to my to 323 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:35,400 Speaker 1: my cheeks, like right below my cheek bones, jet black. 324 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 1: And I had crooked bangs. I had crooked fucking Chicago, Yes, 325 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 1: like a really fucked deranged one. And I remember my 326 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: mom looking at me just being like oh God, and 327 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 1: she just walked away. I don't think she spoke to 328 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 1: me until like some grow out happened. Yeah, and my 329 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 1: parents were big and political people, so we would always 330 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 1: have parties at our house constantly, and I just remember 331 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: my mom being like what And then, so did you 332 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:10,440 Speaker 1: meet a lot of interesting DC figures? You know, you 333 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 1: know you're a little it was a regular house of cards. 334 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:16,679 Speaker 1: And it was a regular, regular old house of cards. 335 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 1: But yeah, and then in high school, Chain smoked cigarettes constantly, 336 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,240 Speaker 1: which is so stupid because you think you don't reek 337 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 1: of smoke, Like whenever anybody smokes a cigarette. Now, I 338 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 1: smell it for away and I can't like when I 339 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 1: when I fucking have a dark moment in bum one 340 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: off this one, I smell it on myself for two days, 341 00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:39,199 Speaker 1: two days. It's well, you know, I never shot one. 342 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:40,680 Speaker 1: And I'm just kidding. I like, I just feel like 343 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 1: it lingers from you know, when I whenever I do 344 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 1: smoke a cigarette, which is only in Europe, I find 345 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 1: that I smell it like in my breath. Yeah. Yeah, 346 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:57,440 Speaker 1: smoking cigarettes are fun. It's a social event. Yes, and 347 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 1: you do it too much. No, I've simply stopped since 348 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:06,159 Speaker 1: starting work. Do you have any idea how long this 349 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: has been your narrative. I had no idea you were smoked. 350 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:14,440 Speaker 1: I started smoking and may have twenty fifteen, just because 351 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 1: it was a social thing at work. It was like 352 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:18,640 Speaker 1: all right, well everyone like like we would, I worked 353 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 1: this office job, and like people would just be like, okay, 354 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 1: well there's nothing to do, let's just get downstairs. And 355 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 1: I was like okay, breaking up the day. And then 356 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 1: it just like snowballed into this thing and I was like, 357 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 1: oh funk, this sucks, Like I don't I feel bad 358 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 1: doing this? And then yeah, I kept it up for 359 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 1: like two years and now it's just like no, seriously, 360 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 1: this has been like the change that I needed to 361 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 1: just the truth in your eyes. Thank you to not 362 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: even think of I don't even have time to really 363 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:43,119 Speaker 1: think about it, which is great. Smoking is just like 364 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:46,200 Speaker 1: it's not cute. It's just passing the time. It's just 365 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:48,399 Speaker 1: if you're if you're smoking your board, that's all it is. 366 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: But you know what, there has been really fun about it. 367 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 1: There's something, there's something Hollywood has made it still so 368 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:56,680 Speaker 1: that when like I think about just like smoke, it's 369 00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 1: like dark and just like smoking a cigarette, like looking 370 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: out the window, it's like blowing. I can tell you 371 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: what I love about it, getting one on one time 372 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 1: with someone else. Yeah, that's like I'm always like, let's go. Like, 373 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 1: that's why I like to smoke. We Like, I loved 374 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: smoking weed with someone for the first time because it's 375 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 1: like you when you really get on their level. I'm 376 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 1: a full on tweaker when I smoke weed, and that's 377 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: what I used to do it constantly and now I can't. 378 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 1: At one time, I went on a date with a 379 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 1: guy and he was like, let's go back to my 380 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:22,720 Speaker 1: house and smoke weed me fully knowing I couldn't do it, 381 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, I did it anyway, smoked 382 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:30,920 Speaker 1: a blunt. By the way, Oh my god, I hallustined 383 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 1: that there was a poodle in the front yard, and 384 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 1: then he was like you need to go and then 385 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 1: oh my god, I who I was telling this story too. 386 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 1: So I had a crush on this guy. He was 387 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,639 Speaker 1: a bartender at a restaurant next to my old apartment, 388 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:51,440 Speaker 1: and after that weed incident happened, he like didn't talk 389 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 1: to me, and then I was wasted. I just found 390 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:57,520 Speaker 1: these screenshots on my computer the other day. When I 391 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,200 Speaker 1: was wasted, I texted him being like do want to 392 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 1: meet up or not? And then no response. And then 393 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 1: I was like, la, well just wanted to kiss or whatever. 394 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 1: Guess you don't dot dot dot and your response. And 395 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: then I said another teching like I mean I just 396 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:22,199 Speaker 1: wanted to fuck casually, and then no response. You were 397 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 1: that girl? And then I woke up in the morning 398 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, what the fuck? 399 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 1: And I said another text in the morning being like hey, like, um, 400 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 1: sorry about last night. I was a little over also overserved. 401 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: I don't know why, yeah, over served, like whatever, And 402 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:49,880 Speaker 1: then he didn't respond to me, and then I ended 403 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,720 Speaker 1: up seeing him at work and I had happened to 404 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: go to his restaurant twice in one day, which was terrible, 405 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:58,399 Speaker 1: and he just the only text you're at back was 406 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 1: you came here twice and one day period, not even 407 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 1: question mark, just period. Okay, Well, then he's just being 408 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 1: he was a dick, a little dickie. Ye. Yeah, I 409 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: mean listen, that's I I obviously respect to you for 410 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,119 Speaker 1: that time. Many texts, what they really need to be 411 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 1: texted is are you okay? Someone cutting you off? Because 412 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 1: they should be. I say, I've sent so many really 413 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 1: weird texts yeah, control, have you ever weird texted? I 414 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:31,920 Speaker 1: was really close last night because I had more to 415 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,200 Speaker 1: drink in a long time. We were all together last 416 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: night as we were um and I had one too 417 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: many frozen Mark's Delicious. Thank you those communities. Let a 418 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 1: treat a frozen market. And then I ordered the prickly pear. 419 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 1: I didn't deep rich color, rich colored, the deep rich 420 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 1: flavor point and then yeah, it was really close to 421 00:23:54,119 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 1: texting the color the flavor of you know what you're 422 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: talking about? Wait, what the high point? Oh my god, 423 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:06,880 Speaker 1: you guys, I thought that when you said deeper colored, 424 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,680 Speaker 1: deeper flavor. Lauren Bacall was in these oh her high 425 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 1: Point coffee, but just the way the tagline for it. 426 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 1: Look at the color, the deep rich flavor, and then 427 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 1: she she smells and then she's like the aroma and 428 00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 1: then she takes a sip and she's like nothing like 429 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:30,360 Speaker 1: high Point. You need to see those commercials. They're incredible. 430 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,440 Speaker 1: She's always like she's walking into a limousine and there's 431 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 1: like a small side table with a lamp in the 432 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 1: limousine with like tea, cakes and coffee. We need major 433 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 1: a list, actual real actresses to talk said but we need, 434 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 1: we need. The best one is Lauren walks into her 435 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,160 Speaker 1: sweet and she looks at the camera and she opens 436 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,360 Speaker 1: it and she just says, my favorite time of day 437 00:24:53,480 --> 00:25:00,359 Speaker 1: is night, which is holy the best iconic I'm to make. 438 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 1: My favorite time of day is night. I wish I 439 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 1: wish that I had like yearbook quotes in high school, 440 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: which I never got to have, but I wish to 441 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 1: repeat like the stupidest bullshit and the most gravitasi Hollywood 442 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,879 Speaker 1: glamour voice exactly here. You know what what you know? 443 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 1: You love New York from? So this is when he 444 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 1: was in high school and it was it was big 445 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 1: at the time. That's really smart, Like how I just 446 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 1: call that smart? I was just going to point out 447 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 1: that Greta is like high key, like I mean, she's 448 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 1: an incredible stand up like like full stop, but then 449 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:45,879 Speaker 1: also high key like very good at characters, yeah, like 450 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,159 Speaker 1: like check out the insta like, but she she just 451 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 1: dropped into the whole fucking book holism of it all, 452 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 1: and I'm just collisms of it all and now I'm 453 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 1: just like, oh yeah, like she like can embody that 454 00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 1: like better than a lot of all anyway? But who 455 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:04,200 Speaker 1: did you almost text though I don't want to say, 456 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 1: I mean just this just what made you stop? Well 457 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 1: made me stop? Was like oh well, he like, I 458 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:13,159 Speaker 1: mean this, this would go nowhere, and like it's like, 459 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 1: oh it's three am. Uh, it's not how you think 460 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 1: it is. It's this, it's the guy. It's is it 461 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,960 Speaker 1: the other one? I think it's just the quick flame guy. Yeah, 462 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 1: we love I think that he is safe to text. Really, 463 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:31,159 Speaker 1: I think you should text. He's fun and flortya. But 464 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 1: he was also really neurotic about just being like I 465 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 1: like you, but we shouldn't. We shouldn't se flirty in 466 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 1: the moment and then hetty hetty hetty afterwards. That's hard 467 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:43,880 Speaker 1: for me. I can't tell either a long term fun 468 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:45,920 Speaker 1: and flirty in the moment and then after the moment 469 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:47,679 Speaker 1: to like for like a solid two days and then 470 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 1: something turned and I'm looking back at my stuff and 471 00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 1: I'm like relitigating this in my head. Nothing I did, 472 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:58,240 Speaker 1: you need to know it. And then he just sort 473 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: of changed his mind and was like, my exes in 474 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 1: your friend groups, we should stop. And I'm like, that's 475 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 1: that's not true. So I'm sorry everyone. If you are 476 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:12,800 Speaker 1: like a person that is interesting. Working in New York City, 477 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 1: you probably know someone periphery that knows someone is not 478 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 1: a big deal unless it's a big deal to him, 479 00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:23,119 Speaker 1: which it felt like it wasn't a respect and you 480 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 1: gotta resolve it. Flings a fling, a dick in a mouth? 481 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 1: Who wants to complicate that? Flings a fling a dick 482 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 1: in the mouth? Who wants a complicated that? That's just 483 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 1: the beginning of a song I'm writing flings fling and 484 00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 1: who wants to complicate that? But yet everyone at the 485 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:46,800 Speaker 1: same time, can I say sometimes it can go a 486 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 1: little complicated. It always gets complicated somewhere because you know what, 487 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 1: I hate this idea of people being like, let's just 488 00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,679 Speaker 1: keep it casual. Whenever anybody that we're just casually hooking up, 489 00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, what does that mean? You haven't defined any 490 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,440 Speaker 1: parameters around this. So if someone's going to suck something 491 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 1: up and upset the other, right, and also if you 492 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 1: stay hooking up with that person for longer than a month, 493 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 1: in my book, that slowly starts to turn into a relationship. 494 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,920 Speaker 1: Does hello. We saw two popular films about this very thing, 495 00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 1: No Strings Attached, Friends, Friends, Benefits and came out in 496 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:25,240 Speaker 1: the same year, like months apart, like months after Black Swan, 497 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 1: which almost sounds better. Which one did you think was better? 498 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 1: I think I have to say I prefer the Natalie 499 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 1: Apportman and Ashton Kutcher one. And that's not just because 500 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 1: a friend is in the movie. Can I say that 501 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 1: I found the chemistry between Mila and Justin to be 502 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 1: a little bit more realistic though than the chemistry between 503 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 1: more fun. It was more fun, where like Wrenally was 504 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 1: just like, I'm a doctor and I guess I want 505 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 1: to blow off steam by fucking Ashton Kutcher. I just 506 00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: wasn't as. I don't believe for a second that someone 507 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:04,959 Speaker 1: as smart as Natalie pork someone as dumb as Ashton. However, 508 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 1: I think that Justin Timberlake is so charismatic and Milacunas 509 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:11,479 Speaker 1: is so charismatic that I would just believe that they 510 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 1: would suck anything. Can I say I saw Ashton Kutcher 511 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 1: in person years ago, literally insanely hot. He's crazy, You're 512 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 1: just like that, Iowa corn Well done corn the whole melt. 513 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,240 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I've said it on this podcast before, 514 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 1: but you have to look up to this movie he 515 00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 1: was in called spread best. So many incredible sex scenes 516 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 1: in it. You see his like but which is great? 517 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 1: I just yeah, I guess I'm not. I'm not a 518 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 1: huge Timberlake fan myself. I have a bunch of issues 519 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 1: with Timberlake. We had a long discussion upstate about just 520 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 1: all the things that he is culpable and you know 521 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:58,719 Speaker 1: what do you mean, Well, here's the thing. The Man 522 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,480 Speaker 1: of the Woods thing is, it's just a way for 523 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: aging pop star to give up but still be like, 524 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 1: I'm so cool, you know what I mean. But here's 525 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 1: here's an editorial is angled all this, you know what 526 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: I mean? Like, for me, my justin Timberlake, my personal 527 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:16,280 Speaker 1: justin Timberlake is in a fucking suit, and my personal 528 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 1: justin Timberlake is in a doll insane. That was when 529 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 1: I was still in denial about my sexuality. That one 530 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 1: had a deep patriot for him because I wanted to 531 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 1: fuck him so badly. About Lance Bass, No, Lance was 532 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,960 Speaker 1: Lance I never fully like clung onto even during the 533 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 1: gay rumors. I was like, oh, I know I'm connecting 534 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,120 Speaker 1: on some level with this, but I don't know what. 535 00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 1: And then I just never really did you know that 536 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,719 Speaker 1: he was the most popular doll. Oh out of all 537 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 1: the five, I guess that would make sense to me 538 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 1: because he would look the most like ken blonde hair 539 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: because with the justin dults like the curly the curls 540 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,680 Speaker 1: are just like a little tough on on plasta. Those 541 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: curls were tight curls. They wore some ammonium. Ty glockily asked, curls, 542 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 1: I mean a true springboard. It was like crazy he 543 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 1: did have I remember in that in the video for 544 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 1: Terran at My Heart when he is in his white 545 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 1: I almost said wife beater. And that is a truly 546 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,640 Speaker 1: like that is that is a misogynistic thing from Long 547 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,479 Speaker 1: Island that everyone says wife beater when they when they 548 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:32,320 Speaker 1: talk about a tank that people call it that everywhere. 549 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 1: But it's crazy. That flies out of my mouth and 550 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 1: that language that it's just crazy. We have to check 551 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 1: ourselves at all times. But he's in like that, what 552 00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 1: do you call it? Just a white a white tank. 553 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:48,720 Speaker 1: It's a white tank. It's insane, but it's literally replaced 554 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 1: but what it actually is. But he's in that white 555 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 1: tank and he is like up on the bed and 556 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 1: he rises up out of the bed and he's like 557 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,440 Speaker 1: I was just like, oh my God, like he's everything 558 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 1: and more. He's the most to say the least, the most, 559 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 1: to say the least. I want to say. We could 560 00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 1: go ahead. I was just going to ask you because 561 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:11,200 Speaker 1: this spooky high school phase is so interesting, get back 562 00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 1: to are you interested? Are you interested in maybe dipping 563 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:16,040 Speaker 1: your toe back? And even though you're so settled, I 564 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 1: don't care that. No, no, no, he's talking about getting 565 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:22,600 Speaker 1: spooky now now ever, get spooky again. I feel like 566 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 1: I feel like, would you want to? Of course I 567 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 1: always want to get spooky. Here's the thing. My spooky 568 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 1: high school phase was like I was spooky like all 569 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,600 Speaker 1: of high school, yes, and but you know, here's the 570 00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 1: problem with me. I was spooky all high school. But 571 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,680 Speaker 1: I also loved designer goods, you know what I mean. 572 00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 1: So you can't be full spook while still like loving 573 00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 1: a Mark Jacob silk top and while still like wanting 574 00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 1: AMU me bag? You know? And there were aspects of 575 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 1: my personality that I couldn't wash away. Now in the 576 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 1: in the age of like rag and bone and all 577 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 1: saints and like all this stuff that you can you 578 00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 1: can't intersect a book, you could, but you know what 579 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 1: I'm not. Uh, yes you can, but there is something 580 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:11,520 Speaker 1: I need authenticity, you know what I mean, Because there's 581 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 1: nothing worse than unauthentic spook Honestly, there is nothing worse 582 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 1: for me to watch because when I see someone that 583 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:21,360 Speaker 1: is unauthentic in their spookiness and like you are going 584 00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 1: dealing with a lot of pain and that affects me. 585 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,960 Speaker 1: It does look very dust I mean because because really 586 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 1: what they're trying to do is they're trying to get 587 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,960 Speaker 1: like raw. And I think that's what I'm saying that 588 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 1: I love Taylor and I'm so glad to revisit her 589 00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 1: and re embrace, but I feel like Reputation Era even 590 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 1: now is like a little bit in authentic. That's what 591 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:41,760 Speaker 1: upset me about that album. I was like, this is 592 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 1: not you, like this isn't you good at being that? No, 593 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 1: I don't think she's good at being that. I don't 594 00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:53,400 Speaker 1: think she's good at like look, if she wants to 595 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 1: fully commit change your hair number one, I want to 596 00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 1: see a fucking hair change. I need a literal physical 597 00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 1: indicator that you're committing to this came back with dark hair. Yeah, 598 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 1: give me like a brunette a dirty on this podcast, 599 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:14,399 Speaker 1: saying that the next that that we needed we don't 600 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 1: have Pat Benatar right now, And I said, maybe if 601 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 1: Taylor were smart, she would try to come back as 602 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 1: some sort of like rock goddess when she when we 603 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:23,560 Speaker 1: didn't know what she was going to come back us, 604 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 1: and I think she came of the way she tried 605 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:30,719 Speaker 1: to blend hip hop with rock goddess with like pop. 606 00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,440 Speaker 1: I also, I don't need Taylor to dance, Honestly, I 607 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,880 Speaker 1: don't want Taylor. I don't want Taylor to dance. I 608 00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 1: don't need her to like give me this weird kind 609 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:41,720 Speaker 1: of like Beyonce esque, like a bunch of people dancing 610 00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,359 Speaker 1: with her things because it's not good, and like, well, 611 00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 1: there a difference between dancing and doing coreo. Yes, she 612 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 1: is doing difference. There a difference. It's just a cure 613 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:57,920 Speaker 1: number sixteen. Difference between dancing and there is a huge difference. 614 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 1: And I just I died her. I wish that she 615 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:03,440 Speaker 1: had done exactly what you're saying, like give me a 616 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:08,239 Speaker 1: dirty like dishwater. I love that term. And like play 617 00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:10,360 Speaker 1: the guitar. I want to see you play the guitar 618 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:14,880 Speaker 1: and singing. I know that's my favorite. The best tailor 619 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:16,640 Speaker 1: is that she whips out the guitar and you know what, 620 00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:21,360 Speaker 1: make it electric? With electric guitar and a fucking black haircut, 621 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 1: that would have been pretty sick. And I also think 622 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 1: that still pop music is missing, that we don't have 623 00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 1: rock goddess. We had pop rock goddesses for a second 624 00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:34,240 Speaker 1: there when that was popular. We had you know, Kelly 625 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,759 Speaker 1: and Pink when they were like very I guess like 626 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 1: the I guess the chick that's in Lady Antebellum is 627 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 1: like mainstream enough that people might classify her as being 628 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 1: a rock goddess. Who is? But but who else? I 629 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:48,880 Speaker 1: don't know. That's like the only one thing that I 630 00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:50,879 Speaker 1: can think of. And the only reason why I even 631 00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:55,359 Speaker 1: think of Lydianntebellum is because my boyfriend likes country music. Um, 632 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:01,240 Speaker 1: we should say that Greta has that the absolute dream. 633 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:05,279 Speaker 1: I'm a boyfriend. Yesterday when we looked or this morning, 634 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 1: we looked at the photo of all of us last 635 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:10,480 Speaker 1: night and it was like, this photo is so cool, 636 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,720 Speaker 1: and I was like yeah. He was like, I'm literally 637 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 1: standing with the future of common and I was like, yeah, 638 00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,560 Speaker 1: you are, And do you want me to autograph it 639 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:27,320 Speaker 1: for you or something? He's the best sweet took me 640 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,600 Speaker 1: a long time to like respect and like a good 641 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:37,600 Speaker 1: sweet man. It's hard to accept love, I think. I 642 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:42,360 Speaker 1: think it's really hard. And I think that, you know, 643 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:47,640 Speaker 1: we've all relationships are always complicated, and I think that 644 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,759 Speaker 1: and I blame this partially on Hollywood that a lot 645 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:57,200 Speaker 1: of us think that like passion is either this like crazy, 646 00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,200 Speaker 1: like we meet each other and we're obsessed me up 647 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:04,560 Speaker 1: and it's crazy. Life is like insane, and then like 648 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:06,959 Speaker 1: and then we start to fight, but like our fights 649 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 1: are also passionate, and like we need to fight and 650 00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,000 Speaker 1: let me fuck, and then it's like whatever. So I 651 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 1: think we have it programmed somewhere in our brains are 652 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,279 Speaker 1: at least I did for a very long time that 653 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:23,920 Speaker 1: like fighting and this constant like torment and this like 654 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:28,399 Speaker 1: drama was was love. Like I thought that that was love, 655 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 1: you know, And it's like, well, how is it love 656 00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,320 Speaker 1: if you're not like getting into these like crazy passionate 657 00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:40,040 Speaker 1: fights and then like having weird ravenous sex are like arguing. 658 00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. I had a really hard time dealing 659 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 1: with that. And you know, my my parents had a 660 00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 1: terrible marriage, and I saw that as my like relationship 661 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:56,400 Speaker 1: as a child, well just parents constantly fighting and literally 662 00:37:56,520 --> 00:38:00,279 Speaker 1: not liking each other. And then I think I took 663 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 1: that on and you don't realize how that stuff completely 664 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,400 Speaker 1: affects you as you grow. And it's like then I 665 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 1: found myself in these relationships, especially with in my like 666 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:15,960 Speaker 1: late teens to my mid twe until the relationship have 667 00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:20,480 Speaker 1: been now actually of men that were just like honestly 668 00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,080 Speaker 1: really shitty to me or just like gasolate me in 669 00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 1: some way, like it was always my fault. I was 670 00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:28,920 Speaker 1: always doing something wrong. I remember every relationship, I always 671 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:32,960 Speaker 1: felt like I'm the reason why this isn't working. And 672 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,920 Speaker 1: I think that now being with someone that just like 673 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 1: he just wants to love me and take care of me, 674 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 1: and he's so not judgmental, and we're not in the 675 00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:45,400 Speaker 1: same industry, which I he tangentially works in entertainment, but 676 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 1: like so he understands comedy in this lifestyle and whatever, 677 00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:53,200 Speaker 1: which is great, but I don't know, it's hard sometimes 678 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,279 Speaker 1: because he wants he's always helpful to me and he 679 00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,400 Speaker 1: wants helped me, and he likes helping me, and I 680 00:38:57,480 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 1: find that sometimes I'm like, you don't have to do that, 681 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,840 Speaker 1: Like I get shitty about it, which is not nice. 682 00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:04,960 Speaker 1: But I'm just like, you need to help me, and 683 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:06,680 Speaker 1: he's like, well, it's just it's because I love you. 684 00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,719 Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, fine, you know. But it's so 685 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,600 Speaker 1: nice to be in that kind of relationship with They're 686 00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 1: hard because it's like I'm a moody psycho bitch, you 687 00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,880 Speaker 1: know what I mean. And like some days, like yesterday 688 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,279 Speaker 1: at when we came in on a red eye and 689 00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 1: we were taking a nap at seven thirty in the morning, 690 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:25,560 Speaker 1: I started to have a panic attack and he's like 691 00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,440 Speaker 1: what And I was like, I'm not doing enough for 692 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:32,440 Speaker 1: my career and he was like what he's here. He's 693 00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:35,239 Speaker 1: like it's seven thirty in the morning. Um, what's going on? 694 00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,799 Speaker 1: And I was like you just don't understand. And then 695 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:40,120 Speaker 1: I like get round, like I need to go to 696 00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:42,680 Speaker 1: the bathroom, and I'm like I'm my poop and I'm 697 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,880 Speaker 1: like it's like go, you know, and I'm so dramatic. 698 00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 1: I'm still like my mom, I'm so dramatic sometimes and 699 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:50,920 Speaker 1: I'm just going to get into my car and then 700 00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:55,720 Speaker 1: I'm like speed away, you know, and it's like for nothing. 701 00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,560 Speaker 1: He's like, oh my god, He's just like you're funny 702 00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 1: and he knows being cuckoo? What is he working? Does 703 00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:07,439 Speaker 1: work as he works? Um? He works at Netflix? Oh great? 704 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,280 Speaker 1: So that that's the perfect thing where it's like he's 705 00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:13,840 Speaker 1: he understands the contours of what your career is, but 706 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,000 Speaker 1: he's not doing the same thing or he doesn't want 707 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 1: the same things necessarily, you know, he is he is 708 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:24,360 Speaker 1: and just like all of us, so driven, and I 709 00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: think it's really hard to find someone that matches your 710 00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:30,560 Speaker 1: drive because I would find that I would get really 711 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:33,640 Speaker 1: frustrated with ex boyfriends of mine that I didn't feel 712 00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 1: were as driven as mend And that's and you know what, 713 00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 1: that's fine. Like I now I'm at a place where 714 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:43,920 Speaker 1: I like, what I'm trying to do is just be 715 00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:48,920 Speaker 1: like an accepting, loving person because it's so much energy 716 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:52,319 Speaker 1: gets taken from you when you're not. And don't get 717 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,200 Speaker 1: me wrong, I love dragging people and it's so much 718 00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:57,560 Speaker 1: fun to do, but it's like sometimes it can just 719 00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,719 Speaker 1: be like really exhausting and are like why am I? 720 00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,640 Speaker 1: Why am I doing that? You know? So for all 721 00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:05,880 Speaker 1: my ex boyfriends, I used to be like, what the 722 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 1: funk is wrong with you that you don't want to 723 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,480 Speaker 1: do this, Like why are you not pushing yourself? And 724 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:12,080 Speaker 1: then I kind of realized now it's like, well maybe 725 00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:15,600 Speaker 1: they just didn't want to. I'm like, that's fine, that's 726 00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 1: just not how I am programmed. And I think it 727 00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:20,799 Speaker 1: takes a few relationships to figure that out. And I think, 728 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,480 Speaker 1: I know, like with my relationship that ended, it was 729 00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 1: the only one I had ever been in, and that 730 00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,000 Speaker 1: was in the forefront of my mind the whole time. 731 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:29,840 Speaker 1: It's like, shouldn't I be learning more from more relationships? 732 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,840 Speaker 1: And I think to like I would seek all of 733 00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:39,320 Speaker 1: my validation from other people and from this, you know, 734 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 1: I would seek so much validation, like from other people 735 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:46,799 Speaker 1: and like from my boyfriends or something. And and now 736 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:50,640 Speaker 1: I'm just like, that's so empty. That's such an empty 737 00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:55,719 Speaker 1: way to live, to constantly be seeking because you're never 738 00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:57,840 Speaker 1: going to get it the way that you want, and like, 739 00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,719 Speaker 1: it's so stupid because you need to get it from 740 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 1: your self. But I think that that's a that's like 741 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,439 Speaker 1: moving to l A for me where I really feel 742 00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 1: like I'm starting this a new thing, Like I don't 743 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:10,560 Speaker 1: have the comedy community there where I went there, and 744 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,920 Speaker 1: I felt so insecure and I felt so not validated 745 00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:16,560 Speaker 1: in what I was doing because I didn't have other 746 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,279 Speaker 1: and other people to say things like oh, granted, like 747 00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:21,600 Speaker 1: what you guys said at the top of the show, 748 00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:23,759 Speaker 1: like you got so funny, so great, and to me, 749 00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, like, yeah I am. But 750 00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:30,960 Speaker 1: it's been a test for me to just know that. 751 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 1: And I think that this relationship has helped me because 752 00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:37,560 Speaker 1: he seems to just know that about me. So then 753 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,839 Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, I guess I know that about me too, 754 00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:42,560 Speaker 1: you know, And I think it's hard. It's just hard 755 00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:47,000 Speaker 1: to find the right person. Yeah, I'm really I don't know. 756 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,239 Speaker 1: I really related to what you're saying because I felt 757 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 1: like I found that in a relationship, and now not 758 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,880 Speaker 1: being in that relationship anymore has been the hard thing, 759 00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:57,680 Speaker 1: right where now you're like, now you're like, who likes me? 760 00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,839 Speaker 1: Do I even like me? Get one like that again? 761 00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:05,239 Speaker 1: You will? You will? It just takes it's a it's 762 00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,799 Speaker 1: a thing. But it's just like you need to also 763 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:10,239 Speaker 1: be open to it. A lot of people just like 764 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,680 Speaker 1: that's open to meeting people aren't open to going out. 765 00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,560 Speaker 1: You need to be willing to put yourself out there 766 00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:17,680 Speaker 1: and you need to be willing to get rejected. Yes, 767 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:20,560 Speaker 1: we need to go out. We need to go out. 768 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:25,120 Speaker 1: We going out is important. Yes, um wow, I needed 769 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,200 Speaker 1: to hear a lot of that. I don't know is 770 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:32,840 Speaker 1: that that's boring, especially for especially you just saying like 771 00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:34,759 Speaker 1: you're never going to get it the way you want, 772 00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,680 Speaker 1: if you're just waiting on someone else's approval, that sounds 773 00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:41,840 Speaker 1: it's like such a given notion, a given thing, And like, 774 00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:45,400 Speaker 1: I don't know, like working working this job now is 775 00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:47,960 Speaker 1: like all about seeking approval from other people. And I'm 776 00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,080 Speaker 1: just like I'm like, oh this, I'm like, I didn't 777 00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:53,920 Speaker 1: used to work like this. No, And there's something and 778 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:58,880 Speaker 1: going back to spooky authenticity, I think that likethicity a 779 00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:03,239 Speaker 1: front runner. I think that my and this is something 780 00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:08,320 Speaker 1: that I've always craved so deeply since the day I 781 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:12,400 Speaker 1: was born, was to just be this like incredibly authentic person, 782 00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:14,800 Speaker 1: you know, And you know when you see people like 783 00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 1: Stevie Nicks was born fucking cool, like I don't know, 784 00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:24,920 Speaker 1: she was just cool, like Freddie Mercury fucking you know, 785 00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:28,680 Speaker 1: just some people, Paul, Like some people that make you 786 00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:33,080 Speaker 1: think that they're just like so cool. You've always just 787 00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:38,960 Speaker 1: craved that effortlessness of being like authentically secure and cool 788 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:43,520 Speaker 1: and sure and confident, and I realized that it just 789 00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,680 Speaker 1: actually takes so much fucking work. Takes work. And then 790 00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,400 Speaker 1: even those people like and this is no this is 791 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,720 Speaker 1: no shape, but it's like you listen to his podcaster, 792 00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 1: you'd like listen to interviews, and like ru Paul is 793 00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:58,000 Speaker 1: also constantly totally second guessing everything that that he's doing anyway, 794 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,800 Speaker 1: Like it's it's it's never what it's seems, even with 795 00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:04,600 Speaker 1: people who seem to have it sort of like everyone 796 00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:09,759 Speaker 1: that you just mentioned has such darkness and so much 797 00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,799 Speaker 1: and and that's the crazy thing. It is interesting when 798 00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:15,800 Speaker 1: I meet like I was, a friend of mine is 799 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 1: dating this scroll who I met recently, and she just 800 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:24,000 Speaker 1: like works a very simple job that she like she's 801 00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:26,000 Speaker 1: kind of indifferent about it, but like she makes really 802 00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:29,200 Speaker 1: good money. She just bought a house her She's like, 803 00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,400 Speaker 1: my work isn't my life? And I just like when 804 00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:33,320 Speaker 1: she said that to me, I was like, what what 805 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,560 Speaker 1: do you mean? What do you do otherwise? You know, 806 00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:39,319 Speaker 1: like what do you like? So you're just working? She's like, yeah, 807 00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:41,239 Speaker 1: I mean I'm really good at my job. It's really 808 00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:44,080 Speaker 1: straightforward the hours are good, vacations good pay, is good 809 00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:48,080 Speaker 1: about a house, and that's it, And I'm like, actual, yeah, 810 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, okay, I guess things can just be 811 00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,840 Speaker 1: like nice, whereas every day I'm just like tired of 812 00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:58,320 Speaker 1: feeling like every day is a war with myself, you know. 813 00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,479 Speaker 1: So it's like it's getting it's gotten so much better 814 00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,080 Speaker 1: over the years, But so much of my spookiness was 815 00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:08,400 Speaker 1: rooted in this, yes, constant like trying to be memorable 816 00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:11,840 Speaker 1: and trying to be trying more than anything to be 817 00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:15,080 Speaker 1: like to be like this is sucking me, Like I 818 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:17,480 Speaker 1: don't give a fuck, Like I will go and buzz 819 00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:20,200 Speaker 1: my head right now. You don't believe me. Watch, I 820 00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:24,520 Speaker 1: will smoke nine cigarettes. I will like drink vodka straight. 821 00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:29,480 Speaker 1: I'm not why did we do that. I would do 822 00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:32,280 Speaker 1: that all the time in high school to be like, okay, 823 00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:35,640 Speaker 1: I'm doing barcodes on my arrest. I'm getting to seven, 824 00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:39,640 Speaker 1: you know, like a sharpie, and you would just do 825 00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:42,480 Speaker 1: like one one line for each shot you took her. 826 00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:44,920 Speaker 1: So I don't know that, you know. I was thinking 827 00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,520 Speaker 1: about this yesterday when I was watching when I was 828 00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:52,480 Speaker 1: watching the SNL take, and there was a man next 829 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:55,319 Speaker 1: to me, who would never applause, who wouldn't clap when 830 00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:57,960 Speaker 1: it wouldn't clap, And I seriously want to turn him 831 00:46:57,960 --> 00:46:59,319 Speaker 1: and I want to be like what are you trying 832 00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:02,440 Speaker 1: to prove? Like what what are you trying to I 833 00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,840 Speaker 1: understand like in high school, you know, and like the 834 00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:07,560 Speaker 1: band of playing like come on everybody, and then you 835 00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,920 Speaker 1: have to like clap and like no one thinks you're 836 00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:14,520 Speaker 1: cool by not clopping, like fact, we're contributing to the 837 00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:17,560 Speaker 1: positive energy. Yeah, I'm just like what you And to me, 838 00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,759 Speaker 1: that was like his version of being like I just 839 00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:22,839 Speaker 1: take a shot. Are you going to take a fucking shot? 840 00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:26,560 Speaker 1: You know? And I'm just like, wow, you're angst and 841 00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 1: rebellion is so compelling, sir. 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I must ask the 888 00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:09,360 Speaker 1: question that we ask all of our guests, which is 889 00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 1: what was the culture that made you say? Culture was 890 00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:18,600 Speaker 1: for me? I think I always I just like wanted 891 00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:22,279 Speaker 1: to be a star when I was really little, just 892 00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:27,480 Speaker 1: always like wanted attention and wanted to be a star. Yes, 893 00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:30,720 Speaker 1: I loved watching like Shirley Temple, and I love Shirley 894 00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,680 Speaker 1: Temple movies like I got the Chili Temple doll. I 895 00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:38,319 Speaker 1: like love Shirley Temple so much. Um, really I don't. 896 00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:41,359 Speaker 1: I it's so funny because no one's ever I don't. 897 00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:44,200 Speaker 1: I new Shirley Temples like a thing, but it's like 898 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:46,520 Speaker 1: for one for someone. One of my peers said, they 899 00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:48,800 Speaker 1: love Shirley Temple. That's so funny. Well, I was like 900 00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,279 Speaker 1: obsessed with my mom. So I was. I was a 901 00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:55,120 Speaker 1: kid that was absolutely obsessed with my mom. Like my 902 00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:57,800 Speaker 1: mom could do no wrong. I was my mom's shadow. 903 00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,440 Speaker 1: I like I didn't care about toys. They're photos of 904 00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:04,000 Speaker 1: me like reading, like sitting in like glasses, reading the 905 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:06,080 Speaker 1: New York Times, which I was not reading, but I 906 00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,880 Speaker 1: would just sit there and like mom, I wanted to 907 00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,280 Speaker 1: be heard, and like I wanted to wear power suits 908 00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:14,560 Speaker 1: and like high heels and just like be her. And 909 00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:17,719 Speaker 1: I think that the Shirley Temple thing probably came from 910 00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:20,680 Speaker 1: my mom or she was just like, look at this 911 00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:23,600 Speaker 1: little girl that like performs. And I remember I was 912 00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:26,920 Speaker 1: in the like maybe I was in the fourth grade 913 00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:30,080 Speaker 1: and I sobbed to my mom about how I wanted 914 00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:38,840 Speaker 1: an agent. I was like, please, like you like, please 915 00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:42,480 Speaker 1: get me an agent. I was like, because I'm aging, 916 00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:47,520 Speaker 1: this is sick, this is wrong. I was like, fucking 917 00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:52,160 Speaker 1: Lindsay Lohan is eleven and acting with herself like this 918 00:51:52,480 --> 00:52:02,120 Speaker 1: is sick. Twins like Lizzie MacGuire killed me. I was like, 919 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:05,520 Speaker 1: this bitch thinks that she is, does McGuire? I am 920 00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:08,759 Speaker 1: Lizzie McGuire. Oh my god, Wait a minute, can I 921 00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:13,200 Speaker 1: say something potentially silly and dumb? In myopic, we grew 922 00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:16,080 Speaker 1: up in a time where we all grew up in 923 00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:19,160 Speaker 1: a time where the child, the concept of the child 924 00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:22,800 Speaker 1: star like fully proliferated out into things that where it 925 00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,960 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, you're seeing kids be in shows that 926 00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:29,680 Speaker 1: are for us portrayed by children. As I think up 927 00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:33,360 Speaker 1: until like maybe late seventies, early eighties, it wasn't like 928 00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:36,040 Speaker 1: that like it was just just cartoon the Only Children. 929 00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:40,719 Speaker 1: It was just cartoon Rogerstridge family. Sure, but it wasn't 930 00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:45,759 Speaker 1: about one child family dynamic, Emily. It wasn't about one 931 00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 1: kid being the center of the whole of the whole 932 00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,600 Speaker 1: universe whatever. But even like the Cosby Show, it was 933 00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:58,040 Speaker 1: about like this family family different strokes and like growing pains. 934 00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:00,440 Speaker 1: All this is all family dynamics, all family dynamic. It 935 00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:02,920 Speaker 1: wasn't centered solely on the kid where it's like then 936 00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,719 Speaker 1: you moved into the nines where it was child stories. 937 00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:08,640 Speaker 1: It was the Olsen Twins, like Club Mickey mouse Club, 938 00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:10,160 Speaker 1: but it was literally like I mean, I guess Mickey 939 00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:12,719 Speaker 1: mouse Club back in the day, pre nineties, but like 940 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:17,640 Speaker 1: but like like fucking like Olsen Twins videos of them 941 00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:21,920 Speaker 1: going to Paris just unsupervised. It's like what like this 942 00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:29,080 Speaker 1: like this minute truly like making out with guys. It's 943 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,480 Speaker 1: it was. It was a new thing. It was a 944 00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:34,080 Speaker 1: thing that just started when we were growing up, and 945 00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:37,560 Speaker 1: so that fucked up everything about our concept of fame 946 00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:41,000 Speaker 1: being liked, being like getting attention. I think that is 947 00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:43,920 Speaker 1: like intrinsically like linked to like our general I agree 948 00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:45,600 Speaker 1: with that because there was. I don't think there was 949 00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:48,480 Speaker 1: anything that Even Jonathan Taylor Thomas I remember him being like, 950 00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:52,399 Speaker 1: and it's it's that's very true and like a very 951 00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:55,120 Speaker 1: apt right, I mean like I mean like not that 952 00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:58,360 Speaker 1: like child actors weren't like didn't reistic, but like not 953 00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:01,880 Speaker 1: at that level. The culture, like a culture keyed into 954 00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:06,279 Speaker 1: these like lindsay like and the parents. Yes, yes, well 955 00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:10,200 Speaker 1: we saw the globalization of like the media at the 956 00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:12,520 Speaker 1: time when we were seeing that, I think that's why 957 00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:16,759 Speaker 1: it feels this way. I do think you I feel 958 00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:18,560 Speaker 1: this way, and you feel this way, and you feel 959 00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:22,600 Speaker 1: this way. It's like basically but but but what I'm 960 00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:25,920 Speaker 1: saying is, like I think because the media was getting 961 00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:30,000 Speaker 1: out of control as we aged, that's why it feels 962 00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:33,120 Speaker 1: like we had finally this like centering in on these 963 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,080 Speaker 1: kids because they were making money. And then that's what 964 00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:39,000 Speaker 1: makes it even more fucked up that like I think 965 00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:41,160 Speaker 1: ten year period when we were in high school where 966 00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:42,880 Speaker 1: it was cool to make fun of people who had 967 00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:46,600 Speaker 1: drug problems, Like I remember doing a presentation about um 968 00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:51,000 Speaker 1: drunk driving in my health class or my like humanities 969 00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:52,960 Speaker 1: class or whatever in high school, and one of the 970 00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:56,080 Speaker 1: beats in it was like predicting that Lindsay Lohan would 971 00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:59,800 Speaker 1: die in a drunk driving accident. And I showed it 972 00:54:59,840 --> 00:55:01,480 Speaker 1: to my mother and she was like, why would you 973 00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:04,400 Speaker 1: do that? This isn't funny, But it's so crazy because 974 00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:07,200 Speaker 1: like all my peers, nobody called it out was being 975 00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:09,600 Speaker 1: not funny, whereas today it'd be like that's a sick 976 00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:11,560 Speaker 1: thing to do. But that was where we were at 977 00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:14,279 Speaker 1: at six Team. Also, it was the Internet. It was 978 00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,320 Speaker 1: like the rise of the Internet and like access and 979 00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:20,400 Speaker 1: seeing it and it was it is crazy to think about, 980 00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:23,800 Speaker 1: but yeah, I mean I would say that, like I 981 00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:28,160 Speaker 1: A lot of those things made me be like, oh, 982 00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:29,960 Speaker 1: like I want to do this, you know, and I 983 00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:34,759 Speaker 1: know and then I think, I what A person that 984 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:38,359 Speaker 1: really influenced me was like Tracy Ullman, but I saw her, 985 00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:41,400 Speaker 1: saw her show, and then I started watching a lot 986 00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:44,320 Speaker 1: of Christopher Guest movies like that kind of stuff. Was like, 987 00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:47,239 Speaker 1: I want to do this, you know, Tracy is one 988 00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:51,160 Speaker 1: of the best of all time, all time. Um. But 989 00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:53,839 Speaker 1: then I got all through high school, I never got 990 00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:56,960 Speaker 1: into any productions and I never was like theater was 991 00:55:57,040 --> 00:56:01,440 Speaker 1: just they didn't like me. Make yeah edutioned and me 992 00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:04,640 Speaker 1: and Patrick Foley. However, Patrick Folly ended up booking everything 993 00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:06,960 Speaker 1: when he was like the one boy left in school 994 00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:10,160 Speaker 1: and very talented, and you know, then graduates with the 995 00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:13,879 Speaker 1: Masters from Yell Drama, which is amazing, and then I'm 996 00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:17,960 Speaker 1: also successful in my own whatever. But then I got 997 00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,480 Speaker 1: a little side tracked because when I couldn't, I felt 998 00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:23,799 Speaker 1: so rejected from all of this that I started doing photography, 999 00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:26,960 Speaker 1: which is what I studied at Parson. Yeah, so that 1000 00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:31,920 Speaker 1: I didn't know I did. And then I went through 1001 00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:33,600 Speaker 1: this whole thing where I was like, I want to 1002 00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:37,080 Speaker 1: become like a like a Cindy Shirt. Well, the first 1003 00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:38,919 Speaker 1: I wanted to be like an Ansel Adams, like old 1004 00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:44,359 Speaker 1: large back and white landscapes, like new typographic kind of photographer. 1005 00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:49,120 Speaker 1: And then I was like, and I love Cindy Sherman, 1006 00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:54,200 Speaker 1: similar to Tracy Almonds and Christopher Guests another great character 1007 00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:56,680 Speaker 1: people she really liked was amazing, and I love like 1008 00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:58,440 Speaker 1: Marilyn Minter and I love all of that kind of 1009 00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:01,840 Speaker 1: our you know, So this all, this all makes this 1010 00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:04,080 Speaker 1: is so interesting, and this all makes sense and it 1011 00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:06,799 Speaker 1: comes together within like how you are now where it's 1012 00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:10,160 Speaker 1: like someone who is like so it's like so wonderfully 1013 00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:14,320 Speaker 1: like thoughtful about aesthetics and about you know, presentation and 1014 00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,040 Speaker 1: about the way things Well, I just get so upset 1015 00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:20,560 Speaker 1: when people, especially when you when I'm coming to and 1016 00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:22,560 Speaker 1: this is something and I love stand up so much. 1017 00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:24,800 Speaker 1: I'm a stand up obviously, but like something in the 1018 00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:30,280 Speaker 1: stand up world, it's like, let's just look yeah, because 1019 00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,400 Speaker 1: that way, because if you look bad then it's distracting. Well, 1020 00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:36,040 Speaker 1: I just get upset. Like I imagine if I'm paying 1021 00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:39,479 Speaker 1: for a ticket right to go to a comedy club 1022 00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:41,120 Speaker 1: and then I and then I need to get a 1023 00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:44,720 Speaker 1: chewer drink minum, and then I'm watching, you know, someone 1024 00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:48,320 Speaker 1: on stage that like didn't even take one second to 1025 00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:54,960 Speaker 1: like look or just like wash your face. How do 1026 00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:56,760 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? It doesn't it's not even 1027 00:57:56,800 --> 00:57:58,840 Speaker 1: about I don't give a funk if your clothes are 1028 00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:00,560 Speaker 1: like designer or whatever. I don't care about that, just 1029 00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:04,960 Speaker 1: like look fresh, you know. Yeah, it's there's some sort 1030 00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,120 Speaker 1: of like anxiety that I just said that is that 1031 00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:09,920 Speaker 1: bad that I just I mean, I sort of a 1032 00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:12,720 Speaker 1: degree in this way where it's like it's not about 1033 00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:19,000 Speaker 1: like looking fuckable, it's that's it's about just respect, self respect, 1034 00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:22,720 Speaker 1: it's about self respecting, respecting other people, and like, you know, 1035 00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:24,760 Speaker 1: I mean, in some ways, there are some cases in 1036 00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:26,320 Speaker 1: which it is a fun funk you to like not 1037 00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:31,800 Speaker 1: look the part where very specific context is required, but 1038 00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:34,520 Speaker 1: overall it's like, yeah, like I don't know, I just 1039 00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:37,640 Speaker 1: like love dressing up and I love looking fun on stage. 1040 00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:39,680 Speaker 1: To me, that's just like a fun part of being 1041 00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:42,000 Speaker 1: on stage, Like I want to be a spectacle. Not 1042 00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:44,080 Speaker 1: in a bad way, but I want you know, it's 1043 00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:46,280 Speaker 1: like nice. That's actually one of my favorite things about 1044 00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:50,160 Speaker 1: doing my shows too, is like picking up because it's fun. 1045 00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:55,040 Speaker 1: I realized too, we say this as people that like 1046 00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:58,120 Speaker 1: I did, I danced growing up, so like I loved 1047 00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:03,080 Speaker 1: costumes and like I loved you know, I've always loved dressing. 1048 00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:05,600 Speaker 1: And I realized that not a lot of people don't 1049 00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:07,920 Speaker 1: feel that way. A lot of people. My brother does 1050 00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:10,320 Speaker 1: not give a fuck what he wears. He's like, this 1051 00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:13,320 Speaker 1: is a shirt, these are pants, these are shoes, And 1052 00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:16,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, I find most of the time, though, when 1053 00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:18,360 Speaker 1: I'm putting together in my outfit, it is for me, 1054 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:20,680 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, It's not for the audience. 1055 00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:23,480 Speaker 1: It's like I'm always just like oh, I don't want 1056 00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:25,080 Speaker 1: to wear this because I wore it at that show. 1057 00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:27,160 Speaker 1: It's like, it's kind of nice to I don't know. 1058 00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:29,400 Speaker 1: It's just a fun part of this and I like 1059 00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:32,040 Speaker 1: it for me. I really do some people clothing fully 1060 00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:35,360 Speaker 1: stresses them out like that it stresses me. I mean 1061 00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:37,439 Speaker 1: sometimes I look at my closet and I'm like, oh God, 1062 00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:40,520 Speaker 1: I don't have a new thing to wear, Like I 1063 00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:43,600 Speaker 1: hate everything, hate everything. Once every three weeks this happens 1064 00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:45,840 Speaker 1: to me where I just hate everything I own. That 1065 00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:48,200 Speaker 1: happens to you, that happens to me, yeah, constantly, but 1066 00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:49,840 Speaker 1: then you but then you forget. You're like, oh, but 1067 00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:52,640 Speaker 1: I have so much shed like I know, I don't know. 1068 00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:55,160 Speaker 1: I also want to say one more thing that informed 1069 00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:56,880 Speaker 1: me now that I'm thinking about this, and we can stop, 1070 00:59:57,000 --> 01:00:02,360 Speaker 1: no please? Um. I like I loved watching movies like 1071 01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Now and Then. Do you guys remember that movie and 1072 01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:12,000 Speaker 1: Then with Christina Richie Young, Thori Birds, Melanie Griffith, Demi Moore, 1073 01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:19,000 Speaker 1: um oh Rita Wilson, huge cat like female friendship over 1074 01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:22,000 Speaker 1: the years. I loved watching that movie and I loved 1075 01:00:22,080 --> 01:00:26,360 Speaker 1: watching Uh Dangerous Lives of the Altar Boys with Kieren 1076 01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:31,560 Speaker 1: Colkin and and uh that guy who's terrible who I 1077 01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:34,000 Speaker 1: don't even remember his name, but anyway, I love watching 1078 01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:36,120 Speaker 1: those movies too, like any kind of like teen like 1079 01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:39,960 Speaker 1: and my friend Ali and I used to pretend like 1080 01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:43,840 Speaker 1: we were living in some like fifties like like biking, 1081 01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:48,760 Speaker 1: like pecking picnics drive through, but we didn't do. We 1082 01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,960 Speaker 1: grew up in DC, so we didn't have like fucking 1083 01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:57,280 Speaker 1: last bike too, and like jump in with whatever you liked? 1084 01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:04,760 Speaker 1: Do you hate it? Uh, it's a weird city. I 1085 01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:09,360 Speaker 1: enjoyed growing up there because I will say I found 1086 01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:13,440 Speaker 1: out that I like was around so many different kind 1087 01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:17,120 Speaker 1: of people. I mean, I have friends that I hadn't 1088 01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:19,720 Speaker 1: seen hadn't I had know people that hadn't met a 1089 01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:22,720 Speaker 1: Jewish person until they left high school, or hadn't been 1090 01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:25,960 Speaker 1: in school with someone that was like not white until 1091 01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:29,840 Speaker 1: they left high school. And it's like, I never that 1092 01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:31,680 Speaker 1: never occurred to me that like that was a thing, 1093 01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:36,640 Speaker 1: just because DC is such a diverse, crazy international city. 1094 01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:40,000 Speaker 1: Um so I love that aspect of it, which is 1095 01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:43,800 Speaker 1: something that I think is great and like so important, 1096 01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:46,840 Speaker 1: but it's weird. But I mean, have you always known 1097 01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:50,240 Speaker 1: that politics was like fucked up. Yeah, Well, I just 1098 01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:56,200 Speaker 1: remember being when Bush became president, everyone the world like exploded, 1099 01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:58,720 Speaker 1: and my parents were besides himself, beside himselves. We're living 1100 01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:00,840 Speaker 1: in d C. And like them in all of this 1101 01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:03,560 Speaker 1: influx of because it's such a transient city, because people 1102 01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:05,840 Speaker 1: move there for work, people move there to work for 1103 01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:08,120 Speaker 1: who's in office, and once it's done, they leave. So 1104 01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:10,200 Speaker 1: then out of nowhere we had all of these like 1105 01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:13,480 Speaker 1: Texans coming up and living there and all this stuff, 1106 01:02:13,520 --> 01:02:16,480 Speaker 1: and a lot of like well that that girl's parents 1107 01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:19,080 Speaker 1: are big like Republican donors or like this, you know 1108 01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:22,320 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. A lot of weird like that, And 1109 01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:25,960 Speaker 1: I don't know for the most part, Like my high 1110 01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:29,240 Speaker 1: school and DC is of super progressive, very liberal high 1111 01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:34,360 Speaker 1: school where I was never around like any like really conserved. 1112 01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:37,640 Speaker 1: That was another thing on the flip side. I was 1113 01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:42,680 Speaker 1: always around this very progressive, super liberal we're old And 1114 01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:45,480 Speaker 1: then going to I did my freshman of college at 1115 01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:49,240 Speaker 1: Arizona and I saw a very different side of things. 1116 01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:52,080 Speaker 1: And then going back to Parsons and being in New York, 1117 01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:55,160 Speaker 1: it was no difference. So for me, like realizing that 1118 01:02:56,200 --> 01:03:01,800 Speaker 1: people grow up in these like very conservative of closed 1119 01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:09,960 Speaker 1: minded like homophobic, racist, that that is a real thing. Yeah, 1120 01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:12,440 Speaker 1: And that was something that I remember I learned when 1121 01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:14,160 Speaker 1: I was like eighteen and out of high school. I 1122 01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:16,720 Speaker 1: was like, oh, not everyone got this luxury of like 1123 01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:19,680 Speaker 1: so for those things I like DC, that there is that, 1124 01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:22,560 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, but I would never live there. 1125 01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:25,000 Speaker 1: I would never live there. Do you see the place 1126 01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:29,520 Speaker 1: that to me completely lax culture? Oh? Interesting, because it's 1127 01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:32,160 Speaker 1: so it is it is. It does purport to be 1128 01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:35,160 Speaker 1: this like beacon of our American culture because you go 1129 01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:37,720 Speaker 1: there and it's like the monuments and but it's really 1130 01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,439 Speaker 1: look like I have friends there that are doing great things, 1131 01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:45,160 Speaker 1: cool things, but it's not like a place where anything. 1132 01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:48,680 Speaker 1: But I don't know. You know, you're not moving to 1133 01:03:48,880 --> 01:03:52,000 Speaker 1: d C to like work in art, You're not moving 1134 01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:54,000 Speaker 1: tod C to work in finance. You're not moving to 1135 01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:57,400 Speaker 1: d C to be an actor, if you will. There 1136 01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:00,720 Speaker 1: are great pockets of these things there, but like I 1137 01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:02,760 Speaker 1: find the d C lax culture, and I think a 1138 01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:04,280 Speaker 1: lot of that comes from the fact that it is 1139 01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:07,320 Speaker 1: such a transient city that you don't have It's very 1140 01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:11,280 Speaker 1: rare that you find true DC people that have lived 1141 01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:14,200 Speaker 1: there for forever that come back that, you know what 1142 01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:17,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying. You have that in places like New York, 1143 01:04:17,200 --> 01:04:20,240 Speaker 1: where you have these New Yorkers that live have lived 1144 01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:22,200 Speaker 1: here forever and we'll live until the day that they die. 1145 01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:24,000 Speaker 1: And do you see, there's just not that same kind 1146 01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:27,200 Speaker 1: of culture. It's plant your roots there. Yeah, I'm excited 1147 01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:28,920 Speaker 1: to go down there at some point and do it. 1148 01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:30,320 Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey, I like it down there, 1149 01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:32,520 Speaker 1: because I do like it down there, and I think 1150 01:04:32,560 --> 01:04:37,360 Speaker 1: we do now when I go back and doing shows there. 1151 01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:40,840 Speaker 1: There's a great comedy but they're smart, very smart, and 1152 01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:43,120 Speaker 1: it's a really fun, smart crowd. And don't get me wrong, 1153 01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:45,600 Speaker 1: Like people are probably gonna drag me for saying that 1154 01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:50,080 Speaker 1: I think that. I just think it's like a different 1155 01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:52,760 Speaker 1: kind of culture. And also I haven't lived there since 1156 01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:55,920 Speaker 1: I was eighteen, so I'm sure it's a nightmare right now. Well, 1157 01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:57,840 Speaker 1: my friends that lived there, right now, I'm like, what's 1158 01:04:57,960 --> 01:05:02,280 Speaker 1: going on? You know again, a lot of d C 1159 01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:06,959 Speaker 1: is I think still liberal, you know what I'm saying. 1160 01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:11,120 Speaker 1: It's not like it's challenging. It's a shock when this happens, 1161 01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:17,640 Speaker 1: and I know everyone is beside themselves and I think 1162 01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:20,320 Speaker 1: to be I don't know. To be like a Trump 1163 01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:25,760 Speaker 1: supporter in on a coast to me is very crazy. Yeah, yeah, 1164 01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:31,840 Speaker 1: but it really happens. But you ever since Trump before, 1165 01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:35,200 Speaker 1: I was like, she went to that schools as you 1166 01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:37,000 Speaker 1: went to and connecting it. Yeah, and then she went 1167 01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:39,280 Speaker 1: my she my sister went to Pen and she went 1168 01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:41,800 Speaker 1: to Pen. Did they know each other. No, she's a 1169 01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:44,680 Speaker 1: little older than my sister. Yeah. She to me is 1170 01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:47,520 Speaker 1: the darkest, spookiest figure figure of them all. To be honest, 1171 01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:49,320 Speaker 1: you know, spooky is like too kind of a word 1172 01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:52,360 Speaker 1: to describe her. She's like evil. She to me is 1173 01:05:52,840 --> 01:05:55,200 Speaker 1: full on evil. I'm so tired of using the word 1174 01:05:55,280 --> 01:06:00,040 Speaker 1: complicit with her because it's like she's like actively And 1175 01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:03,840 Speaker 1: it's so funny how after the synagogue shooting, all these 1176 01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:06,800 Speaker 1: headlines come out. We're like Ivanka and Jared convinced Donald 1177 01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:10,360 Speaker 1: Trump to put out an uh an anti anti Semitism, 1178 01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:13,520 Speaker 1: like a to denounce anti Semitism. And it's like, okay, 1179 01:06:13,680 --> 01:06:18,920 Speaker 1: well don't like that shouldn't be necessary, and she is like, 1180 01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:22,480 Speaker 1: it's it's such a weird pr move for her to like, 1181 01:06:24,280 --> 01:06:27,240 Speaker 1: let's just just protect her own image. It's it's it 1182 01:06:27,600 --> 01:06:31,560 Speaker 1: all feels so honestly for her to pretend like it's 1183 01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:34,760 Speaker 1: it's one thing for Trump to pretend that we're all 1184 01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:38,000 Speaker 1: this dumb because he's he's he's said before like I 1185 01:06:38,160 --> 01:06:41,760 Speaker 1: will use dumb people like he's literally said like I 1186 01:06:41,840 --> 01:06:43,760 Speaker 1: will if I run for president, I'll run as a 1187 01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:47,240 Speaker 1: Republican because they are the easier voters to control. These 1188 01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:49,280 Speaker 1: words have come out of his mouth. You can actually 1189 01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:53,560 Speaker 1: source this. But for her to come from like where 1190 01:06:53,640 --> 01:06:56,480 Speaker 1: she comes from, and to be young and to be 1191 01:06:56,600 --> 01:06:59,280 Speaker 1: this person who like is also connected to Jared who 1192 01:06:59,400 --> 01:07:01,640 Speaker 1: was like young, had liberal friends and like they were 1193 01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:05,320 Speaker 1: but for all intensive preposes liberal people, and for her 1194 01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:08,439 Speaker 1: to act like we are this dumb, to to act 1195 01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:11,720 Speaker 1: like we're gonna buy this like message of like oh 1196 01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:15,200 Speaker 1: my god, isn't that horrible what happened? Like we see 1197 01:07:15,360 --> 01:07:18,520 Speaker 1: you like we see you. Do you see that Nelly 1198 01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:20,760 Speaker 1: apartment on Colbert talking about how she used to be 1199 01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:23,320 Speaker 1: and used to be friends. Yeah, that's insane. I just 1200 01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:27,720 Speaker 1: I just look, she probably endured a shipload of abuse 1201 01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:29,920 Speaker 1: from her father growing up. Do you really think so? 1202 01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:34,560 Speaker 1: It's it's like the whole like, oh my god, Donald 1203 01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:37,520 Speaker 1: Trump wants to suck her his daughter is like sexualizing. 1204 01:07:37,800 --> 01:07:45,600 Speaker 1: Sexual is very sad and and I'm sure her childhood 1205 01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:48,880 Speaker 1: was very dark and filled with a lot of abuse 1206 01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:53,080 Speaker 1: in many ways. I never, I never, I never think 1207 01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:57,200 Speaker 1: about that. I'm sure that that's a real thing for her. 1208 01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:02,800 Speaker 1: But it's the all part to me, and I don't know, 1209 01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:04,480 Speaker 1: it's it's hard because part of me is like, is 1210 01:08:04,480 --> 01:08:06,840 Speaker 1: it like Stockholm syndrome, you know what I mean, where 1211 01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:10,200 Speaker 1: it's like she can't help herself for something or I 1212 01:08:10,280 --> 01:08:14,040 Speaker 1: don't know. But then once you the evil part to 1213 01:08:14,120 --> 01:08:20,040 Speaker 1: me is when you become a parent two kids, and 1214 01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:25,080 Speaker 1: when your father is the president and is doing things 1215 01:08:25,240 --> 01:08:32,720 Speaker 1: to literally destroy families, to be so sick in your 1216 01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:35,360 Speaker 1: head that you can't be like you can't even say 1217 01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:37,800 Speaker 1: that it's wrong. It's like, just say that it's wrong, 1218 01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:41,599 Speaker 1: Just say something to me that's evil, because then, as 1219 01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:44,320 Speaker 1: her child, I would then be like, what the funk 1220 01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:48,120 Speaker 1: was wrong with you that you couldn't have said anything? 1221 01:08:48,400 --> 01:08:53,240 Speaker 1: She just is so complicit and shitty, and that is evil. 1222 01:08:53,479 --> 01:08:57,080 Speaker 1: Being complicit is evil. Oh um, well that was like 1223 01:08:57,479 --> 01:08:59,880 Speaker 1: a beautiful slow burning But I don't think so, honey, 1224 01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:04,920 Speaker 1: isn't it No? No? I mean, she's beyond I don't 1225 01:09:04,920 --> 01:09:06,640 Speaker 1: think any now like one time we did our, we 1226 01:09:06,720 --> 01:09:08,439 Speaker 1: did our. I think his first or second, I don't 1227 01:09:08,439 --> 01:09:10,439 Speaker 1: think so, honey. And I put Donald Trump in the 1228 01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:13,360 Speaker 1: trouball and poor Monty Goes has picked it out, and 1229 01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:15,400 Speaker 1: it was like, you can't even do it. I don't 1230 01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:16,920 Speaker 1: think I should never have put it in there, because like, 1231 01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:19,960 Speaker 1: you can't do it, because where then do you start. 1232 01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:23,240 Speaker 1: It's an impossible bar to meat because it's like it's 1233 01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:25,400 Speaker 1: it's it's, it's, it's not. I don't think so, honey, 1234 01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:30,080 Speaker 1: It's go to hell, bitch. It's like I fantasize, like 1235 01:09:30,200 --> 01:09:33,840 Speaker 1: I hope he wrots in a jail cell. Oh there. 1236 01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:36,439 Speaker 1: There is a part of me that And I think 1237 01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:39,840 Speaker 1: about this in two ways. I think about it and 1238 01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:41,840 Speaker 1: I think about it with what's going to happen to 1239 01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:44,880 Speaker 1: him inevitably, And it's two things I do believe in, 1240 01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:48,439 Speaker 1: like some sort of karmic thing, like people do get 1241 01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:52,639 Speaker 1: what they deserve. And I think that his his life 1242 01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:56,080 Speaker 1: has to end in a dark way. And I don't 1243 01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:57,960 Speaker 1: say that as someone that wishes evil on the world. 1244 01:09:58,040 --> 01:10:00,519 Speaker 1: I just think he will get what's coming to him, 1245 01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:03,840 Speaker 1: whether it's prison or what I think that will happen. 1246 01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:09,560 Speaker 1: And also with I hope and I don't know what 1247 01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:12,160 Speaker 1: we're who we're all going to get behind, But I 1248 01:10:12,800 --> 01:10:15,560 Speaker 1: desperately want a woman of color to beat him in 1249 01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:19,439 Speaker 1: the presidential race, just like I desperately wanted to be 1250 01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:22,920 Speaker 1: Kamala Harris, Like I I want to throw all my 1251 01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:26,040 Speaker 1: support Barhinard because I just want women of color to 1252 01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:32,479 Speaker 1: see that like there undying support of like what was 1253 01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:35,400 Speaker 1: right this whole time, because they are the only demographic 1254 01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:39,560 Speaker 1: that is consistently fought for what's right and always and 1255 01:10:39,640 --> 01:10:42,400 Speaker 1: and they're the most trampled people in this country and 1256 01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:45,720 Speaker 1: in this world. And I just I don't know if 1257 01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:48,800 Speaker 1: it will happen, but I just I desperately want that, 1258 01:10:48,920 --> 01:10:51,800 Speaker 1: and I see that's what should happen, But I don't know. 1259 01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:54,679 Speaker 1: I just get I start a second, guess everything about 1260 01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:58,439 Speaker 1: everyone we could put up, and I get. So it's 1261 01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:02,040 Speaker 1: scary when you think too that the way our system, 1262 01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:05,400 Speaker 1: our voting system is currently, the way gerrymandering works, the 1263 01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:10,439 Speaker 1: way congressional districting lines are drawn, that is a whole 1264 01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:14,040 Speaker 1: other fucked thing. And also, let's not forget we still 1265 01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:21,439 Speaker 1: have the electoral college, which is extremely, extremely archaic and 1266 01:11:23,040 --> 01:11:26,080 Speaker 1: it's like Hillary won the popular vote. I don't know, 1267 01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:28,880 Speaker 1: and I'm always like, oh right, but they were still 1268 01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:35,400 Speaker 1: close to four million other people that wanted people. That 1269 01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:41,240 Speaker 1: is the disheartening part of all of this. And it 1270 01:11:43,200 --> 01:11:46,560 Speaker 1: it matters when we vote in primaries like people do 1271 01:11:46,640 --> 01:11:50,040 Speaker 1: it on Tuesday, because census is happening. That's when a 1272 01:11:50,080 --> 01:11:52,599 Speaker 1: lot of the redistricting is happening, when hopefully we can 1273 01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:55,600 Speaker 1: get out of these They're trying to play dirty with that. 1274 01:11:56,120 --> 01:11:58,400 Speaker 1: You know, No, it's just it's really scary. It's a 1275 01:11:58,479 --> 01:12:04,080 Speaker 1: scary time. And I would love for Kamala. Kamala, Yes, 1276 01:12:04,240 --> 01:12:11,439 Speaker 1: I would love for there's a lot of I talked 1277 01:12:11,479 --> 01:12:14,120 Speaker 1: to Nico about this, who like was just our friend 1278 01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:16,360 Speaker 1: who's lives in LA. He's a lawyer and he's like 1279 01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:20,439 Speaker 1: a big supporter of hers. He's she's his senator and 1280 01:12:21,160 --> 01:12:23,400 Speaker 1: she was out there stumping up for the midterms and 1281 01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:27,720 Speaker 1: just talking about the positives to having someone like her 1282 01:12:27,840 --> 01:12:30,920 Speaker 1: run where that would motivate women of color. Who are 1283 01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:34,439 Speaker 1: the people who volunteer to go in the grassroots campaigning. 1284 01:12:34,520 --> 01:12:37,719 Speaker 1: This is what wins elections now, those the women that volunteer, 1285 01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:41,000 Speaker 1: Those that volunteer, and also you know with Kamala you 1286 01:12:41,120 --> 01:12:43,200 Speaker 1: do have like and I do think this is important, 1287 01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:47,879 Speaker 1: especially nowadays when you have a celebritized UM political machine. 1288 01:12:48,040 --> 01:12:50,080 Speaker 1: Is there is like a glam factor there, you know 1289 01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:52,200 Speaker 1: what I mean. There is like you can see people 1290 01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:53,600 Speaker 1: putting her on a poster, you know what I mean, 1291 01:12:53,680 --> 01:12:57,120 Speaker 1: you can get behind her. She's a forceful and charismatic speaker. 1292 01:12:57,320 --> 01:12:59,800 Speaker 1: She's prosecutorial in the way that she talks to people 1293 01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:02,599 Speaker 1: in the Senate, and she would be able to handle him. 1294 01:13:03,040 --> 01:13:06,560 Speaker 1: The problem with what Donald Trump, outside of him just 1295 01:13:06,640 --> 01:13:10,439 Speaker 1: being a problem in general, is this change in our 1296 01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:14,960 Speaker 1: political spectrum of being like, oh, you can just have 1297 01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:20,400 Speaker 1: no background in politics or policy or law and still 1298 01:13:20,439 --> 01:13:25,040 Speaker 1: be president. So that is just crazy. Everyone, I mean, 1299 01:13:25,320 --> 01:13:27,599 Speaker 1: at this point will have been It's probably over. Everyone 1300 01:13:27,600 --> 01:13:30,880 Speaker 1: should listened to Bagman by Rachel Maddow. It's a new 1301 01:13:30,920 --> 01:13:34,840 Speaker 1: podcasted about that um and it's it's this eerie thing 1302 01:13:34,960 --> 01:13:38,000 Speaker 1: of her talking about Spirit Agnew who's Nixon's vice president 1303 01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:40,559 Speaker 1: during Watergate and just to his vice president. But um, 1304 01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:44,479 Speaker 1: he was sort of like this precursor to Trump where 1305 01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:47,479 Speaker 1: he was this political outsider who came in who would 1306 01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:50,960 Speaker 1: like shut down uh like stuff at his rallies who 1307 01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:54,840 Speaker 1: would say like really, um, just white nationalists things, and 1308 01:13:54,880 --> 01:13:56,960 Speaker 1: then people got behind it in this weird way where 1309 01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:58,720 Speaker 1: people are like, wait, this is working, this is like 1310 01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:02,080 Speaker 1: having an effect, and so and so. Richel Manto's whole 1311 01:14:02,120 --> 01:14:05,360 Speaker 1: thing now is that like he like he was stopped 1312 01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:07,479 Speaker 1: and like this has this. It's not that this is 1313 01:14:07,640 --> 01:14:10,920 Speaker 1: without president like president like outsiders come in all the 1314 01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:13,240 Speaker 1: time in the cyclical way, and like this is Donald 1315 01:14:13,280 --> 01:14:16,280 Speaker 1: Trump and all these outside this this wave of like, oh, 1316 01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:20,720 Speaker 1: unqualified people running for office is not necessarily a new thing, 1317 01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:23,120 Speaker 1: and that it's been sort of quashed before and we 1318 01:14:23,240 --> 01:14:25,880 Speaker 1: just have to like and then Rachel Mattoll always says, 1319 01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:28,080 Speaker 1: like on her show night after night, she's like I 1320 01:14:28,120 --> 01:14:30,120 Speaker 1: will believe that there will be leadership to come and 1321 01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:33,000 Speaker 1: like change. That's like that I am sure of. So 1322 01:14:33,120 --> 01:14:35,840 Speaker 1: that's the thing. It's important to to maintain some level 1323 01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:39,240 Speaker 1: of belief that like it will change. It has everything 1324 01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:42,240 Speaker 1: and it always does. That's the whole. It's a cyclic thing. 1325 01:14:42,840 --> 01:14:48,000 Speaker 1: It's just I remember like thinking learning about like civil 1326 01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:50,280 Speaker 1: rights and like stuff for jets and all of these 1327 01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:53,840 Speaker 1: things being like oh, watching that will never something that 1328 01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:56,040 Speaker 1: will never happen in our lifetime. I remember thinking like, oh, 1329 01:14:56,040 --> 01:14:59,840 Speaker 1: I'll never watch something, You'll never have to fight for something, 1330 01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:01,439 Speaker 1: will never have to watch it fall apart in a 1331 01:15:01,520 --> 01:15:05,360 Speaker 1: real way where I remember like even thinking about like protesting, 1332 01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:07,400 Speaker 1: being like out like we'll never have to do that, 1333 01:15:07,920 --> 01:15:10,360 Speaker 1: or just feeling like wow, like I wish there was 1334 01:15:10,439 --> 01:15:12,880 Speaker 1: something that we could all like really band together and 1335 01:15:13,000 --> 01:15:16,400 Speaker 1: believe in. You know what I mean. And it is 1336 01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:18,560 Speaker 1: very crazy that this is happening. I mean, this is 1337 01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:23,920 Speaker 1: a very very dark time. Yeah, but we should end 1338 01:15:23,960 --> 01:15:27,640 Speaker 1: things on a light or not. And we're gonna. I 1339 01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:29,920 Speaker 1: don't think so, honey, even though this has been and 1340 01:15:30,000 --> 01:15:31,800 Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey, the past ten minutes have been. 1341 01:15:31,840 --> 01:15:34,360 Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey. The state of our world, yes, um, 1342 01:15:34,640 --> 01:15:38,479 Speaker 1: but we have with us An this is actually I 1343 01:15:38,560 --> 01:15:41,599 Speaker 1: think you've done the most. You've done, You and Pat 1344 01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:44,080 Speaker 1: have done the most. But but I always whenever I'm 1345 01:15:44,160 --> 01:15:46,439 Speaker 1: sucking around Greta, I'm like, all right, if we're here 1346 01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:49,800 Speaker 1: doing a show, we must have. We must have. It's 1347 01:15:49,880 --> 01:15:53,599 Speaker 1: my favorite. It's my favorite show. Do you have something? Yes, 1348 01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:55,280 Speaker 1: I have something? Okay, you want to start? I would 1349 01:15:55,280 --> 01:15:56,439 Speaker 1: like to start. You would like to start? This is 1350 01:15:56,479 --> 01:15:59,400 Speaker 1: Matt Row, and this is going to be wild. This 1351 01:15:59,520 --> 01:16:00,920 Speaker 1: is Matt Row. This is I don't think so, honey. 1352 01:16:00,920 --> 01:16:03,519 Speaker 1: As time starts now, I don't think so, honey. Kids 1353 01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:08,040 Speaker 1: at the Magic Kingdom, you shouldn't be here. You know what, 1354 01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:11,720 Speaker 1: It's not for you anymore. It's for the kids that 1355 01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:17,799 Speaker 1: grew up that can because guess what, all your dad's 1356 01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:21,120 Speaker 1: you need to take a parenting lesson, and you you 1357 01:16:21,240 --> 01:16:23,800 Speaker 1: need to get the funk out here. And if you're 1358 01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:28,559 Speaker 1: gonna have your fucking camera on flash on these rides, bitch, 1359 01:16:29,479 --> 01:16:33,120 Speaker 1: fucking pay attention to the fucking things that they tell 1360 01:16:33,200 --> 01:16:35,320 Speaker 1: you on the line the whole time, which is no 1361 01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:40,960 Speaker 1: flash photography. And then you're fucking stupid kid sees you 1362 01:16:41,200 --> 01:16:43,519 Speaker 1: not follow the rules, and then they're fucking shipping all 1363 01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:47,280 Speaker 1: over the goddamn grounds. And all the fucking mothers who 1364 01:16:47,360 --> 01:16:49,920 Speaker 1: have a problem with me for being at the fucking 1365 01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:53,439 Speaker 1: Magic Kingdom can get a fucking grip because I don't 1366 01:16:53,479 --> 01:16:56,160 Speaker 1: think so, honey. You coming up and yelling at me 1367 01:16:56,200 --> 01:16:59,280 Speaker 1: like I didn't pay the same ticket, your ticket was cheaper, 1368 01:16:59,320 --> 01:17:02,439 Speaker 1: because it's the child I paid more. I deserve more, 1369 01:17:02,680 --> 01:17:09,400 Speaker 1: fuck you because I saw we're done I'm sorry a meme. 1370 01:17:10,320 --> 01:17:12,559 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I saw this name this very angry mother. 1371 01:17:12,640 --> 01:17:15,360 Speaker 1: There was an angry mother, bitch, and she had had 1372 01:17:15,439 --> 01:17:19,160 Speaker 1: it with She called someone a slut, she called someone 1373 01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:24,080 Speaker 1: she said there was a C word in slutty shorts, 1374 01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:29,200 Speaker 1: trying to get a chicken wing. My favorite thing that 1375 01:17:29,280 --> 01:17:33,519 Speaker 1: she said was, um, this is all like a like sheleica. 1376 01:17:34,479 --> 01:17:38,160 Speaker 1: But then she goes, uh, you you young people will 1377 01:17:38,200 --> 01:17:41,439 Speaker 1: never know the joy of buying your child. Mickey Mouse 1378 01:17:41,560 --> 01:17:44,759 Speaker 1: ears after a long day of screaming at them or something. 1379 01:17:46,160 --> 01:17:48,160 Speaker 1: She was outing herself as a bad parent. Which I'm 1380 01:17:48,200 --> 01:17:53,560 Speaker 1: saying is I'm furious because the behavior is irresponsible and 1381 01:17:54,479 --> 01:17:58,320 Speaker 1: and they must go and honestly, fair, it's fair. You 1382 01:17:58,400 --> 01:18:00,600 Speaker 1: know what. You go to Epcot, honey, you go to 1383 01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:03,439 Speaker 1: Walt Disney World, Hollywood Studios, you go to Animal Kingdom, 1384 01:18:03,520 --> 01:18:04,840 Speaker 1: you have the time of your life. You step into 1385 01:18:04,920 --> 01:18:08,519 Speaker 1: Magic Kingdom. It's a fucking zoo. And it's because these kids. 1386 01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:11,000 Speaker 1: Take then take all the kids to Epcot, as far 1387 01:18:11,040 --> 01:18:12,920 Speaker 1: as I'm concerned, take them to Epcott, have them go 1388 01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:17,799 Speaker 1: around the world, culture the culture, and then caught his culture. 1389 01:18:17,840 --> 01:18:24,920 Speaker 1: Honestly culture, I've got his culture. Gorgeous the experimental prototype 1390 01:18:24,960 --> 01:18:31,200 Speaker 1: community of tomorrow. It has failed as an idea because 1391 01:18:31,880 --> 01:18:34,680 Speaker 1: now they're using their I P you're upset. No, I'm 1392 01:18:34,720 --> 01:18:36,559 Speaker 1: just I'm trying to I'm trying to move us along. 1393 01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:39,880 Speaker 1: Can make one point, they've decided to make world showcases 1394 01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:42,560 Speaker 1: like thing for their intellectual property, and that's a no. 1395 01:18:42,760 --> 01:18:44,920 Speaker 1: And also, a future world is not the future. Future 1396 01:18:44,920 --> 01:18:46,960 Speaker 1: world is no longer the future because it's become too 1397 01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:49,320 Speaker 1: hard to break the future. Will there even be one? 1398 01:18:50,520 --> 01:18:52,479 Speaker 1: This is bowen Yang. I don't think so, honey. And 1399 01:18:52,560 --> 01:18:54,640 Speaker 1: as time begins now, I don't think so, honey. The 1400 01:18:54,800 --> 01:18:58,679 Speaker 1: fucking idiot who emailed our seak treatment slash last Culture 1401 01:18:58,720 --> 01:19:02,799 Speaker 1: is just crossover event Advice Hour and ask some fucking 1402 01:19:04,160 --> 01:19:07,519 Speaker 1: stupid question about there about moving to a new city. Okay, 1403 01:19:07,680 --> 01:19:10,280 Speaker 1: good luck, but they ended their They ended their question 1404 01:19:10,400 --> 01:19:12,720 Speaker 1: with also, are we living in a post I don't 1405 01:19:12,760 --> 01:19:15,600 Speaker 1: think so, honey, world it's getting old. And I immediately 1406 01:19:15,720 --> 01:19:18,840 Speaker 1: archived it. I was like, none of us, Matt, Patt 1407 01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:22,479 Speaker 1: and Katherine are not seeing this bullshit, because how fucking 1408 01:19:22,560 --> 01:19:25,040 Speaker 1: I mean whatever, You're able to like shoot on my 1409 01:19:25,200 --> 01:19:27,439 Speaker 1: art all you want in the privacy of your own home, 1410 01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:30,439 Speaker 1: don't do it to me when we're opening up like 1411 01:19:31,280 --> 01:19:34,000 Speaker 1: we're we're giving you a channel, a direct line to us. 1412 01:19:34,120 --> 01:19:38,120 Speaker 1: That's so fucking rude. Also, there's plenty where where that 1413 01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:40,759 Speaker 1: came from. I don't know. Matt and I have fucking 1414 01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:44,320 Speaker 1: ideas up up our assets. We have so many ideas. 1415 01:19:44,360 --> 01:19:47,040 Speaker 1: I'm waiting to fucking douche them out from the lining 1416 01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:50,040 Speaker 1: of my bowels because that's where they come from. I 1417 01:19:50,200 --> 01:19:54,599 Speaker 1: work from within my gut, so all my elementary ideas 1418 01:19:54,640 --> 01:19:57,360 Speaker 1: will come spilling forth. I will literally shift on you 1419 01:19:57,479 --> 01:19:59,720 Speaker 1: with all the ideas that we have for the podcast, 1420 01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:02,080 Speaker 1: how dare you should on this segment that has brought 1421 01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:04,800 Speaker 1: people joy? And I normally don't talk about my work 1422 01:20:04,840 --> 01:20:07,120 Speaker 1: in this way where but it's I think, I think 1423 01:20:07,160 --> 01:20:09,519 Speaker 1: it's been a it's been a good thing, and how 1424 01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:13,760 Speaker 1: dare you? And that's well over one minute. I was fans. 1425 01:20:13,840 --> 01:20:15,479 Speaker 1: You've attacked the fans, and I have to say that 1426 01:20:16,400 --> 01:20:20,160 Speaker 1: this person wasn't a fan. This person directed. This person 1427 01:20:20,280 --> 01:20:24,360 Speaker 1: directed their question at Patton Captain. Great you because we're 1428 01:20:24,360 --> 01:20:26,320 Speaker 1: all on the email and if you're this is a 1429 01:20:27,479 --> 01:20:30,360 Speaker 1: treatment as dirty fans that I'm going to throw it out. 1430 01:20:30,400 --> 01:20:34,120 Speaker 1: They were fans they don't. You're stoking the flames of 1431 01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:36,200 Speaker 1: this conflict that was say that that was created by Joel. 1432 01:20:36,280 --> 01:20:39,240 Speaker 1: First of all, don't play into this. You're playing not 1433 01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:44,120 Speaker 1: even talented. Okay, well, so I'm just this. This particular 1434 01:20:44,160 --> 01:20:46,880 Speaker 1: person I don't care to know their name just upset me. 1435 01:20:46,920 --> 01:20:49,200 Speaker 1: And I was like, no one's, no one's, no one's 1436 01:20:49,200 --> 01:20:50,880 Speaker 1: seeing this is a business model that says Hills all 1437 01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:53,280 Speaker 1: the time. Attack the fans, especially a real culture number 1438 01:20:53,320 --> 01:20:56,479 Speaker 1: fifty four, attack the fans. Okay, this is Gretta titleman's 1439 01:20:56,479 --> 01:20:59,479 Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey, close this out. We both 1440 01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:03,080 Speaker 1: just we were really both very on brand. I'm like, 1441 01:21:03,280 --> 01:21:07,200 Speaker 1: really stressing that brand. But you were defending your art, honey, 1442 01:21:07,400 --> 01:21:10,080 Speaker 1: and that's what you should do, you know. I'm like you, guys, 1443 01:21:10,160 --> 01:21:13,759 Speaker 1: I do have a champ. I am an all Teimer 1444 01:21:14,200 --> 01:21:20,439 Speaker 1: you are. I think I'm gonna just okay, do I 1445 01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:22,160 Speaker 1: think I'm gonna do. I think I'm gonna do one 1446 01:21:22,200 --> 01:21:24,240 Speaker 1: that I've been thinking for a while. That sounds great, 1447 01:21:26,040 --> 01:21:27,800 Speaker 1: This is great time wins. I don't think so, honey, 1448 01:21:28,040 --> 01:21:30,320 Speaker 1: and her time starts now, I don't think so, honey. 1449 01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:33,960 Speaker 1: Pashmina's okay, if you are wearing a fucking pashmina and 1450 01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:35,920 Speaker 1: it is not kashmir or a designer. Get it out 1451 01:21:35,920 --> 01:21:38,000 Speaker 1: of my fucking face. I am sick of these girls 1452 01:21:38,080 --> 01:21:41,840 Speaker 1: pairing a formal look with an acrylic pagemin I really am. Also, 1453 01:21:41,920 --> 01:21:44,280 Speaker 1: if you are chilly, bitch, get a jacket. Do not 1454 01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:46,320 Speaker 1: look cold. Do not look me in the eyes cold 1455 01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:48,920 Speaker 1: at the wedding wrapping yourself in a pashmina. You know 1456 01:21:49,000 --> 01:21:50,880 Speaker 1: it was a bad choice and it doesn't look good. 1457 01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:53,960 Speaker 1: Pains are still a thing. Also, summer scarves just gonna 1458 01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:56,479 Speaker 1: tag it on. Take the book and summer scarf off. 1459 01:21:56,520 --> 01:21:59,599 Speaker 1: I'm sick of these accessories. I'm sick of a trash accessor. Okay, 1460 01:21:59,640 --> 01:22:02,560 Speaker 1: I do it downgrades. The look also reminds me of 1461 01:22:02,600 --> 01:22:05,360 Speaker 1: my step mom. So there's that, and just pashmina's as 1462 01:22:05,400 --> 01:22:09,400 Speaker 1: a whole. It's like, don't cheapen yourself, you know, make 1463 01:22:09,439 --> 01:22:11,920 Speaker 1: it elevated. Give me something more, give me a give 1464 01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:13,840 Speaker 1: me a fur, give me a feather, give me something 1465 01:22:13,840 --> 01:22:17,320 Speaker 1: more rich like a pagemina. My fucking face, this isn't nine. 1466 01:22:18,040 --> 01:22:21,599 Speaker 1: I'm not at your bot mitzvah, you know, so fuck off. 1467 01:22:23,160 --> 01:22:26,519 Speaker 1: Five seconds remember actud Mike dropped last time with the 1468 01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:32,960 Speaker 1: fresh then that's one minute them well. And I also 1469 01:22:33,000 --> 01:22:35,200 Speaker 1: feel the same way about sucking beanies, like get a 1470 01:22:35,240 --> 01:22:37,519 Speaker 1: beanie out of my face. You know, Okay, you've been 1471 01:22:37,560 --> 01:22:39,840 Speaker 1: talking about doing this pashmina one for a long time. 1472 01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:41,800 Speaker 1: I have a lot of feelings about that. They're just 1473 01:22:41,920 --> 01:22:42,960 Speaker 1: you can get a lot. There are a lot of 1474 01:22:43,080 --> 01:22:45,160 Speaker 1: cheap pashminas that exists in the world, and they make 1475 01:22:45,360 --> 01:22:48,280 Speaker 1: the they make the integrity of a good scarf just 1476 01:22:48,600 --> 01:22:51,920 Speaker 1: watered down, and that is fucked up in front of you. 1477 01:22:54,439 --> 01:22:57,600 Speaker 1: I will judge you, God bless, I will judge you 1478 01:22:57,680 --> 01:23:02,000 Speaker 1: a few mina. Just get out of here. Um, if 1479 01:23:02,040 --> 01:23:03,639 Speaker 1: you can buy it off a stand on the street, 1480 01:23:03,840 --> 01:23:05,720 Speaker 1: was going to be that guy. Know it was going 1481 01:23:05,760 --> 01:23:11,280 Speaker 1: to be that. I had a street pretzel yesterday. Wow. 1482 01:23:11,520 --> 01:23:14,040 Speaker 1: I see, like like every tourist in the world and 1483 01:23:14,240 --> 01:23:17,479 Speaker 1: famous fictional New Yorker Carrie Bradshaw, I bought a fucking 1484 01:23:17,479 --> 01:23:21,200 Speaker 1: pretzel off the street. Did carry by a pretzelf? She always? 1485 01:23:21,400 --> 01:23:23,960 Speaker 1: And she or she was like fake eating a hot dog, 1486 01:23:24,120 --> 01:23:29,920 Speaker 1: like sucking down a wiener. Fuck her, Fuck her, we're 1487 01:23:29,960 --> 01:23:36,559 Speaker 1: getting out of culture. Fuck just say that, like, let's 1488 01:23:36,600 --> 01:23:40,280 Speaker 1: talk about real Hollywood ruining ship hot dogs okay, makes 1489 01:23:40,320 --> 01:23:44,240 Speaker 1: them look so much more glamor. Alright, we gotta go. 1490 01:23:44,479 --> 01:23:46,559 Speaker 1: But I would vote for you for president. Oh my god, 1491 01:23:46,640 --> 01:23:49,280 Speaker 1: thank you, because this is the this is the no 1492 01:23:49,439 --> 01:23:52,920 Speaker 1: nonsense bitch we need. I would fucking be a great president. 1493 01:23:53,840 --> 01:23:55,720 Speaker 1: I can see. I see the split screen between her, 1494 01:23:55,800 --> 01:23:58,840 Speaker 1: between Greta and Donald, and I'm not even worried what 1495 01:23:58,960 --> 01:24:02,200 Speaker 1: I'm just saying it. Yeah, I know. And they wouldn't 1496 01:24:02,200 --> 01:24:03,960 Speaker 1: know what to do with that. He get it hard. 1497 01:24:04,040 --> 01:24:09,000 Speaker 1: He'd be like, what, yeah, spooky? Is that? Okay? This 1498 01:24:09,080 --> 01:24:11,800 Speaker 1: sounds gross? That one needs to be? Is that what 1499 01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:15,920 Speaker 1: needs to happen? He needed be? Does he need to 1500 01:24:15,960 --> 01:24:21,439 Speaker 1: be sexually so beated? 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