WEBVTT - Ep. 80 "Polyish" 0:00:07.480 --> 0:00:11.440 We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion. He 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:19.400 talked back. Listen, what's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning 0:00:19.480 --> 0:00:23.160 in for a new episode of We Talked Back, a 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:26.239 show dedicated to these niggas and you hosts and your 0:00:26.280 --> 0:00:31.040 co host a J. What up, y'all? See a J 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:33.760 being out with the cute dogs all weekend? That's why 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:39.559 her energy low? She tired, you're cute dollars, You're tired girl, Charlotte. 0:00:39.640 --> 0:00:42.800 Hell no, I didn't look. I was out there, but 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:46.520 I wasn't out there like it was out of body experience. Now, 0:00:46.800 --> 0:00:48.879 did you I know I sent you that posted that 0:00:48.920 --> 0:00:52.640 girl talking on Facebook about the mother fucking cues and 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:55.080 niggas was a tippet. She said, they can't she could 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:56.960 wait for their dusty ask to get the hell up 0:00:56.960 --> 0:01:03.800 out of Charlotte and they and did you see comments? Yes, yes, y'all. 0:01:03.840 --> 0:01:08.160 Hey it's Tam Bam, y'all. And they ran her from philm. 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:10.240 You can't talk about a group of the whole body 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:14.559 of people like that. No, right, a whole fucking frat 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:19.399 because of a couple of people. Now, I'm gonna tell 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:24.480 you the older niggas, they were the worst. Okay, and 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:26.600 this is just being in a couple of places. I 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:32.480 went to um in Uptown. Child, girl, if that man listened, 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:35.720 see now this is why I might not get married, 0:01:35.720 --> 0:01:37.679 because if I find out my husband is like a 0:01:37.760 --> 0:01:40.320 real simple at sixty five, Like I got a real 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:46.959 problem with that, these thiggas with simps simps drooling at 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:49.840 the fucking mouth. Just I don't want that to be 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:52.680 my life. You know, my husband just can't wait to 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:56.320 get out of town to be a whole at sixty 0:01:57.320 --> 0:02:01.840 A man Mr what was his name? Damn? What was 0:02:01.920 --> 0:02:06.480 his name? Mr? Bruno? What is that he was? He 0:02:06.520 --> 0:02:10.760 came up to me on Friday, Mr Bruno, Mr Bruno, 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:15.080 Like he was like, can I sit down next to 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:25.080 your baby? Yes, sir girl. They' goddamn granddaddy d's that 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:28.080 was out there and the younger ones they just looking 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:31.840 sweaty just in the streets. You know how to you know, 0:02:31.919 --> 0:02:35.840 to look eating air COUCHI on that air COUCHI getting eating. 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:39.960 I couldn't take a girl. I was so aggravate. I'm like, 0:02:40.000 --> 0:02:41.720 I'm out there with my home girl. I'm like I'm 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:44.720 ready to go, Like this is not my cup of tea. 0:02:45.200 --> 0:02:48.680 I'm ready to go. Yeah. I stayed in after Friday night. 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:50.440 I stayed in. The rest of them, I just wish 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:53.919 I would have stayed barking at me. They were scared 0:02:54.000 --> 0:03:01.120 than me barking me. I was like, oh ship, that's 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:06.080 all you heard all day? My dog? Get okay, get 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:10.200 someone was real fine. But I can't handle all of 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:15.959 them congregated together. There's just too much. What happened is 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:18.480 stupid internet news. Child. What we got going on. We 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:24.639 gotta gotta god dad preacher getting robbed uh in New York. Lord, Okay, 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:30.960 so apparently this man's congregation got robbed for somewhere uh 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:36.480 around four hundred thousand dollars in in belongings their estimating 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:41.560 uh lamar white head. Okay, he's a bishop in New York. 0:03:41.960 --> 0:03:46.480 I don't know. It looks kind of scam likely to me. Okay, 0:03:46.640 --> 0:03:50.480 it looks like it's given insurance fraud to me, I 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:55.640 don't know where you think, yes, given it was looking 0:03:55.760 --> 0:04:00.400 like scammera scam gate, it's given scam and the middle 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:04.560 of service you just see him getting down on the 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:09.520 ground and armed men walking into the damn church recorded 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:11.800 so that I mean I would be some good evidence 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:14.920 for the insurance companies to show. Hey, look it's on camera. 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:19.760 How we got robbed? I don't know, but this man 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:22.000 would be riding around New York and it got damn 0:04:22.040 --> 0:04:29.080 Bentley drop topos, and we know that's one of the 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:32.520 one Charlotte drug dealers. He looked like a Charlotte drug 0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:37.400 deal He looked like exactly listen that I might. I 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:40.400 might just get into the church business one day. I 0:04:40.480 --> 0:04:44.000 just feel like, my word, you know, I might get 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:46.800 into that business. You don't pay taxes. Get your nice 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:50.640 little five and one seed three were in there, but 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:53.800 you're gonna have Are you gonna preach the word? I 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:56.080 would probably be more like I don't know if y'all 0:04:56.080 --> 0:04:57.960 know who Reverend Ike is, but I would probably be 0:04:58.000 --> 0:05:00.480 more of a Reverend Ike. I would be preaching about 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:05.039 self and and manifestation. That's what I would be preaching about. 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:09.520 I would be preaching the real truth. Mm hmm, yeah, 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:15.360 that would that would be my gospel. Uh A J's house, 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:22.599 a hustle, the whole house, not the whole house. I 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:25.040 don't know, but I feel like he Finessing, He Finessing 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:28.280 and Seance Companiana Dayan congregation because he probably got all 0:05:28.279 --> 0:05:35.880 the jewels underneath the church like the Vatican. That's what's 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:39.800 going on with that nigga. Um, let me see what 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:43.720 else you got going on. Okay, dammy, are you taking 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:49.000 niggas on dates? In m M. I'll take my nigga 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:51.839 on a date, So this is I'm not gonna like, 0:05:52.120 --> 0:05:56.359 I'm not gonna take a new nigga on a date, right, 0:05:57.920 --> 0:06:00.680 So you know, I don't know. It's like, I don't 0:06:00.720 --> 0:06:04.279 know if people are doing it for like click baid 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:08.040 or but the pic mischa ship is just getting out 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:12.120 of hand. Um. I think it's younger women too. I mean, 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:15.080 maybe maybe they're just adapting to the times. Men just 0:06:15.160 --> 0:06:18.159 don't have the same type of money the younger guys 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:20.720 may just not the women are having to adapt to it. 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:23.800 I don't know what the case may be. But when 0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:27.039 I see these videos of these headlines about who pays 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:31.000 for what and aled is bullshit, I'm always like, Okay, 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:34.719 are we talking about new relationships or are we talking 0:06:34.760 --> 0:06:38.000 about like, uh, you know, existing relationships, Because in a 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:42.080 new relationship, hell no, I'm not paying for any damn 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:44.479 dates When you're supposed to be courting me, Like, what 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:50.280 are we talking about? Yeah? Like, why why would you 0:06:50.279 --> 0:06:52.200 you know, why would you be paying for dates if 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:54.560 this man is supposedly interested in you and hopefully he's 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:57.560 the one that's asking in a date. But like, I'm 0:06:57.560 --> 0:06:59.919 also a firm believer. Now, if you out here messaging 0:07:00.000 --> 0:07:02.040 every nigg in your cell phones trying to see who 0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:04.400 taking you out, you need to be prepared to pay, 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:06.320 because if that man wanted to take you out, he 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:08.800 would have been you know, you know, you guys got 0:07:08.880 --> 0:07:11.480 to ask the right question, say will you take me 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:13.760 on a date? Don't say do you want to go out? 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:17.920 Because that implies that your pain. You want to take 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:21.440 me to dinner? Say that. I don't say you want 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:26.080 to go to because where where's your money? Right? So 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:28.360 the young lady was like, you know, I pay for dates? 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:30.440 Like what's wrong with that? Y'all? Pitches can't pay for dates? 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:33.800 Like it just depends, Okay, ma'am. If I'm with somebody 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:36.760 for a while, that's no longer dating. Okay, that's my man. 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:40.160 Of course, I'm you know, willing to pay for things. 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:42.800 But if we're dating and we're like in the accorting stage, 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:46.840 you might be dating multiple people women should not be 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:49.920 all here paying for dates. Y'all sucking the game up. Okay, 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:51.640 y'all are really fucking the game. We need to have 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:55.160 a zoom call about this ship. I took a guy 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:56.920 on the date that I was just getting in there. 0:07:57.120 --> 0:07:59.400 But it didn't cost me ship because I used my 0:07:59.480 --> 0:08:01.800 A B T car and I got some grapes and 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:04.920 some like cheese and pepperoni and stuff like that, and 0:08:04.960 --> 0:08:07.520 then I took him out to I took about to 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:12.600 where the planes fly over with Yeah. We had a 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:15.400 charcouterie board and watched the planes flying over the beach. 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:18.520 I didn't pay not one. I pay for gas getting 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:21.720 to the place. That's the girl. I went bike riding 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:23.960 with a nigga last weekend. And when I tell you, 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:27.360 he is still talking about that bike ride like he 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:29.360 was like it's fun. Yeah. He was like, man, I 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:34.120 appreciate you so much. What the snakes is easy? Easy? 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:38.520 Not a dollar when your own bike, sir. I provided 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:41.520 the second bike. Okay, I provided the bike. He was like, 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:44.040 this is like a real What was he saying? He 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:47.240 was like, this is like a real uh. Y'all was 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:52.240 on a limidate that's like a limidd day yeah, Like 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:54.960 we rolled from the house down to like the river, 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:57.880 so it's about maybe about three miles three or four 0:08:57.880 --> 0:08:59.280 miles or something like that to get to the river. 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:02.760 But girl, you know, and adult dolphins was out, the 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.560 boats was out. It was really nice. Okay, oh that 0:09:05.720 --> 0:09:08.240 is nice. And see, listen, guys, you can take a 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:11.080 woman on a nice day if you're playing something. You 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:13.160 can take a woman on a nice day that won't 0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:17.600 be expensive. You just gotta use your mind. Like I'm 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:20.199 gonna get I'm gonna rent two bikes. Were gonna bite 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:24.000 down to the river, get to ice cream cones, and 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:26.720 bike the funk back. And a woman will appreciate that 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:28.920 unless she's just like fat and lazy and don't want 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:33.640 to But most women will appreciate a date like, yes, 0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:35.600 a nice day. And then we got caught in the rain, 0:09:35.679 --> 0:09:38.400 so it's even more fun because it started raining. So no, 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:40.079 that's not fun. It was fun to me. We was 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:43.040 out there like some kids, girl, okay, riding in the 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:46.320 rain on the way back home. So y'all, I got 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:51.120 a random text from a random guy that it was fine. 0:09:51.600 --> 0:09:55.679 He sent a picture for American Airlines. All right, now 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:57.880 I'm gonna play Are you gonna die from turbulence on 0:09:57.920 --> 0:10:01.280 a commercial airline flight? The answer is no. But let's 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:03.440 talk more about it. Right here in the United States, 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:08.320 more than million adults the same voice. It doesn't sound 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:12.800 like it doesn't. So let me break down exactly how 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:15.800 safe airline travel is and why you should not be 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:21.000 afraid of I don't I don't know. That guy sounded 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:22.880 kind of manic go on that phone just now. He 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:26.800 was talking really fast, right, but he might have been nervous. 0:10:27.400 --> 0:10:30.320 M hmm. I don't know. I don't know. We're gonna 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:36.720 see though, I got a pistol. Look, let's be clear. 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:45.040 But okay, we're gonna see what that's about. That was weird. Yeah, 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:49.760 let's get back into the stupid internet news like we're 0:10:49.760 --> 0:10:52.600 gonna tam' gonna give y'all the update next week on 0:10:52.640 --> 0:10:56.680 that phone call. But um, okay. So Nick Cannon was 0:10:56.720 --> 0:11:03.600 on Angel Angels Lip Lip Service recently and he made 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:07.960 some big claims. He said that of women have bad hygiene. 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:11.360 I don't know that Nick Cannon has fu of women 0:11:11.360 --> 0:11:13.480 on this earth. I don't know. He might be. He 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:16.480 might be trying based on you know, his track record, 0:11:17.080 --> 0:11:19.800 but he said you know only about where he you know, 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:25.120 he never smelled anything or whatever. And uh, what was 0:11:25.160 --> 0:11:29.240 funny was Prima Donna commented on them the Post online 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:33.440 and said that that's probably because you're sleeping about six 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:36.400 different women and you've got everybody pH thrown off, which 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:40.160 is the fuck truth right exactly, because you're clearly not 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:44.479 using cond exactly, and even if these women have good hygiene, 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:47.439 even if he doesn't have a disease, like everybody's pH 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:50.720 doesn't mix right, so it's going to cause an issue 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:53.520 even women using you know, the wrong type of soap 0:11:54.360 --> 0:12:00.760 that could cause some type of problem exactly. So that 0:12:00.800 --> 0:12:03.280 has nothing to do with hygiene. And I think men 0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:05.520 really need to shut the funk up when it comes 0:12:05.520 --> 0:12:08.600 to that type of thing. Okay, that's just really really 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:12.960 weird that you'd be on a public platform with that 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:16.679 type of assumption. That's crazy to me. And you know, 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:18.959 if he wasn't who he was, we would consider him 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:23.600 dirty D. Let's be clear. You got all these baby 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:28.760 mamas back to back like community D Yes, community dirty D. 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:32.760 I would I can. I matter of fact, I'm going 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:36.120 to go ahead and make that statement. You're the reason 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:42.920 why the women you've been with pussy stink? Right, was 0:12:42.960 --> 0:12:45.000 it stink the first time or was it stink after 0:12:45.040 --> 0:12:51.240 you here? Exactly? Yeah? Like, what the hell is wrong 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:57.360 with man? Jeez? Man, I don't know, I don't know. 0:12:57.440 --> 0:13:03.320 I don't know, I don't know. M hmm. Got to 0:13:03.360 --> 0:13:05.920 be more careful. We got a transition into no, do 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:13.199 you be a one of Caddon's baby mom? Nope? The fuck? Well? 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:16.160 All right? That brings me to my next topic. Actually, 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:18.640 I went to the movies last night and I went 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:23.520 to see the movie Nope. Um, apparently the It was 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:28.280 actually I mean, it wasn't like a cinematic masterpiece or anything, 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:31.480 but it was good. Um. I enjoyed it. And I 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:35.960 think it had like some symbolic meaning, like you know, uh, 0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:40.479 what's his name? Jordan Peel is that his name? He? Um? 0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:43.760 He always tries to have like some subliminal messages in 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:45.920 his movie, and I just think it might have been 0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:50.319 a message about like taking pictures and videos of ourselves 0:13:50.320 --> 0:13:53.199 all the time. But I mean, you should go see it. 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:56.160 It was actually good. Keiki Palmer was really good in it. 0:13:56.280 --> 0:14:00.079 I love Keiki Palmer. Uh. I think her character to 0:14:02.280 --> 0:14:06.199 is lesbian. I'm not sure. I think's all in the movie, 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:09.440 but it's more a love story about her and her brother. Honestly, 0:14:09.559 --> 0:14:13.520 So y'all go watch that. It's pretty good and I 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:15.680 know it did well. People are going back to the movies. 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:20.680 I was surprised to see so many people in new movies. Yeah, 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:24.240 they said it um ranking over nineteen point five million dollars. 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:25.920 I wonder what the budget was for. I like to 0:14:25.920 --> 0:14:27.760 look at I like to make comparisons. I can really 0:14:27.760 --> 0:14:31.040 see how people actually made on movies. I'm nosy in 0:14:31.080 --> 0:14:35.800 that way. Um yeah, I want to see. Because they 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:38.080 said Thor only made six point four million, so of 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:44.680 it made? Um wait, Thor meanwhile, took in close to 0:14:44.720 --> 0:14:47.160 six point four million, bringing the Marvel Disney flick to 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:54.280 hut four point two million domestically. Mhm, never mind, sorry, 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:57.360 it made six points It made six point four just 0:14:57.480 --> 0:15:01.720 last week, okay, and then Jordan's Note made nineteen point 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:07.200 five on opening night. Right. Yeah. Yeah, I love the movies. 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:08.880 I used to go to the movies all the time. 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:14.320 This is my first time going back since the pandemic started. Yeah. 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:16.960 I haven't been back to the movies either. I haven't 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:18.640 been to the movies. I'm gonna go but I like 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:20.320 to go to Matinee's. I really don't like to go 0:15:20.360 --> 0:15:23.840 to theaters when people other people in there. I like 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:28.800 to go like early in the daytime. I just don't 0:15:28.800 --> 0:15:30.840 be wanting to waste my day with the movie theaters. 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:34.160 Why are you saying and they're watching TV? Because I 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:36.360 feel like I'm just sitting there watching TV and I 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:39.680 don't watch TV as is. So like the last movie 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:42.520 I wanted to go and see was Doctor Strange. I 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:45.000 never made it to the to the movie theater, but 0:15:45.120 --> 0:15:48.640 now it's on HBO, so I watched it already. But yeah, 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:53.160 I don't like sitting in the movie theaters. M See. 0:15:53.160 --> 0:15:54.960 What I like to do is I like to like 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:58.040 fill my purse up with snacks that came from somewhere else, 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:02.960 food and everything. My bag is full. I like to 0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:05.440 like smoke a joint in the parking lot before I 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:09.960 go in. It's little you got the whole thing, And 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:11.520 then I have to go to one of those movie 0:16:11.560 --> 0:16:15.360 theaters with the reclining seats and stuff like that. Oh yeah, yeah, 0:16:15.640 --> 0:16:21.520 then it's it's about I don't know anyway, child. What 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:24.200 we got for the listeners this week when we talked back, 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:30.440 we want to talk about different forms of relationships or 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:33.360 a different type of relationship that maybe we might need 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:37.120 to look at if it's a possibility for us perhaps 0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:43.960 or at least for me. Yeah, we'll be back, y'all. Yeah, 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:52.640 let's get into it all right, y'all, we are back 0:16:52.680 --> 0:16:54.920 and we have our guests with us. Thank you guys 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:58.960 for joining us. Do you want to go by Hucci, 0:16:59.080 --> 0:17:03.440 Poppy or Ricky? You? Ricky? All right? So it's Ricky 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:06.920 and Joe to you, guys. They are in a polly 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:12.240 amorous relationship. Is that what you like to call it? Yes, 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:15.879 So we want to talk about being black and polly. 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:20.000 Talk to us about yourselves first, individually, like who you are, 0:17:20.359 --> 0:17:23.720 and then we'll get into how y'all came together? You 0:17:23.800 --> 0:17:29.920 go first journey? Um, ain't you talking about myself? I'm 0:17:29.960 --> 0:17:35.439 a retired senior. I'm a license SiGe therapist. Uh, I'm 0:17:35.480 --> 0:17:42.959 an actor, spicy and man? And where are you from? Missouri? Missouri? 0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:46.040 Is that where you reside now? No, I'll reside in 0:17:46.040 --> 0:17:52.520 Los Angeles, l A. Progressive Okay. I'm only been living 0:17:52.520 --> 0:17:55.960 in l A seven months. Okay, so new to l A. 0:17:56.600 --> 0:17:58.639 It's expensive out there. I don't know how y'all doing that. 0:17:58.760 --> 0:18:02.760 Y'all need to come on back to the out right 0:18:02.880 --> 0:18:07.000 and Ricky, what about you? Um? I am going to 0:18:07.119 --> 0:18:12.560 raised from St. Louis, Missouri. I've been living in l 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:17.400 A for ten years. I am a model, an adult 0:18:17.600 --> 0:18:21.320 content creator. Well, I'm a content creating creator all over 0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:28.760 the board. Okay, the adult content creating pays the bills. Okay. Um, 0:18:28.840 --> 0:18:35.000 And I am pan sexual, so okay for our listeners 0:18:35.040 --> 0:18:38.200 that don't understand what pain sexually is, what is that? 0:18:38.280 --> 0:18:43.000 Because she's not sucking frying pans, y'all? But you know, 0:18:43.200 --> 0:18:46.960 you know what, some some pans are quite sexy. You 0:18:47.000 --> 0:18:53.560 know what I'm really um, pans sexual is basically, I 0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:57.919 really just love humans, Like I don't care what you 0:18:58.000 --> 0:19:03.200 identify as. I don't care you're about your sexual orientation. 0:19:03.880 --> 0:19:07.159 If we vibe, we vibe. So I mean, I've had 0:19:07.240 --> 0:19:09.920 to tell people because some people like to argue all 0:19:10.000 --> 0:19:14.840 your bisexual and I'm like, nah, because I've dated trands before, 0:19:15.160 --> 0:19:18.760 so I really don't. I don't care if you got 0:19:18.800 --> 0:19:22.280 a dick or a pussy, if you gave straight by 0:19:22.320 --> 0:19:25.879 try whatever. If we vibe, we vibe. It's all about 0:19:27.359 --> 0:19:35.600 our chemistry, the human connection. Okay, that's so interesting. So 0:19:35.680 --> 0:19:40.960 all right, how did you two guys meet? We met 0:19:41.640 --> 0:19:45.320 years ago? I want to say, maybe like twelve years ago. 0:19:45.400 --> 0:19:51.640 We knew of each other because he was I guess 0:19:51.920 --> 0:19:55.520 so a friend of mine was his side check m hm. 0:19:56.160 --> 0:19:59.960 And then me and me and her are no longer 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:03.399 her friends years ago past, and we finally got to 0:20:03.440 --> 0:20:09.280 actually sit down and meet each other. Uh two years ago? Yeah, 0:20:09.440 --> 0:20:14.679 two years ago in Vegas. And then y'all just how 0:20:14.720 --> 0:20:18.840 did y'all become like a thing like we fox when 0:20:18.840 --> 0:20:24.760 we met in Vegas and that was like in August sometimes, 0:20:24.840 --> 0:20:28.120 and then we just in contact during that that time, 0:20:28.440 --> 0:20:32.760 and um, I was coming back to Vegas and she 0:20:32.800 --> 0:20:35.080 had a mutual friend and she was like, yo, she 0:20:35.160 --> 0:20:36.600 had a mutual friend of like, yo, you wanna have 0:20:36.600 --> 0:20:42.360 a three soon with Jody? So Jody My Jodie. So 0:20:42.560 --> 0:20:46.560 her friend was down and she was like, yo, when 0:20:46.560 --> 0:20:49.160 you had a threesome, you know you mine after that, 0:20:49.600 --> 0:20:53.359 and pretty much we had a threesome in front of 0:20:53.359 --> 0:20:57.600 like five other women I was watching. I think it 0:20:57.720 --> 0:21:02.040 was like seven. Okay. I tried to downplay it, but yeah, 0:21:02.920 --> 0:21:06.520 who came later? So they just set you up, Jody. 0:21:06.800 --> 0:21:12.040 They literally said, I felt like drive by. They were 0:21:12.440 --> 0:21:14.720 sitting in a room watching me have sex. So it 0:21:15.040 --> 0:21:19.040 streight did y'all is there any footage out there? I mean, 0:21:19.040 --> 0:21:24.199 I'm just there. We need that for research purposes. That 0:21:24.240 --> 0:21:30.000 to us, so all right, okay, that was the fucking 0:21:30.040 --> 0:21:32.280 But then how did y'all decide like, Okay, we're we 0:21:32.359 --> 0:21:37.840 want to be a thing, We're gonna be partners, are together. Um, Well, 0:21:37.880 --> 0:21:41.840 before we even decided to get into a relationship, I 0:21:41.880 --> 0:21:45.040 had already discussed with him like, hey, I haven't had 0:21:45.040 --> 0:21:49.199 a child, I've never been pregnant. I want to make 0:21:49.240 --> 0:21:53.359 him maybe with you, will you be the father of 0:21:53.480 --> 0:21:57.879 my child? And he was like that's what you want? Okay, 0:21:58.520 --> 0:22:00.720 And then it was that easy. We kind of just 0:22:00.840 --> 0:22:03.520 kind of like just kept growing. But you know, I 0:22:03.520 --> 0:22:07.520 ain't pregnant. We were planning later, not right now, but 0:22:08.760 --> 0:22:11.040 we want to be my baby daddy. That's what happened. 0:22:12.720 --> 0:22:15.000 I want to appropriate with you. And then later on, 0:22:15.160 --> 0:22:19.960 I don't know, I don't know if it was a 0:22:20.040 --> 0:22:23.400 year later, but wasn't a year baby or maybe like 0:22:23.760 --> 0:22:27.040 maybe five months I was like, hey, I want to 0:22:27.080 --> 0:22:30.960 build with you, and I think that really made him 0:22:31.040 --> 0:22:34.000 buck with the knees. He was like, yeah, it was 0:22:34.040 --> 0:22:36.479 the bill word. It was the bill word. It was like, 0:22:36.480 --> 0:22:38.080 I want to grow with you, I want to be more. 0:22:38.280 --> 0:22:40.960 It was she put her intentions out there and she 0:22:41.040 --> 0:22:43.640 knew what she wanted. So that really like, y'all, I'm 0:22:43.640 --> 0:22:48.600 with that. Okay, So that made y'all a couple. But 0:22:48.640 --> 0:22:52.200 then how did you y'all decide that we're gonna polly 0:22:52.240 --> 0:22:57.160 ally this thing? Well, I'm polly um okay, I don't 0:22:57.160 --> 0:23:01.600 care what situation. If it forbid, something happens and I'm 0:23:01.640 --> 0:23:04.480 no longer with him, I'm still gonna be Polly. So 0:23:05.320 --> 0:23:09.119 growing up, I would see I was raised by my father, 0:23:09.280 --> 0:23:12.320 and I would see him just got a woman here, 0:23:12.359 --> 0:23:16.679 I got a woman here there, And they all know 0:23:16.760 --> 0:23:18.720 about each other, but they all hate each other, and 0:23:18.800 --> 0:23:21.840 I'm lying to all of them. And as a young girl, 0:23:22.000 --> 0:23:27.720 I'm like, okay, so you're happy with all of them, 0:23:27.760 --> 0:23:30.120 but you keep lying to all of them. But they 0:23:30.160 --> 0:23:32.239 know you're lying to all of them because they know 0:23:32.320 --> 0:23:36.320 about each other they've even met. So why don't everybody 0:23:36.400 --> 0:23:39.199 just be happy with what's going on instead of you 0:23:39.320 --> 0:23:44.719 having to lie all the time. So growing up, you know, 0:23:45.200 --> 0:23:49.800 when you start dating, everything is everything has to be monogamous. 0:23:50.359 --> 0:23:53.040 And I was like, got older, I started to see 0:23:53.160 --> 0:23:56.959 like I might be a cheater. But then once I 0:23:57.000 --> 0:24:00.280 started just being open with it, saund like, listen, talked 0:24:00.280 --> 0:24:03.639 to this person. I talked to this person. It felt 0:24:03.800 --> 0:24:08.320 so much better than lying. And when I realized that 0:24:08.480 --> 0:24:11.760 I could go out and guys are like, damn, girl, 0:24:11.800 --> 0:24:13.840 you gotta you gott a boyfriend, I'm like, yeah, I 0:24:13.880 --> 0:24:15.880 got three. You want to be the fourth one. They'd 0:24:15.880 --> 0:24:18.560 be like yeah, I'm like, okay, you gotta cover this building. 0:24:19.400 --> 0:24:23.240 And it was just that easy exactly. They don't care, 0:24:23.840 --> 0:24:27.719 and women don't, well some women care, but they were like, okay, 0:24:28.480 --> 0:24:31.720 and Jody, you don't mind her having other male sexual 0:24:31.760 --> 0:24:34.320 partners because as a black man, that's not common. Like 0:24:34.359 --> 0:24:37.760 black men is like very territorial with their women, like 0:24:37.840 --> 0:24:40.119 they a lot of time they treat them as something 0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:47.600 to be owned. And he says, a human who has experiences, 0:24:48.160 --> 0:24:49.760 I don't mind, as long as we talk about it 0:24:49.840 --> 0:24:51.840 all the time. Like that's always been the biggest thing 0:24:51.840 --> 0:24:55.639 in communication. Not only did I was I was like 0:24:55.680 --> 0:24:59.199 a jigga for a moment and growing up, so it 0:24:59.280 --> 0:25:01.639 was more always always decide to I'm used to women 0:25:01.680 --> 0:25:05.720 having another man, and I was used to it, but 0:25:05.880 --> 0:25:09.320 now in this situation, it's more like, so I had 0:25:09.359 --> 0:25:11.680 girlfriends in Paris and I used to cheat on them. 0:25:11.720 --> 0:25:14.720 I'm open and it's just more of a sign relief 0:25:15.160 --> 0:25:20.840 of just being able to communicate. That's yeah. So me 0:25:20.880 --> 0:25:23.720 and Tam we talked about open relationships a lot because 0:25:23.720 --> 0:25:25.800 the older you get, you realize, like a lot of 0:25:25.800 --> 0:25:29.480 people are in fake, you know, monogamous relationships. And then 0:25:29.520 --> 0:25:33.239 now like the traditional traditional monogamy is just like just 0:25:33.280 --> 0:25:36.199 sucking one person at a time, right, that's what we 0:25:36.240 --> 0:25:40.520 consider monogamy at this point. But a lot of men 0:25:40.640 --> 0:25:44.840 don't realize that there is somebody out here for everybody, right, 0:25:44.960 --> 0:25:47.480