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Speaker 1: talked back. Listen, what's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning

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Speaker 1: in for a new episode of We Talked Back, a

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Speaker 1: show dedicated to these niggas and you hosts and your

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Speaker 1: co host a J. What up, y'all? See a J

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Speaker 1: being out with the cute dogs all weekend? That's why

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Speaker 1: her energy low? She tired, you're cute dollars, You're tired girl, Charlotte.

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Speaker 1: Hell no, I didn't look. I was out there, but

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Speaker 1: I wasn't out there like it was out of body experience. Now,

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Speaker 1: did you I know I sent you that posted that

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Speaker 1: girl talking on Facebook about the mother fucking cues and

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Speaker 1: niggas was a tippet. She said, they can't she could

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Speaker 1: wait for their dusty ask to get the hell up

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Speaker 1: out of Charlotte and they and did you see comments? Yes, yes, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Hey it's Tam Bam, y'all. And they ran her from philm.

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Speaker 1: You can't talk about a group of the whole body

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Speaker 1: of people like that. No, right, a whole fucking frat

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Speaker 1: because of a couple of people. Now, I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 1: you the older niggas, they were the worst. Okay, and

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Speaker 1: this is just being in a couple of places. I

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Speaker 1: went to um in Uptown. Child, girl, if that man listened,

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Speaker 1: see now this is why I might not get married,

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Speaker 1: because if I find out my husband is like a

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Speaker 1: real simple at sixty five, Like I got a real

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Speaker 1: problem with that, these thiggas with simps simps drooling at

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Speaker 1: A man Mr what was his name? Damn? What was

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Speaker 1: his name? Mr? Bruno? What is that he was? He

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Speaker 1: came up to me on Friday, Mr Bruno, Mr Bruno,

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Speaker 1: Like he was like, can I sit down next to

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Speaker 1: your baby? Yes, sir girl. They' goddamn granddaddy d's that

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Speaker 1: was out there and the younger ones they just looking

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Speaker 1: sweaty just in the streets. You know how to you know,

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Speaker 1: to look eating air COUCHI on that air COUCHI getting eating.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't take a girl. I was so aggravate. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm out there with my home girl. I'm like I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to go. Yeah. I stayed in after Friday night.

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Speaker 1: I stayed in. The rest of them, I just wish

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Speaker 1: than me barking me. I was like, oh ship, that's

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Speaker 1: all you heard all day? My dog? Get okay, get

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Speaker 1: someone was real fine. But I can't handle all of

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Speaker 1: them congregated together. There's just too much. What happened is

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Speaker 1: stupid internet news. Child. What we got going on. We

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Speaker 1: gotta gotta god dad preacher getting robbed uh in New York. Lord, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so apparently this man's congregation got robbed for somewhere uh

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Speaker 1: around four hundred thousand dollars in in belongings their estimating

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Speaker 1: uh lamar white head. Okay, he's a bishop in New York.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It looks kind of scam likely to me. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it looks like it's given insurance fraud to me, I

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Speaker 1: like scammera scam gate, it's given scam and the middle

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Speaker 1: How we got robbed? I don't know, but this man

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Speaker 1: into that business. You don't pay taxes. Get your nice

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Speaker 1: more of a Reverend Ike. I would be preaching about

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Speaker 1: and Seance Companiana Dayan congregation because he probably got all

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Speaker 1: else you got going on. Okay, dammy, are you taking

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take a new nigga on a date, right,

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Speaker 1: the one that's asking in a date. But like, I'm

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Speaker 1: Because that implies that your pain. You want to take

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Speaker 1: me to dinner? Say that. I don't say you want

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Speaker 1: the young lady was like, you know, I pay for dates?

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Speaker 1: Like what's wrong with that? Y'all? Pitches can't pay for dates?

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Speaker 1: Like it just depends, Okay, ma'am. If I'm with somebody

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Speaker 1: Of course, I'm you know, willing to pay for things.

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Speaker 1: I didn't pay not one. I pay for gas getting

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Speaker 1: Not a dollar when your own bike, sir. I provided

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Speaker 1: boats was out. It was really nice. Okay, oh that

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Speaker 1: He sent a picture for American Airlines. All right, now

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Speaker 1: using cond exactly, and even if these women have good hygiene,

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Speaker 1: even women using you know, the wrong type of soap

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Speaker 1: that could cause some type of problem exactly. So that

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Speaker 1: if he wasn't who he was, we would consider him

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Speaker 1: dirty D. Let's be clear. You got all these baby

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Speaker 1: mamas back to back like community D Yes, community dirty D.

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Speaker 1: I would I can. I matter of fact, I'm going

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Speaker 1: to go ahead and make that statement. You're the reason

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Speaker 1: why the women you've been with pussy stink? Right, was

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Speaker 1: you here? Exactly? Yeah? Like, what the hell is wrong

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Speaker 1: you be a one of Caddon's baby mom? Nope? The fuck? Well?

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Speaker 1: up a little bit. But but as a man, why

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00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 1: why why are we even looking at it um as

421
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: if somebody you're going because you can tell this person

422
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 1: that's from the beginning, just like Ricky just said when

423
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,360
Speaker 1: she meets people, like she let them know right right,

424
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:00,199
Speaker 1: Like if you let them know in them begin and

425
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 1: then it's not going to be a situation where you're

426
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,360
Speaker 1: trying to now cohet somebody into some ship to keep

427
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:10,959
Speaker 1: them where men are natural hunters. So I feel like

428
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: it's more of I don't want to lose my opportunity,

429
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 1: like we I could give you you ain't never had before,

430
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: never had before? Why you can't pussy the truth? Because

431
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 1: we want the pussy no matter what, Like if we're

432
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,199
Speaker 1: gonna set the trap and we're gonna try to get it,

433
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,400
Speaker 1: like no matter how it is, it's just like, yeah,

434
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be honest with you. I may tell

435
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: you afterwards, you know, and some people don't. Men usually

436
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 1: wait for a question to come to us as well.

437
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 1: So I say men don't have integrity? Is that what

438
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 1: we're saying? I have six with a girl and she

439
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: woke up the next mornings like you don't have a girlfriend,

440
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 1: do you. I'm like, well, we already fun, so I'm

441
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: not about to tell you the truth either. So she

442
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,239
Speaker 1: ain't got it, like I'm you didn't care before, So

443
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 1: like it's not a we wait for the intentions to

444
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 1: come like we want we want to be told before

445
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:12,399
Speaker 1: we approached. Hmmm, So are are there any boundaries in

446
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: this kind of relationship? Well, we have boundaries and every polly,

447
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:24,200
Speaker 1: with every relationship, whether is polly or monogamy, anything like that,

448
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 1: there should be boundaries. When there's no boundaries or the

449
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 1: boundaries are not discussed, that's when the issues start to rise.

450
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: So with us. Our boundaries, um are If he feels

451
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 1: that he needs to venture off and find another partner, um,

452
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: I want us to talk about it first. Same here,

453
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 1: we talk about it first, we discuss it, and we

454
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: move forward. I would like to meet them. And if

455
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 1: he just having sex, I mean I don't, I don't know.

456
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 1: But if he feels like, hey, babe, I want this

457
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: person as a partner, I feel like I should meet

458
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 1: them because what if they're out somewhere and something happens,

459
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 1: who she gonna call me? And the police? Probably? But

460
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 1: you know, you just don't you just I just want

461
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: to know who's dealing with my man because he's a

462
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 1: part of me. That's my business. So basically you have

463
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: to have a relationship with that person too. You feel

464
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: like you would like basically have a relationships with No.

465
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: I don't need to have like an intimate relationship with her,

466
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: but I should know who she is. You know, I

467
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 1: should have at least a friendship or something, because if

468
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to be with me, that's fine, But

469
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 1: nine times, without a chance, she's gonna want to be

470
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: with me, So, UM, I would I just feel like

471
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 1: I should know who that individual is. You know because

472
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 1: say like say, I'm you decided, Hey, I want to

473
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: be in a relationship with Jodi, but not Ricky. I

474
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: would still want you to have a conversation with me,

475
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 1: and when we see each other, we should be cordial.

476
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 1: I should be able to show you love, you should

477
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 1: be able to show me love, and everybody just go

478
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:20,719
Speaker 1: out their day. So this type of relationship there's no

479
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: jealousy involved. Ever. Well, I'm not a jealous person. No,

480
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 1: I'm not. I don't believe he is either. I'm very confident,

481
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 1: I guess that's what it is. I'm confident in our

482
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 1: communication and I'm confident that I'm doing the best I

483
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 1: possibly can. So I don't ever get jels because if

484
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: I'm getting somebody everything, you know, I appreciate it, that's

485
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 1: your loss. So I don't get jether. Yeah. I think

486
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 1: we just saw um. Did y'all see Laura London on

487
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: Angie Martinez Show and they can see yeah, the one

488
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 1: to eclip. She basically essentially she didn't say Polly, she

489
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 1: didn't say open, but that's where the conversation was going at,

490
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: and she was talking about ego and how you know

491
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: that jealousy thing we feel when when somebody's stepping. Stepping

492
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: in our territory is ego And if you say you

493
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 1: love somebody, I don't have ego when it comes to

494
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 1: somebody I love, Like I would literally overlook a thousand

495
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 1: things out of love for this person, right, So I

496
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: think that, Um, yeah, Like, if you're trying to possess somebody,

497
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: that's definitely coming from a place of ego. And how

498
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 1: do you got to just experience people? You know what

499
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I don't know. So so for for Ricky,

500
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 1: do you have other men that you then have to

501
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 1: introduce to Jody or is this just something that Jody

502
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: explores most of the time and you deal with other women.

503
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:53,479
Speaker 1: So it's a joke amongst like as friends where they

504
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: always be like Ricky really is the last year? She

505
00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 1: just got a sexy ass nigga on my side. And

506
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, um, but don't get me wrong,

507
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:18,479
Speaker 1: like I do I aesthetically I like women more like

508
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:20,719
Speaker 1: you see a woman, you just gotta look, you know.

509
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: But um and right now, I'm just happy with just

510
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 1: this one man in my life as of now, I

511
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 1: don't see I'm not really seeing all other dudes. Like

512
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: we'll be out and about and he'll see them looking

513
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: at me and I'm just I'm livius. But um, women, Yeah,

514
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: I've had somebody else as far as a woman, but

515
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: that didn't last because she was trying to play games.

516
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 1: I only play games when it's connected to a console,

517
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: so we don't play my games over here. And I

518
00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: mean in the future, I can't say like I'm gonna

519
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 1: be be with another guy or I'm not right now,

520
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: I'm not looking to be with a guy. I'm happy

521
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: with the guy that I have now. So all right,

522
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 1: help me understand in our listeners the difference between an

523
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: open relationship and polyamory. Is there really a difference? Yes,

524
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: I would say so open it's more a couple and

525
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 1: open is sexual base. Polly is more of emotional base. Well, um,

526
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 1: and that's what it is. Like open, like, oh, I

527
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: can go ahead, this person is person, but Polly is

528
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 1: more of emotional we're actually having dates, we're actually experiencing

529
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 1: each other's company and time and actually learning that particular person.

530
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 1: It's open, it's like one nice things. So what however

531
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: you want to say, like like you don't get to

532
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: build emotional connections exactly in the open relationship. Are you sitting.

533
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: It's the introduction to like, kay, like, babe, this is person,

534
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 1: be this, this is gonna be in our life. This

535
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: person may make me mad one day and you have

536
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: the experience and deal with emotion. I'm dealing. So that's

537
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 1: more of like the actual full connection because probably just

538
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 1: I think open relationships are sexual just truly sexual. Base

539
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 1: probably is just having a great friendship with everybody. It's one, yeah,

540
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,399
Speaker 1: because I think when we think Polly, we think like

541
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,399
Speaker 1: when men have more than one wife, and so it's

542
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 1: a commitment. Well that is that's a type of Polly,

543
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 1: but then it's polyandry. Yeah. Yeah, so Polly amory is

544
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 1: like you're not married to know, and people always, especially

545
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: with our relationship, everybody views it as like, oh, I'm

546
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 1: the one who wants to three, I'm the one who

547
00:34:56,120 --> 00:35:00,760
Speaker 1: want the the women. But it's actually reversed because she's

548
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: the one who want and you know, I'm here, you know,

549
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:10,240
Speaker 1: I'm applying, and who am I to tell her no?

550
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 1: Not the dicks supply and the girls, you know, the girls,

551
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, like they like going up to him.

552
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: They liked being like hi, Jody, and then you know,

553
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: talking to him and it was like, so, how's ricky?

554
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: It was like chick bait. He's chicken because you have

555
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 1: never entered I'm gonna say, all the girls that I

556
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:41,240
Speaker 1: know are her friends now, like all the people recently

557
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 1: she's mad about to ask woman I've introduced it like

558
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: women were talking where they hit her up more than me.

559
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, I lost I lost female friends. Women

560
00:35:52,680 --> 00:36:01,360
Speaker 1: friends to to my girl, she still all your bitches still.

561
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 1: You know, a lot of times the girls don't even

562
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: want to, like by myself, they don't really want to

563
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,879
Speaker 1: talk to me because I don't know. I don't think

564
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:15,399
Speaker 1: I come off as a bitch, but they they don't

565
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 1: really say anything. And then it's like, let me ease

566
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 1: my way in with the guy. Hi, now we're friends,

567
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: and don't like, who is that? I think I was?

568
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: Cardi b you know, because Cardi is bisexual. She talks

569
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 1: about a lot and she was saying how it's easier

570
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: for her to haul that men than women, Like she

571
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 1: gets really shy, we're trying to haul at a woman,

572
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 1: So maybe that's me. It's easy to haul at whatever

573
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:48,760
Speaker 1: I want. So all right, what would constitute cheating for y'all.

574
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 1: What would be cheating? Is there cheating? Oh yeah, it

575
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 1: could be me going out with somebody guy or girl

576
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: and and not telling him, having sex with somebody and

577
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: not telling him, or even like, I feel like an

578
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: emotional bond is way like deeper than any That's not

579
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: what polyamory is, though, the intimate bonds with other people

580
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:20,320
Speaker 1: know it is. But I for our boundaries, I need

581
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 1: to tell right and he needs to tell me. So

582
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 1: if I'm if I meet somebody out, I meet a

583
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 1: fine woman out and I want to court her or whatever,

584
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, babe, listen, I met this girl. That's

585
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 1: what she looked like. Snap, Can I take a picture

586
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:38,879
Speaker 1: of you real quick? Send it to my dude real quick?

587
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 1: You know? And where I'm telling him like I want

588
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 1: to take her out on a date, I want to

589
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 1: do this, I want to do that. And that's that's

590
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 1: what we're that's our relationship. Now. If I'm like not

591
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 1: saying nothing and sneaking around, that's cheap, I'm lying. I'm

592
00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 1: basically lying. She definitely did that. I don't have to

593
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 1: write a girl. She took a picture, she sent me

594
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: the picture and then she was like, can I sucked her.

595
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, like and that's what happened. Like

596
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 1: if she just has sex with her, did anything like

597
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:20,359
Speaker 1: that without telling me, that's cheating. So what she sent

598
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 1: you a picture of a nigger and said can I

599
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 1: fuck them? You would be like be safe. Yeah, damn,

600
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 1: that's so progressive because niggas don't be thinking like that

601
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 1: A lot of times. They'd be like, if you're gonna

602
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:36,439
Speaker 1: bring your ass home and stop, you got to find

603
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 1: a bit out there to bring home. She's already there though,

604
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 1: Like if she's hanging with this dude and already it's

605
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 1: already set up, like she's gonna do anyway. If I

606
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: take that away from her, she's gonna feel certain type

607
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 1: of white you know at the end, like girls, But

608
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 1: I should have sucked that nigga, blah blah blah, Like, no,

609
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take that away from you. If you

610
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: feel like that's what you want to do, that's what

611
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: you want to do, Who am I to stop you?

612
00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:02,479
Speaker 1: So with our relationship, it well for me, I look

613
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 1: at all my past monogamous relationships and I don't want

614
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:11,879
Speaker 1: none of that in this relationship. So like I've from

615
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 1: what I've learned and from my experiences, monomy is all

616
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:21,720
Speaker 1: about control. Yes, it just seems like it's just always, Ah,

617
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: you're my girl, you're my partner, you're supposed to be

618
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 1: with me. You shouldn't be going out to Jenner with

619
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: nobody but me. Like way, they don't make sense. If

620
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 1: I could get pregnant by anything in this world, and

621
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 1: anybody in this in this world can give me an orgasm,

622
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 1: why don't have to just give it you? It don't

623
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 1: even make sense to me by biologically, we're not designed

624
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,840
Speaker 1: to be with one person. That was some man made

625
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 1: bullshit and based off religion. But even in the Bible,

626
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: like when they say, uh, some Solomon had four wives

627
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 1: and he didn't marry all of them. He was fucking

628
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:08,320
Speaker 1: just his body count was four. Yeah, that's what he

629
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 1: had sex with a woman that that was probably Yeah. Yeah,

630
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 1: I don't even the Bible. When people bring up the Bible,

631
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: that's just scary. Really really No church in a While.

632
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 1: We had an episode. We had an episode no church

633
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:30,919
Speaker 1: in a while because Kanye you know that that song

634
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 1: no Church in a While. Yeah, So that line on there.

635
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 1: He was like, we formed our own religion and the

636
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 1: only felony is you fucking somebody without telling him. That's

637
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 1: the only felony. Let me ask you this, how do

638
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 1: you How does your families feel about your relationships and

639
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 1: your choices, your life choices. Yeah, you can talking about

640
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 1: the Bible in it. No, So my family is very

641
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:03,399
Speaker 1: support of whatever I do. That My mom is like, yo,

642
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: as long as you're being safe, as long as you're healthy,

643
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 1: I don't care what you do. Whatever life choices you make,

644
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 1: that's your life choices. And I'm supporting about what you know,

645
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 1: monsterly support and loving like that. What about your dad?

646
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 1: Me and my dad have a strange relationship. My dad

647
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 1: was in carslready most of my life, so it's like

648
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: I didn't meet him in town like twenty three, so

649
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:38,399
Speaker 1: it's like we don't have to Yeah, yeah, you didn't

650
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 1: raise me, So that's that's the understanding, Like like you're

651
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 1: just gonna have to go with whatever the funk I

652
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 1: got going on, Pops right right? What about you, Ricky? Honestly,

653
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:56,760
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know, and I don't care because

654
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, this is my life.

655
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:01,320
Speaker 1: I Mean, in the past, they've kind of like said

656
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 1: they're two cents about it, but at the end of

657
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,359
Speaker 1: the day, like, I'm gonna still do what I want

658
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 1: to do. So was in our position. Some some of

659
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 1: the family was like why is she doing that? Like

660
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 1: she just all of them getting cheated on, And then

661
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:24,719
Speaker 1: the other like it's like split you got some that's like,

662
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: why is she doing that? She just want to live

663
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: loud and free and blah blah. She's never gonna find

664
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 1: anyone that's gonna love her. No one wants that. And

665
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 1: then the other side is like, she's so loving, we

666
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 1: love Ricky. Just let her do what she wants to do.

667
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 1: And then then it's me, I don't even funk what

668
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 1: you got to say, because I asked right, y'a don't

669
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 1: pay y'all don't pay no bills over here, So it

670
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:53,239
Speaker 1: don't make a difference what your opinion is that mm hmm.

671
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 1: What else? Like what other? Oh? I have a question

672
00:42:56,440 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: about safety? So with sex, is there any boundaries when

673
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 1: it comes to condoms and eating pussy and you know,

674
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:08,479
Speaker 1: because I mean there's diseases that can be passed even

675
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 1: with oral sex, Like what what type of godlinestea I

676
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 1: have for that? Well, I'm not having sex with anybody

677
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 1: without let him know. And um, most of the time

678
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: we we word we get tested. Everybody gets tested m

679
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:32,280
Speaker 1: M because lately I think M majority of the people

680
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:37,359
Speaker 1: that we've dealt with together on a sexual level, it

681
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 1: was all sex workers and we all get tested. So person,

682
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 1: ya'll never roll the dice on a Saturday night. There

683
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 1: ain't never been no dice. Everybody be rolling the damn dice.

684
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:56,840
Speaker 1: No right, yeah, me and him, I'm protected even before

685
00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:00,800
Speaker 1: I was with him, like dealing with in my past,

686
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:04,479
Speaker 1: I kept my status clean and I hope they kept

687
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 1: their status clean. But we I would have discussions with people,

688
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:10,760
Speaker 1: and a lot of times it would be the guys.

689
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:13,800
Speaker 1: I'd like, so when last time you got tested? And

690
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:18,360
Speaker 1: I want to know, because niggles cheat off the women test,

691
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 1: Like if the women they don't have nothing, then they yeah,

692
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 1: you know. And I feel like now when your girl

693
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 1: got tested, when you get tested, I don't play that

694
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 1: because theybe out here putting their love things in anything chill,

695
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: a hot bowl of soup, a warm apple pie. I

696
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: feel good. I found out that they're doing it with bacon.

697
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:43,240
Speaker 1: They're wrapping bacon around it. What wait what because bacon

698
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: is greasy? So we give it the slip. Niggas is

699
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 1: wrapping baking around? They did? Is it is? It's not

700
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 1: cook baking, it's baking. What a waste? That much? Is

701
00:44:55,520 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 1: baking costive? But guess what they've been doing that since

702
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 1: they was living in castles. They still do that. It's

703
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: like illegal to have to own sheep if you're not married,

704
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 1: and that's still like in the law books you have

705
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 1: to have a wife to own sheep because they say

706
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 1: the sheep pussy feels like a woman's vagina. Why do

707
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 1: they know that because like a sheep, they sheep. Yeah,

708
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 1: poor animals. You don't see that guy, a black guy

709
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: just went in Charlotte for smashing the horse. Yes, yeah,

710
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 1: it was a black guy in Charlotte went to jail

711
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 1: for having sex with a dog. Like the neighbor caught

712
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: him sucking a dog in the backyard. Yo, I feel

713
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 1: like people have been doing that. Ask on up with

714
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 1: hot worms? Me and Joe was just talking to heartworm disease.

715
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:59,479
Speaker 1: Was just talking about like how some of the gay

716
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 1: guys sometimes maybe having gerbils in their bodies. Oh yeah,

717
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 1: I wasn't what actors thought that was a joke. It's real.

718
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 1: They just want to rode it running around in their

719
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 1: ass because your ass whole out, it'd be tickling the

720
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: prostrate when they'd be climbing up in their booty bold

721
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:26,959
Speaker 1: trying to survive, to hold out. I hope it bite

722
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: your to the hospital with them things stuck up there.

723
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, because what was that actor? He had to

724
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 1: go to the hospital to get a gerbil removed from

725
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,799
Speaker 1: his asshole. I don't know the actor, but I know

726
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 1: whole what you're being the hat out. A whole lot

727
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 1: of gerbils up there, gerbils, hamsters or whatever they are.

728
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 1: Stop putting them animals up your butt. Don't do that.

729
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 1: Stop dealing with animals period on the sexual So that's

730
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 1: not that's not a part of the l g B

731
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 1: t Q like bestiality. I'm just asking, is it not?

732
00:46:56,520 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: Hell No, you're supposed to be with humans, You're supposed

733
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 1: to be with adults. I'm asking. I don't know, Listen,

734
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 1: I'd be needing clarity. Job let me, you's gonna get show,

735
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: take it off. Don't put that girl me tell you

736
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 1: can't nobody take ship from me? How about that part? Okay,

737
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 1: I'm asking because I want clarity, so we are allowed

738
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 1: to ask questions. Well, so, so a j the thing

739
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: is the gerbil or the rodent thing. It started because

740
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: gay men were doing that. Two. I guess reach have

741
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 1: a different type of we're guys, but that is not

742
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: part of the lgbt Q plus all them let us,

743
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 1: it's not part of that lifestyle. What they Yeah, those

744
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: men maybe gay, but they also have issues and they

745
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:56,960
Speaker 1: like animals. That's weird. All right, let's get back on topic.

746
00:47:57,000 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 1: We went somewhere else with that. So uh um and

747
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 1: the polyamory relationship, do y'all want to get married or

748
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:08,879
Speaker 1: it's just marriage off the table? You just would rather

749
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 1: be in relationship forever and never put like ring on it,

750
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 1: Like what does that look like? At first, I didn't

751
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:18,319
Speaker 1: want to get married because I just I really don't

752
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 1: want a wedding. But if he was to say, like, hey, baby,

753
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 1: want to get married, I'd like maybe when? How? But

754
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 1: right now I am not like, I'm not like in

755
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 1: a rush. Marriage kind of scares me, m but I

756
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:40,400
Speaker 1: do I do want to be with him forever to

757
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: like that. I don't think that's beautiful. I don't think

758
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:46,760
Speaker 1: we need like a piece of paper in the government

759
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: to be like y'all together. But then again, sometimes when

760
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:58,320
Speaker 1: you get married, there's different opportunities. You know, what about you? Jody?

761
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:05,680
Speaker 1: I agree? Now marriage is a business contract. Really, what

762
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 1: you're signed? Jody virgo um virgo? I know you like

763
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,759
Speaker 1: I already know, already know Ricky is aquarious. I saw that.

764
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 1: So what do you say you do? Want to get married? Enough?

765
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,600
Speaker 1: I'm with it. It just had to hit me, but

766
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:28,240
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a marriage contract. But I agree,

767
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:29,879
Speaker 1: like I don't need to go and get a piece

768
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 1: of paper to say with Mary do other things like

769
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:37,439
Speaker 1: I'm with her, She's my forever girl right now. Yeah,

770
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:40,359
Speaker 1: I guess people think about I think about like, well,

771
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 1: you could always do a will right instead of having

772
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 1: a marriage license, because people think about, like, you know

773
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 1: what if something happened to this person, you know how,

774
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:52,920
Speaker 1: how would we're talking about finances and things being left.

775
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:55,800
Speaker 1: This is why people think getting married is so important.

776
00:49:56,360 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 1: ALC together exactly. But it's still paperwork. So what is

777
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:07,399
Speaker 1: the big difference between an LLC in a marriage degree?

778
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 1: Why not? Right, there's no difference, So why are we

779
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 1: so afraid of that? Yeah? It was the fear. People

780
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 1: have kids, but they're scared to get married. That's an

781
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 1: eight ten year commitment. That's a lifelong commitment where you

782
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:23,359
Speaker 1: have the baby. Yeah, because you you said, uh, will

783
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 1: you be my baby daddy? Now will you be my husband?

784
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 1: So why I figured, well, yeah, he does have a child.

785
00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 1: And at the moment when I did ask him that,

786
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 1: I was just more so focused on I need to

787
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 1: bring one baby into this world. And I want them

788
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: to have his jeans. I want them to have. I

789
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 1: want them to have like, yeah, I want his genetic

790
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: makeup from the mind to the feet, I want all that.

791
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 1: And she liked your feet eat everything about you. I

792
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 1: guess that's the luxury of waiting, you know, because when

793
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 1: people have kids, like real young, you end up like

794
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 1: I got this fucking kid around here with this nigga

795
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 1: DNA stupid. So you get to wait, and now you

796
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 1: understand like how important lineage and DNA is and ship

797
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 1: like that to make sure you get the proper mate.

798
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 1: Because that's why them old people always be like who

799
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 1: his people is? Where are he from? Because they want

800
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 1: to know who the fuck you procreating with all these

801
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 1: people you you might be creating with your cousin exactly.

802
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 1: That's everywhere, girl, let's not listen. The first week I

803
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 1: moved to St. Louis, I saw some niggas on a

804
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:45,799
Speaker 1: horse with red cups. Okay, let's be clear that is

805
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:50,799
Speaker 1: the country is country. I'm like, where the hell did

806
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 1: I just moved to? Like? Why the fund is these

807
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 1: niggas on? What's that part of django or django? He

808
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:57,840
Speaker 1: was like, what was that up for? Now? What that

809
00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 1: nigg up? Or? No? Stair girl with the red cup Chippawa?

810
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: Yeah you was really in St. Louis? Yes, I lived

811
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:15,319
Speaker 1: off at Chippawa. Oh wow, yeah, I was going raised here.

812
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:21,920
Speaker 1: She's I'm happy. I'm going sorry. Is there any advice

813
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:24,879
Speaker 1: that you would want to give our listeners that might

814
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:29,759
Speaker 1: be ready to jump into this polly lifestyle? What would

815
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:34,319
Speaker 1: you what advice would you leave in with? First, learn

816
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: yourself and love yourself. You need to know what you like,

817
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 1: what you want, what you need, and you need to

818
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:47,879
Speaker 1: know how you're going to react when something's not gonna

819
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,799
Speaker 1: happen the way that you wanted to go. And you

820
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 1: just really need to authentically just love yourself because, like

821
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 1: they always say, if you don't love yourself, you can't

822
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:03,319
Speaker 1: let nobody else properly mm hm hm. And be transparent

823
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 1: whether you're doing Polly or not. Right, Yeah, transparency, be

824
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 1: very transparent, communicated as much as you can. Uh, and

825
00:53:14,280 --> 00:53:18,399
Speaker 1: be understanding. That's the main thing I think for men

826
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 1: need to learn to feel a lot of things that

827
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:25,319
Speaker 1: they were taught and understand a woman is equal to

828
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 1: you as well, and it's not about controlling the person.

829
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 1: It's also about welcome this person your spaces. You will

830
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 1: welcome in that person space as well. And just understanding

831
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 1: gang you need both types of energies to make things work.

832
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 1: That creates balance. Things can't be one sided. Yes, we

833
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 1: should have been talking about that, that masculine versus that

834
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 1: feminine energy because people think you got to operate in

835
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: one or the other, you know, but you need to

836
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: balance them exactly. Got to have both. Yeah, both beings

837
00:53:57,560 --> 00:54:01,920
Speaker 1: need to know when they both need to be balanced

838
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 1: so they can come together and be equally yoked. Right. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the hard part, that's the hard part. It's really and

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Speaker 1: it's really not I don't think I feel like that's

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Speaker 1: the hard part in the relationship, finding that balance. Because

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Speaker 1: you see TV. Jakes was just like we're raising our

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00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:26,839
Speaker 1: women to be men. T. G. Jacks just said that

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Speaker 1: you have masculine feminine. Yeah, that's I think that's the problem.

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Speaker 1: That error is very stuck in. Like we can talk

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Speaker 1: about the Bible. The Bible is one side. They don't

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Speaker 1: value women in the Bible as much. I was just

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Speaker 1: having a conversation at all. When you remove that and

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00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:51,839
Speaker 1: you teach men that constantly, they grow up thinking women

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Speaker 1: are not equal to them. So that that that makes

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Speaker 1: a toxic kind of form of masculinity, like, oh, women

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be this, should be that. But no, if if

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Speaker 1: she's part of you, like she should still have the

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Speaker 1: same equal amount to help complete you. Everybody want to

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Speaker 1: complete circle. Like I said, the yenang, it's still masculin

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Speaker 1: and um feminine energy on both sides. Yeah, it's that.

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Speaker 1: It's that Adam and Eve creation story that function up

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Speaker 1: when people recognize that black women in particular are the gods,

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Speaker 1: Like the closest thing you're gonna get to to God

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Speaker 1: on earth. You'll be all right. Because I'm a direct

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Speaker 1: descendant of Lilith. I'd like to think maybe tam is too,

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Speaker 1: But listen, and Adam received his directions from God directly

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Speaker 1: to Adam, So why the hell we blaming even the Bible,

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Speaker 1: even if we want to look at that story, why

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Speaker 1: are we blaming the women like they demonize women in

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00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:50,800
Speaker 1: the Bible. And that's why we have all this ship

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Speaker 1: going on now in the real world, because you know,

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Speaker 1: even if you don't believe in Christianity or the Bible,

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Speaker 1: it's a good reference, gud for how its gonna be,

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Speaker 1: you know, and how ship is going. And we can

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Speaker 1: see you playing out right now. Patriarchy is running out

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Speaker 1: fucking muck. Yeah, oh yeah it is, yeah, because these

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Speaker 1: niggas is not balanced something they I feel like they're

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Speaker 1: trying to check our pussy away from us. They are.

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Speaker 1: All right, you guys, please plug yourself for our listeners.

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00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:23,600
Speaker 1: Plugging your businesses, your social media platforms, anything you would

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00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: like people to know about you. Please pug it. Jody,

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00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 1: I'm Jody roar Um on Instagram, TikTok, I'm Jody roar

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00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: Love on whatever is it? Twitter, and then Twitter and

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00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:47,919
Speaker 1: that's pretty much it. Very come. We got Ricky and Jody. Okay, yeah,

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00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 1: so follow them. Follow Jody there, what about you? Ricky

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00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:57,720
Speaker 1: Um on Instagram? I am you know, it's who Chi Pappy,

883
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 1: but some people say who Kie Poppy? U um on

884
00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:06,760
Speaker 1: what is it? Twitter? On everything else? I'm the black Asian.

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00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:09,960
Speaker 1: I couldn't use the black Asian on Instagram because they

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00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 1: keep deleting me, and so that black Asian yeah yo, yeah,

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Speaker 1: de black Asian. Why do they keep deleting me? I'm

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Speaker 1: a But there's the other sex oh, and I'm glad

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Speaker 1: your name. I'm a. I'm a sex worker. I'm a

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Speaker 1: black woman that's a sex workers. I can't do what

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00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 1: the white girls do on the internet. So I can

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00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 1: be in a bathing suit and I'll get flagged. It's

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00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 1: like I have to do certain things at a certain

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00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 1: time a certain way because I can't follow with the other.

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Speaker 1: You think it's like a system thing like the algorithm,

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Speaker 1: or you think it's actual people doing it. I think

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00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:02,720
Speaker 1: it's both. I think it's AI and people. I think

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00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 1: I got some haters for mentors, right, and then it's

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Speaker 1: definitely AI because I get in trouble on TikTok and

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Speaker 1: I really don't violate anything on TikTok, but AI, after

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00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 1: after seeing a documentary and doing a little bit of

902
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 1: reading about artificial intelligence everything about us, it's a threat.

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00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 1: So I just I just found out that fat is

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Speaker 1: a cuss word on Instagram. I got Yeah, it's that's

905
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 1: like being derogatory towards people who are Fatma that doesn't

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Speaker 1: want to come back on so we can discuss why

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Speaker 1: we're a threat to AI. Oh, I don't mind coming

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00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:01,880
Speaker 1: back on it talking about that because I just I

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Speaker 1: really feel like that's a that's a joke, as this

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00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 1: just seems like the more we progressed in life, and

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00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:14,800
Speaker 1: just as human beings, black people are in those spaces

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00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 1: to create all this stuff in technology, So just automatically,

913
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Speaker 1: it's like you got all these lighter complected people who

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00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 1: are creating artificial intelligence and they're literally telling these robots

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Speaker 1: dark skinned too much, too much, hits too too much. Booty,

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Speaker 1: that's a threat, black Man too. Buck, that's a threat. Dreadlocks,

917
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Speaker 1: that's a threat. That's so sad. It's just so sad.

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Speaker 1: But everybody, but they don't like Nigga's boy. Everybody want

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Speaker 1: to be a nigga. Tell it's time to be a nigga.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys for joining us today. Man, we really

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Speaker 1: appreciate y'all. This is a fun conversation. It was enlightening.

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Speaker 1: We loved that and we definitely have you back on

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Speaker 1: maybe around Christmas time about Christmas, Polly and that have

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Speaker 1: nothing at all the money, I don't know. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: call it jingle balls. That will be the name of

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Speaker 1: the episode. Stupid. Thank you all, Thank you all for

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Speaker 1: having us I live listen to y'all all every week.

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Speaker 1: Y'all get me through. Appreciate that. Man, We appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: You'ld be saying. I'll be saying that in another room

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Speaker 1: and she's playing it. So we're saying we appreciate because

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Speaker 1: y'all thank you. But he chimes in, he'll talk he blank.

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Speaker 1: So you know what's crazy about that? Oh? He listening listening? Okay,

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Speaker 1: look at him conversation about all right, listen, y'all listen, listen.

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Speaker 1: get your podcast? That's your co host a J Holiday

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Speaker 1: need those. Uh, send us your ask a black friend questions.

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Speaker 1: We enjoy those as well. Than remember to speak now. Oh,

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Speaker 1: this is