1 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: Hello Sunshine, Hey fam Today on the bright Side, it's Friday, 2 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: which means we're popping off on some of this week's 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:12,879 Speaker 1: buzziest pop culture moments, and joining us for the entire 4 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 1: episode is comedian Chelsea Devantis. It's Friday, June fourteenth. I'm 5 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: Simone Boyce. 6 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 2: I'm Danielle Robe and this is the bright Side from 7 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 2: Hello Sunshine. 8 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 3: Danielle. 9 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: We made it to Friday. Here we are happy, Happy Friday. 10 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 3: We made it. 11 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: I think we need to raise a glass or some lacroix, 12 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 1: because I mean, we're starting something new today. 13 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 3: This is really exciting. 14 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: We're going to be talking about the week's biggest moments 15 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: in pop culture and it's something that we're calling popping off. 16 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:47,639 Speaker 2: So today we're inviting a bright Side bestie to join us, 17 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:51,239 Speaker 2: and I am making hearthands on the screen because a 18 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 2: real life bestie of mine is here. She's a comedian, 19 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 2: she's a TV writer and host of the Glamorous Trash podcast, 20 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 2: which is one of my favorite pop cast to listen to. 21 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 2: The hilarious, the very well read Chelsea Davantes. 22 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: Chelsea is an Emmy nominated TV writer who's worked on 23 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: shows like Girls five Eva, We Love and Not Dead Yet. 24 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: She was also the head writer for John Stewart's The 25 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:19,559 Speaker 1: Problem with John Stewart on Apple TV Plus, and now 26 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 1: she's making waves with her own memoir titled I Shouldn't 27 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: be telling you this, but I'm going to anyway. Her 28 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 1: memoir is a series of personal essays that tells the 29 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: story of her upbringing and the trials and tribulations on 30 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: our path to Hollywood. 31 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 2: I can't wait to hear what she shouldn't be telling us. Chelsea, 32 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 2: Welcome to the bright Side. 33 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you everything because Dara Vesty and 34 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 4: I'm so happy to be here. 35 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 2: We are so excited to have you. I read the book. 36 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 2: I read it twice. It's just it's so good. And 37 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 2: you are a celebrity memoir connoisseur. You've consumed hundreds of 38 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: other women's stories, and now you put your own memoir 39 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 2: out to the world. 40 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 3: How's it felt. 41 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 4: It's wild to talk about memoirs and then have your own, 42 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 4: and then know that now yours can we talked about. 43 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 4: And I'm like, whoo, the audacity, the confidence, who is she? 44 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,239 Speaker 4: It's been actually really wonderful. It was really scary. The 45 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 4: first couple of days we were doing fun book to 46 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 4: our stuff, but inside I was like, ooh, am I 47 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 4: gonna throw up. 48 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 3: Everyone knows everything about me. 49 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 4: And then after a few days, like this beautiful feeling 50 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:29,959 Speaker 4: came over me of just like wow, I'm truly myself, 51 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 4: I'm truly free. 52 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: Wow, you're so brave. I have a vulnerability hangover just 53 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: doing this podcast, so I can't. 54 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 3: Imagine writing a whole book. 55 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: So before we get into our pop culture kikey, I 56 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: have a question for you, Chelsea. Yes, why did you 57 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 1: want to tell your own story anyway? And what did 58 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: you gain from this process? 59 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 4: Really doing my podcast is what made me want to 60 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 4: tell my own story because on the podcast, I recap 61 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 4: and discuss women's memoirs all the time, and every time 62 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 4: I encountered a memoir of this, like very famous woman 63 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:05,959 Speaker 4: talking about something that I thought was shameful, I felt 64 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 4: more free, like Debbie Moore finding out her dad is 65 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 4: not her real dad, or you know, abuse and toxic 66 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 4: work situations. And then in several of the books they 67 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 4: wrote like Jane Fonda wrote This, Brandy Carleile, Lonnie Anderson, 68 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 4: they would write, telling your story will set you free, 69 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 4: and if you can set yourself free. Your story is 70 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 4: going to set someone else free too, and so I 71 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 4: don't think you're ever really ready to tell as much 72 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 4: as I told, but I believed in getting there, and 73 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 4: I believed in what it would do for me and 74 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 4: hopefully anyone who reads it. 75 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 2: Okay, are you guys ready to pop off? We got 76 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 2: things to talk about. 77 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's pop off. This is what I live for, Chelsea. 78 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 2: I know every week you do a roundup on your Instagram, 79 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 2: so this is right up your alley. The first story 80 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 2: I want to bring up is something I've been personally 81 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 2: very connected to. Rumors have been swirling about the status 82 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 2: of Jennifer Lopez ben Affleck's relationship, and I think we 83 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 2: have to back up to get the full scope on 84 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 2: this because in February, Jennifer put out her movie This 85 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 2: Is Me Now. She invested twenty million dollars of her 86 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 2: own money, and this is when the internet started talking 87 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 2: because people were saying it was unhinged. I watched it, 88 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 2: I sort of agree. However, there was a companion documentary 89 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 2: in which we saw ben Affleck appear. People on the 90 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 2: Internet started talking again, and she kept calling it the 91 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 2: greatest love story never told except for she was telling it, 92 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 2: so the people started talking again, and then it just 93 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 2: got out of hand. TikTok started talking about like all 94 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 2: these bad encounters that they've had with j Low over 95 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 2: the last thirty years. And fast forward, she cancels her tour. 96 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 2: She and Ben are quietly selling their house, and I 97 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 2: just feel like the media coverage has been brutally unfair. 98 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 2: They keep saying it's like her and her ambition, but 99 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 2: now everybody agrees. 100 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 3: Tell me what you all think. First off, I need 101 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 3: them to stay together. 102 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 4: So everything I say here today it's not like my 103 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 4: perfect projection. It's just what I want deeply inside. Because 104 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 4: you cannot put out your love story in the way 105 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:13,799 Speaker 4: that she did and break up immediately. 106 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 3: You both are. 107 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,479 Speaker 4: Actors, pretend two more years, two more years on the books. 108 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 4: Absolutely not, You're not doing this. And also I can 109 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 4: totally see how it goes to hating it on j Loo. First, 110 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 4: we love to hate on women who have ambition, women 111 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 4: at all, and she's been married several times, and she 112 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 4: was so intense on talking about it while including clips 113 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 4: from Ben saying please don't make this public. However, we 114 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 4: are all forgetting the Ben has that Phoenix back, tattoo on. 115 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 3: Us back, you us make good decisions side there. Okay, key, 116 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 3: if you've never seen that tattoo, pull your car over, 117 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 3: give it a Google. You're gonna lose your minds. So 118 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 3: it's definitely I wish we were evening out a criticisms. 119 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: I think the answer here is she just needs to 120 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: be more private about her love life, Like they were 121 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: clearly intentional about being out and about being in a 122 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:07,159 Speaker 1: position to be photographed. If your relationships are this short 123 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: lived or tumultuous and you don't want to butt up 124 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: against this criticism from everyone, why not just be more private. 125 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: It feels like she's just way overexposed. 126 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 2: Jane Fonda was trying to tell her that in the documentary. 127 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 3: She didn't want to hear it. 128 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 4: She was, but you know what, since Jlo is like, no, 129 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 4: I need to make a movie, I need to post 130 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 4: about it, then you have to be honest. 131 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 3: I think that's why people are because she's. 132 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 4: Trying to do vague little touches on this love story. 133 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 3: But she just be honest. 134 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,839 Speaker 4: You called off your wedding three days before your marriage. 135 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 4: That means the dubs were booked. They were in the 136 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 4: cage and then you called your wedding off. How does 137 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 4: someone reconnect twenty years later and instead it's like rose 138 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 4: petals and symbols, and it's like, be honest, because you 139 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 4: definitely can't fake authenticity, especially not in this moment. 140 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 3: I think she keeps trying to. 141 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 2: I think you're probably right. I'm going to tell a 142 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 2: quick little j Loo story. So I worked at Entertainment 143 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 2: Tonight online years ago, and they have these incredible catalogs 144 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 2: of old interviews, like because they've been, you know, the 145 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 2: gold standard of entertainment news for a long time. And 146 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 2: so I had like the late shift, and I would 147 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 2: stay late after I worked and just watch all of 148 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 2: these old interviews with celebrities. And I've always loved j 149 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 2: Lo and so I would watch, you know, hours of. 150 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 3: Jay Loo interviews. 151 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 2: There are interviews of her from back in the day 152 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 2: talking about how she got the movie Selena, and her 153 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 2: old agent is actually on camera saying that Jlo could 154 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 2: never take the sort of like easy road. She had 155 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 2: to do like five auditions to get Selena, and at 156 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 2: the end they called her and they were like, we 157 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 2: need you to do one final thing, and she did it, 158 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: and she finally got the part and the agent called 159 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:55,000 Speaker 2: her and was like, it never just like comes to you, 160 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 2: and we all think it does because she's so beautiful 161 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 2: and all the things, but like she actually such a 162 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 2: hard worker, so diligent, and so it's just hard for 163 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 2: me to see like the consensus be that like we're 164 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 2: all kind of off of her taking her down because 165 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, she just worked so freaking hard. I 166 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 2: almost think that this generation just doesn't like people that 167 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 2: try hard, and she tries hard. 168 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 3: I totally agree with that. 169 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 4: And even if you're in on the drama of like 170 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 4: she can't sing or she didn't sing her albums, isn't 171 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 4: that more impressive? 172 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 3: Right, person who can't. 173 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:32,839 Speaker 4: Sing has recorded sixty songs and goes on to her 174 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 4: like that's I agree. 175 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 3: I love her. 176 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:38,199 Speaker 1: Ambition, Chelsea. We're having so much fun with you. We're 177 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 1: gonna take a quick break and we'll be right back 178 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: and we're back with our bright side bestie, Chelsea Davantes. 179 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: All right, before we get into our next door, y'all, 180 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: I have a quick question for you. Okay, when was 181 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: the last time you left your house without your phone? Intentionally? 182 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:13,319 Speaker 3: Chelsea? Never? How do I know where he's right? Great? 183 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 2: Point, Danielle, I mean directionally challenged Danielle over here. So yeah, 184 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 2: when I was thirteen and had a phone that also 185 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:22,559 Speaker 2: played Snake. 186 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 3: On it, I'm in the same boat. 187 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: I never leave my house intentionally without my phone unless 188 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 1: I'm a passenger princess and I'm with my husband and 189 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 1: I decide to intentionally unplug. But this is mind blowing 190 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 1: to me. Ed Sheeran recently sat down with this internet personality, 191 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 1: Jake Shane, on an episode of his podcast Therapist, and 192 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 1: revealed that he hasn't had a phone since twenty fifteen. 193 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 3: Isn't a phone since twenty fifteen. 194 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 1: That's rich People's stuff RPP. Rich people problems. Yeah, he 195 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: gave up his phone almost a decade ago, in his 196 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 1: mid twenties, and he says that he gave it up 197 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 1: because he started realizing how many people had his number 198 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 1: from his pre fame days and he he felt pressured 199 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 1: to keep up with people. 200 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:03,559 Speaker 3: It was becoming overwhelming. 201 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: He also felt like he was losing real life connection 202 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 1: with the folks in his life and now supposedly this 203 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 1: is how his life works. He barely has access to 204 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: a phone. His team will give him one when it's 205 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 1: absolutely necessary. But he does have an iPad. He just 206 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 1: does everything by email, and then he only replies once 207 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 1: a week. Can you imagine being in a business deal 208 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: with Ed Scheran and you have to wait every week 209 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 1: to get a. 210 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 3: Reply from him. 211 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:30,960 Speaker 4: This is also something only a dude could do. Oh wow, Like, 212 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 4: there's no female pop star who could unplug from her 213 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 4: content like that, and we would be like, oh my god. 214 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 3: You're just like a really weird, cool artist. That's a 215 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 3: great point. I know this should be cool, but I'm annoyed. 216 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 3: Why I get a new number? 217 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 4: Does a butler bring you your schedule every day on 218 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:49,199 Speaker 4: a piece of paper? 219 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 3: How do you know what's going on? Also? 220 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 1: How do you link up with friends with family? How 221 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,080 Speaker 1: do you do how do you do anything? What if 222 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:56,719 Speaker 1: you have a question about something that you need to 223 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 1: quickly google? I don't buy it. You think it's a 224 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 1: fake story. I think that he probably has some sort 225 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: of phone. He has a piece of metal that has 226 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: an Internet and phone connection and it's just not maybe 227 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 1: a smartphone. Maybe that's how he reduces the amount of 228 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 1: distractions in his life. But there's no way you can 229 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: be a human being in twenty twenty four and. 230 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 3: Not have a phone. Guys. 231 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 2: Larry King had a phone. I used to go to 232 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 2: breakfast with Larry at Nate and no big deal. Well 233 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:26,199 Speaker 2: he had a flip phone, okay, because he didn't want 234 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 2: to get like a bunch of text messages and stuff 235 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:30,600 Speaker 2: that wasn't for him. But he had a phone for 236 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:33,319 Speaker 2: people to contact him at eighty six. 237 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to. 238 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:38,439 Speaker 4: I guess ad iPad is it is technically a phone. 239 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 4: But this is the other thing I think of, Like 240 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 4: whenever you meet a guy and he's like, oh, I'm 241 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 4: not on social media or like I don't have a phone, 242 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:46,439 Speaker 4: I'm always like, oh, you're a cheating. 243 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 3: Really, that's so interesting. 244 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: I think it's so attractive when someone doesn't have a 245 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: phone or social media. 246 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 4: Oh really, I'd be like, who are you cheating on? 247 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 4: You've ritted yourself out on this very day. Thank you 248 00:11:57,880 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 4: for telling me. 249 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 2: Especially if they don't connect their iCloud to their phone. 250 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 2: It's like your first sure cheating. 251 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't know about all this. My husband doesn't 252 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: have social media. 253 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 3: Oh now, Simon Aspire, not at all. 254 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 1: No, he doesn't have social media and he's like a 255 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: ghost on social media, so he doesn't he doesn't follow, 256 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,199 Speaker 1: He doesn't comment, he doesn't interact at all. He just 257 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 1: like stalks me and maybe like a handful of our 258 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:24,840 Speaker 1: other friends. But I kind of like that he's not 259 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 1: on social media. 260 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 3: It's nice. Wait, what do you like about it? I 261 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 3: like that. 262 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: I mean, there's only room for one of us to 263 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: be obsessed with social media in our house, because then 264 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: otherwise I think we'd never connect. And I think it's 265 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 1: good to like minimize the amount of people who are 266 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: attached to their phones. 267 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 3: That's nice. That's nice. That's nice for him and for Ed. 268 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 2: Okay, I have to talk about a story that I 269 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 2: don't want to talk about. Because you've heard of terms 270 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 2: for guys in the past. 271 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 3: On this show. 272 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 2: We've talked about the Golden Retriever Boyfriends last summer. 273 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 3: It was all he's so baby girl. 274 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 2: Now there is a term for men that is taking 275 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:00,439 Speaker 2: over the internet. 276 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 3: It's everywhere. It's on TikTok, on NBC. Guys. 277 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 2: Even the New York Times is reporting on the rise 278 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 2: of what is being called the hot rodent man trend. 279 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 3: Legitimate journalist. 280 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,200 Speaker 2: This is basically a trendy name for a certain type 281 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 2: of hot guy. And let me just give you the 282 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 2: qualities of a hot rodent man. He tends to have 283 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:24,840 Speaker 2: more angular facial structures, beady eyes, untidy hair, and they're 284 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 2: often lankier than typical Hollywood heart throbs. So some examples 285 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 2: of hot rodent men allegedly are Jeremy Allen White from 286 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:36,679 Speaker 2: The Bear, both actors from Challengers, Josh O'Connor, and Mike Feist. 287 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 2: Travis Barker is another one. People are on the fence 288 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 2: about Timothay Schallomet being a hot rodent man. Do we 289 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 2: like this term? 290 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 1: I love it. I think it's so expressive and evocative. 291 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:54,440 Speaker 1: It's giving like ratitudey, it's giving rescuers down under. 292 00:13:55,040 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 3: I'm here for it. I'm thinking like Pedro Pascal Chelsea. 293 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 3: Absolutely not. Look, you just said it's a nice term. 294 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,080 Speaker 3: We're describing hot people as rodent man, aren't we. I 295 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 3: think it's a funny term. 296 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: But you cannot say that Pedro Pascal is a hot 297 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 1: rodent man. 298 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 4: No, seriously, rodent man is a dig You're not being like, oh, 299 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 4: it's a hot type of rodent ma. 300 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 2: I think from what I'm gathering is rodent man is sexy, 301 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 2: ugly sexy. 302 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 4: Ugly right, Okay, I see what you're saying that, then yeah, 303 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 4: then you're right better, Buscal's out. 304 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. 305 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 4: I guess I'm gonna have a theme on your podcast today. 306 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 4: But like, imagine you're like rodent women are in all 307 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 4: the movies, Like, no they're not. Oh my god, dad 308 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 4: bought us in. It's like and yet we're still making 309 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 4: fun of mom jeans. So I'm just like, are you 310 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 4: freaking kid me? You can look like a rodent and 311 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 4: be a movie star. 312 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 3: Yes, I'm so with you. I know. 313 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 2: I think this term is like borderline mean to men 314 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 2: and frustrating and annoying to women. 315 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 1: Yes, I think I can hold two truths. I think 316 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 1: it's a hilarious term and I just love saying it 317 00:14:56,560 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: a lot, But I also think that it's mean. Would 318 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: would any if we were to talk to any of 319 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 1: these guys, would they be like, oh, yeah, sure, I 320 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 1: love being called a hot rodent? 321 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 3: Like I don't think so, well. 322 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 2: Are you Are you guys attracted to any of these 323 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 2: hot rodent men? 324 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 1: No, all of the cast of Challengers could get it. 325 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 1: Oh there, I mean, but I think it's more about 326 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: like the scenes that they were in, the setting that 327 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: they were in, it was like very hot and sensual. 328 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 3: Simona is a cenophile. Yes, I see if my love 329 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 3: of challengers gives you that the great No, it's good challenges. 330 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 331 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 4: If you like hot road it man, let me introduce 332 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 4: you to a hobby called improv because for three hundred 333 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:39,240 Speaker 4: dollars a month, you can meet all of. 334 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 3: The road it's you want. Oh my god, you're so right. 335 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 2: We're taking a quick break, but we'll be right back 336 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 2: to talk more pop culture. 337 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 3: Don't go anywhere. 338 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 2: We're back with the hilarious Chelsea Davantes up next. This 339 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 2: better not be a tease, because we've been waiting too 340 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 2: long for this. So on Monday of this week, on 341 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 2: the red carpet for her fenty hair launch party in 342 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 2: La Rihanna told reporters that she is not retired and 343 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 2: she's looking to get back into the studio to work 344 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 2: on new music. The question I have here is do 345 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 2: we believe her? Because I can't take this run around. 346 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 2: She always says it's coming soon, soon soon. 347 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: Ooh, we're all getting played. We have been getting played 348 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: for years. 349 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, Rihanna. Oh, here's the thing. 350 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 4: I do think that fancy the level of growth has 351 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 4: run its course based on all that Rihanna has done 352 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 4: and her super Bowl and her pregnancy reveal is huge. 353 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 3: But if she wants to. 354 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 4: Keep going and marketing all her brands, I think she 355 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 4: knows an album would go to billionaire status and she 356 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 4: would be taking a trip to space. That's how rich 357 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 4: she would be. So I can see it somewhat being true. 358 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 2: I feel that in the ether too, the Fenti marketing 359 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 2: needs a little boost. I think I don't know if 360 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,439 Speaker 2: the numbers support our theory, Chelsea, but I feel it. 361 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 2: What she said, which I think is interesting, is that 362 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 2: she wants to go into the studio and kind of 363 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:10,679 Speaker 2: start fresh. 364 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 3: And so I'm curious what this. 365 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 2: New sound from Rihanna will be because she hasn't put 366 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 2: out music in so many years. Since then, she's become 367 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:22,639 Speaker 2: a business owner, a mother, the world has changed, like 368 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:24,160 Speaker 2: the zeitgeist has changed. 369 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 3: What are her influences now? 370 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 4: I do think Rihanna is a genius, and I bet 371 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:32,400 Speaker 4: she's been watching and waiting and she's about to pull 372 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 4: elements of like I think Beyonce's country album almost hit it, 373 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 4: and I bet Rihanna is going to have like one 374 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 4: country single, but then it is also going to do 375 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 4: like some of her like Desperado music and like come 376 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 4: in just like a tray. 377 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 3: Wait, why do we think of a country song? 378 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 4: Because I can kind of hear it in her in 379 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 4: her last album, there's like a couple traces of twang, 380 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 4: and I can just see her doing what you know 381 00:17:58,560 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 4: what I mean, like the rest of the album to 382 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,439 Speaker 4: something else and then just having this country banger. 383 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 1: Well, speaking of country, Dolly Parton just announced that there 384 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:09,359 Speaker 1: is a Broadway musical about her life story in the works. 385 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 1: It's called Hello, I'm Dolly, and it's coming to Broadway 386 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty six. So Dolly is actually pretty hands 387 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:19,159 Speaker 1: on with this jukebox musical. She's been working on it 388 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: since twenty sixteen, and she wrote the musical score. 389 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:23,200 Speaker 3: I find that. 390 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:26,360 Speaker 1: Encouraging that she's so involved in the creative process rather 391 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 1: than just handing it off to a group of producers. 392 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 1: So it's going to feature some of her biggest hits 393 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 1: and some new ones that she's writing specifically for this musical. 394 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 3: So we're getting a two for one. 395 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 2: Mmmmmm. I mean, I want to give this to you, Chelsea. 396 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 2: I know you you love Dollie. 397 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 4: I absolutely adore her. She's absolutely everything to me. I 398 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 4: hope that since we are in Dolly's third chapter, she 399 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 4: really takes the story and the music to a more 400 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 4: gritty and real place because she's been through a lot 401 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:00,120 Speaker 4: of hard things. Yeah, she dances around it so beautifully. 402 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:02,719 Speaker 4: Yet in her memoir was recovered my podcast, it was 403 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:05,159 Speaker 4: she wrote in the eighties and had this moment of 404 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 4: honesty before she kind of buttoned it all up again. 405 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 4: And I want some of that stuff in her life 406 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 4: story because I will watch anything she puts out. I 407 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 4: will be at that show. But if you've ever seen 408 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:18,639 Speaker 4: like her Netflix Christmas special like It's you know that 409 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 4: was a musical too, and I can't say something nice 410 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 4: about that other than I love Dolly Parton. 411 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 1: I'm excited for us to be immersed in Dolly Parton 412 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:32,720 Speaker 1: media stories about her. She's going to be in our feeds. 413 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:35,359 Speaker 1: I'm also excited to see who's going to attend and 414 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: the outfits that people are gonna wear to go see this. 415 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:39,400 Speaker 3: That's gonna be really fun. 416 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 2: You know how people have those birthday parties and they're 417 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 2: all supposed to dress like the person whose birthday it is. 418 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:50,879 Speaker 2: I want, well, I want everyone to go to the 419 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 2: Dolly musical dressed like Dolly. 420 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:54,880 Speaker 3: I love it. 421 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 1: I would love that Gingham diamonds, plaid everything. 422 00:19:58,280 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 3: Rhinestones for days. 423 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 4: The seating have to be so tiered so that everyone 424 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 4: could see over, the blonde wigs. 425 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 3: And so true and the bumps. 426 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 2: That's right, that's right, yours right? I love that so much. Okay, 427 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 2: who would you want to play Dolly? 428 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 3: It's so tough, is it? Young Dolly? 429 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:14,439 Speaker 4: Is it? 430 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 3: I want christ and China wish to play current Dolly 431 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:18,640 Speaker 3: Rene in there at some point. 432 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, but Renee Rap is so it would be the 433 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 4: most I would say, most intense acting role she would 434 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 4: ever have to take on because Dolly partner is so 435 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:29,679 Speaker 4: sweet and always says what it is with sugar, and 436 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 4: Renee Rap always says what it is with no. 437 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,880 Speaker 3: She's spicy, spicy. 438 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:39,120 Speaker 2: She would have to go into method acting, I think, but. 439 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 1: She's so talented she could. I think she could totally 440 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:41,800 Speaker 1: be off. 441 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Chapel roone love that amazing. That'd be great. 442 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 2: I almost think that we need like three or four 443 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 2: different Dollies to play Dolly throughout the years. 444 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:51,959 Speaker 3: I totally agree. 445 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 4: And then when she turns forty, she should be played 446 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:55,359 Speaker 4: by Trixy Mattel the Dragon. 447 00:20:56,960 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 3: Yes, that's fabulous. Well, I guess I just produced the show. 448 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, we're Yeah, if they need any help, they 449 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 2: can call us. Okay, before we let you go, Chelsea, 450 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 2: what are you up to this weekend? Do you guys 451 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 2: have any plans? Well, I'm on the middle of this 452 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 2: book tour. I'm in New Mexico. I'm Santa Fe right now. 453 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 2: I just thought a writing workshop. We're just going to 454 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:17,199 Speaker 2: show to night. 455 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 4: Then we're going to Albuquerque, and then we're going to Portland, 456 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,680 Speaker 4: in Seattle, in La So I'm on MCT time, which 457 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 4: is Mario Carry time, which is time does not exist. 458 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 4: I didn't even know it was the weekend and I'm 459 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 4: currently on tour. 460 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 3: It's amazing that you showed up to this taping. It's 461 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 3: pretty incredible. Good I deserve an award. Well, I have 462 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 3: a question about your tour. 463 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 2: Actually, so you're on tour in all these cities and 464 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 2: the people coming are connecting to your story and your book. 465 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:48,359 Speaker 2: Are there any surprises that you've had in these irl moments? 466 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't like traveling, So I'm just like in 467 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,119 Speaker 4: this Xanax Hayes As I fly from city in the city, 468 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:57,919 Speaker 4: but then meeting people makes every second of it worth it. 469 00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:02,199 Speaker 4: In Chicago, I was someone had made a purse that 470 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,959 Speaker 4: said redacted on it because portions of my book had 471 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:08,159 Speaker 4: gotten redacted. Someone had made a jumpsuit this like glamb trash, 472 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 4: Like unbelievable. And then as I've been signing books the 473 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:13,879 Speaker 4: other night, I was like, oh, I want to sign something, 474 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:15,680 Speaker 4: and I was like, what do you want me to say? 475 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:17,199 Speaker 3: And they're like, oh, I don't know anything. 476 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 4: And I was like, well, just tell me one thing 477 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:21,360 Speaker 4: about you and she was like okay. I also found 478 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 4: out that my real dad was not my Chad, and 479 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,680 Speaker 4: I was like, this is why I wrote this book, 480 00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,440 Speaker 4: because you just feel so alone in your weird, little 481 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 4: freak experience. Only to find that, like there's someone at 482 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 4: every show who had to go through what I went through, 483 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 4: and it was just like the most beautiful moment. And 484 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,000 Speaker 4: all those moments have made me so glad that I 485 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:41,639 Speaker 4: wrote the book. 486 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 3: I'm so glad you're feeling that way. Danielle. 487 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 1: We're gonna have to show up in costume to one 488 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 1: of her book stops. 489 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 3: Oh my god, We're gonna dress up like you. Okay, 490 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 3: dress up like Dolly Parton, but then come to my show. 491 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:56,399 Speaker 2: Oh yes, no, I want a Chelsea wig. I'm gonna 492 00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,520 Speaker 2: wear a dress that you would wear. This is happenings. 493 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:04,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, ready for thanks so ready. I'm always like this 494 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,399 Speaker 1: close to getting bangs. I just I live life on 495 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 1: the edge. Yeah, totally join the Bank's army. 496 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,479 Speaker 3: And where is that? Chelsea? Thank you so much for 497 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 3: hanging with us. 498 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:16,680 Speaker 1: Yes, thanks for stopping by our inaugural popping off pop 499 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 1: culture Friday. 500 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for having me a Dori Boles. 501 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 2: Chelsea Devantees is an author, writer, comedian, and host of 502 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 2: the podcast Glamorous Trash. You can find her memoir I 503 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 2: shouldn't be telling you this, but I'm going to anyway 504 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:32,960 Speaker 2: wherever you find your books. 505 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,679 Speaker 1: That's it for today's show. On Monday, financial expert Missus 506 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: dow Jones joins us to talk money moves. She's getting 507 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:47,880 Speaker 1: real about prenups, how to maximize PTO, and so much more. 508 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 2: The bright Side is a production of Hello, Sunshine and 509 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 2: iHeart Podcasts and is executive produced by Reese Witherspoon. 510 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 1: Production by Arcana Audio. Courtney Gilbert is our associate producer. 511 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 1: Our producers are Steph Brown, Jessica Wank, and Olivia Briley. 512 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 1: Our engineer is PJ. Shahamatt, and our senior producers are 513 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 1: Itzy Keithania, Jenis Yamoka and Amy Padula. 514 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:16,120 Speaker 2: Arcnna's executive producers are Francis Harlowe and Abby Ruzika. Arcana's 515 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 2: head of production is Matt Schultz. 516 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 1: Natalie Tulluk and Maureen Polo are the executive producers for 517 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 1: Hello Sunshine. 518 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:26,199 Speaker 2: Julia Weaver is the supervising producer, and Ali Perry is 519 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 2: the executive producer for iHeart Podcasts. Tim Palazzola is our showrunner. 520 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,720 Speaker 2: This week's episodes were recorded by Graham Gibson, Carl Catel, 521 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 2: Jessica Crinchitch Bahied Fraser. 522 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 1: Our theme song is by Anna Stump and Hamilton lighthauser. 523 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,640 Speaker 2: Special thanks to Connell Brne and Will Pearson. 524 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 1: I'm Simone Boyce. You can find me at Simone Boyce 525 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:49,359 Speaker 1: on Instagram and TikTok. 526 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,360 Speaker 2: And I'm Danielle Robe on Instagram and TikTok. 527 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 3: That's r b A Y see you Monday, fam. 528 00:24:55,720 --> 00:25:07,360 Speaker 1: Keep looking on the bright side.