WEBVTT - The U.S. Open is SERVING Up Men! 0:00:14.320 --> 0:00:17.159 Hey, guys, it's I Do Part two. I'm wor some 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:21.000 of your celebrity vns. I'm Alexi Napola and I'm joined 0:00:21.040 --> 0:00:24.040 today by my fellow housewife, Kelly Benzim. 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:30.480 Hi Kelly, Hi, how are you happy? End of summer? Yes? 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:33.640 Well, I feel like it's still summer for me. It's 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:37.640 not officially over till like October. I mean here in Miami, 0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:40.080 I feel like it's summer all year long. But yes, 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:42.120 you know, we'll start getting into it in a couple 0:00:42.159 --> 0:00:44.160 of weeks, but we'll startinly like it's fall. 0:00:44.560 --> 0:00:47.760 You're dressed for the US Open. You're ready to go 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:49.600 in your tennis white. 0:00:50.400 --> 0:00:52.479 I actually have a little tennis stress because now they're 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:55.560 very popular. I feel like tennis fashion is super hot 0:00:55.640 --> 0:00:56.040 right now. 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:59.120 You would look so good in tennis dress too. Thank you. 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:00.800 They're cute. I think they're so cute. 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:03.120 Yeah, you'd be like, Hi, guys, let's go and have 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:06.039 a honeydew and my Islexi im and be like, I'm 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:08.920 with her whatever. The girl at the blonde is the 0:01:08.959 --> 0:01:11.080 barbie with the I'm with her. 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:14.080 Speaking of tennis today, we're going to be talking about 0:01:14.080 --> 0:01:17.200 the US Open going on in New York City right now, 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:20.759 and Kelly is going to give us all the information 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:23.280 that we need to know. For all you single ladies 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:25.760 that want to attend a US Open is it a 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:28.520 good place to meet the love of your life or 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:30.160 is it just a place to go off on with 0:01:30.200 --> 0:01:33.679 your girls? You're based in New York, Kelly, so for 0:01:33.720 --> 0:01:37.320 our listeners, describe what the atmosphere is like at the match. 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:42.440 So the atmosphere at the match is, first of all, 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:45.480 it's outside of New York City, so it takes a 0:01:45.520 --> 0:01:50.720 second to get there. But the atmosphere is very colorful, 0:01:51.360 --> 0:01:57.000 like very energetic. Everyone is really excited to be there, 0:01:57.600 --> 0:02:00.840 and there's a lot of you know, like you said, 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:03.400 like super well dressed, you know, men and women are 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:06.920 like I mean, it's definitely a vibe. And it's also 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:09.359 it's not like next door. It's not like you walk 0:02:09.360 --> 0:02:11.160 outside and you're like, I'm going to take a taxi there. 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:13.040 It's you know, it's a it's a truck to get there. 0:02:13.160 --> 0:02:15.480 So people really really make an effort. 0:02:15.840 --> 0:02:18.120 Amazing, you know, I feel like all those big sporting 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:21.680 events you know, are always like hosted outside of the city, 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:24.480 but you know, people really make it you know a 0:02:24.560 --> 0:02:26.600 thing to go and you know, to attend, you know, 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:30.239 especially the US Open in New York and I've never been. 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:33.640 I would love to go so and not only to 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:35.840 find love, but I think just like the whole experience. 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:38.000 You know, First of all, I love sports, you know, 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:40.400 and I do believe that tennis is so much different, 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:44.080 you know, from basketball, let's say, or baseball or football. 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:46.239 I feel like when you go to a tennis match, 0:02:46.760 --> 0:02:50.240 the whole a Beyonce, the people that attend, and just 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:53.000 everything is different. You know, It's a different sport where 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:56.320 I feel like basketball and football and baseball are more 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:58.840 like family events. And don't get me wrong, tennis can 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:02.040 be as well. But I just feel like in tennis, 0:03:02.120 --> 0:03:05.079 it's more like you're there because you love the sport 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:07.760 and you you know, you're. 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:08.240 A tennis fan. 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:10.400 You want to you want to actually sit down and 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:12.960 see the match, where I feel like in basketball and 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:15.120 other sports, it's more like you just want to be 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:16.960 like everywhere, you can see it from everywhere. 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:18.919 You want you know, you want to drink and you want. 0:03:18.760 --> 0:03:21.720 To have fun and you want to eat, and in tennis, 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:23.600 I just see it more like a serious sport. 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:24.880 I mean, I don't know. 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:27.640 I have. I've only been to one US Open. I 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:29.520 mean actually it wasn't even a US Open. And we 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:31.560 need to talk about that because in Miami we don't 0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:34.160 have the US Open. We have the Miami Open, and 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:36.840 a lot of people confuse that with the US Open. 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:38.920 So yeah, it's very similar. 0:03:39.000 --> 0:03:42.480 The Miami Open and the US openers are very very similar. 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:45.839 Oh they're similar and different, but yeah, yes they are. 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:47.680 I mean I think one thing that like one point 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:49.840 that you're you're making is that when you go to 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:52.000 like let's say you go to a basketball game, there's 0:03:52.080 --> 0:03:55.920 all the celebrities are on the floor or they're in 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:59.840 the they're in the boxes, so you can like see celebrities, 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:03.320 and then there's like, you know a lot of you know, 0:04:03.640 --> 0:04:06.520 younger kids and parents kind of like you know, just 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:09.320 there with their with their families. It's not far to 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:11.160 get to, you know, you just like hop on a 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:13.040 train or hop in an uber to get there. 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:16.159 But like again, like going to the US Open, I 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:17.800 mean it's in Queens. 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:21.760 It takes a lot of time to get there, so 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:25.240 and it's also very expensive, so it's not like it's 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:27.120 not like you can just go and get like a ticket. 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:28.600 You can't be like at a bar and be like, hey, 0:04:28.640 --> 0:04:29.560 I'm going to pick up there. 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:31.560 You go, well, you see that's what right there? 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:32.599 It's expensive. 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:37.440 Yes, So the people, the caliber of men and women 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:40.640 that you're going to be meeting there are you know, 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:45.160 people that are you know, not afraid to spend you know, 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.120 a couple of hundred dollars on you. 0:04:47.000 --> 0:04:47.920 Know, on tickets. 0:04:48.320 --> 0:04:51.560 Also, like the vibe there, it's like all the activations 0:04:51.680 --> 0:04:55.320 are very high end, you know, like the big brands 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:59.840 are there, and it's just like it's it's again, it's 0:04:59.880 --> 0:05:02.200 like when you're going to like a baseball game, you're 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:04.640 i mean a basketball game, you're seeing the celebrities, but 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:07.920 all the celebrities are tucked into these boxes. So you're 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:12.719 just sitting next to you know, a finance guy or 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:16.279 a tech guy or and you know, everyone is kind 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:19.320 of like it's like democratic is like people are all 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:23.080 in like baseball hats and they're all, oh, oh my god, 0:05:23.120 --> 0:05:25.600 did you see that? So it's like this very common. 0:05:25.640 --> 0:05:29.520 You're you don't feel intimidated to talk to someone. 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:32.839 So you think definately you can meet better guys. Single 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:36.440 women could meet better quality men out of tennis. 0:05:36.760 --> 0:05:39.080 I mean yes, if you can get tickets to a 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:42.560 US Open, if you can get your tickets there, then 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:46.640 yes you will meet higher quality guys. Also, like if 0:05:46.640 --> 0:05:49.360 you go to like you were saying before, the comparison 0:05:49.400 --> 0:05:53.480 of like a uh, you know basketball, Like there's a 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:55.400 lot of guys in suits, and so a lot of 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:57.080 women are like when they see a guy in the suit, 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:58.520 some women are like, oh my god, I don't want 0:05:58.520 --> 0:05:59.240 to suit, and. 0:05:59.160 --> 0:06:00.599 Other women are like, I'm suits. 0:06:00.920 --> 0:06:04.320 Everyone is kind of like in a vibe like sweaters 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:08.960 and shirts and collared shirts and polo shirts. 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:11.560 Like more preppy, more like lower piana, more like like 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:12.560 the real wealth. 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:15.760 Right, Like that's how I like to see it, like 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:16.960 coming from Miami. 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:20.960 Right in Miami, for example, the Miami Open, the crowd 0:06:20.960 --> 0:06:22.920 that's there, there's a lot of like maybe you know 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:26.719 Latina superstars, you know, Latin celebrities, but you know, there's 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:29.839 also like a lot of influencers. Like do influencers like 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:32.960 attend the US Open? You know? I feel like Miami's 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:35.320 become a lot of that, Like the influencers get you know, 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:37.800 tickets and get invited to all these things when they 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:39.880 really can't even afford to be there. You know, they're 0:06:39.920 --> 0:06:42.680 just there because you know they they were hired, you know, 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:45.240 to go, or they were given tickets. You know, Miami's 0:06:45.320 --> 0:06:49.680 vibe was more like sexy, tropical, and it's very different, 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:51.520 you know. I feel the crowd that attends these things 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:54.640 in Miami, they comfort they go for something different, whereas 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:57.520 I see the US Open in New York more global. 0:06:57.640 --> 0:07:00.240 You know, there's international people, you know, from all over. 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:04.160 There's entrepreneurs, there's you know, businessmen from Wall Street. There's 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:05.480 also a lot of celebrities. 0:07:05.920 --> 0:07:07.920 And I just think it's like a different vibe. 0:07:07.960 --> 0:07:10.440 I just feel like I've never been, but like reading 0:07:10.440 --> 0:07:12.480 about this, I'm like excited to go. By the way, 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:15.520 Martina and Julia are there, so I have my ticket already. 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:19.120 I could definitely go with Martina and Julia. And I've 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:21.400 been reading about so many celebrities you know that we've 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:24.559 seen that attendees. You know, the attenda you was open. 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:27.680 You should come, You should come, and we should go together. 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:30.120 We should make it like a test, right, Like we'll 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:33.280 go both single girls and see how, you know how 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:35.000 it goes for us, Right, And they get back to 0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:37.360 the viewers and say, you know this is what happened. 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:40.440 This is the research at least for us, and we'll 0:07:40.480 --> 0:07:40.880 share it. 0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:43.720 I would love that if you want to come, we 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:47.680 will go together. So just back to like the vibe there, 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:52.320 there's this drink that it's called the honey deuce like deuce, 0:07:52.520 --> 0:07:55.960 but people call it the honey dew because it's made 0:07:56.560 --> 0:07:59.080 it's like the condiment is honeydew. 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:02.520 These little these little melon balls, You're so cute. 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:06.040 It sounds so good, and they were making non alcoholic ones, 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:08.800 so it's really fun to like and everyone's like, is 0:08:08.800 --> 0:08:11.120 that a honey deuce or a honey dew? So that 0:08:11.120 --> 0:08:13.000 could be kind of like what are you ordering? 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:14.160 You know? What do you what are you going to 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:17.360 getting in your honeydew or deuce? People don't know. 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:20.680 So it's a fun way of like good opening line, 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:23.120 you know, because people don't know. And so I'm I'm 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:25.520 kind of like if you meet someone they're like, is 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:27.560 that a I would like a honeydew and they're like, 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:28.239 it's a deuce. 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:29.240 You're like got it? 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:32.120 Like that guy's been here before we know him. And 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:34.880 also one of the things I see that like if 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:37.000 I tell this to my kids and to myself, Like 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:39.120 you never know who you're going to meet, and like, 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:41.160 I meet so many people and then. 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:42.520 Someone's like, oh my god, you single. 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:45.800 Someone's so single, and you meet so many different people 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:50.440 being in an environment, and this is a great environment 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:54.520 because again, like there's you're talking about, Oh my god, 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:57.319 like that you know that one athlete shaved his head. 0:08:57.480 --> 0:09:00.520 Why is that guy wearing purple? Oh my, it's so 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:04.840 cool to see you know, Venus back playing tennis. Like 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:08.080 you said, like you know your friends Martin and there, 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:11.360 Like there's there's things to talk about. Like I'll be 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:14.079 like like literally I was there the other the other day, 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:16.040 and like I was with and Carl Radke and I 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:18.400 was like, I was like, oh my god, Carl, look 0:09:18.440 --> 0:09:21.360 what they're wearing in Carls Like we were like having fun, 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:22.880 like talking about what they were wearing. 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:25.080 And it was fun. It was really fun. 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:27.000 Do you think we need to know a little bit 0:09:27.080 --> 0:09:27.880 about tennis? 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:34.040 No, I mean there's so many things to talk about, celebrities, clothing, vibe. 0:09:34.880 --> 0:09:36.880 Yeah, But I mean I think I think we should 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:39.720 be a little educated as far as you know, like 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:41.640 what you're there for, like who you're going for. 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:43.079 You at least need to. 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:46.120 Know like who's playing in the matches and you know, 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:47.240 knowing that basic. 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:48.320 I mean that's just me. 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:50.160 I like to do that, Like I just don't like 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:52.480 to show up somewhere especially. I mean, I've always been 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:56.240 a sport fanatic. I love baseball, I love all the sports, 0:09:56.559 --> 0:09:58.680 and so if I would go, I would like to 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:00.880 have a little bit of you know, knowledge, you know 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:03.120 about the sport. And I think that's a good way too, 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:05.160 because you never know who's sitting next to you, you. 0:10:05.120 --> 0:10:06.640 Know, and some guys think that's hot. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:08.680 Some guys think it's hot like for the woman to 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:11.200 know about sports, And I mean, I don't care what 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:12.960 they think, but I like it for myself, like I 0:10:12.960 --> 0:10:14.640 want to know, like at least you's plain. I feel 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:17.760 like sometimes o ladies go to these sporting events and 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:19.800 they're just there for that so like pick up guys 0:10:20.240 --> 0:10:22.880 and they're really not there for the sport, and you know, 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:26.000 it doesn't for me, like it doesn't like look, you know, 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:28.200 doesn't look so sexy like for me, you know, like 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:30.120 you're just there for that. Like I like to know 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:33.199 what I'm there, who's playing a little bit about the sport, 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:35.720 and you know, I think that can also be like 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:38.240 you know, cute, you know, like to start a conversation 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:39.080 with the guy. You know. 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:39.880 I think guys like that. 0:10:40.640 --> 0:10:44.560 I mean, I love that you are that engaged that 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:47.760 you want to know. Not everybody is like knows really 0:10:47.760 --> 0:10:49.800 what's going on. They're just kind of like going to 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:52.920 have fun or they're going to like, you know, see 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:55.200 who's there. Like you were talking about the influencers that 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:58.880 there's not that many influencers. There a high ticket item 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:01.560 and it's not about your phone. If people are not 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:03.880 on their phone, this is like watching tennis. 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:08.640 People are like, oh right, well, you know, I think 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:10.920 it's That's what I'm saying. Like you're sitting there and 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:13.960 you have like full access and you're really like absorbing 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:15.120 everything that's going on. 0:11:15.480 --> 0:11:16.120 So I love that. 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:18.600 I love that nobody's on their phone because I feel like, 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:21.680 you know, we've lost so much, you literally lose everything 0:11:21.720 --> 0:11:22.880 if you go to a game and you're the whole 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:25.800 time on your phone or taking videos or taking pictures. 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:27.400 You know, I think people are too caught up in that. 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:30.400 Well people too, they're like if I if I if 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:33.200 it wasn't if I didn't record it, if I don't 0:11:33.240 --> 0:11:35.319 have it on my phone. Then I wasn't there. I mean, 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:38.680 that's not my vibe. Like I was there. I'm seeing it. 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:39.800 I'm talking about it. 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:42.680 Wait, but do you know what love means in tennis? 0:11:43.400 --> 0:11:43.920 I don't know. 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:46.480 Tell me, tell me it's a score. 0:11:46.880 --> 0:11:47.439 It's a score. 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:51.680 Yes, absolutely, it's like forty loves right, It's not like 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:52.840 forty kiss my face. 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:53.720 It's like forty. 0:11:54.679 --> 0:11:56.200 Yes that I know. 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:57.840 But you see that's what I mean. You need to know, 0:11:57.920 --> 0:11:58.160 like this. 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:01.760 Is like love, let's kiss, not the kiss can. 0:12:01.960 --> 0:12:04.400 Do you know what loved tennis? So that's why I 0:12:04.440 --> 0:12:06.080 was like caught off. But yeah, I know that. 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:08.240 You see that. We need to know you catch the 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:09.640 open the game and not know that. 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:12.319 So it means so forty love, So it means zero 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:14.960 in scoring does not. It's not the kiss camp. People 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:18.240 are like love and everyone kisses. No, it means zero. 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:20.960 Oh yeah, I like it. I like that more than 0:12:21.000 --> 0:12:21.600 the kiss Camp. 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:24.920 We've seen a lot of things happening with the kiss 0:12:24.920 --> 0:12:26.280 camp lately, exactly. 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:27.800 Yeah, but we don't want to see that. 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:30.720 Yeah, but I'll actually be fun if they had the 0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:33.959 kiss camp at at the tennis at the US Open. 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:46.760 Yeah, you know, it's funny too, because people are like, like, 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:49.960 do you think that going that going to the US 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:51.800 Open is a good place for a first date? 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:53.920 And like, I'm totally on the fence about it. 0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:56.920 Like on the one hand, I'm like, you have to 0:12:56.960 --> 0:12:59.800 like be ready at like four thirty and then it 0:12:59.840 --> 0:13:01.920 takes like an hour to get out there, and then 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:04.880 you're like having a drink and maybe having some chicken 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:07.800 nuggets with caviar, and it's a lot of fun things. 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:11.800 But it's a very long date. So I'm like, maybe 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:12.960 a second date. 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:15.240 It would be really good for, or like a third date, 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:17.320 but I feel like a first date, if you're just 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:22.200 meeting someone and you're spending that much time with them, 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:23.720 what are your thoughts? 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:26.360 So I mean, the reason why I don't think that 0:13:26.400 --> 0:13:28.000 it's a good that I would like it for a 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:30.920 first date is because I feel like a first date, 0:13:31.080 --> 0:13:34.440 you really need to have more conversations, You need to talk, 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:36.560 you need to get to know each other. So it 0:13:36.640 --> 0:13:38.679 depends if it's your first date with somebody that you've 0:13:38.720 --> 0:13:41.880 already been talking to, it's it might be okay, even 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:43.680 if it's a lot of hours. I think that that's 0:13:43.720 --> 0:13:45.839 actually good because you really get to know whether you 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:48.320 like that person or not, so that can work. But 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:50.160 if it's like a first date that you haven't had 0:13:50.240 --> 0:13:52.440 like too much conversation with and you really don't know, 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:55.160 I think it could be you know, a little awkward. 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:58.680 And yeah, I mean that's how I feel about it. 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:00.360 Yeah, I totally with you. 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:01.880 I think it could be a little awkward to be 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:04.440 spending that much time with someone. And by the way, 0:14:04.559 --> 0:14:07.960 like I feel like when you're on a date, you 0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:11.160 should be on an actual date, like how is. 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:13.920 Your day, not like, oh my god, did you see 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:14.840 that job? How was your day? 0:14:14.920 --> 0:14:15.160 Right? 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:16.000 It would be like. 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:19.640 Very personally, it's very like impersonal, you know, And that's why, 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:21.720 like I wouldn't like it for a first date, but 0:14:21.760 --> 0:14:23.680 if it's someone that I'm dating, I think it's like 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:26.400 a cool, fun activity to do as a couple. And 0:14:26.560 --> 0:14:28.320 how do you feel So the guys that go to 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:30.360 the US open there, I feel like there's a lot 0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:34.080 of couples you know that send and but do you 0:14:34.160 --> 0:14:36.400 also you know, I guess it would also be like 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:38.720 you know, single men, you know, like we talked about 0:14:38.800 --> 0:14:41.640 you know earlier, that you know with different professions that 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:44.560 are just there, you know, to social network, or because 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:47.440 you know their company, you know, got to got the 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:49.520 seeds or a box, or they're there for the brand. 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:52.080 There's so many reasons like while they're there, and just 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:55.120 like single women, So as a woman, would you go 0:14:55.200 --> 0:14:57.000 there like by yourself. 0:14:57.360 --> 0:14:59.560 Or would you go with like a group of friends. 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:03.760 I mean it's a massive, massive arena. I wouldn't necessarily 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:06.600 go but myself. I mean I personally would not do that. 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:11.280 But I have seen, you know, I see single women there. 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:13.600 I see like, but I think it's better to go 0:15:14.480 --> 0:15:16.640 with someone because then. 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:19.280 Also too, so I think that's the perfect Like if you. 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:22.040 And I were together, we would be talking to people. 0:15:22.120 --> 0:15:23.920 We wouldn't just be standing there. 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:26.320 I could be a wing woman also, right, we probably 0:15:26.360 --> 0:15:27.920 just a woman, which is great. 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:30.000 And that's what the that's the whole vibe. 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:33.240 And you know, I and again it's like a really 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:36.280 fun environment and you meet a lot there's a lot 0:15:36.320 --> 0:15:38.920 of interesting people. Like I literally was just there and 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:41.960 I met so many new people and it was just 0:15:42.040 --> 0:15:45.160 really you know, fun. And one person was in the theater, 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:48.960 one person was on television, you know, one person wasn't 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:50.680 you know, as an actor, And I just. 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:52.240 Met a lot of different kinds of people. 0:15:52.920 --> 0:15:55.200 And it's funny because my friend of mine was like, 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:57.400 you have to go on RIA because there's all these 0:15:57.520 --> 0:16:00.120 tennis people are on RIA right now because they're all 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:03.200 in town, Like all these pros are there. 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:06.360 So what do they do? They just get on Riot 0:16:06.480 --> 0:16:07.240 just while they're there. 0:16:07.760 --> 0:16:09.680 Well, you know, it's it like tells you like their 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:12.560 location of where they are. So people are like in town, 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:15.320 you know what I mean, they're on Riot. People would 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:16.040 be like Alexis and. 0:16:16.120 --> 0:16:17.440 In town Alexis and New York. 0:16:17.800 --> 0:16:20.160 Yeah, okay, so are you on I don't know. 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:22.400 Some people have recommended that, but I've never That's like 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:24.960 a whole different podcast, but I've never. 0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:26.480 I don't. I mean I would. 0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:29.880 I mean I dated an athlete, and I genuinely really 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:31.240 I like athletes a lot. 0:16:31.360 --> 0:16:34.120 I like, I feel like a women love athletes. 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:36.160 I like that they have discipline. That's what I like. 0:16:36.400 --> 0:16:38.600 Discipline, That's exactly what I like as well. 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:39.440 Yeah. 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:42.160 But I mean if you date like a hockey player, 0:16:42.400 --> 0:16:45.200 like they have a certain like you can't like go out. 0:16:45.280 --> 0:16:47.880 They don't go out, you know, they eat the certain 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:48.560 same meals. 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:51.280 They get massaged all the time, they work exercising, so 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:53.680 that would be hard. But yeah, I mean I could 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:55.680 date like I don't know, like a football player or something, 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:56.640 or tennis player. 0:16:56.640 --> 0:16:57.960 I don't know if they seem to feel like a. 0:16:57.880 --> 0:16:59.360 Lot of players are married. 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:02.360 It was like that hot tennis player that has the 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:04.119 pretty girlfriend, Paige Lorentz. 0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:05.880 Whatever, did you do? You know what I'm talking about? 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:10.520 Yes, yes, so yeah, I think she's fabulous and like, 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:12.880 I mean, I just love to see her and her fashion. 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:16.280 So she shows up and that she was open looking beautiful, right, 0:17:16.480 --> 0:17:19.600 like her outfits are on point because you know, I 0:17:19.640 --> 0:17:22.560 also feel like the women dress differently to go to 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:25.760 what you was open then obviously a basketball game or 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:27.679 a baseball game. You know, I feel like, you know, 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:31.000 they can show up elegantly and then also you know, 0:17:31.200 --> 0:17:35.240 like sporty but like sexy, but they know exactly like 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:36.920 how to dress, you know, to the event. 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:39.280 Aren't in jeans, which is so nice too. 0:17:39.400 --> 0:17:41.600 It's like it's just nice to go to like an 0:17:41.640 --> 0:17:44.760 event where people aren't in jeans, like you know, people 0:17:44.760 --> 0:17:46.879