1 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:17,159 Speaker 1: Hey, guys, it's I Do Part two. I'm wor some 2 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: of your celebrity vns. I'm Alexi Napola and I'm joined 3 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: today by my fellow housewife, Kelly Benzim. 4 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 2: Hi Kelly, Hi, how are you happy? End of summer? Yes? 5 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: Well, I feel like it's still summer for me. It's 6 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 1: not officially over till like October. I mean here in Miami, 7 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: I feel like it's summer all year long. But yes, 8 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: you know, we'll start getting into it in a couple 9 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:44,160 Speaker 1: of weeks, but we'll startinly like it's fall. 10 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 3: You're dressed for the US Open. You're ready to go 11 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 3: in your tennis white. 12 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: I actually have a little tennis stress because now they're 13 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: very popular. I feel like tennis fashion is super hot 14 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: right now. 15 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 2: You would look so good in tennis dress too. Thank you. 16 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 4: They're cute. I think they're so cute. 17 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, you'd be like, Hi, guys, let's go and have 18 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,039 Speaker 3: a honeydew and my Islexi im and be like, I'm 19 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 3: with her whatever. The girl at the blonde is the 20 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 3: barbie with the I'm with her. 21 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 1: Speaking of tennis today, we're going to be talking about 22 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 1: the US Open going on in New York City right now, 23 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,759 Speaker 1: and Kelly is going to give us all the information 24 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: that we need to know. For all you single ladies 25 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: that want to attend a US Open is it a 26 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: good place to meet the love of your life or 27 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: is it just a place to go off on with 28 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 1: your girls? You're based in New York, Kelly, so for 29 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 1: our listeners, describe what the atmosphere is like at the match. 30 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 3: So the atmosphere at the match is, first of all, 31 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 3: it's outside of New York City, so it takes a 32 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 3: second to get there. But the atmosphere is very colorful, 33 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 3: like very energetic. Everyone is really excited to be there, 34 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 3: and there's a lot of you know, like you said, 35 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 3: like super well dressed, you know, men and women are 36 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 3: like I mean, it's definitely a vibe. And it's also 37 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 3: it's not like next door. It's not like you walk 38 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 3: outside and you're like, I'm going to take a taxi there. 39 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 3: It's you know, it's a it's a truck to get there. 40 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 3: So people really really make an effort. 41 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: Amazing, you know, I feel like all those big sporting 42 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: events you know, are always like hosted outside of the city, 43 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: but you know, people really make it you know a 44 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: thing to go and you know, to attend, you know, 45 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:30,239 Speaker 1: especially the US Open in New York and I've never been. 46 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 1: I would love to go so and not only to 47 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: find love, but I think just like the whole experience. 48 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 1: You know, First of all, I love sports, you know, 49 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,400 Speaker 1: and I do believe that tennis is so much different, 50 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: you know, from basketball, let's say, or baseball or football. 51 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,239 Speaker 1: I feel like when you go to a tennis match, 52 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 1: the whole a Beyonce, the people that attend, and just 53 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 1: everything is different. You know, It's a different sport where 54 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: I feel like basketball and football and baseball are more 55 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: like family events. And don't get me wrong, tennis can 56 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: be as well. But I just feel like in tennis, 57 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:05,079 Speaker 1: it's more like you're there because you love the sport 58 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: and you you know, you're. 59 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 2: A tennis fan. 60 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 1: You want to you want to actually sit down and 61 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 1: see the match, where I feel like in basketball and 62 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: other sports, it's more like you just want to be 63 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: like everywhere, you can see it from everywhere. 64 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 4: You want you know, you want to drink and you want. 65 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: To have fun and you want to eat, and in tennis, 66 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: I just see it more like a serious sport. 67 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know. 68 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 1: I have. I've only been to one US Open. I 69 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 1: mean actually it wasn't even a US Open. And we 70 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: need to talk about that because in Miami we don't 71 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: have the US Open. We have the Miami Open, and 72 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 1: a lot of people confuse that with the US Open. 73 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's very similar. 74 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 3: The Miami Open and the US openers are very very similar. 75 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:45,839 Speaker 4: Oh they're similar and different, but yeah, yes they are. 76 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: I mean I think one thing that like one point 77 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 3: that you're you're making is that when you go to 78 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 3: like let's say you go to a basketball game, there's 79 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 3: all the celebrities are on the floor or they're in 80 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 3: the they're in the boxes, so you can like see celebrities, 81 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 3: and then there's like, you know a lot of you know, 82 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 3: younger kids and parents kind of like you know, just 83 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 3: there with their with their families. It's not far to 84 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 3: get to, you know, you just like hop on a 85 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 3: train or hop in an uber to get there. 86 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 2: But like again, like going to the US Open, I 87 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 2: mean it's in Queens. 88 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 3: It takes a lot of time to get there, so 89 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 3: and it's also very expensive, so it's not like it's 90 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 3: not like you can just go and get like a ticket. 91 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 3: You can't be like at a bar and be like, hey, 92 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 3: I'm going to pick up there. 93 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 4: You go, well, you see that's what right there? 94 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 2: It's expensive. 95 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 3: Yes, So the people, the caliber of men and women 96 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 3: that you're going to be meeting there are you know, 97 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 3: people that are you know, not afraid to spend you know, 98 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 3: a couple of hundred dollars on you. 99 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 2: Know, on tickets. 100 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 3: Also, like the vibe there, it's like all the activations 101 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 3: are very high end, you know, like the big brands 102 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 3: are there, and it's just like it's it's again, it's 103 00:04:59,880 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 3: like when you're going to like a baseball game, you're 104 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 3: i mean a basketball game, you're seeing the celebrities, but 105 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 3: all the celebrities are tucked into these boxes. So you're 106 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:12,719 Speaker 3: just sitting next to you know, a finance guy or 107 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 3: a tech guy or and you know, everyone is kind 108 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 3: of like it's like democratic is like people are all 109 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 3: in like baseball hats and they're all, oh, oh my god, 110 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:25,600 Speaker 3: did you see that? So it's like this very common. 111 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 3: You're you don't feel intimidated to talk to someone. 112 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 1: So you think definately you can meet better guys. Single 113 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: women could meet better quality men out of tennis. 114 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 3: I mean yes, if you can get tickets to a 115 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 3: US Open, if you can get your tickets there, then 116 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 3: yes you will meet higher quality guys. Also, like if 117 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 3: you go to like you were saying before, the comparison 118 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 3: of like a uh, you know basketball, Like there's a 119 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 3: lot of guys in suits, and so a lot of 120 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 3: women are like when they see a guy in the suit, 121 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 3: some women are like, oh my god, I don't want 122 00:05:58,520 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 3: to suit, and. 123 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 2: Other women are like, I'm suits. 124 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 3: Everyone is kind of like in a vibe like sweaters 125 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 3: and shirts and collared shirts and polo shirts. 126 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: Like more preppy, more like lower piana, more like like 127 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: the real wealth. 128 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 4: Right, Like that's how I like to see it, like 129 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 4: coming from Miami. 130 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: Right in Miami, for example, the Miami Open, the crowd 131 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: that's there, there's a lot of like maybe you know 132 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:26,719 Speaker 1: Latina superstars, you know, Latin celebrities, but you know, there's 133 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 1: also like a lot of influencers. Like do influencers like 134 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: attend the US Open? You know? I feel like Miami's 135 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: become a lot of that, Like the influencers get you know, 136 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: tickets and get invited to all these things when they 137 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: really can't even afford to be there. You know, they're 138 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: just there because you know they they were hired, you know, 139 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 1: to go, or they were given tickets. You know, Miami's 140 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 1: vibe was more like sexy, tropical, and it's very different, 141 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: you know. I feel the crowd that attends these things 142 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: in Miami, they comfort they go for something different, whereas 143 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: I see the US Open in New York more global. 144 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: You know, there's international people, you know, from all over. 145 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 1: There's entrepreneurs, there's you know, businessmen from Wall Street. There's 146 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: also a lot of celebrities. 147 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 4: And I just think it's like a different vibe. 148 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: I just feel like I've never been, but like reading 149 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: about this, I'm like excited to go. By the way, 150 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: Martina and Julia are there, so I have my ticket already. 151 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: I could definitely go with Martina and Julia. And I've 152 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 1: been reading about so many celebrities you know that we've 153 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:24,559 Speaker 1: seen that attendees. You know, the attenda you was open. 154 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 2: You should come, You should come, and we should go together. 155 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: We should make it like a test, right, Like we'll 156 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 1: go both single girls and see how, you know how 157 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: it goes for us, Right, And they get back to 158 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: the viewers and say, you know this is what happened. 159 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 4: This is the research at least for us, and we'll 160 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 4: share it. 161 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 3: I would love that if you want to come, we 162 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 3: will go together. So just back to like the vibe there, 163 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 3: there's this drink that it's called the honey deuce like deuce, 164 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 3: but people call it the honey dew because it's made 165 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 3: it's like the condiment is honeydew. 166 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 2: These little these little melon balls, You're so cute. 167 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 3: It sounds so good, and they were making non alcoholic ones, 168 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 3: so it's really fun to like and everyone's like, is 169 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 3: that a honey deuce or a honey dew? So that 170 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 3: could be kind of like what are you ordering? 171 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 2: You know? What do you what are you going to 172 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 2: getting in your honeydew or deuce? People don't know. 173 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 3: So it's a fun way of like good opening line, 174 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 3: you know, because people don't know. And so I'm I'm 175 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 3: kind of like if you meet someone they're like, is 176 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 3: that a I would like a honeydew and they're like, 177 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:28,239 Speaker 3: it's a deuce. 178 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 2: You're like got it? 179 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 3: Like that guy's been here before we know him. And 180 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 3: also one of the things I see that like if 181 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 3: I tell this to my kids and to myself, Like 182 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 3: you never know who you're going to meet, and like, 183 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 3: I meet so many people and then. 184 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 2: Someone's like, oh my god, you single. 185 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 3: Someone's so single, and you meet so many different people 186 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 3: being in an environment, and this is a great environment 187 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 3: because again, like there's you're talking about, Oh my god, 188 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:57,319 Speaker 3: like that you know that one athlete shaved his head. 189 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 3: Why is that guy wearing purple? Oh my, it's so 190 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 3: cool to see you know, Venus back playing tennis. Like 191 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 3: you said, like you know your friends Martin and there, 192 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 3: Like there's there's things to talk about. Like I'll be 193 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,079 Speaker 3: like like literally I was there the other the other day, 194 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 3: and like I was with and Carl Radke and I 195 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 3: was like, I was like, oh my god, Carl, look 196 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 3: what they're wearing in Carls Like we were like having fun, 197 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 3: like talking about what they were wearing. 198 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 2: And it was fun. It was really fun. 199 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 1: Do you think we need to know a little bit 200 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 1: about tennis? 201 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 3: No, I mean there's so many things to talk about, celebrities, clothing, vibe. 202 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, But I mean I think I think we should 203 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 1: be a little educated as far as you know, like 204 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 1: what you're there for, like who you're going for. 205 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 4: You at least need to. 206 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: Know like who's playing in the matches and you know, 207 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: knowing that basic. 208 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 4: I mean that's just me. 209 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 1: I like to do that, Like I just don't like 210 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 1: to show up somewhere especially. I mean, I've always been 211 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: a sport fanatic. I love baseball, I love all the sports, 212 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,680 Speaker 1: and so if I would go, I would like to 213 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 1: have a little bit of you know, knowledge, you know 214 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: about the sport. And I think that's a good way too, 215 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: because you never know who's sitting next to you, you. 216 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 4: Know, and some guys think that's hot. 217 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 1: Some guys think it's hot like for the woman to 218 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 1: know about sports, And I mean, I don't care what 219 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: they think, but I like it for myself, like I 220 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 1: want to know, like at least you's plain. I feel 221 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 1: like sometimes o ladies go to these sporting events and 222 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 1: they're just there for that so like pick up guys 223 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: and they're really not there for the sport, and you know, 224 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 1: it doesn't for me, like it doesn't like look, you know, 225 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 1: doesn't look so sexy like for me, you know, like 226 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 1: you're just there for that. Like I like to know 227 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,199 Speaker 1: what I'm there, who's playing a little bit about the sport, 228 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 1: and you know, I think that can also be like 229 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 1: you know, cute, you know, like to start a conversation 230 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: with the guy. You know. 231 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 4: I think guys like that. 232 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 3: I mean, I love that you are that engaged that 233 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 3: you want to know. Not everybody is like knows really 234 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 3: what's going on. They're just kind of like going to 235 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 3: have fun or they're going to like, you know, see 236 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 3: who's there. Like you were talking about the influencers that 237 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 3: there's not that many influencers. There a high ticket item 238 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 3: and it's not about your phone. If people are not 239 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 3: on their phone, this is like watching tennis. 240 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: People are like, oh right, well, you know, I think 241 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 1: it's That's what I'm saying. Like you're sitting there and 242 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 1: you have like full access and you're really like absorbing 243 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 1: everything that's going on. 244 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 4: So I love that. 245 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 1: I love that nobody's on their phone because I feel like, 246 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 1: you know, we've lost so much, you literally lose everything 247 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 1: if you go to a game and you're the whole 248 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 1: time on your phone or taking videos or taking pictures. 249 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: You know, I think people are too caught up in that. 250 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 3: Well people too, they're like if I if I if 251 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 3: it wasn't if I didn't record it, if I don't 252 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,319 Speaker 3: have it on my phone. Then I wasn't there. I mean, 253 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 3: that's not my vibe. Like I was there. I'm seeing it. 254 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 3: I'm talking about it. 255 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,680 Speaker 2: Wait, but do you know what love means in tennis? 256 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 4: I don't know. 257 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 2: Tell me, tell me it's a score. 258 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 4: It's a score. 259 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, it's like forty loves right, It's not like 260 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 3: forty kiss my face. 261 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 2: It's like forty. 262 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:56,200 Speaker 1: Yes that I know. 263 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:57,840 Speaker 4: But you see that's what I mean. You need to know, 264 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 4: like this. 265 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 2: Is like love, let's kiss, not the kiss can. 266 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 1: Do you know what loved tennis? So that's why I 267 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 1: was like caught off. But yeah, I know that. 268 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 4: You see that. We need to know you catch the 269 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 4: open the game and not know that. 270 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,319 Speaker 3: So it means so forty love, So it means zero 271 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 3: in scoring does not. It's not the kiss camp. People 272 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 3: are like love and everyone kisses. No, it means zero. 273 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I like it. I like that more than 274 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 4: the kiss Camp. 275 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 3: We've seen a lot of things happening with the kiss 276 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 3: camp lately, exactly. 277 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, but we don't want to see that. 278 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'll actually be fun if they had the 279 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 3: kiss camp at at the tennis at the US Open. 280 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, it's funny too, because people are like, like, 281 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 5: do you think that going that going to the US 282 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 5: Open is a good place for a first date? 283 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 2: And like, I'm totally on the fence about it. 284 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 3: Like on the one hand, I'm like, you have to 285 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 3: like be ready at like four thirty and then it 286 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 3: takes like an hour to get out there, and then 287 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 3: you're like having a drink and maybe having some chicken 288 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 3: nuggets with caviar, and it's a lot of fun things. 289 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 2: But it's a very long date. So I'm like, maybe 290 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 2: a second date. 291 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 3: It would be really good for, or like a third date, 292 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 3: but I feel like a first date, if you're just 293 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 3: meeting someone and you're spending that much time with them, 294 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 3: what are your thoughts? 295 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: So I mean, the reason why I don't think that 296 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 1: it's a good that I would like it for a 297 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 1: first date is because I feel like a first date, 298 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 1: you really need to have more conversations, You need to talk, 299 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 1: you need to get to know each other. So it 300 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 1: depends if it's your first date with somebody that you've 301 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 1: already been talking to, it's it might be okay, even 302 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 1: if it's a lot of hours. I think that that's 303 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:45,839 Speaker 1: actually good because you really get to know whether you 304 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 1: like that person or not, so that can work. But 305 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 1: if it's like a first date that you haven't had 306 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 1: like too much conversation with and you really don't know, 307 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: I think it could be you know, a little awkward. 308 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean that's how I feel about it. 309 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I totally with you. 310 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 3: I think it could be a little awkward to be 311 00:14:01,920 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 3: spending that much time with someone. And by the way, 312 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 3: like I feel like when you're on a date, you 313 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 3: should be on an actual date, like how is. 314 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 2: Your day, not like, oh my god, did you see 315 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 2: that job? How was your day? 316 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: Right? 317 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 2: It would be like. 318 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: Very personally, it's very like impersonal, you know, And that's why, 319 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 1: like I wouldn't like it for a first date, but 320 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 1: if it's someone that I'm dating, I think it's like 321 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 1: a cool, fun activity to do as a couple. And 322 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: how do you feel So the guys that go to 323 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 1: the US open there, I feel like there's a lot 324 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 1: of couples you know that send and but do you 325 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 1: also you know, I guess it would also be like 326 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 1: you know, single men, you know, like we talked about 327 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 1: you know earlier, that you know with different professions that 328 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: are just there, you know, to social network, or because 329 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 1: you know their company, you know, got to got the 330 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 1: seeds or a box, or they're there for the brand. 331 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 1: There's so many reasons like while they're there, and just 332 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: like single women, So as a woman, would you go 333 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 1: there like by yourself. 334 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 4: Or would you go with like a group of friends. 335 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 3: I mean it's a massive, massive arena. I wouldn't necessarily 336 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 3: go but myself. I mean I personally would not do that. 337 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 3: But I have seen, you know, I see single women there. 338 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 3: I see like, but I think it's better to go 339 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 3: with someone because then. 340 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 4: Also too, so I think that's the perfect Like if you. 341 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 3: And I were together, we would be talking to people. 342 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 3: We wouldn't just be standing there. 343 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 1: I could be a wing woman also, right, we probably 344 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 1: just a woman, which is great. 345 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 2: And that's what the that's the whole vibe. 346 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 3: And you know, I and again it's like a really 347 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 3: fun environment and you meet a lot there's a lot 348 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 3: of interesting people. Like I literally was just there and 349 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 3: I met so many new people and it was just 350 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 3: really you know, fun. And one person was in the theater, 351 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 3: one person was on television, you know, one person wasn't 352 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 3: you know, as an actor, And I just. 353 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 2: Met a lot of different kinds of people. 354 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 3: And it's funny because my friend of mine was like, 355 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 3: you have to go on RIA because there's all these 356 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 3: tennis people are on RIA right now because they're all 357 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 3: in town, Like all these pros are there. 358 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 4: So what do they do? They just get on Riot 359 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 4: just while they're there. 360 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:09,680 Speaker 3: Well, you know, it's it like tells you like their 361 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 3: location of where they are. So people are like in town, 362 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, they're on Riot. People would 363 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 3: be like Alexis and. 364 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 2: In town Alexis and New York. 365 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so are you on I don't know. 366 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: Some people have recommended that, but I've never That's like 367 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: a whole different podcast, but I've never. 368 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 2: I don't. I mean I would. 369 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 3: I mean I dated an athlete, and I genuinely really 370 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 3: I like athletes a lot. 371 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 4: I like, I feel like a women love athletes. 372 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 2: I like that they have discipline. That's what I like. 373 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 4: Discipline, That's exactly what I like as well. 374 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 375 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 3: But I mean if you date like a hockey player, 376 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 3: like they have a certain like you can't like go out. 377 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 2: They don't go out, you know, they eat the certain 378 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 2: same meals. 379 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 3: They get massaged all the time, they work exercising, so 380 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 3: that would be hard. But yeah, I mean I could 381 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 3: date like I don't know, like a football player or something, 382 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 3: or tennis player. 383 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 2: I don't know if they seem to feel like a. 384 00:16:57,880 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 4: Lot of players are married. 385 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: It was like that hot tennis player that has the 386 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 1: pretty girlfriend, Paige Lorentz. 387 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 4: Whatever, did you do? You know what I'm talking about? 388 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, so yeah, I think she's fabulous and like, 389 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:12,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I just love to see her and her fashion. 390 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 1: So she shows up and that she was open looking beautiful, right, 391 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 1: like her outfits are on point because you know, I 392 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 1: also feel like the women dress differently to go to 393 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: what you was open then obviously a basketball game or 394 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:27,679 Speaker 1: a baseball game. You know, I feel like, you know, 395 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 1: they can show up elegantly and then also you know, 396 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 1: like sporty but like sexy, but they know exactly like 397 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:36,920 Speaker 1: how to dress, you know, to the event. 398 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 2: Aren't in jeans, which is so nice too. 399 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 3: It's like it's just nice to go to like an 400 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 3: event where people aren't in jeans, like you know, people 401 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 3: are in white jeans or in tennis swunters like you 402 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 3: their dresses, their main dresses, but the men aren't in 403 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 3: jeans and the women aren't in jeans. I mean, unless 404 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 3: you're working for a tennis player, then they're a you know, 405 00:17:56,600 --> 00:18:00,040 Speaker 3: at leisure. But I think it's also nice to just 406 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 3: be an environment where we're like dressed and you're like, oh, okay, 407 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 3: so they've put in the effort to get there. They 408 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 3: put in the effort to get dressed, do you know 409 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 3: what I mean, they're like there. It's like that's the 410 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:12,199 Speaker 3: kind of guy that you love that. 411 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 1: I love that. 412 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 3: There's no scrubs, like it's very like you know, they're 413 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 3: they're putting in the effort to be. 414 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 2: There, and I love that. 415 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 4: I agree. 416 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:23,960 Speaker 2: I got a guy that puts in the efforts. 417 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 1: We like it. 418 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:27,440 Speaker 4: We like the guy that dress as well. 419 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 1: And I feel like the us open, like I said, 420 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:32,400 Speaker 1: is like you're going to get the best of the best. Yeah, 421 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:34,919 Speaker 1: you know, I just not only in fashion, but I 422 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: feel like the men that are there, you know, are 423 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:41,080 Speaker 1: all like educated men with careers, and I, like I said, 424 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 1: I've never been, but I'm so excited to go next year. 425 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:45,639 Speaker 1: And you also have the fashion week going on in 426 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:47,160 Speaker 1: New York, No, the next week. 427 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 2: That's coming up. 428 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:51,240 Speaker 3: I mean, I wouldn't necessarily bring a date to Fashion Week. 429 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 3: I would definitely bring a day to the US Open. 430 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:57,639 Speaker 3: But if you're like, wow, it's really great, and for 431 00:18:57,760 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 3: the way you don't in your date, like looking at 432 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 3: mom and then being right and then look at you 433 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 3: and you're like, hi, oh, that. 434 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 1: Would never happen. Yeah, you know. I don't think men 435 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: belong there unless they go by themselves and then there 436 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:10,120 Speaker 1: and that's creepy. 437 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'll like, yeah. I had a guy 438 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 2: that was like, oh my. 439 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 3: He was like, can you bring me to the Victoria's 440 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:19,719 Speaker 3: Secret Fashion Show? And I was like, yeah, we can go, 441 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 3: And then I'm like taking him to the Victoria's Secret 442 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 3: Fashion He was like, oh my god, we so great. 443 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 3: We're going to see all these girls. And I'm like, 444 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 3: not with me right, thank you so much for now 445 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 3: trying to like no, I'm not going to sit there 446 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:36,360 Speaker 3: and watch you like, you. 447 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 4: Know, salivate over, jazz up over like a twenty year old. 448 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:40,680 Speaker 2: That's not happening. 449 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:41,119 Speaker 3: No. 450 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: Thinking is like the US SO Open Fashion Week. I'm like, 451 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 1: maybe next year I can do a little bit of both. 452 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:48,400 Speaker 1: I can do the US SO big the same time. 453 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:50,920 Speaker 3: You have to come, but you have to come to 454 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 3: fashion Week obviously, but the US Opens at the same time. 455 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 2: It's always like back to the US Open, which is 456 00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 2: really fun. 457 00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 3: But another thing, you know, there is so much fun 458 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 3: on there and the people do dress up, and it's 459 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:07,439 Speaker 3: interesting because this would be a good reason to go 460 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:09,199 Speaker 3: on a date with someone that wants to go to 461 00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 3: the US Open, because my algorithm is like, these are 462 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:13,960 Speaker 3: the kind of guys you want to day. 463 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 2: Like, I mean, I'm like, I literally. 464 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 3: Wake up and my algorithm is like telling me all 465 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 3: these different kinds of guys that I should be with. 466 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:21,880 Speaker 1: Well, I don't want to tell you what my algorithm says. 467 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:26,239 Speaker 1: Who keeps a private my algorithm is it's so funny, right, 468 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 1: the phone like knows what like we're going through in 469 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: our lives. 470 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:30,640 Speaker 2: It's crazy. 471 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:33,639 Speaker 1: It's so crazy, and it's good in many ways, but 472 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 1: it's also not that great in others because it really 473 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:37,920 Speaker 1: gets to you because like the stuff is coming up. 474 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 3: Starts thinking right, yeah, well wait, so my algorithm is 475 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 3: telling me. It says that this, and this was something 476 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, this guy is I 477 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 3: can't remember his name, but I'm like, this guy is 478 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:52,879 Speaker 3: really on point. Is that a guy who makes plans 479 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:55,199 Speaker 3: to see you in the future to do things that 480 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 3: are interesting. 481 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 2: Is A is a good guy? 482 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 1: Oh what can I tell you something? Because algorithm is 483 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 1: something different from yours. So a guys that makes you 484 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 1: he could be future faking. He could make anti promises. 485 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 2: No anty promises. 486 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 3: Okay, hold on, like we're going get ready, put your 487 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 3: Tinnis whatter on. 488 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 1: A lot of these guys are bleaders and they're like 489 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 1: love mombing you in the beginning, and they're saying, you know, 490 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:23,919 Speaker 1: like you know, promising all these empty promises and future faking. 491 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,719 Speaker 4: So you have to be you have to be careful. 492 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:26,359 Speaker 2: You know. 493 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 1: Obviously, if you do like the guy, you want to 494 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: be excited about it and you want them to be 495 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:33,120 Speaker 1: making plans for the future because that's a good sign. 496 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,360 Speaker 4: But you also have to be very. 497 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 1: Aware that it could as it could be a good 498 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 1: sign for normal guys and you know, emotionally available and 499 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 1: well psychologically guys. It can also be the type of 500 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 1: guy that does it with every woman or it's just 501 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 1: part of his personality trait that he's you know, faking 502 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,640 Speaker 1: it and he's just like offering you all these things 503 00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: and making empty promises and you know, I'm not trying 504 00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 1: to be negative. You know, I feel like, you know, 505 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 1: if that's what it's telling you to do, and that's 506 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 1: what you want, but just be aware that's just all 507 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,360 Speaker 1: same because my augior say something else. 508 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,720 Speaker 2: Empty promises to redfly. But where where are you, Alexi? 509 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 2: Where are you in your life right now? 510 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 1: So I am divorced and I am on the other side, 511 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 1: luckily and gratefully. 512 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,399 Speaker 4: It's been you know, hard, a very hard year for me. 513 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: You know, the show is still airing, so reliving, you know, 514 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 1: all these episodes and. 515 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 4: Just seeing me like this this this season. 516 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 1: You know, I it's not me, you know, it's like 517 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 1: not me, Like I've put up with so much, not 518 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,400 Speaker 1: only on the show, you know, as as a cast 519 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 1: me and if you're watching this show, you can see 520 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 1: because it's not the Alexia. 521 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:48,959 Speaker 4: It's kind of like my life was simmed. 522 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,920 Speaker 1: And you know, I wasn't depressed, because I really don't 523 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: get depressed, but you know, I was so emotional and 524 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 1: I was so I was going through so much on 525 00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:00,880 Speaker 1: my personal life that I was just like shutting out 526 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,400 Speaker 1: all the noise, you know, like I wasn't really invested, 527 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,399 Speaker 1: you know, with the girls, what was going on. I 528 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 1: was just kind of like sitting back watching it play 529 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: and it's kind of like what I was going through 530 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 1: with my personal life, you know. 531 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 4: I was just kind of. 532 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 1: Like sitting back just watching it all play out, seeing 533 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:20,160 Speaker 1: the patterns, gathering information and kind of just like figuring 534 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 1: things out. But like I said, I'm like on the 535 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 1: other side now, and you know, it was really difficult, 536 00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 1: but you know, and it's not that I chose the show. 537 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 2: I chose me. 538 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 1: I had to choose me, and it took me all 539 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:35,919 Speaker 1: this time to know that what I did was the 540 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:36,360 Speaker 1: right thing. 541 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 2: So I hate that you say that your light was damn. 542 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 3: I mean, obviously you're just so bright and beautiful and 543 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 3: sweet and that. 544 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 2: Makes me seek Kelly. 545 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:47,680 Speaker 4: Thank you, Kelly. 546 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 2: I know you've been through a lot. 547 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 4: You know it is. 548 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: And I look back and I see like even like, 549 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,439 Speaker 1: you know, looking at the comments and all that, I 550 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,399 Speaker 1: was like, I can't believe. You know, we have a 551 00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 1: certain girl on the show that I came in super 552 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,199 Speaker 1: solid or a new cast member, and she wanted to 553 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 1: take over, and like literally she was insulting me. It 554 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 1: was like verbal assault. And I was okay with that, 555 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 1: and I guess because I was okay with that in 556 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: my personal life, and I just I was just like 557 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 1: in a really really you know, dark stage in my life, 558 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 1: you know, going through that in my personal life. 559 00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 4: And then I was just like taking it from everybody. 560 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:25,160 Speaker 1: But you know, the alexis back, you know, and you'll 561 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 1: see a different you know, I'm so excited for people 562 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 1: to see, like who I really am. I've always been 563 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 1: very genuine and raw on the show, as I am 564 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: in my personal life. But you know, when you're going 565 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 1: through things like this in your personal life, it could 566 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 1: really affect you, you know, in. 567 00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:41,480 Speaker 4: A way and you don't even notice. 568 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,639 Speaker 2: I mean, that's awful and I'm so sorry. 569 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:48,120 Speaker 3: But also, you know, just talking about like you know, 570 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:52,159 Speaker 3: new beginnings and you know it's coming, fall is coming, 571 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 3: and just doing different things, and I just feel like 572 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 3: when you're around other people, you know, like, Okay, we 573 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 3: can watch tennis, and it's fun to meet people and 574 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 3: drink these honeydews and have fun and that's great, but 575 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 3: you know, just being around other people is just you know, 576 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 3: we're humans and we need that human interaction. And I 577 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,440 Speaker 3: think it's I think that's one thing that that's why 578 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 3: people really love The Open Too, is because the enthusiasm 579 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,919 Speaker 3: is so contagious, and so wherever you are in your life, 580 00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 3: if you're like you know, if you have love issues, 581 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,399 Speaker 3: or if your kids are going to college or having 582 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:33,680 Speaker 3: like kind of like an end of the summer, it's 583 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:39,040 Speaker 3: almost brings this new energy to like fall forward into fall, 584 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:40,640 Speaker 3: you know what i mean, and just a new way 585 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 3: to connect with other people. That's like there's no there's 586 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 3: nothing to win, nothing to lose, Like, oh my god, 587 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 3: what do you think of that guy wearing purple? 588 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? 589 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 3: Like there's nothing to lose and there's everything to gain 590 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 3: by just having fun. 591 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:57,400 Speaker 1: And yeah, I think God to have such great friends, 592 00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,159 Speaker 1: you know, that have brought a lot of joy and laughter. 593 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:00,639 Speaker 4: To my life. 594 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 2: I always have fun with you. 595 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 1: I know, I'm gonna give me York next month and 596 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,199 Speaker 1: the following also, like for the next two weeks, I'm 597 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:09,680 Speaker 1: gonna be in New York a lot, so I'm gonna 598 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 1: call you so we can definitely go out. 599 00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 4: And catch up. 600 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:13,399 Speaker 2: I would love that. 601 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:25,520 Speaker 1: Yah. You know. As far as dating, I'm like, I'm 602 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,679 Speaker 1: not very at Kelly because I need to you know, 603 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 1: I'm still healing and and I just need to be 604 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,359 Speaker 1: good with myself. You know, I feel like I've gone 605 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 1: into a lot of these relationships with men because of 606 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 1: comeing to my life. When I've been I haven't been 607 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,720 Speaker 1: in a good place, and that's what I've attracted. 608 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 4: So I need to be great. I need to be 609 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:44,920 Speaker 4: so good. 610 00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 1: So I'm going to keep on focusing on me, on 611 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: my boys that you know, like you that I know 612 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 1: you're a great mom. That's through my life, and that's 613 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 1: you know what I've always like my life has been, 614 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,560 Speaker 1: you know about them. I'm going to continue to do 615 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,720 Speaker 1: that focus on me, and you know, when I do 616 00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:03,560 Speaker 1: believe in love, and I'm sure you know, I'll move 617 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 1: on with my life. But you know, for the first 618 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,399 Speaker 1: time in my life, Kelly, I'm not ready to be 619 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,359 Speaker 1: with anybody else. And I've always been ready. I've gone 620 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 1: from like one. I feel like I've been married on 621 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,119 Speaker 1: my life and always in a relationship. But you know, 622 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,400 Speaker 1: marriage didn't work out so good for me, so I'm 623 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 1: not planning on getting married again. Maybe I'll just say 624 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,760 Speaker 1: girlfriend or whatever. But I believe in love, whether it's 625 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 1: in the tennis, whether I'm going to find it and 626 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 1: you is open or a fashion week or in Miami 627 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 1: or in Madrid, wherever it is. My heart is always 628 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:35,120 Speaker 1: open for love, but my part needs to heal. 629 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 2: That's super brave of you. First of all, Oh don't cry, 630 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 2: don't cry. I'm here for you. I think too. 631 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 3: Listen Alexia that you know there's some people that just 632 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,160 Speaker 3: you know, are like I need to be with somebody. 633 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,399 Speaker 2: And you know, do you know how like cool it 634 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 2: is for you to just like take time for yourself. 635 00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,959 Speaker 3: I mean, with everything that you've been going through personally, professionally, 636 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 3: everybody loves you, and you know we're all here for you. 637 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:04,199 Speaker 2: We support you one hundred percent, and you know you 638 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,639 Speaker 2: can take all the time you want. This is not 639 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:11,440 Speaker 2: a race, this is not a sprint. It's a marathon. 640 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 3: And you know, there's you have so much time, and 641 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,679 Speaker 3: some people are like, Okay, I'm going to start September one, 642 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,560 Speaker 3: or some people are like, okay, I just need to 643 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:22,200 Speaker 3: start dating immediately. And I think it's just very cool 644 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 3: of you, and I'm like that, like I just like 645 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 3: after my breakup, I was like I just need a 646 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 3: second to like just take a second. And there's nothing 647 00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 3: wrong with that and nothing wrong with it, and there's 648 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 3: just so many opportunities out there to meet people and 649 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:43,120 Speaker 3: just to have fun with no commitment, not trying to 650 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 3: meet it, no intention to meet anyone. 651 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 1: Right at that stage, it like the intentional like I'm 652 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 1: not looking for any fag Like, I'm not like like 653 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 1: you said, I want to have fun. 654 00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:54,960 Speaker 4: I want to feel free. 655 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 1: I want to just be me, you know, I want 656 00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 1: to like find myself again, because sometimes you lose yourself 657 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: in these relationships. 658 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:04,240 Speaker 2: That's one lesson that I have learned. 659 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:09,040 Speaker 3: And also my kids are like, mom, like, this is 660 00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 3: what's going on. This is how it's I'm like, why 661 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,280 Speaker 3: is everyone like, how did they get so bright? 662 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:17,240 Speaker 4: Well, they learned through us something good. 663 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 2: I'm an adult in the room. They're like, no, no, no, 664 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 2: this is how it works. 665 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 1: Someone got you good well, daughters that call you out 666 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,920 Speaker 1: and remind you. Sometimes we need to be reminded, you know, 667 00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 1: by either our friends or our family or our daughters 668 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 1: or whatever. 669 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 3: But that's why this pod is so good too, because 670 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 3: we can connect and talk about things that we may 671 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 3: not necessarily talk about, like filming or just an everyday life. 672 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:44,720 Speaker 4: Filming is pretty different. 673 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 1: You know you've been part of it, so you know, 674 00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: you know, for filming you know, we're nine girls, so 675 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 1: we each have a story. And I was very protective 676 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 1: of my story because I was going through it in 677 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 1: a real. 678 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 4: Time, and I was protective of him. I was protective 679 00:29:59,320 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 4: of us. 680 00:29:59,840 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 1: You. 681 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,480 Speaker 4: I better on my relationship. So I didn't share. 682 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,960 Speaker 1: A lot this season because when you're when it's real 683 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,040 Speaker 1: and you're going through it and you what you guys 684 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:11,440 Speaker 1: saw is actually what was really happening in my life. 685 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 1: It was emotional chaos and turmoil when they were a 686 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 1: good when you were bad. But like you said, you know, 687 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 1: when you're feeling, you can't share all that. Like the 688 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 1: viewers don't see the whole story, they see like bits 689 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 1: and pieces of it, and then there's editing obviously, so 690 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 1: then you know, it just changes things. 691 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:28,720 Speaker 4: Right. 692 00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,959 Speaker 1: So I love that you do have this platform, you know, 693 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 1: and I love to share it with you. What we 694 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 1: can talk about relationships and we can talk about us. 695 00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 4: And just you know, inspire help anybody else that's going 696 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:40,160 Speaker 4: through it. 697 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,840 Speaker 1: Now. I'm not ready to go with you this year 698 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 1: to the US Open, but next year I probviously will 699 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 1: be ready. We're gonna kick ass and we're gonna have 700 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 1: fun more than anything, because for me, it's all about 701 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:51,040 Speaker 1: having fun. 702 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,080 Speaker 4: I've never like been that kind of one. 703 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,040 Speaker 1: And I don't know about you, even when I've been 704 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 1: single the short time that i've been single like that, 705 00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: that I go out with my friends and I'm like, oh, 706 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 1: let's go here because you know the welfing men go 707 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 1: there and we can meet a welfing. 708 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 4: Like it's never been in my mind to meet somebody. 709 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 1: And you know, despite the you know, the the whatever, 710 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 1: you know, the image that some people may have of 711 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 1: me that I'm a gold digger, which I'm not because 712 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 1: I would have so many millions of I was so 713 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 1: and I believe, you know, haven't gotten much from that, 714 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:24,760 Speaker 1: but whatever, except uh, you know, they they sell you, well, 715 00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:26,240 Speaker 1: what is it that they say? They sell you a 716 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 1: dream and then they deliver a nightmare. So that's pretty been. Yeah. 717 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 1: But what I'm trying to say is like my thing 718 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:34,600 Speaker 1: has never been that, Like I want to go to 719 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 1: the US Open Besides that, you know, we're talking about 720 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 1: that it could be a great place to meet eligible 721 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 1: bachelors and whatnot. 722 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 4: But like you said, to have fun, you know, and 723 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 4: if something good comes. 724 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 1: Out of it, if I meet, you know, a man 725 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,479 Speaker 1: that potentially I can have a relationship with the throll 726 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 1: in love good. But I feel like we need to 727 00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 1: just go for fun, not to really look for what 728 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 1: you're looking for, because for me, it's never happened that way. 729 00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 3: By the way, the lis Open is not a place 730 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,720 Speaker 3: to find billionaires or private planes or. 731 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 2: Any of these things. 732 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:11,000 Speaker 3: It's just a baseline of people that have interests and 733 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 3: hobbies and that are using their you know, their what 734 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 3: you know, their money, that their work. You know, they 735 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 3: work hard for to do things like they're playing tennis 736 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,280 Speaker 3: on a Tuesday if they want, they're playing, they're starting pickleball. 737 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 3: You know, there's there they were invited, that they're making 738 00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:30,000 Speaker 3: an effort. You know, it's not necessarily about how much 739 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:34,200 Speaker 3: money that they have. For me, it's about who they 740 00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 3: are as a person and how they're living their life. 741 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 3: I mean, I want to be with someone who like 742 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 3: loves their life. 743 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 2: I don't want to be with. 744 00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 3: Someone that's like, oh, here's my great life, like you 745 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 3: can't have it, and that's someone I want I want 746 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 3: to I want to have someone that's like loving their 747 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 3: life and be like, oh my god, guess what we're 748 00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 3: doing today. 749 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:54,800 Speaker 4: Right right, and wants to share it. 750 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 1: With you. So yeah, I mean absolutely, But that's like 751 00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:00,720 Speaker 1: what you know, I told my my my girlfriends that 752 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 1: have been single for a long time, and I think 753 00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,400 Speaker 1: it's just they go looking for it. So you know, 754 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 1: I want to like make that Yeah, I want to 755 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 1: send that message to the women that like, don't go 756 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 1: looking for it when you're not looking for it. It's 757 00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,680 Speaker 1: like when it comes to you. And at least that's 758 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:18,240 Speaker 1: how it's been, you know, for me. And and you know, yes, 759 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,960 Speaker 1: the US open might be a great place to potentially 760 00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,000 Speaker 1: meet someone, but you know what, so is the supermarket. 761 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:24,840 Speaker 4: So it's the bank. 762 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:28,600 Speaker 3: And so I always say, I always say Sundays at 763 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 3: the supermarket is the best, right. 764 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 1: And Sundays at the gym in the morning that means 765 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:35,880 Speaker 1: it's a guy that doesn't like to go out a night. 766 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 1: Sundays early in the morning is also a good place, 767 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 1: like you know, to me, guys, but you know, I 768 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 1: get I feel like you can meet them anywhere, you 769 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:48,520 Speaker 1: just have to be open to it. And and you know, 770 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:50,760 Speaker 1: and at our age, you know, I think that we're 771 00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 1: at a stage in our lives that we really know 772 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 1: what we want and don't know and we know, like 773 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 1: all the rest flags, you know, because we've gone through it. 774 00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:01,680 Speaker 1: We have experienced, you know, we have life experience and lessons, 775 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 1: so we have an advantage, my friend. 776 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,200 Speaker 5: We do, we would advantage we do that you're using 777 00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:11,600 Speaker 5: all the tennis lingo, Yeah, I love it. 778 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well I'm I again, like I think you're 779 00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:21,359 Speaker 3: amazing and appreciate you opening up and you know, US 780 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 3: Open is really really fun, but friendships are even more fun. 781 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,080 Speaker 3: And I'm just having such a great time like getting 782 00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,760 Speaker 3: to know you and supporting you on your journey. 783 00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,560 Speaker 4: Thank you, Kelly. It's always great to talk to you 784 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 4: and look forward to seeing you in New York. Yes, 785 00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 4: and talking for sure and doing more podcasts together because. 786 00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:40,759 Speaker 2: I would love that talk to you. Love that. 787 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,439 Speaker 1: So if you're going to the US Open, we hope 788 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,800 Speaker 1: you have the best time. And if you meet someone, 789 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,560 Speaker 1: call us and tell us all about it or email 790 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 1: and phone number are in the show notes. Follow us 791 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,000 Speaker 1: on socials. Make sure to rate and review of the 792 00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:58,760 Speaker 1: podcasts I Do Part two and iHeartRadio podcast where falling 793 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:00,560 Speaker 1: in love is the main objective.