1 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 1: Brooking jew Boles. Second day, you go out on what 2 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: you think is a great first date and then never 3 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: hear from that person again. We'll call them for you 4 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: to find out why they haven't gotten back to you. 5 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 1: Today we have Tommy from Port Orchard on the phone. Tommy, Hey, 6 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 1: how are you? How are you doing pretty good? Who 7 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: do you want us to get ahold of today? Um 8 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: so I went on, I wanted to do with this girl, 9 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: and um she wanted I met her on a dating website, okay, 10 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 1: and um she wanted to do like an activity, not 11 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: like Scott's Dinner or something. Let me ask you this, 12 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 1: was it a free dating site or when you pay 13 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: for because that makes a big difference. I say, it's 14 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: a free trial. Eventually you woke all right, okay, so 15 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: either either way, you wanted to go do an activity, 16 00:00:56,960 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: it's your trial girlfriend, Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. And what happened? 17 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: Um so we u my ideas minutes here golf right. 18 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: Uh had a really good time there and then afterwards 19 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 1: diaster he I was like, hey, you want to come 20 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: back to my place? And she said yeah, and um 21 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 1: so I was like, oh, she's having fun too, and 22 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:19,040 Speaker 1: and we go back to my place and then like 23 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: literally she's there for like ten or fifteen minutes, and 24 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,399 Speaker 1: she gets all awkward and weird and like makes up 25 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 1: an excuse and gets it out. Something switched, Like something happened. 26 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: You know what was her excuse, Tommy, Like all of 27 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 1: a sudden, she had like worked super early in the 28 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 1: morning or something. It's weird, Like, You're not the first 29 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: person that we've talked to that had this happen to them. 30 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 1: And my dating experience is never happened where someone just 31 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: kind of randomly left. Maybe I'm better at dating than 32 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: I thought I was. No, you just getting drunk that 33 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: they can't drive home? That's Do you have anything weird 34 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 1: in your apartment? And no, I don't think so. So 35 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: you have no idea why she could have just kind 36 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: of gotten weird and left. Yeah, I mean literally we 37 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: got acting like we barely even hung out. There wasn't 38 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: even time for me to screw anything up, all right? 39 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: And um, have you tried to contact her? I am, 40 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: and she's she's not answered, she doesn't answer my call, 41 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 1: she want to answer my tech. And now I'm like, 42 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 1: I've completely moved on. I don't even care. I just 43 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: want to like I just want to know why. Okay, yeah, 44 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, yeah, you just want an answer? Um, cool, okay, 45 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 1: We're gonna call her right after this, all right, cool 46 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: Brooking Jubil in the Morning second date. All right, Tommy 47 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 1: went out on a date with a girl. They went 48 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 1: back to his place. She was there for a matter 49 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: of minutes before getting awkward and leaving. He hasn't been 50 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: able to get ahold of her since. We're gonna give 51 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: her a call now to find out why. Tommy, what's 52 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: her name? Anyway? I never got that from you, Amy? Okay, 53 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: all right, We're gonna give Ammy a call right now 54 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,639 Speaker 1: to see why she hasn't gotten back to you, and 55 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 1: Tommy will remind me how long ago? Was a date? 56 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: About two weeks ago? Okay, okay, hang on, Tommy Broodilan 57 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: right now, hang on? Hello, Hi is Amy there? This 58 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: is Amy Amy? How are you? This is Jewel from 59 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: brook and Jewil in the Morning on Moving ninety two 60 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 1: point five. Who is it Jewbil from Moving ninety two 61 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: point five to the radio station. Uh okay, Hey, um, 62 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: you went out on a date a little while ago 63 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 1: with a guy named Tommy. Uh? Yes, I did, and 64 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: he emailed us wanting to know why you haven't gotten 65 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 1: back to him. He said, you went back to his 66 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: place and then you got kind of awkward and just split. 67 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: Well that's true. Can you tell us why? Uh uh 68 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: uh wow, I really wishally wouldn't it? Donost because it's 69 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: not like, um but here's the thing. I put this 70 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: like so that I think we're just be in a 71 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:14,119 Speaker 1: different thing. Probably you're into different things. Did you see 72 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 1: something in his apartment that made you think that he's 73 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: like weird or something? Um, actually that's exactly what I mean. 74 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,160 Speaker 1: The data itself was really good. He's a he's you know, 75 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 1: he's a really nice guy. And um, we definitely you know, hey, 76 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 1: get you what you saw in the apartment, it's killed. 77 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 1: I just I don't want to. I don't want to 78 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 1: make it seem like he's an all around bad guy. 79 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: But when when we ended up going back to his apartment, um, 80 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 1: I you know, he was in the bathroom brushing his teeth, 81 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: which I was like, okay, so that means we're gonna 82 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 1: be making out. And I was ready for that, all right. 83 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: I was just kind of looking through this his movie. 84 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: I'm laughing, just because he's going to be really embarrassed 85 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: when I say this, But he had like all of 86 00:04:56,360 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: us porn, just like now with all of us regular 87 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 1: their movies. Oh, it's like taddy shack. And then right 88 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 1: next to it is like position impossible. And I remain 89 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,559 Speaker 1: it's like maybe I saw that wrong, and I was like, no, hey, Amy, 90 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 1: hang on one second, Tommy, you don't hide your adult movies. 91 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: Oh he's on the phone. Yes, they were hit within 92 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: with all the other tvds. Amy. Yeah, Tommy is on 93 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: the phone. Um, Tommy, same to Tommy again, since you 94 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: haven't talked. Hi, Tommy, I'm so sorry that I didn't 95 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: put those away. But that I mean, it's just so no, 96 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:49,479 Speaker 1: I mean normal within a guy's apartment, I guess, yeah, 97 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 1: but none. Whatever you do like in your home is 98 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 1: your own thing. But it was like, that's like not 99 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: a first date kind of Yeah. Tell me. I normally 100 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 1: don't like to display my porn like a coffee table book, 101 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: you know. I like to put it away, especially if 102 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: I know that I've got a date that might be 103 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: coming over. I know. I I apologize. I did not 104 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: have the foe thought to hide it. Amy. I have 105 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 1: to ask, though, is that like an unforgivable thing for you. Um, 106 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: I don't want to say that it's unforgivable, but I 107 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: think honestly that I think this was. And I'm laughing 108 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 1: just because like as as like you know, openness to 109 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 1: having your porn out. But it's also like just the 110 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 1: names of the movie that was really weird too, because 111 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 1: they were like, all on, wait, so you you know 112 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: in History wasn't named weird you Actually, I just didn't 113 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 1: know that much. You know. It's just weird to see them, 114 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I will give it to them. 115 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: Everything was alphabetized and Amy, what were some of the names. 116 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: I'm just curious, Oh my god, Well I don't remember 117 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: all of them. But the one that like totally freaks 118 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 1: me out because it's on a kids movie was a 119 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: cheaty cheaty dang dang. But on the side picture, I 120 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 1: was like, that is not one that you pick it up. 121 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: You're like, oh, this is so sweet. He's got like 122 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: kids movies. He likes Disney. That's not Disney, No, no, Amy. Yeah, Now, 123 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: we'd like to offer you a second date, if you'll 124 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 1: still go out, if you'll go out with him again, 125 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: let me let me ask her, Amy, Amy I'm sorry. 126 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: I'm a normal guy. Let me take you out on 127 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 1: another date. You'll come back, drink some tea in my place. 128 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 1: There'll be no If it helps your decision, Amy, we'll 129 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: pay for the date. Um, well, you know he's he's 130 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: a really nice guy that I'll give it. And he 131 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: didn't like, you know, like trying to make any extra 132 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: like extraordinary horny moves out with him again. Yes, yes, 133 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: we're not paying for the movie rentals. Broken jewel in 134 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 1: the morning,