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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for kicking out my brides

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Speaker 1: maid for not fitting in the dress I wanted.

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Speaker 2: Not gonna lie? Uh off rip You sound like that

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Speaker 2: a hole?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it sounds like, uh, you know, you're trying

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Speaker 1: to pack a sausage into a sausage wrap. I like, oh,

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Speaker 1: there's too much. There's too much sausage in my sausage wrap.

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Speaker 1: Might as well get rid of the whole sausage. Well,

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Speaker 1: that's a perfectly good sausage that you could gobble right up, sir, everyone.

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Speaker 3: I know everyone is just going to love that.

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Speaker 4: Analogy analogies, analogies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I'm gonna I feel like I

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Speaker 1: feel like I'm gonna get a lot of hate for this.

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Speaker 1: But I had to post it anyway, by the way,

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Speaker 1: on a throwaway, because if you're gonna get hate, might

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Speaker 1: as well get hate.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm sleep So I am getting married soon.

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Speaker 1: Twenty female perrect time to get married, I guess you

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Speaker 1: know before thirty.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 1: Block it in, Lock it in, block it at that

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Speaker 1: bag And one of the most exciting parts of the

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Speaker 1: wedding for me are the brides are the are the bridesmaids,

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Speaker 1: and the dresses yeah beautiful.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't consider myself to be Bridezilla, but on my

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Speaker 1: special day, I want everything to be as perfect and

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Speaker 1: well coordinated as it possibly could be.

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Speaker 3: Sounds a little bride zilla issue.

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Speaker 4: Bridezilla. I didn't even know bridezilla as a term.

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Speaker 3: It's a show, It's a whole show.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh wow wow? Is that like is it

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Speaker 1: just like like crazy crazy brides?

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Speaker 4: Dude?

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Speaker 1: Crazy crazy, be crazy, be crazy, no matter what the situation.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like like being a uh, like being

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Speaker 1: the bride enables you to be crazier. It's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: like I get a pass because because people.

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Speaker 2: Are gonna let you do it because it's like, all right,

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Speaker 2: it's their special day once in a lifetime hopefully.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so you just let them be as crazy as possible.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: That, And like pregnancy, I feel like too pregnancy, it's

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Speaker 1: like out of jail free card.

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Speaker 2: I would say, like, like, if you're screaming at a

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Speaker 2: shop owner that they're a piece of human garbage, maybe pregnant,

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Speaker 2: Maybe the pregnancy, that's like putting ice cream on a

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Speaker 2: meat ball, sup.

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Speaker 3: Like that's that's the past that people I feel I'd give.

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Speaker 4: I feel like that sounds good, you honestly could be

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Speaker 4: okay a little little.

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Speaker 1: So about a week ago I decided to invite my

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Speaker 1: bridesmaids over so we could discuss dresses and stuff. Let's

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Speaker 1: call the bridesmaid. I had the issue. Let's call the bridesmaid.

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Speaker 1: I had the issue with Joy because that's the exact

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Speaker 1: opposite of what she was, remember Mare.

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Speaker 4: Before they came over, I already had a nice dress

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Speaker 4: in mind.

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Speaker 1: The dress was burgundy, form fitting, cut a little bit

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Speaker 1: above the knees, and had one shoulder strap because you know,

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Speaker 1: two is not sexy enough.

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Speaker 3: We keep it classy.

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Speaker 4: Hmm.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was gorgeous and very feminine for in

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Speaker 1: our age, but Joy and a couple of the other

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Speaker 1: so I let it slide. I really wanted to dress

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Speaker 1: that all the bridesmaids would love and feel comfortable in,

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Speaker 1: but they had to be the same, right, right, because

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Speaker 3: You want it to be that's the uniform.

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Speaker 4: Baby looks good. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So the next dress was still burgundy, but it touched

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Speaker 1: the floor, no slit, and it had spaghetti straps, two

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Speaker 1: of them, to be exist everybody loved the dress, except

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Speaker 1: for Joy Joy. No Joy Joy, who claimed that she

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Speaker 1: didn't want to wear the dress because she's insecure about

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Speaker 4: Be secure about your shoulders. Okay, shoulders are great, bro,

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Speaker 2: We're getting into like, uh, potentially not a whole territory.

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Speaker 4: We're we're getting cold.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she seems she seems to be. We'll see, we'll

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Speaker 1: see on what happens to anyway, fair enough, shoulder's fine.

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Speaker 1: At this point, I knew that Joy was going to

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Speaker 1: I wanted to be accommodating. I'm no bridezilla. I think

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Speaker 1: we went for five or six dresses before the last one.

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Speaker 1: The dresses I showed the bridesmaid were the dresses I

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Speaker 1: showed the bridesmaids were modest in my opinion, and little

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Speaker 1: things were what and there was just like these little

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Speaker 1: things that made Joy not want to wear them, the

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Speaker 1: complaints she always had or something like I don't like

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Speaker 1: how the dress shows the shoes, that my toes would

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Speaker 1: be out, or my hair isn't long enough to compliment

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Speaker 1: those sleeves. Yes, these are one hundred percent serious comments

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Speaker 1: made by Joy.

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Speaker 2: My toes are exposed to wear clothed tone shoes.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, bro, Come on, So the last dress

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Speaker 1: I showed them was a floor length the burgundy dress

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Speaker 1: Loose had beautiful long sleeves and the only thing that

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Speaker 4: But I don't know about that. What is that burgundy

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Speaker 2: Just like it's like a sleeveless kind of like it

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Speaker 2: looks like a like a sleeveless like black tie.

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Speaker 4: Okay, just put her put her freaking picture in there. Uh?

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Speaker 2: Was?

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Speaker 1: The only thing that stopped it from being a burgundy

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Speaker 1: Maxie dress with long sleeves was the facts, the fact

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Speaker 1: that there was a slit that.

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Speaker 4: Came up below the knee.

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Speaker 1: It honestly was my least favorite dress out of the

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Speaker 1: ones I chose, but I wanted to try to be

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Speaker 1: accommodating because I'm.

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Speaker 2: No So she literally presented her least favorite as the

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Speaker 2: option to a piece.

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Speaker 3: Joy. That's pretty reasonable.

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Speaker 1: Pretty reasonable, pretty reasonable? But oh again. Everyone seemed to

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Speaker 4: Except for can you guess who it is?

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Speaker 1: No Joy, who claimed the slit was.

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Speaker 4: A little bit too evocative for her taste. Joy sounds

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like I, I just need a tube

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Speaker 3: Just h it's around.

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Speaker 1: Wrapper and a Burgundy a rapper and like, h you

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Speaker 1: know those you know those bomb suits, so they go

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Speaker 3: Pop's kind of like a has mad.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, a wrapper and a ha Burgundy has bad suit.

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Speaker 3: Oh that kind of sounds kind of fire. Burgundy has mads.

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 1: After this, I was a little frustrated, so I said,

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Speaker 4: While the girls were leaving.

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Speaker 1: I pulled Joy aside and explained that I don't think

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Speaker 1: this aspect of the wedding meant a lapped me and

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Speaker 1: her demands were a little too nippicky laying down the law.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I still wanted her to be part of

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Speaker 1: She got upset and said I was excluding her because

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Speaker 4: Me in the dust. So am I the a hole.

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Speaker 3: Hmm, I think thus far she is not.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think thus far not the ahole. I mean, like,

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Speaker 3: It's the bride wedding.

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Speaker 2: So it's like I would understand if it was if

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Speaker 2: she had said it like, oh, I'm not comfortable with this,

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Speaker 2: and she was like no, you're done, like get out,

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Speaker 2: Like okay, that would have been reasonable. But it's like

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Speaker 2: six dresses, dresses, that's yes, too much, and she and

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Speaker 2: she she really tried. She gave you her least favorite

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Speaker 1: Offic Yeah, but there's an update. I decided to call

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Speaker 1: Joy and invite her over to talk. Luckily she said yes.

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Speaker 1: By the way, before this, she didn't say she didn't

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Speaker 1: my frustrations. She apologized for being really picky about the

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Speaker 3: Just so it's true, who the thunk?

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Speaker 1: So it wasn't really appropriate for her to get upset

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Speaker 1: Didn't matter what color. I just wanted to see her style.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I came up and told her again, I didn't mind

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Speaker 1: if she wore a shawl or color her up for

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Speaker 1: some of the moments, and she nodded and smiled again. Actually,

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Speaker 1: one of my bread's mates, who didn't really know about

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Speaker 1: she looked in the dress. I'm not gonna lie. I

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Speaker 1: shed a couple of tears because they all looked so beautiful.

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Speaker 1: So we found a dress that was matching, and all

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Speaker 1: the girls were happy with Joy is back in the

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Speaker 1: bridle party. Hope, Joy is back in the bridle party.

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Speaker 4: Hope.

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Speaker 1: This was a happy ending that everyone enjoyed. Now for me,

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Speaker 1: I have to go to plan other parts.

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Speaker 4: Of my wedding with my fiance.

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Speaker 2: Wow, dude, what what a what a beautiful, wholesome way

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Speaker 2: to end this situation. And they actually used communication. No

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Speaker 2: one lit anything on fire.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the Reddit story resolution that the people

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Speaker 1: don't want.

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Speaker 4: They want fire. Yeah, they want bride Zilla to be unleashed.

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Speaker 4: Here is freaking good.

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Speaker 2: Happy Right at the moment they found the dress and

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Speaker 2: everyone's crying, Karen comes in and just bunches their face.

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Speaker 1: See that's what the people want. They don't know what

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Speaker 1: to do with it, what to do with the happy ending,

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Speaker 1: And they had it in the face Man Rough Rough