1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,600 Speaker 1: When a guy asks if he can add me on 2 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: Snapchat right away, it's an instant no facts, So you 3 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: will show. All that means is, Hey, I want to 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: send you some pictures of something you never want to see, 5 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:12,399 Speaker 1: and then I want to bug you NonStop for pictures 6 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: of you. Yeah, that's a text we just got in 7 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 1: at four one oh six one. Because there's a trend 8 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: going viral of phrases that men say that instantly make 9 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: a woman lose interest. 10 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:23,919 Speaker 2: We'll go over it right now. 11 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 1: So if you're a guy, you can learn what not 12 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: to say to a woman, and if you're a woman 13 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: you can see if you agree text in four one 14 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: oh six to one. Is there anything that is an 15 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: instant no for you when a guy says it? But 16 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 1: here's one of the first things on the trends going 17 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: viral of phrases that men say that make a woman 18 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 1: instantly lose interest. 19 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 2: Where do you want to go on our date? 20 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 3: Oh? 21 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 1: That instantly makes a woman lose interest? 22 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? Which date is it? If it is the first day? 23 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 4: Yes? 24 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 2: Wait, why does it matter? 25 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 4: Well, because the first day I personally would like them 26 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 4: to take charge and like do that and make it 27 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 4: an adventure. 28 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 2: But like later. 29 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 4: I think it's fair for us to go back and 30 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 4: forth and decide what the dates can run. 31 00:00:59,200 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 2: Right. 32 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: Oh, it says a lot of women don't want to 33 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: be the one who decides everything for the date or 34 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: go to their favorite place. She wants you to have 35 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 1: a plan. Yeah, so instead of going where do you 36 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: want to go on a date? 37 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 5: Go? 38 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 2: You're coming with me to chuck e cheese. It's hot though. 39 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 4: When you get you get Here's what usually happens though. 40 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 2: You say, here's what we're gonna do, here's how we're 41 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 2: gonna do it. 42 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: And they're like, yeah, but no, that's that's after you've 43 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: been in a relationship a while. You're like, no, you 44 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: know what she's been on me about making decisions. I 45 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: want to make a decision. We're gonna go to this restaurant. 46 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:41,919 Speaker 1: Ew I don't want to go there. What is another 47 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: phrase that will instantly make a woman lose interest? If 48 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: a man says you're so beautiful, apparently that's one that 49 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: makes women lose interest. 50 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 2: Nina, you agree with that. 51 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 4: No, I don't, But again, context, at what point if 52 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 4: you're texting me good morning beautiful every day, that does 53 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 4: make me lose interest? If You're sitting across from me, 54 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 4: staring into my eyes, and all of a sudden, you're 55 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 4: so mesmerized and you say you're so beautiful. 56 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, what I thought? 57 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 5: That list is not talking about looking into your eyes. 58 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:14,839 Speaker 1: So it says there's nothing wrong with giving a woman 59 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 1: a compliment. But when you say something like you're so beautiful, 60 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 1: it sounds like you're putting her on a pedestal. Yeah, 61 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: the key to giving a compliment is to say with confidence, 62 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: not like she's above you and you're below her. So, hey, 63 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 1: you're just as beautiful as I am. Is that what 64 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:33,519 Speaker 1: I'm saying? 65 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 2: I wouldn't like it. 66 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 3: There's a new trend of girls if they get that 67 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,839 Speaker 3: comment right, like you're so beautiful, girl, tell me how 68 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 3: challenge because it is a generic phrase, it really is. 69 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 3: It's such a broad like you're you're so great. 70 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're pretty, you're beautiful. 71 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: But I like that, ask how you could instantly see 72 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: some guys you're a headlights. 73 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 2: I like that idea brus and then you know what 74 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 2: they're true. 75 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 4: But then that could be a total turn off. 76 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: What is another phrase that a guy can say to 77 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: a woman that will instantly make her lose interest. 78 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:22,079 Speaker 2: Can I buy you a drink? Is also on there. 79 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 2: Really that doesn't make me lose interest on it. 80 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 5: I think it's the way you have to do it, like, 81 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 5: just buy me a drink, don't ask, I'll take a drink. 82 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 2: Do it well? I would assume you walk. Can I 83 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 2: buy you a drink? 84 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 3: Yeah? 85 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have thought that would be one that would 86 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: instantly be a turnoff for women, But I guess it 87 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,119 Speaker 1: is says there's nothing wrong with buying woman a drink, 88 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: even if you just met her, but using it as 89 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: your conversation starter is not a good idea. 90 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 2: Oh that's a perfect conversation starter. I'll say yes every time. 91 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 2: I mean, I've used it too. 92 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 3: I think you got to say hey, I totally have. 93 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 3: I think you got to say your name first. You 94 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 3: gotta be like, hey, I'm Brad. 95 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 2: Can I buy you a drink? 96 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: Oh? 97 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 4: No, I think I like I like the asking if 98 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 4: you can buy me a drink first, and then we'll 99 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 4: talk and then say your name, because sometimes you just 100 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 4: want the drink and you don't. 101 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 2: Want to talk. Yeah, but then I feel bad. 102 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 5: I can take the drink if I'm not going to 103 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 5: like real smooth operator. 104 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 2: You're gonna pay attention to what she's drinking. You're gonna 105 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 2: order it. You're gonna hand it to her and say 106 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 2: I bought you a drink that would make me feel 107 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 2: like you drugged me. 108 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like, that's why I would 109 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: want to do that. 110 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, don't. I wouldn't do it that way. You gotta ask, you, 111 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 4: gotta be there. You got to watch the bartender. But 112 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 4: otherwise I think you're gonna roofy me. 113 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 3: Okay, next level, you go, Hey, I noticed what you 114 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 3: were drinking. 115 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 2: I ordered yours. He's making it right there and then leave. 116 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's not made yet. That's weird. It's he 117 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 2: just comes off kind of weird. Yeah, does it? Yeah, 118 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: because that means you were watching me. 119 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 4: Yeah. 120 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 2: I think you're gonna get me so beautiful. Where do 121 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 2: you want to go on the first day? 122 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: That's going viral of things that insight to women. That 123 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 1: does an instant turn off. Can I kiss you? Asking 124 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: for a kiss? 125 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 5: I like that too, So I don't like that one. 126 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:09,280 Speaker 5: Don't ask me because then I'm gonna get in my 127 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 5: head about it too. So just kiss me if you're 128 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 5: gonna kiss me. I don't want any questions. 129 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 4: I think it's hotter when you just kiss me, but 130 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 4: I'm turned off if you lass. 131 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 2: Really is it in the way that you do it? Maybe? Yes, 132 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 2: it's all of this is in the way that you write. 133 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 2: All of this is he hord or not? That is 134 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 2: all very true. Yeah, all of this is solved if 135 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 2: you're not well. Hot is in the eye of the beholder. Sure, 136 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 2: but that doesn't really change what I'm saying. You're beautiful. 137 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: Can I buy you a drink? And then can I 138 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: kiss you? 139 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:40,119 Speaker 2: I don't hate