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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hey gross, Hey, you're like full of vinegar, as my

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Speaker 2: dad would say. My dad used to say that. Did

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Speaker 2: your parents ever say that?

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Speaker 3: No, no, all I heard the piss. It would be

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Speaker 3: like pissing my cheerios.

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Speaker 1: But that's we were allowed to say pissed.

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Speaker 3: So no. Oh wow, really yeah, bad word. I think

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Speaker 3: I knew what piss like.

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Speaker 1: I remember saying it didn't go well.

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Speaker 2: God.

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Speaker 3: Jay said something in the car the other day we

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Speaker 3: were driving, Oh what was it? It involved a swear

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Speaker 3: word and I was like, oh, nope, I can't say that.

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Speaker 3: I think it was as word. But because I'm really

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Speaker 3: trying not to swear in front of them.

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Speaker 2: I know, shocker. I'm proud of you for that's great.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Is it Kristen today at the show? Or

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Speaker 2: is it Keith? Is it Chris? Guys? What is this?

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Speaker 2: Every time? Is that what it is? When you is

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Speaker 2: your voice?

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Speaker 1: It's laryn jinis.

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Speaker 3: Every time I hear it, think a laryngitis. I think

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Speaker 3: of walk the line, which's like I can't come out.

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Speaker 1: I got the Larry and johnis.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I am just We have a guest today

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Speaker 3: that Catherine and I went and had dinner with in

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Speaker 3: New York Lindsay Hubbard And did you end up watching

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Speaker 3: because you had never I'd never watched somewhere else either.

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Speaker 3: We Actually it's a really funny story how her and

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Speaker 3: I met. We met last March at the iHeart Awards

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Speaker 3: and she was sitting with her then fiance and I

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Speaker 3: was just so sweet and cute and bubbly, and we

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Speaker 3: were obviously seat mate, so we sat next to each

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Speaker 3: other and seat mates.

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Speaker 2: And been hanging out with Allen.

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Speaker 3: I know, everyone says mate now and the families just

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Speaker 3: we just go with the like thanks mate. That sounds

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Speaker 3: Australian anyways, really bad at.

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Speaker 2: Accent, real bad so but she was really sweet. So

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Speaker 2: we became Instagram friends and then we were in New.

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Speaker 3: York for book tour and I was like, hey, Catherine,

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Speaker 3: We're going out to dinner with this girling Lindsay.

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Speaker 2: She's like, wait, what what?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: Who?

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Speaker 4: What? When?

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Speaker 2: Catherine and I are going to start our own spinoff

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Speaker 2: podcast about the dates we've been on with like friends

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Speaker 2: with you like.

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Speaker 1: You always are, You're like, how about when she's like, hey, this.

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Speaker 2: Girl comes and like sees us at Wine Down, she's

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Speaker 2: going to come on stage, and also can she stay

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Speaker 2: in her hotel room? And I'm like, that's funny.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So we went and had dinner and it was

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Speaker 3: funny because again I've never watched the show Summer House

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Speaker 3: and you didn't either, but it was interesting. I want

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Speaker 3: to bring this up to her. This isn't at by

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Speaker 3: all means talking behind because obviously we're going to talk

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Speaker 3: to her. But she had said she felt very blindsided.

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Speaker 3: So then Catherine about the the engagement being called off.

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Speaker 3: So then Catherine dms me the preview yes, So I

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Speaker 3: was like, oh, I cannot wait, I'm watching. Is it

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Speaker 3: not out yet?

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Speaker 2: I haven't.

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Speaker 3: I obviously have not watched it either. If I don't, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I don't think it is either there maybe, but the

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Speaker 3: preview was she was like I feel so no, no, yeah, go.

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Speaker 1: Ahead, he says, yeah, I know she's gonna say that

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Speaker 1: she felt blindsided, and he's like.

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Speaker 2: I feel so blindsided. So actually it's out.

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Speaker 3: It's out right now, premiered, it premieres, it'll be out

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Speaker 3: while we when this is an era.

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Speaker 2: So Preston's emotionally invested because Preston was on Summer House,

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Speaker 2: and he met Lindsay and Carl on Summer House, and

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Speaker 2: he too feels blindside because he's emotionally invested, which he

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Speaker 2: usually wouldn't be, and he was like, I I just

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Speaker 2: thought they were a great couple. I remember them being

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Speaker 2: I only know Lindsay as the one that wore assless chaps. Well,

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Speaker 2: my husband was performing on Summer House, so I can't

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Speaker 2: wait to get on with Lindsay Yanks. But before we

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Speaker 2: get her own on how is Aruba? You're here? You

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Speaker 2: were not it taken? I was not taken, and so

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Speaker 2: you voice memoed me or sent me a memo. I

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Speaker 2: just was making sure you weren't. You're like how we

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Speaker 2: do in BF, Like you're doing great? And I it

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Speaker 2: was literally within and I'm not even exaggerating thirty seconds

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Speaker 1: Just all said, that's such a Jana thing to do.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I think I think I've hit my max,

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Speaker 2: like and we're all done here. And Janna sent me

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Speaker 2: a message literally within thirty seconds and was like you're

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Speaker 2: And I was like, and there's my sign to say,

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Speaker 2: yeah good.

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Speaker 1: So are you gonna leave like a.

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Speaker 2: Day early or like an hour? Such a long travel

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Speaker 2: day to get there, it would have been kind of

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Speaker 2: silly to even cut it shorter, because for sure you

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Speaker 2: only had two full days there anyways. Yeah, but it is.

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Speaker 2: It felt very far because the travel day was so long. Sure,

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Speaker 2: but Aruba is so magical? Is it? The women to

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Speaker 2: go are incredible? Like it just it was really special.

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Speaker 2: I think it's one of those rare kind of you know,

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Speaker 2: when you hear people vacation, they feel like they can't

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Speaker 2: rare places where people feel super safe to go explore

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Speaker 2: a little bit. And there's this like beautiful downtown they have,

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Speaker 2: and it was super fun and great restaurants and everyone

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Speaker 2: just felt really great and safe. Love it. Yeah, really

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Speaker 2: really special people, right women. I really enjoyed them talking

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Speaker 2: with them. I like learning. I asked them a lot

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Speaker 2: about what they think about Americans. It was fun. I

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Speaker 2: like playing that game. I was like, no offense taken,

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Speaker 2: what do you think about us? And she was like well,

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Speaker 2: I was like, it's okay, be honest with me, Sheila,

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Speaker 2: shoot to me straight, shela lover, and now it's your turn.

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Speaker 2: I mean I or you can'tl.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 3: But you know it's like that you get that anxiety.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, what can I come up with that would

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Speaker 3: just be well because the last time, because I had said,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I've never been on a vacation with Alan

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Speaker 3: because obviously the last like what about babeyman, I'm like

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Speaker 3: a vacation. Also, like I love but don't count to

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Speaker 3: me kind of like you want to be able to

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Speaker 3: like drink a glass of red wine and sure, yeah,

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Speaker 3: but no I'm looking forward to it. But uh, there's

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Speaker 3: a lot kind of going on. I got offered a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you actually got off too. I'm just saying, right, sorry,

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Speaker 1: I can't wait till whether when you take them both

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Speaker 1: or not. You got two offers. I'm just saying, see,

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Speaker 1: I told.

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Speaker 2: You this is your year.

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Speaker 3: Well, well it's but it's like the logistical moving pieces,

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Speaker 3: like we were going to maybe do both, but then

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Speaker 3: it's then I just wouldn't be I'd be await from

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Speaker 3: the kids too much, and so.

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Speaker 2: Can we get the kids to you. Let's talk about this.

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Speaker 3: It's been really challenging thing, too challenging. I need both movies, Cramer,

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Speaker 3: it's your year.

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Speaker 1: And that's what I said. I was like, we could

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Speaker 1: do both.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you need both.

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Speaker 3: We can't. It's too hard, but it's okay. I think

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Speaker 3: I'm going to take the one and then hope for

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Speaker 3: just another one maybe down the line.

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Speaker 2: I still want to just have my two cent chat

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Speaker 2: about it before you take it off the table.

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Speaker 3: I know she's like your manager or whatever. But I

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Speaker 3: was reading the script last night. You guys, this is

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Speaker 3: it's an insane, crazy true story.

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Speaker 2: Can you tell us? Is it like drama? Is it funny?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, it's like I told Alan last night.

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Speaker 3: When I finished it, I shut my computer and I

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Speaker 3: just took like a really deep breath and he's like,

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Speaker 3: you're right. I'm like, I don't even this is it's

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Speaker 3: so emotionally. I mean, there's a lot that happens in it,

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Speaker 3: like I don't know if I can actually I don't

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Speaker 3: those old feelings.

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Speaker 2: Oh you'll dig in, but I don't know if I

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Speaker 2: want to. But I think you could maybe make it

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Speaker 2: mean something to somebody else. I coach you, but I

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Speaker 1: You are able to really dig in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh good, and we're.

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Speaker 4: Well dig.

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Speaker 2: I really just it's so funny. And I'm not just

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Speaker 2: we're so supportive. We are supportive, but Preston and I

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Speaker 2: watch TV all the time and we're like, Jianna could

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Speaker 2: why isn't Cramer doing this? But we mean it. So

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Speaker 2: I get excited for this and I'm ready for you

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Speaker 2: to dig in and I'm ready for you to bring

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Speaker 3: And that second movie is it'd be really fun. But

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Speaker 3: and I think it's just good because that last loss,

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Speaker 3: that one show that I didn't get.

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Speaker 2: But it's fine. Everything happens for a reason.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 2: But I was like the worst for like three days.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't even know why you're with me.

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Speaker 2: I'm just so I'm terrible address if you were one

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Speaker 2: of it, like to do he's like one of two,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, it doesn't matter. I married you. I'm

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Speaker 2: just so easy to I did this is Preston. It's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I just didn't get Why did I even try? And

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, I'll give it a solid forty eight.

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Speaker 2: We'll get you back on track. Here's a glass of one. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we're okay. Literally in two days, I'm like, all right,

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Speaker 2: well we go back to the drug board. And then

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Speaker 2: when you guys let the switch, it's so quick that

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Speaker 2: I'm like, wait, oh, we're over there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was still daring, and it's a very like line.

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Speaker 1: It's like hard to say. I'm like, is she still there?

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Speaker 1: Is she not there? Do I go there with? Or Nope?

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Speaker 1: We stay happy? Like it's like where do we go?

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Speaker 1: What do we do?

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Speaker 2: Sometimes Kat will give me faces as if I need

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Speaker 2: to prepare myself if we're going through something we as a.

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Speaker 3: Trio, it doesn't have The last time I got that

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Speaker 3: low was when I auditioned for Kurt Sutter and I

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Speaker 3: got really close on Minds. It was between me and

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Speaker 3: like two or three girls on that project and it's

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Speaker 3: that's been the since that role. This has been that

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Speaker 3: close to like an incredible project and to where I

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Speaker 2: Well that was five years ago. It's taken me five

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Speaker 2: years to get here.

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Speaker 3: And but it either way, it's it's an accomplishment to

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't feel leading it with straight talk

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Speaker 5: Yes, if you sign up for the Silver Unlimited plan boom.

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Speaker 3: Well, thank you for raising awareness for taxes because it is.

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Speaker 3: you know, even like it wasn't you weren't you know,

439
00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:00,280
Speaker 3: you were involved in you know, maybe in my but

440
00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 3: also in your own stuff. Like it's to have to

441
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:05,159
Speaker 3: relive that and then have to watch that. That's the

442
00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,960
Speaker 3: element to the watching piece, Like I wouldn't want to

443
00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 3: have to watch that. And I think something that we

444
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 3: were talking about before the show when we had dinner

445
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,959
Speaker 3: in you know, New York, You're like I was blindsided.

446
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 3: And then of course when we saw the trailer, I

447
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:21,600
Speaker 3: was like, oh my gosh, like I wanted to somehow

448
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 3: jump through the thing because when he said, he's like,

449
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 3: she's going to say she feels blindsided, and You're like

450
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:28,399
Speaker 3: I felt blindsided, and I'm like, wait what, And so

451
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:32,000
Speaker 3: it's like, do you just want to like have a

452
00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 3: conversation with him to be like I was, or like

453
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:35,280
Speaker 3: to defend yourself.

454
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

455
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 5: I mean I don't like when someone else tries to

456
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,399
Speaker 5: tell you how you should should or should not feel,

457
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 5: you know, and especially when a man tells a woman

458
00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:50,720
Speaker 5: how they felt. It just is like, really it irks

459
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 5: me and I find it to be really icky.

460
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:55,400
Speaker 4: Here's the thing.

461
00:21:55,520 --> 00:22:00,200
Speaker 5: I mean, two weeks before the breakup was my bridal shower, and.

462
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,640
Speaker 4: He came to that bridal shower with.

463
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 5: Flowers and you know, was crying and was just so

464
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:10,200
Speaker 5: happy that, oh my gosh, like this is my fiance

465
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 5: and we're gonna get married in two months. That was

466
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 5: also around the time of my birthday, and he was

467
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:20,400
Speaker 5: posting on Instagram like, oh my gosh, Lindsey, happy birthday,

468
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 5: the love of my life, you know, my partner in crime,

469
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:26,440
Speaker 5: my best friend. I can't wait to marry you in

470
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 5: one hundred days. And then two weeks later, he's calling

471
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:32,040
Speaker 5: off the wedding and we're breaking.

472
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 2: Up, like any girl would be blended, and that you were, what,

473
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:37,680
Speaker 2: like nothing.

474
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:43,159
Speaker 5: Was that crazy to reach a level of breaking up

475
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 5: or calling off a wedding, you know, unless unless he

476
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:52,440
Speaker 5: was thinking about it well beforehand, and in which case,

477
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 5: you know, then you're kind of you're bringing in elements

478
00:22:56,320 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 5: of you know, there's a massive disrespect, you know, is there?

479
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 4: Did he ever really love me? You know?

480
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 5: And and this is not just my romantic partner right

481
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:13,920
Speaker 5: that I'm gonna get married to in two months. This

482
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:19,360
Speaker 5: was my best friend of eight years. And that I

483
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:22,919
Speaker 5: think is what hurts the most is the lack of

484
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 5: love and respect and empathy and communication for your best

485
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:36,159
Speaker 5: friend and you know, not and not blindsiding her like that.

486
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 5: So I think you know that that's what like hit

487
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 5: the hardest, is you know, the way it all went

488
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 5: down and how he ended things was just so abrupt,

489
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 5: and you know, I wound up in this situation where

490
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 5: I was in survival mode because I'm like, whoa, I

491
00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 5: was just like spent the last year planning a wedding

492
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 5: and spending a lot of money planning that wedding. I

493
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 5: was having multiple conversations about, you know, if we want

494
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,439
Speaker 5: to buy a house, we need to financially plan for

495
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 5: buying a house.

496
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 4: And if we want to have a.

497
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 5: Family, and he and that's something that he has talked

498
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 5: about multiple times, is like, yeah, he wants marriage and family.

499
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, well you need a plan for that.

500
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,919
Speaker 5: So I was doing all of this planning for the

501
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 5: two of us, you know, for this future, and then

502
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 5: all of a sudden, the rug was ripped out from

503
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 5: underneath me, and I was like, whoa, what just happened?

504
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 4: And how did we get here? Yeah?

505
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 3: I mean I think and that's so unfair too for

506
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 3: the to be in that situation because you're now questioning

507
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 3: your own reality, your sanity, you're all of it, and

508
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 3: so you're just like what did I And then you go, well,

509
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 3: what did I do wrong? That's at least where I

510
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 3: would go like like what did I do?

511
00:24:58,560 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 4: You know?

512
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,199
Speaker 2: I don't understand? To not understand something and then to

513
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 2: be able like how do you have closure when you

514
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 2: don't understand this? Kind of that would be tough.

515
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, and especially when there was no real explanation.

516
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 4: So I mean, maybe when I rewatch some of.

517
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 5: These episodes this season, all have a better understanding and

518
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 5: can connect the dots a little bit more. But yeah,

519
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 5: it was I wound up finding closure on my own.

520
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:30,199
Speaker 5: I sat with my girlfriends for weeks and we just

521
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 5: it was one of those situations where you just put

522
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 5: everything on the table and then you know, your detective

523
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 5: hats and you know, we you know how girls are, Like,

524
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 5: we get together and we're like, all right, let's figure out.

525
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:45,880
Speaker 3: Out where was a flag I might have missed. Okay,

526
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 3: here's a flag. I'm here's something I might have missed. Like,

527
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 3: is that something for you that you're okay, I missed

528
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 3: that piece.

529
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's the realization came pretty quickly, you know, in

530
00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:00,919
Speaker 5: the first couple of weeks after the breakup, that I

531
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:05,159
Speaker 5: realized I was so in love with Carl that I

532
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 5: had these blinders on to any red flags that he has.

533
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 5: And and yeah, so now that I'm single, I'm trying

534
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,360
Speaker 5: not to have those blinders on anymore. And you know,

535
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 5: there's a it's been it's been an experience. I have

536
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 5: to be honest with you, you.

537
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 3: Know, I mean, we've exchanged some texts. Obviously we'll keep

538
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 3: those private, but you know where it's almost like I

539
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 3: still feel like you got to expand the blinders a

540
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:33,119
Speaker 3: little bit more though, Oh.

541
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, there, I definitely still have to expand those blinders

542
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 5: because what I've been running into is like these men who.

543
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,360
Speaker 2: Love they're not men. Name, they're not men.

544
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, these boys, you're right, you're right, these boys they

545
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 5: love bomb and then all of a sudden they're like,

546
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,679
Speaker 5: oh oops, I you know, I'm not ready and I

547
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:54,359
Speaker 5: don't know what I want and this and that, and

548
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 5: you're just like, bro, like you just love bombed me.

549
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 5: And then they are the ones that freak out and

550
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 5: are like I'm so sorry, like you know, I'm not

551
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 5: ready to be in a relationship, and I'm like okay,

552
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 5: all good, no problem, and they're like okay, is that okay?

553
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 5: And I'm like, yeah, I will be just fine if

554
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 5: I can get through like the most you know, public thing,

555
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 5: you know, the most traumatic thing in my adult life

556
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 5: in such a public way. If I can get through that,

557
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 5: then yes, I can get through you love bombing me

558
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 5: for a month and then disappearing.

559
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 2: Do you find yourself being like extra guarded? I mean,

560
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 2: I'd assume a little bit right because lindsay, we're talking

561
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 2: eight years. This isn't like a dude you just met

562
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 2: and you're like, I think I'll get married, Like this

563
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 2: isn't a decision you made in a day. And then

564
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 2: to get that close to the wedding, it's like, well,

565
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:59,159
Speaker 2: so then when you go to date again, are you

566
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 2: just listen? I have to tell you. So I was

567
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 2: divorced before you actually met my husband. He played at

568
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 2: a Summerhouse episode. He's half of Low Cash.

569
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 4: Okay, all right?

570
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so when I met Preston, I was like,

571
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 2: all dudes, no friends. I just was like, all dudes suck.

572
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 2: Like I don't like the gender. I'm not a big

573
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:18,639
Speaker 2: fan of you guys. I think you all kind of

574
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 2: operate the same. And so I was so guarded and

575
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,640
Speaker 2: even still We've been together for nine years, and there's

576
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 2: times where I'm so severely independent because I'm just like, ah,

577
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 2: you never know, like that kind of feeling like do

578
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 2: you do you even anticipate feeling like you could marry

579
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 2: someone else again someday?

580
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 4: Yeah? I hope.

581
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 5: So, I mean I think that the I pivoted right,

582
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 5: and in a way that no, to answer your question,

583
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:52,239
Speaker 5: I don't feel guarded. I feel like Carl, you know,

584
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 5: after all was said and done, what was supposed to

585
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 5: be a future with somebody wound up being him, stealing

586
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 5: two very critical years of my life. And I just

587
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 5: remember the whole time thinking, oh my god, thank god,

588
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 5: I froze my eggs because I was with Carl from

589
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 5: thirty five to thirty seven, like those are prime time

590
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 5: years now. Of course, you know, if we were to

591
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 5: get married and have a baby, which I thought I

592
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 5: would maybe be pregnant by.

593
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 4: This summer, like that's what I thought was going to happen.

594
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 5: So he took some critical years of my life, and

595
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 5: I refuse to allow him to take my spirit and

596
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 5: my energy and the love that I still have to give,

597
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 5: because I have a lot of love to give. And

598
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 5: if I fall down, I fall down, and I'm such

599
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 5: a strong girl, you know, and can get through a

600
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 5: lot of wild stuff that you know, I always, I

601
00:29:58,560 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 5: always know that I'll land on my feet.

602
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 4: So if I get hurt, I get hurt.

603
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 2: That's the best place to be the girl, you know,

604
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 2: because to just end up being Jate, I mean, I

605
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 2: could have been like I'm never going to love anybody ever.

606
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 3: But that's not fair. I don't My ex doesn't get

607
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 3: to win. He doesn't get to break my heart and

608
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 3: then and then leave me like this or leave me broken. No, no, Like,

609
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 3: I still believe, you know, I still believe in love.

610
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 3: I always say I have a lot of love to give, like,

611
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 3: and I'm going to find the right person to give

612
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 3: that love too. I just made a mistake and gave

613
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 3: it to the wrong the wrong boy, you know. I

614
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 3: find me a Scottish man right.

615
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 2: And also, for what it's worth, there's a couple of

616
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 2: forty year old moms over here that were we just

617
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 2: had babies.

618
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 3: So you want time, So that's what I So someone

619
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 3: reached out to me about someone we know that maybe

620
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 3: repeated something that was done to me. And so I'll

621
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 3: let you figure that one out.

622
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: That's easy.

623
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 2: Lost. I'm always lost. And you know, she's just like,

624
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be single forever. I'm you know, thirty six

625
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 2: years old or whatever. And and I'm like, listen, the

626
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 2: biggest piece of advice, do you not settle? Like I

627
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 2: know you want kids, but I'm like you, I'm like again,

628
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 2: forty forty one, Like, I'm like you will find your person,

629
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 2: and I promise you do not want kids at the

630
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 2: wrong person. You just don't.

631
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 4: No, no for sure.

632
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 5: And and when everything was said and done, I truly

633
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 5: feel like, you know, the universe did me a solid

634
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 5: and stepped in at the right time. Before you know,

635
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 5: it got to even more attachments such as marriage and kids.

636
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,719
Speaker 5: That's why I'm so adamant about talking about, you know,

637
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 5: fertility preservation because you know, yes, we are having as women,

638
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 5: we're having kids at a later age, and you know,

639
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 5: it's becoming more societal. You know, society is accepting that more.

640
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 5: And thank God, because you know I've I tend to

641
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 5: put my career first. I always have, and you know,

642
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 5: I also to your point, don't I don't want that

643
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 5: to be the pressure that makes me choose poorly the

644
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 5: next time, you know, so take the pressure off, freeze

645
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 5: the eggs, and you know, make the right decisions.

646
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 4: So I could not agree more.

647
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, amen to that.

648
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 3: Is there anything that you because obviously you have at

649
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 3: these events, last question about him, because then he's not

650
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 3: worth the breath of this, But is there anything that

651
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 3: you'd want to say to him? Is there, like you

652
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 3: do you have that Charlotte moment in Sex and the

653
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 3: City where you've got that one thing you want to

654
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 3: say to big Yes.

655
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Speaker 5: I think the only thing I really want to know,

656
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 5: and it was a question that my girlfriends and I

657
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 5: just really sat around and asked over and over and over,

658
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 5: is why would you ever propose to somebody if you

659
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 5: weren't prepared to commit to a forever. I don't think

660
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 5: he was, you know, connecting the dots that when you propose,

661
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 5: that means like you're choosing this person for forever.

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Speaker 4: Because there was really nothing that like that crazy that happened.

663
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 5: You know, for it to end, and the way that

664
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 5: it's dead, like no one cheated.

665
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 4: There wasn't like this big.

666
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 5: Moment of of you know, there's no like financial there's

667
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 5: no stealing, no one's murdering anyone, like nothing crazy.

668
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,959
Speaker 4: I mean, there's plenty of reasons why people break up.

669
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 4: I'm not saying cheating by it.

670
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: No, but I mean to your to your point though,

671
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 2: like I don't know, and I'm just because because you

672
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 2: can relate that, right, So I could say, let's just

673
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 2: say to Mike, why.

674
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 3: Would you marry me? Why would you you know, cheat

675
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 3: on me right before we got married? Than cheat afterwards

676
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 3: why we even get married, Like, why would you why

677
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 3: then marry me? I don't I don't understand. I don't

678
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 3: think you'll ever get an answer because they don't even

679
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 3: know why.

680
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 2: They they're just like, yeah, I want you know. I'm like,

681
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 2: why did you cheat a few months after we got married?

682
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just they don't. They do like,

683
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 2: there's no answer. I don't think you're ever going to get.

684
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 2: And that's where I almost want to like release you

685
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 2: from that answer. Or yeah, I don't think you'll ever

686
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 2: You'll never understand it and you'll never get the answer

687
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 2: that will be like, oh, okay, that makes sense. Well,

688
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 2: you're also counting on that person being a whole person

689
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 2: and a healed person enough to know themselves to then

690
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 2: know why. And I just don't think any of us

691
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 2: can count on that either.

692
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, until until the Yeah, until the healing has been done.

693
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, and by then you're seven kids in with your

694
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,720
Speaker 2: handsome new husband and you're like, Carl, what what's Carl?

695
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: Oh?

696
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 3: Okay, so you you got a house in Nashville because

697
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 3: you're you're airbnbing it.

698
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:34,240
Speaker 4: Yeah totally.

699
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 2: I mean you're just like you're doing it all such

700
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 2: a boss. I love it. I know what else? What

701
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 2: else can? How can else?

702
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:40,359
Speaker 4: Can?

703
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 3: Our listeners follow along with you got Summerhouse? That's out

704
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 3: right now?

705
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 5: Yeah, we have Summerhouse every Thursday on Bravo. We have

706
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 5: If you want to rent my house in Nashville, go

707
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:56,279
Speaker 5: to hub House Nashville dot com or just go to

708
00:34:56,320 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 5: my Instagram at Lynn's hubs. And if you need more

709
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 5: tax deals then go to straight talk dot com.

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Speaker 2: I love it well, Lindsay love you. I'm going to

711
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 2: be in New York in March, so if you're there,

712
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 2: let's okay, Well good, maybe I can have a drink

713
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 2: this time.

714
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 4: Are you bringing your baby?

715
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 2: No, it's just a one night trip.

716
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 5: All right, we'll textfully hopefully I'm not in Nashville when

717
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 5: you're in probably switch in the air.

718
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 3: All right, Well we'll figure it out. But yeah, we'll

719
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 3: get together and yeah, chat it all up. Okay, all right,

720
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 3: thanks for chatting bye girl.

721
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Speaker 2: Guys.

722
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:37,280
Speaker 3: It's just so hard when you want because I wanted

723
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 3: to know what if she was going to say something

724
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 3: to him, and because I had Obviously we all have

725
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,359
Speaker 3: those questions when you break up with someone, like why

726
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 3: or you know what happened? But it's the answers are

727
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 3: never going to fulfill you. You're never going to get

728
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:52,800
Speaker 3: the answer that clicks.

729
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: Well, I wonder if he's going to give answers on

730
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,720
Speaker 1: the show and like interviews and stuff.

731
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 2: I wonder how much of this is the production piece moving.

732
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 2: I don't I would see that more on his future

733
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 2: saying I think on his side. Yeah, Like she's like,

734
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 2: you don't have to like one of the things she

735
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 2: said us at dinner, She's like, he didn't have to

736
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 2: have the cameras.

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00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:18,800
Speaker 3: He called the cameras. Yeah, remember that. So that seems

738
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 3: a little production y's. But I also, I'm going to

739
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 3: stop that. I'm gonna I'm not just going to put

740
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 3: it all on Carl. I'm going to say that was

741
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 3: it sounds like a very producer move, because the producer

742
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 3: would want.

743
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 2: That to be on tape. Yeah, obviously, And if you

744
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 2: are proposing to someone, I'm just giving gracious assumption, like

745
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 2: maybe you'd want that memory forever too, So that could

746
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,760
Speaker 2: be really cool. I mean, they met there, why wouldn't

747
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 2: they do it all there? Oh right? You know, like

748
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,320
Speaker 2: if you've met on Summer House, why wouldn't you propose

749
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 2: on Summer house and yeah, summerhouse life. You know, it's

750
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:51,959
Speaker 2: part of their story. Yeah, I just wonder.

751
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:53,840
Speaker 1: I feel like he's going to give more to the

752
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: camera that she wasn't even now I know, I want

753
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 1: to know what. I don't like that it was all production,

754
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 1: but I get it to show, so I guess that's

755
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 1: part of it.

756
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 2: But yeah, you signed a lot of papers that say

757
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 2: you have to be in on the inside. That's what

758
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 2: makes us all watch. Yeah, Unfortunately, it's gonna make me

759
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:15,919
Speaker 2: tune in. I have to pee also act, no matter

760
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 2: where I am at any point, I have to pee.

761
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 2: All right, girls, see you next week, hopefully with the tan.

762
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Speaker 1: Bye.

763
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 2: You're born with the tan. Get out of here.