1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Stephane 2 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: Never Told your production of iHeart Radio. Yes, and welcome 3 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: to today's episode. Annie. I'm gonna go ahead and start 4 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 1: off with a question. Are you ready? I hope so, yeah, 5 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: I hope you are too. Here we go. So, Annie, 6 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: you are in the world of acting, your nectar, and 7 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:34,559 Speaker 1: so that makes me ask when you were growing up, 8 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: was it something that you wanted to do a and be? 9 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:41,879 Speaker 1: If so, who, if you had any were some of 10 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: the actresses that you looked up to? Well, good question. 11 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 1: I have always wanted to act, but I also suffer 12 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: from uh, pretty strong anxiety, performance anxiety, and shyness. So 13 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: I was really bad at it. I'll just be honest 14 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 1: with me, Like every now and then, you if I 15 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: could get past those nerves, then it would be great. 16 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: But usually I'd be up there like four years old, 17 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: like like shaking, visibly shaking. And it was so it 18 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 1: was a strange thing that I dreaded and loved. And 19 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: I have some performance since I look back on and 20 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: they gave me great shame. They eat my cheeks with shame. Um. 21 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: I have auditions that I'm like, please, for the love 22 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: of everything. I hope this never gets out because it's terrible, 23 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: Like I have a panic attack in the middle of one, 24 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: Like I hurt myself during a performance once because my 25 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,479 Speaker 1: character like fell asleep. She was supposed to fall asleep 26 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: in the middle and I just like slammed my head 27 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:39,639 Speaker 1: on the table and it was supposed to be funny, 28 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: and I just remember everyone in the auditor I'm going, 29 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: oh no, we got awkward, and I had a huge 30 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: bruise on my face, like it was bad. Oh no. 31 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: So I have been doing it since I was probably 32 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: four um, and I like to think I've gotten better, 33 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: but it is still a source of nerves for me. 34 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: I was very mad tive and I liked coming up 35 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: with scenarios and I like pretending, So I think that 36 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 1: was part of it. And it's interesting for this topic 37 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: they were talking about today and for the conversation we 38 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: had with Eves recently. In her last People First, we 39 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: did UM, I didn't really the attention was not the 40 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: thing I wanted, right, So even like that is a 41 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: huge part of performance. I just wanted to like pretend 42 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 1: and act the like people looking at me part? No, right, yes, 43 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: but I did UM. Also interesting for this conversation. I 44 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: did look up to you a number of actresses, and 45 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,519 Speaker 1: Nalie Portman was a big one. After Phantom Menace came out, 46 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: I was big. I was like, oh, I want to 47 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: be like her, only enough Scarlett Johansson. But I saw 48 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: her in the Hole of Three, which was a movie 49 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:52,639 Speaker 1: I loved, and I will admit it, that's amazing to 50 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: say your actophobia. I'm not gonna lie. No. I did 51 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: watch that though, because David Arkutt was in it, and 52 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: I had a crush on David ar kid No, he 53 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: was an eight like it freaks. I'm mixing it up. No, no, no, no, 54 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 1: no no. Kate and Ashley Olson, that was they were 55 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 1: big for me, as you know. I was in their 56 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: fan club and I watched all their stuff. That's right, Yeah, 57 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 1: I think those were, I'm sure and forgetting other people, 58 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 1: but those, I think Natalie Apartment was my biggest and 59 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: in terms of like an actor that I was like, right, yes, right, 60 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 1: I love it. Well, you know, I was thinking about 61 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: all of this and I forgot until my niece, who 62 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: I just saw recently, who is in a senior in 63 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: high school and a part of drama, reminded me that 64 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: I am a part of the International Thespian Society, and 65 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, yeah, I actually did qualify for that, 66 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: didn't I Because I was also in drama and I 67 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: really loved it. And when I tell you, I have 68 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: some really horrible moments as some really horrible moments, because 69 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: as you know, my work ethic needs to push sometimes. 70 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: I like to work on the edge, and I am 71 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: one of those that has to do with last minute 72 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: or it's not gonna be good and it's going to 73 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 1: be all over the place, which is funny because it's 74 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: already kind of all over the place, but it would 75 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: be way worse in way in advance. Um. And I 76 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: did that way with my auditions, and that did not 77 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: turn out so well because middle prizes not lines like 78 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 1: ten minutes of dialogue the night before almost impossible, almost impossible. 79 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 1: Let you have one of those identic memories, and I 80 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 1: do not. I do not. So I did do this 81 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: on stage. I actually thought I was going to be 82 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:34,039 Speaker 1: an actor too. Of course, the reality of it was 83 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,039 Speaker 1: I was a chubby Asian girl. There's no way in 84 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: hell I've not seen many chubby Asian girls in general, 85 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 1: unless they are kind of the caricature, um, stereotypical characters, 86 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,239 Speaker 1: and I would never I didn't want that necessarily, although 87 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: I do enjoy being funny, so hoping like the only 88 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:52,919 Speaker 1: way I want attention is about making people laugh and 89 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 1: then I run away and hope they're not laughing at me. Um. 90 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: But yeah, actually I was thinking about that. I was like, oh, yeah, 91 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,919 Speaker 1: I actually know a little it about this world a 92 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 1: little bit. And I say this in the high school 93 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: level of a little bit, as you know my acting 94 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: these work. But why am I talking about all of this? Um? 95 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 1: When it comes to celebrities, we are fascinated, and y'all 96 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: I am fascinated. I will do a deep dive about 97 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: who is connected to whom and how they all know 98 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:23,479 Speaker 1: each other. I love playing the third degrees to Kevin Bacon, 99 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: to Givin Bacon if I can, which I never really 100 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: relate to Kevin Bacon, but third degree, three degrees? What 101 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 1: is it? Six degrees of Kevin? Damn it, I can't 102 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: even get it right there? You want to be accurate, 103 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 1: you know what? He was on the Hot Ones the 104 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: other day and I was like, I am anyway, So 105 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:49,919 Speaker 1: whether it's the projects they're in or about their personal lives. 106 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: We get invested, I really get invested, so much so 107 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 1: that it seems that their lives become public property. More 108 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: and more conversations have sparked with different controversial topics specific 109 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: to women and female celebrities, and for those whose careers 110 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 1: start at an early age even more so. So today 111 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: we wanted to look at what is happening with Hollywood, 112 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 1: especially when it comes to the young ladies. Um So 113 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: before we start, I feel like we need to do 114 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: some history right because this is what we do. And 115 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 1: I've talked a lot about the fact that I feel 116 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 1: like I'm lacking a little bit in my life when 117 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: it comes to hobbies and interests. I just kind of 118 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: gave up on a lot of things. But I realized 119 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 1: as we were researching this topic, there are so many realizations. 120 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, yeah, but I was really into 121 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 1: old school Hollywood. Like I have a lot of trivia 122 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: knowledge as well as some interesting facts and and like 123 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 1: I've seen the most obscure old old movies which you're 124 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: gonna hear me reference and it's interesting. Um, but I'm 125 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: being like old school. I loved musicals and I know 126 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: I've talked about this with Eve's actually on here because 127 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: we both really like musicals, and we'll talk about hey 128 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: have you seen this? Which she gave me one and 129 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 1: in the move it's somewhere my stuff. I need to 130 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: find it. And I didn't watch it because it's supposed 131 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: to be a delight us. And yes, I mean loved 132 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: so much so that my mother would always say that 133 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: I should have been born in the forties, which I 134 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: always countered with the fact that my career self would 135 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: have never been welcomed in the US, much less in Hollywood, 136 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: So you know, there's that. But alas, I loved it, 137 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,559 Speaker 1: loved it so much that I would watch documentaries about 138 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 1: different movie stars and movies. And also in my mind, 139 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 1: I just knew I could time travel to meet them, 140 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: like I had these fantasies one day, time traveling to 141 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 1: meet these people, which would have been in a horrible 142 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 1: mistake because a lot of people were awful people. But 143 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: when he came down to the reality, well it was ugly. 144 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 1: And the more I learned, and I think the more 145 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 1: we realized how awful it must have been for a 146 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: lot of them, especially the women, especially young women. And 147 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: I guess here we should go ahead and let you 148 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 1: know that we are going to talk a bit about 149 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: some of the trauma and traumatic experiences many of these stars, 150 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 1: including abuse, eating disorder, sexualization of young girls, and the such. So, 151 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: even though we're not going to go too heavily into 152 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,239 Speaker 1: the deep deep, we are going to talk about why 153 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:13,679 Speaker 1: this can be ugly. Yeah, and it is no longer 154 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:17,119 Speaker 1: a secret that the movie industry was not all glits 155 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: and glamour, especially for young women. Um. If you read 156 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: memoirs and on biographies on past stars like Judy Garland, 157 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: Elizabeth Taylor, Shirley Temple, I would add Carrie Fisher, um, 158 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: and so many more, we saw all this abuse that 159 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 1: young stars went through. UM, how they were treated as property, um, 160 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 1: less than human. Horror stories after horror stories of abuse 161 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 1: and harassment haunted the old movies that so many of 162 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 1: us A door. Garland told the story being so medicated 163 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: that she wasn't able to come to set on time 164 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 1: and being hospitalized thanks to studio exects and even her 165 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 1: own mother who pushed her beyond her sanity and her 166 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 1: health to become a perfect young starlet. The overall pressure 167 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:01,719 Speaker 1: on the young stars was detrimental and was coming from 168 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: all sides, including s Familey, and oftentimes the stars were 169 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: the breadwinners of the family, even America's sweetheart Shirley Temple, 170 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 1: who I also did love. Yes Um talked about the 171 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: overwhelming moments of not wanting to disappoint her mother and 172 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 1: even her father. Elizabeth Taylor, though she seemed to have 173 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:20,679 Speaker 1: a better relationship with her parents, still knew she had 174 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 1: to keep going for them and even for her fans. 175 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,319 Speaker 1: In her biography, her mother was quoted to have said, 176 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 1: but you're not a regular child, and thank God for that. 177 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 1: You have a responsibility, Elizabeth, not just to this family, 178 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: but to the country now and the whole world right 179 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 1: And honestly, it doesn't seem like it's changed much. I 180 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: think there's a little more awareness, and we tried little 181 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: see what's happening. But when it comes to the expectations 182 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 1: placed on young stars, the responsibility of building a fandom 183 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: and building a persona and helping provide for their familis 184 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 1: is still there. And for young girls, the fine line 185 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: between infantilizing and sexualizing causes even more emotional and physical stress, 186 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: which has been around from the beginning of time. When 187 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: it comes to Hollywood celebrities, and celebrities in general. In 188 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: the early memoirs of these classic Hollywood stars, there were 189 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: many who talked all of the ongoing stress of growing 190 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 1: up too fast or those who are not growing up 191 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: fast enough. Shirley Tipple's career became stagnant after her early 192 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: childhood career, as many could not see her as an 193 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: adult with an actual adult body. Um. And it may 194 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 1: have been due to the hard working machine of studio 195 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 1: publicist and media at the time, but it was odd 196 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: to know her from classics like The Little Princess to 197 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 1: seeing her in the movie That Hagen Girl, which I 198 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: have seen and it really threw me for a loop. 199 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 1: I was very young when I watched this. Of course, 200 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: Shirley Tipple was already an ambassador and has gone on 201 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 1: to live her own life. Um. But it's it started 202 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 1: her and Ronald Reagan, which at that time, I've never 203 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: seen Ronald Reagan in a movie. I knew he was 204 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 1: an actor at one point in time, but I've never 205 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: actually seen him in a movie. So that's kind of 206 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: like whoa there he is? Who was, by the way, 207 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: is seventeen years older than her during this time, so 208 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: she was nineteen and he was thirty six, and in 209 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: this he was her romantic lead. And yeah, the plot 210 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: of the movie was that he may have been her 211 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: father because she was orphaned and she was trying to 212 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 1: figure that out, but then it turned out the goodness 213 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: he wasn't because he was slowly falling in love with her, 214 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: and then they go off into the train station to 215 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 1: go get married. It was a very odd set up 216 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 1: to me, and I remember, obviously it is distinct in 217 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:30,839 Speaker 1: my mind. I'm like, this does not compute, does not compute. 218 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: But yeah, But honestly, though, even though we talked about 219 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: Shirley Templeby and fantalized and being young and trying to 220 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 1: stay young like they made her younger, they lied about 221 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 1: her age on the contract so she could continue beyond 222 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:46,559 Speaker 1: the time limit. Um. But her first film had her 223 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:49,959 Speaker 1: in an exotic bar uh during a war film called 224 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 1: War Babies. So it's kind of like, m did she did? 225 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: She actually just get thrown into that way. And Elizabeth 226 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: Taylor was sexualized at a very early age who are 227 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 1: physically developing early um and even being pushed to set 228 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 1: up be set up on fate dates to show how 229 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: quickly she was becoming a woman. So these studio execs 230 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 1: were excited that she was growing up and I like 231 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:16,079 Speaker 1: fifteen sixtaying pushed her into that genre of a quickly yeah, 232 00:12:16,160 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 1: And for that time, this type of push was accepted 233 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: and not well regulated. There were stories of separating child 234 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 1: stars from the parents so they could discipline children however 235 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 1: necessary for the movie, including locking children boxes, making them 236 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:32,319 Speaker 1: sit on blocks of ice if they were not obedient, 237 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 1: pushing actors to work beyond the regulated times, and other 238 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 1: horror stories. So much so that studies were conductative child 239 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 1: stars and performers and how they may be affected emotionally 240 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:45,440 Speaker 1: and physically by all of this. Many young girls talked 241 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 1: about how they experienced sexual harassment during their times on 242 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 1: studios and sets, and many talked about the overly strict 243 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 1: attitude of their parents pushing them into that career. And 244 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of conversation around that in 245 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 1: terms of reality TV show well, one article we found 246 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: talked about the impact of being a celebrity as a 247 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 1: child and of the impacts of the motivation of both 248 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 1: child and parents, and how that could determine a child's 249 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: experience as well as the amount of time they spent 250 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:17,199 Speaker 1: in the spotlight um environment and the child's age, and 251 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: in the same article they said, these children are at 252 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 1: high risk of becoming emotionally unstable and of becoming drug, alcohol, 253 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 1: or sex abusers. Children at different ages displayed behavioral changes 254 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 1: that might indicate that they are risk. Yeah, and it's 255 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: just that article was talking mainly about the type of 256 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 1: high risk behavior that they would have UM if they 257 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 1: were monitored, and how this could go a ride. Of course, 258 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 1: they used Drew Barrymore as an example as she was 259 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:45,559 Speaker 1: introduced to that lifestyle very young by her mother thinking 260 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: you know, her mother was thinking she can be a 261 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: cool kid UM. As well as Elizabeth Taylor being very 262 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 1: sexualized very early and being told this is her worth 263 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 1: and so her finding that as her worth UM and 264 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: trying to really capitalize on it, not only her screen 265 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:02,439 Speaker 1: life but on her personal life. So it was very 266 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 1: interesting take in that conversation. It was a fairly old article, 267 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 1: and I wonder what they would say, because you're right, 268 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: we don't even talk about reality TV and this and 269 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 1: how that changes. We do talk a little bit about 270 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: social media, so kind of on that same level, but 271 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:18,560 Speaker 1: when it comes to reality TV, what does it do? 272 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: Who does it harm and is it really healthy? Have 273 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: we seen a good example. There's a lot of questions. 274 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: The role of media has always helped to make or 275 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 1: break careers, and it was a bit more manageable during 276 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 1: the so called Golden Age of film. Um and I 277 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:50,080 Speaker 1: say manageable, manipulated, but they held a lot of power, 278 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 1: but in a different way than today. We'll talk a 279 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: little more about how media affects today versus then, but 280 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 1: historically it was no different. And Elizabeth Taylor's biography, the 281 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: author talked about Taylor's own connections with a popular columnists 282 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 1: who helped make many careers as well as ended many, 283 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: and how often studios would use the media to keep 284 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 1: the perfect image of their stars at all expenses. Essentially, 285 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 1: they would pay whatever in order to keep that going 286 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 1: and unsurprisingly, all of the success caused a lot of 287 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: competition among stars, which is still around. Elizabeth Taylor's feud 288 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:27,640 Speaker 1: with Debbie Reynolds painted Taylor as a villain, as the 289 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 1: temptress who came and stole her man, which she kind 290 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: of did. Um and then rolls were fought over, more 291 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: fuse happened, and it kept them on their toes because 292 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 1: essentially the studios wanted this to happen. They needed the 293 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 1: stars to know they're expendable, and the evils of comparing 294 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: young stars with each other was prevalent in order to 295 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 1: keep them in line m H. But the overall usage 296 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 1: of shame and guilt was a cloud leaming over all 297 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 1: of them. Body shaming began from the start, with young 298 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 1: stars brought in to be inspected, judged, and often times 299 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 1: physically changed, including plastic surgery and dangerous drugs being used 300 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 1: to keep young girls thin even if they didn't need 301 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: to be. So, the question remains, has it changed? Has 302 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: it changed? Well? Unfortunately, when it comes to sexualizing or 303 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: infantalizing young stars, nothing has really changed. Honestly, it seems 304 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 1: it may have gotten worse, thanks in part to things 305 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: like social media, UM and the Internet as a whole. 306 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 1: In one article from NBC about Natally a Portman's own 307 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 1: experience as a child actor, they write, quote, Hollywood bifurcase 308 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 1: young women's sexuality, so they usually only have two options 309 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: to be hyper sexual or to deny that they are 310 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: sexual at all and it's true, which often leads the 311 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 1: audience and fans to only see these actors in one 312 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: specific way. UM and then if that's if that image 313 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 1: is torn apart. Oftentimes this at the expense of the 314 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 1: actress themselves, as in fact, Portman talked about how one 315 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 1: of her fan letters was a rape fantasy written about 316 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 1: her by an adult man and they sent it to 317 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 1: her as a fan which, yeah, and but that's not 318 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: the worst of it. We've seen repeatedly how media will 319 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:16,120 Speaker 1: score young actors about what they wear, how much they weigh, 320 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 1: and whether they fit the mold of that perfect star um. 321 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 1: And a prime example, of course is Britney Spears, who 322 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:25,320 Speaker 1: has been raped over the coals for any and everything, 323 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 1: eventually leading her to the conservativeship against her will. And yeah, 324 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 1: I know we've talked about this before, but I think 325 00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:33,360 Speaker 1: it's really she is a good highlight of what has 326 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 1: happened recently and what we're kind of learning from but 327 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: not enough. Yeah, yeah, she she went from being the 328 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: virgin to the horror within a few years, with every 329 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 1: aspect of her life being ridiculed and scrutinized. Um and 330 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 1: later I'm being critiqued in her parenting and of course 331 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:55,160 Speaker 1: her body as a whole. Um and the overall obsession 332 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 1: in her sex life was a complete double standard in 333 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 1: comparison to her male counterpart hurts as. In fact, while 334 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:04,920 Speaker 1: she was ridiculed and publicly grilled and TV interviews, her 335 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: ex boyfriend was being praised as being a man for 336 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 1: getting quote into her pants. Many conservative parent groups were 337 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 1: admonishing her as a bad influence and would shame her 338 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 1: as well as any of her fan bees. Um proving 339 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:19,119 Speaker 1: once again and Dan if you do, Dan if you 340 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: don't for so many of the young celebrities right um. 341 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:27,640 Speaker 1: And we also have seen the disturbing conversations about young 342 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 1: teens who we as fans have been able to see 343 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 1: grow up but quickly become an object of obsession and sexualization. 344 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: Examples include the different reddit and blogs that have countdown 345 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:43,679 Speaker 1: clocks to when young girls were turning eighteen years old. Example, um, 346 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:46,920 Speaker 1: Emma Watson, I think she she had a whole post 347 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 1: of her turning sixteen. A radio show did that. I 348 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:52,879 Speaker 1: believe a rapper did it for Kendall General when she 349 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 1: was turning eighteen. Um to the fact that I think 350 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: someone actually propositioned her to do a sex tape when 351 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 1: she turned immediately eighteen, or even worse, put in situations 352 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 1: such as Marra Wilson who was a child star of 353 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:10,320 Speaker 1: movies such as Matilda and Mrs Doubtfire, were images of 354 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 1: her on foot fetge sides, and she was photoshopped into 355 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:17,720 Speaker 1: child pornography. Um all before the age of twelve, and 356 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:20,680 Speaker 1: today it's still happening. As the new season of Stranger 357 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: Things has been released, which I binged Yes I did 358 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:27,120 Speaker 1: um and start Milly Bobby Brown's or recent eighteenth birthday, 359 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:30,200 Speaker 1: her image and style has been sexualized and criticized by 360 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:32,560 Speaker 1: so many. Of course, it didn't just start when she 361 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: turned eighteen, but has been a topic of conversation since 362 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:38,400 Speaker 1: she's hit the spotlight. Uh. And on top of that, 363 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: she's having to defend herself from strangers who seem to 364 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 1: think they know her enough to judge her, including people 365 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 1: calling her a bit off the fact that they can 366 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: just tell yeah, yeah, And I was talking to you. 367 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 1: One of my friends, Rissa has been on here hold 368 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 1: on Rissa, and she's like my other TikTok person. It's 369 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 1: you and her send me the TikTok said I need um. 370 00:19:58,240 --> 00:19:59,919 Speaker 1: And I was asking her about this because this was 371 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,640 Speaker 1: sort of the impetus you told me about this on TikTok, 372 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 1: sort of the impetus for this episode, and she she's 373 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:08,199 Speaker 1: a huge Stranger Things fan, and she was telling me 374 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:11,480 Speaker 1: like she remembered when million Bobby Brown was younger, like 375 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:14,359 Speaker 1: really young, and people would pull her apart, to her 376 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 1: apart because she talked too much. She wasn't like pr trained. 377 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,160 Speaker 1: She was a child who was excited, so they tore 378 00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 1: her apart. And now they're mad, according to Marissa, and 379 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 1: I believe Marissa. Now they're mad because she seems more 380 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: cold and like closed off. But she's doing the thing 381 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: that they were telling her she should have done as 382 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 1: a child. Basically, she got pr trating. It sounds like essentially, 383 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:41,160 Speaker 1: I know there was one post where she they were 384 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 1: doing publicity for Stranger Things. It was the whole cast 385 00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:50,160 Speaker 1: and she came out I think of the crowd and 386 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 1: came to the front because of another photographer. You know, 387 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:55,919 Speaker 1: someone had requested it, or she had been pushed up 388 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,560 Speaker 1: or something, and it wasn't just because she did it, 389 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 1: and one of the photograph like, she's so annoying, why 390 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 1: didn't get out of the way, And it was like, wait, 391 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 1: she's just doing what she's been instructed to do. Why 392 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 1: are you doing this? And then another post which she criticized, 393 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,239 Speaker 1: and I could put this in quote marks, but she 394 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,440 Speaker 1: was saying if she could change something that she wished 395 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 1: more death said she wanted like a Game of Thrones 396 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 1: level of deaths in the show because it didn't feel realistic. 397 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:25,200 Speaker 1: And then she was teasing the Duffer brothers are saying, 398 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 1: you know, they're being pansies. They needed then you just 399 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 1: go ahead kill people off. And of course they responded, 400 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:33,640 Speaker 1: they like, all right, we got you. But the way 401 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:40,399 Speaker 1: they presented it was Millie Bobby Brown criticizes directors, and 402 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 1: it was obviously a push of a dig as if 403 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:46,159 Speaker 1: she was truly saying this, And even still it seemed 404 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 1: in the interview, if you actually read the interview, it 405 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 1: was obvious that she had said this to them before 406 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: making fun of them and or teasing them, and said 407 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,879 Speaker 1: it out loud, and then the bid misconstrued as her 408 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:59,199 Speaker 1: being a bit complaining about the show. So it was 409 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 1: very interesting to see how they are really framing what 410 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:06,159 Speaker 1: she is doing, how she is being being professional, her 411 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 1: being I mean, she is now a pro with this. 412 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 1: She has done this since a child, probably more understanding 413 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,199 Speaker 1: of this limelight that a lot of people. So she 414 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,400 Speaker 1: is an old hat in this. But because of that, 415 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 1: she's too confident, she's too sure what is she doing? 416 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:26,880 Speaker 1: Which does make you think, right, it does? It does? 417 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 1: Um something else that makes you think there are these 418 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 1: old school ideas that can still lead to a loss 419 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 1: of opportunity for these young stars, such as Vanessa Hudgens, 420 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 1: who was fired from Disney after nude pictures of her 421 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 1: were leaked. Um. Which actually leads to a whole other 422 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 1: topic which we want to revisit, concerning how the media 423 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 1: and people in general exploit celebrities by releasing private data 424 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:53,439 Speaker 1: or information for the sake of gossip. I also want 425 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,679 Speaker 1: to add in here, and this all reminds me of 426 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: when it was a big deal when Order the Phoenix 427 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 1: came out and ms UM and the company or somebody 428 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 1: who worked with the company photos shopped her boobs to 429 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 1: be bigger, and people were like, Hi, that's it, that's it, 430 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:16,119 Speaker 1: like necessary, why you why are you doing this? And 431 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 1: I remember being like, it just sends a message. A 432 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:20,959 Speaker 1: lot of this sends a message to young girls who 433 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:26,160 Speaker 1: are consuming it. Right. Um. But yeah, speaking of media, right, 434 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 1: let's jump into it. So we did talk about earlier 435 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: how media does impact and it's changed a little bit 436 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 1: since that time, and it's not so controlled by studios anymore. 437 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:38,240 Speaker 1: Um So, after the release of Framing Britney Spears, there 438 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 1: was a new flurry of conversation about how we as 439 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,400 Speaker 1: a society treat young women in Hollywood. Of course, if 440 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 1: you're my age range. One of the biggest conversations the 441 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: impact of media celebrities was due to the tragic death 442 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: of Princess Diana, which we could talk about how Megan 443 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 1: Markle is being scrutinized in a similar way today, um 444 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:59,360 Speaker 1: of course with the added plus of racist media, so 445 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,880 Speaker 1: that's a different conversation. But we did highlight how so 446 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 1: many of the celebrities during that time or often dragged 447 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: through the mud for click baity articles and selling just tabloids. 448 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 1: And that was the kind of the beginning of TMC 449 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 1: Entertainment tonight, all that which was just all about celebrity gossip. 450 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 1: And yeah, as we look in hindsight, we see that 451 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,680 Speaker 1: there's something fundamentally wrong when someone's trauma is used to 452 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: get a bit of cash or notoriety. As writer as 453 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,640 Speaker 1: Shandon mcgigan, So sorry if I said that wrong. Rice 454 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 1: in her article on the media's treatment of female public figures. Quote. 455 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 1: The intensity of the media's hounding of Brittany highlighted a 456 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,679 Speaker 1: real lack of empathy shown towards the star h and 457 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 1: this was a statement from Hannah Davies in that article, 458 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,640 Speaker 1: which was the Guardians deputy TV editor at the time. 459 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 1: She further declared that Brittany was dehumanized in the eyes 460 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,719 Speaker 1: of the media and the public, with society expressing an 461 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 1: intense amounts of judgment and criticism that was regarded as 462 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:58,160 Speaker 1: socially acceptable, demonstrated through March plastered with jokes of Brittany 463 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 1: surviving two thousand and eight being produced or profit. And 464 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 1: we know how all of that went down, all of 465 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,639 Speaker 1: the clips and if you've got a photo in her distress, 466 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 1: it was paid for by thousands and thousands of dollars. 467 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:17,680 Speaker 1: And the messier the better for the media. Headlines insinuating 468 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,959 Speaker 1: mental health breakdowns, drug usage, messy breakups pushed young celebrities 469 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,440 Speaker 1: to the edge, and the team boys were talked about. 470 00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 1: It was never to the same degree that the young 471 00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:30,679 Speaker 1: team girls received. They pitted women against women for bigger 472 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,959 Speaker 1: headlines like we had the whole Team Gin or Team Angelina, 473 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:39,120 Speaker 1: Brad Pitt there was T shirts. Yeah, yeah, I mean 474 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,800 Speaker 1: it was a huge thing. I just remember like going down, 475 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:44,920 Speaker 1: like checking out the grocery store, like every magazine cover 476 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:52,359 Speaker 1: was like I know, I know. Wow. Um. Then we 477 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 1: also saw blaming women for sexual aggression, like Janet Jackson 478 00:25:56,200 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 1: the whole Super Bowl thing, accusing women of being divas 479 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:05,359 Speaker 1: or bitches like Mariah Carey and Megan Fox. Um. And 480 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 1: we've talked a bit about the villainizing of these women 481 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 1: in part due to men purposely ruining careers for not 482 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:15,639 Speaker 1: playing the submissive ladies that Hollywood once dominated like Weinstein, 483 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 1: uh and Michael Bay Right, if you try to get 484 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 1: out of that box then, I mean, there was plenty 485 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 1: of women who have since come out said I have 486 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 1: been ostracized and blacklisted because I would not be victimized 487 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:33,360 Speaker 1: by these men. And it's quite interesting because it does 488 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:37,360 Speaker 1: it's reminiscent of old Hollywood. Yeah, and there are some 489 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: people who are finally getting their do like Britney Spears, 490 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:43,920 Speaker 1: who has been freed from the controversial Conservatives ship and 491 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:46,240 Speaker 1: is starting to get some apologies from the many who 492 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:49,880 Speaker 1: exploited her lowest points in her life. Megan Fox being 493 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 1: vindicated from her ruined reputation, and there are those who 494 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,880 Speaker 1: are able to take a step back and take control 495 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,720 Speaker 1: of those traumatic narratives, such as mar Wilson, who I 496 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 1: also loved as a kid. Uh, and some who have 497 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:07,200 Speaker 1: been able to continue in their career on their own terms, 498 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:10,960 Speaker 1: like Nally Portman and Natasha Leone. You know, I guess 499 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:15,000 Speaker 1: we should mention stepping back would be Mary Kayton Ashley, 500 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,119 Speaker 1: whom you love so dearly. I loved them so much. 501 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,200 Speaker 1: I could tell them apart they're not identical twins, their 502 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:26,880 Speaker 1: firsternal twins would like it was the most annoying habit. 503 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, that's actually oh Sarah Kate, and 504 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:35,320 Speaker 1: everyone's like, please stop if we're watching it. That's an 505 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,919 Speaker 1: important talent, And of course some credit movements like the 506 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 1: Me Too movement and holding the media accountable for the 507 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:44,880 Speaker 1: instensitive and often traumatic content in relation to young actresses 508 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 1: and female celebrities, But others say has a lot to 509 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 1: do with social media as well and how individuals are 510 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:55,160 Speaker 1: able to de write the conversation. Again, Uh, the whole 511 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: like accountability stuff is pretty pretty significant. Whether that is 512 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,640 Speaker 1: good or bad, some can't tell. In this era of accountability, 513 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,239 Speaker 1: call outs, call ins, and canceling. Social media can be 514 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 1: a slippery slope. We all know this. Many celebrities have 515 00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:13,440 Speaker 1: already remained largely offline due to being harassed or targeted, 516 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 1: and several have vowed to never be online due to 517 00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:19,360 Speaker 1: the overall privacy issue. That's fair, and there are celebrities 518 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 1: who use their social media as a way to connect 519 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,879 Speaker 1: with fans and the tools keep their fans updated in 520 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 1: their lives, which can be good, but some have talked 521 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 1: about the overall pressures and anxiety social media causes and 522 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 1: how they can no longer participate or have to take 523 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:36,360 Speaker 1: extended breaks from it. Um stars like Selena Gomez and 524 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 1: Millie Bobby Brown have either taken breaks from social media 525 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 1: for their mental health or overall for the safety of others. 526 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 1: I know at one point Millie Bobby Brown had one 527 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:49,200 Speaker 1: of her pictures taken to become a meme and it 528 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 1: was really homophobic. It was very hurtful and she was like, 529 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:54,360 Speaker 1: I had nothing to do with this, and it came 530 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 1: out it wasn't her, but it was being accredited to 531 00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 1: her and people were attacking her UM and she had 532 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:02,719 Speaker 1: to come off. Of course, you know, we've talked about constantly. 533 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,840 Speaker 1: How Yeah, we have to be very careful and we're 534 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 1: not celebrities, so I couldn't imagine having millions and millions 535 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: of followers who may turn on you at any moment. 536 00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and that's why we're big proponents here. I 537 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 1: think it's just a good Internet practice, like do your 538 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 1: research before you just like tweet something or just find 539 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 1: out where it's from, what's going on, uh, because it 540 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 1: might not be what you think, and then you might 541 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 1: attack someone who really had nothing to do with it nothing. Yeah. Yeah. 542 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 1: And also Mersa was telling me about this documentary she 543 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:40,760 Speaker 1: watched with Taylor Swift and she was like Taylor as 544 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,920 Speaker 1: which as a whole like team that's like here we go, 545 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 1: we're gonna tweet this out. How we're gonna word it 546 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:51,479 Speaker 1: was the best way. And oh, I know, I know 547 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,360 Speaker 1: a lot of pop stars are having to like they 548 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,920 Speaker 1: are told they have to in order to release their 549 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 1: albums and that things are being held hostage in order 550 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,200 Speaker 1: to get it done. So there's such a whole layer 551 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 1: that it would suck to be on that level celebrity 552 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:08,920 Speaker 1: with no power. Yes it would, yes, it would something 553 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 1: else that also, sex is being under constant scrutiny by 554 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: the masses, and it has pushed many celebrities to go dark. 555 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 1: Um and we have talked about this a lot when 556 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 1: it comes to things like Star Wars and Marvel, like 557 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 1: the big branchises where they get, especially women and other 558 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:28,640 Speaker 1: marginalized folks, get all of this hate and not really 559 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 1: anybody coming to their defense, right in terms of like 560 00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:36,720 Speaker 1: their co stars, like the studio, and so they leave. 561 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 1: UM And yeah, the as we've also discussed, there is 562 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,360 Speaker 1: a bigger conversation of blots because a lot of it 563 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: is blots and also just protection from harassment for these 564 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 1: marginalized folks. Um, the impact that can have, what we 565 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 1: could possibly do because it is a huge problem right Again, 566 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,600 Speaker 1: of course, what we talked about the fandom toxic fandom 567 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,600 Speaker 1: and in the gate keeping there's a lot of conversation 568 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,360 Speaker 1: and that we know that's not always the case, but yeah, 569 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:11,320 Speaker 1: we've seen a lot of marginalized women specifically getting targeted 570 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 1: just because they just don't like it period and they 571 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,280 Speaker 1: have nothing to do with creating the character other than acting. 572 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 1: And typically they're acting it, actining the hell out of it, 573 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 1: and we love it and it hadn't been a standalone, 574 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 1: people probably would not never had a second thought. But 575 00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 1: of course, yeah, we can't have nice things. Yeah. Well, 576 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 1: speaking of speaking on social media, uh, the age of 577 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 1: social media has led to this idea of anonymity, which 578 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 1: allows for individuals who in person maybe they may seem okay, 579 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:50,200 Speaker 1: but online feel very embold in Tuesday whatever whenever without recourse. Um. 580 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: As we have learned through many criticisms of this podcast, 581 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 1: this very podcast, and then I used to have to 582 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 1: answer these things on YouTube and I'd be like, Hi, 583 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 1: have a have a nice day or whatever, and they'd 584 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:09,960 Speaker 1: be like wow, someone responded, I'm like yeah, yes, And 585 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 1: all of this begs the question is this okay? And 586 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 1: what is our responsibility as a fan of something or 587 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 1: of someone. Uh. As young actresses and celebrities grow up, 588 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:26,520 Speaker 1: the world watches their every move and oftentimes makes these judgments, 589 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:29,400 Speaker 1: and they feel the need to do so through their keyboard, 590 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:34,959 Speaker 1: thinking they won't be noticed. Um or yeah, even like 591 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 1: on a podcast, start through other mediums like this, feel 592 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: like they can make these criticisms. It's okay. When fans 593 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 1: and critics become too familiar with the celebrity, we often 594 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 1: forget that they are yes, human there is somebody there 595 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 1: and they deserve to be treated as such. Two women 596 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 1: podcasters felt the need to call Mellly Bobby Brown a 597 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 1: bit because they felt she just seemed that way and again, 598 00:32:56,200 --> 00:33:00,200 Speaker 1: that's sort of what got this idea, this this whole well, 599 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:01,920 Speaker 1: and honestly, there's so much more to that, because we 600 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 1: know there's this whole criticue like she just seems like 601 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 1: people someone I wouldn't like. She just seems like, that's fine, 602 00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 1: you don't have to like everybody, But what does this 603 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:13,240 Speaker 1: need to call them in such a derogatory manner without 604 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 1: knowing them and instead of like just having a moment 605 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 1: of like, I wonder, I wonder what kind of pressures 606 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,240 Speaker 1: there are. I just keep him out of your mouth, 607 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,360 Speaker 1: don't speak about him. That's all it takes. And speaking 608 00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 1: of criticism, that kind of just doesn't make sense other 609 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 1: than she's a woman that you don't want to see 610 00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 1: in this I don't know. One of those critics felt 611 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 1: carry mulligan was not a good pick to carry out 612 00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,680 Speaker 1: the role of a film fatal character, even though her 613 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 1: performance in the movie Promising Young Women was well received 614 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,719 Speaker 1: and her hitting back at the criticism as a sexist 615 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 1: and even agist remark. It was actually encountered with another 616 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 1: criticism as uh, saying that there's a right to be 617 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 1: able to criticize and critique celebrities appearance and actors appearance 618 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 1: if it seems like they are is cast. So I 619 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 1: went through, we went through when we were looking at 620 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:06,000 Speaker 1: this and speaking about this article, because it was a 621 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,240 Speaker 1: pretty big deal. K mulgan came out pretty strong. We're like, Okay, 622 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,200 Speaker 1: we get it. You don't like me as this cast, 623 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,439 Speaker 1: you don't believe me as being the fatal that's on you. 624 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:17,520 Speaker 1: But why do we need to go about this appearance thing? Um? 625 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,440 Speaker 1: And I even mentioned, like the article that was written 626 00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 1: and even mentioned well, Margot Robbie was a producer. I'm 627 00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: sure it wasn't intended for her, so obviously like a 628 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 1: backhanded criticism about her appearance. Um. And then someone came 629 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:36,160 Speaker 1: in defense of that, not saying necessarily that her looks 630 00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,200 Speaker 1: should have been critiqued, but more so that we as 631 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 1: the audience, should be able to say this probably wasn't 632 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:45,960 Speaker 1: cast right based on appearance, based on looks, which seemed 633 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:48,360 Speaker 1: one and the same to me. I kind of understood 634 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:49,799 Speaker 1: what they were going with this, but at the same time, 635 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 1: but this is this is a little bit ages. Obviously 636 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:57,240 Speaker 1: what they wanted was the hot, blonde, tall, young fatal 637 00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,719 Speaker 1: that we have so seen so often. Um and K 638 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:04,319 Speaker 1: Mulligan's not that old. You talk about that, he's not 639 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 1: that old. So none of that makes sense in itself. 640 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:11,360 Speaker 1: But of course they talked about, you know, women wouldn't 641 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:15,800 Speaker 1: want to see, which was really odd Chris Hemsworth playing 642 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:21,120 Speaker 1: a dowdy poet and I was like, why not happened before? 643 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 1: What are you what are you talking about? We've seen 644 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:29,279 Speaker 1: Nkumen playing serious roles. We've seen ridiculous comedians being the 645 00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:34,720 Speaker 1: serious uh filling guy like I mean Jim Carrey won 646 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,120 Speaker 1: awards for his serious roles, which you would never thought 647 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:42,279 Speaker 1: this slapstick comedian could do and even seen as like 648 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:45,960 Speaker 1: a leading man. So it kind of like, no, we 649 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:47,920 Speaker 1: don't have that. Of course, she talked about the fact 650 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 1: that we should be able to say how this critique, 651 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:55,160 Speaker 1: so we could open up for more different variations of 652 00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 1: looks to take leading roles. But I don't feel like 653 00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,880 Speaker 1: that was where they were going with this, especially in 654 00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:06,719 Speaker 1: critaking that specifically. Yeah, yeah, I think that's Um, we 655 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 1: are much more forgiving in general of men, whether it's 656 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,240 Speaker 1: perceiving them to be a bitch or not. Like women 657 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 1: have to be nice and grateful they got this role, 658 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:20,520 Speaker 1: and you have to be because we have limited rules 659 00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 1: for women, like we have historically in Hollywood. And then 660 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,240 Speaker 1: like I believe the average age for a woman winning 661 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,839 Speaker 1: an oscar like ten years ago so this might have changed, 662 00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:30,839 Speaker 1: was twenty six and for a man it was fifty three. 663 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:35,239 Speaker 1: So I think we have like and by we, I 664 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:40,120 Speaker 1: mean audiences have this idea of for women it is this, 665 00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,319 Speaker 1: and it looks like this, and I can critique her 666 00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,520 Speaker 1: appearance because that's what women is about. For men, it 667 00:36:44,520 --> 00:37:00,440 Speaker 1: could be they could do anything, but women. And I 668 00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,600 Speaker 1: know I've told the story before. I had a I 669 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,560 Speaker 1: had a for me, a pretty big break, pretty big 670 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:09,440 Speaker 1: role um And the night I was supposed to shoot it, 671 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 1: the guy told me that one of the oh, I 672 00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:14,719 Speaker 1: don't know, one of the crew, he was like, it 673 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,840 Speaker 1: secks to be in an industry where it's all about 674 00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:18,719 Speaker 1: your looks, right, And I looked at it and I 675 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 1: was like what, And then they gave it to a 676 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:24,439 Speaker 1: man because he was like, I think I think it'd 677 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:25,920 Speaker 1: be better. I think it'd be more believable for a 678 00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:31,319 Speaker 1: man at this. I was like, what what? Yeah? And 679 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,480 Speaker 1: this most like that that you realize, Yeah, this is 680 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,919 Speaker 1: not an easy industry in itself. Um that it's not 681 00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:42,799 Speaker 1: set up for just anyone, which is a whole different conversation. Yeah. 682 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:45,839 Speaker 1: And then there's this debate of crossing boundaries, which that 683 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:49,960 Speaker 1: dude cross the boundary, I would say, but I'm in 684 00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:53,480 Speaker 1: referencing to celebrities. Is it okay to interrupt a celebrity 685 00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 1: during a dinner for a photo? Is it okay to 686 00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 1: film or take pics without their knowledge or permansition? Can 687 00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:02,800 Speaker 1: we go going to somebody's own without permission for souvenirs? 688 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,279 Speaker 1: Of course these are more rhetorical questions, but it has 689 00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:09,040 Speaker 1: become less and less acceptable to cross these boundaries, which 690 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 1: is great, But at the same time, we've seen a 691 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,520 Speaker 1: lot of backlash for those who are private and seek 692 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,160 Speaker 1: to keep it that way. So people who get upset 693 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,440 Speaker 1: if you've been waiting at their hotel room and they 694 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,960 Speaker 1: don't want to stop to talk to you, we get it, 695 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:26,200 Speaker 1: like you you are you love them, and you feel 696 00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 1: like you have this ideal of them. But if they're tired, 697 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 1: they're tired and they should have the right to say that. Um. 698 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:37,160 Speaker 1: We saw recently Tom Hanks America Sweetheart get very angry 699 00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,080 Speaker 1: when his wife and I don't know exactly what happened 700 00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:43,640 Speaker 1: when uh Rita Wilson, who was the celebrity as well 701 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:48,080 Speaker 1: also his wife, Um, but either tripped got pushed. There 702 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,040 Speaker 1: was a lot of conversation about what happened, and he 703 00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,399 Speaker 1: lost it in course that people to be like, calm down, 704 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:56,360 Speaker 1: back off, and that's his right, that makes sense. But 705 00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:57,880 Speaker 1: he got a lot of backlash for it too, Like 706 00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:02,479 Speaker 1: it got both love and hate for that reaction. And 707 00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,200 Speaker 1: it kind of has that point of like, okay, so 708 00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:07,480 Speaker 1: what is this line how do we make sure we 709 00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:09,480 Speaker 1: don't cross boundaries? But what is this line of like 710 00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,359 Speaker 1: your celebrity and this is kind of what happens, and 711 00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,160 Speaker 1: I know the kind of maybe this is just making 712 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,839 Speaker 1: making it up seeing too many movies of like they 713 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:20,680 Speaker 1: love it at first and then they hate it, so 714 00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:24,040 Speaker 1: kind of those two things. Um. And it seems like 715 00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:27,520 Speaker 1: it sometimes takes drastic and extreme measures for people to 716 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:31,840 Speaker 1: realize this, whether it's a tearful request to be given privacy, 717 00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 1: so being like please leave me alone, You'll have done 718 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,759 Speaker 1: so much, I like, really harassed us, Please stop to 719 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:42,520 Speaker 1: almost to endangering their lives, um and being put in 720 00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:46,720 Speaker 1: these situations that are so extreme that that's the final 721 00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:50,080 Speaker 1: point of like, hey, you almost killed us tonight, Please 722 00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:52,560 Speaker 1: don't do that. Yeah. Yeah, it's that level of fan 723 00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 1: entitlement we've talked about before, where it's some it's kind 724 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:58,400 Speaker 1: of bizarre to me, but it's like this idea that 725 00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:04,799 Speaker 1: they owe us something, right, we put you here, right, 726 00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:08,160 Speaker 1: and then it's sort of the price of your fame almost. 727 00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:10,600 Speaker 1: It's like you won't You're rich and famous, so I 728 00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 1: get to do whatever and I'll never forget. I saw 729 00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:14,480 Speaker 1: his interview with Jennifer Lawrence a couple of years ago, 730 00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:16,680 Speaker 1: and she was talking about visiting her family and she's like, well, 731 00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:18,120 Speaker 1: we had to put up all the you know, trash 732 00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:19,439 Speaker 1: bags out of the windows. And I was like, wait, 733 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:21,680 Speaker 1: what's like, Oh, yeah, so we had to put up 734 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:23,399 Speaker 1: every time I visit them, we put up trash bags 735 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,880 Speaker 1: with the windows so they can't take pictures. She was 736 00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 1: talking about like trying to explain that to the young 737 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:32,600 Speaker 1: people in her family, UM, and just howppens are Like 738 00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:38,480 Speaker 1: that sounds terrible to me. That sounds awful. Um. We've 739 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:41,280 Speaker 1: also talked about Paris social relationships a little bit before, 740 00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,480 Speaker 1: and here we can easily see how this can be good, 741 00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,960 Speaker 1: can be really great, or it can be really really awful. UM. 742 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:52,200 Speaker 1: And as we said before, fans are powerful and deserve respect. Um. 743 00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:55,480 Speaker 1: Because yes, the power of fandom is no joke. You know, 744 00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:59,840 Speaker 1: we love some healthy fan girls over here. UM. And 745 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,480 Speaker 1: it can really really make things happen that is war. Sure, 746 00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:07,000 Speaker 1: the Brittany Stands are a force and we're able to 747 00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,800 Speaker 1: keep the conversation alive when so many people had written 748 00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:13,880 Speaker 1: it off around around Britney Spears and conservatorship. Um. But 749 00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:16,720 Speaker 1: it can also be a negative. Incidents where fans feel 750 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:20,080 Speaker 1: but traded by celebrity can be a real storm. UM. 751 00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:23,480 Speaker 1: Think of Hailey Bieber. After she and Justin got together, 752 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:27,920 Speaker 1: those who were teams Selena have nonstopped her, asked her 753 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,920 Speaker 1: for just being with him. We've talked about that before, UM, 754 00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,200 Speaker 1: to the point both she and Justin have repeatedly asked 755 00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:37,719 Speaker 1: her fans to stop and how it's been affecting them both. Right, 756 00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 1: And we've seen that in different celebrities, like if they 757 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,759 Speaker 1: don't like the person you're with, they may go after you. 758 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 1: Of course, there's some conversations of like, yeah, but the 759 00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:51,360 Speaker 1: son that's like this is dangerous. This isn't unusual circumstance. 760 00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:54,640 Speaker 1: We have questions kind of all of that, but that 761 00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:59,560 Speaker 1: I digress. I won't give any examples of that, but um, 762 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:03,200 Speaker 1: but yeah, there's a lot when it comes to all 763 00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:08,800 Speaker 1: of these responsibilities and how we see celebrities in itself, 764 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,160 Speaker 1: and especially when it comes to women, the expectations that 765 00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,319 Speaker 1: we hold, and it kind of makes you think, what 766 00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 1: does the future hold? Is? Is the future going to 767 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:19,680 Speaker 1: be better for the next generation of stars and celebrities? 768 00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:23,800 Speaker 1: And yeah, with the new mediums come new levels of stardom, 769 00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:27,560 Speaker 1: from YouTube stars to TikTok stars to whatever the next 770 00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 1: level maybe Twitch. I guess Twitch is already there. We 771 00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,960 Speaker 1: are seeing a whole different level of celebrity and some 772 00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:37,719 Speaker 1: experts have already begun their studies in these types of celebrity. 773 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,799 Speaker 1: And an Insider Or article written by Rachel E. Green's band, 774 00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:43,280 Speaker 1: she talks with psychologists and about the up and coming 775 00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:46,840 Speaker 1: stars of TikTok and the expectations and in the article, 776 00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:51,080 Speaker 1: Greenspan rights experts have warned that these young influencers will 777 00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 1: face the typical hurdles of child fame, but with the 778 00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:58,719 Speaker 1: additional complication of real time social media surveillance by millions 779 00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 1: and algorithmically programmed addiction to the instant gratification of a 780 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:06,360 Speaker 1: never ending barrage of notifications, which is my nightmare. I 781 00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:10,359 Speaker 1: know those notifications to go way. I think we can't 782 00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:14,839 Speaker 1: figure this out for you, snap. So we've already talked 783 00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:17,840 Speaker 1: about the damages how early, about early childhood stardom and 784 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:21,719 Speaker 1: what that can cause, but added that the immediateness of 785 00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:25,719 Speaker 1: social media, the total access provided by the stars and 786 00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:28,239 Speaker 1: by the fans, like they ere to tell you immediately 787 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:31,440 Speaker 1: if they like or don't like something yep, and it's 788 00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:34,640 Speaker 1: the Internet, so it doesn't go away, right, And this 789 00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:36,800 Speaker 1: new level of stardom has brought out a new generation 790 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,480 Speaker 1: of hopefuls who are waiting for their time to go viral. 791 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:43,880 Speaker 1: Greenspan continues the algorithms that underlie practically every social media 792 00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:47,440 Speaker 1: service today forced us to compete for visibility. These teenagers 793 00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:51,200 Speaker 1: may now feel themselves an extraordinary bind, competing against each 794 00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:54,360 Speaker 1: other and the news feed algorithms in order to maintain visibility, 795 00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:57,840 Speaker 1: a competition in which only the social media services succeed. 796 00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,399 Speaker 1: The concept of viral social media fame has become so 797 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:04,520 Speaker 1: ingrained in our society that it's almost natural for people 798 00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:08,799 Speaker 1: to hope their next post will take off, and some 799 00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,920 Speaker 1: of the newly made celebrities have already learned about the 800 00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:16,680 Speaker 1: backlash of fame. Many under the cancel culture a narrative 801 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:19,200 Speaker 1: due to the extreme or impulsive natures of their post 802 00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,360 Speaker 1: have learned this lesson and have seen it and have 803 00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,160 Speaker 1: experienced it um but they are also learning how to 804 00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:29,239 Speaker 1: handle it. Greenspan continues. Many influencers have already, perhaps unintentionally 805 00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:31,680 Speaker 1: discovered what experts say is the best way to protect 806 00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 1: oneself against the dangers of fame. By using influence to 807 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,480 Speaker 1: help the world and raise awareness about causes you're passionate about, 808 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:40,040 Speaker 1: you're actually establishing a deeper sense of who you are 809 00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:43,760 Speaker 1: as a person, right and I am interested to see 810 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,600 Speaker 1: what the statistics will look like. We again did not 811 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:50,839 Speaker 1: talk about reality stars and young stars, because there has 812 00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:55,800 Speaker 1: been this conversation about uh the sexualization of young young 813 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:59,840 Speaker 1: girls in these videos, as well as infantilizing some of 814 00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:03,160 Speaker 1: the girls who were no longer younger. Jojo Sawa was 815 00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,239 Speaker 1: one of those who got criticisms on both ends when 816 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,640 Speaker 1: she was growing up and but yet still kept the 817 00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:14,879 Speaker 1: ponytail to finally coming out and finding relationships and growing 818 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,279 Speaker 1: in ourselves and being criticized for that. Like that, it's 819 00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:20,760 Speaker 1: just a whole new level of stardom that we've never 820 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 1: seen that is produced again by the pressures of oftentimes 821 00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:30,320 Speaker 1: family and society. That part has seemingly not gone away. Yeah, 822 00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:34,319 Speaker 1: and I think that the Internet. I mean, we talked 823 00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:35,839 Speaker 1: about it all the time on here, and Bridget does 824 00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 1: such a great job of breaking it down. There's many, 825 00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 1: many beautiful things about the Internet, but in a lot 826 00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,680 Speaker 1: of ways, like those comment sections can be just like 827 00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:49,600 Speaker 1: every toxic thing in our society amplified. So we're already 828 00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:54,440 Speaker 1: getting as young girls all of these really harmful messages 829 00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:56,879 Speaker 1: about our body and how he should look and how 830 00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:00,640 Speaker 1: we should behave And then if you multiply that by 831 00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:05,400 Speaker 1: a social media I can only imagine being young and 832 00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:09,640 Speaker 1: absorbing that and seeing that, right. You know. The double 833 00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:13,960 Speaker 1: edged sword to this is we have more body positive influencers, 834 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,200 Speaker 1: and that's beautiful and I love to see it. Half 835 00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:19,320 Speaker 1: the time they're defending their body and their videos because 836 00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 1: there's so many that still continue to attack them and 837 00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:26,560 Speaker 1: continue to really harass them. So it feels kind of like, yes, 838 00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:28,359 Speaker 1: this is great, but at the same time, oh my god, 839 00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:30,200 Speaker 1: they still have to keep going through all of this 840 00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:32,840 Speaker 1: and still have to be uh in this position to 841 00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:36,880 Speaker 1: take this kind of abuse. Um, it's interesting. I'm interested 842 00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:40,080 Speaker 1: in seeing how this goes. I think what we really 843 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 1: wanted to do about this and I didn't get to it, 844 00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:46,160 Speaker 1: Like the honest title was going to be the villainization 845 00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:49,640 Speaker 1: of young teenage stars, but we couldn't even find enough 846 00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,280 Speaker 1: articles because there are so many other things that seemed 847 00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:56,520 Speaker 1: to be traumatizing and triggering for a lot of these celebrities, um, 848 00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,799 Speaker 1: that we haven't considered. Of course, you know this goes 849 00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:01,480 Speaker 1: into that, like, well, at least they have all of 850 00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 1: these basic necessities and all these things, and most of 851 00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:08,840 Speaker 1: the people were talking about our young white girls. Yeah, 852 00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 1: and that's unfortunate because we don't even we have to 853 00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:15,680 Speaker 1: go climb a whole new level of toxicity when it 854 00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,879 Speaker 1: comes to the black young black girls who are going 855 00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:21,160 Speaker 1: through so much that they don't even get the chance 856 00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:24,680 Speaker 1: to become that half the time because of the racism 857 00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,799 Speaker 1: that is so staunch and so heavy here. So we 858 00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:30,520 Speaker 1: know this is that level of conversation. But there's a 859 00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,600 Speaker 1: lot to consider when we see what is happening, especially 860 00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,680 Speaker 1: for myself as a social worker who worked with young kids, 861 00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:41,520 Speaker 1: seeing this is such a problem in such a big way. 862 00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,520 Speaker 1: But at the same time, you hope it changes, but 863 00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:47,360 Speaker 1: historically it doesn't seem to me. Yeah. Yeah, And I 864 00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:51,200 Speaker 1: think a part of this it goes back to something 865 00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:55,320 Speaker 1: you said earlier, Samantha's it's very clear that we again 866 00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:59,239 Speaker 1: as a society, view women as expendable, and we kind 867 00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:04,400 Speaker 1: of their misery is our entertainment and that's fine, and 868 00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:08,320 Speaker 1: we feel very entitled as a society. Again, I'm not 869 00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,160 Speaker 1: speaking about Smith the Night, but you know, we as 870 00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:14,600 Speaker 1: a society, I feel very entitled to cause harm, to 871 00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:17,239 Speaker 1: like really judge everything they do and then throw them 872 00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,280 Speaker 1: away when they experience any sort of trauma or anything 873 00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:22,680 Speaker 1: that doesn't fit and how we think they should behave 874 00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,920 Speaker 1: and how they should look. Right. Yeah, and I mean 875 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,600 Speaker 1: that's that's up to like even Harvey Weinstein, like the 876 00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:33,600 Speaker 1: fact that went on so long, that's pretty telling. Yeah. Yeah, 877 00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:35,239 Speaker 1: so there is a lot too, There's a lot to 878 00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:41,240 Speaker 1: um back here, Yes, Yes, there is um well listeners, 879 00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:44,320 Speaker 1: as always, if there's anything you want us to follow 880 00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:48,840 Speaker 1: up on and here um if there is resources, we 881 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:50,879 Speaker 1: haven't shut it out. If you have a favorite Mary 882 00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 1: Kate and Ashley movie, like, you can't let us know 883 00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:57,359 Speaker 1: if you wanna talk to me about musicals, I don't 884 00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:01,520 Speaker 1: think anyone. I don't think anyone to reach out about 885 00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,719 Speaker 1: Mary Kate actually, but you could prove us a wrong 886 00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:07,520 Speaker 1: wrong listeners. 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