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Speaker 1: D day.

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Speaker 2: Mother in law was outside when I went to leave

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Speaker 2: his stuff. Honestly, I hesitated, but figured there was never

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Speaker 2: gonna be a perfect time to drop everything off, so

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Speaker 2: I basically hopped out of my car, left everything, and

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Speaker 2: ignored her as she persistently asked me what was going on.

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Speaker 2: I avoided making eye contact and it was very uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can see that.

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Speaker 2: He called me and claimed what I did was petty

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Speaker 2: and unjustified. He said he would come to my place

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Speaker 2: so that way we could talk. I clarified nothing. If

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Speaker 2: he was gaslighting me, then he deserves to drive all

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Speaker 2: the way only not to be able to get in.

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Speaker 2: He called me at night again, saying his key wasn't working.

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Speaker 2: I said, he's dang right, and I informed him that

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Speaker 2: I no longer live there. Whoo hope he is going in.

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Speaker 2: I don't need to describe the crap show, because I'm

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Speaker 2: pretty sure it's universal to abuse of partners. First he

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Speaker 2: was aggravated, Then he demanded that I show up. Then

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Speaker 2: he tried to pin his family's well being on me.

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Speaker 2: I said, sister in law, never, I replied to my messages.

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Speaker 2: So she can have her wedding elsewhere. I kept my cool,

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Speaker 2: as my best friend suggested, just to spite him. He

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Speaker 2: was livid and went from confused to angry to lying

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Speaker 2: about me, quote unquote using him. I did talk to

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Speaker 2: sister in law and had a surprisingly civilized conversation that

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Speaker 2: amounted to nothing, because two hours later she and Ryan's

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Speaker 2: cousin started spamming my phone. By that day, during the afternoon,

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Speaker 2: I was pissed enough when she had her groom call me.

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Speaker 2: I'll call him George Mail forty one. George and I

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Speaker 2: have never had a real relationship. We never really talked

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Speaker 2: during family events. We didn't even have each other on

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Speaker 2: social media. He's a mellow guy, kind of a pink

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Speaker 2: panther personality, slow walking, won't mess with anyone, very quiet.

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Speaker 1: I've never heard of that before.

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Speaker 2: I was fifty to fifty surprised at his attitude, but

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Speaker 2: and left out of jealousy slash spite against Ryan and

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Speaker 2: his family. Yeah, so basically it seems like the family

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Speaker 1: Of the story that's going on over here. Makes sense.

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Speaker 2: I also got very triggered when I heard him repeating

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Speaker 2: baseless stuff about me. I understand it was him innocently

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Speaker 2: passing on gossip thinking it was true, but it just

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Speaker 2: made me angry. I'm not proud of this, but I

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Speaker 2: told him that Ryan and his family don't respect him

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Speaker 2: and say embarrassing stuff behind his back. That wouldn't give

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Speaker 2: me the right to repeat demeaning stuff or turn him

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Speaker 2: into an enemy. I told him that sadly, Ryan always

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Speaker 2: refers to him as the spare guy because sister in

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Speaker 2: law has always had a thing for her ex husband,

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Speaker 2: and that sadly, out of a few guys that she

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Speaker 2: dated here and there, he was the only one willing

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Speaker 1: Whoa nelly Wow, dang, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Dang. Okay, So man, Opie, Opie's Opie's got a maybe

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Speaker 2: not a bone to pick with everyone, But dude, this

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Speaker 2: guy came in and again like kind of like Opie

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Speaker 2: was saying, he's just kind of repeating what was said

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Speaker 2: to him, bringing it back around, which I also totally

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Speaker 2: understand why it's annoying to OPI It's it's very annoying

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Speaker 2: to have people tell back lies to you that other

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Speaker 2: people have said, but she's letting him have it. He

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Speaker 2: demanded proof, so I said, no problem. It took me

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Speaker 2: a few hours, but I located voicemails Ryan had sent me.

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Speaker 2: Just a reminder, Ryan was the guy that she was dating.

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Speaker 2: I almost forgot for background. Whenever Ryan wanted to distance

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Speaker 2: himself from guys he considered losers, he would say things like,

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Speaker 2: I'm not like George. George is only good to keep

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Speaker 2: quiet and take orders. George's mom looks horny. What my

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Speaker 1: Oh god, I guess sop.

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Speaker 2: He wasn't lying when she was talking to him, sange,

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Speaker 2: Oh the pain. George was acting out, but you know

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Speaker 2: my sister. She threatened to leave him, and he got

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Speaker 2: scared again. I'm not happy with what I did, but

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Speaker 1: Oh God.

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Speaker 2: To be honest, this didn't really deter him. I had

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Speaker 2: by George persisting, but we finally understood what was going on.

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Speaker 2: When he claimed that I took their money. Ah, okay,

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Speaker 2: now we're getting somewhere. It turns out that he supposedly

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Speaker 2: anyone George, George needs to leave the relationship.

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Speaker 1: This family is terrible. They're the worst.

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Speaker 2: Oh it didn't make sense. I was asked to help

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Speaker 2: because they were broke. I never asked for money. My

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Speaker 2: friend Rena made herself apparent on the call, and it

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Speaker 2: was funny because when George asked who she was.

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Speaker 1: She was like, don't worry about it.

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Speaker 2: So she said that he was out of line, but

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Speaker 2: wasn't to blame, she said we should have a call.

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Speaker 2: George sounded confident that he was in the right, and

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Speaker 2: about a minute later I got an invite for chat

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Speaker 2: group crap Show number two. It was horrible but necessary.

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Speaker 2: I know I stooped a bit low, but I'm satisfied

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Speaker 2: to have followed Reddit's advice about burning the bridge and

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Speaker 2: poisoning the water, classic Reddit advice. I added the father

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Speaker 2: in law to that chat, and I'm sure Ryan will

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Speaker 2: never forgive me. For background, Ryan has a David and

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Speaker 2: Goliath conflex about his father, with his father being Goliath,

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Speaker 2: he has internalized competitiveness against his father. He so badly

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Speaker 2: he is an old man. I don't know if I'm right,

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Speaker 2: but sometimes I feel like they're fighting against an idea

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Speaker 2: and not reality. The call started out as a mess.

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Speaker 2: There were inside and a lot of yelling, but at

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Speaker 2: this point I was sick of their behavior. I sent

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Speaker 2: him evidence that I had been reaching out without getting

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Speaker 2: any responses. I forwarded all the voicemails and screenshots, especially

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Speaker 2: two or three where Ryan shows excitement that his sister

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Speaker 1: Wooh, got a smoking gun, Ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 2: Mother in law dropped out of a call the minute

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Speaker 2: that father in law came on. I told father in

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Speaker 2: law what was going on, thanked him for the cordial

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Speaker 2: treatment I always got from him, and explained that I

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Speaker 2: simply unsuitable to be with a hardworking and successful partner

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Speaker 2: because he's a parasite, and that I can't respect a

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Speaker 2: man who doesn't have a real job. Games is days

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Speaker 2: away is probably lying about his new job. Now all

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Speaker 2: Ryan said was wow, and that I was insulting him.

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Speaker 2: And it gets worse. Wow.

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Speaker 1: Father in law.

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Speaker 2: Gets constantly demonized for having dumped mother in law aha,

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Speaker 2: and he starts talking very sternly about feeling confused and

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Speaker 2: disappointed about all of this wedding stuff. He and Ryan

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Speaker 2: get into an argument and sister in law started yelling.

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Speaker 2: Despite me disliking Ryan because of everything that he did,

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Speaker 2: said he is fed up with all his children and

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Speaker 2: that despite knowing his children resent him, he did give

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Speaker 2: sister in law two grand as a gift to pay

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Speaker 2: off some debt or to use for the wedding, but

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Speaker 2: she used it all on outings in good times instead,

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Speaker 2: Facebook posts. So maybe the dad is like the rare,

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Speaker 2: the rare gem in the field of this whole family.

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Speaker 2: One can only pray. I don't have much information on this.

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Speaker 2: I just know that George was super thrown off by

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Speaker 2: this and kept asking and asking about it. He sounded confused,

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Speaker 2: just like when someone has been denied some resources readily available.

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Speaker 2: But I could be wrong. Father in law said he

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Speaker 2: expected his money back because he was fed up with

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Speaker 2: all the drama and said that this was going to

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Speaker 2: keep happening. Please don't come to me when you get

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Speaker 2: a divorce. Yikes, And you know one thing, I'll say

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Speaker 2: real quick. Maybe some of y'all feel different. Obviously, two

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's even worth it to demand the

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Speaker 2: get it back? She took money from her husband that

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Speaker 2: she lied and said she was using for the down

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Speaker 1: Wrong, didn't need that.

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Speaker 2: She took the two k that the father in law

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Speaker 2: kinds of other things. I wouldn't even worry about it.

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's just me. But like two grand in the

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Father.

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Speaker 2: In law told sister in law to stop listening to

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Speaker 2: Ryan already because he's unhelpable and can't be of help

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Speaker 2: to anyone because he's both dumb and grady, and that

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Speaker 2: he's an open mouth with an extremely empty stomach, and

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Speaker 2: that she's ridiculous for following the Ryan like a cult member.

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Speaker 2: Sister in law started yelling at him, and he said,

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Speaker 2: this is exactly why all her men run for the

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Speaker 2: hills and go to ask mother if temper chantrums and

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Speaker 2: victim mongering are in any way an afrodisiac. Oh god,

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Speaker 2: this was a huge can of worms to be open.

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Speaker 2: So I immediately dropped from the call because I was

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Speaker 2: very stressed out despite having tried to keep a cool

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Speaker 2: headed mindset. I blocked everyone and changed my number, sealed

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Speaker 2: all my social media, and removed apps. I didn't know

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Speaker 2: how to block people on Okay real quick here, So like,

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Speaker 2: oh god, what a this.

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Speaker 1: Really is a craft storm?

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Speaker 2: Like Opie said, You know, Opie was right to leave

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Speaker 2: this situation, said at multiple times was the group call

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Speaker 2: worth it? I mean, in a way, I guess it

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Speaker 2: kind of like exposed a lot of things, which is

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Speaker 2: kind of good if you think about, Like, for the

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Speaker 2: father in law as an example, like, maybe this is

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Speaker 2: the father in law finally realizing that, like everyone is

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Speaker 2: just so insane that it's just not worth it. But uh,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I would do the call. That's

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Speaker 2: that's a lot. It's been weeks and no wedding stuff

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Speaker 2: has been posted. Maybe they haven't had it, maybe his cancel.

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Speaker 2: None of my friends who have visited their profiles have

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Speaker 2: seen anything but cryptic stuff written by George. I cannot

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Speaker 2: guarantee the wedding did not take place, but it doesn't

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Speaker 2: look like. Also, I agree with some replies about having

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Speaker 2: a court wedding. They could have done that for additional clarification.

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Speaker 2: I wanted father in law to know everything because he

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Speaker 2: was quite often the inky, friendly face in the family,

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Speaker 2: and I didn't want to leave without him understanding the truth. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so that is why OPI went through with the phone call.

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Speaker 2: Definitely makes a lot more sense. Okay, he was decent

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Speaker 2: and I didn't want him to think that I'm some

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Speaker 2: kind of witch who ruined his daughter's wedding for kicks

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Speaker 2: and giggles. Thank you again. Yeah, you know, I understand

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Speaker 2: OP wanting to do that because one it's you know,

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Speaker 2: for the father in law, I guess one way possible

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Speaker 2: Op explains more about her kids. I was going to

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Speaker 2: Thanks for asking. I am a single mom, cheating ex divorced.

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Speaker 2: My kids are under ten years old. Years ago, I

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Speaker 2: I talked to both my kids and my parents. My

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Speaker 2: from my previous post. I'm currently tending to local consulting

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Speaker 2: I mean, it seems like maybe still a client stile

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Speaker 2: shout out for a boss. My ex leaving me hanging

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Speaker 2: We've reached the end of the story. Wow, there's kind

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Speaker 2: of a lot to dive into. Let's start at the top.

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Speaker 2: So as far as op you know, leaving Ryan, you know,

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Speaker 1: God, look at me. My opinion.

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Speaker 2: You need to put something into a relationship. Yeah, like,

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Speaker 2: like Look, if you have a relationship setup where both

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Speaker 2: hang out and then we can just enjoy our life

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Speaker 2: together or travel whatever you can enjoy doing whatever, Hoppies

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Speaker 1: Like, great, more power to you.

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Speaker 2: But op is a single mom, working hard, has went

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Speaker 2: I think again, giving some notice, I think is good.

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Speaker 2: I think it's the high road to take. But ultimately,

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Speaker 1: Whatever, do with a gift what you like.

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Speaker 2: But you know, the dad was kind of hoping that

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Speaker 2: basically just be responsible with it.

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Speaker 2: Again, at the end of the day, if you give

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Speaker 2: it is. It's gone like I would say, just kind

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Speaker 2: of keep keep it pushing. But I think that was

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Speaker 1: So yeah, op intummation on that point.

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Speaker 2: Op not at all the a hole for leaving for

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Speaker 1: You know, you had the chance, You had the freaking chance.

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Speaker 2: I would say more of give Ryan some kind of

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Speaker 1: But that's my take. Let me know what y'all think.

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Speaker 2: And then finally, this mother in law, I mean, where

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Speaker 2: or do you get off? You know, baby trapping husband

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Speaker 2: All of you watching? I would love to know your take.

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Speaker 2: And the big question from this whole thing, from the

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Speaker 1: Let me know in the comments below. I'll see in

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Speaker 1: the next one.

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Speaker 3: This is an episode from Deep Within the Archives. Time

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Speaker 3: for okop reward. I bought my wife a Bristia, and

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Speaker 3: now she thinks I don't love her anymore. You know,

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Speaker 3: I think that's totally fair.

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Speaker 1: It depends on the kind of bra. Right.

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Speaker 4: If it's like a sexy, sexy bra, it's like, oh

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Speaker 4: my god, that's great. What if it's like a like

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Speaker 4: a medical bra. I don't know what a medical bra

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Speaker 4: looks like. I don't a very broad trash bags trash

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Speaker 4: bags and you gotta cover, you gotta covers.

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Speaker 1: Almost.

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Speaker 4: I really actually don't think I've done anything wrong. My

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Speaker 4: you think you haven't done anything wrong and your wife does,

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Speaker 4: you are wrong. Booth burn all right. Anyway, all summer,

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Speaker 4: my wife has been complaining about her sweaty tits.

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Speaker 1: Come on, they be dripping, they'd be dripping. It's like

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Speaker 4: It's like, you know, if you've got a flap over

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Speaker 4: I get it. I mean, imagine having asses on your chest, dude,

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Speaker 4: and it drips down at least the ass drips down

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Speaker 4: like only it can only drip down to your feet.

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Speaker 4: This this drips down like you're you're covered back in front.

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Speaker 2: Also, it's worse because like my ass isn't fat enough

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Speaker 1: I have. I have more like a like a Prius Prius,

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Speaker 4: Economic No, no, you got the most efficient ass anyway.

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Speaker 4: All summer, she's be't complaining about these sweaty tits, how

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Speaker 4: She's paranoid about her under boom sweat lines, et cetera,

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Speaker 4: et cetera. It's like Niagara falls over there, just gushing. Now,

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Speaker 4: misconstrued as me criticizing her breasts or her sweatiness anything

437
00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 4: like that. She's not even more sweaty than the average person.

438
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 4: She just has massive fire trucks. Very incredible think of

439
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:32,119
Speaker 4: all those freaking that I'm scared.

440
00:21:33,080 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I kind of need to know

441
00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:41,840
Speaker 1: how big starting he's talking. We went from prius to

442
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:42,919
Speaker 1: fire truck over.

443
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:47,200
Speaker 4: Gotta turn bigger than a dump truck, huge, bro. Yeah,

444
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:49,920
Speaker 4: and absolutely no way in hell was I going to

445
00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 4: solve her problems. Only a husband who's an idiotic massochists

446
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 4: would do that, right, blow exactly.

447
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 1: Shod. Yeah, it's sexual, dude. I think I think that

448
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 1: might lead to some bedroom time. Yep.

449
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:07,159
Speaker 4: Also, as any man knows who's had a girlfriend for

450
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,440
Speaker 4: long enough, sometimes they just want you to listen. You

451
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:11,919
Speaker 4: don't want that. They don't want their problem solved. They

452
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:13,680
Speaker 4: want to keep the same problems. But just have you

453
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:14,720
Speaker 4: listened about those problems?

454
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 1: Exactly?

455
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:19,879
Speaker 4: Open tip, hot tip. But then last week I got

456
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 4: an email from the company she buys her period pants from.

457
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:27,159
Speaker 4: Why Opie subscribe to this company emails? I do not know,

458
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,639
Speaker 4: but you got an email and each newsletter signed up

459
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 4: gets money off their order. So a while back she

460
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,199
Speaker 4: had signed up using my email address to get an

461
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 4: extra promo code. I don't have a menstrual product, fetish

462
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 4: or anything. I swear, thank you for the clarification very helpful.

463
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:43,960
Speaker 4: I was whord you're like into that, like you know

464
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 4: that like like Japanese used panty market kind of thing.

465
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,720
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you could buy them from vending machines over there.

466
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 1: God, don't look at my collection.

467
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 4: It's my collection, Okay. So anyway, the subject line caught

468
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 4: my eye. The sweat bra a match made in a

469
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 4: league proof boob heaven. Oh yeah, I'm freaking clicking on

470
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 4: that email.

471
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 1: Damn. I will never have clicked on anything faster than that.

472
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I dude, I mean even even just for

473
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,959
Speaker 4: my titties, Like, can I bro Our titties are like, yo,

474
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 4: you want to see these titties we we have.

475
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 1: We have hot hot wheels. Look at that titty.

476
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:23,680
Speaker 2: We went from fire truck dump truck prius to hot wheels.

477
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:25,679
Speaker 1: Those are hot.

478
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 4: Or no, we got we got hot wheel. They're still hot,

479
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 4: but they're tiny. Yes, obviously, any sane person would delete

480
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 4: the email, but as I said, I'm an idiotic masochist. Plus,

481
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 4: the email said this bra would be my wife's new

482
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 4: best friend. Actually I didn't say new best friend, it

483
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 4: said new breast friend. Hey you got smarts for days?

484
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 1: Baby?

485
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 4: Who was I to keep her from her breast friend. Now, yo,

486
00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 4: you aren't anyone to keep them from breast friends. So

487
00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 4: I checked out the sizes of her other bras and

488
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 4: in place and order, thinking I was going to be

489
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,439
Speaker 4: a husband of the year over here. It arrived an

490
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 4: hour or so ago. I knew what it would be,

491
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 4: so I handed her unopened.

492
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: Here, babe, this is for you for your big old thought.

493
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: Oh what is it? It's a bra, babe.

494
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,400
Speaker 4: At this point I see a glint in her eyes

495
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:27,119
Speaker 4: and I realize my mistake. Sure enough, instead of what

496
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 4: she was expecting, which was sexy lingerie, that's what she

497
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 4: was hoping for, she pulls out these large, beige, utilitarian

498
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 4: looking sweatproof bra. Well, I'm sure you can imagine how

499
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 4: it went from there, and my foolish muttering of but

500
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 4: but the ads said it would be your new breast friend.

501
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 4: It didn't help the matters because apparently I'm the only

502
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:50,439
Speaker 4: sweaty tit here.

503
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 1: She's like, you.

504
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 4: Don't find me sexy anymore, I'll have you know, those

505
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 4: sweaty breast fed and nourished our children by you can't even.

506
00:24:59,520 --> 00:24:59,920
Speaker 1: Look at me.

507
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,120
Speaker 4: Oh this is way too classic, and just what exactly

508
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 4: am I getting out anyway? Am I trying to say

509
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,679
Speaker 4: that she has saggy boobs, that she needs a new bro,

510
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 4: a more supportive one for aging sandbags? Dude, she's hurt,

511
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:21,399
Speaker 4: She's hurt. A huge mistake. This is just like me

512
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 4: trying to solve a problem rather than let her vent.

513
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 4: But you know what needs venting, John, those freaking fire

514
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 4: truck titties.

515
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 1: Baby. And you know it's so tragic.

516
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 2: Literally listening up to the point where after she opened

517
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 2: the package, I was racking my brain thinking what did

518
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 2: he do wrong?

519
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 1: Like I still I thought he was a great husband, but.

520
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 2: I knew going into the story from a title that

521
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 2: it was going to turn out bad. Yeah, my tiny

522
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 2: reptilian fucking peanut brain just could not comprehend.

523
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: You're an idiot. You're an idiot. I need to get

524
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 1: a fire truck brain.

525
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 4: Firetruck brain, dude, for those fire truck titties. So, yeah,

526
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 4: that went well. She is taking the kids to a

527
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 4: swimming lesson and then for ice cream. So I have

528
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:09,919
Speaker 4: two hours of salvage things. Maybe I buy some crotchless pants,

529
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 4: Maybe maybe I have a I have a curveball for him. Curveball,

530
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:20,479
Speaker 4: what he gets his own big tits ah and then

531
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 4: wears them from the dude, just eat dude, you got

532
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 4: to eat that ice cream, grow some titties, wear the bra,

533
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 4: get some use out of that ship, bro, or better yet,

534
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 4: have a threesome with your wife. Then she'll feel sexy again.

535
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,120
Speaker 1: A threesome. Yeah, but it has to be a two

536
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 1: dudes three so she's like, right right, right, two girl threesome.

537
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 1: That would be too fun for him. No, no, no, no,

538
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 1: that has to be like or or what about ten dudes?

539
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 1: I mean, what a train?

540
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:49,880
Speaker 4: Right?

541
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 1: Hey, forget the fire truck, let's run the train. Yeah, Like, well,

542
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: I just don't understand why we need to why limit ourselves?

543
00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're not about limiting. We're not about empowering men

544
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 4: and women to live their sexiest.

545
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 2: Say exactly if if ten dudes want to uh run

546
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:12,640
Speaker 2: your guy's wife's fire fire triutities, who truly, who am

547
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 2: I to stop them?

548
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 1: You are not? Who am I? No one