1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: My brother is finally divorcing my cheating sister in law. 2 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: But I knew she was a nightmare from the start. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: Part five. So there's been many parts in the series 4 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: catching you up. Opie was the ugly duckling child left 5 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: home at eighteen years down the line, became homeless, asked 6 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: his parents to just park his camper at their house. 7 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:18,600 Speaker 1: They said no. He had to work and basically live 8 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: homeless and pull himself up by his bootstraps. Finally purchased 9 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 1: the house. They tried to force their way in. Opie 10 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: was like, nah, call the police. Got their butts out 11 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: of there. They tried to come back at Christmas, got 12 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: their butts out of there. They tried to ask again 13 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: for help just money. Got their butts out of there. 14 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: And now we figured out the cistern. Law's brother's wife 15 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 1: was kind of pulling the strings and like pushing them 16 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 1: the whole time. Turns out she had an affair on 17 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: the brother. They all split up. They're absolutely crumbling, and 18 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 1: the brother and parents who were terrible again he was 19 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: the ugly. 20 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 2: Duck and growing up. 21 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: They came and all apologized. 22 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 3: They're working on themselves. 23 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: They're working on themselves. Will there be a fullward denison 24 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: ark for them. Will the sister in law go full 25 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: crazy mode to get locked away for like twenty years? 26 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 3: You'll find out. 27 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: That is why we're reading this next part. So this 28 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:03,279 Speaker 1: is what I know of the divorce from my brother Dan. Now, 29 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 1: Dan's lawyer pulled some strings to get the divorce started 30 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,759 Speaker 1: as fast as possible, but it cost him. I don't 31 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 1: know the more specific details here or how much it 32 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: cost him. They never told me. Sister law, on the 33 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: other hand, was financially backed into a corner very badly. 34 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 1: And you know what can happen when you corner an animal. 35 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: Oh my god, and we know she's an animal. Hope 36 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 1: goes pretty crazy. But honestly, this is this is a honeybadger. 37 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 3: Yes, we'll attack you if she really is a honeymoon 38 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 3: literally attack you with her claw. 39 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,119 Speaker 1: Yes, she's done it multiple times to people who don't 40 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: deserve it. But she fought back. But the law was 41 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 1: not on her side, nor were her dwindling finances. Sister 42 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: in law's parents had to pay for a lawyer for her, 43 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: and not a very good one either. Also, she actually 44 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: brought her a fair partner to divorce court to testify 45 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 1: on her behalf. 46 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 2: That's not helping you. 47 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 3: She's like, I never cheated. Here's my witness. 48 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 2: You're at of false state with your a fair partner 49 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 2: right there beside of you, like I. 50 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 3: Am just I'm like her milkman. 51 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 2: Out of all the things this woman has done, this 52 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 2: is literally the stupid act she has done. 53 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: It's so crazy. God, he had a bronze tongue and 54 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: a charming smile he tried to use to his advantage. 55 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 1: But I'm guessing ended up foolish. But this comes from 56 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: the one and only camp or nomad from our slast 57 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 1: okay storytime. So he claimed sister in law had been 58 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: wronged by an incompetent husband, which is why she sought 59 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 1: the arms of another man. 60 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 3: So his defense was, yeah, she cheated, but she needed too. 61 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: Yeah he deserved me this dands, Come on, we did 62 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 1: it for Dan, We did it for you, for your kids, 63 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:50,399 Speaker 1: for my kid. 64 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 3: You're welcome. 65 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: How else is like you would have done it too? Yeah? 66 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,839 Speaker 1: How else was my kid supposed to get home by 67 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 1: staying in his house or a house they all stole together. 68 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: He claimed he was ready to take responsibility for his 69 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: child he had fathered with sister in law, but that 70 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: sister in law would be still needing alimony for helping 71 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 1: support care of herself and said child. He remarked that Dan, 72 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: at the time was still on the birth certificate, alimony 73 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 1: should be one of his obligations. Dan said, this guy 74 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 1: used big words in a charming smile, but seemed an 75 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: extra special kind of stupid conspiracy theory. He's also hot, 76 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: so and dumb. He's a beautiful idiot, yeatiful idiot. 77 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 2: I can see that we want Dan to be like 78 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 2: having paid child support for this kid. 79 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: Absolutely not for now we're on Dan's side. 80 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 3: I will was it really turned? 81 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: I will be honest. At first, I was like, I 82 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: will never be on Dan's side, But now that we 83 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: are in this this, you know that it's. 84 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 3: I think I think about them in two separate situation, 85 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 3: you know, I think it's like two separate situations. 86 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 2: Sister in law was definitely Germany pulling all the strings 87 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 2: behind the back, and now they're Russia and they're teaming 88 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 2: up to defeat Germany. Were you Op's USA? 89 00:03:58,200 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: Of course? 90 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 3: Yeah? Look, I feel like, ohp, he's more of the 91 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 3: UK if we're because he was involved the whole time. 92 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 3: I feel like his family is the is America. 93 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 2: No, the family's not America whatsoever. 94 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 3: No, no, no, like the extended family. The ones who were like. 95 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:18,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, that's actually so op is England and 96 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 2: the fair partner is Japan in World War two. Okay, okay, 97 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 2: I just want to get this clear. 98 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:24,160 Speaker 1: You might have done it, Rightley, you might have done it. 99 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 1: I think we did it historical context, and coming from Dan, 100 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: that's saying something. The judge was also not swayed in 101 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 1: the slightest and told that bronx tongued. 102 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 3: Lout Ron's tongued lout. 103 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 1: That he was a hypocritic. It was for saying he 104 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:41,679 Speaker 1: was ready to take responsibility from his old child while 105 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 1: also holding his hand out for money from the man 106 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: whose marriage he helped ruin. Bar that shut him up. 107 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 1: Dan was prepared to sue his wife's a fair partner 108 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 1: for alienation of affection too. WHOA, I didn't. I didn't. 109 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 1: That's great. I didn't know you could do that. I 110 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 1: never thought about that. It never crossed my mind before, right, 111 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: I didn't asuming the affair. 112 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 3: Partner for the affair partner. 113 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, for you know, you ruined the relationship emotional emotional damage. 114 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: Emotional damage. 115 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 2: You made me feel like less of a man, yea, 116 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 2: because you were you freaking the dogs. 117 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 3: He comes in, he's like, I'm a witness and you're 118 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 3: like your honor. I'd also like to call to the 119 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 3: stand the affair partner because I'm suing him too. 120 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 2: Got him so you get them all, got them all, 121 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 2: and then you sue the kid for being a product 122 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 2: of this. Get all the money, baby, what do you 123 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 2: have to say? 124 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 3: Get on the stand? Silent, unbelievable, Jesus cry. Oh god, 125 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 3: those are crocodile tears. 126 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: Imagine what was the one kid that came with like, 127 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:43,559 Speaker 1: kicked kicked Opie? Remember on the stand, stop talking about 128 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: my mommy. He's just like hitting the judge on the knee, 129 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: like the little baby fit very However, all of that 130 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: fell through too. I guess it would have been on 131 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: Dan to prove how much she loved him before the 132 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,839 Speaker 1: affair started, But after her mask came off and we 133 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: saw the real her, we're not sure if she ever 134 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,799 Speaker 1: really loved him at all, or if she just loved 135 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: having a meal ticket. Oh god, someone here pointed out 136 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: cistern Lot probably kept popping out kids to avoid getting 137 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 1: a job. 138 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:12,720 Speaker 3: Really crazy way to do that. 139 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: She's a really crazy woman. That's true, and you may 140 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 1: have been right either way. Sister in lat tried dragging 141 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 1: out the divorce, but Dan's lawyer and the judge kept 142 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 1: that from happening. I swear Dan must have seriously lucked 143 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 1: out because he got one of the most one of 144 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 1: the meanest and most unsympathetic to cheaters judges in the state. 145 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: Judge's heart was definitely broken. Oh yeah, that judge has 146 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:35,239 Speaker 1: a broken judge. 147 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:39,039 Speaker 3: Could you do that? Sister in law? Why would you 148 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 3: do that? 149 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: You're going to jail? And all the evidence we had 150 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 1: on Cistern Lot made it easy to keep her from 151 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 1: playing the victim, so instead she just let her bitchy 152 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: self out since there was no point in hiding it anymore. 153 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:55,359 Speaker 1: The court had all the records proved by Dan and myself, 154 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: police reports, photos, and recordings to prove that she was 155 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:02,480 Speaker 1: an abuse of narcissist. There was a mountain against Cistern Law, 156 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: and she had no way to climb over or hike 157 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: around it. She tried standing against the mountain, but that 158 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: was prime avalanche. A little metaphor, right, Opie really does have. 159 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 3: A week with Yeah, Opie's like louts, It's just fun. 160 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 3: Sister in law is hobosexual. 161 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: There you have it, there, it is there. It is 162 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: holbo sexual, someone who gets with people for to stay 163 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: at their place. 164 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 2: And cowbot as God said, mom and dad or Italy. 165 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: Mom and dad are in Italy. 166 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 2: Italy, Italy and World War two. 167 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 3: Oh they moved to Italy. 168 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, wait a second, I've. 169 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 3: Remember that part. I thought I was here the whole time. 170 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: My Gord, your metaphor is proving rich Riley. I'll give 171 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: you that. This gives me great joy. Yeah, it's definitely 172 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 1: grown grown arm me. But in the end of the divorce, 173 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: cistern Law struck a deal to end things quick. Dan 174 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: takes three quarters of the credit card debt that sounds terrible, wait, 175 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: gets his name off of the affair, baby's birth certificate, 176 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: and sister in law walked away with only partial custody 177 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 1: of her children, no alimony, but also without most of 178 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: the credit debt that she racked up. That to me 179 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: is crazy. 180 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 3: She racked She really lucked out in this. 181 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: She maxed out every single credit card that she got. Yeah, 182 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: I mean that could be a lot of thousands of life. 183 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 3: She has to pay it all off. 184 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: He has to pay three seventy. 185 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 3: Lot and like I'm reading what she did. 186 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm reading between the lines, but it sounds it 187 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: seems like most of these purchases were like her centric. 188 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 1: It's not like going to the grocery store and buying 189 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: things with the family. It's like, it seems like it 190 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 1: was her, although we don't, you know what. We don't 191 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: know for sure in fairness, so maybe maybe it was 192 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: so mixed, which makes sense. She's doing the same grocery 193 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 1: cards as she is on all of her online shopping 194 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: and shoes. 195 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 3: They can't they can't go through it all. 196 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, dang god, that that sucks. That really sucks. Honestly, 197 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 1: her being legally employed by her parents meant that she 198 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 1: had an income of her own to fall back on 199 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 1: to start paying off the debts. She can see her 200 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,439 Speaker 1: other kids almost when ever she wants, and can take 201 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 1: them on weekends. That also seems I feel like it 202 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 1: should be she can only see the kids with Dan president. 203 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, Like we know that she like 204 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 3: they said accidentally, but she still hit the kid yeah 205 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 3: in that fight. Yes, And she's getting custed. 206 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 2: She's violent, Yeah, because she's hot to dude. 207 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 1: Judge, come on, come on, judge, judge, take your kids away, 208 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: put you in jail. 209 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 2: But you're but dude, My mom told me she wore 210 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 2: like a nice dress one time to get out of 211 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 2: a ticket in court. 212 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: Do it, dude, that's exactly what I would do. 213 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 3: You wear a nice dress? 214 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:44,960 Speaker 1: Can't even yet heel you kidding me? Are you kidding me? 215 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 3: You can have them that ticket so fast. 216 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 1: Dude, that would be me in harbat. Anyways, I aggress 217 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: ho about me in a dress. But for whatever reason, 218 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: she's made very few attempts to even see them. It 219 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: makes perfect sense to me. She never took them home 220 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,679 Speaker 1: with her. The kids are back in school now, so 221 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 1: that gives her even less opportunities to see them. You 222 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 1: would think her parents would want to see their grandchildren, 223 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: but they haven't even contacted Dan about it. They barely 224 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: saw Dan's children before that too. Now they might not 225 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: even bother to see them at all. Do they hate 226 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 1: kids or something? 227 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 3: I think so. 228 00:10:14,559 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 1: Even Dan doesn't know, but he tells me that his 229 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: in laws were always indifferent to him. I was just 230 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: gonna say, are they also? It's like the classic like 231 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: practice family and then real family are they now also 232 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 1: in with sister in law and this sick twisted thing 233 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: of like, oh, this is your real family now, we'll 234 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 1: just focus on them kind of. 235 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 3: I also feel like there could be some sort of 236 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 3: manipulation going on, as we know the sister in law does. 237 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 1: That's a very good point. 238 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 3: She might have said something about Dan and the fam 239 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 3: and as. 240 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 1: Far as we know, it seems that sister in law's 241 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: parents were in these court cases. So they're not sitting 242 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 1: here so hearing this stuff, right, so she can they're off. 243 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, she can kind of say whatever she wants. 244 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're they're on there, they're not seeing the grandkids, 245 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 1: they're they're not mixing around at all. I think that 246 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 1: is a very accurate prediction. 247 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 3: And Pinky the Slayer says she's getting visitation guys, not 248 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:05,479 Speaker 3: primary custody. 249 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, yeah, so she can. 250 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 3: Still I think that even with visitation, I think if 251 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 3: you have a violent person having someone like there while she's. 252 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 1: Visiting, absolutely, because they did say that she can have 253 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 1: them on the weekend, which to me is like, oh 254 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:26,079 Speaker 1: she can solo take her to her house. I'm like no, absolutely. 255 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 2: Not, And how crazy this woman is. 256 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:29,839 Speaker 1: But I guess, like it's the way they phrased it 257 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 1: where it's like, oh, they wanted to to end it quickly. 258 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: It almost sounds like they gave her a little more 259 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: favorable with the with the rights of the kids and 260 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:39,559 Speaker 1: the twenty five percent of the credit card debt to 261 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:41,720 Speaker 1: get her to sign off in it and not draw, 262 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 1: which you know what, maybe then he's like, I have 263 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 1: to deal with her. You know, maybe there was a 264 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: few more months in court that he saved. I don't know, 265 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 1: that could be it. 266 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 2: We could well the ultimate card have op press charges. 267 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 2: She goes away for she knows what it's away for 268 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 2: good because she assaulted him. She broke into his house. 269 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, he said, he pressed charges, he said, but that's 270 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 3: a really point. 271 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, but that's a good point though, because. 272 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 3: It's like, why didn't that affect the you know, the 273 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:10,559 Speaker 3: divorce or or like. 274 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 2: Is just a different issue just dealing with the divorce. 275 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 2: And now this part is he hasn't done his thing 276 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 2: yet because she. 277 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:18,440 Speaker 3: Has she has a criminal record, which is why she 278 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 3: couldn't really get a job. 279 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm yeah, I'm confused now because I'm like, 280 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 1: wouldn't she have done. I don't know, either a fine 281 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 1: or jail time or community service or like something which 282 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,560 Speaker 1: I feel like OPI would mention if she got any 283 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 1: sort of like sentencing, yeah, because it's like, then, what 284 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 1: was the like punishment for all those charges, right, I 285 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 1: don't know other than her getting it on her her record. 286 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 1: She was arrested, Yeah. 287 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 3: So maybe she was like bailed out or something. 288 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:47,559 Speaker 1: She was bailed out by her parents. She was bailed 289 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: out by her parents. 290 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 2: And I went to Op put her hands on him, 291 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:53,839 Speaker 2: and he was like, I got video evidence of all this. 292 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 1: But then I'm still surprised, even after they bailed him out, 293 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: did she not have to go to court for these 294 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 1: It seems like somewhere in this felony, do you not 295 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: have to go to court and then get a sentence 296 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:03,959 Speaker 1: for that. 297 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 2: Specifically post bail A story later, that's true, you're right, 298 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:08,839 Speaker 2: you're right, that's true. 299 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: Let me let me hold my tongue, Let me hold 300 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:12,679 Speaker 1: my tongue, Let me keep reading. And as for Dan, well, 301 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 1: he really did love his wife a lot. Feel sorry. Yeah, 302 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 1: so the betrayal of her cheating made him hit the 303 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 1: bottle hard. Rewind back to the night of his confrontation 304 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 1: with his wife. He came to me in a stupor 305 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 1: with a bottle in hand and his face all scratched 306 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 1: up and covered in bandages. I wouldn't say he was 307 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:31,680 Speaker 1: wasted yet, but I was freaking out seeing him looking 308 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: like that at first. Then berated him for driving under 309 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:37,079 Speaker 1: the influence. Yeah, that's insane, but that didn't really mean 310 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 1: much to him compared to the betrayal of his cheating 311 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 1: Harlot and of assumed to be ex wife. We spent 312 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,719 Speaker 1: a few hours hanging out in the camper so as 313 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:48,199 Speaker 1: not to disturb my tenants. All the time Dan was 314 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 1: drinking straight from the bottle and crying that he's a 315 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 1: fool and how he regretted ever marrying sister in law. 316 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 1: Pretty Much anytime he mentions her now he refers to 317 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 1: her as that that be allowed. 318 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 3: Honestly, No, I'm not here, boom. He doesn't get it. 319 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 3: Not Dan doesn't get. 320 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:08,319 Speaker 2: The past exactly, So okay, sorry sorry, real quick conspiracy 321 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 2: theory please, he's doing all this just to get the camper. 322 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 3: Dude, it's a long con. 323 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 2: Oh my god, that would be both in on it now. 324 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 3: It's like the redemption arc. I haven't actually seen all 325 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 3: of Game of Thrones, but it's like the Jamie Lanister 326 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 3: redemption arc, like you're like, oh, this is the worst, 327 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 3: how could I ever forgive him? And then you're like, Wow, 328 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 3: he really turned around. 329 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 1: He really did it. 330 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 3: Final final bit. 331 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: I don't know the final bit. I'm literally I was 332 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 1: literally watching it last night that I won spoilers. 333 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 3: I've only seen dumped up season five. 334 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 1: I just know I am literally at the beginning of 335 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 1: season five. Okay, I think maybe. 336 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 3: He might be past where I went. 337 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe, But ironically, this time together was the most 338 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: bonding Dan and I have done in fifteen years. Well, 339 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 1: it didn't exactly apologize to me. He called himself a 340 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: crappy human being with terrible taste in women. So then 341 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: Dan said, at least I didn't make his mistakes Dan's mistakes. 342 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 1: Despite all of what he previously did to me, he 343 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: is still my younger brother, and I couldn't risk letting 344 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: him try to drive home, so I told him to 345 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: stay the night and manage to take his keys, then 346 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 1: set up the bunk in my camper for him to use. 347 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 1: I rented out my spare rooms. After all, he was 348 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: in no shape to drive home. And if he had 349 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 1: taken an uber, he'd have to pay for it then 350 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 1: have to come back for his car later. He was 351 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: still a depressed, crying mess. And I didn't want our 352 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: parents or his kids to see him like that. And frankly, 353 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 1: I was worried he'd do something insanely if I left him. 354 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 1: I didn't want him to sleep in the house, so 355 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 1: putting him in the camper was the best option. I mean, Riley, 356 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 1: you might be right, you might be right. 357 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 3: We'll see. I really just need a place to stay tonight. 358 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 3: Maybe maybe it doesn't have to be that big of 359 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 3: a space, maybe just like outside in your backyard. 360 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 2: Yep. And then he does the pr squad of his 361 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 2: life and becomes in squats there. 362 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then he just say he doesn't leave, he 363 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 3: could do that now and then and then the court 364 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 3: case goes away and the judge pulls off like a 365 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 3: mask and he goes wait. 366 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 1: Tricked, yack done, done done. Also, Sophia Collin said, you 367 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: lost a wife, but you gained a brother. 368 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 3: And also, yes, Josephine macdoliver quest, I saw that while 369 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 3: I was on my break, Liam Payne from one direction 370 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 3: he fell off a roof. 371 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 1: We heard it. 372 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 2: We conspiracy theory, bro, people don't just fall off Russ. 373 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 2: How many stories? 374 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 1: How was it? 375 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 2: I don't know more than three. 376 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 3: I haven't. They're probably gonna look into it. There was 377 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 3: that does sound pretty, you know, like on my side here? Well, 378 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know if it necessarily like. 379 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: If it's over, but it does, Sofia's on your side. 380 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 2: If it's over three stories, you can't you can't tell 381 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 2: if it's a struggle or not. It looks like an accident. 382 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 3: After three stories, they definitely have to do more, like 383 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 3: have to look into them. 384 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they got cameras all over that. 385 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 3: Really yeah, but really horrible. 386 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 1: This is true. This is true. But I'm gonna be 387 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: back storry. So just because that be after him over 388 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 1: doesn't mean I suddenly trusted him. So better for him 389 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:50,240 Speaker 1: to sleep it off in the camper. We both spent 390 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 1: some time in the camper playing games, watching movies on 391 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: my portable deep DVD player. Poker was no fun with 392 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 1: just two people, an old maid was just boring. Thankfully 393 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: I had an Uno deck too, and an old battleship game. 394 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 1: He really liked those. It was enough to keep him 395 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 1: distracted until he was finally willing to lay down after 396 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 1: running out of drink, he threw up a lot of 397 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 1: it in a bucket. Anyways, Ugh, but he was not 398 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 1: opposed to sleeping in my camper. In fact, he found 399 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 1: the idea kind of cool. 400 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:19,880 Speaker 3: Stomp bitch this get out there suspicious. 401 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: No would. Dan had a lot of questions for me 402 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:24,639 Speaker 1: as to how I'd lived in the camper for as 403 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 1: long as I did, tips on how to keep them there, 404 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 1: and I answered them all, if not just to keep 405 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 1: him busy, but I needed to go to bed myself 406 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:36,199 Speaker 1: since I had to be up pretty early, so I 407 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 1: left him with my portable DVD player and a couple 408 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 1: of movies. That way he could amuse himself alone for 409 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:44,119 Speaker 1: a while, if he even managed to stay awake. Before 410 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: leaving for work in the morning, I popped in while 411 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 1: Dan was passed out in the bunk and left a 412 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 1: bottle of iboprofen and an energy drink on the counter 413 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 1: of the camper's kitchen. It along with his car keys 414 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:57,680 Speaker 1: and a letter explaining to leave through the backyard gate. 415 00:17:57,840 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 1: He saw himself out without trouble. 416 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 3: I don't trust it. 417 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:03,880 Speaker 1: Is he coming back? Is he coming back? 418 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 3: Probably like I don't know. I feel like he did 419 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 3: the thing where you pressed the key into the clay 420 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:13,199 Speaker 3: and then he got he made a new key. Yeah, 421 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 3: something specihy. 422 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:16,880 Speaker 1: He melted the glue stick and shoved it in the keyhole. 423 00:18:17,040 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 2: Also, why is he not with his kids right now? 424 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:20,360 Speaker 3: Kid? 425 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 1: Probably his parents are Why are you doing that? 426 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 3: I mean it's better than him looking after them. Yeah, 427 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 3: he's in this state. 428 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, not not to defend him, but it's like, yeah, 429 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: that both grandparents are with all three kids, and he's 430 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: just kind of like going going through it. So I 431 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 1: could I could. I could see that. I could see that. Oh, yes, 432 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:41,400 Speaker 1: I've been due. Thanks about a five bucks on the tip, Lank, 433 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 1: thank you for work. Quick question? Would I be the 434 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 1: a hole if I tell my hobby to shish while 435 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 1: I sit here at midnight sawing my son sewing my 436 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: son's blaber whilst enjoying, enjoying the show? There were that 437 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: right blazer blazer? Crap? Why sit her at midnight sewing 438 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:01,400 Speaker 1: my son's blazer else enjoying the show? 439 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 2: Wake him up and have him watch it with you? 440 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 3: Is he snoring or is he trying to talk to you? 441 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:06,719 Speaker 1: Yeah? 442 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:09,120 Speaker 2: If it's if it's if he's talking to you, toe 443 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 2: the shut up and watch if he's snoring, tone, wake 444 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 2: up and watch. 445 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, there we go. 446 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 1: If it has to be, there's like a threshold because 447 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 1: like if you just immediately shoshish, immediately say shush ahole, 448 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 1: but if he does keep in red like a like 449 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 1: the special especial, it's a big story. Oh thank you, 450 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 1: sir Padubia. Thanks thanks for being a member for seven months. 451 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 1: Let's go. Thank you so much for your wonderful company 452 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 1: throughout through homework and working over time. You are all 453 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 1: simply delightful. 454 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 3: It's so sweet. 455 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:44,360 Speaker 1: You know what, we were freaking wonderful. Did you ever 456 00:19:44,359 --> 00:19:44,840 Speaker 1: think about that? 457 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 3: Did you ever freaking think about that? 458 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 1: And Heidi remember for six months, I am loving the drama. 459 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 1: I am enjoying Sam's sexy, sexy voice. 460 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 3: Not here. 461 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 1: Oh god, we don't have to talk about it. 462 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:01,479 Speaker 3: It'd be Jake. Thank you for the five Love you guys. 463 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:05,400 Speaker 1: It's been a minute. I feel like maybe maybe chick 464 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 1: good to see you, just see it? AnyWho are you 465 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:09,119 Speaker 1: ready to get back in? Boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen. 466 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 1: About a month after ex sister in law was kicked out, 467 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 1: Dan came to me asking to borrow my camper. 468 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 2: I called that that is mine. 469 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 1: I called that. 470 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 3: It's a pipeline man. 471 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:23,640 Speaker 1: We gave Riley an assignment, and guess what he understood. 472 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: He did it. 473 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 3: He did it. 474 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 1: He understood the assignment. Riley, great job. Sam's gonna be 475 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 1: the only one without a conspiracy loser once he shows 476 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 1: up at the end. We'll see what does he want 477 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 1: with this right. I guess he found it more comfortable 478 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:36,919 Speaker 1: than I thought when he slept in it, and he 479 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 1: fully admitted he didn't ask sooner out of pride. But 480 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 1: with his soon to be ex wife out of the house, 481 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 1: he decided to give up his room for his eldest kid. 482 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 1: He's got two girls and a boy, and the boy 483 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 1: being the eldest and now eight years old, the kids 484 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 1: were all forced to share a room up until that point. 485 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 1: They just had curtains up for the boys half of 486 00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 1: the room, but the boy often slept on the couch 487 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 1: to avoid his sisters. I mean, yeah, that's three kids 488 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 1: in a room. 489 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a lot. 490 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. The poor kid was really desperate for 491 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: his own room. So I guess Dan decided to finally 492 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: make a better decision as a dad. And came to 493 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:14,679 Speaker 1: see me in order to beg to borrow my camper 494 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 1: so his son could have his own room. If he 495 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 1: could have afforded it, he'd have bought his own camper 496 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:22,360 Speaker 1: instead of relying on mine, and even said as much. 497 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 1: I hadn't even gotten the chance to use a camper 498 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:28,679 Speaker 1: for actual camping yet, but but I caved and let 499 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 1: him use it since it was actually for a good cast. 500 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 3: Wow, this is how he gets you. He realized that 501 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:39,439 Speaker 3: the frontal assault wasn't working. 502 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:40,440 Speaker 1: Yes, so he. 503 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,360 Speaker 3: Did the little sneaky tricksy. 504 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 1: West, slow trust, build back. 505 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 3: Dude, you realize that you catch more flies with honey 506 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 3: or maybe it's no, I think it's flies. Yeah, it works, 507 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 3: Yeah thieves, Oh, bees catch more flies with honey. 508 00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 1: Okay, I feel like I've heard both, but I feel 509 00:21:59,280 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: like it's flies. 510 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 2: I don't know, man, I'd ask for some kind of rent. 511 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 2: But this is full circle because they were he was 512 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,159 Speaker 2: making fun of him, Yeah, being in camper. Luca's in 513 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 2: the camper. 514 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 1: Now, that's all he says. 515 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 3: He's like, you can have it, but I get to 516 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:11,199 Speaker 3: make fun of you. 517 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 2: You can have it, make fun of you, and you 518 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,880 Speaker 2: have to pay rent. I understand he's in a financial hole, 519 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 2: but you got to pay something, gotta do something. 520 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think that's I think that's fair. 521 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 1: Just like, hey, come back to with what you think 522 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 1: is fair, and then as long as that's more than 523 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:27,359 Speaker 1: like you know, Bill to be. 524 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 3: Like when you have the money, you know, no, no. 525 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,920 Speaker 2: He pays now, ye think of all the years, Sophia, 526 00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 2: I think, think of all the turmoil. 527 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:36,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he needs to like put his money 528 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 1: where his mouth is. Yeah, that he can that I 529 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: can afford. Opie says, he promised to buy his own 530 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 1: in time. Anyways, So we have a promise. 531 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 3: But let's see if we have followed through. 532 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 1: We'll see, we'll see. So, no, I didn't ask rent 533 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:52,119 Speaker 1: money for the camper. Dan is in enough of a 534 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,840 Speaker 1: financial hole as it is right now. Ex sister in 535 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:58,360 Speaker 1: law and the divorce drained him. I'm guessing financially, and 536 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 1: I've learned that I get far better results with family 537 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 1: lately by not being spiteful. I loaded my camper up 538 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 1: and put it down in my parents' backyard. Dude again, Okay. 539 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,119 Speaker 3: Okay, so you'll you'll have it, but not op know 540 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,880 Speaker 3: that is like I would be really upset. If if 541 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 3: my brother needed the van and like they put it 542 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 3: in the backyard and they didn't say, oh, it's an 543 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,040 Speaker 3: ice sore, and I'd be like, but why was it 544 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 3: an ice war for when it was my camper? I'd 545 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,120 Speaker 3: be so frustrated. And I know they're like turning over 546 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 3: a new leaf, but I'd still be pretty annoyed. 547 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 2: Hush, yeah, that's that's It's just but the camper ended up. 548 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 2: It's like up the house ended up where it wanted 549 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 2: to be. The camper ended up where it wanted to be. 550 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:39,439 Speaker 1: It's so funny. 551 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,440 Speaker 3: It's always meant to be in the backyard of his parents' house. 552 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: And my brother put in a thirty amp breaker so 553 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,120 Speaker 1: it'll have enough power for Dan to run the heat 554 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: and AC when he needs it. 555 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 2: No, no AC. I'm sorry, I'm petty, but he should 556 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:53,639 Speaker 2: not have a c in that. 557 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, he just gets a little he just gets a 558 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 3: little fan. That's all he should have. 559 00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:01,119 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so livid right now. I know 560 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 2: he's being a better person, but at least one year 561 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 2: of feeling what op went through. 562 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 1: Do you understand? Right? Oh my god, I do miss 563 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 1: the camper after all that time living in it kind 564 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 1: of felt like it was a part of me. It's 565 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 1: part like it's it was there when when you when 566 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 1: it's something in the come up, you know what I mean, 567 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 1: that has an emotional place in your heart. 568 00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 3: For sure, it's in the museum of his life or 569 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 3: as part of that. 570 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 1: This is true, But the only reason I loaned it 571 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:27,880 Speaker 1: out was for the sake of Dan's kid, for the kid, 572 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 1: for the kids. 573 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,159 Speaker 2: Do it for the kids, OPI has been more of 574 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,200 Speaker 2: a dad than later talk about it. 575 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:36,879 Speaker 1: Pretty much. The only reason I still do anything for 576 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 1: my parents or Dan is for the sake of those kids, 577 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 1: as I have bonded with them, his innocent nieces and nephews. 578 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,959 Speaker 3: After all, after all, they didn't do anything. 579 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 1: And yes, I know I may not be getting the 580 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,159 Speaker 1: camper back for quite some time, and not in the 581 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,400 Speaker 1: condition I lent it out in. But I've warned Dan 582 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:54,879 Speaker 1: and my parents that they will be financially responsible for 583 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 1: any damage they do to the camper as well as 584 00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 1: upkeep as long as they have it. 585 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:01,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I I think that it's definitely smart to make 586 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 3: to charge that or say like, you guys have to 587 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 3: pay me back. I think maybe if we could get 588 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 3: that in writing would be good because I don't super 589 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 3: trust them fully yet I don't trust I feel like 590 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 3: I missed the whole part where you guys were like, oh, 591 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,440 Speaker 3: redemption arc. So we're still in the. 592 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 2: Redemption arc happened when we found out Opie's wife, No, no, no, 593 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 2: Dan's wife was cheating on him. Thus the real enemy 594 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,679 Speaker 2: was Opie's Yeah, was Dan's wife. Because Dan's wife was 595 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 2: the one that was pulling all the strings. She was 596 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,119 Speaker 2: the one that planned the Christmas thing, she was the 597 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 2: one that planned to move into his house and break in, 598 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,880 Speaker 2: and she was also the one to plan something else. 599 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 2: But she was planning all these bad things. 600 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 3: Planning at all. 601 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's where the redemption arc started, got you. 602 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I still think that they should sign something. I 603 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 3: think it's really nice that Opi is helping out the kids, 604 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 3: and that's I think that's a fair thing, especially because 605 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 3: he's not like this time, he's not giving up his house. 606 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 3: He's just the camberman. 607 00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 2: I hopely the kids don't think of him as a 608 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:57,399 Speaker 2: bad guy anyway. 609 00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 3: I hope not. I hope they're not like, yeah, let 610 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 3: us live. 611 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,439 Speaker 2: With you, dude. These kids are gonna have so much trauma, 612 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 2: a lot. 613 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 1: Of things right now, dude, you're right, golly well, I 614 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:11,119 Speaker 1: took as many time spam pictures and videos of the 615 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,879 Speaker 1: camp or inside and outside before lending it out so 616 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 1: I can prove its condition before it left. Dan even 617 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:20,159 Speaker 1: recorded a video with me agreeing to my terms, so 618 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 1: that's as good as a contract. 619 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 2: It's not recording videos left and right. This family, dude, 620 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:26,879 Speaker 2: everyone stays recording each other. 621 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,359 Speaker 3: I mean you could literally started TikTok with this really 622 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 3: an animated thirty part series. 623 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, you are so right content op, listen, we 624 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,639 Speaker 1: get ready with me. We will give you some consultation 625 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 1: for free. Okay, I will help you, my friend, with 626 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,399 Speaker 1: the financial drain of the divorce. Dan's not going to 627 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:46,159 Speaker 1: be able to get a place of his own for 628 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 1: years all back though he seems to have no complaints 629 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,639 Speaker 1: about living in the camp, or at least, but I 630 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 1: don't know if he actually likes it or if he's 631 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,679 Speaker 1: just putting up a front, but I can guess it 632 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,360 Speaker 1: reminds him of the backyard for so we had his kids, 633 00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:00,640 Speaker 1: since that's how it felt with me. Sometimes. Either way, 634 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 1: he's living in it now. I did get some major 635 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 1: props from the extended family for letting him borrow it 636 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 1: too good. I'm now referred to by a lot of 637 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: them as the good brother Dan doesn't deserve. Either way, 638 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,239 Speaker 1: I think getting rid of sister in law was a 639 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 1: great first step in mending the family as a whole. 640 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: I still have little care for my brother and parents 641 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 1: after the way they treated me all my life, but 642 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let Dan's kids suffer for it. 643 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 3: Never let dance kids suffer. 644 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,679 Speaker 1: Ever. Those kids have actually really warmed up to me. 645 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,360 Speaker 1: They're actually happy to see me when I come over 646 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,399 Speaker 1: or when they visit me, and I've even babysat a 647 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,679 Speaker 1: few times. Now that they don't have their mother's toxic around, 648 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,960 Speaker 1: They've become much nicer kids, especially to me, and I'm 649 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,440 Speaker 1: actually enjoying getting to be an uncle. Now. 650 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:46,120 Speaker 2: We love this. 651 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,959 Speaker 1: I mean what you want to see. They're the kind 652 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 1: of winning it's kind of winning me over. I'm not okay, 653 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:52,400 Speaker 1: I can't, no, I know. 654 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 3: It's it's we're turning around, turning a new leaf over. 655 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 1: It is working. 656 00:27:56,280 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 3: Maybe if we read like if there were long read 657 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 3: it stories, like if all read It stories were fifteen 658 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 3: thousand words longer, they'd all end up good. 659 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 2: You know, with time, with time, That's what I'm saying. 660 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 3: If they were all fifteen thousand. 661 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:14,240 Speaker 2: Words, oh, fifteen thousand, yes, sorry, I heard fifteen. 662 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:15,920 Speaker 3: Hundred, No, fifteen thousand. 663 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,960 Speaker 1: If they're all thousands, our first fifteen thousand word one 664 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 1: that kicked off the whole long thing did not end well, 665 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 1: it only got. 666 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 2: Wait did that have You didn't even read all the 667 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 2: parts of that one too? 668 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:26,600 Speaker 3: Right? 669 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? I think there was maybe like a part or two. Yeah. Yeah, 670 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:31,400 Speaker 1: we should look up. 671 00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 3: Here and ended well there, and you didn't read it. 672 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 1: You could be right, you could be right. We'll look 673 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:36,640 Speaker 1: it up. We'll look it up. Yeah, good thought. Actually, Riley, 674 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 1: maybe write that down somewhere a notion. Actually, my mother 675 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 1: is still doing the bulk of the parenting for my nibblings, 676 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 1: and she's been acting as nice as possible to stay 677 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 1: on my good side. My father often looks very defeated 678 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 1: in my presence, but otherwise he's been stoically quiet or 679 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 1: just generally nice to me. But he won't talk to 680 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 1: me much, though that's leagues better than how he was before. 681 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 1: At least I'm not letting my go down either way. 682 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,800 Speaker 1: My parents do seem happy that my ex sister in 683 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 1: law's gone, and they often say they don't know what 684 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 1: they saw on her my mother, especially because the two 685 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 1: of them butted heads over who was mom in the 686 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 1: house for a long time. Now for the last part, 687 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 1: which is not the last part, because we have a 688 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 1: whole another episode. 689 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 3: But so you're lying to us right now. 690 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:20,480 Speaker 1: You're lying. 691 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 2: Got three more parts after this, updates after this one. 692 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 1: At the same time, as a divorce, Dan sue to 693 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:28,960 Speaker 1: have his name removed from the birth certificate of the 694 00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: baby that wasn't his. We remember this. Ex sister in 695 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 1: law didn't really want to change it because it meant 696 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 1: no more child support from Dan if she did. However, 697 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,880 Speaker 1: there was a court ordered paternity test for the man 698 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 1: identified as the baby's father. I was prepared to laugh 699 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 1: in case it turned out that he wasn't the father either, 700 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 1: but he. 701 00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 3: Was no just saying, like the affair partner, he was 702 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:52,000 Speaker 3: gonna be like, oh if it wasn't his. 703 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 1: Kid either, but it was Yeah, it was the fair 704 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: brother said, okay, yep, and Dan's lawyer had a long 705 00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 1: talk with ex sister in law's lawyer. Ex sister in 706 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 1: law had likes to stand on, and Dan was ready 707 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: to go to bat to make her situation even worse. 708 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 1: She didn't have the finances to fight him any longer 709 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: and agreed to changing the birth certificate. The bronze tongue lout. 710 00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:13,880 Speaker 1: The affair partner who knocked her up did man up 711 00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: and take financial responsibility as a parent, shocking, but he 712 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 1: ended up not staying with sister in law. There we go. 713 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 1: I wonder, why right you lose him? How you get him? 714 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 1: He contacted Dan through his lawyer to tell him that 715 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,480 Speaker 1: he'd broken up with ex sister in law and that 716 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 1: he wouldn't bother him again. I checked social media that 717 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 1: guy after Dan links me to it, and the affair 718 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:36,880 Speaker 1: partner was upset that he's now financially responsible for a 719 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,239 Speaker 1: child he never planned to have. 720 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,240 Speaker 3: Well, maybe you should have used contraception. 721 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 1: Or just never hooked up with her in the first place, 722 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 1: a married woman. I wonder if he knew it. Seems 723 00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 1: like he was. 724 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 3: I mean he went to the court and was like, 725 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 3: Dan was a terrible husband and I had to sleep 726 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:53,400 Speaker 3: with her. 727 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 1: Probably he knew it. He for sure knew eventually, but 728 00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 1: beginning maybe or not, I don't know. And that he's 729 00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,680 Speaker 1: too young for this eyes. From what Dan's lawyer was 730 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,640 Speaker 1: able to find out, this man is just over forty. 731 00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,719 Speaker 1: He looks hanger than he is. Again, he's hot, but 732 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 1: he's by no means a young man. Shortly after that, 733 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 1: he put his online profile on private. Ex Sistern Law 734 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,160 Speaker 1: did the same with hers a long time prior, so 735 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 1: I have no more information left to give there. This 736 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 1: may be the end. It's not. Existern Law is out 737 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,640 Speaker 1: of our hair. My parents and brother have finally made 738 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 1: a real effort to be better people. I'm surprisingly happy 739 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:28,880 Speaker 1: as an uncle, and my house is still my house. 740 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 1: Who I think we just might be able to do this. Okay, 741 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 1: So before we get into the update of this part 742 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,600 Speaker 1: of the of the saga, this update in part five indeed, 743 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,640 Speaker 1: oh god, I mean, what are we feeling when do we. 744 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 3: Start a man? Oh man? I mean, it's I think 745 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 3: it's good that he's helping out his brother in law 746 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 3: or his brother's kids. You know, everything's looking good on 747 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 3: that end. The sister in law is getting what she deserves. 748 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 1: Seemingly, all does seem to be going up into the 749 00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 1: right I think, so it does all seem to be improving. 750 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 3: Now he just needs to, like, I don't know, win 751 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 3: the lottery or something. 752 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, OPI is definitely like personally, financially, emotionally like 753 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: being able to like get hit just by sheer force 754 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 1: of will. 755 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 3: Actually know what I want. In the next part is 756 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,800 Speaker 3: for him to meet like some some person and he's like, 757 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 3: and then I found the love of my life. 758 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:23,360 Speaker 1: I think I feel like that that will happen. Yeah, 759 00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 1: I wonder what do you wonder if Once he finds 760 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 1: his new boo, ex sister in law reappears and reaches 761 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:34,080 Speaker 1: out to said new boo and is like, hey, listen, 762 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 1: I'm his exister in law. Let me dish out all 763 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 1: this tea. Let me And you know, he was always 764 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 1: calling the police on me and doing all this stuff. 765 00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 1: And then she comes to Op and she's like, well, 766 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,240 Speaker 1: what are you doing? Like what why are we always 767 00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 1: calling the police on your on your sweet sister in 768 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 1: law when she was pregnant, you know. And then he's like, 769 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 1: now I got to try to set the record straight. 770 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 1: She leaves him. New Boo leaves him. New Boo leaves 771 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 1: him because she's so think about it, you know, twist, 772 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,800 Speaker 1: She's all twisted. She twists the word and she's just 773 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,840 Speaker 1: so emotional and he of the moment she just leaves 774 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 1: like I don't want to hear it. Boom claims the 775 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,480 Speaker 1: door in his face. Gone now oh, He's like, oh 776 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: now it's really game. 777 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:10,800 Speaker 3: And then he goes scorch shirt. 778 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,120 Speaker 1: And then he goes scorch shurts because remember it's on Facebook. 779 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 1: He on Facebook. Oh, he posts on Facebook. He posts 780 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 1: on Facebook to get as part of his revenge plan 781 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 1: because he he did press charges, but like he hasn't. 782 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:25,560 Speaker 1: It seems like he hasn't like dropped full hammer. 783 00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:27,520 Speaker 3: I agree. I mean she's not in jail. 784 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,760 Speaker 1: She's not in jail. Yeah, and maybe that's what. 785 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:33,720 Speaker 3: Puts that's the final Yeah theory. 786 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:36,080 Speaker 1: That is my final is. It is very what is 787 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 1: it in like sports betting riley where you have to 788 00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 1: call like multiple things like I don't oh uh parlay 789 00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 1: a parlay. Yeah, so I'm I'm going I'm going I'm 790 00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:45,880 Speaker 1: going for hail Mary. 791 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 3: There I say on hail Mary. 792 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't meet hail Mary in that sense, but 793 00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:52,280 Speaker 1: hail Mary also very much works. Well. 794 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 2: You said like a lot of different things. A lot 795 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 2: of the Cowboys when uh, the quarterback throws over four 796 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,120 Speaker 2: hundred yards. That's what it sound like. Yes, yes, yes, 797 00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:05,280 Speaker 2: what you're throwing at hell Mary? Yes, par parlay, hail Mary, 798 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 2: carry this hell Mary. 799 00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 1: There we go, There we go, thank you. But yeah, 800 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,040 Speaker 1: that's what I'm thinking right now. Do we real quick 801 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:16,160 Speaker 1: before getting back into it? Can we forgive Dan and 802 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 1: in parents? 803 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:20,400 Speaker 3: I think we oh yeah, oh yeah, perhaps maybe not 804 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 3: like full on forgive. I think that will take a 805 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 3: longer process to regain full trust, and like we need 806 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,920 Speaker 3: to see Dan pay back the debt of the camper 807 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,720 Speaker 3: van before we've you know, fully let him back into 808 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 3: OPI's life. But I think that at this point he's 809 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,360 Speaker 3: let them back in enough where he can enjoy his 810 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,200 Speaker 3: you know, time with his nieces and nephews. 811 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 812 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 3: So I feel like what he has going on right 813 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:46,200 Speaker 3: now is good. 814 00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm almost like as much as I was getting 815 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 1: one back over, like like I feel like if I'm 816 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,919 Speaker 1: in Op's shoes, Like I don't know if I it's 817 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 1: just like so hard. 818 00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:55,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. 819 00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 2: I think the one child the sister in law has 820 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,240 Speaker 2: poised in them, talks to things in through their mind 821 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,440 Speaker 2: to the parents, probably didn't know how bad it was 822 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 2: until that night when they try to move in and 823 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 2: over this time, they have finally come to their senses. 824 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,720 Speaker 2: They've gone to church, they've gone to like couples counseling. 825 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,239 Speaker 2: It seems like they've done a lot of work on themselves. 826 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 2: So I think we can give them, forgive them for 827 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 2: what they've done. 828 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, I think I can they've worked really 829 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,360 Speaker 1: hard or kind of like forget because I'm just like, 830 00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:25,239 Speaker 1: you can forgive, but not forget. 831 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,360 Speaker 3: I mean, like I don't even know if he necessarily 832 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 3: has to forgive all the way. I'm just saying like 833 00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:30,680 Speaker 3: it can be a slow process. 834 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:33,400 Speaker 1: Of like cooperation. It's almost like coactly. 835 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 3: Exactly, you know, That's what it feels like. It's like, 836 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:37,359 Speaker 3: you know what, I'll help you out, do I want 837 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,200 Speaker 3: to help your kids out, But we're not gonna be 838 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:39,840 Speaker 3: buddy buddy. 839 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, because like and it is good and you 840 00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:45,800 Speaker 1: want to like obviously encourage people, like it is great 841 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,520 Speaker 1: that they are on the redemption arc and yeah, way 842 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,759 Speaker 1: better than them staying terrible. But it's almost like at 843 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:54,480 Speaker 1: the same time, it's like you can never undo all 844 00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 1: of the child trauma that you've. 845 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:59,239 Speaker 3: And also he literally spent a year living out of 846 00:35:59,239 --> 00:35:59,879 Speaker 3: a camper van. 847 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:05,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, like it is a big thing to forgive. 848 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:07,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, like they should like that's the 849 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:10,400 Speaker 1: that's the most like the angel move of course, But 850 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,279 Speaker 1: it's just I don't know, man, I just. 851 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:14,880 Speaker 2: And I know Op he wants to be more involved 852 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:18,239 Speaker 2: in this family because after years of being ostracized, this 853 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 2: is his way back in. It feels like and they 854 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:23,439 Speaker 2: are trauma bonding over this huge experience they've gone through 855 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,880 Speaker 2: over the past three years. What they did was inexcusable. 856 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 2: That's on him. He'll have to do some praying and 857 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:30,600 Speaker 2: meditating on it and figure 858 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,719 Speaker 1: Out, well, let's see, let's see what he does, see 859 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:33,360 Speaker 1: what that yields.