WEBVTT - Little D on A&G pt.2

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<v Speaker 1>doing our part. Riveting guest my daughter Delaney for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time on the show in many, many many years,

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<v Speaker 1>home from college. Whether she likes it or not, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I got her mic working. Does it work now? Yeah? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'd say riveting is a strong word. Okay, there

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<v Speaker 1>you go. That's better. Got it fixed in the nickd

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<v Speaker 1>time fifteen minutes late. So we have questions from listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>which was a terrible idea. So the idea was what

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<v Speaker 1>questions do people have for your daughter? Yes? And and

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<v Speaker 1>then ones you rejected? Were they a lot about like you?

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<v Speaker 1>Was that it? There was one that said is he

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<v Speaker 1>grumpy at home? To except it wasn't that charitable, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's actually not that bad a question. But what was

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<v Speaker 1>my question? Okay, that's one of the questions I'm answering. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, go ahead. What's what's the first one? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>So the first one, A lot of them were actually

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<v Speaker 1>about our relationship, which I thought was kind of sweet

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<v Speaker 1>actually and unexpected from the internet. Um, well, this is

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<v Speaker 1>our beloved armstrong getty listeners. These are facts. So the

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<v Speaker 1>first one was, what is some advice for us dads

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<v Speaker 1>who want to keep a strong bond between our little

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<v Speaker 1>girls and us? Yeah, and um, you know, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>feel free to chime in on this because I only

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<v Speaker 1>have fift of this. Uh. But a big thing with

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<v Speaker 1>me growing up was I always felt like you and

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<v Speaker 1>Mom really trusted me. So it was one of those

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<v Speaker 1>you trusted me to make dumb decisions, but not dangerous ones. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We end you off with the admonition no felonies, no pregnancies. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're talking you talk about older like high school

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that, junior high high school. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think when they're little, you can afford

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<v Speaker 1>to be a little more hands on. But especially what

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<v Speaker 1>kept us close was when I kind of reached those

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<v Speaker 1>teenage years. M Yeah, that's good. Yeah, yeah, we could

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<v Speaker 1>talk about that at greater length. Are you a particularly

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<v Speaker 1>trustworthy person though, yes, if you got a kid, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>But what if you got a kid that's clearly a

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<v Speaker 1>sociopath're gonna like like her dad? Well, that's that's a

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<v Speaker 1>little different. You know. You try to keep them between

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<v Speaker 1>the guardrails. Uh. In other words, keep them alive and

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<v Speaker 1>keep them out of the penitentiary. I think. And you

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<v Speaker 1>just have to let your kids make mistakes. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to teach. I mean, you learned through making dumb decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't learned through making dumb decisions. I continue to

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<v Speaker 1>make them, but theory you have to learn you're making

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<v Speaker 1>dumb decisions, all right? What else you got? Well? And

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<v Speaker 1>the other thing is, and it ought to be said.

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<v Speaker 1>I have said since my first daughter was born, my

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<v Speaker 1>girls are never going to be desperate for a man

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<v Speaker 1>to love them, because they're gonna know their dad does.

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<v Speaker 1>And so you know, And that's what I keep thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about the Tiger King, that the and there their boys,

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<v Speaker 1>But same sort of situation on the Tiger King. Just

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<v Speaker 1>I can just see their upbringing in them as adults

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<v Speaker 1>and needing, you know, anyway, desperate for approval. I believe

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<v Speaker 1>there is one Tiger King related question isn't there there

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<v Speaker 1>is one tiger King? Okay, I got a question for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Did Carol bash can kill her husband? Yes? No hesitation,

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<v Speaker 1>no hesitation there um. So the tiger king question was

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<v Speaker 1>which farm would you rather live on? At Joe Exotic

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<v Speaker 1>or Docrimentals's. And as a twenty year old young woman,

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<v Speaker 1>I think for anybody who's seen the show, they might

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<v Speaker 1>see some obvious reasons why I wouldn't want to you

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<v Speaker 1>live on doc Antles. Yeah, that'd be a bad choice

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Not an attractive man. Um And the exploit

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<v Speaker 1>of sex cult thing. Do you know that part doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>make me that mad if it was it was Brad Pittle? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>general in general, you'll be quiet Sean. But but you

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<v Speaker 1>you had you wanted to go undercover, right? Oh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I was so upset when they got to

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<v Speaker 1>the part of the documentary where it said the FBI

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<v Speaker 1>rated the rate of the farm no Zoo Zoo, the

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<v Speaker 1>roadside Zoo. And I was so upset because I was

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<v Speaker 1>so willing to be that one informant where they'd send

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<v Speaker 1>me in and I'd get all the dirt, and then

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<v Speaker 1>when I came out I'd have a job with the FBI.

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<v Speaker 1>I was willing to do that, and they just wasted

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<v Speaker 1>their opportunity. Or the shorts that apparently are mandatory if

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<v Speaker 1>you take that job. I'm not going to say that

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<v Speaker 1>in front of my dad. I'll tell you what I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen you in those I'll tell you that's rude. What

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<v Speaker 1>I tell her, Hey, save up, you can buy the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of those shorts. Commentary, you do have to point

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<v Speaker 1>out there are no stumps and Doc Antle's farm where

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<v Speaker 1>there are a number of stumps and the other one

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<v Speaker 1>at least some of those stumps were tiger related. When

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to stumps, I think some is too many. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. He's looking at that all right. What else

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<v Speaker 1>you got in the questions? Um, let's see, uh, when

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<v Speaker 1>transitioning from home to school, what is surprised you? And

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<v Speaker 1>what had you wished you known? A lot of the

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<v Speaker 1>questions came from especially dads whose girls were going to college.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd say my biggest takeaway was, um, you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to be happy right away. I feel like the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>thing that a lot of young college students are impressed

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<v Speaker 1>upon it's college is great. College is fantastic. Like you'll

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<v Speaker 1>really become yourself. But it doesn't feel like that right away. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you're gonna feel lost, especially if you go

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<v Speaker 1>far away. It's going to be a culture shock and

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<v Speaker 1>just you don't have to be happy, but that will come. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>becoming yourself is hard. I mean, that's a hard thing

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<v Speaker 1>for any human to do, right, And just being displaced

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<v Speaker 1>like that, that's really good advice. There's nothing wrong with you.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're a little freaked out for a while. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all life advice, just not even school related. But

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<v Speaker 1>if happiness is an immediate that's that's an okay thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I live in a college town and I can see

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<v Speaker 1>people trying out their new look, especially the the the

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<v Speaker 1>younger crowd. I'm gonna try I'm gonna try the cowboy look,

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<v Speaker 1>or I'm gonna try the I'm a goth person. Now

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<v Speaker 1>that guy doesn't normally wear bracelets, right exactly, Well, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta give it a try. We got like ninety seconds.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you have one of your favorites? Yeah, when, um,

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<v Speaker 1>your favorite sentimental gift from your dad. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>this one kind of fed into the first question, But

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<v Speaker 1>there's no physical item I can point to but what

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<v Speaker 1>I can point to is experiences that we had. Um So,

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<v Speaker 1>like I came home from school one day and my

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<v Speaker 1>dad said get ready, uh and drove to a train

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<v Speaker 1>station and spent an entire day in San Francisco. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's what sticks out to me, like those experiences, not

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<v Speaker 1>just Okay, I got him, my little pony. One experience

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<v Speaker 1>is not stuff. That's a good one. Well, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>one of my all time faves was when you said

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<v Speaker 1>you'd never actually seen it snowing, and so we just

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<v Speaker 1>headed up into the mountains as far as it took

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<v Speaker 1>until we found snowing, and that was That was great.

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<v Speaker 1>That was a good time. Alright, one more quick one, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about your tattoo. Are you fine with that one?

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<v Speaker 1>Um So, Actually my tattoo is of a pumpkin. It's

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<v Speaker 1>on your face, yes, yes, right under the guy. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a tear droppad like post malone exactly exactly. Um But no,

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<v Speaker 1>the pumpkin came from that was just actually comes from

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<v Speaker 1>my relationship with my dad and it's um you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my siblings are quite a deal deal older than me,

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<v Speaker 1>and when I was growing up, we always went to

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<v Speaker 1>the pumpkin patch together in my nickname for you too,

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<v Speaker 1>which is private. That's private, that's too much, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>pumpkin related anyway. Thanks for being on the show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was awesome. Definitely the most appealing presence on this

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<v Speaker 1>show in many years. I'm not a