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Speaker 1: doing our part. Riveting guest my daughter Delaney for the

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Speaker 1: first time on the show in many, many many years,

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Speaker 1: home from college. Whether she likes it or not, I

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Speaker 1: think I got her mic working. Does it work now? Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And I'd say riveting is a strong word. Okay, there

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Speaker 1: you go. That's better. Got it fixed in the nickd

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Speaker 1: time fifteen minutes late. So we have questions from listeners,

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Speaker 1: which was a terrible idea. So the idea was what

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Speaker 1: questions do people have for your daughter? Yes? And and

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Speaker 1: then ones you rejected? Were they a lot about like you?

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Speaker 1: Was that it? There was one that said is he

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Speaker 1: grumpy at home? To except it wasn't that charitable, right,

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Speaker 1: that's actually not that bad a question. But what was

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Speaker 1: my question? Okay, that's one of the questions I'm answering. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, go ahead. What's what's the first one? Um?

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Speaker 1: So the first one, A lot of them were actually

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Speaker 1: about our relationship, which I thought was kind of sweet

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Speaker 1: actually and unexpected from the internet. Um, well, this is

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Speaker 1: our beloved armstrong getty listeners. These are facts. So the

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Speaker 1: first one was, what is some advice for us dads

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Speaker 1: who want to keep a strong bond between our little

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Speaker 1: girls and us? Yeah, and um, you know, of course,

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Speaker 1: have fift of this. Uh. But a big thing with

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Speaker 1: Mom really trusted me. So it was one of those

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Speaker 1: you trusted me to make dumb decisions, but not dangerous ones. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We end you off with the admonition no felonies, no pregnancies. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean I think when they're little, you can afford

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Speaker 1: teenage years. M Yeah, that's good. Yeah, yeah, we could

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Speaker 1: talk about that at greater length. Are you a particularly

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Speaker 1: trustworthy person though, yes, if you got a kid, I don't.

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Speaker 1: But what if you got a kid that's clearly a

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Speaker 1: sociopath're gonna like like her dad? Well, that's that's a

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Speaker 1: little different. You know. You try to keep them between

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Speaker 1: I haven't learned through making dumb decisions. I continue to

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Speaker 1: dumb decisions, all right? What else you got? Well? And

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Speaker 1: the other thing is, and it ought to be said.

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Speaker 1: I have said since my first daughter was born, my

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Speaker 1: girls are never going to be desperate for a man

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Speaker 1: to love them, because they're gonna know their dad does.

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Speaker 1: And so you know, And that's what I keep thinking

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Speaker 1: about the Tiger King, that the and there their boys,

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Speaker 1: But same sort of situation on the Tiger King. Just

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Speaker 1: I can just see their upbringing in them as adults

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Speaker 1: Did Carol bash can kill her husband? Yes? No hesitation,

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Speaker 1: for any human to do, right, And just being displaced

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Speaker 1: like that, that's really good advice. There's nothing wrong with you.

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Speaker 1: that's all life advice, just not even school related. But

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Speaker 1: tell us about your tattoo. Are you fine with that one?

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Speaker 1: Um So, Actually my tattoo is of a pumpkin. It's

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Speaker 1: on your face, yes, yes, right under the guy. It's

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Speaker 1: a tear droppad like post malone exactly exactly. Um But no,

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Speaker 1: my relationship with my dad and it's um you know,

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Speaker 1: the pumpkin patch together in my nickname for you too,

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Speaker 1: which is private. That's private, that's too much, but it's

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Speaker 1: pumpkin related anyway. Thanks for being on the show. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that was awesome. Definitely the most appealing presence on this

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