Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome back to your favorite podcast. Also
Speaker 1: happy first Monday of November. This is Cheeks and Chiliches.
Speaker 1: In case you don't know, but you probably know because
Speaker 1: you love us right and you know that. I love
Speaker 1: sharing my personal thoughts, give my opinions on this podcast
Speaker 1: open my Heart, and today I want to share something
Speaker 1: a little different with you guys, because I've noticed I
Speaker 1: have a lot of these, a lot of pet peeves,
Speaker 1: you guys, things that.
Speaker 2: Get under my skin.
Speaker 1: I consider myself a pretty happy person, a positive person.
Speaker 1: I always try to find the positive out of everything.
Speaker 1: But I'm human and things do annoy me. So I
Speaker 1: just thought it'd be fun to share some of these
Speaker 1: with you guys. I've shared this pet peeve, this first one,
Speaker 1: on social media quite a bit. It's something that really
Speaker 1: really bothers me. It's when people go to the grocery
Speaker 1: store anywhere that has a grocery cart, and people don't
Speaker 1: put it back where it belongs. They leave it like
Speaker 1: by your car, or in the middle of the freaking
Speaker 1: parking lot, like anywhere except where it belongs.
Speaker 2: I cannot First.
Speaker 1: Of all, I truly believe in being considerate of other people.
Speaker 1: Why do I say this because it's happened quite a
Speaker 1: few times where the cart will hit my car, it'll
Speaker 1: dent it, it'll scratch it. Not only that, I just
Speaker 1: feel like it's lazy not to just take a few
Speaker 1: more minutes seconds really to just walk over, leave the
Speaker 1: cart and go about your business. And it really bothers me.
Speaker 1: It Like I'm like, I feel like it's only common
Speaker 1: courtesy and polite and it's part of being integral, having
Speaker 1: integrity of like saying, Okay, I know this isn't my job,
Speaker 1: because some people have said that before, like, well, that's
Speaker 1: not my job.
Speaker 2: There's people that do it. We shouldn't see.
Speaker 1: Things that way in my personal opinion, so I always
Speaker 1: do my best, no matter how busy I am if
Speaker 1: I'm running late, to take it back and put it
Speaker 1: where it belongs. But that is a huge pet peeve
Speaker 1: of mine, and I don't know. I just think it's
Speaker 1: again common courtesy, be nice, be polite, you guys. I've
Speaker 1: told you guys this before. I used to work at
Speaker 1: kmart for four hours, right and anyways, and when I
Speaker 1: was working, the reason I quit was because and this
Speaker 1: is why I'm so huge on customer service, which is
Speaker 1: my next pet Peeve. But I'm so huge on customer
Speaker 1: service because I worked in customer service. I was a waitress,
Speaker 1: I worked at a restaurant for a while, and then
Speaker 1: I worked at Kmart, and all my businesses have a
Speaker 1: lot to do with customer service. So my point is
Speaker 1: that when I was working at Kmart, I remember folding
Speaker 1: the clothes, and you know, I'd turn around and try
Speaker 1: to do another section, and then I would turn around
Speaker 1: back to the other section and it was just all
Speaker 1: messed up. Which is where and when I decided that
Speaker 1: every time I go to a store and I get
Speaker 1: something and I don't want to take it, I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: you know, I literally go all the way back to
Speaker 1: where I got it from to put it back. Yes,
Speaker 1: there's people, that's their job, yes, but I want to
Speaker 1: treat people the way I want to be treated. So
Speaker 1: when that happened, it frustrated me. I said, you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm a fight here. I'm gonna fight someone. So I
Speaker 1: just said, you know what, I can't work at Camar anymore.
Speaker 1: So that's where I was like, Okay, I have to
Speaker 1: be polite. I want to, you know, again, treat people
Speaker 1: the way I want to be treated. It's huge. Okay,
Speaker 1: so customer service. This happened to me yesterday, you guys,
Speaker 1: yesterday another one of my pet peeves. As I've gotten older,
Speaker 1: I have realized that I've become more anal and more particular,
Speaker 1: and I just don't understand why people do certain shit.
Speaker 1: You know. Just remember another pet peeve. But let me
Speaker 1: talk about what happened yesterday. So I went to the
Speaker 1: store with Emilio and his mom and his grandma took
Speaker 1: them out to eat. I like to do that at
Speaker 1: least once a week. Anyways, I go in. I need
Speaker 1: new bras, you know, and I need sexier bras because
Speaker 1: my husband's been asking for that. So anyways, we walked
Speaker 1: by the store. Was in Victoria's Secret the store and
Speaker 1: very nice stuff, lingerie, cute stuff. Walk in there real quick,
Speaker 1: and the girl, the lady, was busy with another customer.
Speaker 1: So I was just waiting, politely, waiting patiently, and I
Speaker 1: grabbed a bra and I didn't I didn't see my side,
Speaker 1: so I asked her. I said, hey, oh hi, you
Speaker 1: know do you have you know thirty sixty that's my
Speaker 1: bro siye, And she looked at me literally like this.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, hi, you know me, I always smile,
Speaker 1: like I really do anyways, and she just looked at me,
Speaker 1: literally went walked away, and I followed her, like, uh
Speaker 1: was that? And I was like should I say something?
Speaker 1: Should I not rude? Not a smile, not hello, no, nothing.
Speaker 1: There was no one else in the store but us,
Speaker 1: so it wasn't like she was busy, because I understand
Speaker 1: people being busy. But I turned around and I can't
Speaker 1: stay quiet, and I said, was that a yes or no?
Speaker 1: My tone of voice was like, bitch, don't with me
Speaker 1: because I was being nice and the media is very chill.
Speaker 1: He usually doesn't say things, so I'm the one that
Speaker 1: usually defends, like I'm not a bitch about things. But
Speaker 1: it's just like, hey, you're being rude to me for
Speaker 1: no reason. So anyways, back to my story, So it's like,
Speaker 1: was that a yes or no? And she looked at me.
Speaker 1: She said I was thinking because I don't know if
Speaker 1: I have the size, and I said, well, you could
Speaker 1: have at least said, oh one second, let me check.
Speaker 1: Not look at me and like I'm bothering you. And
Speaker 1: this has happened to me quite a bit, guys, cause
Speaker 1: when I'm not like this usually every day in my life,
Speaker 1: I'm this banana, I'm in a freaking bun, no makeup,
Speaker 1: I'm in my workout clothes. You would never if you
Speaker 1: don't know who I am, then you would be like, oh,
Speaker 1: she's just a normal check. I'm a normal girl, Like
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm not like with my brand name purses.
Speaker 1: And I sometimes think it has to do with the
Speaker 1: way you look, you know what I mean, where they
Speaker 1: treat you differently. And I've come across that and we've
Speaker 1: talked about it on the pod before where I've done
Speaker 1: things and we're like, I'm gonna show you who I am.
Speaker 1: But I have no energy for that. But it's just like, dude,
Speaker 1: just be freaking nice to anyone that walks in. So
Speaker 1: she then apologized she did, She's like, oh, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: but still with an attitude. She's like, oh, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I was just trying to figure it out I should.
Speaker 1: I'm like, thank you and that was nice, and I
Speaker 1: said thank you for saying, you know, for apologizing. But guys,
Speaker 1: customer service is huge. I understand.
Speaker 2: We all have bad days. I get it.
Speaker 1: I know sometimes we go into work with a broken heart.
Speaker 1: I have gone on to stage with a broken heart.
Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean I'm going to be in a
Speaker 1: bitchy mood and not give my best show, because that's
Speaker 1: it's not the audience's.
Speaker 2: Fault, you know, And it doesn't.
Speaker 1: That's one thing that I talk about a lot on
Speaker 1: social media is you guys, like, it doesn't cost you
Speaker 1: anything to smile, even if you're having a bad day.
Speaker 1: If you smile a little bit, it's gonna make your
Speaker 1: heart feel better, especially if you're in customer service. Again,
Speaker 1: going back to treating people the way that you want
Speaker 1: to be treated, and people in customer service, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you don't like your job or you're
Speaker 1: not happy with your job, but that's not my fault.
Speaker 1: And if I'm nice to you, I expect for you
Speaker 1: to be polite to me. Mind you, I know there
Speaker 1: are a lot of a whole customers. I get it,
Speaker 1: people that go in and are rude, and I don't
Speaker 1: I'm not for that either. I don't think that we
Speaker 1: should be mean to employees because you know that they
Speaker 1: can't really bark back, you know. But and I don't
Speaker 1: agree with that, you know. So anyways, that's a pet peeve.
Speaker 1: I can't with rude people. I've done it a lot
Speaker 1: where I'm at a restaurant. If there's not good service,
Speaker 1: I always give a tip. I love to tip, but
Speaker 1: I won't give a good or a better tip if
Speaker 1: you haven't given me good service. I will let you
Speaker 1: know too, because I'm just trying to make the world better.
Speaker 1: So that's part of making the world better, right, I
Speaker 1: got to let you know. So customer service guys huge.
Speaker 1: It just gets me all rattled up.
Speaker 2: Another pet peeve. Littering. I cannot with people that litter.
Speaker 2: I can't.
Speaker 1: I was where was I? I was at the airport
Speaker 1: and we were walking literally inside the airport, walking and
Speaker 1: trying to get out through like security, through customs. There
Speaker 1: was a banana pill on the freaking counter, trash on
Speaker 1: the floor, Like I was just I can't, like, why
Speaker 1: not wait? Like I even if I have a gum
Speaker 1: and I put a gum in my mouth and I
Speaker 1: don't have anywhere to put it, I'll put it in
Speaker 1: my pocket, I'll put it in my purse. I won't
Speaker 1: throw my gum out because gum is not biodegradable. I
Speaker 1: just I feel like I understand that a lot of
Speaker 1: people literally understand that. We're like, oh, well it's you know,
Speaker 1: especially La, there's a freaking mess everywhere. Yeah, but why
Speaker 1: are we going to contribute to that mess? Like if
Speaker 1: we learned to do our part individually, it'll make the
Speaker 1: problem better little by little, I understand. It's like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: why do I care about global warming? And I don't
Speaker 1: want to need a recycle noe. Like it's all about
Speaker 1: doing our part and doing the best that we can
Speaker 1: so that we're not adding to the problem, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. So it's like I see people in
Speaker 1: front of me when I'm driving and they're just throwing
Speaker 1: shit out of their window. I have seriously, I'm not
Speaker 1: I need to like chill out sometimes, Like I can
Speaker 1: be a little impulsive with that. But like I have
Speaker 1: yelled at people on the freeway. I'm like, don't be rude,
Speaker 1: Like I'll drive up to them. I'm like, why did
Speaker 1: you do that? Like I just I can't. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just feel like the world is so beautiful. Mother
Speaker 1: nature gives us so much guys, Like why would we
Speaker 1: just trash? Like you wouldn't want anyone to come to
Speaker 1: your house and just trash your house. It's the same thing.
Speaker 1: The earth is our home, Like you don't do that,
Speaker 1: just don't do that. Oh, I've talked about this one too.
Speaker 1: When people make me feel dumb at something that I
Speaker 1: it's something that I have to work on, you know,
Speaker 1: stuff that have to do with my childhood, things that
Speaker 1: I'm still working through. Therapy helps a lot. It's in insecurity.
Speaker 1: You know, We've talked about it, and one day I'll
Speaker 1: tell you guys a story as to why. But anyways,
Speaker 1: when people try to make me feel dumb, like if
Speaker 1: I ask a question, and it's my mom always taught
Speaker 1: me ask questions. That's the only way you're going to learn.
Speaker 1: Don't ever feel embarrassed to ask a question in class,
Speaker 1: to ask a question in a business meeting if you
Speaker 1: don't understand. And I now I'm more secure in that
Speaker 1: aspect of like, oh, hey, I'm sorry, what does that mean?
Speaker 1: I don't understand? Because I should know if I'm in
Speaker 1: a business meeting, you get me. But now I'm like, hey,
Speaker 1: it's okay to ask questions, but when people respond in
Speaker 1: a condescending way, trying to belittle me, I can't. Then
Speaker 1: another side of Jenny comes out where I'm like, wait,
Speaker 1: a second.
Speaker 2: You don't have to be rude.
Speaker 1: Don't make me feel stupid and say, well, you don't
Speaker 1: know that, like when they say that, and it's like, no,
Speaker 1: I don't because if I knew, I wouldn't be asking you.
Speaker 1: You know, don't do that, Like just be nice, get
Speaker 1: thick quista, you know. So that's one four. I have
Speaker 1: a lot of guys. Oh my god, Okay, do you guys?
Speaker 2: Do you guys?
Speaker 1: You guys have to like leave me comments, okay, and like,
Speaker 1: let me know, do you have pet peeves?
Speaker 2: All these things that I'm mentioning? Is it just me?
Speaker 2: Do you guys understand? Okay?
Speaker 1: Oh another little pet peeve at home? My house is
Speaker 1: I think I get this from my mother. But she
Speaker 1: used to hate and you know, I don't like to
Speaker 1: use the word hate a lot, but she used to
Speaker 1: hate finger prints on her walls. It would drive her nuts.
Speaker 1: Imagine Jenny Rivera, this huge freaking superstar selling out the
Speaker 1: Staples Center. Okay, Like she would get so pissed and
Speaker 1: she would all over the house, would have her little
Speaker 1: spray and a little like she hated the finger per
Speaker 1: She's like, do not put your dirty ass hands on
Speaker 1: my walls. So I got that from her. Now I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, there's like a little scrape on my walls.
Speaker 1: And all my walls in the house are very light,
Speaker 1: they're white, and I now I get that from my mom.
Speaker 1: And also the windows. I like my windows to be
Speaker 1: very like clean, no fingerprints. I'm just very anal about that.
Speaker 1: Another thing I'm anal about another pet peeve, is scratched rims.
Speaker 1: I cannot anytime someone scratches my rim or I scratch
Speaker 1: my own, I'm very careful. I get them fixed. Shout
Speaker 1: out to doctor will you guys can find him on Instagram.
Speaker 1: He goes out to my house if anyone, because they
Speaker 1: just did it the other day to one of my cars,
Speaker 1: and I was like, it does something to my soul
Speaker 1: that I just I'm like, oh my god, I can't
Speaker 1: and not to talk about it about women, okay, but
Speaker 1: I do see a lot of my ladies out there
Speaker 1: with the rims all scratched up. We got to be
Speaker 1: better at parallel parking. Trust me, I've learned. I learned
Speaker 1: the hard way. And guys too, though none of my
Speaker 1: ass But guys, you know, I can't because there's be
Speaker 1: like a really nice car like a nice Mercedes, and
Speaker 1: then the rooms are all scratched up, and I just
Speaker 1: it hurts my heart.
Speaker 2: Is that weird? Oh my god?
Speaker 1: Okay, people who don't pick up after themselves. We talked
Speaker 1: about that. Yes, well, I guess littering is one thing,
Speaker 1: but people that don't pick up after themselves, Yes, I
Speaker 1: that's another pet peeve. Because well, Emilio's not here to
Speaker 1: defend himself. But I've learned to take deep breaths because
Speaker 1: I can't. And I've learned that I can't expect everyone
Speaker 1: to be like me, and that's okay. Everyone's different and
Speaker 1: everyone does things at their own pace. And Emilio is
Speaker 1: a little bit. He's probably gonna get so mad at
Speaker 1: me for saying this, But I like to put my shoes,
Speaker 1: I take them off. I like to put them where
Speaker 1: they belong. I just like to be I'm a little
Speaker 1: more organized. He just leaves them by the bed, and
Speaker 1: his socks and his shorts just leaves them there.
Speaker 2: And I just don't like it. But I'm like, you
Speaker 2: know what, I got a pickatures of my battles. I
Speaker 2: can't fight over everything.
Speaker 1: You know. It's like he's a great guy. He makes
Speaker 1: the bed he does so many other great things, and
Speaker 1: we have to learn to see the good people and
Speaker 1: we all, we all. I'm sure there's things that I
Speaker 1: do that irritate him very much, but yes, like picking
Speaker 1: up after yourself, being polite and even like when I
Speaker 1: was in Lamm, I had my green room and I
Speaker 1: heard around that they were saying that my my green room,
Speaker 1: my dressing room was always a messyist.
Speaker 2: And that really bugged me. I was like, what, because.
Speaker 1: I like to pick up after myself, like I will
Speaker 1: put things into the trash can. I'm very like I
Speaker 1: like to see things in its place. But I don't
Speaker 1: know if the team wasn't putting their water bottles in
Speaker 1: the trash or eating or like, I like to just
Speaker 1: pick up. And once I heard that, I was like,
Speaker 1: oh no, I don't want to be known for that.
Speaker 1: So I just every after every show, like I started
Speaker 1: like cleaning up after everyone, and I'm like, I don't
Speaker 1: want to be known for that because I'm like that,
Speaker 1: you know, so you know, pick up after yourself, be nice,
Speaker 1: and do what you can always if you want. Is
Speaker 1: there just my pet peeves in my opinions, don't listen
Speaker 1: to me if you don't want to, but you know, oh,
Speaker 1: the toilet, it's a big one. I also, I also
Speaker 1: said this on social media and it happened to me
Speaker 1: again the other day. I was in at the airport changing.
Speaker 1: I had a promo day and I didn't want to
Speaker 1: go in my promo clothes, so I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go change in the restroom, in the family restroom,
Speaker 1: and there was pea all over the toilet.
Speaker 2: And I don't understand. I don't get it.
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I mean I squat sometimes, you know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: the pe will splash.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well what I.
Speaker 1: Do is I clean it for the next person that's
Speaker 1: gonna come. I don't just leave it there. And I
Speaker 1: don't understand how people can do that, like it just
Speaker 1: it grosses me out.
Speaker 2: I think it's rude.
Speaker 1: But yes, if you guys, especially women, I don't know
Speaker 1: what the guy's restrooms look like, but the ladies' restrooms
Speaker 1: are usually a freaking hot mess. Like tampons. Like ladies,
Speaker 1: if you are on your period, like wrap your tampon
Speaker 1: or your pad in a toilet paper and hide it
Speaker 1: and put it in like make sure it goes all
Speaker 1: the way and in the little bin that they give
Speaker 1: us so that I don't see it and I don't
Speaker 1: smell it, you know what I mean, Like, I just
Speaker 1: I don't understand, like, don't be a dirty birdie. Ladies
Speaker 1: like don't and I don't know. And I asked Emilia,
Speaker 1: how are the restrooms, and the guy who's like, oh,
Speaker 1: they're pretty gross, I'm like, I wonder if they're worse
Speaker 1: than ours because I walk in and I literally I'll
Speaker 1: say it out loud. I'm like, dude, Ladies like, don't
Speaker 1: be dirty. I'll say it. I want everyone to listen
Speaker 1: because I'm like, dude, oh talking about the restroom. The
Speaker 1: other day, so we were all in line waiting to
Speaker 1: go to the restroom, and this lady walks in. There's
Speaker 1: at least there's three people in front of me. It
Speaker 1: was me, Kim, and then like six other people behind us.
Speaker 1: At the airport. I've been spending a lot of time
Speaker 1: at the airport anyways, going to the restroom. This lady walks in,
Speaker 1: walks in all cute and takes the last stall, and
Speaker 1: I was like, the lady came out and instead of
Speaker 1: the girls that were in front of me, she walked
Speaker 1: into the stall. Dude, I coun't with injustice. I need
Speaker 1: to learn to sometimes maybe mine my own business because
Speaker 1: I wasn't the next in line. But I just that's rude,
Speaker 1: that's not nice, Like you are like everyone else, you
Speaker 1: wait in the back of the line, like what is
Speaker 1: your problem? And Emilio tells me that I have to
Speaker 1: work on that, like, hey, you're you know, like that's
Speaker 1: not our business, babe, Like don't you know because I'm
Speaker 1: not true trying to fight or pick a fight because
Speaker 1: I'm not like that. But it's like, if I see
Speaker 1: something that's not right, I automatically want to defend and
Speaker 1: want to protect, and that's just who I am. So
Speaker 1: when I saw that, and the young girls as they
Speaker 1: were very young, looked over at me, and I was like,
Speaker 1: and the lady was in the stallready, I said, that
Speaker 1: is very rude. Who I started cussing. I was like,
Speaker 1: who the F do you think you are? Like ooh,
Speaker 1: I was just talking crap the entire time until she
Speaker 1: came out. I said, excuse me. I told her, I
Speaker 1: said that was very routing. You need to wait in
Speaker 1: line like everyone else. She's like, oh, I'm sixty something.
Speaker 1: She's like, I'm a senior I'm a senior.
Speaker 2: What does she say? A senior citizen? And I don't
Speaker 2: know what?
Speaker 1: Like she was older, and I'm like, well, you could
Speaker 1: have asked us if you need to go to the restroom,
Speaker 1: you just ask and we will politely let you go.
Speaker 1: But for you to just cut and not say anything,
Speaker 1: like I straight up told her and she's like, you
Speaker 1: got you young kids are so ruding. You don't know
Speaker 1: what it is you have got. You guys have lost respect.
Speaker 1: I was like, she's like, do you even know who
Speaker 1: I am? She said, I don't know who you are,
Speaker 1: And I don't care who you are. You're being rude
Speaker 1: and You're lucky that I'm a change woman because I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. Guys. I wanted to slap the shit
Speaker 1: out of her. I was like, you, she was so
Speaker 1: rude and didn't even apologize, like she wanted to defend
Speaker 1: her case, and I'm like, dude, no.
Speaker 2: And the girls, the young girls were just.
Speaker 1: Like anyways, that's another pet peeve, don't cut me in line,
Speaker 1: don't okay? Oh yeah, this one I learned from my
Speaker 1: mother too. The brand, the matching mismatching brands, my mother,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, guys, so it was a huge deal
Speaker 1: for my mom, and I think I got it from her.
Speaker 1: If I was wearing Adidas, for instance, and I wore
Speaker 1: some Nike shoes Ooh Girl, or Louie and Gucci, and
Speaker 1: now I guess it's like cool to just mix brands
Speaker 1: and stuff. It's still I don't think it's cool. It's
Speaker 1: a pet peeve of mine. I mind you, if you do,
Speaker 1: find more power to you. It's just something that my
Speaker 1: mom taught me and I have like embedded in my head.
Speaker 1: So or when and she would get really upset when
Speaker 1: I would wear black shoes with white socks stuff like that,
Speaker 1: she taught me all these things, or ashy skin. Do
Speaker 1: not walk out of my house with ashy skin without
Speaker 1: putting lotion on your on your body. Or when I
Speaker 1: would go with like my clothes unroned. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: all these little things I'm like noticing. I'm like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I'm like my mother.
Speaker 2: I'm like immedia.
Speaker 1: I'll take off that shirt. I need to iron it,
Speaker 1: I need to steam it. He helps me steem myself. Actually,
Speaker 1: but because I don't like to steam, I'm more of
Speaker 1: like an I like to iron. I like the actual
Speaker 1: iron board and I don't have one. He's like, he
Speaker 1: likes to steam, so I guess it's to age difference.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but the steamer just doesn't work well
Speaker 1: for me. So anyways, So yeah, that ash ashy skin,
Speaker 1: wrinkly clothes my mom's and the mismatching of brands and
Speaker 1: the sock thing. But sometimes, you know, anyways, We're gonna
Speaker 1: end with this one because this one is a huge
Speaker 1: one for me in my life, in my relationship with
Speaker 1: my friendships, with my business partners that work with me
Speaker 1: or for me. And I'm huge on people that don't
Speaker 1: like it's a huge pep pep a fine people that
Speaker 1: don't take accountability. It shows so much growth in every
Speaker 1: way when we can take accountability. Mind you, there are
Speaker 1: times when it takes me a little bit, a little
Speaker 1: while to realize that I'm wrong, but I always pray,
Speaker 1: I'm like, God, let me see where I went wrong,
Speaker 1: and give me the vulnerability and the humility to apologize,
Speaker 1: because there are times where I'm like heated and I
Speaker 1: don't see, you know, like sometimes our anger blinds us
Speaker 1: and I'll apologize. But people that don't take responsibility for
Speaker 1: their actions and don't know how to apologize that let
Speaker 1: their ego get in the way and that causes so
Speaker 1: many other problems. We have a whole episode on ego, guys.
Speaker 1: Ego is not your amigo, go.
Speaker 2: Check it out.
Speaker 1: But taking accountability is huge. It's the first step of
Speaker 1: like changing, that's the first step of just realizing where
Speaker 1: we're going wrong, what we did wrong, what we can better.
Speaker 1: It's the first step to growth, to becoming the best
Speaker 1: version of yourself. And it shows humility and I think
Speaker 1: that that's a beautiful thing. There's a lot of power
Speaker 1: in being humble in that way and vulnerable enough to say, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I messed up. Yeah, you're right, And there's
Speaker 1: so much power. Like it's like who are we fighting
Speaker 1: or only fighting ourselves? You know what I mean, we're
Speaker 1: trying to beat the other person or then rason like
Speaker 1: have the last word, and it's and it just causes
Speaker 1: a lot of problems. So anyways, that is it for
Speaker 1: my pet Peeves. There's a lot more, not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I've noticed again, like I said, as I've gotten older,
Speaker 1: I've realized that I have more and I'm a little
Speaker 1: bit more vocal about it, you know, But that's just
Speaker 1: who I am, and I'm sure you guys have pet peeves,
Speaker 1: so please feel free to share them with me if
Speaker 1: you are in agreement with me on some of them.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I just want to do something different with
Speaker 1: this episode, so I hope you guys enjoyed it. Thank
Speaker 1: you for allowing me to this algarme, thank you for
Speaker 1: allowing me to vent again. This is my space to
Speaker 1: share everything with you guys, so I appreciate you listening
Speaker 1: and watching and being here and letting me just speak
Speaker 1: because again it's part of my therapy and it makes
Speaker 1: my heart feel better, so I.
Speaker 2: Feel better, feel better. So thank you, guys.
Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed this episode, and I'll catch you
Speaker 1: on the next episode of Cheeky's and Chill.
Speaker 2: I love you, guys. Have a beautiful November.
Speaker 1: Ooh.
Speaker 2: I love November. I love this time of the year.
Speaker 2: I love you.
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