WEBVTT - My Biggest Pet Peeves 0:00:09.960 --> 0:00:13.800 Hello everyone, and welcome back to your favorite podcast. Also 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:16.920 happy first Monday of November. This is Cheeks and Chiliches. 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:18.759 In case you don't know, but you probably know because 0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:21.640 you love us right and you know that. I love 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:26.720 sharing my personal thoughts, give my opinions on this podcast 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:30.160 open my Heart, and today I want to share something 0:00:30.200 --> 0:00:32.760 a little different with you guys, because I've noticed I 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:35.199 have a lot of these, a lot of pet peeves, 0:00:35.240 --> 0:00:36.360 you guys, things that. 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:37.280 Get under my skin. 0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:40.520 I consider myself a pretty happy person, a positive person. 0:00:40.560 --> 0:00:43.000 I always try to find the positive out of everything. 0:00:43.600 --> 0:00:46.960 But I'm human and things do annoy me. So I 0:00:47.040 --> 0:00:49.080 just thought it'd be fun to share some of these 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:52.200 with you guys. I've shared this pet peeve, this first one, 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:57.440 on social media quite a bit. It's something that really 0:00:57.520 --> 0:01:01.320 really bothers me. It's when people go to the grocery 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:06.520 store anywhere that has a grocery cart, and people don't 0:01:06.520 --> 0:01:11.280 put it back where it belongs. They leave it like 0:01:11.360 --> 0:01:13.560 by your car, or in the middle of the freaking 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:16.759 parking lot, like anywhere except where it belongs. 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:19.400 I cannot First. 0:01:19.200 --> 0:01:23.360 Of all, I truly believe in being considerate of other people. 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:25.400 Why do I say this because it's happened quite a 0:01:25.440 --> 0:01:29.080 few times where the cart will hit my car, it'll 0:01:29.120 --> 0:01:32.840 dent it, it'll scratch it. Not only that, I just 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:36.520 feel like it's lazy not to just take a few 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:39.920 more minutes seconds really to just walk over, leave the 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:44.039 cart and go about your business. And it really bothers me. 0:01:44.319 --> 0:01:46.960 It Like I'm like, I feel like it's only common 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:50.720 courtesy and polite and it's part of being integral, having 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:54.680 integrity of like saying, Okay, I know this isn't my job, 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:56.880 because some people have said that before, like, well, that's 0:01:56.880 --> 0:01:57.360 not my job. 0:01:57.400 --> 0:02:01.880 There's people that do it. We shouldn't see. 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:05.040 Things that way in my personal opinion, so I always 0:02:05.040 --> 0:02:06.720 do my best, no matter how busy I am if 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:09.680 I'm running late, to take it back and put it 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:11.640 where it belongs. But that is a huge pet peeve 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:14.160 of mine, and I don't know. I just think it's 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:16.960 again common courtesy, be nice, be polite, you guys. I've 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:18.760 told you guys this before. I used to work at 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:22.480 kmart for four hours, right and anyways, and when I 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:24.760 was working, the reason I quit was because and this 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:26.840 is why I'm so huge on customer service, which is 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:29.160 my next pet Peeve. But I'm so huge on customer 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:32.600 service because I worked in customer service. I was a waitress, 0:02:32.680 --> 0:02:34.320 I worked at a restaurant for a while, and then 0:02:34.360 --> 0:02:37.400 I worked at Kmart, and all my businesses have a 0:02:37.400 --> 0:02:39.720 lot to do with customer service. So my point is 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:43.000 that when I was working at Kmart, I remember folding 0:02:43.000 --> 0:02:45.919 the clothes, and you know, I'd turn around and try 0:02:45.919 --> 0:02:47.880 to do another section, and then I would turn around 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:49.440 back to the other section and it was just all 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:53.680 messed up. Which is where and when I decided that 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:55.399 every time I go to a store and I get 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:58.600 something and I don't want to take it, I'm like, okay, 0:02:58.600 --> 0:03:00.760 you know, I literally go all the way back to 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:02.799 where I got it from to put it back. Yes, 0:03:02.800 --> 0:03:05.280 there's people, that's their job, yes, but I want to 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:07.400 treat people the way I want to be treated. So 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:09.600 when that happened, it frustrated me. I said, you know what, 0:03:09.880 --> 0:03:13.000 I'm a fight here. I'm gonna fight someone. So I 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:15.519 just said, you know what, I can't work at Camar anymore. 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:17.320 So that's where I was like, Okay, I have to 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:21.280 be polite. I want to, you know, again, treat people 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:23.640 the way I want to be treated. It's huge. Okay, 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:26.440 so customer service. This happened to me yesterday, you guys, 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:32.960 yesterday another one of my pet peeves. As I've gotten older, 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:36.760 I have realized that I've become more anal and more particular, 0:03:38.320 --> 0:03:40.400 and I just don't understand why people do certain shit. 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:43.800 You know. Just remember another pet peeve. But let me 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:45.240 talk about what happened yesterday. So I went to the 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:47.520 store with Emilio and his mom and his grandma took 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:49.080 them out to eat. I like to do that at 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:51.960 least once a week. Anyways, I go in. I need 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:55.720 new bras, you know, and I need sexier bras because 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:57.680 my husband's been asking for that. So anyways, we walked 0:03:57.680 --> 0:04:01.520 by the store. Was in Victoria's Secret the store and 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:05.200 very nice stuff, lingerie, cute stuff. Walk in there real quick, 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:09.360 and the girl, the lady, was busy with another customer. 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:12.760 So I was just waiting, politely, waiting patiently, and I 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:15.120 grabbed a bra and I didn't I didn't see my side, 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:17.520 so I asked her. I said, hey, oh hi, you 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:19.919 know do you have you know thirty sixty that's my 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:22.719 bro siye, And she looked at me literally like this. 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:24.679 I was like, oh, hi, you know me, I always smile, 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:28.120 like I really do anyways, and she just looked at me, 0:04:29.520 --> 0:04:35.160 literally went walked away, and I followed her, like, uh 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:37.000 was that? And I was like should I say something? 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:40.960 Should I not rude? Not a smile, not hello, no, nothing. 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:42.720 There was no one else in the store but us, 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:44.920 so it wasn't like she was busy, because I understand 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:48.479 people being busy. But I turned around and I can't 0:04:48.480 --> 0:04:51.320 stay quiet, and I said, was that a yes or no? 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:55.440 My tone of voice was like, bitch, don't with me 0:04:56.080 --> 0:04:58.760 because I was being nice and the media is very chill. 0:04:58.960 --> 0:05:00.600 He usually doesn't say things, so I'm the one that 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:02.640 usually defends, like I'm not a bitch about things. But 0:05:02.680 --> 0:05:04.160 it's just like, hey, you're being rude to me for 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:07.039 no reason. So anyways, back to my story, So it's like, 0:05:07.640 --> 0:05:10.080 was that a yes or no? And she looked at me. 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:14.360 She said I was thinking because I don't know if 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:18.159 I have the size, and I said, well, you could 0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:20.799 have at least said, oh one second, let me check. 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:24.280 Not look at me and like I'm bothering you. And 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:26.839 this has happened to me quite a bit, guys, cause 0:05:27.160 --> 0:05:31.120 when I'm not like this usually every day in my life, 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:34.360 I'm this banana, I'm in a freaking bun, no makeup, 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:36.680 I'm in my workout clothes. You would never if you 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:38.880 don't know who I am, then you would be like, oh, 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:40.720 she's just a normal check. I'm a normal girl, Like 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:43.760 I don't know, I'm not like with my brand name purses. 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:47.560 And I sometimes think it has to do with the 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:49.440 way you look, you know what I mean, where they 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:52.720 treat you differently. And I've come across that and we've 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:54.360 talked about it on the pod before where I've done 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:55.840 things and we're like, I'm gonna show you who I am. 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:58.000 But I have no energy for that. But it's just like, dude, 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:01.080 just be freaking nice to anyone that walks in. So 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:04.159 she then apologized she did, She's like, oh, I'm sorry, 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:06.960 but still with an attitude. She's like, oh, I'm sorry. 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:09.000 I was just trying to figure it out I should. 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:10.560 I'm like, thank you and that was nice, and I 0:06:10.560 --> 0:06:13.760 said thank you for saying, you know, for apologizing. But guys, 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:17.039 customer service is huge. I understand. 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:18.920 We all have bad days. I get it. 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:21.760 I know sometimes we go into work with a broken heart. 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:23.760 I have gone on to stage with a broken heart. 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:25.599 But that doesn't mean I'm going to be in a 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:28.760 bitchy mood and not give my best show, because that's 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:30.560 it's not the audience's. 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:31.719 Fault, you know, And it doesn't. 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:33.960 That's one thing that I talk about a lot on 0:06:34.000 --> 0:06:37.359 social media is you guys, like, it doesn't cost you 0:06:37.360 --> 0:06:40.160 anything to smile, even if you're having a bad day. 0:06:40.200 --> 0:06:42.280 If you smile a little bit, it's gonna make your 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:45.919 heart feel better, especially if you're in customer service. Again, 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:48.000 going back to treating people the way that you want 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:51.800 to be treated, and people in customer service, I'm like, 0:06:51.839 --> 0:06:53.360 I'm sorry that you don't like your job or you're 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:55.119 not happy with your job, but that's not my fault. 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:57.479 And if I'm nice to you, I expect for you 0:06:57.520 --> 0:07:00.640 to be polite to me. Mind you, I know there 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:02.919 are a lot of a whole customers. I get it, 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:05.680 people that go in and are rude, and I don't 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:07.760 I'm not for that either. I don't think that we 0:07:07.839 --> 0:07:12.000 should be mean to employees because you know that they 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:14.840 can't really bark back, you know. But and I don't 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:18.240 agree with that, you know. So anyways, that's a pet peeve. 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:20.920 I can't with rude people. I've done it a lot 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:23.320 where I'm at a restaurant. If there's not good service, 0:07:23.400 --> 0:07:26.720 I always give a tip. I love to tip, but 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:30.280 I won't give a good or a better tip if 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:33.240 you haven't given me good service. I will let you 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:36.120 know too, because I'm just trying to make the world better. 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:37.920 So that's part of making the world better, right, I 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:42.840 got to let you know. So customer service guys huge. 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:44.560 It just gets me all rattled up. 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:59.000 Another pet peeve. Littering. I cannot with people that litter. 0:08:00.760 --> 0:08:02.040 I can't. 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:04.520 I was where was I? I was at the airport 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:08.840 and we were walking literally inside the airport, walking and 0:08:09.320 --> 0:08:13.920 trying to get out through like security, through customs. There 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:19.560 was a banana pill on the freaking counter, trash on 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:23.360 the floor, Like I was just I can't, like, why 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:25.440 not wait? Like I even if I have a gum 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:26.520 and I put a gum in my mouth and I 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:27.720 don't have anywhere to put it, I'll put it in 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:29.800 my pocket, I'll put it in my purse. I won't 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:33.920 throw my gum out because gum is not biodegradable. I 0:08:35.240 --> 0:08:38.000 just I feel like I understand that a lot of 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:41.080 people literally understand that. We're like, oh, well it's you know, 0:08:41.240 --> 0:08:43.959 especially La, there's a freaking mess everywhere. Yeah, but why 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:46.400 are we going to contribute to that mess? Like if 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:51.400 we learned to do our part individually, it'll make the 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:56.480 problem better little by little, I understand. It's like, oh, well, 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:58.720 why do I care about global warming? And I don't 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:01.439 want to need a recycle noe. Like it's all about 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:04.280 doing our part and doing the best that we can 0:09:04.360 --> 0:09:06.520 so that we're not adding to the problem, you know 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:08.920 what I mean. So it's like I see people in 0:09:08.960 --> 0:09:13.000 front of me when I'm driving and they're just throwing 0:09:13.040 --> 0:09:16.360 shit out of their window. I have seriously, I'm not 0:09:17.160 --> 0:09:18.720 I need to like chill out sometimes, Like I can 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:21.800 be a little impulsive with that. But like I have 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:25.120 yelled at people on the freeway. I'm like, don't be rude, 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:27.000 Like I'll drive up to them. I'm like, why did 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:29.720 you do that? Like I just I can't. I don't know. 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:32.679 I just feel like the world is so beautiful. Mother 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:35.760 nature gives us so much guys, Like why would we 0:09:35.840 --> 0:09:37.520 just trash? Like you wouldn't want anyone to come to 0:09:37.559 --> 0:09:40.120 your house and just trash your house. It's the same thing. 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:43.000 The earth is our home, Like you don't do that, 0:09:43.240 --> 0:09:46.920 just don't do that. Oh, I've talked about this one too. 0:09:49.720 --> 0:09:52.959 When people make me feel dumb at something that I 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:55.240 it's something that I have to work on, you know, 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:57.480 stuff that have to do with my childhood, things that 0:09:57.520 --> 0:10:02.720 I'm still working through. Therapy helps a lot. It's in insecurity. 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:06.200 You know, We've talked about it, and one day I'll 0:10:06.240 --> 0:10:09.040 tell you guys a story as to why. But anyways, 0:10:09.880 --> 0:10:12.280 when people try to make me feel dumb, like if 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:16.600 I ask a question, and it's my mom always taught 0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:18.760 me ask questions. That's the only way you're going to learn. 0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:22.120 Don't ever feel embarrassed to ask a question in class, 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:24.840 to ask a question in a business meeting if you 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:28.160 don't understand. And I now I'm more secure in that 0:10:28.480 --> 0:10:31.040 aspect of like, oh, hey, I'm sorry, what does that mean? 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:33.800 I don't understand? Because I should know if I'm in 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:35.600 a business meeting, you get me. But now I'm like, hey, 0:10:35.640 --> 0:10:42.240 it's okay to ask questions, but when people respond in 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:49.079 a condescending way, trying to belittle me, I can't. Then 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:51.640 another side of Jenny comes out where I'm like, wait, 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:52.000 a second. 0:10:52.000 --> 0:10:52.880 You don't have to be rude. 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:56.040 Don't make me feel stupid and say, well, you don't 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:57.960 know that, like when they say that, and it's like, no, 0:10:58.080 --> 0:11:01.679 I don't because if I knew, I wouldn't be asking you. 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:05.640 You know, don't do that, Like just be nice, get 0:11:05.720 --> 0:11:10.960 thick quista, you know. So that's one four. I have 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:15.040 a lot of guys. Oh my god, Okay, do you guys? 0:11:15.040 --> 0:11:15.440 Do you guys? 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:17.880 You guys have to like leave me comments, okay, and like, 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:19.240 let me know, do you have pet peeves? 0:11:19.280 --> 0:11:21.080 All these things that I'm mentioning? Is it just me? 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:24.360 Do you guys understand? Okay? 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:28.520 Oh another little pet peeve at home? My house is 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:32.080 I think I get this from my mother. But she 0:11:32.280 --> 0:11:34.800 used to hate and you know, I don't like to 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:36.760 use the word hate a lot, but she used to 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:41.320 hate finger prints on her walls. It would drive her nuts. 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:45.559 Imagine Jenny Rivera, this huge freaking superstar selling out the 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:49.080 Staples Center. Okay, Like she would get so pissed and 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:51.040 she would all over the house, would have her little 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:53.800 spray and a little like she hated the finger per 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:55.920 She's like, do not put your dirty ass hands on 0:11:56.000 --> 0:11:58.440 my walls. So I got that from her. Now I'm like, 0:11:58.600 --> 0:12:00.440 oh my god, there's like a little scrape on my walls. 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:02.160 And all my walls in the house are very light, 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:04.480 they're white, and I now I get that from my mom. 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:07.520 And also the windows. I like my windows to be 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:12.000 very like clean, no fingerprints. I'm just very anal about that. 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:18.160 Another thing I'm anal about another pet peeve, is scratched rims. 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:24.720 I cannot anytime someone scratches my rim or I scratch 0:12:24.760 --> 0:12:28.000 my own, I'm very careful. I get them fixed. Shout 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:31.160 out to doctor will you guys can find him on Instagram. 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:33.560 He goes out to my house if anyone, because they 0:12:33.600 --> 0:12:36.280 just did it the other day to one of my cars, 0:12:36.280 --> 0:12:39.320 and I was like, it does something to my soul 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:42.080 that I just I'm like, oh my god, I can't 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:46.640 and not to talk about it about women, okay, but 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:48.280 I do see a lot of my ladies out there 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:50.240 with the rims all scratched up. We got to be 0:12:50.240 --> 0:12:53.160 better at parallel parking. Trust me, I've learned. I learned 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:56.760 the hard way. And guys too, though none of my 0:12:56.800 --> 0:13:00.199 ass But guys, you know, I can't because there's be 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:02.240 like a really nice car like a nice Mercedes, and 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:04.280 then the rooms are all scratched up, and I just 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:05.160 it hurts my heart. 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:08.480 Is that weird? Oh my god? 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:12.800 Okay, people who don't pick up after themselves. We talked 0:13:12.800 --> 0:13:16.319 about that. Yes, well, I guess littering is one thing, 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:18.720 but people that don't pick up after themselves, Yes, I 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:25.520 that's another pet peeve. Because well, Emilio's not here to 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:30.800 defend himself. But I've learned to take deep breaths because 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:34.440 I can't. And I've learned that I can't expect everyone 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:39.040 to be like me, and that's okay. Everyone's different and 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:43.320 everyone does things at their own pace. And Emilio is 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:45.440 a little bit. He's probably gonna get so mad at 0:13:45.480 --> 0:13:48.160 me for saying this, But I like to put my shoes, 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:50.040 I take them off. I like to put them where 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:51.960 they belong. I just like to be I'm a little 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:53.840 more organized. He just leaves them by the bed, and 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:56.240 his socks and his shorts just leaves them there. 0:13:58.040 --> 0:14:01.360 And I just don't like it. But I'm like, you 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:02.800 know what, I got a pickatures of my battles. I 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:03.800 can't fight over everything. 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:06.640 You know. It's like he's a great guy. He makes 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:08.760 the bed he does so many other great things, and 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:12.000 we have to learn to see the good people and 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:13.840 we all, we all. I'm sure there's things that I 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:17.720 do that irritate him very much, but yes, like picking 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:21.360 up after yourself, being polite and even like when I 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:26.400 was in Lamm, I had my green room and I 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:30.280 heard around that they were saying that my my green room, 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:33.880 my dressing room was always a messyist. 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:36.840 And that really bugged me. I was like, what, because. 0:14:36.640 --> 0:14:38.320 I like to pick up after myself, like I will 0:14:38.320 --> 0:14:40.720 put things into the trash can. I'm very like I 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:43.400 like to see things in its place. But I don't 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:46.640 know if the team wasn't putting their water bottles in 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:49.040 the trash or eating or like, I like to just 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:52.160 pick up. And once I heard that, I was like, 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:53.360 oh no, I don't want to be known for that. 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:57.000 So I just every after every show, like I started 0:14:57.000 --> 0:14:58.760 like cleaning up after everyone, and I'm like, I don't 0:14:58.800 --> 0:15:00.520 want to be known for that because I'm like that, 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:03.520 you know, so you know, pick up after yourself, be nice, 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:07.280 and do what you can always if you want. Is 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:09.480 there just my pet peeves in my opinions, don't listen 0:15:09.480 --> 0:15:26.480 to me if you don't want to, but you know, oh, 0:15:26.960 --> 0:15:33.160 the toilet, it's a big one. I also, I also 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:35.360 said this on social media and it happened to me 0:15:35.400 --> 0:15:39.360 again the other day. I was in at the airport changing. 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:40.840 I had a promo day and I didn't want to 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:42.160 go in my promo clothes, so I was like, I'm 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:45.400 gonna go change in the restroom, in the family restroom, 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:49.800 and there was pea all over the toilet. 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:53.360 And I don't understand. I don't get it. 0:15:53.920 --> 0:15:56.760 I'm like, okay, I mean I squat sometimes, you know, Yeah, 0:15:56.760 --> 0:15:57.640 the pe will splash. 0:15:57.680 --> 0:15:58.400 Okay, Well what I. 0:15:58.400 --> 0:16:00.720 Do is I clean it for the next person that's 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:03.960 gonna come. I don't just leave it there. And I 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:06.760 don't understand how people can do that, like it just 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:07.680 it grosses me out. 0:16:07.760 --> 0:16:08.560 I think it's rude. 0:16:09.640 --> 0:16:12.400 But yes, if you guys, especially women, I don't know 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:15.360 what the guy's restrooms look like, but the ladies' restrooms 0:16:15.360 --> 0:16:20.520 are usually a freaking hot mess. Like tampons. Like ladies, 0:16:20.720 --> 0:16:25.200 if you are on your period, like wrap your tampon 0:16:25.280 --> 0:16:27.840 or your pad in a toilet paper and hide it 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:29.560 and put it in like make sure it goes all 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:31.680 the way and in the little bin that they give 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:34.160 us so that I don't see it and I don't 0:16:34.160 --> 0:16:35.840 smell it, you know what I mean, Like, I just 0:16:36.000 --> 0:16:40.280 I don't understand, like, don't be a dirty birdie. Ladies 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:42.760 like don't and I don't know. And I asked Emilia, 0:16:42.760 --> 0:16:44.080 how are the restrooms, and the guy who's like, oh, 0:16:44.080 --> 0:16:46.200 they're pretty gross, I'm like, I wonder if they're worse 0:16:46.240 --> 0:16:48.640 than ours because I walk in and I literally I'll 0:16:48.640 --> 0:16:53.160 say it out loud. I'm like, dude, Ladies like, don't 0:16:53.200 --> 0:16:55.280 be dirty. I'll say it. I want everyone to listen 0:16:55.320 --> 0:16:58.960 because I'm like, dude, oh talking about the restroom. The 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:02.040 other day, so we were all in line waiting to 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:07.440 go to the restroom, and this lady walks in. There's 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:09.479 at least there's three people in front of me. It 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:12.120 was me, Kim, and then like six other people behind us. 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:14.400 At the airport. I've been spending a lot of time 0:17:14.400 --> 0:17:17.720 at the airport anyways, going to the restroom. This lady walks in, 0:17:19.240 --> 0:17:27.960 walks in all cute and takes the last stall, and 0:17:28.000 --> 0:17:30.920 I was like, the lady came out and instead of 0:17:30.960 --> 0:17:33.160 the girls that were in front of me, she walked 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:40.440 into the stall. Dude, I coun't with injustice. I need 0:17:40.480 --> 0:17:43.240 to learn to sometimes maybe mine my own business because 0:17:43.240 --> 0:17:46.879 I wasn't the next in line. But I just that's rude, 0:17:46.960 --> 0:17:50.320 that's not nice, Like you are like everyone else, you 0:17:50.440 --> 0:17:52.760 wait in the back of the line, like what is 0:17:52.800 --> 0:17:55.520 your problem? And Emilio tells me that I have to 0:17:55.520 --> 0:17:57.840 work on that, like, hey, you're you know, like that's 0:17:57.880 --> 0:17:59.719 not our business, babe, Like don't you know because I'm 0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:01.120 not true trying to fight or pick a fight because 0:18:01.119 --> 0:18:02.520 I'm not like that. But it's like, if I see 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:07.119 something that's not right, I automatically want to defend and 0:18:07.200 --> 0:18:09.959 want to protect, and that's just who I am. So 0:18:10.000 --> 0:18:11.959 when I saw that, and the young girls as they 0:18:11.960 --> 0:18:15.040 were very young, looked over at me, and I was like, 0:18:15.080 --> 0:18:16.840 and the lady was in the stallready, I said, that 0:18:16.920 --> 0:18:19.000 is very rude. Who I started cussing. I was like, 0:18:19.000 --> 0:18:21.760 who the F do you think you are? Like ooh, 0:18:21.800 --> 0:18:23.879 I was just talking crap the entire time until she 0:18:23.880 --> 0:18:25.840 came out. I said, excuse me. I told her, I 0:18:25.840 --> 0:18:27.560 said that was very routing. You need to wait in 0:18:27.600 --> 0:18:31.000 line like everyone else. She's like, oh, I'm sixty something. 0:18:31.080 --> 0:18:33.040 She's like, I'm a senior I'm a senior. 0:18:33.480 --> 0:18:35.600 What does she say? A senior citizen? And I don't 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:35.760 know what? 0:18:35.920 --> 0:18:37.480 Like she was older, and I'm like, well, you could 0:18:37.480 --> 0:18:39.240 have asked us if you need to go to the restroom, 0:18:39.240 --> 0:18:41.320 you just ask and we will politely let you go. 0:18:41.400 --> 0:18:43.240 But for you to just cut and not say anything, 0:18:43.840 --> 0:18:45.280 like I straight up told her and she's like, you 0:18:45.280 --> 0:18:47.280 got you young kids are so ruding. You don't know 0:18:47.320 --> 0:18:49.600 what it is you have got. You guys have lost respect. 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:51.600 I was like, she's like, do you even know who 0:18:51.600 --> 0:18:53.080 I am? She said, I don't know who you are, 0:18:53.119 --> 0:18:54.879 And I don't care who you are. You're being rude 0:18:56.119 --> 0:19:01.560 and You're lucky that I'm a change woman because I'm 0:19:01.560 --> 0:19:03.040 not gonna lie. Guys. I wanted to slap the shit 0:19:03.040 --> 0:19:04.800 out of her. I was like, you, she was so 0:19:04.880 --> 0:19:07.840 rude and didn't even apologize, like she wanted to defend 0:19:07.880 --> 0:19:08.959 her case, and I'm like, dude, no. 0:19:09.920 --> 0:19:11.800 And the girls, the young girls were just. 0:19:11.760 --> 0:19:16.600 Like anyways, that's another pet peeve, don't cut me in line, 0:19:16.840 --> 0:19:22.320 don't okay? Oh yeah, this one I learned from my 0:19:22.320 --> 0:19:27.920 mother too. The brand, the matching mismatching brands, my mother, 0:19:28.080 --> 0:19:32.080 Oh my gosh, guys, so it was a huge deal 0:19:32.080 --> 0:19:34.000 for my mom, and I think I got it from her. 0:19:34.520 --> 0:19:36.880 If I was wearing Adidas, for instance, and I wore 0:19:36.920 --> 0:19:41.359 some Nike shoes Ooh Girl, or Louie and Gucci, and 0:19:41.400 --> 0:19:45.840 now I guess it's like cool to just mix brands 0:19:45.840 --> 0:19:49.000 and stuff. It's still I don't think it's cool. It's 0:19:49.000 --> 0:19:51.680 a pet peeve of mine. I mind you, if you do, 0:19:52.000 --> 0:19:55.000 find more power to you. It's just something that my 0:19:55.000 --> 0:19:57.119 mom taught me and I have like embedded in my head. 0:19:58.440 --> 0:20:02.239 So or when and she would get really upset when 0:20:02.240 --> 0:20:05.080 I would wear black shoes with white socks stuff like that, 0:20:05.520 --> 0:20:07.800 she taught me all these things, or ashy skin. Do 0:20:07.920 --> 0:20:10.120 not walk out of my house with ashy skin without 0:20:10.160 --> 0:20:13.080 putting lotion on your on your body. Or when I 0:20:13.080 --> 0:20:16.240