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Speaker 2: I have been with someone off Instagram? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Have you had a sexual relationship with somebody met off Instagram?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean sexual? I've been in a relationship

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Speaker 1: If you tell me one more thing, goddamn the women.

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Speaker 2: I know you're lying, So what does what does that

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Speaker 1: I'm your boy the Truth.

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Speaker 2: Okay, period, get into that, honey. Okay. So how you

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Speaker 2: So there's been a lot of stuff going on in

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Speaker 1: Is I've had this busting on you though. That's a

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Speaker 1: Been stepping yo. Since the sun went down, You've been

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Speaker 2: Get into that. Older women is hitting too, honey, older women.

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Speaker 1: This is older women's season.

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Speaker 1: What it is older women's season because summer is over.

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Speaker 2: Who is the older women? Thirty four older? I feel

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Speaker 1: This cuddle season, cuddle season. It's getting cold outside, it's raining.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all them short shorts. That's good to go there

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Speaker 1: Anybody looking for some extra thick too, Not.

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Speaker 1: Extra thick, extra thick season. It's colde outside. I'm telling you.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's what she was saying, like I don't care,

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Speaker 1: Well, first of all, if you the side piece, first off,

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Speaker 2: What she's saying. She's knowing her place, saying like I

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Speaker 2: Well, because this is what happens with a side chick.

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Speaker 2: your words. No, you said side pieces save marriages.

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Speaker 1: But I can't I say that.

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Speaker 2: Please. All I asked is please darted ill put in

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Speaker 2: This is crazy, like this is this is blow because

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Speaker 1: I've been married. You haven't been married. I've had a

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Speaker 2: You need another look? Okay, cool, let me switch it

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Speaker 2: you need like? We're not doing that? And I promise you.

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Speaker 2: Let a man have a sight. Let anybody have a

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Speaker 1: You said you the turkey dress and greens. But what

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Speaker 2: I got you. I got something for that too. I

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Speaker 1: You got the word advertising right now?

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Speaker 2: I'm not advertising.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not advertising off.

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Speaker 2: The market and I'm not to be advertising. So anyways,

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Speaker 2: with being useless. They don't know how to fix things anymore.

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Speaker 2: They don't know how to build nothing, they don't know

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Speaker 2: younger generation not wanting marriage. From nineteen ninety three to today,

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Speaker 2: only two percent for men, meaning men are still cool

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Speaker 1: Damn.

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Speaker 2: So women are starting to feel like men. What are

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Speaker 1: Though, but you don't know you don't. Because I can

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Speaker 2: I could feel it. I feel it. I don't want anything.

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Speaker 2: I saw you tonight. You look so good. How are you?

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Speaker 2: I wanted to come up to you. That's weird. You

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Speaker 2: to me, To come up to me, it's weird. It's

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Speaker 2: so not. If you don't have the confidence to come

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Speaker 1: No, So listen to this. You got to think about

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Speaker 1: Just like, I didn't want to come up to you

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Speaker 2: He no, no, no, it was this situation has happened when

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Speaker 2: That's my point. It's weird. How are you finding me

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Speaker 2: Like are you single? That's it?

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Speaker 1: So let me ask you this. Yeah, you ain't never

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Speaker 1: Have you had a sexual relationship with somebody met off Instagram?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean sexual? I've been in a relationship,

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Speaker 1: Like for how many times have you done this?

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Speaker 2: Like once? Yeah? One time? This internet stuff is new

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Speaker 2: right now, Like you're not just me? Yeah, but you're

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Speaker 2: I'm not meeting people now. Yes I've done that once before.

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Speaker 2: Yes I have done that. So, yes I have done that.

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Speaker 2: But I didn't see this person in person. They didn't

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Speaker 1: You ever met somebody off of social media and then

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Speaker 2: No, I've never done that. What do you mean hooked

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Speaker 1: Know, went somewhere, uh connected, Yeah, and like maybe like

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Speaker 2: You have a problem business have you? Like?

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Speaker 1: What have I ever met somebody on Instagram? Hooked up

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Speaker 2: Met them? Yeah? I met him on Instagram, hit them up,

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It was popping, all right. I was exciting.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it was.

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Speaker 1: Kind of more exciting than going on to a girl,

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 2: And was that it? You never saw that person like Anna, y'all?

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Speaker 2: Cool. Okay, So anyways, I'm crying. Okay, So anyways, Brian

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Speaker 2: McKnight was on the internet and he basically said he

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Speaker 2: was never my boy. Okay. Yeah, he said he was

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Speaker 2: He said he was never in love with his wife.

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Speaker 1: Damn. That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: And so my thing is, like, what do men be doing?

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Speaker 1: I just don't understand. I can get what he's saying,

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Speaker 1: So like he could just be like having sex with

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Speaker 1: People do that. Yeah, people do that. People you act

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Speaker 1: just like whatever, you know conversation week, you ain't.

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Speaker 2: Really into a whole like I could never imagine. But

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Speaker 2: vibe out, I cannot be with nobody like I just

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Speaker 2: No, that's not that's you're a woman, so you are more.

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Speaker 2: You're a woman. Do you know that for a fact,

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Speaker 2: because you're a woman. How you're not a woman. There's

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Speaker 2: That's that's so not true.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you.

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Speaker 2: I know you say this, every single are more driven

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Speaker 1: Driven by sex?

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Speaker 2: Yes, why go ahead say the point.

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Speaker 1: Because like the sex is everything to a woman in

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Speaker 2: That's such a lie. That's such not that sex is

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Speaker 1: The lowest.

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Speaker 2: Cheats. That's so, but that's level. What you're saying is

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Speaker 2: wouldn't even be in a relationship. You're telling me that

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Speaker 2: that's the driving factor. That's not the most important thing

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Speaker 2: raw than you can imagine. I'm a woman, and I'm

438
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 2: telling you right now that is not the highest thing

439
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 2: for most women. You're not thinking, oh my god, the sex. Yes,

440
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 2: the sex is the factor. But for me and a

441
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 2: lot of women, the sex is good because you love

442
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 2: that man. The sex is exciting because you're like, damn,

443
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 2: I want to please him. I'm enjoying this because I

444
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 2: love him and I rock with him so heavily, and

445
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 2: I'm into him. That's why. That's why the sex is hitting,

446
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:52,119
Speaker 2: period point blank. And that's why when women stop having

447
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 2: sex with a man, it's because they're off of a man. No,

448
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 2: that's not what it means. It's not that's not true.

449
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 2: That's not true one hundred percent. That's not true when

450
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 2: a woman.

451
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 1: Why do men don't have sex toys like women? Is

452
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:09,400
Speaker 1: that true or not?

453
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 2: Yeah? But also a drawer, but they come every time

454
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 2: typically that average man comes every time.

455
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:20,480
Speaker 1: I say, all got these toys, these flowers, all this shit,

456
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 1: come on. That's driven that's driven by sex. We don't

457
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 1: got all that. Y'all got a whole drawer all this.

458
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 2: It's not draw this is what I'm saying. But this

459
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 2: is why, this is why men are going to come.

460
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 2: Ninety percent of the time. Men are going to come

461
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 2: during sex. Period. I don't know men who just don't

462
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 2: come during sex. That's the that's when sex is over,

463
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 2: is when the man comes. When women, women don't come

464
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,400
Speaker 2: at like men because it's more intricate and difficult. It's

465
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 2: not the man's fault. So women have toys so they

466
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:55,640
Speaker 2: can get themselves there. It's different like men always are

467
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 2: going to get there no matter what. So yes, it's

468
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 2: a different thing, but it's not riven by sex. Like no,

469
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 2: a man being a man and being all the things

470
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 2: that a woman wants, like filling him and connecting with

471
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 2: him and having that energy and having that relationship is important.

472
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 2: And I think that when that goes out the woman window,

473
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 2: women start to feel like sex is a chore, Like,

474
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:18,440
Speaker 2: oh god, I have that sex with this man. Now,

475
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 2: this is crazy, you know, Like and when I start

476
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 2: to feel like that, I know that I no longer

477
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 2: love this person and I don't want to be in

478
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 2: this relationship anymore because it's all about how you feel

479
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:32,360
Speaker 2: about the man. And you don't agree with that. No,

480
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 2: So what is your point?

481
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 1: You think? What? Just women are driven by? Second, that's

482
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,879
Speaker 1: why y'all dressed the way y'all dress, Smell the way

483
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 1: y'all smell, Get the toys y'all need to get. Like,

484
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 1: we know what it is.

485
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 2: This is crazy. You are tripping.

486
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: I like a good woman that can throw on a

487
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,959
Speaker 1: suit and feel sexy and just like walk through the

488
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 1: hallway or walk through the lobby and just with a

489
00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: swagger like yeah, I don't either be wearing this because

490
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 1: I know I'm cracking.

491
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so what does what does that have to

492
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 2: do with anything?

493
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: I don't know.

494
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 2: You are so stupid. I love it, Okay, So Anyways,

495
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 2: older women are starting to say in their forties that

496
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 2: they prefer younger men. And we've had people on our

497
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 2: podcasts that are in their forties that have said this,

498
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 2: because I'm not in my forties, so I don't know,

499
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 2: but they're saying because they're more easy minded, they're not

500
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 2: stuck in their ways, and they're not intimidated by strong women,

501
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 2: so they're like we are. And I hear this all

502
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 2: the time. The older women are saying, the young men.

503
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 1: Wow, older woman, then let's talk about that.

504
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 2: Well, forties, okay, forty or.

505
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: Your women who like younger men just like boy toys.

506
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 2: I could believe that.

507
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 1: They just like somebody because because everybody been written them

508
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:59,160
Speaker 1: off and nobody want them, and now they just want

509
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 1: a sexual power there. And they know it's not gonna be.

510
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 2: A nobody want.

511
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,679
Speaker 1: It's not gonna be it's not gonna be no attachment

512
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 1: because the young dude ain't gonna be felt. A young

513
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: dude eventually gonna be like, I'm just gonna get with

514
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 1: her in that seat. Ain't know this a long term.

515
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 1: He already knows it ain't long term. He like twenty six,

516
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: twenty eight, you know, he got a future with something else,

517
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 1: so he just this is just a pass along passed

518
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 1: by there taking.

519
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 2: Up of men that have been like Drea's with oh boy,

520
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 2: they have a kid together. He's like twenty three and

521
00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 2: she's forty five or.

522
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: But there is cases where, you know, there is cases

523
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,919
Speaker 1: to where an older lady can can like really like

524
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 1: turn a young boy out and he's just overwhelmed and

525
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 1: he's just like damn.

526
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 2: I think that it's kind of strange that when men

527
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: are with super young women, we're like, that's disgusting, you're this,

528
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 2: But when women do it, it's not looked out like

529
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 2: that person don't find that that. I think that's nasty.

530
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 2: And I think that there's a lot of men who've

531
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 2: been taken advantage by women who were like older than

532
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 2: them and they were only like fourteen or fifteen, and

533
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 2: they have these stories of like, oh, this older woman

534
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 2: who was like this age was doing this and doing that. No,

535
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 2: that's a real thing that a lot.

536
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: Of men have experienced.

537
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, I experienced that's a real you know.

538
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,439
Speaker 1: That's when I was twenty one twenty two, there was

539
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 1: like an older lady I was dating, what was her age?

540
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 1: She was like in her thirties. Okay, she's in their thirties.

541
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 1: But it was like as a young twenty one twenty

542
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 1: two year old, you know, in the league with some cheese.

543
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,719
Speaker 1: It was just like all right, she was like, all right,

544
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna fly you here. I'm gonna pick you up

545
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 1: in my bands were I'm like, this is this is crazy,

546
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 1: Like you ain't seeing that from the young. So I'm

547
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 1: just like, all right, I'm gonna take you. So now

548
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: you're intrigued by that, I'm gonna put you up in

549
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 1: this suite here, and I'm like, damn, this is crazy

550
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 1: of you down. I'm like, damn, this is.

551
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 2: She got the feather man.

552
00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: She got that big feather, the big feather. Right, It's like, damn,

553
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: so now you over here. Now I ain't gonna even

554
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: lie to you. My mind was gone. My mind was gone.

555
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 2: I can't imagine.

556
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 1: I was just like, hold on.

557
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 2: But that's that's crazy though. That's like grooming as somebody.

558
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 1: Yeah I was.

559
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,719
Speaker 2: And and when men do that, it's looked up like

560
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 2: you're disgusting, you're nasty, you're fucked up. But I think

561
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 2: we need to hold women accountable because what do you

562
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 2: mean you have a son, that's his same age, and

563
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 2: this is who you're dealing with. Like, and men don't

564
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 2: emotionally mature scientifically till forty three. So you're telling me

565
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 2: that you're with a twenty year old boy, or even

566
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 2: boys who are like fifteen sixteen. It's cracking for a

567
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 2: man because they're looking like this older woman. She's turning

568
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: me out, she's putting me on. But that's still not okay,

569
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 2: Like that's weird and that's uncomfortable. Like I would never

570
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 2: mess with any young boy like twenty one, twenty two,

571
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 2: Like I think that that's very strange. I don't feel

572
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 2: comfortable with that. I have a nephew that's older than that.

573
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 2: Like to me personally, I do not feel comfortable with that.

574
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 2: I don't like younger man. I do not want to

575
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 2: date anyone younger than me. I've never been with anybody

576
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 2: younger me, only older than me. I don't deal with

577
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 2: younger man. I think it's very weird, and like, I

578
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 2: just think that men already have a problem being mature.

579
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 2: So it's like then I'm being with someone who's even

580
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,959
Speaker 2: more and it's like you are taking advantage of them.

581
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 2: It feels like you could easily like I could manipulate

582
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 2: a young boy so easily.

583
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: Right like I was, like I was in the league,

584
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 1: so I've seen a lot already.

585
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 2: No, it doesn't matter though, because I've had young boys

586
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 2: that are in the league that be like twenty one,

587
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 2: twenty two, money rich everything trying to be like what's up,

588
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 2: and I'm like, you are a child. I will not

589
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 2: fuck with you, Like that's weird and literally like I

590
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 2: could take advantage of him and be like let get

591
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 2: married to him and everything, take his money and do

592
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 2: all this like it's easy. That's why women are doing that.

593
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 2: I see a lot of women getting with the young

594
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 2: young athlete boys and doing that like that's the little play.

595
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 2: A lot of girls are doing that right now. That's

596
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 2: a new play. Right now. I see a lot. I

597
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 2: don't even want to name the names because I feel

598
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 2: but it's a lot of women that are doing that

599
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 2: right now. It's a bunch of them. Yeah, it's a

600
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 2: ring of them. I don't know who the ring leader.

601
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 1: Maybe I think it's a group chat.

602
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 2: I could imagine that, but I'm not dealing with that.

603
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 2: I don't want to be first of all, I want

604
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 2: to be with a man who's like knows more than

605
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 2: me could teach me. Stuff can put me on the

606
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 2: stuff can tell me things. I don't want to be

607
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 2: with someone where I'm like your mom. Like then it

608
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 2: becomes like a weird like you know what I mean,

609
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 2: It just starts to be weird, Like I don't like that.

610
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 2: I don't want to be that like Anyways, So the

611
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 2: game was talking about how he feels like when he's

612
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 2: entertaining women he has no real intentions for and like

613
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 2: he knows, like I'm not gonna be with this girl

614
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 2: in a relationship. I'm not gonna mess with her, or

615
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 2: my heart is somewhere else already, like I love someone else.

616
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 2: He admits that he like loses sleep over that, and

617
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 2: he feels like men don't talk about that enough, and

618
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 2: they don't talk about like the fact that damn like

619
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 2: entertaining women who I don't really fuck with like that

620
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 2: just for sex, Like he was like, I'll feel so

621
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 2: bad and sick to my stomach like the next day

622
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 2: to the point where I had to stop doing that,

623
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Because I'm just like I'm

624
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 2: too grown to be in that type of situation where

625
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 2: I'm doing this and now I'm guilty and I feel

626
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 2: so crazy. You know, what are your thoughts on that?

627
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: I agree with that. Yeah, I think you know when

628
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: you start getting to the realization, when you get older,

629
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: it's a waste of your goddamn time. Yeah, you're looking

630
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: at a girl and it looked good, and you're like, damn,

631
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: it'll be you know, it's sexually, it's cool, but it's

632
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: just like I don't see no future or her. I

633
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: don't see myself really taking her serious. And now I'm

634
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 1: looking at like, damn, what am I doing? Wasting my time?

635
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: Because as you get older the years, you're just like, man,

636
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 1: I ain't got I ain't got time to waste no more.

637
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 1: It's like you've been doing that for so long, You've

638
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: been doing it for so long, and you just like,

639
00:32:56,080 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: that's a wasting my time. I'd rather be like myself

640
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: or just you know, just focused and locked in. They're

641
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 1: wasting my time with a girl I know I'm not

642
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 1: gonna be with Why am I even going to dinner

643
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 1: with her? Why am I even having sex with her?

644
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 1: Why am I even doing anything with her? Because it's

645
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: like I know long, I know I'm not gonna be

646
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: with her, But I think men getting lonely. I think

647
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 1: men love the just it's a lot of men just

648
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 1: it's tough not having somebody around that always with a

649
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 1: girl and stuff like that, and it happens. And even

650
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: though you already know you might have a girl at

651
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: your house or hanging out with him, doing stuff, having

652
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: activities with him, and you just know you don't want

653
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: to be with them, you know what I'm saying, You

654
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 1: keep the friendship and you just like you know, I

655
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 1: know I ain't gonna be with you, but you still,

656
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: you know, do stuff like y'all in a relationship. But

657
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: then it's just like, you know, why am I wasting

658
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: my time? I feel I really actually saw that and

659
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: I felt what he was kind of like saying, because

660
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 1: like it's a wasted time now and it's a waste

661
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 1: of mental like you know.

662
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 2: I get it. Yeah, I felt that.

663
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,359
Speaker 1: You probably feel like that now too, huh not.

664
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 2: Now, but I've definitely felt that before, Like I why not?

665
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 1: Now?

666
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:16,879
Speaker 2: What do you mean?

667
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: I mean? You probably feel like that like being an

668
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:22,240
Speaker 1: older lady, like you know, you're just dealing with Dayton guys.

669
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: You're like, no, they' going no long term nothing coming

670
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: from it.

671
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 2: Oh well, I haven't. Time is running out for you,

672
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 2: time is not going nowhere. For me, I'm good. So

673
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,320
Speaker 2: I'm the one who I don't go off of societal

674
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 2: what time something has to be a lot of people

675
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,320
Speaker 2: they met those marks by me. Oh I'm going to

676
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 2: marry someone I'm gonna have, I'm gonna do it. And

677
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 2: they're miserable and they're divorced and they're unhappy and they

678
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 2: don't have a strong relationship. I don't care about what

679
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 2: society is putting time on. You not going to rule

680
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,879
Speaker 2: my life? What kind of what kind of person am

681
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 2: I to let anybody rule what time I'm doing anything?

682
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 2: Are you paying? Like? What do you what? Like I

683
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 2: wake up with want to do someone else?

684
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:04,839
Speaker 1: That is when you get older, Like it's not a desperation.

685
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 2: I don't have. I can't for people.

686
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 1: Maybe you don't think that's a thing though, Like when yeah,

687
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 1: I know that gets older, like to find like before

688
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: I stop looking a certain way or stop being a

689
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,399
Speaker 1: certain way, or stop and then they just become See

690
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 1: this is the thing about women, Like when they start

691
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: getting older and they don't have that relationship, they start

692
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 1: getting more depressed. You know. I started noticing in that sense.

693
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:34,759
Speaker 2: That's actually not true because statistically, women who are unmarried

694
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 2: and single are happier and men who are unmarried and

695
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:41,320
Speaker 2: single are more depressed. This is statistic done by Harvard

696
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:42,800
Speaker 2: study the women.

697
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,280
Speaker 1: If you tell me one more thing, goddamn the women.

698
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 2: The women.

699
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: They didn't put up one hundred human write some ship down.

700
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 2: He's depressed because men need more from women when it

701
00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 2: comes to when they get.

702
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:01,720
Speaker 1: Older emotion at Harvard Studies.

703
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, women are now more happy

704
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,839
Speaker 2: being single. But I understand what you're saying. Where society

705
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 2: puts a time clock on women and man of like

706
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 2: especially women, Oh you need to be married by this time.

707
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 2: Why aren't you married? Why don't you have kids? Why

708
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 2: aren't you this? Like you even said before, like, oh,

709
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 2: if you're over this age and you don't have a kid,

710
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 2: there's something wrong with you.

711
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 1: I never said that.

712
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:25,399
Speaker 2: You said that, son put it in.

713
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 1: Something's wrong.

714
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what it is. You're everything that's wrong

715
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 2: with me. So anyways, you said that, you said that.

716
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 1: No, I just say that, like you.

717
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 2: You said there's women they have a level of desperation.

718
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: No, I think those women like that they just overthink it.

719
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 2: Or have you ever considered that maybe they were pregnant

720
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 2: and they were with someone who said I don't want

721
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 2: to have a kid right now, and it was their partner.

722
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 2: Have you ever thought about that? Have you ever thought

723
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 2: about women who decided not to have children and have

724
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 2: abortions because they felt like they didn't want to be

725
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 2: in a situation that was fucked up, and even though

726
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,360
Speaker 2: they were doing everything right and they were with a

727
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 2: partner that they love, but unfortunately they couldn't. Like there's

728
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 2: a lot of situations in which that happens. So you

729
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 2: can't sit there and judge anybody because you don't know

730
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 2: what storm God has asked them to walk through. You

731
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,919
Speaker 2: couldnt sit here and put anything on anybody's life, because

732
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, someone should tell me

733
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,399
Speaker 2: I should be married and I should have a kid.

734
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 2: But half of the people that I know married and

735
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 2: had a kid on the time that society said we

736
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 2: should are not with that person and are in a

737
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: broken family and are co parenting and are alone, and

738
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 2: now they have to raise a kid. And also hopefully

739
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:39,919
Speaker 2: they can find a partner that they want and bring

740
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 2: a partner into a situation where they already have all

741
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 2: this excess baggage. So at the end of the day,

742
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 2: I'm grateful that I'm my age and I don't have

743
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 2: excess baggage. I don't have a baby daddy I have

744
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 2: to deal with in a co parentcing situation, And luckily

745
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:54,959
Speaker 2: someone who comes in my life doesn't have to deal

746
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 2: with that. They can get someone who don't have all

747
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 2: of that going on, and I can actually have a

748
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 2: real chance ants at meeting someone that I can have

749
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:05,320
Speaker 2: a real family with and not have all this broken

750
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 2: shit that I've created because I was young and I

751
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,479
Speaker 2: didn't really know what I wanted, and I was young,

752
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 2: and I was trying to beat some biological collathse.

753
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 1: Even if you know what you wanted, and stuff happens.

754
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it happened. But you can't judge anybody's walk

755
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 2: of were their path. You can't say this person was.

756
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: Better because you can get the situation you want and

757
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 1: didn't have the break exactly like you waited all day.

758
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:30,879
Speaker 1: Could you could have started that long time? Yeah?

759
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 2: But the thing is is what I'm trying to say

760
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,719
Speaker 2: is I'm not judging that you are. You're saying that

761
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 2: this person, this, people who did this were better. Why

762
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 2: are women over thirty or women over thirty don't have this,

763
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 2: or men over thirty they're this. You're saying that these

764
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 2: people are better because they made this decision, right, I'm

765
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 2: saying I don't feel that way. I feel like everyone

766
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 2: has a certain walking path that they decide. There's decisions

767
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:56,280
Speaker 2: that I've made till this day that was not getting

768
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:58,879
Speaker 2: married to someone or not having a baby. These are

769
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,799
Speaker 2: the decisions that I'm I have made to be where

770
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 2: I am here. I don't think I'm better than anyone,

771
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 2: and I don't think that they're better than me because

772
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 2: they decided to be married, whether it was happy or not.

773
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: Do you any regrets?

774
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 2: I don't have regrets. No, I feel like everything that

775
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 2: I've done so far, like I'm I'm okay with you know,

776
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 2: Like I do feel like at the end of the day,

777
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 2: everything I did was to get me to where I

778
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 2: am right now. So I'm the person I am and

779
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 2: the woman I am because of what I was, you know,

780
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,240
Speaker 2: God had me walk through. So yeah, I don't feel

781
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 2: like anyone is better. And I feel like for women

782
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 2: out there that feel like they have to because men

783
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 2: always and people, you should be married, you should have this.

784
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 2: Why are you single? Why are you single? Why are

785
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 2: you single? Because I want to be because I feel

786
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 2: good about it. I have been blessed because I really

787
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 2: have not been single like that, and I just feel like,

788
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 2: even in those moments, maybe I should have. Maybe I

789
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 2: should have spent my twenties single and not in these

790
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 2: boot up relationships my whole life. You know, I don't know.

791
00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, I think that

792
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 2: you just have to go through what you go through

793
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,240
Speaker 2: and don't let society or a man, or any woman

794
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 2: or anybody tell you that you need to do something differently.

795
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,399
Speaker 2: That's it. Because I don't like that.

796
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 1: I don't like that.

797
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 2: I've not missed. I feel like people always think I'm

798
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 2: pissed because I'm passionate. I talk with passion. I'm not

799
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 2: pissed off at anything. I just want people to feel

800
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 2: that because every woman that's sat here in this chair

801
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 2: and came on here, they say the same thing. People

802
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 2: weaponize singleness for women. Why are you seeing there's something

803
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 2: wrong with you? People do that to women all the time,

804
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:33,799
Speaker 2: but they don't do it to men. They praise men

805
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:35,959
Speaker 2: who are single. Oh you're smart, you're not married, You're smart,

806
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 2: you're not there, you're smart, they're not. But then women

807
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 2: are like, why are you single? Because I don't want

808
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 2: to be with the man who's smart for being single,

809
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 2: Like because I want to be with someone who I

810
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 2: actually am in alignment with, you know, and right now

811
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 2: I might not have that, like that's why. Like so

812
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:55,319
Speaker 2: I feel like people, you know whatever. So I just

813
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 2: don't want people to always feel like being single as

814
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 2: a weapon, you know, Like it's not you know, even

815
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 2: though I have not been single a lot in my lifetime,

816
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 2: but I know a lot of women who feel like

817
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 2: that that's like a weapon form against them. Like when

818
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,879
Speaker 2: kesh g was on our podcast, usually said that, and

819
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,280
Speaker 2: every comment on our thing is like, you're not married,

820
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 2: you're single, you're single, you're old and single. Like they're

821
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 2: telling her that every day, and it's like okay, like

822
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 2: so what and y'all men are probably single or very

823
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 2: unhappy in your relationship, miserable. Peter never loved her, like

824
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 2: Ryan McKnight never was. So it's like whatever, Like they'll

825
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,879
Speaker 2: praise someone in an abusive, toxic relationship and be like, wow,

826
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 2: they're married, but they're probably gonna ask me every night.

827
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 1: So all right, let me ask you this as like

828
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 1: as you get older, yes, and you said that you

829
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 1: don't feel like time is running out, but like if

830
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:52,359
Speaker 1: when you start dating and like what like what's the

831
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 1: timeline to know, like I know I'm gonna be with

832
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 1: this person or are you more like say quick to

833
00:41:57,960 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 1: like say let's.

834
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 2: Be together or no, oh I'm not quick to say

835
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 2: let's be together. But I will say that I haven't

836
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 2: dated a lot in my life. But I feel like

837
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 2: when I meet someone and it's a connection, like I

838
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 2: won't I'll know immediately if like oh I could be

839
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 2: first day. Yeah, I can know very quickly energetically like

840
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 2: oh I can mess with this person or I could

841
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 2: really rock on this term in long term, and like

842
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 2: you know, I usually we both feel that connection and

843
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 2: it's like okay, like you want to do this or

844
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,320
Speaker 2: you want to like what are we doing? Or whatever

845
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 2: the case is.

846
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: You know, have ever dated somebody and they have been

847
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 1: date so long you'd be like, all right, so what

848
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 1: are we.

849
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 2: I never had to go through that, but I know

850
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 2: a lot of women who went through that, you know what.

851
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 1: I mean, like like what's going on?

852
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 2: Yeah? But because I have a strong belief if I

853
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 2: have to ask what are we or what's going on?

854
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 2: We're not doing, We're not nothing, because I feel like

855
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,879
Speaker 2: if a man wants to be with you, he's going

856
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 2: to be like, we're together. Like that's the situation I've had,

857
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 2: Like you ain't got nobody else like we're together. Make

858
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 2: sure everybody knows. Clean your shit up.

859
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 1: Like so, if you dating a man for like three

860
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 1: four months and you ask them what's going on, you

861
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 1: are officially some work.

862
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 2: Exactly. I agree, I think you're some work. After that,

863
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 2: you are officially the work.

864
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: That's what you are. I think don't know it.

865
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 2: And don't even know it. I think I think your work.

866
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 2: But I think a lot of women know. And I

867
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 2: think that a lot of women like to stay in

868
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 2: the gray area because once you ask, you're going to

869
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 2: get the answer. You know you don't want, so you

870
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 2: just don't say nothing.

871
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 1: Women like being work in relationships.

872
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 2: I don't think that's true. That's true. Where are you

873
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 2: coming up.

874
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 1: With more women love to be work than in a relationship?

875
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 2: That is so false.

876
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:42,320
Speaker 1: That is not false.

877
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 2: You think that women want to be somebody's sex toy.

878
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 1: I didn't say that.

879
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 2: Work is someone sex. Basically, I'm a sex dog.

880
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: Then what is it work?

881
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:55,840
Speaker 2: What is work? Define work?

882
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 1: You some work?

883
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 2: What is some work?

884
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: You can't just say somebody I just ain't got with?

885
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, women don't like that. That's why women are

886
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 2: like what are we? You don't think women are like

887
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 2: what are we? What are we going to?

888
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 1: Because most likely you work to the man, but you you,

889
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 1: you the woman, look at the man probably like some work.

890
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

891
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 2: That, I don't know. I feel like, you know, I

892
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 2: don't feel comfortable. Like I've been in a situation before

893
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 2: where I was dating somebody and he was very like

894
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 2: what are we? What are we? What are we? And

895
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 2: you know, like we we were just dating, like weren't sexual,

896
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 2: and like he was catching a lot of feelings and

897
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 2: I felt really guilty, so I get with the game.

898
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 2: Felt like I felt like, oh my god, I know

899
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:48,879
Speaker 2: that I don't want to be with this man. But

900
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:53,359
Speaker 2: like also these dinners, it was it was that this

901
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 2: is what it was. I'm gonna be honest. It was

902
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 2: that he was such a nice guy and everyone was like,

903
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 2: oh my god, he's a nice he would never cheat

904
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 2: on you, he would never this, He's handsome, he saw

905
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 2: like he was like the perfect on paper, right, And

906
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 2: I was like I know this, and I should want

907
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 2: this man, like I need to want him, I need

908
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 2: to love him, like and I just literally couldn't do it.

909
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my god. And I was

910
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:21,520
Speaker 2: forcing myself like I have to try to like him

911
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 2: because this is the man I should marry, this is

912
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:25,439
Speaker 2: the man I should be with, Like he's so nice

913
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:26,879
Speaker 2: and I don't want to be the woman where it's

914
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 2: like you don't like a nice man, because I do.

915
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 2: But it was just something about him where I was

916
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 2: like I can't get into it, and like romance, I

917
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 2: couldn't even mention something. And then the next day it's like,

918
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 2: oh here, like just everything, the thoughtful, the romance of this,

919
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 2: everything was there, except the connection was there, not there,

920
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,279
Speaker 2: and I knew without the connection, I couldn't have a

921
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 2: real relationship. So I would tell him like, look, I

922
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 2: don't know. I would be very transparent and honest the

923
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 2: whole time because I was like, I don't know if

924
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 2: this is what I want. Really, I don't feel it,

925
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 2: and he would just force it, press it, and I'm

926
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 2: like finally I was like, look, I feel so bad,

927
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 2: but I just can't. I can't get into it like

928
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,359
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, and I know I broke his heart, like

929
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 2: I felt so sick, but I was honest the whole time.

930
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: The more and more I set across from you, I

931
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 1: feel like I'm your therapist.

932
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 2: I know you're lying, I know your life. You're a

933
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 2: fly therapist.

934
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:23,879
Speaker 1: I've listened to a lot of your stories and I'm

935
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 1: sitting here just hearing you out.

936
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 2: And Okay, so what is your assessment? What do you

937
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:34,240
Speaker 2: think I need? Would you say that I need.

938
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:40,799
Speaker 1: I'll write down a full evaluation for morning.

939
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 2: I appreciate that. Sent me the invoice, honey. Okay, So

940
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:49,439
Speaker 2: before we wrap up, there's this man. I just think

941
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 2: that people are doing too much. It is my opinion.

942
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 2: This man said, I'm a very simple man, and I

943
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 2: have no business being with someone who has both parents

944
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 2: still alive because I'm not look at he said, I'm

945
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:06,759
Speaker 2: not comforting you through two parental losses. I'm sorry, I'm good.

946
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: That makes some sense though, So you're gonna get you

947
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 1: an old lady. He want an old lady because most

948
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: girls who parents, he said, he don't want to girl

949
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 1: who life. So you're looking for he must be here,

950
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 1: older man. So he looking for a lady that's probably

951
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: in her late forties.

952
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:29,399
Speaker 2: Fifties or I don't know, maybe that and he wants

953
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 2: a younger. This is my thing.

954
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 1: People have to have both parents.

955
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 2: People have preferences that ain't even preferenced before, like an

956
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 2: old woman.

957
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: Now there's emotional toll on that is could be devastated.

958
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 2: I get that I have both of my parents. I'm

959
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 2: just like, I don't really like I get it, but

960
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 2: it's like, damn, this is now the stipulations, And I

961
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 2: think that that's why more people are being alone than

962
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 2: ever because y'all got stipulations on everything. Don't have two parents,

963
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 2: can't do this, can't have never did this, can't have

964
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 2: like it's too much like damn, like and then you

965
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:05,880
Speaker 2: wonder people have all these expectations.

966
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 1: You gotta do this.

967
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:08,799
Speaker 2: You gotta be buying me my nails and my things

968
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 2: on this By the second day. You gotta be like,

969
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 2: what is.

970
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 1: It a man too much? Or no?

971
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 2: No, I think women, more women, definitely more nails.

972
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:19,959
Speaker 1: Hair.

973
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, because a woman came on here, I actually put this.

974
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 2: She said that if a man's not paying for her

975
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 2: nails after two weeks of talking and getting early stage gifts,

976
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:29,479
Speaker 2: then it's over.

977
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:32,800
Speaker 1: Damn Yeah, early stage gifts.

978
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 2: It's blowing me.

979
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 1: So you can pretty much buy you just you just

980
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 1: hiding your prostitution.

981
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're you're a prostitute.

982
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 1: I think we're in a generation more prostitutional, the more

983
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:47,720
Speaker 1: transational prostitution than ever before.

984
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 2: And you know what, this girl, she's like an Instagram model.

985
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,800
Speaker 2: Her name is like Chinese Kiddy or something. She looks

986
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 2: like all done up like to VVL, all the surgeries

987
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 2: or whatever. And she basically said, I need a man

988
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 2: to make ten million to keep up with my baddy

989
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,359
Speaker 2: lifestyle because I need my injections, I need my this,

990
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 2: I need my dad, I need all the things that

991
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 2: I need. And I'm just like, I'm so confused about

992
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:15,280
Speaker 2: how everything is a transaction. But what I thought about

993
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 2: was she says that confidently because men will do it,

994
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 2: Like there's men that are like, okay, like i'll buy

995
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 2: you what's up? Like, and so you feel like you

996
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 2: can do that. Men and women are both responsible for

997
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 2: this transactional relationship era that we're living in, because it

998
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:34,839
Speaker 2: wouldn't even be happening if the man didn't purchase it. Like,

999
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm saying like we forgot about having

1000
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 2: real connection and real love and relationships. That's like for

1001
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 2: a lot of people have gone out the window. And

1002
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 2: for someone like me, like with old school parents and

1003
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 2: old school values, like I need real connection and real love,

1004
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 2: like you can't buy me at all.

1005
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 1: If my girl can't make gumbo, I ain't messing with her.

1006
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 2: I'm crying.

1007
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:55,760
Speaker 1: Ooh what about that one?

1008
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 2: Come on, I can't make.

1009
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 1: No, can't make no gumbo.

1010
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:01,720
Speaker 2: They just gotta get that room going.

1011
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 1: She can't make that room. I'm good.

1012
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 2: Gotta stir that room.

1013
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 1: You gotta start that room.

1014
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:10,279
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1015
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1018
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Speaker 2: we're gonna do a little segment. It's called Daily Fantasy.

1019
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 2: And basically, I want you love a good fantasy. Okay,

1020
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 2: come on, you love a good fantasy, honey. So okay,

1021
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 2: I want to know in a relationship, what do you

1022
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 2: feel like would be your fantasy? And it doesn't have

1023
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 2: to be anything like sexual. It can be just like

1024
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 2: what do you feel like it's my fantasy.

1025
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:54,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, for a relationship, Yeah, a fantasy, Oh, my fantasy.

1026
00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like in a relationship, what would be your perfect Like,

1027
00:50:58,239 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 2: what is a fantasy that you just want?

1028
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: Fantasy?

1029
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 2: Yeah? If you can have anything fulfilled in your relationships.

1030
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:14,080
Speaker 1: For the woman to hold accountability fantasy.

1031
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:17,399
Speaker 2: That's a fantasy to you. You don't feel like no

1032
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 2: woman hold accountability ever? Man, that's crazy.

1033
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: You want fantasy.

1034
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 2: You want to know what my fantasy is for a

1035
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 2: man not to cheat on me, to know if I

1036
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 2: love him? Yeah, get in today. Yeah, that's a fantasy

1037
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 2: that I don't have to.

1038
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:36,240
Speaker 1: So what you say you've been cheating on all your relationship?

1039
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred. I don't imber nobody. And you know,

1040
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 2: maybe I did something wrong in the past life, but

1041
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 2: I'm telling you.

1042
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 1: My fantasy cheated.

1043
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 2: Yeah I did.

1044
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 1: That's love.

1045
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:49,879
Speaker 2: I was in love with him or was he dumb? Hell?

1046
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 2: Which one is it? Because honestly, I feel like for me,

1047
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 2: I want to have, my fantasy is to not have

1048
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 2: to struggle for love, like I feel like in reality

1049
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:04,919
Speaker 2: a lot of women struggle first in order to have love,

1050
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 2: and men, like you said this is from your mouth,

1051
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 2: should cheat on their women to see if they really

1052
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 2: love them. So you want to drag someone through the

1053
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 2: mud in order to see if you love them and

1054
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 2: test them and do all these things. But you're hurting

1055
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 2: this person in the process. And to me, I fantasize

1056
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 2: about not having to be strong. I don't want to

1057
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 2: be strong. When people tell me you're strong, I don't

1058
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:30,919
Speaker 2: like that. I know I am, but I fantasize about

1059
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 2: a word that's a real fantasy. That's a real fantasy.

1060
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:37,319
Speaker 2: I fantasize about I have to be strong my whole

1061
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:40,280
Speaker 2: life and every relationship dating a man, it takes strength.

1062
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 1: A fantasy is supposed to be something that's like.

1063
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:55,279
Speaker 2: And that for you, holding women accountable tears and you

1064
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 2: know it's not.

1065
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 1: That because you're fantasizing about that.

1066
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 2: I'm fantasizing about not having to struggle for love, which

1067
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 2: is so incredible. That's all. Imagine. I have a love

1068
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:07,439
Speaker 2: where I'm not crying and I'm not going through it

1069
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 2: and I'm not sad and I'm not getting this shed. No,

1070
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 2: I'm not getting lied to, I'm not getting hurt. That's

1071
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:20,839
Speaker 2: a fantasy. That's a fantasy. Your fantasy, like women holding

1072
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 2: themselfs accountable. That's not odd, that is right. So that's

1073
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 2: odd to you. So you've never been with any woman

1074
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 2: that was accountable.

1075
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 1: That's tough one. That's a tough one.

1076
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 2: That's wild to me. What about another fantasy? Do you

1077
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 2: have anything else?

1078
00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 1: Yeah? For sure. So a fantasy for me is like

1079
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,799
Speaker 1: all right, just like you know, a hard day, you've

1080
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:47,239
Speaker 1: been working and grinding as a man, thinking about how

1081
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 1: you can build get to the next level. And you

1082
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 1: come home and you know, you got the LEDs rolling,

1083
00:53:55,560 --> 00:54:00,120
Speaker 1: you got the sexy lingerie.

1084
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:04,760
Speaker 2: On okay, bath water rankay.

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00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:12,719
Speaker 1: Fireplace, you got the foot bath right there? You got

1086
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: the big feather.

1087
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 2: What's the big feather? Father, this is coming to America? Okay,

1088
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 2: so what's a big feather? Please tell me?

1089
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:26,280
Speaker 1: Just a big feather?

1090
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 2: I don't know, like like they're coming to America time.

1091
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:31,799
Speaker 1: Like a big feather, like you could just you know.

1092
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:35,279
Speaker 2: Oh, so she's fanning you down with the feather. Yeah,

1093
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 2: this is crazy. So she's giving you a foot bath

1094
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 2: and fanning you different one.

1095
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: Woman essential oils burning. I'm trying to set the mood up.

1096
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: You're killing the trying to set the picture up for

1097
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 1: the people who watching us to see this.

1098
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:51,080
Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead, go ahead, you know, and.

1099
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: You keep jumping on it.

1100
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead.

1101
00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:58,840
Speaker 1: The massage table right there, we got the led lights moving.

1102
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: It's lower and then with the fireplace going mm hm

1103
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: on the TV, it's probably like got some well, no, no,

1104
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 1: you know what. As a matter of fact, the TV

1105
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 1: just gonna be playing some soft music. And then I'm

1106
00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:19,879
Speaker 1: gonna come in. Have the robe ready for me. Boom,

1107
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 1: Jump in the shower, get bathed, you bathe the bathing cracking,

1108
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:31,319
Speaker 1: that's you know, cracking, Get bathed, Boom, come out, toweled up,

1109
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:36,920
Speaker 1: towel dried off, Jump on the massage table, get rubbed down,

1110
00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:41,800
Speaker 1: the rub down. Once I get off the massage table,

1111
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:46,719
Speaker 1: I set up the table. There's some wine and a meal. Man,

1112
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 1: here we go, fill my belly up, making me not

1113
00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 1: think about nothing. Then I come from the dinner table,

1114
00:55:56,000 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: sit on the couch with my feet right there in

1115
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 1: the foot bath in the foot baft. The foot bath

1116
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:04,400
Speaker 1: is rolling.

1117
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 2: Okay, this is okay, I'm not.

1118
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:13,759
Speaker 1: I'm painting a picture, okay. And then the feather come back,

1119
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 1: feather blowing me. So now all I got on now

1120
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:22,319
Speaker 1: is just a rope with my feet, nothing on, just

1121
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:23,120
Speaker 1: the robe.

1122
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 2: This naked robe on.

1123
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:31,359
Speaker 1: Up like this, lay my head back, getting feathered up?

1124
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 2: What is it? What is getting feathered out?

1125
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 1: The coconut oil come out?

1126
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 2: Okay?

1127
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:40,880
Speaker 1: Then we get the coconut oil with the candles rolling.

1128
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 1: Maybe get the hot wax and drip that down, you know,

1129
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 1: get the hot wax. What is the this is my fantasy.

1130
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:50,760
Speaker 2: What is the hot wax?

1131
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 1: You know, get the candle.

1132
00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:55,759
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, yeah, and drip it all down the body.

1133
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 1: Just probably in my inner thigh area where it kind

1134
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:00,799
Speaker 1: of stings and you kind of get me. Get a joke,

1135
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:05,400
Speaker 1: joke me, you know what I'm saying, and then it

1136
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 1: jolts me. It gets me going like oh oh, you know,

1137
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 1: and I'm just like oh man, you know. And that's

1138
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:18,080
Speaker 1: when my lady come around from behind me with the

1139
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 1: feather and then you know, the feather is on me

1140
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 1: and I just sit back and put my head back, okay,

1141
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 1: and then you know, then if you know, you know, come.

1142
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 2: On, father, it's the feather for me. It's the feather

1143
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 2: for me.

1144
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 1: I have to bring a feather in so you can

1145
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 1: see what I'm talking about.

1146
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I'm excited to see that. Okay, well, I

1147
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 2: love your fantasy. You know what I'm saying.

1148
00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 1: It is asked me what was mine?

1149
00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:55,360
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1152
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Speaker 2: your first five. Okay, So one last thing, ghosting. So

1153
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 2: a woman said ghosting is sinful and it disrespects a

1154
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 2: person's God given dignity. Do you feel that way, like

1155
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:18,440
Speaker 2: if you go someone without any communication or and I

1156
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 2: know you don't feel that way because you seem like

1157
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:22,120
Speaker 2: you just ghost anybody at any time.

1158
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:24,960
Speaker 1: That's me, Paul ghost Piers.

1159
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 2: I don't like that because for me personally, I don't

1160
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 2: like a ghosting because it lacks courage, it lacks responsibility.

1161
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 1: It lacks yes, what goes into ghosting, What goes into it?

1162
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 1: Goes into it? You know what it is?

1163
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 2: What is it?

1164
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:45,680
Speaker 1: And women fell time and time again to a whole accountability.

1165
00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 1: When a man ghosts you, it's just not for nothing.

1166
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:52,080
Speaker 1: It's something. But he don't have to do he don't

1167
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 1: have to sit and argue about it. He just he's good.

1168
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 1: I'm just good. I'm good and no one need to

1169
00:58:57,400 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: explain it. You know what it is.

1170
00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 2: I think that's weird and tall that learned to communicate

1171
00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 2: as a person.

1172
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:04,720
Speaker 1: Well, it's not. I'm not in a full blown relationship

1173
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: with you. First of all, ghosting don't happen in a

1174
00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 1: full blown relationship. It has with somebody you're talking to,

1175
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 1: hanging out with.

1176
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:14,480
Speaker 2: Talking to, and hanging out with someone at least.

1177
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 1: Emotionally invested like that either.

1178
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:23,600
Speaker 2: You're not but the other person probably is. Okay, Well,

1179
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 2: I personally I never been ghosted before. But and I

1180
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 2: never ghosted anybody.

1181
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 1: Huh, you ain't ever been ghosted?

1182
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:35,520
Speaker 2: No, Like, I don't talk to people to where it's

1183
00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 2: just like casual to where you just ghost me, Like

1184
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 2: I don't have casual relationships. But I've also been in

1185
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 2: a relationship most of my life, so I don't have

1186
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 2: all these dating fleeing things because I've been in serious

1187
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:48,600
Speaker 2: relationships most of my life. So you know, I'm a

1188
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 2: relationship person. But I just feel like the ghosting thing,

1189
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 2: like I would at least tell someone like, look, this

1190
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 2: is just not for me.

1191
00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 1: But if he's hexts you back like I'm good, what

1192
00:59:58,440 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 1: you mean? They don't say.

1193
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 2: Nothing after like just text me I'm good. I'm good,

1194
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:08,160
Speaker 2: I'm good, loving joy. I mean, I guess I'm not

1195
01:00:08,160 --> 01:00:10,400
Speaker 2: gonna hint nobody up if they're texting me like I'm

1196
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:13,040
Speaker 2: good or I'm falling back, Like I'm just gonna be

1197
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 2: like okay, like cool, like I'm not gonna I'm not

1198
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 2: gonna ever fuck with you again, Like I'm not chasing nobody.

1199
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 2: I'm not that person, Like I'm cool. If I'm in

1200
01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:26,880
Speaker 2: a relationship with someone, yes I'm gonna be like hello,

1201
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 2: like you gotta fucked up. But if it's just someone

1202
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 2: that I'm dating or something weird and they're just like cool,

1203
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:36,640
Speaker 2: I'm okay, Bye, Okay. There was more to talk about,

1204
01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:38,960
Speaker 2: what we gotta wrap it up. Thank you guys so

1205
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 2: much for joining our episode. Make sure you guys are subscribing, commenting,

1206
01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:49,600
Speaker 2: telling us other topics that you want to hear from

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01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:54,160
Speaker 2: either Paul myself or both of us. Feedback, all of

1208
01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:56,680
Speaker 2: that jazz. We love to hear from you, guys. We

1209
01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 2: really appreciate the support. Thank you, Thank you so much.

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01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 2: Anything you want to say to the people.

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Speaker 1: Paul, enjoy the holidays.

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Speaker 2: You are crazy. Enjoy the holidays, all right, thank you.

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Speaker 2: We love you, We love you down.

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Speaker 1: This is the taking over the game, all right, everybody,

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01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:48,840
Speaker 1: welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that men or women are more toxic