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Speaker 2: It's sauce on this side. I'm Gandhi from the Elvisturing

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Speaker 2: Morning Show, and today is going to be a little

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Speaker 2: bit different kind of than my other podcasts because I

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Speaker 2: sat down with my mom. I know, I got a

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Speaker 2: lot of positive feedback when I sat down with my dad.

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Speaker 2: And since Mother's Day is right around the corner it's

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Speaker 2: happening this weekend, I thought I would do a Mother's

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Speaker 2: Day episode with my mama, who, yes, I call her

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Speaker 2: chicken for lots of reasons, but mostly because whenever she

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Speaker 2: wakes up in the morning, she's got curly hair, sort

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Speaker 2: like me, and she looks like a crazy chicken. So

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Speaker 2: that's where that comes from. Enjoy it. Enjoy your moms

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Speaker 2: if they're around and you have good relationships with them,

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Speaker 2: because sadly, parents aren't gonna be here forever. And I

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Speaker 2: love mine so much. So here's my mama. I do

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Speaker 2: love Chichen. How you doing, chick Lit, I'm doing well.

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Speaker 2: So you wanted to come and do the podcast. So

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Speaker 2: what have you worked on for us to talk about today?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely nothing.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure shocked by this. So when you wanted

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Speaker 2: to be on the podcast, what did you want to

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Speaker 2: do here.

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to talk to you, that's all.

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Speaker 2: What do you want to talk about?

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about your childhood?

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Speaker 2: Oh great, okay, Well, first of all, this is my mother,

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Speaker 2: Mangola Gandhi, and she's in town right now. Hopefully this

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Speaker 2: will come out before Mother's Day, but you're in town

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Speaker 2: for Mother's Day sort of because you and I are

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Speaker 2: going to go see a filming of the Kelly Clarkson

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Speaker 2: Show because of a special Mother's Day edition and they

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Speaker 3: We're going to go, I know, and I really appreciate

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Speaker 2: Anytime, Chicken. I guess I have some questions because I

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Speaker 2: didn't think you were going to come prepared, but a

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Speaker 3: Why don't we start with you asking questions?

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Speaker 2: Why did you guys decide to have children in this

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Speaker 3: First? And if almost I don't think this world is disgusting.

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Speaker 2: We don't watch the news so well.

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Speaker 3: I do watch the news, and I do understand, but

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Speaker 2: It's probably a better way to us.

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Speaker 3: When we had you guys, the world was a great

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Speaker 3: place and Priya was a good kid live kind of

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Speaker 2: That's how it always goes. The air and the spare,

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Speaker 2: and I'm the spare.

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Speaker 3: I'd never heard that before, but kind of true.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's what they say about the Royals, Prince William

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Speaker 3: That would be something. No, that's what they say, very British.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy. You never heard that. No, I had not

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Speaker 3: I think people should speak English properly, Okay.

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Speaker 2: You get on people about who versus whom all the time.

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Speaker 3: The principal was wonderful and she said, I'll take care

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Speaker 2: So you said Prio was a pretty easy kid. So

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Speaker 3: She was a sickly child, she was difficult about being

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Speaker 2: About that really, she well, you know Priya is going

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Speaker 2: Oh, because you're scared, because you're way more scared of

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Speaker 3: There's no doubt in my mind you were easier to

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Speaker 2: You would leave me behind a curtain so that you

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Speaker 2: Did that ever concern you? How long I would stay there?

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Speaker 2: How long are we talking? Twenty minutes? Oh no, not

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Speaker 2: to twenty mother, not quite okay. So in Dad's episode

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Speaker 2: He told all of the KinderCare teachers, look out, what

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Speaker 3: I never thought you were retarded, because I could I

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Speaker 2: And then I would concern. Yeah, he was more concerned,

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Speaker 2: Sentence, Mom, I want milk. This happened. I mean it

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Speaker 3: I turned around and looked at you and said what

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Speaker 3: It worked. It didn't impress me. It scared the heck

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Speaker 2: Like I was possessing? Yes, I get that a lot

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Speaker 3: Yeah, pre did a lot of work with you. She

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Speaker 2: She probably only told you things just to kind of

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Speaker 2: No, well, three, I was what would I possibly do

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Speaker 2: So how many times? Well, first of all, one could

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Speaker 2: If I'm eating a poison plant? Where were you?

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Speaker 3: I was there, That's how I caught you.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I thought you prance hold on you hold on me?

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Speaker 3: Well, but eventually I saw she's she said. Pria said, mom,

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Speaker 3: Meda is eating something like a puppy. And then when

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Speaker 2: How many times do you guys think you had to

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Speaker 3: I don't think there was many more, because then you're

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Speaker 3: Because you would do goofy things. You learned how to

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Speaker 2: I distinctly remember falling down the steps multiple times. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 2: So right, because you started working, Yes, your career that

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Speaker 3: Well, you've got to think about home is what your

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Speaker 3: When you were maybe nine or ten years old, we

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Speaker 3: Why Okay? So his brother, dad's brother lived in Youngstown,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I still do. My heart is in South Florida

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Speaker 2: I just didn't take it. I guess that seriously. Even

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Speaker 3: Well, Dad cheered for both teams.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't not know what was going on. He

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Speaker 3: I don't know that I ever found anything really difficult.

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Speaker 2: you had to come to my school constantly. Yes, but

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Speaker 3: It bothered me then a little bit because sometimes it

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Speaker 2: see a little more clearly why I wasn't complying with

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00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:03,760
Speaker 2: certain things.

446
00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:09,080
Speaker 3: Yes, I do understand that. Even then, I understood what

447
00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:12,439
Speaker 3: you were thinking. But what I couldn't understand was the

448
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,399
Speaker 3: teacher told you not to do something. Why did you

449
00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:17,840
Speaker 3: have to do it? Even though you were right? Many

450
00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,120
Speaker 3: times I'd say, but she is the teacher. You've got

451
00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:23,760
Speaker 3: to understand. You have to listen to your teacher, and

452
00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:25,879
Speaker 3: unless it made sense to you, you wouldn't do it.

453
00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:29,439
Speaker 2: I think I'm stilling that in some capacities specifically, what

454
00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:31,640
Speaker 2: are things that stand out to you that you remember

455
00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:32,280
Speaker 2: the band?

456
00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:35,680
Speaker 3: You did not like your teacher with good reason because

457
00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:39,120
Speaker 3: she had said you were tone deaf and you'd never

458
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:42,520
Speaker 3: amount to anything. I mean she said it, yeah, talentless,

459
00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:45,080
Speaker 3: and I mean she said that in front of the

460
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 3: whole class too, And that's what made me very, very

461
00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,560
Speaker 3: upset because I knew what talent you had, because you

462
00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:55,320
Speaker 3: had private music lessons. That got me, But what you

463
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:58,479
Speaker 3: were doing at that time was on purpose. You had

464
00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:01,480
Speaker 3: the drums and you would go off beat by one

465
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:04,520
Speaker 3: beat just to throw everyone off. Yeah, and it was

466
00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 3: difficult to do, but you did it.

467
00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:12,080
Speaker 2: And yes, you you were little shit. Okay, Okay, that

468
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:15,639
Speaker 2: it's okay. I so looking back at that, I definitely

469
00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:17,320
Speaker 2: got in trouble a lot when I was in school.

470
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:21,200
Speaker 2: I got in detention, I got this undud, I got

471
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 2: all of the things. Everything happened. I would skip school

472
00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:27,080
Speaker 2: a lot. I think, looking back at it, I was

473
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 2: very bored. And I also think you and Dad saw

474
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,440
Speaker 2: that immediately when I was a child, and I think

475
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,439
Speaker 2: you guys did everything you possibly could to keep me busy.

476
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:41,480
Speaker 2: I was involved in everything jazz, tap, ballet, piano, drums, soccer, gymnastics,

477
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:43,199
Speaker 2: like you name it. You guys tried to put me

478
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:45,840
Speaker 2: in those things, art classes. I remember you guys saying,

479
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 2: if there's not something in your hands, you are up

480
00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 2: to nonsense. And you tried really hard to keep me

481
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,159
Speaker 2: busy and keep me from being bored. I think a

482
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 2: lot of the time I was bored.

483
00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:57,399
Speaker 3: You would have been troublesome no matter where if it

484
00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,119
Speaker 3: wasn't something that you would have liked.

485
00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 2: Really, yes, I loved dark class. Never got any complaints

486
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,920
Speaker 2: from our art teachers. And you know what, I loved science.

487
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,520
Speaker 2: I was a science nerd. I loved it, and I

488
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 2: still got in trouble in our science class.

489
00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 3: You did get in trouble a lot, and you got

490
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 3: in trouble on the school bus, and you got kicked

491
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,320
Speaker 3: off the school bus. And then Pria.

492
00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 2: Stood up to help you as her sister. Yeah, I'm

493
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 2: a little lawyer, and the bus.

494
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 3: Driver got upset with her and threw her off too.

495
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, Priya, we don't need to get into what

496
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 2: she said. But Pria said something very snarky and horrible

497
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,040
Speaker 2: and sarcastic and mean to that bus driver, who deserved

498
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 2: it at the moment. Actually, when I was little, I

499
00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:35,439
Speaker 2: thought she deserved it. But now that I'm growing up,

500
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,399
Speaker 2: I'm like, God, that would have been horrible driving these

501
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 2: kids around who were just throwing food and being assholes.

502
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 2: So I will reverse that. She doesn't deserve it as

503
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,240
Speaker 2: an adult. When I was little, I thought she's being

504
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,439
Speaker 2: very mean, and so did Pria, and Priya lit her up,

505
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 2: and then that bus driver cried and Priya got in trouble.

506
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 2: The only times Priya ever got in trouble when we

507
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,399
Speaker 2: were little was because of you.

508
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:56,400
Speaker 3: And I remember going to school and talking to your

509
00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 3: principle and saying that the punishment when you don't let

510
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 3: them go on the bus is really punishing me because

511
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 3: I have to now take time off of work to

512
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 3: take them to school, drop them off, and bring them back.

513
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 3: At different times.

514
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 2: That principle was a turd. He didn't care well.

515
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 3: He'd put you back on the bus, and then we

516
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 3: punished you at home.

517
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 2: You know something about that principle because he's the same

518
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 2: one that when I was moving to South Florida, he

519
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 2: told you, guys, it was good, yes, that I was

520
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 2: getting out of that school system, even though it was

521
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 2: an incredible school system, but that I was getting out

522
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,159
Speaker 2: of there because all of my friends were trouble and

523
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 2: I was trouble, and we needed to be separated. One

524
00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:34,160
Speaker 2: of the people that he was referring to in that

525
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 2: group was Elise, who is a baller boss, amazing person

526
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 2: within her company. She has always been genius and incredibly sweet,

527
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 2: And he just had these horrible opinions of people. He

528
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 2: thought whatever he thought based on who we were hanging

529
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 2: out with. That principle, did you know what happened to him.

530
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:57,640
Speaker 3: He got in trouble with doing something with kids and dares.

531
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 2: No. Well, first of all, our dare officer get a dui,

532
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 2: so that was exciting. But no, that principle went to

533
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 2: another school and he ended up getting serious charges because

534
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 2: there were some sexual assaults that happened there and he

535
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:11,880
Speaker 2: tried to cover them up.

536
00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 3: Oh I did. Yeah, so I don't remember that.

537
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 2: But I'm just going to say, pay attention to your kids,

538
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 2: not necessarily all the teachers all the time, because they're

539
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 2: not always right. They're human as well. And he was

540
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 2: wrong about a lot because the lease of everybody, the

541
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 2: people that he thought were so amazing not doing well.

542
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 2: Elise kicking all the ass.

543
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 3: I knew Elise, and it was not at least that

544
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 3: I was ever worried about about. I really wasn't worried.

545
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 2: You were more worried about my friends in Miami.

546
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 3: Yes, some of them I was concerned about. I mean

547
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 3: when when I found them sleeping outside in our driveway

548
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 3: all night long. I mean that's something to be worried about.

549
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 2: It happened one time. But also a lot of those

550
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,160
Speaker 2: kids that you were concerned about, look at them now,

551
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:54,399
Speaker 2: they're doing amazing things, and they're doing really well. Sometimes

552
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:56,160
Speaker 2: you just got to give kids a little bit of space.

553
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 3: A little bit always miracles.

554
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,199
Speaker 2: Yes, Wait, so every single one of these people as

555
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 2: a miracle.

556
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say every single one. I love them. They

557
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 3: were great kids personally, they were wonderful with me. Yeah,

558
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 3: but there was something that was not school worthy that.

559
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 2: They did well. Maybe people need to reassess what is

560
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,439
Speaker 2: school worthy and what is rewarded in school and what

561
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 2: is punished in school.

562
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,919
Speaker 3: Okay, but I believe you make the change first, and

563
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 3: until you make the change, you comply.

564
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 2: But what if by not complying, we affected change because

565
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:31,200
Speaker 2: they saw, Wow, there's a pilot kids here who are

566
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 2: getting really good grades, who are for some reason a

567
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 2: little troublesome, maybe because they're bored. Maybe in those ways,

568
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,159
Speaker 2: then school curriculum would change a little bit, or they

569
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 2: would split the classes up differently. I mean, there's a

570
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 2: lot that could happen. I understand you guys in the

571
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,199
Speaker 2: follow the role, follow the rule stuff, But I just

572
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,679
Speaker 2: think in life in general, and by the way, we,

573
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 2: or at least me, you married into it, come from

574
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 2: a line of revolution, a blood line of revolution. You're

575
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 2: more of a Gandi than any of us. But I

576
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 2: think that sometimes you just have to be very corny.

577
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 2: Here be the change you wish to see in the world.

578
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 2: If you don't like something, why comply? If it doesn't

579
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:08,399
Speaker 2: make sense, why comply? You know where I learned that.

580
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 2: Your husband, Dad tells me all the time, question everything,

581
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 2: If it doesn't make sense, don't do it.

582
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 3: And then he'll say, take care of it. Mangolo. Yeah right.

583
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 2: I mean, to be fair, Dad didn't come to school

584
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,360
Speaker 2: as much as you did, but Dad still showed up

585
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 2: just to tell people they were giving us two high

586
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 2: of grades.

587
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 3: Yes, I mean came because your grades I think were overinflated.

588
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 3: Oh they were. I think it was a lower standard

589
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 3: and we compared it to what we did when we

590
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 3: were in school. And yes it was a private school

591
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 3: and so on, but what you did in school was

592
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,360
Speaker 3: was not a worthy at all.

593
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 2: Whatever. Okay, So I'm gonna ask you a couple questions

594
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 2: and then we have to wrap it up. True or false?

595
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: I lived alone my senior year of high school.

596
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 3: Semi true?

597
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 2: What is semi true about it?

598
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 3: Dad and I would come occasionally back just to make

599
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 3: sure that you were okay. Okay, everything was going well,

600
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 3: and we wondered how the couch cut broken. Nobody knew

601
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 3: until I saw a photograph of twenty people on it.

602
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, so okay, I will I'll try to make this short.

603
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 2: My senior year of high school. The summer before my

604
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 2: senior year of high school, you got a job offer

605
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 2: in what was at Saint Louis. That was Saint Louis

606
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 2: at that time, and you decided, this is an opportunity

607
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 2: you can't pass up. So I'm going to take this job.

608
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 2: But it was my senior year of high school and

609
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 2: moving me as a senior would have been diabolical. So

610
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 2: as a group, we all decided, maybe it makes more

611
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 2: sense if you stay here, because in Florida at that time,

612
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 2: I don't know if they're still there. There were scholarships

613
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 2: called the Bright Future Scholarships. If you were an above

614
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:45,160
Speaker 2: a certain percentile on your standardized test scores SAT's acts,

615
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 2: and you had above a certain GPA, you would get

616
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 2: a full ride to go to college. So you guys said,

617
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,199
Speaker 2: as long as you do that, and as long as

618
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 2: you continue to play soccer and have your job, you

619
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 2: stay here and basically hold down the house. And we

620
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 2: will go to Saint Louis and live in Saint Louis,

621
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 2: which is what happened. So senior year of high school,

622
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 2: that is what I did. Nothing that bad happened. I

623
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 2: was a pretty good, pretty good kid when it came

624
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 2: to the stuff that really could have gone south. I

625
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 2: did break your couch because I did have parties. I

626
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 2: didn't want to sleep in that house by myself. That

627
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 2: was crazy, you know me, I'm scared of the dark,

628
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:18,840
Speaker 2: so Christina would sleep over all the time. But we'd

629
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:20,880
Speaker 2: also have little parties, especially when the hurricane was coming.

630
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 2: We had a hurricane party. And that is when the

631
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 2: couch broke because there was a pull out couch in

632
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 2: the living room and there were like fifteen of us

633
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 2: sitting on that thing and we broke it. And then

634
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 2: my mom and dad came home and they tried to

635
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 2: pull the couch out and it wouldn't come out, and

636
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 2: they're like, what happened here? I said, I don't know,

637
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 2: that's crazy. Oh my god, broken couch. And then my

638
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 2: dumb ass left a pilot pictures out and there was

639
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,239
Speaker 2: a photo of all fifteen of us sitting on that

640
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 2: pullout bed. So that's what you're talking about But overall,

641
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 2: I still showed up for soccer all the time. I

642
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 2: did skip a lot of school, but I still graduated

643
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 2: with a four point two GPA, so you can't be

644
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 2: too mad about it.

645
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 3: I was not mad about your grades. I was upset

646
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 3: about your or absenteeism.

647
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 2: Because why can't you just go to school? But to me,

648
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 2: I'm saying, why do I have to go to school

649
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 2: if I've got a four point two gpa? And I

650
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 2: knew that I had secured that scholarship, so why why

651
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 2: not just enjoy my senior year, go to the beach

652
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 2: at a ball. You should be.

653
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:17,719
Speaker 3: Happy, Okay, in retrospect, I'm happy, but at that time, no,

654
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 3: you almost didn't get something because of your absenteeism.

655
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 2: There were a couple things. So I remember in eighth

656
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 2: grade I almost didn't go to Washington d C. Because

657
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 2: I had too many detentions. And then they wanted to

658
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 2: say that I couldn't walk during graduation because I had

659
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 2: skipped too much, which one I didn't want to walk.

660
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 2: I didn't even want to go to graduation. I hate

661
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 2: that stuff, but you guys really wanted it. So then

662
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 2: instead of saying, well, you can't walk, because you have

663
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 2: too many absences for the year. Shout out to my

664
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 2: high school. They let me graduate early. That's probably the

665
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 2: substandard stuff you're talking about, though, Yes, Like, why are

666
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 2: you going to be mad at a kid who doing

667
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,479
Speaker 2: okay just because they didn't show up to gym class? Oh,

668
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 2: go to gym. I played soccer and I was in

669
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 2: track and I was on a step team. That's enough

670
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 2: physical activity for me.

671
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 3: Fast forwarded. Now you're working not here. Yeah, But if

672
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 3: you were working and you got all your work done

673
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 3: in three days, uh, does that mean you can just

674
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 3: be a bum for the next stop?

675
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 1: Well?

676
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 2: What am I getting paid based on? Am I getting

677
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 2: paid based on the amount of work I've been putting out?

678
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 2: Or am I getting paid a certain amount to do

679
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 2: a certain amount?

680
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 3: You're being paid to come to work five days a

681
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 3: week and get all the work done, and if you

682
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 3: get it done early, then we'll give you more.

683
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 2: Well that sounds like shit. That sounds like a horrible deal.

684
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 2: I'm just saying. So these are the things where I'm

685
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 2: talking about. Maybe some change. You could affect some change,

686
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 2: because if you pay me, I'm gonna use your terms

687
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 2: right for the postal service. If you pay me, and

688
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 2: I know that these are not actually tasks that happen.

689
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 2: But if you pay me to sort a thousand pieces

690
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 2: of mail a week, that is the expectation. And I

691
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 2: can sort those thousand pieces of me in two days.

692
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 2: What do you care if I'm there for the whole

693
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 2: week or two days, Because if what you say is well,

694
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 2: if you can do it in two days, then we're

695
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 2: going to give you more mail to sort. You're punishing

696
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 2: people who are more efficient, and then you're raising the

697
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 2: standard and you're trying to turn people into robots. And

698
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 2: a work life balance is important.

699
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 3: Work life balance is important. But if I pay you

700
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 3: to come to work for five days and you get

701
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 3: the work done in two, that means you're more efficient.

702
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 3: You will be recognized for that. You can get awards

703
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 3: for that, but you gotta come back for the awards.

704
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 2: Could be, could be, or they do.

705
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 3: In some cases they do actually have physical.

706
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 2: Benefits, because I think a lot of companies try to

707
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 2: give you a plaque, and you know, you should be

708
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 2: really happy to get use this plaque, but I can't

709
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 2: eat that and it's not paying my bills, so I

710
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 2: don't really care about a plaque.

711
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 3: I think both should be there because the plaque stays

712
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 3: there with you as a memory forever the money is

713
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:53,719
Speaker 3: used up.

714
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I take the money. I don't care about the

715
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 2: stupid plaque. You could keep all the awards in all

716
00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 2: the plaques. When people ask you, know, how, how how

717
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 2: can we make your life better at work? What is

718
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 2: it that we can do to improve your life? There's

719
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 2: a very simple answer there. You can pay me more

720
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 2: and or you can give me more vacation. I think

721
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 2: that is what the majority of people would say would

722
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 2: increase their quality of life.

723
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 3: Yes, but they also remember the plaques that they have.

724
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 2: So then my next question, if you could have done

725
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 2: something differently raising Priya and me, what would it be.

726
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 3: I don't think we have enough time haha for that,

727
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 3: but I really can't say differently, I would have paid

728
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 3: more attention to what you liked to do and where

729
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 3: your talents were versus thinking like most Indian parents like

730
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 3: this is the path to go. I would have paid

731
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 3: more attention like, for example, you you were more artsy

732
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 3: in so many different ways, but I didn't encourage pushing

733
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 3: you that way. We didn't stop you and that's why yeah,

734
00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 3: you went to radio. I'd have paid more attention to that. Okay,

735
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 3: looking at out of the norm circumstances.

736
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 2: Okay, are you happy with the way both of us

737
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 2: have turned out?

738
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 3: Yes? And I always think the power that you both

739
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 3: have turned out well in spite of sometimes the benign

740
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 3: neglect that we had.

741
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 2: You and Dad. Both of you said, that's funny.

742
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 3: Because that is a term we talk about with each other.

743
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 3: It was like we weren't as involved, so we called

744
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 3: it the benign neglect, But you turned out fine.

745
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 2: See, I think I would disagree with you guys there one.

746
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 2: I don't feel like there was benign neglect. I think

747
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 2: you guys treated us much more like adults than most

748
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 2: of our friends' parents treated them, and because of that,

749
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: we became pretty fiercely independent when we were younger. I

750
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 2: think that's kind of a good thing. I see a

751
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 2: lot of people, you know, kids now that are'm like,

752
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 2: what are you doing? You're like seventeen years old. You

753
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 2: should be able to do that. You should be able

754
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 2: to go out on your own and handle these things

755
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 2: I saw. If you guys think that was a benign neglect,

756
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 2: I actually think it was pretty good. But also, you

757
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 2: guys were much more involved in school things and not

758
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:06,000
Speaker 2: involved in social life things. And we say this all

759
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 2: the time. Every Indian kid has two lives. They have

760
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 2: the life that their parents think they lead, and they

761
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 2: have the life they really lead. They're not always wild

762
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,839
Speaker 2: and crazy and insane. But you know, Indian parents are like, well,

763
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 2: if you had fun yesterday, you don't need to have

764
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 2: fun today.

765
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:19,399
Speaker 1: Why.

766
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, They just say it. Be bored. I

767
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 2: don't think that there's anything wrong with the way that

768
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:25,919
Speaker 2: you guys did it. You guys were pretty hands off

769
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 2: with the social lifes and we didn't get into really

770
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 2: trouble in that capacity. I mean like, yeah, I egged

771
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 2: some houses and toilet papers, Like, yes, I did those things.

772
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 2: Pria never did, but I got into more trouble with that.

773
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 2: But nobody got knocked up in high school. Nobody really

774
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:39,839
Speaker 2: even had boyfriends when we were little.

775
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, because we'd scared the heck out of you. We'd

776
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,479
Speaker 3: told you that you could not have any boyfriends until

777
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 3: you were thirty.

778
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 2: And you thought anybody listened to you, Well, yes, yeah,

779
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 2: I still did. And then this is the other funny

780
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 2: thing about Indian parents. They're like, don't date anyoneuntil you're

781
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 2: thirty and then you turn thirty and they're like, why

782
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 2: aren't you married with four kids? How do you think

783
00:34:58,480 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 2: that's supposed to work?

784
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 3: To work out? Yeah, thirty is a number that's thrown

785
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 3: out just because it's an easy number. Okay, but we

786
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 3: don't mean that.

787
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 2: You mean twenty five, uh, twenty two. Maybe worry about

788
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 2: your studies and then just immediately get married and have children.

789
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 3: No work, enjoy yourselves a little. I've always said, when

790
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:22,280
Speaker 3: before you get married and have children, enjoy yourselves, because

791
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 3: once the kids come, things change, so thank you.

792
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 2: So then the last question everybody always wants to know

793
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 2: how my parents feel about the fact that I don't

794
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:35,320
Speaker 2: want to get married, Are you okay? Not to be honest,

795
00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 2: not really, not really, not really why I don't know.

796
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 3: Let me tell you. I have some aunts who were

797
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 3: not married, okay and led professional lives and you know,

798
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 3: did just fine.

799
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

800
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 3: So I don't think that you need a person to

801
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 3: be with you, But I think there's a sense of

802
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 3: comfort when there's something for me, yes, for me, and

803
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:01,800
Speaker 3: later on for you to have some one in your life, okay,

804
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 3: whose dependable, reliable, cares about you, and it's there for you.

805
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,480
Speaker 2: So you'd be Okay. If I had a boyfriend forever

806
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 2: and we didn't get married, yeah, okay, so I mean

807
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 2: shut out, not I was a boyfriend, I'd rather we're

808
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 2: not talking about slitting around. It's not floating around.

809
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 3: I'm talking about someone who's there through thick and thin. Yeah.

810
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 2: I mean, aren't you happy that you're saving all that money?

811
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 3: No?

812
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 2: I mean you can just give it to me if

813
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 2: you want to.

814
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 3: No, I'm still holding out hope.

815
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:37,320
Speaker 2: Okay, one day, then one day, one day, some money,

816
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:39,959
Speaker 2: and if not, then I'm using that money to take

817
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 2: an awesome trip around the world. I would love it

818
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 2: if you booked that trip right now. What do I

819
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,280
Speaker 2: tell you guys all the time? Please stop saving money

820
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 2: for Pria and me. Yes, take your trips, live your lives,

821
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 2: enjoy it, make the memories. That's what we want more

822
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 2: than anything else. I don't want all your money. I

823
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 2: just want my mom and dad and I want them

824
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:58,399
Speaker 2: to have a really good time.

825
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 3: And I appreciate that, and I know that, and I

826
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 3: am glad that you don't need any of the things

827
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 3: that you know I'll fall backs. I am really really

828
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 3: proud of you both about that. But what I was

829
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 3: raised with and what I think about having, you know,

830
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:18,359
Speaker 3: savings and so on for a rainy day and for

831
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:20,399
Speaker 3: my children. It's hard to give up.

832
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 2: Okay, but what if you just took this money you're

833
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 2: saving for my mythical wedding and you used it for

834
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 2: this trip that you really want to take. I would

835
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 2: love that.

836
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 3: Let me think about it, Let me think about it.

837
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 3: It sounds it sounds great, right, it sounds great.

838
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 2: I think it's a good plan.

839
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 3: Oh maybe we can all go for six of us go.

840
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 2: Brendan and Corey.

841
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, of course, okay.

842
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 2: And then the other question, what did you think was

843
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 2: one of the most difficult times you can remember when

844
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,919
Speaker 2: it came to parenting me, something that was really hard

845
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 2: for you to watch happen, or something that you thought

846
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 2: was really hard for me to deal with.

847
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:59,479
Speaker 3: The worst to me was when Chad passed away.

848
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that was the worse for me too. I'm

849
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:04,320
Speaker 2: glad we agree. That was my first boyfriend.

850
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 3: And it was very difficult for me to watch you

851
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 3: suffer the way you did because it was so sudden

852
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 3: and unexpected and he was so young. That was that

853
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 3: was difficult.

854
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would definitely I would agree on that. That

855
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 2: was for sure the hardest. And I told you I

856
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:23,919
Speaker 2: that you know, there are things in life that sort

857
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:27,240
Speaker 2: of rewire who you are and the way that you

858
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 2: deal with things and address things. And I feel like

859
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 2: that was the thing for me, a big thing for me,

860
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 2: but not in a horrible way. I mean, of course,

861
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,399
Speaker 2: could I wave a wand and I wish he was here? Yeah,

862
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 2: for sure, I know that you can't. But I told

863
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 2: you this yesterday. We were talking about this yesterday. It

864
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 2: made me really change the way I look at loss,

865
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 2: and I look at things now, like flowers, where you

866
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:54,760
Speaker 2: know it's gonna go away. At some point, everything good,

867
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 2: sadly is gonna go away. It doesn't mean there's not

868
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 2: gonna be more good stuff on the way, but some

869
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 2: like the thing you love the most in your life

870
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 2: might not be there forever, so you should just enjoy

871
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 2: that thing while it's there. And I spent so long

872
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 2: being so sad about Chad, and I still am, but

873
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,280
Speaker 2: I got to a point where I became very happy

874
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:14,399
Speaker 2: that I ever knew him and that I ever had

875
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 2: him in my life, because nobody will ever get that

876
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:20,919
Speaker 2: ever again. I got that, and I was so fortunate. Yes,

877
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 2: that was terrible and traumatic and horrible, and I would

878
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 2: not like to go through it again. But if I

879
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 2: look at life as a whole, I'm so I hate

880
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 2: to use the word blessed. You know how I feel

881
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 2: about religion. I feel so blessed that I ever had

882
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 2: him in my life, because no one's getting out again.

883
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:37,240
Speaker 2: But I got it and it was awesome.

884
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 3: Well, that's truly a good way to look at things,

885
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 3: you know, instead of regrets, to see what benefits you

886
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 3: got from it. And I wish that more of us

887
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 3: could do that, the things that we had versus the

888
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 3: things we don't have. Good way to look at things.

889
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 2: And I have a lot. I have a lot of

890
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 2: really great stuff, and I just am loving it while

891
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 2: it's here. And I think that we're all just I

892
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 2: don't know, we're lucky. And I did see you tense

893
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 2: just for a quick second when I said, do you

894
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 2: know how I feel about religion? Because I know how

895
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 2: you feel about religion, and you are a religious person,

896
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 2: you do care about it, you like to go to temple.

897
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 2: The only times I really go to temple are when

898
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 2: my mom takes me. She is a temple dweller. She

899
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 2: loves it. She gets a little bit nervous when I

900
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 2: say I don't believe in this kind of stuff. I

901
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:24,240
Speaker 2: see her go ah, But I believe in a higher power.

902
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 2: Don't worry, mama, And.

903
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 3: That's all I care about, is that you believe in

904
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 3: a higher power. And I've always said, and this may

905
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 3: not go of a well with a lot of people,

906
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:39,359
Speaker 3: but it is. Religion is a crutch that I use

907
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 3: many times when I can't deal with things myself. Then

908
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 3: I look up to something to help me. And whatever

909
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 3: it is, and however it works in it, maybe I'm

910
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:53,279
Speaker 3: doing things to make it happen, but it happens, and

911
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:57,280
Speaker 3: so I attribute it to the power that I cannot see.

912
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 2: Okay, And I believe that there is definitely something that

913
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 2: I cannot see and there is a power greater than me,

914
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 2: because it cannot be humans are it. It can't be this.

915
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 2: This place is ghetto, humans, trash. There's got to be

916
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,799
Speaker 2: something bigger and better and amazing out there, and I

917
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 2: believe it's there. And for you, I still have all

918
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,360
Speaker 2: the little gods in my house. You saw them yesterday.

919
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 2: I saw you looking at them. I still I will

920
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 2: always go to temple with you. I just have my

921
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 2: issues with organized religion. You know where I got that from?

922
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 2: Your husband?

923
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, my husband does that. But you know what else

924
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 3: my husband does when he has an.

925
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 2: Issue, He goes to the temple.

926
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 3: Go to the temple, and would you pray for a

927
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 3: quick healing recovery for me?

928
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 2: You know, because he's a nut job. Oh well, you victim.

929
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:44,840
Speaker 2: I also attribute any of my strangeness or oddity to

930
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,399
Speaker 2: you picking dad to be my dad, and.

931
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 3: I don't regret it at all.

932
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:52,400
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, good well. I would like to end this

933
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 2: episode telling you I think you are the best mom,

934
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 2: and you are an amazing role model for me and

935
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 2: for other girls out there that you can do every thing.

936
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,400
Speaker 2: You can be a great mom, you can have a

937
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 2: great career, you can do all this stuff. And I

938
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 2: love you and I never doubt that you guys love me.

939
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 2: And I'm very very happy and Pria and I say

940
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 2: this all the time. I couldn't have asked for two

941
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 2: better parents. Despite the fact that you guys have turned

942
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 2: into absolute lunatics, You're the best.

943
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:18,959
Speaker 3: Thank you, Mada.

944
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 2: You're very welcome.

945
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 1: Okay, So picking up, bye bye.

946
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 2: And there you have it. So you met my mom,

947
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:36,440
Speaker 2: you met my dad. Up next, I would love to

948
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,399
Speaker 2: have my sister at some point. She'll talk a lot

949
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 2: of shit. My mom's probably the nicest of the three.

950
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 2: But also I'm very excited about next week's episode because

951
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:48,280
Speaker 2: our boy Josh actually came and said he had something

952
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 2: he wanted to tell me and he's willing to do

953
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 2: it on the podcast. And I am fascinated to know

954
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 2: what this is because whenever something comes from Josh, you

955
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,359
Speaker 2: can trust that it's going to be some wild shit

956
00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 2: and I can't wait. So, like, Hello, subscribe, leave a

957
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 2: review if you would like to. You can always leave

958
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 2: a talk back on the Little iHeartRadio app. There's a

959
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 2: microphone for you to essentially just leave me a voicemail.

960
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 2: I would love to hear it. And follow me on

961
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 2: Instagram at Baby Hot Sauce. So until next week when

962
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 2: we have Josh on along with Diamond and Andrew, have

963
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 2: a fabulous day, Give all your mamas a hug for me,

964
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 2: and Happy Mother's Day. Well on Sunday, Happy Mother's Day.