1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: It is a big Friday Night the little research on 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: the team's playing tonight, Cysany and Tanya. 3 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 2: I'm done for this. 4 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: Let's run it down. Sofi Stadium has never hosted a 5 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:12,120 Speaker 1: high school football game before. 6 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 2: That all changes tonight. 7 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: This is major six and one Downy Vikings taking on 8 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 1: their arch rivals, the five and two Warren Bears, the 9 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: first place in the Gateway League. On the line down, 10 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: He's out for the revenge after getting crushed by Warren 11 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: last year. Friday Night Lights. 12 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 2: You imaginated in high school and playing It's so feisty. 13 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 1: No, that'd be insane, I know, just pulling into the 14 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 1: locker rooms and walking down the tunnel and everything. The 15 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: last Cerna Lancers are on a roll in the del 16 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 1: Rio League, but they get a big test tiny tonight 17 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 1: this week as they battle California High School Player of 18 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 1: the Week. 19 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 2: You know Shane Rosenthal. 20 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 3: Sure do. 21 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: I talked about him before. 22 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 4: Mm hmm. 23 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: The five and two Newbury Park Panthers tonight the corner 24 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: of Reno and Lesser. 25 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 2: You guys, we don't know these people. 26 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 1: Hey, please let me live in the illusion. 27 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 2: That I do. 28 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: I can read up on them getting a lot of press. 29 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 3: So We don't know anybody we talk about. You're talking 30 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 3: about Reese Witherspoom. I've never met her. 31 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 2: We do you know? 32 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: Paul Russell. 33 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 2: As the game of the year, You know it? 34 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 1: The undefeated number one Modern Day Monarchs from Santa Anna 35 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 1: and star receiver Marcus Brown travel to Bellflower to take 36 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: on the number three Saint John Bosco. 37 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 2: Pros Marcus don't let us dance, star. 38 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: Cornerback Marcellus Williams. Tickets for this game sold out in 39 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 1: three minutes. 40 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 2: Sorry, three minutes, three. 41 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: Minutes for that big game, you left all the teens 42 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: out there, don't you remember? 43 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 2: No, I thought I just went with the school to 44 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 2: buy tickets. 45 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: Okay, speaking about the tickets, weren't you impressed with all 46 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: the detail? 47 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 2: I think? 48 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 4: Wait, Tanya, don't you remember if you had like an 49 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 4: ASB car, you pay like ahead of time. 50 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 2: And they would like your. 51 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: School was like five minutes ago. For you guys, you 52 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: should remember this. I totally was what is the soft 53 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: girl trend? 54 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 2: Assistanty. So the days of. 55 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 4: The hustle and bustle might be over for some, at 56 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 4: least for many Gen Z women who have entered the workforce, 57 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 4: maybe specifically during the past few years post pandemic, kind 58 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 4: of their greatest dream is to have the chance to 59 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 4: achieve nothing what and so welcome to the world of 60 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 4: the soft girl. 61 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 2: And that is the lifestyle choice. 62 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 4: That many young women are now holding up as an 63 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 4: ideal way of life. 64 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 2: It's the opposite of like girl boss. 65 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 4: It's the opposite of trying to become the CEO, to 66 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 4: own your own company, to do all this hustle bustle, 67 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 4: the grinding. 68 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 1: But is this like by default, Like they didn't want it, 69 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: they couldn't girl boss, or they didn't get the job, 70 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: and they're just doing this And how do you support 71 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: yourself if they're not doing anything? 72 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 4: It's like this live my life to the fullest vibe. 73 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 4: It's the why am I going to a building for 74 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 4: nine to ten hours a day and wasting I've got 75 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 4: to pay my bills, right, Why can't I figure out 76 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 4: a way to pay my bills otherwise and still be able. 77 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 2: To not a new concept. 78 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 1: I mean, we've all thought about this forever, but it's impossible. 79 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 4: Well now they're venting this on TikTok and the hashtag 80 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 4: soft girl, soft life. All this is trending and it's 81 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 4: prioritizing slow living and. 82 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: For it, it's healthy, but it's sometimes not sustainable when 83 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: you have reality. 84 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 2: To pay for. I'm here with you. 85 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 4: I'm like the opposite of this, Like I pulled twelve 86 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 4: hours here at this very station yesterday. 87 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 2: Like it's just the way I wasn't raised this way. 88 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: These people are saying, they're not putting pressure on themselves. 89 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: The face that I saw Tanya make was priceless when 90 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: I heard the words a desire to achieve nothing like 91 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: your jaw dropped to the counter. 92 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 3: Well it's an interesting Well, that was an interesting phrase 93 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 3: that really caught me off guard. But I understand the 94 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 3: you know, when you're young and you're single, and I 95 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 3: remember my mentor would always tell me, just live live 96 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 3: below your means, Like don't you don't need a nice car, 97 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 3: just get from A to Z, Like you don't need 98 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 3: you know, just just live in that space. And maybe 99 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 3: they just want to live in that space for as 100 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 3: long as they can. 101 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 4: I think, to each their own, some people want to 102 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 4: hustle and get further and do whatever they want to do, 103 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 4: and some want to live below their means. 104 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: And not to me, it sounds like okay, and this 105 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: is something that we all try and work on. I'm 106 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 1: not going to beat myself up, right, It's like subscribing 107 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,799 Speaker 1: to the whole. Look, I'm not putting too much pressure 108 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 1: on myself. I'm not gonna feel guilt. I'm not gonna 109 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 1: beat myself up. And if you can do that and 110 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: live a peaceful, happyat life and pay your bills, great, 111 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: Like I'd be a soft boy, a soft boy, A 112 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: soft boys, not. 113 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 2: A soft boy. 114 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 1: My waist can be soft boy. Trust me, you have 115 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 1: your brain is not uh, thank you? Okay, interesting, We'll 116 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 1: follow that trend. Soft girl trend, soft boy trend.