WEBVTT - Bangs, Birthday, BOUNDARIES w/ Hunter Harris and Peyton Dix 0:00:02.160 --> 0:00:03.640 You're listening to the mess. 0:00:04.160 --> 0:00:06.440 Okay, girly, we're back. 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:10.480 Hey girl, you know what, I'm actually feeling so good. 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:12.000 I'm back on meds. 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:12.400 Is. 0:00:12.440 --> 0:00:15.520 I've been on it for like twenty minutes and it's worked. 0:00:15.800 --> 0:00:17.040 It's absolutely I'm glowing. 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:21.560 Is that it happens now? It takes like two weeks, 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:24.720 three weeks, okay, six months? This is a lie. Yeah, 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:27.880 it's a placebo effect. Right now. How about you? You're 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:30.840 feeling good? Should I get some drug? No, you don't 0:00:30.840 --> 0:00:33.360 need it. You got you got like rooms and edibles 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:34.800 and God and God. 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:40.559 Yeah, you pray, write that down. I just pray it 0:00:41.120 --> 0:00:43.480 just a little bit. I feel like you secretly pray. 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:45.600 I don't feel like you're the ones on your knees, 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:47.800 but you're definitely saying no, I'm not on my knees 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:50.880 and I'm not like a prey before I eat type 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:51.280 of person. 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:51.559 No. 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:53.640 But like if I'm trying to catch a flight, I'll 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:57.400 pray if I especially now you know, planes falling out 0:00:57.400 --> 0:01:00.720 the sky, and if i'm taking it, like if I'm 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:01.440 at the doctor and. 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:02.880 I'm waiting for my results, I'll perate. 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:05.440 So God is like, Marie, you're so unseerious when you're 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:07.920 praying to me it's nothing, it's nothing. I'd be like, hey, girls, 0:01:08.120 --> 0:01:12.520 so I know we haven't talked. You know my heart? Yeah, 0:01:12.680 --> 0:01:15.840 you know my heart. That's also a good title, girl. 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:18.520 But uh yeah yeah, yeah, so you're feeling good. 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:21.160 I love that. Yes, a little bit of mess. 0:01:21.680 --> 0:01:24.840 So I've talked about this before, like we I think 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:26.679 we put this on the page, but like you know, 0:01:26.840 --> 0:01:31.600 doing pop ups during Valentine's Day, my my gal did 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:32.000 that to me. 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:33.640 She popped up at a show. 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:36.800 I mean, we talked about her coming, but she we 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:37.640 didn't solidify. 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:39.399 She didn't confirm. She didn't confirm. 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:42.600 So if you don't confirm, hey, we need confirmation in 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:46.160 twenty twenty five, it's a yes or so no it's 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:49.360 happening or it's not. It's not a oh maybe no, 0:01:49.360 --> 0:01:53.200 no no. So, because the tickets were expensive, I thought 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:55.600 she wasn't coming. Then all of a sudden, I didn't 0:01:55.640 --> 0:01:57.760 paid all this money for these flowers. She's not even home. 0:01:58.400 --> 0:01:59.600 She's not even home. Mess. 0:02:00.120 --> 0:02:02.480 She came, You delivered the flowers to her, and she 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:04.200 wasn't there a get them yeah exactly. 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:06.200 So what they do They just leave them on the stoop. 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:10.400 Well, luckily, you know, they so unprofessional they didn't deliver 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:12.960 them until two days later. I said, what if I 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:14.880 was what if I had fucked up and I needed 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:16.320 these flowers to be there on that day? 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:19.160 You were to ruin my relationship. This is a this 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:20.680 is a black owned blitz. No, it was. 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:26.799 It was avas flowers could be three stars. 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:30.160 The flowers were nice, but they were late as a 0:02:30.240 --> 0:02:31.600 late girly. I'm a letter rocks. 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:35.000 No. Vali's Days the busiest time of year for flower people, 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:38.200 and whatever funeral season is, I don't know that is right. 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:40.560 Valentine's Day is the busiest season for them. They should 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:42.560 have been prepared for that. Three stars. 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:46.720 I won't lie. I did order it the ten am 0:02:47.200 --> 0:02:50.880 that day that day. Yeah, might be messed. I might 0:02:50.919 --> 0:02:51.359 be messed. 0:02:51.840 --> 0:02:54.840 It's not about the time. It's the thought that matters. Okay, 0:02:55.520 --> 0:03:00.240 you thought about it too late? But what about your mess? 0:03:01.360 --> 0:03:02.800 What is my mess? Wow? 0:03:02.880 --> 0:03:05.840 I do this every week every week. I'm like, should 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:08.920 I written something down? I guess my mess today? Is 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:11.320 I got my hair done recently? 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:13.440 Right? Yes? And I mean you can't relate to it's 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:16.640 it's not really given. Whatever we're gonna fix it in post. 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:19.359 But I got my hair done, and before I got 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:20.920 this style done, I was going to do something like that. 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:24.200 And I made an appointment with the lady and everything, and. 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:29.880 She canceled my appointment as they do day as they do. 0:03:30.040 --> 0:03:32.160 My appointment was at noon. She canceled it at twelve 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:32.680 oh five. 0:03:33.480 --> 0:03:38.960 It be your own people, as so what'd you do? 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:40.960 I had to pivot. 0:03:41.000 --> 0:03:43.040 I had to do something else. I was sitting in 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:45.160 the chair getting my braids taken out. I had to 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:47.480 get some braids out so I can go to this appointment. 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:49.600 So I was runing late to the appointment anyway, Okay, 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:51.360 but I was. But I had been trying to call 0:03:51.440 --> 0:03:54.960 her and cancel and postpone, like from the day before. 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:57.680 She never picked up, She didn't respond to no email, 0:03:57.760 --> 0:04:00.400 she never responded to any of my texts. And at 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:03.080 twelve or five she called me and I was like, oh, great, 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:04.760 let me see if I could tell I'll be there 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:05.640 at like twelve. 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:07.160 Thirty in stead of twelve. She said, hey, are you 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:08.040 coming to your appointment? 0:04:08.640 --> 0:04:10.080 I was like, oh, I just wanted you to know 0:04:10.120 --> 0:04:11.880 that I'm running lake And we push back to like 0:04:11.920 --> 0:04:15.360 twelve thirty or one. She was like, no, and your 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:19.200 deposit is non refundable, and then she hung up the phone. 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:21.560 I said, find you. 0:04:21.760 --> 0:04:25.600 I had like three bohole braids left to take out 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:28.520 and I'm sitting there like, so what am I going 0:04:28.600 --> 0:04:31.520 to do? So it do be your own people, And 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:35.760 she did keep my deposit and I will be posting 0:04:35.800 --> 0:04:39.720 about this later because she deserved to get dragged drag. 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:43.960 But also, you know, it's mess hair. Hair in general. 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:46.120 The whole system, the industry is messed up, and they 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:48.359 don't understand how stressed that we are and how we 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:50.440 be on camera and then they be in the comments 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:50.880 like look. 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:51.479 At that wag lifted. 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:53.719 It's like, hey, babe, we all have to work together 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:56.760 to make sure black hair community. You know, it takes 0:04:56.800 --> 0:04:59.599 a village to raise a lace front. And I need 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:01.680 them to be on I need them to be on time. 0:05:01.720 --> 0:05:02.880 I need them to care more than me. 0:05:03.160 --> 0:05:04.800 I need them to be on time. I need them 0:05:04.800 --> 0:05:07.440 to be off book because a lot of the girls 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:10.200 are hair and makeup people, but they can only do 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:12.520 a certain type of person hair and makeup. And it's like, 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:14.240 can you call yourself a professional if you can only 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:17.200 do straight like one beat like you know what I'm saying. 0:05:17.200 --> 0:05:19.440 Not one beat? What's the white people hair? 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:20.000 Two? 0:05:20.480 --> 0:05:24.120 I don't know. I don't know. Becca, if I'm a force? 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:29.840 She like a three? What are you? Maybe our guests 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:30.160 will know. 0:05:30.240 --> 0:05:35.560 Maybe our guest will know what I don't know. 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:39.080 They definitely don't. I am so excited for our guests. 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:43.560 Giannas in here today, just glowing, just youthful, all their teeth. 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:45.360 It's crazy, Okay. 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:48.760 Saying all their teeth implies that I don't have all No, no. 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:53.120 Let me talk. No, no, Marie. 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:56.640 If the shoe don't fit, honey, I'm not talking about Yeah, 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:57.359 that's not my signe. 0:05:57.640 --> 0:06:01.640 I'm missing her too, I'm talking about me. Damn, my 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:03.880 bad fort stepping on the intro. It's okay. 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:07.200 Anyway, we have Hunter and Peyton from let me say 0:06:07.279 --> 0:06:10.919 this today at least, So what do you think of 0:06:10.920 --> 0:06:11.839 our mess this week? 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:15.360 Any thoughts? Hair is a good one? Oh my god? 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:18.920 Like the DM for appointments, like the dms, the no dms. 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:20.960 That is like anxiety inducing for me. 0:06:21.400 --> 0:06:22.000 First of all. 0:06:22.120 --> 0:06:24.120 I mean especially if it's a place that you've never 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:26.600 been before. But like you, you know what I'm saying, 0:06:26.600 --> 0:06:29.240 Like if your friend has gone and you go because 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:30.240 you're like, oh, who did this? 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:32.719 And then now you know. But if it's a place 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:34.120 you've never been, but you. 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:37.279 You watch some tiktoks, yeah, or you've seen some reels 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:38.960 and you're like, oh, okay with it. 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:40.240 Yeah, it's different. 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:42.800 Before you came in. Actually, we were talking about gatekeeping 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:43.400 our braiders. 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:45.600 Now you have to. You have to absolutely because why. 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:47.320 Can I not get an appointment when I put you on? 0:06:47.480 --> 0:06:48.400 And it makes sense. 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:50.480 We put her on and she won't do anything for us. 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:52.880 She won't do anything except for my hair, which I 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:55.760 pay for, Okay, Like I can get parity booking. 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:59.200 I can't shay anything extra for putting you on. Well 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:01.080 that's in the thing is just like you want her 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:02.960 to get more money. I want. 0:07:03.240 --> 0:07:05.760 I want this future for usis but because you don't 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:07.640 do right by me, and now I gotta take it away. 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:09.920 Now I gotta take this way. 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:13.520 That's how I feel about, like like getting my hair 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:15.960 done and people be like see my page and be like, oh, 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:17.920 make sure you tag me, and it's like, but you 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:20.920 didn't look me up this I'm paying full price and 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:21.640 I tip. 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:26.400 And I did and I was only five minutes late. 0:07:26.480 --> 0:07:27.880 Like I'm not even like that late. 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:29.920 It's just well, the grace policy needs to be also 0:07:30.040 --> 0:07:31.960 like on both ends. Because I went to get my 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:34.600 hair done and I was ten minutes late or no, 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:36.600 I was eleven minutes late, and the cutoff of ten, 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:42.240 well exactly if before the cutuf should be fifteen fifteen 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:44.520 is regular, but then like when it flips and they're 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:47.600 late to starting my hair, I don't get a discount. 0:07:47.160 --> 0:07:50.160 Man, And let's just say fifteen. Ya know, we're gonna 0:07:50.160 --> 0:07:53.160 be late to fifteen, but give me fifteen. 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:57.080 Then I'll take eleven. And were like, all know I'm 0:07:57.120 --> 0:08:02.480 lying about eleven. I didn't want to be like. 0:07:59.800 --> 0:08:05.800 I also wanted to ask you, are you a god 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:06.400 fearing woman? 0:08:06.640 --> 0:08:08.080 Am I god? Woman of God? 0:08:08.320 --> 0:08:08.520 Woman? 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:12.200 Like I said on paper on paper, I'm a god 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:12.840 fearing woman? 0:08:13.000 --> 0:08:16.440 Yes, okay, like well, or or let's. 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:19.080 Say this, I was raised, I was raised by God 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:22.440 like and but then obviously I ventured off did some 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:23.040 devilish thing. 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:24.320 But now I'm because. 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:36.960 When you say delis me eat, I'm still. 0:08:35.480 --> 0:08:41.439 De Yeah, well, but I do I have a relationship 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:43.400 with God. Okay, okay, are. 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:48.200 You if you say you're atheist, I'm shutting no black parents. 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:52.120 I don't, but you feel like my relationship with the 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:54.160 Lord shifted. But I thought there always had to be 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:56.560 like in one friendship, there needs to be one real 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:57.439 god fearing. 0:08:57.240 --> 0:08:59.400 Especially in the black friendship, and then one kind of 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:01.760 like there's something higher up there. 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:02.839 You know, like like. 0:09:04.720 --> 0:09:07.599 And they're like like unders someone who's up in the 0:09:07.640 --> 0:09:10.480 church and someone who grew up reading horoscopes like the newspaper, 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:12.240 and like that's yeah, yeah. 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:15.880 Yeah, that's which one is? Which one of you? Oklahoma 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:18.679 a good hearing woman. Yeah. 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:22.240 So like a little church in black and white, that's 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:24.480 what you went, like the kill Bill Church. 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:29.800 Uh No, more like like like like a black mega 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:36.280 Churchla mega church. Yes, Bishop Harrison. 0:09:36.000 --> 0:09:40.600 R I P. He's done now. Coulson, Carlton Pearson Carton. 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:44.720 Is a good pastor, but he's what's the difference between 0:09:44.720 --> 0:09:46.800 a bishop and a pastor? 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:54.120 More money? Guess what bishops? I own this whole building. Yeah. 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:59.120 So I was like, I'm clocking in visit. It's not official. Yeah, 0:09:59.160 --> 0:10:00.959 I'm a guest are Yeah. 0:10:01.000 --> 0:10:02.840 So there were like lots of big churches, like black 0:10:02.920 --> 0:10:05.560 churches and Tulsa for I'm from. And so that was 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:07.400 But then of course, like I don't know, I had 0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:09.760 to go to church all the time. Yeah, like I 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:13.480 had to go eat pizza and like after after church 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:15.000 care like children's church. 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:17.760 Yes, we did not get pizza. We got in a 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:28.760 fish sandwiches. Oh lord, okay, wondering. 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:29.280 Strayed from the world. 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:38.760 Yeah, this is my gospel. They're also l I love it. 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:42.199 Are y'all here for pop ups? Somebody? You know some surprise. 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:47.640 I thought you meant pop ups like shopping pop ups us. 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:53.400 I'm talking about popping up, like someone popped up on you, Like. 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:56.719 Oh, I hate that. I hate running into people too. 0:10:56.880 --> 0:10:57.360 Oh you do? 0:10:57.640 --> 0:10:59.520 Yeah, Oh that's crazy. We ran into you a couple 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:04.359 of weeks ago and you acted like you were Yeah, 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:09.959 you were like, hey, I love you. When somebody is 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:15.560 obvious that, it's like, oh, what are you doing? 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:18.720 I feel like your nightmare scenarios like being on a 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:20.679 train multip stops away and someone sees you and comes 0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:21.400 up to you and it's. 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:22.240 Like, oh my god, happened to me. 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:23.960 That happening from Blood High School with I could not 0:11:23.960 --> 0:11:26.520 remember her name. She's so nice, but it was just like, 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:28.440 what's her name, Mary Francis? 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:31.800 Okay, that's her name that's an Oklahoma PERSONA yeah, okay, 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:33.800 but it was just so like, is that. 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:39.960 Like I'm stealing that? 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:41.120 Yeah. 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:44.240 I'm not good with faces or names, so I'll see. 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:47.360 People neither, right, So I see people and I'd be 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:49.600 like do I know this person? But you know, people 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:51.599 will come up to me and be like and I 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:55.040 don't know if they know me or if they know me, 0:11:55.920 --> 0:11:57.880 so I just be like, good. 0:11:57.720 --> 0:11:58.439 To see you. 0:11:58.720 --> 0:11:59.240 I love. 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:06.080 Leg. But if you think about it, it's like, well, 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:08.560 I'm a public figure, You're supposed to know me. 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:11.199 I don't. What do you do your childhood best friend? 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:15.079 They're like bitch, and I'm like, how's your mom doing? 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:18.400 I did bump into somebody once that I I was like, oh, 0:12:18.440 --> 0:12:21.520 I recognize this person. And we were both turning the 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:23.360 corner at the same time, so we crashed into each 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:25.520 other and I was like, oh hi, and he was 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:27.480 like hey, and I was like trying to figure out 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:29.320 where I know him from, and I was like maybe 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:31.400 I know his mom, And I did ask how's your 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:31.920 mama doing? 0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:34.360 And then we parted. He was like she's good, blah 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:35.480 blah blah. We parted ways. 0:12:35.800 --> 0:12:38.439 Turns out it was an actor I did not know him. 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:41.160 Somebody I recognized from a movie that I had seen. 0:12:41.240 --> 0:12:46.640 It was Lina He at Least Housewive. 0:12:47.480 --> 0:12:50.479 He's in the center of Bailey's husband husband. 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:52.679 Right, But that's what it was because I was like, wait, 0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:56.640 he did everywhere and it was literally I recognized him 0:12:56.679 --> 0:12:58.559 from David Ruffin. 0:12:59.000 --> 0:13:00.960 And he said, he. 0:13:02.920 --> 0:13:05.240 Everything with you. I was like, it's good. So he's 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:05.920 just like us. Real. 0:13:06.679 --> 0:13:08.560 I love that he's like, like much older than us. 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:10.880 You're like, how's your mom? He's like, you. 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:15.520 Don't crack up? Yeah, so you know, look at this 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:17.480 thirty year old man I'm talking to. This was a 0:13:17.520 --> 0:13:18.160 couple of years ago. 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:21.960 But yeah, so sometimes you just gotta fake it, but 0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:23.360 don't show up to where I'm at. 0:13:23.640 --> 0:13:24.800 But not if you're performing. 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:27.160 That would make me really nervous if like someone just 0:13:27.200 --> 0:13:28.160 shows up and I'm. 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:31.640 Like, oh, But technically it was like we had talked 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:34.360 about it, so it wasn't It wasn't like me, it's 0:13:34.360 --> 0:13:35.679 not how I'm presenting it. 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:37.360 It's just I'm trying to be more dramatic about it. 0:13:37.400 --> 0:13:40.680 But and for me, I had already I was like, 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:43.520 I'm gonna be in my bed, I'm gonna be scrolling 0:13:43.840 --> 0:13:47.560 or I'm gonna be closing like but so now you 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:50.000 know she was coming and I was like, oh wait, 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:53.480 now I gotta be like alive and so, but I 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:57.240 think surprises are good, but then it's. 0:13:57.080 --> 0:14:01.199 Like, do you really want a surprise? It is romantic though, 0:14:01.200 --> 0:14:03.439 I think it's like, hey, I'm in theory. 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:07.079 Yeah, but I like surprises that I curated myself totally. 0:14:07.080 --> 0:14:12.079 So it's not right, please the right attitude of this reframe. 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:16.560 Yeah, okay, so y'all came in here with y'all, y'all 0:14:16.559 --> 0:14:22.360 good old mess, which is birthdays, birthdays, birthdays, boundaries and bangs. 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:26.800 I like that there's three bees whose birthday is the closest. 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:30.040 Who mine is on the September Sydney. 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:33.600 Just passed, Oh, I guess mine because mine's in April April. 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:38.880 And what's your birthday? August? Oh? What's that? August ninth? Birthdays, Whitney, Easton, London. 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:41.280 I feel like that would be in a bio somewhere. 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:42.280 Yeah, it should be. 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:43.520 Wait, what are you two? 0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:44.200 Sign wise? 0:14:44.560 --> 0:14:50.040 Libro right aquarious? You kind of said that was shame. 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:57.000 You're at love because sometimes she accidentally called herself a pisces. 0:14:57.400 --> 0:15:00.320 There was one time, honey, I am I stamped wrong 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:02.160 capital a aquarius? 0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:04.920 Any famous people born on your birthday? I don't care 0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:05.320 about them. 0:15:05.360 --> 0:15:08.760 It's all about what wait, what are aquarius traits? 0:15:10.000 --> 0:15:15.280 We're I would I would say that we are stars 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:18.720 chill about it, like we're not like in your face. 0:15:18.760 --> 0:15:22.800 Star crazy, but so crazy at the same time. It's 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:34.640 like very like you see what you Yeah, that's why 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:42.360 I thought she was a most sensitive friend. I am. 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:48.040 Oh that was one time, Marie. One time Sidney. 0:15:48.200 --> 0:15:51.880 Sydney's tears are like interesting because she'll start crying and 0:15:51.880 --> 0:15:54.280 then she'll be laughing and then the tears are sucked 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:55.440 back in and it's like. 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:59.240 Did that happen? Call mental illness? But also you sham 0:15:59.320 --> 0:16:02.760 wow tears? Is that y'all? Do that? I feel like 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:04.840 one of y'all. I feel you, like you're the one 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:06.600 that would be like, wait are you crying? Oh? 0:16:06.640 --> 0:16:09.560 No, I like be weeping religiously really and I'm one 0:16:09.560 --> 0:16:11.480 of those annoying but just it's like, because I'm gonna 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:12.760 beutiful crier. I look. 0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:17.600 So many photos of your cry that she sent me 0:16:17.720 --> 0:16:20.760 that she hasn't me cry in a public place or 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:21.440 at home wherever. 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:23.240 You want me to cry, You'll cry the streets in 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:25.200 New York and then you'll take a picture, and then 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:26.800 you'll share the photo. 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:29.080 Close friends, if you will one and the one that 0:16:29.120 --> 0:16:32.240 she has specifically is from Kylie Jenner's baby announcement. 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:36.040 But how you're like this and you're like, bal yeah, 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:38.120 what a time? Can you please send us the photo? 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:41.560 So you're gonna need that, You're going to need going in. 0:16:45.720 --> 0:16:49.720 That's why I'm sensitive as fuck. Unfortunately, I'm sensitive as hell. 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:52.560 You're a tourist. Yeah, grip. 0:16:55.120 --> 0:17:01.440 Suburbs you you don't know what senses you, but it's. 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:03.120 Lonely at the top of being correct. 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:07.600 Your head loud. 0:17:08.480 --> 0:17:14.560 Yeah, and you're Emilio no no, no, I mean like 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:18.360 you're are you emotional or you the opposite of her? 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:20.320 I think I've grown a lot. 0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:23.120 You're learning to be You're learning to open up. 0:17:23.440 --> 0:17:26.200 I used to be very like that thirty Rock gift 0:17:26.240 --> 0:17:28.920 of like petting someone with a broom when they're crying. 0:17:29.600 --> 0:17:34.720 Now I'm like you, they were like alternate if you 0:17:34.880 --> 0:17:36.440 put your hand up, Okay, what're this? 0:17:38.359 --> 0:17:41.000 Literally I was crying not even a week ago on 0:17:41.040 --> 0:17:44.280 a walk with Hunter, and she went like it was 0:17:44.359 --> 0:17:45.919 kind of like a slat more than it was a 0:17:45.960 --> 0:17:47.520 pat no rub, it was just kind. 0:17:47.400 --> 0:17:53.760 Of she was she was trying to knock the tears 0:17:53.800 --> 0:17:54.320 out of your body. 0:17:54.359 --> 0:17:56.800 And I understand that. Wait, do you cry on your birthday? 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:00.879 Your universe cry once a year every year, and it 0:18:00.920 --> 0:18:01.840 would be on my birthday. 0:18:02.320 --> 0:18:05.080 But now I don't know, not as not as much. 0:18:05.760 --> 0:18:07.040 I think you have to cry on your birthday. 0:18:07.080 --> 0:18:08.320 Yeah, it's one legal time. 0:18:08.480 --> 0:18:10.280 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:18:10.359 --> 0:18:11.720 I used to be so surprised when I cried on 0:18:11.760 --> 0:18:13.200 my birthday, Like why am I so sad? And it's 0:18:13.240 --> 0:18:15.040 like because you feel like no one cares about you 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:17.040 until everyone is around and you're like, oh my god, wait, 0:18:17.080 --> 0:18:17.720 I love birthdays. 0:18:17.720 --> 0:18:19.639 Why is it the long day in the world? Like 0:18:19.680 --> 0:18:20.200 your birthdays? 0:18:20.240 --> 0:18:22.679 Like, oh, everyone fucking hates no matter how many Facebook 0:18:22.680 --> 0:18:24.480 messages I or how many likes on a post. 0:18:24.520 --> 0:18:25.720 Literally you don't mean it. 0:18:25.880 --> 0:18:27.960 Even when it's like someone text me at like eleven am. 0:18:27.960 --> 0:18:29.720 I'm like, oh my god, it's my birthday for eleven 0:18:29.720 --> 0:18:32.480 hours and you had no fucking you didn't care at all, like. 0:18:32.480 --> 0:18:34.640 You realize it's my birthday. 0:18:34.880 --> 0:18:37.440 Truly, It's like, oh my god, I would just feel 0:18:37.520 --> 0:18:40.280 sad about like getting older and being around people who 0:18:40.280 --> 0:18:42.120 I feel like are twelve. 0:18:41.920 --> 0:18:45.720 And on the Forbes twelve under twelve. You know what 0:18:45.720 --> 0:18:46.360 I'm saying, like. 0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:50.879 The twelve under twelve to come into blood. 0:18:51.119 --> 0:18:54.800 It's happening. Please don't do that. I already feel bad 0:18:54.840 --> 0:18:57.240 on my birthday. We don't need that. But not no more. 0:18:57.359 --> 0:18:59.840 I mean, last time you cried on your birthday was 0:19:00.440 --> 0:19:03.479