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Speaker 1: You're listening to the mess.

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Speaker 2: Okay, girly, we're back.

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Speaker 3: Hey girl, you know what, I'm actually feeling so good.

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Speaker 3: I'm back on meds.

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Speaker 1: Is.

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Speaker 3: I've been on it for like twenty minutes and it's worked.

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Speaker 3: It's absolutely I'm glowing.

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Speaker 2: Is that it happens now? It takes like two weeks,

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Speaker 2: three weeks, okay, six months? This is a lie. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's a placebo effect. Right now. How about you? You're

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Speaker 2: feeling good? Should I get some drug? No, you don't

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Speaker 2: need it. You got you got like rooms and edibles

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Speaker 2: and God and God.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you pray, write that down. I just pray it

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Speaker 3: just a little bit. I feel like you secretly pray.

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Speaker 3: I don't feel like you're the ones on your knees,

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Speaker 3: but you're definitely saying no, I'm not on my knees

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Speaker 3: and I'm not like a prey before I eat type

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Speaker 3: of person.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: But like if I'm trying to catch a flight, I'll

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Speaker 3: pray if I especially now you know, planes falling out

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Speaker 3: the sky, and if i'm taking it, like if I'm

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Speaker 3: at the doctor and.

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Speaker 2: I'm waiting for my results, I'll perate.

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Speaker 3: So God is like, Marie, you're so unseerious when you're

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Speaker 3: praying to me it's nothing, it's nothing. I'd be like, hey, girls,

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Speaker 3: so I know we haven't talked. You know my heart? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you know my heart. That's also a good title, girl.

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Speaker 3: But uh yeah yeah, yeah, so you're feeling good.

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Speaker 2: I love that. Yes, a little bit of mess.

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Speaker 3: So I've talked about this before, like we I think

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Speaker 3: we put this on the page, but like you know,

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Speaker 3: doing pop ups during Valentine's Day, my my gal did

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Speaker 3: that to me.

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Speaker 2: She popped up at a show.

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Speaker 3: I mean, we talked about her coming, but she we

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Speaker 3: didn't solidify.

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Speaker 2: She didn't confirm. She didn't confirm.

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Speaker 3: So if you don't confirm, hey, we need confirmation in

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Speaker 3: twenty twenty five, it's a yes or so no it's

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Speaker 3: happening or it's not. It's not a oh maybe no,

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Speaker 3: no no. So, because the tickets were expensive, I thought

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Speaker 3: she wasn't coming. Then all of a sudden, I didn't

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Speaker 3: paid all this money for these flowers. She's not even home.

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Speaker 2: She's not even home. Mess.

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Speaker 3: She came, You delivered the flowers to her, and she

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Speaker 3: wasn't there a get them yeah exactly.

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Speaker 2: So what they do They just leave them on the stoop.

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Speaker 3: Well, luckily, you know, they so unprofessional they didn't deliver

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Speaker 3: them until two days later. I said, what if I

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Speaker 3: was what if I had fucked up and I needed

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Speaker 3: these flowers to be there on that day?

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Speaker 2: You were to ruin my relationship. This is a this

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Speaker 2: is a black owned blitz. No, it was.

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Speaker 3: It was avas flowers could be three stars.

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Speaker 2: The flowers were nice, but they were late as a

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Speaker 2: late girly. I'm a letter rocks.

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Speaker 3: No. Vali's Days the busiest time of year for flower people,

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Speaker 3: and whatever funeral season is, I don't know that is right.

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Speaker 3: Valentine's Day is the busiest season for them. They should

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Speaker 3: have been prepared for that. Three stars.

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Speaker 2: I won't lie. I did order it the ten am

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Speaker 2: that day that day. Yeah, might be messed. I might

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Speaker 3: It's not about the time. It's the thought that matters. Okay,

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Speaker 3: you thought about it too late? But what about your mess?

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Speaker 2: What is my mess? Wow?

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Speaker 3: I do this every week every week. I'm like, should

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Speaker 3: I written something down? I guess my mess today? Is

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Speaker 3: I got my hair done recently?

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Speaker 2: Right? Yes? And I mean you can't relate to it's

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Speaker 2: it's not really given. Whatever we're gonna fix it in post.

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Speaker 3: But I got my hair done, and before I got

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Speaker 3: this style done, I was going to do something like that.

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Speaker 3: And I made an appointment with the lady and everything, and.

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Speaker 2: She canceled my appointment as they do day as they do.

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Speaker 2: My appointment was at noon. She canceled it at twelve

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Speaker 2: oh five.

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Speaker 3: It be your own people, as so what'd you do?

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Speaker 2: I had to pivot.

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Speaker 3: I had to do something else. I was sitting in

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Speaker 3: the chair getting my braids taken out. I had to

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Speaker 3: get some braids out so I can go to this appointment.

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Speaker 3: So I was runing late to the appointment anyway, Okay,

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Speaker 3: but I was. But I had been trying to call

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Speaker 3: her and cancel and postpone, like from the day before.

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Speaker 3: She never picked up, She didn't respond to no email,

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Speaker 3: at like twelve.

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Speaker 2: Thirty in stead of twelve. She said, hey, are you

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I just wanted you to know

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Speaker 3: that I'm running lake And we push back to like

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Speaker 3: twelve thirty or one. She was like, no, and your

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Speaker 3: deposit is non refundable, and then she hung up the phone.

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Speaker 2: I said, find you.

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Speaker 3: I had like three bohole braids left to take out

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Speaker 3: and I'm sitting there like, so what am I going

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Speaker 3: to do? So it do be your own people, And

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Speaker 3: she did keep my deposit and I will be posting

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Speaker 3: about this later because she deserved to get dragged drag.

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Speaker 2: But also, you know, it's mess hair. Hair in general.

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Speaker 3: The whole system, the industry is messed up, and they

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Speaker 3: don't understand how stressed that we are and how we

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Speaker 3: be on camera and then they be in the comments

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Speaker 2: At that wag lifted.

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Speaker 3: It's like, hey, babe, we all have to work together

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Speaker 3: to make sure black hair community. You know, it takes

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Speaker 3: a village to raise a lace front. And I need

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Speaker 3: them to be on I need them to be on time.

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Speaker 2: I need them to care more than me.

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Speaker 3: I need them to be on time. I need them

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Speaker 3: to be off book because a lot of the girls

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Speaker 3: are hair and makeup people, but they can only do

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Speaker 3: a certain type of person hair and makeup. And it's like,

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Speaker 3: can you call yourself a professional if you can only

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Speaker 3: do straight like one beat like you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Not one beat? What's the white people hair?

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Speaker 1: Two?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. Becca, if I'm a force?

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Speaker 2: She like a three? What are you? Maybe our guests

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Speaker 3: Maybe our guest will know what I don't know.

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Speaker 2: They definitely don't. I am so excited for our guests.

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Speaker 3: Giannas in here today, just glowing, just youthful, all their teeth.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy, Okay.

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Speaker 3: Saying all their teeth implies that I don't have all No, no.

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Speaker 2: Let me talk. No, no, Marie.

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Speaker 3: If the shoe don't fit, honey, I'm not talking about Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's not my signe.

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Speaker 2: I'm missing her too, I'm talking about me. Damn, my

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Speaker 2: bad fort stepping on the intro. It's okay.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, we have Hunter and Peyton from let me say

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Speaker 3: this today at least, So what do you think of

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Speaker 2: Any thoughts? Hair is a good one? Oh my god?

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Speaker 4: Like the DM for appointments, like the dms, the no dms.

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Speaker 4: That is like anxiety inducing for me.

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Speaker 2: First of all.

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Speaker 3: I mean especially if it's a place that you've never

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Speaker 3: been before. But like you, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 3: Like if your friend has gone and you go because

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Speaker 3: you're like, oh, who did this?

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Speaker 2: And then now you know. But if it's a place

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Speaker 3: You watch some tiktoks, yeah, or you've seen some reels

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Speaker 3: and you're like, oh, okay with it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's different.

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Speaker 1: Before you came in. Actually, we were talking about gatekeeping

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Speaker 1: our braiders.

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Speaker 2: Now you have to. You have to absolutely because why.

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Speaker 1: Can I not get an appointment when I put you on?

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Speaker 1: And it makes sense.

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Speaker 2: We put her on and she won't do anything for us.

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Speaker 4: She won't do anything except for my hair, which I

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Speaker 4: pay for, Okay, Like I can get parity booking.

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Speaker 2: I can't shay anything extra for putting you on. Well

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Speaker 2: to get more money. I want.

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Speaker 3: I want this future for usis but because you don't

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Speaker 2: Now I gotta take this way.

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Speaker 3: That's how I feel about, like like getting my hair

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Speaker 3: I tip.

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Speaker 2: And I did and I was only five minutes late.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm not even like that late.

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Speaker 1: It's just well, the grace policy needs to be also

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Speaker 1: I was eleven minutes late, and the cutoff of ten,

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Speaker 1: well exactly if before the cutuf should be fifteen fifteen

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Speaker 3: Man, And let's just say fifteen. Ya know, we're gonna

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Speaker 2: Then I'll take eleven. And were like, all know I'm

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Speaker 1: I also wanted to ask you, are you a god

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Speaker 2: Am I god? Woman of God?

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Speaker 3: Like I said on paper on paper, I'm a god

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Speaker 3: fearing woman?

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, like well, or or let's.

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Speaker 3: Say this, I was raised, I was raised by God

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Speaker 3: like and but then obviously I ventured off did some

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Speaker 2: But now I'm because.

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Speaker 3: When you say delis me eat, I'm still.

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Speaker 2: De Yeah, well, but I do I have a relationship

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Speaker 3: You if you say you're atheist, I'm shutting no black parents.

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Speaker 3: I don't, but you feel like my relationship with the

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Speaker 3: Lord shifted. But I thought there always had to be

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Speaker 3: like in one friendship, there needs to be one real

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Speaker 3: god fearing.

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Speaker 4: Especially in the black friendship, and then one kind of

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Speaker 2: You know, like like.

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Speaker 4: And they're like like unders someone who's up in the

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Speaker 4: and like that's yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's which one is? Which one of you? Oklahoma

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Speaker 2: a good hearing woman. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So like a little church in black and white, that's

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Speaker 3: what you went, like the kill Bill Church.

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Speaker 4: Uh No, more like like like like a black mega

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Speaker 4: Churchla mega church. Yes, Bishop Harrison.

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Speaker 2: R I P. He's done now. Coulson, Carlton Pearson Carton.

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Speaker 3: Is a good pastor, but he's what's the difference between

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Speaker 3: a bishop and a pastor?

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Speaker 2: More money? Guess what bishops? I own this whole building. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, I'm clocking in visit. It's not official. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm a guest are Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is my gospel. They're also l I love it.

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Speaker 1: And he said, he.

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Speaker 2: Everything with you. I was like, it's good. So he's

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Speaker 4: I love that he's like, like much older than us.

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Speaker 2: Don't crack up? Yeah, so you know, look at this

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Speaker 3: But yeah, so sometimes you just gotta fake it, but

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Speaker 2: But not if you're performing.

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Speaker 3: Like, oh, But technically it was like we had talked

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Speaker 2: It's just I'm trying to be more dramatic about it.

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Speaker 2: Like, do you really want a surprise? It is romantic though,

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Speaker 2: I think it's like, hey, I'm in theory.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I like surprises that I curated myself totally.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, so y'all came in here with y'all, y'all

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Speaker 5: good old mess, which is birthdays, birthdays, birthdays, boundaries and bangs.

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Speaker 3: I like that there's three bees whose birthday is the closest.

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Speaker 3: Who mine is on the September Sydney.

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Speaker 1: Just passed, Oh, I guess mine because mine's in April April.

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Speaker 2: And what's your birthday? August? Oh? What's that? August ninth? Birthdays, Whitney, Easton, London.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that would be in a bio somewhere.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it should be.

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Speaker 2: Wait, what are you two?

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Speaker 1: Sign wise?

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Speaker 2: Libro right aquarious? You kind of said that was shame.

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Speaker 3: You're at love because sometimes she accidentally called herself a pisces.

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Speaker 3: There was one time, honey, I am I stamped wrong

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Speaker 2: Any famous people born on your birthday? I don't care

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Speaker 4: It's all about what wait, what are aquarius traits?

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Speaker 3: We're I would I would say that we are stars

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Speaker 3: chill about it, like we're not like in your face.

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Speaker 2: Star crazy, but so crazy at the same time. It's

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Speaker 2: I thought she was a most sensitive friend. I am.

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Speaker 2: Oh that was one time, Marie. One time Sidney.

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Speaker 3: Sydney's tears are like interesting because she'll start crying and

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Speaker 2: Did that happen? Call mental illness? But also you sham

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Speaker 2: wow tears? Is that y'all? Do that? I feel like

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Speaker 2: that would be like, wait are you crying? Oh?

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Speaker 1: No, I like be weeping religiously really and I'm one

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Speaker 1: of those annoying but just it's like, because I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: So many photos of your cry that she sent me

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Speaker 3: You want me to cry, You'll cry the streets in

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Speaker 3: you'll share the photo.

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Speaker 1: Close friends, if you will one and the one that

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Speaker 1: she has specifically is from Kylie Jenner's baby announcement.

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Speaker 2: But how you're like this and you're like, bal yeah,

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Speaker 2: So you're gonna need that, You're going to need going in.

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Speaker 1: That's why I'm sensitive as fuck. Unfortunately, I'm sensitive as hell.

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Speaker 2: You're a tourist. Yeah, grip.

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Speaker 3: Suburbs you you don't know what senses you, but it's.

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Speaker 1: Lonely at the top of being correct.

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Speaker 2: Your head loud.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're Emilio no no, no, I mean like

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Speaker 2: I think I've grown a lot.

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Speaker 1: You're learning to be You're learning to open up.

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Speaker 4: I used to be very like that thirty Rock gift

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Speaker 4: of like petting someone with a broom when they're crying.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm like you, they were like alternate if you

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Speaker 1: Literally I was crying not even a week ago on

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Speaker 2: Of she was she was trying to knock the tears

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Speaker 1: And I understand that. Wait, do you cry on your birthday?

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Speaker 3: Your universe cry once a year every year, and it

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Speaker 4: But now I don't know, not as not as much.

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Speaker 4: I think you have to cry on your birthday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's one legal time.

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Speaker 4: I used to be so surprised when I cried on

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Speaker 4: I love birthdays.

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Speaker 2: Why is it the long day in the world? Like

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Speaker 1: Like, oh, everyone fucking hates no matter how many Facebook

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Speaker 2: Literally you don't mean it.

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Speaker 4: Even when it's like someone text me at like eleven am.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, it's my birthday for eleven

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Speaker 4: hours and you had no fucking you didn't care at all, like.

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Speaker 2: You realize it's my birthday.

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Speaker 3: Truly, It's like, oh my god, I would just feel

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Speaker 3: I feel like are twelve.

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Speaker 2: And on the Forbes twelve under twelve. You know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, like.

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Speaker 1: The twelve under twelve to come into blood.

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Speaker 2: It's happening. Please don't do that. I already feel bad

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Speaker 2: on my birthday. We don't need that. But not no more.

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Speaker 3: I mean, last time you cried on your birthday was

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Speaker 3: room the time you were like crying for really you know,

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Speaker 3: it was like it was like happy, Like, Wow, I'm

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Speaker 3: standing in the ocean, the Gulf of America, the Gulf

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Speaker 3: of Mexico, and yeah, I was like my mom stood

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Speaker 3: in these same waters, my grandma stood in these waters.

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Speaker 2: Tears, that's really sweet.

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Speaker 1: Oh you start crying in Tulum? My god, that sounds

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Speaker 1: so much cheaper than crying and like that's a Starbucks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, oh, fully we lived different lives. So why

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Speaker 3: are birthdays so messy? Is it the planning of stuff

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Speaker 3: for people? Is it like personal mess? Is it because

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Speaker 3: you're trying to I don't know. I don't like planning

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Speaker 3: I don't want to be worried about people having a

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Speaker 3: good time. I just want people to have a good

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Speaker 3: time or else or else.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I do this thing with birthdays where like I never

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh I don't care. Oh, like who cares?

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Speaker 4: I don't need to do anything. I don't want to

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Speaker 4: dinner like don't. And then and then August eighth, I'm like,

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Speaker 4: what the fuck is happening? Like we better do something

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Speaker 4: big for my birthday? And that, like Cat's Cradle of

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Speaker 4: Expectation versus Reality is like just awful every single year.

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Speaker 4: But then I also have a really unique scale of

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Speaker 3: Oh you showing up hotter than the birthday?

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Speaker 4: Yea?

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Speaker 2: What he was doing? Yeh? I thought we were starting

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Speaker 2: at nine o six, like you have a spotlight on

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Speaker 2: your turn and it's like, oh, totally no.

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Speaker 4: Well you were mad because I went to your birthday

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Speaker 4: party last year.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wearing a.

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Speaker 1: Just a simple white tea, a white tea that said

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Speaker 1: LEO on it on my very hard headed ass Taurus

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Speaker 1: birthday and I said, pack your bag.

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Speaker 2: No, you're remember.

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Speaker 1: Because Hunter got wasted blackout and lost her expensive coat.

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Speaker 1: And I said, that's why you need to wear But.

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Speaker 2: To the top cover up.

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00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:09,960
Speaker 3: Wait you got you got blackout drunk at her birthday?

444
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:11,520
Speaker 1: It was that was the thing.

445
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 2: Let me say it was.

446
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:18,600
Speaker 4: It was the worst day of my life. Yeah, okay,

447
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 4: but it's also like I can't remember what happened that

448
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,160
Speaker 4: day to make me like so crazy.

449
00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:23,640
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I know, like before that.

450
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:30,440
Speaker 3: She was black out day, I got black out.

451
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 2: And so I go to Peyton's birthday. I'm like, oh,

452
00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:34,360
Speaker 2: what are we gonna wear?

453
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 4: Okay, cute this like top and skirt, and then I

454
00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:39,879
Speaker 4: lost a coat that costs I'll say four figures. It

455
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,480
Speaker 4: was what it was like, and I'm ashamed to say it,

456
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:43,919
Speaker 4: but I need to own it because it's I need

457
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:47,440
Speaker 4: to shave myself into like skirt stream you bought that coat? Yeah,

458
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,400
Speaker 4: it was my birthday. Gret for myself that I got

459
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 4: was like.

460
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 2: Most early what kind of coat is it? It doesn't matter,

461
00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 2: Yeah it does.

462
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 3: We were.

463
00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 2: Maybe would be like maybe they were it.

464
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:06,600
Speaker 4: Do you want a It was the tame scarf jacket

465
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 4: and it has like it's like yeah attached.

466
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:21,880
Speaker 2: I'm sorry that so yeah.

467
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,400
Speaker 4: So I lost the coat at the first location at

468
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:26,040
Speaker 4: the bar, and then I we went to a different bar,

469
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:27,439
Speaker 4: and I thought I lost it there, but I didn't.

470
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 4: And then I went back to my apartment again Blackout

471
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,719
Speaker 4: had to walk my dog. Didn't know how that happened.

472
00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:37,160
Speaker 4: I woke up sleep on my sofa. Dog out, she's

473
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 4: always sleeps in her crate.

474
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:39,440
Speaker 2: I was like, what the heck?

475
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:43,199
Speaker 4: And then I had to go get blood drawn, and

476
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:44,960
Speaker 4: then I had to go to the gym. When I

477
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 4: had to go get my eyelashes done, and I had

478
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 4: to go to but my tape a podcast in a basement.

479
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 2: Why were you in blood drawn? That's the thing for

480
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 2: me that I'm like.

481
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 4: It was like I had the appointment set and I

482
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 4: just I don't know it, like in my in my

483
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 4: just trauma brain, I was like, oh, I have to

484
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:01,199
Speaker 4: keep the appointment.

485
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 2: I can't leave. And then I also didn't want to

486
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 2: cancel the workout so my trainer would know that. I

487
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 2: was like so messy. She knew I wanted to cover

488
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,160
Speaker 2: up the masks. You didn't think he was gonna look

489
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,360
Speaker 2: at you and be like, I know what happened?

490
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,159
Speaker 4: No, And she didn't. She was like, oh, weird, what

491
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:17,719
Speaker 4: happened your arm? I was like, oh, I just got

492
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 4: blood drawn yesterday.

493
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 2: So was it the blood drawn.

494
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,119
Speaker 3: The blood drawn thing feel like because you had a

495
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 3: blood alcohol content of blackout. Then you went to the

496
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 3: gym with the big gass band aid righty, And.

497
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 2: Then how did I pass out? Died?

498
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 4: Because I'm a god ring woman, He's got me. And

499
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,879
Speaker 4: then the story is so messy. And then in the

500
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 4: middle getting blood drawn, the nurse took a smoke break.

501
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 1: Okay, well, love that for her.

502
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: So you were in Brooklyn. Was there a balcony off

503
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:56,679
Speaker 2: the road? She fully was like she fully? I was like,

504
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,719
Speaker 2: where's she going? She was like, bye? It was crazy.

505
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 2: It was the craziest day.

506
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 3: So you you cried at her birthday? Or no, you

507
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 3: got blackout drunk?

508
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, yeah, you love close. I cried the next day.

509
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 2: I cried.

510
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:10,400
Speaker 4: You know what would have been like eight hours later?

511
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,439
Speaker 4: Did you get black out drunk at that birthday?

512
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:13,479
Speaker 1: Yeah? It was my birthday?

513
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 2: Okay?

514
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 1: And her right, yeah, thanks, she deserves us.

515
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,919
Speaker 2: So what messy things are happening on your birthday? Was

516
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:41,159
Speaker 2: I that?

517
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 1: Yeah?

518
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 2: No?

519
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 1: Well my birthday it felt like was actually fine.

520
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 2: It was thirty. So it was like, I don't like

521
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 2: why you said it?

522
00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 3: Well, like that that felt aggressive, It felt like well,

523
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 3: you know, it's like like young, it wasn't a big deal,

524
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 3: like just another day thirty.

525
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 2: Like it felt very it felt very I was targeted. Yeah,

526
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:08,360
Speaker 2: it was actually in sensitive. I should have whispered. That's

527
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 2: what I.

528
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: Just made it. It was like, what could go wrong? It's thirty,

529
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: Like it's so I'm gonna get wasted. And then I

530
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 1: like went upstate with my friends the next like a

531
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,199
Speaker 1: couple of days and played games.

532
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 2: How wholesome. Oh I forgot about that detail that I

533
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 2: had a flight the next day too.

534
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 3: Oh you had to go. Yeah, half of that stuff.

535
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 4: I can't remember what because I remember I was texting

536
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 4: the bar owner from my flight.

537
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 2: I think you had a wedding? Do I have a wedding?

538
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 3: I always texting the bar owner somebody you knew.

539
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 2: No black coat. He's like, what is it?

540
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:47,879
Speaker 1: Like?

541
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 2: I was like, it has a scarf attached. He's like, no, damn,

542
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 2: what's the last time you lost the coat?

543
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 3: I feel like the last time I lost the coat

544
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 3: was like I don't even remember.

545
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 2: I'm not a club no coat.

546
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want a coat so good that I'm wearing

547
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 3: it because it's an outfit. I don't want to even

548
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 3: put it down like I want to have it on. Yeah,

549
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:08,119
Speaker 3: I don't want to lose it.

550
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 1: You know what I lose often, it's being of being black.

551
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: Is my my phone? My cellular device? You lose your phone,

552
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:18,680
Speaker 1: which is ironic considering when I'm drinking heavily. I made

553
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: back of the uber kind of.

554
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 2: That's what you lose it sticking photo.

555
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 1: So I really that's what I'm saying, So it's surprising

556
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 1: that it leaves my hand. I'mo point five BackFlash always.

557
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: I stay strapped.

558
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:32,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, wait, you you use let me do it now?

559
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. How do you do that?

560
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's awesome you it's I the youth

561
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 1: taught me. I used to be a hater of it,

562
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 1: and now I'm a lover. You go like a back

563
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 1: cameras if I'm taking phot of you, point five zoom's

564
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 1: out and you got to hit like a nice forty

565
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: five degree angle, a little up, yeah, and then you

566
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 1: click like this upside right here.

567
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

568
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 1: And when it's night, like when you're out, you should

569
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 1: do it with a flash and it'll looks so cumty

570
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:56,879
Speaker 1: and you look so snatched.

571
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 3: That's what I'm not trying to talk to people yea

572
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 3: age just not Eve gonna know your off guard.

573
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 2: Now he's stressed.

574
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm trying to take a photo.

575
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 2: Why are you doing this right? I was just giving back.

576
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 2: I was giving giving back, giving back and giving back.

577
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 1: I'm paying it forward. Okay, I learned.

578
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 2: I am now a back camera, point five flash beach

579
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 2: to the more.

580
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 3: You know, we'll all do it and then we'll put

581
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 3: it in a in the dumps for us.

582
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 2: Okay.

583
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:29,159
Speaker 3: Think the most important question how many people? Is too

584
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 3: many people at a birthday dinner?

585
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 2: What a great dinner. I'm telling you we'll do. That's

586
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,359
Speaker 2: we'll do is putting the check because that was a

587
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 2: second and we need it and we need to end

588
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 2: it right there, like no more.

589
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 1: I think, like a solid I want to say eight,

590
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna say six. Six is too I think, no,

591
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 1: I think six is the exact number. Like I think

592
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 1: it needs to be intimate. Birthday just need to be intimate.

593
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: I think once it's going to table one, that's on

594
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:57,880
Speaker 1: you now. Actually, if you're booking like crazy, like a

595
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 1: big backyard or a moment, you're paying for.

596
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:05,159
Speaker 3: That actually, right because now you start yeah yeah versus

597
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 3: a dinner.

598
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: And I think like the whole point of a birthday

599
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: dinner is like intimacy. Yes, after that, it's too much

600
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:11,159
Speaker 1: and there's always something for.

601
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:12,879
Speaker 2: The girl because I feel like they don't know, they

602
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 2: don't know. Eight is good.

603
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,439
Speaker 4: I think eight or nine. It depends on trying to

604
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 4: do the math of like yes, but then no plus ones.

605
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 4: That's the really big thing.

606
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,679
Speaker 1: You just one on a birthday dinner straight couples. That

607
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 1: sounds like I'm not gonna.

608
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 2: Say friends, so and so people.

609
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,360
Speaker 4: Are always like, hey, can I bring someone, and it's like, no,

610
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 4: it's a dinner.

611
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 2: It's a dinner.

612
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: Also yeah, because who doesn't unless it's a clurb like

613
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 1: and also you obviously need the plus ones to fill

614
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 1: this place blackment but.

615
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, if we're we're all seated.

616
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 4: No, no, no, But then the sputing the check thing

617
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 4: is so weird. I've been to dinners where it's like

618
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 4: you know, someone, girls like oh I just had this

619
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 4: one salad and it's like no, you didn't, Like I

620
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 4: need to be like, no, you didn't.

621
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 2: I saw how many bites you took of everything you need.

622
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 3: You tasted everything that means you pay in fairly thing, Yeah,

623
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 3: but not you clocking them like I see everything you got.

624
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 2: What's going on? You the octopus earlier? So could I agree?

625
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 1: I think like you can't.

626
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 4: You're either all in or you have to be full.

627
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 4: And then everyone also has to pay for the birthday

628
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 4: person's meal. Yeah, not be controversial.

629
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 2: Oh no no no, no no no no.

630
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 3: Pay for the that's not controversial. Okay, pay for that.

631
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

632
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 3: If I'm watching you order steak and I'm eating, you

633
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 3: know I got.

634
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 2: The little I got the chicken, I got the roasted

635
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 2: chicken or whatever.

636
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 1: The roast chicken can be crazy though.

637
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 2: Okay, let's make it something small. Let's maybe I didn't

638
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 2: get that. Maybe I got the chicken salad. You can

639
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 2: sell it.

640
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 3: Why are you gonna chicken sell it on my birthday? Listen,

641
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 3: we going a big a go home. What are you doing?

642
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 3: But I'm saying that there are there is an imbalance.

643
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 2: Sometimes it is nobody that they doing a lot, they

644
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 2: doing a surfing turf.

645
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're like, oh, well, I'm gonna just do this,

646
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 3: and we need to decide going in because everyone's on

647
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 3: the same level.

648
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:54,479
Speaker 2: Everyone's like, okay, yeah, we're gonna like eat a lot

649
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 2: of food, good food.

650
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 4: No one's going to be like okay, like doing the

651
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 4: math in their head out there, like you know, no

652
00:29:59,080 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 4: one meeting me.

653
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 3: We a la carte is mess prefixed only, like so

654
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 3: we all know we're all spending the same amount of money.

655
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 3: And if you want to get drinks or extra like

656
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 3: we buying a bottle, we're doing bottles. Like if no,

657
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 3: none of that, you get this and you get that,

658
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 3: and we'll share shared plates.

659
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 2: No, when if it's more than four people share plates?

660
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 2: Do you hate me? I don't want to do that.

661
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 1: I don't want to share a plate.

662
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 2: I don't plate.

663
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 3: Let's get up, let's get two chickens, let's get the

664
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 3: fish for the table.

665
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 1: I'm not mad a style, yes, but I also like, then,

666
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: don't invite a bitch with a complicated fucking diet. Leave

667
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 1: her at home.

668
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 2: I'm an only child. I I you don't want to share.

669
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, so what you eating?

670
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 2: That's a birthday dinner? Yeah, tell us you're tell us

671
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 2: your order. I don't know what I'm eating, meaning like

672
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 2: a pasta that I'm like, okay, that's why we're se

673
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,719
Speaker 2: about you to No.

674
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 3: No, I think I'm anti dinners for birthdays. I think

675
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 3: if you want to take somebody else to dinner one

676
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 3: on one, next grade. But I like an activity. I

677
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 3: think like like somebody renting down a room. We're playing games, karaoke.

678
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 3: People come when they can, like they go in and.

679
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 2: Out that like real strict we're doing.

680
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 3: It's at this point, I've done it so many times

681
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 3: it's actually boring. Now, it's actually boring to be with

682
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 3: ten to fifteen people out a dinner.

683
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 2: I can't even speak to you. I don't want I

684
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 2: actually want to.

685
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 3: I don't want to talk to your mouth as full,

686
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 3: like we're not having a good time.

687
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 2: So I'd rather that being said. I will accept a

688
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 2: sponsored dinner. Yeah, come on call. Actually that was my birthday,

689
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 2: September twenty third.

690
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, you got a couple of seasons to get in

691
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 3: to get so many and Sydney will be there, Yeah,

692
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 3: she complained, she'll be cross their dinner is cute because

693
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,479
Speaker 3: then we all know, like we're gonna be taking pictures

694
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 3: tagging him, and we not thinking about no check, you're

695
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 3: putting the check, you're getting a check. You know.

696
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 2: Actually we help them with the check, so you should

697
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 2: buy us. So actually, actually it's a business dinner.

698
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we did go to a Michael's birthday Oh yeah,

699
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 4: a segregated birthday birthday dinner.

700
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, all the black people actually got there early. It

701
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 2: sounds Jack and Jill is these Jack and Jill black

702
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 2: one Jack and Jail.

703
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 4: No, so yeah, every black person was at one table,

704
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 4: every white person's at another table.

705
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 3: And will you tell the black people two hours before

706
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 3: it actually started.

707
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 2: No, but we just all happened to be there on

708
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 2: time for once. It was crazy.

709
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, well one of okay, this is this is birthday

710
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 1: Michael's birthday related. I think the year after I was like,

711
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 1: you know, everyone just swing me. I'll put the car down,

712
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 1: and you know I do this all the time, and

713
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 1: I forgot that I put the car down, and I

714
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: forgot eight months later I heard until six months later

715
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: before and was like this feels weird to venral request

716
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 1: people now being like, by the way, this dinner we

717
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 1: went to six months ago, like what happen cut off

718
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 1: for I only had to do it once with Hunter

719
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 1: because we had a very expensive hotel.

720
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 4: I was gonna say, so you didn't vemo request people,

721
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 4: I'm not that dinner.

722
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 2: I got a VEMO request. Yeah, because she's good for it.

723
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 2: You see that person there, she's good for it.

724
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know the little a little Motley crew

725
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 1: before on that birthday, ma, I don't memo clearer.

726
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 2: Wait, do I need to put my card down for

727
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 2: a birthday? If you want the points, you really should. Yeah,

728
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 2: Oh that's if you don't have a memory of old fish,

729
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 2: you should. It's not really about the love.

730
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 3: Six months later, as wild, you are in your house

731
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 3: washing dishes or watering your plants, and then you went

732
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 3: literally raging like reverse and you were like.

733
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 2: You went in your phone and found the thirst sea

734
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 2: and I.

735
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 1: Was like, and I just told myself it was a

736
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 1: thankfully under six people. It was a small enough dinner

737
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 1: that I was like, this is my gift to Michael.

738
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 3: So it was like four hundred dollars four one hundred dollars. No,

739
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 3: we do a lot of pocket watching on this.

740
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 2: You were talking, I know she got you ten ninety

741
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 2: nine for the podcast, and You're.

742
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: Like going through her under the bus and I was like, no,

743
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:10,240
Speaker 1: she's got money.

744
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 3: You said she's good for it, and you pointed to her, Pa,

745
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 3: it's a spiser.

746
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 2: Man, you really I'm tired of it.

747
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 1: This has been for a while I never knew the

748
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 1: price of that coach, so that that was the first

749
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: time you heard it her first. That's an excluse.

750
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 3: Another important question, has there been a birthday where there's

751
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 3: a big ass fallout. I had a birthday. We were

752
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 3: all drinking and having a good time. My sister got

753
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 3: there late. I think it was my twenty first birthday.

754
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 3: My sister got it so just a couple of years ago.

755
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,760
Speaker 3: My sister got there late with her friend from college,

756
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 3: and she saw all the drinks on the table and

757
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 3: she just, I want to catch up to you guys,

758
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 3: just started drinking.

759
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 2: Of course, my.

760
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 3: Sister threw up at the place, I want to say,

761
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 3: she threw up on the table like something messy, and they,

762
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 3: you know, Jesse jefted her out of the venue.

763
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 2: Now everyone that had been drunk and.

764
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 3: Was feeling good is sober, and we put her in

765
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 3: a car to go all the way back to school,

766
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,800
Speaker 3: and her friend paid for it. And then my sister

767
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,279
Speaker 3: had to like venmo her in the morning and she

768
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 3: was like, it was so expensive.

769
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 2: Why would you put me in a cat? We put

770
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 2: her in a yellow cab. We put her Well, you

771
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:25,800
Speaker 2: deserve you got to think about.

772
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 3: What you did, truly, yes, And when you're paying it off,

773
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 3: you don't think about how you just like you don't.

774
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 3: That's not how people drink as adults, but you know,

775
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 3: when you're seventeen eighteen or her old, she was, that's

776
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 3: how you do it.

777
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 2: But did y'all have a falla? We didn't want to

778
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 2: talk to her after that. She saw your sister. No,

779
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 2: she's dead to me.

780
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:49,240
Speaker 1: Legally speaking.

781
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm obigaty to say yes no. But yeah, I

782
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:55,839
Speaker 3: just don't know what to somebody's birthday and like do

783
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 3: more than what they did.

784
00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think I've had any falling outs from birthday.

785
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: I've just had like met when I went to Vegas

786
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 1: for my birthday when.

787
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 3: My bock that's insane Vegas Usher, when Usher was a

788
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 3: couple of so yeah I twenty twenty one. Yeah yeah,

789
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 3: that was twenty twenty two, I think recent. Yeah, yeah,

790
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 3: so that's good. Okay, that is a birthday, that's great. Yeah.

791
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 1: My friend got like so belligerently drunk. I mean it

792
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 1: was Vegas with Usher, you got there's no, not that

793
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 1: night the next night when SO and I just was like,

794
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:31,399
Speaker 1: we don't try to get somewhere. You're a fishing a team.

795
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 2: You are, I can stand you.

796
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 1: It was my birthday and I was desperately trying to

797
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 1: get to the strip club, and they wanted to take

798
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: me all these like heterosexual clubs, and I just wanted

799
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 1: to see some todays. And I was like yelling that

800
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: no one wanted to like adhere to my planet.

801
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,320
Speaker 2: They were saying heterosexual club.

802
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 1: That was something like, no, no, no, I want to

803
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 1: go to the strip club. They want to go to

804
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 1: a regular club, like just like a string dance club. Yeah,

805
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 1: and I got the tips. Don't worry, I've found my way.

806
00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh no.

807
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 2: You look like the type this You're gonna get what

808
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 2: you well.

809
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 1: I'm a feminist in the stripper yeah, oh god, I'm like,

810
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 1: what do you need? Daddy Warbucks on me the way

811
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: Michael's Birthday dinner. Constantly in the strip club. My bount

812
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:10,479
Speaker 1: hate to see me coming.

813
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 2: Oh I love it. This is exciting. Don't go to

814
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:15,760
Speaker 2: the strip club being.

815
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 3: Cheap, no, no, never, at least be throwing somebody else's

816
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:21,879
Speaker 3: money if you can.

817
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,399
Speaker 2: Never right. Yeah, but I.

818
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 3: Remember going to the strip club with uh, with another

819
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 3: comedian and other comedians. But he was like, I'm taking y'all,

820
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 3: and then he gave us all money. And then one

821
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:34,919
Speaker 3: of the comedians was just being like.

822
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 2: One another here another there.

823
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 3: I said, you broke if you don't give these strippers

824
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 3: that money?

825
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 2: Are you grazy? Rent? You're so insane disgusting. I was like,

826
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 2: you should be embarrassed, and then I was I smacked it.

827
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 3: Now it's all on the floor. Now what you're gonna do?

828
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 3: You don't do that in the strip club. That's insane,

829
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 3: you know what I haven't I have an issue with like,

830
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 3: like because I I am older than y'all girls, but

831
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 3: I used to like plan birthdays and then there comes

832
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 3: a point where you're exhausted you don't want to plan.

833
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 2: On more birthdays. That's where I'm at.

834
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,879
Speaker 3: I'm like, I honestly have been like even though we've

835
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 3: been friends for a long time, it's like I had

836
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 3: a whole nother life where it was like every birthday

837
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,240
Speaker 3: was like we're going out, I'm getting stuff for free,

838
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 3: We're going to the club. Y'all don't have to pay

839
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 3: club another. Yes, we've seen the Barbie story. Yeah, and

840
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 3: so now it's like now it's about people have to

841
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 3: have effort, because if you plan everything, you do it,

842
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 3: then people just show up. How do you really know

843
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:37,919
Speaker 3: if they down for you or they just like, well

844
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 3: everything's taken care of.

845
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 2: Were just coming through.

846
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

847
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 4: My friend right now was planning a birthday trip for

848
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 4: her thirdayth birthday, and like her level of organization, I'm like,

849
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 4: oh my god, you should just like for a living

850
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 4: Like She's so like, do you want to go to

851
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 4: yach day? Do we want to do horseback ridding? All

852
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 4: of this stuff?

853
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I don't want to do that. I don't.

854
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 2: I could not plan all of that.

855
00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 4: It's like, no, I would plan a wedding if I

856
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:01,240
Speaker 4: had that stand wanna girl, I thought.

857
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 2: I want wedding planner. I could see it. Maybe it's

858
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 2: a friend tip. Maybe it.

859
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 3: Looks like and like the Rosie blush, Yeah planner and

860
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 3: things are color coated with you.

861
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 2: You have the sticker tabs. Yeah. Yeah, that trucks.

862
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 4: But I do you mean what like the effort to

863
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 4: plan a birthday is really a lot, and we should

864
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 4: get another day for ourselves actually.

865
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 3: So you have your actual birthday and then another day

866
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 3: where it's your shoe.

867
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, just for planning, someone else's birthday, you get like

868
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 4: an extra day.

869
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 3: I just I feel like birthday trips. I mean, I'm

870
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 3: good for birthday trips. We just went to Morocco for

871
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 3: my birthday and it was so cute.

872
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 2: Who I did fall off a camel on my birthday.

873
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 3: We did to Loom for my birthday when like during

874
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 3: the pandemic, when everybody was like.

875
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 2: Don't leave the country, don't leave your house, you left.

876
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 3: We were like, I was like, it was like all

877
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 3: the influencers that I follow are in to Loom.

878
00:39:59,000 --> 00:39:59,879
Speaker 2: Should we go to tou Loom?

879
00:39:59,880 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 3: And everyone in the group that was like yes, And

880
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,720
Speaker 3: then Sidney was like, let's not post and I was like, girl,

881
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 3: they know I'm not home.

882
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:12,240
Speaker 2: It's sunny here and right, but uh, we're gone to Miami.

883
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 2: We were summer for your birthday. Yeah to Brazil.

884
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:16,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, come to Brazil.

885
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. I Mean. The thing is is that when

886
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 2: you go on a trip, it's.

887
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 3: Like like this is how we normally go, and we

888
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 3: just like we're gonna figure it out.

889
00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 2: There's like one or two things we know we want

890
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 2: to do, you know, we just kind of leave it loose. Yeah.

891
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 3: But the last trip we took together, we were with

892
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 3: somebody who like planned it all out, like down to

893
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 3: the hour, and it was like yes, well a libra

894
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 3: libravirgo cusp. And we were like we were tired from

895
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 3: doing the stuff, you know what I mean. And it's

896
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 3: like some people that's just how they plan trips.

897
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I like going on trips to people who

898
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 4: plan downtime, who like schedule and like, okay, we like

899
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 4: at least an afternoon for people like reset and.

900
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 3: Here before we go out here yeah, with messes not

901
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 3: having an app. I so you're saying we've been up

902
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 3: since eight am, and you think I'm go.

903
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 2: Go go, go, go, go, go go go. This is

904
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 2: not Top Model. I'm not doing a challenge.

905
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 3: If I don't close my eyes for at least forty

906
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 3: five minutes, I'll smack all you hose like.

907
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 2: Somebody gonna die tonight. I need like an hour to

908
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 2: be like non purple in my back, Like, oh my god,

909
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 2: you're going through pick let me scroll right?

910
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: Yeah?

911
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 2: Please hold. You have been friends since twenty twelve.

912
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: Yeah we met in college.

913
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 5: Yeah.

914
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 2: Oh y'all got some time on you. Yeah yeah that's

915
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,399
Speaker 2: meters and rugs and you're doing a podcast together. Yeah,

916
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 2: and you'll be hanging out just regular normal sometimes christ Sydney.

917
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 3: Everything you're saying about them is Usay again, we get

918
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 3: friends for about the same amount of time. We have

919
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 3: a podcast together and we hang out. We've done carryo

920
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 3: together before.

921
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 2: We carry before. Yeah, you know, you know, do you

922
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 2: have boundaries? Because everything is on me. We have boundaries.

923
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 1: I don't think we've had to like U start like,

924
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: I think we know each other well enough to know

925
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: when Hunter needs to go non verbal. Even when we're

926
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: hanging out with the group, I'm like, okay, so I'm

927
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: gonna tap in because Hunter goes mm.

928
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:14,919
Speaker 2: Waiting for her food.

929
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay. That's like we have friends that we

930
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,359
Speaker 1: love in the door, but like are like very over

931
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 1: stimulating and like I know Hunters fuses shorter for that sometimes,

932
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 1: so I'll clock in and then I'll clock out and

933
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:28,959
Speaker 1: she'll clock Yeah. With each other, we like know where

934
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: it's like I'm gonna need a loon time or I'm

935
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 1: gonna like I need to just to parallel play.

936
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 2: I love parallel It's like a dog together.

937
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, It's like we're just kind of like sitting at

938
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 4: each other, but we don't have to be interacting.

939
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that, love that friendship. I'm gonna use

940
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:53,839
Speaker 3: that later. I'm gonna be like, so, now, are y'all

941
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 3: the type of people that will hang out and then

942
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 3: when you get home FaceTime to debrief about what happened,

943
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 3: just happened or are you You get home and it's like,

944
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 3: I'll talk to you tomorrow.

945
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 2: We usually after meetings with a lot yeah, like did

946
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 2: you hear this? You be on the zoom liked.

947
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: No, No, Like I like you my because like all

948
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:16,919
Speaker 1: the text me and are literally like hunting a meeting

949
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:18,479
Speaker 1: being totally but.

950
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 4: Also I'm so embarrassed, like people hearing like nails and it's.

951
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 3: About D and D and then my notifications will be

952
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 3: on on my laptop. Yes, yeah, and you're like the

953
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 3: laptop is the op for sure. There was one meeting

954
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 3: where I was in with another friend and the guy

955
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:41,560
Speaker 3: started talking.

956
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 2: And I immediately picked up my phone.

957
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 3: But you, I thought you couldn't see me, but she

958
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 3: texted me she said, girl, we can see you.

959
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 2: Because I was texting like, well, why this is so hot?

960
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,240
Speaker 2: Because you got it. I was in an iPad.

961
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 3: I was an iPad, so the framing was weird, so

962
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 3: I thought I was out of frame and he was

963
00:43:58,360 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 3: like this.

964
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: Having me on a corporate call, except I was in

965
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: a bra I'm like, thankfully had a sweater kind of

966
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 1: draped over my shoulders, and my like coworker friend text

967
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 1: me being like, your tits are out, and I was like,

968
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 1: for sure, I.

969
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 2: Would have been like you said it to.

970
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 6: Me, yeah, And then you wanted to talk about hair.

971
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 2: Hair is mess because we haven't.

972
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 3: We started with hair right bangs, specifically.

973
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 1: I didn't cut my bangs, and my friend, who is

974
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,319
Speaker 1: a drag queen and also just like the countiest person

975
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 1: I've ever met, was like, oh, you could have just

976
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 1: got a wig, and I was.

977
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:58,359
Speaker 2: Like, oh wait, Like no wait, but these bangs are

978
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 2: in because you got the straight to the side.

979
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: They're really greasy right now. That's why we're under we're

980
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 1: incognito mode at the moment. But like, I know, the

981
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 1: haircut was highly praised and should be. It looks phenomenally

982
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 1: accentually my cheekbones. Thay god. But I did think right after, oh,

983
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:17,080
Speaker 1: what about when it's curly, because.

984
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 2: Like, oh, yeah you do, yeah you do. Yeah, it

985
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 2: might feel a little you gotta lose, Like, yeah.

986
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:25,800
Speaker 1: It's gonna look really, it's not gonna hit out my cheekbones.

987
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:27,280
Speaker 1: It's gonna hit like out my eyes.

988
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,399
Speaker 3: To be curls, though they'll still be long, he said

989
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 3: to me. See, she know she knows what the texture

990
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:35,400
Speaker 3: is to be curls. But also she got because you like,

991
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:37,320
Speaker 3: we're gonna make it work, You're you're happened.

992
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I would have thought about that beforehand, but

993
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 4: I think it looks good.

994
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:41,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

995
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:46,959
Speaker 3: I just like to live, so I but taking risk

996
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 3: is important for hair because like.

997
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:51,840
Speaker 2: I have gonna grow bad.

998
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have bangs for about ten twelve years.

999
00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:59,399
Speaker 2: It was insane. I would not let up.

1000
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 3: And then I'm back Marie and she was like, yeah,

1001
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 3: you stay in a bang in the gold eyeshadow.

1002
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,399
Speaker 2: Tell you. She was like you, girl, you can't used.

1003
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 3: To stay with a thick, a nice, a nice like

1004
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 3: Brazilian bang. But and I was like, girl what She

1005
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 3: was like, I hate my forehead it's so big. And

1006
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 3: I was like, you hate it because you don't see

1007
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 3: it right if you first see it. If you're always

1008
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 3: with a bang, you're used to your face being this big.

1009
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 3: But if you just let it, if you put breathe

1010
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 3: a little bit, you'll get used to your forehead and

1011
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 3: you did and then you didn't.

1012
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:37,839
Speaker 2: I said, is trying to set me up? I love

1013
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 2: a bang?

1014
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:40,799
Speaker 3: And oh you know when she said that I love

1015
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 3: a bang, you touched my bangs immediate?

1016
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 2: Is there a problem?

1017
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:51,640
Speaker 3: And then like because the thing about bangs is it's

1018
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,399
Speaker 3: a whole lifestyle. It's like you got you got tom

1019
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 3: closed that matched the bangs, that match the mood. Like

1020
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 3: you're not just popping on anything, like you're wearing a

1021
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 3: bang and a hot ink like lipstick.

1022
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 2: Unless it's a cost, you know.

1023
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 3: So I feel like if you do bangs, it's either

1024
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 3: oh you're going through something more it's.

1025
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 2: A full like suspassion.

1026
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:22,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, bisexuality both both are you're going through something when

1027
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: I'm bored, when you're bored by all right, that might

1028
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:31,839
Speaker 1: I like, that's rising bisexuality, Sun lesbian, moon asexual moon

1029
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,400
Speaker 1: lesbian most of the time. Yeah, okay, rising is bisexual,

1030
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 1: Rising bisexual, I give bisexual, And I know that about myself.

1031
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 1: I know I thought she was I thought she was la.

1032
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: Really yeah, that lower case I would say, more than

1033
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 1: upper case you, I would. Wow, that's so different than

1034
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 1: how most people I think perceive me.

1035
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 2: It's clear, I don't know, you don't know. It's like

1036
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 2: the vast button down black right now is very specific.

1037
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 2: Looks like you being bushwick. That don't have nothing to

1038
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 2: do with sexuality. It's just you know, wait, so you

1039
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 2: pulled a gun on me? No, no, no, before her

1040
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 2: did say you were on the J train.

1041
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 1: Okay you might as well, lomer, but she said you

1042
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 1: er you get off that murder white off, don't you.

1043
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 1: That was what you just said to me from the

1044
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: uber though, from the uber thank you.

1045
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 2: I'm not touching any of that. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

1046
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 1: Well lesbian on Locassian crying and helping your.

1047
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 2: Holds on now.

1048
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 3: Actually I wish that I was able to be so

1049
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 3: like outward like you are, like about like.

1050
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 2: No, not your sexuality.

1051
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like you you make it fun and like

1052
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 3: interesting and like oh yeah, like I feel like you

1053
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 3: can recruit the girls.

1054
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 1: That's what I'm here for.

1055
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, when I talk about my lesbian ship, my friends

1056
00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 3: be like, oh they got them straight man.

1057
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 2: A lot. She's just showing up. She's just popping up.

1058
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 2: Yeah at your job. Yeah, but you like just being

1059
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 2: a crop top and just be like girls girls girls,

1060
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 2: And I mean like in a shawl like, yes, you

1061
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 2: know those women. Yeah, she's cold is.

1062
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 1: A representation matters?

1063
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 4: Right?

1064
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:29,840
Speaker 2: Beautiful and hunter you're straight? Yes? Yes? What kind of

1065
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:33,279
Speaker 2: people do you date? Not for now girls, girl? What

1066
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 2: kind of people do you usually date? Men?

1067
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1068
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 3: But like what come like great homophonbi God, that was church.

1069
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 2: Men of man, the pizza at children's church. Believe that

1070
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 2: now that was good? That was good? Men seven like

1071
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 2: like creative people? Are are you dating? Finance bros? Is

1072
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 2: he six y five? Blue eyes? You got a boyfriend? Yeah?

1073
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 2: You cuped up? No? No, damn Sydney. Why are you?

1074
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 3: I thought I know, I thought I had the research

1075
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 3: on the people I clearly yeah many weeks.

1076
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 2: I'm so behind. I'm sorry.

1077
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, here you can go opportunity though, just not Bushwick.

1078
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah Bushwick sixty. To me, I need someone who

1079
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 4: loves a bonnet.

1080
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 2: Oh so.

1081
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 4: You need someone who was like like you know those

1082
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 4: girls who on tiktalk who are like, oh like bonnet,

1083
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 4: Like I would never wear a bonnet to like the airport,

1084
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 4: But I want someone who like loves that for me,

1085
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:42,320
Speaker 4: who like maybe sees it in my future.

1086
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1087
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 3: So when if you walked out with a bonnet. They

1088
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 3: would be like, oh my god, I can't believe you

1089
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 3: doing it. Yeah, yeah, someone who loves a bonnet.

1090
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 2: That sounds like a white man, a white man loves.

1091
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:55,279
Speaker 2: Oh you're doing something different, jum on queen.

1092
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:03,959
Speaker 3: Oh my god, are.

1093
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 2: You like, are you going to go see your family later?

1094
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 3: Like you look like a sexy pill girl.

1095
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 2: I take it back.

1096
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 3: I no, no, big big bonnet.

1097
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 2: Who paid me to say that this episode?

1098
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 1: You know you're coming in that one from now?

1099
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 2: Would you ever do bangs? No?

1100
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:30,960
Speaker 4: I don't, like I have a big forehead, but so

1101
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,840
Speaker 4: maybe maybe in my future a little bit. But this

1102
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:35,840
Speaker 4: is the thing I really hate when white women have

1103
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 4: curly bangs.

1104
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 3: No. I love a curly bank like there's or like

1105
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:43,600
Speaker 3: a curly bank like a big I love like like

1106
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 3: like curls like in the front, like a shaggy bang.

1107
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate it. I don't.

1108
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 4: I don't like like like an ungroomed dog girl.

1109
00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:58,800
Speaker 2: Now the whole club what you're talking about?

1110
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, what does she do to you? Did

1111
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 1: she say to your productosha? Like the lesbian white lesbian haircut?

1112
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 2: They I don't like a curly bang either, though, I

1113
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 2: love a curly bang. It just it feels very.

1114
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 4: Like like fake seventies, like period movie, like set in

1115
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 4: nineteen seventy two, but it's like, fully, we know those

1116
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 4: twenty fourteen That's what it's giving to me.

1117
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 2: It sounds like a James Frankl project. You know what,

1118
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna pull it. I'm gonna pop out with a

1119
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 2: curly bang and not dare you bitches?

1120
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 3: They got a clip on a clip on curly bang.

1121
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 3: You know you're not fucking with that?

1122
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:44,360
Speaker 1: No holding it?

1123
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 2: Holding it?

1124
00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 3: Wait?

1125
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 2: Great, say that, because that would be going in the

1126
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:52,359
Speaker 2: I found your bank? Can you put this under your.

1127
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 3: I love that, you know what? You know what I

1128
00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 3: do hate that has nothing to do with bangs. It's

1129
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 3: just like people policing people's hair because it's just so

1130
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 3: hard to figure it out the whole. There's so much

1131
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 3: trial and error, and like you walk out, you think

1132
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 3: you're confident, You're like, I'm killing it, and then somebody

1133
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 3: will just be staring at the side of your head

1134
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 3: and it's like.

1135
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:18,479
Speaker 2: What what is it? Yeah? What is it? Yeah? Yeah,

1136
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 2: it's cut wrong. Yes, what do you want me to do? Oh?

1137
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,800
Speaker 2: Wear a hat? Can't wear we're at a ball. I

1138
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:25,879
Speaker 2: can't wear a hat and the ball a ball, girl?

1139
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 2: Where are you going?

1140
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 3: We hit the ball and the ball the ball.

1141
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 2: We're the bald girl. The galla is a gallon wall.

1142
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 2: What are you talking about? And maybe it is a ball. Yeah,

1143
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 2: it's the med.

1144
00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 1: Gall between the gala and a ball.

1145
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 2: I mean, wait, hunter, do you ever wear your hair straight? Not? Really?

1146
00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:52,719
Speaker 2: I hate my own hair. It's not the real mouth.

1147
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 4: You need the cream, you need the oil, but you

1148
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 4: can't hit the leven. We all seed the spray and

1149
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 4: then god forbid, you need the spec a brush.

1150
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 3: But the way it looks when you leave the salon

1151
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:04,319
Speaker 3: and you're feeling good about yourself, it's not the way

1152
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:06,720
Speaker 3: it's gonna look when you wake up. No, no, no,

1153
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 3: And then like if I got to get up and

1154
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:10,799
Speaker 3: do it every day.

1155
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 2: My arm hurts when I'm drinking my own hair. Good,

1156
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:15,760
Speaker 2: I'm painful a punzel.

1157
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:20,320
Speaker 1: Oh inches, yeah, so much. So.

1158
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 2: Many of the trees are very long. Wait, should we

1159
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 2: do some like mess versus living? You have some mess living?

1160
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

1161
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:34,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, your friend is unhoused, but you're like, no, you

1162
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 3: can't stay with me?

1163
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 2: Is that mess? Or living? Like forever?

1164
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1165
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:43,319
Speaker 3: Well, I mean That's the thing is like you never

1166
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 3: know when they don't You don't know, you never know

1167
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,879
Speaker 3: when they ask you and you're like, actually, I don't

1168
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 3: want this.

1169
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 2: Is that? Is that mess? Or living? But I would say.

1170
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 4: Yes, and then you're just yet available, book on an airbnb,

1171
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:59,160
Speaker 4: anyone to stay with you, anybody the.

1172
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:02,720
Speaker 1: Guns I know, I know hundreds of different talks pockets.

1173
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:04,360
Speaker 1: So she doesn't know about like kind of letting people

1174
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 1: into your home.

1175
00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 2: I'm just kind of giving back to the strife.

1176
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:13,560
Speaker 3: Look like she had blood work.

1177
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:16,320
Speaker 1: Your own doing.

1178
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 2: She chose that curse. She let me get a glass

1179
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 2: of water.

1180
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 3: I'm going to say a living I would with me.

1181
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 3: Yeah before I said if say, for instance, me in

1182
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 3: the front app and I said no, is that mess?

1183
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 2: And I'm like no, or is it living? Because I'm

1184
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:34,719
Speaker 2: putting up this this boundary that I don't want you

1185
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 2: to just say, oh god.

1186
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:38,000
Speaker 1: I just a little bit of mess. I think having

1187
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 1: a hard time of like a hard time out of

1188
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 1: like you have one week or you have like two weeks,

1189
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 1: not like I think you need to set a boundary there,

1190
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:48,719
Speaker 1: but let them into your home, let them you got

1191
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:49,280
Speaker 1: a week.

1192
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:51,520
Speaker 2: And then you had to figure out something else.

1193
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:53,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, the boundary is the time women, not the entering

1194
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 1: into the home.

1195
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, what's the podcast you love?

1196
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 1: We can do her things.

1197
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:02,040
Speaker 2: Yes, we can do hard things and the Glenna Doyle

1198
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 2: can do hard things.

1199
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 3: We can do hard things. Is that what you learned

1200
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:08,879
Speaker 3: from We can do hard things? And I'm like, oh,

1201
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 3: we can't do things. I like doing hard things. They're hard.

1202
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 2: That's mess. You gotta do some hard things, like what

1203
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:19,800
Speaker 2: life is hard? I want my life to be easy,

1204
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:27,399
Speaker 2: but it has to be hard. And yes, a long cigarette.

1205
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,239
Speaker 1: It's like actually one of those little clip things like

1206
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 1: Krilla Deville.

1207
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 2: Corilla Deville, mess or just living, just living. She really

1208
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:40,040
Speaker 2: is just living, like what she can't be fabulous. Well,

1209
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 2: you can't get you can't kill dogs. She didn't kill

1210
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 2: the dog. She wanted.

1211
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 4: And wanted to redistribute their first.

1212
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to shut out, he said. She wanted

1213
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:05,400
Speaker 2: tostribute the redistribed. It is the day of the is

1214
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:06,920
Speaker 2: the word of the day.

1215
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 1: Make sure you use it.

1216
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 2: In a sentence this week.

1217
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 3: I'm definitely right now now, right now. Friend doesn't like fiance.

1218
00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 3: Friend doesn't like fiance. Fiance. They're about to get married.

1219
00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 3: They're like this friend can't come to the wedding, mess

1220
00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 3: or just living that's mess.

1221
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think mess too.

1222
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 3: That's loss of a friend, close friend, very close. So

1223
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 3: why she don't like the fiance? I need information?

1224
00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 2: Some people just don't get along. Well, if you don't

1225
00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 2: get along, then you don't have to be here. But

1226
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 2: did he do something? You know?

1227
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 3: I can't say all the Oh, I can't say everything,

1228
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 3: but I'm just saying this is not.

1229
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 2: Custom.

1230
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,840
Speaker 3: I also want to say that it is. You don't

1231
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 3: have to like somebody's fiance or whatever. But then it's like,

1232
00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:53,840
Speaker 3: why do you want to go to the wedding because

1233
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 3: it's like, bitch, I've.

1234
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:56,919
Speaker 2: Been through all these she my friend ran through.

1235
00:57:56,960 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 3: I should at least see her at the final Yes,

1236
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 3: the final.

1237
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 4: Bro.

1238
00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, well there's all those like uh like videos on

1239
00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 3: line or whatever, and it'll be like me dancing at

1240
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 3: my friend's wedding after I told her to dump him

1241
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:12,280
Speaker 3: seventeen times.

1242
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,680
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, I'm gonna be at the wedding. I'll

1243
00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 2: be there.

1244
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:16,680
Speaker 1: No, I want to party, Yeah, of course, of course

1245
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:18,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be there. I think that's I though. I

1246
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:21,600
Speaker 1: am a big believer and like my partner has to

1247
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:24,000
Speaker 1: get along with my people. I think it's like a

1248
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 1: bad sign if depending on how you're close to your

1249
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 1: relationships are, which like for me, I feel really close

1250
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 1: to my friends. If there's haters that are like this

1251
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: isn't right, like I trust them, I don't trust myself.

1252
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 1: I trust them sometimes like hell though I've made some

1253
00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: dumb decisions.

1254
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 2: But I feel like if that is like there's already.

1255
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 1: A bunch of conflict there, that's not a good sign

1256
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 1: to begin with, Like is this even the person you

1257
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 1: need to be marrying?

1258
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:47,120
Speaker 2: Wait?

1259
00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:52,280
Speaker 4: When's the friend not liking the fiance or the fiance

1260
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:53,240
Speaker 4: not liking the friend?

1261
00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 3: The friend the friend doesn't like the fiance. Friend don't

1262
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:59,480
Speaker 3: fuck with fiance. Yeah, I'm not I don't really want

1263
00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 3: to be around this guy. But wedding is in Sue

1264
00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:06,360
Speaker 3: and it's like, Okay, how come I didn't get that invite? Well,

1265
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 3: you don't like you don't like my man. She's like,

1266
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:09,600
Speaker 3: but I'm I'm there for.

1267
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 2: You, yeah, yester.

1268
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:13,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, But he was like, don't she don't like me?

1269
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 3: And the friend is like, hey, are you going to

1270
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 3: fight for me or not? Fiance said, I'm not paying

1271
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 3: for that plate.

1272
00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:23,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, and no, you have the friend has to be

1273
00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:24,440
Speaker 2: right to the wedding.

1274
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, because listen, she's been with a friend more than

1275
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:27,320
Speaker 4: she's been with a man.

1276
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 1: That's a real relationship.

1277
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 2: Okay, I think we did the work today.

1278
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 3: Is there anything else that you would like to list

1279
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 3: for the people as being messy? We can lightning round

1280
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 3: it and then we'll let you go. Like I feel

1281
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 3: like we're in midtown. Midtown is mess always.

1282
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:49,160
Speaker 2: Office buildings are mess wait, especially now, office.

1283
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 4: Buildings are mess every every elevator bay is different, every

1284
00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 4: front desk is different. I joy to take my idea out.

1285
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 4: Do you need to pass all that stuff? I'm like,

1286
00:59:57,400 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 4: it makes me nervous.

1287
00:59:58,440 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 2: Office buildings are mess.

1288
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 1: One hallway in this building is a mess.

1289
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 3: No, No, that is the different music every time I

1290
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 3: walked by.

1291
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 2: Oh my, you know I took a photo of it. Yeah.

1292
01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:13,920
Speaker 1: I loved the way it was different than the sonic

1293
01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 1: Like I thought I was under attack. It was crazy.

1294
01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 2: I didn't I know I was under attacked.

1295
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:22,919
Speaker 4: They're playing Miley Cyrus that you take is a different station, right,

1296
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 4: So I stopped moving physically and it was like, I

1297
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 4: don't need to be woken up like this.

1298
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 2: It really shook me. You didn't hear any songs that

1299
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:30,040
Speaker 2: you like, is what I'm hearing.

1300
01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 1: Well, I was playing my own we Can Do Hard

1301
01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:35,840
Speaker 1: Things podcast, and you can imagine the peace and serenity.

1302
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:37,640
Speaker 1: I was experiencing the two white women in.

1303
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 2: My ear, and I was like, I did.

1304
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 1: So dense. I don't know, I like to be a

1305
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:47,120
Speaker 1: simulated I'm.

1306
01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 2: Gonna say, Amtrak is mess.

1307
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 4: Oh business, I think it's just mess side No, truly,

1308
01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 4: we were coming from d C.

1309
01:00:57,440 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 2: First of all, that's already mess. You set yourself up

1310
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 2: for the mess.

1311
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:05,160
Speaker 4: Hot we had we could expense that, so we did

1312
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 4: business class or just somehow the very last train on

1313
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:09,960
Speaker 4: the car back of the bus, her last car on

1314
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 4: the train, and we were like, it was like the

1315
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:14,840
Speaker 4: Wendy Williams thing, like the wind Wioms gift of her,

1316
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:15,600
Speaker 4: like jumping up and down.

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Speaker 2: It was crazy. It was so so bumpy.

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Speaker 1: I was so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the trucks, it was. It was unreal.

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Speaker 3: Now would you rather be on a plane in a

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Speaker 3: drop like which one track? After everything that's been going on?

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Speaker 3: I was, I just took the train and I said,

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Speaker 3: showy is nice. I know, I'm I know, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: be okay, let me see the ground the quiet car quite.

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Speaker 2: Respect respect.

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Speaker 4: I think my new thing is I won't take a

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Speaker 4: plane unless Denzel is like the captain.

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Speaker 2: But he was drunk. He wasn't alcoholic. He landed the plane,

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Speaker 2: but they didn't. Somebody die. Well, I don't know if

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Speaker 2: somebody died or not, but.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I think that one.

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Speaker 2: But it wasn't his fault. Yeah, the one was. It

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Speaker 2: was literally literally his football. But it was a plane malfunction.

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Speaker 2: He know, the only thing.

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Speaker 4: They tested like twenty pilots and no one could land

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Speaker 4: the plane except for him.

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Speaker 2: Every simulation crashed. Yes, I do love flight, it's serious.

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Speaker 2: I didn't even know about the simulation. So he was

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Speaker 2: an alcoholic who was flying a plane.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you can be both.

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Speaker 3: Okay that for Southwest.

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Speaker 2: I want to on thongs or mess. I'm done with

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Speaker 2: I know, and I'm tired.

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Speaker 3: It's just in there and it's just going back and

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Speaker 3: forth and it's just it's just there.

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Speaker 2: And now are you wearing the wrong side or the

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Speaker 2: wrong I will say the poem is is out there,

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Speaker 2: so you know, I might mean need another size, it's probably,

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Speaker 2: but what you're.

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Speaker 3: Looking at, miss Brawls.

1351
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Speaker 2: That thank you so much. This is amazing.

1352
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Speaker 3: Please let everybody know where they can find your asses.

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Speaker 2: Please.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can follow me on Instagram at Paton Dix

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Speaker 1: and follow Hunter at Hunter h And.

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Speaker 4: The podcast is let me say this, what is it called?

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Speaker 4: All streaming service podcast?

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Speaker 2: Wherever you get your podcasts? I don't know if we

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Speaker 2: have a thank you.

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Speaker 3: Mess with Sydney Washington and Marie Foston is a production

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Speaker 3: by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players and iHeartRadio podcast created

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01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:39,160
Speaker 3: and hosted by Sydney Washington and Marie Foston. Executive produced

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01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:43,480
Speaker 3: by Olivia Aguilar and Hans Sonny, super produced by Becca Ramos,

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Speaker 3: Edited and mixed by Brian Jeffries.

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