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Speaker 1: Second date, up date text to seven, eight, five, nine

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Speaker 2: And this is for the guys out there, what is

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Speaker 2: the craziest thing you ever did for a girl spontaneously

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Speaker 2: on a first date. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,

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Speaker 2: and I'll ask Jose hose craziest spontaneous thing that you've

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Speaker 3: There was one time, you know, when you're leaving like

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Speaker 4: I remember one time I bought all the roses.

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Speaker 3: He's like four left, like I'll take the rest of them,

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Speaker 3: and I gave him.

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Speaker 2: You're dangerous, jo, look out street flower vendors.

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Speaker 1: You're about to run out of infanory.

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Speaker 5: Roses.

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Speaker 2: I bring it up though, because one of our listeners

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Speaker 2: says he went full spontaneous on a first date and

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Speaker 2: now he's kind of regretting it because he's not getting

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Speaker 2: a callback so allergic to flowers.

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Speaker 4: Maybe he's like the one thing.

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Speaker 1: Let's welcome Patrick to the show. How you doing, man?

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Speaker 6: Hey, guys, thanks for having me on. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Is it normal for you to get spontaneous on a

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Speaker 2: of thing, not even remotely.

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Speaker 1: Dude, I've got to like you.

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Speaker 7: I feel like I overplanned, though I don't like that

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Speaker 7: this didn't turn out the way you wanted to because

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Speaker 7: boost to do it more often.

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Speaker 2: So what was it that caused this feeling inside of

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Speaker 2: you that night that said I need to do something

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Speaker 6: So I basically I met this girl named Maggie and

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Speaker 6: we're on our date and the topic of being spontaneous

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Speaker 6: spontaneous is a really good thing. Not gonna lie, I

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Speaker 6: I thought when we were first talking, you had said

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Speaker 6: like you're not the type of person who does spontaneous thing.

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Speaker 5: She called you out on you agree and call out.

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Speaker 6: Oh. I had to double down. I was like, what

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Speaker 6: are you talking about? Was spontaneous? And I took one

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Speaker 2: Going to give it to her, Jose, did you not

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Speaker 2: eat any of the roses that you bought.

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Speaker 4: I didn't.

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Speaker 1: Okay, is she laughing or just.

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Speaker 6: Drooling?

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Speaker 1: Because she's so turned on?

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Speaker 7: She's also hungry, and there's only one I was gonna.

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Speaker 4: Eat that flower.

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Speaker 6: She did laugh and she thought it was funny, but

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Speaker 6: she was like, are you sure you're not just weird?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I can't tell if it's a joke at this

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Speaker 4: It could be, it should be.

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Speaker 5: It is kind of borderline between spontaneous. It's just really strange.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and now, even though clear I'm not spontaneous, now

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Speaker 6: I feel like I have to prove my point. So

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Speaker 6: the waiters walking by and I called him over. I

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Speaker 6: I tipped him mid meal.

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Speaker 5: What WHOA? What did you say to him?

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Speaker 1: The way to be spontaneous?

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Speaker 6: I said, you're doing such a great job. I just

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Speaker 6: that we really like you. I can't even remember when.

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Speaker 1: You tipped early, because you're spontaneous.

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Speaker 6: And a lot.

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Speaker 1: Was she impressed with it?

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Speaker 6: I don't know if she was impressed or.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, probably because it was happening inside of a

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Speaker 1: So she was like, that's a little unusual to do that.

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Speaker 4: Here you're doing a.

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Speaker 5: Flowers on the table jack jack in the bye.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so was that? Did the spontaneous proving stop there?

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Speaker 6: No one?

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Speaker 1: Huh, okay, okay, there's more.

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Speaker 6: So we leave after dinner and we're walking and talking

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but have you thought at any point of this

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Speaker 1: But that's just not it's not how men think.

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Speaker 2: Men don't accept like, hey, you're not that cute, you're

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Speaker 1: You're like, what do you mean?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a reverse psychology, is what we're working with.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys have to prove themselves.

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Speaker 1: So what did you do?

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Speaker 6: Well? We were walking by a tattoo shop and I said,

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Speaker 1: You robbed the tattoo store. Oh wow, I got him.

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Speaker 6: Robbing a tattoo store probably would have been smarter.

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Speaker 6: Half an hour later and I've gotten a small what

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Speaker 1: Why did you go with that?

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Speaker 7: Did you say you just left your date for a

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Speaker 7: half an hour. You didn't even bring her in the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I should let.

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Speaker 1: Her pick it out.

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Speaker 6: I wanted to surprise her because she has the same

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Speaker 1: You hold on. What's her reaction?

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Speaker 6: At first? I thought it would be great. She was

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Speaker 6: I can't believe you did that. Then she kind of

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, yeah, mission accomplished. You proved it.

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Speaker 7: There, So she waited for a half an hour, was

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's questionable she waited.

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Speaker 4: She should.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if I'm in that situation and I'm the girl,

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Speaker 2: I would want to know how it ends.

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Speaker 5: You're saying, do it for the plot?

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Speaker 1: Say for the plot? I'm curious, what's he coming back with?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I hope that's the end of your spontaneity.

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Speaker 1: Or is there more?

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Speaker 4: He's like, then I cut off my hands.

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Speaker 6: Okay, No, I walked her home and that was it.

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Speaker 6: But like, literally that was it. I haven't heard from

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Speaker 7: I mean, obviously, you really, really wanted to impress her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I don't.

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Speaker 5: Know if you did, but like this girl must mean

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Speaker 6: I mean, yes, I do like her, but I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I feel like she was calling me out, and I

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Speaker 5: She wasn't trying to bully you.

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Speaker 7: She was trying to tell you to just like jose said,

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Speaker 7: pick a random bar you should go to last minute.

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Speaker 1: I think what we're saying is we're all impressed.

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Speaker 2: We're all very impressed by how far you went in

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Speaker 2: order to make this woman.

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Speaker 5: Like you for a girl you kind of.

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, And so now we're gonna do even more

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Speaker 2: spontaneity when we spontaneously call her and ask her why

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Speaker 2: she's not giving you another chance.

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Speaker 5: Well, it's very planned to do it.

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Speaker 2: Well, she's not going to expect it. She's gonna be like, wow,

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Speaker 2: spontaneous phone call. Second date update.

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Speaker 1: I want to date.

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Speaker 5: We're using the word wrong.

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Speaker 7: We are to get matching Infinity tattoos by the end

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Speaker 7: of this, and.

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Speaker 6: We will do it.

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Speaker 2: We will get the tattoo gun out for your second

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Speaker 2: date update right after this.

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Speaker 8: Hold on second date update some people get spontaneous on

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Speaker 8: a date by skinny dipping, or hopping a train together,

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Speaker 8: or hopping a train after skinny dipping.

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Speaker 1: Is this the nude car? There's no plastic on the

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Speaker 7: I like it, But why does it take so long

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Speaker 1: Like what they see you?

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Speaker 2: But not for our listener, Patrick. He proved that he

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Speaker 2: was spontaneous by eating a flour off their dinner table,

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Speaker 2: tipping one hundred dollars before the bill came, and then

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Speaker 2: getting a shoulder tattoo all mid date house.

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Speaker 5: Well is it? Can we ask?

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Speaker 2: Is asking how small are you?

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Speaker 6: How small is it's maybe like an inch and a half?

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Speaker 2: But the whole reason that he did it is because

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Speaker 2: Maggie kept doubting his spontaneous nature, so he had to

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Speaker 2: step up and prove himself to her. Patrick, You're not

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Speaker 7: Just a tattoo gun in the background, I'm getting your name.

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Speaker 6: Trust me, I'm so over trying to be spontaneously. I

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Speaker 6: just want to be myself. There it is I'm boring,

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Speaker 6: and that's okay.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: If you want to boring, you're not.

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Speaker 1: Just don't say that because I was going to prove

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Speaker 1: how boring he is. Don't say that. Just accept you

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Speaker 1: are who you are and we love it.

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Speaker 7: I prefer a guy who doesn't eat flowers anyways.

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Speaker 1: I don't think.

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Speaker 2: Let's see what Maggie has to say. It may have

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Speaker 7: Wait to hear her side of the state and her

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Speaker 4: To do with the spontane there's no way it's not.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's find out. I'm gonna call her right now.

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Speaker 1: We'll see what she has to say. If she answers,

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Speaker 1: let's do it.

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Speaker 9: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey, is this Maggie.

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Speaker 9: Guess who is speeching?

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Speaker 1: My name is jeff from a radio show called Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: Him, Maggie, the whole show's here.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, Maggie.

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Speaker 9: Hi guys, what is this about?

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is about your love life?

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Speaker 2: Actually okay, okay, you're not your life.

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Speaker 1: You're dating life.

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Speaker 2: Because rumor has it you recently went out with a

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Speaker 2: guy named Patrick and had a really fun.

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Speaker 9: Time Oh, okay, if you say that, does he say so?

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Speaker 1: I do say so.

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Speaker 5: I can't wait to hear how you described this date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because we're doing a segment called second Date Update.

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Speaker 2: We're trying to help Patrick out and figure out if

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Speaker 2: there was something weird about the date, if there was

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Speaker 2: something that you didn't like, because he's a little bit

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Speaker 2: confused why you haven't met up again?

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Speaker 9: He's confused why we haven't met up again?

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, he did tell us a little bit w Yeah,

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Speaker 2: there was some highlights that were brought up.

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Speaker 7: Confused, Yeah, some spontaneous moments that happened.

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Speaker 5: Start with a flower at the table?

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Speaker 9: It was like a fun flirting manter and then he

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Speaker 2: Oh is it because is it because he didn't put

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Speaker 3: No, but you're saying your nervous laughter kind of opened

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Speaker 5: It's like my seven year old.

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Speaker 9: I was uncomfortable, okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but it was pretty impressive when he tipped one

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Speaker 9: It was strange because it's like, that's not how you

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Speaker 7: All right, okay, fair, we can say that, but you're

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Speaker 7: I mean, there had to be something good happening, right well,

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Speaker 9: How do you even like, how would you leave that situation?

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Speaker 5: You walk out the door? Would you no?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, call my friend to come get me.

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Speaker 2: But let's talk about the tattoo that he got at

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Speaker 4: Can we skip to that.

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Speaker 2: We're all note we do you want to know, on

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Speaker 1: When you happened?

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Speaker 9: Literally because of infinity? That was just like actually insane.

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Speaker 1: You didn't like that.

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Speaker 2: It's funny you said that because we heard it was

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's like matching soulmates.

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Speaker 7: Really yeah, No, you're waiting outside of tattoo parlor for thirty.

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Speaker 9: I honestly I had no idea what was happening.

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Speaker 1: You were dead.

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Speaker 9: When he came out side with the tattoo that I had,

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Speaker 5: Because there was a matching tattoo that you had with

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Speaker 5: your ex. Is that what you just said? Yes, dude,

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Speaker 2: Well now you don't have to get it removed because

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Speaker 4: No sooner?

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Speaker 1: Oh god.

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Speaker 7: Isn't it crazy to sake that two men in your

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Speaker 9: They're not both in my life?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's like your exit mark, everything you're

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Speaker 1: Well, they're not.

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Speaker 2: They're not totally out of your life yet either. Because

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Speaker 2: here's something that's kind of spontaneous and fun. Patrick has

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Speaker 7: Yeah, God, as if that tattoo story could I thought

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Patrick, how do you feel about your tattoo?

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Speaker 6: Now? Not not so great? Uh, I'm not sure what

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Speaker 9: God, Still he keep going with that whole thing. It's

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Speaker 9: like it's not a joke anymore. It's kind of just

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Speaker 7: Okay, try and be boring now, that's what you said

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Speaker 7: to be yourself and show her.

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Speaker 5: Who you really are.

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Speaker 6: No, absolutely, I was. I was. That was a really

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Speaker 4: Okay, he's a jokester.

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Speaker 1: Know that she doesn't like jokes.

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Speaker 5: I think he's uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: I feel best, Maggie.

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Speaker 6: I gotta ask, like, was your exploring what he was?

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Speaker 9: I don't even have to tell you. You like didn't

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Speaker 4: Know what went on and sat down and just witnessed

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Speaker 7: When we talked to him before we were on the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he should have admitted. Maybe he's not misrespontaneity.

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Speaker 6: I'm not, I swear.

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Speaker 9: I mean, I think he's a really nice guy. I

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Speaker 9: And I don't know. I think there are a lot

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Speaker 9: and I don't have time to give other people chances.

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Speaker 1: So you're selfish, Oh my god, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 5: No, she has boundaries. Boundaries, there is what those are.

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Speaker 1: Called, Brook.

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Speaker 2: The point is we're trying to help our listener Patrick

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Speaker 2: made a lot of effort to try and impress. He

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Speaker 2: did do that, Maggie. We're all in agreement, and even

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Speaker 1: We want to reel it back, so much.

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Speaker 2: So, what do you think about getting your tattoos removed together?

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Speaker 1: And we will pay for that.

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Speaker 5: Make it something else.

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Speaker 2: Let's erase all of the past and start a happy,

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Speaker 6: With Patrick for both of those too.

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Speaker 5: Patrick, don't come off his cheap right now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, Brooke Herety spent his one hundred dollars bill

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Speaker 1: Maggie, what do you think?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 9: Okay, wow, all the effort, but it's going to be

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Speaker 1: I kind of know why her ex boyfriend left her

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Speaker 2: He tried Patrick to you, and you want to you

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Speaker 2: want to get a beer with me sometime, dude?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I can't.

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Speaker 7: I can't wait to see Jeffrey's infinity when it comes

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Speaker 7: to work up.

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Speaker 2: Work next week, we're gonna get the tattoos that you

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Speaker 1: Ok Patrick, that.

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Speaker 6: Might be a little weird, a little like too much

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Speaker 2: Weird one now, jeff I've not looking Jeffrey in the

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Speaker 2: morning man.

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Speaker 1: I am so disappointed real honestly.

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Speaker 5: Really, you really thought that was going to turn out differently.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like men are constantly trying to put

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Speaker 2: They want to stand out, and they get roasted for

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Speaker 5: Here's the thing. All she wanted him to do was

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Speaker 2: She didn't say that, did not tell she said that,

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Speaker 5: She said it during the date. She said, you're trying

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Speaker 7: Just be you, honestly gave him a do not listen

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Speaker 1: Really, I blame myself for this.

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Speaker 5: It's all about you.

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Speaker 2: I am not being wild and spontaneous enough in these

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Speaker 5: I see, that's my job.

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Speaker 2: Although I did ask the guy to grab a beer

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Speaker 2: so maybe I am growing.

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Speaker 5: You got turned down though.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a rough day for everybody, so I don't know.

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Speaker 2: We're still willing to help you out, but let's give

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Speaker 7: Yeah, ladies, sure, Yeah, half the room.

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Speaker 2: We will call the person. We'll put in the effort

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Speaker 2: by calling that person who's not calling you back. So

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Speaker 2: email the show if you feel like you need a

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Speaker 2: little bit of help, and go check out all of

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Speaker 2: our second dates where

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Speaker 1: You get your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey