Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and
Speaker 1: I'm Mela and it's Wednesday. Are you laughing?
Speaker 2: I'm high.
Speaker 1: Guys.
Speaker 2: We started early and bitches, well, what hi?
Speaker 1: I thought you said you were gonna stop smoky.
Speaker 3: But then you pass the blunt. You put the honey
Speaker 3: on the blunt. It was like she put the back
Speaker 3: with the honey. And then I had to say yes,
Speaker 3: because you don't have a sugar addiction.
Speaker 1: Say yes to Mela. That's an advertisement for saying yes
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 2: And you know I'm battling. I go.
Speaker 3: I battle sometimes between what I want to do impulsively
Speaker 3: and like what I should do for my greater good,
Speaker 3: And sometimes I feel like they fight each other. But
Speaker 3: then sometimes I feel like they're combined and it's hard
Speaker 3: to distinguish which one I should follow with. And so
Speaker 3: smoking sometimes I feel like is that when podcasting, Sometimes
Speaker 3: I'm like, should I smoke? Also like I need to
Speaker 3: clear my brain? But then I'm like, but I'm so
Speaker 3: I like smoking and I enjoy smoking, but then I'm like.
Speaker 2: Eating a lot. So I go back and forth. But
Speaker 2: today I succumbed.
Speaker 1: She told me last week. She told me last week
Speaker 1: or the other day I think I think I'm gonna
Speaker 1: quit smoking. I was like, okay, because you're totally cannabis advocate,
Speaker 1: gonna totally work for our speaking engagements. But same, I've
Speaker 1: been trying to go into Juice de talks for like
Speaker 1: the last seven years.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I eventually like, I can't wait to go to Mexico
Speaker 3: and I'm like, did where did she bought juices? One
Speaker 3: day I never heard of the Juice Dee talks again,
Speaker 3: not once. Instead, I just saw her eating really lavish,
Speaker 3: high protein fat meals every day. Well, I figured the
Speaker 3: meat out of the country is better, so I'm gonna indulge.
Speaker 3: I should indulge where they treat the animals better.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Speaking of which, there is a a
Speaker 1: kind pig that I met and we became friends. I
Speaker 1: was feeding him water, and you know, I left to
Speaker 1: the lakes to the for like five days, and I
Speaker 1: came back and he was gone, and I was like,
Speaker 1: where's Poncho. I'm pretty sure Pancho got eat it for dinner.
Speaker 1: So now I'm really I'm gonna get on the juice cleans.
Speaker 3: Also been like three weeks ago, you should have pay
Speaker 3: and don't let this bitch fool you guys.
Speaker 1: Also, but also I'm not getting any younger. I'm like
Speaker 1: thirty four is like, bitch, you're a real adult. Like
Speaker 1: I have this like mask in my thigh. Everyone's making
Speaker 1: me freak out about it. I've had it for like
Speaker 1: a year where they're like, got a doctor and then
Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, you should go to the doctor. You're
Speaker 1: not like twenty, And then like we drink and I
Speaker 1: just don't want to look old. I don't want to
Speaker 1: have an old net.
Speaker 3: I'm listen, I have Caucasian in me. I know I
Speaker 3: don't tell a lot of people this, but I'm here
Speaker 3: and I don't don't tell too many people. Sh I'm
Speaker 3: worried I'm gonna report us. I'm worried that it's gonna
Speaker 3: come for me in my looks. Okay, I think that
Speaker 3: I have to tread lightly with how much alcohol and
Speaker 3: fun time that I consume as I approach my mid
Speaker 3: thirties and early forties, and I'm like, I think I
Speaker 3: need to make a choice. I'll never forget one time
Speaker 3: when I used to work for Macy Gray, she was
Speaker 3: like she came back, She's like.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I talked to Sierra. I went to
Speaker 1: lunch with Sierra. Sierra doesn't drink or smoke. She looks
Speaker 1: fucking amazing. And you know she told you know who, Sierra.
Speaker 1: You know who told Sierra to do it, j Lo.
Speaker 1: And that's the secret, and that's why Jayla looks so
Speaker 1: fucking amazing. She doesn't drink or smoke anything really ever.
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, and it stressed
Speaker 1: me out.
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my god, do I, like
Speaker 3: I am Mexican? Like do I need to not drink
Speaker 3: or smoke?
Speaker 2: Now? Does it have to start?
Speaker 1: Now?
Speaker 3: I'm gonna start cracking early, like is the melon gonna like?
Speaker 3: Is there enough in there? It's gonna save me.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you one thing. I used to work
Speaker 1: at a recording studio and j Loo came in one time.
Speaker 1: The bitch glows in the dark. She's glowing. She's she's floating.
Speaker 1: I think she elevates like above the earth. It wasn't
Speaker 1: even like she was stepping like a regular step. It
Speaker 1: was just like Jenny from the Black you know. And
Speaker 1: that's probably why, because you probably glow a little when
Speaker 1: you don't TALX toxic your body with toxic.
Speaker 3: And then you see all like the old people that
Speaker 3: are been vegans her whole life, and they look. There's
Speaker 3: that black woman. I can't remember her name, but she
Speaker 3: like went viral for a second, and she has a
Speaker 3: garden and she's been eating out of it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw her like years her husband who does
Speaker 1: eat me and he looks old as fuss.
Speaker 2: She looks yeah.
Speaker 3: So basically, anyway, guys, the theme for this month Welcome
Speaker 3: to Good Mom's Gone Wild, because it's Good Mom's Gone
Speaker 3: Wild September because we have to find the balance between
Speaker 3: the two, right, Like we can't deprive ourselves of things,
Speaker 3: Like there's no fucking way I'm never drinking again, Like
Speaker 3: that's just not gonna happen.
Speaker 2: I'm not. I may not look like j Low, but
Speaker 2: I will look like percent right.
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, we got to be realistic about
Speaker 1: the type of people we are. We're the type of
Speaker 1: bitches that are going to stay young and beautiful because
Speaker 1: we party hard. I have a few friends and they're old,
Speaker 1: self preserved. You had to like almost like if you've
Speaker 1: been if we've been drinking tequila this long, if we
Speaker 1: lose it, our bodies won't know how to react. They'll
Speaker 1: be like bitch. So we're like it's already in our DNA,
Speaker 1: like the tequila. So we have to keep a good balance.
Speaker 1: But the trick is, the trick is very healthy, go
Speaker 1: very hard because Okay, imagine like I was walking past
Speaker 1: the store in the mall. I don't know if it's
Speaker 1: like Jay Hill. I don't know, it's like a very
Speaker 1: like Jay Hill. I don't know. It was like the
Speaker 1: gap or something. It's just like one of the Banana Republic,
Speaker 1: like the ones where the like you could tell like
Speaker 1: the Connecticut. Yeah, yeah, the conservative the conservative mom which
Speaker 1: just turned forty but doesn't want anyone to see her breastline.
Speaker 1: Is like shopping in there, like with the slacks, and
Speaker 1: I was like, I never want to step a foot.
Speaker 1: I don't care how old I get, don't ever let
Speaker 1: me step a foot in there. Like maybe we're a
Speaker 1: pearls like a tight bun and especially that little kitten Hill.
Speaker 1: I don't want to ever, but we're that kitten Hill.
Speaker 1: So I feel like the trick is you have to
Speaker 1: go when you're the type of DNA like us, when
Speaker 1: there's still like a lot of tequila in it, you
Speaker 1: can't just go all the way off you have to
Speaker 1: find a balanced life of going hard and being really healthy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that it's one or the other because
Speaker 3: I look at people like Ozzy Osbourne who's clearly like partied,
Speaker 3: like he's he's hay on by a thread, but he
Speaker 3: looks great, Like if you look at his skin, like
Speaker 3: it's it's preserved. I'm telling you some of these rock stars,
Speaker 3: like it's like for meldehyde in their body, it is
Speaker 3: Sequila's fair. They've injected it and they're halfway dead, but
Speaker 3: their skin is fully alive and they look young. And
Speaker 3: if they ever stopped drinking or using their croak, they
Speaker 3: would die for sure. So you either have to do
Speaker 3: that or you have to like be super healthy and
Speaker 3: go hard.
Speaker 2: You can't go in the middle. The middle is the
Speaker 2: danger zone.
Speaker 1: And definitely just don't step into like that store that
Speaker 1: I think it was called j Hill. I don't know,
Speaker 1: it's just why you know, the star's on top every
Speaker 1: the gap is cool. Now you show some cleavage, let
Speaker 1: down your hair. It's imperative to your like, like you
Speaker 1: gotta go a little wild, like leave those kids at home,
Speaker 1: even if you're really conservative in your regular life, even
Speaker 1: if you go alone alone, Like, go away alone, don't
Speaker 1: tell anyone, and just do some wild ship.
Speaker 3: Just come to our live show. Just come to our
Speaker 3: live show. That could be the wild shit you do.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to be very stuffy in your day
Speaker 1: life at PTA or at the office or wherever the fuck.
Speaker 1: Your husband's very judgmental. Just order that shit from fashion Nova,
Speaker 1: order that fucking spandex hide it and then just slip
Speaker 1: it in the car like you did in high school
Speaker 1: and come to the show. Feel you gona feel so
Speaker 1: much better on Monday. Oh my god, you're gonna feel amazing.
Speaker 1: And we're going on tour in September. You guys on
Speaker 1: the East coast, well end of this month.
Speaker 3: I know it's been a few weeks, so you get
Speaker 3: the tickets. It's in this episode description. We're going to Philly, Chicago.
Speaker 1: New York, Atlanta, Lanta, and DC and it's almost sold out,
Speaker 1: so it's very exclusive. You don't want to miss this opportunity.
Speaker 1: What better bitches to party with than these two good
Speaker 1: moms that are definitely gonna get wild. I might even
Speaker 1: like ride your boat or whatever the girls are saying,
Speaker 1: ride your boat. I'm gonna drive your boat. You sounded
Speaker 1: like the BTA Mom, I'm gonna drive your boat whatever,
Speaker 1: you know, what the fuck I mean, I'm gonna pour
Speaker 1: some shit in your mouth. It's gonna be wild. Have
Speaker 1: you seen a movie Hangover? It's gonna be like that,
Speaker 1: but minus like ten.
Speaker 2: But we'll get you home safely.
Speaker 1: Uber you shoot Uber trash Ober.
Speaker 3: Maybe Ober will give us a code, maybe not. Either way,
Speaker 3: you'll get there.
Speaker 1: And also come to meet other people who are down
Speaker 1: to get ratchet too. You know, I think it's hard
Speaker 1: to find like women who are you know what I realized,
Speaker 1: it's it's radical to really be a mom and be
Speaker 1: a woman and be like this is it, Like I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be a wild bitch, Like I'm a little wild.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a little wild. So I know it's
Speaker 1: not like highly sought after, But if you want to
Speaker 1: find a circle that you can actually come as that person,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you this is the place to be because
Speaker 1: look at us, this is who we attract people who
Speaker 1: are gonna just want to be a little wild. So
Speaker 1: you'll find your local little wild people and then you'll
Speaker 1: have like a crew and that way you could like
Speaker 1: get on discord and tell us what you guys are
Speaker 1: doing on the weekends.
Speaker 2: I know, and send pictures because we're nosy. I love
Speaker 2: the tribe. I do. I really feel like we've I
Speaker 2: love the tribe. Yeah, because it's true. People always like
Speaker 2: I don't I can't meet my person.
Speaker 1: This is it.
Speaker 3: Sometimes you can come to a Costa Rica. Sometimes you
Speaker 3: just go to a live show. Either way, you're going
Speaker 3: to meet your people.
Speaker 1: So yeah, yes, anyway, how are you? I'm good, my
Speaker 1: heart is full. We're very, very, very very busy. I
Speaker 1: can't believe we're going in a five city tour. I
Speaker 1: feel like a rapper.
Speaker 2: Are I know? I'm like, wait, we start booking festivals.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's coming.
Speaker 2: I'm performing at Bonaroo. Yeah, coach, Yeah, this is a
Speaker 2: heire attempt.
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll bait. This is hair four o'clock. Yeah, remember
Speaker 1: back in the day when we still got.
Speaker 3: That's my biggest Oh my god, you guys listen, I
Speaker 3: need a collective manifestation of this. Are you listening to us?
Speaker 3: It is my lifelong goal to perform at Coachella. I
Speaker 3: didn't know what it was going to be, but it's
Speaker 3: going to be podcasting Coachella, mark my words, is going
Speaker 3: to start booking podcasters, and we are going to be
Speaker 3: on that list, and it's going to be the most
Speaker 3: epic Good Mom's Gone Wild Coachella edition you've ever fucking heard.
Speaker 2: Okay, does that excite you? I know it's exciting.
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna get like a piniata filled with
Speaker 1: drugs and then we're going to bring people up on
Speaker 1: the stage and we're gonna sprinkle all the drugs into
Speaker 1: the crowd. Of visualize that too, My god, Just nobody's
Speaker 1: see us. No, it's gonna beautiful. It's gonna be never
Speaker 1: Before she says.
Speaker 3: A drug, she means weed, guys, weed edibles.
Speaker 1: I heard that.
Speaker 3: I heard I said this on another previous episode I
Speaker 3: was listening to, and I just want to say it again,
Speaker 3: just like the great and sometimes questionable Joe, Butden does
Speaker 3: nothing I say on this episode.
Speaker 1: Is uh factual entertainment purposes.
Speaker 2: Everything is for entertainment purposes on this episode.
Speaker 1: Speaking of manifestations and witchy magic shit, I think it's
Speaker 1: Tarot time.
Speaker 4: Do do do do do?
Speaker 1: It's tarot tama oh man, not those not the vise.
Speaker 1: I pulled the hangedman, hm, the hangedman.
Speaker 3: It looks like it's scary. But one thing I've learned
Speaker 3: about Taro is that the scary cards are not always
Speaker 3: so scary. They're actually the most exciting ones usually, So
Speaker 3: you gotta go.
Speaker 1: A little deeper. It means pause, surrender, letting go, and
Speaker 1: new perspectives. The Hangman reminds you that sometimes you have
Speaker 1: to put everything on hold before you can take the
Speaker 1: next step, or the universe will do it on your behalf,
Speaker 1: and it may not always be at the most convenient time.
Speaker 1: You may have heard the saying what got you here
Speaker 1: at play? What got you here won't get you there,
Speaker 1: and that indeed is at play. In this card, the
Speaker 1: Hangman called you to release the old mental models and
Speaker 1: behavioral patterns that no longer serve you, so you can
Speaker 1: see your world from a new perspective and embrace new
Speaker 1: opportunities that would have otherwise been hidden from you if
Speaker 1: you didn't hit the brakes. Here's the thing. These pauses
Speaker 1: can be voluntary or involuntary. If you're in tune with
Speaker 1: your intuition, you'll start to have a sense for when
Speaker 1: it's time to hit the brakes and put things on
Speaker 1: hold before things get out of hand. But if you're
Speaker 1: out of alignment and oblivious to those intuitive signs, the
Speaker 1: universe will probably put things on hold.
Speaker 2: For you, sit your ass down in the.
Speaker 1: Form of continued obstacles, ill health, and breakdowns. When you
Speaker 1: sense the pause coming, pay attention to it, otherwise the
Speaker 1: universe will turn up the volume until you can't ignore
Speaker 1: it any longer.
Speaker 3: That really resonates with me and even what we were
Speaker 3: just talking about earlier, with choosing between being young or
Speaker 3: being fun and staying young and like feeling like I
Speaker 3: need to.
Speaker 2: Like refocus on my health.
Speaker 1: Like that's kind of like where I've been at because I, like,
Speaker 1: you know, Mela always says I'm a hypochondriac, but I've
Speaker 1: been really feeling and energetically like I need something needs
Speaker 1: to shift. I don't feel good, I don't like I
Speaker 1: feel heavy, I feel tired, like something has to be
Speaker 1: eliminated and replaced with something that's going to fill me.
Speaker 1: And I think this summer like really did that for me,
Speaker 1: you know, like really, although we were really busy all summer,
Speaker 1: I was super intentional and like tried to have better
Speaker 1: boundaries around my health and like I what makes me
Speaker 1: feel good so that I can be of service to
Speaker 1: my kid, to myself, to my business, to you, like,
Speaker 1: to my family, because because I was like burnt out,
Speaker 1: you know, so I think that that definitely speaks to me.
Speaker 1: I think as like our lives begin to move really
Speaker 1: quickly and we are obligated to do more things. I
Speaker 1: think it becomes you have to choose. You have to
Speaker 1: choose to like cut out people and things and activities
Speaker 1: that fall to the wayside, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: because you are so busy, so you have these super
Speaker 1: intentional with your time and how you spend it, and
Speaker 1: like like going to Mexico for a month, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. I was like, if I don't do this,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to do it, you know. And like
Speaker 1: granted I've been going ever since, but I agree, and
Speaker 1: I I'm going to go on the juice cleans. I
Speaker 1: just love to eat. I love to eat so much.
Speaker 1: But again I saw really quickly like my skin was
Speaker 1: fucking up and Mexico, Like I just was like.
Speaker 3: Have to change your perspective on what that means to you.
Speaker 3: You can still eat, bitch.
Speaker 1: Like you can still eat not a juice calle, maybe
Speaker 1: not on.
Speaker 3: Juice cleans, but even like your diet, like your diet
Speaker 3: and drama saying you eat unhealthy. We've already done this debate.
Speaker 3: I'm not going to go back down that road. You should,
Speaker 3: but I'm just saying like, as we get older, though,
Speaker 3: like being more mindful, still eating and doing everything you want,
Speaker 3: but like maybe like just adjusting and adding more nutritious
Speaker 3: things to whatever that whether it's your body, whether it's
Speaker 3: your lifestyle, whether it's your relationships, like knowing the things
Speaker 3: that are taking away and also like making you feel decrepit.
Speaker 1: You know, I was having like interesting thoughts, like very
Speaker 1: morbid thoughts like you. But I was like I after
Speaker 1: I went to Mexico and then I went to New Orleans,
Speaker 1: I went to Philly to go on a family trip
Speaker 1: with my family to North Carolina and we rented a house.
Speaker 1: But you know, it's with my grandmother and she's turning
Speaker 1: eighty this year, and I was just like, you know,
Speaker 1: like people die. My grandmother has been talking about it
Speaker 1: for years, Like I'm not trying to live to one hundred,
Speaker 1: like burn.
Speaker 2: Me, Like my grandmother says, she's just like girl.
Speaker 1: I'm cool. Like, but I was just thinking, like damn,
Speaker 1: like this cycle comes to an end and you know,
Speaker 1: like even being in love and being a mother, Like damn,
Speaker 1: how can I care more about my health? Like what
Speaker 1: if my func shit stops me? Like you know, anything
Speaker 1: can happen, and just being like just grateful for the
Speaker 1: vessel and like yeah, like you said, changing my perspective
Speaker 1: of like starving myself versus like eating for growth and
Speaker 1: eating for like just health, nutrition.
Speaker 3: And fuel and and joy and pleasure all those things
Speaker 3: because the balance and clarity.
Speaker 1: And then I was getting really dark because you know
Speaker 1: I feel about America, and I was like, if I'm
Speaker 1: going to be healthy, I have to get out of
Speaker 1: America because all they do is feed you poison because
Speaker 1: I'm want to kill you, because the FDA and because
Speaker 1: lobbyists and the money and pharmaceutical companies. And I was like, WHOA, sorry,
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to put that on everybody. This is
Speaker 1: how my mind, Like.
Speaker 2: You need to start your juice clans.
Speaker 1: This is how my crazy brain works. So and she
Speaker 1: don't let me sit alone for too long. You already
Speaker 1: know I'm one. That's literally, I am the morbid one.
Speaker 1: I'm like, we're in the okay, speaking of New Orleans,
Speaker 1: Let's go to New Orleans. Beau so we went to
Speaker 1: essence Fest and we manifested essence Fest.
Speaker 2: We really did.
Speaker 1: We had been manifesting Essence Fest. And I want to
Speaker 1: say for like maybe two previous we've been talking.
Speaker 2: About this like a year and a half, two years.
Speaker 1: The last one we were like, I really want to go,
Speaker 1: but I think before that we talked about it, and
Speaker 1: this year we almost didn't go. Like it was coming close.
Speaker 1: We're like, damn, no one's called no. I think we
Speaker 1: applied and then they like sent to us and like
Speaker 1: basically come for free. And I was like, ah, we're
Speaker 1: gonna spend money to go.
Speaker 3: No, And then you know, me and Mila we talked
Speaker 3: about it in a previous episode. We're in a place
Speaker 3: where we're like, no, well, we're gonna say no to
Speaker 3: the things that maybe would have said yes to until
Speaker 3: it feels like right, and so we said we passed
Speaker 3: on it.
Speaker 2: We're like we're cool.
Speaker 1: And then like two weeks later, knock knock on the door,
Speaker 1: here comes Planned Parenthood and asking us to be a
Speaker 1: part of their panel, which was like super meaningful and
Speaker 1: it was about the birds and the bees, sex positive
Speaker 1: parenting and you know that's our shit, and how like
Speaker 1: that's important to us to spread that message for the
Speaker 1: babies and like just for normalizing sex and sexuality.
Speaker 2: And boila, we are at New Orleans.
Speaker 1: At Essence Fest with all the greats, like so much
Speaker 1: black excellence. I was thinking that, you know, I get
Speaker 1: high and I was like, imagine, like how hi, it's vibrating.
Speaker 1: New Orleans is vibrating right now with all this black
Speaker 1: excellence in this like very like ancient city that has
Speaker 1: all this like black history.
Speaker 2: That's what I felt when I was there.
Speaker 3: I could feel that presence, I could feel the magic.
Speaker 1: I could feel the I don't know, like motivation.
Speaker 3: It's motivation, but like just the belief in spirit there
Speaker 3: and like that so many things have I guess almost
Speaker 3: I felt like the inception point of a lot of magic,
Speaker 3: especially with Black people in America there, like bringing that,
Speaker 3: bringing that from where we come from and like it
Speaker 3: manifesting here. I could just feel it there and like
Speaker 3: I really want to go back and spend more time.
Speaker 3: I want to go on like a bunch of different experiences,
Speaker 3: but just being there, I felt it. And then on
Speaker 3: top of that it being Essence Best and all those
Speaker 3: black people there are all so much joy that was happy.
Speaker 2: Some people were so happy to be there and.
Speaker 3: Just experiencing all this fucking good music, just meeting new people.
Speaker 1: You could just feel the energy, but you could feel
Speaker 1: the love. You really feel like the black love and
Speaker 1: the air and like it was super beautiful. It was
Speaker 1: really and and the fact that Erica and I had
Speaker 1: manifested it, you know, it was just it felt very magical.
Speaker 1: Panel went really well and as heard the usual, our
Speaker 1: wonderful partners accompanied us, and it was just it was
Speaker 1: so fun and like we're in New Orleans, so you know,
Speaker 1: we got to get wretched and it was me and
Speaker 1: Erica is reunited and it feels so good. Ever since
Speaker 1: I was in Mexico for four weeks, so we like
Speaker 1: splurged and went to go see like Janet and new addition.
Speaker 1: Actually they kind of played us because it was supposed
Speaker 1: to be.
Speaker 2: Tames and Times didn't show up.
Speaker 1: I'm really bad, but whatever. It was still really beautiful.
Speaker 1: We ate a lot of food and we had like
Speaker 1: an epic night.
Speaker 2: We did. Was that the night wait?
Speaker 1: So one night we went we went to go see Janet,
Speaker 1: then we left and went to a Spotify party. Ooh,
Speaker 1: we gotta step from the beginning. Okay, we did our panel.
Speaker 1: Did the panel, Erica like planned all these dinners. We
Speaker 1: went to dinner. We had a beautiful dinner us in
Speaker 1: our double dates, and we were like all fueled up
Speaker 1: because we had this bomb ass panel. We felt super
Speaker 1: official because like you know, we feel official we do panels.
Speaker 1: And it was like Planned Parenthood was like the director
Speaker 1: of education. And I was like, I'm smart. I know things.
Speaker 1: It's just like you do. And I was like, yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: I knew it. I knew it. Planned parent had said so.
Speaker 1: And and then we went to Janet Jackson. But before
Speaker 1: we left dinner, we all split some chocolate mushrooms. We
Speaker 1: set our intentions over the mushrooms. But before that, eric
Speaker 1: I confessed her love for me and Orlando's love and
Speaker 1: cried at the dinner table.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I forgot.
Speaker 1: I did that, like literally real tears, like I love
Speaker 1: you guys so much and I love this union and
Speaker 1: I can't wait for your wedding. And I was like,
Speaker 1: you're gonna come. We think so, we think he's the one. Well,
Speaker 1: if you said so, it's true. I was like she
Speaker 1: noticed and then like her partner because me and her,
Speaker 1: me and Orlando and Eric are like crying all the
Speaker 1: time together, but he was probably like what the fuck
Speaker 1: with the fuck kind of weird family dynamic.
Speaker 2: That I enter get used to a surprise.
Speaker 1: So we did our intention over our magic mushrooms and
Speaker 1: then boom, we go to see the Janet concert and
Speaker 1: like Tiffing Hattish hosted, She's funny as hell. Everybody looked
Speaker 1: bomb at this concert. We had the floor seats were
Speaker 1: first of all, I don't know if anyone's been in
Speaker 1: New Orleans, but like it is a drinking motherfucking city.
Speaker 2: Like I don't know how people.
Speaker 1: Everyone there's everyone, there's an alcoholic.
Speaker 2: It's like high blood pressure alcoholics.
Speaker 1: That's a good example of stay fun, stay young New
Speaker 1: Orleans because they drinked and say they drink and stay
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 2: They were about it. I was. I crumbled at the end.
Speaker 1: We try to be about it. So we're drinking. We
Speaker 1: did mushrooms. The mushrooms started to hit. Oh fucking Jasmine
Speaker 1: Sulliman performed. It was so good. It was so good.
Speaker 1: Erica somehow thought we were at the club. She's like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna walk around. I was like, we're at a concert.
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, I'm just gonna walk around, see who
Speaker 1: I see. Like, just go walk around. I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: so heard her, nigger like leave to go check out
Speaker 1: the club and Ma Orlando just like in Deep Days
Speaker 1: and I don't know who came on at this point point.
Speaker 1: And then Erica comes back and it's like, remember Dale
Speaker 1: from that from that brand partnership we did. I just
Speaker 1: met him, Come meet him. I was like, I'm not moving.
Speaker 1: Also Dale, I remember Dale. I met him. I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: I goodnt wait to tell you when you're ender club circle,
Speaker 1: that's you, okay love? And then uh, Patty Labell came on,
Speaker 1: No is it?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Patti La Bell came on, and Orlando was in a deep,
Speaker 1: deep enchant.
Speaker 3: This is where we're gonna insert the video here where
Speaker 3: Orlando is in deep contemplation and awe of miss Patty.
Speaker 1: And Orlando was like an old black woman.
Speaker 3: He was the auntie. He was an auntie Orlando. I
Speaker 3: looked over and he was in such bliss.
Speaker 1: He was so happy.
Speaker 3: And me, Andreila, I think that's one of the mushis
Speaker 3: really hit because we were dying, fucking laughing.
Speaker 1: Laughed so hard. I cried. I don't even know if
Speaker 1: I could stand up. I was crying. I was like, wow,
Speaker 1: all the headliners, this is his ship. She was like
Speaker 1: singing her Patty in her toes okay, and Patty threw them.
Speaker 1: She was off.
Speaker 2: It was a rat.
Speaker 1: She looked good. I think she's like eighty something and
Speaker 1: she looks fucking phenomenal. She was wonderful. She looked good
Speaker 1: in that red she did. And then Janet came, I'm scared.
Speaker 1: I I don't even want to talk about it because
Speaker 1: it's on it like this is my problem, you guys.
Speaker 1: If something irritates me, I can't let go. I literally
Speaker 1: can't let go. I can't let go. So Eric is
Speaker 1: fucking annoying. Partner was so caught up about traffic that
Speaker 1: he kept saying we had to leave Janet early, so
Speaker 1: he kept pulling us to leave, and I was like,
Speaker 1: fuck you, I don't want to leave. But I was high,
Speaker 1: so I was getting confused easily, and I was like,
Speaker 1: are we gonna be stuck here?
Speaker 4: Like how stuck?
Speaker 1: Like a level of tend stuck. Anyway, we left early,
Speaker 1: and that's why love girl goes. And honestly, I could
Speaker 1: still cut him till this day, like if something happened
Speaker 1: to him. It might be me because like I'm still
Speaker 1: not over it, and I don't know if i'll be
Speaker 1: over for like a lose a decade unless you we
Speaker 1: do it again. The only okay, you have to let
Speaker 1: the soul may know if he wants to be the soulmate,
Speaker 1: he's going to have to re make this happen, and
Speaker 1: maybe he'll perform at me. She'll perform me in Orlando's wedding.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's gonna have to be big because
Speaker 1: I am still pissed. But also I was so confused.
Speaker 1: I was like walking on clouds. I was like, has
Speaker 1: she performing a long time? We're on? That's the way
Speaker 1: Leve goes. Fuck him. She didn't have any words. She
Speaker 1: was just giggling. I don't know. Anyway we laugh, we did.
Speaker 3: I really didn't have words. I didn't put up a fight,
Speaker 3: but I also didn't say anything.
Speaker 1: Also, we wanted nobody had words. So also we also
Speaker 1: were invited to a Spotify party.
Speaker 2: Yes, shout out to Spotify, Shout out to Alexa Alexis.
Speaker 1: Alexis and her boyfriend invited us to the Spotify. At
Speaker 1: this point, I was waste it.
Speaker 2: At that point Mila tried to drown me with tequila
Speaker 2: in wasted.
Speaker 1: We oh, look at that. We got a fucking uber
Speaker 1: in five minutes, probably because we left the concert really
Speaker 1: fucking early anyway, so we're really having fun now, we're
Speaker 1: really feeling the mushrooms. And oh you know what, nolans,
Speaker 1: you could take drinks out of anywhere, like the bottle,
Speaker 1: you could take the whole ship wherever you want, Like
Speaker 1: it's a fucking to go cut. So we're like in
Speaker 1: the back of the fucking uber like whoo, god, mom's
Speaker 1: going wow. And then like the most non ratchet song
Speaker 1: comes on, like no song, Erica gets us like, but
Speaker 1: I missed you and I love you so confused, I
Speaker 1: was like, why is she riding him in the back
Speaker 1: seat to this song? I was like, why don't we
Speaker 1: tell the drink whatever? So then I got into it,
Speaker 1: fuck it and then she like, I like lean, she
Speaker 1: leans back because she's so small. She leans back in
Speaker 1: the chair, opens her mouth right into my lap, and
Speaker 1: I said I had a cup of tequila, and I
Speaker 1: was like, wow, drop the boat and I poured it
Speaker 1: into her MoU and she like, ah, she tried to
Speaker 1: drown me. Bits it all over my dress. Her came
Speaker 1: out of my nose. It burned so fucking bad, bitch.
Speaker 2: It was like WHOA.
Speaker 3: At the time, party foul seemed like a good move,
Speaker 3: you know what. It didn't matter because I was drunk.
Speaker 3: I moved on real quick. My dress was alway, it
Speaker 3: didn't matter.
Speaker 1: We wiped out her face. We got to the Spotify
Speaker 1: can't the party. We go to the bar because we're
Speaker 1: not drunk enough, because fuck it, die die. So we
Speaker 1: go to the bar and then you know, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, we're like some la ass bitches.
Speaker 1: So if we go to like a festival, we're like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see that all the parties in the area,
Speaker 1: we think it's Coachella, Like that's what we had in mind,
Speaker 1: Like we gotta go the Spotify party because yeah, like
Speaker 1: there's gonna be celebrities there and shit. So we're like
Speaker 1: on the palace for people. I don't know when we
Speaker 1: like all split up.
Speaker 3: So there was music playing and I was like, who's performing,
Speaker 3: so to go see who was performing?
Speaker 2: And it was Alex l I think Alex.
Speaker 1: It was Alexisley. That's that's car. She's like Alex ELL's
Speaker 1: perform gonna do. I was like, it's gonna be spoken
Speaker 1: word was like, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think she's singing now. I literally thought.
Speaker 3: I was like, she has an arm and B album now,
Speaker 3: Alex you know, okay, she does Arnbin No Alexley. It
Speaker 3: was beautiful and then I ran into Jade and then
Speaker 3: I couldn't find Jamila.
Speaker 1: I would keep in mind the person who invited Alex's
Speaker 1: shout out to alexis she actually works for Refinery twenty
Speaker 1: nine and she reached out to us for like a
Speaker 1: business opportunity. So this is like low key, a business
Speaker 1: like meeting, like hey girl, yeah we're so business people
Speaker 1: like work with us, but instead we show up to
Speaker 1: the party drunk as hell, all mushrooms with her. Nack
Speaker 1: is like, we're living true to the brand. So yeah,
Speaker 1: we're living very I went back to fucking rock star. Okay,
Speaker 1: we are rocks the words of Damon Dash.
Speaker 2: I'm a mother fucking rocks.
Speaker 1: I'm a mother fucking rock star, So I'm just giving
Speaker 1: you the elements. Okay, we get to the party, there's
Speaker 1: a performance, everything's going good. I am like when I
Speaker 1: get drunk, I go on a mission like I just
Speaker 1: want to see everything's going on. I really did.
Speaker 2: You were like pac Man.
Speaker 1: I was like, I need to just see like all
Speaker 1: the like levels of the house. I just need to
Speaker 1: see what was going on in there. Erica left me,
Speaker 1: so then I was like there was an upstairs for
Speaker 1: like security covering, and I was like, Oh, the celebrities
Speaker 1: must be upstairs. In my mind, I made up this
Speaker 1: whole thing and I was like, in Erica must be
Speaker 1: up there having a good time. So Orlando is like
Speaker 1: talking to our business associate that we just met and
Speaker 1: her boyfriend, and I'm like just going around the house
Speaker 1: and then I just walked by Orlando and I hear
Speaker 1: him and say like, yeah, we just came back from
Speaker 1: Mexico for thirty days. And I walk back by and
Speaker 1: I hear him say we had sex like every single day.
Speaker 1: And I was like, what the Spotify girl? Yeah no,
Speaker 1: not the Spotify girl on our business like who got
Speaker 1: us into the party?
Speaker 2: She yea great, she does both.
Speaker 1: So He's like, yeah, we had sex every day, wild
Speaker 1: sex for thirty days straight. And I'm like, why is
Speaker 1: he talking so much? We date a fucking podcaster, yo.
Speaker 1: But I'm too drunk to like say, shit, you look.
Speaker 3: Like you would, you act like you wouldn't do the
Speaker 3: same shit. I was like, we're there, drunk, bitch, were
Speaker 3: they're drunk.
Speaker 1: So then I see it into the upstairs VIP and
Speaker 1: I'm like, I make a bee line to go upstairs.
Speaker 1: I'm like, up the stairs. I do a full three
Speaker 1: six of them upstairs. There's not shipping going on back there.
Speaker 1: You're not up there. Nothing's back there. I come back
Speaker 1: to Orlando and he's like, that should be a lesson
Speaker 1: to you. It's not greener on the other side.
Speaker 3: Like Orlando make a prophet on mushrooms. I was like
Speaker 3: high and I was like he's right, or the end
Speaker 3: of the prophet, like, he's right, there's nothing better upstairs.
Speaker 3: Don't keep searching, I keep seeking. I was like he's
Speaker 3: talking about you, Like okay. Then, so now I'm like,
Speaker 3: where the fuck is Erica.
Speaker 1: So I make it back outside just in time to
Speaker 1: see Erica is behind the bar. I was like, how'd
Speaker 1: she get to how'd she get to the bar? So
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, bitch for me, shots bar'stending people's like
Speaker 1: she's like pouring shots. And then the bitch comes from
Speaker 1: behind him snatches the bottle from her right. As she
Speaker 1: hands me my drink, she's like, sorry, say you were gone.
Speaker 3: I was like, she was gone. She was gone for
Speaker 3: like five minutes. I was like, you can't like the
Speaker 3: bar attended when there's drug people.
Speaker 1: Fuck, Oh my god. Then me and Orlando were inside
Speaker 1: with our new friends, Alexis and her boyfriend, and this
Speaker 1: other like beautiful girl comes to stage, but I didn't
Speaker 1: recognize her. I was like, who's this and the Alexus
Speaker 1: is like, I don't know. I think it's like like
Speaker 1: open mic, like anyone can go. I'm like really, I
Speaker 1: was like, she looks really well dressed. And then they're
Speaker 1: like just talking and then she plays the song, the
Speaker 1: one song that I know but I've been playing it
Speaker 1: in Mexico so hard. It's called sailor Moon. You actually
Speaker 1: put me on so I starts playing. I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, oh my god. Me Orlander like nobody's
Speaker 1: reacting except us. We run. It's not that big, we
Speaker 1: run across like excuse me, excuse me. She's like, for
Speaker 1: it's a house, you guys, it's not like a stage
Speaker 1: in a house. And me Orlando are front row singing
Speaker 1: the song I'll be a Sailor Moon. There's only room
Speaker 1: for two. And then she comes over by us because
Speaker 1: we're obviously fans. You're biggest fans, the biggest fans of
Speaker 1: the party, and she like sings to us. I was
Speaker 1: so happy, Oh, she's saying to you basically yeah, because
Speaker 1: we're the number one fans at the party. Everyone else
Speaker 1: was like what the fuck at first one? She had
Speaker 1: sung five songs by that point, but that was the
Speaker 1: one that was the one that was her hit. I
Speaker 1: actually have some pictures with her too. I need to
Speaker 1: post those so she can like know that I love her.
Speaker 1: But and then the party ended, and you know, we're
Speaker 1: always looking for the next big thing, yep, because good
Speaker 1: Mom's gone wild.
Speaker 3: And you know what the best next best thing is.
Speaker 3: It's strip club. Hello, the strip club. So we roll
Speaker 3: up to the strip club roll in.
Speaker 2: I don't even know. I feel like we just like
Speaker 2: tumbled in there.
Speaker 1: It's called Club Pressure.
Speaker 3: We tumbled in the Club Pressure. And I got in
Speaker 3: there immediately and I was like, what the fuck is
Speaker 3: this ship?
Speaker 1: But I told it like a fucking banquet hall, I
Speaker 1: told you, hose why we went to Club Pressure. Club
Speaker 1: Pressure has the best fried fish of all New Orleans.
Speaker 1: The fried shrimp are good too. I don't know who's
Speaker 1: cooking back there at the motherfucking Pressure strip club, because
Speaker 1: that fucking fried fish is worth one hundred and fifty dollars.
Speaker 2: Each, I will say. Because I got there, I was pissed.
Speaker 3: I was pissed, and I got dark real fast, and
Speaker 3: Mila was like, why you so dark? Because Sheila was
Speaker 3: getting mad at me for like saying dark shit, because
Speaker 3: like suddenly my mushroom high went dark because I was
Speaker 3: literally in a banquet hall where it felt like I don't.
Speaker 1: Know if the strippersren't even really naked. It. It was like
Speaker 1: are they sad? I was like, the stripers sad? Are
Speaker 1: they been putting up? Are they being put up to this?
Speaker 1: It didn't feel like a voluntary effort. It just don't
Speaker 1: make it to my boot trafficking strip club. What do
Speaker 1: you mean it's not voluntary? Well it was volunt terry.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, it's voluntary awkward.
Speaker 3: You know when you see like group sex at on
Speaker 3: porn and like everyone's kind of standing around the edges
Speaker 3: just staring, like looking like.
Speaker 2: Could I get in? Or like oh god, I can't
Speaker 2: what this is happening. That's what it felt like. There
Speaker 2: was no one in the middle.
Speaker 1: It was bear let me tell you so add it
Speaker 1: was too it was well lit. I was like, yo,
Speaker 1: black strippers are bougie. I'll say it as a black woman.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you guys, you bitches. If you go in
Speaker 1: the down South areas where they make a lot of money,
Speaker 1: those bitches are beautiful and they're little bitches. I've been
Speaker 1: and they'll literally not dance until people start throwing money. Like, bitch,
Speaker 1: this is your job. You entertain us until we feel
Speaker 1: like tipping you. But like if you go to the
Speaker 1: down South clubs, it's very uncomfortable. It's like, come, oh, niggas,
Speaker 1: I got no money, don't gonna go. Let she ain't
Speaker 1: taken off no panties. They like punk you until you
Speaker 1: tip them. No one was anybody and then also like
Speaker 1: they'll just stare at you mean and like it's just.
Speaker 2: Not I don't think I saw one titty or one ass.
Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't see a couci or a nipple.
Speaker 3: I'm so it was bathing suits because I think because
Speaker 3: they sell sold alcohol there, it was highway robbery. Anyway,
Speaker 3: I said, some dark ass shit, then maybe I won't.
Speaker 1: Say oh yeah, And I was like, why would you
Speaker 1: say that? We're here?
Speaker 3: I was like, and she was like what, And then
Speaker 3: I think I think my booth said some other dark
Speaker 3: shit and me and him had just got into a
Speaker 3: stupid fight like ten minutes before, and Jamila was just
Speaker 3: over us and on top of you, on top, on
Speaker 3: top of being taken out of Jana Jackson.
Speaker 2: She got retriggered. I don't know.
Speaker 1: But we also keep in mind we brought Alexis and
Speaker 1: her boyfriend or professional.
Speaker 3: We also dragged them to the strip club, like you
Speaker 3: want to come with us? But then the food came,
Speaker 3: and then everything was right in the world. I lost
Speaker 3: my attitude. Everything was great. Me and Meila were friends again,
Speaker 3: the best. Me and Mela were friends again, and everything
Speaker 3: was good in the world. It was the fucking best
Speaker 3: mac and cheese I've ever had, maybe and also the
Speaker 3: best fried fish and shrimp because we got both.
Speaker 1: The customer service is shit. The man was not nice
Speaker 1: to us. It's for price as fuck. Didn't see now, titty.
Speaker 1: The bitches weren't kind about the dances they were getting.
Speaker 1: The ATM fee was too fucking high.
Speaker 2: I did give a.
Speaker 3: We did give one girl one hundred dollars one hundred
Speaker 3: didn't get a hundred dollars out. I think I bought
Speaker 3: two dances. We were trying to find girls to dance
Speaker 3: with our men, if.
Speaker 1: You have those. At one point me and me were like,
Speaker 1: we should spoil them. They're so good to us, like,
Speaker 1: let's go find them some strippers come on high thoughts
Speaker 1: we had like we're like, go get two hundred dollars out.
Speaker 1: We're gonna go crazy. It's like they're so good, like
Speaker 1: they deserve this. Let's go find high quality bitches for them.
Speaker 1: If you have to hunt out a bitch at the
Speaker 1: strip club, then it's not a good strip club. The bitch.
Speaker 2: You shouldn't find one person. Literally, I was like no, no.
Speaker 2: I was like like that, No.
Speaker 1: I found the one, and the bitch barely cracked a shit.
Speaker 1: She was just like I was like, that's how, that's how.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not a spending she's my I
Speaker 1: was like, let's just get this one hundred and fifty
Speaker 1: dollars cap fish and get the fuck out of here.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm delicious.
Speaker 3: Well that was essence fast. It was wonderful. Shout out
Speaker 3: to playing parenthood. Shout out to Alexis. We didn't scare you.
Speaker 1: We still want to do that partnership. If possible, we'll
Speaker 1: behave promise. What else has been going on? Dear? Well?
Speaker 1: You know today on the internet I happened to ask
Speaker 1: our people and on our discord they had any questions
Speaker 1: for us?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, truth or truth?
Speaker 2: Truth or truth? I also offered dare, but no one
Speaker 2: seemed to dare us because we're so daring. Good Mom's
Speaker 2: coming on.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm good because I can only imagine what these
Speaker 1: people can find.
Speaker 3: So yeah, if you haven't joined our discord, make sure
Speaker 3: you're joined our discord. We have a lot of people
Speaker 3: over there, and they actually asked some interesting questions, also
Speaker 3: had some very strange ones. Do y'all watch niggas in
Speaker 3: the shower through a crystal ball?
Speaker 1: The answer is yes, of course we do. What else
Speaker 1: would I become a witch to do?
Speaker 2: Be honest? Are y'all the problem? Or are men the problem?
Speaker 1: Both? Sixty forty?
Speaker 2: What's your birth control SDI protection, et cetera?
Speaker 1: So personal? Are we having sex next week?
Speaker 2: Birth control?
Speaker 1: Unpopular answer that I don't really like condoms for the
Speaker 1: whole country, But I started taking birth control because actually
Speaker 1: Orlando's pullout game is excellent. It's very very well pulled out.
Speaker 1: But I was breaking out and I found an old
Speaker 1: box of birth control just about six months old, and
Speaker 1: I started taking that recently. But yeah, generally it's just
Speaker 1: the pullout and if it's someone I don't, it's not Orlando.
Speaker 1: Prior to that, it would be condoms.
Speaker 3: Yes, I think now that I have the committed partnership,
Speaker 3: we've gotten tested and so now my pullout method is
Speaker 3: my birth control. I believe that I can control when
Speaker 3: I get pregnant with.
Speaker 1: Her, with her mind, she told me, with her mind, with.
Speaker 2: My mind, and the flow app, well, I.
Speaker 1: Heard they're doing a flow app to like trigger if
Speaker 1: you get pregnant, so I can see you if you
Speaker 1: get an abortion because the rover's weight or something. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're like tracking your moves. They're tracking your period too.
Speaker 3: I don't know, but my period seems it's pretty tracked,
Speaker 3: not wrong. They know when it's coming.
Speaker 1: I hope you don't get pregnant. You need to have
Speaker 1: an abortion. They're gonna investigate you.
Speaker 2: I live in California.
Speaker 1: Lucky for you. If you move, you're fucked.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 3: Fuck, Okay, uh, here's a good one. Why am I
Speaker 3: not horny after I had my daughter? It's been a
Speaker 3: year since I've had sex.
Speaker 1: You've gone through a life changing, traumatic experience with your vagina.
Speaker 2: You're fucking tired, bitch. You're tired, and maybe your partner
Speaker 2: isn't doing enough? How about that?
Speaker 3: Or do you have a partner I don't know, but
Speaker 3: if he but if not, you're tired. Maybe he's not
Speaker 3: doing enough and something you have to fight for that
Speaker 3: shit sometimes And like everyone thinks, but like when you're
Speaker 3: either when you're pregnant, you get this, you get super horny.
Speaker 3: I did not, Like there's all these misconceptions around these
Speaker 3: certain timelines you're supposed to hit after before, during, Like,
Speaker 3: don't judge yourself. It's cool, it'll come back. But there's
Speaker 3: different things that you can do to kind of tap
Speaker 3: into yourself. You know, masturbation is a big thing that
Speaker 3: I you know, obviously advocate for and exploring your own
Speaker 3: self pleasure, and sometimes your self pleasure looks different after kids,
Speaker 3: you literally went through this life shifting thing. Your body
Speaker 3: has shifted, things have moved around, and like you might
Speaker 3: have to kind of familiarize with this new body too,
Speaker 3: because I knew for me when after I had my daughter,
Speaker 3: I felt really uncomfortable with my body. I did not
Speaker 3: feel sexy. So like checking with yourself, like do you
Speaker 3: just not feel sexy? Did you gain weight? Have you
Speaker 3: not lost it? Is that the reason? Because I know
Speaker 3: for me that was part of the reason. It was
Speaker 3: that it was like I was going through postprime depression.
Speaker 3: I didn't even realize it at least for a year
Speaker 3: at least on top of like you know, other things
Speaker 3: happening in life and relationships, like check in with yourself
Speaker 3: and see see what it is and don't give up
Speaker 3: you will be horny again.
Speaker 1: And are you getting sexy for yourself, like you know,
Speaker 1: doing your hair, getting dressed, feeling good. I think that's
Speaker 1: important too.
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Speaker 1: us dancing, make us feel really comfortable, ask us our
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Speaker 1: di vibe it. Do thoughtful things like build rapport, get
Speaker 1: to know us individually.
Speaker 3: I know each of our love languages, and then tap
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Speaker 1: Do you want to throw a case, And then we'll
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Speaker 3: Honestly, if you listen to enough episodes you can figure
Speaker 3: it out. That's actually the scariest part of all. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I've already had a negget to study me and tap
Speaker 3: in and I fell for it.
Speaker 2: Fell for it.
Speaker 1: Like give him a blunt, give him one, Give them
Speaker 1: some weed and some tequila. They'll be so happy. Take
Speaker 1: them somewhere fancy. Wow, that's we're basic.
Speaker 3: Did y'all go completely weed free for your pregnancies? I'm
Speaker 3: finding it so hard.
Speaker 1: No, I didn't. I smoked tweed throughout my pregnancy because
Speaker 1: that's all I had. That's that's what I held on too,
Speaker 1: and I needed it. I was distressed as a bitch,
Speaker 1: so thank God for cannabis during pregnancy. I also breastfed
Speaker 1: and smoked. So if you need to do it, that's
Speaker 1: your decision. You know what you need to do with
Speaker 1: your body, and Lyne is great.
Speaker 3: I didn't smoke, but that was because, honestly, one of
Speaker 3: the reasons why I was shame, of course, because my
Speaker 3: doctor told me everything I shouldn't do, and I was
Speaker 3: terrified to make any wrong move during my pregnancy because
Speaker 3: I don't even I know why, Like I knew my
Speaker 3: body was capable of doing of anything, but I was
Speaker 3: still felt like suddenly I was it was my job
Speaker 3: to protect this person and comp like all the things
Speaker 3: that could potentially compromise her, like I had to just
Speaker 3: do away with. So weed was one of those things
Speaker 3: I was kind of like on the f I was
Speaker 3: kind of like, I probably can smoke.
Speaker 2: But then my baby daddy he.
Speaker 3: Smoked a lot of blunts and I just got so
Speaker 3: sick of the smell that I got like I associated
Speaker 3: it with weed, and so I didn't even want weed
Speaker 3: after a while. In fact, I was so irritated he
Speaker 3: was smoking, and I was like, I'm pregnant and you're smoking,
Speaker 3: and you know, I don't fucking like the smell, and
Speaker 3: you're going to smoke in the garage where the shit
Speaker 3: is going to seep through the door where.
Speaker 2: I was a bitch. So yeah, didn't smoke weed.
Speaker 1: I also didn't tell my doctor. I was pretty transparent
Speaker 1: about a lot of things, but I didn't give a
Speaker 1: lot of people a lot of space to give their opinion. No,
Speaker 1: And I didn't do it a lot like in public,
Speaker 1: Like a couple of times, I think I like hit
Speaker 1: a bong one time, and I remember my baby daddy's
Speaker 1: friend looking at me and I was like, don't you
Speaker 1: say shit, motherfucker. I'm a grown ass woman. But other
Speaker 1: than that, I feel like sometimes if you let to
Speaker 1: me opinions, it will like fuck with your like your
Speaker 1: primal instinct, you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, for sure, I definitely asked way too many
Speaker 3: people's opinions during my pregnancy, And if I were ever
Speaker 3: to have another baby, I'd totally do it different.
Speaker 2: I know so much more. I'm so much more armed now.
Speaker 3: I was even writing about that in the book, about
Speaker 3: like just like we have so many resources, and anyone
Speaker 3: that's listening right now, you have so many resources, I'm
Speaker 3: telling you, like right here, like you really do, because
Speaker 3: we've done all the research for you, right, I've learned
Speaker 3: so much just from like your experience, from people that
Speaker 3: have come on the show and shared their experience, and
Speaker 3: just being able to pick and choose the things. And
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, that feels like me, that feels safe.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that is a lie someone told me, you know,
Speaker 3: So yeah, do your own research. Would y'all share Orlando sexually?
Speaker 3: Like he's a little piece of me? Right, feel Like
Speaker 3: I'm just like passive that for you want a piece
Speaker 3: of this baby, you know, but it works pretty good.
Speaker 3: You want to i'most send him over there. He's gonna
Speaker 3: be over there around night. Is that good for you?
Speaker 1: Oh? My god, I know, I don't think. I don't
Speaker 1: think we have I think they we're pretty good close,
Speaker 1: We're pretty intimate. We all love each other very much.
Speaker 2: We already share him, we do.
Speaker 3: We share him in work, we share him, and I
Speaker 3: love him husband, he's shared. But sexually I think I'm okay.
Speaker 3: I love you or Landa, but I'm good.
Speaker 1: I don't like that, Grol. I think I'm gonna let
Speaker 1: you have that, you know, like that's your baby. You know, boundaries, boundaries,
Speaker 1: We don't. We don't share it. We share a lot
Speaker 1: of things. Yeah, it's just special occasions where we've had
Speaker 1: god Is treatment.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't have any desire to share my nigga
Speaker 2: with you at all.
Speaker 1: Both water signs are both water sho signs with claws.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm very possessive.
Speaker 3: I might actually that actually might make me mad. Any
Speaker 3: weather bitch with him, just not you. I mean I
Speaker 3: can because you it's like, no, that's that was mine. No,
Speaker 3: that's my Jamila. Not because you're fucking him me because
Speaker 3: you're mine. Don't don't fucking touch her. You think you'd
Speaker 3: like her only I can like.
Speaker 2: No, you didn't please her.
Speaker 1: Good. Get the fuck out of here, Get shut the
Speaker 1: fuck out of here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh no, it's not gonna work. Let's see.
Speaker 3: Did you let Dame get the cookies? I think I
Speaker 3: think they mean Damon Dash. Did we let Damon get
Speaker 3: the cookies?
Speaker 1: Oh? Damon got no cookies. Damon didn't get any cookies
Speaker 1: in the cookie jar. There's no cookies.
Speaker 3: There's a story, but there's no cookies. I think we
Speaker 3: told the story on Patreon. So if you want to
Speaker 3: hear the story and then go to that episode with
Speaker 3: Damon Dash. Can you get my number to Sharona's I can, Yeah,
Speaker 3: send it, I'll send it to I really will.
Speaker 2: Get ready. We're about to send you a text with
Speaker 2: about forty two numbers. Take a pick. Hmmm, any other
Speaker 2: ones you see on there are?
Speaker 1: I don't know what order you're going in. I'm just
Speaker 1: looking around. Someone said, someone said, oh, there's a lot here.
Speaker 1: How do you vet women for a threesome? My male
Speaker 1: male female has been easier because men are easy to
Speaker 1: find well, I've I found it actually difficult to wrangle
Speaker 1: up the male male female men's But I think to
Speaker 1: vet a woman for a threesome, you know, just go
Speaker 1: on dating app back hinge and like their receptiveness to
Speaker 1: both flirting with her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Field, there's.
Speaker 1: A lot of apps that you can literally are for
Speaker 1: that purpose. And but vetting, I mean you have to
Speaker 1: make sure.
Speaker 3: You have to get on tags, you have to talk
Speaker 3: maybe through a FaceTime like get the vibes, you know,
Speaker 3: the vibes, you know when people are weird.
Speaker 1: It's being a naked mom different because you have girls,
Speaker 1: or would it be the same if you had a boy,
Speaker 1: it would be the same. I feel like it'd be
Speaker 1: the same. I birth do you, Yeah, that's it. Close
Speaker 1: your eyes. No, I birth you.
Speaker 2: Just if it bothers you.
Speaker 1: I built you, this body built you with the fuck Miamami. Okay, Miami, Miami, Miami,
Speaker 1: Miami tour or meet up. We're gonna get a Miami
Speaker 1: tour date. Yeah, we're going on tour and we're going
Speaker 1: to get to me do me?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, wow, I'm not a fool. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: can see it. It's happening.
Speaker 1: May get the cold cities out the way, but never
Speaker 1: always warm? Is it gay if a man likes to
Speaker 1: get fucked by a woman with a strap on? Someone
Speaker 1: went to lesbian show, a lesbian show, I guess that.
Speaker 1: I mean maybe for us to give a lesbian show
Speaker 1: like a like a like a lesbian left dance? Oh
Speaker 1: do you wanna give you left dance? We don't have
Speaker 1: any music.
Speaker 2: Sorry, you gotta pay for that. It's gonna pay for
Speaker 2: the lesbi show.
Speaker 1: It's for free. Who do you guys trust to help
Speaker 1: you with your children as single mothers other than the father,
Speaker 1: My friends, my family, Yeah, people that I trust genuinely,
Speaker 1: like wholeheartedly. I don't have the question it for one second. Yeah, instinctually.
Speaker 1: Have you ever had sex or masturbated with your kid
Speaker 1: close by?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: They live in their house.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they live.
Speaker 1: There all the time.
Speaker 3: I don't wait, I mean obviously I don't like do
Speaker 3: it prime time, kid time?
Speaker 1: Mommy will be right back.
Speaker 3: Actually I have when she pissed me off one time,
Speaker 3: I was like, I want to edge, something's got to
Speaker 3: happen here.
Speaker 1: Mommy has the time that happened.
Speaker 3: You know what pepa is put on Pepa peg. I'm
Speaker 3: locking the door don't come in here, because sometimes masturbation
Speaker 3: is used to get the edge off.
Speaker 2: It's not just for sex.
Speaker 3: And have I have, I've used I specifically remember a
Speaker 3: time and I couldn't believe that I was doing it,
Speaker 3: but afterwards I felt fucking better.
Speaker 1: That's a great advice, mom advice.
Speaker 3: What's a mom tip? If you're on edge, go masturbate.
Speaker 3: Just lock the door, put the water on, put the
Speaker 3: music on, get it out, get back to mommy.
Speaker 2: It's a life hack. You're welcome.
Speaker 1: Yep, masturbate then, mom?
Speaker 2: Is that the next? Sure?
Speaker 1: I don't think I was gonna go. I don't think.
Speaker 1: Maybe make it a vibrator.
Speaker 2: Pleasure than mamhood pleasure.
Speaker 1: Mom vibes vibrant. You make a vibran rub it out,
Speaker 1: stuck it out, Oh, rub it out, mom it out?
Speaker 2: Sorry, Okay, I'm done. That's it.
Speaker 1: This one says, tell your chippy story. Oh god, guys, Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: I have a horr. I guess it's it is kind
Speaker 1: of like a horry because it was. It's kind of
Speaker 1: like the worst thing that could ever have happened to me.
Speaker 2: I'm vain.
Speaker 3: And also, this is permanent, permanent horri It's not permanent,
Speaker 3: but it is permanent. It's permanent. I'll never get it
Speaker 3: back again this way ever in life.
Speaker 2: My virgin.
Speaker 1: Who stories.
Speaker 3: So anyway, Me and you know, my soulmate Bay. He
Speaker 3: doesn't live in la he lives in New York. And
Speaker 3: so we do a lot of face timing. We do
Speaker 3: a lot of you know, sex face timing.
Speaker 2: We're just you know, we have fun.
Speaker 3: We pull our dicks out, and we pull our tits out,
Speaker 3: and we pull our body parts out. And he had
Speaker 3: any given time, and so it was really early in
Speaker 3: the morning. It was like probably six in the morning.
Speaker 3: I look at my phone. He's calling me. I'm happy
Speaker 3: because I love I love looking at my phone and
Speaker 3: seeing that he's reached out first thing in the morning.
Speaker 2: And I get excited and I go in the kitchen.
Speaker 3: And I call him and we're talking, and I'm like
Speaker 3: facetiming me because everyone knows this is the best angle
Speaker 3: to face time and the best one look skinnier and prettier, especially.
Speaker 2: In the morning.
Speaker 3: You know, I was standing right in front of the
Speaker 3: window where the sun hits you know, you get that
Speaker 3: good lighting.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was that. So I'm talking.
Speaker 3: We're laughing, and then he pulls his dick out and yeah,
Speaker 3: so I was like nasty and I was like, ah boom,
Speaker 3: the phone fucking cracks me in the fucking face, okay, bitch.
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my god, oh my god,
Speaker 3: I'm covering my mouth and he's like, are you okay?
Speaker 3: O my god, are you okay? And I'm like, I
Speaker 3: don't know. I run to the mirror and I was like,
Speaker 3: I think I chipped my tooth. And he's like, no,
Speaker 3: you did it. There's no way you fucking chipped your tooth.
Speaker 3: And I was like, no, I really think I did.
Speaker 3: I look in the mirror, bitch, and I smile. My
Speaker 3: fucking front tooth is chipped.
Speaker 2: Like almost half. That's not half, bitch, this is what
Speaker 2: still has a fix on it. Only a part of
Speaker 2: it chipped off. Oh OKATY didn't see It's still It's.
Speaker 1: Like, oh, it's still not that bad.
Speaker 2: I was traumatized. Immediately looked at the mirror and started crying.
Speaker 3: He was laughing. I was crying. Then he felt bad,
Speaker 3: then I was laughing. It was just the whole thing
Speaker 3: and yeah, that's my chip's tooth. Sex hory and now
Speaker 3: it really is a horror story. Because I've gotten it
Speaker 3: fixed at least three times now and it keeps breaking.
Speaker 1: So now I'm twice fixed twice.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go on Wednesday, and I'm pretty sure it's
Speaker 3: gonna break again. So I feel like I just need
Speaker 3: to either find another doctor or.
Speaker 2: Get a Veneer. But if I.
Speaker 3: Get one Veneer, that means I have to get another Venia.
Speaker 3: Oh wait, that really means I got to like all
Speaker 3: of my teeth because you only have one Veneer.
Speaker 1: Relaxed, Relax, relax. You just go to a different doctor,
Speaker 1: like teeth. That's do you have beautiful teeth? You still
Speaker 1: have beautiful teeth. They're just gonna fix it a little
Speaker 1: bit from a different doctor. That's their specialty. That's not
Speaker 1: that doctor's presual.
Speaker 2: I thought it was a specialty. He's like a really
Speaker 2: good doctor.
Speaker 1: He did. That's not a specialty. You got to go
Speaker 1: to the specialty one and you'll be fine. Trust me,
Speaker 1: you don't have to get twelve new Veneers. You don't
Speaker 1: have to get the cheek lids.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go to Columbia. I'm gonna go there and
Speaker 3: just get the good one. The girl I can't remember
Speaker 3: her name, but she.
Speaker 1: Just you get teeth. The teeth because we're together, can't
Speaker 1: get teeth you, we're never getting to I don't want
Speaker 1: get teeth.
Speaker 2: That's where I draw the line. So I draw the
Speaker 2: line in money.
Speaker 1: I don't know some of the tooth.
Speaker 3: I can't get the teeth I refuse. That's where I
Speaker 3: draw the fucking line in wealth and riches. Okay, there's
Speaker 3: certain esthetics. Who can't tap into teeth is one of them.
Speaker 2: It's crazy.
Speaker 3: If you ever change your gap, I'm not getting that
Speaker 3: to you. You imagine Jamila with a closed gap. Guys,
Speaker 3: that's that's kind of like my worst nightmare.
Speaker 1: I had it. I just lost my retainer.
Speaker 2: It's terrifying.
Speaker 3: Don't ever close it, okay, especially because you need it
Speaker 3: for giving head now Flittmans.
Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks for those tips.
Speaker 3: Anyway, that's my chip story. And whoever asked that, fuck
Speaker 3: you because I'm triggered now. Oh baby, it's fun. You're beautiful.
Speaker 4: Thanks.
Speaker 1: What's your wildest sex fantasy?
Speaker 2: My wildest sex fantasy?
Speaker 3: M Well, I've always like I want to get I'll
Speaker 3: let you know I missed up, so I really want
Speaker 3: to get tied up in a really like kind of
Speaker 3: like have you ever seen like the bondage ones where
Speaker 3: they like put you in these really fucked up positions
Speaker 3: they hang.
Speaker 1: You mm hmm. That's suspended, suspended, like and like where
Speaker 1: you're literally like you have no choice.
Speaker 3: That's a sex fantasy that I want, but I want
Speaker 3: people to be there and watch me. O, Yeah, your
Speaker 3: friends are like strangers.
Speaker 2: And then both.
Speaker 1: A nice make sure balance sprinkle okay.
Speaker 3: And then because my boo is kind of like he's
Speaker 3: kind of like a rock he's like rock and roll,
Speaker 3: sort of like he would be wearing leather, like a
Speaker 3: leather vest or something, and like I don't know, I
Speaker 3: just see him like in his dom space, just really
Speaker 3: tapped in and yeah, I just relinquishing control in front
Speaker 3: of everyone.
Speaker 1: Huh. You know you think you know everything about somebody,
Speaker 1: then you don't you could or could not possibly be
Speaker 1: there in the fantasy.
Speaker 3: I don't think this is a surprise. I've kind of
Speaker 3: lightly done all of these things. It makes sense that
Speaker 3: it all like combos basically need the whole experience combined.
Speaker 1: It's true. I'm trying to think of like my wild okay,
Speaker 1: like my wildest sex fantasy. So probably my wildest sex
Speaker 1: fantasy maybe like being dominated gently by like two girthy,
Speaker 1: big penis finass men, but also being catered to, but
Speaker 1: also having to submit and like being taken advantage of
Speaker 1: and maybe being like the babysitter and it's like what,
Speaker 1: I'm the babysitter and like that's like the dad and
Speaker 1: his friend and they're like taking advantage of me something
Speaker 1: like that. Got it?
Speaker 2: Okay makes sense?
Speaker 1: Are you surprised? No? Okay?
Speaker 4: What is.
Speaker 1: Your ultimate go to sex position?
Speaker 2: Mmm? Dogy style?
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that's universal. You know I've mentioned to
Speaker 1: like cowgirl. Yeah. I just want you to look at
Speaker 1: it this up, check it out. Check what I got
Speaker 1: right here? M h. I forgot to tell you that
Speaker 1: I used your your last tory in Mexico and I
Speaker 1: put my section cup dildo on the windows and it
Speaker 1: was a very nice touch. It was a surprise. Orlando's like, oh,
Speaker 1: I was like, you like that. He's like kissing me
Speaker 1: while I was sucking from the back. Speaking of the back.
Speaker 3: Yeah, speaking of which, wait, randomly, have you you know
Speaker 3: you know Kevin Gates?
Speaker 1: Right? Oh my god, yes, you just send the video?
Speaker 2: Why do I send the post?
Speaker 1: I mean that they're like when he was talking about
Speaker 1: he was talking to cretion Okay city girls yay yeah
Speaker 1: in Miami Orlando showed me that and I was like,
Speaker 1: I sent it to my boo and he was like,
Speaker 1: what are you trying toll me?
Speaker 2: And what did you say?
Speaker 3: I said, this termed me on because this is what
Speaker 3: we did and it turned you on, so stop playing.
Speaker 3: Like but I don't know if you've seen this Kevin
Speaker 3: Gates clip where he talks about like or she said,
Speaker 3: what would you do if, like I slept with someone
Speaker 3: else or something? He's like, if you was Margaro and
Speaker 3: you fuck somebody else, I'm gonna ask you where's the video?
Speaker 1: You're gonna show me the video? He was like, dead face,
Speaker 1: this is I could tell that type of man. It's
Speaker 1: a manipulation. But he's like, I'm gonna get inside your
Speaker 1: head and I'm gonna fuck you good. I could see
Speaker 1: all the manipulation all poured all over Kevin Gates. When
Speaker 1: I watched that video, He's like, I want to interview
Speaker 1: him me too, give me a little bit of that toxicity.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 1: When I saw that, I was like, He's like, you're
Speaker 1: gonna show me the video and she's like what. He's like,
Speaker 1: are you gonna show me the video you gave. I
Speaker 1: can get rock hot and I can brush that ship down.
Speaker 1: I was like, well, she looked like she was taken aback. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you had taken aback a city girl, well, g mile, golly,
Speaker 1: you really did it. Can someone call him and tell
Speaker 1: him good moms it's calling out for him. I m him, Oh, perfect.
Speaker 3: He hasn't answered yet because he has a million point
Speaker 3: for followers. But you know, to be the somewhere on.
Speaker 1: That back page, somebody listening knows Kevin Gates.
Speaker 2: Kevin the good moms are looking for him.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: We'll come to where he's at. Where's live Atlanta? Maybe?
Speaker 2: I don't know, No, he lives here.
Speaker 1: I think he does live here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he doesn't even farm with Draca.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's it's it's done clear. I think, yeah, they do
Speaker 1: have a farm in it's here, yeah. Or I don't
Speaker 1: know why that voice, I'm like, are you from Houston?
Speaker 1: Where do you live? Yeah? That that video I got like.
Speaker 1: I got like I would have like my old self
Speaker 1: would have gotten a little wet, but I got triggered.
Speaker 2: I felt both sides.
Speaker 1: I was like, you're on some bullshit. I was like
Speaker 1: this is how he gets girls fucked up.
Speaker 2: I was like, I know better than to do this,
Speaker 2: but I can still appreciate. I could have asked how
Speaker 2: I felt. I was like, I know, I know this
Speaker 2: is You're not a sustainable man.
Speaker 1: But I like your style. Like your style taught that
Speaker 1: shit Kevin, I mean Kevin Samuel's podcast of women podcasting.
Speaker 1: You're not a sustainable man. You told me exactly what
Speaker 1: I want. You ain't a high value man. You don't
Speaker 1: have an emotional intelligence. Are you healed? Have you gone
Speaker 1: to a retreat? Oh my god, you would think that
Speaker 1: we're the women's Kevin Samuel is the way niggas hate us, Like,
Speaker 1: whoa calm down?
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Someone said, what do you consider a whole phase?
Speaker 3: I mean whole phase whenever you are just tapping into
Speaker 3: whatever your needs are and wants our sexually. I don't know,
Speaker 3: like hoh is such a subjective word. So I mean,
Speaker 3: what does home mean to you?
Speaker 1: I mean to me, like a little extra fucking. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was a little extra fucking that month, like she
Speaker 1: was doing a little extra face. Yeah. I was like
Speaker 1: like two months ago, had this whole phase. I was like,
Speaker 1: okay for me, this is I go through.
Speaker 2: I call them seasons.
Speaker 1: I was just like, maybe I was juggling a lot
Speaker 1: of niggas that month. You know, I was just juggling
Speaker 1: little really, I.
Speaker 2: Was expediting, my exploring my wants and needs. I was
Speaker 2: just exploration.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's kind of like like you know, you take
Speaker 1: an intensive course, you know, an intensive train, you expation,
Speaker 1: You're like expedition. Boo boo boo boo, boom, boom boom, and.
Speaker 2: Then they're like yet, no, no, nope, Okay, I'm so
Speaker 2: glad I did that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So when you do that, that's what others I mean,
Speaker 3: at least to us.
Speaker 1: But I think some generally people think that's a negative connotation.
Speaker 1: But sometimes you need the HO phase to you know,
Speaker 1: heal first. How later, sometimes the HOE isn't the healing
Speaker 1: mm hmm yep, because sometimes you've been suppressed, your your
Speaker 1: sexuality has been suppressed, you've been judged, you've been shamed,
Speaker 1: and you need to tap into that, like you could
Speaker 1: do what you want with your body, and if it's
Speaker 1: intentional and with someone respects your body, and you respect
Speaker 1: your body and nor loving yourself and that's honoring the
Speaker 1: needs at that time and that, my dear is the
Speaker 1: positive hoe.
Speaker 3: Literally, the whole exploration of my like the beginning of
Speaker 3: my singleness, and the reason in which I think we
Speaker 3: even might have a podcast was because I had a
Speaker 3: HO phase that needed to happen.
Speaker 1: I think it's called the positive HO phase. I just
Speaker 1: coined it in my mind, that positive hope.
Speaker 2: The positive spine.
Speaker 3: I had a positive HO phase that that triggered my healing.
Speaker 3: I was lost in the sorrow of sadness, and I
Speaker 3: needed to get out there and explore my sex, my sensuality,
Speaker 3: my sexuality with a few different people to kind of
Speaker 3: trigger the things like, oh, oh wait, I am this
Speaker 3: is valuable. Oh I am fine as fuck. Oh I
Speaker 3: do have something to offer. Oh I have choices here,
Speaker 3: you know, to then really trigger the healing. So I
Speaker 3: think the hoing can happen first, and I encourage you
Speaker 3: to explore what that looks like for you. Now, if
Speaker 3: you're doing a lot of hoing and not a lot
Speaker 3: of healing, you might have to that's.
Speaker 1: What you have to explore if you're doing it to
Speaker 1: avoid the he the healing. Yeah, and I think also
Speaker 1: you have to, like I think, as women, sometimes there's
Speaker 1: this idea that if you're having sex with someone, it
Speaker 1: needs to be you know, a certain level of relation
Speaker 1: or like a certain level of accountability or like intention.
Speaker 1: But like people, I think sometimes people like you can
Speaker 1: use people for mutual usage and that's healthy and when
Speaker 1: it's in exchange, and sometimes the purpose is not to
Speaker 1: marry or like, that's okay. Doesn't have to be this
Speaker 1: forever thought, and even if you're looking for that, sometimes
Speaker 1: it's nice to date and you know, and let people
Speaker 1: come and go as they please. You know, everything doesn't
Speaker 1: have to be this huge, deep commitment and it could
Speaker 1: still be healthy and respectful and fulfilling physically and for
Speaker 1: what you need at that time.
Speaker 2: M agreed, And.
Speaker 1: That's the truth. Your hostage or NAT, your hostage, you're
Speaker 1: like that whole experience face, Oh yeah, that thing that
Speaker 1: you did was like that was the thing that made
Speaker 1: me relate to you and be like, oh, we're more
Speaker 1: like than we are different. I don't know why that
Speaker 1: was the thing. I was like, oh, yeah, this is
Speaker 1: this is my people. And it made me much more
Speaker 1: comfortable with you. And we had been friends, but it
Speaker 1: made me much like feel much more comfortable with you.
Speaker 1: And obviously we had just started the same embark of
Speaker 1: like sing motherhood, so I felt like, you know, but
Speaker 1: tapping into your sexuality and owning it is radical, and
Speaker 1: it could like really shift when you start making the rules.
Speaker 1: You know, like we live in society that have made
Speaker 1: so many rules over our bodies and over women, and
Speaker 1: so there is an activation that happens when you take
Speaker 1: control of that narrative and decide what that means for yourself.
Speaker 1: And sometimes it means like some people can't fuck like recreationally.
Speaker 1: Some women just can't do it, some men can't do
Speaker 1: it. It's not for everybody.
Speaker 3: Sharing in that intimacy is what brought us together, right,
Speaker 3: I shared something really intimate with you, which sex isn't
Speaker 3: is intimate.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: There's so many ways in which I think the ways
Speaker 3: to think sharing makes people come close quickly. One of
Speaker 3: those things is sharing your sexual experiences with someone, Like period,
Speaker 3: when you share something like you know it like when
Speaker 3: you share something with someone that you obviously you feel
Speaker 3: like you can trust, Like there's a level of trust
Speaker 3: that's built there. And that can be whether you're talking
Speaker 3: about sex, whether you're talking about like something like a
Speaker 3: tragedy or something that's you know, a trauma. Like the
Speaker 3: act of sharing those intimate vulnerabilities is kind of the
Speaker 3: whole reason we have this podcast in general.
Speaker 1: So and honestly sharing has made me like give less fucks,
Speaker 1: you know. I realize I'm gonna say things that are
Speaker 1: not perfect. I'm gonna say things that I probably like
Speaker 1: I don't feel that way anymore. But like and being
Speaker 1: transparent and like even not vain, you know, like gave
Speaker 1: me like our hair braided, and like not always showing
Speaker 1: up beautifully. It kind of like reminds me that I
Speaker 1: can't even like it's impossible to live up to like
Speaker 1: this standard all the time. And just being vulnerable and
Speaker 1: honest with yourself. Really, yeah, I love you. I love
Speaker 1: you too. Someone said, how has life changed since start
Speaker 1: of the podcast?
Speaker 3: I mean, there's so many ways that it's changed, and
Speaker 3: there's still ways that it's still the same a lot
Speaker 3: of ways, you know, I think, I personally, like emotionally,
Speaker 3: I'm in a different place.
Speaker 2: I am.
Speaker 3: I feel more healed obviously in certain places that I
Speaker 3: was really hurt.
Speaker 2: Then I'm more educated.
Speaker 1: I feel I'm more free, for sure, I'm more free.
Speaker 1: I'm I don't know, I feel way more empowered and
Speaker 1: activated every day to knowing that I have my I
Speaker 1: found my purpose. I didn't know I didn't have a
Speaker 1: purpose before I started the podcast, and especially like after
Speaker 1: having my daughter, I was like, my purpose is to
Speaker 1: just be a mom. Now I don't know what that means.
Speaker 1: I knew that that couldn't be it Like no, but
Speaker 1: like what was it? So I think I just feel
Speaker 1: more purposeful, I feel more whole, I feel more confident.
Speaker 1: I just feel fucking good overall. You know, there's things,
Speaker 1: there's things that are still there though I'm still working
Speaker 1: on certain things. I'm still living in certain places that
Speaker 1: I want to live, you know, Like, but I'm blessed,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: And so.
Speaker 3: Podcasting has been a catalyst to so much in my life.
Speaker 3: It's changed my life and it's continuing to every single day.
Speaker 3: So and really that's just the act of talking and sharing.
Speaker 3: Just like we were talking about in the last question,
Speaker 3: like just being able to be myself and show both
Speaker 3: myself has been like that's the biggest fucking flexible.
Speaker 1: Wow, Well said, yeah, that's fucking true. Like it's like
Speaker 1: podcasting I think has been like this uh rapid healing,
Speaker 1: you know, this like a very like not on purpose accountability,
Speaker 1: you know, like constant accountability, just to be saying shit
Speaker 1: out loud, like getting literally out into the cipher, like
Speaker 1: speaking spells, constantly asking for things and it it's like
Speaker 1: it's motivated me and empowered me so much. And I
Speaker 1: think I have the ability to grow faster because I'm
Speaker 1: talking and listening so much, and I feel enriched by
Speaker 1: like my community and my tribe. I feel yeah, purposeful,
Speaker 1: and like I found truly my purpose and because I've
Speaker 1: I'm walking in my purpose because I'm being myself. It's
Speaker 1: just manifesting very easily. And I think really mostly like
Speaker 1: I realized that I'm fucking magic, like literally I am
Speaker 1: the alchemist of my life and all by talking honestly
Speaker 1: about who I am, right right, you know. And I
Speaker 1: think I'd noticed that like then writing the book, you know,
Speaker 1: like it's kind of crazy.
Speaker 2: It's so cool to like watch each other.
Speaker 3: I think about like watching your evolution from like the
Speaker 3: moment we met and like really reflecting on it and
Speaker 3: seeing like the journey of everything that you've gone through
Speaker 3: up until this moment, like and being able to witness
Speaker 3: it is so fucking crazy and cool, you know, And
Speaker 3: like and also like our children being a reflection of
Speaker 3: that too, like watching these little humans, like there's there's
Speaker 3: so many like visuals of the evolution and points of reference,
Speaker 3: which is crazy. And this audio journal that I'll have
Speaker 3: my whole life where I can go back and be like.
Speaker 1: I forgot, well, how was I when I was thirty?
Speaker 2: Bitch? Let me go listen?
Speaker 1: Hold on? Yeah, for sure, you know, like it's kind
Speaker 1: of crazy. It's like a healing tornado. That's what I
Speaker 1: feel like. It's just like spinning quickly and getting bigger
Speaker 1: and like gathering more energy, gathering more like like when
Speaker 1: you when you start to believe in it and it
Speaker 1: starts to happen effortlessly without thought. Then I just feel
Speaker 1: like I've unlocked a different level of like existing of
Speaker 1: like experiencing pleasure, you know, like what I do me
Speaker 1: so much joy that I'm constantly making sure that everything
Speaker 1: that I do in my life also brings me joy,
Speaker 1: and I'm noticing it really quickly when it doesn't, Like damn,
Speaker 1: my body hurts, I'm not doing something right. Like I'm
Speaker 1: constantly clear about what feels good and what doesn't because
Speaker 1: I've been doing what feels good and the more I
Speaker 1: do it, the more it's easier to navigate what does
Speaker 1: not And the more I like remove that, the easier
Speaker 1: it becomes to manifest m.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to get trim the fat basically. Yeah,
Speaker 3: stop hurting yourself, get comfortable being in pain in our
Speaker 3: physical bodies, in our emotional bodies. Like people like, oh,
Speaker 3: my stomach always hurts. I'm like, and we're still not
Speaker 3: like that was me, Like I'm always like, I know
Speaker 3: I'm in pain. Like why do I keep doing and
Speaker 3: eating and consuming the things that like hurt me? Like
Speaker 3: why do I keep introducing the same type of people
Speaker 3: or men in my life that I know are going
Speaker 3: to give me the same result? Like all these things
Speaker 3: that we do.
Speaker 1: When you become self aware, Yeah, it bleeds into every
Speaker 1: level of your life and you can literally you can't
Speaker 1: ignore it anymore.
Speaker 2: You can't. You could, but that'd be crazy because it's just.
Speaker 1: It hurts you and you feel the pain more more intensely. Yeah, Like, oh,
Speaker 1: I gotta let you go. I gotta let that meet.
Speaker 3: Well, it's almost like this card you pulled, and like
Speaker 3: life will sit your ass down. If you're not still,
Speaker 3: you'll be sick, You'll things won't progress for you anymore.
Speaker 3: Everything will stand still an affirmation and discord. Okay, let
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Speaker 1: I kind of like this one. I am at peace
Speaker 1: with my former I'm at peace with my former versions
Speaker 1: of myself. Her mistakes were hers to have and not
Speaker 1: mine to carry. I am at peace with with with
Speaker 1: my former versions of myself. Her mistakes were hers to have,
Speaker 1: not mine to carry.
Speaker 2: Her mistakes were hers to have and not mine to carry.
Speaker 1: Yes, let it go, Let it go, and fuck anyone
Speaker 1: that tries to hold you to it. You can change,
Speaker 1: you can shift, you can change the trajectory. You can
Speaker 1: let go of that person, of that relationship, and you
Speaker 1: don't have to carry it because this is your path
Speaker 1: and you only get one time in this life this way.
Speaker 1: Honor yourself. Well.
Speaker 2: I love you.
Speaker 1: I love you too. I wouldn't rather be doing this
Speaker 1: with anyone else.
Speaker 2: I know me neither.
Speaker 3: I text you that yesterday I was like off the
Speaker 3: phone and we were talking about so many things. I
Speaker 3: was like, I hope she knows, like how much I
Speaker 3: love doing this shit with her. It's crazy, but I'm
Speaker 3: excited still.
Speaker 1: I still you know, yeah, I still feel like when
Speaker 1: we like when we first started it, I still feel,
Speaker 1: if not more like giddy and fun about it. Like
Speaker 1: I still feel the same way when you ask me,
Speaker 1: do you want to do a podcast with me? I'm
Speaker 1: still like, oh, really, okay, Like you know when you're
Speaker 1: like little and you like have something new and I
Speaker 1: told you. I feel like I remember telling my friends
Speaker 1: like Air asked me to start a podcast with her,
Speaker 1: Like she's like really, I'm like, yeah, We're totally doing it.
Speaker 1: What does that mean. I don't know, We're going to
Speaker 1: do stuff, We're gonna talk a lot. Yeah. I was
Speaker 1: so excited and I still feel that way, And I
Speaker 1: just love you so much more and I'm so grateful
Speaker 1: that we get to do these things together and travel together,
Speaker 1: and make the rules together and fucking manifest together and
Speaker 1: just see each other through. I would not imagine doing
Speaker 1: all this shit with anyone else. I think someone asked
Speaker 1: us in like somewhere if we're hav any other business
Speaker 1: ventures outside each other. I was like, what the fuck?
Speaker 3: Is wrong with them. I was like, they're trying to
Speaker 3: break us up. Look at these people making us do
Speaker 3: independent shit.
Speaker 1: Delete them, delete it. That's why your fucking question didn't
Speaker 1: get in. This fucking a fuck. Now she's not leaving
Speaker 1: me ever. Okay, go to an audition, stay here, come here?
Speaker 2: Can she come to?
Speaker 1: I mean can you? I said, bring my assistant because
Speaker 1: oh my goodness, oh my god.
Speaker 3: All right, guys, well we love you to make sure
Speaker 3: you rate and review this episode on Apple Podcast.
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