WEBVTT - Mommy Trade (feat. Honey Pluton)

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<v Speaker 1>What I knew a twink to be growing up as

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<v Speaker 1>a young gay person. Like that definition no longer stands now, Yeah, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just thought that a twink was like a

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<v Speaker 1>super skinny, short faggot who wears like Andrew Kristian underwear.

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<v Speaker 2>That's still true?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that still true? And works at the mad counter?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Like to me, that's.

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<v Speaker 2>She's sheen a me no may none yo, no no,

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<v Speaker 2>what is your childhood?

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<v Speaker 3>I am your life's going down before.

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<v Speaker 2>Like round, Welcome to Like a Virgin, the show where

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<v Speaker 2>we give yesterday's pop culture today's takes. I'm Rose, dam you.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm fran Torodo.

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<v Speaker 2>Before we get into today's episode, we wanted to let

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<v Speaker 2>you know that we are doing a live show on

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<v Speaker 4>It's gonna be so so fun. Rose and I have

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, get your tickets now at the bellhousean why dot Com?

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<v Speaker 2>That is the Bellhouse and why dot Com? And we

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<v Speaker 2>are coming to you from different coasts. Different is out

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<v Speaker 2>of town right now for a very special reason. You

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<v Speaker 2>want to tell the girlies all about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I left town specifically to escape New York's air

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<v Speaker 4>quality the Pacific Northwest, where all of the air smells

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<v Speaker 4>like juniper and fresh sea salt water.

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<v Speaker 5>This is just you know, the place to be breathing air.

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<v Speaker 5>Love it here.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what's the real reason.

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<v Speaker 4>The real reason is Justin bought me tickets to see

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<v Speaker 4>Jonny Mitchell's first plan performance in twenty years. So me

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<v Speaker 4>and my besties got into a little car and drove

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<v Speaker 4>to this place called the Gorge Amphitheater.

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<v Speaker 5>Have you ever heard of it?

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<v Speaker 4>I had never heard of it before, so all three

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<v Speaker 4>Lilith Fares stopped by the Gorge Amphitheater. It is an

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<v Speaker 4>iconic venue. Yes, now you know the vibe. Iconic venue

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<v Speaker 4>in a literal gorge that seats like twenty thousand people

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<v Speaker 4>and you know the.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, estrogens seeped into the ground. Yes, okay, in the trees.

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<v Speaker 4>So here's a bunch of information that was like I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't have going into this, and then when I got

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<v Speaker 4>there found out very quickly, which is that this weekend

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<v Speaker 4>was not just a Joni Mitchell performance. It was actually

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<v Speaker 4>this festival that Brandy Carlisle puts on every year called

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<v Speaker 4>Ladies of the Canyon or like Echoes of the Canyon

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<v Speaker 4>or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I've heard of it.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I did not realize, but she so.

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<v Speaker 4>Brandy Carlyle is obviously a legend, one of like the

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<v Speaker 4>key kind of a musician's musician in my opinion, and

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<v Speaker 4>has so many different connections and loves, love and relationships

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<v Speaker 4>with you know, amazing you know, music artists across everywhere always,

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<v Speaker 4>and so she brings in all of these musicians to

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<v Speaker 4>do shows at the Gorge, which is a venue that

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<v Speaker 4>she grew up going to seeing like Bowie and going

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<v Speaker 4>to Lila Fair and all the different stuff. And so

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<v Speaker 4>she decided to do this Joni Mitchell performance in large

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<v Speaker 4>part because about five years ago Brandy started to become

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<v Speaker 4>friends with Joni through her wife, and one time Joni

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<v Speaker 4>was like.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I have a music room and it's pretty

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<v Speaker 5>lonely in there, and I feel like maybe I could

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<v Speaker 5>have some music music artist sober to maybe jam sometime.

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<v Speaker 5>Which are you in?

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<v Speaker 2>And Brandy Carlo, of course, was extremely offensive. Joni Mitchell, im.

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<v Speaker 5>That's literally what she sounds like. Now She's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>my name is Joni Mitchell. I don't think that's actually

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<v Speaker 5>that bad, but I'll have to listen to it. Back

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<v Speaker 5>to the side.

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<v Speaker 4>So, anyways, Joni invites Brandy over for these Joni jams.

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<v Speaker 4>This is part of this is an essential part of

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<v Speaker 4>like the lore by the way to the concert. I

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<v Speaker 4>think it really builds out the story in a way

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<v Speaker 4>that helps you understand what exactly you saw if you ever.

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<v Speaker 2>See any judge of that.

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<v Speaker 4>So she so the very first Joni jam that Brandy

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<v Speaker 4>ever went to over at Jonie's house in her music room.

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<v Speaker 5>She brought Hosier and I think, like, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Really know any of Hosier's music. I'm either not not

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<v Speaker 2>on that wavelength the girl. You know, I don't like

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<v Speaker 2>to listen to men sing yeah yeah, yeah me either.

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<v Speaker 5>The girls love Hosier.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know anything about Hosier but anyway, she brought

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<v Speaker 4>Hosier over anything one of the music artists trying to

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<v Speaker 4>impress Joni. And I think they all felt like because

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<v Speaker 4>Jonni was recovering from a stroke, a stroke that wherein

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<v Speaker 4>she had to literally learn how to speak again. Like

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't, I forgot this that like after her her

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<v Speaker 4>brain aneurysm, Janie fully had to like relearn how to

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<v Speaker 4>like walk and talk and all this different stuff. So

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<v Speaker 4>I think Brandy and her friends assumed that they were

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<v Speaker 4>going over to just perform for Joni because she couldn't

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<v Speaker 4>perform anymore. And lo and behold that, you know, Brandy

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<v Speaker 4>does a song for Joni, Hosier does a song for Joni,

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<v Speaker 4>and then all of a sudden, Shaka Khan walks in

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<v Speaker 4>because Jonie invited Shaka Khan to like the Joni jam

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<v Speaker 4>or whatever, and so they start playing some music, and

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<v Speaker 4>then Herbie Hancock walks in, legendary pianists, and he starts

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<v Speaker 4>coming in and playing some songs, and then he starts

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<v Speaker 4>playing you know, like a few keys or whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>And Brandy Carlisle tells this story saying that like they

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<v Speaker 5>were listening to Herbie play the piano, and then all

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<v Speaker 5>of a sudden, Joni Mitchell goes, so mutime.

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<v Speaker 4>Do do and starts singing like jazz, and so they

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<v Speaker 4>all start jamming together. And then that became this kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like monthly tradition of Joni jams where people like

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<v Speaker 4>Elton John and like other folks would like come in,

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<v Speaker 4>Sarah McLaughlin, Annie Lennox, all these people would come in

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<v Speaker 4>and do these little jams with Joni. And I think

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<v Speaker 4>the reason I'm prefacing all of this is because one,

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<v Speaker 4>because it's Brandy Carlile's festival. It was literally, no exaggeration,

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<v Speaker 4>twenty thousand lesbians on this campsite. Twenty thousand lesbians. Imagine

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<v Speaker 4>that it's a lot of super rus. It's a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of super reforesters. Highlight of the I mean, so we

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<v Speaker 4>were like camping out in like, uh, there's like this

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<v Speaker 4>campsite where in everyone has it's kind of like tailgate culture.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you ever tailgate?

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<v Speaker 4>Rouas you seem like you would be really into tail

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<v Speaker 4>You seem like you, but you seem like someone who'd

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<v Speaker 4>be really into like the ceremony of like posting up

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<v Speaker 4>next to your car, like you know, drinking, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>a having a sandwich or like no okay, no no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 4>no okay. Anyways, it's like it's like tailgating, but you're

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<v Speaker 4>camping next to your car in this like lawn filled

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<v Speaker 4>with you know, probably a thousand something cars and people

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<v Speaker 4>who are waiting to see Joony. One hundred percent of

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<v Speaker 4>the people that I talked to were lesbians. There was

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<v Speaker 4>actually a moment where our car battery died because I

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<v Speaker 4>was playing music out of our cars.

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<v Speaker 5>Our car battery died.

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<v Speaker 4>And like we were freaking out for like approximately forty seconds,

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<v Speaker 4>and then I go no, wait, wait, wait, like we're

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<v Speaker 4>gonna be fine. We are in this lesbian we're surrounded

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<v Speaker 4>by lesbian like we're gonna be fine. And literally, like

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<v Speaker 4>I walked over to our neighbor and I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, do you know anybody that has jumper cables?

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<v Speaker 4>And then she goes, she turns out into the and

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<v Speaker 4>imagine like they're like hundreds and hundreds in our surrounding

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<v Speaker 4>area of like people at their different car campsites, and

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<v Speaker 4>a girl just turn turns around, she goes and they

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<v Speaker 4>want to have jumper cables, and like nine different lesbians

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<v Speaker 4>like pop out the holes hold it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, like what kind what pride you need?

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<v Speaker 2>She like, it's like it's like that scene of a

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<v Speaker 2>Little Mermaid where Ariel blows the cottage who it was giving.

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<v Speaker 5>It was so funny, it was so cinematic.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm just trying to set the scene for you

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<v Speaker 4>in that By the time I've gotten to Joni, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>already fully immersed and inducted into this lesbian commune. Like

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<v Speaker 4>we're sharing clothes, we're making each other meals, We're like

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<v Speaker 4>going to concert together with like literal strangers that I've

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<v Speaker 4>just met at you know, Brandy's Ladies of the Canyon.

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<v Speaker 5>Festival or whatever. I am now a Lady of the Canyon.

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<v Speaker 4>And I guess on stage they were trying to replicate

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<v Speaker 4>this Jony Jam idea, which I thought was amazing. So

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<v Speaker 4>there's like couches, lamps, a carpet on stage and like

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of couches and seats, like a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>room proceeding, which I was kind of like, what's going

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<v Speaker 4>to happen? And Brandy opens for her, which is awesome,

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<v Speaker 4>and then brings out Joni and they play this little

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<v Speaker 4>like kind of jazz tribute and she just like walks

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<v Speaker 4>very slowly on set with her cane and her assist

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<v Speaker 4>and like and like the second she sat down rose

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<v Speaker 4>and she just says.

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<v Speaker 5>Something like thank you, it's so good to see you.

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<v Speaker 4>And she does like her little laugh, and I immediately

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<v Speaker 4>started crying because the sound of her laugh is so

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<v Speaker 4>it had just literally really just.

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<v Speaker 5>The sound of her laugh had such.

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<v Speaker 4>A long history, like emotional place in my body that

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<v Speaker 4>I just know I was literally in our theme Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>it's literally in our theme music. I started getting emotional.

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<v Speaker 4>And then they immediately launched into big yellow taxi and

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<v Speaker 4>I just started ecstatically crying. And the woman next to me,

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<v Speaker 4>who was probably in her seventies, who had seen Jenny

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<v Speaker 4>Mitchell twice I think, had seen Johnny Mitchell twice before

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<v Speaker 4>moved to the Pacific Northwest specifically because weed was legal there,

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<v Speaker 4>and is in love with has been in love with

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<v Speaker 4>Paul McCartney since she was twelve years old.

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<v Speaker 5>She told me, like walks over, she.

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<v Speaker 4>Goes, hey, it's okay, dude, Like it's she's like trying

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<v Speaker 4>to confess.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like trying to like comfort me because I'm crying

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<v Speaker 2>so so hysterically.

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<v Speaker 4>And the thing about Jonie and this whole performance is

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<v Speaker 4>that Jonie can't really she doesn't have you know, the

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<v Speaker 4>Canaries voice anymore. She can't really hit the notes. She

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<v Speaker 4>has you know gone, she's had a stroke. She learned

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<v Speaker 4>how to talk again, learned how to sing again. And

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<v Speaker 4>on top of that, she is an eighty year old

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<v Speaker 4>woman who has smoked a lifetime of cigarettes and a

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<v Speaker 4>lifetime of marijuana, and so there the kind of coherency

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<v Speaker 4>and ability to actually like perform, it's all there. She

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<v Speaker 4>knows what she's doing, and she was definitely in command

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<v Speaker 4>of the performance. She was the hero, the center. She

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<v Speaker 4>was on a throne, and surrounding her was her backup

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<v Speaker 4>vocals and players, which included Sarah McLaughlin, Annie Lennox, Brandy Carlisle,

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<v Speaker 4>Marcus Mumford on guitar. Like all these people that had

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<v Speaker 4>like shown up for her because they love her and

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<v Speaker 4>you know, had been doing Joni Jamson wanted to support her.

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<v Speaker 4>And something that I realized very quickly is that Jonie's

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<v Speaker 4>voice could not, like because of the quality and what

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<v Speaker 4>she's able to do, her own voice and performing quality

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<v Speaker 4>would not have made a concert like There's no way

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<v Speaker 4>she could just got to get up there with a

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<v Speaker 4>band because of the stage she's in her career, but

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<v Speaker 4>the for her to bring on this ensemble and for

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<v Speaker 4>them to sing and play back of her in a

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<v Speaker 4>way that's kind of truly jammy.

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<v Speaker 2>Like.

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<v Speaker 4>Things were off tempo, a little off key sometimes. There

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<v Speaker 4>was this cacophony of background sounds and instruments that built

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<v Speaker 4>that were that was built around Joni's voice to supplement it,

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<v Speaker 4>and that was something that made it so much more beautiful.

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<v Speaker 4>And I ah, it was just like you came to

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<v Speaker 4>watch that, you know, does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 5>Can you even?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 5>It's like so it was so it was such.

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<v Speaker 4>A wild, wild experience and they all took turns like

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<v Speaker 4>doing tributes to like Sarah McLaughlin did Blue and Anny

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<v Speaker 4>Linix did Lady of Ladies of the Canyon. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 4>it was so incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like a very once in a lifetime kind

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<v Speaker 2>of experience.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it really really felt like that, like it it

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<v Speaker 4>felt it felt like a pilgrimage, like it felt like

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<v Speaker 4>a mecca and so many for lesbians. Yes, and it was,

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<v Speaker 4>and it was such a adjacent and it was such

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<v Speaker 4>a vast range of people, like we were definitely the

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<v Speaker 4>youngest people there, but it was a huge range of

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<v Speaker 4>people and yet of course like pretty much the exact

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<v Speaker 4>same person.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, like it was a lot of camping, white

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<v Speaker 5>lesbian types.

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<v Speaker 2>Ari I really got emptied by those women on their

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<v Speaker 2>way to the festival.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh girl, the jumper cables are sold out at ari

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<v Speaker 4>I for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's so amazing. I'm so happy that you got

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<v Speaker 2>to experience that.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you have a favorite Jony song?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a Case of You. I have always said

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<v Speaker 2>that if I ever were to get married, which I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going to, that is the song that I would

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<v Speaker 2>have my first dance to. I think it's the romance.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's the most romantic song ever written.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think it's the greatest love song ever written.

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<v Speaker 4>But I also really like all I want.

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<v Speaker 5>I want to talk to you? What a shampoo you?

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<v Speaker 5>I want to shampoo you. Would you let me shampoo

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<v Speaker 5>you if it was wash day?

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<v Speaker 2>Ummm no, I'm very specific about my hair.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So your favorite Jenni Mitchell song is Case of You.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you ever cried listening to that song?

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<v Speaker 2>Many? Many times?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really? What about? So?

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<v Speaker 4>Basically you are Emma Thompson in Not the Holiday? What's

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<v Speaker 4>the holiday, but for heterosexual and love and love actually

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<v Speaker 4>love actually.

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<v Speaker 2>That is actually a good way of putting out the

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<v Speaker 2>holiday for heterosexuals, that is it? Yeah, you were Emma Thompson.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that make me Alan Rickman? I don't think no,

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<v Speaker 2>I think you're Mitchell Laura. You're Laura Lenny.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, because I will cock block myself so that I

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<v Speaker 4>can take care of the people that I love.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Rose, what did you do this weekend? I saw

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<v Speaker 2>The boogey Man on Friday night, which was it's a

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<v Speaker 2>new horror movie based on a Stephen King short story.

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<v Speaker 2>It's one of the girls from Yellow Jackets is in it,

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<v Speaker 2>which one which Jacket young Juliette lewis one with the

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<v Speaker 2>blonde hair and the roots that have not grown out appropriately.

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<v Speaker 2>She was good. She was good. And then yesterday I

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<v Speaker 2>did something that I didn't think I was going to do,

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<v Speaker 2>which was I watched the first two episodes of The Idol.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I am watching that on my flight.

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<v Speaker 5>What did you say? So?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'll be interested to hear your thoughts, but

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I had kind of decided that I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>going to watch it. Yeah, everyone who listens to this

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<v Speaker 2>podcast knows I'm not a Sam Levinson fan. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>watch Euphoria, but you know, I was thinking about it

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<v Speaker 2>yesterday and like, I just don't want to have opinions

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<v Speaker 2>on things without actually being able to judge them for myself,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. So I thought, if I was going to

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<v Speaker 2>like take this stance that this show was bad, that

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<v Speaker 2>I should actually watch it and see if it was.

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<v Speaker 2>And surprisingly I liked it. You like the idol, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't think it's amazing. I think you

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<v Speaker 2>know the first episode and you know, when you watch it,

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<v Speaker 2>let me know what you think. But the first half

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<v Speaker 2>of the first episode I really liked because it focuses

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<v Speaker 2>on Lily Rose Depp's character Jocelyn, who's this pop star

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<v Speaker 2>who's gone through a mental breakdown and is trying to

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<v Speaker 2>like have her big comeback moment, and the first half

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<v Speaker 2>of the episode is exploring that part of the story

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<v Speaker 2>and her team, which is like all of these you know,

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<v Speaker 2>managers and agents and creative directors and publicists who are

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<v Speaker 2>all played by really funny people. And that part of

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<v Speaker 2>the show I found really interesting. And then the weekend

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<v Speaker 2>comes into it and it hees he's just a bad actor.

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<v Speaker 2>The show is trying to then turn into this like

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<v Speaker 2>erotic thriller. There's literally seen in the first episode where

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<v Speaker 2>where Lily Rose Depp and Rachel Sennett, who plays her

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<v Speaker 2>best friend slash assistant, are sitting and watching Basic Instinct,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's like so on the nose. So yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>mean the first episode, I was, you know, intrigued more

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<v Speaker 2>than I was annoyed. So I watched true to the

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<v Speaker 2>second half.

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<v Speaker 4>A rave review from rosem you I was intrigued more

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<v Speaker 4>than I'm annoyed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean again and in the again in the

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<v Speaker 2>second episode, like the first half of it is about

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<v Speaker 2>her doing this music video shoot that she really is

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<v Speaker 2>like not prepared to do, and it's showing like how

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<v Speaker 2>exploitative her whole team is and you know, how exploitive

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<v Speaker 2>of the industry is. And then again in the second half,

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<v Speaker 2>the Weekend comes in and it just becomes this very

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<v Speaker 2>different show than I'm much less interested in, And I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like as the season progresses, it's probably going to

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<v Speaker 2>lean more into the stuff with the Weekend, and I

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<v Speaker 2>will lose interest in it, but at least I'm like

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<v Speaker 2>watching it and judging it for myself. And also her

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<v Speaker 2>song that she's trying to put out is kind of

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<v Speaker 2>a bop. It's not on the level of like a

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<v Speaker 2>Miley song from Black Mirror.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's what I was gonna ask.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's fun. And you know, I need a like

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<v Speaker 2>Sunday night TV show in my life with succession gone.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'll watch this for as long as I'm interested

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<v Speaker 2>in it, as soon as I'm not. As soon as

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not, I will just stop your letterbox account. Lily

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<v Speaker 2>Rose dep is no Ashley. Oh but let me tell you, well,

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<v Speaker 2>you can't letterboxed TV shows. Oh. Really goes to show

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<v Speaker 2>how much I know. I also watched, speaking of like

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<v Speaker 2>erotic thrillers and like psychosexual violence, I watched The Doom Generation.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought you were segueing us to the Ultimatum and

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<v Speaker 4>it was gonna.

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<v Speaker 2>Lie, Well, virgins we are. We did talk about the

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<v Speaker 2>Ultimatum Queer Love Edition on our Patreon this week with

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<v Speaker 2>producer Phoebe, So if you want to hear us get

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<v Speaker 2>into that, you will have to go to patreon dot

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<v Speaker 2>com slash like a Virgin. But no, I was saying that.

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<v Speaker 2>On Saturday night, I watched The Doom Generation, which is

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<v Speaker 2>a Greg Iraqi movie. It's like a sort of cult

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<v Speaker 2>cinema starring Rose McGowan from the nineties, and I really

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<v Speaker 2>liked it. It's very horny, very silly, very bloody and

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<v Speaker 2>gross and violent and I had a good time watching

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<v Speaker 2>it and want to watch more Greg Iraqi movies, especially

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<v Speaker 2>the trilogy that that movie is a part of.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never seen a single Greg Iraqi movie, can you believe?

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<v Speaker 4>Not even Mysterious Skin, that's kind of his most I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe the one that has the most kind of like

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<v Speaker 4>mainstream crossover, because that's Joseph Gordon Lovett m and Michelle Trachtenberg.

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<v Speaker 4>Doesn't justin Gordon Lovick it, you know, hit a pp

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<v Speaker 4>in the in the but hole he gets raped.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, not not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>The Mysterious Skin is about these two boys who are

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<v Speaker 2>both molested, actually abused by their like little league coach

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<v Speaker 2>when they were kids, and they both respond to it

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<v Speaker 2>in very different ways as they grow up. Joseph Gordon

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<v Speaker 2>Levitt plays a teenage gay hooker. No, it's yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's a very good movie, but very dark dark, which

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I love darkness. I'm I'm so upset because sude,

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<v Speaker 2>did you hear about the Sex and the City Experience

0:21:43.400 --> 0:21:48.399
<v Speaker 2>thing that was in New York. I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 2>Ryan and I were planning on going, and yesterday I

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<v Speaker 2>went to look up what the ticket situation was or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>It's already closed. It was only open for three days.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it would at least be opened through the

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<v Speaker 2>premiere of and just like that, that's so stupid.

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<v Speaker 5>I actually don't understand why we weren't invited to that party, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, HBO do better, But we should wrap this up

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<v Speaker 2>and get onto our amazing, hilarious from what I can remember,

0:22:21.760 --> 0:22:25.600
<v Speaker 2>conversation with Honey Pluton was back again to talk about

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<v Speaker 2>the mall?

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<v Speaker 5>Should we go to the mall? Right now?

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<v Speaker 4>We had a very difficult time picking a topic with

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<v Speaker 4>you today, which is a happy problem to happen. And

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<v Speaker 4>one of the first things that we kind of nixed

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<v Speaker 4>that I just want to get a little, get a little,

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<v Speaker 4>a little moment and it was Kathy Baits, So I

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<v Speaker 4>think it is kind of mommy.

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<v Speaker 2>She's that's such a scary sentence.

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<v Speaker 1>Mommy trade literally my like brain is pulling and coming

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<v Speaker 1>out of my ears.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to fuck her?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Every I feel like that is like the sight of

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<v Speaker 4>like queer coming of age.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I think, okay, so let's I just had.

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<v Speaker 2>To do you want to suck her currently or okay, both,

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<v Speaker 2>but I want to fuck her at absolutely everything, everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>All every cay because I think that for a mommy

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<v Speaker 1>to truly be mommy, and same for a daddy to

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<v Speaker 1>truly be daddy, and maybe y'all will disagree, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that they have to be fat. I just like really

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<v Speaker 1>think that, Like Mommy is fat. It's like that's the

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<v Speaker 1>archetype and that's why she's fucking sexy. Well the milkers,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the milkers, and daddy is fat. The same thing

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<v Speaker 1>where it's like every Pride, all these lesbians like post

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<v Speaker 1>picture of daddy and it's like some fucking border colleague.

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<v Speaker 1>He is not daddy. They they friend is not daddy.

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<v Speaker 2>A guy that I was trying to hook up with

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<v Speaker 2>recently called me mommy as we were like negotiating, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, please don't ever do that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, but you're not mommy, thank you, No, you're it's

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<v Speaker 1>like you you don't give mommy because you don't take

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<v Speaker 1>care of people.

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<v Speaker 2>No I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>You do not take care of people need taking, But you.

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<v Speaker 1>Need to be taken care of, and that's you're a cancer.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that's the dynamic.

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<v Speaker 3>Where it's like Kathy is psycho.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that she's trade because she's too mentally

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<v Speaker 1>ill in that way, and she's a little bit too

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<v Speaker 1>like freakish all over the place manic.

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<v Speaker 3>She's too like psycho to really be traded.

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<v Speaker 2>Has she ever been traded in any of her She

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<v Speaker 2>needs more stability, I guess the unco brown exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say in Titanic she's probably the tradiest, but

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<v Speaker 1>she's definitely like psycho Mommy mommy dearest, like very like

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<v Speaker 1>of that where you're going to have sex with her

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<v Speaker 1>and then she's like putting on like a mask that

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<v Speaker 1>actually like scares you too much, and there's like a

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<v Speaker 1>couple like Victorian dolls in the bag that you like

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<v Speaker 1>don't really address.

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<v Speaker 2>Was she your sexual awakening?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that she's definitely one of them. Probably in Titanic,

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<v Speaker 1>where everyone was like Kate Winslon, I was like Cathy

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<v Speaker 1>Babes because I was like, what's going on under all

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<v Speaker 1>that tool?

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<v Speaker 3>She looks great?

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<v Speaker 1>And honestly, it's like my sexual awakening was always the

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<v Speaker 1>psychosexual horror movies because that's what I watched with my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>because my mom is like super twisted. There's literally where

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<v Speaker 1>I was watching Single White Female with.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom, watching Mommy with mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I was watching Mommy with mommy, and my mom's favorite

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<v Speaker 1>movie is Misery. So we'd watched that like every year together.

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<v Speaker 1>So and then because my mom is just like a

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<v Speaker 1>woman who hated her husband, who was like watching all

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<v Speaker 1>these movies about like women killing their husbands, right, And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, hmm, I wonder what this is all about.

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<v Speaker 1>And we would watch Mommy Dearest and it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like and we watched Rosemary's Baby.

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<v Speaker 2>And Fatal Attraction and no exactly.

0:26:16.000 --> 0:26:19.400
<v Speaker 1>Basic instinct like that's what we were watching together. It's

0:26:19.480 --> 0:26:24.480
<v Speaker 1>just like watching like hot gay women seek revenge.

0:26:24.640 --> 0:26:28.880
<v Speaker 2>So what you're saying is that grooming exists.

0:26:29.960 --> 0:26:32.000
<v Speaker 3>Like that is part of the play.

0:26:32.119 --> 0:26:33.080
<v Speaker 4>It should be acknowledged.

0:26:33.119 --> 0:26:34.000
<v Speaker 3>It should be acknowledged.

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<v Speaker 4>One of my favorite like kind of fem vengeance movies

0:26:36.520 --> 0:26:39.080
<v Speaker 4>as an adolescent with Thelma and Louise, because they're literally

0:26:39.119 --> 0:26:41.240
<v Speaker 4>like two like you know, dykes that like kill their

0:26:41.359 --> 0:26:42.280
<v Speaker 4>rapists or whatever.

0:26:43.200 --> 0:26:45.040
<v Speaker 2>I still only ever watched half of it.

0:26:45.680 --> 0:26:48.600
<v Speaker 4>I mean, honestly, you only really need to see half

0:26:48.640 --> 0:26:50.600
<v Speaker 4>and then because you already know the ending frame of

0:26:50.640 --> 0:26:51.280
<v Speaker 4>the movie in.

0:26:53.240 --> 0:26:56.479
<v Speaker 2>It also is it's a lot of rape. I think

0:26:56.560 --> 0:26:59.359
<v Speaker 2>the ad is not a twink in that movie. No,

0:26:59.480 --> 0:27:05.520
<v Speaker 2>he's not a muscular you're The problem is too wide.

0:27:05.680 --> 0:27:06.480
<v Speaker 3>It's way too.

0:27:06.359 --> 0:27:08.520
<v Speaker 1>Wide, said as a four, and I'll say it again.

0:27:08.560 --> 0:27:11.160
<v Speaker 1>A twink is working at the matt counter. A twink

0:27:11.280 --> 0:27:14.159
<v Speaker 1>is wearing a tank top that probably has wearing like

0:27:14.200 --> 0:27:17.080
<v Speaker 1>a target tank top that's like blue and gray with

0:27:17.240 --> 0:27:20.760
<v Speaker 1>glitter on it. It's wearing those like khaki or jean

0:27:20.880 --> 0:27:23.520
<v Speaker 1>shorts that go like right above the knee and Espa

0:27:23.600 --> 0:27:27.120
<v Speaker 1>drills like that is a twink. A twink is suburban.

0:27:27.440 --> 0:27:30.000
<v Speaker 1>But then there's city twink, which is like a little

0:27:30.040 --> 0:27:33.240
<v Speaker 1>better dressed and is maybe still wearing what are those

0:27:33.280 --> 0:27:37.640
<v Speaker 1>boots everyone wore when like we were in our earlier twenties,

0:27:37.720 --> 0:27:38.639
<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey Campbell.

0:27:38.359 --> 0:27:39.639
<v Speaker 4>Boots, Jeffrey Campbell.

0:27:39.760 --> 0:27:42.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like maybe the city twink might have some Jeffrey

0:27:42.480 --> 0:27:47.119
<v Speaker 1>Campbell boots and is wearing like leather leggings and a

0:27:47.160 --> 0:27:51.600
<v Speaker 1>north face and a fucking north face that is actually

0:27:51.640 --> 0:27:51.960
<v Speaker 1>a twin.

0:27:52.160 --> 0:27:53.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I don't think a twin can be above

0:27:53.960 --> 0:27:54.560
<v Speaker 2>five to nine.

0:27:54.880 --> 0:27:55.359
<v Speaker 3>I agree.

0:27:56.080 --> 0:27:58.560
<v Speaker 4>Okay, so we've laid it down. Peace can't be above

0:27:58.600 --> 0:27:59.200
<v Speaker 4>five to nine.

0:27:59.280 --> 0:28:02.919
<v Speaker 1>And then if you're not that, then you're just a faggot,

0:28:03.080 --> 0:28:04.600
<v Speaker 1>and that is really beautiful.

0:28:04.720 --> 0:28:07.919
<v Speaker 2>I do think that sometimes you're seeing twinks where there

0:28:07.960 --> 0:28:09.720
<v Speaker 2>are only fagots. Yeah.

0:28:09.800 --> 0:28:12.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, But I also I tend to like my kind

0:28:12.680 --> 0:28:16.800
<v Speaker 4>of orientation around faggot is usually not like gay men.

0:28:16.880 --> 0:28:18.360
<v Speaker 4>It's not always like gay man.

0:28:18.720 --> 0:28:21.320
<v Speaker 3>Faggot is a gender, Yeah, it is, it is.

0:28:21.359 --> 0:28:24.119
<v Speaker 4>I mean, obviously they are like cultural, different cultural meanings

0:28:24.119 --> 0:28:25.600
<v Speaker 4>for like faggot, and a lot of people will see

0:28:25.600 --> 0:28:27.280
<v Speaker 4>it be like faggots and it's like all these guys

0:28:27.280 --> 0:28:30.000
<v Speaker 4>on like the Tai Tee boat or whatever. I'm just like, no,

0:28:30.040 --> 0:28:33.119
<v Speaker 4>a lot of those people like aren't faggots, you know,

0:28:33.200 --> 0:28:36.960
<v Speaker 4>because and like Larry Mitchell's faggot, like you know what

0:28:37.040 --> 0:28:40.479
<v Speaker 4>I mean, like in opposition like counter cultural, which obviously

0:28:40.560 --> 0:28:43.280
<v Speaker 4>isn't true to everybody that identifies sometimes, but that's how

0:28:43.280 --> 0:28:44.040
<v Speaker 4>I'm thinking about it.

0:28:44.080 --> 0:28:46.760
<v Speaker 2>And also, faggot is not necessarily just a way to

0:28:46.760 --> 0:28:49.800
<v Speaker 2>self identify. Faggot is something that you get.

0:28:49.600 --> 0:28:53.920
<v Speaker 4>Called at the streets, Yeah, exactly. Yeah, And fagots are

0:28:53.960 --> 0:28:56.040
<v Speaker 4>not all you know, like cis men, you know what

0:28:56.040 --> 0:28:56.360
<v Speaker 4>I mean.

0:28:56.800 --> 0:29:02.800
<v Speaker 1>But sometimes faggots, Yes, like that's a baggot and you're

0:29:02.880 --> 0:29:06.320
<v Speaker 1>like bumping into me because you don't know that I exist.

0:29:06.720 --> 0:29:09.640
<v Speaker 2>Yah, And you know where you know where fagots congregate

0:29:10.120 --> 0:29:12.200
<v Speaker 2>at the mall, at the mall, at the mall.

0:29:12.560 --> 0:29:13.360
<v Speaker 3>It's all coming together.

0:29:13.400 --> 0:29:15.360
<v Speaker 1>But I really think glad that we chose this topic

0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:17.080
<v Speaker 1>because did we all grow up suburban?

0:29:17.240 --> 0:29:17.640
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:29:17.760 --> 0:29:20.200
<v Speaker 1>Yes, so I feel like right, No, I was born

0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:27.440
<v Speaker 1>but I was born in Boca. You were, Yes, I

0:29:27.520 --> 0:29:29.280
<v Speaker 1>was born in Boca, but I grew up in the

0:29:29.280 --> 0:29:30.600
<v Speaker 1>suburbs of Chicago or.

0:29:30.840 --> 0:29:32.960
<v Speaker 4>Jewish, I grew up in the I grew up in

0:29:33.920 --> 0:29:36.760
<v Speaker 4>I grew up in the suburbs of Chicago. Like to

0:29:37.640 --> 0:29:41.440
<v Speaker 4>suburban right south of oak Park, Lagrange, like southwest.

0:29:41.440 --> 0:29:43.720
<v Speaker 3>Wait, I didn't know that. Did you go to the

0:29:43.760 --> 0:29:44.240
<v Speaker 3>same mall?

0:29:44.480 --> 0:29:44.960
<v Speaker 2>Probably?

0:29:45.840 --> 0:29:47.520
<v Speaker 4>Did we have rival high schools or something?

0:29:47.680 --> 0:29:48.960
<v Speaker 3>To Highland Park High Oh?

0:29:49.240 --> 0:29:51.840
<v Speaker 4>I went to Lagrange Highlands.

0:29:51.880 --> 0:29:52.880
<v Speaker 3>What was your mall called?

0:29:53.520 --> 0:29:55.800
<v Speaker 4>It was called there was oak Park. It was the

0:29:55.840 --> 0:29:57.360
<v Speaker 4>oak Park mall we had.

0:29:57.640 --> 0:30:01.600
<v Speaker 3>We had Northbrooke Cross and then we went to Old Orchard.

0:30:01.600 --> 0:30:04.239
<v Speaker 1>Which is now a Westfield. That was the outdoor mall.

0:30:04.320 --> 0:30:06.200
<v Speaker 1>That was I kind of fancier. It was like the grove,

0:30:06.960 --> 0:30:09.239
<v Speaker 1>like the grove grove, I know what the grove? Did

0:30:09.280 --> 0:30:11.160
<v Speaker 1>you go when you were last in l A. No,

0:30:11.240 --> 0:30:15.400
<v Speaker 1>but I've heard tales. I'm like familiar to make a

0:30:15.440 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 1>pilgrimage at some point.

0:30:16.640 --> 0:30:17.479
<v Speaker 3>It's the mecca.

0:30:17.640 --> 0:30:20.800
<v Speaker 2>It is, although to me, the mecca will always be

0:30:20.880 --> 0:30:22.760
<v Speaker 2>the mall that I grew up with, because I think

0:30:22.760 --> 0:30:28.200
<v Speaker 2>that is universal experiences, like your mall is the mall,

0:30:28.720 --> 0:30:31.080
<v Speaker 2>no matter what other malls you visit in your life,

0:30:31.200 --> 0:30:34.120
<v Speaker 2>Like my mall will always be town Center and Tone.

0:30:34.440 --> 0:30:37.280
<v Speaker 2>I could find my way around it with my eyes closed.

0:30:39.240 --> 0:30:41.360
<v Speaker 3>You could like, what was that movie bird Box?

0:30:42.200 --> 0:30:43.560
<v Speaker 2>Wasn't she.

0:30:46.000 --> 0:30:47.000
<v Speaker 3>Cultural refence?

0:30:51.000 --> 0:30:51.480
<v Speaker 2>What I like?

0:30:51.560 --> 0:30:54.000
<v Speaker 1>It is a central Bullock. I am in love with

0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:56.800
<v Speaker 1>her the first that was my true queer awakening and

0:30:56.840 --> 0:31:01.600
<v Speaker 1>the first exactly we.

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:06.200
<v Speaker 2>Need to do aeniality episode, yes, because she was trans

0:31:06.280 --> 0:31:09.480
<v Speaker 2>and it's I'm like, I just love the butchery, the

0:31:09.520 --> 0:31:10.240
<v Speaker 2>true butchery.

0:31:10.280 --> 0:31:12.000
<v Speaker 3>She's wearing that dress and she doesn't really know if

0:31:12.000 --> 0:31:12.600
<v Speaker 3>she likes it.

0:31:12.920 --> 0:31:16.040
<v Speaker 2>And like her. Benjamin Bratt as the love interest when

0:31:16.080 --> 0:31:22.040
<v Speaker 2>you know she wants to fuck Sherry truly the first

0:31:22.080 --> 0:31:26.000
<v Speaker 2>fifteen minutes of bird Box are explicitly like a lesbian drama,

0:31:26.240 --> 0:31:30.200
<v Speaker 2>Like really, it's just a lesbian like truly. Wait, I

0:31:30.240 --> 0:31:33.360
<v Speaker 2>also just found out last night that Pedro Pascal is best.

0:31:33.400 --> 0:31:35.680
<v Speaker 2>He's with Sarah Paulson. You didn't know that I had.

0:31:36.320 --> 0:31:38.160
<v Speaker 3>That's cute. He loves lesbian.

0:31:38.320 --> 0:31:40.520
<v Speaker 4>I know that's such a giveaway, like he's he's just

0:31:40.560 --> 0:31:42.240
<v Speaker 4>so gay. I'm so happy, No.

0:31:44.080 --> 0:31:44.560
<v Speaker 3>He is.

0:31:45.240 --> 0:31:47.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't think he's gay, Okay, I think that he Wait,

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 1>because we're all forgetting about this, which is that he's

0:31:50.840 --> 0:31:54.400
<v Speaker 1>an ally. He's like a true I think it's like

0:31:54.600 --> 0:31:59.800
<v Speaker 1>actually an out his trans daughter, Yeah, exactly trans, just

0:31:59.800 --> 0:32:02.960
<v Speaker 1>like yeah, Jimmie Lee Curtis.

0:32:02.960 --> 0:32:04.960
<v Speaker 2>It's like these don't bring her up.

0:32:07.040 --> 0:32:07.720
<v Speaker 3>Allies.

0:32:08.040 --> 0:32:11.040
<v Speaker 1>It's like they're just like Gen X boomers where they

0:32:11.240 --> 0:32:14.200
<v Speaker 1>like have just seen what's gone down and they're like,

0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:15.680
<v Speaker 1>we like p Flag parents.

0:32:15.760 --> 0:32:17.600
<v Speaker 4>It's only a matter of time before we see Petro

0:32:17.720 --> 0:32:22.160
<v Speaker 4>Pascal in conversation with Locate at the ninety second street.

0:32:21.960 --> 0:32:23.920
<v Speaker 2>Wise speaking into existence.

0:32:24.720 --> 0:32:27.320
<v Speaker 1>That's so true where it's like he's going to be

0:32:27.360 --> 0:32:29.600
<v Speaker 1>at like Radio City Music Hall with like Jonathan van

0:32:29.680 --> 0:32:35.120
<v Speaker 1>net No, Yes, shot him to be gay.

0:32:35.160 --> 0:32:37.560
<v Speaker 3>Because he's sexy. But I think it's just like hashtag

0:32:37.600 --> 0:32:40.520
<v Speaker 3>ally No, I.

0:32:40.920 --> 0:32:43.640
<v Speaker 2>Think it's like a well known like he's gay.

0:32:44.280 --> 0:32:50.240
<v Speaker 1>It's like like Bradley Cooper, Like yeah, like Bradley Cooper

0:32:50.320 --> 0:32:51.720
<v Speaker 1>is like scary closeted.

0:32:52.200 --> 0:32:53.880
<v Speaker 3>It's like it's like, you know, he's.

0:32:53.680 --> 0:33:00.640
<v Speaker 1>Bringing real, real twins back to the hotel and they're dying.

0:33:01.400 --> 0:33:03.640
<v Speaker 2>It's like the girl with the dragon tattoos, where like

0:33:03.760 --> 0:33:06.680
<v Speaker 2>he has the basement with like the cages and stuff.

0:33:06.800 --> 0:33:09.840
<v Speaker 1>No, it's kind of like the seal vibes where you

0:33:09.880 --> 0:33:13.240
<v Speaker 1>are like flaying these twings like on your ceiling.

0:33:13.360 --> 0:33:19.120
<v Speaker 3>It's like, yeah, he is actually finding.

0:33:20.360 --> 0:33:23.240
<v Speaker 2>The glass box and find more like finding his Tina

0:33:23.240 --> 0:33:24.640
<v Speaker 2>bites because I'm sure he.

0:33:24.640 --> 0:33:30.240
<v Speaker 6>Loves smoke and me with twins without a doubt he

0:33:30.320 --> 0:33:35.560
<v Speaker 6>needs allegedly allegedly allegedly, Yeah, but I love them all.

0:33:38.040 --> 0:33:39.120
<v Speaker 2>Good transition.

0:33:39.760 --> 0:33:41.120
<v Speaker 3>That's what your ma was called.

0:33:41.000 --> 0:33:45.600
<v Speaker 2>My town center mall and it is. It was my mother,

0:33:45.720 --> 0:33:49.400
<v Speaker 2>it was my father. It was my first relationship.

0:33:49.560 --> 0:33:51.640
<v Speaker 3>Were you going with a click or by yourself or.

0:33:51.560 --> 0:33:57.000
<v Speaker 2>Both both, but mostly by myself? So before I that

0:33:57.040 --> 0:33:59.360
<v Speaker 2>makes sense, before I could drive, I used to roller

0:33:59.400 --> 0:34:02.239
<v Speaker 2>blade to them. Wait, I'm upset, or I would take

0:34:02.280 --> 0:34:03.000
<v Speaker 2>a cab in.

0:34:05.440 --> 0:34:08.480
<v Speaker 4>A cab to like fucking eloise at the plaza, Like

0:34:09.280 --> 0:34:09.840
<v Speaker 4>I would.

0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:14.240
<v Speaker 2>Have to open the phone book and y'all a taxi.

0:34:14.440 --> 0:34:15.879
<v Speaker 3>You are such a city girl.

0:34:19.280 --> 0:34:23.600
<v Speaker 2>From age, I would go to like build a Bear Abercrombie.

0:34:23.800 --> 0:34:26.080
<v Speaker 2>There was one year. There was one year I think

0:34:26.560 --> 0:34:29.080
<v Speaker 2>in high school where for Christmas I got all my

0:34:29.200 --> 0:34:31.840
<v Speaker 2>close friends a build a bear that I dressed up

0:34:31.880 --> 0:34:34.000
<v Speaker 2>to look like them, and I.

0:34:33.920 --> 0:34:37.919
<v Speaker 3>Was like, are such a is so fucking cute?

0:34:38.239 --> 0:34:40.560
<v Speaker 1>Extremely year, I'm sure that she was like, do you

0:34:40.560 --> 0:34:43.840
<v Speaker 1>still have it still?

0:34:43.840 --> 0:34:46.040
<v Speaker 2>Take a picture of it now, Take a picture of

0:34:46.080 --> 0:34:48.239
<v Speaker 2>it right now and hold up in today's newspaper as well.

0:34:49.719 --> 0:34:50.480
<v Speaker 3>I want to see the date.

0:34:50.600 --> 0:34:52.600
<v Speaker 4>Okay, you're bringing up something that is like kind of

0:34:52.600 --> 0:34:55.520
<v Speaker 4>triggering to me, which is like mall birthdays which were

0:34:55.600 --> 0:34:59.040
<v Speaker 4>if we're going to bring class into this conversation, build

0:34:59.040 --> 0:35:01.080
<v Speaker 4>a Bear was an expended birthday.

0:35:00.760 --> 0:35:03.759
<v Speaker 2>Extremely expensive. It's all about add ons, which is so

0:35:03.880 --> 0:35:06.640
<v Speaker 2>nice that you got flat rate for the bear, but

0:35:06.680 --> 0:35:08.360
<v Speaker 2>then you have to dress it up. Oh in the

0:35:08.360 --> 0:35:09.680
<v Speaker 2>part where they have you hold.

0:35:09.520 --> 0:35:13.320
<v Speaker 4>The heart the little silk car I need is a

0:35:13.480 --> 0:35:18.520
<v Speaker 4>cult they're getting they're getting back surgery literally, and.

0:35:18.600 --> 0:35:20.319
<v Speaker 1>There's stuff in those little buzzies.

0:35:21.200 --> 0:35:23.160
<v Speaker 4>Well that that is, I mean those memes of like

0:35:23.200 --> 0:35:26.480
<v Speaker 4>the Bears going into the giant metal pole. What what

0:35:26.560 --> 0:35:29.400
<v Speaker 4>else there was like Libby Lou, which was you know.

0:35:30.400 --> 0:35:31.120
<v Speaker 3>I didn't have Liby.

0:35:31.120 --> 0:35:31.719
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what that was.

0:35:32.280 --> 0:35:35.120
<v Speaker 3>Libby Lou? Were you in make your own glitter makeup?

0:35:35.640 --> 0:35:38.799
<v Speaker 4>Yest me? Limit Libby Lou and also limited To were

0:35:38.840 --> 0:35:41.279
<v Speaker 4>a part of like the Hillary Duff industrial complex. Of

0:35:41.320 --> 0:35:44.359
<v Speaker 4>their thoughts were in they would like indoctrinate like young

0:35:44.400 --> 0:35:46.840
<v Speaker 4>girls to these birthday parties that probably cost like a

0:35:46.880 --> 0:35:49.840
<v Speaker 4>a billion dollars per person, where in they would like

0:35:49.880 --> 0:35:55.080
<v Speaker 4>put them in full drag beat down tapes like seven yeah,

0:35:55.120 --> 0:35:57.919
<v Speaker 4>seven hundred pigtails, as was the fashion of the time.

0:35:58.040 --> 0:36:00.000
<v Speaker 4>And like, I think my sister had a birthday there

0:36:00.120 --> 0:36:02.359
<v Speaker 4>and resented it because she's like not a girly girl,

0:36:03.080 --> 0:36:04.640
<v Speaker 4>but she was like just trying to do what all

0:36:04.640 --> 0:36:06.799
<v Speaker 4>the other like rich girls were doing, you know.

0:36:06.920 --> 0:36:08.520
<v Speaker 3>And were you a faggot child?

0:36:08.840 --> 0:36:11.960
<v Speaker 4>I I mean yes, within reason.

0:36:12.080 --> 0:36:13.839
<v Speaker 2>I was like you were a faggot child?

0:36:13.880 --> 0:36:16.520
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, I mean she was calling a yellow calf

0:36:17.480 --> 0:36:20.840
<v Speaker 1>Virginia slam and My mom.

0:36:20.760 --> 0:36:22.080
<v Speaker 2>Was like, get that dick out of your mouth and

0:36:22.120 --> 0:36:22.960
<v Speaker 2>go to Heubrew School.

0:36:23.239 --> 0:36:26.920
<v Speaker 3>Literally, you were either calling a calf or roller bad.

0:36:27.280 --> 0:36:29.399
<v Speaker 2>Wait, you know where the trade shopped, and I'm talking

0:36:29.400 --> 0:36:34.040
<v Speaker 2>about mom trade. It was either Anne Taylor Loft, White House,

0:36:34.200 --> 0:36:39.040
<v Speaker 2>Black March, the store that old black clothes and white

0:36:39.080 --> 0:36:41.440
<v Speaker 2>clothes I'm familiar, which is my MOA.

0:36:41.360 --> 0:36:44.240
<v Speaker 3>Had a Betsy Johnson whoa.

0:36:44.560 --> 0:36:48.080
<v Speaker 1>I remember walking and I was neither a faggot child

0:36:48.120 --> 0:36:51.120
<v Speaker 1>nor a dyke child. I was very like pat. I

0:36:51.239 --> 0:36:55.160
<v Speaker 1>was very like non binary, you know, wearing my like

0:36:55.239 --> 0:36:58.759
<v Speaker 1>long sleeve shirts, but like walking by limited To and

0:36:58.800 --> 0:37:01.120
<v Speaker 1>like wanting to go in to maybe get like some

0:37:01.239 --> 0:37:05.759
<v Speaker 1>sweatpants that had like a cat wearing like a harness

0:37:05.920 --> 0:37:07.759
<v Speaker 1>on it, like with like a parachute.

0:37:08.000 --> 0:37:09.920
<v Speaker 3>That's what I feel like. All the limited To clothes

0:37:09.960 --> 0:37:10.919
<v Speaker 3>were with I.

0:37:10.880 --> 0:37:12.920
<v Speaker 2>Liked glitter animals. They shouldn't.

0:37:13.160 --> 0:37:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm this giraffe is like doing a cartwheel. I'm like, okay,

0:37:18.080 --> 0:37:20.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm like not buying her. Children love animals like I

0:37:20.480 --> 0:37:22.360
<v Speaker 1>had zoo books and I want all my clothes to

0:37:22.400 --> 0:37:26.200
<v Speaker 1>have animals on it. Remember walking by Betsy Johnson and

0:37:26.280 --> 0:37:29.919
<v Speaker 1>thinking that like that was the coolest, most glamorous thing

0:37:30.000 --> 0:37:32.200
<v Speaker 1>in the entire world. And I didn't want to wear it,

0:37:32.239 --> 0:37:34.440
<v Speaker 1>but I wanted to be around like girls that were

0:37:34.480 --> 0:37:36.799
<v Speaker 1>wearing it. It was me and knowing that one day

0:37:36.880 --> 0:37:40.600
<v Speaker 1>I would have like a squadron of dolls and we

0:37:40.640 --> 0:37:42.760
<v Speaker 1>would all just like run around and go crazy together.

0:37:43.160 --> 0:37:44.320
<v Speaker 3>Like I knew that was possible.

0:37:44.360 --> 0:37:47.600
<v Speaker 2>That's what's the what's the transversion of a fag hag

0:37:48.440 --> 0:37:50.960
<v Speaker 2>like a doll collector? Exactly?

0:37:52.040 --> 0:37:56.600
<v Speaker 1>God, yes, without I mean, I whatever, I'm iconic film,

0:37:56.760 --> 0:37:58.880
<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Dollhouse, an iconic film. I was like,

0:37:59.000 --> 0:38:00.719
<v Speaker 1>I knew that one day I would just be like

0:38:00.840 --> 0:38:04.200
<v Speaker 1>surrounded by dolls. When I entered into a Betsy Johnson

0:38:04.280 --> 0:38:06.560
<v Speaker 1>like just looking, I was like, that's what I.

0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:09.560
<v Speaker 2>Knew, because you were looking for friends, you were looking

0:38:09.600 --> 0:38:11.799
<v Speaker 2>for me wandering around the aisles and being like I'm

0:38:11.920 --> 0:38:13.200
<v Speaker 2>just here browd.

0:38:14.120 --> 0:38:36.360
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely okay. But I also feel like another point of

0:38:36.440 --> 0:38:39.200
<v Speaker 1>the law for me was to shop that were you

0:38:39.280 --> 0:38:40.640
<v Speaker 1>all were y'all stealing?

0:38:40.840 --> 0:38:43.480
<v Speaker 4>I was at the time. Yeah, I had like kind

0:38:43.480 --> 0:38:46.719
<v Speaker 4>of suppressed. I was still coming I was still learning

0:38:46.760 --> 0:38:49.359
<v Speaker 4>how to not believe in God. Oh. At this time,

0:38:49.600 --> 0:38:52.920
<v Speaker 4>I was Catholic. I was I was Catholic, then Christian,

0:38:52.960 --> 0:38:53.680
<v Speaker 4>then Baptist.

0:38:53.840 --> 0:38:55.680
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, they did you do so much?

0:38:55.719 --> 0:38:58.040
<v Speaker 4>I gave up God right around like sixteen. But it

0:38:58.080 --> 0:39:00.879
<v Speaker 4>was like a shaky loss of my and so yeah,

0:39:00.880 --> 0:39:03.680
<v Speaker 4>I was too. I didn't steal until college like an adult.

0:39:03.800 --> 0:39:06.399
<v Speaker 3>But then you finally got I stole so much. Yeah,

0:39:06.480 --> 0:39:06.920
<v Speaker 3>then you're.

0:39:06.760 --> 0:39:08.759
<v Speaker 1>Walking out of the Whole Foods Hot Bar with like

0:39:09.040 --> 0:39:11.360
<v Speaker 1>Somosa's mac and cheese.

0:39:11.680 --> 0:39:15.279
<v Speaker 4>I'm curry, I'm I'm surprised that I never learned how

0:39:15.320 --> 0:39:17.680
<v Speaker 4>to like properly shoplift because like I didn't have like

0:39:17.719 --> 0:39:19.640
<v Speaker 4>a we we went to the mall like as a

0:39:19.680 --> 0:39:21.920
<v Speaker 4>fam like or with my mom like as a treat

0:39:22.080 --> 0:39:23.520
<v Speaker 4>kind of. So like I didn't have a ton of

0:39:23.560 --> 0:39:27.440
<v Speaker 4>expendable income like American Eagle like was like off the table,

0:39:27.520 --> 0:39:30.319
<v Speaker 4>like we can't do it whatever, Like if I'm gonna,

0:39:30.520 --> 0:39:32.720
<v Speaker 4>you know, use my own like chore money or whatever,

0:39:32.840 --> 0:39:35.040
<v Speaker 4>like it's what I can afford at the Urban Outfitters

0:39:35.040 --> 0:39:36.239
<v Speaker 4>book table right like that.

0:39:36.840 --> 0:39:41.000
<v Speaker 1>It really is like the mall is radicalizing in that

0:39:41.080 --> 0:39:43.239
<v Speaker 1>way because it's like when I would go I grew

0:39:43.320 --> 0:39:46.920
<v Speaker 1>up in this like super wealthy suburb and I was

0:39:46.960 --> 0:39:49.759
<v Speaker 1>like a in a family that wasn't wealthy. So when

0:39:49.760 --> 0:39:52.000
<v Speaker 1>I would like go to the mall with all of

0:39:52.000 --> 0:39:56.240
<v Speaker 1>my like extended, like why do middle schoolers roam around

0:39:56.320 --> 0:39:57.360
<v Speaker 1>and packs.

0:39:57.040 --> 0:39:59.360
<v Speaker 2>Of fifteen like feral animals?

0:39:59.440 --> 0:40:02.240
<v Speaker 1>No, Jenny, It's like why were we all stray cats

0:40:03.440 --> 0:40:07.320
<v Speaker 1>like yipping and heating when I was like walking around

0:40:07.400 --> 0:40:10.840
<v Speaker 1>with this like conglomerate of like fifteen other middle schoolers.

0:40:10.880 --> 0:40:13.680
<v Speaker 1>And it's like Christine is able to go to Abercromie

0:40:13.680 --> 0:40:16.200
<v Speaker 1>and Fitch and I can't because I one can't afford

0:40:16.239 --> 0:40:18.280
<v Speaker 1>it too, can't fit into any of it.

0:40:18.239 --> 0:40:21.640
<v Speaker 2>And also can't deal with the wave of fierce colone no.

0:40:23.560 --> 0:40:24.320
<v Speaker 3>Chloroform.

0:40:24.480 --> 0:40:28.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm fainting and the lights are so dark and the

0:40:28.120 --> 0:40:29.280
<v Speaker 2>music is so loud.

0:40:29.520 --> 0:40:33.839
<v Speaker 1>It's like, why am I an unter right? I'm literally eleven.

0:40:34.120 --> 0:40:36.960
<v Speaker 1>I didn't consent to this, it's too much.

0:40:37.520 --> 0:40:39.959
<v Speaker 2>No, I'm like, but you are on the list, I.

0:40:39.880 --> 0:40:42.680
<v Speaker 3>Am, I'm always on the list. No, I'm walking in.

0:40:42.760 --> 0:40:45.120
<v Speaker 1>Also, what's like Abercrommie and Fitch where there was like

0:40:45.320 --> 0:40:48.520
<v Speaker 1>am I remembering correctly, like wood paneled shutter.

0:40:48.960 --> 0:40:52.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah that was Abercrommie and Hollister, Yes.

0:40:52.440 --> 0:40:57.200
<v Speaker 1>Both of them, but me Fitch couldn't afford Hollister, So

0:40:57.239 --> 0:41:02.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm just kind of like mosying around seal walking out

0:41:02.320 --> 0:41:07.319
<v Speaker 1>with like a very thin gold scarf covered in sequence,

0:41:07.920 --> 0:41:09.799
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, I guess I'm the fagot from High

0:41:09.800 --> 0:41:14.280
<v Speaker 1>School Musical. I guess that's my role in the rye Ryan.

0:41:15.080 --> 0:41:17.239
<v Speaker 1>I guess that's what I'm doing. But then the thing

0:41:17.280 --> 0:41:19.319
<v Speaker 1>with the mall is I would only go if I

0:41:19.440 --> 0:41:21.719
<v Speaker 1>was anything as a teen is I was hungry.

0:41:22.320 --> 0:41:22.600
<v Speaker 3>I was.

0:41:26.480 --> 0:41:29.520
<v Speaker 2>It's like it's like I was like Beyonce and the

0:41:29.560 --> 0:41:32.760
<v Speaker 2>Homecoming documentary, which goes and I'm hungry.

0:41:32.280 --> 0:41:33.480
<v Speaker 3>And I was hungry.

0:41:33.560 --> 0:41:36.120
<v Speaker 1>So everyone else is trying to like fit into their

0:41:36.200 --> 0:41:37.600
<v Speaker 1>skinny jeans and I'm like.

0:41:37.560 --> 0:41:39.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to go to a Pandim Express.

0:41:40.840 --> 0:41:44.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to go to anti Ann's Orange Julius, let's go.

0:41:44.960 --> 0:41:47.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to go get a free sample outside the

0:41:47.120 --> 0:41:47.719
<v Speaker 2>Chinese food.

0:41:47.760 --> 0:41:48.760
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god. Sam.

0:41:48.880 --> 0:41:50.680
<v Speaker 1>I was walking by and they were like holding out

0:41:50.680 --> 0:41:53.120
<v Speaker 1>with the toothpicks, and I was like, one more one.

0:41:53.239 --> 0:41:58.520
<v Speaker 2>You just keep walking by doing characters really French accents, mustache,

0:41:58.960 --> 0:41:59.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to wet sea?

0:42:00.280 --> 0:42:00.719
<v Speaker 3>Wait did?

0:42:01.120 --> 0:42:04.960
<v Speaker 1>Were y'all wearing many tank tops as children.

0:42:05.200 --> 0:42:07.839
<v Speaker 4>I was definitely. I definitely had was a pop collar kid.

0:42:08.280 --> 0:42:10.160
<v Speaker 3>Holy that is so fucking cute.

0:42:10.200 --> 0:42:12.080
<v Speaker 4>And it wasn't even like pure prep. I was just

0:42:12.120 --> 0:42:13.680
<v Speaker 4>trying to be prep, but it was kind of like

0:42:13.800 --> 0:42:16.160
<v Speaker 4>half prep, like this like Polo that I got for

0:42:16.239 --> 0:42:17.239
<v Speaker 4>Christmas from like my own.

0:42:17.400 --> 0:42:20.879
<v Speaker 1>No, I was literally like wearing a custom binder because

0:42:20.880 --> 0:42:24.840
<v Speaker 1>had huge fucking boobs and wearing like fifteen tank tops

0:42:24.840 --> 0:42:28.360
<v Speaker 1>on top of myself, like alright, rip to my boobs,

0:42:28.400 --> 0:42:31.440
<v Speaker 1>like literally creating a binder out of nothing. I was like,

0:42:31.440 --> 0:42:34.600
<v Speaker 1>that's just flatten this ship down. Did your moms have

0:42:34.640 --> 0:42:35.360
<v Speaker 1>movie theaters?

0:42:35.600 --> 0:42:35.839
<v Speaker 2>No?

0:42:35.960 --> 0:42:37.920
<v Speaker 4>Not mine? Oh about are tragic?

0:42:38.120 --> 0:42:41.520
<v Speaker 3>Yes? So it's like I was also sneaking into movies.

0:42:41.800 --> 0:42:44.640
<v Speaker 4>Ooh, now, do you remember like a specific movie that

0:42:44.680 --> 0:42:45.200
<v Speaker 4>you The.

0:42:45.200 --> 0:42:49.640
<v Speaker 1>First movie I ever stuck into was Jim Carrey's horror

0:42:49.960 --> 0:42:51.919
<v Speaker 1>flick thriller The Number twenty three.

0:42:52.239 --> 0:42:58.400
<v Speaker 4>Oh, oh my god, deep Cut, Deep Cut, It's about numerology.

0:42:57.920 --> 0:43:00.680
<v Speaker 1>And Chang two thousand and seven, I would say two

0:43:00.719 --> 0:43:04.399
<v Speaker 1>thousand and seven. Yes, it was this numerology thriller where

0:43:04.480 --> 0:43:07.280
<v Speaker 1>Jim Carrey was like, I'm not the funny guy anymore.

0:43:07.400 --> 0:43:08.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm not a center.

0:43:08.560 --> 0:43:11.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm a serious actor, and it's this movie where he

0:43:11.520 --> 0:43:17.919
<v Speaker 1>is haunted by the numerology mysticism of the number twenty three,

0:43:18.440 --> 0:43:21.120
<v Speaker 1>where he's finding it in all everywhere. He's finding it

0:43:21.160 --> 0:43:23.719
<v Speaker 1>in nine to eleven, he's finding it in Babylon, he's

0:43:23.760 --> 0:43:26.680
<v Speaker 1>finding it when Julius Caesar was assassinated.

0:43:26.880 --> 0:43:30.200
<v Speaker 2>So there's a scene where he's like on googling, crunching

0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:34.239
<v Speaker 2>the number. Yeah, is this calculator, I'll post Eternal Sunshine.

0:43:35.280 --> 0:43:37.600
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I want to say pre.

0:43:37.760 --> 0:43:41.319
<v Speaker 2>Which I've never seen. There was. What I'm realizing now

0:43:41.400 --> 0:43:43.600
<v Speaker 2>is there's a couple of years and I think it's

0:43:43.640 --> 0:43:46.480
<v Speaker 2>when I was in college when I just wasn't really

0:43:46.520 --> 0:43:50.960
<v Speaker 2>seeing movies. I wasn't seeing like the populist movies that

0:43:51.000 --> 0:43:53.880
<v Speaker 2>were being released because I was here going to college

0:43:53.920 --> 0:43:56.840
<v Speaker 2>and I was just like going to clubs everything.

0:43:56.960 --> 0:43:59.520
<v Speaker 3>You're commuting, yeah, and doing drugs.

0:43:59.640 --> 0:44:02.600
<v Speaker 4>When you said Jim Carrey's and then paused, I was

0:44:02.640 --> 0:44:05.640
<v Speaker 4>just I was really nervous. I was like, what movie

0:44:05.760 --> 0:44:07.800
<v Speaker 4>is it going to be? Because like Jim Carrey's like

0:44:07.880 --> 0:44:10.920
<v Speaker 4>era of movies was like crazy, like from The Ace

0:44:10.960 --> 0:44:13.160
<v Speaker 4>Venture to like his Sad Girl era to that was

0:44:13.200 --> 0:44:17.000
<v Speaker 4>like eternal Sunshine. What was the other sad girl movie

0:44:17.000 --> 0:44:19.279
<v Speaker 4>that he did around that time? I can't remember.

0:44:21.160 --> 0:44:21.200
<v Speaker 2>That.

0:44:21.960 --> 0:44:24.399
<v Speaker 1>I just really love him, and now he's just kind

0:44:24.400 --> 0:44:26.960
<v Speaker 1>of like, I don't know, man, he's just some like

0:44:27.080 --> 0:44:29.920
<v Speaker 1>Venice Beach burnout walking on.

0:44:30.920 --> 0:44:35.680
<v Speaker 2>He's all Jim Carrey, I want to suck.

0:44:37.000 --> 0:44:37.600
<v Speaker 3>And I think.

0:44:39.239 --> 0:44:42.279
<v Speaker 2>That there's a movie that he's in where he Oh.

0:44:42.640 --> 0:44:45.160
<v Speaker 2>I think it's maybe First Bite where this I don't

0:44:45.200 --> 0:44:47.960
<v Speaker 2>know this vampire falls in love with him and he's

0:44:48.239 --> 0:44:49.360
<v Speaker 2>very twinky.

0:44:49.160 --> 0:44:51.799
<v Speaker 3>Me myself and I reen oh.

0:44:53.760 --> 0:44:55.040
<v Speaker 1>And I just feel like, I don't know if he's

0:44:55.040 --> 0:44:57.600
<v Speaker 1>come out about it publicly, but I just feel like

0:44:57.640 --> 0:45:04.000
<v Speaker 1>he would apologize for the ace Tura trans misogyny Dick reveal.

0:45:04.520 --> 0:45:07.880
<v Speaker 2>He totally was also I love you Philip Morris. I

0:45:07.880 --> 0:45:13.680
<v Speaker 2>love you Philip Morris so hot. Yeah, it's actually like

0:45:13.719 --> 0:45:15.160
<v Speaker 2>a very sweet love style.

0:45:15.320 --> 0:45:17.439
<v Speaker 3>Yes, and one of the strongest. You should have sex

0:45:17.440 --> 0:45:17.759
<v Speaker 3>with him.

0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:20.920
<v Speaker 2>I will, I will, Jim, if you're out there, Definitely,

0:45:21.040 --> 0:45:21.560
<v Speaker 2>I consent.

0:45:21.840 --> 0:45:23.640
<v Speaker 3>But I remember that movie.

0:45:24.320 --> 0:45:26.440
<v Speaker 1>I I don't remember if it was no, No, it was

0:45:26.480 --> 0:45:29.719
<v Speaker 1>definitely one of the Judd Apatow movies because I was

0:45:29.760 --> 0:45:31.680
<v Speaker 1>speaking into all of those, because I was like these

0:45:31.680 --> 0:45:38.040
<v Speaker 1>are so trans masculine in a way. I'm I can

0:45:38.040 --> 0:45:41.120
<v Speaker 1>actually see it convinced that Jonah Hill has a vagina.

0:45:41.280 --> 0:45:44.279
<v Speaker 1>Like I just like I really do think that he

0:45:44.440 --> 0:45:47.160
<v Speaker 1>is a trans man who's just like super stout and

0:45:47.239 --> 0:45:50.520
<v Speaker 1>will never find out. He just is like he's a

0:45:50.640 --> 0:45:53.920
<v Speaker 1>late bloomer in that way where I watched the like therapy.

0:45:53.600 --> 0:45:55.040
<v Speaker 4>Mode, I was gonna ask you about that.

0:45:55.120 --> 0:45:57.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I did watch it, and it's funny because I'm

0:45:57.280 --> 0:45:59.279
<v Speaker 1>just like such a sagittarius where I was like, bitch,

0:45:59.280 --> 0:46:02.120
<v Speaker 1>I've already been doing this, Like basically he's just like

0:46:02.160 --> 0:46:06.160
<v Speaker 1>with his therapist writing sigils. I'm like, I have been

0:46:06.400 --> 0:46:09.040
<v Speaker 1>doing this in my like pagan.

0:46:08.800 --> 0:46:11.200
<v Speaker 3>Witch practice since I was seven years old, have you.

0:46:12.080 --> 0:46:14.640
<v Speaker 4>It's like it's literally just like a it's it's Jonah

0:46:14.719 --> 0:46:17.400
<v Speaker 4>Hill thinks his therapist is like a genius. Yes, like

0:46:17.480 --> 0:46:18.320
<v Speaker 4>tapes his own.

0:46:18.160 --> 0:46:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Therapy and it is really presh And I just like

0:46:20.680 --> 0:46:23.840
<v Speaker 1>love people talking about therapy, even though I don't know

0:46:23.840 --> 0:46:25.480
<v Speaker 1>like therapy can work for you or it can't, like

0:46:25.520 --> 0:46:27.000
<v Speaker 1>it's up to you. But part of one of the

0:46:27.000 --> 0:46:29.919
<v Speaker 1>practices that he does with his therapist is that you

0:46:30.040 --> 0:46:33.759
<v Speaker 1>like create a drawing that's like a roun or a

0:46:33.800 --> 0:46:39.160
<v Speaker 1>sigil that is a way to like explain a traumatic situation,

0:46:39.520 --> 0:46:43.640
<v Speaker 1>and you like basically like concoct a spell to like

0:46:43.880 --> 0:46:46.080
<v Speaker 1>give it this like mnemonic device.

0:46:46.440 --> 0:46:48.840
<v Speaker 3>I know, Like it's really beautiful.

0:46:49.160 --> 0:46:51.719
<v Speaker 1>Was I learned how to do that for my like

0:46:51.840 --> 0:46:54.600
<v Speaker 1>witch mom Ilva. It's like it's it is like a

0:46:54.640 --> 0:46:56.759
<v Speaker 1>pagan practice to do that. But I'm like, however, you

0:46:56.760 --> 0:46:59.320
<v Speaker 1>can learn these tools and you're sharing with other people,

0:46:59.360 --> 0:46:59.960
<v Speaker 1>like that's the meaning.

0:47:00.120 --> 0:47:02.040
<v Speaker 2>It's just you got it for free and he's paying,

0:47:02.080 --> 0:47:02.680
<v Speaker 2>you know, Like.

0:47:04.120 --> 0:47:06.839
<v Speaker 1>But his like tattoos are really trans masculine, where it's

0:47:06.920 --> 0:47:10.239
<v Speaker 1>super like you transitioned a little late in life and

0:47:10.280 --> 0:47:12.439
<v Speaker 1>now you just like go to a tattoo shop that's

0:47:12.480 --> 0:47:17.680
<v Speaker 1>called like anchor panther and you're getting like eagle, you know,

0:47:18.080 --> 0:47:24.520
<v Speaker 1>egle mom tattoo, your birthdate exactly, panther, snake with the dagger,

0:47:25.080 --> 0:47:27.279
<v Speaker 1>Like those are all of his tattoos right away, And

0:47:27.360 --> 0:47:28.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it's trans guy.

0:47:28.760 --> 0:47:30.640
<v Speaker 2>Would you fuck j Hill?

0:47:31.440 --> 0:47:33.480
<v Speaker 3>No? But not for any reason.

0:47:33.520 --> 0:47:37.000
<v Speaker 1>I just think that like two goofy guys wouldn't necessarily

0:47:37.000 --> 0:47:37.680
<v Speaker 1>have good sex.

0:47:37.880 --> 0:47:38.760
<v Speaker 2>You're too goofy.

0:47:38.840 --> 0:47:40.680
<v Speaker 3>We're just it's two goofy guys.

0:47:40.960 --> 0:47:43.040
<v Speaker 4>Did you know that there's a goofy tribe on Grinder?

0:47:43.080 --> 0:47:44.880
<v Speaker 3>Now? Wait, what does that mean? It's like.

0:47:47.719 --> 0:47:48.759
<v Speaker 2>There's what does that mean?

0:47:48.800 --> 0:47:51.560
<v Speaker 4>There are like multiple they're like a handful of tags,

0:47:51.560 --> 0:47:53.279
<v Speaker 4>like one hundred or so tags that you can act

0:47:53.280 --> 0:47:55.280
<v Speaker 4>to your profile, and one of them is goofy.

0:47:55.400 --> 0:47:56.040
<v Speaker 3>What does that mean?

0:47:57.440 --> 0:47:59.440
<v Speaker 4>I think it's just like, yeah, like you don't take

0:47:59.480 --> 0:48:03.040
<v Speaker 4>it like it's I don't know, there isn't like a

0:48:03.160 --> 0:48:04.040
<v Speaker 4>serious tag.

0:48:04.120 --> 0:48:07.920
<v Speaker 2>You know. I wish there was this, man, I know

0:48:08.080 --> 0:48:11.080
<v Speaker 2>you would love the serious rolling.

0:48:11.239 --> 0:48:14.160
<v Speaker 4>I found it literally last night and I added it

0:48:14.200 --> 0:48:16.360
<v Speaker 4>to my profile for like three minutes, and I was like, no,

0:48:16.719 --> 0:48:17.399
<v Speaker 4>I can't do this.

0:48:17.840 --> 0:48:21.200
<v Speaker 2>No. That is so because you know, sometimes when someone

0:48:21.200 --> 0:48:24.680
<v Speaker 2>messages you on Grinder, it shows you what tag they

0:48:24.760 --> 0:48:28.400
<v Speaker 2>found you via, yes, and so imagine imagine getting a

0:48:28.440 --> 0:48:31.400
<v Speaker 2>message and it says found you via the goofy tag.

0:48:31.719 --> 0:48:34.040
<v Speaker 2>That's that's only how I find guys on Grinder is

0:48:34.040 --> 0:48:34.680
<v Speaker 2>the goofy tag?

0:48:34.800 --> 0:48:36.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, yeah, But I also.

0:48:35.880 --> 0:48:39.399
<v Speaker 1>Think that's super bad as super trans because they were

0:48:39.480 --> 0:48:43.440
<v Speaker 1>just like obsessed with drawing their own genitalia in a way.

0:48:43.520 --> 0:48:46.239
<v Speaker 1>Then I just think it's kind of transgender. Okay, it's

0:48:46.280 --> 0:48:49.480
<v Speaker 1>like it's like they just had like folders and folders

0:48:49.520 --> 0:48:53.440
<v Speaker 1>like filled up with cock and I'm like same, I

0:48:53.480 --> 0:48:55.319
<v Speaker 1>just think it's kind of trans. But I remember I

0:48:55.360 --> 0:48:57.439
<v Speaker 1>think it was super Bad that I stuck into because

0:48:57.480 --> 0:49:01.000
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't seventeen yet or maybe knocked up.

0:49:00.960 --> 0:49:03.799
<v Speaker 4>Or was like super rated R movie. I remember like

0:49:03.920 --> 0:49:05.239
<v Speaker 4>at the time, like you know, my.

0:49:05.400 --> 0:49:06.080
<v Speaker 3>It was so.

0:49:07.440 --> 0:49:09.279
<v Speaker 1>It was so foul and my parents were like, you're

0:49:09.320 --> 0:49:11.120
<v Speaker 1>not allowed to see that. My parents were super strict,

0:49:11.160 --> 0:49:15.080
<v Speaker 1>but I snuck in with my friends. And then one

0:49:15.120 --> 0:49:18.719
<v Speaker 1>of the attendantcy AMC attendants was like checking tickets because

0:49:18.719 --> 0:49:20.879
<v Speaker 1>we would buy a ticket to another movie and then

0:49:20.920 --> 0:49:23.440
<v Speaker 1>go to Super Bad. So I could see the attendant

0:49:23.520 --> 0:49:26.319
<v Speaker 1>coming up. So I turned to this like dad next week,

0:49:26.280 --> 0:49:28.000
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, can you pretend to be my dad?

0:49:28.719 --> 0:49:30.200
<v Speaker 3>And he was like yeah, absolutely.

0:49:30.719 --> 0:49:32.799
<v Speaker 1>So when the attendant came and was like, let me

0:49:32.800 --> 0:49:35.480
<v Speaker 1>see your ticket, the dad was like, this is my child,

0:49:35.880 --> 0:49:37.799
<v Speaker 1>and you won't leave them alone. We are trying to

0:49:37.800 --> 0:49:39.720
<v Speaker 1>watch a movie right now, and I was like whoa.

0:49:40.280 --> 0:49:41.799
<v Speaker 2>And then they tried to lure you back to your

0:49:41.840 --> 0:49:42.239
<v Speaker 2>car and.

0:49:42.360 --> 0:49:45.719
<v Speaker 3>Groomer, and I was like to catch a bread.

0:49:46.800 --> 0:49:47.000
<v Speaker 2>No.

0:49:47.160 --> 0:49:50.080
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't think I was not groomable. I

0:49:50.120 --> 0:49:55.359
<v Speaker 3>was a weird looking kid. I was groomble. I was

0:49:55.400 --> 0:49:58.120
<v Speaker 3>like six football and two hundred pounds.

0:49:58.160 --> 0:50:05.799
<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of with a lot of different tables.

0:50:04.000 --> 0:50:12.080
<v Speaker 2>He wanted to, Amen, Amen, there's someone out there who

0:50:12.080 --> 0:50:15.399
<v Speaker 2>would have wanted to take you. I believe that. I

0:50:15.440 --> 0:50:16.359
<v Speaker 2>believe that, I.

0:50:16.280 --> 0:50:19.239
<v Speaker 3>Really, my inner child really needed to hear that.

0:50:19.440 --> 0:50:21.839
<v Speaker 1>Without a doubt, that's what I was doing at them all,

0:50:21.920 --> 0:50:25.960
<v Speaker 1>speaking into movies and going to the food court to

0:50:25.960 --> 0:50:26.839
<v Speaker 1>get snacks.

0:50:27.719 --> 0:50:31.040
<v Speaker 4>Did y'all have like a cinnabon sabarro combo? Yes, we

0:50:31.120 --> 0:50:31.759
<v Speaker 4>had one of those.

0:50:32.080 --> 0:50:34.279
<v Speaker 2>Yes, we did not have a ciborrow. I don't. I

0:50:34.280 --> 0:50:35.680
<v Speaker 2>don't think we had a cinnabon either.

0:50:36.440 --> 0:50:39.759
<v Speaker 1>We've also had all of the At the time, I

0:50:39.800 --> 0:50:42.240
<v Speaker 1>thought that these were like the pinnacle of fine dining,

0:50:42.680 --> 0:50:46.160
<v Speaker 1>which are like the fat the not fast casual, but

0:50:46.239 --> 0:50:50.239
<v Speaker 1>like upscale casual chains like McCormick and.

0:50:50.200 --> 0:50:52.440
<v Speaker 4>Schmicks, California Pizza Kitchen.

0:50:52.239 --> 0:50:55.239
<v Speaker 3>California Mother Fucking Pizza Kitchen.

0:50:55.480 --> 0:50:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Fran say that say that I was being my parents

0:50:59.600 --> 0:50:59.960
<v Speaker 1>every day.

0:51:00.080 --> 0:51:02.520
<v Speaker 3>Let us go to CPK, let us go to CPACH.

0:51:02.600 --> 0:51:06.880
<v Speaker 2>I need that you see, my mall was a little

0:51:06.880 --> 0:51:10.279
<v Speaker 2>too bougie because when when we moved to Florida and

0:51:10.400 --> 0:51:13.719
<v Speaker 2>I used to live from Boston, I actually used to

0:51:13.760 --> 0:51:15.759
<v Speaker 2>live across the street from the mall. That was like

0:51:15.800 --> 0:51:18.600
<v Speaker 2>the first place we lived in Scia. And at that

0:51:18.760 --> 0:51:20.799
<v Speaker 2>era of my life, there was a TGI Fridays there

0:51:20.800 --> 0:51:22.920
<v Speaker 2>and I remember having a birthday party there once and

0:51:22.960 --> 0:51:26.799
<v Speaker 2>singing along to Umbob. But then the mall got a

0:51:26.840 --> 0:51:31.080
<v Speaker 2>little more chic, and so the only restaurants were a

0:51:31.120 --> 0:51:33.879
<v Speaker 2>little more upscale. So we used to have this place

0:51:33.920 --> 0:51:38.560
<v Speaker 2>called Stir Crazy, which was like I love Pan Asian,

0:51:39.520 --> 0:51:43.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, Wonderland. That because Ariana Grande grew up in

0:51:43.600 --> 0:51:45.879
<v Speaker 2>Boca as well. Well she's well she's from del Rey,

0:51:46.200 --> 0:51:48.480
<v Speaker 2>and I think she said before in an interview that

0:51:48.840 --> 0:51:50.000
<v Speaker 2>she loved Stir Crazy.

0:51:51.120 --> 0:51:52.400
<v Speaker 3>Did you all have cheesecake factory?

0:51:52.719 --> 0:51:56.840
<v Speaker 2>Yes, Roses Cheesecake. Actually it wasn't It wasn't attached to

0:51:56.880 --> 0:52:01.360
<v Speaker 2>the mall, but it was nearby. It was my f

0:52:02.480 --> 0:52:04.160
<v Speaker 2>was my shit that?

0:52:05.719 --> 0:52:06.840
<v Speaker 3>Did you have magic Pan?

0:52:07.280 --> 0:52:07.320
<v Speaker 2>No?

0:52:07.719 --> 0:52:09.239
<v Speaker 3>That was like the crapy one.

0:52:09.520 --> 0:52:11.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I've heard of that. I never bet how I became.

0:52:12.440 --> 0:52:14.839
<v Speaker 1>Actually recently I asked a friend if they were by

0:52:15.000 --> 0:52:16.960
<v Speaker 1>and she was like, no, I'm pan. I was like,

0:52:17.000 --> 0:52:21.279
<v Speaker 1>I love that throwback. That's so like Lilith Fair, like

0:52:21.360 --> 0:52:24.840
<v Speaker 1>you with a tambourine. I was like, okay, Sarah McLaughlin.

0:52:24.600 --> 0:52:26.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so Bushwick twenty seventeen.

0:52:26.840 --> 0:52:28.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was like, let's get pan.

0:52:29.040 --> 0:52:32.399
<v Speaker 1>But I had Did you have almond moms like skinny parents?

0:52:32.680 --> 0:52:33.000
<v Speaker 6>No?

0:52:33.600 --> 0:52:36.800
<v Speaker 2>My mom was ok so passed down from my grandma.

0:52:36.920 --> 0:52:37.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:52:37.239 --> 0:52:40.399
<v Speaker 2>My mom was always on some kind of diet. Yeah,

0:52:40.480 --> 0:52:42.480
<v Speaker 2>much like my grandma was when I was a kid.

0:52:43.160 --> 0:52:46.120
<v Speaker 2>I remember there was one year where my grandma only

0:52:46.200 --> 0:52:49.719
<v Speaker 2>eight frozen yogurt, like we would go, we would go.

0:52:50.120 --> 0:52:54.640
<v Speaker 2>It was playing with toppings. It was. It was when

0:52:54.640 --> 0:52:57.480
<v Speaker 2>my grandparents still lived in Long Island. They had a house.

0:52:59.480 --> 0:53:02.400
<v Speaker 2>My grandparents were snowbirds, so they lived on Long Island,

0:53:02.440 --> 0:53:04.080
<v Speaker 2>but they had a house in Boca where they would

0:53:04.120 --> 0:53:07.040
<v Speaker 2>spend the winter. But we would go up and visit

0:53:07.080 --> 0:53:08.680
<v Speaker 2>them on Long Island and they would take us to

0:53:08.719 --> 0:53:11.120
<v Speaker 2>the diner and everyone order food and my grandma would

0:53:11.120 --> 0:53:15.520
<v Speaker 2>just order frozen yoga. And she always had like bars

0:53:15.760 --> 0:53:18.560
<v Speaker 2>in the house, like protein bars, and she has this

0:53:18.680 --> 0:53:23.400
<v Speaker 2>reusable weight Watchers thermos that she's had like front for

0:53:23.440 --> 0:53:25.319
<v Speaker 2>as long as I can remember. And the last time

0:53:25.360 --> 0:53:26.719
<v Speaker 2>I was at their house, it was sitting on on

0:53:26.760 --> 0:53:28.760
<v Speaker 2>the counter and I started crying.

0:53:30.239 --> 0:53:31.080
<v Speaker 3>Why were you crying?

0:53:31.200 --> 0:53:34.880
<v Speaker 2>Just because it like triggered this memory, Like that to

0:53:34.960 --> 0:53:36.960
<v Speaker 2>me is so comforting, but it also like is a

0:53:36.960 --> 0:53:40.000
<v Speaker 2>symbol of the my grandma's horrible.

0:53:43.520 --> 0:53:44.479
<v Speaker 3>This entire time.

0:53:44.520 --> 0:53:47.319
<v Speaker 2>It's so depressing, I know. And she's still like we

0:53:47.480 --> 0:53:49.800
<v Speaker 2>we'll go out to dinner and she'll always ask for

0:53:49.840 --> 0:53:53.240
<v Speaker 2>the salad with dressing on the side. Just get anything fattening,

0:53:53.480 --> 0:53:55.600
<v Speaker 2>and it's like, babe, like you might not be here

0:53:55.640 --> 0:53:58.800
<v Speaker 2>for that much longer, Like get them, get get toppings

0:53:58.840 --> 0:54:01.000
<v Speaker 2>on the frozen yogurt, chicken.

0:54:02.080 --> 0:54:07.440
<v Speaker 3>Put the mochi on your frozen yoga the little dice strawberries.

0:54:07.600 --> 0:54:08.520
<v Speaker 4>Did you have an almond?

0:54:08.520 --> 0:54:08.960
<v Speaker 2>Mommy?

0:54:09.120 --> 0:54:10.160
<v Speaker 3>I had an almond.

0:54:10.520 --> 0:54:14.240
<v Speaker 1>My mom is really like eating disorders, like really skinny,

0:54:14.480 --> 0:54:16.080
<v Speaker 1>like doesn't salt her food.

0:54:16.680 --> 0:54:18.040
<v Speaker 3>We didn't even have mashed potatoes.

0:54:18.040 --> 0:54:21.760
<v Speaker 1>She would make mashomatoes with carrots, which is like actually

0:54:22.000 --> 0:54:25.880
<v Speaker 1>so oppressive and like so dark. But then she also

0:54:26.080 --> 0:54:27.920
<v Speaker 1>was like can I have a bite of that? Like

0:54:28.040 --> 0:54:32.440
<v Speaker 1>so she'll just kind a bite of that. She's picking mom,

0:54:32.560 --> 0:54:34.759
<v Speaker 1>But she is like, I don't add salt anything, it's

0:54:34.800 --> 0:54:38.880
<v Speaker 1>bad for you. She also literally believes anything that Oprah

0:54:38.880 --> 0:54:41.399
<v Speaker 1>Winfrey has ever said, and anything that like.

0:54:41.520 --> 0:54:43.920
<v Speaker 3>MSN dot com says, you know.

0:54:44.160 --> 0:54:46.120
<v Speaker 1>So she's like, I don't eat salmon anymore because there's

0:54:46.280 --> 0:54:47.040
<v Speaker 1>mercury in it.

0:54:47.360 --> 0:54:50.920
<v Speaker 2>But I know it's so hard to be a fat

0:54:51.040 --> 0:54:53.880
<v Speaker 2>kid skitty with an almond.

0:54:54.440 --> 0:55:00.440
<v Speaker 1>And then my dad, dad, who was always dining so

0:55:00.480 --> 0:55:03.759
<v Speaker 1>like he and like now he's skinny, but in the

0:55:03.960 --> 0:55:07.160
<v Speaker 1>scary way where he just looks like a fucking bowling pin.

0:55:07.200 --> 0:55:10.160
<v Speaker 2>Where it's just like from being old. Yeah, because men

0:55:10.200 --> 0:55:12.080
<v Speaker 2>get thin as they exactly.

0:55:12.120 --> 0:55:14.040
<v Speaker 1>But he also it's like we don't really talk anymore.

0:55:14.120 --> 0:55:16.680
<v Speaker 1>But when we were talking, I'd be like you okay,

0:55:16.760 --> 0:55:18.279
<v Speaker 1>you sound weak and he was like.

0:55:18.400 --> 0:55:19.879
<v Speaker 3>Well, it's my fasting day.

0:55:20.400 --> 0:55:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I was like, a bitch, you're yelling at me because

0:55:22.160 --> 0:55:25.080
<v Speaker 1>you're fucking hungry, like have like have a steak, have

0:55:25.160 --> 0:55:28.440
<v Speaker 1>a snickers. Where he was always like putting me on

0:55:28.640 --> 0:55:31.879
<v Speaker 1>juice cleanses and me on, like you'll play light.

0:55:32.239 --> 0:55:33.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I have to go to weight Watchers.

0:55:33.800 --> 0:55:34.640
<v Speaker 3>I was on weight.

0:55:34.520 --> 0:55:37.080
<v Speaker 1>Watchers as a kid. I was on at Cans. I'm like,

0:55:37.120 --> 0:55:37.759
<v Speaker 1>you were putting to.

0:55:37.800 --> 0:55:38.880
<v Speaker 2>Go to the nutritionists.

0:55:38.960 --> 0:55:41.600
<v Speaker 1>Yes, you're putting a twelve year old on Atkins where

0:55:41.600 --> 0:55:43.319
<v Speaker 1>all they're having is like bacon and.

0:55:43.320 --> 0:55:47.239
<v Speaker 3>Turkey sausage, like you hate me, you hate me.

0:55:47.200 --> 0:55:49.880
<v Speaker 1>Hate me, where it's like I can't have bread, but

0:55:49.920 --> 0:55:52.080
<v Speaker 1>I can have like I can have like.

0:55:52.960 --> 0:55:54.920
<v Speaker 3>Steak twice a day.

0:55:55.440 --> 0:55:58.239
<v Speaker 1>Like it's not making sense and like all the what

0:55:58.400 --> 0:55:59.879
<v Speaker 1>not because I want.

0:55:59.760 --> 0:56:01.840
<v Speaker 3>Like this is not a good vibe.

0:56:02.040 --> 0:56:04.320
<v Speaker 1>So the mall to me was like I was able

0:56:04.360 --> 0:56:07.239
<v Speaker 1>to like cheat and go to day. I would be

0:56:07.239 --> 0:56:08.799
<v Speaker 1>able to go to cheat day and not tell them

0:56:08.840 --> 0:56:10.800
<v Speaker 1>and they'd like, what did you eat? And I'd be like, salad,

0:56:11.080 --> 0:56:15.520
<v Speaker 1>but really I was grass, going fucking ham or say

0:56:16.800 --> 0:56:17.560
<v Speaker 1>I okay.

0:56:17.640 --> 0:56:20.960
<v Speaker 2>I used to love something the Italian sandwich specifically, so

0:56:21.600 --> 0:56:26.560
<v Speaker 2>when my mom was dating who eventually became my step dad,

0:56:26.840 --> 0:56:28.719
<v Speaker 2>they would go on dates on Saturday nights and I

0:56:28.719 --> 0:56:30.759
<v Speaker 2>would stay home alone and my brother would usually be

0:56:30.880 --> 0:56:31.480
<v Speaker 2>at Are.

0:56:31.360 --> 0:56:32.160
<v Speaker 3>You the oldest?

0:56:32.640 --> 0:56:35.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm the oldest of my Yes, I'm the oldest. Technically

0:56:37.719 --> 0:56:40.359
<v Speaker 2>my dad has a I have an older half brother

0:56:40.400 --> 0:56:42.160
<v Speaker 2>from another marriage, but we didn't grow up together. So

0:56:42.280 --> 0:56:43.680
<v Speaker 2>like of the kids that I grew up with, I

0:56:43.760 --> 0:56:45.879
<v Speaker 2>was the oldest. So I got to like, I got

0:56:45.880 --> 0:56:48.080
<v Speaker 2>to spend Saturday nights alone and would be like, okay,

0:56:48.160 --> 0:56:50.000
<v Speaker 2>well we'll go rent you a video from Blockbustern and

0:56:50.000 --> 0:56:51.920
<v Speaker 2>get you something to eat. And what I always wanted

0:56:52.000 --> 0:56:54.160
<v Speaker 2>was to get subway from the gas station that had

0:56:54.160 --> 0:56:57.160
<v Speaker 2>a subway attached to it. And I don't know, but

0:56:57.280 --> 0:56:59.520
<v Speaker 2>I loved it. And then if it tastes like yoga,

0:56:59.560 --> 0:57:03.719
<v Speaker 2>bat well, Now eventually I graduated to I would like

0:57:03.760 --> 0:57:05.480
<v Speaker 2>watch My Sex and the City box SE's and order

0:57:05.600 --> 0:57:10.520
<v Speaker 2>Chinese food. But you were gay, you are gay gay,

0:57:10.640 --> 0:57:11.200
<v Speaker 2>but there.

0:57:11.120 --> 0:57:12.680
<v Speaker 3>Is I don't think your parents could have done to

0:57:12.680 --> 0:57:13.440
<v Speaker 3>stop this trade.

0:57:13.480 --> 0:57:15.920
<v Speaker 4>And you know that the subway the subway bread, and

0:57:16.120 --> 0:57:19.600
<v Speaker 4>like I think Ireland or the UK is legally cannot

0:57:19.640 --> 0:57:21.200
<v Speaker 4>be constituted as bread.

0:57:22.520 --> 0:57:26.080
<v Speaker 2>Because it's very porous. But when I was sugar, when

0:57:26.080 --> 0:57:28.000
<v Speaker 2>I was in middle school, I would tear up a

0:57:28.080 --> 0:57:29.000
<v Speaker 2>chicken karaokee.

0:57:29.160 --> 0:57:32.160
<v Speaker 3>Si, how about pop Elly's, you'll have that at your.

0:57:32.280 --> 0:57:39.920
<v Speaker 2>Love Polly john Sloop Jimmy John Tho. Yeah, Jimmy is

0:57:39.960 --> 0:57:42.320
<v Speaker 2>good though, And there's one near where I live. I

0:57:42.360 --> 0:57:43.160
<v Speaker 2>have gone there.

0:57:43.280 --> 0:57:46.800
<v Speaker 1>No, but the Pheromona Jimmy John's is so stale.

0:57:47.120 --> 0:57:50.040
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, it is not like the air it's like airplane.

0:57:49.560 --> 0:57:53.640
<v Speaker 2>But I love that related for is good. It is good.

0:57:53.960 --> 0:57:58.400
<v Speaker 1>It's like I feel like Jimmy John's is like the sexy.

0:57:58.080 --> 0:58:00.360
<v Speaker 3>Tweakers work there, you know what I mean.

0:58:00.560 --> 0:58:04.760
<v Speaker 2>Yes, the guys who like invite you over at four

0:58:04.760 --> 0:58:07.960
<v Speaker 2>a m. And they can only fun if there's pouring on.

0:58:10.000 --> 0:58:12.320
<v Speaker 1>Where it's they can't really keep it up on their

0:58:12.400 --> 0:58:16.080
<v Speaker 1>androids when they're making their sandwich. They're watching them sung on.

0:58:16.080 --> 0:58:17.160
<v Speaker 3>Their Samsung Galaxies.

0:58:17.160 --> 0:58:19.440
<v Speaker 1>It's like they have poorn up and you taste it

0:58:19.440 --> 0:58:22.440
<v Speaker 1>in the sandwich and it's kind of but Subway is

0:58:22.520 --> 0:58:24.200
<v Speaker 1>kind of a little bit more like perk.

0:58:24.400 --> 0:58:26.960
<v Speaker 3>It's a little bit more like you're barely away.

0:58:27.200 --> 0:58:33.600
<v Speaker 2>It's a out barbituates yea boots.

0:58:49.440 --> 0:58:52.080
<v Speaker 1>And your pot belly is that you have was there

0:58:52.160 --> 0:58:55.640
<v Speaker 1>like aloft in the pot bellies people.

0:58:57.080 --> 0:58:58.800
<v Speaker 2>What not that pot.

0:58:58.640 --> 0:58:59.480
<v Speaker 3>Belly has had?

0:58:59.640 --> 0:59:03.680
<v Speaker 1>Like he had literally an open mic where like people

0:59:03.680 --> 0:59:07.000
<v Speaker 1>who were still in my hometown, like men who never left,

0:59:07.040 --> 0:59:10.200
<v Speaker 1>would like climb up this ladder to the loft and

0:59:10.280 --> 0:59:12.680
<v Speaker 1>play John Mayer. It's like I would be ordering my

0:59:12.760 --> 0:59:16.760
<v Speaker 1>Italian sub hearing this guy named Tyler singing like waiting

0:59:16.800 --> 0:59:19.720
<v Speaker 1>for the world to change, and I was like, I

0:59:19.800 --> 0:59:22.280
<v Speaker 1>need to get the fuck out of Hollow Park before

0:59:22.320 --> 0:59:23.280
<v Speaker 1>it swallows me.

0:59:23.680 --> 0:59:26.520
<v Speaker 4>The Jason Ras covers in in my suburb were playing

0:59:26.560 --> 0:59:30.200
<v Speaker 4>at the Borders bookstore cafe. Oh yeah, that was There

0:59:30.240 --> 0:59:32.400
<v Speaker 4>was definitely an open mic scenario there where there was

0:59:32.400 --> 0:59:34.840
<v Speaker 4>like also like slam poetry, probably.

0:59:34.520 --> 0:59:37.040
<v Speaker 2>Talk about where I grew up. It is the Border's

0:59:37.080 --> 0:59:42.560
<v Speaker 2>bookstore cafe. Also it's also where I got my bars at.

0:59:42.400 --> 0:59:43.960
<v Speaker 3>The Borders were so good.

0:59:44.200 --> 0:59:50.880
<v Speaker 2>Really was not much your boyfriend as a thirty year

0:59:50.920 --> 0:59:55.040
<v Speaker 2>old man who who picked me up out outside of

0:59:55.080 --> 0:59:57.640
<v Speaker 2>the New Age spirituality section where I was looking at

0:59:57.640 --> 1:00:00.400
<v Speaker 2>books about WICCA and I was seventeen, So he was

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<v Speaker 2>definitely a p out of.

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<v Speaker 3>But he was your friend. Well, he was.

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<v Speaker 2>My boyfriend in that I would tell my mom I

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<v Speaker 2>was going to rehearsal and I would go over to

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<v Speaker 2>a theater.

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<v Speaker 4>Yep, and I lied about rehearsal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I would hook.

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<v Speaker 4>Up to go hook up or to just to like

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<v Speaker 4>go sit in the.

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<v Speaker 3>Park and I'm so jealous. Y'all had sex in high school.

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<v Speaker 2>No, rehearsal was such a good cover for going over

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<v Speaker 2>to this thirty one year old guy's house and letting

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<v Speaker 2>him come in my ass.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, okay, so made you a better woman? I did.

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<v Speaker 4>Literally my first boyfriend, I was still in the closet

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<v Speaker 4>and my boyfriend was out to when did you come out?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh seven, I want to say seventeen eighteen? Great, I think.

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<v Speaker 4>And my boyfriend was out to his parents but like

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<v Speaker 4>his parents were like just weird and bad, and so

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<v Speaker 4>we were like, where do we hook up? My I

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<v Speaker 4>had a key to my mom's office and I why, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>she trusted you.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't want to trust sucked in your mind.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if I had it or if I

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<v Speaker 4>would steal it because I knew my mom like working

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<v Speaker 4>hours or whatever. But I would go to my mom's

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<v Speaker 4>office in Hinsdale late at night.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like the nice It's like the Boca of the Southwest, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And and I would pack no joke. I would pack

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<v Speaker 4>like a mattress that like a kind of rolling mattress

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<v Speaker 4>that I had. You're such a blankets and yes, and

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<v Speaker 4>blankets not going to be uncomfortable, but not joke. And

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<v Speaker 4>I would pack it in my mom's minivan and bring

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<v Speaker 4>it to Candle. I did not bring a sen a kettle,

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<v Speaker 4>but there was probably already one there because you brought.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a glade plug it that you could just like

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<v Speaker 1>pop into the outlets.

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<v Speaker 2>It was incense for the sticks that you like turned

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<v Speaker 2>over incense that I bought it Like whatever those are? Seriously,

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<v Speaker 2>when did those like spring into existence?

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<v Speaker 3>The sticks?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like when Sharper image came to Oh I

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<v Speaker 1>love same. I was there again, the back massage from

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<v Speaker 1>a chair.

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<v Speaker 2>I like sticking my hand into the thing with the needles.

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<v Speaker 3>Loved doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I should do academy and as an adults, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>how did it feel?

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<v Speaker 2>No? I said I would, Okay, you should. I should

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<v Speaker 2>buy one on Amazon.

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<v Speaker 3>You actually should. That would be a really pleasant.

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<v Speaker 4>Brookstone was that place for us? The massage chairs?

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<v Speaker 1>What about all the kiosks where it's like, why am

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<v Speaker 1>I getting.

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<v Speaker 3>My hair straight right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Eastern European refugee that like the only job that she

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<v Speaker 1>can get. I'm like, why is Olga straightening my hair

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<v Speaker 1>right now? But I was like literally, but I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>she's hot. I remember that the girls working at the

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<v Speaker 1>kiosks were so sexy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's crazy. But the mom and my sister's hair. That

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<v Speaker 2>was so accurate. But they were also had been sex traffic.

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<v Speaker 3>Why are they women straightening my hair? And do the

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<v Speaker 3>Carroten treatment on me right now?

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<v Speaker 2>The male order bride.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I was like, I will save you in love

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<v Speaker 3>with her.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of hair treatments, I like exclusively got my hair

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<v Speaker 2>done at the salon at the mall justwhere. When I

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<v Speaker 2>was sixteen, I got my hair chemically straightened. No, no,

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<v Speaker 2>you did not. It was like to my shoulders. You

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<v Speaker 2>were so okay, give me once again.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. I was worried for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you make that alive?

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<v Speaker 1>Because when a kid is that much of a faggot,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't always make it.

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<v Speaker 3>They were letting you out. My kid was that gay.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm homeschooling now.

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<v Speaker 2>I almost didn't make it, but I went to an

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<v Speaker 2>art school. That's how I survived.

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<v Speaker 3>You were famed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I did not have public.

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<v Speaker 3>No, because you should not be allowed to go to

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<v Speaker 3>public in that gay No.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're at like the Redkin lounge, your hairically straightened

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<v Speaker 1>at the John Frieda.

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<v Speaker 2>Ouse and I had a little flat irons. Yeah, po

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<v Speaker 2>champoo conditioner combo.

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<v Speaker 1>I was the red the red because yeah, you are

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<v Speaker 1>notemically straightened and wearing like American eagle buttoned down.

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<v Speaker 3>Sweetie, this world. You're too pure for this.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I was an extra in the L word.

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<v Speaker 3>You were giving dyke like it's giving dyke.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I well I might, actually it must.

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<v Speaker 4>What was were there? Was there like how many years

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<v Speaker 4>were you a goth? Because goths are allowed?

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<v Speaker 2>That was the middle. Okay, so this is the trajectory.

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<v Speaker 2>Middle school was goth like mal goth topic, and then

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<v Speaker 2>like yeah, and then like freshman year, freshman to sophomore

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<v Speaker 2>year of high school. Then junior year was when I

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<v Speaker 2>was like Abercrombie America Hollister, and then my last year

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<v Speaker 2>of high school was like Indie like Converse r.

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<v Speaker 3>Like Zoe era.

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<v Speaker 4>Goths were definitely like you know, I was obsessed with them. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>they were like on the outskirts of society, but like

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<v Speaker 4>you know, a mab goths were like allowed to be

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<v Speaker 4>gay for something.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, they sucking and fucking. Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, there was a click of guys in my high

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<v Speaker 1>school that I was really obsessed with because they were

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<v Speaker 1>all like rocker bisexuals and they all just like fucked

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Then they had hot girlfriends. That's how do

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<v Speaker 1>I tap in.

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<v Speaker 3>I had to transition, That's what I knew.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, this world is not going to work

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<v Speaker 1>out for me in this way because I have a

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<v Speaker 1>little thing bubbling up in my mind called being transgender

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<v Speaker 1>that I will not learn about until later.

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<v Speaker 3>But I was so obsessed with them in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like giant tall tea covering up my whole

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<v Speaker 1>body with like Bob Marley turning into a lion. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I would wear, and like jeans and chucks that

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<v Speaker 1>was my.

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<v Speaker 3>I was them.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to the store that was like the

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<v Speaker 1>Native American store at the very suburban troupe, but I

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<v Speaker 1>like was wearing the shirts that had like bowl on it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like Homeland Security, because.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like the Mountain, Yeah, you were trying to

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<v Speaker 4>you were pro indigenous.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, hello, I have a feeling I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>stolen land right now. I'm gonna fucking do something about it, bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>And what you were going to do?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure? That was the original land acknowledgement. He wearing a

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<v Speaker 3>shirt in high school was sitting bull on it. And

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<v Speaker 3>I was still from urban outfitters.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously, Well that's you know powers to the people one.

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<v Speaker 1>Hundred percent, and I would get caught and I would

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<v Speaker 1>just run and catch the train.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never I don't know if I did. I tell

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<v Speaker 4>this in the pod last time. I got caught stealing

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<v Speaker 4>from Urban Outfitters and I was like banned for like

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<v Speaker 4>ten years.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so traumagized. Did your parents find out?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 4>No, Because I was in college by that, no one

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<v Speaker 4>would have to.

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<v Speaker 3>I was stealing from a mayor pair in Urban Outfitters.

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<v Speaker 2>I got caught stealing from Universal Studios and was banned

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<v Speaker 2>for seven years. But then I transitioned. So what were

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<v Speaker 2>they going to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Are they going to do? Good? Good luck?

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<v Speaker 3>Feeling car Potter day, I knew I looked in your eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>And she tried. I knew that J k Rawlling was

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<v Speaker 2>a turf and before she came out and I was

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<v Speaker 2>rec I was not going to give her my money.

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<v Speaker 3>How did a wand? This feels like really easy to steal,

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<v Speaker 3>no offense, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>A big box. But it was a big box and

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<v Speaker 2>I had to get the wand down and then I

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<v Speaker 2>stuck it up the sleeve of my shirt. I actually, like,

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<v Speaker 2>I think in a mall, I would have gotten away

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<v Speaker 2>with it, but universal like they there shoppers.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, were you Harry Potter? I was, yes, and you

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<v Speaker 1>obviously I was waiting.

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<v Speaker 2>At I have a deathly hallows tattoos down. I do

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<v Speaker 2>not know. I did fill it in before she even

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<v Speaker 2>came out as a turf, because I was like, something

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<v Speaker 2>smells you.

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<v Speaker 1>Your intuition was telling you something was going to go awry.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew you, fucking I knew without I knew with

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<v Speaker 2>my chemically straightened hair, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Got a whiff of something. No, I wasn't Harry Potter.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>What I was reading in high school and middle school

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<v Speaker 1>were those books called like crank Do you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about? Okay, where it's like these really big

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<v Speaker 1>books and then the cover all about like a different drug,

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<v Speaker 1>different vice ruining a woman's life.

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<v Speaker 3>And I only I just read those.

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<v Speaker 4>It was in the kind of go ask alice and

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<v Speaker 4>cut genre.

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<v Speaker 1>Precisely hair called my book would have been called like weed.

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<v Speaker 1>My book would have been called like weed, and it

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<v Speaker 1>would have been like a five hundred page book about

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<v Speaker 1>me like really wanting to dread my hair, but knowing

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<v Speaker 1>that I wasn't allowed to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>And like surrendering to that truth and.

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<v Speaker 1>Like smoking weed out of apples and trying to convince

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<v Speaker 1>boys to kiss me.

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<v Speaker 4>My book would have been called dog Ketamine from Mexico City. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>what would your what would your book be called?

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<v Speaker 2>Book? Would have my bo would be called like my

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<v Speaker 2>mom's credit card.

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<v Speaker 3>Would have been called.

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<v Speaker 1>Chart charge charge debt, debt, absolutely debt.

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<v Speaker 2>at the mall? Where do you go when you hit

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<v Speaker 4>Last night I heard the screen Nois slaym Big Yellow

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