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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 2: AJ is on the phone today for to catch a cheater.

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Speaker 2: He's been married to his wife for three years and

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Speaker 2: now he thinks something's going on, so hopefully we can

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Speaker 2: help him out. Sorry, you have to come on the

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Speaker 2: show this way, Aj, But what's up? Why do you

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Speaker 2: think you're watch cheating on you?

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Speaker 3: He thinks, I don't know what I'm saying. Thanks, but

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Speaker 3: thanks for having me. Yeah, So, my wife she's been

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Speaker 3: acting really distant recently and a lot more secretive than usual.

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Speaker 3: And I don't know, like she's been spending a lot

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Speaker 3: of time away from home, you know, and you know

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Speaker 3: she she works out of the house, away from the house,

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Speaker 3: and I mean, she's claiming that she's out with her

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Speaker 3: But I don't know, it just seems weird and consistent,

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Speaker 3: like something's just off, and you know, like all the

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Speaker 3: vibes are strange. But then like specifically, I found this

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Speaker 3: weird receipt for flowers that I never gave to her,

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Speaker 3: and I don't know where it came from. It was

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Speaker 3: just there and I asked her about it and she

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Speaker 3: said that she sent her sister some flowers, and you know,

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Speaker 3: she was like avoiding eye contact and was a little

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Speaker 3: snippy with me, And I don't know it, she's just

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Speaker 4: She didn't say, right, you know, I mean sending your

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Speaker 4: sister flowers. Doesn't feel like that's too weird. But on

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Speaker 4: top of everything else, I can see how that would

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Speaker 4: be kind of a flag. How is she dressing when

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Speaker 4: she goes to work when she says she's out with

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Speaker 4: her friends and stuff. Is she wearing her regular clothes

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Speaker 4: a little bit I don't know tighter.

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Speaker 3: I mean, she hasn't been buying new stuff, but does

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Speaker 3: seem bit more elevated, like a bit more jewelry recently,

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Speaker 3: And like, you know, she's been wearing her her perfume

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Speaker 3: bit more consistently, like definitely not once again like a

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Speaker 3: red flag, but like strong reddish yellow, kind of blood orange.

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Speaker 1: I guess she's making an effort more than she did before.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I see, yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 1: Is there anybody that you suspect she could be cheating with?

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Speaker 3: God, I don't know, maybe somebody at work or like

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Speaker 3: I already feel weird being on the radio. I don't

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Speaker 3: really exactly want to say exactly what she does, but

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Speaker 3: she does deal with a lot of clients and patients,

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Speaker 3: so like could be someone that she met along the

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Speaker 3: way that I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Is she a doctor, she works in the medical field, Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: is there anything else going on that you.

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Speaker 3: Just Our conversations have been really short, like they haven't

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Speaker 3: really I don't know how much depth to them. It

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Speaker 3: seems to be like about scheduling, like what we're gonna

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Speaker 3: do with our days doesn't seem you know, the question

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Speaker 3: like how are you doing? It doesn't really seem to

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Speaker 3: be coming through. Even when I ask her, it's just

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Speaker 3: like one word responses.

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Speaker 1: They're not connecting, kind of disengage yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, okay, separate.

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Speaker 2: Well, you told us what a grocery store she's a

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Speaker 2: rewards member at, So we'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 2: and then call her and pretend to be from the

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Speaker 2: grocery store and say that every single month, we choose

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Speaker 2: one lucky rewards member who gets free flowers deliver from

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Speaker 2: our floral department, and we'll see if she sends those

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Speaker 2: to you or to somebody else.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thanks, I appreciate you.

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Speaker 3: Guys.

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Speaker 1: We'll plays song come back, get your to Catch a Teater. Next,

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Speaker 1: it's time to Catch a Cheater only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater, if

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Speaker 2: you're just joining us, AJ is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: he thinks that his wife of three years named Sutton

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Speaker 2: might be cheating. So in a second, we're going to

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Speaker 2: call her and pretend to be from the grocery store

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Speaker 2: that she's a WARS member at and say that every

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Speaker 2: single month, we choose one Lucky Rewards member who gets

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Speaker 2: free flowers delivered from our floral department, and we'll see

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Speaker 2: if she sends those flowers to AJ or to somebody else.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, AJ, why don't you break

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Speaker 2: down your situation again one more time.

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Speaker 3: So my wife, she's been acting really distant and we

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Speaker 3: haven't really been connecting on many things. And I found

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Speaker 3: and I can frond her about it because you know

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Speaker 3: it wasn't I didn't get any flowers. And she says

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Speaker 3: She's then to her sister, and you know it just

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Speaker 3: didn't seem right. She was warning eye contact and like

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Speaker 3: there's no connection, there's no vibes are off. It's a

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Speaker 1: Are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: I guess so, no time like the present.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, this is corrible calling from SO. I was

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Speaker 1: looking for an awards member named Sudden.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a she.

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Speaker 1: Hi, how are you? Please? Don't hang up. This is

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Speaker 1: not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually calling to say congratulations, Sudden, you're this month's

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Speaker 5: I don't understand. I didn't know there's like a a

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Speaker 5: sort of an awards thing happening.

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Speaker 2: No, maybe you haven't seen the signs. Every single week

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Speaker 2: we choose one Rewards member at random. We get three

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Speaker 2: flowers delivered from our floral department, just to say thank

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Speaker 2: you very much for shopping with us. So you've actually

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Speaker 2: won thirty six long stem red roses, a box of

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Speaker 2: anybody that you want within the fifty United States.

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Speaker 5: Really like free? You're just gonna give me flowers?

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Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely free. There is no purchase. You'll get confirmations

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Speaker 2: on everything. It's just our way of saying thank you

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Speaker 5: Okay, and I picked them up or you send them out.

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Speaker 1: Here's how it works.

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Speaker 2: I can take down the information just in a matter

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Speaker 2: want to listen to right now, I'm prepared to do that.

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Speaker 2: I can also set up a time where I can

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Speaker 2: call you back. If that works, you can send them wonderful.

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Speaker 2: We'll start with a name, first and last name, and

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Speaker 2: then we'll get whatever you want to put on the

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Speaker 5: Okay, can you send it to Jackson?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: I can Jackson? Got it? Jackson?

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Speaker 1: Got that? And do you want a car? Do you

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Speaker 5: Yes? Do I tell you what to write on the

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Speaker 3: Trump? You do?

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Speaker 1: You can tell me what to put on it?

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Speaker 5: Okay? Can you right? Hold on? I'm trying to think

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Speaker 1: Every time I see you, my world feels brighter.

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Speaker 5: And then right, I can't wait to spend more time together.

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Speaker 2: We need to spend more time together. I can get

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Speaker 2: that too, okay, great, Yeah, that's great, Okay, great, And

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Speaker 2: I would get the address from you, but I'm not

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Speaker 2: going to do that because this is actually the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 2: It's a radio show, and we do a segment called

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Speaker 2: the catcha Teater where you see if your significant other

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Speaker 2: might be messing around based on who they send flowers to.

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Speaker 1: And your husband, AJ is actually on the phone and

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Speaker 5: I don't understand this is a radio station.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, Jumper, Hey what I don't understand what you're

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Speaker 5: Why are you calling a radio station and you're not

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Speaker 3: We haven't been talking about anything. It's been hard to

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Speaker 3: I feel like we haven't been connecting. I feel like

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Speaker 3: there's a weird thing. The flowers that you sent. You

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Speaker 5: It just seems very bizarre because nothing has been really different.

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Speaker 5: And you know that we're in an open relationship, and

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Speaker 5: so you know that I people. Do you see people too? Oh,

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Speaker 5: she didn't tell you they were in an open relationship. Yes,

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, we are in an open relationship. But she

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: Well, I's how it works though, Like you can see

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Speaker 4: but she's cheating because she didn't tell you about Jackson.

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Speaker 5: I'm not cheating. We're just supposed to tell each other

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Speaker 5: I didn't tell.

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Speaker 6: Them because it's it's just become a little bit emotionally

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Speaker 1: Does that mean that you're cheating? Even more.

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Speaker 3: No, So if you weren't hiding it from me, I

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Speaker 5: There's a very fun line the sensitive about this stuff.

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Speaker 5: So just because it's a little bit emotional, then you

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Speaker 3: I don't think that. Sorry, I'm having a hard time

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Speaker 3: We built this, We built this on trust. We built

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Speaker 3: like we talked about communicating communication, and you're not communicating

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Speaker 2: But if you have a deal where you have an

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Speaker 5: But I knew he gets so upset about it. It's

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Speaker 5: that it's emotional.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if it's emotional, then just don't go there, don't

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Speaker 3: don't go down that road, don't don't invest in it.

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Speaker 3: Then don't spend time with him, Like, I don't see

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Speaker 3: why you're not thinking about this, Okay, don't.

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Speaker 5: Go down that road. Yeah, what about Interstate ten with Jenny?

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Speaker 5: What was that about?

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Speaker 1: What was that?

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Speaker 3: We have put that behind us.

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Speaker 5: Okay and talked about but it's okay you, but it's

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Speaker 5: not okay okay, no, no, all right.

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Speaker 1: I mean I don't know. I know where we're at now,

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Speaker 1: but there's a lot of cross I just want to

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Speaker 5: We can definitely work this out, and I want to

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Speaker 5: work it out if you, Okay, you are so important

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Speaker 5: person to me. I just I voll you that what

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Speaker 5: we've created, how we have an open relationship, and that

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Speaker 3: I want to fix this. I want to fix this too,

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Speaker 3: and I just want to know I can trust you

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Speaker 3: as we both try to fix it.

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Speaker 2: It looks like you both have had your interstate ten

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Speaker 2: months and we can then maybe you guys can do

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Speaker 2: a different place, a different highway with each other.

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Speaker 1: Maybe or maybe not.

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Speaker 4: Good luck

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Speaker 5: The Jewel shows to Catch a Cheater