1 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: Hi. 2 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 2: I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson. 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 2: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship and 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 2: what it's like to be siblings. 5 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 3: We are a sibling railvalry. 6 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 2: No, no, sibling. 7 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 3: You don't do that with your mouth. 8 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 4: Vely, that's good. 9 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 2: Al Rodson here, Holy shit, lots to talk about. 10 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: It's been a minute since I've actually recorded a fresh podcast. 11 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: As everyone knows, we've been dealing with a lot of 12 00:00:51,680 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 1: shit here in Los Angeles. 13 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 2: I'm not going to get into all that right now. 14 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 2: I will in a bit of a rant that you 15 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 2: will hear in this new season of. 16 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: Sibling Revelry, adding a few little bells and whistles to 17 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: the game, but just touching on it. Fucking devastation. That's 18 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 1: where I grew up. It's gone and it's crazy. Everyone's 19 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 1: okay though. That's the good part. But we'll get into 20 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 1: all of. 21 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 2: It in a bit. 22 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 1: Right now, we have Sam Ascari waiting in the waiting room. 23 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: He did show Traders, which I'm eager to see. Alan 24 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: Cummings is the hosting looks very creepy. 25 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 2: And uh interested in his life where he came from. 26 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 2: He is a good story. Let's bring him on. Hey, 27 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 2: what's up man? 28 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 3: How you going? 29 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 2: Man? 30 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: This is the first show that I've recorded since the fires. 31 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 2: So where are you at? You're You're in La So. 32 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 3: Right across the street is pretty much Palastate on sunset. Yeah, 33 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 3: And I don't know how I didn't evacuate, and I 34 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 3: don't know what happened. And we just didn't even lose power. 35 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 3: It was just the street that was not effected about anything. 36 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 3: Everybody else evacuated. I still see some Coast Guard military 37 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 3: cars across the street. So that's crazy. 38 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, that's kind of how it works. Obviously. 39 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: This has just been insanely devastatings where I grew up. 40 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: So my family's all right, houses were all right, except 41 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: for my brother. My brother's Boston's house went. But the 42 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 1: amount of people that I know whose houses have burned, 43 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: it's like just unfathomable. 44 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:47,239 Speaker 2: It's unbelievable. 45 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: But then there's this, there's a few you know that 46 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: are still miraculously standing. 47 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, very crazy. 48 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 3: I think they let some of the Palastate people back in, yeah, 49 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,519 Speaker 3: to the neighbor to check out their home, but they're 50 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 3: not allowed to stay there. But I think if you're 51 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 3: in LA, you at least know one person that was 52 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 3: effected by the fire. 53 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Oh my gosh, it's been nutty. 54 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 3: The videos from all the animals are are insane. I mean, 55 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 3: I feel really bad for people, but I think humans 56 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 3: we can help ourselves and eventually, you know where. But 57 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 3: animals are just I saw the video of the horse 58 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 3: going back and getting other horses, you know, so that 59 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 3: was just it was just a weird time it was at. 60 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 2: I know it was crazy. But you didn't evacuate. 61 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 3: Oh I didn't. Yeah, I didn't. I don't know how 62 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 3: because everyone around bel Air Side is evacuated. How the 63 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 3: state side was evacuated. The whole four or five was 64 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 3: closed for a few days, and I don't know. I 65 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 3: think I heard there's there might be more wins coming 66 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 3: down this place today tomorrow. 67 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, it's nutty. Well give me a story, aboudy, 68 00:03:58,080 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: I mean interesting one. 69 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 2: Right, you came on. How old were you when you 70 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 2: came here? You know? 71 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 72 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 2: Give me the rundown. I think it was the perfect age. 73 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 3: I was twelve and you know now, I just look 74 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 3: back and see I lived half of my life in 75 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 3: the country that was completely the opposite of America. 76 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:19,919 Speaker 2: And. 77 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 3: I lived the other half here. So I was twelve 78 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 3: years old and I moved here. I was in seventh grade, 79 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 3: and it was just the best thing that ever happened 80 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 3: to me in life. When you're from a country like Iran, 81 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 3: and I really appreciated the culture. But when I moved here, 82 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 3: I really wanted to focus on fitting in in America. 83 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:43,039 Speaker 3: I mean I did everything to try to fit in 84 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,159 Speaker 3: as soon as possible. I tried baseball, which I sucked. 85 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 3: That in an American sport. I was like, okay, I 86 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 3: can't do this. Then I tried drinking gatorade every single morning. 87 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 3: We thought that was like the most American thing you 88 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 3: can do, you try to fit in, and that was okay. 89 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,679 Speaker 3: I almost got diabetes from that. And then I played 90 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 3: American football. I did all the things to fit in, 91 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 3: because when you're coming from a country like that, you 92 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 3: look at America as this land of opportunity. 93 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: You know, what about the language, I mean obviously you 94 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: didn't know the language, or did. 95 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 3: You You know? 96 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 2: I didn't. 97 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 3: I didn't, you know. I went to English classes. But 98 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 3: with me classes it's just every time I sit down 99 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 3: in the class, my brain just goes out the window, 100 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 3: you know. So I didn't really pay attention to my 101 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 3: English classes. I mean I knew words like pencils and 102 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 3: all that. But when I came here. I remember the 103 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 3: first week I was in school, I was out in Camery, 104 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 3: or California that way. That's where I went to middle school. 105 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 3: And I went to class and I was I was 106 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 3: so enthusiastic about America. I was like, Wow, everybody's you know, 107 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 3: everybody's going to be nice to me. Everybody's going to 108 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 3: welcome me. And my dad always told me, oh, they 109 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:01,359 Speaker 3: love like you know, everybody, and and everything's fine. So 110 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 3: I went to middle school and I was late to class. 111 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 3: I was late to class. It was this history class. 112 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 3: So I sat in the back of the classroom where 113 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 3: the American flag is. You know, you got the American flag, 114 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,919 Speaker 3: and you sit down and you pick your own seats. 115 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 3: You don't have assigned seats in public schools. So I 116 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 3: sit down and everybody stands up. They turn around and 117 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 3: they start singing something. You know. They started saying, I 118 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 3: pledge allegiance to the flag. And at that time I 119 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,479 Speaker 3: didn't know what it was. And all I remember was 120 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 3: my dad saying they're going to love you. They're gonna 121 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 3: you know, they love immigrants and they love new So 122 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 3: I was like, Wow, they're welcoming me. They know I'm new. 123 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 2: You thought it was all for you. 124 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 3: I thought it was for me. So I got up 125 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 3: and I saluted, and it was just all the kids 126 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 3: were like, what the fuck is this guy doing? 127 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 2: Taking vows like thank you guys. 128 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, So you know, I had this. I had this 129 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:01,559 Speaker 3: positive mindset. The language was nothing. I learned it right away. 130 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 3: I mean I was in a age where it's usually easier. 131 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 3: You know, did you experience. 132 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: The twelve bullying or discrimination? You know, you're new, you 133 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: don't speak the language. Kids are fucking assholes. 134 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 2: For the most part, you know. 135 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 3: You know what. I'm sure there was, but I think 136 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 3: the mind I'm not going to go into the victim 137 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 3: mindset and all that. I think that has to do 138 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 3: with you. So if somebody does make fun of your bully, 139 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 3: you you can either. I mean, I came from a 140 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 3: country where pretty much, you know, my twelve years was 141 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 3: like forty years in another country. The experiences that you 142 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 3: go through, you know, it's not the same. You know, 143 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 3: kids get to run around the streets with that parent. 144 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 3: It's a different culture, yeah, basically, But when I came here, 145 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 3: I didn't look at it as I didn't know what 146 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 3: bullying is, like that's molding back home, so I don't 147 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 3: know what bothing is. 148 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: It's a great point, you know, it did not diminish 149 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 1: anything from you know, kids who are bullied. 150 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 2: But it's nothing new. I mean obviously online you know, 151 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 2: digital bullying and stuff like that. It's almost worse than 152 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 2: than it is in person, you. 153 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: Know, and in person it's part of being on the 154 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: schoolyard too, you know what I mean. And I imagine 155 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: where you grew up. You look in America like this 156 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: is bullying, like this is uh. 157 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not that. But you know, it's subjective. For me, 158 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 3: it might be different than somebody else. Obviously if I 159 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 3: I did stand up for bullies even in America and 160 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 3: things like that. But back home, coming to this country 161 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:42,199 Speaker 3: was just such a blessing that everything was a privilege. 162 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 3: Other parents tried to you know, that's it's different. But 163 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 3: here I looked at it as this, Wow, this is 164 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 3: such a great opportunity, and like everybody bullied us at 165 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 3: some point. They used to call it at the time, 166 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:59,359 Speaker 3: this isn't six. So Borat was out with Sasha Barancona 167 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 3: and I send them a message and I told him 168 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 3: and he sent me back an emoji. I don't know 169 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 3: what that means, but I said, dude, like you, you 170 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 3: helped me survive. And the reason why you helped me 171 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 3: survive is because people used to love that Borat and 172 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 3: we used to make those you know, like they're nice. 173 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 2: Like. 174 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 3: All the all the white kids were like the popular 175 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 3: kids like coming out with us, and you know, we'll 176 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:25,440 Speaker 3: make fun of you. At the time, we thought we 177 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:27,719 Speaker 3: were popular. Me and my best friend were both from 178 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 3: you on. But but we weren't popular. They just wanted 179 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 3: to clown us and make fun of us. 180 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 2: But I remember big skin, right, I mean I didn't. 181 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 3: It's thick skin. Ignorance is a blessing, whatever they say. 182 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 3: But I didn't. Luckily I didn't. I was so blessed 183 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 3: to be here. 184 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 1: Your siblings, right, I have three sisters, Yes, you do, 185 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: and where you stand in the in the pecking order. 186 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,439 Speaker 3: So I'm the youngest one and the next one after 187 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 3: me is eight years and then they're back to back 188 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 3: to back. In other words, my dad had you know, 189 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 3: my dad wanted a son, and I think he was 190 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 3: you know, he's a flirty type. So God give him 191 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 3: three girls to teach him a lesson. 192 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 2: So you have three older sisters, yes, yes, wow, wow yea. 193 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 2: And so why did you immigrate over to the United States? 194 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 1: Like what was it was there? He wanted a better 195 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 1: life for his kids. You know, how did that work? 196 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 3: My dad was here in the US, I think since 197 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 3: ninety eight, got it and I was here with him 198 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 3: and me and my mom because it's just such a 199 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 3: hard process to get a visa anywhere. And it's like 200 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 3: almost as you need to win the lottery to come 201 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 3: to the US. There's literally a lottery system to come 202 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 3: to the US. And my dad and I and my 203 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 3: mom were able to come. But then we got three 204 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 3: you know, I have three sisters. They have three little 205 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 3: girls back home that they can't just you know, bring 206 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 3: because of the process. So it took about ten years 207 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 3: just for them to get an appointment to the immigration Wow. 208 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 3: And so I had to end up going back and 209 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,079 Speaker 3: I was I was four years old. So I ended 210 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 3: up going back and I wanted to be with them. 211 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 3: And then after a few years it was just the 212 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 3: right time and we got an appointment and we went 213 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 3: out to Istanbul, Turkey, and we got our visa. I 214 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 3: got my visa first because I was under the age 215 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 3: of eighteen and if you're eighteen and over, you have 216 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 3: to do an FBI check. So they did an FBI check, 217 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 3: but it took another six years just for that FBI 218 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 3: check to become clear for them. So I moved here first, 219 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:49,559 Speaker 3: and they came after six years. 220 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 2: Wow. 221 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:54,200 Speaker 1: And they just wanted to try to give you guys 222 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: a better life. 223 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 2: As that was at the idea that that was the idea. 224 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 3: Like from you're on every time look at America. People 225 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 3: don't understand a lot of my you know, white friends 226 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:07,959 Speaker 3: or American friends, or they don't they look at Iran 227 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 3: as the government. The government is completely different than the 228 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:14,199 Speaker 3: people of Iran. The people of Iran love America. They 229 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 3: love America. This is their destination. This is like their 230 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:20,959 Speaker 3: ticket to the you know, the chocolate factor. That's how 231 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 3: it is. And for us was just better opportunities like 232 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:29,120 Speaker 3: this is if you put your mind into anything in America, 233 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 3: whatever you want to become, you can and the American 234 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 3: dream is still there for those type of people. So 235 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 3: it was literally just opportunity, better life, freedom, women freedom, 236 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 3: it's ridiculous to be talking about this, but it's real. 237 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 1: I mean it's it's it's not ridiculous at all. You 238 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: and I are talking about that for a second. I mean, 239 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,319 Speaker 1: how does that, How does that even work? I mean, 240 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: are you even able to you know, it's just that 241 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: we as human being beings are sexual human beings. We 242 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: have that are like obviously, that's how we've pro created 243 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: and created the human rights. Yeah, and these are those 244 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: all those does that all have to get pretty repressed? 245 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 2: Yes? 246 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 3: I mean you and I are both very familiar with 247 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 3: the NS attainment industry. Imagine an entertainment industry where women 248 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 3: are not allowed to sing in public. So that's what's 249 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 3: happening there. And you take it back thirty years ago. 250 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:31,719 Speaker 3: Women were so inspiring in that country and they were 251 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 3: allowed to sing and they took that away. So it's 252 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 3: just sad. So us we have three girls in our 253 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 3: families and we have to get up and go. I mean, 254 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 3: my sisters now, thank to I mean they were always achieving, 255 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 3: you know, academic success. They were super small. Unlike me, 256 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:57,000 Speaker 3: the black sheep in the family. I am in the 257 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 3: bad way black sheep in the bad way. I didn't 258 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 3: go I didn't do good in school and or well 259 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 3: I ever, I can't even imagine read ten fifteen pages 260 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:12,839 Speaker 3: without sleeping. But they have one of them is it 261 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 3: just became a doctor, the other one as a forensic scientist. 262 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 3: And my youngest sister has her medical spossor these things 263 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 3: are only achievable in the US. You know, not that 264 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 3: women can't do anything now over there, but you know 265 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 3: they have whatever they want to achieve here, it's possible 266 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 3: at least the opportunities there up to you. 267 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 2: And then what about religion? Were you guys very religious family? 268 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 3: And you know, looking back, even in Iran, I didn't 269 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 3: really meet people that were religious because they used the 270 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 3: governm has used some sort of a you know, idealism 271 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 3: and religion to suppress and they used Islam Aslam as 272 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 3: a beautiful, you know religion, but they've watered down, they 273 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 3: changed it so much that people don't even want to 274 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 3: listen to it. You know, if you say ridiculous things 275 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 3: and you said a prophet said it or God said it, 276 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 3: then makes you not have faith and faith so people 277 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 3: don't really not religious. For me, nothing has ever proven 278 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 3: itself to me, then good things and good karma or 279 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 3: whatever universe or whatever the case is. When you do 280 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 3: something unintentionally that you don't tell anyone or you don't 281 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 3: post about it, you know, you always you always get 282 00:15:48,160 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 3: paid back instantly. So that's I don't know what you 283 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 3: want to call it, but to me, if I do 284 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 3: good in life and I don't, you know, I don't 285 00:15:58,280 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 3: hurt anybody, I don't do anything bad. 286 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 2: I don't. 287 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 3: I go through life not in a perfect way, of course, 288 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 3: as humans were not perfect. But if we do good 289 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 3: and we never hurt anybody, and when we get to 290 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 3: the heaven gates, whether if it's Jesus or Muhammad or 291 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 3: whoever it is, they're going to let you in. They're 292 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 3: not going to be like, oh, you were a bad 293 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 3: person because you didn't pray at a forty five three angle. 294 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 3: Respect to our religions, and I love our religions. I 295 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 3: think we learn so much from it. 296 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 2: But if we don't do anything bad where you know, 297 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 2: I'm not a religious person at all, But but you 298 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 2: weren't pressured in any way by your family and no. 299 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 3: Not my family, but by by people. When you live there, 300 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 3: you go to school, to religious school, or you have 301 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 3: to you know, you have to, you have to kind 302 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:50,240 Speaker 3: of go. You know, it's forced religion there. I have 303 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 3: some friends that are here that are BAHAs or Jewish 304 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 3: and they weren't able to, you know, go to the 305 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:56,120 Speaker 3: same schools. 306 00:16:56,200 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 2: It's yeah. And then so you're here, you your living 307 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 2: dream of being in America. And then how did this? 308 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 2: How did it happen? 309 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 1: You wanted to be a model, you wanted to be 310 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 1: an actor. I mean, when did the entertainment come into 311 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 1: your world to go from there? And sort of you know, 312 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,159 Speaker 1: how did that all sort of went down? I mean, 313 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 1: obviously a handsome dudeo where you're like, shit, like I'm seventeen, 314 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 1: I look fucking good, like I'm going to. 315 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 3: Be at seventeen years old. At seventeen years old, I 316 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 3: didn't look good. I didn't look bad, but I didn't 317 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 3: look good. I was three ten. I was playing football. 318 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 3: I was in a football shit American football shit, and 319 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 3: I was playing football at the time. And right when 320 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 3: I went to college, that's when things weren't I know, 321 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 3: like at no, I'm playing two years of college football 322 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 3: at a junior college out in California, and I knew 323 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 3: my time was over and I knew that I had to. 324 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 3: You know, I was working multiple jobs and I wanted 325 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 3: to be entertainment. And that takes me back to high 326 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 3: school where I was back theater, arts and drama, and 327 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 3: same with college. So that was just always see me 328 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 3: oh no, no, no, god No. 329 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 2: I was in the west like West Like high school, 330 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 2: west like okay. 331 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:19,159 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, uh no, seeming no no no no uh no. 332 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 3: But I was in westle like high school. And I 333 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 3: went to more part college because I was the closest 334 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 3: college to me. And after that it was just time 335 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 3: for me to part ways and start working and start 336 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 3: I was always supporting myself throughout high school, but I 337 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 3: had to really focus on that because now adulthood is 338 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:42,639 Speaker 3: right around the corner. And that's when I started getting 339 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:47,640 Speaker 3: into possibly looking into getting an acting agent and really 340 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:51,440 Speaker 3: start acting professionally. So I got an acting agent and 341 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 3: I started, you know, auditioning only for commercials and that 342 00:18:55,720 --> 00:19:00,239 Speaker 3: went really well. Then did a I think I went 343 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 3: in for a commercial and somebody offered something to me 344 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 3: which was a music video and it was that group 345 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 3: Fit Harmony group. You remember they had a group and 346 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 3: it was like a construction video and it was like, 347 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:16,200 Speaker 3: you know, people were came out and they went very viral. 348 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:19,360 Speaker 3: People love this song and even to now I get 349 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 3: all these videos from me doing the Jackhammer the American 350 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 3: dream Man. 351 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 2: It's true. I didn't see your probably shirts. 352 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 3: I like, yeah, yeah like that. It's just it was 353 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 3: just this like you know, so to a porn and yeah, 354 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 3: and people loved it. People loved the Cosmopolitan that a 355 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 3: you know, article of it, and that was my first 356 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 3: mainstream thing was which was like a you know, and 357 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 3: you get all these followers on Instagram. Then at that time, 358 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 3: I was like, okay, it's time to be a serious actor. 359 00:19:57,119 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 3: Let's no longer do music videos because you know, music, 360 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 3: nobody really watches music videos and nobody commercials fun. But 361 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 3: the respect is not elite acting. It's a lot of money. 362 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 3: People pay make a lot more money on commercial than 363 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 3: they do on TV and film sometimes, but it was 364 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 3: not respected, and I wanted to go to the next level. 365 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 3: So I said, I'm no longer going to do any 366 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 3: more music videos and none of that stuff, no more modeling, 367 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:34,200 Speaker 3: no more commercials. Then one day I get a call 368 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 3: from an agent saying are you available? They want you 369 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 3: for a music video. It's an a less music video, 370 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 3: but we don't know who, we don't know how, And 371 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 3: I was like, okay, I probably not, you know, most 372 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 3: likely not. Then a friend of mine was doing makeup 373 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:52,520 Speaker 3: and hair and said, oh, you know, my friend Colin, 374 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 3: Colin Telly was the director, is really amazing director from 375 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 3: music videos and feature films now, and he said, my 376 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 3: friend's doing it and they want to cast you. You 377 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:05,720 Speaker 3: should come because I'm working in it, and you know, 378 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 3: we make some good friends and you should just do it. 379 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 3: So I said, okay, and I call my agent and 380 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 3: said is that still available? They're like yes, they reached 381 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:17,159 Speaker 3: out again. And I go, okay, cool, and I go 382 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 3: into the music video and it's just another job. And 383 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 3: then there's seven years worth of relationship that comes from 384 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 3: the music video and a marriage and a lot of 385 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 3: experiences and a lot of a lot of experiences, which 386 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 3: I like to call it a crash course in Hollywood, 387 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:46,880 Speaker 3: which was which was great. Yeah, you tell you learn, 388 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 3: you learn from everything. 389 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously, how old are you now? 390 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 3: I'm thirty. 391 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:55,680 Speaker 1: Now you're thirty. So you're getting married young, you know, yeah, 392 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 1: you're getting married young. You're taking a chance, you're in 393 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:01,119 Speaker 1: love and should Sometimes shit doesn't work out. 394 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 2: You know Caid? 395 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 1: Yes, okay, so I know Brittany a little bit, and 396 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 1: I know Caid very well. Cad was it my He's 397 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 1: crazy and I love him. But he was at my 398 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 1: New Year's e party this year in Colorado? 399 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:13,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 400 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 2: But what was that whirlwind? Like? 401 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 1: I mean, you know again a twelve year old kid 402 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 1: from it On coming to the States all of a sudden, bang, 403 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:28,359 Speaker 1: It's like you're thrust into this sort of spotlight and 404 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,359 Speaker 1: is it like, is this what the fuck I want? 405 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 2: Or was it was? 406 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 3: It? 407 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 1: Was there something alluring to it as well? Because we 408 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,440 Speaker 1: all like to be recognized, you know what I mean, 409 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,719 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't mind it when people come up 410 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 1: to me and like the things that I've done or 411 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:43,880 Speaker 1: have some recognition, and it feels good. 412 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 2: But what was that like for you? I mean, because 413 00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 2: it's that's big time shit. It's like, holy fuck. Bang. 414 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 3: So here's the thing. I never looked at it as 415 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 3: a big time thing. The reason why the spotlight and 416 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 3: you know, you have a public relationship and people start 417 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 3: even paying attention. Even if you're Travis Kelcey, you're in 418 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,719 Speaker 3: the NFL, you're the best guident in the league. They 419 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:11,160 Speaker 3: still associate you with pop culture. Culture is the biggest 420 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:14,680 Speaker 3: thing in the world, and better yet to be associated with, 421 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:19,840 Speaker 3: you know, an icon, someone that's labeled as princess of pop. 422 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:26,960 Speaker 3: So for that I wasn't too you know, it didn't 423 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:28,880 Speaker 3: really mess up my mind. The reason why I say 424 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 3: that is because I think coming to America was the 425 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 3: best thing and the biggest thing that ever happened. And 426 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 3: when you live in a different country, you kind of 427 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 3: sort of have an experience, a wider you know, experience, 428 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 3: and you're more grounded, and you're more you know, you 429 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 3: more understand what happens to you. So I think me 430 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 3: just be you know, being from a different country and 431 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 3: learning all those experiences and coming to this country was 432 00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:05,360 Speaker 3: such a big change that it made everything else become easier. 433 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,199 Speaker 3: And I figure, I think if you do everything, if 434 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:14,359 Speaker 3: you follow everything with honor and respect, and you think 435 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 3: twice before you do anything, nothing could ever go wrong 436 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 3: and nothing could ever be a bad thing. It doesn't 437 00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 3: work out. If things end and things happen that you 438 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 3: know you were not wanting to happen, you just have 439 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 3: to sort of take a moment and appreciate it. That 440 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 3: it ever even happened. Then then sit there and do 441 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 3: well and be. 442 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:41,120 Speaker 2: Said, it's such a big part of your life. Think 443 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:44,199 Speaker 2: about that, you know. I it's someone though. 444 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,680 Speaker 1: Actually on this show, I was talking to a guest 445 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 1: and you know, they asked about regrets that I've talked 446 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 1: about very personal things on this show, and you know, 447 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:57,359 Speaker 1: some bad things that I'd done in my life, and 448 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't have fucking regrets, you know, 449 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 1: because I don't know I would be without the without 450 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:05,159 Speaker 1: the culmination of my experiences. So if I was to 451 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:09,120 Speaker 1: take away and cherry pick these things that I don't 452 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 1: like about me, or a few things that I kind 453 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 1: of was fucked up with or I wasn't in my 454 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 1: right mind, or I wasn't doing the right thing, if 455 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 1: I just take those away, then I'm not sure you're 456 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:25,159 Speaker 1: I'm taking pieces of myself away and take character building moments. 457 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 2: Hopefully, you know. So I don't have regrets. 458 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,439 Speaker 1: But then of course, you know, Press picks it up 459 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:32,440 Speaker 1: and it's like Oliver Hudson has no regrets for anything. 460 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 2: He's ever done. It's like, okay, you know, so you know, 461 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:37,679 Speaker 2: you don't kill anyone. 462 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: It happens, it's life, you know, and you take so 463 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,879 Speaker 1: much from those experiences, you know what I'm saying, And 464 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 1: I'm sure you have. 465 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely. I mean I've always looked at life as 466 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,040 Speaker 3: a blessing. I didn't look at it as this big 467 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:56,400 Speaker 3: thing for my care because my career is always completely 468 00:25:56,480 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 3: different than my personal life, even though it might be like, 469 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 3: you know, it might be a ridiculous thing to say, 470 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:09,680 Speaker 3: because things happened the way it happened because of my career. 471 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 3: I was on an acting job. I was already acting, 472 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 3: and I was already going into it, you know, and 473 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 3: I met a coworker that happened to be you know, uh, 474 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 3: the princess of pop and I and you know, we 475 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 3: got we sort of clicked and we sort. 476 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 2: Of jaw is that What was the meeting? 477 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:28,200 Speaker 3: Like? 478 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 2: Did she would I mean she approached you or you? 479 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 2: Did you have the balls to approach her? 480 00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? At that time, I was young, 481 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 3: so I wasn't you know, I wasn't accepted of ever 482 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,359 Speaker 3: getting to know someone that was in pop culture. I 483 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 3: thought it was not manly. So you know, when you're young, 484 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,000 Speaker 3: you think like, oh, just rap music and. 485 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 2: Things like that. 486 00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:58,120 Speaker 3: So I didn't really I never even listened to pop 487 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 3: music up until then, pop culture, her music and things 488 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:04,080 Speaker 3: like that, so I did. I wasn't really of course, 489 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 3: I know who she was and things like that. But 490 00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:09,120 Speaker 3: when I go into a job, I go in as 491 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 3: a professional, even if it's a music video. And even now, 492 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 3: if I go into a job like I did, if 493 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 3: I do a TV series that I liked it, I 494 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 3: only have a few moments, and I'm going to go 495 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,159 Speaker 3: in as if I'm you know, I'm going to be 496 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,399 Speaker 3: on time, I'm going to be excited. I'm going to 497 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,240 Speaker 3: try to sleep, I'm gonna you know, I'm gonna be nervous, 498 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 3: I'm going to be It's like a dream to me. 499 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 3: So I'm always gonna no matter what the job is, 500 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,200 Speaker 3: I will always go into it the same way. And 501 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 3: that's what happened. 502 00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:38,920 Speaker 2: And I was there. 503 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,359 Speaker 3: I was very relaxed. It was a music video. It's 504 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:44,400 Speaker 3: a two day music video. 505 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 2: It was fun. 506 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:49,400 Speaker 3: It was at a house and I think on cold 507 00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 3: Water in Beverly Hills, and everything was was going right, 508 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 3: and everything was going great. And we talked and we 509 00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 3: figured we would we would. We were both single, and 510 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 3: we figured grab some sushi and then we grab some 511 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 3: sushi on Los Angele at this restaurant called Koi, and 512 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 3: everything was going really well until one day I started 513 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 3: learning about what the conservatorship is and things like that, 514 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,119 Speaker 3: and that's when I was like, wait a minute, Like 515 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 3: I thought, I'm in America, What do you mean? What 516 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,720 Speaker 3: do you mean somebody doesn't have, you know, their basic 517 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 3: economy of their own life right when you mean someone 518 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 3: over the age of eighteen needs permission from their parents 519 00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 3: and all this ridiculous thing. But you know, I'm very 520 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 3: new to this and everybody is even It's just it's 521 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 3: such a ridiculous thing in this country to have to 522 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 3: deal with. And that was by far the most I'm 523 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 3: not going to say difficult, because I don't think anything's difficult. 524 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:56,720 Speaker 3: That was the weirdest thing to deal with, not which 525 00:28:56,800 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 3: is really strange to say in Hollywood and entertainment because 526 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:08,320 Speaker 3: people will tell you it's usually media, fans, the money 527 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 3: and everything else that's going to be hard that to 528 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 3: deal with. But one of the most important, one of 529 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 3: the hardest things I think to deal with when you do, 530 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 3: you know, when you go into entertainment is your parents 531 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 3: and the people around you and everything that that happens, 532 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 3: and everybody that comes into your life that taken advantage 533 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 3: that damage you, because those are the people that are 534 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 3: closest to you. It's never the fans, It's never the media. 535 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 3: It's never you know, I always celebrities when they're mad 536 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,200 Speaker 3: at TMZ and you know they're mad at all these people. 537 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,760 Speaker 3: There are the reasons why you're you know, popular and famous. 538 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 3: Is the media and the fans and all that. They 539 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 3: will never hurt you. Usually the people that are around you, 540 00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 3: the people that you allow into your circle, you kind 541 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 3: of are vulnerable to them, and they take an advantage 542 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 3: because they think you, you know, you owe something to 543 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 3: them or something, which is so ridiculous. That was the 544 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 3: most difficult and weird spiral thing that I've witnessed in 545 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:16,160 Speaker 3: my life. Ever. 546 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 2: Had you handle that? 547 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, with someone that you love watching 548 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 1: this happen, you know, and wanting to protect and wanting 549 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 1: to sort of fight for. 550 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 3: Well, first, you have to be in a position to 551 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 3: say anything in a verse to do anything, because if. 552 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 5: You're not, you know, if you're sort of just a 553 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 5: boyfriend or you're sort of just there and the time 554 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 5: you're not right, you know, people can sort of force 555 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:45,920 Speaker 5: you out or get you out of the situation. 556 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 3: If they don't like you, you're around. So you have 557 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:51,400 Speaker 3: to be really careful how you deal with this type 558 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 3: of thing. So you know, I think the best thing 559 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 3: you can do is to provide support in that moment. 560 00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 3: And that's what I did. I provided as much as 561 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:04,280 Speaker 3: I could support and be there and and you know, 562 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 3: provide information that might be helpful, provide resources that might 563 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 3: be helpful, and really try to understand why this even happened, 564 00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 3: why the conservatorship even happened to begin with, And and 565 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:20,480 Speaker 3: I was just this was my experience in life that 566 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:24,040 Speaker 3: I had to go through very gently, because if you 567 00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 3: do anything wrong, you say the wrong thing, you know. 568 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 3: And luckily my experience from another country that I had 569 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 3: to deal with, these type of things come into place, 570 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:39,320 Speaker 3: and it's just it was a very difficult time. I think, 571 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 3: you know, eleven years. 572 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,080 Speaker 2: We said seven years. 573 00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 3: It was we were in a relationship for almost seven years, 574 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 3: but you know, it was it was so much that 575 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,280 Speaker 3: we've gone through as a couple, and we learned so much, 576 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 3: and and it was it was a beautiful experience. 577 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:01,360 Speaker 2: With the separation. Okay, you know, it's not. 578 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 3: Divorce, separation. Breakups suck. Yeah, anybody you know, of course 579 00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:10,920 Speaker 3: it's gonna suck. But I always had the mindset of 580 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 3: I would never be sad that it's over. I'm always 581 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,240 Speaker 3: going to be grateful and happy that ever even happened. 582 00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 4: All right, So traders man, let's talk about it. 583 00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,360 Speaker 2: I just did a movie. I did Happy Gilmore too, 584 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 2: and Nicki Bella. 585 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've known her for a little bit and she's 586 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 1: fucking awesome. Those girls, Brian Niki are just so rad. 587 00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:45,880 Speaker 1: I love them so much. I got to talk to 588 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 1: her a little bit about. 589 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 2: It, but. 590 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 1: I know it's airing. We can't talk about too much. 591 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 1: But give me some of the experience of what this 592 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:57,120 Speaker 1: thing was. She told me a little bit about it, 593 00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 1: how crazy it was and how real it is, you 594 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like the shot is it's I know, 595 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,720 Speaker 1: when we watch TV and we watch reality TV or 596 00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:08,880 Speaker 1: unscripted television, you know, it's like, oh, well, they're going 597 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:10,560 Speaker 1: to set this up and it's going to be scripted, 598 00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:12,840 Speaker 1: and of course there has to be some structure to it. 599 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,479 Speaker 2: But apparently it was like now, it's pretty gnarly. 600 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:19,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I mean, the only thing I know from 601 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 3: a set and a project is scripted stuff and things 602 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 3: that are not reality whatsoever unless you decide to, you know, improv. 603 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:33,440 Speaker 3: Improv is the closest thing I see from unscripted. So 604 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 3: I have no idea what's going to happen. I don't 605 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 3: even know. I don't know what a housewife is, but 606 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 3: I know what a housewife is. Yeah, I don't know 607 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:45,400 Speaker 3: what a housewife is. And you know, I don't even 608 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:49,440 Speaker 3: know what summer house is or I don't know any survivor. 609 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 3: I have no idea what it is. So I go 610 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 3: into this thing fresh off the boat. I don't know anything, 611 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:59,760 Speaker 3: and it was such a cool experience and it was 612 00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 3: just so cool to get to know people I want. 613 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,240 Speaker 3: I went in there not wanting to you know, I 614 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:08,680 Speaker 3: didn't obviously go in there wanting to win everything. I 615 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 3: just wanted to go and check it out, and not 616 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:15,959 Speaker 3: really I just you know, people told me, don't don't 617 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:20,520 Speaker 3: you talk with the housewives because they will eat you alive, 618 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,120 Speaker 3: and you're going to be that You're going to be 619 00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 3: the you know they're going to because of media and 620 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:28,400 Speaker 3: all this. When you separate, somebody has to be the 621 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 3: bad guy in the media. And I don't know who 622 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,520 Speaker 3: the bad guy is supposed to be, but if they 623 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:36,759 Speaker 3: only knowed you for your relationships, so they're going to 624 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:41,319 Speaker 3: judge you. So, you know, the first three episodes, which 625 00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 3: is already out, I'm in it and I'm helping out 626 00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 3: in the missions and doing the physical stuff and not 627 00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:51,359 Speaker 3: really trying to get involved because I know that people 628 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,000 Speaker 3: are going to judge me. Or I was just so 629 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 3: scared people are going to judge me. And then I'm 630 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,240 Speaker 3: there and then I see this guy that's like sweating 631 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 3: and like doing all these weird things, and automatically he 632 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:06,880 Speaker 3: was the bad guy. So I was like, Okay, this 633 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:07,439 Speaker 3: is cool. 634 00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:12,040 Speaker 2: You were able to pull back enough to where you 635 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:13,480 Speaker 2: weren't labeled the bad guy. 636 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 5: Yeah. 637 00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:16,440 Speaker 3: And you know, the first episodes, I take a lot 638 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:20,600 Speaker 3: of showers. You know, I take it. They have it 639 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 3: on camera. There's it's like an old spice commercial. Yeah, yeah, 640 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 3: hour so I did. It's no good at least say much. 641 00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,239 Speaker 3: I don't get involved much, but the leading episodes I 642 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 3: do get involved. It gets more enterpinning and I'm excited 643 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:35,480 Speaker 3: to see how it's edited. 644 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:36,239 Speaker 2: Yeah. 645 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:39,359 Speaker 1: That's the other thing, dude, you are you are at 646 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:44,880 Speaker 1: the mercy, Uh, system. You can be one thing in 647 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,279 Speaker 1: real life and they can edit you to where you're 648 00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:50,320 Speaker 1: like wait a minute, yeah, wait, wait whoa wait a 649 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:51,440 Speaker 1: second here, But that's just. 650 00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,480 Speaker 2: Kind of what you're dining off on, you know, you 651 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:54,239 Speaker 2: know what, I. 652 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,680 Speaker 3: Think this might have been the craziest thing I've done 653 00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:02,799 Speaker 3: in my in my career because of exactly it's a risk. 654 00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:04,880 Speaker 3: It's a risk that you have to take a lot 655 00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:08,160 Speaker 3: of people coming into this ready to go like guns, 656 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:12,279 Speaker 3: like Bob the Drag Queen. I don't, by the way 657 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:16,720 Speaker 3: I walk in there, I know nobody. I just know Nikki. 658 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:18,800 Speaker 3: The reason why I know Nikki is because the first 659 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,480 Speaker 3: fitness shoot I did, I have a little feature in 660 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 3: her cover it's her and her sister, and I was like, 661 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:31,480 Speaker 3: this is what. So I only knew Nikki, but everybody 662 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,879 Speaker 3: else I had no idea who I thought. The Tom 663 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:37,920 Speaker 3: guy was the bad guy from Toy Story, you know, 664 00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:42,680 Speaker 3: the antagonism toys. I mean, you know, that was the 665 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:46,360 Speaker 3: only thing. And but you know, I love getting to 666 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 3: know people. I think even if they're from reality and 667 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:55,160 Speaker 3: they have some sort of a personality, it's still there's 668 00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,840 Speaker 3: still a human being. And I love to get to 669 00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,320 Speaker 3: know people. I love for them to get to me 670 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:05,080 Speaker 3: because then they'll be really surprised of you know times. 671 00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because here's the thing, like we you know, 672 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:14,200 Speaker 1: this whole business and even aside from this business is 673 00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 1: just all based on perception, you know, and you know, 674 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,640 Speaker 1: no one knows your story really, I mean I do 675 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,799 Speaker 1: know people you have told and whatever outlets you've sort 676 00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:28,320 Speaker 1: of told your story too about growing up and on 677 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,279 Speaker 1: being twelve years old coming to the States, how it 678 00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 1: all went down, the six years of waiting processes for 679 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 1: you tire family to get here. 680 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,080 Speaker 2: You know, what you went through as a kid and. 681 00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:40,400 Speaker 1: All that everyone almost the only thing anyone knows is 682 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,680 Speaker 1: the perception of you and Brittany and how that all 683 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:46,239 Speaker 1: went down. And then there is an opinion that is 684 00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,279 Speaker 1: formed that is probably incorrect, where it's like, who's this 685 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:52,719 Speaker 1: hot dude who is now using this pop star to 686 00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:56,920 Speaker 1: sort of advance and further his career, which is bullshit. 687 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,200 Speaker 1: But you can't control what people are thinking and saying, 688 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 1: and that that just snowballs and snowballs. 689 00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,800 Speaker 3: So now that's who you are, and now it's your job. 690 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:10,600 Speaker 1: And you would never take away that experience, but it's 691 00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:12,000 Speaker 1: your job to sort of say, hey, you know what, 692 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:14,800 Speaker 1: this isn't who the this isn't who I am, and 693 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 1: now I can use my platform because you have developed 694 00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:19,520 Speaker 1: somewhat of a platform, which. 695 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:23,879 Speaker 2: Is great to jump off and be you. You know, hey, 696 00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:25,239 Speaker 2: this is me, you know. 697 00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,759 Speaker 1: And so I would imagine that that sticks in the 698 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 1: back of your head as well, you know, because no 699 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:36,000 Speaker 1: one likes to be, you know, misrepresented, especially with people 700 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:39,919 Speaker 1: who don't really fucking know you. At the same time, 701 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,759 Speaker 1: the healthiest attitude is to say, hey, you know what, 702 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,160 Speaker 1: fuck off, I don't care what you think because I 703 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 1: know who I am, which is in my opinion, much 704 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 1: easier said than done for. 705 00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:51,840 Speaker 2: Me, because you care what people think. You know. 706 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:54,759 Speaker 1: Of course I could get to that place where I 707 00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:57,719 Speaker 1: truly didn't care what people thought, then I would be 708 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,120 Speaker 1: a better performer, I would be a better actor, or 709 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,400 Speaker 1: I would just be just better, just generally, because sometimes 710 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:06,680 Speaker 1: when we care so much, or when we care, it 711 00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:08,600 Speaker 1: can make you small and freeze you up because you 712 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:09,560 Speaker 1: don't want to do anything bad. 713 00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:13,439 Speaker 2: So how much are you fighting that or do you care? 714 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:14,000 Speaker 2: You know? 715 00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:16,279 Speaker 1: And especially in traders, are you like, well, I want 716 00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 1: to I'm I'm not, I'm not just fucking Britney's ex dude, Like, 717 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,640 Speaker 1: I am a real person and I'm a good man, 718 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:25,200 Speaker 1: and I want the world to know. 719 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:29,320 Speaker 3: That, you know what. I think the best way to 720 00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:35,880 Speaker 3: deal with Hollywood or perceptions and things like that is 721 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:41,200 Speaker 3: always not to deal with it at all. I do 722 00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:45,080 Speaker 3: think it's easier to be yourself. It's easier said than done. 723 00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:48,840 Speaker 3: You said it, but it's the best thing you can do. 724 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 3: Sometimes the best thing you can do is to be yourself. 725 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:56,640 Speaker 3: As long as you're a good person. You can't be 726 00:39:56,719 --> 00:40:00,800 Speaker 3: yourself if you're hurting others. You've got to change because 727 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,800 Speaker 3: then you're you're you're hurting other people, which is not okay. 728 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:09,960 Speaker 3: But if you're if you're being yourself and coming into 729 00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:15,719 Speaker 3: this country, man, I truly really thought I was here 730 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:18,719 Speaker 3: with the mindset that this is this is a gift 731 00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:22,279 Speaker 3: to me, you know, and now I owe everything that 732 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,440 Speaker 3: I have to this country. So for me, the biggest 733 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:31,320 Speaker 3: dream is to be a Tyler Perry, to be an Athlet, 734 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:35,120 Speaker 3: to be someone like Adam Sandler. These guys are providing 735 00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:38,880 Speaker 3: jobs and they're they're giving back to the industry, to 736 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,359 Speaker 3: the community, They're inspiring people. That's the biggest job for them. 737 00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,920 Speaker 3: That's the biggest dream for me. It's not just to 738 00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:49,080 Speaker 3: come here and take and taking advantage of someone that's 739 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,680 Speaker 3: been taking advantage by every single person in the world. 740 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. 741 00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:54,160 Speaker 3: What I'm going to do is I'm going to do 742 00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:55,080 Speaker 3: the opposite of that. 743 00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:57,560 Speaker 2: Then we got a roll. But what what do you 744 00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 2: think that? What do you think is the biggest miscon 745 00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:03,759 Speaker 2: set with you? I think and you are to clear 746 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:04,680 Speaker 2: that up and be able to. 747 00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:07,040 Speaker 1: Have a microphone megaphone in the world saying this is 748 00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:08,840 Speaker 1: the biggest fucking misconception of me. 749 00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 3: You know, the biggest misc conception is that it's just 750 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,960 Speaker 3: the opposite. The perception is the opposite of exactly who 751 00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:22,480 Speaker 3: I am. And you know, it has to do with looks, 752 00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:24,520 Speaker 3: it has to do with appearance, it has to do 753 00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,480 Speaker 3: with media, it has to do with everything. But once 754 00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:29,279 Speaker 3: you get to know me, it's it's completely different. So 755 00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,360 Speaker 3: I'm going to continue, you know, being myself and continue 756 00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 3: living my life. 757 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:34,440 Speaker 2: The way I do. 758 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,200 Speaker 1: Mm hm, Well, good dude. Well, I'm going to watch Traders. 759 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,600 Speaker 1: It looks very compelling, you know, it's interesting Alan Cummings. 760 00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,560 Speaker 1: I watched the trailer and he looks like creepy I'm like, oh. 761 00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:47,320 Speaker 3: Man, he's the best part of it. It's kind of 762 00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:51,240 Speaker 3: like click Gains meet Mafia. 763 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:53,480 Speaker 2: Yeah game that. 764 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:59,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's such a cool, interesting thing. You should 765 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:00,680 Speaker 3: definitely watch it. 766 00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 2: I'm gonna check it out. 767 00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, anything else you're promoting, are you? You know you 768 00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:05,760 Speaker 1: got you're doing stuff. 769 00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:09,880 Speaker 2: I mean it's so difficult right now, here's. 770 00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:17,040 Speaker 3: Modeling agent modeling again that this is a Doobe. 771 00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:20,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I know they didn't cut her her as good. 772 00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:26,360 Speaker 2: That's nice. A German short hair pointer. Yes, that's our cousins. Actually. 773 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:32,120 Speaker 2: Oh yes, my nephew Ryder has Adobe. Yeah, my daughter 774 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,680 Speaker 2: wants one. My daughter's like I want to overmove. 775 00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:38,400 Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know, I don't maybe you. I mean 776 00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:39,840 Speaker 3: she's strong, so I don't. 777 00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:42,080 Speaker 2: Know if I like. I like her with the with 778 00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:43,840 Speaker 2: the with the floppy ears. 779 00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:47,560 Speaker 3: The sweetest, she's the sweetest and her you know, talking 780 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:51,080 Speaker 3: about perceptions. Yeah, that's why I have this dog, because 781 00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:54,200 Speaker 3: Doberman's they they you think they're like tough dogs and 782 00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:57,520 Speaker 3: they're but they're the sweetest dogs. 783 00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 2: In the world. 784 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,600 Speaker 3: I mean, she sleeps on my head. Yeah, it's starting 785 00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:05,000 Speaker 3: to be annoying. But the reason why I have her 786 00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:08,800 Speaker 3: ears down is because first is cruel to cut their ears, 787 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:12,640 Speaker 3: and too she loses her like cuteness. 788 00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:20,360 Speaker 2: I think, yes, of course, broccolm. What funny because the 789 00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,120 Speaker 2: German and he's nine, come here. 790 00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:30,239 Speaker 3: Come on, Oh he beautiful dog. 791 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:33,920 Speaker 1: Yeah he's the bird dog. But you know they have 792 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:37,800 Speaker 1: the similar faces. Yeah, they're hunters, got the hunters. 793 00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:42,160 Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, they got similar almost the same eyes and everything. 794 00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:44,399 Speaker 2: No, I know, I know. And he's Oh my god, 795 00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:45,480 Speaker 2: he's so attached to me. 796 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:47,240 Speaker 3: It's airy. 797 00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:51,440 Speaker 2: Yes, he's so smart too. 798 00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:53,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're the best man an English. 799 00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:55,719 Speaker 1: I have an English bulldog as well, so I have 800 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:59,120 Speaker 1: like the dumbest dog of all breeds and then I 801 00:43:59,160 --> 00:43:59,839 Speaker 1: have one of the smart. 802 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:05,759 Speaker 2: It's really funny together too, all right, buddy, Well, thank 803 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,000 Speaker 2: you for taking the time, and I wish you the 804 00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:10,640 Speaker 2: best of luck. And I loved hearing your story. I 805 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:11,000 Speaker 2: really do. 806 00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:13,000 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Thank you for the opportunity. 807 00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:13,239 Speaker 2: Man. 808 00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:15,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, brother, and good luck with everything. I'm 809 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:17,800 Speaker 1: gonna check you out and then check out traders. 810 00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,480 Speaker 2: I want to. You know, it sounds sounds fun as hell. 811 00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,640 Speaker 3: It's super insand cool. 812 00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:22,919 Speaker 2: Brother. 813 00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:24,600 Speaker 3: Thank you, take it easy. 814 00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:29,560 Speaker 1: Getting a good look at me swollen and gross. 815 00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:32,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all it's all bad. I'm not sure. I'm 816 00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:33,120 Speaker 2: not sure we could. 817 00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:36,320 Speaker 1: I think if we do a post for this video, 818 00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:41,080 Speaker 1: they just you know, for Instagram, it's just gotta maybe 819 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:44,400 Speaker 1: be like, you know, an emoji over my face. 820 00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:48,120 Speaker 2: So we don't get to see how fucked up I 821 00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:50,560 Speaker 2: look right now. Anyway. 822 00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:56,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's interesting, you know, I mean, you know, you hear, 823 00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:01,000 Speaker 1: you hear that Sam's coming on, and you know I'm 824 00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:01,719 Speaker 1: not gonna lie. 825 00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:03,760 Speaker 2: I mean, you have I have the same perception. 826 00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,920 Speaker 1: It's sort of like, Okay, you know it's Britney Spears 827 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:11,880 Speaker 1: is dude, but you know, you don't know the you 828 00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:13,640 Speaker 1: don't know the dude's story. He seems like a pretty 829 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:15,759 Speaker 1: good fucking guy, you know. I mean, I wasn't going 830 00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:17,440 Speaker 1: to get into the whole thing. I don't have enough 831 00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:22,440 Speaker 1: time any like eighteen podcasts to do that. But what 832 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:27,560 Speaker 1: a nice dude, handsome boy dude, shit, you know, handsome man. 833 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:33,960 Speaker 1: Watch Traders. Thanks Sam for coming on. Oliver Hudson out 834 00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:35,879 Speaker 1: and do not You're not going to see my face 835 00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:40,960 Speaker 1: on this episode because I look like a I look 836 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:49,080 Speaker 1: like my face looks like a vagina after natural birth. 837 00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:51,319 Speaker 2: Let's just leave it there.