WEBVTT - | Ep 170 | Gizelle Goes All-In! 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:04.360 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:17.480 Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:18.680 I am Jaseelle Bryant. 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:20.759 What's up? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for 0:00:20.800 --> 0:00:25.759 being here with us. Twenty five. I'm twenty twenty. 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:31.320 Fine, ain't okay? 0:00:31.400 --> 0:00:34.520 Enough of that? All right? I do want to say, yeah, 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:36.040 I think I said this last year. 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:40.920 Okay, like January, I'm still sleep Well it's February, Huney exactly. 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:45.080 So I'm saying, like February, the end of February. 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:45.160 Like I'm here. 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:49.400 Oh you're awake now, yeah, okay, I'm awake. Good, especially 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:52.479 now that when you wake up, well maybe not for you. 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:55.480 When I wake up it's light outside. Oh no, not 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:57.760 for me, okay, yes, yeah, So for me at like 0:00:57.760 --> 0:00:59.160 six point thirty when I'm waking. 0:00:58.920 --> 0:01:02.200 Carter up for school, oh my gosh, thank goodness to light. 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:03.840 It's light outside. It's light outside. 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:06.000 And then and then other day I was like in 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:07.640 the bathroom and I looked out the window and it 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:11.199 was like six thirty at night and it was light outside. Yes, yes, 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:14.199 it does something to your whole It's like yes, yeah, 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:14.840 it's amazing. 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:20.720 So car Corey, he's driving himself to school. 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:23.199 Not yet, not yet, Okay, we haven't gotten a car yet, 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:26.520 and it's we just can't decide on what we want. 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:28.440 And then the problem. 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:30.919 Is like, no, I don't really like to leave the house, 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:33.760 so like in order to like really to buy a car, 0:01:33.959 --> 0:01:35.039 like you got to leave the house. 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:37.880 So yeah, that's been a problem. 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:40.840 Okay, is that your shady moment because that was that's 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:44.000 pretty much that shady because you don't want to leave 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:46.119 the house in order for you not to leave the house, 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:48.040 So if you buy him a car, exactly, you don't 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:48.720 have to leave the house. 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:51.800 It's a great point. Yes, so you need to go 0:01:51.920 --> 0:01:53.920 outside the house. Yes, get that happen. 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:57.040 Okay, I'm gonna put that on my my prayers to 0:01:57.080 --> 0:01:58.840 do that on my list, to do that is on 0:01:58.880 --> 0:01:59.520 my to do list. 0:02:00.600 --> 0:02:01.000 Okay. 0:02:01.080 --> 0:02:03.480 Well, f yi, I have a live show coming up 0:02:03.480 --> 0:02:07.440 in two days in the Big y C getting into 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:08.440 it City Winery. 0:02:08.520 --> 0:02:09.960 I love City Wineries by the way. 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:13.680 Yeah, City Winery is like it's just like plug and play, yes, 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:17.079 n so, and then the food is good, the drinks good, 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:19.480 the vibe is good all that, So come through everybody 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:21.200 come through, gets your ticket comes through, so that'll be 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:23.040 a great yes, And hurry up because it's almost sold out, 0:02:23.080 --> 0:02:26.320 so hurry up and get your tickets. Almost almost there. 0:02:26.840 --> 0:02:36.079 Okay. So I have a shady moment. It's kind of long. Okay, 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:40.040 all right. The shady person in this situation is me. Okay, okay, okay, 0:02:40.080 --> 0:02:44.280 what's new? Okay, what is new? Robbing? All right? 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:46.200 So I was I've been doing a lot of traveling 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:52.240 and I was in recently in New Orleans, No. 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:53.760 La, honey. Okay. 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:56.480 So by the way I got there, the super Bowl 0:02:56.520 --> 0:03:00.799 was on the Sunday. I got there on Tuesday. Okay, yeah, 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:03.640 I got there on Tuesday. And after the super Bowl. 0:03:03.840 --> 0:03:06.840 People I was coming, I like got off the plane, 0:03:06.880 --> 0:03:09.480 was walking through the airport. People were leaving in droves 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:12.079 like they were like walking fast to their gates. 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:15.080 They were ready to go, and I was like, clear out, bitches, 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:16.919 because I don't want no parts. 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:18.000 Ye okay. 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:21.640 Anyway, so I go to my favorite cafe Damon to 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:26.600 have my beignets with my hot chocolate. And you know, 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:27.919 when I go to cafe to mall, it's kind of 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:32.239 like I'm eating with my grandmother and my father there 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:35.240 there with me. Yes, so I did all that I 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:38.760 left there, I went. So I walked there, which was 0:03:38.800 --> 0:03:41.440 like a fifteen minute walk from my hotel. 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:44.000 So walking back, Erica calls me. 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:47.920 And I walked into my hotel and I didn't want 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:49.600 to get on the elevator, so I like sat on 0:03:49.640 --> 0:03:52.000 like the little bench in the lobby of the hotel 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:56.080 and didn't realize it, but I took off my sunglasses 0:03:56.080 --> 0:03:57.040 and I put him next to me. 0:03:57.440 --> 0:03:58.760 I don't know why I was on the phone. 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:00.560 I just took my sunglasses off put it next to me, 0:04:01.040 --> 0:04:03.040 and then she and I finished talking and I was 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:04.640 getting ready it on the elevator, and I was like, oh, 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:08.880 I left my sunglasses in Cafe Damont. Oh, this is 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:11.040 what I'm thinking. I left my sunglasses in Cafe Damon. 0:04:11.160 --> 0:04:13.520 So I was like, oh my god, jump into a cab, 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:16.200 go back to Cafe Damon. And I'm like going back 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:18.240 to the table where I was sitting, looking for my glasses, 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:21.160 and I'm looking at the my waitress. I was like, 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:24.000 my glasses, my glasses, they were on the seat next 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:25.320 to me. In my glasses. She was like, I don't 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:29.279 know what you're talking about, Lady, so then I nowhere. Okay, 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:32.039 this guy pops up, who is the manager. He was like, 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:33.840 is there a problem? And I said yeah, I left 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:37.360 my glasses here. He said, okay, stay right here. I'm 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:39.880 gonna go look at the video tape. I said, right, 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:42.120 I'm like, go, I get. 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:43.000 A video tape. Who took? 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:48.040 So he goes across the street, comes back. He has 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:51.600 a screenshot on his phone and he shows me that 0:04:52.000 --> 0:04:55.880 I have my readers on and I put my readers back. 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:56.160 Into my back. 0:04:56.160 --> 0:04:58.160 He said, you put your glasses in your back. I said, no, no, no, 0:04:58.200 --> 0:05:01.200 those are my readers, not my sunglasses. My sunglasses were 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:05.280 sitting on the chair next to me. So he said, okay, 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:06.720 then we go back and look at the more more 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:09.000 video tape. So he goes back, looks at some more 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:11.680 video tape. Mind you, everyone in the place is like. 0:05:13.680 --> 0:05:16.559 The no. People are like wanting to take pictures. People. 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:17.560 Because I've talked. 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:19.400 About Bigne so much, people know that I like eat 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:21.400 it with hot chocolate. People are telling me I. 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:23.560 Got hot chocolate. You said, I got hot chocolate. Like 0:05:23.560 --> 0:05:24.200 it's the whole thing. 0:05:24.440 --> 0:05:27.480 Okay, it's mass madness. But I'm sitting in this chair 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:30.880 waiting for the video tape. This man comes back, shows 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:33.680 many video tape. He said, ma'am, you walked out of 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:36.679 here with sunglasses on. So he shows me the video 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:39.080 of me walking out with sunglasses on, and I'm like, 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:41.719 oh my god, I'm an idiot. I like, I was like, 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:43.640 tore down Cafe Dumont, and. 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:48.960 I'm could ever do all? Right? So I walked back to. 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:52.800 My hotel because I want to stop because I bought 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:56.480 I bought an antique dining room table in New Orleans, 0:05:56.520 --> 0:05:58.400 and I want to go look at it again, because 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:01.359 you know, you gotta look at stuff twice. So I 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:04.120 went to go look at that again and I get 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:06.640 back to the hotel. Guess what glasses sitting right there? 0:06:06.839 --> 0:06:12.200 We're all at from on the bench. That was ridiculous. 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:14.440 So I just want to apologize right now to everyone, 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:16.600 to cap at them all because y'all did not steal 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:20.839 anything from me, right, okay, nothing and the fact and please, 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:23.560 like you need to call the manager be like, I 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:28.039 appreciate you trying to accommodate me. And oh he did 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:30.080 find my glasses and figure out where they went. 0:06:30.279 --> 0:06:32.720 But yeah, and I did apologize. I'm an idiot. 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:35.400 I did apology and shady because I was actually side 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:38.080 eying every waitress in there, every watress. I was like, 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:40.040 I know y'all got my classes, and mind you, I 0:06:40.040 --> 0:06:42.680 have lost these glasses. These are some hour people's I love. 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:45.159 These are my favorite glasses because they're lightweight. I've lost 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:48.479 them about four times. These are six hundred dollars glasses, okay, 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:50.600 and so I'm like, damn, I got to pay another 0:06:50.600 --> 0:06:51.360 six hundred dollars. 0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:53.680 But they were right there on the bench waiting for me. 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:57.040 That's hilarious. Yeah, so shady moment. That is a robin thing. 0:06:57.640 --> 0:07:00.960 That is something I would do, definitely, as you ordered 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:03.520 door dash to the kids school, my kids school. Yeah. 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:05.240 But I'm the one that like, I'm on the phone 0:07:05.240 --> 0:07:07.520 and I'm looking for my phone. Yes, oh no, no, no, 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:09.160 I have it in my hand. Yeah yeah, And I'm 0:07:09.200 --> 0:07:12.520 looking for my phone all the time and keys all 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:13.240 the time. 0:07:14.160 --> 0:07:15.400 Yeah, you got a shady moment. 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:17.960 By the way, my Houston and New Orleans shows were fantastic. 0:07:18.000 --> 0:07:19.920 Thank you all for anybody that came or whatever. 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:20.600 Great. 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:23.920 Yeah, but I have a new appreciation for being on 0:07:23.960 --> 0:07:27.760 the road quote road. Yeah, because you walk into these 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:31.240 venues and you know, what the hell you're going to 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:34.320 walk into? Yes, so I'll just leave it there. Okay, Yeah, 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:39.400 all right, that sounds shady, sounds very shady. Yes, okay, 0:07:39.400 --> 0:07:41.400 so I don't really have you know, there hasn't been 0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:42.600 a whole lot to report. 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:45.920 It's just snowing while I talk. Very interesting. 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:50.560 Yeah, anyway, So I just want to say, m h 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:55.200 it is you know, late February, right, yeah, like going 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:58.400 into March. Almost my neighbors on both sides of me. 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:00.800 Oh no, one around the corner. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:05.960 Oh no, still have Christmas lights up and on? No? 0:08:06.920 --> 0:08:10.120 Yes, they're still on on because it's like probably like 0:08:10.120 --> 0:08:11.360 an automatic time or something. 0:08:11.720 --> 0:08:16.440 I'm plugging, like turn it off, flip the swear. Yes, yes, 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:19.520 slip the switch, turn it off. 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:23.680 Literally, we drive up three houses and I'm now I'm 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:27.040 like in the nighttime, I'm like, are these lights on? 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:27.560 And they are? 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:30.440 And there and there and one of these houses they're 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:32.800 ones where like the lights are just all over like 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:37.120 the entire like outline of the howse ye trees. 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:40.440 Like it's a what is your electric what's the bell 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.360 looking like? Yes? Is they have solar panels? No? 0:08:43.640 --> 0:08:46.199 Okay, well yeah that bell is up there? Yes, yeah, 0:08:46.240 --> 0:08:46.640 for sure. 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:49.040 I'm like, what is there a point they're trying to 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:51.040 make here? There's no point here is at this point? 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:53.240 Like the the longer it went on, I was like, Okay, 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:55.200 maybe you know, maybe it's a thing to keep them 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:56.480 up till Valentine's Day. 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:57.120 Yeah, I don't know. 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:00.800 Well we're past Valentine's Day and they're up and now 0:09:00.800 --> 0:09:04.559 I'm upset about it, right, and they're they're dimming a 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:07.240 light on our Black History Month. 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:08.920 Maybe that's what it is. 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:10.560 Yes, they want to keep it up, like because they 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:12.400 want to because they're white, right, Yes, they want to 0:09:12.440 --> 0:09:14.640 shine a light on their house to like try to 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:16.800 dim us on Black History. 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:19.280 Is that what it is? Yes, Okay, I'm not gonna 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:23.920 go that far. I'm not gonna They're too lazy to 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:26.959 turn the damn switch off. Yeah, I'm plugged. Just unplugged 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:28.120 the switch. Just pull the switch. 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:29.840 Yeah, because we got a couple more days in the 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:32.320 Black History Month and we will utilize all of them. 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:36.160 Yeah, we need to because the way this things are going. 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:39.600 We talked about things are going left, it's really things 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:41.719 are going left. Speaking of going left, can we talk 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:44.280 about the na A c P Image Award that the 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:47.200 Real Housewives of Botomac didn't win. Oh, so I am 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:53.160 once again a double loser, double loser, double loser. 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:54.920 Like this is not a good feeling. 0:09:55.920 --> 0:09:58.680 I mean, but you're a double nominee as well. True, 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:01.199 So that balance is it? Because a lot of people 0:10:01.240 --> 0:10:06.640 are a zero nominee a zero, right, this is very true. 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:09.480 So I'm a double nominee, making me a double loser. 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:11.880 The next time I get nominated for something, goddamn it, 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:14.000 I better win. Okay, Okay, I'm done with that. 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:15.599 Okay, So what is the next thing you're going to 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:19.040 be nominated? I don't know something, something's happening. Okay. So, 0:10:19.840 --> 0:10:24.360 by the way, is this is this our house? Yes? 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:27.600 Yeah, so I just bought Okay, so the pedestal that's 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:30.240 in front of not pedestal. What is this coffee table 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:32.679 that's in front of Robin's sofa is beautiful, it's like 0:10:32.760 --> 0:10:35.160 marble on top. And then I don't know the hog 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:39.000 handled wood. Yes, I just bought a dresser. My dresser 0:10:39.080 --> 0:10:40.800 was falling apart, and I just bought this. 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:41.360 It just came. 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:45.800 I freaking love it really the same same collection, same yeah, 0:10:46.280 --> 0:10:48.280 absolutely love it all right, moving on, So, but let 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:51.240 me tell you what I don't love Married to Medicine. 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:55.040 Oh so I like those ladies. 0:10:55.120 --> 0:10:58.440 Yeah, I like the show. I don't like what the 0:10:58.480 --> 0:11:00.720 hell is happening? What is happening? So I know you 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:01.240 don't know. 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:04.680 But I got caught up into the matrix and I 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:08.280 turned on my TV and it was there, and all 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:10.800 I saw was because we know Phager's on the show, 0:11:11.840 --> 0:11:15.000 and they were on a cast trip and here comes 0:11:15.040 --> 0:11:23.000 Apollo joining them on the trip. Actor yeah, with his wife. Okay, 0:11:23.040 --> 0:11:24.920 he's not a doctor. Who's not a doctor either, right, 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:31.840 and so and so Heavenly who's also who is a doctor, 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:37.960 invited Apollo and his wife. So they're walking up. So 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:41.280 then we cut to Phader in her confessional and she's like, yeah, 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:43.280 this is the woman that my husband was cheating on 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:46.120 me with. Okay, So then we see like Sharene I 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:48.720 think that's her name. Is the is the wife? And 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:53.480 then we have Quad who used to be married to 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:57.000 a doctor Greg who is now married to someone else 0:11:57.440 --> 0:12:00.559 on the show or something, yes, and then now Quad 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:03.040 is there with her new boot. Okay, So we have 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:07.360 all of these ex'es and all of this mess, and 0:12:07.600 --> 0:12:10.640 I was and I'm typically here for the mess, because 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:13.640 you know, I love me some love and hip hop Atlanta. Yes, 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:16.720 so I am here for the mess, not this mess. 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:20.080 I was kind of like feeling bad for Phaedre. I 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:23.160 felt like, this is from a producer standpoint, like this 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:24.360 is too much. We didn't cross the line. 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:27.400 It's just too much. Did they blindside her like that? 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:32.120 From what I understand behind the scenes, she knew Apollo 0:12:32.240 --> 0:12:35.920 was coming, but not the wife. And I think because 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:39.160 Apolo was at the reunion last year with her, so 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.200 I think, right, yeah, so I think she was cool 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:43.760 with that, but not like you're bringing the wife? Why 0:12:43.840 --> 0:12:45.839 is I don't even know why is Apollo that? I 0:12:45.840 --> 0:12:47.600 didn't even understand. Why is he there? 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:50.040 I don't get any of it. It don't make no sense. 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:52.040 Just this is the whole thing is set up to 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:55.839 be messy, and it reeks of that. 0:12:56.120 --> 0:13:01.040 It reeks up producer produced it. Just yeh. I literally 0:13:01.559 --> 0:13:03.760 said no more and I turned the TV right. 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:06.400 There's like no reason for that those people to be 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:08.760 in this group. Yeah, And I mean, I'm here for 0:13:08.800 --> 0:13:09.760 the mess, but I just did. 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:11.679 I didn't like it. I didn't like it. 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:16.760 I think the Greg and Quad part. Maybe it's understandable. Yeah, 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:20.319 well they hired Greg's wife to be on the show, right, 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:22.600 so I guess they're you know, the intentions was to 0:13:22.600 --> 0:13:23.040 be messy. 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:25.960 But also the question is like, if Quad's. 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:29.360 No longer married to Greg, then then maybe Quad shouldn't 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:32.920 be on the show, right, Yeah, but the group's part. 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:34.720 Of the group, the group's by the friend group. 0:13:35.320 --> 0:13:37.959 But it is intentionally being messy, Like why would you 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:43.200 intentionally bring yeah, the wife of someone's ex husband into 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:45.800 the into the on the show. And I could kind 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:48.439 of understand the Greg Quad of it all, but but 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:50.600 even still that's messy, right, still messed up? 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:56.559 But come on, I was like, wow, I'm disturbed. 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:58.839 Yeah, it makes you feel like, if you're going to 0:13:58.880 --> 0:14:00.599 be on the show, you don't want anyone to know 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:01.200 who you're dating. 0:14:02.280 --> 0:14:03.839 Oh I'm sorry, I forgot the best part. 0:14:05.120 --> 0:14:10.640 Phaedra who brought her current boo on It's Friends with 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:16.320 a Pollow and the wife so Apollo is like, dude, 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:20.200 you any time you use dating Phaedra wait, who's so 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:24.080 faer brought at her booth? The dude, Oh, Phager's boo 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:28.240 is friends with a power Yes, okay, it's even It's 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:32.560 so messy and typically I loved so messy. 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:36.560 I hated this. Yes, I wanted to stop. I turned 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:38.800 the TV off. So I'm just letting y'all know, y'all 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:41.240 lost a rating is half a rating. How do you 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:43.480 know how they calculate rating one viewer? I don't know 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:46.360 one viewer, so me. So if this happened to. 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:52.840 Potomac, which it almost did kinda when I was dating 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:56.160 Sherman and they brought on his ex wife, yeah, thank 0:14:56.240 --> 0:14:57.600 you guys. 0:14:58.120 --> 0:15:00.320 Anyway, you make choice, but to deal with that, you 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:09.920 gotta deal with it. Okay. So, speaking of other reality television, 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:11.320 Chloe and Lamar, have you seen this? 0:15:11.880 --> 0:15:11.920 No? 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:14.600 I did see a clip like they had to sit down, 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:16.680 like first time in a long time. Oh my god, 0:15:16.760 --> 0:15:17.320 was so good? 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:17.800 It was. 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:19.920 My wife? 0:15:20.040 --> 0:15:20.280 Is this? 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:21.680 Okay? 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:22.400 Calm down? 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:28.360 So him calling me his wife, I mean, words are empty. 0:15:28.840 --> 0:15:32.200 I have dealt with so much trauma in this relationship 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:36.400 for years, and this was such the love of my 0:15:36.560 --> 0:15:41.280 life that to learn how to unlove someone, to have 0:15:41.440 --> 0:15:44.040 to go through all that, it's almost like a death. 0:15:45.040 --> 0:15:46.400 The reason why I was so good to me? Okay. 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:49.560 So the Keeping Up with the Kardashians or whatever their 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:53.360 show is called, on Hulu is now back on season season? 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:54.760 Is this for them so real? No? 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:55.200 No, no, no no. 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:57.640 So it would be probably from the very big. 0:15:57.680 --> 0:15:59.640 I think like twenty six because I think the other 0:15:59.680 --> 0:16:03.080 one was twenty or eighteen or something. I don't know anyway, 0:16:03.160 --> 0:16:09.200 So episode one, Lamar off camera, Lamar runs into Malika okay, 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:12.280 and they both were like crying when they saw each other. 0:16:12.920 --> 0:16:15.360 So then I guess that got Chloe to thinking. And 0:16:15.440 --> 0:16:16.720 Chloe was like, look, I have a lot of stuff 0:16:16.720 --> 0:16:21.800 of his that is, you know, monumental to him, like 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:22.640 his six. 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:26.440 Man Award memorabilia. Yeah, that I should give to him. 0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:27.960 She's like, and I've had it all these years. 0:16:28.000 --> 0:16:29.240 And the reason why I didn't give it to him 0:16:29.280 --> 0:16:30.920 is because there were some things that she gave to 0:16:31.080 --> 0:16:32.800 a friend of his to give to him, and that 0:16:32.880 --> 0:16:35.800 person sold it. Oh, So She's like, I'm gonna hold 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:39.160 on until I can give it to him. So she 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:43.320 invites him over. He is legit nervous, he's sweating. He 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:46.360 like he don't know what's about to happen, but you 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:49.520 could tell that he's like ready to be there. So 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:51.400 he sits down and and Chloe's kind of like, get 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:54.800 yourself together, like chill out, dude, and he just starts 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:57.840 like apologizing to her and like telling her how much 0:16:57.880 --> 0:16:59.480 he loves her. He will always love her, he will 0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:02.720 always be He will never find somebody that's as down 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:06.159 for him as she was. And not only does she 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:08.639 have that award, she had like these this jewelry that 0:17:08.720 --> 0:17:11.600 she had made for him. She had his mother's driver's license, 0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:14.480 his mother's passed away. She had all this stuff and 0:17:15.000 --> 0:17:16.159 it was like a moment. 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:18.879 I was actually crying when I watched it because it 0:17:18.960 --> 0:17:23.480 was touching. It was just like he was on he's 0:17:23.560 --> 0:17:24.920 obviously has a drug problem. 0:17:25.280 --> 0:17:27.760 Still you think, no, I think he's good, but like 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:32.440 that is a disease that took over his life, ruined 0:17:32.840 --> 0:17:36.200 a lot of his relationships, yes, including hers, And you 0:17:36.240 --> 0:17:38.320 could tell that they had nothing but love for each other. 0:17:39.080 --> 0:17:42.680 So it was like very emotional to watch. So I 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:45.600 want everyone to watch it. Okay, Yes, So was she 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:47.440 emotional or was it? Yes? 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:49.879 She was was no, she was kind of numb to 0:17:50.040 --> 0:17:52.640 it because she had to put she and she even said, 0:17:53.480 --> 0:17:55.919 I've had to put up so many walls to protect 0:17:55.960 --> 0:17:59.280 myself from this situation because it was so bad that 0:17:59.680 --> 0:18:02.280 she was kind of a little numb to it. Yeah, wow, 0:18:02.640 --> 0:18:05.440 because he don't remember when when she was in when 0:18:05.520 --> 0:18:08.160 he was in rehab getting himself together for four months, 0:18:08.280 --> 0:18:11.400 he don't remember her being there, which after he after 0:18:11.520 --> 0:18:14.800 he indeed okay, and and somebody had to like and 0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:16.640 he was in a coma and somebody had to teach 0:18:16.720 --> 0:18:18.880 him for four months how to speak and how to walk, 0:18:19.840 --> 0:18:22.400 and that was her. He doesn't remember that she was there, 0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:25.879 not really really and he but he said, he was like, 0:18:26.520 --> 0:18:28.440 you were wiping my ass. I will always love you 0:18:28.440 --> 0:18:29.440 because you whiped my ass. 0:18:29.720 --> 0:18:31.240 And she was like, do you remember that? He was 0:18:31.320 --> 0:18:32.720 like kind of like, no, but I know that you 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:34.560 were there, so no one else did it but you. 0:18:35.880 --> 0:18:38.240 And then and then he got better and she just 0:18:38.320 --> 0:18:41.119 kind of like no, oh disappeared. No no, no, no, 0:18:41.720 --> 0:18:44.440 Like she moved him. This is so crazy, y'all. She 0:18:44.720 --> 0:18:45.200 this is love. 0:18:45.640 --> 0:18:48.360 She moved him into the rented the house next to hers, 0:18:49.240 --> 0:18:50.840 moved him into there so he could do his rehab 0:18:50.920 --> 0:18:53.119 in there and she could watch him right and like 0:18:53.600 --> 0:18:56.560 be in control of just like all the people coming 0:18:56.600 --> 0:19:00.240 in out. She was going to Rob's no, going to 0:19:00.320 --> 0:19:03.200 Scott Disk's birthday party in Vegas. She went over there 0:19:03.320 --> 0:19:05.119 to say goodbye and to let him know where she 0:19:05.200 --> 0:19:09.040 was going. He was doing drugs, she said. She punched 0:19:09.119 --> 0:19:09.880 him in the face. 0:19:10.200 --> 0:19:13.360 And wrecked the house. She went nuts, never saw him again. 0:19:13.440 --> 0:19:14.959