WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: My Wing Mom

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we did it. We all made it to Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>That feels good, doesn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, thank you for being here with Brooke and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 3>And this is the official Second Date podcast, So I

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<v Speaker 3>found the real thing right from the source.

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<v Speaker 1>What are listeners wanting us to read? Alexis well Adwa said.

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<v Speaker 4>I was commenting on a past second date and said,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't get girls. If you don't like a guy,

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<v Speaker 4>don't give him your contact, don't entertain him. And if

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<v Speaker 4>you do and you don't like him, tell him what's

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<v Speaker 4>this ghosting thing? More times, these guys have no social cues,

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<v Speaker 4>and all the guys do do this to girls too.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, life is so effing simple. What the

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<v Speaker 5>hell did you hear about guys lying to girls all

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<v Speaker 5>the time? And then and then it happens that you,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, everybody does it.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I could teach a whole generation on

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<v Speaker 3>how to say no, thank you?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, But then once you teach you, that makes me

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<v Speaker 4>want to do the opposite and.

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<v Speaker 5>Totally all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't know if we fix the problem, but

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<v Speaker 3>we probably made it worse with this second date for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, why didn't you listen?

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<v Speaker 2>Brooke?

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<v Speaker 6>And Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates.

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<v Speaker 5>Have you ever been on the way to a date

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<v Speaker 5>and had something happen that almost seems unbelievable and you

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<v Speaker 5>have to tell your date, Hey, sorry that I'm late,

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<v Speaker 5>but a cobra bit me on the subway ride over

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<v Speaker 5>and I had to have a homeless guy suck out

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<v Speaker 5>the poison. Had that exact story happened to me several times? Actually,

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<v Speaker 5>lots of subway snakes around here lately. The city really.

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<v Speaker 1>Should do something not Google search that term.

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<v Speaker 5>I bring it up because one of our listeners said

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<v Speaker 5>he had a crazy thing happened to him on the

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<v Speaker 5>way to his date, and he's pretty sure it's the

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<v Speaker 5>reason he's not getting a call back. His name is Ted,

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<v Speaker 5>So Ted, welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you guys man. How are you doing today?

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<v Speaker 1>Do we need to suck out any venom out of

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<v Speaker 1>like a fire or anything.

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<v Speaker 5>She's very eager to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>So, no poison.

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<v Speaker 5>Different situation that happened on the way to your date?

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<v Speaker 5>What was it?

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<v Speaker 2>It's completely unbelievable. It's a little long, so let me

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<v Speaker 2>just jump right into it. I was going to go

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<v Speaker 2>on a date with a girl named Amy. We met

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<v Speaker 2>online like you typically do nowadays, and we've been talking

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<v Speaker 2>for a while. I mean, we had great conversation. We

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<v Speaker 2>really liked each other.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're excited.

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<v Speaker 2>You're looking to so pumped up for this date. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm driving there and I get a call from my

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<v Speaker 2>mother and she said, Honey, I'm stuck. I'm stranding downtown.

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<v Speaker 2>My tire is blown and I don't have uber or

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<v Speaker 2>any of those stuff like that, So could you come

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<v Speaker 2>get me? So you told.

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<v Speaker 1>Us no, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to stay in the will.

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<v Speaker 5>But you're on the way to a date though.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but it's my mother. What kind of guy would

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<v Speaker 2>I be if I left my mom's randed?

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<v Speaker 3>It's true? Okay, So is it gonna make you super late?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you call your date.

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<v Speaker 1>And let her know?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's the thing. Me and Amy had been planning

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<v Speaker 2>his date for weeks and I did not want to

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<v Speaker 2>mess this up. So I had a choice to make.

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<v Speaker 2>So I could just pick my mom up and drop

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<v Speaker 2>her home and be really late and missed out on

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<v Speaker 2>this date today. Or I could take mom with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, we put that in the option.

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<v Speaker 5>I should not be in the option.

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<v Speaker 1>Do I feel like he went with option B?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Laughing. There we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Let us know.

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<v Speaker 2>So here's what happened. Man, I have to take my

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<v Speaker 2>mom with me. It's gonna sound bad, but I made

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<v Speaker 2>my mom sit at another table.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, oh yeah, that's not bad.

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<v Speaker 5>You leave her in the car.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like dogs. You can't do that.

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<v Speaker 5>Crack the window from crack the window, turn on the

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<v Speaker 5>You actually brought her into the restaurant with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I did, but we were like separate. So when I

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<v Speaker 2>met Amy at the restaurant, she didn't see that I

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<v Speaker 2>was with my mom, So I said, Mom, sit another table.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom agreed. She understood what was going on.

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<v Speaker 3>But did it change like how you acted knowing that

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<v Speaker 3>your mom could.

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<v Speaker 5>See you in the room?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh totally. And Amy can see that I'm completely distracted,

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<v Speaker 2>Like she could see something off my mind.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she probably thought you were checking out some older

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<v Speaker 3>woman as you're looking.

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<v Speaker 2>Back on my God. Luckily she didn't think that. But

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<v Speaker 2>she just came out and said, hey, is something Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you look a little distracted.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, you can tell you were off, and bro, she

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't know you, so that's a bad sign, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're off.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you confess?

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<v Speaker 2>So I didn't want to lie to her, because we're

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<v Speaker 2>just getting to know one another at all. So I

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<v Speaker 2>just wanted to be honest at that point, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, listen, this is gonna sound crazy. I heard

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<v Speaker 2>of that. I said, my mom's here at the restaurant

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<v Speaker 2>and I told her what happened, and she thought that

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<v Speaker 2>was really sweet, Like you picked your mom up.

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<v Speaker 3>Funny you and you were conscious about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like you sat down with your mom. I

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<v Speaker 1>love it.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. So so what happens, Well, what do

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<v Speaker 2>you expect? Amy's a nice girl. So she went over

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<v Speaker 2>and said, Hi, I'm Amy.

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<v Speaker 1>Loves Amy.

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<v Speaker 3>We had to get Amy back on the phone just

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<v Speaker 3>for mommy.

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<v Speaker 2>She does because Amy invited my mom to come back

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<v Speaker 2>to our table and we ended up having dinner together.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it.

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<v Speaker 5>Now I am cringing over here. Everybody else thinks this

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<v Speaker 5>is like the sweetest story ever. If my mom was

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<v Speaker 5>on a first date with me, it doesn't matter. If

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<v Speaker 5>it was an emergency, a sweet story, that would be

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<v Speaker 5>the end of the romance. Are you supposed to flirt

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<v Speaker 5>in front of your mom?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I know this is gonna sound nuts, but my mom

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<v Speaker 2>a perfect wingman. Oh my god, she made me sound

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<v Speaker 2>to me, I wanted to date me, Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Mom, but okay, so Ma can get a little over

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<v Speaker 3>the top though. Did she ask your date questions or

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<v Speaker 3>did it turn into like a presentation about you, mom?

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<v Speaker 5>She may steal your date.

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<v Speaker 2>It turned into like a power point about me and

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<v Speaker 2>how great her son is.

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<v Speaker 5>You think that he dresses well? You should see him kiss.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you feel like there's an okay amount of time

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<v Speaker 4>with mom, Like she could come over for a little bit,

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<v Speaker 4>but not like hours.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it could be all wholesome and zero romance exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>So I mean, how do you think it went? Overall?

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<v Speaker 2>We ended up having a really great time. At the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the day, I actually hug Amy. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to kiss her or make out with her in

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<v Speaker 2>front of my mother. Yeah it was nice, and Amy

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<v Speaker 2>said she had a great time. But then I get

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<v Speaker 2>a text the next day out of nowhere. She says,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, I didn't really feel a romantic spark, And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, of course she didn't feel a romantic spark.

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<v Speaker 2>I was go on a date with you and my

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<v Speaker 2>mother like that weird?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you feel like you didn't get a fair shot

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<v Speaker 3>to show her the romantic spark.

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<v Speaker 2>Serious, I didn't. If she gives me another chance, I

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<v Speaker 2>really think I can knocket out of the park.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I like this, Yeah, thank you Crazy. So we're

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<v Speaker 5>gonna at least attempt to get you a second date here.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe your mom needs to show up on all of

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<v Speaker 5>your break down more often less often.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess it didn't work out well.

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<v Speaker 5>It didn't work for him, but let's try and come

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<v Speaker 5>back and get you your second date. Update with Annie

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<v Speaker 5>right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Second date updates. Stay tuned to TLC The Learning Channel.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's Learn. Coming up next, Cake Horse and at nine

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<v Speaker 3>I definitely watched So with your Mom, Jeff watch out.

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<v Speaker 5>Watching that show because if you missed the first part.

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<v Speaker 5>Real quick our listener Ted had to bring his mom

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<v Speaker 5>along on his first date because she got stranded with

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<v Speaker 5>a blown tire situation. Mom ends up eating dinner with

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<v Speaker 5>Ted and his date Amy. Afterwards, he gets a text

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<v Speaker 5>from Amy saying she had a nice time but just

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<v Speaker 5>didn't feel the romantic spark there.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I think it's really important to note that his date,

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<v Speaker 3>Amy is the one that invited the mom over to.

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<v Speaker 1>The table, like that makes a huge difference.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I know that makes it romantic. But the fact

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<v Speaker 5>that she said she didn't feel the romantic spark that sucks.

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<v Speaker 5>But I would be worried if she said she did

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<v Speaker 5>feel the romantic spark the mom there. Ted would like

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<v Speaker 5>to do a redo without his mother there talking him

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<v Speaker 5>up and tucking his napkin into his shirt and wiping

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<v Speaker 5>ketchup off of his face. That's why he's here for

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<v Speaker 5>a second chance, because he knows that really happened, didn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>It did not, It didn't go that far.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, have you told your mom that Amy said that

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<v Speaker 3>it's not gonna work.

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<v Speaker 1>Is your mom disappointed? She's kind of invested, Yeah, totally,

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<v Speaker 1>she was on the date.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's a little disappointed to a back.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, please don't involve your mom this much in your

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<v Speaker 5>dating life. I don't know why everybody wants the mom

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<v Speaker 5>to be so involved.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I wonder we just know she will insert

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<v Speaker 4>herself in the situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, she sounds adorable.

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<v Speaker 5>Really, it's projecting about how our relationship with our moms are.

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<v Speaker 5>All Right, well, let's give this a shot. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 5>call Amy right now. Hello, Hi, is this Amy?

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<v Speaker 6>This is Amy.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey. I'm sorry to bother you, but you're on the

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<v Speaker 5>radio right now. No, yeah, I know. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 5>we're We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning and

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<v Speaker 5>we're doing this segment. It's called a second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 5>One of our listeners named Ted reached out to us

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<v Speaker 5>because he went on a date with you, and I

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<v Speaker 5>would like to see you again.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's really cute. There's a really cute reason

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<v Speaker 1>he really likes you.

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<v Speaker 5>Hold on, Brooke, coming on a little strong here, because well, yes,

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<v Speaker 5>because we know we know Amy that you sent him

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<v Speaker 5>a text saying that you're not interested.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I know this is a lot that I'm telling

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<v Speaker 5>you right now, but I just want to get it

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<v Speaker 5>out of the way. Because we heard the story from Ted.

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<v Speaker 5>He feels bad about the way that the night played

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<v Speaker 5>out with his mom being there. He's worried that that

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<v Speaker 5>may have been the reason that the romantic spark didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so well, uh, this is You're right this is.

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<v Speaker 5>A lot he did say.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, he really applauded how cool you were, how

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<v Speaker 3>you're the one that invited the mom over, like you

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<v Speaker 3>sounded like super flexible that night, super understanding, which was

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<v Speaker 3>totally awesome.

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<v Speaker 6>Well thanks, I mean, I'll make of a jerk. Oh,

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<v Speaker 6>your mom's here, We'll just let us sit in the

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<v Speaker 6>corner and eat soup and.

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<v Speaker 1>Here at us. I think a lot of people would

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<v Speaker 1>do that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it was a nice night and it was really.

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<v Speaker 5>Cool and right, but you can you can understand why

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<v Speaker 5>there wouldn't be a romantic spark happening with his mother

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<v Speaker 5>sitting directly next to you.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't able to put his moves on.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, like that was the text that you sent

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<v Speaker 5>to him, that you didn't feel the spark. We're not

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<v Speaker 5>sure if that's really fair, though, you'd like a chance

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<v Speaker 5>to like do it over again without mom.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, well, so here's the thing. Yeah, there wasn't a

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't feel it romantic chemistry or you know, that spark.

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<v Speaker 6>But that didn't mean that I didn't ever want to

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<v Speaker 6>talk to him again. But then I get this text

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<v Speaker 6>from a number I didn't recognize, and it says you

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<v Speaker 6>should really date my son?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh wait, text you?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get that text?

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<v Speaker 3>Before?

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<v Speaker 1>After you texted about the romantic spark?

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<v Speaker 6>After?

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<v Speaker 5>After?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, so he went and are you thinking? He

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<v Speaker 3>went and talked to his mom and then the mom

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<v Speaker 3>stepped in.

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<v Speaker 6>I wasn't true at the time, but then they just

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<v Speaker 6>kept coming.

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<v Speaker 1>And oh god, what else did she say?

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<v Speaker 6>It turned into a complete presentation, her telling him to

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<v Speaker 6>me and after like turn texts. I guess I wasn't

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<v Speaker 6>giving her the answer that she wanted because she called me.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah what wait wait a second, did you text her

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<v Speaker 5>something like how what? Okay, now this is sounding more

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<v Speaker 5>like my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not wrong. He is going to be mortified.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay. Yeah, Well, because the part of this that you

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<v Speaker 5>don't know, Amy, is that Ted is actually listening to

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<v Speaker 5>this phone call right now. He's waiting on the other

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<v Speaker 5>line wanting to talk to you. I hope his mom isn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dying on the inside for Ted right now.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't even know it.

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<v Speaker 2>Did he put her up to it?

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<v Speaker 5>Or yeah, well he's there, I think are you there?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I am here. I am dying inside. I am

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<v Speaker 2>so embarrassed. Oh, I had no idea that my mom

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<v Speaker 2>was texting you.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you talk to your mom that you got the

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<v Speaker 5>text from Amy saying that she wasn't interested.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure I mentioned it, but I didn't go into

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<v Speaker 2>detail about it. I mean, oh my god, I know

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<v Speaker 2>my mom. Oh my gosh, she's done this before. My mom.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm on her I'm on her cell phone plan, so

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<v Speaker 2>she has gotten access to my text messages before.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, when she can text.

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<v Speaker 1>Cell phone plan. We shame you for it all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh don't.

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<v Speaker 3>They're just jealous and your reading your text.

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<v Speaker 2>Apparently she did because I I never gave her Amy's

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<v Speaker 2>phone numbers, so that's the only way she'd be able

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to her.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, all right, so Amy, Amy tell his mom to

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<v Speaker 5>reach out to you. She did that totally on her own.

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<v Speaker 2>Amy. I am so sorry that my mom, whold likes

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<v Speaker 2>to butt her nose into my business from time to time,

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<v Speaker 2>was over zealous and reached out to you. It was

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<v Speaker 2>uncalled for and it was wrong. I'm so sorry, Amy, ted.

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<v Speaker 6>Didn't she she called me a bitch. Why aren't you

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<v Speaker 6>holizing for that?

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, I'm sorry my mother did that. You are

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<v Speaker 2>the complete opposite of a You are awesome. Amy. The

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<v Speaker 2>bottom line, my mom just wants the best for me. Ultimately. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>did she go too far? Absolutely, Sometimes she gets fired

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<v Speaker 2>up and she loses it and goes too far. Like

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<v Speaker 2>you'll get used to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I'm kind of going to gives the appart.

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<v Speaker 5>Someone tells you that you're gonna get used to somebody's

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<v Speaker 5>That's the thing. Most women don't get along with their

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<v Speaker 5>boyfriend's mothers brook.

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<v Speaker 1>I get along with her.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you call each other the B word every once

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<v Speaker 5>in a while, and not to each other but behind

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<v Speaker 5>each other's by.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, I love my mother in law. I just

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<v Speaker 3>need a full state separation.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean it's I guess it's better to find out

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<v Speaker 6>in advance what you're stepping into, true true, getting really

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<v Speaker 6>involved with somebody else.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And I do think the mom probably had really

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<v Speaker 5>high hopes for you and Ted being a good couple,

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<v Speaker 5>so she was just reacting to what happened. I think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>you were the one who was on the mom's side

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<v Speaker 5>and thought it was so cute at the start of this,

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<v Speaker 5>and now college moms call people Okay, that's talk.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that the good thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that the good thing is is that this

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<v Speaker 3>is not Ted's behavior, right, this is this is mom's behavior.

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<v Speaker 3>Not in a relationship with Mom. You're in a relationship

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<v Speaker 3>with Ted and with the mom.

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<v Speaker 5>If she comes down at the Thanksgiving dinner table, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>sure Mom would say I'm sorry for what she said,

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<v Speaker 5>and you just have to meet up with him one

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<v Speaker 5>more time. We'd love to pay for that second meet up,

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<v Speaker 5>if you're open to it.

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<v Speaker 6>Amy, I think everything is moving super fast.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, how about just yes to a date, no to Thanksgiving?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I guess if we can promise that Mom won't

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<v Speaker 6>be with us in.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she won't, she won't.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no. Ted is leaving her on the side

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<v Speaker 5>of the road with her flat tire. She's walking home.

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<v Speaker 2>Ted is getting his mom triple a.

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<v Speaker 5>Amy. I think he made a good choice there, giving

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<v Speaker 5>him one more shot. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'm so happy. Thank you guys, and thank you Amy.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't wait to talk to you alone.

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<v Speaker 1>To Amy.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, yeah, I thought you were saying that about Alexis.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, her too, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 5>You think she was just being nice there at the

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<v Speaker 5>end to get off the call, because we do so

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<v Speaker 5>many of these where the person says yes, but then

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if they're actually.

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<v Speaker 2>Going to go out. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think they'll go out again, but really yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>if the mom contacts her again, it's over.

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<v Speaker 5>I just think this is always going to be in

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<v Speaker 5>the back of her head. That is going to be

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<v Speaker 5>the future with the mother. At some day it's going

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<v Speaker 5>to come up again. How do you ever recover from

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<v Speaker 5>you? You have to have an unbelievably amazing relationship with the dad.

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<v Speaker 5>Ye balance friends with the father. He did seem like

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<v Speaker 5>a really nice guy. So maybe his dad is just superman.

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<v Speaker 1>His mom did something right. Yeah, raise a good guy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true.

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<v Speaker 5>It worked out, she said, yes, and maybe it'll work

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<v Speaker 5>out for you no matter who your parents are. Just

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<v Speaker 5>email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

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<v Speaker 5>you back, and you can go check out all of

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<v Speaker 5>our second Day podcast wherever you get yours at Brooke

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<v Speaker 5>and Jeffrey