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Speaker 1: All right, we did it. We all made it to Friday.

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Speaker 1: That feels good, doesn't it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thank you for being here with Brooke and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: And this is the official Second Date podcast, So I

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Speaker 3: found the real thing right from the source.

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Speaker 1: What are listeners wanting us to read? Alexis well Adwa said.

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Speaker 4: I was commenting on a past second date and said,

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Speaker 4: I don't get girls. If you don't like a guy,

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Speaker 4: don't give him your contact, don't entertain him. And if

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Speaker 4: you do and you don't like him, tell him what's

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Speaker 4: this ghosting thing? More times, these guys have no social cues,

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Speaker 4: and all the guys do do this to girls too.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, life is so effing simple. What the

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Speaker 5: hell did you hear about guys lying to girls all

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Speaker 5: the time? And then and then it happens that you,

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Speaker 5: I mean, everybody does it.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I could teach a whole generation on

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Speaker 4: Yeah, But then once you teach you, that makes me

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Speaker 4: want to do the opposite and.

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Speaker 5: Totally all right.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know if we fix the problem, but

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Speaker 3: we probably made it worse with this second date for sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why didn't you listen?

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Speaker 2: Brooke?

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Speaker 6: And Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates.

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Speaker 5: Have you ever been on the way to a date

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Speaker 5: have to tell your date, Hey, sorry that I'm late,

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Speaker 5: and I had to have a homeless guy suck out

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Speaker 5: the poison. Had that exact story happened to me several times? Actually,

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Speaker 5: lots of subway snakes around here lately. The city really.

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Speaker 1: Should do something not Google search that term.

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Speaker 5: I bring it up because one of our listeners said

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Speaker 5: he had a crazy thing happened to him on the

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Speaker 5: reason he's not getting a call back. His name is Ted,

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Speaker 5: So Ted, welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 2: Thank you guys man. How are you doing today?

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Speaker 1: Do we need to suck out any venom out of

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Speaker 5: She's very eager to do it.

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Speaker 2: So, no poison.

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Speaker 5: Different situation that happened on the way to your date?

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Speaker 5: What was it?

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Speaker 2: It's completely unbelievable. It's a little long, so let me

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Speaker 2: on a date with a girl named Amy. We met

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Speaker 2: online like you typically do nowadays, and we've been talking

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Speaker 1: So you're excited.

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Speaker 2: You're looking to so pumped up for this date. So

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Speaker 2: I'm driving there and I get a call from my

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Speaker 2: My tire is blown and I don't have uber or

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Speaker 5: But you're on the way to a date though.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's my mother. What kind of guy would

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Speaker 3: It's true? Okay, So is it gonna make you super late?

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Speaker 3: Did you call your date.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's the thing. Me and Amy had been planning

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Speaker 2: So I could just pick my mom up and drop

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Speaker 5: I should not be in the option.

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Speaker 2: So here's what happened. Man, I have to take my

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Speaker 3: But did it change like how you acted knowing that

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Speaker 2: Oh totally. And Amy can see that I'm completely distracted,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she probably thought you were checking out some older

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Speaker 2: So I didn't want to lie to her, because we're

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Speaker 1: It's not like you sat down with your mom. I

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Speaker 2: I love it. So so what happens, Well, what do

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Speaker 2: She does because Amy invited my mom to come back

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 5: Now I am cringing over here. Everybody else thinks this

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Speaker 5: in front of your mom?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I know this is gonna sound nuts, but my mom

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Speaker 3: Mom, but okay, so Ma can get a little over

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Speaker 5: She may steal your date.

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Speaker 2: It turned into like a power point about me and

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Speaker 5: You think that he dresses well? You should see him kiss.

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Speaker 4: Do you feel like there's an okay amount of time

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it could be all wholesome and zero romance exactly.

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Speaker 5: So I mean, how do you think it went? Overall?

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Speaker 2: We ended up having a really great time. At the

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I didn't really feel a romantic spark, And

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Speaker 2: I'm like, of course she didn't feel a romantic spark.

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Speaker 2: I was go on a date with you and my

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you feel like you didn't get a fair shot

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Speaker 2: Serious, I didn't. If she gives me another chance, I

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Speaker 5: Okay, I like this, Yeah, thank you Crazy. So we're

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Speaker 5: gonna at least attempt to get you a second date here.

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Speaker 5: Maybe your mom needs to show up on all of

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Speaker 5: your break down more often less often.

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Speaker 3: I guess it didn't work out well.

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Speaker 5: It didn't work for him, but let's try and come

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Speaker 5: back and get you your second date. Update with Annie

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Speaker 5: right after this.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Second date updates. Stay tuned to TLC The Learning Channel.

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Speaker 5: Let's Learn. Coming up next, Cake Horse and at nine

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Speaker 5: Super Quick Weddings, followed by the Divorce Horse. You know

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Speaker 5: what's missing from that lineup is the new TLC dating

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Speaker 5: show Wing Moms, premiering Wednesdays at nine Central, eight Pacific.

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Speaker 3: I definitely watched So with your Mom, Jeff watch out.

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Speaker 5: Watching that show because if you missed the first part.

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Speaker 5: Real quick our listener Ted had to bring his mom

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Speaker 3: Okay, I think it's really important to note that his date,

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Speaker 1: The table, like that makes a huge difference.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know that makes it romantic. But the fact

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Speaker 5: But I would be worried if she said she did

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Speaker 5: ketchup off of his face. That's why he's here for

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Speaker 5: a second chance, because he knows that really happened, didn't it.

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Speaker 2: It did not, It didn't go that far.

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Speaker 3: Hey, have you told your mom that Amy said that

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Speaker 3: it's not gonna work.

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Speaker 1: Is your mom disappointed? She's kind of invested, Yeah, totally,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, please don't involve your mom this much in your

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Speaker 4: You know, I wonder we just know she will insert

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, she sounds adorable.

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Speaker 5: Really, it's projecting about how our relationship with our moms are.

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Speaker 5: All Right, well, let's give this a shot. I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: call Amy right now. Hello, Hi, is this Amy?

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Speaker 5: Hey. I'm sorry to bother you, but you're on the

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Speaker 5: radio right now. No, yeah, I know. It's kind of

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Speaker 5: we're We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning and

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Speaker 5: we're doing this segment. It's called a second Date Update.

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Speaker 5: One of our listeners named Ted reached out to us

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Speaker 5: because he went on a date with you, and I

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's really cute. There's a really cute reason

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Speaker 5: Hold on, Brooke, coming on a little strong here, because well, yes,

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Speaker 5: because we know we know Amy that you sent him

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so well, uh, this is You're right this is.

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Speaker 3: I mean, he really applauded how cool you were, how

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Speaker 6: Well thanks, I mean, I'll make of a jerk. Oh,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it was a nice night and it was really.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't able to put his moves on.

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Speaker 5: You know, like that was the text that you sent

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Speaker 5: Oh wait, text you?

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Speaker 1: Did you get that text?

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, so he went and are you thinking? He

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Speaker 6: I wasn't true at the time, but then they just

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Speaker 6: It turned into a complete presentation, her telling him to

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Speaker 5: something like how what? Okay, now this is sounding more

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Speaker 1: You're not wrong. He is going to be mortified.

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Speaker 5: Okay. Yeah, Well, because the part of this that you

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Speaker 6: I don't even know it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I am here. I am dying inside. I am

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Speaker 2: so embarrassed. Oh, I had no idea that my mom

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Speaker 5: Did you talk to your mom that you got the

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Speaker 2: I'm sure I mentioned it, but I didn't go into

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Speaker 2: I'm on her I'm on her cell phone plan, so

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, when she can text.

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Speaker 1: Cell phone plan. We shame you for it all the time.

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Speaker 2: Oh don't.

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Speaker 3: They're just jealous and your reading your text.

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Speaker 2: Apparently she did because I I never gave her Amy's

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right, so Amy, Amy tell his mom to

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Speaker 2: Amy. I am so sorry that my mom, whold likes

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Speaker 2: to butt her nose into my business from time to time,

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Speaker 6: Didn't she she called me a bitch. Why aren't you

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Speaker 2: Of course, I'm sorry my mother did that. You are

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Speaker 2: bottom line, my mom just wants the best for me. Ultimately. Yes,

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Speaker 2: did she go too far? Absolutely, Sometimes she gets fired

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm kind of going to gives the appart.

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Speaker 5: Someone tells you that you're gonna get used to somebody's

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Speaker 5: That's the thing. Most women don't get along with their

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Speaker 1: I get along with her.

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Speaker 5: Well, you call each other the B word every once

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Speaker 3: It's like, I love my mother in law. I just

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Speaker 6: I mean it's I guess it's better to find out

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And I do think the mom probably had really

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Speaker 1: I think that the good thing.

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Speaker 3: I think that the good thing is is that this

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Speaker 3: Not in a relationship with Mom. You're in a relationship

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Speaker 5: more time. We'd love to pay for that second meet up,

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Speaker 6: Amy, I think everything is moving super fast.

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Speaker 3: Okay, how about just yes to a date, no to Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I guess if we can promise that Mom won't

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Speaker 2: No, she won't, she won't.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no. Ted is leaving her on the side

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Speaker 5: Amy. I think he made a good choice there, giving

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm so happy. Thank you guys, and thank you Amy.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to talk to you alone.

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Speaker 1: To Amy.

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Speaker 5: Oh, yeah, I thought you were saying that about Alexis.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, her too, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: I think they'll go out again, but really yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 5: I just think this is always going to be in

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Speaker 1: His mom did something right. Yeah, raise a good guy.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 5: It worked out, she said, yes, and maybe it'll work

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Speaker 5: out for you no matter who your parents are. Just

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Speaker 5: our second Day podcast wherever you get yours at Brooke

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