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Speaker 2: Just tap our profile. She did it, I did it.

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Speaker 2: I did it. That was good. I like that. That

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Speaker 1: O manned x f U says am I overreacting to

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Speaker 2: Probably not.

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Speaker 1: I just brought over our daughter into the world two

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Speaker 1: I found another snapchat account of my boyfriend that he

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Speaker 1: was talking to thirty six women on there.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, oh, oh thirty six. Was he trying to

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Speaker 3: How many of those were like one message? Still, that's horrible.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, was he actually scoring?

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Speaker 2: He trying to one?

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Speaker 1: Being his ex the whole time I was pregnant. We

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Speaker 1: it's been a few weeks and I had originally messaged

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Speaker 1: all since we started dating, which was a lie. He

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Speaker 1: from December twenty second to May twenty third. Leave this man,

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Speaker 1: he is literally not doing anything.

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Speaker 3: Like December twenty second to May twenty third, or like

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Speaker 1: Seve I think December twenty second.

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Speaker 3: Oh, because either one, they're both Oh right, December two,

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Speaker 3: you know the same time?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: December twenty second, and when we had moved into families

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Speaker 1: morning sickness. That's a lot of morning sickness, in and

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Speaker 2: That's horrible.

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Speaker 1: I know the timeline of everything might seem strange, but

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Speaker 1: He told her I didn't cook her clean for him,

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Speaker 2: But girl, leave leave this is wild.

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Speaker 1: You have already established that you were making all of

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Speaker 1: He refuses to mess up to it. Yeah, and also

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Speaker 1: It was a stupid move on my part. But I'm

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Speaker 4: This is He's horrible.

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Speaker 1: Again and says I'm sorry, did your boyfriend cheat on you?

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Speaker 1: Because in your story he hung out with someone who

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Speaker 1: If he slept with one of these women, you aren't overreacting.

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Speaker 1: I think even if he didn't sleep with them, you're

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Speaker 1: what happened in the story. Yeah, your constant insecure digging

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Speaker 1: Don't say you're putting it behind you, then go digging somewhere.

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Speaker 2: I'll hang out with adults and not spicy sleep. Well,

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Speaker 2: I don't agree with that.

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Speaker 1: Oh he says he had a relationship with this woman

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Speaker 2: This is his ex. Oh yeah, no, we knew that.

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Speaker 1: The fact that he had to hide to hang out

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Speaker 2: I'm pregnant and my husband has been sleeping with my mother.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know. It's just so insane.

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Speaker 2: My father passed away about five years ago from a stroke,

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Speaker 2: Situation like this right? Oh a hundred times?

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Speaker 5: You know the old times, the old mom sleeping with

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Speaker 5: And then I don't know, I don't know what after that.

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Speaker 5: I told him that I know everything. I showed him

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Speaker 2: That fucking bastard dad. Don't talk about dude, row fuck

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Speaker 2: know what to say at that, except that's bullshit. I

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Speaker 2: I already packed my things before he came home. I'm

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Speaker 2: I've also confronted her to say it's going on here.

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Speaker 2: It's been hell trying to do the best. I'll try

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Speaker 2: So the update is from Mama? So she ends up replying.

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Speaker 2: me rethink my situation. How rethink what we think? What?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 2: Maybe the next that day is like I join a

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Speaker 2: All right, all right, yeah, I'm so sorry for the

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Speaker 2: God kidding, but you are not the victim. You are

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Speaker 2: not the victim. What how dare you hold this against

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Speaker 2: on speaking terms. Please push past this as I pushed

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Speaker 2: this this pat oh, a child cannot be raised without

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Speaker 5: Uh it actually easily can That's like completely doable.

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Speaker 2: A bro, this is great, this is crazy. Get out

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Speaker 2: of this, dude, you have the most fucked up familial relationship.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry this sucks, but you got to get out

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Speaker 5: I also wonder how how the other family members are.

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Speaker 5: I mean, yo, put them on blast, dudde imagine imagine

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Speaker 5: so like like uh, uncle has entered the chat, like

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Speaker 5: to like creep your uncle, Jerry, now that your mom's

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Speaker 5: cutting off, like the mom is just like the aunt

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is totally fucked up, like like in all

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Speaker 2: series as opie, this really like this situation sucks for sure,

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Speaker 2: but you need to get your You and your baby

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Speaker 2: that's just that that's someone that's your mother. Thought of

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Speaker 2: a vagina. Yeah, it's a motherfucker emphasis on fucker. Opa,

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Speaker 2: feel bad for you. Yeah, if you got this mom

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Speaker 2: was dad? Check out this other mom that left their

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Speaker 6: I know, I know.

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Speaker 2: But if you have your own mom story or any story,

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Speaker 2: and I'll go to our slash okop show on Reddit,

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Speaker 2: We'd love to hear it and then possibly read it.

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Speaker 2: Check it out.

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Speaker 5: I told Karen her bully son can't come on the

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Speaker 2: Okayop, this is Okayop. I'm Samuel Donner and we tell

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Speaker 2: the funniest stories on the internet. And uh, John, we

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Speaker 2: the COVID king Boys and Girl. Last year freaking same time,

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Speaker 2: but this time is even better because my Christmas plans

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Speaker 5: Seeing the family going out with your girln all done nothing. Dude,

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Speaker 5: I'm thinking about this for the first time.

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Speaker 2: Guys. That really sucks, dude, it sucks. It sucks. It

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Speaker 4: Yeah, wow, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: And I was going to go to Tahoe and ski.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you had great nothing you had great. I had

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Speaker 2: That's right. These rides telling the best damn story this

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Speaker 5: These renditstre wait way better than a ski vacation of Taha.

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Speaker 5: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Reddit? Of course, come on, come on.

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Speaker 5: I told Karen her bully son can't come on the

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Speaker 2: Like Moses. Like Moses, He's at it, but way less

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Speaker 5: Yes, so this takes place in the summer of nineteen

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Speaker 5: seventy five. At the time, my sons were nine and seven. Also,

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Speaker 5: they were Cub Scouts. Like most kids, they quickly made

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Speaker 4: Most of us got.

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Speaker 5: Along really well with the families, except for the family

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Speaker 2: Oh god, see it sounds so idyllic before the Karen

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Speaker 5: It's like it's like, you know, like the vintage movie

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Speaker 4: That's hilarious.

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Speaker 2: I can't think Karen's are ever good at parenting because

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Speaker 5: Literally, a Karen can't like can't parent. I almost said

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Speaker 5: Karen can't care in herself a parent. Karen can't parent herself.

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Speaker 5: Damn say that, Fion.

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Speaker 2: That's yeah, that's a thungue twist through goodness.

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Speaker 5: This Karen was more into the lifestyle of being a mom,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the yoga pad many van exactly.

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Speaker 5: Oh, he says, being in mommy groups, spending her husband's

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Speaker 2: To her classic. You gotta spend booze money on those

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Speaker 2: constant excuses for him. He just a boy.

438
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:31,040
Speaker 5: He's just expressing himself and your kids started it.

439
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 2: Let me express myself by any face, then wow, turn

440
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 2: it on the Karen, you know, yeah, yeah, there you go.

441
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:44,400
Speaker 2: I'm expressing.

442
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,400
Speaker 5: What made it worse was that the Karen would pacify

443
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,440
Speaker 5: her son's behavior with sweets, toys, and other things that

444
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 5: he wanted.

445
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,800
Speaker 2: That is, why do you reward bad behavior? Why do

446
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 2: we do it? Unless the sweets are Willie Walker sweets

447
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 2: like mess you up, Like you know the buberry thing

448
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 2: where it turned into a giant blueberry, Like give that

449
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 2: kid those sweets. Honestly, lesson I would try. You would

450
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 2: want to be a giant blueberry. I don't know. It

451
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 2: just looks crazy and I'm just like this is this

452
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,920
Speaker 2: is interesting? You know what, John it I'll gets you

453
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 2: a big blueberry costume for next Christmas and you can

454
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Speaker 2: wear it to your heart's content.

455
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Speaker 4: There we go. We'll do it. We'll I'll wear it

456
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Speaker 4: on a special episode.

457
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, a blueberry episode, a blue episode.

458
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Speaker 5: So because of all this bad behavior, the other parents

459
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Speaker 5: and I didn't invite the mother and her son to

460
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Speaker 5: the events that took place outside of the Scouts.

461
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Speaker 2: All right, so they're excluding this they're terrible kid. Yeah,

462
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Speaker 2: they're just like, we don't want some monster on a child.

463
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 4: They're not invited.

464
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 5: Karen would often call our home about getting sleepovers or

465
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Speaker 5: having her son play with our kids, which we were

466
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:54,359
Speaker 5: adamant about.

467
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 4: That not happened.

468
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're expressing yourself with your fists, you can

469
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 2: express it in solitary, confined.

470
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 5: But if we didn't give in, she'd say, you're bullying

471
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Speaker 5: my son by excluding him.

472
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Speaker 2: How could you do that to a child? Though? How

473
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 2: about your child? Does it putch the other kids in

474
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 2: the face? Yes, I'm that's actually really bullied. That's serious.

475
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 5: She also threatened to call the governor for discrimination because

476
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Speaker 5: she's a Baptist.

477
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 2: Wow, I love how going all the way up to

478
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Speaker 2: the governor does have a personal relation with the governor, Like,

479
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Speaker 2: does she know him?

480
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Speaker 6: Bro?

481
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 2: Is this like an idol threat? Or is she like

482
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna call it the governor right now. I have

483
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 2: his number right here, Bambang. I wonder how many of

484
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 2: like the Governor's aids have to deal with like Karen's.

485
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 2: It's like, Arnold, you got another call.

486
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Speaker 4: What is it?

487
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 2: It's another kid. This is a couple of years ago

488
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Speaker 2: when our was governor of California. I'll come over with myself.

489
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 4: Oh, man, get a spanking from old Arney.

490
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, Old Arnie, you know I already gives the best spankings.

491
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,199
Speaker 2: It's you know, it's made, you know, like hooked up

492
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 2: with his maiden. She knows, she knows about those spy spankans.

493
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 2: She's she's she's the spank five Ways to Sunday.

494
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 4: She knew the assignment.

495
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 2: She knew the assignment and loved it.

496
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 5: Anyways, back to ours, Opie says, so late June, the

497
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 5: other parents and I were talking about a beach trip

498
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 5: to Santa Cruz and bringing our families with us. We

499
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Speaker 5: talked through everything among the ten other moms and dads

500
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Speaker 5: about planning this out. Karen must have overheard what we

501
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 5: were saying, because she just came over with her son

502
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 5: and said, Karen, can you take my son with you.

503
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Speaker 4: I have to do something with my husband.

504
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 5: What what what?

505
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Speaker 2: Yeah, divorce because you're insufferable and you're spending all this

506
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 2: money on your fake milk juge me. Wait what where

507
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 2: entitled mother Tessana Croz selling me. No, you were invited.

508
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 2: You and your son are not invited. This is a

509
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 2: friend's only trip. You're not a friend, unfriend zoned, not

510
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 2: even in the friend zone, outside of the friend zone

511
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Speaker 2: and the enemy zone.

512
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Speaker 5: Karen, you're a big MANI kicks me in the leg

513
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 5: and runs away. Entitled kid, You're a big Meani kicks

514
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,399
Speaker 5: me in the leg and runs away back to the

515
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 5: y bro.

516
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 2: The kid is just his answer to everything is let me,

517
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 2: let me kick her this thing answer Billy, No, you

518
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 2: gotta I gotta learn some some things about peace.

519
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 5: You know?

520
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:55,200
Speaker 2: You know there's a who wrote that song? It's like war?

521
00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 2: What is it good for? Absolutely nothing? Say it again?

522
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 4: Nah, I remember it, but I couldn't even recite a lyric.

523
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:07,400
Speaker 4: That's impressive.

524
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,360
Speaker 2: Let's says, I don't know who that is. Edward Star

525
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 2: wrote it though. In case you're wondering, Karen, look what

526
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 2: you did, you child hater.

527
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 4: She leaves and chases after him.

528
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 2: He's not a child hater. It's a kick caters.

529
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 4: It's a kick cater.

530
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 5: And you know what, Sam, Look, they're these these kids

531
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:29,240
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532
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536
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537
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Speaker 5: Because this was a big trip, we decided to go

607
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Speaker 5: shopping and hit the road on Friday. We had to

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Speaker 5: do lots of shopping in bulk to reasonably feed twelve

609
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Speaker 5: adults and eighteen kids.

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Speaker 4: My wife and I.

611
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Speaker 5: My wife and I, along with four other parents were

612
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Speaker 5: watching the cars and keeping the kids occupied. For a

613
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Speaker 5: brief moment, I turned my attention to the car to

614
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Speaker 5: turn the AC up because my kids said that they

615
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 5: were hot. I turn over and see the entitled boy

616
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 5: is there with his bag and the mom peeling out.

617
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Speaker 2: In her station wagon. Wait what she dumped the kid

618
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Speaker 2: with them?

619
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Speaker 5: She's just left heels out like a freaking like her

620
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Speaker 5: tokyo drifted out of there. Bro.

621
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 2: Why Like I feel like she's treating this like a ice,

622
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Speaker 2: like literally dropped the package, secured the package. Dude, What

623
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 2: the hell. He like, I just feel so bad for

624
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 2: this kid that his mom has to ditch him for

625
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 2: him to find some friends. Yeah, truly, truly sad, truly

626
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 2: forgetting that.

627
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 5: Now we're all in shock and asking ourselves, is this

628
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 5: actually happening to us?

629
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 2: The boys.

630
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Speaker 5: With Karen's Anything Possible, that's the that's their slogan, could be,

631
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Speaker 5: that's like.

632
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Speaker 2: That's that, that's that Karen Confidence exactly. That's the shirt

633
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Speaker 2: we're gonna make that guys, don't worry, you know, it's

634
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Speaker 2: a good hat. Canceled Karen's cancel over.

635
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 5: We were all in shock, just asking ourselves, is this

636
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 5: really happening to us? The boy's mother gave us a note.

637
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 5: The boy's mother gave him a note that had his

638
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Speaker 5: allergies and an emergency number.

639
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 2: We call, no answer. The emergency number isn't even real.

640
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 5: But oh my god, we can't leave the kid here

641
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 5: alone and we're not going to bring him with us,

642
00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 5: so we opted to call the police.

643
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 2: Wait, okay, okay, okay, So so I understand we don't

644
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 2: like this kid. I get it, I get it right,

645
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:13,960
Speaker 2: But it's like, if you're really gonna call the police

646
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 2: on a kid who just ditched I just feel so

647
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 2: bad for this kid now, like no one wants him.

648
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 4: This kid is no one because no one wants him.

649
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 4: Like he just needs yea, he just.

650
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Speaker 2: Needs some love. And you know, now he's getting called

651
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Speaker 2: on by the police. They're gonna take him in. They're

652
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Speaker 2: gonna be like, why are you here. It is like,

653
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Speaker 2: I have no friends. I wish I had winks that

654
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Speaker 2: technology does not technology. Oh this is this is it.

655
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Speaker 5: We make a movie with Wink where we we we

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Speaker 2: Then held finally have some new friends. He becomes like

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Speaker 2: the great uniter of society. Yeah yeah, he realized, Wait,

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Speaker 2: instead of kicking to find new friends, I should have

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Speaker 2: been swiping.

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Speaker 5: Oh yes, that is integrated content. Ladies and gentlemen, there

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Speaker 5: we go, so Op says. We put the kid in

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Speaker 5: the car to keep him out of the sun, and

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Speaker 5: we made the call. We report the Karen for abandenment

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Speaker 5: of her child, and they sent an officer. At about

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Speaker 5: fifteen to twenty minutes, the other parents and I got

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Speaker 5: back to our cars to look out for the police.

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Speaker 5: When we get back, the entitled boy is pulling my

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Speaker 5: four year old daughter's hair.

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Speaker 2: The reason why, So they did they just leave him

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Speaker 2: out in the wilderness.

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Speaker 5: They left I guess they left all the kids in

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Speaker 5: the car while they like waited for the cops to

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Speaker 5: pull out. Okay, the reason why the kids had some

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Speaker 5: snacks in the cooler and they didn't want to share

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Speaker 5: them with the entitled boy. What later happened as we

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Speaker 5: were running to the car is ten of the boys

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Speaker 5: pull the entitled boy off our daughter and proceeded.

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Speaker 2: To whoop his behind. Oh no, I I'm just feeling

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Speaker 2: bad for this kid. He's feel bad.

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Speaker 4: He's just getting beaten over.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, Oh geez.

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Speaker 5: Now this kid had two years of rage bottled up inside,

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Speaker 5: so what took place was not surprising.

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Speaker 4: Now the entitled kid is bleeding, crying.

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Speaker 5: He says that we're all mean and started to mean

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Speaker 5: and started demanding food from us. He was cussing out,

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Speaker 5: hitting all the things, and he said.

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Speaker 2: I want to go on the trip.

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Speaker 4: I want to go on the trip.

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Speaker 2: Now he kept parroting this over and over, and I

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Speaker 2: yelled at him to shut up. I feel that, you see,

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Speaker 2: Like initially I was against the titled kid, but now

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Speaker 2: I just feel bad. I just feel so bad.

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Speaker 4: They're going a little ham. They're going a little.

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Speaker 2: Dude, he's he's getting wrecked, just like emotionally, physically, sir, spiritually,

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Speaker 2: Like he's not coming back for this ever. He's gonna

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Speaker 2: be forty and he's going to be in a support group.

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Speaker 2: That is like, I was a little bitch ass kid.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to go. I still want to go.

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Speaker 2: Say it again, Jimmy, get it out. This is a

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Speaker 2: safe space for you. Now.

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Speaker 5: Me yelling this only made him cry more. Now, I

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Speaker 5: will admit I was probably the wrong here.

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Speaker 2: I think, being that much of a rude person, that

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Speaker 2: kid good idea little everybody.

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Speaker 5: But this is one of the few children I have

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Speaker 5: truly hated in my life. That's ope's excuse. Oh, that's

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00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:38,839
Speaker 5: saying something. Kids are annoying. The cops arrived soon after

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Speaker 5: and we explained what happened. Apparently he was dropped off

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Speaker 5: at his father's job. The mother received a child neglect

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Speaker 5: charge when she saw that our kids beat up hers.

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Speaker 5: She tried to charge our kids with assault. It was

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Speaker 5: dropped because it was self defense kind of. I mean,

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Speaker 5: they they they kind of all ganged like, yeah, they

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Speaker 5: kids beat him up.

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Speaker 2: That's a different story because yeah, but ten kids. That's

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Speaker 2: a mob, bro. It's kind of like the question, like

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Speaker 2: that mob of what like ten year olds taller to

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Speaker 2: the Yeah, take like ten? Yeah yeah. Would you rather

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Speaker 2: face one eight foot toddler or eight regular sized toddlers? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: maybe it would be twenty. I don't know how many

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Speaker 2: toddlers do you think you could take? If that have

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Speaker 2: to be ten year olds? Maybe like an eight foot

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Speaker 2: ten year old or ten ten year olds? Eight foot

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Speaker 2: ten year old or ten ten year olds. I think

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Speaker 2: that's I think that's fair. I think that's fair. Pretty

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Speaker 2: it's like with an eight foot ten year old, Like

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Speaker 2: they're massive, right, Maybe they're not as coordinated or as smart,

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Speaker 2: but like they're huge. Ten regular ten year olds with knives.

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Speaker 2: That's a lot. Yeah, you have to like cover your basis.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you've had like a big stick you could just

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Speaker 2: kind of like plow through them. Take that dogs.

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Speaker 5: But all in all, my friends and I took our

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Speaker 5: kids and had a great weekend at Santa Cruz. If

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Speaker 5: you wonder what happened to Karen and her son. The

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Speaker 5: mom is still married to the dad. We do not

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Speaker 5: talk to her since our kids aged out of Scouts.

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Speaker 5: The sun is now a fifty five year old man

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Speaker 5: who is a creep that tries to pick up college

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Speaker 5: girls and neglects his four kids.

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Speaker 2: Yikes, yikes, he never grew out of it. And that's it, folks,

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Speaker 2: that's the righted story. Wow, geez freakin' Loise I, you know,

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Speaker 2: I just feel bad for this kid, like he obviously

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Speaker 2: wasn't given a good home in the beginning, and uh

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Speaker 2: and took out his frustrations on the people and never

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Speaker 2: learn to grow up.

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Speaker 4: But you know what listeners should take their frustrations out on?

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Speaker 2: What should they take their frustrations out on?

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