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Speaker 1: Second date up date. Women. Women are always saying that

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Speaker 2: All upset.

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Speaker 1: What is it, ladies? You want a stand up guy?

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Speaker 3: Or don't you not a stand me up guy?

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Speaker 1: You clearly don't know what you want. That's why obvious

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Speaker 1: Nick stood his date up and now suddenly she's being

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Speaker 1: all weird about it. He just can't win, can we?

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Speaker 4: Man? Apparently not? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Right, you're calling because you feel bad, right, Nicko?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I think you hit the nail on the head,

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Speaker 5: like I on this one, Bro, why did you stand

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Speaker 1: Okay, well yeah we'll get to why. First tell us

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Speaker 1: about this needy lady? Who is she?

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Speaker 4: God?

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Speaker 3: She just wants someone to actually be there when she

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Speaker 2: She didn't even say that, Yeah, just show up? I

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Speaker 1: The what's her name?

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Speaker 4: Sally?

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Speaker 1: Sally on the valley? And how did you meet?

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Speaker 4: We met on on an app? Like how do people

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Speaker 4: meet otherwise? These days?

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Speaker 2: I mean, every once in a while, it's like Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's a different, But even when you meet

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Speaker 1: me on Instagram. You know, what did you like about Sally?

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Speaker 5: Well, I don't mean this in a shallow way, but like,

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Speaker 5: there was this picture she had of her in a

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Speaker 4: I was like, I need to talk to this girl.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that's shallow.

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Speaker 3: I mean that's how it's all done, right, especially when

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Speaker 2: It's nice what I expected. Yeah, I thought he was

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Speaker 1: Those were in so much. From reading your email, Nick,

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Speaker 1: it sounds like you went on one day, but you

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Speaker 1: stood her up on date two. Oh my gosh, Nick,

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Speaker 1: Well what happened on date one?

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Speaker 5: Well, the one was pretty cool because we went to

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Speaker 4: I thought it was a good choice to be fun,

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Speaker 5: I thought we had a great time. We actually kissed

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Speaker 3: You had a great time the first date. Obviously, she

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Speaker 4: Well, a more traditional date. I thought, okay, well, hey,

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Speaker 1: That was her idea, huh said I thought, I said,

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Speaker 1: I thought, okay, sure, but a gentleman, you want to

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Speaker 2: So you guys are going to meet at the restaurant.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we were going to meet at the restaurant. And

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Speaker 1: What happened.

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Speaker 5: So I had to go by my ex's house and

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you were hooking up with your ex.

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Speaker 4: Truth be told, we did hook up.

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Speaker 5: It it was kind of like a farewell, we're not

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Speaker 2: But literally you're on the way to meet Sally. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, for real, I don't want to tell I'm just

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Speaker 1: But does it really matter if it happened the night before?

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Speaker 1: Does that make a difference to you? Okay? So what

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Speaker 1: didn't What are your appropriate time period, like an hour

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, just so he can be clean and

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Speaker 1: Never though he never met up with Yeah, it sounds

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Speaker 2: Did we hear the excuse that he used? Like, what

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh I can't. I couldn't think of something.

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Speaker 5: And I told her that I took a nap and

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Speaker 4: So I played on them, said took a nap.

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Speaker 2: I was like, that's not bad and there dude.

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Speaker 5: No, because they're not be awake and I'd.

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Speaker 2: You didn't want to go at that point? I see,

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Speaker 2: I didn't get that.

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Speaker 1: Because of what you said from one to another with

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Speaker 2: And what did she reply? I mean she's already sitting

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Speaker 4: Yeah she didn't.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she knows you're excuse. That's obvious.

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Speaker 4: You're made that up.

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Speaker 1: That's rude that she didn't respond back to you.

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Speaker 2: She's true, not trude. Oh geez man.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you got what you had coming to you,

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Speaker 5: I'm guessing, Okay, Well Brook, Yeah, I always say, Hey,

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Speaker 5: the best way is just be honest about it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like what I got to lose at this point?

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Speaker 1: You're happy, Brook? It is true, Brooke doesn't. Brook does

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Speaker 2: She doesn't need this information. This isn't going to make

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Speaker 5: I like her, and I want to continue this, and

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Speaker 5: I think it's better to have, like to start out

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Speaker 5: with the honesty. I hopefully she'll respect that. And but

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Speaker 4: If you guys think there's a better.

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Speaker 1: Tragedy is the one that's gonna guide you.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I you know, I was like hooking back

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Speaker 1: The truth comes in.

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Speaker 7: I know that.

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Speaker 2: I mean he knew that my ex was coming into

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Speaker 3: Because I mean he knew, but then like the X

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Speaker 2: I really like this other guy better.

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Speaker 1: But We've been doing the show for a really long time,

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Speaker 3: I mean, we weren't together like the other side Michael

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Speaker 1: Other got married. Okay, Well, we'll be back with Brooks

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Speaker 1: stories and also getting a second date update for Nick.

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Speaker 1: Sore arms too terribly Right after this hold on Nick

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Speaker 1: second date update, we just heard an admission of guilt.

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Speaker 1: Yeah we did not from Brook I mean, yeah, we

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Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable saying this, Like, even if you

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Speaker 1: you think honesty is important, but for you to admit

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Speaker 7: Okay, maybe you just say I was spending time with

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Speaker 2: That sounds like you're trying to get back together. But

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Speaker 2: I think that's what the whole relationship will be like.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think you just try to leave that

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Speaker 1: I mean, we never know how these calls are going

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Speaker 1: to go before you make them, so Nick, you have

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Speaker 1: But I'm not going to say it. No one in

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I totally agree.

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Speaker 4: You go with that, Nick, Yeah, I'll just play it.

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Speaker 4: I'll see how the conversation goes.

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Speaker 1: Just don't play it by your arms. We can't count

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Speaker 2: He said that they were dead and that's why I

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Speaker 1: All right, man, we're wishing you luck. I'm wishing myself.

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Speaker 1: Hey is it Sally?

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Speaker 1: What's up, Sally? My name is Jeff from the radio

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Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing.

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Speaker 7: Oh, I'm good, Okay, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Hi, Sally whole show is here. We all want to

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Speaker 1: a date with the other night. Well, you went on

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Speaker 1: His name's Nick.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh, doesn't sound like a surprise to you at all.

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Speaker 7: I'm surprised that he gets a colony about him. He

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Speaker 7: should know I'm not responding to him, and I'm definitely Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think he understands that. He admits that he

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Speaker 7: Okay, good for him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I being were you already at the

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: I was already sitting there. First of all, he didn't

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Speaker 7: even call. He texted first problem right there? Yeah, Oh,

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Speaker 7: you're already late. You texted me after the fact that

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Speaker 7: like an idiot, and then you text me this ridiculous

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was pretty lame, super mad too.

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Speaker 1: I will say that does happen to me all the time.

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Speaker 2: Arms dead and you can't you can't drive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a problem. That doesn't mean that Nick feels

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Speaker 7: So did he tell you that that was a true

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Speaker 7: unbelievable story.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know what the truth is. Only Nick

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Speaker 2: He did.

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Speaker 3: I mean, he said he was an idiot for messing

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean you have to think about this.

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Speaker 7: So, I mean, you guys can have him reach out

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, progress, Well what I can actually do you

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Speaker 7: So he heard everything I just said.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot worse things.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I would have unless he fell asleep

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Speaker 7: Wow.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Hi Sally, Hey, uh, I'm glad that we're talking.

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Speaker 1: That sweet all right?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well, what do you even want to say to me?

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Speaker 4: What do you have to say for yourself?

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Speaker 5: Well, one, I want to say, I'm I'm sorry that

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Speaker 5: I'm I'm the idiot here.

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Speaker 4: So this one's on me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a big move.

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Speaker 4: I like you, Sally.

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Speaker 5: I think we had a great time, and I wouldn't

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Speaker 7: Okay, Nick, listen, just just stop for a second.

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Speaker 4: Just tell me the truth.

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Speaker 7: What really happened?

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Speaker 4: Well, a good question.

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Speaker 1: There's a compliment. I think she's talking about the dead

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Speaker 5: Okay, my arms didn't fall asleep that day, so that

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Speaker 4: True, I like, I want I want to pursue this

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Speaker 5: And I was debating like telling you, but if I

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Speaker 4: I want to just say it in honesty.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Sally, can we agree to do that? If he

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Speaker 5: What, Sally, not what he.

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Speaker 7: I would listen to what he said and we'll go

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Speaker 1: Well, Nick, this is your moment to come clean.

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Speaker 4: Now I'm nervous.

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Speaker 5: Okay, what happened is I went to go pick up

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Speaker 4: Box from my ex's place, and I inadvertently stayed there

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Speaker 6: And it was like things happened and it meant nothing,

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Speaker 6: And then I'm like, you know how sometimes you like

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Speaker 5: That and you realize, like why I shouldn't do that?

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Speaker 4: I really like this as a girl, Sally.

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Speaker 7: All I can say is wow, Yeah, who does that?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean, like, who does the hook up?

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Speaker 1: You did say anything about hookup?

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Speaker 2: Yeah you did, and.

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Speaker 7: They hooked up. I'm not an idiot.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Yes, I never heard those words. Okay, Jes you

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Speaker 2: Said I did stuff you shouldn't have. You said stuff happened,

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Speaker 2: then you say stuff is. She's not a moron.

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Speaker 7: It's one thing to have a moment of weakness and

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Speaker 7: hook up. That's fine. We weren't in no committed relationship.

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Speaker 7: That's not the issue. The issue is you knew you

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Speaker 7: have happened on any other day whatever, But you knew

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Speaker 3: Up with your ex.

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Speaker 4: Well, no, I didn't go there to go hook up

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Speaker 5: But like what I was thinking was like, oh, well, okay,

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Speaker 5: I just hooked.

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Speaker 4: Up with my ex. Now I'm going to go out

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Speaker 4: to dinner with her. That seemed worse to me.

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Speaker 7: You don't get kudos for because you knew you were

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Speaker 5: I mean that's through herself.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. I mean I can see her side too.

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Speaker 3: Like, like we said, you should have picked up the

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Speaker 2: It would have made all the difference when you stop

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Speaker 1: You know, exactly, whenever anybody touches a cable box, the

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Speaker 3: Is there anything he could do, sally to like get

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Speaker 7: Again, there's a million other idiots on those dating apps

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Speaker 1: Okay, of all those other million other idiots on the

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Speaker 1: with cable boxes too, and you're just gonna end up

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Speaker 7: Good for him. Yeah, and let me say this, just

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Speaker 2: You're Sally needs to be a dating coach. Yeah, that's good, Sally.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it really didn't work out. No, I was open.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't put it one hundred percent on you, Nick,

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Speaker 1: I would put part of it on Brooke and her

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Speaker 2: Not to tell all the details, Jeffery, I know.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know the details.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's actually get some of those details.

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Speaker 2: What really happened, Jeffrey in the morning,