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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in Gangs all here once again.

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Speaker 1: Tanya party on Wayne. My hair is deep conditioning as

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Speaker 1: we speak. That means nothing to anyone except for us,

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Speaker 1: because we see your hair slipped back, and I just

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Speaker 1: want people that are listening to know that, you know

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Speaker 1: what a modern woman. She multitasks. Okay, Tanya is deep

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Speaker 1: conditioning her hair. Very that's the that's where you know

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Speaker 1: where we're at, and quarantine with topics to talk about

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Speaker 1: because that is something she needed you to know. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I just switched to shampooing every other day because my

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Speaker 1: hair is getting really dry. So that's right, man, So

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Speaker 1: maybe you should pop on my conditioner. Multitask with Tanya

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Speaker 1: Sure secrets Mark in his closet. I got my hair

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Speaker 1: cut right when this all started, so I'm okay for

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Speaker 1: a little while longer, but it is getting longer than

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Speaker 1: I would like it. But Tanya made a Wayne's World reference,

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Speaker 1: which kind of surprised me because that's from when she

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Speaker 1: was very very young. You used to be like a

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Speaker 1: big Waynes World fan. Isn't that. Wow, that's random, super random.

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Speaker 1: Wait what was the reference? I don't even Wayne, that's

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Speaker 1: what she said the first thing she said, party on, Wayne,

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Speaker 1: I'm doing all kinds of weird things. I gave the

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Speaker 1: shaka the other day, Like who I love giving the shaka? Though,

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Speaker 1: Like who does that? Even? Like it's not like it's

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Speaker 1: not even a thing anymore. People that want to cut

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Speaker 1: loose that. Yeah, yeah, that's right. I find myself doing

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Speaker 1: that all the time, hardly like someone does something, I'm

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Speaker 1: just bring it back. Yeah, we can do whatever we

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Speaker 1: want in I feel after this is over, especially, it's

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Speaker 1: like or even while this is happening, do what you want.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we have some good news and then

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Speaker 1: I have some bad news. So I feel like we

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Speaker 1: should start with the good news. My bad news is relatable. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm normally a bad news first type of person.

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Speaker 1: What do you think does it have to do with

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Speaker 1: your cuticles? I think I know what it has to do.

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Speaker 1: What it has to do with my womanly parts? Oh wow?

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Speaker 1: Is this bad news for just you or for all

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Speaker 1: of us? It's just for me, Well technically if you've

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Speaker 1: not for you men, but for all of you women

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Speaker 1: who are listening, Oh, it is definitely not good news.

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Speaker 1: So should I should I go with the bad news first?

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Speaker 1: The floor is yours? So um, I am one of

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Speaker 1: those women who just happens to be prone to urinary

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Speaker 1: Like I'm a thirty two year old woman and I

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Speaker 1: the time. And like for many years, my eurologists used

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Speaker 1: to fight me because he would test me for all

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Speaker 1: these things like STDs and I was like, yo, I'm

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Speaker 1: He was like it's okay, you can tell me. And

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Speaker 1: Like I just want you to rule that out because

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Speaker 1: a good hour. I guess my question is why can't

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Speaker 1: even though I answered not kindly, I was like, I

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Speaker 1: That those medications, man, they really just do some wonders.

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Speaker 1: But it's it's it's pretty wild because I feel like, um, like,

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Speaker 1: this way. When someone a woman is in a new

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Speaker 1: In fact, my wife and I have experience in that

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Speaker 1: he literally like said congratulations to me, and like my doctors,

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Speaker 1: So you know, Tanya and I have attempted, well we've

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Speaker 1: so we're gonna do it. We're gonna do it. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna do it right, I think day Mayo, but instead

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Speaker 1: it Sinko Day Scrubbers. So basically, um, we obviously did

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Speaker 1: sint Go Day Scrubbers, and you buy a ticket. The

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Speaker 1: it's weird. I don't know. I don't know if it's

425
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 1: just like I think right now for me. On top

426
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 1: of just like the silly things that I'm talking about.

427
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 1: I mean I joke about like we talk about TikTok

428
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 1: last week and stuff too, but like I just don't

429
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 1: get it and I don't know how to participate on

430
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: it in a way that makes it feel like it's

431
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 1: me without feeling like trying to be young, Like I

432
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 1: literally not agreeable in there. Can I tell you the

433
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: two things that always made me feel old? What? Um,

434
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 1: there's two things that uses examples of of this made

435
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 1: me feel old. It's people watching other people play video games,

436
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,880
Speaker 1: which like on YouTube, like there's a whole world of

437
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 1: people watching other people play video games. That's baffling to me. Well,

438
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 1: that doesn't feel old. That just feels like but that's

439
00:25:56,560 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 1: something young people are into and I it's so it's

440
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: not just that I don't get it, Like there's plenty

441
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 1: of stuff I don't get it when I say that's

442
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: the dumbest thing I've ever heard, that's when I know

443
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:12,880
Speaker 1: I'm old. And the other one is ear gauges. I

444
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 1: had holes in your ears like the size of a

445
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 1: half dollar or even bigger, the size of a of

446
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 1: a tea plate. When I see those in people's ears,

447
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, man, I'm a hundred. I like those

448
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: ear gauges. Well, I'm a hundred too, if you like.

449
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 1: I had them for a brief amount of time, but

450
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 1: they've you can still see the whole Mine were like

451
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 1: the size of pencils. I guess because I'm I don't

452
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 1: if you guys know this, but I'm very alternative. And

453
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 1: I wanted super bell because I was very hardcore in

454
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 1: high school. And then I took my my best friend

455
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 1: in San Diego king he had ones that were like

456
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,640
Speaker 1: half half a dollar size, and then he took him

457
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 1: out and he had to get his to get him

458
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 1: cut and stitched it. I think you had to cut

459
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 1: him and then stitch him back up. I've had a

460
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: lot of friends to do that too, you know. Me

461
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 1: and my alt crew. I took my I had cubic

462
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: Zirconia plugs in mine. Uh, so just looked like big

463
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: old diamonds, and um, I went to a I went

464
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 1: to a punk rock show and someone kicked me in

465
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 1: the head and one of them flew out and I

466
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 1: after the show, I was like looking for it on

467
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,479
Speaker 1: the ground, and I had this like epiphany and I'm like,

468
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 1: am I on my hands and knees in a auto

469
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 1: garage like looking for a cubic? This is stupid? And

470
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 1: I took the other one out and threw it away

471
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 1: and I never looked back. That was it for me. Wow,

472
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 1: what a great story. We've all got to grow up sometime,

473
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: you know it's true. But one of my favorite quotes

474
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: from the documentary and then we can move on. She says, um,

475
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 1: someone's talking to her and he's like, yeah, you broke

476
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: the rules and she was like yeah, and then she's

477
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 1: like I broke the rules and that's why I'm happy.

478
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 1: And I was like, that's so cool. Like sometimes we

479
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: were like so worried about like following the constructs that

480
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 1: were like told to follow, and we live a life

481
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,680
Speaker 1: that's not happy. You're fulfilling. And I thought that was

482
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 1: such a great quote of being like sometimes like your

483
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: happiness depends on you going against and making your making

484
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,679
Speaker 1: your own rules, you know, like, yeah, I don't even

485
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: live by your rules. I'm gonna live by mine. Because

486
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 1: when you look at history, it's like it's almost as

487
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: if homosexuals didn't exist in the eighteen hundreds and the

488
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,959
Speaker 1: early nineteen hundreds. But the truth is they existed as

489
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 1: much as they do now, and they had two choices,

490
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: live in the shadows or live a lie. Yeah, and

491
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: those are not good choices, but that's how it was

492
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: for decades and centuries, and that's that's such a tragedy. Yeah,

493
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: it was really interesting and to be honest, and I

494
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: don't know if they did it this way or this

495
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 1: is just how I perceived it, but it didn't feel

496
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: like I didn't feel depressed or sad watching that aspect,

497
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 1: because I felt like they lived a great life together

498
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: and they loved each other so much that it wasn't

499
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: like I'm sure, obviously it would have been so much

500
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: easier if they could have just been out and lived

501
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,959
Speaker 1: their life freely, But in my mind I took it

502
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 1: as like we do what we had to do to survive,

503
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: and we had a great life together, and like we

504
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 1: loved each other so much and we still love each other.

505
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 1: But yeah, it was. It was like really sweet and

506
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 1: cue and just emotional. Anyways, Yeah, um. On the flip side,

507
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 1: there's have you watched did you? What? Did you finish fish?

508
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 1: Why are we gonna finish it? H night? Probably next

509
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: next week. It's just a TV show, right, You can't

510
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 1: find an hour in the next few days. How much

511
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: more do you have? I have one episode? I just

512
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 1: have really, but I have a Red Star coming to me,

513
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 1: uh for a few days, and so when he's here,

514
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 1: I only watched shows that we watched together. When you

515
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: say it like that, it sounds like you're expecting that

516
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: time of the month. Sorry, I can't watch the show

517
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: Red starts coming with it for a few days. It's

518
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: a big trip. Like we watched Ship's Creek or we

519
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: watch um, we did Tiger King together. We finished that

520
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 1: and then before we watched like a movie, like a documentary.

521
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 1: Watched like a vegan documentary that I didn't eat meat

522
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 1: for the next day, and you know it's just like wow, impactful,

523
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: in fact, really really got those animals can take care

524
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:54,239
Speaker 1: of themselves. After a day, I'm good. It's called the

525
00:30:54,240 --> 00:31:00,080
Speaker 1: next day. It's a documentary called Forks over Knives, and

526
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: it's really really good and really powerful. But I find that, Um,

527
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 1: I don't eat a ton of meat. But I think

528
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 1: for me to say I'm never going to eat it

529
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 1: again is a little is a little robust? Is that

530
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 1: the right word? It applies? I think, yeah, it works.

531
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: There's probably better options, but it works. Um, so yeah,

532
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: I probably won't watch it for a few days, but

533
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: that's okay. So tell us about like, you know, are

534
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 1: you loving it? Is it great? Did you finish it? Becca? Yeah?

535
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 1: And I did. I mean it's great. I mean it

536
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 1: was great like Mindless TV and Netflix is killing it

537
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: with like reality TV. They had Love Is Blind and

538
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: now this one. I'm also watching Bachelor Listen to your Heart. Yeah,

539
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: I'm doing it willingly and I even like feeling forced.

540
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: I get excited about it because I and just like

541
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: you know, Monday night, having the like Bachelor to look

542
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: forward to is something that's part of a routine, I think,

543
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: and like, even though it's not quite the same, it

544
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 1: gives me the film I actually like. I enjoyed Too

545
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,959
Speaker 1: Hot to Handle a lot because the first episode I

546
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 1: was like, there's no way I'm going to like these people.

547
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 1: Are like want to invest, and then I really wanted

548
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 1: it really started to turn for me, and like, I'm

549
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 1: who do you like? Um Harry, Like I hated him

550
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 1: the first episode and now I'm like, oh my gosh,

551
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 1: what a gem, what a hot gem? Um? And like

552
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: him No to me, I just thought, I like knew

553
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 1: in my mind of like I know that personality so well.

554
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: Of like guys that are just so annoying, but they're

555
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: so likable even though you want to hate them, They're

556
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 1: just like funny and like you're just kinda like oh,

557
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 1: like I almost used to feel that way about Dean. Sorry,

558
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 1: I'm I'm excited about too hot to handle barking again. Um,

559
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 1: But I just I remember being like Deans just like

560
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: so silly. He's like the guy that will never settle down.

561
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 1: He's so cute and charming, you know, like you just

562
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 1: didn't really take him seriously, but he's so great. That's right,

563
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: That's how I felt about That's kind of how Harry grew. Yeah,

564
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:26,719
Speaker 1: And like I love the fact that they use this

565
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 1: weird like Alexa looking like device to give them rules

566
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: and like teach them lessons. Like it's so but like

567
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 1: I don't know I just loved it. Yeah, I really

568
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: like it to the Only thing with these Netflix shows

569
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: is how do they do a second season? Because what

570
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 1: was so cool about it is that no one knew

571
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 1: going on that they weren't going to be able to

572
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: I almost that they don't do second seasons of any

573
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,959
Speaker 1: of these things, because I feel like the people on

574
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: them are purests, you know what I mean, Like they

575
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: don't know if the show is gonna be hot, they

576
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: don't know if it's gonna flop, don't know anything, but

577
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: they're down for the experiment and they're down for it,

578
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Whereas I feel like next season,

579
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: if they do a Love is Blind, all these people

580
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 1: are just gonna want you know what I'm saying, Like

581
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 1: there's no wrong reason. It's kind of a thing, totally exactly.

582
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,439
Speaker 1: It's true. And the Love is Blind people, I mean,

583
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: they work together for what like a year and a

584
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: half or something before came out, and no one knew anything,

585
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 1: and then their lives are changed forever, and you're you're

586
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 1: liking to listen to your heart because Ben Higgins and

587
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 1: almost famous, has made no secret of the fact that

588
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 1: he is watching out of obligation because he hosts a

589
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:39,919
Speaker 1: podcast about the Bachelor shows. Okay, so here's my thing.

590
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: It is so cringe like it is to where I'm

591
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 1: like my body's tints watching because I'm so uncomfortable, but

592
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: in the best way for me. Like there's something about

593
00:34:56,680 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: watching something that cringe that's like satisfying and it's enough

594
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 1: drama that I'm like, you know, I'm like, oh no,

595
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,720
Speaker 1: she did not just do that. You know. I find

596
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 1: myself feeling emotions towards these people. But I think what

597
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 1: I've realized with the Bachelor and Bachelorette and Bachelor in

598
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,720
Speaker 1: Paradise why people are so drawn to them is because

599
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 1: they know the people, like they've already followed their story.

600
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,959
Speaker 1: This is why the Bachelor producers choose someone that someone

601
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: already knows instead of choosing random people. Because people are

602
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 1: so invested. And that's why people aren't as excited about

603
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 1: listen to your heart or investing because they don't know

604
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 1: any of these people. They're all like brand new. I

605
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 1: enjoyed the first two episodes. I watched the first two,

606
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: and then I kind of fell off because I think

607
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:44,160
Speaker 1: I just like, I don't know, I forget what day.

608
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 1: I just forget like the days that, yeah, you forget

609
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 1: what day it is. Yeah, Like it's like, I know,

610
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: Monday through Friday's Monday through Friday, but I'm not totally

611
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: sure what day of the week it is in those days. Um,

612
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: but I'm down to keep going because I did enjoy

613
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,720
Speaker 1: the first two episodes. It's like days you do radio

614
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: and days you do radio. That is exactly it's eat.

615
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:11,439
Speaker 1: I wonder if Ben Higgins doesn't like it because it's

616
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 1: I will say, the relationship aspect of it feels very

617
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,799
Speaker 1: not natural. It doesn't. It feels very forced to me,

618
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 1: Like no one feels just like each other. I mean,

619
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,399
Speaker 1: well they just met, so like they actually like each other.

620
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: They're just like, you're a good singer. I think that

621
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,359
Speaker 1: you can help me out, so I'm gonna choose. Said

622
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 1: that he doesn't understand why he's watching, like he doesn't

623
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 1: see the point, like the point of the Bachelor Bachelor

624
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: is to find love for this person that we offensively

625
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 1: care about. He doesn't understand the point of this show

626
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 1: and why he's watching it. Well, no, because the people

627
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 1: who get chosen at the end is like the best

628
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:53,320
Speaker 1: singers who like have the most chemistry get like a deal,

629
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,439
Speaker 1: a record deal and get to tour or something, which

630
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,879
Speaker 1: they don't now, but they were going to back when

631
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: tours were a thing. I mean, listen, it's time and

632
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 1: I'm thankful for one. I am thankful that somehow the

633
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 1: producers of The Bachelor knew that we'd be in a

634
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: pandemic state and they provided gone well. And now this

635
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: summer they're doing The Bachelor's Greatest Hits or whatever. They're

636
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 1: calling it The Bachelor the Most Unforgettable ever. So do

637
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 1: you do you think you'll be featured on that? I

638
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 1: was pretty I mean I was pretty forgettable on my

639
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 1: season in The Bachelor. They brought you back. You couldn't

640
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 1: have been forgettable if they brought you back the next season. Becay,

641
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 1: you're just unforgettable human. It's not TV worthy though. I

642
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 1: don't know what about TV, but when it didn't you

643
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: have a problem like finding like Indiana on a map

644
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 1: or something. Was that? Yeah, that was that could end

645
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 1: up on there. And to be honest, I took a

646
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 1: quiz the other day, a bus seed quiz. I've taken

647
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:02,919
Speaker 1: that one and of the Midwest, Indiana is the only

648
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 1: one I got right. Because that scarred me. I don't know.

649
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't I wouldn't do well in that situation either.

650
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: So yeah, it was that was rough. But yeah, I'm

651
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:17,279
Speaker 1: gonna be very excited to tune into what they're like

652
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 1: making people rehash old drama. Well, it's ten episodes, but

653
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 1: it's basically a clip show. It's basically the highlights of

654
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: the greatest moments of all these years. It's but it's

655
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: going to be three hours every Monday night, three hours. No, yes,

656
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 1: here it is. The ten episodes summer series titled The

657
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 1: Bachelor The Most Unforgettable Ever, will be hosted by Chris

658
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: Harrison and here for three hours Monday nights starting June eight,

659
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: from eight to eleven. And they announced that Wednesday, and

660
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: they were hoping the Best Threat would be there, but

661
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 1: it's not going to be, so here we are. I'm

662
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 1: just like so excited for Claire, like about her. I

663
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:56,399
Speaker 1: think they're I think they'll do it. Yeah, that they

664
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 1: have to change her chances. I don't know why they're

665
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:04,280
Speaker 1: not doing. No seriously, get her at home doing zoom dates.

666
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,479
Speaker 1: We're all watching. I think it's great. And then while

667
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 1: they're doing the zoom dates, they're quarantined for twenty one

668
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: days or whatever it is, the whole process to play out,

669
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 1: and then at the end of twenty one days, those

670
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 1: people are allowed to actually be together in the U

671
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,320
Speaker 1: and the what do you call it? The no, the sweets,

672
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: the fantasy suites, fantasy because they've all been quarantined. So

673
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: what they go from zoom? Oh my god, No, nobody

674
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 1: else likes to sight. I've heard what they're gonna do. No, no,

675
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 1: I don't. I went to see them like awkwardly interacted.

676
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 1: I was into it. I was into it for like

677
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 1: the Limo, Like I thought, like she initially meeting them

678
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 1: over face time would be kind of fun and cute.

679
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 1: But then when no, the Limo entrances are like I know,

680
00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 1: but imagine them having to do that on get creative

681
00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 1: via zoom that would be gold. I'm just over zooming.

682
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: It's like I started saying everything. I want to see

683
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: real interaction. I know, I get it. I'm with you, Hi,

684
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 1: phoebe Um. Yeah. So I'm hoping that they, like I

685
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 1: read somewhere that maybe they'll quarantine and like U like

686
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 1: location that's maybe I don't know. I'm thinking like an

687
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 1: island somewhere maybe, Like I don't know, maybe they'll just stay.

688
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 1: They'll stay in the United States probably, but anyways, go somewhere.

689
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 1: They're all just like in the same property whatever, and

690
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 1: they're just like going on many dates wherever they can

691
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 1: and making the most. They should do that. They should

692
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 1: have immediately taken all the contestants and put them in

693
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: a resort completely quarantine for a month or whatever they're

694
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: comfortable with, and then just do the show, give them

695
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 1: tests them some so romantic every GD love story starts

696
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 1: STD text well both why not? I mean, you know,

697
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 1: I do, okay, I do want to know though, if

698
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: anybody's listening and they are dating during this time, Like

699
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 1: I think, like in the beginning of the pandemic, it's

700
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:09,919
Speaker 1: like cute because like you meet somebody on the dating

701
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 1: app and you can talk to them and you can

702
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 1: set up some FaceTime dates and stuff like that. But

703
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: who we don't know when this is, when this is

704
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: going to be over and when we can actually like

705
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,879
Speaker 1: be out and about. So it's like I'm wondering, at

706
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:24,840
Speaker 1: what point do you just do you give up or

707
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: do you just keep FaceTime dating them for however long?

708
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 1: Like I'm just very curious about that, you know what,

709
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 1: I mean yes, And I'm curious about people who have

710
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 1: been dating not very long, like within a relationship for

711
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 1: three months or something. Now they're quarantine. Yeah, but you're

712
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 1: seeing each other like the people that are stuck on

713
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 1: video after a very short amount of time or six

714
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 1: months or whatever. I think that's got to be very

715
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 1: difficult because it's too soon to move in together, but

716
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 1: it's not soon enough to be completely separated indefinitely, right,

717
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I would be just using this time to

718
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 1: make myself better. I would have no desire to be dating.

719
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 1: Reach out to me and sendny photos of them um

720
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 1: doing calling in the one. So that's been like, really know,

721
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 1: so many people have been telling me that I would

722
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 1: be working on self growth, doing some journaling, reading some books,

723
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:21,879
Speaker 1: and so that when the time comes, I'm ready to go.

724
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 1: I know what it's like all caterpillars right now, and

725
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: we're just these caterpillars and we're living in our homes,

726
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 1: which are our cocoons, and we're growing and we're learning

727
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:40,720
Speaker 1: about ourselves and we're doing these things, and then eventually

728
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 1: we're going to be let out and we're all going

729
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 1: to be these beautiful butterflies. I get to fly around,

730
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: and we've gone through transformations and we get to be

731
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 1: together and fly together. We'll have masks on, but we butterfly. Yeah,

732
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 1: we're butter We're gonna make it dark Mark. Um. I

733
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: was I did a I Do Live for Revolve with

734
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 1: Nick Biele last night and we were talking about um

735
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: just like how dating. A girl wrote in and she

736
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:18,400
Speaker 1: was like, what do you do if you go on

737
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 1: the first date with someone and there's no um, Like,

738
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 1: you say exactly what you want and then they are

739
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: not into it or something basically saying like, you know,

740
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 1: there's there's people who go in and they're like, kind

741
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: of Tony, I almost feel like you're this way a

742
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 1: little bit. But I think you're more willing to give

743
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 1: people a chance than you maybe realize or something. But

744
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 1: you go in and you're like, this is who I am,

745
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 1: this is what I like to do. I go to church,

746
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:46,359
Speaker 1: Like you lay it all out there on the first

747
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: date and and like I feel like for the most

748
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 1: part in the past that they didn't necessarily line up.

749
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 1: You were kind of like, all right, that's not my guy.

750
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: That's pretty accurate. But I do feel like with the

751
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 1: Red Star, I don't don't know if there was any

752
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 1: like of those red flags or things, but there were

753
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 1: a few things that maybe you're like, I feel like

754
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 1: any other guy you maybe wouldn't have given it a chance,

755
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 1: but because you had a connection with him, you're willing

756
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 1: to be like, Okay, I'm gonna get to know him

757
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:14,879
Speaker 1: more a hundred per cent. And I was saying, like,

758
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 1: I feel like, especially right now, you get on these

759
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 1: zoom dates and you're just all you have to do

760
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:24,280
Speaker 1: is talk. You're not really able to rely on chemistry really,

761
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 1: And I was just gonna say, if you're doing this, like,

762
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:30,720
Speaker 1: don't write, if you enjoy talking to if you're able

763
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 1: to have a conversation for like a lengthy period of

764
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 1: time like this for the first time, give that person

765
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:38,879
Speaker 1: a chance, even if they don't check off every single list,

766
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 1: because that matters in some capacity. If you're able to

767
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: have a first date over zoom and it's comfortable, you

768
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: know what, that list, that list should just be ripped

769
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 1: up into a lot of pieces. Your list, or you're

770
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 1: saying in general, both get rid of them. You don't

771
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 1: even we don't need we don't need boxes, we don't

772
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: need any of that stuff anymore. Wow, she's passionate expression.

773
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: We don't need rules, we don't need boxes, we don't

774
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 1: need lists. We live for ourselves, for ourselves. See, it's

775
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:21,839
Speaker 1: because of ourselves. It's so weird because like I go

776
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 1: back and forth on this battle in my head of

777
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 1: living for myself and doing what I want but also

778
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 1: like being respectful of other people and following rules to

779
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: an extent where where I'm like honoring myself but also

780
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 1: like respecting others. It's like such a fine line for me.

781
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: And I don't know if that's because I'm like a

782
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:48,720
Speaker 1: people pleaser to the extreme as a angiogram number nine,

783
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:51,799
Speaker 1: where like I don't want to upset anyone, so I

784
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 1: teeter this line. But I find it so interesting because

785
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 1: I read something empowering where I'm like, I'm in control,

786
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: I'm living for me, and then I'm like, I don't

787
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 1: I like the idea of like serving others and respecting

788
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I walked this really weird. I mean, obviously,

789
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 1: I think like we're put on this earth to like

790
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: do things for others, so I don't I don't mean

791
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 1: like be self centered and like only do things that

792
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 1: benefit yourself, like I do think it's important to like

793
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 1: help others and and do life with other people. But

794
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 1: I also think too, at the end of the day,

795
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 1: like when you're making decisions about how you want to

796
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: live your life, and and I think it's important to

797
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,879
Speaker 1: stay true to yourself because I think at the you're

798
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,280
Speaker 1: gonna the years are going to go by, and because

799
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 1: I have experienced I don't even get me started, but

800
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: I'm serious, Like I have aces were like I have

801
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: listened to like opinions from other people, and it swayed

802
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 1: me to do things that I didn't necessarily feel in

803
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: my heart that I wanted to do, and I ended

804
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 1: up really regretting those decisions. And so I think like

805
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 1: when you really ask yourself and you look inward, you

806
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: can make these decisions and then you don't look back

807
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 1: with regret, you know. Like I think that's a huge thing. Yeah,

808
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 1: it's so interesting because the other day when we were

809
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:17,320
Speaker 1: promoting the Revolved chat, it said like talking about dating

810
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:20,800
Speaker 1: and love and blah blah blah, and one of our scrubbers,

811
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 1: I guess like her friends sent it to her the

812
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 1: story and then she responded to She responded to me

813
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 1: instead of to her love. When that happens because that happens,

814
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: and she said, interesting, I hope she's honest, and I

815
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:42,839
Speaker 1: just responded with like an emoji, like like doing like this,

816
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 1: like questioning it, and she was like, oh my god,

817
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. You know, I apologize like I've been

818
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 1: sending my friend like we support you. And I guess

819
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 1: like I worded it wrong, But my whole thing was

820
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: like me being private about my relationship, isn't me being

821
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 1: dishonest about my relations to it, like I am, I

822
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 1: talk about that I'm in a relationship, like I don't

823
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 1: act like I'm single or talk about anything. It's not dishonest.

824
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 1: It's just my decision to keep it private. But I

825
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: thought it was interesting that she worded it that way.

826
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:22,359
Speaker 1: It is interesting because what did the question say talk

827
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 1: about you? Were you were going to talk about your

828
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 1: dating life? No, I just said like it just said

829
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 1: talking about dating and love and relationships like in general,

830
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 1: like how Nick does his questions with Nick thing. It

831
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 1: is interesting what's in that she said? I hope she's

832
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 1: honest because I don't. It's not probably not what she meant.

833
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: I hope she She probably meant like I hope she shares. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

834
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 1: I hope she shares and like, yeah, but I just

835
00:48:58,120 --> 00:48:59,800
Speaker 1: thought it was I'm like, oh, I wonder if he

836
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 1: will think that because that privacy means dishonesty. Yeah, but

837
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:06,840
Speaker 1: I mean I think also people are going to have

838
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: opinions no matter what you do, you know what I mean,

839
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: Like I get people saying all all the time to me,

840
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: why do you keep covering his red Star's face? Like

841
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 1: it's not that big of a deal, And I'm like,

842
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 1: it's not that big of a deal, um, but there

843
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: is a reason why I'm doing it, and that's for

844
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 1: me to know right now, you know what I mean.

845
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 1: Like it's not like no, like do I'm not going

846
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 1: to be covering his face and photos forever, but like

847
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:32,880
Speaker 1: for the time being, like that's just like what it

848
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 1: needs to be, you know. So it's just like people

849
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:39,919
Speaker 1: are gonna constantly have opinions and like things like that. Yeah,

850
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:42,920
Speaker 1: but you just yeah, I guess to that point is

851
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:45,879
Speaker 1: like people don't always know the whole story, Like there's

852
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: a reason why you're private with you really like keeping

853
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 1: it more private than you will for sure, and more

854
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:54,520
Speaker 1: private than I ever have in the past. And I

855
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: also think it's it's it's very layered. But it's also

856
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:00,879
Speaker 1: like I do think like now I'm beginning to kind

857
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 1: of feel like these people should earn their way into

858
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: my life, you know what I mean, Like I want

859
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 1: to know that this dude is going to be here,

860
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 1: and he's gonna be here, he's in my life, you

861
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:11,800
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So like people don't need to

862
00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:16,799
Speaker 1: see his face until like until you say I love you.

863
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 1: There you go bingo, yeah, until it's a little bit

864
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: more you know, like of a of a firmed up thing.

865
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:29,240
Speaker 1: Because I think also, like you know, I think I'm

866
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,479
Speaker 1: and I'm just quick to jump to these things because

867
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,799
Speaker 1: I'm just such like a hopeless romantic and I love it.

868
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: And like I remember when I was doing send You're

869
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: a Butterfly, and like Becca took like the key udest

870
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:41,440
Speaker 1: effing photo of us like just like on the couch,

871
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 1: like looking at each other, and like I wanted to

872
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:46,319
Speaker 1: post those things, you know what I mean, Like I

873
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: love I love, I love love, and like I love

874
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 1: the idea of it, you know what I mean. So

875
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:53,000
Speaker 1: it's like, no, I don't want to be covering his

876
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: space in these photos, but I think just for right now,

877
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: like this is what I have to do really quick.

878
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:01,240
Speaker 1: I just know you react to this kind of stuff.

879
00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 1: Right as you said, Senor butterfly Allison, my wife walked

880
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 1: in and brought this dead butterfly into the room. Wow,

881
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 1: very very symbolic dead. That was a powerful stuff. Right now,

882
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 1: I'm wearing headphones. She can't hear what's being said. Now,

883
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 1: she's hauling in heavy boxes by herself without any help

884
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 1: from me. But on the whole, can you hold that

885
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: that butterfly please? I certainly can. That is That is

886
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: symbolism at its finest. That is so freaking funny Eastern. Wow.

887
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 1: That was Yeah, it really blew my mind anyway, it

888
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:44,919
Speaker 1: feels significant. Wow, that was yeah, that was significant. Wow,

889
00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:54,799
Speaker 1: Signor butterfly died in our hearts. It's true though, Like

890
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 1: I even have moments where where like we'll take photos

891
00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: or videos and I like and like, oh, this would

892
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: be so cute. Honestly, in my mind, I know that

893
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 1: my like social media, my engagement and my followers would

894
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 1: go up if I post it, because it's all people

895
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:17,480
Speaker 1: want to see is like relationship. But I'm like, I

896
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 1: can't sacrifice like my privacy and my relationship for that reason.

897
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 1: You know, I bet and I always wonder when that

898
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 1: will change when, like, like Tanya says, at a certain point,

899
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:34,919
Speaker 1: it's going to kind of open up, And I feel

900
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:36,839
Speaker 1: the same way about you. I feel like there will

901
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 1: there will be a level achieved and everything's going to

902
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:44,000
Speaker 1: open up. Yeah, it's just gonna be people asking till

903
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:48,399
Speaker 1: I just can't take it anymore. Just here that I'm

904
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: just kidding. I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. I think

905
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 1: it'll just be a point where I'm like, all right,

906
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 1: you know, I it doesn't it's it doesn't affect me

907
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 1: whether whether it public or not, you know, like, it

908
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:07,719
Speaker 1: doesn't change. Our relationship becomes one zero zero P. That's

909
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 1: going to be a level. I think that allows a

910
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 1: lot of more information to come out. Oh yeah, well yeah,

911
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:36,080
Speaker 1: if it's a hundred P, then that's pretty good. Cassidy

912
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,759
Speaker 1: had a really interesting question for Tanya that I thought

913
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 1: was worth sharing. Have you still been writing in your

914
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 1: Dear Future Husband journal? And how has it changed since

915
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:48,360
Speaker 1: meeting and dating Red Star? That is an interesting question

916
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 1: because I think the last time I wrote in it

917
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:56,239
Speaker 1: was very early stages of when I met Red Star,

918
00:53:57,080 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 1: and I haven't written it in a while because it

919
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: is weird because I do think about him, you know

920
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:05,319
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like when I've written in it in

921
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 1: the past. I've written in it because I'm like questioning things.

922
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 1: Or it's like it's very much like a giant question

923
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: mark and I don't know, and so it's like or

924
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 1: I have like a really bad day and it's like

925
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:19,000
Speaker 1: this guy sucked and I'm like, I know that you're

926
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,200
Speaker 1: gonna make me feel like this, you know what I mean.

927
00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:23,479
Speaker 1: Like it's it's always come from either like a bad

928
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:28,400
Speaker 1: date or like a heartbreak or a new is something exciting.

929
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 1: So it's like I haven't written in it because I'm

930
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 1: writing letters to my current boyfriend. Does that makes sense? Wait,

931
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 1: like in real life or and you're saying if you

932
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 1: wrote it, you'd be writing letters to you know, I'm

933
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: actually in real life writing letters to like Red Star.

934
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:49,839
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, if if I wrote in my Dear

935
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 1: Future Husband journal right now, I feel like I would

936
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 1: be right like thinking about him. Should I keep writing?

937
00:54:56,960 --> 00:55:00,120
Speaker 1: Do you think you'll do? You think you'll transfer the

938
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:03,760
Speaker 1: letters to Red Star to the Dear Future Husband journal

939
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 1: If Red Star is future husband. I don't know, because

940
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: now now I'm thinking about it. Actually, somebody sent me

941
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 1: this really cute It was actually really it was a

942
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 1: TikTok and it was this girl. Um, I'm gonna see

943
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: if I can find it. But um, she was writing

944
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 1: to her future husband. She started writing it in eighth grade.

945
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 1: And it's the cutest video because she got married and

946
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 1: she gave it to her husband, and so many people

947
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: sent me this video. Um. It says dear future husband,

948
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 1: and it's like literally just like pages and pages and

949
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: pages of things that she's written, like photos and stuff. Um.

950
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 1: And she gave it to her husband and she videotaped

951
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:44,879
Speaker 1: his reaction when he read it. It's like the cutest

952
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:49,399
Speaker 1: freaking video. So I do want to keep it up

953
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,360
Speaker 1: because I do want to. I think I like, I

954
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,319
Speaker 1: eventually want to give it to my husband one day.

955
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 1: So I do want to keep it up. But how

956
00:55:55,760 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 1: do I keep writing in it while I'm dating him?

957
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:04,640
Speaker 1: That makes sense? Yeah, I would just right, I mean yeah,

958
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:08,240
Speaker 1: because like he's not your husband, so I would say,

959
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:11,680
Speaker 1: like like keep like talk about him and like, oh

960
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:13,839
Speaker 1: my gosh, you can't. I can't believe the scavenger hunt

961
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,720
Speaker 1: that he did from your Easter. Yes, yes, So today

962
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 1: Red Star this and that and this, and occasionally you

963
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 1: might be thinking, I'm starting to think he might be

964
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: you or you might you know that sort of thing.

965
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 1: It's it's it's like how I met your mother, you know.

966
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:33,080
Speaker 1: And then and then the last page is, um, I

967
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:35,920
Speaker 1: don't know, it's it's it's you. Yeah, the last page

968
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:39,759
Speaker 1: was red Star proposed today it's you or something like that.

969
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: I think that's so sweet. Okay, that's actually I do

970
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:46,399
Speaker 1: need to keep I want to keep writing in it

971
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:48,879
Speaker 1: because I do want it to be something like that

972
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 1: at the end of the day. So that I'm glad

973
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 1: that she asked that question, because I haven't been writing

974
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 1: in it. Um. But yeah, now I'm going to start again.

975
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 1: Has he been getting literally closer as he listens to

976
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 1: the podcast. I don't know. Man stressed about him listening.

977
00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:11,319
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, and this is a new thing

978
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 1: because he never did before. And then all of a sudden,

979
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 1: he's like, this podcast is pretty entertaining. I was like, well,

980
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 1: that's pretty entertaining. That's really funny. I'm like, you're not

981
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 1: really our demo, we're not really like you know, looking

982
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:33,480
Speaker 1: for but we'll take all the downloads weekend. Yeah, thank

983
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:36,480
Speaker 1: you leave a review red star if you get a chance. Yeah, yeah,

984
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I know this has been covered before. But

985
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 1: does he listen to the morning show? Um? He listens,

986
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: but it's commute and like he now, he's not really

987
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:47,479
Speaker 1: in the car very much. Um, so he listens, but

988
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:56,760
Speaker 1: not quite enough to hear much. Yeah, which is good. Yeah,

989
00:57:57,160 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 1: probably for the best. Definitely for the best. I have

990
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: one more email from anonymous. I'm then a guy a

991
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 1: couple of years ago to bar and we quickly hit

992
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:10,520
Speaker 1: it off. For the next few months, he would text occasionally,

993
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:12,680
Speaker 1: I went to a party he hosted, and would hang

994
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: out when we run into each other at bars and whatnot.

995
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 1: He then moved to in other states. We didn't really

996
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: stay in touch. I just talked to him back in

997
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 1: January and he told me he was moving back to

998
00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: the area. And six months but we just matched on hinge.

999
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 1: Even though we have each other's numbers, an instant and

1000
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 1: everything else, and we've been chatting, this guy has been

1001
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 1: the one I have never been able to get off

1002
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:32,919
Speaker 1: my mind. We have something so different than any other

1003
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 1: guy I've dated. I want to try to change our

1004
00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:38,959
Speaker 1: casual situation into something more official or have him asked

1005
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 1: me on a date and what not, but unsure how

1006
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 1: to go about it. Matching on Hinge makes it seem

1007
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 1: like we're talking with more intention. What do you guys think?

1008
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:53,720
Speaker 1: So they they already met and whatnot and whatnot in

1009
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 1: this one. Yeah, I'm wondering what the whatnots about? I

1010
00:58:56,320 --> 00:59:05,800
Speaker 1: could give her U T I imagine, But she feels

1011
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 1: like matching on Hinge made it more intention more than

1012
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:12,480
Speaker 1: the because they could just be texting as friends, as

1013
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:15,040
Speaker 1: casual acquaintances, but the fact that they matched on Hinge,

1014
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 1: she makes it feel like clearly there's yes. So I

1015
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 1: get her point in that because like sometimes I think

1016
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:25,760
Speaker 1: when you meet a guy like at a bar in

1017
00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 1: the wild or through friends sometimes and I was the

1018
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 1: same way, like I would always question like do they

1019
00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 1: just want to be friends or do they like me?

1020
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 1: Like you don't really know. But when you're on a

1021
00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:37,440
Speaker 1: dating app, I feel like it's more like they're on

1022
00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 1: this to find somebody to date somebody, So there is

1023
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:43,479
Speaker 1: more intention about being on the app. But I feel

1024
00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 1: like because they maybe have already like what not in um,

1025
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 1: that intention we don't know if the right, but I'm

1026
00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 1: saying that intention might not be there with her. That

1027
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 1: makes sense. You know. My thing on this is always

1028
00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 1: you don't know until you give it a shot. Like

1029
01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:02,200
Speaker 1: why are you sitting back and waiting for him to

1030
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 1: ask you out? Ask him out? I mean, I know

1031
01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 1: you can't go anywhere, but I mean, now is the time?

1032
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 1: Is it? Though? The time? Right? I mean now is

1033
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:13,640
Speaker 1: the time to like shoot your shot, because if you

1034
01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 1: get rejected, like whatever, that was the time to work

1035
01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:20,720
Speaker 1: on yourself and become a better person than worry about

1036
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:23,240
Speaker 1: that when the world opens up again. I'm saying like

1037
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 1: I'm saying like intentionally, I mean, she's already met this guy.

1038
01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 1: They've been taught, you know, it's not like he's this

1039
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: brand new person she's getting to know. Like she said,

1040
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 1: she hasn't been able to get him off her mind,

1041
01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 1: So that makes it seem more significant to me. But

1042
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 1: if that's because of what nodding, then and also just

1043
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:42,920
Speaker 1: feel like if they've already hung out and like done,

1044
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 1: Like if they've already tried hanging out and he's like

1045
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 1: not asking her out, then like you don't want that

1046
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 1: he wasn't living in the area, But he wasn't living

1047
01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: in the areas. Guys are the worst. You gotta factor

1048
01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 1: that in. I know, but sometimes they're not the worst.

1049
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 1: I also feel like asking him out now is a

1050
01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:06,440
Speaker 1: less pressure situation. You're not saying, let's go to dinner

1051
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 1: and a movie together. You're saying, Hey, let's each get

1052
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:12,000
Speaker 1: a bottle of wine and drink it together on zoom

1053
01:01:12,120 --> 01:01:14,920
Speaker 1: or FaceTime or whatever. And I think that's cute, and

1054
01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:16,520
Speaker 1: I think he'd be into that, and I think it's

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Speaker 1: a way to open that door a little bit. It

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Speaker 1: is a little bit. I feel less pressure dating right now.

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Speaker 1: It's like what else are you gonna do? Exactly? And

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Speaker 1: like you can hang up whenever you and you're like

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Speaker 1: your shot girl and whatnot. All right, Hey, you guys

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Speaker 1: have merch for sale and people need to know about it.

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Speaker 1: Because if there's one thing a scrubber needs to have,

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Speaker 1: is the name of this show plastered across their chest

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Speaker 1: or arm. Yeah, if you want to know. Sizing by

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Speaker 1: the way, on the sweatshirts, I am a six ft tall,

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Speaker 1: ud seventy five pound Caucasian male and I have a

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Speaker 1: large sweatshirt and it barely covers my belly button. So

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Speaker 1: so size up is Easton is trying to say um.

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Speaker 1: You can get our merchants available at my fan threads

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Speaker 1: dot com slash scrubbing in and a portion of all

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Speaker 1: the merch sold will be donated right to the l

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Speaker 1: A U. S D to help those in need. So

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Speaker 1: get your March Shaka and check the social for the

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Speaker 1: link for buying tickets for the Cinco Day Scrubbers. It

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Speaker 1: is gonna be so fun. I am so ready. I'm

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Speaker 1: I haven't gotten drunk once in quarantine, and I know

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01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 1: with truth or drink, I'm gonna be drunk on Sinco Descrubbers.

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Speaker 1: I've been doing a lot of drinking in quarantine. Well,

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Speaker 1: then you're really give her the hard ones, guys, send

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Speaker 1: her some. I don't know if I can drink though,

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01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:48,680
Speaker 1: because of my antibiotics. Oh yeah, better be honest. Then

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01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:51,880
Speaker 1: when we play that game, I wonder if I'll be

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01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 1: done by then though, I don't know. TBD might be

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01:02:56,000 --> 01:03:01,080
Speaker 1: drinking appleside of vinegar, baby shock if that can hurt

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Speaker 1: you too from what you said, So what I want

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01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,280
Speaker 1: to think something else? You said that that can hurt

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01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 1: your stomach. It's like to would I even think putting

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01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:11,480
Speaker 1: a drop of that and chugging water with that in

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01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:15,520
Speaker 1: it is pretty gross. Oh no, we're not going to

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01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:18,240
Speaker 1: try and act like that's the same as a tequila shot.

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Speaker 1: What's gross. We'll think of something, okay, or I can

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01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 1: just like answer everything and like crush it. It's off

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01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 1: on your policy. Yeah, I mean that would be that,

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Speaker 1: that would be the scenario. Oops. All truths, yeah, truth

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Speaker 1: or true or truth? Um, you have one day to

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01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:43,640
Speaker 1: get your tickets for Sinco de Scrubber. So get your

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Speaker 1: tickets and we will see them. We cannot wait, and

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01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 1: have a great day. We love you. Bye. Do we

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Speaker 1: all get to see each other again.