WEBVTT - Hood Politics: Real Spit with Ma Dukes

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever thought about how incredibly complex I SPIT is.

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<v Speaker 1>It may only be water, but just aliva isn't simple.

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<v Speaker 1>That remaining one holds incredibly meaningful information that could change everything.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not just talking about your family treat Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm barretton Day Thurston and on this season of SPIT

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<v Speaker 1>and I Heart Radio podcast with twenty three and me,

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<v Speaker 1>we explore how DNA isn't just about ancestry, it can

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<v Speaker 1>also be key to understanding your health. Hey, you welcome back.

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<v Speaker 1>We've had some really great conversations on SPIT, but today's

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<v Speaker 1>episode is truly something special. On Hood Politics, rapper and

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<v Speaker 1>author Propaganda discusses geopolitical topics from the perspective of urban life,

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<v Speaker 1>and today he's using that perspective to talk about health

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<v Speaker 1>and how it relates to your family history. Prop discovering

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<v Speaker 1>more about his own health from his twenty three test reports,

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<v Speaker 1>sits down with his mother to help him better understand

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<v Speaker 1>what his DNA could be telling him about his past

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<v Speaker 1>and his future. Together, they slowly peel away the layers

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<v Speaker 1>of props family history, looking back at family members who

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<v Speaker 1>have gotten ill or sadly passed away. How can the

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<v Speaker 1>information from props twenty three and me test help him

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<v Speaker 1>stay healthy in the future. Together, these two learn more

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<v Speaker 1>about the awesome power of genetic testing when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to understanding your health, as well as some other family

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<v Speaker 1>secrets and a few surprises. Hopefully this episode will inspire

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<v Speaker 1>you to learn more about your own family history and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe even inspire you to reach out to your own

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<v Speaker 1>mom or dad or grandma or grandpa or whoever else

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<v Speaker 1>you might owe. A phone call too, and I mean

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<v Speaker 1>a phone call, not a text. Let's listen in Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so check this out. The politics this my mom, Mom, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll know what's called me. Hello. Hello. I'll call you

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<v Speaker 1>Jason when I'm close to you in case I need

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<v Speaker 1>to pop you one. But I give you your propers

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<v Speaker 1>to call your properm in. Okay, I appreciate it, you know. Okay, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is a special hood politics. Uh, this is

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<v Speaker 1>in partnership with spit and twenty three and me. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna talk about little family issues and how it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hits the hood and he hits us and what

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<v Speaker 1>we could possibly do about it. So a little background,

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<v Speaker 1>um I had at some point I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>made this like off hand comment off of listening to

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<v Speaker 1>another podcast about Dolly Parton Believe it or not. She

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<v Speaker 1>had said in this podcast, like, and you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of never really know your parents. And I thought

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<v Speaker 1>to myself when she said that, like, dude, that's crazy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of don't. And let's sners. No, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm boring to raise Los Angeles. My mom is not though.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom Southeast d C. You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>northwest Southeast, you feel me? She Obama right there, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? And uh came over here to

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<v Speaker 1>l A. You know, actually got married as kids, married

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<v Speaker 1>my dad as kids, stayed there until we were grown

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<v Speaker 1>and they split up and eventually she went back home.

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<v Speaker 1>But is itching to get back to l A because

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<v Speaker 1>you got grandkids now in my life? Come on now,

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<v Speaker 1>and okay, okay, I appreciate it. But there's an entire

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<v Speaker 1>history you know, with your parents that like you just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, you know what I'm saying, And how could

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<v Speaker 1>you you were in there and just the reality that

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<v Speaker 1>like she was an entirely different person before kids, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, Like marriage and kids changed. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was put on your heart to write me

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<v Speaker 1>a letter, right, that's right, Yeah, so you can take

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<v Speaker 1>over from there a little bit like what you want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about in a letter, not specifics obviously because

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<v Speaker 1>that's between us, but just kind of what you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to inform well in the letter. I first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>it you had come on a surprise visit to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and when you made that comment, it was the look

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<v Speaker 1>on your face and almost like a dagger in my

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<v Speaker 1>heart for a couple of different reasons. That one was

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<v Speaker 1>because you and I in your growing up years were

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<v Speaker 1>very very close and we had a special bond that

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<v Speaker 1>you used to share with me some things that were

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<v Speaker 1>actually t m I for me. But but as a kid,

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<v Speaker 1>you were as just as curious as you are now,

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<v Speaker 1>very curious and inquisitive and either not I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to say you demanded an answer, but you inquired until

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<v Speaker 1>you've got one that who ever you were speaking to

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<v Speaker 1>thought they had given you a sufficient answer. So when

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<v Speaker 1>you said you didn't know me, and I had taken

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<v Speaker 1>you to the airport, and it just haunted me and

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<v Speaker 1>was in my spirit the whole time coming back home

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<v Speaker 1>that I thought, well, you know, he really he knows me.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't realize that he knows me because the am

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<v Speaker 1>the person that I am in my heart and in

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<v Speaker 1>my spirit. I have always been that person because that

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<v Speaker 1>was how God made me. But the fact that you

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<v Speaker 1>really didn't know my background on my childhood and specifics

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<v Speaker 1>because I would only tell you or we only would

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<v Speaker 1>discuss certain things when they came up, as to, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, your dad was in the house, your dad

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<v Speaker 1>drove a cab, you know, speaking to my dad, my

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<v Speaker 1>dad smoked a cigar, my dad. You know, my mom

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<v Speaker 1>and dad had nine children. We lived in a certain place,

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<v Speaker 1>and some of the things that went on is we

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<v Speaker 1>were children. But I never really really told you anything

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<v Speaker 1>about me as a child. And the funny thing about

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<v Speaker 1>that is that I always had a curiosity and still

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<v Speaker 1>do about how my parents were as children. By the

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<v Speaker 1>time you really know them or actually realize anything about them,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a little person, or you're a teenager, or you're

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<v Speaker 1>an adult. But you fail or I feel, or we

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<v Speaker 1>felt sometimes I realized that our parents were little people

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<v Speaker 1>at one point too, you know, they were they were

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<v Speaker 1>little people that played on the playground and they go

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<v Speaker 1>to bed when their parents told them to go to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe played top Scotch or whatever they played in the

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<v Speaker 1>areas or the cities where they lived. Because my mother

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<v Speaker 1>was born and raised in Washington, d c. She's a

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<v Speaker 1>blood Washingtonian, but my dad was raised in the South,

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<v Speaker 1>in South Carolina. So I always, you know, I used

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<v Speaker 1>to reflect and think a lot about I wonder what

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<v Speaker 1>they were like as little kids. You know, what did

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<v Speaker 1>they think about when did they get hurt themselves, or

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<v Speaker 1>when did somebody pick on them? Or you know, what

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<v Speaker 1>were the things that they did that they didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>their parents. It's just little people's life. And so when

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<v Speaker 1>I was going over all that and I said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>my son, you know, he doesn't he didn't. My my

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<v Speaker 1>children they don't know that about me. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>something that came up. Nothing that wasn't that, it wasn't important.

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<v Speaker 1>It just was something that never presented itself. So in

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<v Speaker 1>writing the letter, which you know, I started when you

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<v Speaker 1>left in February, and I was writing the letter and

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<v Speaker 1>writing the letter, then we were hit with COVID or

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<v Speaker 1>COVID came and I stopped. Then I had a little

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<v Speaker 1>issue with one of life. I slipped and fell and

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<v Speaker 1>hurt my finger naturally, so I couldn't type on the

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<v Speaker 1>computer as I wanted to, and then one thing happened

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<v Speaker 1>right after the other, then more COVID, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>got kind of like, okay, I wanted to. Once I

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<v Speaker 1>got into it, everything opened up. And even now the

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<v Speaker 1>letter that you have is only what they say, half

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<v Speaker 1>of the story, because there was so much and you

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<v Speaker 1>know so um yeah, you came back a lifetime into

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<v Speaker 1>a letter, yes, a letter, and then individuals that touched

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<v Speaker 1>your lives, what they meant to you, the little, small,

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<v Speaker 1>little things that you go through. So what I did

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<v Speaker 1>in the letter was trying to give to you whatever

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<v Speaker 1>God brought into my heart to give to you. That

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<v Speaker 1>was about me, And it wasn't about trying to make

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<v Speaker 1>the letter all about me, but in essence, I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>you to know all about me, the things that you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know, Like how was I in junior high school?

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<v Speaker 1>And I told you about that where I started off,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a brainy ac and then what happened and

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<v Speaker 1>so those things that you probably you never you never

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<v Speaker 1>knew those things. So I went in writing the letter

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<v Speaker 1>and it got longer and longer, not only chronologically but

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<v Speaker 1>in the duration of the letter. And finally I gave

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<v Speaker 1>you the letter with something still unfinished, and probably some

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<v Speaker 1>things that I thought were very important left out because

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you got tired of waiting, And I thought, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how much longer is this going to be? Because it

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<v Speaker 1>was supposed to be a letter it ended up being

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<v Speaker 1>over forty page. Yes, it ended up being a novel.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I went through, Okay, well do I the titles?

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<v Speaker 1>Do I call it everything you wanted to know about

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<v Speaker 1>your mother? And you didn't know? Or he was going

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<v Speaker 1>he was getting creative. Yeah, I was just getting creative.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you kept hearing the phrase in this pop

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<v Speaker 1>culture is that you know your narrative? What's your narrative?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's somebody right? So I thought, you know what, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm gonna call it. I'm writing my own narrative

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<v Speaker 1>so that my son, my daughter, and whomever they choose

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<v Speaker 1>to share it with. Yeah, family wise would would know.

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<v Speaker 1>And so here we are now you're sharing it on

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast. Yes, not the specifics per se, because some

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<v Speaker 1>of that stuffs like I'm still kind of processing, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. There's some things that I really loved,

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<v Speaker 1>like I knew, but like didn't know you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, like ideas about like like granddad and and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the the running the numbers and the card

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<v Speaker 1>games and the gambling and stuff like that, because which

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<v Speaker 1>is just hood life. You know what I'm saying, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know you get it. How are you living?

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<v Speaker 1>You call it hood life now? But for us, it

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<v Speaker 1>was survival. For them, it was survival. For them, it

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<v Speaker 1>was doing what you know to do the best way

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<v Speaker 1>you could do it and stand away from the popo. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you get it. How you're living trying to stay out,

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<v Speaker 1>stay stay under the radar, you know what I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>exactly exactly. Yeah. But what I what I found interesting

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<v Speaker 1>specifically for why I wanted to tell that story as

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<v Speaker 1>background for this was, um, I took a twenty three

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<v Speaker 1>and me DNA test right, and it gives you not

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<v Speaker 1>only like your ancestral heritage and stuff like that, but

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<v Speaker 1>it also talks about the part that we're interested in

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<v Speaker 1>is like is our health background right, and like a

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<v Speaker 1>wellness stuff, you know what I'm saying. And one thing

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<v Speaker 1>that like that stood out for me in your story

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<v Speaker 1>in that story is like there's an assumption and and

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<v Speaker 1>it's a true in most situations that like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the projects, you know what I'm saying, Like in the

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<v Speaker 1>in the sense that y'all actually experienced is a food

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<v Speaker 1>desert that you're just not eating well and making like

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<v Speaker 1>good choices for your your health, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're just trying to survive. And what I noticed

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<v Speaker 1>your story, it seemed like that wasn't the case, Like

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<v Speaker 1>y'all ate, all right, It's exactly we were at all right. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that we weren't exposed to the chidlins

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<v Speaker 1>and the hog mad and all of that, because we

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<v Speaker 1>had it, and I ate it and we ate it.

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<v Speaker 1>But basically, I don't know if it was because and

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<v Speaker 1>it probably was because of my father's background being in

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<v Speaker 1>the South. My mother used to say rabbit food. That

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<v Speaker 1>he loved rabbit food. And out of the nine of

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<v Speaker 1>us of their children or nine of us are still

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<v Speaker 1>eating well, you know, my two brothers are deceased, but

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<v Speaker 1>the seven of us still live off and love rabbit food. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that nobody is in a vegetarian, I'm a Presbyterian,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, they love meat, they love their ribs. I

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<v Speaker 1>stay away from that because that was my matter of

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<v Speaker 1>choice after a few years after I got grown. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's that's something I wanted to ask you about. Yeah, okay, okay, no,

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<v Speaker 1>but go on. Yeah, but generally rabbit food is in

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<v Speaker 1>like y'all eat fruits and vegetables. We eat fruits and vegetables.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I would sit by as a little girl

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<v Speaker 1>my mother watching her make potato salad and before she

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<v Speaker 1>would People in the black community, and I'm sure another

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<v Speaker 1>another races, uh, ethnic backgrounds, they may potato salad differently,

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<v Speaker 1>but my mother A lot of people peel the potatoes

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<v Speaker 1>and then this is just a side peeled potatoes and

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<v Speaker 1>then chop them up. But my mother would boil the

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<v Speaker 1>potatoes first before she chopped him up. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>always there sitting beside her with my elbow on the table,

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for a piece of raw potatoes before it even

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<v Speaker 1>went in the pod. My dad used to come and

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<v Speaker 1>he would give us rud Baker's. We would eat raw

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<v Speaker 1>sweet potatoes, anything that was. It was like right out

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<v Speaker 1>of the garden, and we all loved it. And to

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<v Speaker 1>this day, my sisters and my brother, we and you

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<v Speaker 1>will know in your and our family, when we all

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<v Speaker 1>lived as a family together. You always had a what

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<v Speaker 1>there was always a salad. There was always there was

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<v Speaker 1>always a salad. There was always we would come home

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<v Speaker 1>and always green, something green. You had to have something

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<v Speaker 1>green on your plate. So that's the way we were raised,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what. And even now it's like any any

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<v Speaker 1>family functioning or gathering, somebody's going to make a salad. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of crazy because, like like I said, like

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<v Speaker 1>in you know, in a macro sense, like living in

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<v Speaker 1>like inner cities are considered like we said, food deserts

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<v Speaker 1>where you can't really get fresh food. It was like

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<v Speaker 1>just what you said, like whatever decisions you made, that

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the case in our house. There was always fruit.

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<v Speaker 1>You always had it. We come home and it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like there wasn't a bag of chips. It was oranges, right,

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<v Speaker 1>we sat down and we ate oranges we had. That

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<v Speaker 1>was just a decision you made. And some of those

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<v Speaker 1>decisions were around like when I when I go through

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<v Speaker 1>these results, like I'm really interested in I want to

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<v Speaker 1>hear your reaction because some of the stuff you you

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<v Speaker 1>said you just kind of like made these food decisions

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<v Speaker 1>for us because you was watching what seemed like was

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<v Speaker 1>hereditary what was just happening in our families where we

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<v Speaker 1>was dying over getting sick over and so. And you

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<v Speaker 1>said it in the in a story too. But I

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<v Speaker 1>remember you telling us all the time like, yoll watch

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<v Speaker 1>out for this because this in your family, this in

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<v Speaker 1>your blood, and it's crazy without you doing any tests,

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<v Speaker 1>this was just the stuff that you was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>well it just keep having it, you know what I'm saying, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell the folks what what What were some of

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<v Speaker 1>those things that you just kind of picked up and

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<v Speaker 1>was like, we can't eat this because this in our family.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I don't, I don't know you. You didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things that I said you couldn't eat

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<v Speaker 1>because the entire choice was not my own. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>your father was there and he had things that you

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<v Speaker 1>know that he believed that weren't detrimental, but they ended

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<v Speaker 1>up being detrimental. You can probably being detrimental. So um,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is that I tried not to of you

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of sugar. Remember I used to say you

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't have right because of the diabetes that you I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want you to have a lot of sweet sweet cereals,

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<v Speaker 1>those sugarcoated cereals that you couldn't have, which was torture,

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<v Speaker 1>which was torture. And as a matter of fact, when

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to give you a treat, you could have

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<v Speaker 1>your captain crunch that. Yeah, and they and that was

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<v Speaker 1>because that the diabetes was running in the family. My

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<v Speaker 1>my grandfather, my my maternal grandfather had suffered from diabetes

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<v Speaker 1>that put him in it in a in a chair

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<v Speaker 1>towards the end of his life. My uncle on my

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<v Speaker 1>mother's side was diabetic and it took him put him down.

0:17:57.359 --> 0:18:00.840
<v Speaker 1>And aunt that came to live with me as my

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<v Speaker 1>sweetie Luna caused her on n t Helen on Helen.

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<v Speaker 1>When she was here living with me, it was always

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<v Speaker 1>sugar and my mother was a sugar candy fanatic. And

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<v Speaker 1>my sister, who later in years late in life, found

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<v Speaker 1>out she was a diabetic, would always we would always

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<v Speaker 1>have sweets. That part of it became and so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I realized that these things just they weren't good healthy wise.

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<v Speaker 1>It had nothing to do with what you may hear

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<v Speaker 1>quote some people talk about generation curses. I don't believe

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<v Speaker 1>in generation curse. I don't believe in that. I believe

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<v Speaker 1>in our bloodline and the things that we are susceptible

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<v Speaker 1>due to because of our bloodline. And so I feel

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<v Speaker 1>that it's it's wiser to make the choices when you're

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<v Speaker 1>able to make the choices, then wish later on you

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't made the choices. Like I have an aunt that

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<v Speaker 1>passed away, and when I had spoken to her when

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<v Speaker 1>she had became ill, the one thing she said to

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<v Speaker 1>me was that I'm not afraid to die. I'll miss

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<v Speaker 1>the family, but I wish I had made better choices

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<v Speaker 1>in the way I ate. And so these were this

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<v Speaker 1>was almost her dying doxology that she had wished she

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<v Speaker 1>had made a better choice. And the things that she

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<v Speaker 1>ate because she loved to eat. And I mean it's fatty,

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<v Speaker 1>fatty stuff like raw ground beef and raw bacon. And

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, when I used to see a member

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<v Speaker 1>of our family delving into that, it would just it

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<v Speaker 1>would just make me cringe because there's no purpose in it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, vegetables will well suffice in and keeping you

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<v Speaker 1>and keeping you healthy. And I and I, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I had tripping that I don't brag. I thank I'm

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<v Speaker 1>thankful for the grace of God on my life. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know where I am in life. You know how

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<v Speaker 1>old I am. You know what I have suffered physically

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<v Speaker 1>and what I haven't suffered physically. And I attribute all

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<v Speaker 1>of that because of the choices that I said. Not

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<v Speaker 1>a whole lot of ship since I was a child,

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying, not a lot of fats. And

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<v Speaker 1>for the past two years, I haven't had a piece

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<v Speaker 1>of fried chicken. Now you're talking crazy, okay, uh no. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>So what I noticed what our family was like kidney cancer,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. And then but some of

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<v Speaker 1>these weird things. So so the aunt that she talked about,

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<v Speaker 1>my Helen, which is my great aunt, that's my grandmother's sister.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom's direct hunt was like, I mean, she was

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<v Speaker 1>a two packet day smoker and she outlived everyone more

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<v Speaker 1>than that, more than more than two packs to see,

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm say. And so like there was these

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<v Speaker 1>weird like things where you just like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>is that just that's just in our blood? Like why

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<v Speaker 1>how come that ain't? And of all the things that

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<v Speaker 1>actually killed it was the sugar, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So we like, how is it that you know? Say it?

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<v Speaker 1>So so there's these things that are like our diet

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<v Speaker 1>and then these things that are in our blood. So

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<v Speaker 1>but there's one thing I want to interrupt to say,

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<v Speaker 1>then this could be an inspiration to someone who may

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<v Speaker 1>have been or know someone that had been a three

0:21:30.359 --> 0:21:36.840
<v Speaker 1>packet day smoker, is that she had a stroke. After

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<v Speaker 1>the stroke, she gave up cigarettes at eighty eight years old,

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<v Speaker 1>so she had been smoking from her twenties until in

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<v Speaker 1>her eighties and still not a not a thing, not

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<v Speaker 1>a drop of cancer in her blood. She um was hilarious, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the one thing that is in our DNA. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pretty sure this some twenty three and me thing is

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<v Speaker 1>going to prove is that we have sarcasm in our

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<v Speaker 1>DNA and for some reason, like everybody really good at it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know my right now, y'all, my mom is being

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<v Speaker 1>very well behaved, but she being real nice. But Helen

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<v Speaker 1>was hilarious. She was remarkably sarcastic and uh and would

0:22:19.960 --> 0:22:22.359
<v Speaker 1>say stuff like that like smoke to me, facts, I

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<v Speaker 1>won't you being prejudiced against my age exactly to say that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna read through a few of these things

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<v Speaker 1>can get your reactions on this. Some of the stuff

0:22:43.119 --> 0:22:46.440
<v Speaker 1>that you thought maybe like you was like yep, or

0:22:46.720 --> 0:22:50.080
<v Speaker 1>are surprised about. So the first thing I'm gonna look

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<v Speaker 1>at is like, once you get this result, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>look at like the my wellness thing. Right, So how

0:22:55.280 --> 0:22:59.440
<v Speaker 1>my DNA responds to like diet, exercise, and sleep. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So your boy's genetic weight meeting, like in my predisposed

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<v Speaker 1>to become overweight or stay pretty pretty thin. What you

0:23:09.680 --> 0:23:13.880
<v Speaker 1>think you're gonna stay thin? Yep, that's predisposed to weigh

0:23:13.960 --> 0:23:17.080
<v Speaker 1>less than average. That's what this monk said. So you

0:23:17.080 --> 0:23:18.639
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. And it's funny because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>even as a kid, I'll try my best. Remember we

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<v Speaker 1>bought all the weights, never worked and oh yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>just did not work, right, So all the variants in

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<v Speaker 1>my blood are associated to like that you're just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be thin? Right? Well? Can I say something there too, though, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>go for it. Is that you know that out of

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<v Speaker 1>my eight siblings, I was considered the runt. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>I was the only one five five. I say five too,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm five one and a half. I never got

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<v Speaker 1>any bigger. Then, you know, I've always kept my weight down.

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<v Speaker 1>And then your father was tall and slim. It's tall

0:24:05.520 --> 0:24:09.120
<v Speaker 1>and slim, so I can see how that would happen. Yeah, yeah,

0:24:09.160 --> 0:24:12.840
<v Speaker 1>I look good now, but he's yeah much older anyway.

0:24:12.840 --> 0:24:18.439
<v Speaker 1>And also your choices too. Yeah yeah, totally. Uh, lactose intolerant.

0:24:19.040 --> 0:24:25.880
<v Speaker 1>It's in my blood and it's true. Here's what's funny.

0:24:25.920 --> 0:24:30.080
<v Speaker 1>Here's a funny one caffeine consumption. I am likely to

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<v Speaker 1>consume less caffeine than anyone else. Really, ain't that weird?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it says based on my DNA. It says

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<v Speaker 1>that if you consume caffeine. The current Guidelines of Healthy

0:24:42.200 --> 0:24:46.879
<v Speaker 1>Adults says adults should drink no more than three twelve

0:24:46.920 --> 0:24:49.720
<v Speaker 1>ounce cups of coffee or eight ounce cups of tea

0:24:49.760 --> 0:24:57.920
<v Speaker 1>per day, which is crazy because I drink probably for yeah,

0:24:57.960 --> 0:25:00.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't be getting jittery, but I don't know. Maybe

0:25:00.240 --> 0:25:04.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm defining my DNA here. Muscle composition, it's my muscle

0:25:04.800 --> 0:25:09.960
<v Speaker 1>composition is common for elite athletes. Okay, I can see that.

0:25:10.320 --> 0:25:14.000
<v Speaker 1>I can see that totally. Yes, let's see. Now, let's

0:25:14.000 --> 0:25:19.600
<v Speaker 1>go to like the not so fun stuff health highlights. Okay, dementia, Alzheimer's.

0:25:19.920 --> 0:25:22.600
<v Speaker 1>What do you think do I think that? In your DNA,

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<v Speaker 1>you're prone to it. Yeah, uh possibly, yeah, so slightly

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<v Speaker 1>at risk. Yeah. And and I say that because of

0:25:34.240 --> 0:25:40.320
<v Speaker 1>my paternal side of the family. Yeah, and I don't

0:25:40.320 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 1>know if it's happening now on in my on this

0:25:44.040 --> 0:25:48.359
<v Speaker 1>side of the family, but basically not not on my

0:25:48.480 --> 0:25:53.400
<v Speaker 1>maternal side. Yo. And here's what's crazy is according to this,

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<v Speaker 1>like the variant I have generally comes from people of

0:25:57.240 --> 0:26:02.119
<v Speaker 1>European descent, So thank you again, trans Atlantic slave trade.

0:26:02.680 --> 0:26:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, we're just reaching into our blood causing problems

0:26:08.080 --> 0:26:12.520
<v Speaker 1>age related macular degeneration, which I don't even know what

0:26:12.560 --> 0:26:15.960
<v Speaker 1>that is that has to do with your vision. Oh yep,

0:26:16.000 --> 0:26:19.960
<v Speaker 1>two variants detected, which is crazy because I'm the only

0:26:19.960 --> 0:26:24.080
<v Speaker 1>one of everybody related to that don't wear glasses on

0:26:24.200 --> 0:26:27.639
<v Speaker 1>both sides of my family. And it has nothing really

0:26:27.640 --> 0:26:30.600
<v Speaker 1>to do with with your vision. It's something that happens

0:26:30.640 --> 0:26:35.560
<v Speaker 1>to the eye, the eye itself. And um, I can

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<v Speaker 1>see that because my mother and one of her sisters,

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<v Speaker 1>two of her sisters, as far as I know, had

0:26:43.200 --> 0:26:49.040
<v Speaker 1>what's called LACMA. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. We weren't

0:26:49.040 --> 0:26:51.040
<v Speaker 1>supposed to say names. Look at us. Well, I just

0:26:51.200 --> 0:26:57.600
<v Speaker 1>wasn't saying that, yeah, um, kidney disease, which you think, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I got one variant, Okay, yeah, but there's a lot

0:27:02.680 --> 0:27:05.040
<v Speaker 1>more variance in there. That's my DNA that says that

0:27:05.119 --> 0:27:09.360
<v Speaker 1>you should probably like watch your kidneys. Okay. And then

0:27:09.840 --> 0:27:12.840
<v Speaker 1>the last one, which you probably already knew this already,

0:27:13.119 --> 0:27:16.720
<v Speaker 1>is a sickle cell. Yes, of course we do. That's

0:27:16.880 --> 0:27:21.160
<v Speaker 1>that's paternal also. Yeah, and uh, fun thing about sickle

0:27:21.200 --> 0:27:26.600
<v Speaker 1>cell is that comes from Africa and it's part of

0:27:26.600 --> 0:27:30.240
<v Speaker 1>why we can a lot of us. Uh. It was

0:27:30.280 --> 0:27:33.199
<v Speaker 1>a it was a reaction to mosquitoes and malaria. It

0:27:33.320 --> 0:27:36.320
<v Speaker 1>was like with sickle cell, which I think is pretty dope,

0:27:36.560 --> 0:27:40.120
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. Yeah, now let's see. Uh,

0:27:40.240 --> 0:27:42.880
<v Speaker 1>let's see some other stuff in here that's pretty crazy

0:27:42.960 --> 0:27:46.840
<v Speaker 1>so far as my gut health. Things that will set up,

0:27:46.920 --> 0:27:51.880
<v Speaker 1>like uh, colon cancer. Okay, I ain't got it. Okay,

0:27:52.000 --> 0:27:57.040
<v Speaker 1>McColl is good. Mcguts are good. Let's see here, genetics

0:27:57.080 --> 0:28:01.000
<v Speaker 1>of like cilantro version. According to this, I have a

0:28:01.080 --> 0:28:04.960
<v Speaker 1>slightly higher loads of disliking cilantro which is not true

0:28:05.160 --> 0:28:08.320
<v Speaker 1>because it's not true, and I love it. Yep, yep.

0:28:09.240 --> 0:28:13.560
<v Speaker 1>Let's see sleep movement. It says, I'm about average. I

0:28:13.600 --> 0:28:18.199
<v Speaker 1>sleep like everybody else. Mosquito bite frequency. You know how

0:28:18.240 --> 0:28:21.680
<v Speaker 1>black people say you got sweet blood, it's really a thing.

0:28:23.119 --> 0:28:26.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's from your grandmother. No, I have about the

0:28:26.520 --> 0:28:31.040
<v Speaker 1>same as everybody else. But like some people got sweet blood. Nikki,

0:28:31.200 --> 0:28:35.320
<v Speaker 1>my sister, she got sweet blood. Who news the thing?

0:28:38.000 --> 0:28:42.280
<v Speaker 1>Ain't that crazy? That's crazy, that's crazy. That's actually used

0:28:43.080 --> 0:28:46.760
<v Speaker 1>used to say that, yeah sweet blood that you actually

0:28:46.800 --> 0:28:51.840
<v Speaker 1>do got sweet blood. But yeah, uh type two diabetes

0:28:52.480 --> 0:28:57.520
<v Speaker 1>that we talked about before, Yeah that's huh. I got

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<v Speaker 1>thirty seven chance. Yeah. So it's like, so the choices

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<v Speaker 1>that you're saying is like, of all the things that

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<v Speaker 1>are here, that's the one thing I can do something

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<v Speaker 1>about exactly. And what's crazy is like you being wise

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<v Speaker 1>enough paying attention. Before we knew how to take no DNA,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing that was just looked around. It was like, look,

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<v Speaker 1>let's make these changes now, observation, you change in the narrative.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing I wanted to add to when you talked

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<v Speaker 1>about us being raised in the projects, and this is

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<v Speaker 1>not an effrontery on anyone else that was raising the projects,

0:29:36.160 --> 0:29:40.360
<v Speaker 1>but my mother, well in the projects. Anyone that who's

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<v Speaker 1>ancestors or family, grandma and grandpa, anybody lived in the

0:29:44.440 --> 0:29:49.600
<v Speaker 1>projects knew that they used to have uh a community

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<v Speaker 1>center where they would give you government food, government cheese,

0:29:55.960 --> 0:30:00.800
<v Speaker 1>government peanut butter. But government this government that my mother

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<v Speaker 1>never took it. Yeah, we never received anything from them

0:30:06.240 --> 0:30:10.840
<v Speaker 1>because she chose not to. And one of the reasons,

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<v Speaker 1>probably as as I got older, I used to tell

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<v Speaker 1>people that raising nine children. First in what I realized now,

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<v Speaker 1>which our normal reminded me of, is that when we

0:30:23.960 --> 0:30:27.800
<v Speaker 1>lived in southwest Washington, d C. When I was very

0:30:27.840 --> 0:30:31.480
<v Speaker 1>little and born down there, it was considered the slums.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, it's the warf everything is exclusive, but back then,

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<v Speaker 1>when they had black people running around in there, it

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<v Speaker 1>was the slums. But to raise a family like that

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<v Speaker 1>and not get any government assistance, that talks of the

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<v Speaker 1>struggle of h And I'm sure my dad wasn't the

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<v Speaker 1>only black man that went home, went out of the

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<v Speaker 1>house in the morning and returned back home in the

0:30:59.040 --> 0:31:03.280
<v Speaker 1>evening for the betterment of his family. And so we

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<v Speaker 1>just we just were never exposed to those things. And

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<v Speaker 1>so that's how we grew and that's how I wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted us as a family to eat just good,

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<v Speaker 1>healthy food. And you know that's that's that's what I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember the time that I that I suggested to

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<v Speaker 1>the three of you, let's go vegetarian. Do you remember

0:31:22.760 --> 0:31:28.200
<v Speaker 1>that conversation? And when I got so much opposition that

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<v Speaker 1>the three of you looked at each other as if

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<v Speaker 1>to say, oh you talking about And then and then

0:31:36.600 --> 0:31:39.200
<v Speaker 1>somebody said, you mean I can't have any more ribs?

0:31:39.840 --> 0:31:44.080
<v Speaker 1>And then somebody said no more steak, and you said,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, ma, And I said, okay, well then you

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<v Speaker 1>guys just go ahead and do But this is how

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna eat. And I didn't go vegetarian, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just I just cut out a lot of stuff. Man, Yeah,

0:31:56.000 --> 0:31:58.760
<v Speaker 1>you did, you know? And I mean I've made similar choices,

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<v Speaker 1>like I haven't gone full of it starian, but um,

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<v Speaker 1>for the most part pescatarian, you know, in as in

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<v Speaker 1>as best as I can be. Uh. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>one thing that we do here is like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my wife is like super good at like if we

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<v Speaker 1>are buying beef or chicken, it's like the high end stuff.

0:32:18.280 --> 0:32:19.920
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, Like she'll like she'll break

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<v Speaker 1>bread for that. That's like you know, no nitrates, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, completely organically and what's crazy about like the

0:32:26.280 --> 0:32:31.080
<v Speaker 1>Latino community to which like again it's just a different

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<v Speaker 1>narrative than you know, which is posed to us. Is

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, in Acapulco, like they was dirt poor,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, no running water styles, but like you got

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<v Speaker 1>fresh fruit every day. Yeah, there was. You got up

0:32:46.400 --> 0:32:48.440
<v Speaker 1>in the morning and you went and bought the food

0:32:48.480 --> 0:32:52.000
<v Speaker 1>for the day. So it was fresh fruit, fresh vegetables.

0:32:52.040 --> 0:32:54.440
<v Speaker 1>She's always eight like that, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>They when they were kids, she talks about this too,

0:32:57.200 --> 0:32:59.840
<v Speaker 1>like they didn't get fast food, like her mom didn't

0:32:59.840 --> 0:33:02.280
<v Speaker 1>do it. She was just like no, they cooked every

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<v Speaker 1>day and it was like but you go to the market,

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<v Speaker 1>you buy the beans, boil the beans. You know they

0:33:07.040 --> 0:33:08.920
<v Speaker 1>bought you go to the corner where there was like

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<v Speaker 1>the fruit lady right exactly in the corner like eating

0:33:12.520 --> 0:33:16.120
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. So you just they always ate like that,

0:33:16.240 --> 0:33:18.240
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. So you know, of course

0:33:18.240 --> 0:33:20.280
<v Speaker 1>they was you know when they got to l As,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you had your you had your talkies and

0:33:22.880 --> 0:33:24.920
<v Speaker 1>hot cheetos like they did, you know what I'm saying.

0:33:25.400 --> 0:33:29.200
<v Speaker 1>But it was like no, we like we chopped vegetables

0:33:29.320 --> 0:33:32.320
<v Speaker 1>every day, made beans every day. You know what I'm saying,

0:33:32.600 --> 0:33:34.880
<v Speaker 1>what can you know what that that that's a beautiful

0:33:34.920 --> 0:33:37.360
<v Speaker 1>thing though I don't mean it interrupted, but that's a

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful thing because when you think of people living in poverty,

0:33:42.480 --> 0:33:46.120
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people that have lived that way and

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<v Speaker 1>have I don't I don't want to say that have

0:33:49.680 --> 0:33:56.080
<v Speaker 1>been their lifestyle has been governed because of poverty or

0:33:56.480 --> 0:34:00.440
<v Speaker 1>mid level poverty. They go for the cheapest things or

0:34:00.440 --> 0:34:03.440
<v Speaker 1>whatever it is convenient. But when you sign a family

0:34:03.520 --> 0:34:07.320
<v Speaker 1>like hurt, like almost background in my background where no,

0:34:07.560 --> 0:34:10.960
<v Speaker 1>that was no go that that was just no, it

0:34:11.040 --> 0:34:15.000
<v Speaker 1>wasn't it wasn't an option, you know. So and um,

0:34:15.080 --> 0:34:20.560
<v Speaker 1>it continues on, it continues on, and the girls eat

0:34:20.600 --> 0:34:24.040
<v Speaker 1>well and you do too. Very yeah, it's true. It

0:34:24.160 --> 0:34:27.040
<v Speaker 1>just continues on. The one thing that did like for her,

0:34:27.200 --> 0:34:29.920
<v Speaker 1>She's like, what kills us is is there's a tortilla

0:34:30.000 --> 0:34:32.879
<v Speaker 1>with every meal. So we're just so it's the same thing.

0:34:32.920 --> 0:34:36.759
<v Speaker 1>It's like sugar, yeah, I mean, so we try to

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<v Speaker 1>do the we try to do corn instead of flour,

0:34:39.360 --> 0:34:41.919
<v Speaker 1>you know. But whatever we're doing, we're doing the best

0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:46.879
<v Speaker 1>we can. Anyway, Mom, thank you for your transparency. Yeah,

0:34:46.920 --> 0:34:51.160
<v Speaker 1>this is fun. Yeah, and thank you to twenty three

0:34:51.200 --> 0:34:53.080
<v Speaker 1>and me for letting us do this. And then there's

0:34:53.120 --> 0:34:56.719
<v Speaker 1>like all the other like that you are on my

0:34:56.800 --> 0:34:59.959
<v Speaker 1>maternal side, like the ancestry stuff, like on the maternal side,

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<v Speaker 1>your blood is Bantu. Did you know that African? Yeah?

0:35:04.680 --> 0:35:07.760
<v Speaker 1>You from the Bantu reason according to it this Okay,

0:35:07.800 --> 0:35:09.719
<v Speaker 1>I know that one of my sisters had told me

0:35:09.840 --> 0:35:14.120
<v Speaker 1>one time that my my dad was from Angola? Is

0:35:14.160 --> 0:35:17.320
<v Speaker 1>that part of that now my my dad's dad because

0:35:17.360 --> 0:35:21.080
<v Speaker 1>of like how close that angling is to our to

0:35:21.200 --> 0:35:24.759
<v Speaker 1>our line, like since he's like your grandfather, he takes

0:35:24.840 --> 0:35:28.200
<v Speaker 1>up a lot of the percentage because that just threw

0:35:28.320 --> 0:35:32.919
<v Speaker 1>through that DNA in there. But but we're essentially we're

0:35:33.040 --> 0:35:39.520
<v Speaker 1>essentially like subsepharent East African, Okay, you know, which is

0:35:39.600 --> 0:35:43.959
<v Speaker 1>like not average for you know, slave descendants. Most slave

0:35:43.960 --> 0:35:48.880
<v Speaker 1>descendants are mostly West African. But which we're that too,

0:35:48.960 --> 0:35:52.680
<v Speaker 1>because any slave descendant is everything, you know what I'm saying.

0:35:53.719 --> 0:35:58.799
<v Speaker 1>But Bantu and Fulani. Hm. Well, I used to get

0:35:58.840 --> 0:36:02.640
<v Speaker 1>a lot when I was in California where you know,

0:36:02.719 --> 0:36:05.640
<v Speaker 1>especially when I start wearing my hair down and I

0:36:05.719 --> 0:36:11.560
<v Speaker 1>used to get comments about how was I from the Islands,

0:36:13.000 --> 0:36:17.799
<v Speaker 1>and it was like, you just don't look like you're yeah,

0:36:18.040 --> 0:36:23.520
<v Speaker 1>that you're all from that. Yeah, and my comment is

0:36:23.520 --> 0:36:26.680
<v Speaker 1>that none of us are all black anymore. Yeah, so

0:36:26.719 --> 0:36:32.200
<v Speaker 1>there's that, right, yeah, yeah, all the mistaken for Ethiopian stuff,

0:36:32.320 --> 0:36:40.879
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't know, maybe you know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, anyway, Uh, mom,

0:36:40.920 --> 0:36:43.160
<v Speaker 1>you want to give everybody your socials? I'm just kidding,

0:36:43.600 --> 0:36:46.640
<v Speaker 1>just kidding. Please get nobody. Do not follow my MoMA

0:36:46.640 --> 0:36:54.839
<v Speaker 1>on Instagram. I slap and playing man. So checking out

0:36:54.880 --> 0:36:56.440
<v Speaker 1>from Maryland from the d n V. You know what

0:36:56.480 --> 0:36:59.959
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying from you know, pre GC Prince George County

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<v Speaker 1>as a gentleman, my dukes does go. Thank you very much, Mama. Alright,

0:37:06.560 --> 0:37:11.160
<v Speaker 1>so my pleasure eat? Well, yes, that's right. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you got any words of wisdom for these folks, Well,

0:37:14.400 --> 0:37:18.880
<v Speaker 1>my only word of wisdom would be to make wise

0:37:19.120 --> 0:37:22.920
<v Speaker 1>choices when you eat, because you aren't always gonna be

0:37:23.080 --> 0:37:26.719
<v Speaker 1>thirty five. You're always gonna be forty, God will and

0:37:26.760 --> 0:37:29.520
<v Speaker 1>you aren't always gonna be sixty one day, you're gonna

0:37:29.560 --> 0:37:32.600
<v Speaker 1>be seventy or eighty. And you want to still be

0:37:32.719 --> 0:37:36.120
<v Speaker 1>able to walk around the block without having your shortness

0:37:36.160 --> 0:37:39.200
<v Speaker 1>of breath. You want to be able to run a

0:37:39.280 --> 0:37:42.360
<v Speaker 1>half mile without shortness of breath. You want to be

0:37:42.400 --> 0:37:45.040
<v Speaker 1>able like me to do sit ups and push ups

0:37:45.080 --> 0:37:49.360
<v Speaker 1>and leg binds and all of that. It's all in

0:37:49.440 --> 0:37:54.040
<v Speaker 1>our choices, not only what you eat, but your life choices,

0:37:54.200 --> 0:37:58.839
<v Speaker 1>in the things that you expose yourself to. I don't

0:37:58.840 --> 0:38:03.080
<v Speaker 1>know where that came from. Just the depths of your soul.

0:38:03.719 --> 0:38:06.799
<v Speaker 1>Eat your veggies. There, they're the good Earth. There's there's

0:38:06.800 --> 0:38:10.440
<v Speaker 1>from the good Earth. Then, and stay away from that fried,

0:38:10.800 --> 0:38:19.000
<v Speaker 1>greasy food. You broke up? You broke up? Okay, looks

0:38:19.040 --> 0:38:23.200
<v Speaker 1>good as smells good. But no, I'm being silly. You didn't.

0:38:23.680 --> 0:38:26.160
<v Speaker 1>I just didn't want you to drop the gym's I know.

0:38:26.280 --> 0:38:28.520
<v Speaker 1>But all I'm saying is that you'd be surprised at

0:38:28.520 --> 0:38:31.879
<v Speaker 1>what you can ove and fry and enjoy it. So

0:38:32.160 --> 0:38:35.360
<v Speaker 1>just just stay healthy. If you want to stay alive,

0:38:35.560 --> 0:38:40.640
<v Speaker 1>stay and eat healthy. You will be thankful when you

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<v Speaker 1>get over. All right, And that's it. On another dope show,

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<v Speaker 1>did this episode inspire you to take a closer look

0:39:02.600 --> 0:39:06.160
<v Speaker 1>at your health history, your genetic makeup? Who new DNA?

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<v Speaker 1>Could reveal so much about our past while also holding

0:39:08.920 --> 0:39:12.000
<v Speaker 1>the keys to certain health insights that may impact our future.

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<v Speaker 1>I continue to be inspired by these stories, and I

0:39:15.680 --> 0:39:20.480
<v Speaker 1>hope you do as well. Catch you next time. Listen

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