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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: and The Black Effect. And just like that, we're back

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Speaker 1: with yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl. Just hilarious.

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Speaker 1: What I be doing, I'll be fixing mess now. I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry I couldn't get to everybody's story for the holidays.

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Speaker 1: For Christmas, I know y'all got Hello Christmas stories, and

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Speaker 1: y'all y'all want me to give y'all advice. A lot

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Speaker 1: of y'all had a lot of the same stories, the

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Speaker 1: same types of stories. So I'm sorry if I didn't

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Speaker 1: read yours specifically, but maybe you heard me read one

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Speaker 1: similar to yours, almost identical even. And then hopefully that

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Speaker 1: advice that I gave to that person last week you

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Speaker 1: applied it to your mess. You understand what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: But if not, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. So it looks

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Speaker 1: like I'm gonna be reading holiday stories for a while

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Speaker 1: and well into the new year.

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Speaker 2: All right, So listen started off like this.

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Speaker 1: Okay, first, I hope everything is well with you and

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Speaker 1: your new baby, but I need your help, girl. So

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Speaker 1: me and my girl upen dating for a little over

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Speaker 1: a year. It's holiday season, clearly, and quite frankly, I

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Speaker 1: don't like her family DM. Okay, but wait, it's not

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Speaker 1: like I just don't like them. I can feel the tension.

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Speaker 1: Jes like motherfucker's taking the funk with me. I can't

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Speaker 1: stand that. So I told her, And I also told

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Speaker 1: her I wanted to stay home for the holidays instead

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Speaker 2: Oh shit, and you would have to go far.

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Speaker 1: I told her she didn't have to stay at home

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Speaker 1: with me, and that just made her even more mad.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not understanding if I'm wrong because I was

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Speaker 1: being honest, or maybe I should have never said anything.

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Speaker 1: I love this girl, and I know her family means

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Speaker 1: everything to her, but I just can't kick it with

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Speaker 1: people that clearly aren't fucking with me.

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Speaker 2: For real.

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Speaker 1: I totally get it, truthfully, I don't feel comfortable. It's

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Speaker 1: just always something. They always get quiet and then resume

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Speaker 1: their conversations like I'm not there or like we were

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Speaker 1: their topic. Hold on, let me read that again, y'all,

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Speaker 1: because if y'all heard it like I just read it,

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Speaker 1: I don't get it all right.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, Wait a minute, wait a minute.

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Speaker 1: They always get quiet and then resume their conversations like

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Speaker 1: I'm not there or like we were their topic.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I get it. I get it.

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Speaker 1: Then when talking to her mom, it's just like I'm

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Speaker 1: being tolerated. I cannot stand that shit, and that's from

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Speaker 1: previous experience. I cannot under. I cannot stand feeling like

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Speaker 1: I'm being tolerated, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I do get it.

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Speaker 1: Continuing the only people who like me are her sisters

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Speaker 1: and her nephew. But it's different when the mother and

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Speaker 1: father of the girl you love don't like you or

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Speaker 2: It's fucked up. Honestly, it hurts, but it's just so weird.

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Speaker 1: Like I know I'm not crazy, but I don't want

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Speaker 1: to tell my girl she overreacted because I don't want

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Speaker 1: to go. But it's like a comfort thing. I should

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Speaker 1: feel comfortable, right, not just going because she wants me to.

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Speaker 1: I should want to be there, right Or should I

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Speaker 2: Should I even still go? Like I'm stuck? Help?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you must have wrote this on actual Christmas,

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Speaker 1: because because you're talking as if she already went and

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Speaker 1: you can still go, So maybe it's like a holiday

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Speaker 1: thing where Okay, I totally get it, but no, I'm

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Speaker 1: totally with you, sir, I do get Actually, let me

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Speaker 1: not even just place a gender on your ass, because

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Speaker 1: you ain't let me know whether you were a woman

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Speaker 1: or a man, right, But either way, you're totally right.

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Speaker 1: If I would hate to be in the presence of

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Speaker 1: somebody who I know, don't fuck with me, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: And then it's kind of tricky.

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Speaker 1: That's kind of sticky when you're dealing with somebody, you're

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Speaker 1: but their family don't fuck with.

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Speaker 2: You, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: And now this is the thing, further more than it

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Speaker 1: Have you talked to her about talking to them about it?

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Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. Because she's in the middle.

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Speaker 1: Imagine how she feels, first of all, at you. How

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Speaker 1: she feels first of all, it's like fuck, like I

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Speaker 1: or my woman here to be with my family, and

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Speaker 1: don't fuck with my partner, you don't fuck with my lover,

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Speaker 1: you feel me, So it has to be a sticky

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Speaker 1: situation for all, well for both of y'all. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what the family got against you. I can't speak

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Speaker 1: on them. I want to know because this is this

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Speaker 1: what can also happen. Have y'all had any previous situations

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Speaker 1: where you may have cheated on her, You've done something

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Speaker 1: tells her family and now y'all are good. You know,

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Speaker 1: y'all were going through. And then now she has to

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Speaker 1: could be that it could be a fact of she

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Speaker 1: had an ex that they fucked with more than you.

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Speaker 2: It could be a number of things.

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Speaker 1: So I can't really speak on the family, but that

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Speaker 1: could be, like that's just one of the main reasons

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Speaker 1: as to why somebody's whole family don't fuck with you.

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Speaker 1: If it's the mom, the dad, the cousins, the aunties

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Speaker 1: two siblings and her nephew or something like that. You said, like,

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: If it ain't a previous exit, they prefer her with

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Speaker 1: told them. So yeah, like, have y'all had any issues

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Speaker 1: in the past with infidelity, trust, not keeping it real?

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Speaker 2: Did you betray her in any way?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: Do y'all argue a lot?

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Speaker 1: Or were y'all ever at a point where y'all were

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Speaker 1: And that's when shit gets sticky, because, like I said before,

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Speaker 2: We're gonna tolerate you.

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Speaker 1: But because you said this, you feel that that the

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Speaker 1: parents tolerate you, you don't like to feel tolerated. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: exactly what happened. Then I'm not gonna I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: say that's not what happened. That's what happened. She talked

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Speaker 1: But going back to the initial advice, you need to

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Speaker 1: I think it needs to be a conversation between her

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Speaker 1: already they're already a little skeptical of you. If you

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Speaker 1: love me, you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll

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Speaker 1: be right back. Anytime you got to tolerate somebody, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you ain't really fucking with me. I'm suspecting some type

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Speaker 2: And this is the holidays.

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Speaker 1: You're not supposed to feel that way during the holidays,

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Speaker 1: you know, And you're not supposed to be forced to

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Speaker 1: have to feel that way either. I understand she's your girlfriend, y'all,

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Speaker 1: You are if you projected this to her like you're

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Speaker 1: projecting it to me, like you're telling me you described

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Speaker 1: be like, all right, let me go and spend this

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Speaker 1: All right, let me go spend this day with my family,

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Speaker 1: and then me and you can spend the rest of

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: At least let me get Christmas even with my family,

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Speaker 1: and then I'll be home early morning on Christmas, or

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Speaker 1: I'll be back late that night so I can wake

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Speaker 2: Something.

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Speaker 1: It should have been a compromising result that you understand

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to sit down.

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Speaker 1: You have to talk to her, because it just sounds

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Speaker 1: don't like that you've done. But they would only know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. So just have a conversation. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: that you had to go through that, you know, But no,

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Speaker 1: to answer your question, No, you're not wrong ful feeling

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Speaker 2: You get what I'm saying. And it's not just one.

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Speaker 1: Or two people this this girl whole family basically like

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Speaker 1: a lot of the family, you know, So I totally

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Speaker 1: get it. Keep me updated and let me know what

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Speaker 1: happened there, all right, moving the hook owing, Hey, Jess,

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Speaker 1: happy holidays. Whole parenthood is treating you well. So girl,

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Speaker 1: let's get into it. I met this boy at my job.

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Speaker 1: He was tall as fuck, Like all right, hey, he

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Speaker 1: was tall as fuck, dark skinned, big lips, funny as hell,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know, we just hit it off. We

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Speaker 1: started flirting at the job. He would always come to

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Speaker 2: On some cute shit. Okay, so you must work at

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Speaker 2: a club. We ended up we ended up smoking together.

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Speaker 1: He would take me home afterward and we would just

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Speaker 1: be with each other more often. We ended up having sex.

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Speaker 1: A few days after we had sex, he told me

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Speaker 1: his baby mom was about to have his baby.

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Speaker 2: What the fuck?

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Speaker 1: My response was, nigga, have a good life, lol exactly.

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Speaker 1: I was also on and off with my ex at

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Speaker 1: the time, so I wasn't really worried about that. Hmm, okay,

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Speaker 1: you mean a do you fucked him? You wasn't really

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Speaker 1: worried about it? What the fuck is going on with y'all?

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Speaker 2: Girls? Uh?

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Speaker 1: I go back to work the next day. This man

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Speaker 1: comes to my section, like, can I talk to you

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Speaker 1: real quick? So we talking and he jacks me up

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Speaker 1: and said he jacks you up?

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Speaker 2: The fuck?

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Speaker 1: This nigga jacking you up at your fucking job, Miss

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Speaker 1: You're distraught and miserable right now, shit, you're devastated. We stopped,

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Speaker 1: You know, the package was packaging girl, goofy ass ah,

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Speaker 1: It's always the same thing with him, like either his

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Speaker 1: and his BM beefing, and we only having sex. We

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Speaker 1: me without one punctuation mark in this shit. This is

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Speaker 2: We've been messing around with each other for a year

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to focus on myself because I truly believe

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Speaker 1: I've been there as well, and I was so blind

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Speaker 1: Bitch, please, I would say it takes me a little

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Speaker 1: Now you're asking the right questions. How many more times

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Speaker 2: Ah. Now I'm about to get in your ways, baby, okay.

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Speaker 1: Ah, you called the gullible. I call it, for lack

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Speaker 1: of a better word, dumb. First of all, it's too

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Speaker 1: much that you allowed at the beginning, you had sex

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Speaker 1: first problem. Right there. You're giving up your pussy too

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Speaker 1: I know this shit getting good, but listen to just

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Speaker 2: You'll listen. Now.

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Speaker 1: You even start fucking with him after that, and your

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Speaker 2: You just as toxic as this.

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Speaker 1: Nigga and you're allowing things and you could be unknowingly

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Speaker 2: But that's very problematic.

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Speaker 1: And the reason why it's hard for you right now

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Speaker 2: You didn't even have to tell me that he was.

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Speaker 1: It was because you sound way too fucking gone over

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Speaker 1: right there. You went on social media. That's the number

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Speaker 1: one place to fucking go when you're trying to figure

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Speaker 1: in me. You are a side bitch, and you've been

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Speaker 1: You don't talk to him. You don't anything that reminds

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Speaker 1: I wish you could burn the damn phone that you got,

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Speaker 1: but you can't, so block the number. Cut sides with him.

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Speaker 1: That's why at the end of the day, you're never

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Speaker 1: like judge. This ain't for all women that works at

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: He comes to your club often, he sees you. You

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Speaker 2: You look good. You know you probably wear clothes. Who's

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Speaker 1: You probably wear a shit that you show your body.

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Speaker 1: You're not leaving anything to his imagination. You're not making

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Speaker 2: I don't know what you are, but you work at

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Speaker 1: That is the first fucking place that niggas find comfort.

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Speaker 1: getting on his nigga nerves like I got on my

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Speaker 2: Like you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Like you gave him like you talk about, we smoked

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Speaker 1: some shit like this happened. This ain't this, Cabby, the

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Speaker 1: first time. I don't know how long you've been working

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Speaker 1: at that club, but you notice is how that shit go.

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Speaker 1: The club is a revolving door of niggas who looking

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Speaker 2: You know, unless that nigga was t Pain.

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Speaker 1: No, because T Pain made his wife stop stripping, he

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Speaker 1: ain't been back since. Okay, I don't know if they

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Speaker 1: so together now, but yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: That's what happened. Neo went to go get Crystal Renee

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Speaker 2: She ain't been back since. I know that, all right.

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Speaker 1: Stevie J went to go get Josceling out the motherfucking club.

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Speaker 1: She's still in the club, and she married and she's

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Speaker 1: she makes a living off of doing the cabaret, being

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Speaker 2: So yeah, like, if you ain't one of them, and.

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Speaker 1: You're mad that that nigga wasn't one of them, then yeah, girl,

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Speaker 1: you got used and abused. Then you're just a convenient

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Speaker 1: ain't on in social media she is, So get your

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Speaker 1: and do something where you can actually apply your brain

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Speaker 1: to cause that ain't that ain't good for you, That

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Speaker 1: ain't good for you. I don't know how old you are,

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Speaker 1: but baby girl, do not take this as me just beating.

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Speaker 2: Down on you, beating down on you, beating down on you.

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Speaker 1: But I need for you to understand play this episode

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Speaker 1: back for yourself, because sometimes, like I always say in

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Speaker 1: these episodes, sometimes it takes a person to read you

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Speaker 1: back your story for you to be like, oh, I

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Speaker 1: sound crazy as shit. I gots to get up, pack

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Speaker 1: my bags and run for the fucking hills.

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Speaker 2: I gotta stop. But if me reading it.

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Speaker 1: Back to you is not enough for you to realize

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Speaker 1: you need to wake the fuck up, then yeah, you yeah,

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Speaker 1: you just need to quit that job.

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Speaker 2: You need to quit that fucking job. But lead that

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Speaker 2: man alone. Enough is enough.

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Speaker 1: And the questions that you ask me toward the end

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Speaker 1: of your passage, I can see that you are waking up.

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Speaker 2: You starting to wait. You ain't fully woke yet, but

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Speaker 2: you are waking up.

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Speaker 1: You detach yourself because he's already detached you holding on.

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Speaker 1: This is a one way thing. He's never he was

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Speaker 1: never attached to you in the first place. You attached

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Speaker 1: yourself to him. And you've been riding on this nigga

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Speaker 1: coach tail. You've been letting them drag you up and

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Speaker 1: down the street too. Nah, let that shit go. Let

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Speaker 1: that shit go, baby girl, and update me. You talkt

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Speaker 1: the nigga asking you for money, talk about his fucking

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Speaker 1: car up, broke down, this car ain't working and all

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Speaker 1: of that shit.

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Speaker 2: Me and my baby mother beef.

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Speaker 1: And that's because you heat and ran out of money,

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Speaker 1: and or she probably done went through his phone, found

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Speaker 1: out that he fucking whatever bitches now she on his head.

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Speaker 2: The baby's here.

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Speaker 1: He got a lot of shit to do. He got

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Speaker 1: a new baby, So no, he can't buy you no

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Speaker 1: bags and shoes and shit. They got a baby goofy ass,

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Speaker 1: So write me back. I love you, shit'd be having

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Speaker 1: to give him the tough love tailor shit. Oh lord,

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Speaker 1: write me back, make sure you do fuck the first story.

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Speaker 2: Write me back you.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for your response because you're fucking trying it okay,

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Speaker 1: and I want.

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Speaker 2: You to to to like that's uh like you.

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Speaker 1: We shouldn't be losing out dignity over these men, these

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Speaker 1: no good ass MENUO like you gotta wake the fuck

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Speaker 1: up at some point. And just like that, we've come

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Speaker 1: to the end of yet another episode of Carefully Reckless

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Speaker 1: and what I be doing, I'll be fixing messing. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna keep on trying, y'all. But y'all got me over here,

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Speaker 1: judging y'all from a fall.

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Speaker 2: I love y'all. Catch y'all next week. Happy New Year

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Speaker 2: There Peace.

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