1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: Now from Unbreakable, a mental health podcast. This is your 2 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: mental health check in. Here's Jay Glazer tapping again. Welcome 3 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:16,240 Speaker 1: to another edition of Unbreakable mental health podcast with Jay Glazer, 4 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: and today I want to talk about problems versus mental 5 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: health issues. I think they're crossing over too much. What 6 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: I mean by that is a lot of times now 7 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 1: we have problems, and listen when we have problems that 8 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: put you in the gray without a doubt. But I've 9 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: had friends killed themselves over problems, and problems are to 10 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: be solved, and problems now I think are being regarded 11 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: as mental health issues mental illness, and that in itself 12 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 1: is a problem, no pun intended, but it's scary. You know, 13 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: people are going after jobs and going after things and 14 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: it's not happening now, and they are letting that become 15 00:00:56,240 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: mental health issues instead of problems. Look for eleven years, 16 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: I have a full time job, has a big problem, 17 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:06,119 Speaker 1: has a lot of problems. It's a lot of rejection 18 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: and does that put you in the gray? Yes, But 19 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:12,840 Speaker 1: there is a difference I've realized now between my mental 20 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:17,559 Speaker 1: health issues of my depression and my anxiety and my problems. 21 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: I try and separate them now, what is this right here? 22 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 1: Is this my mental I don't like to say mental illness. 23 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: I like to refer to it as things I've overcome. 24 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 1: But is this my mental illness or is this just 25 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: a problem that I gotta deal with? Problems are adversity. 26 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: Adversity could be a gift. I want to start looking 27 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: at our problems of things that we can overcome. Adversity 28 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: we can overcome, not this is the gray of mental 29 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: health issues. Let's redefine what our issues are and if 30 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: the problems the things that we have to work on solving. 31 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: Suicide is not a problem solver, right, Problems are things 32 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: that we have to get through and solve and overcome. 33 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: So in anti depres us and pill is not gonna 34 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: help me with my problems, and anti anxiety drug is 35 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: not gonna help me with my problems. Working at those 36 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: problems and working with a therapist and how to figure 37 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,359 Speaker 1: out better problem solving skills that will help me through 38 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: my problems. I know it's a little diceyre gang, but 39 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: if we could separate them out, you might be able 40 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: to help us a little bit more. I appreciate you 41 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: guys just letting me kind of sit and spew as 42 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: I you know, as I work with my therapists and 43 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: that's plural therapists. I started thinking about these things and 44 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: having a team like you to be able to bounce 45 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 1: these things off of it really helps me a lot 46 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: more so I appreciate it. So let's tackle our problems, 47 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: and let's not let our problems become so big where 48 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: we can't overcome them and they become our life. Remember 49 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: adversity as a gift right Overcoming those problems mold who 50 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 1: we are. I appreciate you. Let's keep walking this walk together.