WEBVTT - Braiding & Bullshit Feat. Lay 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:14.440 When you look at me, I know you see a 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:21.520 fifteen year old getting his soul beckon, go to the studios, 0:00:21.720 --> 0:00:27.560 hopping o nemeousines, fucking the ladies, see fresh t shirt 0:00:27.840 --> 0:00:31.520 new And even though these things. 0:00:31.280 --> 0:00:33.520 Are true, it's hard work. 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:37.080 Sometimes I just want to go. 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:40.120 Home in time, my girl to dray. 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:46.920 Have come on in Ray, God, welcome back. This is 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:51.400 good mom's bad choices. I'm Erica and I'm Meila, and 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:53.960 we is getting our hair braided. 0:00:55.800 --> 0:00:56.400 Yes, he is. 0:00:57.240 --> 0:01:00.160 Me Andamila are going on trip tomorrow. 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:04.000 And of course, in black girl fashion, we must get 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:06.040 hair braided equals vacation. 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:09.959 And we also must do it at the last minute, 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:15.200 at ten forty three pm the night before our morning flight. 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:19.840 Because we're smart. We're not we wait, we really plan 0:01:19.959 --> 0:01:20.760 out ahead. 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:25.720 Playing things out really well. You also have Jamial is 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:27.840 also holding a seven month year old baby right now. 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:30.959 So do you hear a little cute little voice? That's her. 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:34.199 Her name's Lincoln and she's freaking adorable. 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:35.360 Hi. 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:46.720 Hi, Yeah, I'm tired. I've been driving all day. I 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:49.240 hate driving. It was not meant to drive, was meant 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:50.120 to be driven. 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:56.680 It's backed. I agree, I definitely need a driver. It's 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:58.240 not my strong point. I mean, like I could do it. 0:01:58.280 --> 0:02:00.520 I'd like to drive sometimes, but most I want to 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:03.800 be driven, so I get text in the backseat. 0:02:06.480 --> 0:02:08.480 First and foremost. 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:14.880 So this is the last weekend of our Black History 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:16.359 Month that we've been given. 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:21.560 Not that we've been given, but America chooses to observe that. 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:28.359 We choose, that they choose to acknowledge. So, yeah, there's 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:30.840 been some interesting things in the news in the past month. 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:33.600 I would say we've touched on a few things, but 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:38.760 more recently today r Kelly, if you didn't already know, 0:02:38.919 --> 0:02:40.680 went to jail or turned himself in. 0:02:40.760 --> 0:02:41.920 He's now posted. 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:46.040 Bond for a million dollars and apparently went straight to 0:02:46.080 --> 0:02:47.200 the McDonald that he. 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:50.040 Praise on prays on. 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:55.720 Sorry, still has. 0:02:56.120 --> 0:03:01.320 A cough on the baby. 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:04.800 Don't make me laugh, guys, stop laughing because I hate 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:06.280 that cough so much. 0:03:06.639 --> 0:03:08.680 Yeah, and now it's like a week four thousand, seven 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:12.560 hundred and twenty six of this cough. Don't judge me, 0:03:12.600 --> 0:03:13.400 and what's going on. 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:16.960 It's like, actually, car I explained it the best yesterday. 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:20.120 It's like it's like an annoying, like seven year old 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:23.880 like boy cough. It just like it just like fluck. 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:26.760 Cough just flies everywhere, and it's loud and it's annoying. 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:28.440 You want to just like curse up the little kid, 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:29.760 but you can't because he's a little kid. 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:30.480 But you're angry. 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:34.119 I've been getting sick shamed all four thousand and fourths, 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:36.040 three hundred and eighty seven weeks. 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:38.760 It's fucking ridiculous, you would think, because you need to 0:03:38.800 --> 0:03:41.680 go to the doctor. Go I'm healing. 0:03:41.920 --> 0:03:42.440 Oh you're not. 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:43.800 I'm getting better. The cough. 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:46.840 Get your throat hurt. Now it's my throat when you cough. 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:48.320 They're getting more far between. 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:49.240 Oh my god. 0:03:49.320 --> 0:03:52.160 Anyway, R kelly went straight to the McDonald's. But apparently, 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:57.240 apparently he has preyed on younger underage girls in the 0:03:57.280 --> 0:04:06.160 past at and proceeded to violate his what is it, yeah, 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:10.000 bail bail the terms of bail, which is no interaction 0:04:10.120 --> 0:04:13.160 with anyone underage, and he took pictures with underage girls 0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:16.960 at his famous McDonald said he frequents Also, would you 0:04:17.000 --> 0:04:19.279 mind reading back some of those quotes that are in 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:20.919 the film that got him in this. 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:26.240 I think I remember them. 0:04:26.400 --> 0:04:27.719 Yeah, they're pretty straightforward. 0:04:29.480 --> 0:04:33.520 So apparently R Kelly the lawyer who turned in the 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:38.480 hidden tapes that R. Kelly's team has long been trying 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:41.960 to bury, even when he was first brought to court 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:47.520 in two thousand and eight. These tapes apparently say wait, 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:49.440 where is it? 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:49.960 Oh? 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:54.159 Here it is Michael Avenati in response to press inquiries. 0:04:54.200 --> 0:04:57.359 Below is the information regarding the videotape we provided yesterday 0:04:57.400 --> 0:05:00.440 to prosecutors. It leaves no doubt as to our Kelly's 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:04.320 guilt as to these serious sex crimes against underage girls. 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:06.159 Goes a little something like this. 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:10.760 M I can confirm that the video we provided to 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:15.080 prosecutors yesterday includes our Kelly clearly stating the following to 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:20.080 the victim, sometimes on multiple occasions, give me that fourteen 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:23.360 year old p ussy show Daddy. 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:26.080 I don't even feel comfortable saying the word fourteen year 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:26.640 old in front of it. 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:30.520 I'm just gonna spell it because I just can't show 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:33.000 Daddy that fourteen year old pe us s y. 0:05:33.480 --> 0:05:35.240 Spread those legs and show me that. 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:38.320 Fourteen year old pu You know the rest, give me 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:42.520 that fourteen year old booty hole drops Mike. 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:45.520 Like, what what in the fucking fuck? 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:49.520 First of the victim also refers to herself as being 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:54.040 fourteen years old, repeatedly on tape. 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:56.560 Like, oh my god, this is out of control. 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:58.960 He's going to jail forever. 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:04.920 It's over, it's over, and all the people that defended him, like, 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:07.880 I can't, I can't. I can't believe how little we value, 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:10.120 you know, are women in our community. 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:12.520 It's really really depressing. 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:16.279 But I'm glad that justice is on its way to 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:20.160 being served. I wish this never happened, obviously, but at. 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:22.800 Least something's being done. 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:25.760 And it's like more and more men are being held accountable, 0:06:25.760 --> 0:06:27.280 and there I bet there's a lot of men out 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:29.159 there right now that are getting more and more. 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:32.560 Scared, and I hope so because this is not acceptable behavior. 0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:38.320 It's gross. It's fucking gross. He's gross, I feel. And 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:40.640 those poor people who are still in the sex cult, 0:06:41.960 --> 0:06:42.880 I know, it's. 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:47.719 Just it's crazy. I don't even know how to do anyway. 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:51.640 So that's some you know. I was, you know, reflecting 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:54.159 on Czy too of Boo Boo. 0:06:55.160 --> 0:07:00.200 I was reflecting on the past twenty eight days of 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:00.719 this month. 0:07:01.040 --> 0:07:02.240 And it's been interesting. 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:05.479 There's been a lot of like negative things. There's been 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:07.799 a lot of like education happening. 0:07:08.080 --> 0:07:11.280 There's been a lot of victories and wins for people. 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:14.480 You know, the Oscars just happened, and you know, Spike 0:07:14.520 --> 0:07:16.080 Lee finally went his oscar. 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:18.080 And then Trump had something to say about it. 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:23.480 Oh god, whatever, and you know it's just Regina King 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:27.600 winning an oscar. I can't remember the woman who won 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:30.960 for set design, but she was. Her speech like brought 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:34.200 me to tears. And there's a lot of black excellence 0:07:34.240 --> 0:07:37.440 going on. So that's really it's a beautiful thing. But 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:39.600 then there's a lot there's a lot of fuckery happening, 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:42.160 which you know is typical scheduled programming. 0:07:42.480 --> 0:07:44.560 Yeah, this has to be a little bit of everything. 0:07:44.920 --> 0:07:47.760 But overall there's a lot of the black excellence happening, 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:53.320 which is pretty dope. This is a cool time, but 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:55.280 it's also still bad times. 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:57.080 What else happened this month? 0:07:57.200 --> 0:08:00.280 Oh, Gucci, Douci, Prada, Monkler. 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:01.680 They all have black face, apparent. 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:06.920 Monkler had the rope around the neck thing, the NEOs thing. 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:10.480 What you see that? What do you mean? 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:14.440 Well, basically, so their their runway show was themed as 0:08:14.480 --> 0:08:17.880 like nautical, and so they had a hoodie literally with 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:19.720 a rope around the. 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:22.840 Neck and what what what approved of this? 0:08:23.200 --> 0:08:24.360 It's just so insane. 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:26.040 I was talking to my friend about this because I 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:28.680 was like, how can they not know? Like how does 0:08:28.720 --> 0:08:32.080 there's touch so many hands before it releases and no 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:33.880 one says anything. And my friend was like, you know 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:37.800 a lot of these Italian houses that that create all 0:08:37.840 --> 0:08:40.360 this all this stuff, there's no. 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.400 They're out of touch. I mean that out of Yeah, 0:08:43.600 --> 0:08:44.160 some of them are. 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:47.720 Even when I go to Europe sometimes like racism isn't 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:49.480 like something that they talk about like how it is 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:52.880 in America. It's not as jarring and as like it's 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:55.560 just polarizing as it is like the conversation. 0:08:55.960 --> 0:08:56.760 Not that it doesn't. 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:58.800 Exist out there, it's just there's like more of like 0:08:58.880 --> 0:09:01.760 a resistance happening here, whereas people are just out there 0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:03.080 they're kind of like, good is what it is? 0:09:03.080 --> 0:09:04.160 It happened and. 0:09:04.000 --> 0:09:08.840 Whatever that's I mean, that's crazy. A new surround, a hoodie. 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:11.600 Why would that even be necessary? 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:13.280 It's ridiculous. 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:16.480 People are so insensitive. Wow. 0:09:17.800 --> 0:09:20.920 Jannat Jackson announced her residency. 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:24.480 MGM, then can we make that happen? We're going are 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:25.120 you kidding me? 0:09:25.360 --> 0:09:30.040 Like it's Janna Jackson, She's my first she's my first concert. 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:31.240 I went to see the Velvet Rope. 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:32.839 Oh yeah, I always say that I've never been to 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:35.439 a Janet concert, and I'm highly disappointed in myself. 0:09:35.760 --> 0:09:36.880 Oh it's so good. 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:38.560 That's a huge Jean. Well we're gonna go. 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:40.920 Yeah, because Vegas shows are amazing. I saw j Low 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:42.160 that was awesome. 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:44.400 Does Mariah have a residency? 0:09:44.720 --> 0:09:45.400 I think it's over. 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:48.880 Oh dang, it's it's sad she did Yeah, she did, right, Yeah, 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:53.199 I remember she did. Brittany Ryan Drake hasmon right now, that's. 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:54.800 Not really a residency. It's it's a club appearing. 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:56.720 Yeah, I hate like they're making it. See why these 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:58.600 people have a residency. It's like Cardi b' is not 0:09:58.800 --> 0:10:01.080 doesn't have a residency. I mean, it's a residency, but 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:03.520 at a club. It's not like a Vegas show. 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:09.439 Yeah, what about Jesse Smullett? 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:11.440 What do you think? 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:14.839 I'm just still battling with this one. I mean, I 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:18.880 think I need more. I need more clarity on it. 0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:21.040 I don't want to just throw. 0:10:23.559 --> 0:10:24.080 Him away. 0:10:24.440 --> 0:10:28.440 I don't want to just like believe you know what's 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:31.480 being fed to me. But because also did you see 0:10:31.480 --> 0:10:34.800 those text messages that he released, Yeah, they say that 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:36.960 he was paying them to trade him. Yeah, and they 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:39.240 had like having conversations about their trading schedule. 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:40.120 But I don't know if that was a. 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:42.360 Code word, if that was set up beforehand to make 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:46.040 it seem like they were who knows trading all those 0:10:46.080 --> 0:10:48.600 strange that like he went to Chicago and then they 0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:51.439 followed him there to beat him up, Like I don't. 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:53.400 Oh wait, oh, so those those guys were from Chicago. 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:56.920 I don't think so. No, I don't know. 0:10:57.040 --> 0:11:01.280 I heard that the guys that were supposedly allegedly hired 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:04.560 were they were like extras on the show, and that's 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:06.960 how but that's why I thought they were local. 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:10.240 But apparently like he paid them like five weeks before 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:13.439 they were even supposed to start training him, and like. 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:16.760 They said, they were making fun of their they sent 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:18.360 him a meal plan. People were making fun of the 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:20.679 meal plan had like tuna and peanut. 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:22.880 Butter on there. Or I saw that. 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:26.560 He just I don't know Jesse, but he I mean, 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:27.640 I don't know him, id all. 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:29.839 Then there was rumors, I don't know if he said it, 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:32.800 that he was battling an untreated drug problem. 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:36.640 I don't is that is that this excuse? I don't behavior. 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:37.760 I don't know if that's confirmed. 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:40.920 I just it seems like such a nice and it's 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:43.560 not innocent, but like just a sweet person. 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:47.040 That, like I do, wouldn't do something so selfish and strain. 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:49.360 I know it is it's odd and I can't think 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:51.800 of a motive. That's it's really confusing, is. 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:55.760 Like, is it is this all like a plot to 0:11:55.960 --> 0:11:57.000 weaken our cause? 0:11:58.440 --> 0:12:00.960 Like right right the weekend, like the Black Cause wearing 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:03.440 the Gay Cause all at once, like knock them both 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:05.360 out with one and one one hit. 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:07.000 I mean, they think this is gonna knock it out. 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:10.880 They'redly mistaken, of course, but it just it gives like 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:16.439 Trump supporters Trump supporters. 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:26.200 Like, am yeah, I thought, yeah, I can't think he 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:26.800 needs more money. 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:29.120 I can't think he needs more fame. So I just 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:32.000 don't understand it. I just think maybe they're lying, and 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:33.880 the police lie about a lot of shit, so I'm 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:34.959 just gonna stick with they're going. 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:35.800 But I did see the. 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:39.200 Surveillance of the two guys buying hats, and I'm like, 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:43.480 this is awfully convenience, the ski mask and the hat 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:45.640 at the same time, in the same purchase. 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:46.400 Together on camera. 0:12:47.440 --> 0:12:49.760 That came out a while ago though I already seen that. 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:54.559 Yeah, I still think it's terrible. Oh onto other news, 0:12:57.040 --> 0:12:59.520 the pop culture in the. 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:05.560 Pop stricks in front of anything, it's the internet, the Internet. 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:11.840 Tristan Thompson and Jordan love affair one night Stand. 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:14.200 What do you think? 0:13:15.559 --> 0:13:21.000 I think it's a Kardashian curse or manufactured story. 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:23.800 I don't know who knows, So don't. I don't put 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:24.560 ship past. 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:26.880 Them, like they would just let her go. 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:29.560 She ain't going nowhere. That's where she's going on the 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:30.120 red table. 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:34.080 Talk to go, like try to like save her herself 0:13:34.360 --> 0:13:36.439 because Jada Pinket's gonna make people. 0:13:36.160 --> 0:13:38.720 Be like, she's so young and dumb. Let's talk to 0:13:38.720 --> 0:13:40.319 her and figure out why she did this. 0:13:40.600 --> 0:13:42.199 Isn't she twenty one? 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:43.440 Yeah, she's so young. 0:13:44.440 --> 0:13:46.720 Really, Like I blame her for sure, but I really 0:13:46.800 --> 0:13:49.320 blame him, Like you're supposed to be. You're even older, 0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:52.080 You have the family, you already have two kids, you 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:54.640 already had a baby with someone else named Jordan. 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:56.760 Really yeah, his baby mom. 0:13:56.679 --> 0:14:00.640 Was, it's just. 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:10.719 You want your baby, bottle baby, let may go baby. 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:15.600 I don't know because he's only like twenty seven, right, 0:14:17.040 --> 0:14:17.480 he's young. 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:19.840 Yeah, he's young too, but I mean, you have two kids. 0:14:19.920 --> 0:14:20.360 Grow up. 0:14:21.560 --> 0:14:24.320 Clearly he's not getting the memo, but the growing up memo, 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:25.440 I mean, grow up. 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:27.240 Also, I don't know. 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:29.600 I can't imagine the kind of pressure you're under dating 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:30.960 at Kardashian. 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:33.360 The kind of pressure that says, don't fuck her sister's 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:39.520 best friend, you know, just basic shita pressures. 0:14:41.200 --> 0:14:42.840 Oh my god, you're. 0:14:42.760 --> 0:14:45.040 Right, and then she's done, Like I don't care how 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:47.760 much she wanted to say there was more than an 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:48.960 alcoholic influence. 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:50.560 Oh, Jordan, yeah for sure. 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:52.800 I mean, yeah, I make mistakes all the time while 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:58.920 drinking alcohol. Not that that's not an excuse. He's your 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:01.560 best friend's sister's baby daddy. 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:05.800 Yeah that's oh, but that's all bad. 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:11.480 But anyway, we have a special guest today. Our special 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:17.160 guest is our beautiful woman who's braiding our hands today. Okay, 0:15:17.880 --> 0:15:19.040 can you introduce yourself? 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:19.520 Hi? 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:20.440 I'm Leana. 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:23.800 What's up? Leanna? 0:15:24.240 --> 0:15:27.280 And Lincoln who was very sleepy and doesn't want to 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:31.920 go to sleep, Yes, like my four year old. 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:34.440 They like she crashed and she keeps trying to look 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:36.680 at me, you know, somebody, like. 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:39.960 They slowly dre know, like she'll be moving. 0:15:41.360 --> 0:15:43.560 She crashes, she doesn't like slowly. 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:43.800 Go to sleep. 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:47.600 Oh my god, lays I'll sell a mom. She's brought 0:15:47.640 --> 0:15:49.720 her baby and. 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:50.880 How does she again? 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:52.520 Seven months? 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:53.520 Seven months? 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:54.760 Oh my goodness? 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:56.240 How old are you? 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:57.600 Twenty three? 0:15:57.720 --> 0:16:00.280 She is great? How's motherhood so far? 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:01.360 I love it? 0:16:01.440 --> 0:16:03.240 I mean I'm making mistakes every day. 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:05.680 I mean, that's join the club. 0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:06.800 Were you planning on being? 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:07.080 Like? 0:16:07.080 --> 0:16:08.720 Were you? Did you plan on being a mom or 0:16:08.720 --> 0:16:10.240 did you want to be? Because I mean it's you're 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:11.160 pretty young to be a mom. 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:11.640 Yeah. 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:14.000 I mean I knew I always wanted to have kids. 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:15.920 I just didn't know that. I didn't think it was 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:19.320 going to happen, like like when it happened. 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:21.320 So were you trying or no? 0:16:21.400 --> 0:16:23.640 Not that I was trying. I just I knew I 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:24.760 always wanted to have kids. 0:16:24.760 --> 0:16:26.240 It's just were you not trying? 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:28.160 I wasn't trying at all. 0:16:29.120 --> 0:16:30.160 Were you not not trying? 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:33.720 You're not like you are not putting a condom on? 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:36.480 You were not pulling out? 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:39.960 Hm? 0:16:40.040 --> 0:16:42.840 Hm? Why? 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:43.320 Why? 0:16:43.600 --> 0:16:44.120 Oh my god? 0:16:44.160 --> 0:16:44.760 She's so cute? 0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:50.360 I mean should I had my baby at twenty eight 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:53.320 and that was. 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:55.600 Hard, right, I was still like, little shit, what the 0:16:55.600 --> 0:16:56.600 hell's going on here? 0:16:57.240 --> 0:16:58.000 So I can imagine. 0:16:58.040 --> 0:17:01.120 I mean, you're in school, you're doing like multiple things, right, Like, 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:04.119 that's got to be really hard to balance everything it is. 0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:06.320 I mean, I have the help from my mom, which 0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:10.439 like I don't know, why don't I really don't like 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:11.960 she's such a big help. 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:17.560 Do you feel like do you feel like? What was 0:17:17.600 --> 0:17:18.080 my question? 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:18.360 Wow? 0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:21.840 I had a really good question. It just really it 0:17:21.920 --> 0:17:22.960 just came to went. 0:17:23.320 --> 0:17:32.240 Thinking, you can't touch this on my hand? 0:17:29.640 --> 0:17:35.120 Are you with the Lincoln's Dead? 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:40.120 No? Did that happen after while you're pregnant? 0:17:41.119 --> 0:17:42.159 We were never together? 0:17:43.280 --> 0:17:44.399 Yeah, we were never together. 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:47.520 Is he active in her life? Sometimes? 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:49.120 I wouldn't even say. 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:54.640 Sometimes it's like so you're like, definitely, he's a Monday dead. 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:54.919 That's what. 0:17:56.680 --> 0:18:00.320 Day he always texts me or calls me, like because 0:18:00.320 --> 0:18:01.800 he lives in New York, so he's like, oh. 0:18:01.680 --> 0:18:04.919 I'll be out there on Monday. Oh god, he's a 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:05.560 Monday dad. 0:18:05.600 --> 0:18:07.399 I call him a Monday dead. Does he come? 0:18:07.600 --> 0:18:09.520 And I call him her her sperm growner? 0:18:09.520 --> 0:18:09.800 I don't know. 0:18:09.880 --> 0:18:13.280 Oh that sounds familiar. Yes, there's many of these terms. 0:18:13.600 --> 0:18:16.240 I didn't I think I have to adopt the Monday one. 0:18:16.119 --> 0:18:19.960 The Monday dad right, He's like, is he young too? 0:18:20.680 --> 0:18:21.600 He's twenty eight? 0:18:21.720 --> 0:18:23.880 Okay? Does he have other kids? He has one other 0:18:23.960 --> 0:18:25.080 daughter yet in New Yorker? 0:18:26.000 --> 0:18:30.159 Okay, how does that fid? How old is she the 0:18:30.200 --> 0:18:33.600 other kid? She she just turned to Okay, so they're 0:18:33.600 --> 0:18:38.359 pretty close. Yeah, hmmm, do you know the other mom? No? Interesting? 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:42.200 Do you feel as a young mom, because like when 0:18:42.200 --> 0:18:44.840 I was your age, I was getting blacked out drunk, 0:18:45.640 --> 0:18:49.520 doing lots of drugs and being very responsible. Clearly you 0:18:49.560 --> 0:18:52.439 can't really do that. I mean you could, but you know, 0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:56.919 probably shouldn't. Yeah, do you feel like you're like missing 0:18:56.960 --> 0:18:58.240 out on that or do you even care? 0:18:58.400 --> 0:19:00.760 Did you? Did you like before prior to having a child, 0:19:01.800 --> 0:19:03.400 were you what? Did you go out a lot? 0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:04.360 I went out? 0:19:04.520 --> 0:19:06.199 Because what you got pregnant probably when you were like 0:19:06.240 --> 0:19:07.920 what twenty two or twenty? 0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:12.240 I got pregnant when I was I was turning twenty two, 0:19:12.359 --> 0:19:12.760 twenty one. 0:19:12.800 --> 0:19:13.000 Yeah. 0:19:13.040 --> 0:19:16.679 I got pregnant in November last year and then I 0:19:16.720 --> 0:19:18.000 turned twenty two in December. 0:19:18.520 --> 0:19:22.800 Yeah, So do you feel like you're missing out on 0:19:22.840 --> 0:19:24.840 any of that blacked out drunkness? 0:19:27.160 --> 0:19:28.640 I just wonder, because like, I don't know what it's 0:19:28.680 --> 0:19:30.400 like to be like a young super young. 0:19:30.400 --> 0:19:32.160