1
00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,440
Speaker 1: When you look at me, I know you see a

2
00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:21,520
Speaker 1: fifteen year old getting his soul beckon, go to the studios,

3
00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:27,560
Speaker 1: hopping o nemeousines, fucking the ladies, see fresh t shirt

4
00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:31,520
Speaker 1: new And even though these things.

5
00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:33,520
Speaker 2: Are true, it's hard work.

6
00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:37,080
Speaker 3: Sometimes I just want to go.

7
00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,120
Speaker 4: Home in time, my girl to dray.

8
00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:46,920
Speaker 3: Have come on in Ray, God, welcome back. This is

9
00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:51,400
Speaker 3: good mom's bad choices. I'm Erica and I'm Meila, and

10
00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:53,960
Speaker 3: we is getting our hair braided.

11
00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:56,400
Speaker 2: Yes, he is.

12
00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:00,160
Speaker 3: Me Andamila are going on trip tomorrow.

13
00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:04,000
Speaker 5: And of course, in black girl fashion, we must get

14
00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,040
Speaker 5: hair braided equals vacation.

15
00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:09,959
Speaker 4: And we also must do it at the last minute,

16
00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:15,200
Speaker 4: at ten forty three pm the night before our morning flight.

17
00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:19,840
Speaker 2: Because we're smart. We're not we wait, we really plan

18
00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:20,760
Speaker 2: out ahead.

19
00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:25,720
Speaker 5: Playing things out really well. You also have Jamial is

20
00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:27,840
Speaker 5: also holding a seven month year old baby right now.

21
00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,959
Speaker 3: So do you hear a little cute little voice? That's her.

22
00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:34,199
Speaker 3: Her name's Lincoln and she's freaking adorable.

23
00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:35,360
Speaker 6: Hi.

24
00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:46,720
Speaker 5: Hi, Yeah, I'm tired. I've been driving all day. I

25
00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,240
Speaker 5: hate driving. It was not meant to drive, was meant

26
00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:50,120
Speaker 5: to be driven.

27
00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:56,680
Speaker 2: It's backed. I agree, I definitely need a driver. It's

28
00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:58,240
Speaker 2: not my strong point. I mean, like I could do it.

29
00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:00,520
Speaker 4: I'd like to drive sometimes, but most I want to

30
00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:03,800
Speaker 4: be driven, so I get text in the backseat.

31
00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,480
Speaker 3: First and foremost.

32
00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:14,880
Speaker 5: So this is the last weekend of our Black History

33
00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:16,359
Speaker 5: Month that we've been given.

34
00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:21,560
Speaker 4: Not that we've been given, but America chooses to observe that.

35
00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:28,359
Speaker 5: We choose, that they choose to acknowledge. So, yeah, there's

36
00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:30,840
Speaker 5: been some interesting things in the news in the past month.

37
00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,600
Speaker 5: I would say we've touched on a few things, but

38
00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:38,760
Speaker 5: more recently today r Kelly, if you didn't already know,

39
00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:40,680
Speaker 5: went to jail or turned himself in.

40
00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:41,920
Speaker 3: He's now posted.

41
00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:46,040
Speaker 5: Bond for a million dollars and apparently went straight to

42
00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:47,200
Speaker 5: the McDonald that he.

43
00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,040
Speaker 3: Praise on prays on.

44
00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:55,720
Speaker 2: Sorry, still has.

45
00:02:56,120 --> 00:03:01,320
Speaker 7: A cough on the baby.

46
00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,800
Speaker 5: Don't make me laugh, guys, stop laughing because I hate

47
00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:06,280
Speaker 5: that cough so much.

48
00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, and now it's like a week four thousand, seven

49
00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:12,560
Speaker 4: hundred and twenty six of this cough. Don't judge me,

50
00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:13,400
Speaker 4: and what's going on.

51
00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,960
Speaker 3: It's like, actually, car I explained it the best yesterday.

52
00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,120
Speaker 5: It's like it's like an annoying, like seven year old

53
00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:23,880
Speaker 5: like boy cough. It just like it just like fluck.

54
00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:26,760
Speaker 5: Cough just flies everywhere, and it's loud and it's annoying.

55
00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:28,440
Speaker 5: You want to just like curse up the little kid,

56
00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:29,760
Speaker 5: but you can't because he's a little kid.

57
00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:30,480
Speaker 3: But you're angry.

58
00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:34,119
Speaker 4: I've been getting sick shamed all four thousand and fourths,

59
00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,040
Speaker 4: three hundred and eighty seven weeks.

60
00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:38,760
Speaker 2: It's fucking ridiculous, you would think, because you need to

61
00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,680
Speaker 2: go to the doctor. Go I'm healing.

62
00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:42,440
Speaker 3: Oh you're not.

63
00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:43,800
Speaker 2: I'm getting better. The cough.

64
00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,840
Speaker 3: Get your throat hurt. Now it's my throat when you cough.

65
00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:48,320
Speaker 2: They're getting more far between.

66
00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:49,240
Speaker 8: Oh my god.

67
00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,160
Speaker 5: Anyway, R kelly went straight to the McDonald's. But apparently,

68
00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:57,240
Speaker 5: apparently he has preyed on younger underage girls in the

69
00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:06,160
Speaker 5: past at and proceeded to violate his what is it, yeah,

70
00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:10,000
Speaker 5: bail bail the terms of bail, which is no interaction

71
00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:13,160
Speaker 5: with anyone underage, and he took pictures with underage girls

72
00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,960
Speaker 5: at his famous McDonald said he frequents Also, would you

73
00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,279
Speaker 5: mind reading back some of those quotes that are in

74
00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:20,919
Speaker 5: the film that got him in this.

75
00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:26,240
Speaker 2: I think I remember them.

76
00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:27,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're pretty straightforward.

77
00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:33,520
Speaker 5: So apparently R Kelly the lawyer who turned in the

78
00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:38,480
Speaker 5: hidden tapes that R. Kelly's team has long been trying

79
00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:41,960
Speaker 5: to bury, even when he was first brought to court

80
00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:47,520
Speaker 5: in two thousand and eight. These tapes apparently say wait,

81
00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,440
Speaker 5: where is it?

82
00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:49,960
Speaker 2: Oh?

83
00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:54,159
Speaker 5: Here it is Michael Avenati in response to press inquiries.

84
00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,359
Speaker 5: Below is the information regarding the videotape we provided yesterday

85
00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:00,440
Speaker 5: to prosecutors. It leaves no doubt as to our Kelly's

86
00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:04,320
Speaker 5: guilt as to these serious sex crimes against underage girls.

87
00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:06,159
Speaker 3: Goes a little something like this.

88
00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,760
Speaker 5: M I can confirm that the video we provided to

89
00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:15,080
Speaker 5: prosecutors yesterday includes our Kelly clearly stating the following to

90
00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:20,080
Speaker 5: the victim, sometimes on multiple occasions, give me that fourteen

91
00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:23,360
Speaker 5: year old p ussy show Daddy.

92
00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,080
Speaker 3: I don't even feel comfortable saying the word fourteen year

93
00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:26,640
Speaker 3: old in front of it.

94
00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:30,520
Speaker 5: I'm just gonna spell it because I just can't show

95
00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:33,000
Speaker 5: Daddy that fourteen year old pe us s y.

96
00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:35,240
Speaker 3: Spread those legs and show me that.

97
00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:38,320
Speaker 5: Fourteen year old pu You know the rest, give me

98
00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:42,520
Speaker 5: that fourteen year old booty hole drops Mike.

99
00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,520
Speaker 2: Like, what what in the fucking fuck?

100
00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,520
Speaker 5: First of the victim also refers to herself as being

101
00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:54,040
Speaker 5: fourteen years old, repeatedly on tape.

102
00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:56,560
Speaker 2: Like, oh my god, this is out of control.

103
00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:58,960
Speaker 3: He's going to jail forever.

104
00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:04,920
Speaker 5: It's over, it's over, and all the people that defended him, like,

105
00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,880
Speaker 5: I can't, I can't. I can't believe how little we value,

106
00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,120
Speaker 5: you know, are women in our community.

107
00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:12,520
Speaker 3: It's really really depressing.

108
00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,279
Speaker 5: But I'm glad that justice is on its way to

109
00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:20,160
Speaker 5: being served. I wish this never happened, obviously, but at.

110
00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,800
Speaker 3: Least something's being done.

111
00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:25,760
Speaker 5: And it's like more and more men are being held accountable,

112
00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:27,280
Speaker 5: and there I bet there's a lot of men out

113
00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,159
Speaker 5: there right now that are getting more and more.

114
00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:32,560
Speaker 4: Scared, and I hope so because this is not acceptable behavior.

115
00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:38,320
Speaker 2: It's gross. It's fucking gross. He's gross, I feel. And

116
00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,640
Speaker 2: those poor people who are still in the sex cult,

117
00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:42,880
Speaker 2: I know, it's.

118
00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:47,719
Speaker 3: Just it's crazy. I don't even know how to do anyway.

119
00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:51,640
Speaker 3: So that's some you know. I was, you know, reflecting

120
00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:54,159
Speaker 3: on Czy too of Boo Boo.

121
00:06:55,160 --> 00:07:00,200
Speaker 5: I was reflecting on the past twenty eight days of

122
00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:00,719
Speaker 5: this month.

123
00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:02,240
Speaker 3: And it's been interesting.

124
00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:05,479
Speaker 5: There's been a lot of like negative things. There's been

125
00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:07,799
Speaker 5: a lot of like education happening.

126
00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:11,280
Speaker 3: There's been a lot of victories and wins for people.

127
00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,480
Speaker 5: You know, the Oscars just happened, and you know, Spike

128
00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:16,080
Speaker 5: Lee finally went his oscar.

129
00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,080
Speaker 2: And then Trump had something to say about it.

130
00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:23,480
Speaker 5: Oh god, whatever, and you know it's just Regina King

131
00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:27,600
Speaker 5: winning an oscar. I can't remember the woman who won

132
00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:30,960
Speaker 5: for set design, but she was. Her speech like brought

133
00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:34,200
Speaker 5: me to tears. And there's a lot of black excellence

134
00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:37,440
Speaker 5: going on. So that's really it's a beautiful thing. But

135
00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,600
Speaker 5: then there's a lot there's a lot of fuckery happening,

136
00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:42,160
Speaker 5: which you know is typical scheduled programming.

137
00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, this has to be a little bit of everything.

138
00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,760
Speaker 4: But overall there's a lot of the black excellence happening,

139
00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:53,320
Speaker 4: which is pretty dope. This is a cool time, but

140
00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,280
Speaker 4: it's also still bad times.

141
00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:57,080
Speaker 2: What else happened this month?

142
00:07:57,200 --> 00:08:00,280
Speaker 3: Oh, Gucci, Douci, Prada, Monkler.

143
00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:01,680
Speaker 2: They all have black face, apparent.

144
00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,920
Speaker 5: Monkler had the rope around the neck thing, the NEOs thing.

145
00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,480
Speaker 2: What you see that? What do you mean?

146
00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:14,440
Speaker 5: Well, basically, so their their runway show was themed as

147
00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,880
Speaker 5: like nautical, and so they had a hoodie literally with

148
00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:19,720
Speaker 5: a rope around the.

149
00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:22,840
Speaker 2: Neck and what what what approved of this?

150
00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:24,360
Speaker 3: It's just so insane.

151
00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:26,040
Speaker 5: I was talking to my friend about this because I

152
00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,680
Speaker 5: was like, how can they not know? Like how does

153
00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:32,080
Speaker 5: there's touch so many hands before it releases and no

154
00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:33,880
Speaker 5: one says anything. And my friend was like, you know

155
00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:37,800
Speaker 5: a lot of these Italian houses that that create all

156
00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,360
Speaker 5: this all this stuff, there's no.

157
00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:43,400
Speaker 3: They're out of touch. I mean that out of Yeah,

158
00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:44,160
Speaker 3: some of them are.

159
00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:47,720
Speaker 5: Even when I go to Europe sometimes like racism isn't

160
00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:49,480
Speaker 5: like something that they talk about like how it is

161
00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,880
Speaker 5: in America. It's not as jarring and as like it's

162
00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:55,560
Speaker 5: just polarizing as it is like the conversation.

163
00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:56,760
Speaker 3: Not that it doesn't.

164
00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:58,800
Speaker 5: Exist out there, it's just there's like more of like

165
00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,760
Speaker 5: a resistance happening here, whereas people are just out there

166
00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:03,080
Speaker 5: they're kind of like, good is what it is?

167
00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:04,160
Speaker 3: It happened and.

168
00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:08,840
Speaker 4: Whatever that's I mean, that's crazy. A new surround, a hoodie.

169
00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:11,600
Speaker 4: Why would that even be necessary?

170
00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:13,280
Speaker 3: It's ridiculous.

171
00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:16,480
Speaker 2: People are so insensitive. Wow.

172
00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:20,920
Speaker 5: Jannat Jackson announced her residency.

173
00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:24,480
Speaker 2: MGM, then can we make that happen? We're going are

174
00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:25,120
Speaker 2: you kidding me?

175
00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:30,040
Speaker 5: Like it's Janna Jackson, She's my first she's my first concert.

176
00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:31,240
Speaker 3: I went to see the Velvet Rope.

177
00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:32,839
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I always say that I've never been to

178
00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,439
Speaker 4: a Janet concert, and I'm highly disappointed in myself.

179
00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:36,880
Speaker 3: Oh it's so good.

180
00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:38,560
Speaker 2: That's a huge Jean. Well we're gonna go.

181
00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:40,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, because Vegas shows are amazing. I saw j Low

182
00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:42,160
Speaker 3: that was awesome.

183
00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,400
Speaker 2: Does Mariah have a residency?

184
00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:45,400
Speaker 3: I think it's over.

185
00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:48,880
Speaker 4: Oh dang, it's it's sad she did Yeah, she did, right, Yeah,

186
00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:53,199
Speaker 4: I remember she did. Brittany Ryan Drake hasmon right now, that's.

187
00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:54,800
Speaker 3: Not really a residency. It's it's a club appearing.

188
00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:56,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, I hate like they're making it. See why these

189
00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,600
Speaker 5: people have a residency. It's like Cardi b' is not

190
00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,080
Speaker 5: doesn't have a residency. I mean, it's a residency, but

191
00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,520
Speaker 5: at a club. It's not like a Vegas show.

192
00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:09,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, what about Jesse Smullett?

193
00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:11,440
Speaker 2: What do you think?

194
00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,839
Speaker 5: I'm just still battling with this one. I mean, I

195
00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:18,880
Speaker 5: think I need more. I need more clarity on it.

196
00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:21,040
Speaker 5: I don't want to just throw.

197
00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:24,080
Speaker 3: Him away.

198
00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:28,440
Speaker 5: I don't want to just like believe you know what's

199
00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:31,480
Speaker 5: being fed to me. But because also did you see

200
00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:34,800
Speaker 5: those text messages that he released, Yeah, they say that

201
00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:36,960
Speaker 5: he was paying them to trade him. Yeah, and they

202
00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:39,240
Speaker 5: had like having conversations about their trading schedule.

203
00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:40,120
Speaker 3: But I don't know if that was a.

204
00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,360
Speaker 5: Code word, if that was set up beforehand to make

205
00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:46,040
Speaker 5: it seem like they were who knows trading all those

206
00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,600
Speaker 5: strange that like he went to Chicago and then they

207
00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,439
Speaker 5: followed him there to beat him up, Like I don't.

208
00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:53,400
Speaker 2: Oh wait, oh, so those those guys were from Chicago.

209
00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:56,920
Speaker 3: I don't think so. No, I don't know.

210
00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:01,280
Speaker 4: I heard that the guys that were supposedly allegedly hired

211
00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,560
Speaker 4: were they were like extras on the show, and that's

212
00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:06,960
Speaker 4: how but that's why I thought they were local.

213
00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:10,240
Speaker 5: But apparently like he paid them like five weeks before

214
00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:13,439
Speaker 5: they were even supposed to start training him, and like.

215
00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:16,760
Speaker 3: They said, they were making fun of their they sent

216
00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:18,360
Speaker 3: him a meal plan. People were making fun of the

217
00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:20,679
Speaker 3: meal plan had like tuna and peanut.

218
00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:22,880
Speaker 2: Butter on there. Or I saw that.

219
00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:26,560
Speaker 3: He just I don't know Jesse, but he I mean,

220
00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:27,640
Speaker 3: I don't know him, id all.

221
00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:29,839
Speaker 5: Then there was rumors, I don't know if he said it,

222
00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:32,800
Speaker 5: that he was battling an untreated drug problem.

223
00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:36,640
Speaker 3: I don't is that is that this excuse? I don't behavior.

224
00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:37,760
Speaker 3: I don't know if that's confirmed.

225
00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:40,920
Speaker 5: I just it seems like such a nice and it's

226
00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:43,560
Speaker 5: not innocent, but like just a sweet person.

227
00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:47,040
Speaker 3: That, like I do, wouldn't do something so selfish and strain.

228
00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:49,360
Speaker 2: I know it is it's odd and I can't think

229
00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:51,800
Speaker 2: of a motive. That's it's really confusing, is.

230
00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:55,760
Speaker 3: Like, is it is this all like a plot to

231
00:11:55,960 --> 00:11:57,000
Speaker 3: weaken our cause?

232
00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:00,960
Speaker 5: Like right right the weekend, like the Black Cause wearing

233
00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,440
Speaker 5: the Gay Cause all at once, like knock them both

234
00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:05,360
Speaker 5: out with one and one one hit.

235
00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:07,000
Speaker 2: I mean, they think this is gonna knock it out.

236
00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:10,880
Speaker 4: They'redly mistaken, of course, but it just it gives like

237
00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:16,439
Speaker 4: Trump supporters Trump supporters.

238
00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:26,200
Speaker 9: Like, am yeah, I thought, yeah, I can't think he

239
00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:26,800
Speaker 9: needs more money.

240
00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:29,120
Speaker 4: I can't think he needs more fame. So I just

241
00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:32,000
Speaker 4: don't understand it. I just think maybe they're lying, and

242
00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:33,880
Speaker 4: the police lie about a lot of shit, so I'm

243
00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:34,959
Speaker 4: just gonna stick with they're going.

244
00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:35,800
Speaker 2: But I did see the.

245
00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:39,200
Speaker 4: Surveillance of the two guys buying hats, and I'm like,

246
00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:43,480
Speaker 4: this is awfully convenience, the ski mask and the hat

247
00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:45,640
Speaker 4: at the same time, in the same purchase.

248
00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:46,400
Speaker 2: Together on camera.

249
00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:49,760
Speaker 3: That came out a while ago though I already seen that.

250
00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:54,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, I still think it's terrible. Oh onto other news,

251
00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,520
Speaker 2: the pop culture in the.

252
00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:05,560
Speaker 5: Pop stricks in front of anything, it's the internet, the Internet.

253
00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:11,840
Speaker 4: Tristan Thompson and Jordan love affair one night Stand.

254
00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:14,200
Speaker 2: What do you think?

255
00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:21,000
Speaker 5: I think it's a Kardashian curse or manufactured story.

256
00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,800
Speaker 3: I don't know who knows, So don't. I don't put

257
00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:24,560
Speaker 3: ship past.

258
00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:26,880
Speaker 2: Them, like they would just let her go.

259
00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:29,560
Speaker 3: She ain't going nowhere. That's where she's going on the

260
00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:30,120
Speaker 3: red table.

261
00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:34,080
Speaker 5: Talk to go, like try to like save her herself

262
00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:36,439
Speaker 5: because Jada Pinket's gonna make people.

263
00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:38,720
Speaker 3: Be like, she's so young and dumb. Let's talk to

264
00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:40,319
Speaker 3: her and figure out why she did this.

265
00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:42,199
Speaker 2: Isn't she twenty one?

266
00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:43,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's so young.

267
00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:46,720
Speaker 5: Really, Like I blame her for sure, but I really

268
00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,320
Speaker 5: blame him, Like you're supposed to be. You're even older,

269
00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:52,080
Speaker 5: You have the family, you already have two kids, you

270
00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:54,640
Speaker 5: already had a baby with someone else named Jordan.

271
00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:56,760
Speaker 3: Really yeah, his baby mom.

272
00:13:56,679 --> 00:14:00,640
Speaker 2: Was, it's just.

273
00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:10,719
Speaker 5: You want your baby, bottle baby, let may go baby.

274
00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:15,600
Speaker 4: I don't know because he's only like twenty seven, right,

275
00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:17,480
Speaker 4: he's young.

276
00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:19,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's young too, but I mean, you have two kids.

277
00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:20,360
Speaker 2: Grow up.

278
00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,320
Speaker 4: Clearly he's not getting the memo, but the growing up memo,

279
00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:25,440
Speaker 4: I mean, grow up.

280
00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:27,240
Speaker 3: Also, I don't know.

281
00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:29,600
Speaker 5: I can't imagine the kind of pressure you're under dating

282
00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:30,960
Speaker 5: at Kardashian.

283
00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:33,360
Speaker 4: The kind of pressure that says, don't fuck her sister's

284
00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:39,520
Speaker 4: best friend, you know, just basic shita pressures.

285
00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:42,840
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're.

286
00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:45,040
Speaker 4: Right, and then she's done, Like I don't care how

287
00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,760
Speaker 4: much she wanted to say there was more than an

288
00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:48,960
Speaker 4: alcoholic influence.

289
00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:50,560
Speaker 2: Oh, Jordan, yeah for sure.

290
00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:52,800
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I make mistakes all the time while

291
00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:58,920
Speaker 5: drinking alcohol. Not that that's not an excuse. He's your

292
00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,560
Speaker 5: best friend's sister's baby daddy.

293
00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:05,800
Speaker 2: Yeah that's oh, but that's all bad.

294
00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:11,480
Speaker 5: But anyway, we have a special guest today. Our special

295
00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:17,160
Speaker 5: guest is our beautiful woman who's braiding our hands today. Okay,

296
00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:19,040
Speaker 5: can you introduce yourself?

297
00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:19,520
Speaker 10: Hi?

298
00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:20,440
Speaker 7: I'm Leana.

299
00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:23,800
Speaker 3: What's up? Leanna?

300
00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:27,280
Speaker 4: And Lincoln who was very sleepy and doesn't want to

301
00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:31,920
Speaker 4: go to sleep, Yes, like my four year old.

302
00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,440
Speaker 3: They like she crashed and she keeps trying to look

303
00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:36,680
Speaker 3: at me, you know, somebody, like.

304
00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:39,960
Speaker 6: They slowly dre know, like she'll be moving.

305
00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:43,560
Speaker 7: She crashes, she doesn't like slowly.

306
00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:43,800
Speaker 2: Go to sleep.

307
00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:47,600
Speaker 4: Oh my god, lays I'll sell a mom. She's brought

308
00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:49,720
Speaker 4: her baby and.

309
00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:50,880
Speaker 3: How does she again?

310
00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:52,520
Speaker 7: Seven months?

311
00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:53,520
Speaker 2: Seven months?

312
00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:54,760
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness?

313
00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:56,240
Speaker 2: How old are you?

314
00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:57,600
Speaker 7: Twenty three?

315
00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,280
Speaker 2: She is great? How's motherhood so far?

316
00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:01,360
Speaker 6: I love it?

317
00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:03,240
Speaker 7: I mean I'm making mistakes every day.

318
00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:05,680
Speaker 2: I mean, that's join the club.

319
00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:06,800
Speaker 3: Were you planning on being?

320
00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:07,080
Speaker 6: Like?

321
00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:08,720
Speaker 3: Were you? Did you plan on being a mom or

322
00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:10,240
Speaker 3: did you want to be? Because I mean it's you're

323
00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:11,160
Speaker 3: pretty young to be a mom.

324
00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:11,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

325
00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,000
Speaker 11: I mean I knew I always wanted to have kids.

326
00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:15,920
Speaker 11: I just didn't know that. I didn't think it was

327
00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:19,320
Speaker 11: going to happen, like like when it happened.

328
00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:21,320
Speaker 2: So were you trying or no?

329
00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:23,640
Speaker 11: Not that I was trying. I just I knew I

330
00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:24,760
Speaker 11: always wanted to have kids.

331
00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:26,240
Speaker 3: It's just were you not trying?

332
00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:28,160
Speaker 7: I wasn't trying at all.

333
00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:30,160
Speaker 2: Were you not not trying?

334
00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:33,720
Speaker 3: You're not like you are not putting a condom on?

335
00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:36,480
Speaker 2: You were not pulling out?

336
00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:39,960
Speaker 5: Hm?

337
00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:42,840
Speaker 2: Hm? Why?

338
00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:43,320
Speaker 7: Why?

339
00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:44,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god?

340
00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:44,760
Speaker 3: She's so cute?

341
00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:50,360
Speaker 5: I mean should I had my baby at twenty eight

342
00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:53,320
Speaker 5: and that was.

343
00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:55,600
Speaker 2: Hard, right, I was still like, little shit, what the

344
00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:56,600
Speaker 2: hell's going on here?

345
00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:58,000
Speaker 3: So I can imagine.

346
00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:01,120
Speaker 5: I mean, you're in school, you're doing like multiple things, right, Like,

347
00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:04,119
Speaker 5: that's got to be really hard to balance everything it is.

348
00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:06,320
Speaker 11: I mean, I have the help from my mom, which

349
00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:10,439
Speaker 11: like I don't know, why don't I really don't like

350
00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:11,960
Speaker 11: she's such a big help.

351
00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:17,560
Speaker 3: Do you feel like do you feel like? What was

352
00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:18,080
Speaker 3: my question?

353
00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:18,360
Speaker 4: Wow?

354
00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:21,840
Speaker 3: I had a really good question. It just really it

355
00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:22,960
Speaker 3: just came to went.

356
00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:32,240
Speaker 6: Thinking, you can't touch this on my hand?

357
00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:35,120
Speaker 4: Are you with the Lincoln's Dead?

358
00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:40,120
Speaker 2: No? Did that happen after while you're pregnant?

359
00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:42,159
Speaker 7: We were never together?

360
00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:44,399
Speaker 6: Yeah, we were never together.

361
00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:47,520
Speaker 3: Is he active in her life? Sometimes?

362
00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:49,120
Speaker 7: I wouldn't even say.

363
00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:54,640
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's like so you're like, definitely, he's a Monday dead.

364
00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:54,919
Speaker 2: That's what.

365
00:17:56,680 --> 00:18:00,320
Speaker 11: Day he always texts me or calls me, like because

366
00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:01,800
Speaker 11: he lives in New York, so he's like, oh.

367
00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:04,919
Speaker 7: I'll be out there on Monday. Oh god, he's a

368
00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:05,560
Speaker 7: Monday dad.

369
00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,399
Speaker 2: I call him a Monday dead. Does he come?

370
00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:09,520
Speaker 7: And I call him her her sperm growner?

371
00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:09,800
Speaker 6: I don't know.

372
00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:13,280
Speaker 4: Oh that sounds familiar. Yes, there's many of these terms.

373
00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:16,240
Speaker 4: I didn't I think I have to adopt the Monday one.

374
00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:19,960
Speaker 11: The Monday dad right, He's like, is he young too?

375
00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:21,600
Speaker 7: He's twenty eight?

376
00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:23,880
Speaker 3: Okay? Does he have other kids? He has one other

377
00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:25,080
Speaker 3: daughter yet in New Yorker?

378
00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:30,159
Speaker 2: Okay, how does that fid? How old is she the

379
00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,600
Speaker 2: other kid? She she just turned to Okay, so they're

380
00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:38,359
Speaker 2: pretty close. Yeah, hmmm, do you know the other mom? No? Interesting?

381
00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:42,200
Speaker 5: Do you feel as a young mom, because like when

382
00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:44,840
Speaker 5: I was your age, I was getting blacked out drunk,

383
00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:49,520
Speaker 5: doing lots of drugs and being very responsible. Clearly you

384
00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:52,439
Speaker 5: can't really do that. I mean you could, but you know,

385
00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:56,919
Speaker 5: probably shouldn't. Yeah, do you feel like you're like missing

386
00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:58,240
Speaker 5: out on that or do you even care?

387
00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,760
Speaker 3: Did you? Did you like before prior to having a child,

388
00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:03,400
Speaker 3: were you what? Did you go out a lot?

389
00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:04,360
Speaker 7: I went out?

390
00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:06,199
Speaker 3: Because what you got pregnant probably when you were like

391
00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:07,920
Speaker 3: what twenty two or twenty?

392
00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:12,240
Speaker 11: I got pregnant when I was I was turning twenty two,

393
00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:12,760
Speaker 11: twenty one.

394
00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:13,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

395
00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:16,679
Speaker 11: I got pregnant in November last year and then I

396
00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:18,000
Speaker 11: turned twenty two in December.

397
00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:22,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, So do you feel like you're missing out on

398
00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:24,840
Speaker 4: any of that blacked out drunkness?

399
00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:28,640
Speaker 5: I just wonder, because like, I don't know what it's

400
00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:30,400
Speaker 5: like to be like a young super young.

401
00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:32,160
Speaker 3: I mean we weren't that young, you know.

402
00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,960
Speaker 2: We had like a good like eight years of blackout drunkness.

403
00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,440
Speaker 7: Ten Yeah, I never really got like.

404
00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:40,159
Speaker 3: Blackout drunk maybe not blackout like I.

405
00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:42,000
Speaker 6: Mean, I like going out.

406
00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:43,959
Speaker 2: How important is blackout drunk to you?

407
00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:45,399
Speaker 8: For me?

408
00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:49,040
Speaker 4: The hair because very high and important level, kind of

409
00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:54,200
Speaker 4: like your club hair, very high like my club hair.

410
00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:54,919
Speaker 4: Oh I was.

411
00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:59,159
Speaker 11: Yeah, I've never been blackout, but I did party. I

412
00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:02,439
Speaker 11: believe a party. I don't really feel like I'm missing out.

413
00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,159
Speaker 3: Because you used to go out now or do I

414
00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:04,600
Speaker 3: go out?

415
00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:07,640
Speaker 11: Like if my mom, if I ask her to watch her,

416
00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:11,639
Speaker 11: she'll watch her. But for the most part, I just

417
00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,400
Speaker 11: like spending time with her, I because I don't want

418
00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:16,960
Speaker 11: to miss anything, right, So like I try to spend

419
00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:17,879
Speaker 11: as much time as.

420
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:18,440
Speaker 7: I can with her.

421
00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:22,320
Speaker 3: Do you have other friends with kids? Yes, I'll do

422
00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:23,400
Speaker 3: a lot of your friends have kids.

423
00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,960
Speaker 11: Mmmmm no, I have a few friends. The ones that

424
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:27,520
Speaker 11: I have that are kids, they're a little.

425
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:28,600
Speaker 2: Bit older than me, okay.

426
00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:31,399
Speaker 11: And then the friends that I do have, well, actually,

427
00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:34,439
Speaker 11: my friend is pregnant now, she's doing may Oh, so

428
00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:38,719
Speaker 11: a few of my friends they're older and have kids.

429
00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,120
Speaker 11: And then a few of my friends are pregnant.

430
00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:43,520
Speaker 2: Now I'm about to have kids. Most of your friends

431
00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,120
Speaker 2: out here in LA or are they back home? They're

432
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:46,320
Speaker 2: back in Philly. Yeah.

433
00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,720
Speaker 5: Oh you're from Philly. Oh okay, you and your Philly connection.

434
00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:51,520
Speaker 5: I always got a Philly connected.

435
00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:52,719
Speaker 2: Well you know I'm from Philly.

436
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,640
Speaker 3: Okay, bitch, got it, make it known.

437
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:55,880
Speaker 2: You forget all the time.

438
00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:00,920
Speaker 4: Actually her, her mom is friends with us. She okay,

439
00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:07,959
Speaker 4: how is your birth experience?

440
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:12,520
Speaker 6: Oh my god, I'm currently suing the hospital.

441
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:17,399
Speaker 11: Really, So what happened was we went to the beach

442
00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 11: and I was riding bikes and that like kind of

443
00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 11: like started like I had like started out.

444
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 6: The contractions, and so we like rushed to the hospital.

445
00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:29,439
Speaker 11: And so when I got there, they were like I

446
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:32,360
Speaker 11: was like two three centimeters dilated.

447
00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:34,840
Speaker 6: So they were like, okay, we're gonna give you morphine.

448
00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,359
Speaker 3: Morphine. Why morphine?

449
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,920
Speaker 7: They said that the morphine will like help me dilate.

450
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,680
Speaker 11: So I was there by myself because my mom had

451
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,480
Speaker 11: to go back home with my little sister because they

452
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:48,520
Speaker 11: I was like in the emergency part, like the labor

453
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 11: room or whatever, and they.

454
00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 7: Told her that my little sister was too young to be.

455
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,640
Speaker 11: In there, so she had to go back home with her.

456
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:57,920
Speaker 11: So me, not knowing, I was like, okay, give me

457
00:21:57,960 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 11: the morphine.

458
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:02,160
Speaker 2: So right, because you're just gonna take whatever they say.

459
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 6: Right, So I took. They gave me the working nothing happened.

460
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:09,359
Speaker 11: So then they told me, well, in order to for

461
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 11: you to get induced, you have to get epidural. And

462
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 11: I was so against epidural. I didn't want it because

463
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:19,280
Speaker 11: I originally went a home birth. And so they gave

464
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,960
Speaker 11: me the epidural and you know, and you.

465
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 7: I don't know if you've ever been on Potoso when they.

466
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 5: Gave you, the contractions are so intense exactly.

467
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:32,200
Speaker 11: So they gave me the epidural and I was feeling

468
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,720
Speaker 11: my contractions, so you know that button that you're the

469
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 11: pressed to release the Yeah, So it literally would last

470
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:40,720
Speaker 11: ten minutes and then I was circling on my contractions

471
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:42,920
Speaker 11: again and it hurt ten times worse.

472
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 7: Because I was on. So I told them and they

473
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:48,680
Speaker 7: were like, oh, well, we're gonna have to take it

474
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 7: out of your back and put it back in.

475
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 3: Oh no, that's so.

476
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 7: Yeah. So my mom was like, no, absolutely not. She

477
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 7: was like, you guys aren't playing with her spine.

478
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,439
Speaker 6: So they did charged me.

479
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,680
Speaker 12: What do you mean they discharged.

480
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 11: Because they wouldn't because because I wouldn't do it again.

481
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:09,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, they discharged me.

482
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,360
Speaker 7: So the next day, I.

483
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 3: Because you wouldn't put the epidural back back in. Yeah

484
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 3: it is that like legally you have to do put in.

485
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 2: You don't have to.

486
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 6: This was Holy Cross and Mission Hills.

487
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 3: What the hell?

488
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 11: Yeah, And so I knew that I had an appointment

489
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,439
Speaker 11: with my OBI the next day. So I went and

490
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:31,879
Speaker 11: I told him, and he was pissed.

491
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:35,159
Speaker 4: He was like, they what that's his that's his like

492
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,119
Speaker 4: where he practices out of the right, that's where he

493
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 4: was going to deliver it.

494
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 7: Well, he doesn't deliver anymore other people, right right. Yeah,

495
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 7: but he was like what he.

496
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 11: Was like, She's like no, because I was already having

497
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 11: problems because her foot was in my rim so like

498
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 11: it was hurting.

499
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:57,719
Speaker 7: And then he thought that I had preclampsy.

500
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, because you're having pain.

501
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:09,919
Speaker 11: No, because my feet like swelling out of nowhere.

502
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 2: No, he just changed it.

503
00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:13,239
Speaker 7: Yeah, they swell up.

504
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 11: They had they had gotten swollen out of nowhere because

505
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 11: I had a really good pregnancy up until the last

506
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 11: few weeks and so that that's originally why.

507
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 7: He had sent me over to the hospital.

508
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:30,639
Speaker 11: And girl, it was like, uh, it was like a

509
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 11: few days before I had went and did that whole

510
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 11: morphine and epidural crap.

511
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 6: So he said, okay, you're giving birth.

512
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 3: He said, you're.

513
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 7: Basically full term. He was like, so I'm sending.

514
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 11: You back over there. So he sent me back and

515
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 11: I got admitted and my nurse said, so, do you.

516
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 6: Want the epidural again?

517
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 11: And I said, well, I don't know, because you know,

518
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 11: you guys screwed me over the first time.

519
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 6: So she said, well just think about it it you know.

520
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 7: So my mom was home with my sister at the time,

521
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 7: and I just could not take the pain.

522
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 11: I think, honestly, I think if someone was in there

523
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 11: with me, then I probably could have took the pain.

524
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 3: You were alone, but.

525
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 7: Exactly so, I was just like.

526
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 3: Was there even a nurse in there with you?

527
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 7: No, there wasn't even her. She gave me a ball

528
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 7: you were and I was by myself, and I was just.

529
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 13: Like so much young, and like, your mom, isn't that

530
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:31,199
Speaker 13: what the hell kind of Well my mom because she

531
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 13: had to be home by sister son, No, but I'm

532
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 13: just saying like it's not your mom's fault, but no one.

533
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,679
Speaker 11: Was, and I said, okayn, my sister being there, she's

534
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:40,919
Speaker 11: They said only if she's your child, and I'm like,

535
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:41,119
Speaker 11: so do.

536
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:42,919
Speaker 2: You want me to lie and say she's my child?

537
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 11: I wanted her in there because I wanted her to

538
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 11: cut her in loolical cord. So anyways, I was like, okay,

539
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 11: I'll just get that for durl. So I was like,

540
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 11: but is it the same anethesia doctor that did it

541
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:56,400
Speaker 11: last time?

542
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 7: And she said no, this one was really good.

543
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 2: So the other. So so he came down and.

544
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,959
Speaker 7: Did it, and I literally had to get it, like

545
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 7: I was having contractions. Well so like it was so

546
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 7: hard for me.

547
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 11: To like stay still, and so he's like, you can't

548
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 11: move and I'm like it I can't, like and so

549
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 11: I literally got.

550
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 7: The epidural during a contraction and like it was so

551
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 7: hard for me.

552
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 11: As they still, but I did it, and then I

553
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 11: did it. He lifted the epidurl on my back and

554
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 11: it worked. So then the doctor that was delivering men

555
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 11: came in and I told to him what happened when

556
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 11: I first went the day before, and he said, okay, well,

557
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 11: remember your water, you swing to me. You know, once

558
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 11: your water's broken, you have to deliver within.

559
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 2: The twenty four hours. Yeah, So he.

560
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:49,400
Speaker 7: Broke it and I started dilating.

561
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:55,439
Speaker 11: By the next morning, I dilated eight centimeters. So I

562
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 11: had to lay on one side with the peanut and

563
00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 11: between my legs. I had to lay on each side

564
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 11: for an hour until I got to ten centimeters and

565
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 11: then after that it was like full time and my

566
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 11: mom was there and.

567
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 7: The nurse. She was basically coaching me, like telling me like, okay,

568
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 7: this is your think.

569
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 6: You have to push your chin down to your chest.

570
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 2: And you have to push.

571
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:19,919
Speaker 11: She's like, you have to do it like every like

572
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 11: every three contractions.

573
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 7: You had to push three tongues.

574
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 4: And so.

575
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 7: I was pushing. We did a practice and she's.

576
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 6: Like, Okay, you're really good.

577
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 11: She was like, so let's just get started. So the

578
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:32,959
Speaker 11: doctor wasn't even in there yet. She like just started

579
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 11: and so.

580
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 7: I pushed her out.

581
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 11: A little bit under two hours and it was I

582
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 11: wound up having a fever. I think my favorite I

583
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 11: got up like one hundred and three and it called

584
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 11: her to have a fever because I was like, really

585
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 11: the dehydrated, like when I was pushing and so after that,

586
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 11: I think they because I think they cut me a

587
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 11: little bit when she came out because her head was

588
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 11: like too big. So she was like sewing me up

589
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,400
Speaker 11: and my legs like felt like I don't know, Joe,

590
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 11: this was a weird feeling.

591
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 7: But I was like I need the walk.

592
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:05,400
Speaker 2: I need the walk.

593
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 11: And yeah, he was like, way, I'm so because I

594
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:10,880
Speaker 11: was like, oh, he's like you feel that. I was like, no,

595
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:11,479
Speaker 11: my leg's urt.

596
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 2: I need to get up. I need to walk.

597
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 3: And so.

598
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:18,199
Speaker 7: Once they finished everything, she was.

599
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 11: Like, Okay, we're gonna push you in a w beelchair

600
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 11: and you can hold baby.

601
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 7: I said, no, I need to walk, and she's like you're.

602
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 12: Gonna walk, and I was like, I don't want to walk.

603
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 11: So literally I was walking down the hallway and the

604
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 11: nurses were clapping and I asked my nurse why why

605
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 11: are they clapping and she's like, because you're walking normally.

606
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,440
Speaker 7: Mom's sitting with you. Like, oh, no, I need to walk.

607
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 7: So you know when they check the baby when you

608
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 7: go what is it like the.

609
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 6: Post part of my rooms.

610
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, they have to thoroughly check the baby.

611
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 11: So clearly they didn't do that with her because when

612
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 11: I went home, I'd seen something in her head and

613
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 11: I was like.

614
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 7: Why is there food in her head? Like like she

615
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 7: doesn't like how? So I looked in the back of

616
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 7: her head and she had a hole and puss was

617
00:28:58,400 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 7: coming out of it.

618
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 11: So what happened was I went to I didn't go

619
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 11: back to the hospital. I went to the north Ridge

620
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 11: Hospital and they had to run all these tests. They

621
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 11: even had to go on her spine because they had

622
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 11: to run certain tests to see what it was.

623
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 7: And they were they were asking me.

624
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 11: They were like, you know, did you ever have her

625
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 11: fees or is you like you guys have my records

626
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 11: like you.

627
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 7: Guys spent every month.

628
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 11: But because they were like, well, when you push her out,

629
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 11: you know, did you have her like how you guys

630
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 11: have my records Like I got.

631
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 7: Checked every month, right right right right, So there's no possible.

632
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 6: Way, and they're like, we just we have to ask.

633
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 11: So when they went to look for the records at

634
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 11: holy Cross, there was no record of them putting the

635
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 11: internal probe inside of me. So what happened was when

636
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 11: I was in labor, they couldn't monitor her from the

637
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 11: outside anymore, so they put an internal probe and it

638
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 11: like it like attaches on her to her head.

639
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,040
Speaker 7: So they're saying either.

640
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 11: Their probe was dirty or like something, because that's what

641
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 11: caused the hole and that's why the puss was coming out.

642
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 2: And they didn't even tell you they were doing that.

643
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 11: Well, no, they said that they were putting an internal probe,

644
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 11: but they didn't give me anything to like sign and they

645
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 11: didn't put it in my record stating that that's what

646
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 11: they did. Because when north Bridge had requested my records

647
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 11: from Holy Cross, it wasn't in it. And they asked me.

648
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 11: They said that they put like an internal program.

649
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 7: Then I said, yes, they did.

650
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 11: I said they couldn't monitor me from the outside anymore

651
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 11: because she was starting to move down, so they said

652
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 11: they had to monitor her from the inside. And he said, well,

653
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 11: the probe attaches to their head, and he said that's

654
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 11: what caused the puss.

655
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 7: He said something. He said that the nurse should have

656
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 7: put it, she.

657
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 6: Should have documented it, she should have put it.

658
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 12: In my record affect her like, well, that's what they're saying.

659
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 11: They're saying that, you know, like because she had the

660
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 11: cause she was in the niku for two weeks.

661
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 7: She was in there because two.

662
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 11: Days because of that, because she had to be on antibiotic,

663
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 11: and they just they wanted to make sure.

664
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 7: It wasn't infected because.

665
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 11: All the every all the tests that they did came

666
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 11: back negative, so they didn't know what it was. But

667
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 11: they were like, clearly it's infected because it's puts suits

668
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 11: coming out.

669
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 6: So that that whole thing.

670
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 7: Caused her head to be flat.

671
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 11: Now she has a flat head because she had to

672
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 11: lay on the back of her head, so now she

673
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 11: has to wear a helmet to like shape her head.

674
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 7: So when I talked to.

675
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 11: The lawyer, he basically was like, you can sue them

676
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 11: on a lot of stuff. He said, you can basically

677
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 11: sue them because you know, she was on a heavy

678
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 11: medication only two weeks old and not seeing that it'll happen,

679
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 11: but she could possibly have like development issues.

680
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 2: That she gets older or like anything.

681
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 11: So he was just basically saying that it's a lot

682
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 11: of stuff that I could get them on. So I

683
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 11: will say, I had a really good pregnancy up until

684
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 11: like the last month, but had I had a really.

685
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 6: Bad delivery, a really bad look.

686
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 7: I had a really bad like labor pulled.

687
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 3: Part of experience.

688
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 2: I mean being in the nikki with your newborn for

689
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 2: two weeks?

690
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 7: Did you think you.

691
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 3: Had postpartum that after that post depression?

692
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 7: Not really.

693
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 11: I was more so just worried about her because they

694
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 11: were telling me, like, you know the possibilities of stuff.

695
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 6: That can happen.

696
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 11: So I was just more worried than all of that. Yeah,

697
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 11: for this, and I stayed. I stayed in the nikki

698
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 11: with her.

699
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 7: The entire time.

700
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 2: Wow, that's crazy.

701
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 7: The only time I left was to like go take

702
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 7: a shower.

703
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 4: Prior would you say, prior to giving birth, Like, obviously

704
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 4: you knew you didn't want you didn't really want to

705
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 4: up adul, But did you have like a birth plan?

706
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 2: Did you write anything out that said this is you know, did.

707
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 4: You think about that at all, about like not having

708
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 4: any interruptions during your pregnancy, not having any any like

709
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 4: drug Well.

710
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 11: Yeah, I was like so anti epidural, Like I actually

711
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 11: wanted home birth, but when he thought I had preclamcia,

712
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 11: he thought that I was like a high risk, so

713
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 11: we scratched.

714
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 10: Out home birth and then early on, yeah, early on,

715
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 10: I want at home birth, but usually preclamsia doesn't show up,

716
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 10: or is there's no signs of that till the third trimester.

717
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

718
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 11: When towards the end was when I started, he thought

719
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 11: that I had preclamsia. So then we scratched that the

720
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 11: home birth out because he thought that I was like

721
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 11: high risk. But turned out when I went to the hospital,

722
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 11: I didn't have preclamcy.

723
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 7: I was just swelling.

724
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 2: I was just fat, right right.

725
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 11: So then I said, okay, well I'm gonna have a

726
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 11: you know, I'm going to deliver at the hospital.

727
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 7: And I took the tour at holy Cross.

728
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 11: I took the tour at holy Cross, and I took

729
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 11: the tour at north Ridge because I had three children that.

730
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 7: Had north Ridge, holy Cross, you know, some other hospital.

731
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 11: But I was more focused on north Ridge and holy

732
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 11: Cross because they were near me.

733
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 7: And I should have.

734
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:00,080
Speaker 2: Went to West Hills, I know, and that's that's.

735
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 7: There me too, And so.

736
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 11: I scratched out north Ridge after I went on a

737
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 11: tour because I had went on Yelp and Google and

738
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 11: was looking at the ratings and the comments and I

739
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 11: didn't like it. And so when I went on a

740
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,399
Speaker 11: tour with holy Cross and then I looked at their

741
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 11: reviews and comments, I really like them. But after delivering,

742
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 11: a lot of people told me they were like, yeah,

743
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:28,879
Speaker 11: holy Cross, they don't care.

744
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 7: They were like that.

745
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,400
Speaker 6: The nurses they just basically like it's like they don't care.

746
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:34,920
Speaker 3: They just go to work for a check.

747
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's really important. I mean, I can't even imagine

748
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:42,320
Speaker 4: that twenty three even knowing anything to think about about

749
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:43,360
Speaker 4: being alone.

750
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's scary.

751
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 4: It's it's scary at any age, should be like just

752
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 4: going into labor. Yeah, so to just be alone, because

753
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 4: I think, you know, I was alone for a little.

754
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 2: Sorry, for a little while in the hospital.

755
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 4: I think I was with my baby buddy's sister, and

756
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 4: then she had to leave and I was spending for

757
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 4: him to come. So there was a time where I

758
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 4: was long and it was only like maybe an hour

759
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 4: or two, and I was tripping. So I can only imagine,

760
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 4: you know, just being alone and then they just tell

761
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 4: you whatever you you know, you think sounds, you know,

762
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 4: you trust them, and you're in a very vulnerable state,

763
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,760
Speaker 4: not you know shit that usually haven't given birth before,

764
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 4: and you're concerned about your baby. It's painful. There's so

765
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:32,399
Speaker 4: many factors that contribute to that. So that's why every

766
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,840
Speaker 4: time I find like I run into a mom that's pregnant,

767
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 4: young or old or whatever. I'm always like, do you

768
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 4: have a birth planned? Do you know how you want

769
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 4: to give birth? Have you seen this documentary? Because the

770
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 4: ship is so over medicalized that a lot of times

771
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 4: they end up messing messing shit up instead of letting

772
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 4: nature do its thing. Yeah, which, we know how to birth.

773
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 4: Our bodies know how to birth, just like any animal

774
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,280
Speaker 4: in the in you know, in the wild just births.

775
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 4: You go into a dark place and you let your

776
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:03,799
Speaker 4: body do its thing.

777
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 10: You know.

778
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 4: Western medicine over medicalizes so much shit that's so fucking unnecessary,

779
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:12,800
Speaker 4: and a lot of times once you have an interruption,

780
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 4: everything else goes fucking downhill.

781
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I.

782
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 11: Know I want to have more kids, but it's like

783
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 11: I'm scared of the labor and delivery.

784
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 2: Part right now. Of course.

785
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 4: So, as a young mom, have you felt like.

786
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 2: After you had a baby you had to shift in

787
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 2: any way, Like.

788
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 11: Yeah, I just shift the well I want to say

789
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 11: I had to shift a lot, but yeah, being a

790
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 11: young mom, well, just being a mom period, right, I

791
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 11: feel like it's life changing, So of course you have

792
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 11: to make changes.

793
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 5: To your life, right, right, so if you do, you

794
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 5: feel like you've lost friends because even as you know,

795
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 5: because I felt like I do, and I know, like

796
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 5: I just felt like my friends at the time, like

797
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 5: a lot of.

798
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 3: I was going out. I was, you know, I was

799
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 3: going out.

800
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,879
Speaker 5: I was young too, and like not not as same

801
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 5: as you, but like I was still going out and stuff,

802
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:15,879
Speaker 5: and my friends that didn't have kids and we're still

803
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 5: living that life didn't understand the new life that I

804
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 5: was living.

805
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 3: And so I was like, well, we're just.

806
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 5: Not going to hang out then, because I can't go

807
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 5: to the party tonight.

808
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 7: You know.

809
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 6: Surprisingly, a lot of my friends are like very helpful.

810
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 11: That's a I get help from a lot of my friends.

811
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 11: Like a lot of my friends.

812
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,400
Speaker 6: I get that help because.

813
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 7: I need it.

814
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 6: I'm not ashamed to say I need help.

815
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 2: That's good, right, right, because shit is hard. She is

816
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:48,240
Speaker 2: rather rough out here.

817
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:53,799
Speaker 11: And I think, well, I don't know, I'm not going

818
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 11: to say that's why. But Lincoln's very chill, like right now.

819
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 11: She does this every night. She like really hype at

820
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:02,280
Speaker 11: this time, and then she crashes.

821
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 3: She likes to be rocked.

822
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 11: She just I just let her make herself falls, I

823
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 11: let her cry herself out.

824
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 4: She's laughing, like, never gonna happen. But every time I've

825
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,240
Speaker 4: never gotten my hair braided. She literally watches TV.

826
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:23,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, she's very calm.

827
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,760
Speaker 11: It was just around this time she's like extra hype

828
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:27,439
Speaker 11: and I don't know why.

829
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 7: It's like she's like on sugar.

830
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:32,320
Speaker 2: Mm hmm that milk sugar.

831
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 7: And it's only it happens literally every night.

832
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 11: Around this time. Like during the day, she's so chill.

833
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:40,800
Speaker 11: She watches TV.

834
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 2: Have you dated just since you've been a new mom?

835
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 7: Yeah?

836
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 2: How is that? Man? Is it like different now that

837
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 2: your mom?

838
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 11: You feel like I feel like I get more guys

839
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 11: hitting on me when I have a child, really, and

840
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 11: I think it's benefiting me.

841
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 3: Like when you're out with her or just well not just.

842
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:06,240
Speaker 7: When I'm like even on Instagram, like people guys them

843
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 7: me like, oh, your daughter's so cute, and then like

844
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 7: they'll try to talk to me.

845
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 11: So I'm like, Lincoln, keep doing whatever you're doing.

846
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 2: Are the guys your your age? That's interesting?

847
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 4: I think it's probably like, look how responsible she is too.

848
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 4: I think the moms are hot in general to men.

849
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 4: It's it's attractive.

850
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 7: Yeah, I've gotten a lot.

851
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 11: Of people like a lot of guys and the like

852
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,279
Speaker 11: had her, and the first thing every guy says is

853
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 11: so cute, Like that's.

854
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 7: What they say every time.

855
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 2: What a pickup one?

856
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:42,240
Speaker 4: General, yes, do you feel like you like nothing obviously,

857
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 4: like we all shift and may become mothers Oh Erica

858
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 4: about here dropping shit, rocking the baby? Like did you

859
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 4: feel like you had to be in differ a certain way,

860
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 4: like because other people made you feel that way, like

861
00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 4: you had to not go out or not smoke weed

862
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 4: or you know whatever you usually did. Generally, did you

863
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 4: feel like there was pressure from other people that you

864
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:09,840
Speaker 4: had to change and you're social first?

865
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 11: Yeah, because when I was breastfeeding her, it was like, oh,

866
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:13,800
Speaker 11: you can't.

867
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,280
Speaker 6: Smoke, and I was like okay.

868
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 4: Or like.

869
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 11: Not more so going out because like I said, my

870
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 11: mom was like, you know, whenever you.

871
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 7: Want to go out, I'm not busy or whatever. You know,

872
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 7: I'll babysit. So they're going out part.

873
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 6: But as far as like smoke.

874
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 7: And like or like even when I was smoke and like.

875
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 6: People are like, oh why are you smoking? Aren't you breastfeeding?

876
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 7: For one, I talked like, don't judge me, you.

877
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 2: Think this is so funny? She thinks it's hilarious, like ha,

878
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 2: I didn't talk all day? How about that?

879
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:59,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I definitely felt judged when I smoked him breastfa.

880
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 2: And when I you know, but we're really like.

881
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 11: Just the other day, like we're really like me and

882
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 11: my day. My it means grandmomy a little pal but.

883
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,840
Speaker 7: Because that's what she is. But my Lola said to me,

884
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 7: you're doing a really good job. She's like, you're a

885
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 7: really good.

886
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:24,399
Speaker 11: Mom, and that like me my day because every day

887
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 11: I'm like, I like job.

888
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 2: Valid reassuring.

889
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 5: It means so much when it comes from like a

890
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 5: family member like that, like your mother or like a grandmother.

891
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,240
Speaker 5: I don't know why it does, but it just holds

892
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:44,479
Speaker 5: for me at least really like the most the times

893
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 5: when my mom or like because sometimes you're like, am

894
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 5: I like, ye, ain't said nothing in a while.

895
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 2: There, right? I feeling Yeah, No, it does feel good.

896
00:41:55,760 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 4: It's very important two get that assurance because we don't

897
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:02,439
Speaker 4: really know what we're doing.

898
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:03,839
Speaker 2: We're really playing it by ear.

899
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 11: Yeah, like you, like I said, I'm making mistakes every day,

900
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 11: but I learned from them.

901
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 2: So it's like you know, I.

902
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 12: Can walk, she's going she's trying trying to sip. You

903
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 12: want to start walking? I wish I had a little

904
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 12: matt I could put it on the floor over there.

905
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 3: A little blanket, roll around.

906
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:31,279
Speaker 7: Right?

907
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 2: Maybe need freedom? Is that what I think she's want

908
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 2: to be?

909
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 12: How old anymore?

910
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 5: Okay, let's take a little quick break one moment, please, Okay.

911
00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 2: Erica, don't forget your passports.

912
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, So we're going on a trip tomorrow, which

913
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 5: we didn't even tell them where we're going.

914
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 3: Oh, we're going to Cobo tomorrow.

915
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 5: We are going to on a friend's mama baby mama vacation.

916
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, with another mom and our friend Danny.

917
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 4: And I was.

918
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 3: Telling Jamilla Yestro was very stressed about this trip. But

919
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 3: I've just given in to it. And you know where

920
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 3: you go. You know, when you decide to go on

921
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 3: a trip and then you immediately you regret it later.

922
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:31,800
Speaker 2: What did I tell you about that word?

923
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 3: What is with this word?

924
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 6: Why?

925
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 7: Why is regret such a terrible word for?

926
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 2: I hate that word.

927
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 3: I mean it's a bad word. You're right, Does it

928
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 3: like mean like something bad is going to happen?

929
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:43,919
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just don't like it. I don't

930
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 2: believe in it.

931
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 4: I just don't believe in using the word regret because

932
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 4: there's no regrets, there's only lessons, and I just don't

933
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 4: like the negative energy you're putting out.

934
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 3: Well, so what's the lesson in this? Don't book a

935
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 3: seven day trip.

936
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 2: I don't know.

937
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 4: We haven't even done it yet. We might like be

938
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:02,919
Speaker 4: found like can n discover ourselves? We might come back

939
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,840
Speaker 4: like even bomber podcasters than ever before.

940
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 3: We have a lot of shit to do while we're there,

941
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 3: a lot, a lot.

942
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 2: So maybe it'll be like a work vacation. Mkay.

943
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 6: It's like a table or something.

944
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 3: A what a table?

945
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 10: Yeah? Is that?

946
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 3: Mm oh? To lay it on across? Can you lose

947
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 3: the this?

948
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 5: No?

949
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 4: Uh?

950
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:34,880
Speaker 7: What if we're.

951
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, that's that's yeah.

952
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,479
Speaker 2: She her, she just loves putting stuff in her mouth.

953
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 3: Should I take that away from her?

954
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 14: Or is that?

955
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 6: Okay?

956
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:50,800
Speaker 3: It's probably about the coldest day.

957
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 12: A lot of people have touched it day.

958
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 7: I'm gonna take that from it.

959
00:44:55,120 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 6: But I'm gonna get you something different. Okay.

960
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:02,600
Speaker 7: I don't know if that's gonna be.

961
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:08,839
Speaker 4: But I kind of want another baby, and then I'm

962
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:11,919
Speaker 4: like maybe not, Maybe I'm good with one.

963
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:14,879
Speaker 2: Four seems like I've come so far.

964
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 4: I've come so far. You're almost eighteen. But like, if

965
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 4: I mean, like just to start, I love her. It's

966
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 4: just like, oh my goodness, it's so much pressure. I

967
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:36,320
Speaker 4: literally forgot about all this shit. It's sweet cause it

968
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 4: can't talk back, but.

969
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 7: Oh she talks back.

970
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she's she's not She's not talking real shit.

971
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:48,839
Speaker 4: Lena starts started talking real ship to me and I'm

972
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 4: pissed about it.

973
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:54,280
Speaker 12: Are you rolling around too? How did you drive?

974
00:45:54,640 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 4: She's like, my business. Clearly me and Erica are not

975
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:15,399
Speaker 4: prepared for this episode, just like we're not prepared for

976
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 4: our trip.

977
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, we didn't really think this went through.

978
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 5: This is very spontaneous and clearly we have no energy

979
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:26,800
Speaker 5: to give, which is probably our most boring episode.

980
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:29,839
Speaker 3: So sorry, you can't win them all.

981
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 4: You really, you can't win them all. You win something lose.

982
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 4: But just don't worry. We're not losing steam. We're just recalibrating.

983
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 4: I'm getting our hair braided. All I can think about

984
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:45,800
Speaker 4: is like, what do I need to put in my suitcase?

985
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 4: What do I need to put in my suitcase? Don't

986
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 4: forget anything.

987
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 3: I literally packed every piece of summer clothing I own.

988
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 4: Write summer clothing, passports, coloring book shenanigans, everything.

989
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:58,319
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, coloring books I need.

990
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 4: Oh and don't worry, guys, Floor's coming with us. So

991
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:07,840
Speaker 4: we're gonna have equal parts fuckery and equal parts family friendly.

992
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 2: So look forward to this instant stories.

993
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 4: We'll be there six days and we'll be uh on

994
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:20,439
Speaker 4: the fence doing both fuckery and family.

995
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 2: Friendly on the fence. I don't know, I can think

996
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: of anything else.

997
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 7: Apparently we might go to a Migos party.

998
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 2: We're going to the concert a.

999
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 3: Migo's concert slash brick Ross thing.

1000
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 2: I know. We're basically about to.

1001
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:35,879
Speaker 4: Lift out all of our spring break fantasies we've ever

1002
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 4: had since childhood, which I'm actually really excited about. Even

1003
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:45,720
Speaker 4: if it had to come tenth twelve years past spring

1004
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 4: spring break age, I'm fine with that.

1005
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 2: What time to be there for ten thirty?

1006
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 4: Shit, it's gonna be traffic with's traffic hours so annoying.

1007
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 2: We're going to La where everything takes.

1008
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 4: Forty seven hours to get there, unless you're going to

1009
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 4: get at eleven o'clock at night.

1010
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,720
Speaker 12: Oh baby, it was wrong, was wrong?

1011
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 6: Wrong?

1012
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 4: Do you have any advice for any other maybe like

1013
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 4: moms that are pregnant, young moms that are pregnant or.

1014
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,760
Speaker 2: Thinking they become pregnant, Like, yeah, I do any.

1015
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 3: Advice cause we I think we do have a lot

1016
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 3: of young mom listeners. Actually we don't.

1017
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 11: My advice I would, I would seriously read into everything

1018
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 11: that you can.

1019
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 7: What I did was I recorded what like the doctors

1020
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 7: and nurses were saying.

1021
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,879
Speaker 11: If I didn't understand it, uh, that way I could

1022
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 11: play it back and let my mom listen. And if

1023
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 11: I didn't understand.

1024
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 6: It, I would say, oh, well can.

1025
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 3: I think about it?

1026
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 7: And then I would ask my mom.

1027
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 4: This is like leading, This is leading up to like

1028
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:11,800
Speaker 4: before you like during your pregnancy and my appointment everything

1029
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 4: I mean, then with your delivery. I guess it was

1030
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 4: important that you did record every year. Yeah, labor is

1031
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:26,240
Speaker 4: a business, you guys, and don't be fooled.

1032
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 2: They will get over on you.

1033
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 11: If you're not informed, they will try to like push

1034
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 11: well I know in California they'll try to push for

1035
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 11: you to have a Sasirians.

1036
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:40,799
Speaker 4: They are bullies and if you're not aware of your

1037
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 4: rights and what the lingo they're talking, then they will.

1038
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 2: Take advantage of you.

1039
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 4: So I recommend that all moms young or other, really

1040
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:58,760
Speaker 4: really really be thorough about understanding everything that can happen

1041
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 4: in a hospital and just understanding your.

1042
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 2: Body and that you kind of already know what to do.

1043
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,719
Speaker 4: Because the shit is really scary. Yeah, it is and

1044
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 4: foreign if you've never done it before.

1045
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 11: And I would recommend, like if somebody can be in.

1046
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 3: There with you.

1047
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 2: And it's really hard. Having a kid is really hard.

1048
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 4: Actually, I was dming with one of our listeners, Erica,

1049
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 4: and she was like, yeah, I think she's twenty three too.

1050
00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:29,719
Speaker 4: She's like, or maybe she's twenty six or something, and

1051
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 4: she's like, she's been feeling pressuous to have a baby.

1052
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:36,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, girl, think about it twice.

1053
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 3: Oh she didn't have a baby.

1054
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:40,960
Speaker 4: She didn't have a baby yet. I was like, I'm

1055
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 4: happy we have listeners that aren't moms.

1056
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:46,239
Speaker 2: Though, Yeah, learned from a mistakes.

1057
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not easy, and a lot of times a

1058
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 4: lot of moms can.

1059
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 3: Honestly couldn't imagine having a child at twenty three. I

1060
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 3: was so irresponsible.

1061
00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:57,400
Speaker 7: I don't know.

1062
00:50:57,719 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 5: I don't know if I would be I don't know

1063
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:03,240
Speaker 5: if I would have been like unselfish enough even after

1064
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 5: having a child. I think I don't think I maybe

1065
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 5: for me personally, I don't know if I would have

1066
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:10,799
Speaker 5: been the best parent, But like some people are young

1067
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 5: and then and they can handle it.

1068
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 3: Like you seem like you're.

1069
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 5: You're still in school, You're focused, you're you know, you're

1070
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:17,839
Speaker 5: here working right now.

1071
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 3: You know what I mean, You're doing what you have

1072
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 3: to do.

1073
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 5: And you know, a lot of a lot of even

1074
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:26,360
Speaker 5: people that are our age, I can't even do that

1075
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 5: as parents, you know what I mean? Right, So I

1076
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 5: commend you honestly because you know it's it's it's not easy, and.

1077
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 2: It's definitely not easy at twenty three.

1078
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 5: No, it's not easy, especially you know, not having the

1079
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 5: support of her father, Like that's you know, that's that's hard,

1080
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 5: you know, because I mean I have the support of

1081
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 5: IRI's father. You know, whether it's a perfect perfectly perfect.

1082
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:56,799
Speaker 3: All the time and how I would like it to be,

1083
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 3: how I think it blah blah blah. No, of course not.

1084
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:02,719
Speaker 3: But I mean it's something. It's a lot, Like it's

1085
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 3: a lot.

1086
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 14: So I think if I get past like Luna being like,

1087
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 14: fuck damn, our kids are gonna be will be thirty

1088
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 14: six and our kids are ten thirty seven after a

1089
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:27,959
Speaker 14: certain age, I might not have the energy to try

1090
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 14: to do this again, even though I would like to soon.

1091
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:35,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you fall in love again and forget again,

1092
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:36,759
Speaker 5: and then you want to have a baby.

1093
00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:37,560
Speaker 3: I want to know what you want?

1094
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:38,320
Speaker 2: What about baby?

1095
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 3: Look like do what I'm forty fuck it?

1096
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 4: Oh godgin, I'm being so close to the finish line

1097
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:44,400
Speaker 4: and saying.

1098
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:49,400
Speaker 2: Fuck it in your eye. That's fine.

1099
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 7: Kind of baby.

1100
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:55,320
Speaker 2: Okay.

1101
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 4: Are there things that you wish that you would have

1102
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:00,960
Speaker 4: done before you had that you didn't?

1103
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:03,279
Speaker 5: Not?

1104
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 2: Really?

1105
00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 5: I really did a lot, you know, honestly, Like I

1106
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 5: traveled a lot. I you know, I had my fun.

1107
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:18,600
Speaker 4: I No, I wish I could have traveled a little

1108
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 4: more like a three month travel situation.

1109
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 2: But I feel like I could still do that I

1110
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 2: wanted to.

1111
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think that's the thing, Like traveling is still

1112
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:29,799
Speaker 5: possible with the child. Yeah, it's like it seems hard,

1113
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:32,400
Speaker 5: it's harder, but it's possible. We're doing it tomorrow, and

1114
00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:33,839
Speaker 5: you know, we're gonna go to the airport and our

1115
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:35,920
Speaker 5: kids are gonna annoy us and they're gonna scream, and

1116
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 5: they're gonna like want to play on the five thousand

1117
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:40,359
Speaker 5: things and fight with each other.

1118
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:45,400
Speaker 2: But yeah, we're doing it. You know what we should do. Also,

1119
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:47,000
Speaker 2: did you guys.

1120
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 4: Know that you could buy your own airplane size Luer

1121
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 4: bottles and take them through security because they're under three

1122
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 4: point five flow ounces, and then you could just buy

1123
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 4: the mixer on the plane.

1124
00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 7: Okay, wow, I didn't know.

1125
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 4: You're welcome everyone listening.

1126
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:05,879
Speaker 2: They don't. They don't tell you that because they want

1127
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:07,399
Speaker 2: you to buy it from the airline. But you could

1128
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 2: bring your own.

1129
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,400
Speaker 4: Liquor and then just get the mixer and if we

1130
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 4: have time in the morning, that's what I'm gonna do.

1131
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:13,359
Speaker 2: God damn it, what's a.

1132
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 12: Two hour flight.

1133
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 3: It'll be fine.

1134
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:30,560
Speaker 8: We could start the party early, okay, okay, because.

1135
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 2: We're like, oh, very are you stepping on this?

1136
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:36,320
Speaker 3: Honey?

1137
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 2: You want to go back down here?

1138
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:38,360
Speaker 11: Let's go down.

1139
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:42,360
Speaker 2: Anyway.

1140
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:47,680
Speaker 4: This episode is primarily to say, watch your stories on Instagram.

1141
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 2: They're gonna be lit the next six days.

1142
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 4: They We're also gonna have a lot of tricks and

1143
00:54:53,239 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 4: tips on how to travel with toddlers and how to

1144
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 4: balance the vacation fun.

1145
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, so tune in next week.

1146
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 2: Oh and also listen to the Dualities podcast. We're on it.

1147
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:08,399
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we're on the Duality podcast this week, right, yeah,

1148
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 3: I think.

1149
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 2: Was it did to come on tonight, so.

1150
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:17,279
Speaker 5: Which was a fun episode we did with our friend

1151
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:18,880
Speaker 5: Carmen and Djay Damage.

1152
00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:23,759
Speaker 3: We talked with sex and educated dj Damage on some.

1153
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:31,800
Speaker 4: Some some things, some things that because we're sexperts, everybody

1154
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 4: knows there's.

1155
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 3: Sex parent experts. What's that like? What how do you

1156
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 3: combine those two words sex, sexports, sex.

1157
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:44,360
Speaker 4: Per parents, sexperts, parental sexperts.

1158
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:47,919
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put that in our bio.

1159
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 2: I need robotest.

1160
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:57,839
Speaker 7: All right, we're gonna wrap this up.

1161
00:55:59,400 --> 00:55:59,719
Speaker 5: We are.

1162
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:07,920
Speaker 4: All right, and thanks for tuning in. Be sure to

1163
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:10,319
Speaker 4: catch us on Instagram. Don't forget our story is going

1164
00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 4: to be lit this week. Lots of bikinis, lots of fun.

1165
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:20,359
Speaker 4: Good Moms underscore Bad Choices and subscribe to her newsletter, Yes,

1166
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 4: Good Moms, Bad Choices dot com.

1167
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:28,120
Speaker 5: And our events March sixteenth, our first live show slash

1168
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 5: cocktail hour party. So make sure we're gonna put on

1169
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 5: evite out soon. We're just trying to confirm a few things,

1170
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:39,840
Speaker 5: so but mark your calendars for that date.

1171
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 3: Because it's going to be a lady.

1172
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:44,719
Speaker 2: And fun.

1173
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 3: Anyway, I have a good night, I'll talk to you

1174
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 3: guys next time. Next week.

1175
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 2: Audios.

1176
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:55,399
Speaker 5: Black black black black black black black, so black, black

1177
00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 5: black and black maskin so black.

1178
00:56:57,000 --> 00:57:00,919
Speaker 2: I'm buck black. Everything is black. It was sad, it's black.

1179
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:02,359
Speaker 7: It's down black.

1180
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:07,839
Speaker 3: Le Hey black out the group about the roof. When

1181
00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:09,720
Speaker 3: I'm run into you, dars Black as the drost.

1182
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 5: Slide in the moon.

1183
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:11,640
Speaker 2: Wrot me, no truth, wrot me no truth.

1184
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:13,239
Speaker 3: You're in a row in the all black suit. A

1185
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 3: couple of white girls, all black,