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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show, Kim is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today for to catch a Cheater and she thinks that

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Speaker 2: her husband of four years named Jack might be messing around.

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Speaker 1: So let's see if we can help her out. Kim, Hi,

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Speaker 1: what's up? What do you think is going on?

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Speaker 3: Oh? My husband?

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Speaker 4: We've been married for four years, we've been together for seven.

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Speaker 4: We met right out of high school, and I mean

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Speaker 4: I've trusted him with my whole heart. He's really been

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Speaker 4: the only person I've been with. I haven't had a

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Speaker 4: lot of boyfriends or serious relationships up until him, so

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Speaker 4: like he's got my whole heart.

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Speaker 5: I've trusted him completely.

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Speaker 4: We've had a really great relationship, like we do our

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Speaker 4: own things with friends, like on the same night. We're

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Speaker 4: you know, not super cleany or anything like. It's just

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Speaker 4: been a really cool relationship. He's hot, he's smart.

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Speaker 3: I love him.

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Speaker 6: I'll always think he's hot, like I just you know, so.

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Speaker 3: I really hope he's not.

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Speaker 4: But recently, on the nights when we go out with

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Speaker 4: our friends, he's been coming home later and later, and

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Speaker 4: so that's been sending off like major red flags for

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Speaker 4: me because normally we like, up until this past month,

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Speaker 4: he would be home around the same time I would.

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Speaker 6: Neither one of us would stay out like super people

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Speaker 3: And now he's.

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Speaker 6: Coming down like at one am, two am.

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Speaker 4: And saying that he's he's like just at a friend's

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Speaker 4: house playing video games. Like I'm like, okay, you know,

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Speaker 4: and he he'll offer up like, well you can call him,

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Speaker 4: you know, you can call.

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Speaker 6: My friend and ask it. It's like, I know his

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Speaker 6: friends are going to have his back no matter what,

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Speaker 6: So that doesn't mean anything. And I'm just like giving

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Speaker 6: a you know, I'm not really nagging him, but.

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Speaker 4: He's like a little defensive right off the bat around

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Speaker 4: it if I bring up how ladies coming in.

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Speaker 5: So that's the first red flag.

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Speaker 4: So the second kind of major ones is that.

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Speaker 6: So we have a group of friends, a bunch of

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Speaker 6: girls that we all hang out together. Most of us

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Speaker 6: have known each other since high school. There's a few

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Speaker 6: that are newer to our group, and one girl who's

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Speaker 6: sort of started hanging around more. This girl, Jazzmine.

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Speaker 4: I have noticed, like, first of all, she complimented Jack

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Speaker 4: a lot, like she thinks he's great, so I know

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Speaker 4: she kind of has a crush on him, and somebody

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Speaker 4: else has told me that she, you know, feels bad

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Speaker 4: because she has a crush on.

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Speaker 6: Him or whatever. Well, I've noticed, like on the nights

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Speaker 6: when I am going out with my friends and he's

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Speaker 6: going out with his friends, that Jasmine isn't there, she's

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Speaker 6: not doing girls night.

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Speaker 3: With us on the nights that.

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Speaker 6: He's doing guys nights with his friends.

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Speaker 3: So that.

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Speaker 6: Paranoid do you think?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I feel I might be being paranoid,

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Speaker 4: but I know she's seeing somebody and she won't tell

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Speaker 4: us who, like they're hooking up and stuff like that

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Speaker 4: that she's excited about and kind of uh spegrative about,

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Speaker 4: you know, and won't really be in bite them around

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Speaker 4: or like integrate and like a normal kind of relationship.

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Speaker 5: So that has got me also very suspicious.

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Speaker 7: Sure, So when you're going out for your girls' nights

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Speaker 7: and you notice that Jasmine's not there, do you say

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Speaker 7: anything to everybody else, like, oh, where's Jasmine?

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Speaker 1: To kind of see like check the pulse a little bit.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, And And that that's where I found out

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Speaker 4: that she was dating with somebody. And then one of

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Speaker 4: my friends who knows who knows her family knows her

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Speaker 4: from way back, said that she.

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Speaker 5: Can be shady too, because.

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Speaker 4: I did confide that I was feeling a little I

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Speaker 4: don't know says that are going off and they didn't

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Speaker 4: want to make me, you know, so worse about it,

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Speaker 4: but they did confirm that she can be shady, like she's.

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Speaker 5: Not above that.

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Speaker 2: Well, you told us what grocery store you guys are

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Speaker 2: rewards card members at. So we'll play a song come Back,

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Speaker 2: and then call him and pretend to be from the

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Speaker 2: grocery store and say that every month, we choose one

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Speaker 2: rewards card member at random who gets free flowers delivered

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Speaker 2: from our floral department, will see if he sends those

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Speaker 2: to you or to somebody else.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, thank you, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Of course, we'll play a song come back, get your

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Speaker 2: to Catch a Cheater next. Right in the middle of

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Speaker 2: to Catch a Cheater if you're just joining us, Kim

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Speaker 2: is on the phone and Kim thinks that our husband

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Speaker 2: of four years might be cheating. So in a second,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna call him and pretend to be from the

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Speaker 2: grocery store that he's a rewards card member at, and

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Speaker 2: say that every single month we choose one rewards card

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Speaker 2: member who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department.

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Speaker 2: We'll see if he sends those to Kim or to

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Speaker 2: somebody else. But before we do that, Kim, why don't

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Speaker 2: you remind everybody your situation.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so, my husband of four years has been coming

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Speaker 6: home later and nights when he would normally come home

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Speaker 6: at the same time I come home when we go

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Speaker 6: out with our friends separately. There's a new girl in

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Speaker 6: our group of friends who has stopped coming out.

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Speaker 4: With us on those nights, and so I just feel

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Speaker 4: a little suspicious and maybe he's actually with.

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Speaker 5: Her and lying.

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Speaker 6: To me about it and thinking that he's getting away

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Speaker 6: with it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: He Hi, this is horrible calling from I was looking

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Speaker 2: for a rewards card member named Jack.

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Speaker 5: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Jack, Please don't hang up. This is not marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually just calling to say congratulations, you're this month's

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Speaker 2: lucky winner.

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Speaker 3: Why not know what?

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Speaker 2: Oh the flowers? Maybe you haven't heard every single month,

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Speaker 2: we choose one rewards card member at random. We gets

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Speaker 2: free flowers delivered from our forward department. You've won thirty

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Speaker 2: six long stim red roses, a box of candy or chocolate,

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Speaker 2: and a card to be sent to whoever you want. Oh, okay,

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Speaker 2: if you know you want to send them to, I

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Speaker 2: can take the information over the phone in just a

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Speaker 2: matter of minutes.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I have someone in mind. We'll start with

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Speaker 1: the first and last name of the person you'd like

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Speaker 1: to send them to.

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Speaker 3: Uh, Jasmine.

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Speaker 1: Okay, got that, Jasmine? And would you like to put

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Speaker 1: anything on a card to Jasmine?

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Speaker 3: You can say what happened last night? Question mark, I

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Speaker 3: love you?

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Speaker 6: Exclamation point?

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Speaker 1: Got it?

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Speaker 5: It's okay, Well, but what happened last night? You want

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Speaker 5: to know what happened last night? You want to know

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Speaker 5: what has been.

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Speaker 6: Broke down and finally told me everything everything.

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Speaker 2: Jack, that's your wife on the phone. This is actually

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Speaker 2: the Jubal Show. It's a radio show. My name is Jubile.

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Speaker 2: Hi am Nina, Hi, I'm Victoria, And we do a

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Speaker 2: segment called to Catch a Teeter and I'll just yeah.

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Speaker 3: So what is going a hot one? What's going on here?

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Speaker 6: Hey?

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Speaker 3: What's going on? What do you think is going on?

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Speaker 4: You're busted, dude, you are busted, and you guys, I

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Speaker 4: am sorry. I lied to you about knowing. I didn't

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Speaker 4: know that she did.

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Speaker 3: She just came clean to me.

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Speaker 4: She told me everything Jack, everything I needed to find

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Speaker 4: out from him, No doubt.

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Speaker 3: That's fair, and you all help me do that.

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Speaker 5: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 4: She told me everything, like every time you have lied

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Speaker 4: to me, every time that you have cheated with her

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Speaker 4: on me, every time you came late.

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Speaker 5: She Oh, Jasmine, your flower girl?

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Speaker 6: Who do you think she is? You know who I'm

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Speaker 6: talking about? What Jasmine says?

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Speaker 5: Do you believe everything that Jasmine says?

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Speaker 6: I believe that you're a p and that you're a

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Speaker 6: liar and a cheater. I believe her, does that because

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Speaker 6: you've been telling her. You believe that you were going

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Speaker 6: to believe?

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Speaker 5: You believe that what Jasmine says?

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Speaker 6: Crazy Jasmine, I do?

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Speaker 3: I do?

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Speaker 6: You want to know why?

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Speaker 3: Because she came and she told me what was going on.

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Speaker 4: She broke down crying because she realized that you telling

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Speaker 4: her that you love her and that you're gonna leave

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Speaker 4: me for her is also a lie because you are

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Speaker 4: a liar and a cheat and a piece.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I do believe her.

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Speaker 7: You did also just send her flowers with and I

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Speaker 7: love you also, Yeah, let's not skip that you said it.

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Speaker 6: You just that I love you on there like, oh

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Speaker 6: my god, in trouble you you only like jokingly say.

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Speaker 4: Love you, love you, oh my god?

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Speaker 5: Due to the friend group.

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Speaker 3: Do you hardly know her or me? Mike?

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Speaker 6: And actually I love them too.

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Speaker 5: I almost send them the flowers them too.

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Speaker 3: Well, then locking, I might be according to your logic,

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Speaker 3: I might be.

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Speaker 2: What about Jasmine's logic, the one who came to your

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Speaker 2: wife and said that it's going on, the one you

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Speaker 2: send flowers to and said.

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Speaker 1: I love you?

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Speaker 6: Did mic and Ashley come and say that everything too

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 4: As a matter of fact, Ashley is here, as are

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Speaker 4: all of my friends, and we've done packed up all

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Speaker 4: your put it in a cute blocker and send it

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Speaker 4: to your mom's house.

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Speaker 6: WHOA, why don't you just.

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Speaker 4: Move forward and get out of my life?

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Speaker 5: Because I am done. You're unnoticed here.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he hung up, He's gone. I'm so sorry. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: just do not even know?

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Speaker 5: Pretty devastating.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, uh, it's just like who does that? Like just

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Speaker 3: I'm just so.

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Speaker 4: Surprised at how he Yeah, the lying about it, like

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Speaker 4: not taking any.

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Speaker 3: Not feeling bad. He doesn't even feel bad.

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Speaker 6: You can tell like he doesn't even feel bad.

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Speaker 1: Well, sorry, well, I'm glad to move on.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, it's definitely going to be some healing involved.

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Speaker 4: But at least I'm not being played. I'll never be

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Speaker 4: played like this again.

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Speaker 6: I gave him way too much trust.

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Speaker 1: Well, you'll find someone to give the right trust too.

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Speaker 4: Well.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you have a good support system too, Thankfully.

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 6: I do have good friends except for Jasmine. Jasmin and

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Speaker 6: I are going to ever be but I do.

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Speaker 4: I do respect that she told me, and I'm glad

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Speaker 4: that she realizes what she was getting involved with and

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Speaker 4: who she was.

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Speaker 3: Getting involved with.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, I don't think we'll be really close friends ever.

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Speaker 5: My friend group is pretty great.

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Speaker 1: Well that's good, and good luck with everything.

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Speaker 6: Okay, thank you, And again I'm sorry for kind of

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Speaker 6: studying it up weird for.

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Speaker 5: You guys as well.

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Speaker 1: You did what you had to do. I'm just glad you.

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Speaker 2: I'm just glad you got your answer because he obviously

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Speaker 2: would have continue to lie make a conversation a lot easier.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he needed to be called out for sure.

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Speaker 3: Good luck, all right, thank you all the

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Speaker 7: Jewel shows to catch a cheater