WEBVTT - First Date of 2023 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.280 Hell I Suck At Dating with de Nungler and Jared 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:11.000 Haven and I heard radio podcast. What's going on? Everyone? 0:00:11.160 --> 0:00:16.200 Welcome to a special holiday edition of Help I Suck 0:00:16.360 --> 0:00:19.080 At Dating. I said special, but there's really nothing special 0:00:19.120 --> 0:00:21.120 about this episode because you just got your two dio 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:29.160 hosts here today as always, joined via zoom from Rhode Island, USA. 0:00:29.880 --> 0:00:33.240 I would assume you're in Rhode Island. I'm never leaving 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:36.080 Rhode Island again. Do you think we'll ever record in person? 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:41.879 And the next twenty five years that we host this podcast, 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:43.920 do you ever think we'll be back in the recording studio. 0:00:44.880 --> 0:00:46.560 I think the fact that I'm on the West Coast 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:48.960 and you're on the East coast, you have a child, 0:00:49.880 --> 0:00:52.080 the odds are slim. I would say, with all those 0:00:52.120 --> 0:00:56.360 barriers were pretty slim pickings here. But like, for instance, um, 0:00:56.440 --> 0:00:58.800 next month, at the end of January, we're going to 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:01.200 the Pebble Beach thing I am that we go to 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:04.200 basically every year, which I think you've been to. I 0:01:04.200 --> 0:01:07.680 could be mistaken, but like you know, normally that's something 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:09.080 that you would go to. But you're not gonna fly 0:01:09.200 --> 0:01:10.840 all the way from the East coast of the West 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:12.959 coast with your child and go to that. I would assume. 0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:16.479 I think we might be going. I think it's a prerequisite. 0:01:16.680 --> 0:01:18.960 I don't know. I gotta talk to Ash because this 0:01:18.959 --> 0:01:22.520 isn't that February one, yeah, d of January into the 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:25.759 beginning of February. Yeah, I think we're going. I think 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:28.600 that's a prerequisite. I know. So there you go. Then 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:31.039 that's the next time we're recording person probably and then 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:34.679 hope the first time, what like two thousand nineteen, yeah, 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:40.720 two damn that because I remember it was February and 0:01:40.760 --> 0:01:43.080 we were talking about like does this COVID thing gonna 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:46.600 impact us, Like, there's no way the world's gonna We're 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:48.720 not gonna shut down like Italy. And then we shut 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:51.560 down like Italy. So we showed down just like Italy. 0:01:51.600 --> 0:01:53.480 Well nice, I'll get me Dawson for the first time. 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:57.280 That'd be really really cool. You mean Alistair for the 0:01:57.320 --> 0:02:05.840 first time. Uh So this is January. Happy, happy New year, everybody. 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:10.320 We are not in the new year full transparency as 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:13.200 lowest is flipping out, Hey, Ash, could you close the 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:18.320 door please? You know my wife I love so much, 0:02:18.480 --> 0:02:21.960 but if I did the things that she does to me, 0:02:22.280 --> 0:02:26.400 she would lose her goddamn mind. Hey, Like, for example, 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:29.080 if I came in didn't close the door behind me, 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:35.160 could you close? Thank you, thank you very much. Uh. 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:39.560 Any who, this is late December, before the holidays. We 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:43.119 have yet to have the holidays, but we figured, uh, 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:45.080 we would record an episode because we're not gonna be 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:48.240 together towards the beginning of the year. Uh, it's a 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:51.000 busy time of year, so we're gonna record now. And 0:02:51.120 --> 0:02:54.079 I hope everybody who's time traveling listening to this podcast 0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:57.280 in the future had a wonderful holiday season, a safe 0:02:57.280 --> 0:03:02.560 New Year's and a safe Christmas, all that jazz anything 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:05.560 to adding no that you said that? So well, yeah, 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:10.400 happy Timelidays, Merry Christmas, Happy Janka, happy Kwanza, and any 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:14.520 other holiday that you might celebrate this time of year. Um, 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:18.000 we we wish you all the happiest of holidays. We are. 0:03:18.280 --> 0:03:20.560 As Jared said, we were recording this pre Christmas, but 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:22.360 we didn't want to leave you guys without an episode 0:03:22.800 --> 0:03:25.919 beginning the new year, because you know, we're thoughtful like that, 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:28.320 and we want you guys to get your Gene and 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:32.119 Dean and Jared fix in. So we start calling ourselves Jane. 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:33.960 Now that could be our nickname, you know how, like 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:36.760 every couple of Bachelor has a nickname, like we were 0:03:36.840 --> 0:03:40.600 Joshually we're Gene. I like Darred. I think Dred's better, 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:45.400 but we can workshop at well, like Darred better than Gene. Yeah, 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:50.280 I just think Dred's cool because like a Gene is 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:52.040 a name you can name a kid, obviously, but like 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:55.480 Darred is a name that you know, you need a 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:57.480 cool name. I feel like if we were Garred, though, 0:03:57.520 --> 0:04:00.240 we would be like a celebrities kid, you on, I 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:03.880 mean Brad Pitt and Angelia Jolie or you know what 0:04:04.000 --> 0:04:06.280 formerly was Kim and Kanye. Like we'd be one of 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:09.440 those celebrity kids that like, this is our son Dred, Like, 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:11.680 who the hell is their kid Darred? Like we do 0:04:11.720 --> 0:04:14.080 because like every time he goes to Starbucks to give 0:04:14.080 --> 0:04:16.080 his order, they'd write the name wrong every single time. 0:04:16.120 --> 0:04:19.839 Poor kid would have Dude, they do that for me? Anyway? 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:21.680 What do they what do they put for your name? Oh, 0:04:21.720 --> 0:04:26.440 my name is Jerry in Starbucks, it's Jerry. It's not 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:28.960 like I don't think I've ever had Jared written on 0:04:29.000 --> 0:04:31.880 a cup. Jerry, Like, yeah, that's my red air the 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:36.880 cookie butter with sprinkles. This guy for Jerry. It's actually 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:38.719 nice though, because they never have to I never have 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:41.160 to like own up to the fact I can go 0:04:41.160 --> 0:04:43.279 into Starbucks and just nobody knows who I am, so 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:44.960 I can order whatever the hell I want, not be 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:47.279 insecure about the curly drinks I order. Even I don't 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:48.960 really drink Starbucks anymore, because you know, I own a 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:51.360 coffee shop and I love ours. But sometimes I do, 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:53.400 like we went to Duncan this morning. I went to 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:56.680 Duncan this morning. I love Duncan. I do love Duncan. 0:04:57.160 --> 0:05:01.040 But the only downside of Duncan is that sometimes it 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:03.560 really in the morning. The coffee is always good, it's 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:05.960 freshly brewed. But if you get like an afternoon coffee 0:05:06.000 --> 0:05:10.320 from Duncan that's hot, sometimes it's socks. I feel like 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:12.320 it's just burnt coffee that's been sitting there for hours. 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:14.800 Any Who, we don't think I've ever had the hot 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:17.440 coffee from Duncan. I always go the ice coffee, the 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:21.000 original blend ice coffee, and at least said the Duncan 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:23.640 by my house in Las Vegas. It's like out of 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:26.880 a tap and so it's pretty consistently really good, which 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:30.200 I enjoy the consistency of the Duncan ice coffee because 0:05:30.240 --> 0:05:34.880 Starbucks ice coffee, which I also usually like, it varies 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:37.440 so much in taste and quality, and sometimes you get 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:39.920 a normal good one, but sometimes I would say, like 0:05:39.920 --> 0:05:43.040 one out of every five times, it's like an undrinkably 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:45.599 bad ice coffee, like that's been sitting too long or 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:48.560 something like that. So shout out to Duncan. You know 0:05:48.560 --> 0:05:50.719 we're giving some free plugs in this podcast. Hey, maybe 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:52.840 you guys want to sponsor us. Why not? We both 0:05:52.880 --> 0:05:55.920 love Duncan. You've had a Duncan sponsorship on Instagram before. 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:58.200 I think I remember he is. Come on, bro, I 0:05:58.279 --> 0:06:02.680 ran on Duncan nice. Now I run on Ben. That's right. 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:06.520 All right, let's get into our new year recap real quick. 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:09.080 So let's look back on this great year we just 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:12.680 had two thousand twenty two. Jared, what do you think 0:06:12.720 --> 0:06:17.240 you learned in don't open a business, buy a house, 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:19.160 and have a kid all within a three month span. 0:06:19.320 --> 0:06:24.200 That's what I learned. Two. God, First of all, the 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:28.520 fact that we're saying, holy sh we're old man. That's crazy. 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:32.599 I was talking about ironically we're talking about Sandra Bullock. 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:36.520 Yesterday with my dad and he were talking about movies 0:06:36.600 --> 0:06:38.320 she's been in recently. I'm like, I feel like she's 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:40.000 been in nothing. And then somebody was like, oh, she 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:41.800 was in that bird Box movie and I said, oh, yeah, 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:43.880 I forgot about that. And then my dad was like, 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:45.600 what was that football movie? That was only a few 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:48.480 years ago, right, my dad, the blind Side? That's like 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:53.599 twelve thirteen years old. He goes, Holy Ship, It's like, yeah, dude, 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:56.880 that's old. The blind Side is thirteen years old. Two 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:58.520 thousand nine is when it came out. That's the year 0:06:58.560 --> 0:07:01.880 graduated high school. Yeah, we're really getting old. It's interesting. 0:07:02.600 --> 0:07:05.680 I was standing in line today at Duncan funny enough 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:07.440 to bring it back to that. It's very early. It 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:10.360 was like six am and I was standing there and 0:07:11.400 --> 0:07:14.600 I feel like, I don't know. I was thinking randomly 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:17.800 about how when you're in your twenties, everyone still kind 0:07:17.800 --> 0:07:20.720 of looks at you as a kid. In my experience, 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:22.800 at least, like, you know, you don't get treated as 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:25.040 much of an adult. And now that even my thirties, 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:29.320 I feel like I'm in the zone where I am 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:31.640 an adult, and so I get treated like an adult, 0:07:31.680 --> 0:07:35.600 but I still can somehow talk to kids who are 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:37.920 like working as a barista or something like that. So 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:40.000 I feel and I was thinking, I was like, how 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:42.560 long do I have this phase of life to last it? 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:45.080 And I was thinking maybe like five years top, So 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:47.600 at mid thirties to late thirties, I feel like I'm 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:51.480 gonna lose that sense of connection with the younger generation, 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:53.480 you know, like we're already we've already lost it for 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:54.920 the most part, but in your head, at least in 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:56.760 my head, I feel like I've still got a little 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:58.560 bit of a connection there, Like I could still be 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:00.800 like the cool guy that walks into the coffee shopping 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:04.480 people I don't know. I think like, oh, he's got 0:08:04.560 --> 0:08:06.480 some life ahead of him still, you know what I mean, 0:08:06.640 --> 0:08:08.840 Like you can still do something with his life if 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:11.960 he really wanted to. I also think, listen the fact 0:08:12.000 --> 0:08:15.280 that where you know, I mean, you're taller than I am, 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:20.200 but I'm six ft, but you're tall, handsome, you know, younger, 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:23.200 looking like you look like you're in your late twenties. 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:26.120 That helps us a lot, and it helps me as well. 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:29.480 That's true. We we could still pass his late twenties, 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:31.720 I think, which is, like you said, very helpful. There 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:34.800 are some less fortunate people that are, you know, younger 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:36.920 than us, that look older than us. Which is funny too, 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:38.640 because when you're young, you want to look old, but 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:40.480 when you get old, you want to look young. You know, 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:43.800 I want to look like I'm in my thirties. I 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:45.880 feel like that's a great age for a guy to look. 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:49.280 If we could look like this forever, and like, I'm 0:08:49.320 --> 0:08:50.920 not saying I look good or anything, but I know 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:52.640 that I'm gonna look worse than five years. So if 0:08:52.640 --> 0:08:54.480 I could just look like this for the rest of 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:57.199 the next decade, I think I'd be happy. No, I 0:08:57.200 --> 0:08:59.320 couldn't agree more. It's only going downhill from here. So 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:01.720 if I could just stay stagnant on this even line, 0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:03.559 I'll be happy. I don't need to go up. Just 0:09:04.080 --> 0:09:07.560 stay just like the ice coffee from Duncan Baby, just 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:11.360 nice and consistent. Just and that we ask. So you 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:13.960 learned not to do all those things and uh in 0:09:14.000 --> 0:09:16.280 the same year. That's good advice. Well, honestly, I learned 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:18.720 in two Thanks for asking, Jared. I'm gonna go ahead 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:21.280 and say that I still wanted to talk about myself 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:23.040 for a minute. You know, I was gonna bring my 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:24.480 thing that I learned back to you real quick. So 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:26.560 I was gonna say that I learned in two not 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:28.880 to host a podcast with a guy that opened the 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:30.680 coffee shop, had a baby, and got married all the 0:09:30.720 --> 0:09:33.839 same year. Yeah, I mean, I was definitely. It's funny 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:36.640 how I was always the one on time and consistent 0:09:36.800 --> 0:09:40.520 and here and responsible. And I still feel that I 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:47.280 have that edge over you. But it definitely two really 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:49.520 even the playing field a little bit for you. You You 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:52.480 got a lot closer in the responsibility field. It used 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:59.000 to be like to five me. Now it's like I 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:03.720 would say, seventy already you were gonna say, and then 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:05.800 you wanted to change a little bit. Because I agree 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:08.400 with you, I think the gap has shrunk a little bit. 0:10:08.559 --> 0:10:12.079 There are there And not to say that you've gotten 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:14.280 considerably worse, but I think I've gotten a little bit better. 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:16.480 You know, We've We've got a house that I spend 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:20.800 more time in. I still have my my random outbursts 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:22.760 where I'm like, hey, sorry, I'm on the middle or 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:25.079 in the middle of the road in Idaho somewhere. Has 0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:28.360 it happened much though not as much as it used to. 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:30.880 So that's good, that's good, and that in conjunction with 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:34.840 your busy schedule, I do think the gap has shrunk 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:38.400 just a little bit, which is good, Which is good. Yeah, 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:44.200 uh yeah, the biggest life change. It's funny because I 0:10:44.280 --> 0:10:51.360 think it might be opening a business over Dawson. Of course, emotionally, uh, 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:59.160 Dawson is a much bigger change. But man, just the 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:04.280 sheer hours and effort uh and blood, sweat and tears 0:11:04.280 --> 0:11:08.200 I've put into Audrey's this past year. I really think 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:12.000 that if I separated the two and I said, Okay, 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:14.760 if you had one year of just Audrey's or one 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:18.680 year of just Dawson, what would be more tasks, more 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:22.240 tasking on you? I feel like it would have been 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:27.520 Audrey's if I'm being honest, which is crazy, because Dawson 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:31.199 is exhausting, but Audrey's I find way more exhausting. Also 0:11:31.280 --> 0:11:34.360 the other parts Audrey's I think also just one last thing, 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:38.160 the Audrey's I'm doing much more on my own where 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:40.839 Dawson I split with Ashley, and Ashley does so much 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:43.199 that was gonna be My question is what do you 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:46.720 think Ashley would say to that question? Obviously Dawson, Well, yeah, 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:51.160 well what would yeah? But she hate well, I mean 0:11:51.200 --> 0:11:55.120 she loves Audrey's obviously, but she also hates Audrey's. So 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:58.400 hate it's a love hate relationship because she loves Audrey's 0:11:58.440 --> 0:12:01.560 and she loves what it is and how comfortable it 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:05.280 is and the quality that we serve with service and 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:08.840 food and drink, uh, and the community aspect of it. 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:12.240 But she also hates it because she sees how much 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:15.240 stress it brings me and how much time it takes 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:19.200 for me to be there and operate it, and that 0:12:19.320 --> 0:12:22.360 takes away from time from her and Dawson. And she's 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:25.320 in Rhode Island by herself, So there's a lot going on. 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:29.000 Do you ever regret opening Audrey's? Uh, just like twice 0:12:29.000 --> 0:12:32.280 a day, bro, It's not so bad. No, I don't 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:35.320 regret it. I really don't. I love Audrey's. I love 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:39.040 I really do. When I'm there, man, I do love Audrey's. 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:40.839 I love what we do there, I love what we're 0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:43.160 all about. I love our staff, I love our coffee, 0:12:43.200 --> 0:12:47.400 I love our drinks. I love the the atmosphere there. 0:12:47.480 --> 0:12:52.440 It's so cozy and people seem genuinely happy while they're there. 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:57.360 Which makes me happy. I think the staff likes working there. 0:12:58.000 --> 0:13:00.880 I think we really deliver a good product. It's busy, 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:02.680 there's a lot of things that I'm proud of, and 0:13:02.720 --> 0:13:05.640 I definitely don't regret opening it. But it's tough, man. 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:07.800 You know, Inflation is way up, the economy is not 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:09.680 doing so well. There's a lot of small businesses that 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:11.840 are hurting right now, much more than my own, so 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:14.120 I can't complain too much. But the fact is it's 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:16.400 tough to make money right now from opening a business. 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:18.760 And I'm certainly not the only one going through that, 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:20.199 and there's a lot of people that I have it 0:13:20.320 --> 0:13:23.800 a lot worse than me. But it's tough, so I 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:25.720 don't regret it. It's got to really depend on the 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:27.839 next two years. I'd say, see what the next two 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:31.000 years have to offer with the amount of money that 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:33.679 we're making, how much time I'm putting into it an effort, 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:38.160 what the economy looks like. Um, because I love Audrey's 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:40.280 I'd love to open more places, but really, you know, 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:42.240 there's a lot of factors going on. If we have 0:13:42.360 --> 0:13:44.640 more kids, are we gonna stay in Rhode Island? I 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:46.679 want to stay in Rhode Island. But Ashley is starting 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:50.920 to get a little Virginia fever over here. Her families 0:13:50.920 --> 0:13:55.520 from Northern Virginia, and she is missing her family. They're 0:13:55.640 --> 0:13:59.120 big help with Dawson. You know, her sister is gonna 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:04.160 get married probably this year and probably start having kids. 0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:08.200 So if her sister, Lauren starts having kids, that's going 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:11.280 to really change a lot, because then Grandma and Grandpa 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:14.120 on her side, her parents will be down there with 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:17.240 Lauren and the kid. And I think Ashley is really 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:21.400 really going to have some serious pomo with that. We'll see. 0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:24.680 You're Dean is shrinking behind the mic right now. I 0:14:24.680 --> 0:14:26.640 don't know what the hell is going on. He's slunking. 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:32.360 Is Laura gonna have kids? Yeah, she wants to have kids. Married. No, 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:38.600 she's engaged. So she's engaged, due to be married probably 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:42.680 three But yeah, dude, when she starts having kids, oh Jesus, dude, Ashley, 0:14:42.760 --> 0:14:44.840 every single day, I can already see it that she's 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:46.400 just gonna tell me how much she hates it here. 0:14:57.560 --> 0:14:59.400 So we have an engagement party in a couple of weeks. 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:02.760 We were gonna avite you guys, but I want to 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:05.840 invite you guys, but I feel weird inviting people knowing 0:15:06.360 --> 0:15:10.480 that they're not gonna go, so like you already know 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:12.800 the answer, I don't wanna. I don't want you to 0:15:12.880 --> 0:15:17.440 be uninvited, But I also feel guilty putting like the 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:20.520 guilt on you guys for getting an invite and obviously 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:22.560 knowing that you can't make it. You know what I mean. 0:15:22.800 --> 0:15:24.960 I wouldn't think like that, just invite people and let 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:27.520 people make their own decisions. But I also feel bad, 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:29.680 like I don't know, I just like I don't want 0:15:29.720 --> 0:15:32.080 you to fly all the way, like you have too 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:33.280 much going on, and I know you wouldn't, but like, 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:34.480 I don't want you to have to fly out from 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:35.960 the East coast to the West coast just for an 0:15:35.960 --> 0:15:39.040 engagement party. Yeah, we wouldn't, and we would send our guy. 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:40.560 I don't want you to feel But then I don't 0:15:40.560 --> 0:15:42.640 want you to feel bad for not going to the 0:15:42.640 --> 0:15:45.120 engagement party because we invited you. You You know what I mean? Honestly, bro, 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:47.760 once you have kids, For me at least, it's like 0:15:47.880 --> 0:15:50.120 all things just I don't feel bad anymore. I don't 0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:52.200 feel bad about things. It's like if I could do it, great, 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:55.040 If I can't, that's okay too. I'm starting to just 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:57.960 become that old grump who's like, yeah, if we're there, 0:15:58.000 --> 0:16:01.600 we're there. But I'll let you know. Like I'm trying 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:04.680 to think. Even uh, Ashley was freaking out because we 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:07.880 didn't get anything my parents for Christmas, and like so 0:16:08.320 --> 0:16:10.960 they're fine, you know, a couple of years ago before 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:12.520 we had kids, sure be like, oh, we gotta get 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:15.760 him something and something nice. My parents don't care. I 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:18.400 don't care. It's all about Dawson. They just want gifts 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:20.920 for Dawson. They don't want anything like, well, let's just 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:22.440 get him a gift card for USh. You're telling me 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:25.280 kids are a good reason to slack off your social 0:16:25.320 --> 0:16:29.840 obligation thousand and ten percent. Dude, kids are the greatest 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:31.720 excuse ever. I gotta have a baby. I gotta have 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:34.880 a baby. But even strolling through Walmart, Broo, everybody gets 0:16:34.880 --> 0:16:36.880 out of your way. And if you get in my way, 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:40.040 you're the asshole. I have the baby, I have the kid. 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:43.720 You have to get out of my way, you know, everything, 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:46.880 Like because if I'm carrying like everything, everybody just feels 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:48.600 bad for you because you have the kid, because they 0:16:48.640 --> 0:16:51.360 know that. It's just there's so much going on, and 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:53.760 it's it makes me feel good because he's the easiest 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:56.280 excuse ever. Dawson's getting a little fussy. We gotta go 0:16:57.240 --> 0:17:01.120 as a non child bearing human. I zent everything you 0:17:01.200 --> 0:17:05.399 just said. It's great, man, it's awesome because, like, honestly, yeah, bro, 0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:07.639 if you and Calin are walking down the Walmart aisle 0:17:07.720 --> 0:17:09.840 and Ashley and me and Dawson are walking in the 0:17:09.840 --> 0:17:12.360 opposite direction, and we're playing a game and chicken, at 0:17:12.359 --> 0:17:14.720 this point, I'm bowling that kid over. I don't care 0:17:14.760 --> 0:17:16.359 get out of my way. A kid, I'm bigger than you, 0:17:16.400 --> 0:17:19.160 I'm stronger than you, and I will mess you up 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:21.240 if you get in my way totally. But then someone 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:24.280 will be recording. Yeah no exactly, but then someone will 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:26.520 be recording it. And then Dean is the asshole because 0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:29.000 he bumped the kid he got in the way, Like, oh, 0:17:29.040 --> 0:17:31.840 it's just a baby. It's like, dude, anybody who gets mad, 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:34.919 I also get so annoyed. People who like get annoyed 0:17:34.960 --> 0:17:37.800 about a baby crying on a plane. It's like, guys, yeah, 0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:40.440 we're all aware. We don't want this baby to be crying. 0:17:40.560 --> 0:17:42.840 He's my child. We have to do this. We have 0:17:42.920 --> 0:17:44.520 to be on this plane. I'm going to do everything 0:17:44.520 --> 0:17:46.720 in my power to keep this baby from crying. But 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:50.199 there might be some moments where you here and it's like, 0:17:50.240 --> 0:17:52.960 you know what, if you're smart, you planned ahead, you 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:55.200 brought headphones so you don't have to listen to any 0:17:55.200 --> 0:17:58.080 of this. It's the people that get annoyed about having 0:17:58.080 --> 0:18:00.720 a baby on a plane that don't have headphones. You 0:18:00.760 --> 0:18:04.679 have nobody to blame but yourself. Bring headphones, zone out, 0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:07.600 watch movies on your phone, or listen to music and 0:18:07.640 --> 0:18:10.920 shut the hell up. I get a baby crying that's 0:18:11.000 --> 0:18:14.879 less uh controllable by the parents. But when like a toddler, 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:17.320 like a three to a twelve year old kid is 0:18:17.320 --> 0:18:19.400 acting up on an airplane and the parents not doing 0:18:19.440 --> 0:18:22.480 anything about it, that's when I get annoyed, because it's 0:18:22.520 --> 0:18:26.760 the parents responsibility to ease their their child, and by 0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:29.439 not doing that, they're making the flight a miserable experience 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:32.399 for everyone involved. And yeah, sure headphones are helpful, but 0:18:32.440 --> 0:18:34.600 they don't block a dent of the sound a hundred 0:18:34.600 --> 0:18:38.520 percent of the time. So I get the babies baby 0:18:38.560 --> 0:18:41.280 aspect of it, but once that baby reaches a certain age, 0:18:41.680 --> 0:18:44.000 it then becomes back to me being annoyed at the parents. 0:18:44.160 --> 0:18:46.120 I agree with that there's a certain age, and I'm 0:18:46.200 --> 0:18:49.840 dreading that because then it's like, then I have to 0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:53.159 put some serious effort in. That sounds terrible. I have 0:18:53.200 --> 0:19:00.520 to watch my effort that worst. Jesus uh Odean. What 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:04.600 about you? What did you two? You've gotten engaged twice, 0:19:05.600 --> 0:19:08.879 You've proposed, and then you got proposed to. Did you 0:19:08.960 --> 0:19:13.520 move or was that we moved to Vegas? That was 0:19:13.560 --> 0:19:16.720 April of last year. Damn, dude, I have no sense 0:19:16.720 --> 0:19:18.840 of time anymore. So what about you? What did you 0:19:18.920 --> 0:19:23.000 learn in this past year? I learned that when you 0:19:23.040 --> 0:19:26.040 buy an engagement rank for someone, you damn well better 0:19:26.119 --> 0:19:29.120 ensure it because that ring might go missing, and if 0:19:29.119 --> 0:19:32.560 it does, you're stuck footing the bill for a new one. Dude, 0:19:32.720 --> 0:19:36.400 I cannot believe you haven't found this thing. I know. 0:19:36.600 --> 0:19:39.160 So I'm doing renovations in the house right now, and 0:19:39.440 --> 0:19:41.520 one of the like things that I've been holding onto 0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:43.880 where I was like, oh, I'll find it, was when 0:19:43.880 --> 0:19:46.600 I demoed our home office to like redo a bunch 0:19:46.600 --> 0:19:49.879 of stuff, and it's fully demoed and there was no 0:19:50.040 --> 0:19:54.160 rank to be found. So the hope is dwindling quite 0:19:54.160 --> 0:19:56.520 a bit. But what do you think could have had? 0:19:56.600 --> 0:20:00.359 I mean, obviously someone threw it out, see only logical 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:04.600 explanation if this thing is never found, is that smartly 0:20:05.119 --> 0:20:08.119 you put it in a crumpled piece of paper or 0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:11.639 tissues in the junk draw you know, as you should 0:20:11.640 --> 0:20:15.760 do with what you say, a four carrot diamond? Yeah, 0:20:15.840 --> 0:20:17.720 four and a half four and a half. Excuse me, 0:20:17.760 --> 0:20:22.800 I forgot the half? Uh and then it but my 0:20:23.560 --> 0:20:28.000 how who if you knew what it was, and Kalin 0:20:28.080 --> 0:20:30.520 knew what it was, who the hell would have thrown 0:20:30.520 --> 0:20:33.119 this thing out? Has anybody been over your house that 0:20:33.119 --> 0:20:37.000 would feel comfortable enough? There's a seventy chances in a landfill, 0:20:37.119 --> 0:20:40.639 but that that's what we're cleaning too. We yeah, if 0:20:40.680 --> 0:20:43.359 we we've I don't know, is there anybody that's come 0:20:43.400 --> 0:20:45.919 over the house that would feel comfortable enough to go 0:20:46.040 --> 0:20:48.439 through any drawers or clean up? Do you have a 0:20:48.440 --> 0:20:51.800 cleaning company? We have cleaners that come every once in 0:20:51.840 --> 0:20:53.639