WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Give A Hero A Chance

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<v Speaker 1>Second date is something my dad always used to say

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<v Speaker 1>to me growing up was you can control all delete

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<v Speaker 1>a computer virus from an adult Chinese website, but you

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<v Speaker 1>can't control all delete a bad first impression from an

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<v Speaker 1>adult date. That it's wise, I know, very wise stuff

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<v Speaker 1>from my father. Got a super quotable man, your dad,

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<v Speaker 1>you say that, but those words were ringing in my

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<v Speaker 1>ear when I read an email from one of our listeners, Kyle,

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<v Speaker 1>who says he screwed up in the first minute of

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<v Speaker 1>his date but thinks it went a lot better after that.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you screw up in the first minute? We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna find out, Kyle. Welcome to the show. Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>how's it going guys. Okay, hey, you haven't messed this

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<v Speaker 1>up yet, so congrats. Well we're not. Yeah, we're not

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<v Speaker 1>through the full minute yet, judgment, and we'll get to

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<v Speaker 1>your screw up here in just a second. But first,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about the person that you went out with.

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<v Speaker 1>What's their name? Her name is Rebecca and we actually

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<v Speaker 1>met off of a dating app. Okay, yeah, great. What

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<v Speaker 1>what did you like about Rebecca? Honestly, I mean, she's

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful and we really just kind of had a very

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<v Speaker 1>natural vibrant off the beginning, and it was easy, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of a lot of the times it's

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<v Speaker 1>not easy, and that's usually when it's like, why am

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<v Speaker 1>I trying? Everybody? That's great? So what did you and

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca do for a date? We got to get to

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<v Speaker 1>the minute of screw up? Right? Isn't that where we're at?

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<v Speaker 1>How does that happen in the first minute? So the

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<v Speaker 1>day of our date, my car actually had to be

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<v Speaker 1>taken to the shop last minute, so Rebecca had offered

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<v Speaker 1>to pick me up. So she got there, I invited

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<v Speaker 1>her in, I introduced her to my roommate, and I

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<v Speaker 1>should have probably left it at that, but I was

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<v Speaker 1>a one hundred percent honest with her from the beginning

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<v Speaker 1>and told her that my roommate and I used to

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<v Speaker 1>date and that we had broke up two weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa ago? I thought you're gonna say like that you

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<v Speaker 1>were high school years they were introducing them. I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>like moved out by then. I'm having a panic attack

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<v Speaker 1>for you. I don't know what I honestly, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what I was thinking in the moment. I really

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<v Speaker 1>felt like if I'm just kind of honest, also this

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<v Speaker 1>had been a breakup that was like a long time coming,

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<v Speaker 1>so broken up? Can I ask, though, were you still

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<v Speaker 1>in a one bedroom apartment or you guys, are you

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping in different rooms? Yeah? At this point, like we

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<v Speaker 1>were pretty much sleeping in different rooms. So wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a good thing. You're you're not honest. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you're you're showing Rebecca, like, look what I was working

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<v Speaker 1>with last time. See now you have. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>anyone's yea, it's like, now, look I've moved on to

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<v Speaker 1>something better. Be honest, you were just doing this to

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<v Speaker 1>make your ex jealous. No, actually, I really that was

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<v Speaker 1>not the case, because I'm the one who wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>end the relationships. So some people like to rub in

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<v Speaker 1>their new relationships and other people's faces there too. Sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like an honest mistake that could have happened to anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you do for you do? It's so specific?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I thought it was funny. Clearly no one

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<v Speaker 1>else in the room thought it was funny. So immediately

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<v Speaker 1>just said, we're gonna be late for the reservation and

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<v Speaker 1>we last ye wait, did Rebecca not ask any other questions?

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<v Speaker 1>Like in the car when you guys were driving to

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant. Yeah. She was a little funny about it.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, oh, wow, I didn't know you were

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<v Speaker 1>living with your ex and you never said that. That's amaya.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's get past let's get past the x slash roommate

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<v Speaker 1>and get to the restaurant. Tell us how that one.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I can get past. Ye. So, so

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<v Speaker 1>we're driving to the restaurant and it's in an area

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<v Speaker 1>I'm usually never in, and like, I see this, I

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<v Speaker 1>see a best by. So in the moment, I was

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<v Speaker 1>just like, oh, can we stop here for a few minutes. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to pick up another TV. There's a CD

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<v Speaker 1>I want to buy a Why would you ever run

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<v Speaker 1>an errand with you? Well, there's just camera standing there

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<v Speaker 1>that I wanted to buy for six months and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>never round this best by. Okay, we weren't. We weren't

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<v Speaker 1>actually running late for the reservation. I just washed to

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of get out of the awkwardness of the situations,

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<v Speaker 1>the geek squad, my excess that we need to mount

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<v Speaker 1>the camera next time. So up it actually ended being fun.

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<v Speaker 1>We got to look around, you know, we got a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to talk about like photography, which is something that

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<v Speaker 1>we both care about, and telling her why, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>camera stands are all different in the nuances. And then

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<v Speaker 1>we look at you know, thrilling. I can't believe hungry

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for a dinner reservation. At any point do we

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<v Speaker 1>end up getting to the restaurant or yeah, so that

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<v Speaker 1>we leave, you know, like at this point we both

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<v Speaker 1>were ready for dinner. I'd based out the reservation, and

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<v Speaker 1>we actually couldn't get in when we get there. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, what the hell, what happens? What happened

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<v Speaker 1>with the reservation? So I guess when I booked the reservation,

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<v Speaker 1>I had, you know, booked it for a different time.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you said you always spit up the first

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<v Speaker 1>We're an hour in and it's all bad. I disagree, Kyle.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're hitting it out of the park with this.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, keep going, Thank you, thank you for your encouragement. Yeah, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, obviously it was all going downhill at that point. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like what was the flow? You know, we made the

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<v Speaker 1>best of it. We ended up hanging out at the

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<v Speaker 1>place next door. We drank a decent amount because we

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<v Speaker 1>both were just probably trying to get like you know

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<v Speaker 1>Johnkup's point, and I can drink a lot. Anyways, she

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<v Speaker 1>ended up driving me home after dinner. No kiss. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I really do want to make up for the

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<v Speaker 1>first impression. I feel like I really screwed it up,

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<v Speaker 1>and I that's why I'm trying to get another shot

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<v Speaker 1>at it. Can we tell her, like when we talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her, do you have plans to move out with

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<v Speaker 1>the apartment with yours? Of course, our lease is ending

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<v Speaker 1>in two more months. And I get it. I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's hard. Yeah, I mean good for her for sticking

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<v Speaker 1>out the entire date. She could have just barreled out

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<v Speaker 1>of her car while she was driving home. I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to say, leave him a best buy, Jeffrey, but

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<v Speaker 1>she did, so maybe there's hope here. We're gonna call

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca and try and get you your second date update

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<v Speaker 1>right after this second if you're just joining us for

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update. Really hard to find any red

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<v Speaker 1>flags on file with Rebecca. Yeah, I don't see any.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just recap his story really quick. He introduced her

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<v Speaker 1>to his roommate aka ex girlfriend, who he still lives

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<v Speaker 1>with he broke up with two weeks ago. Will stick

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<v Speaker 1>the situation, little details. Yeah, and then on the way

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<v Speaker 1>to the restaurant, they stopped at a best Buy to

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<v Speaker 1>pick up a camera stand that he really really needed.

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<v Speaker 1>They ended up missing their dinner reservation, so to make

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<v Speaker 1>up for it, hit up a bar where he drank

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<v Speaker 1>heavily and totally redeemed himself. Yeah. So it's such a

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<v Speaker 1>cute look. If anything, maybe there were a couple of hiccups,

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<v Speaker 1>But Kyle, the good news here is Brooke has dated

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<v Speaker 1>much much worse and always rely on, including the dude

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<v Speaker 1>in Mexico who actually tried to harvest her kidney after

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<v Speaker 1>they hooked up. So I'm giving you a fifty fifty

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<v Speaker 1>shot here. I was kind of sweet all the ki

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we didn't ask you have you reached out

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<v Speaker 1>and apologized to her for what a train wreck you guys'

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<v Speaker 1>first date was. I actually didn't think it was a

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<v Speaker 1>train wreck. I you know, I basically reached out and

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<v Speaker 1>was just like trying to focus on the positive and

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<v Speaker 1>all the good things that came out of that. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>I like that attitude, and Brooke is always trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get men to apologize for everything that they do. It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't sound like she responded to him, so I don't know. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's rude of her. Maybe she should apologize for not responding. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that Jeffrey for apology as soon as she picks up

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. Lets what a rude woman here we got? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is this Rebecca? Hi? Yeah, hey Rebecca. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is jeff from a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Hi Rebecca, Hey have you ever heard

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<v Speaker 1>of us before? Um? That's okay, I think my mom. Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for lying. Your mom sounds like a good person,

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<v Speaker 1>because we do. We do something on the show called

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<v Speaker 1>a second Date Update, and we'd like you to be

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<v Speaker 1>a part of one right now, all right? What's that? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>It's basically where listeners ask us to reach out to

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<v Speaker 1>a person they went on a date with recently to

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<v Speaker 1>try and figure out why a second date hasn't happened yet. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you went out with a guy named Kyle the other

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<v Speaker 1>night who's a little curious what's going on? Okay? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that a good laugh? Or like Kyle should know? Laugh?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he talk to you already? Yeah? Weird? A little

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<v Speaker 1>bit from Kyle. Yeah, just quick summary. Nothing too bad

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<v Speaker 1>though not in our opinion, was anything In Jeffrey's opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis and I saw a couple of red flags when

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<v Speaker 1>he was describing the date. I would love to hear

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<v Speaker 1>your side of the story of the first like thirty minutes. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just like give us the start from your eyes. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I went to pick him up, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as a normal person, you text me like I'm hearing

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<v Speaker 1>they come out, and he was like, oh, come in.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, oh, and when you went into

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<v Speaker 1>his apartment, what do you think? Um, the apartment was fine,

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<v Speaker 1>but like he was like, oh, this is my roommate

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<v Speaker 1>Boa and then he goes, yeah, like we used to date,

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<v Speaker 1>and and then I find out they broke up like

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<v Speaker 1>two weeks ago. What was going through your head? What

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<v Speaker 1>a catch? I was just like, never met a next

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<v Speaker 1>in the first minute or really at all on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>And my second thought was she's really pretty like best

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<v Speaker 1>what he what do he meant when he had car trouble?

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<v Speaker 1>He just wants to me to meet his bags? Because

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<v Speaker 1>there were other moments where it was just he just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of felt like he was posturing or whatever. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean what moment does sound pretty convenient? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say this is my own thing with people

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<v Speaker 1>pleasing or whatever. I was like, okay, like I can

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<v Speaker 1>move on from this. So to get in the car

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<v Speaker 1>and we're driving and then he's like, oh, can we

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<v Speaker 1>go to Good Buy and I need to get this

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<v Speaker 1>camera stand or whatever, and I was like, uh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>second thing. That's super weird. But were you sound very

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<v Speaker 1>patient and nice so far? Just so you know again,

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<v Speaker 1>she said it's her people pleasing problem exactly. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's probably not for the best, but something weird happened

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<v Speaker 1>at best Buy. I mean besides just going there. So

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<v Speaker 1>besides just going there, he takes about an hour looking

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<v Speaker 1>at camera stands, and man's playing to me and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not the one buying a camera, Stan, I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you think about it, that's an hour of

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<v Speaker 1>free electronic education that he gifted to you. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like that. I don't want the energy that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting in this moment. Let's move on. Tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>what happened when you and Kyle were over at the

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<v Speaker 1>bar together. Oh so you already know that we didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even go to the restaurant. Okay, yeah, I mean we're

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<v Speaker 1>calling that a little hiccup. Go ahead. So, like there's

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<v Speaker 1>a bar nearby, so we just walked over to the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>He's getting drinks. I don't want to drink that much

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<v Speaker 1>because obviously I'm driving, And yeah, he goes as let

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<v Speaker 1>you know that, like I have a blood condition where

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<v Speaker 1>I can handle a lot of alcohol. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>like okay, and he takes like six shots and within

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<v Speaker 1>like thirty minutes he's faced down on the bar. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you drove him home. I wish I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>You're so right. But like so I'm like basically dragging

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<v Speaker 1>him back to my car, and he's like, you do

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<v Speaker 1>pretty thing. You can't know that. I'm a Navy seal

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<v Speaker 1>in training, And I'm like, what does this happening feel

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<v Speaker 1>in trading? Yeah, he's just trying that just even feels

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<v Speaker 1>like a lie, Like, hello, I am a Navy sealing training.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? Wait? What the heck? Hey? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca Kylesman on the other line listening this entire time.

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<v Speaker 1>It was supposed to wait till we called him in,

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<v Speaker 1>but honestly, I feel like this is something you should

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<v Speaker 1>tell the people right away. Yes, sorry, you're right, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>We were just so caught up in the terrible stories

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<v Speaker 1>that you were sharing. I didn't get terrible from anything

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<v Speaker 1>that she seek. On top of all of his other

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<v Speaker 1>positive qualities, he wants to surprise here too. After hearing

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<v Speaker 1>all of that, I think it was more positive than negative.

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<v Speaker 1>To be honest, I do. I think there are a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of hiccups at the beginning, but I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>ended on a good note. Would you sloppy drunk in

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<v Speaker 1>her car? Kyle? Clearly they're not understanding this. Why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you man explain all the positive things that happened? My

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<v Speaker 1>headset off? Yeah. Well, initially, you know, when we talked

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<v Speaker 1>about photography and everything, like, you seemed really into it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I thought when we were at Best Buys, you

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<v Speaker 1>seemed pretty engaged. You laugh, I got a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>laughs and smiles out of you, and we were there

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<v Speaker 1>for a while, and I thought that was pretty positive.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what was I supposed to say? I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it would have been rude for me to be like,

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<v Speaker 1>well this is boring, let's go. Yeah. I guess that's fair,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't do it that way. Of course, you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't see anything as rude because you were like, here,

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<v Speaker 1>picked me up here and meet my roommate here, meet

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<v Speaker 1>my ex here, Let's go to best Buy here, let's

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<v Speaker 1>our reservation. And that's a lot of things that he

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<v Speaker 1>did for you there. What's something that you did for him?

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff been sarcastic right now? I mean that that is

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<v Speaker 1>all really selfish stuff. Man. Were you ever thinking of her? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean yeah, I told her she was pretty I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking about her. Are you serious? Like I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm speechless? Good work, Kyle, you got a speechless fight?

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<v Speaker 1>Is because Kyle's so clueless. Honestly, I disagree with you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Jeff said, I gave her like an hour of

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<v Speaker 1>education on cameras, and I feel pretty good about that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to pay for that most places. I mean, Kyle,

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<v Speaker 1>were you training with to be a Navy seal? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>looking at like YouTube videos? You know, Wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how it's intense training. You can't just learn how

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<v Speaker 1>to hold your breath for two minutes YouTube. Kyle's going

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<v Speaker 1>to prove you wrong on that one, Jose. I think,

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<v Speaker 1>because like he proved me wrong with his blood condition,

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<v Speaker 1>that he could drink six shots in a row. Yeah, Rebecca,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to ask you a question here, and I

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<v Speaker 1>really hope that you don't turn down a future Navy

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<v Speaker 1>seal on a second date that we will pay for.

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<v Speaker 1>And I promise you that on the date, he'll prove

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<v Speaker 1>that he can hold his breath for two minutes in

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<v Speaker 1>the bathtub while is X watching yeahs Navy seal training

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<v Speaker 1>with that mounted camera that you helped buy circle. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you say, Rebecca, what an opportunity, Rebecca, do the

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<v Speaker 1>hero a chance? I mean, that is a very enticing offer.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's proven everything and I never want to see

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<v Speaker 1>him again. Yeah, good job, Rebecca finding some boundaries. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah. I'm sweating bullets over here. I'm about to

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<v Speaker 1>hang up and just hypervently. Oh you'll be good. You'll

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<v Speaker 1>be good. You're a great sport. Everybody understand. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think Kyle, like, once he does some reflection, has learned,

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<v Speaker 1>will kind of soak in some of this, hopefully when

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<v Speaker 1>he's taken down the next bin. Laden for sure, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a drunk guy. I'm calling you back, just see

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<v Speaker 1>you know, all right, happy hours come enough, Brooke needs somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. That's not much Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,