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Speaker 1: Second date is something my dad always used to say

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Speaker 1: to me growing up was you can control all delete

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Speaker 1: a computer virus from an adult Chinese website, but you

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Speaker 1: can't control all delete a bad first impression from an

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Speaker 1: adult date. That it's wise, I know, very wise stuff

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Speaker 1: from my father. Got a super quotable man, your dad,

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Speaker 1: you say that, but those words were ringing in my

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Speaker 1: ear when I read an email from one of our listeners, Kyle,

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Speaker 1: How do you screw up in the first minute? We're

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Speaker 1: gonna find out, Kyle. Welcome to the show. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: how's it going guys. Okay, hey, you haven't messed this

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Speaker 1: up yet, so congrats. Well we're not. Yeah, we're not

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Speaker 1: through the full minute yet, judgment, and we'll get to

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Speaker 1: your screw up here in just a second. But first,

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Speaker 1: tell us about the person that you went out with.

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Speaker 1: What's their name? Her name is Rebecca and we actually

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Speaker 1: met off of a dating app. Okay, yeah, great. What

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Speaker 1: what did you like about Rebecca? Honestly, I mean, she's

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Speaker 1: and a lot of a lot of the times it's

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Speaker 1: not easy, and that's usually when it's like, why am

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Speaker 1: I trying? Everybody? That's great? So what did you and

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Speaker 1: Rebecca do for a date? We got to get to

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Speaker 1: the minute of screw up? Right? Isn't that where we're at?

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Speaker 1: How does that happen in the first minute? So the

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Speaker 1: day of our date, my car actually had to be

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Speaker 1: taken to the shop last minute, so Rebecca had offered

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Speaker 1: her in, I introduced her to my roommate, and I

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Speaker 1: should have probably left it at that, but I was

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Speaker 1: a one hundred percent honest with her from the beginning

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Speaker 1: and told her that my roommate and I used to

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Speaker 1: Whoa ago? I thought you're gonna say like that you

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Speaker 1: were high school years they were introducing them. I'd be

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Speaker 1: for you. I don't know what I honestly, I don't

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Speaker 1: had been a breakup that was like a long time coming,

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Speaker 1: so broken up? Can I ask, though, were you still

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Speaker 1: sleeping in different rooms? Yeah? At this point, like we

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Speaker 1: were pretty much sleeping in different rooms. So wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: I think it's a good thing. You're you're not honest. Well, no,

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Speaker 1: you're you're showing Rebecca, like, look what I was working

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Speaker 1: something better. Be honest, you were just doing this to

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Speaker 1: end the relationships. So some people like to rub in

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Speaker 1: their new relationships and other people's faces there too. Sounds

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Speaker 1: like an honest mistake that could have happened to anybody.

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Speaker 1: So what did you do for you do? It's so specific?

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Speaker 1: we last ye wait, did Rebecca not ask any other questions?

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Speaker 1: Like in the car when you guys were driving to

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Speaker 1: She was like, oh, wow, I didn't know you were

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Speaker 1: living with your ex and you never said that. That's amaya.

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Speaker 1: Let's get past let's get past the x slash roommate

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Speaker 1: you need to pick up another TV. There's a CD

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Speaker 1: I want to buy a Why would you ever run

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Speaker 1: We're an hour in and it's all bad. I disagree, Kyle.

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Speaker 1: going to say, leave him a best buy, Jeffrey, but

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Speaker 1: Let's just recap his story really quick. He introduced her

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Speaker 1: the situation, little details. Yeah, and then on the way

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Speaker 1: But Kyle, the good news here is Brooke has dated

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Speaker 1: much much worse and always rely on, including the dude

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Speaker 1: shot here. I was kind of sweet all the ki

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Speaker 1: I mean, we didn't ask you have you reached out

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Speaker 1: all the good things that came out of that. Again,

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Speaker 1: I like that attitude, and Brooke is always trying to

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Speaker 1: doesn't sound like she responded to him, so I don't know. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's rude of her. Maybe she should apologize for not responding. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Rebecca? Hi? Yeah, hey Rebecca. My name

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Speaker 1: is jeff from a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Hi Rebecca, Hey have you ever heard

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Speaker 1: of us before? Um? That's okay, I think my mom. Listen.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for lying. Your mom sounds like a good person,

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Speaker 1: because we do. We do something on the show called

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Speaker 1: a second Date Update, and we'd like you to be

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Speaker 1: a part of one right now, all right? What's that? Um?

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Speaker 1: It's basically where listeners ask us to reach out to

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Speaker 1: a person they went on a date with recently to

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Speaker 1: try and figure out why a second date hasn't happened yet. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you went out with a guy named Kyle the other

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Speaker 1: night who's a little curious what's going on? Okay? Is

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Speaker 1: Did he talk to you already? Yeah? Weird? A little

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I went to pick him up, and you know,

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Speaker 1: And my second thought was she's really pretty like best

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Speaker 1: what he what do he meant when he had car trouble?

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Speaker 1: He just wants to me to meet his bags? Because

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Speaker 1: do you mean what moment does sound pretty convenient? Well,

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Speaker 1: I would say this is my own thing with people

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Speaker 1: go to Good Buy and I need to get this

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Speaker 1: camera stand or whatever, and I was like, uh, okay,

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Speaker 1: second thing. That's super weird. But were you sound very

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Speaker 1: patient and nice so far? Just so you know again,

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Speaker 1: she said it's her people pleasing problem exactly. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: It's probably not for the best, but something weird happened

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Speaker 1: at camera stands, and man's playing to me and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not the one buying a camera, Stan, I don't care.

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Speaker 1: But if you think about it, that's an hour of

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Speaker 1: free electronic education that he gifted to you. Well, I

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Speaker 1: don't like that. I don't want the energy that I'm

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Speaker 1: getting in this moment. Let's move on. Tell us about

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Speaker 1: what happened when you and Kyle were over at the

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Speaker 1: bar together. Oh so you already know that we didn't

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Speaker 1: even go to the restaurant. Okay, yeah, I mean we're

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Speaker 1: You're so right. But like so I'm like basically dragging

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Speaker 1: pretty thing. You can't know that. I'm a Navy seal

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Speaker 1: Rebecca Kylesman on the other line listening this entire time.

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Speaker 1: It was supposed to wait till we called him in,

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Speaker 1: Jeff been sarcastic right now? I mean that that is

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Speaker 1: all really selfish stuff. Man. Were you ever thinking of her? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I told her she was pretty I

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Speaker 1: Is because Kyle's so clueless. Honestly, I disagree with you guys.

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Speaker 1: you have to pay for that most places. I mean, Kyle,

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Speaker 1: looking at like YouTube videos? You know, Wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: that's how it's intense training. You can't just learn how

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Speaker 1: to prove you wrong on that one, Jose. I think,

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Speaker 1: really hope that you don't turn down a future Navy

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Speaker 1: And I promise you that on the date, he'll prove

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Speaker 1: do you say, Rebecca, what an opportunity, Rebecca, do the

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Speaker 1: him again. Yeah, good job, Rebecca finding some boundaries. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's taken down the next bin. Laden for sure, it's

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Speaker 1: just a drunk guy. I'm calling you back, just see

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Speaker 1: you know, all right, happy hours come enough, Brooke needs somebody.

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Speaker 1: I'm good. That's not much Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,