Speaker 1: Looking jubil in the morning. The guy on the phone
Speaker 1: today that wants to do a second date update was
Speaker 1: impressed by the girl that he wants us to call
Speaker 1: back today by how quickly she dropped to her knees.
Speaker 1: But that is not to pray. You met her at church.
Speaker 1: You guys are herberts. You met her at church, That's
Speaker 1: all I was trying to get at. Sean is his name,
Speaker 1: and he wants to call a girl named Lisa today.
Speaker 1: I guess he met her in church. Sean, How you doing, Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm doing good. I'm doing good. So that's what impressed
Speaker 1: you about Lisa? Huh? Her praying ability? Yeah, maybe not
Speaker 1: in that way, but you know, church, it's a good
Speaker 1: place to meet people. Yeah, so you met her at church.
Speaker 1: How did you approach her at church? Or did you
Speaker 1: like wink at her during the service throw a Bible
Speaker 1: at the back of her head? What'd you do? Well?
Speaker 1: You know, I've been going there for a while and
Speaker 1: she started going and she always sits in the same
Speaker 1: pew on the right hand side. Paybe about six backs,
Speaker 1: So you know, I'm watching it for a while and
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, it's time to make a move.
Speaker 1: It almost sounds like you're stocking her at church with
Speaker 1: details like that. No, you do. I grew up in
Speaker 1: the church and like there's usually like a couple of
Speaker 1: hot girls and you always know where they sit, and
Speaker 1: you kind of want to sit like diagonal so you
Speaker 1: can stare at them while you're at church. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: not that weird, John, Thank you. So so how did
Speaker 1: you approach her? Well, it was the end of the
Speaker 1: service and we're all leaving and we're all standing for her,
Speaker 1: and I mean I just went up to and I
Speaker 1: was like, hey, you know, I noticed you, and I
Speaker 1: have my eye on you, and I was wondering if
Speaker 1: you just wanted to go grab some coffee, just you know,
Speaker 1: nice and simple, That's what I said. And you had
Speaker 1: never talked to her prior to that. This is the
Speaker 1: first time you guys had ever talked. Yeah, exactly. I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, you smile you walk past, but I never
Speaker 1: really like said anything to her, and she never really
Speaker 1: said anything. So yeah, it was just kind of just
Speaker 1: walked up to her and just said that. Did you
Speaker 1: get the vibe like she knew who you were too
Speaker 1: a little bit? I mean she you know, you said wink, before.
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't wink, but you know that smile,
Speaker 1: you know, the way they get you. So you were
Speaker 1: definitely like throwing her flirty glances and stuff like that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course, I mean, hey, she's cute, all right, so
Speaker 1: obviously she said yes to coffee. How was that little date?
Speaker 1: It was good. I mean, listen, I did everything. It
Speaker 1: was raining that day, so I waited in the parking lot.
Speaker 1: She pulled up. I walked in from her car to
Speaker 1: the dope front door and then open the door for
Speaker 1: of course, and we sat down. I mean I pulled
Speaker 1: out the chair, you know, all that kind of stuff,
Speaker 1: and it went' good. It went't good? That's really I mean,
Speaker 1: you sound like a man who's looking for a relationship.
Speaker 1: You want something more out of this date. I guess
Speaker 1: I really was looking for something. I mean, she seems great,
Speaker 1: she looks hot in church. I mean, what more could
Speaker 1: you want? Right? How was the conversation? It was good.
Speaker 1: I mean we talked about this, We talked about that.
Speaker 1: She's one thing I like is like, it's not just
Speaker 1: all like church talk. I mean there's the real world,
Speaker 1: you know. So we're talking about our jobs and what
Speaker 1: we like do and that kind of stuff, and I
Speaker 1: bought us everything. I mean, I'm thinking I did everything right.
Speaker 1: I walked her back out ring kind of was away,
Speaker 1: but you know I still had the umbrella that way
Speaker 1: it could stay close. You know what I'm playing back
Speaker 1: to the car, opened the door, gave or kiss on
Speaker 1: the cheek. Of course it's just first date, so no,
Speaker 1: you know, tongue wrestling. So gave Ri kiss on the
Speaker 1: cheek and just close the door, and she drove off.
Speaker 1: And how many times have you tried to call her since?
Speaker 1: I mean not every day, like stalk like five or
Speaker 1: six times a day, but you know, trying the morning,
Speaker 1: try at night, and I mean I've been trying so
Speaker 1: and you haven't seen her at church or anything. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean I haven't been a church since,
Speaker 1: so I haven't had the opportunity to see if she's
Speaker 1: been there. So I'm not really sure. She just hasn't
Speaker 1: been returning my phone call. Okay, is there anything that
Speaker 1: you can think of that would make her not want
Speaker 1: to call you back? Well, there's just one thing that happened.
Speaker 1: I mean, she wanted to. It sounds really stupid. I
Speaker 1: don't know. It just keeps me playing on my mind.
Speaker 1: So she wanted something to drink, right, So she wanted
Speaker 1: orange juice. I'm like, it's cold, it's raining, it's wet outside.
Speaker 1: Why would he get orange juice? If you questioned her
Speaker 1: orange juice choice, did you like really tease her about it? Well,
Speaker 1: I didn't think it was mean. I just listened. I
Speaker 1: just went ahead and ordered her a hot chocolate. I mean,
Speaker 1: I was saying. So, I was like, listen, it's cold outside.
Speaker 1: So she wanted an orange juice. He said, no, you're
Speaker 1: getting hot chocolate. Yeah, I did, you know. I mean,
Speaker 1: I just don't understand why you would order orange juice
Speaker 1: on a cold, rainy day. It's wet outside, you know,
Speaker 1: just stomping off our rain boots with all this water.
Speaker 1: I got my wet umbrella, and she like wants to
Speaker 1: get a wet, cold orange yea, I mean that would
Speaker 1: come off as a little controlling. I don't think so.
Speaker 1: I mean, it just didn't make sense to me. So
Speaker 1: maybe that's it. I don't know. Maybe she didn't like
Speaker 1: that that happened. Did she get her orange juice at all? No?
Speaker 1: Why would you get orange juice outside? Je And this
Speaker 1: was at the beginning of your date. Yes, okay, at
Speaker 1: the counter, so, but all the conversation after that and
Speaker 1: everything else is fine. It was cool. She was laughing,
Speaker 1: I was laughing. We had a great time, right, I
Speaker 1: mean the vibe was just a little weird standing there,
Speaker 1: because like there were people behind us waiting, and we're
Speaker 1: back and forth about the OJ and the hot chocolate,
Speaker 1: and I'm displayed. I asked, did she drink the hot chocolate,
Speaker 1: because I think that will be the telling sign she
Speaker 1: drank it. Okay, maybe she wasn't upset by it. Well,
Speaker 1: the fact that it happened at the beginning of your
Speaker 1: day and then you had a decent conversation after would
Speaker 1: make me think that that's not the issue. Look, it's
Speaker 1: not a perfect date. I can't say that it was
Speaker 1: a perfect date, but it definitely deserves a second date.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've had much worse happened than this, you know, tripping, falling,
Speaker 1: people not showing up. I mean, I think I deserve
Speaker 1: a second date. Cool, We're gonna play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. All right,
Speaker 1: all right, all right, hang up Brookings second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, if you're just tuning in for the second
Speaker 1: date update. Sean is on the phone. He met a
Speaker 1: girl named Lisa at church. She's not calling him back.
Speaker 1: After their first date, they went out for coffee, enjoyed
Speaker 1: some conversation, and you can't figure out why. The only
Speaker 1: thing that he can think of that might have turned
Speaker 1: her off a little bit was at the beginning of
Speaker 1: it when she ordered she ordered an orange juice at
Speaker 1: the coffee place, and he kind of gave her a
Speaker 1: hard time for that because it was wet and rainy
Speaker 1: and cold outside, and said, why are you gonna do
Speaker 1: that on a wet, rainy day? And then he ordered
Speaker 1: her a hot chocolate. But the date continued and it
Speaker 1: seemed to go fine. So I don't know if that's
Speaker 1: really the reason. We're about to get her on the
Speaker 1: phone and find out what went wrong. Sean, you have
Speaker 1: any last thoughts before we give her a call. No,
Speaker 1: I mean, let's get to the bottom of this, all right.
Speaker 1: And you guys haven't worked out on how you're gonna
Speaker 1: win her over with your words of romance. Well, we'll
Speaker 1: see what she says first before I decide what to
Speaker 1: say her. It could be something terrible. You're like, I
Speaker 1: don't ever want to talk to her again. Who cares?
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna doll the phone of her right now,
Speaker 1: get her on the phone and get your second date update.
Speaker 1: Here we going. Hello, Hi, gonna speak to Lisa. Please.
Speaker 1: This is Lisa. Hey, Lisa, how are you doing? This
Speaker 1: is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Who
Speaker 1: Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning the radio show. Okay,
Speaker 1: have you ever listened? Maybe one? Okay? Cool? Well, it's
Speaker 1: nice to meet you, Lisa. The reason I'm calling you
Speaker 1: today is because we recently got an email about you
Speaker 1: from one of our listeners. You this, m that's weird.
Speaker 1: You actually went out on a date with one of
Speaker 1: our listeners. His name is Sean, and you met him
Speaker 1: at church. Oh you remember meeting Sean? You remember going
Speaker 1: out with Sean obviously? Yeah, So he contacted the radio. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It's the thing we do call the second date Update.
Speaker 1: It's where if somebody goes on on a date and
Speaker 1: gets blown off, they email us so we can get
Speaker 1: the person on the phone and ask why. Wow, Sean
Speaker 1: told us about your date, and he also says that
Speaker 1: you haven't been returning any of his phone calls. Do
Speaker 1: you mind talking to us? For a second and telling
Speaker 1: us why you're not calling him back. I didn't like him.
Speaker 1: That's quite clean, all right, that's a good reason for
Speaker 1: not calling somebody back. Is there a specific reason that
Speaker 1: you didn't like him? Because when you talked about your date,
Speaker 1: he said, you guys seem to have a good conversation
Speaker 1: and enjoy each other's company. I mean, he was still
Speaker 1: not right on the day. I mean, I have to
Speaker 1: give him credit. Like it was raining and he came
Speaker 1: to my car with his umbrella and he walked us
Speaker 1: into the restaurants. So, you know, I compliment him. I
Speaker 1: told him, you know, it's really refreshing to meet a
Speaker 1: guy who does all these things. I mean, you've been
Speaker 1: really polite and you know, going out of your way
Speaker 1: to be a gentleman. And then he's like, well, you know,
Speaker 1: thank you. I fell as a man, it's my job
Speaker 1: to take care of my will. And you know, the
Speaker 1: type of girl that I'm looking for, she just knows
Speaker 1: how to be subsurvan. He said the word subservian, I
Speaker 1: would have lost it exactly. It was just over from there.
Speaker 1: He pretty much wants a woman who wants to be
Speaker 1: barefoot and pregnant all the time, and he said that
Speaker 1: he didn't want his wife to work. He basically wanted
Speaker 1: her to stay home and raise the children and cook
Speaker 1: all of his mills. Oh my god, I would have
Speaker 1: left right there. I can't believe you stayed through the date.
Speaker 1: I was trying to hear him out. I thought like,
Speaker 1: maybe I can reason with him, but he's just narrow minded,
Speaker 1: and it was like trying to talk to a caveman.
Speaker 1: That's why I haven't caught him back. You know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't blame it. I just think that that's so
Speaker 1: weird that you would continue to be that nice, not
Speaker 1: that you'd have to be rude, but you know, I
Speaker 1: really just didn't want to make a scene. It was
Speaker 1: just a coffee day. But I thought, just held my
Speaker 1: tongue and in forty five minutes will be over and
Speaker 1: I will never see this after every Well, Lisa, what
Speaker 1: if I told you at least have to talk to
Speaker 1: him one more time? What do you mean? I mean
Speaker 1: that he's actually on the other line listening. He heard
Speaker 1: what I said. Yes he did, Yes, I've been on
Speaker 1: the phone the whole time. Hey, Lisa, Oh god, what okay?
Speaker 1: So tell me you didn't have fun? You didn't like it? Right,
Speaker 1: you have a good time. Did you hear what I
Speaker 1: have to say? Shot, sweetie, listen, I heard it. You
Speaker 1: mean okay, I'm trying to talk to me after what
Speaker 1: I said about you. There's nothing wrong with a man
Speaker 1: taking care of a woman and taking care of her needs.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. I'm not talking about you.
Speaker 1: That is not taking care of a woman and her needs.
Speaker 1: That is being controlling and condescending. And since you don't
Speaker 1: understand that, we don't need to see each other. We
Speaker 1: don't need. But here's the thing, which with me knowing
Speaker 1: what you need? I know what you need. I know
Speaker 1: what you want, so I'll give it to you. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, are you serious? It's cold outside. Hot chocolate.
Speaker 1: I'm an old school guy, all right. Even if you
Speaker 1: don't know what you need, I know what you need
Speaker 1: because I'm tuned in. I'm paying attention. You're not the
Speaker 1: issue here, and you're not playing your role. You don't
Speaker 1: know your place. Your place is to be a woman,
Speaker 1: and my place is to be a man. A man
Speaker 1: has a place. It goes both ways. I know what
Speaker 1: I want, I know what I need, and you cannot
Speaker 1: control everyone. You cannot control every situation. You don't even
Speaker 1: know me. You met me one time, side, you cannot
Speaker 1: know time. Honey, honey, honey, just calmed out what I'm saying. Rest.
Speaker 1: So you're telling me you don't like a gentleman. You
Speaker 1: don't like somebody opening the door for you or walking
Speaker 1: in the rain, I mean, you don't like somebody doing
Speaker 1: a man's job. Don't like you. I won't like you.
Speaker 1: I don't like what you're about. I don't like your ideas.
Speaker 1: I don't like your views. I don't like your opinions.
Speaker 1: I don't like you, Sean. I don't think any woman
Speaker 1: listening right now likes you, Sean. No, no, no, no.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of girls out there that want to
Speaker 1: be taken care of. Okay, well you go find that girl,
Speaker 1: you go find that crazy f al right, Well, okay, listen,
Speaker 1: I don't have to listen to some feminist nazi on
Speaker 1: the radio. Wow, you are the one who reached out
Speaker 1: to me. I would not have hit up the phone
Speaker 1: if it had been your number. I'm gonna ask the
Speaker 1: question anyway. I feel like I know the answer, but
Speaker 1: I could be wrong. I'm wrong a lot, Lisa, would
Speaker 1: you like to go out with Sean on a second
Speaker 1: tape as well. Thank thank you very much for your time.
Speaker 1: I appreciate you being honest with us. You're welcome, all right,
Speaker 1: take care. Yeah, there you go, Sean. That's your answer. Man. Well,
Speaker 1: you know, it looks like somebody lost out and I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna go find another one. A lot of people
Speaker 1: want a real gentleman. A gentleman, A gentleman believes in
Speaker 1: things like gender equality and respect for women. I don't know,
Speaker 1: broken Juwil in the morning.