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Speaker 1: a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come

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Speaker 1: a radio show today. It's it's it's it's real simple

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Speaker 1: You have to get this through your head. Now, listen

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Speaker 1: talking purely from experience. Here. You can try it without God,

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Speaker 1: see no way through it? What you're gonna do about

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Speaker 1: them days? See? I got there, I got the sunshine,

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Speaker 1: you know, sunshine cool. Everybody got friends when it's sunnay outside.

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Speaker 1: You want some friends? Hit the lotto? You you you

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Speaker 1: But don't you know something. It's because of God's grace

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Speaker 1: What is it, FBI is Freedom Papers Incorporated, Freedom Papers Incorporating.

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Speaker 1: Freedom Papers Incorporated is when you sign and get freedom

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Speaker 1: That's some. That's I'm free. I'm not about to pay

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Speaker 1: I'm free, sir. I don't think you quite understand. Do

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Speaker 1: I can I can fix it where you don't go

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Speaker 1: where they gonna deport me to aftera I've never been there. No, No,

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Speaker 1: but within the next six months you're going to need

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Speaker 1: not about to pay no no money to be free, sir,

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Speaker 1: seems like you don't have your freedom papers, and we

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Speaker 1: want to make sure you get them. We're letting you

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Speaker 1: know it's two hundred dollars per person to get these

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Speaker 1: actual paperties. So you're telling me you got database and

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Speaker 1: you're just calling black people all around the punches. Well, no, sir,

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Speaker 1: what we're doing is we're calling African Americans and let them,

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Speaker 1: letting them know that they can actually, uh buy freedom

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Speaker 1: papers from us, so they don't have to be if

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Speaker 1: they're if they're if they ever get captured, then what

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Speaker 1: can happen is is that they can show their papers

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Speaker 1: and not have to deal with the problems that we

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Speaker 1: already free. You're gonna have a whole bunch runaway because

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Speaker 1: we ain't paying. I'm not paying. They might but I'm

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Speaker 1: not paying. Sure, you're gonna have to have your freedom

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Speaker 1: papers on you at all times. That's gonna be the

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Speaker 1: law within the next six months. So what I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to end can sell you freedom papers so you'll understand

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Speaker 1: that you you have everything that you need. You have

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Speaker 1: your driver's license, you have your freedom papers and and

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Speaker 1: whatever else did you carry on you you have must

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Speaker 1: Your mom called me on my phone this Sunday's wrong

443
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Speaker 1: with you freedom papers? I ain't getting you, are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm Scott, sir, I'm gonnassociate here at FPI. I heard

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00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: about that sp I you just want to check from

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Speaker 1: me thinking about seeing you some damn money, y'all. Kiss

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00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: my sir, sir, I understand you. But what you gotta

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Speaker 1: understand is within the next six months, you're gonna need

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Speaker 1: these papers. Well, they're gonna have to catch my same pans. Okay, sir,

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Speaker 1: don't you don't you want to be free? I am free,

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Speaker 1: everybody's free. We got a black president. He's gonna have

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Speaker 1: to get freedom papers I buy from you. Kiss, sir,

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have to pay for these papers one way

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Speaker 1: or the other. Okay. I'm trying this because I gave

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Speaker 1: you a call. I try to be nice to you.

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Speaker 1: I'm letting you know now you're gonna have to pay

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Speaker 1: for your freedom. I'm not, sir. Everyone will be captured

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Speaker 1: if they do not have freedom papers. You tell you

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Speaker 1: right now, don't catch me, sir. Sir, you're going to

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Speaker 1: get captured when you least expected. Sir, You're going to

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Speaker 1: get captured when you least expected. I'm gonna be whom

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Speaker 1: to can't take. Y'all, donna have to catch me because

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Speaker 1: I ain't paying. I didn't look up on the computer

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Speaker 1: right now, I can't find scam trying to get my money.

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Speaker 1: Are you on the computer? Yeah? I will? Okay? Can

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Speaker 1: I tell you one more thing? Can I? Can I

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Speaker 1: get you to google something else? Put in put in

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Speaker 1: N E P H E W all right, t O

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Speaker 1: M M Y one song once you tell me this

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Speaker 1: is Nephew tim me man for the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 1: until your wife Mariffa got me to prank phone call you. Man,

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Speaker 1: y'all happy about saying is free already? I'll be. You're

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Speaker 1: about getting love as you? All right? Man? I go.

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Speaker 1: I gotta ask you one more thing though? What is

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Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in

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Speaker 1: the lane? The Steve Park Morning The show is that?

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Speaker 1: Can count? Keep it a stupid all day long? I'm

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Speaker 1: proud gonna be stupid tonight West Palm Beach, Flaw the Baby,

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Speaker 1: I'm at the Imperor Valentine's Night, one night only, one

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Speaker 1: show only, seven o'clock tickets one and the almost gone.

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Speaker 1: The Nephew is come into town tonight one night on

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Speaker 1: that is you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna go back to the phones with

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Speaker 1: more questions for the Love Doctor. But first we gotta

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Speaker 1: get to miss Ann Steve introducer, Ladies and gentlemen, miss

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Speaker 1: A and Trip. Everybody. This is entered for the news.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, for morning, Good Mornida. Okay, and happy Valentine today, everybody. Okay.

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Speaker 1: President Trump's got no love. In fact, you've got to help.

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Speaker 1: Want to sign out because National Security Advisor Michael Flynn

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Speaker 1: has resigned. Michael Flynn was accused of discussing the sanctions

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Speaker 1: at President Obama put on the Russians with the Kremlin

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Speaker 1: before President Trump was inaugurated, and while Flynn was still

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Speaker 1: then a private citizen and back in December, and that's

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Speaker 1: against the law. That's against the law. Private citizens cannot

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Speaker 1: negotiate foreign policy for this country. He initially denied doing it,

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Speaker 1: and he said he said this, and he said he

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Speaker 1: said that, but he didn't actually say that. But anyway,

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Speaker 1: he submitted his resignation letter last night. So Michaelson is

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Speaker 1: out and they need a new national security advisor. President

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Speaker 1: Trump meanwhile met with Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau yesterday

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Speaker 1: at the White House. Afterwards, they held a joint news conference,

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Speaker 1: with the President reaffirming the importance of good relations with

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Speaker 1: our neighbor to the north, and we will coordinate closely

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Speaker 1: to protect jobs in our hemisphere. Relations with the US

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Speaker 1: are crucial to Canada since more than seventy of Canada's

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Speaker 1: exports come to the US, and the two men do,

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Speaker 1: nevertheless have very different views of things. I mean, Trudeau's

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Speaker 1: in support of free trade. He's welcomed some forty Syrian refugees,

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Speaker 1: while Trump's administration, you know, as protectionist and when it

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Speaker 1: comes to trade policy, he wants to keep certain refugees

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Speaker 1: and certain immigrants from entering the US for a while.

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Speaker 1: But they seem to get along and everything was very,

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Speaker 1: very cordial. Oh, the name Jerry Sandusky is in the

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Speaker 1: news this time one of his six adopted children, an

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Speaker 1: adopted son, has been arrested on multiple sex offense charges

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Speaker 1: involving children. Forty one year old Jeffrey Sandusky's charged with

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Speaker 1: fourteen counts, including the criminal solicitation of miners. His father,

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Speaker 1: Jerry Sandusky, you know, that's the former football coach at

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Speaker 1: Penn State. He is serving time in prison thirty years

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Speaker 1: for the sexual abuse of ten boys. Okay, this is horrible.

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Speaker 1: This is hard for me to even read that. Jackson

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Speaker 1: family matriarch Katherine Jackson has been granted a restraining order

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Speaker 1: against a nephew on her ex husband Joe Jackson's side

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Speaker 1: the family. According to court documents followed in l A

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Speaker 1: Superior Court, Katherine says she's afraid of her fifty two

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Speaker 1: year old nephew, Trent Lamar Jackson, who has worked as

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Speaker 1: her driver. The mother of the famous family accuses Trent

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Speaker 1: of bullying her. She says she has to hide in

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Speaker 1: a closet in order to speak to her children freely,

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Speaker 1: and that she's afraid to Trent may be using her

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Speaker 1: credit cards and other financial information for his personal gain.

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Speaker 1: She also wants him off the Jackson state. This is very,

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Speaker 1: very sad and scary. She wants him out of the

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Speaker 1: guesthouse right now. He has to stay at least one

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Speaker 1: feet away from Katherine Jackson. Accord hearing on somebody, somebody

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Speaker 1: needs to take Mama home and keep keep her with

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Speaker 1: them until this is straightened out or whatever, to make

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Speaker 1: sure she's safe. Anywag mm hmmmmhews, okay, anyway close to

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Speaker 1: in South Carolina. I'm just I can't do that. Yeah, Steve,

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Speaker 1: be a good boy. Stop stop. Oh my goodness, of

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Speaker 1: course this is this is something going on California. Close

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Speaker 1: to two thousand people still evacuated from towns below the

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Speaker 1: massive dam in Oraville, California. However, while the water levels

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Speaker 1: are receding in Lake Oraville, which keeps them from spilling over,

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00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 1: the dam's emergency spillway is still on Cleveland. Residents are

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Speaker 1: going to be allowed to go back to their homes.

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Speaker 1: And today, of course, is National Frederick Douglas Day, National

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Speaker 1: call in Single Day, National Condom Day, and of course,

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Speaker 1: of course it's Valentine's Day. When I say I'm in love,

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Speaker 1: you best believe I'm in love. The UV that right, baby,

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Speaker 1: put out back to Starve Boarding show. Thank you miss

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Speaker 1: saying your mama, get them instruments and let's get to work.

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00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:56,439
Speaker 1: Then of my mama. Don't my mama been gone years?

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Speaker 1: You can't even talk about if you talk about my

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Speaker 1: mother and I hear you, we immediately addresses this. And

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Speaker 1: you need to get me to understand that this was

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Speaker 1: an accident or something something dog because he ain't done

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Speaker 1: for you. But as all right, love doctor, you want

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Speaker 1: to switch. All right, let's go to the phones. If

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Speaker 1: you have questions for the Love Doctor on this Valentine's Day,

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Speaker 1: call us eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve. Let's go

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Speaker 1: to line six and talk to Brian out of Maryland. Brian, Steve,

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Speaker 1: good morning's happening now much? My answer? I make things

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Speaker 1: like my girl. We had a little altercation. She told me,

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Speaker 1: checks her aunt out of her phone. I recommenze. I

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Speaker 1: think nobody didn't recognize looks at it, seeing that it's

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Speaker 1: a baby and stuff like that. And I was drinking

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Speaker 1: all right, not realizing that was my words. Phone it

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Speaker 1: go just went down hem from there. Okay, hold a dog.

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Speaker 1: A lot of information missing in this stone because it's

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Speaker 1: a long it's a long story A time. I got that,

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Speaker 1: but let me ask you something. She wants you to

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Speaker 1: take your her aunt's number out your phone. Her phone.

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Speaker 1: She gave me her phone and check her our new

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Speaker 1: address to come to the house, so ending that I've

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Speaker 1: seen his number and I clicked on it, and I've

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Speaker 1: seen baby and stuff like that. But I was drinking that,

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00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: like Steve, not realizing that this was my work number.

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Speaker 1: But I think what he's saying talking to you, somebody,

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Speaker 1: somebody helped me understand what he's saying, Steve, is that

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Speaker 1: here in her phone. It was his work number in

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Speaker 1: that phone, and she was talking to him saying baby.

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Speaker 1: But he said he was drinking, so he didn't know.

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Speaker 1: He didn't recognize that that was his work saying yeahs

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Speaker 1: around his text messages. Oh so you don't accuse your girl, Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: do just don't just seem like an easy fix. It

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00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: ain't that easy because he was so let me take

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Speaker 1: what you did. You don't win way out of bounce

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00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:26,839
Speaker 1: when you found this text. Huh yeah, yeah, you you would.

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Speaker 1: You would hard left and now you can't get back

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Speaker 1: over to the right exactly. I tried to blink and everything.

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Speaker 1: Oh I see with the oh, I see, I see

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Speaker 1: right now, all right, doll, hang on, man, I'll help

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Speaker 1: you out. Quit reading and drinking at the same time,

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00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,720
Speaker 1: and don't add up. I'm trying to tell uk text

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Speaker 1: drinking read, You got pick one. Gona do somebody who drank,

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Speaker 1: speaking from experience, talking to somebody who you must have

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Speaker 1: him talking, drink and read. You can't do it. Ain't

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Speaker 1: gonna come. All right, I'm teddy. You're listening to Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, coming up next, Yes, it

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Speaker 1: is Valentine's day. We still have Brian on the line.

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00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:20,880
Speaker 1: He's unhauled. Brian wrongly accused his girl of cheating because

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Speaker 1: he was drunk and reading text messages. We'll get to

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Speaker 1: him right after this with the Love Doctor Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: book with Questions for the Love Doctor on this Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: Let's go back to line six with Brian. Who Brian

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Speaker 1: b Yeah, okay, so let me help you out a

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Speaker 1: little bit. Man. So you read a text but it

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00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:03,359
Speaker 1: was your work number. You thought it was from another guy,

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00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:09,719
Speaker 1: so you snapped and went off. Did you do this

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00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: while you was drunk? No? I waited. I waited after

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00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: the party. Okay, So you weren't drunk, not drunk. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So you in your right mind when you called all

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Speaker 1: these Yeah okay now so yeah, so now what you'dn't

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Speaker 1: done is you didn't said some stuff to her that's

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Speaker 1: been like pretty vile pretty much. Yeah. Okay, Uncle Steve,

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Speaker 1: we know word you can't say. Trust Please say you

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Speaker 1: didn't say that. Oh no, he said, God no he said.

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Speaker 1: If he did, if he hadn't said that, we all

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Speaker 1: kinds of so and souls when you got through. Is

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Speaker 1: that what you're saying? Be yeah. Yeah, yeah, see you

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Speaker 1: you messed up. Ow can you fix it? Yeah, he

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Speaker 1: can fix it, but it's a crawl back process. Um,

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Speaker 1: you gotta shower her. You gotta start How how long

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00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: y'all been dating B three years? Yeah? Man, you gotta

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Speaker 1: start over. So this is Valentine's Day? What what what

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Speaker 1: you do for for her today? Well? She worked in night,

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Speaker 1: so last night I just left some rolls, candles on

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Speaker 1: balloons and a couple of gifts on the bed foot

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Speaker 1: when she came back because I'm not leaving in the

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Speaker 1: room right now, ll know. But they still in the

632
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 1: same house. Yeah, well he can work it out of

633
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: being the same how okay? So but I thought it

634
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: was a long distance relationship. No, no, that was the

635
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 1: car earlier producing Dude, I love it. I got a

636
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: chance to come back. You're in the same house. We

637
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 1: got a chance. How long ago did this happen? Less

638
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 1: than a week ago? Oh? Yeah, you got a chance.

639
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 1: But now let me explain something to you. Be it's

640
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 1: going to have to be a constant shower of affection,

641
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:38,840
Speaker 1: an array of apologies. One ain't gonna get it. Mhm.

642
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 1: The thought of someone else with the love of my

643
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:49,320
Speaker 1: life was too much for me to bath. And I

644
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 1: thought I was actually losing you to another man. That's

645
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 1: pretty damn good. I struck out and I filed off

646
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:02,359
Speaker 1: in ways that really ain't me. But if you thought

647
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 1: you would lose it, the love of your life, that

648
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 1: everything you ever hoped and dreamed of was walking out

649
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:14,280
Speaker 1: the door, what would be your reaction. I'm sorry, Please

650
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: don't leave me. You're the greatest thing that's ever happened

651
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: to me. And that's got to be consistent. Man, M

652
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 1: look at six cold boy. Yeah, that's good. That's good.

653
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 1: You just saying that. That's good. That definitely appreciates that.

654
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 1: More gifts, keep the gifts coming. You gotta show out,

655
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 1: be you gotta start over. But you can get it

656
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: back though though sober you do that no moment. You're listening, alright,

657
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:04,760
Speaker 1: Happy Valentine's Day, Happy Valentine's Day. It's here today. So Steve,

658
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 1: you're taking love calls, giving love advice as the love

659
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 1: Doctor to our callers. Eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve,

660
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 1: we'll take some more after this, all right, Steve, Let's

661
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 1: go to the phones. Let's talk to line eight. Let's

662
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 1: go to Mac, who is from Arkansas. Mac Mac Mac,

663
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: What are you doing? Mac? All right? Okay, let's go

664
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 1: to line for Dr Chris out of l A. Chris. Hello, Hey,

665
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 1: what's up man? What's up? Steve? Hey, No, one's not

666
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: you in a long distant relationship. Um, all right, just

667
00:46:56,160 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 1: won't get that clear them a mile in the hair, man.

668
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 1: My wife has been separated since, um, the day after Thanksgiving, brother,

669
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 1: and I just don't know how much more I could take. Brother.

670
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 1: She's been mean, Steve means, well, they usually a don't

671
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 1: mean for no reason. So I think you mean because

672
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 1: they take out their mama. Okay, that's why. That's why, y'all.

673
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:29,839
Speaker 1: But what did you do, Chris? Um, I ain't did nothing, Steve.

674
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: I've been spalling enough for years. Brother. Um. I think

675
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: she she got this job man, and it's just been

676
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: on for the past three years. She's been turning meaner

677
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: and meaner and meaner. She makes more money than you. Um. Now, Uh,

678
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 1: it's the job stressful. Yeah, I believe it is. I

679
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:54,360
Speaker 1: truly believe it is. Like they've been that. They had

680
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 1: a couple of deaths out that the other day they

681
00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: had on explosion toe. Um, I know that kind of

682
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 1: took a toll on it. But I've been trying to

683
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:05,560
Speaker 1: be there for you know. So come on, man, she

684
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:11,479
Speaker 1: got a job. Y'all have been separated since thanks you. Okay, right, Chris,

685
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:16,919
Speaker 1: what you're not telling me? Um? I'm telling you everything, Steve,

686
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 1: like I try to love her, you know, and UM

687
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 1: trying to work through the separation. We went to counciling, man,

688
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:25,279
Speaker 1: and she met it up a couple of um, a

689
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 1: couple of hours after council So I don't know. Okay,

690
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:33,439
Speaker 1: So y'all went to counseling because you all were having

691
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 1: what problem? Um? Because I left because she's been being mean?

692
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 1: Oh you left unless she was? You left, right, So

693
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 1: the separation was caused by you. Yeah, okay, so now

694
00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 1: what you want her to do? Nice? I love my wife, Steve,

695
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 1: but man, I can't deal with it. I'm old school,

696
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,800
Speaker 1: you know. I gotta Um, a woman had the no

697
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:12,440
Speaker 1: woman's place. You know. That's why right here, that's why

698
00:49:12,520 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 1: you buy yourself a problem. Chris. There we go. Did

699
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 1: just keep the woman? The Bible? The Bible says that

700
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: a woman should be to music to a husban. I mean,

701
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 1: it's plainly silf, a black and white brother. It also

702
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: says Christ treated the church. She can't wear the pants, Shirley.

703
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: It also says, it also says, you know love your

704
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 1: wife is Christ loved the church, you know how right?

705
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 1: And I loved my wife. My wife became my wife

706
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:52,359
Speaker 1: before weeks spent the ten thousand dollars on the week,

707
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,560
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So it's um, I love her,

708
00:49:57,280 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 1: Chris drug, Chris, you got this Bible verse? Man, That

709
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:13,359
Speaker 1: Bible verse got you over there by yourself. Man, Man,

710
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 1: hang on, we're coming back with you. You're listening Steve

711
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show, all right, coming up at the top

712
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: of the hour. He is a good man with trust issues.

713
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: That is the subject of the Strawberry letter. He's a

714
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 1: good man with trust issues. Okay, and we got more

715
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 1: than that on the phone. What's his name, Chris, Chris.

716
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:43,319
Speaker 1: We're just talking to Chris, Chris. Let me talk Chris

717
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 1: right quick, Chris, Chris, Yeah, I'm here. You know, man, Chris,

718
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 1: How old are you for the one? How old is

719
00:50:54,160 --> 00:51:01,800
Speaker 1: your wife? Um? Oh? Hell, let's do it. When you

720
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:08,799
Speaker 1: have you read that Bible verse two or Chris? Yes,

721
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:15,800
Speaker 1: we both know the Bible very wherever? Well, hold on,

722
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 1: see hold on, I don't want you to think that

723
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:22,560
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be chauvinistic when I said that, Well,

724
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:27,400
Speaker 1: well let me ask you this. Come on you what

725
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 1: is Yeah? I know you're saying you're trying not to be,

726
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 1: but how do you think this sounds? I get that? Okay, Okay,

727
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 1: give me an example, Chris, of her not staying in

728
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:52,480
Speaker 1: her place, Um, just running around. You know. Every everything

729
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 1: we do is what she wants to do, you know

730
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,480
Speaker 1: what I mean? And if I don't do it, then, um,

731
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 1: it's pretty much attitude. Um, she gets mad at me

732
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:04,759
Speaker 1: because the curtain is brown. They she think they should

733
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 1: be blue, you know what I mean, Like they just

734
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 1: don't fly. Brother. You know, well no, yeah, man, you're

735
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:23,839
Speaker 1: saying the words that ain't. That's antagonistic. Okay, so listen

736
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 1: to me. Oh, I got you just using the curtains

737
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:32,359
Speaker 1: as an analogy. Who decorates the house? She does? Right?

738
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 1: Do you have say so in it? Um? Yeah? Okay,

739
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:40,879
Speaker 1: And you think you had the right to have say

740
00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:47,799
Speaker 1: so in it? Yes? I pay bill? Then okay, let

741
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 1: me give you some advice my daddy gave me. My

742
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:57,360
Speaker 1: daddy says, son, you got one job. Your job is

743
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 1: to provide a home, right I mean, your job is

744
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 1: to provide a house. Her job is to make it

745
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: a home. You're interfering with the home making process. See

746
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:19,479
Speaker 1: you got all these rules by her staying in her place,

747
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:27,400
Speaker 1: but your ways ain't in your place. See you gotta

748
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:30,280
Speaker 1: you gotta understand that you are dealing with a woman.

749
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 1: I don't care if seventy eight the women don't they

750
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 1: women now? Unless until you learn how to treat a woman,

751
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:41,960
Speaker 1: you forever go have a problem. She means cause she

752
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:47,319
Speaker 1: tied to you. She just tied you, and you get

753
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:50,840
Speaker 1: this little young fine thing back like that because she

754
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:54,239
Speaker 1: over there by herself just at least being able to

755
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 1: do what she wanna do because there's so much pushback

756
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:01,080
Speaker 1: from her. Man, why do you find on every little

757
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,880
Speaker 1: thing she want to do? I don't, Steve, I promise you,

758
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:06,360
Speaker 1: I don't. Brother. Okay, So let me ask you this.

759
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 1: What is the big move that you went in the

760
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:11,399
Speaker 1: house and asked her to do that she didn't want

761
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 1: to do, Because that didn't happen. Um, it wasn't that

762
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,320
Speaker 1: I got my arm. She hid my wallet so I

763
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 1: couldn't go anywhere because she had to work on Thanksgiving night.

764
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: I didn't playing on them going anywhere anyway. Um, And

765
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 1: she just hit my wallet just to be spiteful because

766
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:29,239
Speaker 1: she didn't want me to go anywhere. I don't want

767
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:32,399
Speaker 1: to go to the store. And that was just enough

768
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 1: for me. Like it is, the meanness had been going

769
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 1: on for months further, so I just decided, you know,

770
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:39,800
Speaker 1: maybe we need a separation, you know. Yeah, so you

771
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 1: left because when you get to the point, when you

772
00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:44,800
Speaker 1: get to the point, Steve, where um you feel like

773
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 1: you want to put your hands on them, you gotta

774
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: it's time to to separate. Yeah, definitely, definitely, definitely time

775
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: to do that. But let me ask you something. But

776
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:57,959
Speaker 1: you left though right now, you won't help back, No nothing.

777
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 1: I loved my wife, so we want each other back,

778
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's just that I'm not

779
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:07,280
Speaker 1: sure they're going back is the right thing now, you know? Okay,

780
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:09,800
Speaker 1: so this ain't bout she won't take you back. You

781
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 1: don't want to go back. I do want to go

782
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 1: back to you because a little my wife, right, But

783
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 1: you want your way or the highway. Not necessarily it's

784
00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:21,799
Speaker 1: always been her way. I live. I give her her way.

785
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:23,840
Speaker 1: All I wanted to do is be nice if she

786
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 1: if she can have her way be nice? You know

787
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 1: what I mean? Yeah? Okay, can you fix this? Can

788
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 1: you give it up? Steve? Dr Harvey? Because Chris just

789
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 1: ain't being forth right? They are usually mean for a reason.

790
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 1: Mm hmm um okay, Chris, they ain't just mad for

791
00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:57,000
Speaker 1: no reason. And the thing you think they're mad about

792
00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:02,360
Speaker 1: is usually way deeper than that. And how long okay,

793
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 1: how how long? How long y'all been married? Watched this hill?

794
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 1: Got it? I got it? Now? How long y'all a

795
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 1: year and a half a year? Let me ask you something,

796
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:19,640
Speaker 1: when you first got married, what she means? Yes, okay,

797
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 1: well then, okay, so here we go bing bing bing bing.

798
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:26,919
Speaker 1: I told you it was coming to she was mean

799
00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 1: before you got married, and you thought if you got

800
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,880
Speaker 1: married what would change? It? Was gonna help it? You know?

801
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: I thought that was part of the problem of her

802
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 1: being mean. No, so Minister told me one time, when

803
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:46,280
Speaker 1: you getting married, whoever you marry, and however you get married,

804
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 1: the only thing that changes after the wedding day is

805
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 1: the appearance of your left hand third finger. If y'all

806
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:58,400
Speaker 1: wasn't cool back then, y'all ain't gonna be cool now.

807
00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,719
Speaker 1: If she was mean, then she's gonna be mean the

808
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:08,919
Speaker 1: day after the wind the next damn day. You ain't

809
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:13,919
Speaker 1: even got the winter. Oh so bro, you don't mess

810
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:19,120
Speaker 1: around and married yourself a mean woman. Now if the

811
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,760
Speaker 1: reason you're married to mean woman is called she young

812
00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 1: and fine, no no, no, no, no, no no no,

813
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 1: I'm ugly back. Okay, So you, Chris, she young and fine.

814
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:45,439
Speaker 1: That's why you tolerated the meanness. Oh yeah, oh yeah,

815
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 1: oh yeah, oh yeah. Now you're talking about something we

816
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:59,919
Speaker 1: all know about. So now, Chris, hello, yeah, I don't

817
00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 1: would say yeah, I know by Chris, have notice? Have

818
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 1: it Valentine by yourself? Yeah, Chris, course, Christine left our

819
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 1: way to my damn yeah, down the streets. She's down

820
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:25,920
Speaker 1: the streets. You're down the street. Wow, who's gonna be

821
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 1: it in mama? Huh m hmm. All right, we're taking none.

822
00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:36,480
Speaker 1: All right, we got line six. Jasmine out of Florida. Jasmine,

823
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:45,560
Speaker 1: Good morning, jazz man. You're so heavy on my mind,

824
00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:58,640
Speaker 1: like a flower that grows amidst the rules. Jasmine, You're

825
00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 1: always my mind. I said, don't make me cry this morning.

826
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 1: I needed that. I know, all right, Jeffer, So what's

827
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: going on? Well? Me and my boyfriend. We've been together

828
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:22,960
Speaker 1: for um almost five years now. Everything seemed like it

829
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: was going great, you know, and go ahead. Um, I

830
00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:36,120
Speaker 1: started feeling some mistrust lately. Um, he picked up a

831
00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 1: more extra hours at work, so I'm barely seeing him now. Um,

832
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:42,080
Speaker 1: but I kind of felt like it was more to

833
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:43,920
Speaker 1: it that was going on. So I finally got him

834
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 1: to tell me that he ended up running into a

835
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 1: female that he used to like a while ago. Uh,

836
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:53,040
Speaker 1: this was before my time when he knew about her,

837
00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:55,960
Speaker 1: but he never used to date or anything. But now

838
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, you're running to the female, and I'm saying,

839
00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:01,680
Speaker 1: less of you isn't more to it. Um, He's telling

840
01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:04,320
Speaker 1: me I had nothing to worry about and everything goes.

841
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 1: But it just seemed like everything is just excuses around him.

842
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 1: When I try to ask him about it, all I

843
01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:13,120
Speaker 1: get back is excuses and argument. Why did he tell

844
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 1: you thank you ran up into and an old girlfriend?

845
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: Why did he tell you that? Well, it wasn't an

846
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 1: old girlfriend. He claimed he neverdated her. Um, but he

847
01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 1: told me because he knew. I felt like I knew

848
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 1: something more was going off when I was asking about it,

849
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 1: but he didn't tell me right then and there took

850
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:34,520
Speaker 1: him a couple of days found telling um, but I

851
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 1: felt like more to it, and so I guess he

852
01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 1: He always said that we would always be honest with

853
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 1: each others. That was why is his daddy in his life? No? No,

854
01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:47,640
Speaker 1: his kid, Your daddy would have taught you this. Yeah,

855
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 1: I can always tell when the dad is. You know, like,

856
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 1: we would always be honest. But see what he did

857
01:00:55,960 --> 01:01:00,560
Speaker 1: in his honesty was also an admission. The reason you're

858
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:02,640
Speaker 1: not seeing me as much as we're feeling kind of

859
01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 1: distance because I don't read up into this girl that

860
01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 1: I used to like. Uh, it don't make no sense

861
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:18,560
Speaker 1: to say that unless the two is tied together with

862
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 1: your lack of seeing him. You understand. So now what

863
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:26,200
Speaker 1: you have to do is you have to trust your

864
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:30,800
Speaker 1: intuition because it works. What is your intuition telling you?

865
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,880
Speaker 1: I feel like he's lying. I feel like everything is alive,

866
01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 1: But he's telling me that you want me and only me,

867
01:01:38,640 --> 01:01:42,120
Speaker 1: and when you know it's only us, but I don't.

868
01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 1: I don't feel it. Well, making prove it until you

869
01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 1: feel it. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Marning Show. Yeah,

870
01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 1: buggle up, hold on tight, we got it all your subject.

871
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 1: He's a good man with trust issues. Dear Stephen Shirley,

872
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 1: I have been in my relationship for ten years. We

873
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:12,080
Speaker 1: have a daughter together, and for the most part, you

874
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:14,800
Speaker 1: think all is well. We both have hurt each other

875
01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 1: in the past and we forgave each other now. I

876
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 1: trust him, but he doesn't trust me. For example, I

877
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 1: am not allowed to be on social media, and when

878
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 1: I go out, he makes it hard for me to

879
01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 1: leave the house. He always wants to go out with me,

880
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 1: or he tries to alter my plans. I don't have

881
01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 1: any friend now because he wants us to share friends,

882
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:40,000
Speaker 1: so I can't develop any friendships on my own. I

883
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:43,920
Speaker 1: still respect him, but I don't care about this relationship anymore.

884
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: When we do have sex a couple of times a week,

885
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 1: I don't want it. I want to pack up and go,

886
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 1: but financially I can't. We share the car note payment

887
01:02:53,040 --> 01:02:55,520
Speaker 1: and I have to consider my daughter. I care about

888
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 1: how my family ends up, but I want to go

889
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:02,280
Speaker 1: so bad. Don't get me wrong, he is a good man,

890
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 1: just not for me. What should I do? You have

891
01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 1: to go? If you want to go, I mean you

892
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 1: will only be getting away from a controlling, manipulative man.

893
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:15,000
Speaker 1: I mean, it's no way to live. You don't have

894
01:03:15,120 --> 01:03:19,000
Speaker 1: any friends right now, you can't be on social media, etcetera, etcetera,

895
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 1: the things that are important to you. You said you

896
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 1: guys hurt each other in the past. I'm thinking you

897
01:03:23,440 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 1: didn't say it, but that means you guys cheated. You

898
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 1: said you forgave each other. Uh, well, that's what you think.

899
01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 1: You may have forgiven him for whatever happened. Again, I'm

900
01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 1: assuming it was cheating, but he certainly is still holding

901
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 1: a grudge and not forgiving you. And and that's what

902
01:03:39,800 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 1: he's using to control you. I mean when you say

903
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:48,000
Speaker 1: things like I am not allowed, that means control. He's

904
01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 1: controlling you. Um, if you're not allowed because he doesn't

905
01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 1: allow you to do certain things, you have a daughter.

906
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 1: You got to set an example for your child in this.

907
01:03:57,160 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 1: So my advice to you would be to get some

908
01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 1: sort of part time job, some sort of extra income

909
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:06,240
Speaker 1: coming in so um, you won't have to be dependent

910
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 1: upon him financially, because that seems to be a major

911
01:04:10,280 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 1: problem with you. You can't leave because you know he

912
01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 1: holds the purse strings. So if you want to be

913
01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 1: out from under all of that, get yourself. Um uh,

914
01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:22,840
Speaker 1: you know some more streams of income and that way

915
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:28,040
Speaker 1: you can leave since you don't want to be there, Steve. Yeah,

916
01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 1: well all right, since I see the letter a little

917
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 1: bit different than you, Shay, I've been in my relationship

918
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:45,040
Speaker 1: for ten years. Y'all ain't marry. We have a daughter together,

919
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:47,080
Speaker 1: and for the most part, you think all as well.

920
01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:49,000
Speaker 1: I don't write there. You've been in a relationship for

921
01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 1: ten years? What is going We have both heard each

922
01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:58,000
Speaker 1: other in the past, and we forgave each other. Forgiving

923
01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:01,520
Speaker 1: somebody don't mean you forget. And when you say you

924
01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:05,360
Speaker 1: both heard of each other, you both cheated. But I

925
01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:11,800
Speaker 1: can tell in this letter you cheated last, seem he

926
01:05:12,040 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 1: cheated first, You retaliated and you cheated last. Thus his

927
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:26,800
Speaker 1: behavior because I know men now, I trust him, but

928
01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:31,760
Speaker 1: he does not trust me. Oh see you you hear

929
01:05:31,840 --> 01:05:34,919
Speaker 1: that little line in there. Because you've had more time

930
01:05:35,040 --> 01:05:37,480
Speaker 1: to forgive him, then you wouldn't done it on him.

931
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 1: He ain't had as much time you said. You say

932
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:44,640
Speaker 1: you want to move on, he ain't. For example, I'm

933
01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 1: not allowed to be on social media because when you

934
01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:50,160
Speaker 1: was on social media, you were sleeping with the dude

935
01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:58,120
Speaker 1: on social media. I'm just telling you. And when I

936
01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 1: go out, he makes it hard for me lead a

937
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:03,400
Speaker 1: house because the last time you left the house, you

938
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 1: left the house to sleep with the dude that you

939
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:11,439
Speaker 1: met on social media. He always wants to go out

940
01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:15,160
Speaker 1: with me, and he tries to alter my plans. He

941
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:17,400
Speaker 1: gotta go out with you. Canned last time and let

942
01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 1: you go out by yourself. You slept with the dude

943
01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:25,760
Speaker 1: that you met on social media. I don't have any

944
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:29,040
Speaker 1: friends now because he wants us to share friends. The

945
01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 1: reason you ain't got no friends because you said you

946
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 1: had friended him on Facebook. And then when you went

947
01:06:36,160 --> 01:06:38,680
Speaker 1: out with the man that you met on Facebook, that

948
01:06:38,760 --> 01:06:41,840
Speaker 1: your friend, and you slept with him, you slap with him,

949
01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:43,919
Speaker 1: And now he's scared to let you go out because

950
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:46,720
Speaker 1: every time you leave a house is to see your friend,

951
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:49,960
Speaker 1: that your friend and on Facebook, which is on social media.

952
01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:55,120
Speaker 1: So I can't develop any friendships on my own. No,

953
01:06:55,360 --> 01:07:02,840
Speaker 1: you cannot because you end up sleeping with filling. See this,

954
01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 1: I read the letter. I still respect him, but I

955
01:07:07,200 --> 01:07:12,960
Speaker 1: don't care about this relationship anymore. Okay, now, surely got

956
01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 1: this part right. This overweight, this overweight bamussa bama moos

957
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:34,840
Speaker 1: underlay or weavera dirty child? Are you like when we

958
01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:37,080
Speaker 1: do have sex a couple of times a week? I

959
01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 1: don't want it like that. When we do have sex

960
01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 1: couple of times a week, I don't want I want

961
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:53,920
Speaker 1: to pack up and go, but financially I can't. Yes,

962
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:57,320
Speaker 1: you can. You just don't want to live at the

963
01:07:57,400 --> 01:08:03,720
Speaker 1: same lifestyle you at. You can leave m now you

964
01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 1: just be walking into one room. There will be no

965
01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:13,920
Speaker 1: corn attorney you lead him car keys over too y

966
01:08:14,080 --> 01:08:19,640
Speaker 1: that's his on the thought twice a week. I'll be

967
01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:23,920
Speaker 1: back tell you what I want. Okay, you're listening to

968
01:08:29,400 --> 01:08:32,040
Speaker 1: all right? We are in the middle of the Strawberry

969
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:35,080
Speaker 1: Letters subject He's a good man with trust issues, Part

970
01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 1: two of Steve's response. All right, he's a good man

971
01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:49,760
Speaker 1: with trust issues. Lady wrote in she's been in a

972
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:53,599
Speaker 1: relationship for ten years. They have a daughter together. Um

973
01:08:54,120 --> 01:08:57,920
Speaker 1: we we we pretty much surmise that they both cheated

974
01:08:57,960 --> 01:09:02,479
Speaker 1: on each other. She says they trust each other. No,

975
01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:05,600
Speaker 1: they don't. She trusts him, but he doesn't trust her. No,

976
01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:09,960
Speaker 1: nobody trust nobody in this relationship. She trust him. She's

977
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:15,160
Speaker 1: sick of him. He controlling calls. She didn't messed up,

978
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:19,920
Speaker 1: He didn't messed up. You know it's over. When we

979
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:21,960
Speaker 1: do have sex a couple of times a week, I

980
01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:27,320
Speaker 1: don't want it, says that's real good, though, Why are

981
01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:30,600
Speaker 1: we talking to him? I want to pack up and go,

982
01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 1: but financially I can't. We share the car note payments,

983
01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 1: and I have to consider my daughter. Well, let's look

984
01:09:40,080 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 1: at this. If you share the card note payments, ain't

985
01:09:44,640 --> 01:09:49,280
Speaker 1: had to call yours. M hm. Get over there and

986
01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:52,840
Speaker 1: sit on the stand wheel side and drive your half off.

987
01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:56,880
Speaker 1: You can't drive half a car. You you over there

988
01:09:56,920 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 1: on the stand wheel side. Mhm, drive off? If you

989
01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:08,240
Speaker 1: that miserable, I mean, then she said, I care about

990
01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:11,760
Speaker 1: how my family ends up, but I want to go

991
01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:15,439
Speaker 1: so bad. You don't have a family, y'all just got

992
01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:19,559
Speaker 1: a daughter together. Y'all ain't married. You ain't even gotta

993
01:10:19,600 --> 01:10:23,040
Speaker 1: get a divorce. You ain't gotta get separation. You just

994
01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:27,519
Speaker 1: drive off. Don't get me wrong. He's a good man,

995
01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:33,479
Speaker 1: just not for me. Okay, Well that's it. That's it.

996
01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:41,200
Speaker 1: Get back on social media, befriend your friend, go back

997
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:44,000
Speaker 1: out with him and see if he won't. You now,

998
01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 1: because you may be not wonting this sex because you

999
01:10:48,640 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 1: might think that the dude that you went out went

1000
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:54,160
Speaker 1: on social media won't you. But it's real easy to

1001
01:10:54,240 --> 01:10:59,080
Speaker 1: find out because I'm pretty sure he got somebody somewhere too.

1002
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:01,599
Speaker 1: So why don't you call him up and find out

1003
01:11:01,640 --> 01:11:03,720
Speaker 1: if he really won't you? Why are you making up

1004
01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:07,080
Speaker 1: all easy? I want to go so bad, but financially

1005
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:09,840
Speaker 1: I can't find out if the dude that you slept

1006
01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:12,519
Speaker 1: with is willing to help you and your daughter with

1007
01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:15,200
Speaker 1: a place to stay or move in with him and

1008
01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:18,200
Speaker 1: have a relationship. Why don't you just find that out?

1009
01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 1: Then you might not you might not be in as

1010
01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:24,600
Speaker 1: bad as financial shape as you think. Greener, but you

1011
01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:28,120
Speaker 1: don't want this man. He's a good man, just not

1012
01:11:28,360 --> 01:11:32,280
Speaker 1: for me. So why are we together? Stop wasting time?

1013
01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:34,880
Speaker 1: You're sleeping with a man and you don't even want

1014
01:11:34,920 --> 01:11:45,000
Speaker 1: to sleep with him? Hell he hell he could? Where

1015
01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:46,559
Speaker 1: do he want? I know what? He won't look at?

1016
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:56,960
Speaker 1: H up alone. You're gonna be all right. My nails

1017
01:11:57,080 --> 01:12:03,760
Speaker 1: is still with a love We have more phone called

1018
01:12:03,800 --> 01:12:06,479
Speaker 1: Steve eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve call us if

1019
01:12:06,520 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 1: you want to talk to the love doctor for some

1020
01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:11,840
Speaker 1: love advice. This morning, we'll be back. You're listening to

1021
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:18,679
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Valentine's Day. Happy

1022
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:24,920
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, every one. Yeah, Happy Valentine's Nephew. Thank you,

1023
01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:29,800
Speaker 1: Thank you nephew, Steve, Tommy and Junior. Happy Valentine's Day

1024
01:12:29,840 --> 01:12:33,200
Speaker 1: to you, well, thank you, thanks Carla. Happy Valentine's Day

1025
01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:36,040
Speaker 1: to you, Thank you, my sister. Happy Valentine's Day. What's

1026
01:12:36,240 --> 01:12:44,280
Speaker 1: gonna do? Tonic? Sharon call? Well, you know when you

1027
01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:51,120
Speaker 1: heard me, saw me dance? Well I made reservations. Oh

1028
01:12:51,200 --> 01:13:01,120
Speaker 1: we know you anyway, So we're gonna take phone calls.

1029
01:13:01,160 --> 01:13:05,759
Speaker 1: As I was saying, for Steve as a love doctor

1030
01:13:05,840 --> 01:13:10,240
Speaker 1: today eight seven, seven twenty nine, Steve, you had some

1031
01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:20,800
Speaker 1: interesting one so far. Yeah, yeah, Chris though, what should know?

1032
01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:26,280
Speaker 1: A place? Man? Better place? Women? Take it to me?

1033
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:33,679
Speaker 1: What out a dope? All right, Happy Valentine's Day. Let's

1034
01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:35,840
Speaker 1: go to the phone. People are on the line. They

1035
01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:38,200
Speaker 1: have questions for the love Dr Steve Harvey. Let's go

1036
01:13:38,240 --> 01:13:42,800
Speaker 1: to line seven and talk to Durant out of New York. Hey,

1037
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:45,479
Speaker 1: how you doing? Oh man, what's going on with you?

1038
01:13:45,840 --> 01:13:50,720
Speaker 1: And tell me about it? Not much? Man, really, I

1039
01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:54,599
Speaker 1: know you gotta got much time. Basically, UM, I'm got

1040
01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:57,679
Speaker 1: a girl now and that I love um about almost

1041
01:13:57,720 --> 01:14:03,400
Speaker 1: a year. And then, um, we both have kids, so

1042
01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:07,640
Speaker 1: as kids involved in the situation. Um, the thing is,

1043
01:14:08,560 --> 01:14:14,040
Speaker 1: I'm basically going through what uh single mother will go through. Um.

1044
01:14:15,200 --> 01:14:18,800
Speaker 1: In November, I've gotten custody of my side, so I

1045
01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:24,519
Speaker 1: have primary residential custody. And it seems like his mother

1046
01:14:25,479 --> 01:14:28,160
Speaker 1: is doing everything that she could do basically to make

1047
01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:34,599
Speaker 1: my life hell. Um, so and and and they're good

1048
01:14:34,680 --> 01:14:38,880
Speaker 1: at it too though yeah, and I don't understand, like,

1049
01:14:39,080 --> 01:14:40,960
Speaker 1: but the thing is, you know, she doesn't really do

1050
01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:45,120
Speaker 1: anything for him. Um, so everything is based on me,

1051
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:47,519
Speaker 1: and I make every decision. You know, I need to

1052
01:14:48,040 --> 01:14:49,880
Speaker 1: to take care of far as my son as well

1053
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:55,400
Speaker 1: as myself. Now, the situation is me and my girlfriend.

1054
01:14:55,680 --> 01:15:00,880
Speaker 1: You know, we're great, Um, no arguments, nothing, you know,

1055
01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:03,800
Speaker 1: we're making plans, goals far as to each other and

1056
01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:07,320
Speaker 1: things like that. But there's always a hiccup with as

1057
01:15:07,360 --> 01:15:10,200
Speaker 1: far as my son's mom where it seems like she

1058
01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:14,000
Speaker 1: still wants to have some sense of control of my

1059
01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:18,200
Speaker 1: life and what's going on, and my girl doesn't want that.

1060
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:20,680
Speaker 1: I don't want that. And I've been trying to do

1061
01:15:20,800 --> 01:15:22,680
Speaker 1: the best that I can as far as to not

1062
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:27,439
Speaker 1: allow her to have control of our lives to where

1063
01:15:28,000 --> 01:15:31,400
Speaker 1: it's starting to ruin far as our lives where you

1064
01:15:31,479 --> 01:15:36,439
Speaker 1: know she slowly want. It's gonna be difficult because it's

1065
01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:39,120
Speaker 1: crazy the way family court. You've dealt with this in

1066
01:15:39,280 --> 01:15:44,760
Speaker 1: family court m hm. Family court is very different. There's

1067
01:15:44,800 --> 01:15:47,120
Speaker 1: a lot of leeway in family court. It's not like

1068
01:15:47,280 --> 01:15:49,479
Speaker 1: regular court where you're just going there. It's a slam

1069
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:53,200
Speaker 1: dunk just the way it is h family court. Man

1070
01:15:53,320 --> 01:15:57,160
Speaker 1: allows a lot. It's crazy. I've been in that for years.

1071
01:15:57,280 --> 01:16:02,799
Speaker 1: Man and the mother. Uh gets a lot of leeway

1072
01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:06,719
Speaker 1: in family court. But you gotta get some type of orders.

1073
01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:11,120
Speaker 1: You gotta get some type of orders for visitation and

1074
01:16:11,280 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 1: things like that. The problem is, I know, I know

1075
01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:19,320
Speaker 1: you have that, but they go outside of the order

1076
01:16:20,479 --> 01:16:24,000
Speaker 1: to do things that there is no order for. You

1077
01:16:24,080 --> 01:16:27,600
Speaker 1: didn't know you needed an order for harassing calls. You

1078
01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:31,120
Speaker 1: didn't know you needed an order for rearranging schedules at

1079
01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:33,200
Speaker 1: the last minute to throw a monkey wrench in the

1080
01:16:33,280 --> 01:16:37,880
Speaker 1: scheduling plan that you had. But he'll have no fury

1081
01:16:37,960 --> 01:16:41,120
Speaker 1: like a woman scorn. The reason you're catching this because

1082
01:16:41,160 --> 01:16:46,160
Speaker 1: she's also aware of the new girlfriend. M hm. See

1083
01:16:47,040 --> 01:16:50,800
Speaker 1: once they become aware that there's the other chick. Oh man,

1084
01:16:51,280 --> 01:16:54,600
Speaker 1: the hale knob get turned up to team No. I

1085
01:16:54,720 --> 01:16:57,000
Speaker 1: understand that. I just don't understand, you know, because like

1086
01:16:57,320 --> 01:17:01,040
Speaker 1: at one point, you know, she like I know, from

1087
01:17:01,160 --> 01:17:03,280
Speaker 1: from dealing with her and being in relation with her,

1088
01:17:03,760 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 1: I know that she's she's a manipulator. And you know,

1089
01:17:09,240 --> 01:17:11,280
Speaker 1: the last time he was at court, you know, she's

1090
01:17:11,320 --> 01:17:14,000
Speaker 1: explained to me. You know, she's she's engaged now and

1091
01:17:14,080 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 1: that's fine. I'm glad you know that you're moving on

1092
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:18,960
Speaker 1: into life. I'm trying to move on my life. But

1093
01:17:19,080 --> 01:17:21,200
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it turns around and

1094
01:17:21,320 --> 01:17:27,120
Speaker 1: it's like, um, you want to stop me from moving

1095
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:31,800
Speaker 1: or or doing things that I need to do far

1096
01:17:31,840 --> 01:17:33,719
Speaker 1: as to take care of him. You tell me that, Okay,

1097
01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:36,560
Speaker 1: my girl needs to step up and take care of

1098
01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:40,599
Speaker 1: our child. But now when she does that, then it's like, well, oh,

1099
01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:42,479
Speaker 1: you're taking him away from me, and you're taking away

1100
01:17:42,560 --> 01:17:46,920
Speaker 1: my uh trying with my son or that that in

1101
01:17:46,960 --> 01:17:49,320
Speaker 1: the third and I just don't really know far as

1102
01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:51,960
Speaker 1: the others that take so where me and my girl.

1103
01:17:52,040 --> 01:17:54,320
Speaker 1: Now she's kind of like wanting to fall back now,

1104
01:17:55,040 --> 01:18:00,080
Speaker 1: and I'm not sure she doesn't want to continue. Not

1105
01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:03,880
Speaker 1: bake off of me, just stay sf of my son's mother.

1106
01:18:04,000 --> 01:18:08,840
Speaker 1: That she don't want the baby mama drama. Correct, she

1107
01:18:08,960 --> 01:18:11,960
Speaker 1: don't want it. Yeah, and you know what, she don't

1108
01:18:12,000 --> 01:18:16,280
Speaker 1: deserve it you. She loves you, but she didn't know

1109
01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:20,120
Speaker 1: all that came with you. So unless you find a

1110
01:18:20,200 --> 01:18:25,120
Speaker 1: way to deal with brun Hilda until of the hun

1111
01:18:27,000 --> 01:18:29,400
Speaker 1: she gonna wreck this relationship and the next one too.

1112
01:18:31,200 --> 01:18:38,240
Speaker 1: So I don't know if it's a joint sit down

1113
01:18:38,360 --> 01:18:41,360
Speaker 1: that you have to have with the mediator mm hmm,

1114
01:18:43,400 --> 01:18:48,519
Speaker 1: her her fiance that probably don't really exist and you

1115
01:18:48,640 --> 01:18:52,719
Speaker 1: and your girl m Do you all have battles about

1116
01:18:52,840 --> 01:18:58,280
Speaker 1: parenting styles. No, I mean there is a little different,

1117
01:18:58,439 --> 01:19:02,280
Speaker 1: but I know, Um, she's doing around my son a lot,

1118
01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:06,080
Speaker 1: but I know what she means to where I don't

1119
01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:08,560
Speaker 1: take it out of context to where it's like, um no,

1120
01:19:08,720 --> 01:19:10,920
Speaker 1: don't tell him that, or don't don't talk to them

1121
01:19:11,040 --> 01:19:13,960
Speaker 1: like that. You know, I know where she's coming from. Um,

1122
01:19:14,920 --> 01:19:18,759
Speaker 1: you know she's West Indian. So yeah, it's a little different,

1123
01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:21,639
Speaker 1: but I'm okay with it. So No, we don't bump

1124
01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:26,120
Speaker 1: heads with that. Well, unless the three of you all

1125
01:19:26,160 --> 01:19:28,800
Speaker 1: can sit down, man, and have a real adult conversation

1126
01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:31,240
Speaker 1: about the child and give her the respect that she

1127
01:19:31,400 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 1: really thinks she deserves as the mother when she does

1128
01:19:34,240 --> 01:19:36,960
Speaker 1: because she is a mother, sit down and have a

1129
01:19:37,040 --> 01:19:39,240
Speaker 1: heart to heart and the three of you sit down,

1130
01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:42,040
Speaker 1: or if she really does have someone, the four of

1131
01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:45,280
Speaker 1: you and say this is how we're gonna parent. I

1132
01:19:45,400 --> 01:19:47,760
Speaker 1: love it, I respect you. I want you to respect me.

1133
01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:49,800
Speaker 1: What do we got to do to make this work?

1134
01:19:49,840 --> 01:19:52,519
Speaker 1: What would you be happy? It's knowing and feeling. How

1135
01:19:52,560 --> 01:19:54,559
Speaker 1: do you want to be involved in your son's life?

1136
01:19:54,920 --> 01:19:57,720
Speaker 1: And we'll incorporate that and see if that works. That's

1137
01:19:57,760 --> 01:20:00,920
Speaker 1: really other than that, man, and you gotta go to court,

1138
01:20:00,960 --> 01:20:03,400
Speaker 1: and the court is too lenient in family court. They

1139
01:20:03,520 --> 01:20:07,120
Speaker 1: just let them, man, They let him do what they wanted. Oh,

1140
01:20:08,400 --> 01:20:20,200
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning showy Candy Balladine

1141
01:20:21,840 --> 01:20:26,040
Speaker 1: chocolates and stuff. Okay, you want to go back to

1142
01:20:26,120 --> 01:20:30,680
Speaker 1: the phone, Steve. Okay, let's go to line three and

1143
01:20:30,720 --> 01:20:35,640
Speaker 1: talk to Rodney out of Virginia. Oh dude, can't you

1144
01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:38,880
Speaker 1: tell yeah Gus Valentine's Day. They want to get it

1145
01:20:39,040 --> 01:20:48,519
Speaker 1: right and were it up. Crew, have a Valentine Day

1146
01:20:48,560 --> 01:20:56,479
Speaker 1: to everybody doing what you got well the Horby I

1147
01:20:56,720 --> 01:21:00,439
Speaker 1: found this was blessed by the Lord to bring queen

1148
01:21:00,560 --> 01:21:03,920
Speaker 1: to me. After four and a half years of going

1149
01:21:04,040 --> 01:21:08,680
Speaker 1: through agne and everything with an ax, I asked the

1150
01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:11,759
Speaker 1: Lord for what I wanted. I got on my hands

1151
01:21:11,800 --> 01:21:15,080
Speaker 1: and knees for four and a half years, and he

1152
01:21:15,280 --> 01:21:19,080
Speaker 1: found it, brought my queen to me. I didn't I

1153
01:21:19,240 --> 01:21:22,439
Speaker 1: won't look, and she won't looking, and he brought her

1154
01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:24,840
Speaker 1: to me, Mr Harvard, and the same with her, she

1155
01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:27,719
Speaker 1: won't looking after four and a half years after divorce,

1156
01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:31,160
Speaker 1: and he brung both of us together. And like they said,

1157
01:21:31,520 --> 01:21:35,280
Speaker 1: don't miss your blessing, I didn't miss my Mr Harved.

1158
01:21:36,000 --> 01:21:38,680
Speaker 1: And I heard you talk about the place in New

1159
01:21:38,800 --> 01:21:42,400
Speaker 1: York where you can get the value of your ring,

1160
01:21:43,280 --> 01:21:47,400
Speaker 1: far as the value of it, as far as the

1161
01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:49,880
Speaker 1: money off of it. And I wanted to do that

1162
01:21:50,040 --> 01:21:53,920
Speaker 1: because after they put the ring in my hand twenty

1163
01:21:54,040 --> 01:21:57,559
Speaker 1: years ago because they thought the grass was greener, I'm

1164
01:21:57,600 --> 01:22:00,280
Speaker 1: gonna take that ring, go up New York to the

1165
01:22:00,360 --> 01:22:03,400
Speaker 1: place where you were speaking of. I'm gonna trade it in.

1166
01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:08,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my Queen her Ring, and I'm gonna

1167
01:22:08,200 --> 01:22:10,640
Speaker 1: come out in front of that store and I'm going

1168
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:14,920
Speaker 1: to sing Jeffrey Osborne right to her in the front

1169
01:22:14,960 --> 01:22:18,360
Speaker 1: of everybody out there. I'm gonna sing the song by

1170
01:22:18,479 --> 01:22:22,639
Speaker 1: Jeffrey Osborne, and I'm gonna love her until the day

1171
01:22:23,200 --> 01:22:29,400
Speaker 1: that I die. People think about put that on my

1172
01:22:29,560 --> 01:22:38,479
Speaker 1: talk show. Say a little bit now, I have never

1173
01:22:39,479 --> 01:22:57,560
Speaker 1: been in love before. M m m m. You know

1174
01:22:57,720 --> 01:23:09,240
Speaker 1: he had to get in so round, always got let

1175
01:23:10,160 --> 01:23:31,479
Speaker 1: go and love, don't they know? Damn yeah, the hobbit

1176
01:23:32,080 --> 01:23:40,760
Speaker 1: I'm putting down in New York never never so much more.

1177
01:23:41,680 --> 01:23:44,880
Speaker 1: He's still all in right, sorry, give him a minute,

1178
01:23:45,000 --> 01:23:54,479
Speaker 1: right he could see now never've never is much more

1179
01:23:54,720 --> 01:24:04,240
Speaker 1: than they got into. She come on your short singing song.

1180
01:24:04,880 --> 01:24:16,080
Speaker 1: We gotta close it out right, thank you, thank you.

1181
01:24:19,479 --> 01:24:21,439
Speaker 1: That's right. Put that. Put the rock on the end

1182
01:24:21,560 --> 01:24:25,760
Speaker 1: up when you got to that's where you do when

1183
01:24:25,800 --> 01:24:28,560
Speaker 1: you can't saying you gotta rough it up. That's what

1184
01:24:28,720 --> 01:24:34,080
Speaker 1: you're doing to put the rock on the edgetion. Well,

1185
01:24:34,160 --> 01:24:37,760
Speaker 1: congratulations Rodney, Rodney. What you can do with your ring,

1186
01:24:37,880 --> 01:24:42,559
Speaker 1: no dog is uh self uh you can you can

1187
01:24:42,640 --> 01:24:46,200
Speaker 1: get it evaluated. You don't have to go to New

1188
01:24:46,320 --> 01:24:50,320
Speaker 1: York to get it evaluated. Okay, you could take it

1189
01:24:50,400 --> 01:24:55,160
Speaker 1: to where where do you live? Well, Mrs I live

1190
01:24:55,200 --> 01:25:04,439
Speaker 1: in this slave state. Become with James. I live in

1191
01:25:04,479 --> 01:25:06,800
Speaker 1: the slades, just like I just said, I live in

1192
01:25:06,880 --> 01:25:14,360
Speaker 1: this slade state, the common Wealth of Virginia. Yeah, but

1193
01:25:15,000 --> 01:25:23,519
Speaker 1: I like Virginia's nice is it's not confused love with slavery?

1194
01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:29,120
Speaker 1: Right now? Yeah, we was going pretty good, Nick mad So.

1195
01:25:30,640 --> 01:25:36,840
Speaker 1: Oh no, thank you for calling. Man. You can get

1196
01:25:36,880 --> 01:25:44,200
Speaker 1: your diamond appraised on the local level somewhere. Why is

1197
01:25:44,240 --> 01:25:49,840
Speaker 1: the g store not coming to me? Ge h man,

1198
01:25:49,880 --> 01:25:51,599
Speaker 1: it's not coming in my head? What do you take

1199
01:25:51,680 --> 01:25:56,640
Speaker 1: to get your diamonds? It's the just check up the

1200
01:25:56,720 --> 01:26:03,839
Speaker 1: jul No boy, the place where they evaluate all diamonds.

1201
01:26:03,880 --> 01:26:08,400
Speaker 1: Tell you what the grade is, flaws, color clarity? Oh

1202
01:26:09,320 --> 01:26:15,800
Speaker 1: Ken Ken Wayne? If you want authentic, uh, g F

1203
01:26:15,920 --> 01:26:21,320
Speaker 1: I certified. Oh I think I'm a saying right initial

1204
01:26:23,439 --> 01:26:29,000
Speaker 1: g F I certified? You do all that rich stuff?

1205
01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:32,559
Speaker 1: I don't know nothing about that. I got a brother

1206
01:26:32,640 --> 01:26:34,560
Speaker 1: named Kenny Wayne can tell you exactly what it is.

1207
01:26:35,000 --> 01:26:37,439
Speaker 1: Everything you're gonna see Kenny Wayne, Kenny Wayne eating money

1208
01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:45,880
Speaker 1: right there for the right that's good for you, Rodney though.

1209
01:26:46,840 --> 01:26:50,760
Speaker 1: All right, let's see, let's go to the line. Let's

1210
01:26:50,800 --> 01:26:59,479
Speaker 1: go to line to talk to Tasha out of Virginia. Tasha, Hi, Yeah,

1211
01:27:00,040 --> 01:27:02,479
Speaker 1: have to home. We'll come back, Tsha right after the

1212
01:27:02,560 --> 01:27:12,800
Speaker 1: break hold on Tasha Okay said Okayed, Valentine's Day and

1213
01:27:12,920 --> 01:27:24,360
Speaker 1: you are married, mayor I'm talking to leave me alone? Alright, Yeah,

1214
01:27:24,400 --> 01:27:26,840
Speaker 1: We'll be back to find out what's on Tasha's mind

1215
01:27:26,920 --> 01:27:29,439
Speaker 1: this Valentine's Day. She has a question for the Love Doctor.

1216
01:27:29,680 --> 01:27:32,040
Speaker 1: Do you have a question? Call us eight seven seven

1217
01:27:32,120 --> 01:27:35,880
Speaker 1: twenty nine, Steve. We'll be right back. You're listening to Steve.

1218
01:27:38,200 --> 01:27:41,160
Speaker 1: All right, we're back. We are taking your phone calls

1219
01:27:41,200 --> 01:27:44,200
Speaker 1: eight seven twenty nine Steve. Questions of love for the

1220
01:27:44,360 --> 01:27:48,599
Speaker 1: Love Doctor, Steve Harvey on this Valentine's Day, two thousand

1221
01:27:48,640 --> 01:28:00,080
Speaker 1: and seventeen love. All right, Steve. Let's go back to

1222
01:28:00,320 --> 01:28:06,599
Speaker 1: Tasha online too, out of Virginia. Question for the doctor, Jasha,

1223
01:28:07,479 --> 01:28:11,640
Speaker 1: h Okay, what can I do for you? Okay? So

1224
01:28:12,920 --> 01:28:15,719
Speaker 1: I've been married. Um, it's coming up a year in April,

1225
01:28:16,720 --> 01:28:19,680
Speaker 1: and at the well, not at the top of the year,

1226
01:28:19,720 --> 01:28:22,320
Speaker 1: but towards the end of the year. I decided to

1227
01:28:22,600 --> 01:28:25,719
Speaker 1: make a career change. It did not play in my favor,

1228
01:28:26,320 --> 01:28:30,439
Speaker 1: and I am currently without a job. Um. Since then,

1229
01:28:31,720 --> 01:28:38,760
Speaker 1: my husband has not I consider it not made me

1230
01:28:38,840 --> 01:28:43,240
Speaker 1: a priority. Um. He says things like like if I

1231
01:28:43,280 --> 01:28:47,760
Speaker 1: asked for something, he's like, you know, I take care

1232
01:28:47,760 --> 01:28:49,400
Speaker 1: of the bills in the house kind of thing. And

1233
01:28:49,920 --> 01:28:52,519
Speaker 1: let me explain that we're not in a position where

1234
01:28:53,160 --> 01:28:56,400
Speaker 1: we're pressed for money. Um. He's an engineer. He makes

1235
01:28:56,720 --> 01:29:01,160
Speaker 1: very good money. Um, but it seems like if I

1236
01:29:01,280 --> 01:29:05,639
Speaker 1: asked for something, it's an issue. It's like, I pay

1237
01:29:05,720 --> 01:29:10,160
Speaker 1: the bills, right, Okay, let me let me get a trade.

1238
01:29:10,200 --> 01:29:14,680
Speaker 1: You're you're not working right now? Correct? Okay. He was

1239
01:29:14,800 --> 01:29:19,960
Speaker 1: unhappy with the decision you made. We discussed it prior

1240
01:29:20,280 --> 01:29:23,320
Speaker 1: to me making the decisions because he worked on Monday

1241
01:29:23,400 --> 01:29:26,720
Speaker 1: to Friday and I didn't at the time. Um, my

1242
01:29:26,920 --> 01:29:30,160
Speaker 1: schedule was crazy and I wasn't turning holes until you know,

1243
01:29:30,240 --> 01:29:33,800
Speaker 1: anywhere between ten o'clock eleven o'clock at night, and he

1244
01:29:34,040 --> 01:29:37,800
Speaker 1: was unhappy with it. So we discussed me getting a

1245
01:29:37,920 --> 01:29:41,439
Speaker 1: nine of five. It did not play in my favor. Um,

1246
01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:44,960
Speaker 1: and currently I'm looking for something nine of five Monday

1247
01:29:45,040 --> 01:29:47,000
Speaker 1: through Friday. So that I can spend more time with

1248
01:29:47,080 --> 01:29:50,400
Speaker 1: my family. It was a sacrifice that we made collectively

1249
01:29:50,720 --> 01:29:55,360
Speaker 1: that did not play in my favor. And now, okay, see,

1250
01:29:55,439 --> 01:29:57,280
Speaker 1: listen to me. So you keep saying that, let me

1251
01:29:57,320 --> 01:30:00,519
Speaker 1: ask yourself. You quit your job thanking had the other

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01:30:00,640 --> 01:30:04,320
Speaker 1: job and it didn't come through. Correct, Okay, now he

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01:30:04,479 --> 01:30:13,200
Speaker 1: mad about that. Yes, okay, it was a joint decision. Okay,

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01:30:15,040 --> 01:30:17,920
Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. You quit your job

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01:30:18,000 --> 01:30:21,240
Speaker 1: before you had the job. No, I quit the job

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01:30:21,560 --> 01:30:24,000
Speaker 1: with the confirmation of having the job, and then they

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01:30:24,080 --> 01:30:32,519
Speaker 1: had a free So I'm on pause with no job. Now.

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01:30:32,840 --> 01:30:37,599
Speaker 1: I took a vacation prior to quitting my other job

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01:30:38,360 --> 01:30:41,320
Speaker 1: and that was the end of my employment with my

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01:30:41,400 --> 01:30:45,479
Speaker 1: other employer. Mhm, what is it you trying to buy?

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01:30:46,479 --> 01:30:50,479
Speaker 1: What did you want? Trying to buy anything? I don't

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01:30:50,479 --> 01:30:57,400
Speaker 1: want to buy anything, but I get anything for Christmas?

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01:30:57,760 --> 01:31:06,240
Speaker 1: And his his thing was I pause every time, like, so,

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01:31:06,360 --> 01:31:09,840
Speaker 1: you didn't get anything for Christmas? No, and it was

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01:31:10,320 --> 01:31:12,880
Speaker 1: I tall all the disen house. Okay, listen to me.

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01:31:13,720 --> 01:31:16,920
Speaker 1: This is his way of saying, since you did that,

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01:31:17,439 --> 01:31:20,240
Speaker 1: this is what I'm doing now. And now this has

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01:31:20,320 --> 01:31:23,400
Speaker 1: caused us some financial strife. So before I go any

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01:31:23,520 --> 01:31:25,840
Speaker 1: further in the whole, this is what I'm doing right now.

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01:31:28,640 --> 01:31:32,240
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is in his mind, he's creative

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01:31:32,479 --> 01:31:35,960
Speaker 1: because finance is big with him. He watches every penny.

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01:31:36,360 --> 01:31:39,120
Speaker 1: He dots all the eyes and crosses all the teas,

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01:31:39,200 --> 01:31:42,760
Speaker 1: don't it. He's not that guy. I'm that guy. And

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01:31:42,880 --> 01:31:47,880
Speaker 1: watch your tone. Her tone is a problem. That's when

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01:31:47,920 --> 01:31:51,760
Speaker 1: she asked for yah, I agree with Right now, you're

1276
01:31:51,800 --> 01:31:57,000
Speaker 1: hauling at me. She's Tommy's on her nerves, ain't y'all know?

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01:31:57,560 --> 01:32:03,960
Speaker 1: On Tsha, We'll be back. You're listening show all right?

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01:32:04,280 --> 01:32:09,200
Speaker 1: More phone calls right after this, going back to Tasha. Yeah,

1279
01:32:14,520 --> 01:32:26,559
Speaker 1: oh Valentine's Day. Back to the phones for the love

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01:32:26,760 --> 01:32:31,280
Speaker 1: doctor Valentine's Day line to Tasha out of Virginia, Hey Tasha,

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01:32:32,080 --> 01:32:40,160
Speaker 1: Hi go ahead's um so oh yeah. With the married

1282
01:32:40,200 --> 01:32:43,800
Speaker 1: to the engineer, I think my biggest concern is I

1283
01:32:43,880 --> 01:32:48,360
Speaker 1: just want my sweetheart back. Fike my husband, I just

1284
01:32:48,479 --> 01:32:51,639
Speaker 1: want my sweetheart back. Like my husband, he'll to random

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01:32:51,680 --> 01:32:54,120
Speaker 1: acts of kindness like I'll get flowers on a random

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01:32:54,200 --> 01:32:58,200
Speaker 1: day or edible arrangement for a card. And now it's

1287
01:32:59,120 --> 01:33:04,120
Speaker 1: you're not getting of that. See he's tying all this

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01:33:04,280 --> 01:33:08,600
Speaker 1: to finance. You have to understand that about us. We

1289
01:33:08,720 --> 01:33:12,760
Speaker 1: will tie something to finance if we feel a financial

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01:33:13,520 --> 01:33:18,240
Speaker 1: let down, stress or strain were tied to something. He's

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01:33:18,400 --> 01:33:22,040
Speaker 1: upset with you about the move you made and until

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01:33:22,120 --> 01:33:26,479
Speaker 1: that gets corrected. Here he is. Now he's acting out

1293
01:33:26,760 --> 01:33:30,680
Speaker 1: something that he feels on the inside. It was a jocision.

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01:33:31,720 --> 01:33:36,200
Speaker 1: It don't matter. It wasn't really a joint decision. They

1295
01:33:36,360 --> 01:33:40,679
Speaker 1: talked about it. I know what you're saying, sweetheart, listen

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01:33:40,760 --> 01:33:42,759
Speaker 1: to me. I'm just I'm just giving you a different

1297
01:33:42,800 --> 01:33:46,040
Speaker 1: perspective how he's looking at it. It was a joint decision.

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01:33:46,200 --> 01:33:49,320
Speaker 1: But since you bought the decision, this was your idea.

1299
01:33:50,160 --> 01:33:53,640
Speaker 1: Now he agreed with it. I bet he did. But

1300
01:33:53,800 --> 01:33:56,840
Speaker 1: now he's looking at this is what I agreed to.

1301
01:33:59,640 --> 01:34:02,080
Speaker 1: Now I hold out. The comfort zone that I was

1302
01:34:02,160 --> 01:34:09,840
Speaker 1: feeling of this two incomes is gone. Now I'm solely responsible. Well,

1303
01:34:09,920 --> 01:34:12,519
Speaker 1: I gotta button down the hatches and tightened up the ship.

1304
01:34:14,280 --> 01:34:16,320
Speaker 1: I can't buy you nothing for Christmas. I'm paying all

1305
01:34:16,320 --> 01:34:20,880
Speaker 1: the damn bills. See, because he didn't figure it out.

1306
01:34:20,960 --> 01:34:23,760
Speaker 1: And if you were the person that was doting eyes

1307
01:34:23,840 --> 01:34:27,000
Speaker 1: and crossing the teas with the finances. You're not doing

1308
01:34:27,040 --> 01:34:29,400
Speaker 1: that anymore because now all you're doing is asking for

1309
01:34:29,520 --> 01:34:34,760
Speaker 1: stuff to him. Okay, I mean you know, I just

1310
01:34:34,880 --> 01:34:37,080
Speaker 1: think that's where he could be. How do you really

1311
01:34:37,160 --> 01:34:45,519
Speaker 1: feel about it? So tell me that in regards to okay, okay,

1312
01:34:45,920 --> 01:34:50,479
Speaker 1: you really want your boyfriend back my husband to be

1313
01:34:50,640 --> 01:34:53,200
Speaker 1: my husband. I want him to be the man that

1314
01:34:53,400 --> 01:34:58,000
Speaker 1: I got married to. And it only changed after I

1315
01:34:58,160 --> 01:35:00,200
Speaker 1: lost my well and I can lose it, but still

1316
01:35:00,280 --> 01:35:03,000
Speaker 1: I tried to do my switch, and my switch was

1317
01:35:03,160 --> 01:35:07,160
Speaker 1: for us to have more time together. Right now, you

1318
01:35:07,320 --> 01:35:11,160
Speaker 1: got the time, but there's a loss all the time.

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01:35:12,880 --> 01:35:18,040
Speaker 1: Right Well, see now I think have you sat down

1320
01:35:18,080 --> 01:35:20,400
Speaker 1: with him and you all had a lengthy discussion about this.

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01:35:22,240 --> 01:35:27,519
Speaker 1: We do, but I mean it escalates, It escalates into

1322
01:35:27,560 --> 01:35:33,560
Speaker 1: an argument about finances. Yes, M see, so that we

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01:35:33,680 --> 01:35:36,560
Speaker 1: ain't hurting the factor that you keep telling me in

1324
01:35:36,720 --> 01:35:40,920
Speaker 1: his mind, we hurt mhmm. You don't know nobody that

1325
01:35:41,120 --> 01:35:44,960
Speaker 1: hind If you don't want to work, you can get

1326
01:35:44,960 --> 01:35:52,280
Speaker 1: a sugar daddy. You in the sugar daddy likes him.

1327
01:35:54,280 --> 01:35:56,200
Speaker 1: He ain't gonna buy get you a sugar dad. Let's

1328
01:35:56,240 --> 01:36:01,280
Speaker 1: move on, Mr Ernest. You need to mimr Ernest. Husband

1329
01:36:01,360 --> 01:36:04,360
Speaker 1: needs to be my sugar daddy. That's that's what I want.

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01:36:04,600 --> 01:36:07,360
Speaker 1: That's what I want. Hey, baby, you can get that,

1331
01:36:08,320 --> 01:36:10,559
Speaker 1: but you're gonna have to sit it down and you're

1332
01:36:10,560 --> 01:36:15,880
Speaker 1: gonna have the conversation without it escalating. Now, how do

1333
01:36:16,000 --> 01:36:20,280
Speaker 1: you have the financial discussion with your husband without it escalator?

1334
01:36:20,320 --> 01:36:26,920
Speaker 1: We go you're listening to the stew all right, on

1335
01:36:27,080 --> 01:36:29,840
Speaker 1: this love Day, this Valentine's Day, we have more phone

1336
01:36:29,880 --> 01:36:32,840
Speaker 1: calls for you. Um, we'll get to some more, some

1337
01:36:32,920 --> 01:36:35,040
Speaker 1: good ones on the board, Steve. Hopefully we'll be able

1338
01:36:35,080 --> 01:36:36,720
Speaker 1: to get to all of them before we get out

1339
01:36:36,760 --> 01:36:38,360
Speaker 1: of here. This is our last break of the day.

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01:36:47,360 --> 01:36:52,120
Speaker 1: All right, Valentine's Day. All morning, people have been calling. Uh.

1341
01:36:52,720 --> 01:36:55,240
Speaker 1: We're calling him the Love Doctor h in honor of

1342
01:36:55,360 --> 01:36:59,400
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. Steve, all right, let's go to line three.

1343
01:37:00,080 --> 01:37:08,240
Speaker 1: Maurice out of Florida used to be one of Maurice.

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01:37:12,160 --> 01:37:17,080
Speaker 1: What's going on? Man? What talk to me? Hey more? Mr? Harder,

1345
01:37:17,120 --> 01:37:20,479
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Man? I'm Goodice? What's happened? Hold

1346
01:37:20,479 --> 01:37:22,320
Speaker 1: alright quick? I got got I gotta get my truck man.

1347
01:37:22,439 --> 01:37:27,320
Speaker 1: Got too much mors all right, mhmod woman to Harvey

1348
01:37:28,320 --> 01:37:32,040
Speaker 1: talked to me, that's all I got a story for you. Man,

1349
01:37:32,080 --> 01:37:34,840
Speaker 1: it's a such a story. Man. I've been married for

1350
01:37:35,200 --> 01:37:38,240
Speaker 1: I know this lady for fifteen years. I've been married

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01:37:38,280 --> 01:37:40,720
Speaker 1: to for fourteen years. And she's my first and she's

1352
01:37:40,760 --> 01:37:48,439
Speaker 1: my only one. And her name is the Shan and Sean. Okay,

1353
01:37:49,240 --> 01:37:54,560
Speaker 1: and see oh about six years old, man, I was

1354
01:37:54,640 --> 01:37:57,519
Speaker 1: on my death bed and um, I was out here

1355
01:37:57,560 --> 01:38:01,360
Speaker 1: working and my body crap up on me and I

1356
01:38:01,360 --> 01:38:03,760
Speaker 1: had to get rushed to the emergency room. Man, and

1357
01:38:04,800 --> 01:38:06,760
Speaker 1: the doctors came in and told me. They say, man,

1358
01:38:07,720 --> 01:38:10,080
Speaker 1: you make it be a lie. I said, why you

1359
01:38:10,120 --> 01:38:13,200
Speaker 1: say that? And she man, your muscles shutdown for your kidns?

1360
01:38:13,280 --> 01:38:15,920
Speaker 1: Did Man? Your kids would have shutdown for your muscles. Man,

1361
01:38:15,960 --> 01:38:19,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna be right here talking everything. See, I got

1362
01:38:19,240 --> 01:38:23,639
Speaker 1: a sister in law, she's my sister's arm. Why she's

1363
01:38:23,680 --> 01:38:27,120
Speaker 1: my wife. So some sisters and she came in and

1364
01:38:27,200 --> 01:38:30,040
Speaker 1: she told me it wasn't. It wasn't. The m in

1365
01:38:30,160 --> 01:38:33,200
Speaker 1: my huspital room by myself and everything was talking, and

1366
01:38:33,320 --> 01:38:35,040
Speaker 1: she told me, she say, man, she said, I don't

1367
01:38:35,080 --> 01:38:37,600
Speaker 1: know what it is about you. The muscles the lot

1368
01:38:37,680 --> 01:38:43,080
Speaker 1: of hell out of you, and since sing Steve, I just,

1369
01:38:43,479 --> 01:38:46,759
Speaker 1: I just, I just see myself with this wound forever

1370
01:38:46,840 --> 01:38:51,960
Speaker 1: and forever and forever and seven forever, because no matter

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01:38:52,960 --> 01:38:57,559
Speaker 1: if I do wrong, Steve, she's like del to put

1372
01:38:57,640 --> 01:39:00,360
Speaker 1: me back in place and let me know that I

1373
01:39:00,439 --> 01:39:03,080
Speaker 1: still love you, still want to be with you, Alright,

1374
01:39:03,800 --> 01:39:08,920
Speaker 1: So what's wrong though? Yeah, you've messed up too many teams.

1375
01:39:10,880 --> 01:39:12,560
Speaker 1: If loving you is wrong and I don't want to

1376
01:39:12,560 --> 01:39:16,320
Speaker 1: be right, that's how I gotta say. Man, that's all

1377
01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:27,880
Speaker 1: I gotta say. Many. Yeah, you know Maurice is she is?

1378
01:39:27,960 --> 01:39:30,880
Speaker 1: She is? She? Have you caused her to distrust you

1379
01:39:31,280 --> 01:39:37,200
Speaker 1: because of your truck driving job? That times you see

1380
01:39:37,439 --> 01:39:42,080
Speaker 1: that that that that Mourice that go your problems, see

1381
01:39:42,240 --> 01:39:45,880
Speaker 1: the woman come to you on your deathbed. The lady

1382
01:39:45,960 --> 01:39:47,920
Speaker 1: tells you this news. You love it, your love it

1383
01:39:47,960 --> 01:39:50,839
Speaker 1: and your love her, but you keep giving her reasons

1384
01:39:50,880 --> 01:39:53,600
Speaker 1: to distrust you, but you wanted to stay with you

1385
01:39:57,080 --> 01:40:00,560
Speaker 1: don't At one point in time, we have got to

1386
01:40:00,680 --> 01:40:04,800
Speaker 1: learn that women are not stupid and that if what

1387
01:40:05,000 --> 01:40:07,120
Speaker 1: we want is what we want is really real, then

1388
01:40:07,160 --> 01:40:09,120
Speaker 1: we got to get that one and buckle it on down.

1389
01:40:09,760 --> 01:40:12,559
Speaker 1: That's a lot easier for me to say now, because

1390
01:40:12,560 --> 01:40:15,519
Speaker 1: I've been in a great marriage for ten years, but

1391
01:40:15,680 --> 01:40:18,720
Speaker 1: now I ain't always been this way. But you got

1392
01:40:18,800 --> 01:40:21,280
Speaker 1: the right one. See, I wasn't with the right one.

1393
01:40:21,400 --> 01:40:23,320
Speaker 1: You if you went the right one, you gotta shut

1394
01:40:23,400 --> 01:40:26,720
Speaker 1: it down. That's the only thing I got for you, man,

1395
01:40:26,760 --> 01:40:30,599
Speaker 1: you gotta shut it down. You already noticed the one

1396
01:40:31,200 --> 01:40:33,479
Speaker 1: want your muscle shut down? Here you should have shut it.

1397
01:40:36,240 --> 01:40:38,120
Speaker 1: You cry, man, because I'm mad at you. Man, you

1398
01:40:38,200 --> 01:40:40,640
Speaker 1: ever come back to Jack still yet? And and um,

1399
01:40:40,680 --> 01:40:42,400
Speaker 1: I need to know how open you're doing, man, because

1400
01:40:42,400 --> 01:40:47,080
Speaker 1: I haven't heard opening a long time. Yeah. So hell Tommy,

1401
01:40:47,160 --> 01:40:57,040
Speaker 1: you shut up so ree. If you don't shut it down,

1402
01:40:58,320 --> 01:41:03,559
Speaker 1: you're gonna lose this girl. Man. You see, I'm going

1403
01:41:03,640 --> 01:41:07,080
Speaker 1: to tell you right now. Man, from another brother to

1404
01:41:07,120 --> 01:41:10,760
Speaker 1: another brother, Steve, I respect you as a man. I

1405
01:41:10,880 --> 01:41:13,840
Speaker 1: respect you to tell me that. And Mr Steve Harvey,

1406
01:41:14,960 --> 01:41:17,479
Speaker 1: I want you to know, man like fish it alone

1407
01:41:17,560 --> 01:41:20,080
Speaker 1: said when they when they m when you have the

1408
01:41:20,160 --> 01:41:22,640
Speaker 1: legations against him? He said, yeah, five stones and he

1409
01:41:22,640 --> 01:41:26,240
Speaker 1: didn't throw yet. Steve, Man, how many stones you have?

1410
01:41:27,120 --> 01:41:29,760
Speaker 1: But Berg you haven't thrown one yet. And I want

1411
01:41:29,800 --> 01:41:32,000
Speaker 1: to tell you for standing up. Man, I appreciate you

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01:41:32,040 --> 01:41:33,880
Speaker 1: and I love you from the front of my heart. Man,

1413
01:41:34,360 --> 01:41:36,559
Speaker 1: from one brother to another. And I thank you, man,

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01:41:36,720 --> 01:41:39,720
Speaker 1: I really an answer. Thank you appreciate your black man,

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01:41:40,040 --> 01:41:43,080
Speaker 1: I do. I appreciate you so thank you saying that

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01:41:43,120 --> 01:41:48,240
Speaker 1: I get it. I know where you're coming from. My race.

1417
01:41:48,840 --> 01:41:53,360
Speaker 1: I read it. He look at you. What hey? Staying

1418
01:41:53,400 --> 01:41:55,960
Speaker 1: there with your with your girl, dow dude you proposed

1419
01:41:55,960 --> 01:41:59,519
Speaker 1: to do? Get here your here's working the truer out.

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01:42:00,120 --> 01:42:07,839
Speaker 1: Oh ready alright, look look like you, little Steve. Ready.

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01:42:26,280 --> 01:42:29,719
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