WEBVTT - Marlo Thomas - Summer Staff Picks

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<v Speaker 1>This is Alec Baldwin, and you were listening to Here's

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<v Speaker 1>the Thing from iHeart Radio. It's summer and that means

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<v Speaker 1>it's time for our tradition at Here's the Thing. Will

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<v Speaker 1>the staff share their favorite episodes from our archives in

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<v Speaker 1>our summer staff picks series? Next up? As executive producer

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<v Speaker 1>Kathy Russo.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks Alec White, go go boots, fishnet stockings, fake eyelashes,

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<v Speaker 2>mini dresses, and that hair with the bangs and the

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<v Speaker 2>flip at the end. That was That Girl, the series

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<v Speaker 2>I watched on my black and white TV in Upstate

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<v Speaker 2>New York when I was six years old in nineteen

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<v Speaker 2>sixty six. That was Marlo Thomas playing an independent would

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<v Speaker 2>be actress named Anne Marie. The show is about a

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<v Speaker 2>woman from Bruster, New York that moves to the big

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<v Speaker 2>city to chase her dreams and I couldn't wait to

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<v Speaker 2>watch every week. Marlo Thomas is my summer pick for

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<v Speaker 2>archive episode.

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<v Speaker 3>This week.

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<v Speaker 2>In the interview, Alec discusses Mallo's acting career from That

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<v Speaker 2>Girl to Friends. They also talk about her political activism,

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<v Speaker 2>her children's books, and her longtime marriage to talk show

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<v Speaker 2>host Phil Donahue. But most importantly, they discussed her work

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<v Speaker 2>with Saint Jude's Children's Hospital, started by her father, the

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<v Speaker 2>actor Danny Thomas. At Saint Jude's, no parent pays for

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<v Speaker 2>medical care for their child. I loved this interview because

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<v Speaker 2>with Marlowe, what you see is what you get, a

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<v Speaker 2>warm and loving woman who cares deeply and takes action

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<v Speaker 2>to do good in the world, all while chasing her dreams.

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<v Speaker 1>Over the course of her illustrious career, Marlo Thomas has

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<v Speaker 1>broken barriers for women as an award winning actress. Marlowe

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<v Speaker 1>became a household name from her portrayal of Anne Marie,

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<v Speaker 1>the lead in the television show That Girl, a woman

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<v Speaker 1>who in the late sixties wanted a career more than

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<v Speaker 1>a family. An outspoken feminist, Marlowe then used her fame

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<v Speaker 1>to launch Free to Be You and Me, which was

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<v Speaker 1>first an album, then a book, and eventually an Emmy

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<v Speaker 1>and Peabody Award winning TV show for children that challenged

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<v Speaker 1>gender norms and became a touchstone for a generation of

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<v Speaker 1>feminists and Her best selling books include a memoir about

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<v Speaker 1>growing up the adored daughter of TV star Danny Thomas,

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<v Speaker 1>and just last year, she and her husband Phil Donahue

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<v Speaker 1>released a book and podcast of marriage advice called from

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<v Speaker 1>interviews with other happy, long lasting couples. As a philanthropist,

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<v Speaker 1>she's continued her family's support for Saint Jude's Children's Research

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<v Speaker 1>Hospital in Memphis, which her father founded in nineteen sixty two.

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<v Speaker 1>All in all, quite a life for that girl. Growing

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<v Speaker 1>up in Beverly Hills. Marlowe says she and her siblings

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<v Speaker 1>spent a lot of time on the set of The

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<v Speaker 1>Danny Thomas Show, her father's TV series, which ran for

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<v Speaker 1>eleven seasons between nineteen fifty three to nineteen sixty four.

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<v Speaker 4>We all used to work at the studio in the summer,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, running film back and forth, and when we

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<v Speaker 4>could drive, we'd drop off scripts. So we were kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like interns, and my dad would pay us an

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<v Speaker 4>allowance to keep us off the street. And my dad

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<v Speaker 4>was a kind of guy, and I have a feeling

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<v Speaker 4>here this way. He loved having his kids around him.

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<v Speaker 4>He just loved it. And when we were children, we

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<v Speaker 4>were allowed to see in on writers meetings. We'd sit

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<v Speaker 4>on the floor and the writers would all be talking

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<v Speaker 4>about coming up stories or my dad's act in Las Vegas,

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<v Speaker 4>and I would laugh and Dad would say, Oh, my

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<v Speaker 4>kid loves it. Why'd you like that, honey? What was

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<v Speaker 4>funny about that?

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<v Speaker 3>To you? He was interested.

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<v Speaker 4>And then sometimes I'd say something and he'd say, my

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<v Speaker 4>kids are so funny.

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<v Speaker 3>They are funnier than I am. So he gave us

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<v Speaker 3>this feeling. He kind of empowered us.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I always thought I was brilliant, and I

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<v Speaker 4>have no idea if I am or I am not,

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<v Speaker 4>but I think I am because he said I was right,

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<v Speaker 4>and he did that for all of us.

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<v Speaker 3>He gave us that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like Lauren Michaels would always say that his kids

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<v Speaker 1>were like his focus group.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to say to Lauren, you know, you're a

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<v Speaker 1>couple generations removed from some of the musical acts that

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<v Speaker 1>are starring on the show. Now, his daughter Sophie is older.

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<v Speaker 1>Now she's graduating college. But when Sophie was a teenager,

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<v Speaker 1>when going to school in New York, I'd say to Laurene,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you determine who the musical acts are on

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<v Speaker 1>the show? And he'd say, who's ever in Sophie's iPod?

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<v Speaker 3>That's right exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Muse extremely to see.

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<v Speaker 3>Who she was listening to exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>But tell people how the studio. What studio was he

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<v Speaker 1>at Desi Lou He was at Desilu, Yeah, and that

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<v Speaker 1>was like what like Sunset Gower or somewhere in like Hollywood.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was below Sunset on Gower.

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<v Speaker 1>But you were born in Michigan.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but for five minutes, I was born in Detroit.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, why was the family in Detroit?

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<v Speaker 4>My mom had a radio show there, the Sweet Singer

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<v Speaker 4>of Sweet Songs, and my dad came on as her

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<v Speaker 4>announcer and they fell in love. And then he wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to go to Chicago, where the bigger nightclubs were. He

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<v Speaker 4>was really a nightclub performer. So she had to make

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<v Speaker 4>the decision in those days, give up the show and

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<v Speaker 4>go with the guy she loved to Chicago. She got

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<v Speaker 4>pregnant and that was the decision, and off they went

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<v Speaker 4>to Chicago for a couple of years. And then Abe

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<v Speaker 4>last Wogel was coming through on the whatever that was

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<v Speaker 4>that Pacific Railroad. He represented Sinatra and Danny Kay and

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<v Speaker 4>Judy Garland, so he was very well known. He was

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<v Speaker 4>told that there was a great comic he should stop

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<v Speaker 4>and see on his way to New York, and he

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<v Speaker 4>saw my father and he signed him up and brought

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<v Speaker 4>him to Hollywood right away, and he said to my father,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, you're a star, you should come to come.

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<v Speaker 1>To La So that's a pattern in your family, the

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<v Speaker 1>women in your family marrying men that they meet on

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<v Speaker 1>radio shows and TV shows.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're out there in the fifties, you moved to California.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did you go to school out there? Beverly Hills

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<v Speaker 1>High School?

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<v Speaker 3>No, Marymount went to mary She went.

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<v Speaker 1>To a Catholic school. Yeah, your father's an old school Lebanese.

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<v Speaker 4>I went to Marymount. My husband went to Notre Dame.

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<v Speaker 4>So we were raised the same way. Actually, and he's

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<v Speaker 4>from Cleveland and I'm from Beverly Hills. But we have

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<v Speaker 4>the same upbringing.

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<v Speaker 1>Really strict Catholic upbringing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And when the time comes for you to launch your

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<v Speaker 1>own career, you start that girl in nineteen sixty six,

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<v Speaker 1>sixty six, and you're a young woman. You're very young, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I had done a pilot.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, everything in this business is wonderfully progressive. I

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<v Speaker 4>had bumped around doing seventy seven Sunset Strip and Dobie

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<v Speaker 4>Gillis and all these terrible shows. Laura Badi did Adobe Gillis.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know, mister d Not that bad, but pretty bad.

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<v Speaker 4>I did all those shows. I played a Chinese girl

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<v Speaker 4>on Bonanza. Nobody knew what to do with me. I

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<v Speaker 4>was a Chinese girl. I played a Hawaiian girl. I

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<v Speaker 4>played an Arabian girl. They never saw me as the

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<v Speaker 4>girl next door.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't get cast as the Chinese girl now, right, But.

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<v Speaker 4>With my coloring, I'm out of complexion, dark hair, dark eyes,

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<v Speaker 4>so they could only They never saw me as the

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<v Speaker 4>girl next door. But I was cast in a pilot

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<v Speaker 4>at Universal called Two's Company, which was an adorable show

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<v Speaker 4>by a young couple, and it didn't sell. But the

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<v Speaker 4>head of the network called me, Edgar Sharrick, and he said,

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<v Speaker 4>Claire al almost bought the show because they think you

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<v Speaker 4>can be a TV star, so we'd like to talk

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<v Speaker 4>to you.

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<v Speaker 3>So I went in.

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<v Speaker 4>I was disappointed the show didn't sell because I loved

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<v Speaker 4>and they said we want to do a show starring you.

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<v Speaker 4>And they gave me a whole bunch of scripts to read.

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<v Speaker 4>And I called them up and I said, all the

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<v Speaker 4>shows you've given me to read, the girl is the

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<v Speaker 4>wife of somebody, the secretary of somebody, the daughter of somebody.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you ever thought about doing a show where the

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<v Speaker 4>girl is the somebody? And he said, would anybody watch

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<v Speaker 4>a show like that? I said, I think so. When

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<v Speaker 4>I gave him a book Feminine Mystique, I said, read this.

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<v Speaker 4>He called me up and he said, this is what's

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<v Speaker 4>going to happen to my wife. And it did, actually,

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<v Speaker 4>So we built a show based on that. A girl

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<v Speaker 4>like me graduated from college, didn't want to get married,

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to be an actress, wanted to move to the

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<v Speaker 4>big city, and everybody said it wouldn't succeed.

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<v Speaker 3>And that first night, Wow, it got a forty share

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<v Speaker 3>on ABC.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and all of a sudden, I was the ultimate

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<v Speaker 4>girl next door, which was so funny because I could

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<v Speaker 4>never get cast like that. And then I became the

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<v Speaker 4>girl next door so much in people's minds that it's

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<v Speaker 4>very hard for me to play meaner people.

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<v Speaker 1>The murderous. Yeah, I have a script for you where

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<v Speaker 1>you play a woman that murders people.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I want.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm having trouble raising money for the film that would

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<v Speaker 1>attached as a.

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<v Speaker 3>Murderers and I'll do it for nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of the financiers, a lot of the investors

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking to aren't buying you as a murderist. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'll work on it.

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<v Speaker 3>I can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>But let me ask you this. Obviously, in the sixties,

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<v Speaker 1>the looming cultural reality is the Vietnam War, and a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of programming and a lot of music and things

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<v Speaker 1>are things that help us to forget and feminism, in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind, doesn't really get rolling till the seventies. And

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<v Speaker 1>your show's over by seventy one. We're going to talk

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<v Speaker 1>later on about Free to Be You and Me. But

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<v Speaker 1>at the moment that you do the show, you were

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<v Speaker 1>doing Barefoot in the Park in London.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, right.

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<v Speaker 1>And I often tell people that when a company is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of mounting up their slate, it's a relatively new company.

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<v Speaker 1>So when HBO decides it wants to do original program

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<v Speaker 1>and they get Sarah Jessica to do Sex in the City,

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<v Speaker 1>they get Jimmy Guandolfini and David Chase to do the Sopranos,

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<v Speaker 1>and they pay these people a lot of money to

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<v Speaker 1>stay with the show and do the hit show for

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<v Speaker 1>a long long time. And really, ABC was a fledgling

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<v Speaker 1>network in the sixties. I mean there was CBS that

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<v Speaker 1>was NBC and ABC was like the red headed step

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<v Speaker 1>child behind the two of them, and Leonard Goldberg and

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<v Speaker 1>all those people were building the company during that time.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel that was a part of their faith

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<v Speaker 1>in you and their needed you were part of building

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<v Speaker 1>that network.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Money doesn't talk, it it speaks obscenities, right, Clara was

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<v Speaker 4>willing to put up all the money for my show.

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<v Speaker 4>They wanted a woman, a young woman, to sell shampoo,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was their girl. I mean, there wasn't another

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<v Speaker 4>girl they could see yet, and I'm sure there were many,

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<v Speaker 4>but there wasn't one. They saw me as I could

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<v Speaker 4>sell the shampoo and a conditioner and the makeup and everything,

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<v Speaker 4>and so they fixated on me, and that gave me

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<v Speaker 4>tremendous power to get my show done. And so as

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<v Speaker 4>we embarked on how to get this show written and created,

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<v Speaker 4>I used to play charades with Bill Persky and Sam Denoff,

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<v Speaker 4>who had won a couple of Emmy for the Dick

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<v Speaker 4>Van Dyke Show. And so I said to them ABC

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<v Speaker 4>wants to do a show with me, and we're looking

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<v Speaker 4>for writers. Would you ever consider writing a show about

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<v Speaker 4>a girl? Because they'd only written guy shows, And they

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<v Speaker 4>said that'd be great. We'd love to.

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<v Speaker 3>Talk about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Mike nicholsond cast me in Barefoot in London. They came

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<v Speaker 4>to London to see my Opening Night and then they

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<v Speaker 4>decided to do it, and so they wrote the pilot

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<v Speaker 4>and when it sold, they weren't willing to sign up

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<v Speaker 4>for five years. Nobody really wants to sign a five

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<v Speaker 4>year contract, as you know, everybody, you know, we cringe

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<v Speaker 4>when we see a five year contract. And Danny Arnold

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<v Speaker 4>was going to be the producer. He only wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>sign up for two years. Billy and Sam. So the

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<v Speaker 4>only person who said I'll be here for five years

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<v Speaker 4>was me, So I became the producer. Otherwise, had they

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<v Speaker 4>said it, they probably would have been the producer. So

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<v Speaker 4>not only did I become the producer, I own the negative.

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<v Speaker 4>I own the whole thing. And that only happened because

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<v Speaker 4>I was the only one who said I'll do it,

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<v Speaker 4>and I had learned so much working from my father

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<v Speaker 4>at the studio. Nothing was a mystery. And you know,

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<v Speaker 4>in every profession, whether it's show business or law or

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<v Speaker 4>interior design or whatever it is, it's mysterious. But when

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<v Speaker 4>you know the language, it isn't. I mean, I knew

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<v Speaker 4>what a scrim was. I knew what dailies where. I

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<v Speaker 4>knew what the editing machine with the three heads looked like.

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<v Speaker 4>I knew what musical scoring was. I knew what a

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<v Speaker 4>red tape was.

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<v Speaker 3>I knew it all.

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<v Speaker 4>So because I had just been a bug on the

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<v Speaker 4>wall and been the one who carried the film from

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<v Speaker 4>one end of the studio to the other, and been

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<v Speaker 4>interested in sat in and watched people, I was very knowledgeable.

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<v Speaker 4>And I certainly was knowledgeable about comedy. I mean I

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<v Speaker 4>knew comedy. I'd done Barefoot in the Park, I'd done

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<v Speaker 4>under the ummem Tree, I had done Blotsmanagerie. I had

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<v Speaker 4>done a million plays by then. I was only twenty

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<v Speaker 4>five years old. But as you know, when you start out,

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<v Speaker 4>you're just doing stopuck, you know, or three city plays.

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<v Speaker 4>I did two for the Seesaw and three cities. So

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<v Speaker 4>I was very good on the stage. I mean I

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<v Speaker 4>had my sea legs, so I was ready.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>Whenever I speak at colleges and stuff, and people ask me,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, how do I get started? I said, start

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<v Speaker 4>in a little theater. Get into little theater and do

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<v Speaker 4>as many plays as you can do. Because I believe

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<v Speaker 4>everybody gets a shot, but not everybody gets a second shot.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you're ready for your first shot. I was

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<v Speaker 4>when I was cast by Mike and Barefoot. I auditioned

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<v Speaker 4>for him with about, I don't know, one hundred people.

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<v Speaker 4>They gave me Marty Milner as my partner. We said

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<v Speaker 4>how do you do and got up on stuff twelve

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<v Speaker 4>see yeah, And I got the part. And Mike said

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<v Speaker 4>to me later, who are you? What have you done?

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<v Speaker 4>And I told him, for a kid, I was pretty seasoned,

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<v Speaker 4>and so I was ready. So when I came back

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<v Speaker 4>from Barefoot, I was really strong. I've been a year

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<v Speaker 4>there and I was very strong and so and by

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<v Speaker 4>strong I mean not scared, knowing how to do it

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<v Speaker 4>and trusting my instincts. I love working with actors. I

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<v Speaker 4>love being a part of a company, and we had

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<v Speaker 4>a great company.

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<v Speaker 3>Ted Bessel was aces.

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<v Speaker 1>Apropos of what you said about, you know, being in

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<v Speaker 1>the theater. I always tell people when they're younger, I

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<v Speaker 1>say do anything. I said, don't have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>pride about what you do. Don't say no to anything.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to put that energy out there and give

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<v Speaker 1>it up. You know what I mean? Now I know

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<v Speaker 1>that the world was much smaller than it is now.

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<v Speaker 1>Now there's so many shows. There's too many shows. There's

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<v Speaker 1>no way we can have everything be good. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's just too much content out there. And everybody's chasing

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<v Speaker 1>the same actors. Everybody's chasing the same writers, right and

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<v Speaker 1>for you back then, Perski and these famous writers, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>imagining that the television landscape was very finite back then.

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<v Speaker 1>So finding good writers, there weren't a.

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<v Speaker 4>Lot of them, were there, right, right, No, they weren't. No,

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<v Speaker 4>they were pretty stellar. The show was that good because

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<v Speaker 4>they were so good, you know, as you Danny Arnold

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<v Speaker 4>later created Barney Miller, which is fantastic show. Sure, and

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<v Speaker 4>Billy went on to do Kate n Ally and a

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<v Speaker 4>whole lot of very good women's shows. He got to

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<v Speaker 4>become a real guru for women's shows. They were very

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<v Speaker 4>gifted people. And the thing is is they would rewrite everything.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, We'd get a script and it would be

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<v Speaker 4>kind of so so, but it had a good premise,

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<v Speaker 4>and they'd rewrite the hell out of it and bring

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<v Speaker 4>it back to the table and it was fantastic.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the person.

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<v Speaker 4>Whose name was on it would win an Emmy for it,

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<v Speaker 4>and then somebody like you would call and say, is

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<v Speaker 4>this the same Joe blow that you had because his

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<v Speaker 4>script is not very good, but our guys had completely

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<v Speaker 4>redone it.

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<v Speaker 1>Actress and activist Marlo Thomas Her push for equal rights

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<v Speaker 1>was part of the larger conversation about gender equality in

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<v Speaker 1>the seventies. Feminism was also a heated topic in my

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twelve conversation with author Erica Jong and her daughter

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<v Speaker 1>Molli jang Fast.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that women who are fourteen fifteen are in

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<v Speaker 5>the most difficult position they have ever been in modern society.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think about that?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I agree, I think there's a lot of sexuality.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's not explained to young girls in.

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<v Speaker 5>A way very confusing, Molly.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think that's a legacy of the feminist movement.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, we said we want not a legacy of

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<v Speaker 5>the feminist movement. It is a legacy, and here I

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<v Speaker 5>really feel fierce. It is the legacy of a distortion

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<v Speaker 5>of women's desire for equal rights.

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<v Speaker 3>Equal rights are not platforms shoes.

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<v Speaker 5>You can't and naked clothes equal rights.

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<v Speaker 4>But you can't blow up an ad Am bomb and

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<v Speaker 4>then choose how it's going to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Here more of my conversation with Erica Jong and Mali

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<v Speaker 1>Jang Fast and Here's the Thing dot Org. After the break,

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<v Speaker 1>marlow Thomas explains why she went to New York to

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<v Speaker 1>study acting with Lee Strasberg after her success on TV.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Alec Baldwin and you're listening to Here's the Thing.

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<v Speaker 1>As executive producer and star of That Girl, Marlowe Thomas

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<v Speaker 1>worked closely with the writers to make her character Anne

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<v Speaker 1>Marie more believable.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's a regular company. You know.

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<v Speaker 4>You sit around and say, let's do an arc where

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<v Speaker 4>she's looking for a job and she gets these four jobs.

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<v Speaker 4>Or let's do an arc where her father wants her

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<v Speaker 4>to move back home, you know, and so you talk

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<v Speaker 4>about the arc, and then we'd read to have a

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<v Speaker 4>table read, and everybody would give their comments. There were

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<v Speaker 4>very few times where, you know, there were any huge debates.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I've always felt about story that what's right

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<v Speaker 4>always wins.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>The first year was a little difficult because I was

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<v Speaker 4>the only girl on the staff. You know, they staffed

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<v Speaker 4>the show. I didn't staff the show. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 4>any writers.

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<v Speaker 3>I was a kid. How would I know writers.

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<v Speaker 4>So they staffed the show with a lot of terrific

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<v Speaker 4>guy writers, in which I would say, I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>a girl would say that to her father, or I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know that's the way a girl would end an

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<v Speaker 4>argument with her boyfriend. So we'd have these debates. So

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<v Speaker 4>finally Danny Arnold, who was one of the smartest guys

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<v Speaker 4>in the world, said, you know what we need. We

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<v Speaker 4>need a female story editor. You can't be the only

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<v Speaker 4>girl in the room. And so the female story editor

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<v Speaker 4>came on and that was heaven because she was able

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<v Speaker 4>from her expertise and her ability to write, to say,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, let's go this way. The only real debate

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<v Speaker 4>we ever had was they wanted to be a wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>For the last show.

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<v Speaker 4>Clara al wanted a wedding. ABC wanted a wedding. The

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<v Speaker 4>producers wanted a wedding, and I said, we can't do

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<v Speaker 4>a wedding. We can't end the show with a wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>If we end the show with a wedding, this audience,

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<v Speaker 4>which has followed this character for five years, she's independent,

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<v Speaker 4>she doesn't want to get married, she's not sure she

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<v Speaker 4>wants to get married. She wants a career. We've had

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<v Speaker 4>so many of those conversations. To have a wedding is

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<v Speaker 4>to betray them. I think we're saying that's the only

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<v Speaker 4>happy ending, and lots of shows end with weddings. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want this show to end with a wedding. And

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<v Speaker 4>that was a problem. That was the only one. And

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<v Speaker 4>the interesting thing is, I mean, obviously they let me

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<v Speaker 4>have it that way, and then a couple years later

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<v Speaker 4>Billy and Sambo said to me that was such a

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<v Speaker 4>right idea because it had gone into syndication.

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<v Speaker 3>That way, the show is over.

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<v Speaker 4>Once you see the show run through and you see

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<v Speaker 4>the wedding, then you know how the story ends. But

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<v Speaker 4>I would have felt it would have been a wrong

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<v Speaker 4>message to say this is the only happy ending. And Alec,

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<v Speaker 4>I'll tell you the mail that poured in about that.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, thank you Marlon for not coming out, thank you,

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<v Speaker 4>thank you for ending with a wedding. I mean, they

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<v Speaker 4>really they wanted to see it. They've been hanging on

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<v Speaker 4>to the fact that this is the one single girl

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<v Speaker 4>on television. Had never been a single girl before. There's

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<v Speaker 4>this one single girl and she doesn't get married at

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<v Speaker 4>the end. And I always had a thing growing up,

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<v Speaker 4>which is why I did Free to Be You and Me.

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<v Speaker 4>That every princess married the prince. That was the only

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<v Speaker 4>happy ending of a fairy tale. And I hope your children,

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<v Speaker 4>in fact, I'm going to send you Free to Be

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<v Speaker 4>this week. Your children should listen to Free to Be

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<v Speaker 4>You and Me, because there is no one happy ending.

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<v Speaker 4>Your boys and your girls will have the happy ending

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<v Speaker 4>that they create for themselves, not one that goes along

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<v Speaker 4>with what every other boy and every other girl has done.

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<v Speaker 1>So when the show is over, when did you go

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<v Speaker 1>to the actors studio after that? Because you were in

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<v Speaker 1>Hollywood doing the show. So when the show's of a

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<v Speaker 1>you moved to New York.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, Well, they wanted us to do two more years,

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<v Speaker 4>and they wanted me and Chatty to get married. I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't want to get married, but they said, well then

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<v Speaker 4>just two two more years because they really needed that girl.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, there weren't a lot of hits on ABC,

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<v Speaker 4>as you remember, And I said, I just can't. I

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<v Speaker 4>was a girl when we started. I'm a woman now.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't be the same little girl running around trying

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<v Speaker 4>to get a job. I mean it's I'm too old now,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I'm thirty one, decided to move on and

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<v Speaker 4>I got a script. It was called Crackers. It was

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<v Speaker 4>about a woman who was a drunk, and it was

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<v Speaker 4>a very touching story. And I read it and I thought,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know how to do this. Everything I had

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<v Speaker 4>done had been in this comedic vein Barefoot in the Park,

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<v Speaker 4>and all the stuff i'd done, I mean, even Glass

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<v Speaker 4>Menagerie didn't have that kind of character that you had to,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, to play a good drunk and to have

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<v Speaker 4>come out of that, and all the would come from

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<v Speaker 4>the withdrawal to.

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<v Speaker 1>Ring yourself out. You got to ring yourself out there.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know how to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>So I called Ellen Berson, who I had met a

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<v Speaker 4>few times. So she said, you got to go to

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<v Speaker 4>Lee Strasford. So I called him. He said he'd meet

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<v Speaker 4>me at FU to New York. And he said to me,

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<v Speaker 4>you're a big star. You got a lot of awards.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you want to come to class for. I said,

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<v Speaker 4>because I only know how to do what I know

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<v Speaker 4>how to do, and I've gotten by on a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of charm and comedy instinct. He said, don't look at

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<v Speaker 4>gift horse in the mouth, my dear, I said, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not complaining. I'm just saying that's what I got. That's

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<v Speaker 4>my whole bag. So he said okay, And after that

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<v Speaker 4>I started doing work. I mean, I want an Emmy

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<v Speaker 4>as Best Dramatic Actress playing a schizophrenic. After that that

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<v Speaker 4>Lee Grant cast me in it was called Nobody's Child,

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<v Speaker 4>and I don't I'm not saying this to toot my

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<v Speaker 4>own horn, but I'm saying this to prove what acting

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<v Speaker 4>classes do for you. I was up against Vanessa Redgrave,

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<v Speaker 4>Catherine Hepburn, Jenna Rollins, and Mayor Winningham and I won

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<v Speaker 4>that Emmy. And I would not have won that had

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<v Speaker 4>I not stop my career and worked on my work

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<v Speaker 4>for three years. And I say often to people, sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>your career gets in the way.

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<v Speaker 3>Of your work. You've got to stop and do your

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<v Speaker 3>work and figure out what it is you want.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been there.

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<v Speaker 4>When I quit that girl, my father said to me,

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<v Speaker 4>you have to be crazy. You are the heir apparent

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<v Speaker 4>to Lucille Ball. I said, Daddy, I know that's a

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<v Speaker 4>great compliment, but I don't want to be Lucille Ball.

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<v Speaker 4>I respect Lucille Ball. She's a genius. That's just not

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<v Speaker 4>where I'm headed. I want to be a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Now now free to be you and me. How did

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<v Speaker 1>that start?

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<v Speaker 3>It really happened because of my niece.

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<v Speaker 4>As you know, and as you can hear from what

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<v Speaker 4>I'm saying, I was born a feminist.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I really was.

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<v Speaker 4>My father used to call me misindependence. As a child,

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<v Speaker 4>I always had an idea of what I wanted to do,

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<v Speaker 4>and I wanted to do a single girl on television.

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<v Speaker 4>I gave feminine mystique to the head of the network.

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<v Speaker 4>I was obviously always going in that to and when

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<v Speaker 4>I was doing that girl, I got a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>male from young women that was shocking. I get a

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<v Speaker 4>letter from a sixteen year old girl who said, I'm pregnant.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't tell my father. Where can I go? I'm

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<v Speaker 4>twenty two years old and I have two children and

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<v Speaker 4>my husband beats me up. Where could I go? So

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<v Speaker 4>I said to my secretaries we called them at the time,

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<v Speaker 4>I had two of them. I said, I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>where the hell is somebody going in Duluth if they're pregnant.

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<v Speaker 4>Where does somebody go in Salt Lake City if they're

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<v Speaker 4>being beaten up? As I'd looked around and we looked around.

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<v Speaker 4>There wasn't any place. There were no legal advisors. There's

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<v Speaker 4>no place for a woman or a girl to go

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<v Speaker 4>for safety or counsel or anything which politicized me. That's

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<v Speaker 4>how I met Gloria Steinem and all these women and

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<v Speaker 4>created the misfoundation for women. All that happened because of

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<v Speaker 4>the male I got, because there was no place for

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<v Speaker 4>women to go. But then my sister had a baby,

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<v Speaker 4>the first grandchild in our family, and she was about

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<v Speaker 4>four and a half or so, and I was reading

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<v Speaker 4>the books in her bedroom and they were all the

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<v Speaker 4>thing about the boys do this, and the girls do that,

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<v Speaker 4>and the Princess Mary is the prince at the end

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<v Speaker 4>of the thing. And I said to my sister, this

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<v Speaker 4>is such rubbish. It took us thirty years to get

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<v Speaker 4>over this. You got to get her something else. So

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<v Speaker 4>I went to the bookstore to find something else, and

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<v Speaker 4>there wasn't anything. So I decided to do one of

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<v Speaker 4>my own. So I created Free to Be You and

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<v Speaker 4>Me for her. I really had no intention of becoming

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<v Speaker 4>a big franchise. I just wanted to do something that

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<v Speaker 4>would have stories for boys and girls that said they

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<v Speaker 4>could be anything. They wanted to be that it'd be

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<v Speaker 4>non racist and non sexist, and so I got together

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<v Speaker 4>with friends like Schelle Silverstein and Herb Gardner and Kleeband

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<v Speaker 4>who had done the music and lyrics for a chorus line,

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<v Speaker 4>and Patty Chayevsky who was a friend of Herbie's, and

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<v Speaker 4>a bunch of people. We sat around and said, I said, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>let's rewrite our childhood. What would you have like to

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<v Speaker 4>have heard when you were a kid. And Herb Gardner said,

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<v Speaker 4>I would have liked to have heard that it was

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<v Speaker 4>okay for a boy to cry and that it wasn't sissy.

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<v Speaker 4>And Carol Hall wrote that wonderful song It's all Right

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<v Speaker 4>to Cry, which has become a classic, and we got

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<v Speaker 4>Rosie Grier to sing it, which was great. And then

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<v Speaker 4>I and then I said, I want there to be

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<v Speaker 4>a story where the princess does not marry the prince

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<v Speaker 4>at the end and goes on to her own life,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's not a blonde, she's a brunette like me

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<v Speaker 4>with olive skin. We did that one. We did Atalanta

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<v Speaker 4>where she runs in the race and chooses her own life.

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<v Speaker 4>So we rewrote all the things and the company was

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<v Speaker 4>called Bill Records at the.

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<v Speaker 3>Time, you know, I was a big shot.

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<v Speaker 4>And so they made the record and Alan al directed

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<v Speaker 4>the written pieces, got Mel Brooks to play one of

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<v Speaker 4>the babies with me. That the two Babies who don't

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<v Speaker 4>Know Who's a boy and Who's a Girl? And Mel

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<v Speaker 4>and Carl Reiner wrote it.

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<v Speaker 3>It was hilariously funny.

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<v Speaker 4>We did the whole thing and he said, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you're not going to sell more than fifteen thousand.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 4>We're not doing this for the money. We want to

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<v Speaker 4>change the world, one five year old at a time. Well,

0:27:06.680 --> 0:27:08.760
<v Speaker 4>it went gold and it went platinum, and then we

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<v Speaker 4>did the book and it was number one on the

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<v Speaker 4>best seller list. So we did the special one on

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<v Speaker 4>Emmy and a Peabody. I mean, it's just because there's

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<v Speaker 4>been nothing like it. And just last week it was

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<v Speaker 4>inducted into the Library of Congress with albums, along with

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<v Speaker 4>Janet Jackson, Kermit the Frog, and Thomas Edison, of all people.

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<v Speaker 4>So when an idea is right, and it wasn't, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't write the pieces. I conceived the idea and

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<v Speaker 4>assigned the pieces. But I'm not that kind of writer.

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<v Speaker 4>I couldn't write a song. But you know, Alec, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>sure you feel this in your work. If something comes

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<v Speaker 4>organically from you, as that girl did, as Free to

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<v Speaker 4>Be did, it's something you really believe in, you want

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<v Speaker 4>to do. It does touch other people, you know. It

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<v Speaker 4>isn't like, oh, I think it would be really commercial.

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<v Speaker 4>If I did a show about this, that's probably not

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<v Speaker 4>going to be successful. But if it comes out of

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<v Speaker 4>your own desire to right or wrong, or change the world,

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<v Speaker 4>or express this thing that's so on fire inside of you,

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<v Speaker 4>that has a very good chance, I believe of being successful.

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<v Speaker 1>Actress and activist Marlo Thomas. This is It's all Right

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<v Speaker 1>to Cry, sung by Rosie Greer from Free to Be,

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<v Speaker 1>You and Me. That's right, Rosie Greer, the NFL defensive tackle.

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<v Speaker 6>It's alright to cry. Ry the sad out of of you.

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<v Speaker 6>It's all right cry.

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<v Speaker 1>It might make you feel better when we come back. Marlowe.

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas talks about her forty year marriage to talk show

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<v Speaker 1>host Phil Donahue. If you're enjoying this conversation, tell a

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<v Speaker 1>friend and be sure to follow. Here's the thing on

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<v Speaker 1>the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Alec Baldwin and you were listening to Here's the Thing.

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<v Speaker 1>For much of the seventies, Marlowe Thomas was a proud

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<v Speaker 1>single woman with no interest in getting married, and then

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<v Speaker 1>a guest appearance on a daytime talk show in nineteen

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<v Speaker 1>seventy seven changed everything.

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<v Speaker 4>I just never wanted to be married, you know, it

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<v Speaker 4>just wasn't for me. I had an idea of what

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to do. I wanted to go to London

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<v Speaker 4>and do a play. I wanted to be free to

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<v Speaker 4>take any opportunity that and I don't mean in a

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<v Speaker 4>romantic way. I had a lot of fabulous boyfriends, but

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<v Speaker 4>I just wanted to experience so much. And my husband

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<v Speaker 4>got married at twenty one, and he said to me, one,

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<v Speaker 4>how the hell did you have the guts not to

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<v Speaker 4>get married early? I said, because I'm a girl. I

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<v Speaker 4>knew damn well, if I got married, I'd be responsible

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<v Speaker 4>for the babies, for the house, for the husband, for

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<v Speaker 4>the everything. I grew up with that I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm of a.

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<v Speaker 4>Lebanese family and an Italian family, and they're a lot

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<v Speaker 4>like the Irish, as you and Phil are. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>the mother runs the roost. She takes care of the children,

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<v Speaker 4>and she has a thousand of them. My father's one

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<v Speaker 4>of ten, my mother's one of five. My mother gave

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<v Speaker 4>up her career and followed my father around the country

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<v Speaker 4>and really supported him in his career, and that was

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<v Speaker 4>her choice. I looked at that choice and said, that's

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<v Speaker 4>not for me. I wanted to be my father. I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to be on stage. I used to see my

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<v Speaker 4>father in the Sands Hotel in Las Vegas and his

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<v Speaker 4>eyes would be shining and he was having a ball,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm so happy.

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<v Speaker 3>And that was it.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I discovered what you say you're discovering now.

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<v Speaker 4>I discovered work made me happy, made me happy and

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<v Speaker 4>my husband. In the last about six years, I did

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<v Speaker 4>a play off Broadway, in a play on Broadway. One

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<v Speaker 4>was Elaine May on Broadway and one was Jojo Petro

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<v Speaker 4>off Broadway. And Phil said to me, you're so happy

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<v Speaker 4>when you do a play. As far as I've ben thurned,

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<v Speaker 4>you can do a play every year. I'm the happiest

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<v Speaker 4>when I'm on stage. And so I made that decision.

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<v Speaker 4>I hadn't expected to meet Phil. It was beyond my control.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like a gag. I mean, he walked in the

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<v Speaker 4>green room and it was like a shampoo commercial.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, his big blue eyes and.

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<v Speaker 4>That shock of white hair, and I thought, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was dating like three men at the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Phil said the same thing. He said, I walked down

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<v Speaker 4>the hall after her, and I thought, my god, she's

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<v Speaker 4>a bad thought. And then we flirted for an hour

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<v Speaker 4>on his show. He asked me out the next night

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<v Speaker 4>and that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>But what changed, meaning you said in interviews that you

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<v Speaker 1>had a couple different types of boyfriends. You had the

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<v Speaker 1>hunky boyfriend, you know, you had the leading man boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you had the smart, funny boyfriend to keep you interested.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you're very right.

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<v Speaker 4>My comment was that I, you know, the the you know,

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<v Speaker 4>the gorgeous guy, the hunk and everything. That guy was,

0:32:21.640 --> 0:32:24.440
<v Speaker 4>you know, a sexy turn on. And the other guy,

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<v Speaker 4>he was so smart that he taught me things. I

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<v Speaker 4>was very attracted to men like that who kind of

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<v Speaker 4>you know, just taught me about business or taught me

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<v Speaker 4>about life, who were just very smart, which the hunky

0:32:38.280 --> 0:32:41.200
<v Speaker 4>guy didn't really have that right, And this was the

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<v Speaker 4>first time I met a man who had it all.

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<v Speaker 4>Phil was hunky and sexy and real smart, and it

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<v Speaker 4>just was. It was a great package. And so at

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<v Speaker 4>first the first thing that brings you together is the hunky,

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<v Speaker 4>sexy part. And then the more I got to know him,

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<v Speaker 4>just so wise and he always does the right thing.

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<v Speaker 4>He always ends up with the right spot. And Phil

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<v Speaker 4>moved his show, his show, his whole show, all the

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<v Speaker 4>producers and everything, to New York. I was living in LA.

0:33:14.080 --> 0:33:16.600
<v Speaker 4>He was living in Chicago. I had a big production company.

0:33:16.640 --> 0:33:19.000
<v Speaker 4>I had made twelve movies for television in a row.

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<v Speaker 4>He had his own show, and he was raising four

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<v Speaker 4>boys on his own. He was getting his boys through school.

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<v Speaker 4>His show every day at nine am. Our lives were insane,

0:33:28.640 --> 0:33:31.200
<v Speaker 4>and I said to him, he said, he wanted me

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<v Speaker 4>to move to Chicago. And I said, look at this

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<v Speaker 4>point in my career, I really can't live in Chicago.

0:33:36.440 --> 0:33:39.080
<v Speaker 4>I could live in New York or LA. He said,

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<v Speaker 4>I can't live in LA. I'm not interested. He said,

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<v Speaker 4>no offense, but I'm not interested in interviewing actors. So

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<v Speaker 4>we picked New York and we moved everything to New York,

0:33:47.720 --> 0:33:49.920
<v Speaker 4>including his show. He said, let me just get my

0:33:50.000 --> 0:33:53.240
<v Speaker 4>boys through high school, which was like another two three years.

0:33:53.440 --> 0:33:55.400
<v Speaker 4>He got his boys whore. We bought an apartment, We

0:33:55.480 --> 0:33:58.600
<v Speaker 4>got married, the boys, got through high school. He moved

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<v Speaker 4>his show and everything, and we made a life in

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<v Speaker 4>New York, where neither of us lived. We bought an apartment,

0:34:04.840 --> 0:34:08.080
<v Speaker 4>we bought a house in Connecticut. We invented a life.

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<v Speaker 1>Now. Obviously, another enormous part of your family's legacy, your

0:34:13.719 --> 0:34:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Dad's legacy and your legacy, is Saint Jude's. Talk to

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<v Speaker 1>me about the genesis of that and why Memphis.

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<v Speaker 4>My father grew up very poor, an immigrant family. My

0:34:24.200 --> 0:34:27.279
<v Speaker 4>grandparents were from Lebanon. They had no money. They came

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<v Speaker 4>here with all their belongings in cloth bags and arranged marriage.

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<v Speaker 4>Had ten babies, nine boys, and a girl without a doctor,

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<v Speaker 4>hot water and her sister. So everybody in the neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 4>They were everybody. They were Polish, Irish, Jewish, Chinese, Italian, Lebanese, whatever,

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<v Speaker 4>And they never went to a doctor, and they all

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<v Speaker 4>had jobs on consignment. I mean, it was real, real

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<v Speaker 4>dirt poor people. And my father had little friends who

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<v Speaker 4>died of things like influenza and appendicia, this which are

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<v Speaker 4>manageable situations, but they died because they never could see

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<v Speaker 4>a doctor. So he had a very first hand look

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<v Speaker 4>at the inequity of health care in this country, and

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<v Speaker 4>that always was in his mind. And so when he

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<v Speaker 4>made a promise to Saint Jude, show me a sign

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<v Speaker 4>that I can make it in my career, because he

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<v Speaker 4>was my father was terrified at being poor and not

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<v Speaker 4>being able to raise his children the way his father was.

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<v Speaker 4>So he was willing to give up show business if

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<v Speaker 4>he knew what got assign you to something else. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 4>he got a sign, and he continued on his way,

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<v Speaker 4>and when he got very successful and quite wealthy, he

0:35:37.960 --> 0:35:40.760
<v Speaker 4>decided it was time to pay back, and he wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to build a hospital for very ill children where nobody

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<v Speaker 4>would be turned away, not for race or religion, and

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<v Speaker 4>no one would pay for anything, not treatment, travel, housing,

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<v Speaker 4>or food. And he picked the South because and this

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<v Speaker 4>was a wonderful story. My father carried this little piece

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<v Speaker 4>of paper in his pocket for men years. He read

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<v Speaker 4>in the paper that a black boy eight years old

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<v Speaker 4>in Mississippi was hit by a car. A white guy

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<v Speaker 4>hit him on his bike. The white guy picked him

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<v Speaker 4>up and tried to get him to a hospital, but

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<v Speaker 4>no emergency room would take him because he was black.

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<v Speaker 3>And he died.

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<v Speaker 4>So my father decided, I'm putting it in the South.

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<v Speaker 4>I want the kids from the South to be able

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<v Speaker 4>to get here too, And so he did.

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<v Speaker 3>Interesting and it was the first solely integrated hospital in

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<v Speaker 3>the South.

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<v Speaker 4>And we have the largest program for sickle cell We

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<v Speaker 4>have eight hundred sickle cell patients and we have a black, white, Hispanic.

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<v Speaker 3>They come from all over the world. We even have.

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<v Speaker 4>Amish people, which so stunned me because here are these

0:36:43.680 --> 0:36:46.399
<v Speaker 4>people won't even have a zipper. But when it comes

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<v Speaker 4>to saving your kid, if your child to sick, god forbid,

0:36:50.160 --> 0:36:53.360
<v Speaker 4>you'd sell your arm to get your kid. Well, these

0:36:53.440 --> 0:36:56.640
<v Speaker 4>parents come terrified. They're gonna have to sell their house,

0:36:56.680 --> 0:36:59.480
<v Speaker 4>that everything else. They don't have to sell anything. They

0:36:59.560 --> 0:37:01.480
<v Speaker 4>just have to there. And we put them up in

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<v Speaker 4>beautiful housing, which by the way, I do most of

0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:07.840
<v Speaker 4>the decorating. We can put up four hundred families for years,

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<v Speaker 4>two years at a time.

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<v Speaker 3>It's an incredible place.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let me just say this to you. I want

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<v Speaker 1>you to tell your husband that we'd love to have

0:37:13.920 --> 0:37:15.520
<v Speaker 1>him on the show. I didn't want you together because

0:37:15.560 --> 0:37:17.840
<v Speaker 1>I feel like a show with Phil Donague. That's four

0:37:17.880 --> 0:37:20.120
<v Speaker 1>segments we need to do four hours before down here

0:37:20.400 --> 0:37:22.560
<v Speaker 1>because I respect him and I admire him, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot to say. We'd love to have him

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<v Speaker 1>on because I'm a huge fan of your husband's show.

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<v Speaker 1>Really tell him and what I love about your husband

0:37:28.520 --> 0:37:31.960
<v Speaker 1>was is that his political views, though they tilted in

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<v Speaker 1>a certain way, they weren't partisan. Do you think that

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<v Speaker 1>you agree with that?

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<v Speaker 4>Through most of his career, Yes, he got hit in

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<v Speaker 4>the head, got fired from MSNBC because he opposed the

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<v Speaker 4>war in Iraq, and it was an interesting time for him.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's a guy who'd been on the air for twenty

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<v Speaker 4>nine years in syndication and when I first met him,

0:37:51.239 --> 0:37:53.440
<v Speaker 4>he said, I've got the best job in television. And

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<v Speaker 4>I said why. He said, because I can say anything

0:37:55.920 --> 0:37:57.920
<v Speaker 4>I want to say. And if you don't want to

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<v Speaker 4>run it in Detroit, you don't have But I'm in

0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:04.080
<v Speaker 4>two hundred and fifty cities, so don't run it. So

0:38:04.880 --> 0:38:08.880
<v Speaker 4>he wasn't used to any kind of censorship overview. He

0:38:09.000 --> 0:38:12.920
<v Speaker 4>just did what he wanted. He went on MSNBC and

0:38:13.000 --> 0:38:16.399
<v Speaker 4>the war was ramping up against Iraq, so he put

0:38:16.440 --> 0:38:20.480
<v Speaker 4>on fathers who had lost their sons, both from Israel

0:38:20.520 --> 0:38:24.239
<v Speaker 4>and Palestine to talk about what war really does. And

0:38:24.280 --> 0:38:28.080
<v Speaker 4>these are men who were opposite each other in their beliefs,

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<v Speaker 4>but they had both lost sons in these wars. And

0:38:31.520 --> 0:38:34.040
<v Speaker 4>he had on all the people that were against the war,

0:38:34.280 --> 0:38:37.200
<v Speaker 4>the Colin Powells and all the people, and they were

0:38:37.520 --> 0:38:41.239
<v Speaker 4>all the generals who were against the war. And NBC

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<v Speaker 4>told his producer, you've got to get filled to get

0:38:44.840 --> 0:38:48.120
<v Speaker 4>off the war thing. You know, NBC is run by

0:38:48.200 --> 0:38:52.440
<v Speaker 4>General Electric. General Electric makes things that go boom. So

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<v Speaker 4>he didn't stop. He felt it was not only he

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't being defiant, he was being a journalist, was saying,

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<v Speaker 4>he was showing the other side of this, and all

0:39:05.280 --> 0:39:09.839
<v Speaker 4>the other shows everywhere actually were for the war.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I just want to say this to you, and

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<v Speaker 1>that is you probably should go back on TV because

0:39:14.360 --> 0:39:17.320
<v Speaker 1>you'd still be the funniest, most sophisticated, gorgeous woman on TV.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you.

0:39:17.920 --> 0:39:21.160
<v Speaker 1>That line from Lucy to you and Mary Tyler Moore

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<v Speaker 1>hovering around the same time onto Murphy Brown, those great,

0:39:24.280 --> 0:39:27.160
<v Speaker 1>great leading ladies of network television. God, I would love

0:39:27.200 --> 0:39:28.520
<v Speaker 1>to work with you one day. What enjoy that.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you. We'll give me a call, Ale anytime.

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<v Speaker 1>We will call you. We book. This was fun, love you,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, my very best to you, and thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>My thanks to Marlow Thomas. I'm Alec Baldwin and you're

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<v Speaker 1>listening to Here's the Thing from iHeart Radio. We're produced

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