1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: This is all most Famous Beyond the Bachelor with Susie Evans. 2 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 2: Hey, guys, and welcome back to Beyond the Bachelor. This 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 2: is your host, Susie Evans. Today I'm joined by Clay Walker, 4 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: who was on Ben Flanni's season of the Bachelor. I 5 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 2: personally did not watch this episode, so I'm really excited 6 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 2: because rumor has it that on the episode, Clay serenades 7 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 2: one couple and Emily's competitive strategy causes a firestorm. So 8 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 2: we're going to get the scoop today on this episode. 9 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 2: I'm going into it a little blind because I have 10 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 2: not seen that episode, but I'm really excited to learn 11 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 2: all the behind the scenes details and everything that he 12 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 2: can share with us. 13 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 1: Hey, Susie, how you doing this morning? 14 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 2: Hi? 15 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 3: I'm good. How are you great? 16 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 1: Thank you for having me on. 17 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 3: Absolutely. 18 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 2: Rumor has it when you performed on the show, it 19 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 2: kind of stirred up a bit of drama or possibly 20 00:00:56,760 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 2: there was some dramatics happening in that house around that time. 21 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 2: Do you have any Do you have any memories of 22 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 2: this or behind the scenes infant that you want to 23 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 2: start to show off with and tell us. 24 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: Me in my own house, Are there house. 25 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 3: No, no. 26 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 2: In the Bachelor House, well, I. 27 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: You know, I I just remember the show being really 28 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 1: really well done and that uh, you know, the girl 29 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: who was on the show was a was a fan 30 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: of mine and so the Bachelor wanting to surprise her, 31 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: and it did in a great way. And I don't 32 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,199 Speaker 1: know how they kept it a surprise, you know, that long, 33 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: but it's hard to keep surprises. But I I can 34 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: remember the it was in Colorado. It's been it's been 35 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:47,279 Speaker 1: a minute, but I think the whole the whole group 36 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: was very excited, you know, for the performance, and the 37 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: song was big at the time, and so she won't 38 00:01:55,080 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 1: be longly long and but I I I want to 39 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: say that her favorite song was maybe Hypnotize the Moon. 40 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: That may have been it, but like I said, it's 41 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 1: been a while, so I maybe get that wrong. But 42 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:13,119 Speaker 1: both of them were over the top and super hospitable 43 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: and super excited. And I thought that the crew and 44 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: the production team were quite amazing, you know. And a 45 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: lot of times, you know, those things can be so 46 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: cheesy or just you know, just feel weird, you know, 47 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: but that felt felt right. 48 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 3: Oh, that's so cool. 49 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 2: It's got to be so unique to be able to 50 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 2: showcase your music on a reality show. I'm sure it's 51 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 2: very different from what you normally experience whether you're touring 52 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 2: or recording music. How did this opportunity come about and 53 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 2: what was your initial reaction when you either received the 54 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 2: call er got the information that you were going to 55 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 2: be doing a performance on the show. 56 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: Well, two things happened kind of simultaneously. There was another 57 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: request for me to play uh the Hurst wedding, which 58 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 1: was quite exciting in itself, And so there was this 59 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 1: I guess you have these cycles, you know, where either 60 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: you're kind of popular or there's a buzz or something 61 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: you know is going on for you, and and so 62 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 1: there are media requests or requests like that, and and 63 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:26,839 Speaker 1: uh uh, you know, everyone knows about The Bachelor NAVI 64 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 1: that that that show has been around, and it's been 65 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: very popular for good reason, because everyone's curious, you know 66 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: about you know, what are the inside you know, actions 67 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: and thoughts and private actions of of of individuals, whether 68 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: it's some male or female. And so there are a 69 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: lot of intriguing moments, you know, that were coming out 70 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: in these in these series of shows like that, and 71 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: and of course I was intrigued and then when they 72 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: made their request, I was like, this is really cool 73 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: because as it actually signals you know that there's a popularity, 74 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: like you know, you're with a popular group, and so 75 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: it was flattering and I was excited to go do it. 76 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really cool. 77 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 2: Did anything unexpected come from the opportunity, like, did other 78 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 2: collaborations happen, or just anything that sparked a new path 79 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 2: in your career based on being on the show. 80 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: You know, one thing generally does build off of another. 81 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 1: For example, we just we just were at the Academy 82 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 1: Country Music Coorts with UH with Randy Travis and UH. 83 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: It was you know, the AP picked it up, and 84 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 1: you know, there was a lot of subsequent media excitement 85 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:52,679 Speaker 1: around us since it's still going. But in that particular case, 86 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: I can't remember because, like I said, it's been been 87 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,160 Speaker 1: some years since we've done that. I don't even remember 88 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 1: how exactly do you know what year it was that 89 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: we actually did that? There you go, So I can't remember, 90 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: you know exactly what followed that. I just I remember 91 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: that a lot of people saw it, you know, and 92 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 1: typically you know, I mean I've had the same phone 93 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: number for gosh, twenty something years, and so you know 94 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 1: that my phone was blowing up like crazy. And then 95 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 1: you know, when I sang at the World Series, you know, 96 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 1: for baseball, you know, I got I got texts blowing up. 97 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:31,280 Speaker 1: The other night when I was on the A Sam Awards, 98 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: there were people you know, blowing my phone up, So 99 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 1: it had that same effect. You know, I'm not sure 100 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:42,919 Speaker 1: what it all happened because of it, but it's always 101 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 1: good to get good media, you know, especially when you 102 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 1: don't watch it. 103 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 3: You know, Yeah, that's too funny. I think I'm curious 104 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 3: if being on. 105 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 2: The show, even for the segment, just the segment that 106 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 2: you were on, did it influenced your love life at all? 107 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:04,840 Speaker 2: Were you married at the time when you were on 108 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:08,480 Speaker 2: the show. Did it re spark the romance in your life? 109 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 2: What what did that look like. 110 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: So my wife is thirteen years younger than I am, 111 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 1: and she was a huge fan on the Bachelor. So 112 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: when when I told her about you know, getting the invitation, 113 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: of course, she was over the top. You know, all 114 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:30,719 Speaker 1: of her friends everyone talking about it, and and and 115 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: you know, guys, I think, you know, like me, it's 116 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 1: like those kind of shows, you know, would never admit 117 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 1: to liking any piece of it at all. You know. 118 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: It's like and honestly, I don't I don't watch TV, 119 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: you know, other than sports. It was like for ESPN 120 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 1: and so so, but I knew that it was a 121 00:06:51,160 --> 00:06:55,359 Speaker 1: big deal to my wife, and so I absolutely was 122 00:06:55,400 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: excited about the opportunity. But yes, her friend group, you know, 123 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: they all lived in New York for I think three 124 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: or four years, and they watched Sex in the City 125 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: every week, you know, and all the all the stuff 126 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: that guys would call trash, you know. And uh, but 127 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:18,679 Speaker 1: but it's a it's a fun indulgence, you know. And 128 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: so she was super excited. Anything that gets her excited 129 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: to come and gets me excited to and I and 130 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: you know, we've always we've always had a great love life. 131 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 1: So so it's uh, did it enhance it any Uh, 132 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: probably added some excitement to our life. Yes, But but 133 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 1: she's she's a yeah, I think I'll leave that answer alone. 134 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 3: That's awesome. I can't I can't imagine. 135 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, your significant other gets a call to perform on 136 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 2: one of your favorite TV shows. 137 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 3: That's pretty cool. 138 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: I remember. One of her most exciting moments is she 139 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 1: had the worst crush on Luke Perry and we were 140 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: on an airplane one time and he was he was 141 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: close bias and we walked through and uh, he recognized 142 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: me and shook my hand as we walked on the plane, 143 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: and I thought my wife was going to fall down, 144 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 1: you know. And then there was another time that that 145 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: we were at the Kentucky Derby and Tom Brady was 146 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: at our table at the derby, you know, at the 147 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: actual race. So we were hanging out for you know, 148 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: four or five hours, and I think she was just like, 149 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: you know, it is kind of overwhelming, you know. Whenever 150 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: you are you get around some folks like that, and 151 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: it's not all the time. You know, we have friends 152 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 1: that are that are celebrities and and that's cool. But 153 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: when you get around somebody that that you grew up loving, 154 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: you know, are idolized any kind of way, it is 155 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: a it is a shock, you know, and especially when 156 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:51,199 Speaker 1: they're when they're nice, it really just goes over and 157 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 1: just magnifies the way you always felt about them, you know. 158 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 3: That's so nice. 159 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 2: I've found since moving to LA that there's people that 160 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 2: I've either followed or seen or consumed their content on 161 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 2: social media, and I'll see them places and I have 162 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 2: this weird feeling of feeling like I know that person 163 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,079 Speaker 2: and almost wanting to go up them to them as 164 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 2: a friend, but the reality is that person actually doesn't 165 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 2: know me, like it's only a one way street. And 166 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 2: I kind of feel like that juxtaposition with being in 167 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 2: LA and stuff like that, it's a really cool thing. 168 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 2: But you're like, oh, this is so weird. I know 169 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 2: so much about you, but you don't know anything about me. 170 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:31,959 Speaker 2: But it's kind of fun when you get to have 171 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 2: those experiences. Where are you from, Susie, I'm from Virginia. Yeah, yep, 172 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 2: from Virginia. Moved to LA about a year. 173 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: Ago, from one coast to the other the side. 174 00:09:56,840 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 2: I've dabbled in reality television myself, but I'm curious. I 175 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 2: think that the entertainment industry often blurs lines between reality 176 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 2: and perception. How do you maintain that authenticity being an artist, 177 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 2: especially after going on, you know, a reality show, even 178 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 2: for a short stint, but also just living a more 179 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 2: public lifestyle. I'm sure you've experienced either headlines or articles 180 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 2: and things like that. How do you stay true to 181 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 2: yourself and live an authentic life? 182 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:30,960 Speaker 1: I think I recognized a long time ago that I 183 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 1: have a core group of fans that and fans really 184 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: pick up on the little nuances of an artist. When 185 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,200 Speaker 1: they're real fans, they watch just about everything, they consume 186 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 1: just about everything. When you ask about authenticity, I think 187 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: I've always been that way and that is what has 188 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: endeared the fans to me. But my folks family, you know, 189 00:10:56,160 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 1: and they didn't tolerate rude behavior that was growing up. 190 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: You know, you head to your part and and and 191 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:07,599 Speaker 1: so I think that shows and who I am and 192 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: who I've always been. 193 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's awesome. 194 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 2: I can say from personal experience and having friends that 195 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 2: have more public lives, I feel like it can be 196 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 2: so like emotionally damaging when you experience a hardship and 197 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 2: with all the public watching it's it's so much more 198 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 2: complicated than I feel like anybody ever assumes or knows. 199 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 2: And a lot of times you want to defend yourself 200 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 2: or you want to say, hey, there's more to this 201 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 2: than what you guys are discussing online or what you 202 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 2: guys may have seen or heard. But sometimes the best 203 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 2: thing to do is just to, you know, stay in 204 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 2: your lane and stay authentic to yourself and know that 205 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 2: if you've you know, carried yourself and conducted yourself in 206 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 2: a way that you're. 207 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 3: You know, proud of, then that's really all you can do. 208 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 2: And it's it sounds like your fan base has seen 209 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 2: that over the years and really respected that. 210 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:09,439 Speaker 1: I think you're spot on with that. And and I 211 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 1: think it's it's harder and harder, you know, for people 212 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 1: to have any kind of privacy and and but that's 213 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: that's part of the game. I mean, that's that's where 214 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:22,199 Speaker 1: we are. And that's okay. I mean, if you if 215 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:25,959 Speaker 1: you want to be in public life, then you've got 216 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: to be ready for the scrutiny. You've got to be 217 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: ready for people calling you out for your mistakes. And 218 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 1: I think that's I think that's good. You know, I 219 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:39,559 Speaker 1: don't I don't see the bad in that. Uh. I 220 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 1: do love the Internet from the standpoint that we are. 221 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 1: We're able to see you know, raw talent out there 222 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: way more readily. And it's probably always been there, you know, 223 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: we just we just haven't had the platforms. And you know, 224 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: I love all the social media platforms and I love 225 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:02,479 Speaker 1: what they can do for people, you know, exposing greatness, 226 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: and you know that that's that's good for consumers, you know, 227 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: to not just have one place they can go find 228 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 1: something that they relate to, you know, or identify with. 229 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 1: And and I, for one, you know, I've seen a 230 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 1: lot of talent on the internet and just go, wow, man, 231 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 1: this is it's just stacked up, you know. And then 232 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: it's fun too, and it's it's immediate of course, like 233 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:35,199 Speaker 1: anything else, like conversations in a crowd, you know, things 234 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 1: can think can get bad. You know, there can be 235 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 1: bad content, but you got to know how to get 236 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: through that. But for the most part, you know, we're 237 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: all given a certain amount of time to live and 238 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: and and a certain era to live in. And it's 239 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:51,320 Speaker 1: you know, I think the question is what are you 240 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 1: going to do with it? What are you going to 241 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,679 Speaker 1: do with the era that you're that you're living in. 242 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,320 Speaker 1: That's your era, you know, and and what are you 243 00:13:58,320 --> 00:13:59,680 Speaker 1: going to do with that a little bit of time 244 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 1: you have? And that's up to you as well. 245 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, I'm curious. 246 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:09,960 Speaker 2: When you see those people online that are super talented 247 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 2: and you're just blown away and you're like, dang, this 248 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 2: is some person who just had a camera or somebody 249 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 2: who was recording them. What advice would you give to 250 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 2: somebody like that if they're wanting to have a career 251 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 2: in the music industry. 252 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 3: I feel like some being from a. 253 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 2: Small town of small area, this whole world is wild 254 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 2: to me and I didn't even know what was out 255 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 2: there until I was out here, is how I feel sometimes, 256 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 2: And I'm curious, what would you say to somebody who's 257 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 2: trying to break into the music industry who has that 258 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 2: raw talent but they just don't know what to do 259 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 2: or where to be. 260 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: Well, I would say that any industry doesn't matter of it, 261 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 1: but especially if it's in entertainment, and that includes TV, movies, 262 00:14:53,960 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: record labels, or you know, music. Most people had this 263 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: idea that once they get discovered, you know, by one 264 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 1: of these somebody in that industry, that things are going 265 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 1: to be better. You know, that's the that's the instant thought. 266 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: But what they need to be aware of is, first 267 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 1: of all, if someone spots you and thinks you have talent, 268 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: then that's a good thing. It's the start of a conversation. 269 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 1: But it's just like this filter or funnel. Don't be 270 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 1: ready to just sign up with that person. The first 271 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 1: person that saw you is like high school, you know, 272 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: like you're you're in ninth grade, you're a freshman. You're 273 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 1: walking down the hallway and a guy notices you, and 274 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you're gonna be with that guy 275 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 1: four years. And then you know, your senior year, you're going, 276 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you know, Michael was the guy. That's 277 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 1: the guy. I mean, I've always been in love with him, 278 00:15:57,880 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 1: but I went with David, you know, at a moment, 279 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 1: and the world is just like that. It's just like 280 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: high school, you know, and and there's bad principles and 281 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 1: good principles. You know, there's bad teachers and good teachers, 282 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 1: and you really have to take your time with it, 283 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 1: even though you're so excited that someone noticed you. If 284 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: you don't wait, you're most likely going to miss the 285 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 1: bigger or the biggest opportunity that could happen for you. 286 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 1: And waiting is the hardest thing in everything, Waiting Waiting 287 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 1: to you know, to give yourself away, waiting to for 288 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 1: a boyfriend the right one. Waiting it is seriously the 289 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 1: hardest thing on earth to do. And so I would say, 290 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 1: if you're good enough to be spotted by one person 291 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 1: in an industry, you're good enough to be spotted by 292 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 1: the rest of them because they're looking to and you should. 293 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 1: You should not just jump on the first opportunity to 294 00:16:57,960 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 1: hit you. 295 00:16:59,520 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 3: That's good. 296 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 2: So what do you see for yourself professionally and personally 297 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:16,640 Speaker 2: over the next few years? 298 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 3: What is like the five year vision and plan? 299 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 1: Well, you know all those things I just said, I 300 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:26,719 Speaker 1: made every mistake that I just told you, you know, 301 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:29,199 Speaker 1: every single one of them. I made it even in 302 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 1: high school. So so you know, it's it's It's one 303 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:35,640 Speaker 1: thing to be able to have the wisdom to look 304 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 1: back and say it, but I have it from the experience. 305 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 1: You know, if one person hears me about it, break 306 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 1: you know what am I doing from here forward is 307 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 1: now that I've been in this industry for you know, 308 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 1: a couple of decades, I've got I've got a team 309 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 1: of people. And this is the most important thing I 310 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:59,320 Speaker 1: could say to anybody wanting to get in the entertainment business. 311 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:08,880 Speaker 1: You cannot will, not, never succeed on your own. It 312 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 1: is the team that surrounds you. And I've got that team. Now. 313 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: I've got an unbelievable manager. And when I say unbelievable, 314 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 1: I'm not just talking about as a person it's somebody 315 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 1: who understands the inner workings of the industry and knows 316 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 1: how to help guide your career through those gates. And 317 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 1: there it's gated. You know, this is a gated community 318 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 1: and in every possible way. And when you see Landy 319 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:42,879 Speaker 1: Wilson when an Entertainer of the Year, man she is 320 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 1: a phenomenal talent. I mean I was blown away by her. 321 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:52,440 Speaker 1: Does she deserve it? Would she have gotten it if 322 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 1: she didn't have great management or a great label? Not 323 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:59,879 Speaker 1: a chance, not one chance. It's who's in there fighting 324 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,159 Speaker 1: for you. You know, I've got a great publicist in 325 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 1: Zach Farnham, and you know that's why I'm on this 326 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 1: interview with you today. And so it is it's a team, 327 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 1: and it's not just anybody. It's you've got to wait, 328 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 1: seek out and know who can get stuff done and 329 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 1: they have a track record, you know, as the Bible says, 330 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 1: you'll know them by their fruits. The people in the business, 331 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 1: you'll know them by what they've done. And so that's 332 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,679 Speaker 1: that's that's my advice to people. And I'm taking it 333 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 1: myself now, you know. So I think there's a lot 334 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:39,399 Speaker 1: of career left for me. I don't know exactly what 335 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: it tells, but but I think there's some things that 336 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: I have never done that are that are coming up. 337 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 1: I can't say exactly what they are because it's kind 338 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 1: of a secret, but there are some big things coming 339 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 1: that that people will see and go good, gracious. I 340 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:57,160 Speaker 1: didn't expect that, you know, And that's that's always good 341 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: to surprise people if it's if it's a positive. 342 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so awesome. 343 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:05,159 Speaker 2: When you were saying that early reminded me when I 344 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:09,439 Speaker 2: was pursuing something several years ago. Oh, I kind of 345 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,159 Speaker 2: adopted this phrase, and it was if you want to 346 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,679 Speaker 2: go fast, you go alone, but if you want to 347 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 2: go far, you go together. 348 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:17,679 Speaker 3: And I always held on to that because. 349 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 2: It did feel like being patient and waiting and having 350 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,320 Speaker 2: a great team was It was a It was a 351 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:25,919 Speaker 2: hard thing to do because you're collecting different people with 352 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 2: different skill sets and all these different things. But if 353 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 2: you just want to do it yourself, yeah it might 354 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 2: it might happen quicker, but you might not have as 355 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 2: much longevity. And it was it rains so true and 356 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 2: it stayed true. But just hearing you say that, I 357 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 2: was like, oh, I need to think back on that 358 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 2: phrase more often because it got me through some stuff 359 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 2: a few years ago when I was pursuing some passions. 360 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:50,080 Speaker 1: Well, I can tell that your sincerity is real, and 361 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 1: you know, stay true. You know, remember you know how 362 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 1: you grew up, remember your household, no matter, no matter 363 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:01,160 Speaker 1: if there were rough time, are not and hopefully there 364 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,119 Speaker 1: were some rough times, because those are the things that 365 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,639 Speaker 1: help you through life. And you know, it's not the 366 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 1: great times that you learned from, it's just the hard times. 367 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: And you know, I would say that la is probably 368 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: the hardest place in the world to really be. I've 369 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 1: been there a few times and there are very few, 370 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 1: uh sincere people there. You know, New York is so 371 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 1: much different. I mean, you know, to me, New York 372 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: was I was so people go, you like New York City? 373 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 1: I go, I love New York City. I'll tell you why. 374 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 1: People will soon er tell you to kiss off than 375 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: than than to help you there. And you know, they 376 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 1: don't hold a door for anybody to walk through. I mean, 377 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 1: they's just real, I the mean, and nobody is trying 378 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 1: to tell you how great you are, how much they 379 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 1: want to help you, and just be lying to you. Know, 380 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 1: so anyway that that was my perspective of the differences 381 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 1: between the big apple and and the l A. You're 382 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: out there in a din of lines. It's a big arable. 383 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,879 Speaker 2: Well, before we wrap, I wanted to ask you a 384 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:10,160 Speaker 2: few more Bachelor related questions, since I'm sure that people 385 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 2: are curious after filming the show. Did you have anybody 386 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 2: come up to you and recognize you specifically from the 387 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,160 Speaker 2: show and have did you have like a fun fan 388 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:21,680 Speaker 2: encounter that you maybe wouldn't have had if you hadn't 389 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 2: performed on the show. 390 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:27,359 Speaker 1: I did, and that is that is something that is 391 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 1: surprising to me, and that that's how you know that 392 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 1: you should have done it. You know, I didn't even 393 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 1: I ran into probably for at least three or four weeks. 394 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,480 Speaker 1: I would run into people at a restaurant or whatever, 395 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,120 Speaker 1: and they say, you were on a Bachelor and they're 396 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:43,679 Speaker 1: not even a country fan. But you know, I noticed 397 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,439 Speaker 1: the same thing when I started TikTok. You know, I 398 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,920 Speaker 1: was one of the first country artists that started TikTok. 399 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:53,399 Speaker 1: And and there's this. I was in Beaumont, Texas, you 400 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: know where I was, where I was raised, and I 401 00:22:56,080 --> 00:23:00,639 Speaker 1: went in this restaurant and h and this these girls 402 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: walked up to me and they said, you your clear 403 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 1: walker and I go, yeah, yeah, and I said and 404 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 1: they go, well, why are you here? And I go, 405 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 1: what do you mean? Why am I here? You know? 406 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 1: And they go where are you from? I go, I'm 407 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:19,200 Speaker 1: from here. I mean that I'm from the same hometown 408 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 1: that They were not country fans. So I realized that 409 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:28,359 Speaker 1: you know that that that these of these platforms, especially 410 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,879 Speaker 1: like The Bachelor and the Back is what started that 411 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 1: for me. You know, they need to ask the first 412 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 1: time I notice anything like that. But Tess a great question, 413 00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:37,479 Speaker 1: and it's something that I had actually forgotten about, but 414 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 1: it happened in restaurants, you know that I would walk 415 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 1: into people go you're on the Bachelor and be like, yeah. 416 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 3: That is so funny. 417 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 2: I feel like we've done a few of these interviews 418 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,400 Speaker 2: now and it sounds like that's a common thing where 419 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 2: people have is they're a niche of music that they're 420 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,399 Speaker 2: in and they have a really strong fan base, and 421 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:59,199 Speaker 2: they're like, I'm still shocked by how far spread the 422 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 2: Bachelor nache and fan base goes. And I think it's 423 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 2: it's so cool because it brings people together. I'm curious 424 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:12,200 Speaker 2: so Ben ended up picking Courtney Robertson on the show, 425 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 2: and I wasn't. I'm not sure if you watched the 426 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 2: season back or not, but did you have any inklings 427 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:17,119 Speaker 2: about him picking her? 428 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:21,760 Speaker 1: No, it was it was kind of a surprise. Okay, 429 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:25,400 Speaker 1: but but but but no, I didn't have any inklings 430 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 1: about it. You know, those those shows I think are 431 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 1: first of all, there needs to be some kind of 432 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 1: shock factor, you know, in those shows, and and that's 433 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:41,400 Speaker 1: what keeps them interesting. You know, you can't believe someone cheated, 434 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 1: you know, or snuck out they weren't supposed to and 435 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 1: things like that, and that's what keeps us watching because 436 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:50,320 Speaker 1: I think everyone has a certain amount of wickedness in them, 437 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,399 Speaker 1: whether admit it or not yet. And so it's like 438 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:58,400 Speaker 1: when it gets exposed, you know, it's like, oh my gosh, 439 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 1: you know. But not that anything was wicked about Bachelor, 440 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: But I'm just saying that it's you know, I'm intrigued 441 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 1: by I mean, I'm more intrigued by how curious people 442 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,400 Speaker 1: are and how many people watch it. It's just it's insane. 443 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 1: I mean, most most shows do not cannot last you know, 444 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,119 Speaker 1: four or five seasons. I think eight seems to be 445 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 1: a magic number for the big ones. And the fact 446 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: that this has been going for twenty something seasons is 447 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's miraculous. You know. So they're doing 448 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 1: something right there. You know, the format, the ingredients, the 449 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 1: I guess, it's a lot of the raw reality is 450 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 1: what it was what attracts people so much, and you know, 451 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:47,640 Speaker 1: kudos to them, they've done great job. 452 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 3: That's awesome. 453 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,879 Speaker 2: So lastly, we kind of touched on this earlier, but 454 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 2: my last question was what advice would you offer to 455 00:25:56,320 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 2: your younger self as an aspiring musician finding yourself in 456 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 2: situations like navigating fame, relationships and the entertainment industry. 457 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,439 Speaker 1: Most of my advice to my younger self would be 458 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:13,159 Speaker 1: what I laid out earlier, you know, about waiting and 459 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 1: being patient, because when it says good things come to 460 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:23,080 Speaker 1: those who wait, it's really probably the most honest, you know, 461 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,879 Speaker 1: secular proverb I've ever heard in my life. You know 462 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: that that when you wait, something better is going to 463 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 1: come along. I know a lot of times when I've 464 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 1: been offered either tours or or you know, or a 465 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,919 Speaker 1: gig somewhere, and I said no. A lot most of 466 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:43,879 Speaker 1: the time, most of it, something better came along. And 467 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 1: and same way with with with with relationships. You know 468 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:52,400 Speaker 1: when you just when you say no and and you 469 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 1: absolutely wait, I mean like almost every time, something better 470 00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:01,159 Speaker 1: is coming. And so I would say again, you know 471 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 1: that that patience is is the key. Uh. Like I 472 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 1: would have said that to my young self, I'm saying 473 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,160 Speaker 1: it to myself now, you know. And and like I said, 474 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 1: I made all of those faults, all those fallacies that happened, 475 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 1: and I got myself in a lot of trouble, you know, uh, 476 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,680 Speaker 1: with the wrong people and and I'm talking about in 477 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 1: business and and now now it's it's it's really in 478 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:28,920 Speaker 1: such a great place that now now I'm just telling myself, 479 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 1: you know, hold the line and have the fortitude to 480 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 1: go with the team you have. They're the right ones. 481 00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 1: You've got the right people, and great things are going 482 00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 1: to happen. So that that's exactly where I am now. 483 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:42,320 Speaker 1: But just it just takes a while. 484 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,160 Speaker 3: That's awesome. Well, thank you so much for joining us today. 485 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,280 Speaker 2: We appreciate you taking time to chat and give us 486 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 2: the inside scoop on your life and your experience on the. 487 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,440 Speaker 3: Bachelor and all the good stuff. We got to chat about. 488 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:58,880 Speaker 1: So thank you well, Susan, You've been absolutely a joy 489 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 1: to do the interview with and anytime you anytime you 490 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,120 Speaker 1: want a song or will be there. 491 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 3: Oh, thank you so much. 492 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:12,239 Speaker 2: M HM.