WEBVTT - Bachelor Party 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.280 Hell I Sucked at Dating with Me Youngler and Dared 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:11.799 Haven and I heart radio podcast What's going On, Sucky Daters? 0:00:11.880 --> 0:00:15.240 Welcome to an all new episode of Help I Sucked 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:17.600 at Dating and I just want to be the first 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:21.280 to apologize on both of our behalfs for getting this 0:00:21.320 --> 0:00:24.239 episode out a little later than we usually do. Oh 0:00:24.320 --> 0:00:29.080 my gosh, I'm getting a phone call. Hopefully it's somebody 0:00:29.520 --> 0:00:32.159 at least no, but it was some random New Jersey number. 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:36.680 It's somebody who wants to extend your car warranty. Bastards. 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:38.919 I get so upset with those guys, I really call. 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:41.199 I yelled back at them, so preditory. Anyways, have you 0:00:41.240 --> 0:00:43.920 ever fought? Have you ever fell for one? I felt 0:00:43.960 --> 0:00:48.279 for a cruise line one time. Somebody called me and 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:50.519 said that this is a couple of years ago. This 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:52.440 is when I was, I mean still very naive. But 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:54.280 I got a phone call and it said you want 0:00:54.280 --> 0:00:57.360 to prize for a cruise line. I said okay, and 0:00:57.400 --> 0:01:00.400 then they were going through what I won. I said, okay, 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:01.800 what do I have to do? And they're like, we 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:04.600 we just need a credit card on file and I said, 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:08.280 never mind, no, thank you, But for a good two minutes. 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:09.640 I was like, I think I'm about to go on 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:12.679 to cruise. He didn't really fall for it, though, which 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:18.000 is good, thank god. Anyhow, continue your story. Yeah, oh yeah, 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:20.160 why are our our episodes coming out a little bit late? 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:23.320 Just wanted to apologize for that. The reason being we 0:01:23.319 --> 0:01:26.360 were out celebrating our friend Ben who is obviously getting 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:30.200 married to Jess and we just couldn't record last week 0:01:30.280 --> 0:01:31.920 and so this is kind of the earliest time we're 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:36.200 able to do that. Um. Yeah, and that's about it. Yeah, 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:39.319 we're down in Cabo for Ben higgins bachelor party. We 0:01:39.319 --> 0:01:41.119 had a beautiful villa down there, was my first time 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:45.720 down there. Uh, it's awesome, obviously, that is that the 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:49.240 dumbest thing I've ever said. Cabo is awesome. It's like 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:54.800 I will I don't know, I feel we were talking 0:01:54.800 --> 0:01:57.880 about Ben's bachelor party, like are we should we talk 0:01:57.960 --> 0:01:59.720 about it? Is it like kind of like his thing? 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:01.960 So we're just gonna be like, yeah, we were there, 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:03.640 and then that's kind of the end of it. Well, 0:02:03.720 --> 0:02:07.559 do nothing crazy happened. It's not like we're exposing people. 0:02:07.680 --> 0:02:10.000 I mean, I know, but it's like there were I 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:11.440 won't say who it is, but there were a few 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:14.520 single guys there. Most of us were in relationships. You me, 0:02:14.840 --> 0:02:19.040 Nick Wells, a bunch of Ben's friends, you know, they're 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:22.000 all in relationships. A few single guys, and a few 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:24.799 single guys may have brought home a few single ladies 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:29.200 on night one. I was not there for it. Of course, 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:30.800 we didn't get anything too rowdy. But I guess my 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:33.720 point is, even you know, rowdy or not rowdy, it 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:35.800 just doesn't really feel like it's our thing to talk about. 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:37.120 But I mean, I guess we were there. It's just 0:02:37.160 --> 0:02:39.280 it's just like it's like ben Special weekend, and then 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:41.440 here we are talking about it on a podcast. Just 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:44.880 feels kind of kind of weird, don't you think? You know, 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:48.000 am I overthinking that? I think if something happened, I'd 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:50.120 be like, shut up, Dean, don't say anything more. But 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:51.920 seeing how I mean, I was only so you were 0:02:51.960 --> 0:02:53.600 there for four nights. I was there for two nights. 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:56.239 I left a little bit earlier early because moved into 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:58.040 my apartment and I still had some final projects to 0:02:58.040 --> 0:02:59.919 finish up in school, so I was a little over 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:01.480 well on the but and I still really wanted to go, 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:03.919 So I went on Thursday. I went Wednesday Thursday, and 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:06.040 they left Friday, and then you left Sunday. I mean 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:08.799 we went golfing. You shot in eighty five, which is nice. 0:03:08.919 --> 0:03:12.160 I sucked, ass. It was god such because it was 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:14.280 like a four and a half hour I golfed with Blake. 0:03:14.800 --> 0:03:17.720 Blake sucked. I sucked, Our group sucked. But it was 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:20.880 still a fun day. There was a cart girl that 0:03:20.919 --> 0:03:23.560 was going around and they were like, let's take tequila shots. 0:03:23.560 --> 0:03:26.359 And I, you know, as a as a guy, I 0:03:26.400 --> 0:03:28.200 guess the human being in general, you wanna, you wanna, 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:29.880 you wanna hang out right, you want to blend in. 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:31.239 And you were like, hey, if you're taking a shot, 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:33.320 I'm gonna take a shot. But in that moment, they're 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:35.240 gonna take shots tequila. It was like two o'clock in 0:03:35.240 --> 0:03:37.480 the afternoon. I was like, I just don't want a 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:40.120 shot of tequila. What I really want is I want 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:43.920 a Voca pineapple. So I ordered a Voca pine apple 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:46.320 while the other three gentlemen ordered three shots of tequilas. 0:03:46.320 --> 0:03:48.080 And when they took their shot at tequila, I took 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:50.680 a sip of my nice and fruity and very refreshing 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:53.320 Voca pine apple, And it was a moment where I 0:03:53.320 --> 0:03:56.600 felt very secure in myself because I realized, Hey, I 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:59.360 ordered what I wanted. I didn't succumb to the pressure 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:01.280 because a lot of times you're like, oh, if you're 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:03.520 taking a shot, I'm taking a shot, and then most 0:04:03.560 --> 0:04:06.400 of the times I smell tequila and I immediately want 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:08.800 to throw up. Anyway, So why am I doing this 0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:10.760 when I don't want to get drunk. I don't enjoy 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:17.560 the taste. Ye Anyway, that's my spiel. Uh, what I 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:19.840 started doing whenever I am golfing and people want to 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:23.120 take shots on the golf course. The nice thing is 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:25.919 you're outside, and the thing about when you take a 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:29.640 shot is you're looking up at the sky and you're 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:31.599 like throwing your head back, so you probably got like 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:34.120 three seconds of blurred vision. You're not really seeing what's 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:36.560 going on. And so what I've always just done is 0:04:36.640 --> 0:04:38.440 I or what I've not always done, but I've started 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:40.760 doing over the past like four or five months, is 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:43.840 I'll take the shot, or I'll say that I'm taking 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:46.520 the shot, and as everyone throws the shot back, I 0:04:46.640 --> 0:04:49.520 just tossed it over my shoulder. I've done. It's probably 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:52.480 a good ten times and no one that. There was 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:54.000 one time I got busted for it, but it was 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:56.640 only because the guy in the group that didn't take 0:04:56.680 --> 0:04:58.400 a shot I saw me do it, and he didn't 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:00.520 say anything. He just looked at me and laughed. So 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:03.400 if you ever find yourself in that situation, because I agree, 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:04.599 it's like you don't want to be the only guy 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:06.600 that's not taking shots. But then it's like, I just 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:09.160 don't want to be getting wasted on a Wednesday at 0:05:09.160 --> 0:05:11.760 three pm, you know, like it doesn't it's not as 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:13.640 appealing to me as it used to be. But so 0:05:13.720 --> 0:05:15.520 that's that's kind of my method is just toss it 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:18.120 behind your head real quick and then make your grimacing 0:05:18.160 --> 0:05:21.080 face like, oh that was that was really hard to swallow, right, guys, 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:24.600 those good guys. Huh, you're feeling it. I'm feeling it. 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:28.400 Let's get let's shoot some golf balls. Now, let's do it. Boys. 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:32.279 I know it is funny, how like camaraderite amongst men 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:36.000 is to drink and then Yeah, So we played a 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:39.120 lot of golf with Jared on Thursday Friday. You went 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:41.960 on a boat, didn't you were left? I left beforehand. 0:05:41.960 --> 0:05:44.240 My flight left pretty early. But they all went on 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:46.840 a boat. You didn't go on the boat. No, I, 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:49.360 so Wells was also there. Wells and I golfed every 0:05:49.400 --> 0:05:51.400 single day. We golf on Thursday with the big group, 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:55.159 Friday just us two, and then Saturday with two of 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:57.720 the other Ben's other buddies. So we were it was 0:05:57.760 --> 0:06:00.839 a golf trip for me and well Less. I'm good. 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:02.960 That's good. I'm glad you were. You went and hung 0:06:02.960 --> 0:06:05.640 out with Ben at Ben's bachelor party. Okay, but let's 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:08.000 say this, who's the bigger asshole here? The guys that 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:09.760 go to play golf every single day or the guy 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:12.200 that leaves two thirds of a third of the way 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:14.840 in the bachelor party. I'd argue you were the big 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:17.200 asshole because Ben knew that I was only gonna be 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:19.320 there for two nights, where you were like, oh, we're 0:06:19.320 --> 0:06:20.839 gonna be there for four nights, and then while you 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:22.360 were there, you're like, well, I'm not going to hang 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:24.280 out Ben at least my two nights. I was like, well, 0:06:24.320 --> 0:06:27.080 I'm here for Ben. I'm gonna hang out with Ben. Yeah, 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:28.680 I mean, I guess. So I still hung out with 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:30.800 Ben every day after three pm, though, But where were 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:33.240 you you were in Rhode Island right in your research paper, 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:36.080 right my research paper, and just putting together my Tom 0:06:36.120 --> 0:06:39.720 Brady Shrine, which is coming along quite nicely and I'm 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:42.640 very proud of it. There may be Tampa Bay Buccaneers 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:47.000 bobblehead Tom Brady. I'm sure that red and black, and 0:06:47.080 --> 0:06:49.840 it throws off the whole blue and red color scheme 0:06:49.920 --> 0:06:51.760 now at all, it all blends in. Thank god he 0:06:51.760 --> 0:06:53.680 didn't go to the Cowboys, now that would not have 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:57.320 messed with my color scheme. But like Dean was saying, 0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:59.880 we do have a great episode. We have Kate harl 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:03.520 Sin coming on now. Kate is a TikTok user and 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:08.520 she's made recent news because she is the girl that 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:12.480 posted the video of her face timing with Matthew Perry. 0:07:12.640 --> 0:07:16.080 Matthew Perry is Chandler from Friends. He's a little bit older. 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:18.320 He's in his fifties. I think he's fifty one. And 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:20.960 then he matched with Kate who's nineteen years old on 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:25.720 Riya and they I'm assuming exchanged phone numbers which is 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:30.200 how they ended up face timing. And then she posted 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:35.840 a video of her face timing with matt Few on 0:07:36.080 --> 0:07:40.440 her TikTok, and it blew up because people were saying 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:44.040 that it was creepy for Matthew Perry to be matching 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:47.920 with a nineteen year old on RYA. I don't know. 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:50.200 I have thought about this. I'm excited to talk to 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:53.480 Kate about her experience. She has since been removed from 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:57.600 the dating app Riya because it said that she violated 0:07:57.680 --> 0:07:59.840 their terms of agreement, which is to say that you're 0:07:59.840 --> 0:08:02.920 not supposed to, you know, say who or who isn't 0:08:02.920 --> 0:08:04.800 on Riot because it's like a very. I mean, we 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:06.800 talked about right before on this podcast. It's like a very. 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:09.920 It's it's meant to be looked at as like an 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:13.640 elite dating app with celebrities, and you're nobody wants to 0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:16.760 be exposed, whether you're on Ryan or not. I don't know. 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:19.240 It's a whole thing. You gotta get approved to get 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:22.360 on Riya. It's a whole thing. Anyway, Kate will be 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:26.680 coming up very soon. UM, I don't know. Do you 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:29.760 have any thoughts about that, Dean, about what's your instinct? 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:32.920 Which side are you on Kate's side or matt perry 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.360 side Before we have her to come on, I don't 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:38.480 want to say I'm I'm onn sides here, okay, I 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:43.760 have multiple thoughts, uh, and I have differing opinions about it. 0:08:43.960 --> 0:08:47.160 I think I'd like to talk to her about why 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:55.200 if she felt creeped out, why she uh, why she 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:57.360 matched with him, like, because you know, obviously with the 0:08:57.400 --> 0:08:59.520 match we I'm sure we've all been done dating apps, 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:01.920 like you say you like someone and then they like 0:09:02.080 --> 0:09:05.559 you and then you can start talking. So I'm curious 0:09:05.640 --> 0:09:07.440 why she did that. She said that she wanted to 0:09:07.520 --> 0:09:11.360 expose older men in Hollywood take advantage of younger women 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:17.800 on dating apps. Um m hmmm. I don't know. I 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:21.079 mean if it was okay, I didn't watch the whole FaceTime, 0:09:21.080 --> 0:09:23.720 but watched like a second a second of it, and 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:25.840 it seemed like they were just playing like a game 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:29.720 like flirting. I don't know, because the thing is, like, 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:32.720 I know, like the first thing that came to my 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:35.040 mind was Dane Cook. I don't know if you know 0:09:35.040 --> 0:09:39.600 who Dane Cook is, obviously the comedian Dane Cook. Let 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:42.760 me look up his age right now. Because Dane Cook 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:46.360 was dating a twenty year old a nineteen year old, 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:49.400 I believe, um, and then he got some flak for 0:09:49.440 --> 0:09:52.240 that so he's forty nine, and he was probably like 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:56.200 forty eight when he started dating his girlfriend, and I 0:09:56.280 --> 0:09:59.520 believe she was nineteen when they started dating, and I 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:03.520 think the is like a twenty year difference, um, and 0:10:03.600 --> 0:10:07.040 they seem to be happily in love. And then the 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:12.480 other one, obviously that I thought of, was Nick. I mean, hey, 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:16.640 we all know Nick's you know, Nick looks twenty seven. 0:10:16.720 --> 0:10:19.360 The guy looks younger than us, I mean, he is. 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:22.319 Everybody talks about Tom Brady and how that dude doesn't age. 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:26.600 Nick vill ages backwards. That guy looks younger today than 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:28.400 he did on Andy Door from in season. He is 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:32.240 a specimen. So I'm really buttering up Nick before I 0:10:32.280 --> 0:10:34.599 say that he's you know, we all know he's forty. 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:38.720 And then Natalie's girlfriend, who's amazing, who we love. I 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:42.359 I think she's mature for age. She's great. She's twenty three, 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:47.520 I believe. So you know, what would we say about 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:51.320 that is that well, I mean, the obvious thing is 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:55.960 fifty days nineteen is a much bigger gap than totally agree. 0:10:57.200 --> 0:10:58.800 I don't know, I don't know. I think it's even 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:00.319 just listening to you talked about it kind put my 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:01.840 stance on a little bit because I was like kind 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.760 of Matthew Perry side a little bit in this in 0:11:04.800 --> 0:11:10.000 this case where it's like, yeah, yeah, it's probably a 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:13.480 little too big of an age gap to uh to bridge, 0:11:13.600 --> 0:11:15.360 Like you know, you fifty, you should probably getting a 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:17.040 look close to your age, especially my team, Like if 0:11:17.040 --> 0:11:19.000 you're not over twenty one, if you can't bring a 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:21.320 girl on a date to a bar art, that probably 0:11:21.360 --> 0:11:23.800 in and of itself is enough of a sign that 0:11:23.800 --> 0:11:26.280 you should be dating this person. But also, like you said, 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:29.360 like this girl had her age filter as high as 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:31.880 you know, however it was for it to be to 0:11:32.240 --> 0:11:35.520 hit Matt Perry. So it's like, you know, if you're 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:38.000 a twenty one year old girl and you just like 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:41.040 year old man, that's kind of just what you like. 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:43.240 And so it's that's like that's why the age filters 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:44.800 on there, so you can like do that. And so 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:46.280 if you're a fifth year old guy and you see 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:48.600 this pretty twenty year old girl, I want to talk 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:50.000 to you like, yeah, I guess you could get a 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:54.959 little excited. I don't know, I I don't know. Um, yeah, 0:11:55.000 --> 0:11:57.280 I hear you, buddy, We both don't now. But I'm 0:11:57.280 --> 0:11:59.480 excited to talk to Kate about it, and and kind 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:01.520 of died more into that, but before she comes on. 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:04.280 Another guy that kind of got called out on a 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:09.320 dating app was Ben Affleck who sent a video. I 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:11.360 don't know if you've seen this video, but I forget 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:13.360 what dating app it was. I think it might have 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:18.680 been Riya as well. Um but he somebody unmatched with 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:21.520 him on Riya that he was talking to and he 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:25.040 I think she unmatched with him because she didn't believe 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:28.440 that it was actually Ben Affleck. Look at that. I 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:31.400 just got a phone call to potential spam extended warranty. 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:35.320 These people just do not give up. Um so is 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:38.840 this is this girl? Navine? J Navine J Navine? I 0:12:38.840 --> 0:12:44.080 believe it is? And um so Affleck? Okay, So ben 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:48.680 Affleck found her on Instagram after she unmatched with him. 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:53.880 I'm assuming on Riya. Uh and uh, he sent a 0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:58.480 video he said, Navine, why did you unmatch me? It's 0:12:58.640 --> 0:13:01.880 me to prove that he was actually Ben Affleck talking 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:05.960 to her. Uh. And people again, there's people on both sides, 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:08.240 people saying that she shouldn't have posted about it. It 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:11.680 was a private video that was you know, innocent, enough, 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:13.680 and then other people saying it was creepy because Ben's 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:16.840 an older guy. She I think again is nineteen or twenty. 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:19.240 Uh So anyway, that's why it's really in the news 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:23.000 right now. But Ben Affleck also speaking about him, is 0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:26.120 rumored to be back with Jennifer Lopez. If you heard 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:30.840 about this celebrity dating news I'm on this. Have you 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:32.959 heard about it? Well? Back to back to the Ben 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:35.080 Affleck dating or pat thing. I think that one is 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:36.800 way less currenty than the Matt Perry one. He was 0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:39.480 just like, I don't know, I read I saw the 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:42.679 headline and it was like Ben Affleck sends really creepy 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:45.480 video to girl that blocked him on dating appen And 0:13:45.520 --> 0:13:47.720 it's like, well, it's not really as bad as they 0:13:47.800 --> 0:13:50.080 make it seem. It's just like it kind of like 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:52.000 kind of goofy and silly in my opinion for Ben 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:54.840 to do that the video. Yeah, I think he was 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:56.640 trying to be funny in the video because it's like 0:13:56.679 --> 0:13:58.960 a it's like a close up of him and he's 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:04.760 like it's me. I mean, I don't know, but who 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:09.480 the hell huge Ben Affleck fan, Boston guy? You know, 0:14:09.679 --> 0:14:13.120 Ben Matt Mock you know, I support the local guys. 0:14:13.520 --> 0:14:16.640 They were for the socks. But Ben Affleck also in 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:22.080 the news because he's rumored to be back with Jennifer Lopez. Um, 0:14:22.280 --> 0:14:25.240 what was their name again? What the hell was their 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:29.520 dating name? Oh? Ben Bennefer So that was my god, 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:32.440 fifteen years ago. This was before he dated Jennifer Gardner 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:33.920 and then they got married and had kids, and now 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:36.680 they're obviously divorced. And now he's back with j Lo apparently, 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:40.680 which I am stoked about. Bring me some benefit. You know, 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:44.920 she just ended up breaking off the engagement with Alex Rodriguez, 0:14:44.960 --> 0:14:48.200 who like whatever Yankee could care less about. And then 0:14:48.520 --> 0:14:52.000 you know, Ben Affleck because I love the diconomy before 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:55.600 between them, like j Lo is this stunning, freaking badass 0:14:55.680 --> 0:15:01.120 woman who's just like, you know, she's she's awesome. And 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:04.640 then Ben Afflecks like kind of like disheveled Boston guy 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:08.400 who's good looking but like, I don't know, I'm in it. 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:11.920 Who has had a better acting career in your opinion, 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:15.200 Ben Affleck or Matthew Perry, Who would you consider more successful? 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:18.480 So it's not even close. It's Affleck, Affleck and then 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:21.720 and now through Alex Rodriguez into the mix two Ben 0:15:21.720 --> 0:15:24.560 Affleck or A Rod, I would I would say, I 0:15:24.560 --> 0:15:28.320 would say Ben Affleck. Removing bias from this, Yeah, I'm 0:15:28.360 --> 0:15:31.200 there's no bio. Honestly, I'm removing my bias. I think 0:15:31.240 --> 0:15:33.760 Ben Affleck is a bigger star than Alex Rodriguez, and 0:15:33.760 --> 0:15:36.720 it has probably have had more successful career. Like A 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:39.760 Rod was obviously an incredible baseball player who ended up 0:15:39.760 --> 0:15:42.600 winning one World Series with the New York Yankees, but 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:44.840 it wasn't like, you know, he got a lot of 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:47.640 flak for not being clutched in the playoffs and and 0:15:47.800 --> 0:15:49.880 you know, not being on a lot of winning teams, 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:52.280 and he was just kind of an individual player and 0:15:52.280 --> 0:15:55.280 and uh, you know he's he's he's had a good 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:59.120 post career, you know, dating Jennifer Lopez and being a commentator. 0:15:59.160 --> 0:16:01.440 But Ben, I mean you think about Ben Affleck starting 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:03.200 off of Goodwill hunting. That was in the mid nine 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:06.560 nineties and he's been around ever since I was twenty 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:10.680 five years ago. He's won an Academy Award. He said this, 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:13.080 I agree. I would have agreed with you if the 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:16.280 New Batman never came out. Dude, he is the best 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:20.520 batman on screen. Ever, I will this is the hill 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:23.160 I will die on. Ben Affleck is my favorite Batman 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:25.560 of all time. I love Michael Keaton, I really like 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:28.240 Christian Bale. I think Robert Pattinson is going to crush 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:31.480 the role. But as of right now, my opinion, Ben 0:16:31.520 --> 0:16:34.920 Affleck is the best Batman that's ever graced our cinematic 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:38.200 theaters because was he in the best Batman movie? No, 0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:39.920 The Dark Knight is the best Batman movie. But that 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:43.560 doesn't mean that he's not the best Batman. That's my case. Well, 0:16:43.680 --> 0:16:45.800 you didn't really make a case, though, you just kind 0:16:45.800 --> 0:16:48.680 of said. You just said things that were true. I 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:50.400 don't want to go too far into it. But one 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:52.200 of the reasons why I love Ben Affleck is Batman 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:55.440 is because I love the idea of an older, damaged 0:16:55.520 --> 0:16:58.400 Batman who's been around for like twenty years and has 0:16:58.480 --> 0:17:01.480 seen some serious stuff, you know, like even the line 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:03.880 and Batman v. Superman. He's like, twenty years of Gotham, 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:06.160 how many good guys are left? And it's so true, 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:09.640 right because he's just like seeing so many people backstab 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:12.359 him or kill people, and he's like he's kind of 0:17:12.400 --> 0:17:14.520 messed up in the head. As you would be if 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:17.040 you dressed up like a bat and fought villains at night. 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:19.439 And I love that, and I love how big he 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:21.679 is in that role. Like he's just like this brooding 0:17:22.200 --> 0:17:25.040 human being and he's a little bit darker and damaged 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:27.680 and like he's able to like just like break bones 0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:30.159 with his hands, and like that is batman. That is 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:34.720 Batman right there. Any that's he definitely is a little 0:17:34.720 --> 0:17:38.240 bit darker of a batman than Christian Bale. And Belle's 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:40.760 voice gone on my nerves a little bit. Oh no, 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:45.639 we're hockey bats. I thought he was good, but he's good. 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:49.600 I didn'tay he was bad. But my opinion, yes, my 0:17:49.680 --> 0:17:54.479 humble opinion. Wow, nobody's listening anymore at this point. Right 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:56.600 before we get the break, we want to cover one 0:17:56.640 --> 0:17:59.560 more big. There's a lot of like these crazy dating headlines. 0:17:59.600 --> 0:18:00.879 I feel like that that have been kind of going 0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:03.520 around lately. So as I'm sure most of you already know, 0:18:03.560 --> 0:18:09.080 Bill Gates and his wife broke up, but oh right 0:18:09.119 --> 0:18:11.760 after the marriage. Okay, so Bill Gates took getaways with 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:15.320 his ex girlfriend after his marriage to Melinda, which they 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:16.840 must be. They must have been broken up for a 0:18:16.840 --> 0:18:20.160 while because yeah, they were married for a while. I'm 0:18:20.160 --> 0:18:22.320 sure they've been kind of on the rocks for quite 0:18:22.359 --> 0:18:25.680 a long time and have seen this coming. What's what's 0:18:25.720 --> 0:18:28.320 your take on the Bill Gates Melinda Gates thing. I mean, 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:29.840 I really don't have a take on it. I mean, 0:18:29.880 --> 0:18:32.680 they're just they're getting divorced. I'm surprised this is such 0:18:32.760 --> 0:18:35.160 big news, I guess because they've been marriage for someone 0:18:35.280 --> 0:18:37.760 and Bill Gates's such a big name. But it's like 0:18:38.240 --> 0:18:40.760 it's sad. Anytime you see you a divorce, it's sad. 0:18:40.840 --> 0:18:44.400 But I guess I have really no investment in level 0:18:44.440 --> 0:18:48.679 in Bill Gates, right, I'm always surprised to see This 0:18:48.760 --> 0:18:51.960 might sound bad, but I'm always surprised to see people 0:18:51.960 --> 0:18:54.040 of a certain age get divorced. You know, like Bill 0:18:54.080 --> 0:18:58.480 Gates was what sixties seventies something years old and yes, 0:18:58.480 --> 0:19:00.159 see the one of the wealthiest men in the in 0:19:00.160 --> 0:19:02.720 the world, and me Linda obviously around the same age 0:19:02.720 --> 0:19:06.240 as well. It's just like once you're single at that age, 0:19:07.480 --> 0:19:08.920 you know, it's just it's a little harder to grant 0:19:08.920 --> 0:19:11.080 to the dating pool, especially they were married for twenty 0:19:11.119 --> 0:19:14.160 seven years. Like he felt like you're getting divorced after 0:19:14.359 --> 0:19:16.040 a year and a half of marriage, because you guys 0:19:16.040 --> 0:19:19.040 see each other's guts. Like you guys, they've been married, 0:19:19.280 --> 0:19:21.680 they've been together longer than I've been probably, I know, 0:19:21.880 --> 0:19:24.240 like I think about that too. How do you change 0:19:24.280 --> 0:19:26.959 your life, you know, if you're with someone for forty 0:19:27.040 --> 0:19:29.240 years or however long Bill Gates and me Linda were together. 0:19:29.320 --> 0:19:33.480 Like I mean, like you said, I've been with Ashley 0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:35.439 for I've only known her for five years, and I 0:19:35.480 --> 0:19:40.000 can't like I can't imagine my life without her, even 0:19:40.000 --> 0:19:42.840 in the bad times. So I mean the idea of 0:19:43.000 --> 0:19:45.639 just you know, saying, Okay, you know we're gonna we're 0:19:45.680 --> 0:19:48.200 gonna divorce in our lives are drastically going to change 0:19:48.240 --> 0:19:52.720 after being together for forty years, obviously, you know it's 0:19:52.880 --> 0:19:56.040 it went south, and I wish the two of them happiness. 0:19:56.080 --> 0:19:57.520