WEBVTT - Second Date Update: A Picture Says A Thousand Icks 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:01.800 All right, we got a brand new Second Date podcast 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:03.960 for you today to start your weekend. Thank you so 0:00:04.200 --> 0:00:07.160 much for being here. Please like, subscribe, rate, do all 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:07.720 the things. 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:11.160 And today, I really feel is a lesson in how 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:13.520 some people don't realize they're being weird. 0:00:13.880 --> 0:00:15.000 Yeah for sure. 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:17.720 Yeah, and then what you do with that realization afterwards. 0:00:18.480 --> 0:00:20.560 So, but before we get into the new Second Date, 0:00:20.600 --> 0:00:22.439 what's our favorite comment of the day, alexis who I 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:24.880 saw them from Sampson, who said, I love how Jeff 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:27.920 stands on business. Nothing throws him off from the mission, 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:29.560 regardless of the situation. 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:32.720 Get to ask them for another date, and he surely 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:33.120 does that. 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:36.120 Well, sometimes we get to the end of the day 0:00:36.120 --> 0:00:37.640 and I'm like, why are you asking? 0:00:37.840 --> 0:00:40.159 It is so obvious that they either have to know. 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:41.280 I know why. 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:43.920 Our producer told him when he started the main host gig, 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:45.839 like you have to always ask you the point of 0:00:45.840 --> 0:00:46.319 the whole thing. 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:48.920 He took that so literally literally. It's like a lot 0:00:48.920 --> 0:00:51.839 of him. Yeah, we get in Jeff, let him leave 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:54.959 them alone. Hold on, before I know he burned your 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:57.960 house down. I know, literally, it's not a lie. 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:00.400 All right, let's get to this second date. Back in 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:03.040 Joy and thanks for being here. It's fricking Jeffrey in 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:03.440 the morning. 0:01:04.400 --> 0:01:05.640 Second date up dates. 0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:11.679 Sometimes you can tell right away if you're romantically compatible 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:17.679 with a person just by how they order at a restaurant. 0:01:17.240 --> 0:01:20.160 At Suddenly you're talking Jose's love language. 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:20.920 I know, Jose. 0:01:22.080 --> 0:01:25.920 Like, for example, if you're at a fancy steakhouse and 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:29.480 they say, yeah, I'll get a side of onion petals, 0:01:29.560 --> 0:01:32.800 no sauce, and a wedge salad as my Maine, but 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:37.200 with no bacon, no blue cheese. Can I sub the 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:42.440 croutons for keen wafflakes instead? I'm like, uh, can we 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:46.600 go ring shopping right now? Because that's the high maintenance 0:01:46.720 --> 0:01:49.480 dream girl I've always needed in my life. 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:51.840 I mean, if you want super hot, that's what you 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:54.440 have to put up with. Yeah, well they have to 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:55.400 make sacrifice. 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:57.320 They can have a couple of bites exactly. 0:01:57.560 --> 0:02:01.080 That's how our listener Andy says he knew his date 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:01.960 was just. 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:03.440 The right girl for him. 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:06.320 Oh really, we'll learn more about it in a second, 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:08.320 But first Andy, welcome to the show Man. 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:10.680 How you doing, Hey, guys, thanks for having me. 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:11.919 Man, God, any time. 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:15.240 We open these Andy talking about food, I'm immediately hungry. 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:19.120 I absolutely want to know what was ordered and what restaurant, well, 0:02:19.120 --> 0:02:21.080 every food related item. 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:23.359 We'll get to all that stuff in just a second. First, 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:25.640 let's start with the name of this person, this girl 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:26.000 you met. 0:02:26.000 --> 0:02:27.079 What's she all about? 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:30.920 Well, her name is Carla, Okay, and she's awesome. But 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:33.320 I've been recently even trying to kind of get out 0:02:33.320 --> 0:02:35.520 on dating seeing a little bit more okay, because i 0:02:35.560 --> 0:02:37.000 was out of the market for a while and now 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:39.000 I'm back in and trying to get the lay of 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:39.400 the land. 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:40.200 Okay. 0:02:40.800 --> 0:02:43.239 One thing that I've noticed is women these days, they're 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:47.320 so particular on their meals. I'm a laid back kind 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:49.800 of guy, and it's like it's super annoying when they're like, 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:53.519 oh this and not that, Like just get some fish. 0:02:54.440 --> 0:02:56.720 Look, people do low car but it's like, hey, no, rise, 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:59.000 I need ve Jesus at adjustment. 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:02.600 Like people are just more food conscious over both genders. 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:06.120 It sounds like you're pretty tired of that. Did that 0:03:06.280 --> 0:03:08.200 happen on your date with Carla? 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:13.919 That's the thing, not at all, That's all she had 0:03:13.960 --> 0:03:14.360 to do. 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:17.160 She's like, I'll take the blank and you were like, 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:18.720 I love you. 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:21.120 Is that accurate? 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:21.440 Yeah? 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:25.320 It go. She was a breath of fresh air, very easygoing. 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:27.680 We went to a Mexican restaurant and all she did 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:30.280 was she just ordered the Sashidas was. 0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:31.640 Just like the chicken. 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:33.799 Well, I mean, the fatas are the ones that you 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:37.080 can put together yourself. You don't even have to ask 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:38.320 them for substitution. 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:40.240 You have to choose though, chicken or bee. 0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:45.200 So I mean already, like, as soon as she orders, 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:47.320 does your whole mood change? 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:50.000 And I was like totally under her and I was like, oh, 0:03:50.200 --> 0:03:51.600 moving with me mouth. 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:55.240 That's awesome, dude. 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:58.720 Did you tell her about your experiences and how refreshing 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:00.400 it was to see her order like that? 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:04.040 After? Yes, I don't want to preampibly warn her so 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:05.920 lest she gets all nervous when she's ordering her food. 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:09.600 But yeah, yeah, all of that sounds great. You got 0:04:09.600 --> 0:04:11.920 the green flag with the food order. Tell us what 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:14.800 about anything else that stood out on the date with Carla? 0:04:15.400 --> 0:04:17.839 Oh? I mean she's cute. She has a great personality, 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:20.520 and when she spoke about things, she would literally light up. 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:22.760 Like one of the questions I asked her, I was like, 0:04:22.760 --> 0:04:24.960 do you think your cat actually likes you? Or just 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:25.680 putting up with you? 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:29.600 I like that question what she say? 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:32.479 She explained like how they were like best friends. But 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:34.160 it wasn't like in a corny way, it was in 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:36.960 a very great energy kind of way. Just a pause. 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:40.840 Asking someone about their pets is a good move always. 0:04:41.120 --> 0:04:44.600 Okay, that personally lost me for dating Carla, but I'm 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:47.520 glad that you and her on the same page. You 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:52.320 want high maintenance and pet yes, very low negative energy. 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:55.560 If you're just yeah, we'll get zero. 0:04:55.760 --> 0:04:57.680 I think that what's sweet is that she lit up 0:04:57.680 --> 0:05:00.200 about her cat, and you are literally lighting up up 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:01.640 talking about her. 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.080 Sounds so excited. 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:05.200 How'd you mess it up? 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:05.600 Like? 0:05:05.640 --> 0:05:07.160 What did you do? How did the rest of the 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:07.560 dinner go? 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:09.680 So the rest of the dinner was great. We hung 0:05:09.720 --> 0:05:11.800 out way longer than we should have been the dinner table, 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:13.720 and then we decided we didn't want the night to end, 0:05:13.760 --> 0:05:16.479 so we ended up kind of going back to my place. 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:18.320 We opened up a bottle of wine and we talked 0:05:18.360 --> 0:05:21.359 some more. We we had more conversations, like one of 0:05:21.360 --> 0:05:23.360 them was like about if you want to delete one 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:25.839 app forever, what would it be? My answer was TikTok, 0:05:26.040 --> 0:05:27.640 and she was like, no, I want to believe Venmo 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:29.520 so I'd never have to pay for anything again. 0:05:29.760 --> 0:05:33.000 Okay, and she's funny dude. 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:39.080 Okay, now I'm coming back around on yeah, okay. 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:41.000 So how did you and Carla leave it that night? 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:42.640 I mean, I didn't want the night to be over, 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:45.240 but it was getting late and being respectful first date 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:48.159 and everything, so I called her an uber and she 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:50.760 went home and I haven't heard from her since. The 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:54.000 weird thing, though, is like i'll text her and she'll 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:56.920 like my text, but she's not responding, like. 0:05:57.400 --> 0:05:59.360 You know, are you yeah? 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:01.960 Are you asked a question or are you just saying hi? 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:04.760 No? I also ask a question like I'd love to 0:06:04.760 --> 0:06:06.280 see you again, when can I'll take you out again? 0:06:07.000 --> 0:06:08.800 Thumbs up, And it's like, okay, well, I guess it 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:10.640 thumbs up as good, but I need an answer. 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:13.840 Here unless it's not even her answering and her cat 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:15.799 has the password to her phone and is just getting 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:17.599 in there pawing around liking your. 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:19.359 Your text message, It's like, emphasize emphasis. 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:26.039 You clearly had a strong connection the first time you 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:28.280 hung out, so it's weird that nothing's happened since. 0:06:28.680 --> 0:06:29.920 Was a mystery to me. 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:34.200 She's given like some positive vibes it's not like. 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:36.599 She's That's what scares me when we call and talk 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:38.760 to her. We have to put up with those positive 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:41.400 vibes and hopefully get an answer out of her when 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:43.280 we come back and try and get you your second 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:44.840 date update right after this. 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:46.600 Okay, thanks, appreciate you all. 0:06:46.440 --> 0:06:49.599 All right, hold on that second date update. 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:53.880 I only do this maybe a couple times a year, 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:57.840 but I'm highlighting this second date as one we have 0:06:58.160 --> 0:06:58.600 to get. 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:05.440 This guy is so head over heels from Curiously, I'm 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:08.320 actually compared to all the other calls that we've done 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:11.800 this year, I'm actually gonna put effort into this one 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:14.200 for our listener, Andy, you're not putting. 0:07:13.920 --> 0:07:16.400 An effort on the your body, Legg doesn't say that 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:18.640 arms cruss are sitting down. 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:25.280 This is my effort most because Andy, he's on the 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:28.280 phone with us. Andy, you seem like a genuinely good guy. 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:31.880 And the way that you described your date Carla to us, 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:35.480 she seems like a really cool person too, because most 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:37.520 guys that we have on here, they just describe how 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:40.640 hot their date's bodies are and how they tricked them 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:41.800 into spending the night. 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:44.040 Recently, I mean, I told her how much I could 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:45.640 bench press. I don't know what's going on. 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:48.280 And while we're all impressed by that stuff, for sure, 0:07:48.600 --> 0:07:52.360 you actually focused on Carla's personality and her words. 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.600 So clearly this means a lot to you. 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:58.880 Yes, that definitely doesn't. I appreciate the kind words, and 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:03.040 I also I appreciate the efforts as well from Jeffrey. 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:08.040 Yeah, rare people get it. So you should count yourself lucky. 0:08:08.320 --> 0:08:09.800 What do you think is going on? Why do you 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:11.240 think it's been so hard with her? 0:08:11.800 --> 0:08:13.360 No clue to the alci, which is why I reached 0:08:13.400 --> 0:08:15.760 out to you. It's like it's we had a great conversation, 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:16.920 we had a great time at dinner, we had a 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:17.880 great time back in my house. 0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:20.000 Yeah, it's a mystery to all of us, and we're 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:22.480 running out of time here, so we need to call her. 0:08:22.840 --> 0:08:25.160 I'm going to dial her number right now. Good luck 0:08:25.400 --> 0:08:25.640 to me. 0:08:25.800 --> 0:08:29.960 Here we go, good luck to me, Good luck to It's. 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:39.160 Okay, Hello, Hey. 0:08:39.080 --> 0:08:40.080 Is Carla there? 0:08:42.000 --> 0:08:43.600 Yeah? This is she? Who is this? 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:45.200 Hey, Carla? 0:08:45.679 --> 0:08:46.360 Hi, Carla? 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:50.040 Love your name. By the way, my name is Gross. 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:52.240 It's jeff and I work on a radio show called 0:08:52.240 --> 0:08:53.360 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:59.640 Okay, she sounds like a real sailor when it comes in. 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:04.480 And uh, we're not trying to shock you too much, 0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:07.800 but we're calling as a favor to a really cool 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:10.920 new friend of ours. We spoke to him on the phone, 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:13.000 and you've met him before. He's a guy named Andy. 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:18.439 Oh oh whoa interesting? 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:19.720 That was a negative? 0:09:19.800 --> 0:09:22.680 Oh yeah, I mean maybe it didn't come out right. 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:23.520 You remember Andy? 0:09:23.600 --> 0:09:26.319 Right again? What is this about? 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:29.120 I'm just I don't know what this is all about. 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:31.439 This is a segment we do called second Date Update. 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:35.400 It's about your date and Andy, according to him, said 0:09:35.440 --> 0:09:37.280 that when you guys hung out, it was a lot 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:39.360 different than most of the other dates that he's gone 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:41.920 on this year in a really good way. So we're 0:09:41.960 --> 0:09:44.920 just trying to figure out if there's a reason why 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:47.360 there hasn't been a second meetup because he's really hoping 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:47.720 for one. 0:09:48.000 --> 0:09:50.120 Yeah. 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:53.320 Yeah, I don't know. I just I feel like I 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:55.720 probably didn't have gone to his apartment. 0:09:56.280 --> 0:09:59.960 Gone to his apartment, he said, you guys didn't fool right, 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:00.720 und or anything. 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:02.240 What was weird about his apartment? 0:10:02.920 --> 0:10:07.000 Okay, Well, I'll just say this. There were a lot 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:08.520 of framed photos. 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:10.800 Okay, Okay, that's good. 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:15.200 Usually, usually bachelors can't figure out frames and picture together. 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:21.080 Yeah, I bought with a frame, Like, why were framed 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:22.440 photos a red flag? 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:22.680 To you? 0:10:23.559 --> 0:10:27.720 There there were framed photos of him of Andy. 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:30.480 Wait, well, I would hope that they would be him 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:32.720 in his own apartment. No, bro, I'm. 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:36.880 Talking about my art, like him or him with people. 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:38.200 Yeah, that's a good question. 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:42.720 Just him, just him when he graduating, when he's like 0:10:43.360 --> 0:10:47.440 heading a tiger. I think it was, Uh, that's cool. 0:10:47.840 --> 0:10:50.240 Well, what's a red flag about that? To you? 0:10:50.880 --> 0:10:53.120 There were twenty of them him. 0:10:53.720 --> 0:10:54.920 That's a lot. 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:56.640 But listen, he's a solo guy. 0:10:56.720 --> 0:11:00.400 He lives by himself, and obviously maybe he just has 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:02.520 him up because he wants to remind himself of all 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:03.720 the cool places he's been. 0:11:03.880 --> 0:11:05.240 You know, maybe should put up. 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:07.440 Some stuff so Brook you you would see this and 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:08.840 you would think this is normal. 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:10.600 Twenty plus pictures twenty's a lot. 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:11.760 I don't know about normal. 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:13.920 But I'm just like, I don't know that it's like 0:11:14.000 --> 0:11:16.640 nefarious or means that he's a bad person. 0:11:16.800 --> 0:11:19.640 She doesn't say nefarious, she just said it's odd or 0:11:19.640 --> 0:11:20.079 it's weird. 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:21.800 Well, she used it as a red flag, and it's 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:23.880 the reason that she's not calling him back, And I 0:11:23.880 --> 0:11:24.960 don't know that that's fair. 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:27.120 That's all I'm saying. I think if he's like cocky too, 0:11:27.160 --> 0:11:28.040 but I don't know that it is. 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:30.920 Oh yeah, were there any cocky pictures of him? Do 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:32.480 you think, Wow, this guy's a real. 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:37.959 Chir wrong Jack, Well, I think it's so. 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:38.360 Yeah. 0:11:38.400 --> 0:11:40.079 He had a photo of himself flexing. 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:41.800 Did he have muscles? 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:43.840 Did he have muscles? 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:43.960 Like? 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:44.560 Was it good? 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:48.040 It was okay at best? 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:51.520 I mean okay, I mean we could go into detail 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:54.600 and talk about what was inside of all of his photos, 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:58.600 But I'm still trying to understand what the underlying problem is. 0:11:58.960 --> 0:12:00.720 See you don't see it is a red flash? 0:12:00.840 --> 0:12:03.280 What is it? He's confident in himself and. 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:07.960 Likes him absorbed self absorbed, or you're worried that he 0:12:08.040 --> 0:12:09.079 doesn't have friends. 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:11.920 I did feel like it was clear to me after 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:14.559 being there for half an hour it would be difficult 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:17.600 to date someone who's already in a committed relationship with himself. 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:24.040 Oh okay, Maybe it's that motivational thing people do where 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:25.520 you put a photo of yourself as a kid in 0:12:25.520 --> 0:12:25.920 the mirror. 0:12:26.360 --> 0:12:29.320 He just has twenty of them. Well, he's talking to 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:29.880 the graduate. 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:32.000 Just came across as such a good guy. 0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:35.240 I just felt, But I don't know, maybe we got 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:39.040 a totally wrong read on him. And he's absolutely obsessed 0:12:39.040 --> 0:12:41.520 with himself because he is on the other line right 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:44.240 now listening in on this conversation, which I guess in. 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:47.440 A way is about oh, oh my god. 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:50.360 And he does want to talk to you, Andy. 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:53.120 Hi, Carla, how are you? 0:12:54.240 --> 0:12:54.440 Hi? 0:12:54.960 --> 0:12:55.160 For you? 0:12:56.679 --> 0:13:00.080 And this is like embarrassing for you. 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:02.439 I don't want to put you on black on the. 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:05.560 Radio because I thought we had a great time and 0:13:05.600 --> 0:13:08.160 then and you weren't necessarily responding back to me, and 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:11.120 I didn't know You're gonna be kind of hitting on 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:13.640 all the photos of like big moments in my life 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:14.440 and stuff like that. 0:13:14.320 --> 0:13:19.520 And he's they're everywhere. There's one in the bathroom, Like, whoa, 0:13:19.559 --> 0:13:20.280 it is weird. 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:24.840 Okay, I'm sorry, I'm I don't have very good interior 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:29.640 decoration skills. I guess you can say you make it 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:31.319 seem like I have a big crush on myself. 0:13:32.400 --> 0:13:34.160 That's okay, you could crush on yourself. 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:36.320 Can we ask, bro, like, when you were putting up 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:38.520 all those pictures, why, like why did you. 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:39.120 Put those up. 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:41.520 I know they're just big moments in my life that 0:13:41.600 --> 0:13:43.680 it's nice of when I'm walking around being reminded of them, 0:13:43.720 --> 0:13:46.040 Like you mentioned the tigers, Like that's a trip I 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:48.160 took with my parents when I went to Africa. Or 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:52.640 I do I do have a shirtless Jim selfie on 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:54.719 my well oneie? 0:13:56.440 --> 0:13:59.240 Is that the bathroom one? Because I would understand it 0:13:59.320 --> 0:13:59.800 might have fit. 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:01.120 Yeah, Like. 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:05.360 I mentioned before, I've been off the market for a while, 0:14:05.440 --> 0:14:07.360 I might have gained a lot of weight, and so 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:09.400 like this is a picture of like after I hit 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:09.880 my goal. 0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:14.000 Like, Carl, are you hearing him? 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:15.200 I'm hearing this. 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:18.920 I just feel like maybe he could have asked one 0:14:18.920 --> 0:14:20.960 of his friends and like is this too many photos? 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:21.320 Yeah? 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:25.360 Yeah, it sounds like it didn't register with him at all. 0:14:25.520 --> 0:14:29.360 Like have you ever had anyone else comment about the 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:32.200 excessive amount of photos? 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:33.160 Yeah? 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:35.600 I don't really, I don't have a lot of people 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:37.680 come over, to be honest with you. And then you 0:14:37.800 --> 0:14:40.920 think about decorating with sock target photos of like red 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:42.280 sucking up plants or whatever. 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:45.880 Okay, well, let's not hate on people that like to 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:48.160 decorate from Target because they have some good stuff. 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:51.560 You should use a woman's touch. Maybe you two can 0:14:51.600 --> 0:14:54.360 help each other. I'm just an adjusted a little bit. 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:57.720 Maybe you have a reasonable amount that he should have, Carla, 0:14:57.800 --> 0:14:59.920 is there a number in new head that's okay? 0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:00.600 Of course? 0:15:00.840 --> 0:15:02.240 Like three macs? 0:15:03.040 --> 0:15:07.200 How the world I choose just three moment? 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:09.400 Actually, Andy, I have a good suggestion for you. They 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:12.960 have these digital photo frames. Now we're all rotate through 0:15:13.040 --> 0:15:16.160 like five hundred, and you don't have to limit it down. 0:15:16.320 --> 0:15:18.720 Look, I'm definitely open to some options here, but I 0:15:18.760 --> 0:15:20.200 mean some of them need to stay up. 0:15:21.760 --> 0:15:24.520 He's taking this instride. 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:26.720 Some people could have gotten really defensive about it. 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:30.120 He went through all of this effort just to get 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:30.800 in touch with. 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:32.520 You, and look at what he could look like. I 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:35.600 mean that gym picture is was okay. 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:38.840 Well, no room for improvements, is what I'm hearing. 0:15:38.960 --> 0:15:40.640 So I mean, if you give me a second date 0:15:40.640 --> 0:15:42.680 that leads to the third, fourth, one hundred dates, then 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:44.360 we can start hanging up pictures of us. 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:48.920 Together, twenty pictures of you. 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:53.000 So, now that you know everything, Carlo, you've heard what 0:15:53.240 --> 0:15:56.080 he has to say, would you consider going out with 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:58.240 him again? We would pay for it. 0:15:58.680 --> 0:16:00.680 I mean, I feel like he was kind of in 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:02.600 the dark about it. It's not like he's in love 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:06.200 with himself, which I was really worried about. Yeah, I 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:09.160 would be interested, but he has to take down some 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:11.640 of those photos if I'm going back, or at. 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:13.720 Least turn them around so not all of him is 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:15.080 looking at you at the same time. 0:16:15.240 --> 0:16:18.400 Okay, you guys can actually do that on your next date. 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:20.320 Oh yeah, pick your top one. 0:16:20.520 --> 0:16:22.600 Yeah, I'm totally done. We'll go out to dinner. Then 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:29.000 afterwards you can go back and have a redecoration partylations. 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:31.640 Andy, you got another meet up with Carla. 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:33.680 Thank you guys so much. I really appreciate your how 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:35.400 we set. 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:37.200 A goal to get them together and we did it, 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:39.400 guys without even one picture of us. 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:43.400 Hey, yeah, ask that is our effort for the entire year. 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:47.000 We can go back to not caring. Any can bail 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:47.200 it in. 0:16:49.000 --> 0:16:50.840 It's freaking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:53.480 You know, today's second date was a good lesson for me. 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:55.560 Yeah, to put effort into things. 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:58.520 No, because I have lots of frame photos of myself 0:16:58.640 --> 0:17:03.120 up in my place, my thing isn't in any of them. 0:17:04.119 --> 0:17:05.639 I tend to capture other stuff. 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:08.879 But I almost asked what was and that was, no, you. 0:17:08.880 --> 0:17:10.640 Didn't come over and check it out if you want, 0:17:10.720 --> 0:17:11.320 I'm good, I. 0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:13.240 Get this printed like a public place. 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:15.639