Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya red An iHeartRadio podcast. Hello, everybody,
Speaker 1: we are scrubbing in. We are scrubbing in again. Were
Speaker 1: scrubbing it again because there's yeah Mark here, Oh the
Speaker 1: bus is coming over me. No, no no, no, because we
Speaker 1: recorded an entire episode, an entire podcast Monday was in
Speaker 1: the can ready to go. And we're not blaming Mark.
Speaker 1: I don't. I wish if I knew what happened, I
Speaker 1: would be more readily. I mean, obviously if the blame
Speaker 1: is on me, I just don't know what happened. Here's
Speaker 1: the thing. We've done this podcast for how many years
Speaker 1: and this has never happened. So it's not We're not upset.
Speaker 1: We're not mad. We're not mad, And especially when it
Speaker 1: has to do with a computer glitch. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: it's like Taylor Swift says, glitch. I think I think
Speaker 1: there's been so mad it crashed. Usually when it crashes,
Speaker 1: it's still in there. They still keep the audio recorded.
Speaker 1: But I think this is going to be a better
Speaker 1: versions two because you know, the first time around, we
Speaker 1: were really upset about the Gray's anatomy Meredith Farewell, and
Speaker 1: now that we were able to get it out once before.
Speaker 1: I feel like we're gonna be a little bit more succinct.
Speaker 1: I'm still upset, I still haven't help set, but I
Speaker 1: feel like now I have my thoughts in order. Basically,
Speaker 1: it was just absolutely disappointing. We have watched Meredith Gray
Speaker 1: for nineteen years. We've watched her have many near death experiences,
Speaker 1: love life, trauma drama, celebrated her wins, cried for her losses,
Speaker 1: and cheered her on with her victories times yes, and
Speaker 1: the Goodbye Farewell episode we got was black luster. When
Speaker 1: I tell you, I am legitimately pissed. I feel as
Speaker 1: a fan that I have watched nineteen seasons with Meredith
Speaker 1: Gray and that was her sendoff. It feels wrong, It
Speaker 1: feels hurtful, and it feels intentional. I wish that I
Speaker 1: had some behind the scenes person there that we could
Speaker 1: talk to, because I feel like something went wrong. When
Speaker 1: you watch that scene, Bailey starts talking, she doesn't finish
Speaker 1: her sentence. There's weird camera cutaways. Then there's that super
Speaker 1: weird silence that she kind of rotates around and looks
Speaker 1: at everyone, but it's not even interesting people that like
Speaker 1: she couldn't even get a toast out. It was very,
Speaker 1: very strange. I feel like something went awry, but they
Speaker 1: had three months to edit it and make it perfect,
Speaker 1: and it was garbage. The teaser was better. The had
Speaker 1: me crying, and the episode and had me lying. All
Speaker 1: they had to do was figure out. All they had
Speaker 1: to do was show us like clips from old seasons flashbacks,
Speaker 1: put a sad song over it. We're not hard to please. Well,
Speaker 1: we're kind of hard to please. We're not hard to
Speaker 1: please that sense, by the way, you said that when
Speaker 1: they Didn'tary said that the promo. Maybe you curious, cheer up?
Speaker 1: No furious, No, she said something it made her fury eye.
Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, the teaser made me teary eyed, and
Speaker 1: the episode made me fury eyed. Yes, I'm with you,
Speaker 1: and I still have that fury in my eyes. Okay.
Speaker 1: I have a note page. It's titled worst episode ever,
Speaker 1: and like that was just written in anger. Like. I
Speaker 1: don't think it's the worst episode ever, but I think
Speaker 1: as far as like a farewell episode, it was very disappointing. Meredith,
Speaker 1: I said Merideth. The only positive thing I can say
Speaker 1: is that Meredith's hair looked bomb. Everything else in all
Speaker 1: caps disappointing, and then I said one more positive. The
Speaker 1: baby heart story was based off of a scrubber's real
Speaker 1: life story, Taylor Monroe. Her son's name is Owen so
Speaker 1: on Brand, so On Brand, And thank you for on
Speaker 1: the Facebook group letting us know about that, because it's
Speaker 1: fascinating knowing that the video we saw of the open
Speaker 1: heart on the small, small, strawberry sized heart was your
Speaker 1: actual sound's heart. That was amazing knowing that while watching it, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I would say that was the only highlights. Okay, so
Speaker 1: I'm going to disagree with you on that, and I
Speaker 1: just want in case you're listening to the podcast and
Speaker 1: you don't watch Grey's Anatomy, I would like some solidarity,
Speaker 1: solidarity with our scrub sisters here to really create some motion,
Speaker 1: some emotion that I'm feeling to get behind this because
Speaker 1: that is not the send off that we deserved. And
Speaker 1: I'm going to get back to that in a second.
Speaker 1: I'd like to say that I think the episode in
Speaker 1: itself wasn't a bad episode. I really enjoy these interns.
Speaker 1: I love that the three of them are moving into
Speaker 1: Meredith's old hows and that they're kind of trying to
Speaker 1: do that dynamic again. I actually enjoyed that, but for
Speaker 1: the sendoff, it was just appalling and rude and disrespectful.
Speaker 1: So I think on the podcast next week, I need
Speaker 1: everybody an agreeance here, agreeance, agreements, agreements, but right that
Speaker 1: we give Meredith her very well that she deserves. To
Speaker 1: give her a toast. So you have to do some homework?
Speaker 1: Why I don't. I don't need any homework. I could
Speaker 1: probably write one right now. No, because I want you
Speaker 1: to send it to Hannah on Friday so she can
Speaker 1: put it in the rundown. Okay, I'm really good about
Speaker 1: sending things to Hanna for the rundown though, So I
Speaker 1: want this. This is due by Friday. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: our farewell to married. No, let's give her the give
Speaker 1: her what she deserves. Well, okay, chat GBT or whatever
Speaker 1: you need to do the thing. I like the new interns.
Speaker 1: I just don't like that they're trying to recreate the magic,
Speaker 1: which is Meredith, Alex, George, Isy Christina that we've already seen.
Speaker 1: You can't recreate it. That's their initials. This is the
Speaker 1: same initials, Meredith, Alex, George, George Magic. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: that's see that did that for now. That's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: where are they at. They may on magic, yes, okay,
Speaker 1: any of us tragic, but if they're at their job
Speaker 1: to try to make it fresh and exciting and magic again,
Speaker 1: I just don't know if it can be done with
Speaker 1: different I mean, it was just so incredible what it was,
Speaker 1: and I like the new interns, but I don't feel
Speaker 1: like they have the same like chemistry within each other.
Speaker 1: They're still young, it's still early days, and you would
Speaker 1: know that reference if you watched Love Island. Mark liked
Speaker 1: Oh thank you. Mark liked the Helm Bartending story, saying
Speaker 1: I love it. I'm just saying it's interesting if Helm
Speaker 1: is kind of secretly coaching one of the interns on
Speaker 1: the side, that'll probably revive Helm's love of medicine, get
Speaker 1: her back in. In the meantime, she's helping. I forget
Speaker 1: which one it was, Okay. The only thing that makes
Speaker 1: that interesting to me is if they fall in love
Speaker 1: or have a relationship, happy about it, and then she
Speaker 1: like inspires her to come back, Yasuda inspires Helm to
Speaker 1: come back. Helm poured hot liquor and a mixer into
Speaker 1: martini glass, which, if you know anything about drink. So
Speaker 1: you don't drink a hot martini. She's not good bartender.
Speaker 1: Why she needs to be a doctor? That's a minucia picture. Yeah,
Speaker 1: literally miss that entirely. Well. It makes sense that Mark
Speaker 1: want to know he doesn't drink, but you I'm a
Speaker 1: fish veteran. Yes, not so much anymore. I'm off caffeine
Speaker 1: and alcohol for a bit. Here, here we go. No,
Speaker 1: I believe in you. I want you to feel your
Speaker 1: best and be healthy. So whatever you need to do,
Speaker 1: thank you, I've done it. What I put. I asked
Speaker 1: chat gpt for a tribute to Meredith Gray asked for
Speaker 1: a hundred words. Would you like it? Sure? Here's what
Speaker 1: chat gpt came up with. I feel like we should
Speaker 1: save it for next week. You think, so that's gonna
Speaker 1: be mine for this is right now? Okay? Moving on
Speaker 1: Gray's we expected more got less? What do you expected
Speaker 1: too much? I think? What? Maybe you're right? Maybe the
Speaker 1: episode wasn't that bad. But my I gotta say though,
Speaker 1: sometimes like people, it's very half and half. In my DMS,
Speaker 1: it was a unanimous disappointment. Thumbs down. Yes, but it
Speaker 1: was because the expectations of being her farewell episode. We
Speaker 1: expected more. I wonder how much is ABC hyping it
Speaker 1: as a farewell episode and she'll be back before you know?
Speaker 1: That would maybe even more mad because there was a
Speaker 1: disconnect somewhere. There was everything felt fleeting. That was what
Speaker 1: we talked about the first round that we did the podcast,
Speaker 1: Like every storyline feels like they just were like, let's
Speaker 1: do this, and then they don't. There's no build up.
Speaker 1: That's what it is. There's no build up here. Yeah, Like,
Speaker 1: what's like there was a cohesive intention that used to
Speaker 1: be in the early years. Yeah, it's not cohesive anymore.
Speaker 1: It's detached. These are notes also, Tony and I would
Speaker 1: love to be extras, like maybe on like those people
Speaker 1: sleep on the plane, I think too by the way
Speaker 1: her reading of the people on the plane and people
Speaker 1: sitting around, And I'd be so annoyed if I was
Speaker 1: saying in front of a mom trying to read out
Speaker 1: loud to her three kids, what about tema chat chit
Speaker 1: chatting the whole flight to someone wanted some good chit chatting. Okay,
Speaker 1: you can learn a thing or two. Yeah, um, okay,
Speaker 1: let's take a break in. We'll be wait. But I
Speaker 1: had one more thought about just the ending. Please. People
Speaker 1: were upset that Scott Speedman and she did not end
Speaker 1: up together. Meredith, doctor Nick Mark, doctor Nick Marsh. He
Speaker 1: not no his name. No, she doesn't need a man.
Speaker 1: He wasn't it. I didn't ever. I didn't like him
Speaker 1: either way, but I did we liked him, No, I didna.
Speaker 1: There's broadcast proof of us saying that we liked him
Speaker 1: for her. I did feel a certain type of way,
Speaker 1: and then I quickly felt the other way. But I
Speaker 1: feel like she doesn't need to end up with a
Speaker 1: man to have her happily ever after. She needs sitting
Speaker 1: up with a woman. No, she needs to end up
Speaker 1: with herself. I'm just kidding, but I'm not. I'm not
Speaker 1: into him at all. He does need like the ick
Speaker 1: just bad vibes. Yeah, same, he's kind of mean feeling. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so mirrors like in a better place, you're probably gonna
Speaker 1: end up together. Day. I took the first initials of
Speaker 1: the new interns and it's not MLSJB. You can't even
Speaker 1: make anything. No, there's no vowel. You can't make a
Speaker 1: word out of it. Can we buy a vow Okay,
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Speaker 1: listen to your podcasts. All right, we're back. Something else
Speaker 1: that happened. Okay, I don't listen to podcasts. Other podcasts
Speaker 1: I don't listen to. Do y'all listen to our podcasts
Speaker 1: once it goes up? Uh? No, only if I missed it,
Speaker 1: But I just mean in general, I listened to quite
Speaker 1: a few podcasts, right yeah, Well they're very great. There's
Speaker 1: a lot of great podcasts. But you know, we got
Speaker 1: some criticism over our interviewing skills over the week or whatever,
Speaker 1: and to be honest, I wasn't even hurt by them
Speaker 1: because I was like, you're right, we got up our
Speaker 1: game and that's what it is, what it is, and
Speaker 1: that's what we're about to do. When you get criticism,
Speaker 1: that doesn't hurt you. You know that they're right. Right.
Speaker 1: But the thing about introducing our guests, it's been something
Speaker 1: that's been on my mind for quite some time and
Speaker 1: I just haven't I don't know if it's if it's
Speaker 1: like I've been saying it for a while. Do you
Speaker 1: remember I've been saying, I'm like, we want I want
Speaker 1: to set them up better because we obviously know who
Speaker 1: we're interviewing, but the listeners might not know. But then
Speaker 1: I feel like we like let them into the zoom
Speaker 1: or let them into the studio and then we carry
Speaker 1: on and then that's it and then we're done. So
Speaker 1: so now we have a protocol. We have a protocol,
Speaker 1: and I think a lot of it was like writing
Speaker 1: down a bio about someone and then reading it while
Speaker 1: they're in front of you. To me, felt really awkward.
Speaker 1: So I was always like, oh, I just want to
Speaker 1: like make it conversational. But then I what we were
Speaker 1: what was pointed out to this is that a lot
Speaker 1: of people are hearing about our guests for the first time,
Speaker 1: like maybe they're not clued into them, and they're like,
Speaker 1: I really like this person, but what do they do.
Speaker 1: They're to like go back and research on their own.
Speaker 1: We don't want y'all to have to research now and
Speaker 1: fret no more. We hear you. Five years we hear you,
Speaker 1: and we have a new protocol in place, so that
Speaker 1: will not be happy anymore. Well, so I listened to
Speaker 1: a couple of podcasts over the weekend. I listened to
Speaker 1: the Call Her Daddy Kelsey Ballerini interview, which will go
Speaker 1: too And then I listened to Marianna Huay and she
Speaker 1: was talking to a doctor and I was Marianna, Yeah,
Speaker 1: who was that, Marianna, Well, here I am to educate. Wow, okay,
Speaker 1: mary Anna um. She has a podcast Life with Marianna,
Speaker 1: And she was talking to this doctor and they were
Speaker 1: talking about just like a lot of the benefits of
Speaker 1: like what you can do if you're battling like anxiety
Speaker 1: or just like mental stuff. I was like, I'm going
Speaker 1: to go back and listen to this and write down notes.
Speaker 1: And I was thinking, what a great podcast. I don't
Speaker 1: know if anyone's doing that for us, but it was like, wow,
Speaker 1: that's a great job, like taking no doubt people are
Speaker 1: taking note, take notes on But what did Tanya say
Speaker 1: this week? That was crazy? That's what we do. Yeah, um,
Speaker 1: mismatched quotes. But Kelsey Ballerini and call her Daddy. Alex
Speaker 1: Cooper is amazing at what she does and Alex Cooper
Speaker 1: the oh our door as well, but is open for
Speaker 1: you anytime you need. Yeah, happy to have you. Honestly
Speaker 1: would love that, would love to go and call her daddy.
Speaker 1: We can fit in the chair together, that big chair there.
Speaker 1: I don't think she's ever had a personal in someone's lap.
Speaker 1: Yeah first happy, too happy to oblige. Yeah, um, but
Speaker 1: I'd like to be on the bottom. I think, like
Speaker 1: me sitting on you. Yeah, it's vulnerable. Well we'll talk
Speaker 1: about it, okay when the moment comes. You listen to
Speaker 1: the Kelsey Ballerini episode, right, I listened to many of
Speaker 1: Call Her daddies. Okay, but you listen to this, Yes,
Speaker 1: what did you think over your takeaways? So it's interesting
Speaker 1: to me how much detail was shared, you know, because
Speaker 1: I think and I think that that's the beauty in
Speaker 1: music is like you can write these lyrics that are
Speaker 1: super super vulnerable and like expressive, but they're not so
Speaker 1: play by play of everything that it leads a lot,
Speaker 1: leaves a lot to the imagination. And I feel like
Speaker 1: the interview really didn't leave a lot to the imagination. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And the thing is is, you know, there's two sides.
Speaker 1: There's three sides to every story exactly, and this was
Speaker 1: her side and her version of what happened, and I
Speaker 1: felt like she you know, she was like, I'm he's
Speaker 1: not all to blame, Like I had my own issues
Speaker 1: that didn't work out in the relationship whatever. But I
Speaker 1: felt like it was very honest about her version of
Speaker 1: what happened and kind of vulnerable, and some parts I
Speaker 1: was like, Oh, that's so hard, and also navigating going
Speaker 1: through those things in your personal life while navigating a
Speaker 1: public image. Also, I grew up very much like what
Speaker 1: people thought of me and our family was like a
Speaker 1: big deal, like wanting to always have on a good front.
Speaker 1: I think that's the southern culture type thing. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you relate to that. No, and then good talk,
Speaker 1: but also the like the um the shamer on sex,
Speaker 1: how he was saying she had only slept with one
Speaker 1: man before him when that question was brought up her
Speaker 1: sleeping on the couch. I didn't. I didn't really like
Speaker 1: how people were bashing him about moving into her house
Speaker 1: like that. There was a conversation of like, well, he's
Speaker 1: nine years older and he moved into your house. But like,
Speaker 1: if the person I'm dating has a better house, I'm house. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't care who's older, right, who's what I do?
Speaker 1: I'll find that to be weird either. But I was
Speaker 1: thinking like, oh, if the roles were reversed and she
Speaker 1: moved into his nicer house, you know, it would probably
Speaker 1: want to be a conversation. So I thought that. But
Speaker 1: it is something that people it's on people's mind. Somebody
Speaker 1: damn me the other they're like, why are you moving
Speaker 1: into his house? He should be moving into yours? And
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't have a house. Wait why
Speaker 1: I'm like, I rent an apartment and so henceforth, why
Speaker 1: I'm the bottom line of my thesis is that is
Speaker 1: why I am going to be moving in there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it just makes sense. You're going to move into the
Speaker 1: better living situation. Yeah, but I would be interested to
Speaker 1: hear his version of what happened. And he even made
Speaker 1: a statement that said, she knows I would never talk
Speaker 1: about this publicly, so we might never hear that. But
Speaker 1: the EP is fantastic. But I also found very interesting
Speaker 1: how she said she married this man because she grew
Speaker 1: up from such like a broken home and he was
Speaker 1: like the symbol if he was so close with his
Speaker 1: family and so clothed, they were so close, that was
Speaker 1: everything that she'd wanted. And I was like, I feel
Speaker 1: like we make a lot of decisions in our adult
Speaker 1: life to kind of counter balance things that we experience
Speaker 1: as kids. And I found that to be very interesting. Well,
Speaker 1: Kelsey said that what really ended the marriage was when
Speaker 1: they started disagreeing over starting a family. I think the
Speaker 1: quote is the moment I think it was over over
Speaker 1: was when I realized I wasn't ready for kids. And
Speaker 1: that's a fundamental difference. And in the first version of
Speaker 1: this podcast, we did we were saying like we were
Speaker 1: because you were like, don't you talk about that before
Speaker 1: you get married? But when I was twenty two, I
Speaker 1: wanted four kids. Now, but I'm like like, but now,
Speaker 1: don't you and Haley talk about that? Yeah, but I'm
Speaker 1: saying like, even when I started dating Haley in twenty eighteen,
Speaker 1: I probably was like certain I wanted kids, right, I
Speaker 1: think she changed change But I think I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's hard to say, but she's saying like, that's that's
Speaker 1: something like a fundamental difference. So like if you're not
Speaker 1: on the same page, how do you continue? You know? Um?
Speaker 1: But yeah, I thought it was interesting. I thought it
Speaker 1: was interesting. She slid into Chase Stokes DMS. That's how
Speaker 1: they started talking, and the way she did it. His
Speaker 1: his handle is high high Chase Stokes and she damned
Speaker 1: him and she just said high Chase Stokes. That's game.
Speaker 1: That's Riz right there, that's Riz. Yeah, but do you
Speaker 1: know what Riz is? Do you think you don't know
Speaker 1: what ye? Riz is? Like swag? Oh yeah, Tonya, don't
Speaker 1: act like you're all of a sudden like one with
Speaker 1: gen Z. I'm totally one with gen Z. Well do
Speaker 1: you don't think that many other women who are not
Speaker 1: at Kelsey Ballerini's level of fame and notoriety said Hi,
Speaker 1: Chase steps to him, thinking no, no, no, But what
Speaker 1: I'm saying is like, even if you were to DM
Speaker 1: anybody else, Like if you're listening and you want to
Speaker 1: DM this guy and his name is like, Hi, I'm Edward. Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm Edward. Is such a cute, It's such a It's
Speaker 1: a very easy way in. So if you're following someone
Speaker 1: in their user name sends you hi something, take that,
Speaker 1: take that alley oop and slam dunk it nice tonya
Speaker 1: really good? Whoa who knew? Getting better? She's a sports girl,
Speaker 1: that's right. Take the ball and sink it first when
Speaker 1: I was stronger. Yeah yeah, I don't know ball, you're
Speaker 1: sinking golf? Yeah yeah, Um. Either way, I hope both
Speaker 1: parties move on fine happiness. I love Kelsey Ballerini are
Speaker 1: like I don't. I don't know as much about Morgan Evans,
Speaker 1: So I'm not like, oh, I love Morgan Evans, but
Speaker 1: I still wish him. I think a divorce and getting
Speaker 1: into a marriage young and then it ending is like
Speaker 1: sad regardless, So I don't wish him bad. Definitely not. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I don't need to like hear from him like
Speaker 1: on our podcast. But like I'm saying, if he had
Speaker 1: to call her daddy, I don't listen. I don't know
Speaker 1: I would. I don't know if I would. Okay, but
Speaker 1: don't wish him ill. Yeah, I just don't want to
Speaker 1: listen to him. Correct Yeah, okay, yeah, wish him the best,
Speaker 1: but wish him the best. Yeah yeah. Um. Anyways, I
Speaker 1: thought it was a really good interview. I thought it
Speaker 1: was very like it. I feel like I didn't inspire
Speaker 1: you a little bit Becca to be a better host,
Speaker 1: because what I was thinking is that she asked questions
Speaker 1: where I'm kind of like like, that's where she went there.
Speaker 1: She went there, and that's what you have to do.
Speaker 1: Because even though we as listeners are like, oh, she
Speaker 1: just asked that, we're so excited to hear the answer true,
Speaker 1: and I think we hear them try to weazel out
Speaker 1: of the answer. It's all upside, okay, Mark, We're not
Speaker 1: trying to make people squirm. Yeah, I don't want to.
Speaker 1: We're not the squirm Alex Cooper makes them squirm. No.
Speaker 1: I think the people that are going on her podcast
Speaker 1: and they're like, these are the off limit things, so like,
Speaker 1: don't even go there, and then she probably just takes
Speaker 1: as far as she can with the things I've had
Speaker 1: to say no on a podcast where it was like
Speaker 1: something I don't want to talk about. It's kind of
Speaker 1: all It does put you in a squirming position because
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, I have to like stand like my
Speaker 1: ground with someone, and it's okay you can, and so
Speaker 1: I think it's like you go for it, and then
Speaker 1: they get to say like I don't really want to
Speaker 1: talk about that or I'm not comfortable sharing that, and
Speaker 1: then you go cool. I've always said too, I find
Speaker 1: it like when you're going in for an interview, it
Speaker 1: should just be no holds bar, you know what I mean, Okay,
Speaker 1: like you shouldn't expect that they can ask you anything
Speaker 1: like I've gone. I've had interviewers where people ask me
Speaker 1: stuff about Ryan that I don't want to answer, but
Speaker 1: it's on me to respond in a way that I
Speaker 1: find to be the best. You know. I mean, he's
Speaker 1: not gay. No, it wasn't even that. It wasn't that,
Speaker 1: but I can't even remember. But I've been asked about
Speaker 1: like several things about Ryan. Then I'm like, I don't
Speaker 1: want to answer that. You know, I'm not who am
Speaker 1: I to answer that? But it's not for me to
Speaker 1: be like, don't ask me that ask me whatever you want,
Speaker 1: and I'm going to handle it the way I think
Speaker 1: it's best. So I think I always get scared of
Speaker 1: making someone uncomfortable, but it's like that's part of these conversations.
Speaker 1: It's like, if it's uncomfortable, we don't go there, but
Speaker 1: you gotta let me know. So I felt inspired to
Speaker 1: be a better interviewer truly. Yeah, and watch out and
Speaker 1: we are going to meet interviewers Tanya and Becker two
Speaker 1: point on Thursday. Correct, that's right to me? A major guest,
Speaker 1: Yeah in my opinion. Yeah, because they have the same name. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we have the Taylor Lawn, Taylor Launer one and Taylor
Speaker 1: Lautner two Taylay and Taylor and um, Taylor Lautner was
Speaker 1: a Werewill phone Twilight Jacob Black. His last name was Black. Yeah,
Speaker 1: still in my phone as Jacob Black. That's hilarious. I
Speaker 1: was team Jacob. You should tell him that. I should
Speaker 1: tell him that. Yeah. Um. You know. Actually what's funny
Speaker 1: is I have him in my phone as t L
Speaker 1: because I remember when we met. I feel like this
Speaker 1: was a time when somebody got their phone stolen or
Speaker 1: something and they had all these contacts in it and
Speaker 1: so I was so paranoid having remember that it was
Speaker 1: somewhere e maybe it was Ryan. It was somewhere that
Speaker 1: had Ryan's number in their phone or whatever. So I
Speaker 1: got really paranoids. I wouldn't put people's names with their
Speaker 1: real names. So he's still just TL on my phone.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I've never called him t L in my life.
Speaker 1: That'd be kind of weird deal. Yeah, tal AnyWho um.
Speaker 1: In the first episode we recorded, we talked about Love
Speaker 1: Island UK versus Love Island US, and Tommy has compared
Speaker 1: it to Oh that, How did I come back up
Speaker 1: with that? How can we get into that in the
Speaker 1: first place? Though? We were talking talking about weekends and
Speaker 1: what we watched. Yes, and so I compared Love Island
Speaker 1: UK and Love Island USA. Said, there is no comparis
Speaker 1: there's no comparison. It's like comparing, yeah, what I to
Speaker 1: a space launch? Yeah, television, That is ludicrous because Love
Speaker 1: Island UK and US are both, at least dating TV
Speaker 1: shows vastly different. So but it's the same premise. Yes, No,
Speaker 1: it's not even the same premise. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: same premise. But it's like you're watching Ying and Yang,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, apples and oranges. So I said Becca
Speaker 1: in the first podcast text Robbie and yeah, and ask
Speaker 1: him it's not just me that's saying this, it's like legit. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So my question to him was, Hi, as far as
Speaker 1: Love Island goes, is the UK version comparable to the
Speaker 1: US version or are they totally different? And he said, hi,
Speaker 1: dot dot dot. We only watch part of one US
Speaker 1: episode and hated it. Some same format, but the US
Speaker 1: was just pure trash. We like the emotional maturity of
Speaker 1: the Brits lol. I said, but fundamentally it's the same show,
Speaker 1: just with accents. And he said, yeah, I think so,
Speaker 1: same format. Just didn't even finish an episode of the US.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but he essentially said what I said.
Speaker 1: Yeah he did. Yeah, complete trash. I mean, that's pretty
Speaker 1: much the same thing. But it's the same show. It is, well,
Speaker 1: I think to space launches not Yeah, that's what we're
Speaker 1: trying to get up. Comparing Grayson Natomy to a high
Speaker 1: school production of Grayson Anatomy. How about that? Would that
Speaker 1: be a better? Oh, it's nice. It's like comparing Gray's
Speaker 1: Anatomy two the Blair Witch Project. Oh no, I I
Speaker 1: liked where you were going back, but I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: like a general hospital. That's pretty good. Yeah, good, No,
Speaker 1: much more different than stubborn to have a logical argument
Speaker 1: with all these things. I for what twelve years now,
Speaker 1: and I never know how a sentence is going to end.
Speaker 1: So I would like you to to watch one, maybe
Speaker 1: two episodes of my choosing of a season for you. Great,
Speaker 1: happy too? That was easy. Yeah, I'm sure three times. Watch. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I watched three times. I don't understand. That
Speaker 1: was like such an amazing season. But whatever, I'll pick it.
Speaker 1: Everyone trash. No, but you're watching The Last of Us,
Speaker 1: aren't you? Yeah? Did you watch Scary? Yeah, I'm watching it.
Speaker 1: I didn't see Last Nights yet. I haven't. I think
Speaker 1: I'm I think we're two behind. Okay, well I'm a
Speaker 1: lot behind. Okay, Well I'm won't. I won't. I'm not
Speaker 1: going to spoil anything. So she got through three, which
Speaker 1: is my favorite. That was so emotional. I cried like
Speaker 1: a baby during the whole episode. And I was like
Speaker 1: not into the show the first two episodes because like
Speaker 1: the zombie and this fungy sorry, and Haley calls them quarrelman.
Speaker 1: That's pretty good. I was like, I don't know if
Speaker 1: I'm into it with In that third episode, I was like, wow,
Speaker 1: it was really I know, made me feel all kinds
Speaker 1: of things, so emotional. Yeah, beautiful. Um, well, after the
Speaker 1: most recent episode, we watched like we're really scared of
Speaker 1: the infected, Like everything about the show is like, I
Speaker 1: don't know why we're watching it, We're so scared. But
Speaker 1: really the humans are more scary than the infected in
Speaker 1: a lot of ways, like the people in Kansas City.
Speaker 1: There were some scary people no spoilers please, Yeah, they're
Speaker 1: pretty scary. The show is scary and it's pop out
Speaker 1: ee and yeah yeah, so Haley, I always like to scary,
Speaker 1: like it's just part of our relationship. And she gets
Speaker 1: like legit mad, like it's not like babe, Like no,
Speaker 1: it's like, so we're after the show, Hayley's in the
Speaker 1: kitchen and I will go to get water. Well, my
Speaker 1: back was killing me, so I was like kind of
Speaker 1: hunched over going to get the water, and she was
Speaker 1: talking to me. So I'm like listening as I'm walking
Speaker 1: to the kitchen, and I watched her go turn off
Speaker 1: the light and I'm like, oh no, I'm gonna scare
Speaker 1: her because she doesn't know I'm walking this way. But
Speaker 1: if I talk now that it's dark, she's gonna be mad.
Speaker 1: And if she just looks up and sees me, she's
Speaker 1: gonna be mad. So I don't say anything. So she
Speaker 1: looks up and she just she says she sees a
Speaker 1: shadow like hunched over holding my water, and she goes,
Speaker 1: why are you scaring me? Like, oh, it's so mad
Speaker 1: at me. And I was just like, I wasn't trying
Speaker 1: to scare you. My back hurts and I'm just trying
Speaker 1: to get water. I'm hunched because she was like, why
Speaker 1: are you standing like the coralman? So we're like, we're
Speaker 1: like not well when we're watching. So I I don't
Speaker 1: know the third epido in the fifth episode, We're beautiful,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know where I'm that. I liked
Speaker 1: the third episode the first two, so it could be
Speaker 1: a big Halloween costume this year, the chor old Man.
Speaker 1: But I relate to what you're saying because there are
Speaker 1: times an Amy should be vacuuming or something and I'll
Speaker 1: walk into the room like I have no choice but
Speaker 1: to scare her. Yeah, Like there's nothing I can do
Speaker 1: right now to not scare her? How can I make
Speaker 1: this as unscary as possible? And I always fail. Sometimes
Speaker 1: sometimes I am trying to scare her, and that's what's
Speaker 1: that's where I've lost the trust. But this one I
Speaker 1: wasn't and we like literally almost got in a fight
Speaker 1: until I got to explain my side of the story.
Speaker 1: This is also I did not want to forget the
Speaker 1: life lesson I learned from Physical one hundred okay, which
Speaker 1: is a show on Netflix, a strength competition show. It's
Speaker 1: basically like the real life squid Games, but they don't die,
Speaker 1: they just get out of the game. And so there's
Speaker 1: one hundred people. They're supposed to be the physicalist fit
Speaker 1: physically most physicalist, most physically fit people on the planet
Speaker 1: or in Korea, and um the spoiler alert, the man
Speaker 1: that one was not the most physically fit. You would
Speaker 1: see like there were people that were these huge like bodybuilders,
Speaker 1: and their muscles looked like there were like heads on
Speaker 1: top of heads on top of heads. And the guy
Speaker 1: that won, you would say, was not necessarily the most fit,
Speaker 1: but he had mental strength, he had determination, he had endurance,
Speaker 1: he had willpower, and that is what's going to take
Speaker 1: you further in life than what you look like. He
Speaker 1: was the most physically, he was the most well rounded
Speaker 1: of all the skills. It's not about what you look
Speaker 1: like on the outside, it's what's in the inside that
Speaker 1: can carry you through. It's not how big your muscles are,
Speaker 1: it's how big your passion is. Correct. So so yeah,
Speaker 1: that made me feel certain time away. Okay, Like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, I really like the show. How there's some
Speaker 1: edits Like I felt like a lot of the competitions
Speaker 1: we watched for way too long. Yeah, I agree, Like
Speaker 1: I felt like we were watching the hanging for like live.
Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, I think season two will be much better. Okay,
Speaker 1: because they'll work out the kinks. Okay, but yeah, check
Speaker 1: that out. It's Physical one hundred on Netflix. Pretty good. Great, Well,
Speaker 1: I think we should take a break and then do
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Speaker 1: We didn't get to this partment, did not. We are
Speaker 1: in this fresh charted territory right now. And also we
Speaker 1: didn't talk about last of Us. Honestly, the second version
Speaker 1: saved you. I'm eight weeks pregnant with my first and
Speaker 1: I'm a huge swift Ee. My husband and I are
Speaker 1: going to take our announcement pictures at the Taylor Swift concert.
Speaker 1: I'm going to make a shirt that says Baby's first
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift Concert. My dilemma here is I want to
Speaker 1: post lyrics with the announcement to pull it all together.
Speaker 1: I already used not a lot going on at the
Speaker 1: moment for our engagement, so I want something different. I
Speaker 1: posted this on the Facebook group and they said, send
Speaker 1: an email. I can tie you to the rescue. We
Speaker 1: want to hear where you guys come up with. So
Speaker 1: what Taylor lyrics would be good for a baby announcement,
Speaker 1: poster m or just announcement? What about the are you
Speaker 1: ready for it? And then like a picture of a baby?
Speaker 1: Are you ready for it? What about? This is the
Speaker 1: golden age of something good and write and real. That's
Speaker 1: pretty good? Yeah, I like it? Not bad? And here's
Speaker 1: to ma baby. They don't care about the he said.
Speaker 1: She said, it's pretty good. It's pretty good. Okay, Becca's
Speaker 1: doing better at this. Well, I was enchanted to meet you.
Speaker 1: Oh we are enchanted to meet you? Yeah? Yeah yeah?
Speaker 1: How about are we out of the woods? I think, Becca?
Speaker 1: I think this one. I think, where do they live? What?
Speaker 1: I am? Welcome to New York? Well, nobody hurts you? Well,
Speaker 1: let no one break your heart. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: never grew up. Oh wow, back out look at you. Well,
Speaker 1: she's like googling over here. Let me get my computer up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: one done and done where we are enchanted to meet you,
Speaker 1: that we are enchanted to meet you solid. This one's
Speaker 1: we're going to another email. Yeah, what can you take
Speaker 1: out the miscarriage thing? Yeah? I though it was kind
Speaker 1: of dark when I went there. I couldn't think of
Speaker 1: the title of the song. Yeah, it's also not even
Speaker 1: it's just speculated, I know, but I just feel like
Speaker 1: dark turn Thank you so much. All right. This is
Speaker 1: also anonymous, and this one I don't know what to
Speaker 1: do with. My sister found out she's pregnant with her
Speaker 1: boyfriend's baby. They've been together maybe a year. He's divorced.
Speaker 1: He's got two kids from his first marriage. Not a
Speaker 1: US citizen, but as a green card for work. His
Speaker 1: ex wife doesn't know about my sister. Neither do his kids.
Speaker 1: Every time anyone in my family asks my sister, when
Speaker 1: is he going to tell his acts? When is he
Speaker 1: going to tell the kids, she freaks out. She doesn't
Speaker 1: want to talk about it. She did let slip once
Speaker 1: that she asked him about a situation with his kids
Speaker 1: in the act and he said, it is none of
Speaker 1: your business. What he seems like a really great guy
Speaker 1: in person, but from what we know so far, there
Speaker 1: are so many red flags. I decided to take it
Speaker 1: upon myself to reach out to an attorney and find
Speaker 1: out if he really is divorced, and he's not. He's
Speaker 1: legally married to his wife. It may be for citizenship purposes,
Speaker 1: but the fact is he's a liar. I need to
Speaker 1: tell my sister. But how do I bring it up
Speaker 1: without her blowing up on me or me ruining her
Speaker 1: life with this news when she's expecting a baby. This
Speaker 1: is bad, very above our p yeah and skill sets,
Speaker 1: but like dissected a little bit here, Okay, let's go Tanya. God,
Speaker 1: she's still trying to think of a Taylor Sliftle, still
Speaker 1: defeated from that. How does she go about telling her
Speaker 1: sister she knows this information because she hired an attorney
Speaker 1: to find it. Is gonna be furious? Well no, But
Speaker 1: also I think that it takes a lot of time
Speaker 1: to get divorced, so they might not legally because it
Speaker 1: might not have gone through the sports and stuff, and like,
Speaker 1: it takes a long time. So I'm not going to
Speaker 1: knock him for that unless he's saying to them I
Speaker 1: am divorced or i am legally divorced then, but I
Speaker 1: doubt he's saying I'm legally divorced. So that's the only
Speaker 1: thing I'm not knocking him for because it might be
Speaker 1: in the works, which just takes a long time, So
Speaker 1: some benefit of the doubt that's the only one telling
Speaker 1: her anything with his axes none of her business. Is
Speaker 1: that a big problem? Yes, it seems like a big problem. Yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: I would hate for my sisters to be with someone
Speaker 1: like this. But the problem is is like if you
Speaker 1: have she's just saying, she's already approached her to say
Speaker 1: like warn her and say this is bad, and she
Speaker 1: shuts she shuts down. So it's like if somebody's reacting
Speaker 1: that way, what more can you do? Imagine you know
Speaker 1: all of this about him, right, So she knows even
Speaker 1: more about him, right, and she's still still defending him
Speaker 1: and wanting to be in this relationship. I think this
Speaker 1: is kind of like the last time we had this
Speaker 1: conversation about like sometimes you gotta let your family just
Speaker 1: like go through the things and be there for them
Speaker 1: depending on like what ends up happening. And I think
Speaker 1: the thing is you show up for your sister and
Speaker 1: for this baby because this is your niece or nephew,
Speaker 1: and you be as supportive as you can and be
Speaker 1: there for her because it sounds like this is going
Speaker 1: to go in the direction you think it's going. There's
Speaker 1: there are things you can't stop coming, and then you
Speaker 1: don't want to lose the relationship with your sister and
Speaker 1: your niece or nephew. So it's like, and if this
Speaker 1: guy's really a bad yeah, the baby's coming and coming
Speaker 1: and he's the dad. Yeah, and he's the dad. But
Speaker 1: if if, if, where was that going with that? I
Speaker 1: don't know, but I was passionate about, Yeah, you're feeling oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: he's a baby. She's having a baby. And if this
Speaker 1: guy is as bad as as we all think, it's
Speaker 1: all gonna come out in time. Yeah, it's all going
Speaker 1: to come on time. It's going to play itself out.
Speaker 1: You don't have to insert yourself. It's going to happen,
Speaker 1: and you're unfortunately you're gonna have to be there to
Speaker 1: pick up the pieces. But that's what friends and family
Speaker 1: are for. Period. Yeah, I know, And I think it's
Speaker 1: like she knows that, but I think in her mind
Speaker 1: she's like, how can I prevent this from getting to
Speaker 1: that point, but I don't think you can can Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you she's tried like the other one. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, she's gonna marry this guy and we hate him,
Speaker 1: like she's about to make a stupid mistake. Like there's
Speaker 1: more to stop there. Yeah, this one. The baby's coming
Speaker 1: and he's the dad. That's reality and that's not going
Speaker 1: to change. So I think you got to pull back
Speaker 1: and let it play itself out. Yeah, you do. Wish
Speaker 1: you all the best. Indeed, we do. Congrats on your
Speaker 1: new like find the joy and be there be a
Speaker 1: light in this situation where it feels like there's some
Speaker 1: you know, struggle. Yeah, and that's all you can do. Antononymous,
Speaker 1: beautiful anton One, Yeah, ant Antona. Well that's a podcast
Speaker 1: number two today, the better of the two. Yeah, obviously,
Speaker 1: we'll say though I feel like we had a couple
Speaker 1: good nuggets in the first one. We tried to bring
Speaker 1: them back for the second. If we find it, we
Speaker 1: can put it up as a bonus episode. I'll have
Speaker 1: eepa here's a very similar version of what you've already heard. Enjoy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you know, you never know, there were some nuggets
Speaker 1: in there. We'll be back on Thursday with the loutners
Speaker 1: and we cannot wait to talk to them. Can't wait.
Speaker 1: I love them, really excited them, and otherwise have a
Speaker 1: great week and Thursday